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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with i R Radio. It's so hot in my office

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Speaker 1: right now. I mean it is burning up. The Colorado

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Speaker 1: It feels like it's under intents. I'm sitting here doing

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Speaker 1: this podcast. He says, he's naked. I'm only seeing him

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Speaker 1: from like the shoulder blades up, but it is. It's funny. No,

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Speaker 1: but there's a good chance that he might be naked.

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Speaker 1: He's definitely just in his boxers. Jared's gonna be like,

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Speaker 1: you should not be doing this podcast with him anymore.

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Speaker 1: You never said he trust me. Jared loves me. He

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Speaker 1: trust me completely. He knows that if I had to

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Speaker 1: be naked, it would be in the best interest of

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Speaker 1: everybody here. Because I can't fade. Are you naked? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because we have a huge podcast. I can't think I

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Speaker 1: have to make it through. Guys. We've talked to Robbie

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Speaker 1: about castaways on the last episode of the Bachelor, and

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Speaker 1: he talked about survival, and there's a level of survival

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Speaker 1: that we all need to complete the mission at which

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Speaker 1: we have set out to to complete to become victorious.

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Speaker 1: On and my mission today is to complete this podcast

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Speaker 1: alive and well. And it's so hot in my office.

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Speaker 1: That's okay, that's that's fine. Amy. We run the most

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Speaker 1: successful podcast in the history of the world. I could

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Speaker 1: be naked if I want to be naked, Amy, the

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Speaker 1: most successful podcast. I thought I felt that you had

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Speaker 1: a little something in the past podcast because you guys

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Speaker 1: we recorded to right now. But Ben, I can definitely

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Speaker 1: see it's kicking in now and he had his nightly pipe.

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Speaker 1: You have a pipe. I have a pipe. I have

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Speaker 1: a tobacco pipe. It's an old school pipe. It's like

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Speaker 1: a grandfather's pipe. Do I have to worry about your lungs?

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Speaker 1: There's a bad no. No, no, I don't inhale this.

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Speaker 1: Actually I still run marathons. Like I'm good. I just

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Speaker 1: like this is my way of calming down at the

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Speaker 1: end of a big day. It's been a big couple

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Speaker 1: of days for me. I think it's important that I

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Speaker 1: relaxed and I'm excited to be with you. I mean,

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Speaker 1: we have a huge I mean, I don't think people

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Speaker 1: realize when they listen to this podcast exactly the gifts

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Speaker 1: at which we're giving them. We have a massive podcast.

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Speaker 1: Full of incredible guests. We have Eric and Kenny. I mean,

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Speaker 1: we have Antalice and Kindall. We have Angela, who's Angela? Well,

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Speaker 1: we're asking the same question, who the heck are you Angela?

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Speaker 1: And we have Kindall. I mean, Kendall is a Hotamoni

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Speaker 1: in Paradise. We guessed it, we believe it. You better

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Speaker 1: see it. Watch Paradise Tuesday nights on ABC. Okay with that, Ashley, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we love Paradise right. We haven't seen an episode like

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Speaker 1: as fast. You know, there's drama around that. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm not kidding, Patril, and Paradise is one of my

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Speaker 1: watch Paradise. But you you have a unique storyline still

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Speaker 1: in Paradise, even though you're happy and in love and

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Speaker 1: moving on and getting ready to get married with to

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Speaker 1: a beautiful man. Get she's beautiful, Ashley during this episode,

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Speaker 1: nodding at me like yes, um, Ashley, I'll be honest.

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Speaker 1: I love you. You know that I get very protective

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Speaker 1: of you because you and I do something very special

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Speaker 1: reason that I can still work for Generous for free

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Speaker 1: and volunteer my time. So the podcast is a big

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Speaker 1: deal to both of us. We enjoy our listeners, we

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Speaker 1: I get protective in your name got brought up in

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Speaker 1: the first episode, and I like Kevin too. I'll throw

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Speaker 1: us all about it? Catch us up? Well, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I was like, I wanted him to do Paradise. Um.

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Speaker 1: During this episode, the statement was made through the Bachelor grapevines.

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Speaker 1: And also I just thought that it was I was

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Speaker 1: I think that when he was here talking about our breakup,

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Speaker 1: He's definitely, like always a hot commodity on any of

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Speaker 1: who puts working out at well, it's priorities of his life,

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Speaker 1: because in all honesty, I don't think that he was

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Speaker 1: I hope he really like he finds someone to be

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Speaker 1: him to be happy. He's going to be He's going

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Speaker 1: I think that he believes in this process so much

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Speaker 1: it might actually turn out this time. Yeah, that's cool,

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Speaker 1: And you're being so nice and I think, and Ben,

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Speaker 1: my god, that's so true. Like he helped me grow

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Speaker 1: forever thankful. Sarios. You know, as a friend, Ashley and

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Speaker 1: And Kevin has a piece of that story. Oh totally yeah.

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Speaker 1: it would have taken if he didn't have to push

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Speaker 1: a weird way. Yeah, Jared even says all the time,

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Speaker 1: how long it would have taken me to not realize

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Speaker 1: But Eric, I got to spend some good time with you,

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00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 1: and I've got to talk to you, and I appreciate

429
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:10,440
Speaker 1: you as a person a ton And this isn't just

430
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:12,480
Speaker 1: going to you, Eric, This isn't to pump you up solely.

431
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,800
Speaker 1: But the one thing I appreciate and the one thing

432
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:18,199
Speaker 1: I feel guilty and a little conflicted of watching Bachelor

433
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:20,120
Speaker 1: in Paradise is I watched this, and you guys are

434
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:24,159
Speaker 1: so open to get to know these new contestants. And

435
00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:27,560
Speaker 1: I know from my own experience in life that if

436
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:30,439
Speaker 1: I was in Paradise, I would have a hard time,

437
00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:33,240
Speaker 1: let's just say, with the Kindles and the Jordan's of

438
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 1: the world, allowing them into my life, because I would

439
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:38,880
Speaker 1: have known who they were on the show. And that's

440
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 1: my own issue. I know that, And it's funny. I

441
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,119
Speaker 1: just did a Bible study tonight and I brought this

442
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 1: up that I was convicted watching Paradise of my judgment

443
00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 1: and my inability to move forward based on what my

444
00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 1: preconceived notions were on people watching Paradise? Am I wrong

445
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 1: in this? Are you guys just that good of dudes

446
00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:00,119
Speaker 1: where you can just be like whatever, like you're I'm

447
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 1: just gonna get to know you now, and I could

448
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:04,200
Speaker 1: fall in love with you, become my wife. And even

449
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:07,199
Speaker 1: though I thought you're absolutely crazy during the season, I

450
00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:11,120
Speaker 1: watched a p Well, I think for me, I love

451
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 1: people and I'm so curious to know people, um through

452
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,399
Speaker 1: good and bad. And I think my whole time in

453
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:19,199
Speaker 1: Paradise was like I don't know everybody here, so let

454
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 1: me just see who they are from my perspective, not

455
00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:24,920
Speaker 1: from TV's perspective of the way social media or people

456
00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 1: outside looking in sees them. But also it's a chance

457
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:30,200
Speaker 1: for me to connect so they can get to see

458
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:31,680
Speaker 1: who I am. So I think, like I said, it's

459
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:34,199
Speaker 1: a new opportunity to meet some people that like what

460
00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:35,680
Speaker 1: we did then when we met each other in the

461
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 1: Winter Games, it was like, this guy is amazing, he's dope. Like,

462
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 1: but I didn't know you. But I heard like, oh,

463
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 1: he's the Bachelor, he's dope, he's a good person. But

464
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:44,880
Speaker 1: I haven't met you, So I wouldn't even know how

465
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,399
Speaker 1: to view that unless I was, you know, in your

466
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 1: energy prior to that. So for me, I just see

467
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,919
Speaker 1: it as every opportunity to meet someone new and not

468
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 1: going it with your you know, judgment or preconceived notions.

469
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:58,919
Speaker 1: Just let it be what it's supposed to be and

470
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:02,680
Speaker 1: go from there. I think we can all agree that, uh,

471
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 1: the show The Bachelor of the Bachelor, it's a pressure cooker,

472
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 1: and uh it puts people under a lot of pressure,

473
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:12,120
Speaker 1: and I think that for some people it may cause

474
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 1: them to act at a character or or or some

475
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,199
Speaker 1: people cause them just to act more like how they

476
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:19,399
Speaker 1: really are. So I kind of feel like for me,

477
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 1: it was just better for me to not really get

478
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 1: caught up in any of that. If I if I

479
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:28,639
Speaker 1: met a Kindle or an Angela or an asteroid to

480
00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 1: kind of get an idea of who they are, because

481
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 1: Paradise is is so much more laid back, and you

482
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,359
Speaker 1: get to kind of have an idea of this small

483
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 1: talk can can tell you a whole lot about somebody,

484
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 1: so you don't. It's not like the Bachelorette, where man,

485
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 1: I gotta have I got these ten minutes and I

486
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 1: gotta come up with my best game, and I got

487
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 1: me sure she remembers me next week. Every every conversation

488
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:51,119
Speaker 1: could be a dead end or could be, you know,

489
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 1: a new way forward. So I kind of feel like

490
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 1: that's the best way to go about it with no

491
00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:57,920
Speaker 1: preconceived notions. You know what, Ben, It's kind of natural

492
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 1: when you get to Paradise, you start seeing like a

493
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 1: whole bunch of people that were almost kind of like

494
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:05,200
Speaker 1: celebrities to you because you only watch them on TV

495
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,880
Speaker 1: and you have those preconceived notions. But then give them

496
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:11,840
Speaker 1: a day and you'll realize how much like you were

497
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 1: seeing only one dimension of them and not the full

498
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:20,280
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499
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:23,800
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500
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 1: And then within a day I was like, j J

501
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 1: kind of like that dude and JJ from Caitlyn season

502
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Speaker 1: in the Best. You're right, no, I get it. It's

503
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 1: crazy though. I literally was convicted watching Batchel in Paradise

504
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 1: of my inability to move forward past judgment. So, guys,

505
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Speaker 1: tell us how did you see Blake behind the scenes

549
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 1: at all? No, not behind the scenes, but just uh,

550
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:11,240
Speaker 1: I mean getting watching him and kind of watching it

551
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 1: as it was happening and watching him watch himself as

552
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 1: as all I was going on. I really felt for him. Um,

553
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 1: you know you could really kind of tell that. I mean,

554
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 1: Blake was completely head over heels Rebecca and uh and

555
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 1: it it fell for him because he was really sure,

556
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 1: you know, he had that that surety and he was

557
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 1: he didn't even think there was for a minute that

558
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 1: it wasn't going to be him, and that added him

559
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 1: Mart It was. It was definitely an emotional moment. Yeah,

560
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:44,719
Speaker 1: I think up from watching this general from women choosing man,

561
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 1: I feel like most women want to challenge, and I

562
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 1: feel like Blake there was no challenges for her. It

563
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 1: was like, oh, he's there, he's safe. I know he's there.

564
00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: But Garrett over here is different. I like him in

565
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 1: to him, but there's like a cloud over here. So

566
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 1: this is more compelling because Blake is for sure like

567
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 1: he's there. Yeah, I think that's what I learned, you know,

568
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 1: just in general, like you know, being nice all the

569
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 1: time and being a good person to women, like it's great,

570
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: but sometimes a little bit of edge, a little bit

571
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:20,520
Speaker 1: of challenge goes goes goes along because they need that

572
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 1: resistance or challenge to make it better than just oh

573
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 1: we're constant, we're consistent, this is fixed. This is nice

574
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 1: because maybe they'll get bored. But I just think she

575
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 1: picked the right person. You know you do so, so

576
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:35,640
Speaker 1: do you guys feel stronger chemistry just in person watching

577
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 1: she and Garrett interact, if it feels uh, it feels

578
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 1: like a like a TV love story, you know what

579
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 1: I mean? And you watched them when you watch him

580
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 1: talk about her, when you when you just look at

581
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:48,240
Speaker 1: the way that I was just looking at the little

582
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 1: things when she's sitting next to him, she's grabbing his

583
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 1: arm and and just a little intangibles to touching that

584
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 1: you can feel when people are really really into and

585
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,840
Speaker 1: really really love with one another. So you could I

586
00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:01,680
Speaker 1: was watching Eric just in the two, just in the

587
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 1: differences between her date with Garrett and the date with Blake.

588
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 1: There was some some serious body language tells that you

589
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 1: could see. You could see she was all it was

590
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 1: completely night and day with Garrett and Blake, especially those

591
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 1: last two weeks. She brought up the dad thing with Garrett.

592
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:21,720
Speaker 1: And I also think with Blake had with Becca, was

593
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 1: there like best friends, you know, and I feel like

594
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: they was so good with each other. It's like yes, yes, yes,

595
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 1: but it's like she might need more and not saying

596
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 1: he couldn't get it at the time, but just Garrett

597
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 1: was there, and I felt like that's what happened, was

598
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 1: he was more of best friends. They loved each other,

599
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 1: but it was like, you know, Garrett is my guy,

600
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 1: but I still love you, you know, let's talk about

601
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 1: your guys love stories. Uh yeah, I was gonna say,

602
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 1: are there am I hearing crickets? Or does something maybe

603
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 1: happen with one of you on Bachelor in Paradise. We

604
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 1: didn't see much action from either one of you episode one, Like,

605
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 1: we have no idea who you may be hooking up

606
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 1: with or maybe crushing on at the moment. Can you

607
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 1: give us a little insight, man, you gotta watch. Paradise

608
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 1: was nice. I mean, it's a miracle season people. One

609
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 1: thing that Eric and I laugh about in Paradise is

610
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:19,360
Speaker 1: that anything can change in Paradise. Everything changes so fast,

611
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 1: and what a difference to day makes and you get

612
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 1: to see how people are when things are different. But

613
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:27,360
Speaker 1: you must move with the cheese, moving with the cheese.

614
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 1: Who moved my cheese? That old books with the cheese?

615
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 1: That became a very paramount statement in Paradise because it's like,

616
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 1: it's it's very true. You know, things change so quickly

617
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 1: in Paradise and if you just if you're not able

618
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 1: to adapt and flow, and then you find yourself on

619
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 1: the outside looking in. Give us a little bit of

620
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 1: a teaser about what happens with Colton and this army

621
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,200
Speaker 1: that is just coming after him once he comes home.

622
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 1: Great guy, Uh, he has a lot on his plate

623
00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 1: and things happen, but you must watch it. It's so

624
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 1: so good. I can say this. Uh. Coming in and

625
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 1: just hearing about Colton and hearing the Colton story, uh,

626
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 1: and then actually meeting Colton and talking to Colton changed

627
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 1: my whole mind and changing my whole perspective on the

628
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 1: whole story and gave me a little bit more, give

629
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 1: me a little more compassion for the Colton thing. Because

630
00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 1: coming in from one way, it's all like, oh, this

631
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 1: dude and dada da da dada. But you know, there's

632
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:28,320
Speaker 1: always two sides of the story. So hearing hearing it

633
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:31,479
Speaker 1: from Colton, uh, and getting from his perspective, it might

634
00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 1: change a lot of your opinions about it too. Can

635
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 1: you tell us a little bit? Uh, it's changed your

636
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 1: perspective because it's just especially what happened with like Tia.

637
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 1: And and I'll make it easier on you because I

638
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 1: felt a lot of sympathy for Tia. I know a

639
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,320
Speaker 1: lot of people are gonna be like, oh my god, girl,

640
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:54,160
Speaker 1: move on. Um, he's probably just not that into you.

641
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 1: And you can you know you're going to paradise. You're

642
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: supposed to data on in paradise. Isn't that the point?

643
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 1: I as the girl who had blinders on in Paradise,

644
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 1: and I see no problem with that. If you know

645
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 1: you're into somebody, then pursue that there's no need to

646
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 1: like go around and like try to find a connection

647
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 1: if you already feel in your heart you have one.

648
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I think, I mean, I support you, ah Ash,

649
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 1: you know that you went into it knowing that you

650
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 1: like Jared. I think it's a little different. I'm a

651
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:30,399
Speaker 1: little bit confused at how I mean, because of TIA's

652
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 1: involvement until into this last season. To the Bechel, she

653
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 1: stepped into the season asked Becca to kind of break

654
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 1: up with Colden. He comes on Paradise and here here's

655
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:44,800
Speaker 1: the difference. That's one difference. The second that is a difference.

656
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 1: She's really yeah, actually did do that. And I think

657
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:53,439
Speaker 1: as a fan of the show watching her move on

658
00:34:53,560 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 1: with um, shoot Chris and saying, hey, I've moved Dawn.

659
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 1: This is great, this is awesome, and all of a

660
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 1: sudden cooling comes on and it's all over again for me.

661
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 1: Now you have to take in Chris's feelings into consideration

662
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:13,399
Speaker 1: and you go, now, somebody else's her. I feel like

663
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: that was drunk Tia like on a date being like,

664
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 1: you know what I'm trying to Yeah, I think you know,

665
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 1: I know. It was a mental state that she was in.

666
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:26,319
Speaker 1: She was like, everybody, just forget everybody's making My thing

667
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:30,320
Speaker 1: was this When she went to Becca and said, look,

668
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:34,360
Speaker 1: I'm cool on the situation. Uh, you know, you have

669
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 1: my blessing. We all and then you know, and then

670
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 1: to then come back you know that to me, Um,

671
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 1: that wasn't cool. I mean that that's just right now.

672
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 1: Let's just be honest. We know so much intrigue. I

673
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 1: gotta ask these questions. I'm dying to ask these. I'm

674
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,279
Speaker 1: a huge fan of Bachelor in Paradise. You guys all

675
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 1: know this. Actually, I would literally spend a whole podcast

676
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:03,800
Speaker 1: asking you like questions about Bachelor in Paradise, Um, Eric

677
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 1: and Kenny. When something like this happens when you're in Paradise,

678
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 1: how do you handle it? Because what we see it's

679
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:16,839
Speaker 1: kind of the the attack on Colton, Um. But this

680
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 1: isn't like, this isn't normal. This world isn't normal. You

681
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:21,799
Speaker 1: have to kind of navigate it and feel, you know,

682
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 1: kind of I guess, choose what battles you want to fight?

683
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:31,439
Speaker 1: TA like you're saying, Kenny, actions on the Bachelorette um

684
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 1: crossed over to Paradise, so you see this happening, then

685
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 1: you're in paradise with them. How do you handle or

686
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:41,800
Speaker 1: just stay away? I mean me, I'm just so curious

687
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 1: because everybody had these stories and personas of who Colton

688
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 1: was and who he is, and I was like, I

689
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 1: want to talk to the guy. I want to know

690
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 1: what he has to say, what he's going through, what

691
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,160
Speaker 1: is he feeling. And so hearing his side of the

692
00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:53,920
Speaker 1: story and talking to Tea getting to know her, and

693
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 1: I said, Okay, I see what's going on here. And honestly,

694
00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:59,919
Speaker 1: they both put this off in the foot because I said,

695
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:04,239
Speaker 1: gets Culton's calmer, like before the show. He reached out

696
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 1: some way, somehow him and she says that she slid

697
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 1: into his m evil or they were in the wrong

698
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 1: based on everything that went down, and I think it

699
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 1: backfired and that's what really happened. I think it was

700
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 1: weird that Colton came down the stairs and didn't go

701
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 1: right to Tea. That is the only thing I did.

702
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,920
Speaker 1: He wait so long to say hey, and then he

703
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 1: just literally doesn't even say hi. It's just like here's

704
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 1: a day card, like what really happened you guys? You guys,

705
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,440
Speaker 1: did he really you know? In the episode, he just

706
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:39,839
Speaker 1: says he doesn't even talk to Tia, he doesn't make

707
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 1: eye contact or anything, and she's like really upset that

708
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:43,759
Speaker 1: he didn't make eye time attact. And then all of

709
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 1: a sudden he talks to multiple girls and then he

710
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 1: comes by t and he goes, hey, do you want

711
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:48,919
Speaker 1: to go on the state with me? Without even having

712
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 1: a one on one chat? So is that how it

713
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:59,480
Speaker 1: really went down? So what I'll say was the truth.

714
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 1: I pay attention to detail, and I pay attention to

715
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 1: body language. So in that moment, I was confused as

716
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:08,839
Speaker 1: well because I was trying to figure out how real

717
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:12,000
Speaker 1: was it? How real is it? What's going on? But

718
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:15,400
Speaker 1: I still don't have information to really know. You weren't

719
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:18,439
Speaker 1: there watching everything? Well, I'm just saying prior to him

720
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 1: coming in, I don't know. Okay, but did he not

721
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:22,759
Speaker 1: have one on one time with her? Did he have

722
00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 1: one of these? Alright? So it was you have nothing

723
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 1: to lose. People listen to this podcast, all of which

724
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 1: love and care about you guys. Deeply, I think nothing.

725
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:40,719
Speaker 1: I think Colton was put in a bad spot. Um

726
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 1: initially because, like I said, we're all coming in having

727
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:48,359
Speaker 1: one view of this whole situation. We're getting from you know,

728
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:50,360
Speaker 1: Tia and the girls and and this, and it's just

729
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 1: kind of like all right. So then he comes down

730
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 1: and he doesn't do those sorts of things, So everybody's

731
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 1: red flags. Why wouldn't you do this? Why wouldn't do that? Um?

732
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 1: I can't speak to why he did what he did, UM,

733
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 1: but I think that it was just too I mean, ultimately,

734
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:10,400
Speaker 1: I don't think Colton had any intentions of talking to

735
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:13,799
Speaker 1: anybody or really focusing on anybody but Tia. But I

736
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:19,399
Speaker 1: think yeah, for you Angela, Angela, he was all over

737
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 1: Why you know, I don't see all of that, but

738
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: I see that very pretty. Hey, what do you guys

739
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 1: think of Angela? Real quick? Angela's she's she's an undercover hottie, Like,

740
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 1: we don't know who she is? Are you with her?

741
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:37,840
Speaker 1: We're going to find out who the heck? She's silent

742
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:41,839
Speaker 1: assassin Angela. I love it. I just had to say

743
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 1: one thing more. If it really went down the way

744
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 1: it looked on TV, Colton is showing interest in multiple

745
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 1: girls like Kendall, Angela, and then all of a sudden

746
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 1: hands Tia the day card without anyone on one time.

747
00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 1: My theory is that he went in with the intention

748
00:39:57,280 --> 00:40:00,319
Speaker 1: of ignoring Tia completely, and then somebody whispered an you're

749
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: you're gonna look real bad if you don't take care

750
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 1: on the date car take her on this day seemed

751
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:10,799
Speaker 1: to be a one. As a viewer, if I had

752
00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:15,759
Speaker 1: to judge between who is looking worse right now, I'm

753
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 1: going to she look my heart I like to, but

754
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 1: as a viewer, she looks cuckoo right. Relate. We haven't

755
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:32,400
Speaker 1: got chat for a second. Can we can we crowd

756
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:35,360
Speaker 1: this in for a second and talk with men. I

757
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:37,719
Speaker 1: don't know how you guys do it. I mean, I'm

758
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 1: watching the show and there's so many beautiful people there.

759
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:42,320
Speaker 1: There's a reason I don't go on the show, because

760
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 1: I get there and I'd start spinning in circles on

761
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 1: that beach, looking around, going I don't know how to

762
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:48,439
Speaker 1: make a step forward any in any direction, because there's

763
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:52,359
Speaker 1: beautiful people everywhere. I don't get it. You two are

764
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 1: great men because you went into it focused, um, considered

765
00:40:57,000 --> 00:41:00,200
Speaker 1: your options, and invested your time for me. I did

766
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 1: my job. My jaw would have hit the ground or

767
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 1: hit the beach. I guess I should say from the

768
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 1: very beginning, I don't know if I could have picked

769
00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 1: it up. Since there's some beautiful people in this season,

770
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:11,400
Speaker 1: you guys are lucky man. Good for you. Um. You

771
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 1: know what else would be really lucky for you is

772
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: if you could take one of these girls on a

773
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:19,319
Speaker 1: trip around the world. Could you do that? Why you

774
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:25,280
Speaker 1: want to do maybe the Vegas a turn the backyard,

775
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 1: But I mean, I think you that's that's the best

776
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 1: way that you can figure out your potential with the

777
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 1: mate is to travel with them to see the new things,

778
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:36,840
Speaker 1: and to experience new new things, eat new foods, and

779
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 1: just kind of see how they how they handle that.

780
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:41,959
Speaker 1: So if you travel with somebody and you're going around

781
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 1: the world and in four or five days, you're like,

782
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:48,440
Speaker 1: just get back home. I think, Jenny, what if I

783
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 1: told you I had the option for you to do that.

784
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:51,920
Speaker 1: I mean, it's right there in front of you. It's

785
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 1: in front of all of us, all the listeners YouTube

786
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:59,239
Speaker 1: as amazing men and personalities on television. It's called Jess

787
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 1: sweet X. I mean, just do it, dude. Just everybody

788
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 1: listening can do it. You can do it. Eric can do.

789
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:08,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I know I don't like to talk about

790
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:10,880
Speaker 1: for I'll tell you all about it here Jet Sweet X.

791
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 1: It's semi private travel. Take your girl with you, take

792
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:16,319
Speaker 1: your dude with you, whatever you want. I don't care.

793
00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:19,840
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794
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:22,359
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795
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:26,960
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796
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 1: X to Las Vegas from Burbank. They're also flying from

797
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:31,960
Speaker 1: Oakland and Reno to l A or Las Vegas, San

798
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 1: Jose and Orange County. Jet Sweet Excess Charter style service

799
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 1: offers rates there are on average just forty dollars more

800
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 1: than standard commercial flights. Let me repeat that, boys and girls. Um,

801
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:46,239
Speaker 1: but actually, I know you love Jet Sweet X and Amy,

802
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 1: I know you fight all the time on a plane

803
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 1: in twenty years. Yeah. Anyways, Kenny and Eric sit there

804
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:58,280
Speaker 1: for a second. Soap this in um imagine. Jet Sweet

805
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:01,800
Speaker 1: Excess Charter style US offers rates there are on average

806
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:05,279
Speaker 1: just forty dollars more than standard commercial flights, and they've

807
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 1: even lowered the prices. They started just seventy nine dollars

808
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 1: each way. It's crazy, though. The ticket price covers two

809
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 1: bags per passenger, no longer security lines or credit baggage

810
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 1: claim errors. Insite a private ground experience, but they do

811
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:21,839
Speaker 1: it for the price of commercial. That's Jet sweet X.

812
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:24,880
Speaker 1: Visit their website, call them, text them, email them, tweet

813
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 1: them whatever you want to do. I don't care. Go

814
00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 1: with them. The best option out there, and you can

815
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:31,759
Speaker 1: bring anybody with you. Kenny and Eric, are you gonna

816
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 1: do it? Who are you going to be bringing? Kenny

817
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 1: and Eric? Anonymous? Her name is Anonymous, lady. He was

818
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 1: to Kenny, Kenny, just wait, you're gonna come on this podcast.

819
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:49,799
Speaker 1: I'm gonna check my email tomorrow and it's gonna be

820
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 1: flooded with I want to be a mama like I

821
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 1: don't want to be a kid. I want to be

822
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:58,279
Speaker 1: Kenny's and his wife like I'm ready. I'm committed. I've

823
00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:01,360
Speaker 1: seen those muscles on Paradise. He's been doing wild things.

824
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 1: I'm in Um, gentlemen, I know we have some of

825
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 1: your friends coming on the podcast here in a little bit. Uh.

826
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:11,799
Speaker 1: This is a stacked podcast full of Bachelor in Paradise contestants.

827
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 1: What differed from in your opinion, from Paradise to your

828
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:24,800
Speaker 1: experience on the Bachelorette. I just thought, Uh, Bachelor in

829
00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:27,920
Speaker 1: Paradise was just so much more relaxed, and the pace

830
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 1: of it was just kind of at your own pace.

831
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:33,560
Speaker 1: You know, you can get up, run on the beach, equacamole,

832
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 1: you know you do. You can kind of do it

833
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 1: as you wanted to do it. And with the Bachelorette,

834
00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 1: it was just like, Okay, Uh, if you're not on

835
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 1: a date, you're at home. But if you're on a date,

836
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 1: you're on you gotta do this, you gotta find out, Okay,

837
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:46,920
Speaker 1: how how can I make myself stand out? How can

838
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 1: I do this? How can I you know, maximize my daytime?

839
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:53,520
Speaker 1: With Paradise, it's just about finding those easy conversations and

840
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:56,040
Speaker 1: and and where is it? Where's your best connection at?

841
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:57,640
Speaker 1: And that's that's kind of what going back to the

842
00:44:57,640 --> 00:45:00,200
Speaker 1: Colton thing, I think that's that's the name of Paradise, right,

843
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 1: that's the name of the game. You have to talk

844
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:04,280
Speaker 1: to everybody. You have to kind of explore your connections

845
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:06,360
Speaker 1: and see who makes you laugh and where the easy

846
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:10,360
Speaker 1: connections are. Otherwise, uh, if you come in with tunnel vision,

847
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:13,720
Speaker 1: I mean, not everybody gets me. It's like Actuley, But uh,

848
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:16,400
Speaker 1: you know it can it can severely hamper you. I

849
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 1: think in your Paradise gaming strategy. Ye, well there's not

850
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 1: a strategy means, you know, the Batchelorette, like the time

851
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:28,959
Speaker 1: is limited, right, So on Paradise, you gets so much

852
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 1: time with the person, like I'm getting to so much

853
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:33,759
Speaker 1: deep information, like right away because I have so much time.

854
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 1: One thing I realize is that Parade it's more real

855
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 1: than real life because here's the thing. In real life,

856
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 1: you're texting. No one really talks on the phone. Everyone,

857
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:45,279
Speaker 1: let's go get a drink. No one is like really

858
00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 1: having deep intimate conversations. And you're spending that much time together.

859
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:52,839
Speaker 1: So it's like it's more in your face, it's more real.

860
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:56,920
Speaker 1: It's more like, yes, we don't do this back home, right.

861
00:45:57,840 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 1: And that's what people who might be watched they don't

862
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:02,800
Speaker 1: know is that we spent so much time together. I

863
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:05,400
Speaker 1: mean you probably spent I probably spent the total of

864
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 1: three hours or six I don't know, three hours, six

865
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 1: hours with Rachel. I don't know that. But buddy, you

866
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:16,440
Speaker 1: are nice. Spent like hours days from working out to

867
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 1: having man chats to moving with Jeez, talking about Mackenzie

868
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 1: and life. I mean, just you grow. It's just in

869
00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:27,840
Speaker 1: a different way because you have time. That's the difference.

870
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:30,279
Speaker 1: And it's a great place. And I'm going to have

871
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:33,080
Speaker 1: I have a fast round of questions for you guys.

872
00:46:33,880 --> 00:46:38,240
Speaker 1: Are you ready? No, no explanations, just boom answer. Okay,

873
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:41,359
Speaker 1: all right, we're gonna Kenny's gonna go first, and then

874
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 1: Eric's gonna answer the same question. Who should be the

875
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 1: next Bachelor? Oh? Man? After what I saw? Blake, Blake

876
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:56,400
Speaker 1: the man? Who's your celebrity crush? Even Mendez? Nice one? Which?

877
00:46:56,880 --> 00:46:59,560
Speaker 1: Which girl caught your eye when she walked down the stairs?

878
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:07,279
Speaker 1: A parrot, Ice, Crystal? So many? Come on, come on, Eric,

879
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:13,600
Speaker 1: You're better than this. Okay, no, no, no, Aaron answered,

880
00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 1: this is not speed round. Who was the girls? It's

881
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:22,320
Speaker 1: a lot of girls, you know. Uh you like to

882
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:26,440
Speaker 1: baby and Winter Games? Yeah? Yeah, Baby always catches my eye. Okay,

883
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 1: that's good, all right. What was your favorite thing to

884
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:34,919
Speaker 1: eat at play As Condita? Um? Uh my tacos stream

885
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 1: taco You guys get spoiled? You like celebrities or something?

886
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 1: I love the tostadas. Your favorite room to hang out

887
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 1: around play As Condita? I mean we were by the pool,

888
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 1: mostly Yeah, the bar, cool drink the bar for sure.

889
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:55,240
Speaker 1: Speaking of bartenders, which one was your favorite? Wells are Yuki,

890
00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:11,320
Speaker 1: Who's the biggest nerd in Paradise? Candle Um, Who's the

891
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:14,880
Speaker 1: biggest nerd? Sunscreen everything? Lemons? I was just like, what

892
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:18,840
Speaker 1: Jordan is? I mean, Jordan was a guy that I

893
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:21,759
Speaker 1: remember packing for Paradise and watching an episode of the

894
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:24,080
Speaker 1: Bacherette and like having to stop what I was doing

895
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:27,920
Speaker 1: and look at the TV, like is this a real person? Um?

896
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:30,160
Speaker 1: But he's just such a nerd. He's I love him.

897
00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:32,439
Speaker 1: He's just he says what he means. He's a he's

898
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 1: an upfront fund dude, and he just can't this craziest

899
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:38,480
Speaker 1: stuff comes out of his mouth. I was gonna say,

900
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:42,719
Speaker 1: who surprised you the most? That sounds like Jordan's. I

901
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:46,400
Speaker 1: didn't know him before, but I will say he is

902
00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:51,360
Speaker 1: like that. Like it's like this guy is so confident

903
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:55,480
Speaker 1: and leaves in what he's saying to a fault sometimes,

904
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 1: but he's so cool. He's such a good person. He's

905
00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:00,920
Speaker 1: not a bad guy. I did not think that I

906
00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 1: was going to get down with Jordan's but just talking

907
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:05,799
Speaker 1: to him and just Jordan's a cool cat. He sounds

908
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 1: like the J J. Bachelor in Paradise. To last question,

909
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 1: other than each other, who was your best friend in Paradise? Boy? Uh,

910
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 1: we had a lot of best friends. Yeah, yeah, I

911
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 1: mean the Rose Boys always hang tough like Rose Boys.

912
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:22,799
Speaker 1: Did we nominate Kevin to be a Rose Boys? We did?

913
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 1: We did. We nominated for Rosey. We got to sign

914
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 1: a contract. Rose Boys are from Rachel Sea. Yeah, the

915
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:34,360
Speaker 1: Rose Boys is a real thing. But Joe Roach re

916
00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 1: stowed Joe, David, I mean David mean Chicken Duke, gotten

917
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 1: some conversations. I don't know, it's hard. We were really John,

918
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 1: I mean every one of the games smokes. Smokes. John

919
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:51,879
Speaker 1: is the m v P of Paradise. Just just Mark,

920
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 1: I need to interrupt you real quick. What is it

921
00:49:56,160 --> 00:50:02,759
Speaker 1: about Joe that everybody loves so much? He doesn't give much,

922
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:07,120
Speaker 1: but he gives. He's just himself, he's so he's just

923
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:10,319
Speaker 1: so just real, And he reminds me of a guy

924
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 1: us On Signfeld, Like he's just he's the guy you

925
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 1: mean at the bar up you know, seven drink, you know,

926
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:19,359
Speaker 1: he's just so just him. Yeah, he's unassuming, he's real,

927
00:50:19,640 --> 00:50:22,759
Speaker 1: he's just he's just a cool call to go have

928
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 1: a beer at a barrow or you know, just to

929
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 1: do whatever. Likes very very smart and he has been

930
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:32,279
Speaker 1: a lot yes, all right, well I can't wait to

931
00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:34,759
Speaker 1: get to know more about him and to get to

932
00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:37,960
Speaker 1: see where your love stories go. I really hope it's

933
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:45,240
Speaker 1: one of you. Has one? Come on, you tell me nothing? Actually, okay,

934
00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:49,160
Speaker 1: we're just moving with the cheese on paradise. All right. Well,

935
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 1: thank you Kenny and thank you Eric. It's been a

936
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:55,240
Speaker 1: blast always always. Thanks for guys for having well, hopefully

937
00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:57,720
Speaker 1: talk later in the in the season. Yeah, you're almost

938
00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:02,800
Speaker 1: almost just at thanks later man, we have to alsots,

939
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:05,480
Speaker 1: I mean, all stars on the podcast. This is an

940
00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 1: incredible pocket Actuley. How do we get so lucky? I

941
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 1: don't know, but I'm having a blast right now. I

942
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 1: know I am too. I mean it's late, it's eleven

943
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:15,759
Speaker 1: o'clock my time, and we're plugging through this thing. And

944
00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:17,920
Speaker 1: the reason we're plugging through it is because it's fun.

945
00:51:18,719 --> 00:51:22,279
Speaker 1: Um I Actually, I let's act like our two guests

946
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:25,360
Speaker 1: are in the room, and our guests are Angela and

947
00:51:25,440 --> 00:51:27,960
Speaker 1: Analyze from Bachelor Partis. But for a second, let's act

948
00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:30,880
Speaker 1: like they're not there. And let's talk about um. We

949
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:33,640
Speaker 1: just talked to Eric and Kinney. I had mentioned that

950
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:34,840
Speaker 1: I don't know what I would do if I was

951
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 1: in Paris Paradise. I mean this, Um, I was just

952
00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:41,400
Speaker 1: looking at the Paradise picture. There are some beautiful people

953
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:45,520
Speaker 1: in Paradise, both men and women, but these two women

954
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 1: are definitely included in that list. Angela and Analie, welcome

955
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 1: to the almost savon Pocket. Thank you you're so pretty.

956
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:57,880
Speaker 1: And Kue, thank you. Well, you guys just came, you know,

957
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:00,680
Speaker 1: straight from after the final rows and I'm here just

958
00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:05,479
Speaker 1: like you know, slapped on some mascara. But anyway, both

959
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 1: of you had quite a storyline in episode one, analyse

960
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 1: Jordan was coming hard for you. He got coming hot,

961
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:24,120
Speaker 1: not hard it. Did you watch Jordan's the first couple

962
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 1: of episodes of Becca season No, So I actually had

963
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 1: only seen him on the first episode and that was it.

964
00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:32,360
Speaker 1: That was it, and then I left for Paradis. So

965
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:35,800
Speaker 1: I didn't know anything about him except for that first

966
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 1: that first impression, that first night. So I was definitely

967
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 1: a skeptical because the first night he was a little coogo.

968
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:44,399
Speaker 1: The first night. Yeah, I mean, there's like a lot

969
00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:46,839
Speaker 1: of socks talk and that's like it was like a

970
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:48,799
Speaker 1: big fashion I mean, there was like a lot of

971
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:51,400
Speaker 1: fashion that went on throughout with the model and stuff,

972
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:54,359
Speaker 1: but like it was a heavy fashion night. So come out,

973
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:57,160
Speaker 1: come out before we continue. I'm not gonna step in

974
00:52:57,239 --> 00:53:00,520
Speaker 1: here too often because actually loves Paradise. I love Paradise,

975
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:03,279
Speaker 1: but I'm just like a big fan and watch it

976
00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:07,239
Speaker 1: as like contestant or either. If you engaged to Jordan before,

977
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:13,759
Speaker 1: you don't have to watch right, this is ridiculous. I'm

978
00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 1: gonna sorry. I asked him to pose some angles or something.

979
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 1: They're like, show me some angles or show me some

980
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:23,239
Speaker 1: modeling somebody in the episode, so they don't even know

981
00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:27,320
Speaker 1: they haven't seen it, only we've seen it. Yeah, well,

982
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:29,960
Speaker 1: how so how did you deal with the whole like

983
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 1: Jordan coming on so strong? Um so, I actually I

984
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:36,440
Speaker 1: just took it very flattering. Um. I was just trying

985
00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:37,960
Speaker 1: to I was just trying to take it all in.

986
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 1: I kept thinking myself, like I'm single for a reason,

987
00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:42,800
Speaker 1: so I need to just be open to like anyone

988
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 1: and everyone. And Jordan was that anyone or everyone, And

989
00:53:46,719 --> 00:53:49,200
Speaker 1: I was being very open. But I was also like

990
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,279
Speaker 1: I thought it was I thought the whole time, like

991
00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:53,080
Speaker 1: I thought it was one big joke and it might

992
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:55,840
Speaker 1: still be. I'm not totally shut, but he's just that

993
00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:57,920
Speaker 1: kind of guy you can't ever know. Yeah, I just

994
00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:00,799
Speaker 1: didn't know what was genuine and what wasn't. But I

995
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 1: will say, like, I do think he is a good guy,

996
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:08,400
Speaker 1: but I definitely was like skeptical of of what where

997
00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 1: these feelings were coming from and why he was coming

998
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:13,759
Speaker 1: on so strong. Who did you come in with being

999
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:22,480
Speaker 1: on your would like to be their list? Yes, I

1000
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:23,719
Speaker 1: mean there was a couple of people that I was

1001
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:26,840
Speaker 1: hoping to see and drop them all. I feel like

1002
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:29,200
Speaker 1: there was like three guys really from Becca season that

1003
00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:32,479
Speaker 1: I was hopeful to see, and that was Joe Joe.

1004
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:34,800
Speaker 1: I was going to say grocery store Joe, but apparently

1005
00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 1: I slurned out. And then also especially the Um and

1006
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:45,000
Speaker 1: Camille and Leo. Those were like the three They all

1007
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:51,080
Speaker 1: show up, don't they? Who knows? Um? Yeah, so those

1008
00:54:51,080 --> 00:54:53,120
Speaker 1: are the three that I was hopeful to see. Okay

1009
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:56,840
Speaker 1: and Angela, who are you hoping to see? Everybody was

1010
00:54:56,880 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 1: hoping to see you. Everybody was Maybe actually people weren't

1011
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:02,839
Speaker 1: hoping to see you, but they were pleasantly surprised when

1012
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 1: they did see don't you feel like you were so

1013
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:09,799
Speaker 1: sought after? I feel okay, awesome, Yeah. I feel like

1014
00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 1: my kind of advantage going in was, you know, nobody

1015
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:14,480
Speaker 1: really did know who I was. I couldn't have any

1016
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:18,600
Speaker 1: like preconceived, like expectations from anybody. I didn't go in

1017
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:20,319
Speaker 1: there with like a reputation, you know what I mean.

1018
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 1: So I feel like that was probably an advantage for me.

1019
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:25,400
Speaker 1: I was just like the new girl almost and everybody

1020
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 1: kind of had to get to know me. Are you

1021
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:30,080
Speaker 1: who the heck am I? How are you when you're

1022
00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 1: from Nick season? From nixt season? I went home night one,

1023
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 1: I'm home night I was a bachelor at one point, Angela,

1024
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:44,439
Speaker 1: what are you going home on night one? I mean,

1025
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:46,319
Speaker 1: I don't know, we need to get some answers. I

1026
00:55:46,360 --> 00:55:48,480
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, when Nick and I had a conversation,

1027
00:55:48,560 --> 00:55:50,400
Speaker 1: it was very very short, you know, it was maybe

1028
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 1: a minute long, and it just we didn't really like connect.

1029
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:56,080
Speaker 1: It was kind of hard to have a conversation, and

1030
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:57,799
Speaker 1: it was a little bit later in the night, and

1031
00:55:58,040 --> 00:55:59,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, I mean, I feel like a lot

1032
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:01,520
Speaker 1: of people were shocked. I was too, but going in,

1033
00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 1: I kind of had this feeling that I was either

1034
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:05,160
Speaker 1: gonna go home night one or I was going to

1035
00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 1: make it to the end. I just had this weird,

1036
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:11,200
Speaker 1: weird feeling. So obviously I all know, we all know

1037
00:56:11,239 --> 00:56:13,120
Speaker 1: what happened. I went home night one, and yeah, I

1038
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:14,880
Speaker 1: was a little bit bummed because I was, you know,

1039
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:17,799
Speaker 1: going in there, I really really, really am open to

1040
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:21,279
Speaker 1: this process. You know, I want a relationship. That was

1041
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:23,799
Speaker 1: my goal going in. So you know, as I was disappointed,

1042
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:27,240
Speaker 1: of course, were shocked when they that was my question.

1043
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:30,839
Speaker 1: You and I did we know what to things? But

1044
00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:32,920
Speaker 1: holy moly, you must have been like, why do you

1045
00:56:32,920 --> 00:56:38,760
Speaker 1: want you know, let's get some answers from me. Huh.

1046
00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:40,960
Speaker 1: How was surprised for you when you got the phone call?

1047
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:43,320
Speaker 1: It they wanted you for not last season to paradise,

1048
00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:47,920
Speaker 1: but this season. Well, interestingly enough, last season, you know

1049
00:56:48,080 --> 00:56:50,640
Speaker 1: it was in the talk um for me to go,

1050
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:53,919
Speaker 1: and then you know, some things went down and maybe

1051
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:57,800
Speaker 1: you were supposed to go. Yeah yeah, but I'm actually

1052
00:56:58,040 --> 00:57:00,480
Speaker 1: so so so happy that that did don't work out

1053
00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:02,920
Speaker 1: last season because this season I felt like it was

1054
00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:06,879
Speaker 1: sent to be. This season is a good one. This season, right,

1055
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:14,600
Speaker 1: I have no idea what you're talking about them? All right,

1056
00:57:15,360 --> 00:57:17,000
Speaker 1: tell us a little bit more. Who the heck are you? Like?

1057
00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 1: Where are you from? We don't know anything about. Okay, well,

1058
00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:22,360
Speaker 1: I'm originally from Maryland, but I live in South Carolina

1059
00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:26,440
Speaker 1: now part of Maryland, Western Maryland. Okay, I'm from northern Virginia.

1060
00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:28,919
Speaker 1: Are you right? Okay, Cumberland? Have you heard? Okay? Yeah,

1061
00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:33,320
Speaker 1: I actually went out there for a concert years. Yeah.

1062
00:57:33,360 --> 00:57:36,400
Speaker 1: It was like randomly at the car all right, wait, wait,

1063
00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:42,320
Speaker 1: who listened Josh Grayson concert? He was on the generating

1064
00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:53,120
Speaker 1: stuck in the middle of this podcast actually gets listening

1065
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:59,640
Speaker 1: sorority girls. Listening girls wait for people listening that are like,

1066
00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:02,040
Speaker 1: who the heck is this person? How do they like? Look,

1067
00:58:02,120 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 1: what's your last name? How they google you? Like, that's

1068
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:08,800
Speaker 1: your Instagram? My last name is a mask? That's harder

1069
00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:12,600
Speaker 1: than let me help you, angela. How do you spell

1070
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:17,440
Speaker 1: your last name? A? M E Z C you A.

1071
00:58:17,720 --> 00:58:20,200
Speaker 1: But to make things easier, all of my social media

1072
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:25,120
Speaker 1: is at and K seven and it's K A Y.

1073
00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:31,520
Speaker 1: That's much easier and K seven look it up there. Alright, alright, alright,

1074
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:34,400
Speaker 1: how old are you? And who is your Who is

1075
00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:39,520
Speaker 1: your celebrity crush, my celebrity crush. Um. I would have

1076
00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:46,440
Speaker 1: to say, it's this guy that nobody really knows. Probably

1077
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:50,040
Speaker 1: he is Um. He's on a new show now called

1078
00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:56,920
Speaker 1: The Resident, but his name. I'm sorry, just something about

1079
00:58:57,000 --> 00:58:59,720
Speaker 1: him that you're like, nobody knows who don't mean it,

1080
00:58:59,800 --> 00:59:02,720
Speaker 1: like um, I know every episode like Gilmore Girls, I

1081
00:59:02,800 --> 00:59:12,520
Speaker 1: know every episode of Good Wife or he is Yeah,

1082
00:59:12,520 --> 00:59:15,760
Speaker 1: when he was young, very ung. He did hate boss

1083
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:21,880
Speaker 1: work at him. Okay, he makes voice like mad Zukree

1084
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 1: is everything. And I have been saying this since the

1085
00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:31,760
Speaker 1: like my friend, my friend Leslie has worked with mad

1086
00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:34,320
Speaker 1: Zukrie for a while and I literally email her constantly.

1087
00:59:34,640 --> 00:59:38,280
Speaker 1: That's degrees everything, Mads degrees everything that degrees. I mean,

1088
00:59:38,440 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 1: it's it's random, but a good Okay. So we had

1089
00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 1: Kenny and Eric in here and we were debating the

1090
00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:47,760
Speaker 1: whole Tea and Culton thing. I have a lot of

1091
00:59:47,800 --> 00:59:51,040
Speaker 1: sympathy for Tia because I always went into Paradise with

1092
00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:53,640
Speaker 1: blinders on, knowing who I wanted to be there and

1093
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 1: not caring about anyone else and wanting to say screw

1094
00:59:58,040 --> 01:00:01,160
Speaker 1: you to everybody who said, actually, just open your eyes

1095
01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:03,520
Speaker 1: to other options. Maybe somebody else will walk in, and

1096
01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:08,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, anyway, from a girl's point of view, I

1097
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:11,120
Speaker 1: want to see what you guys thought of her, kind

1098
01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:13,680
Speaker 1: of like clinging onto the idea of Colton. Hey, guys,

1099
01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:16,320
Speaker 1: before you answer this real quick, I gotta pause. I

1100
01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:19,440
Speaker 1: don't want to step in. I don't get involved in

1101
01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:21,280
Speaker 1: pop culture very often, but you know who I'm seeing this.

1102
01:00:21,440 --> 01:00:25,040
Speaker 1: I'm googling pictures of Zack Z Gray, which has taken

1103
01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 1: me into some weird, weird places. You know who I

1104
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:30,720
Speaker 1: see in this, and then we can end it. I

1105
01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:33,360
Speaker 1: don't even want any follow upon. This guy looks like

1106
01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:36,840
Speaker 1: the next dude that should be on that fifty Shades

1107
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:38,920
Speaker 1: a Gray show, Like, he looks like a fifty Shades

1108
01:00:38,920 --> 01:00:42,760
Speaker 1: a Great character. Maybe that's why I like, he looks

1109
01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:45,120
Speaker 1: like a dude that would want to like leather you

1110
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:47,360
Speaker 1: up and from the well, that's just weird that you

1111
01:00:47,400 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 1: said that, because I said it look like Charlie Huntman.

1112
01:00:49,360 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 1: Charlie hunt was Christian Gray. Yeah, anyway, sorry, sorry for

1113
01:00:53,760 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 1: derailing the podcast. My intention here, but all I could

1114
01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:58,400
Speaker 1: see in this dude was like, hey, I look into

1115
01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:00,320
Speaker 1: sit when I cleaned, when I shaved my ace. I

1116
01:01:00,360 --> 01:01:03,400
Speaker 1: looked twelve, but I'm not twelve, and so deep down

1117
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:06,280
Speaker 1: I want to hang you from my ceiling anyways, so

1118
01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:09,160
Speaker 1: you can go ahead and say it. Whenever they were like, oh,

1119
01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:11,320
Speaker 1: what's your type, and whenever, I was like, I need

1120
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:14,160
Speaker 1: a mix of Christian Gray and Noah from the notebook,

1121
01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:18,920
Speaker 1: Like I need somebody who was like confident, like the personality,

1122
01:01:19,160 --> 01:01:25,360
Speaker 1: but also like love letters. That's a good makes sense, right, Yeah, okay, Well,

1123
01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:29,760
Speaker 1: speaking of that combo, what was the question? Yeah, I

1124
01:01:29,760 --> 01:01:34,000
Speaker 1: mean I think I personally feel like they had unresolved stuff,

1125
01:01:34,040 --> 01:01:37,360
Speaker 1: so like for her to go in and want to

1126
01:01:37,640 --> 01:01:40,439
Speaker 1: talk to other guys, it would have been it would

1127
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:42,360
Speaker 1: have been smart if Colton would have come in later,

1128
01:01:42,480 --> 01:01:44,680
Speaker 1: like for her to have done that. But I think

1129
01:01:45,080 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 1: I could see where she's like, I need to just

1130
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:50,040
Speaker 1: figure this out, and so I don't know. It was

1131
01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:53,080
Speaker 1: just a really bad situation, I think in terms of

1132
01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:56,800
Speaker 1: like going on a show and being that into into

1133
01:01:56,840 --> 01:01:58,919
Speaker 1: somebody that you're not looking at anyone else, but like

1134
01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:02,360
Speaker 1: having all a past with that person, like they should

1135
01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:04,880
Speaker 1: just resolve it in the real world. Was it blatantly

1136
01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:08,640
Speaker 1: obvious that he just wasn't that into her when he

1137
01:02:08,680 --> 01:02:12,560
Speaker 1: walked in. Um. I think for me, I felt like

1138
01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:15,200
Speaker 1: there was moments where they were equally into each other,

1139
01:02:15,240 --> 01:02:17,640
Speaker 1: and then there was moments where I was like, oh God,

1140
01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:19,520
Speaker 1: this is not going to look good for Tea. Like

1141
01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:22,200
Speaker 1: I could tell, I could really tell that he was

1142
01:02:22,280 --> 01:02:25,160
Speaker 1: not fully engaged. It just seem like there was just

1143
01:02:25,200 --> 01:02:27,560
Speaker 1: like a lot of like pressure coming into it, like

1144
01:02:27,560 --> 01:02:29,160
Speaker 1: a lot of build up. And so I think all

1145
01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:31,600
Speaker 1: that pressure was kind of like what's going to happen?

1146
01:02:31,680 --> 01:02:34,800
Speaker 1: And I feel like they both felt it, and you know,

1147
01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 1: trying to like figure that out immediately it's tough. So

1148
01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:42,720
Speaker 1: I feel like it was a weird situation. I heard

1149
01:02:42,760 --> 01:02:46,440
Speaker 1: a rumor that there's one cast member that you guys

1150
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:49,840
Speaker 1: didn't like, but he was he or she was well

1151
01:02:49,920 --> 01:02:53,880
Speaker 1: liked on their former season. Is this true? Yes? Oh

1152
01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:58,160
Speaker 1: this is Colden. No, it's not cold No. Yeah, I

1153
01:02:58,200 --> 01:03:01,919
Speaker 1: did give us a teaser. Um, will we find out?

1154
01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's very girl or a guy? Um? I

1155
01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:10,200
Speaker 1: mean I think I think there's definitely a guy. I

1156
01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:16,400
Speaker 1: don't know if there's does he have big muscles? Does

1157
01:03:16,440 --> 01:03:27,600
Speaker 1: he look like me with his shirt off? Is his name? Okay?

1158
01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:30,800
Speaker 1: And you guys, um, well, I know your season Analyst,

1159
01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:34,200
Speaker 1: you guys just hated Crystal, but now you guys seem

1160
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:36,160
Speaker 1: to kind of get along with Crystal. Yeah. I mean

1161
01:03:36,200 --> 01:03:38,960
Speaker 1: for me personally, it was like I was going I

1162
01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:41,080
Speaker 1: was going to be open to guys to date, but

1163
01:03:41,120 --> 01:03:42,680
Speaker 1: I was also like, I'm going to be open to

1164
01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:45,480
Speaker 1: friendships as well, like guys and girls, and so I

1165
01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:47,280
Speaker 1: feel like Crystal sort of fell in that category for

1166
01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:49,600
Speaker 1: me that I was like, this is her sort of

1167
01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:52,080
Speaker 1: redemption also for people to see a different side of her.

1168
01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:54,200
Speaker 1: So I didn't want to just go in and be like,

1169
01:03:54,560 --> 01:03:56,560
Speaker 1: she's this person and I'm going to immediately hate her.

1170
01:03:56,560 --> 01:03:58,760
Speaker 1: So I wanted to give her a second chance as well.

1171
01:03:58,800 --> 01:04:01,080
Speaker 1: And she like totally surprised to me, and we're friends now.

1172
01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:04,560
Speaker 1: To me, I you know, watched our season, so I

1173
01:04:05,200 --> 01:04:07,880
Speaker 1: wasn't on that season, so like going in, I kind

1174
01:04:07,920 --> 01:04:10,000
Speaker 1: of had like, oh, I wonder how she's going to be,

1175
01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:13,120
Speaker 1: and she's great. I love Cristal. Her and I got

1176
01:04:13,160 --> 01:04:16,240
Speaker 1: like very close. And actually it's so funny because whenever

1177
01:04:16,480 --> 01:04:18,600
Speaker 1: I walked down and we met, she knew who I

1178
01:04:18,720 --> 01:04:22,480
Speaker 1: was shocked, Wow, I know, but she was so sweet.

1179
01:04:22,520 --> 01:04:25,160
Speaker 1: Like I went in there thinking one thing and I

1180
01:04:25,280 --> 01:04:28,960
Speaker 1: left like being completely wrong. Well, when I've interviewed her

1181
01:04:29,000 --> 01:04:31,920
Speaker 1: at Women Tell All and here on the podcast, I

1182
01:04:31,960 --> 01:04:36,400
Speaker 1: was like, this girl, I could hang out with her. Yeah, um,

1183
01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 1: is there somebody okay? So based on rumors, it seems

1184
01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:46,760
Speaker 1: as if this season maybe okay. According to my investigations,

1185
01:04:47,040 --> 01:04:49,960
Speaker 1: this season seems to be the most fluid of casts,

1186
01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:53,120
Speaker 1: as in, like, you guys switch partners a lot. Is

1187
01:04:53,160 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 1: this true? I think I feel like the theme for

1188
01:04:57,160 --> 01:04:59,640
Speaker 1: the first couple of weeks like everyone just didn't want

1189
01:04:59,640 --> 01:05:02,480
Speaker 1: to come to anyway. It felt like everyone was very

1190
01:05:02,560 --> 01:05:04,840
Speaker 1: like everyone just wanted to stay open, stay open, stay open.

1191
01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:06,520
Speaker 1: And that was like I thought I was the only

1192
01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:08,040
Speaker 1: one doing that. And then anytime we have like a

1193
01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:10,920
Speaker 1: girl chat, it felt like everyone was doing the same thing.

1194
01:05:10,920 --> 01:05:14,040
Speaker 1: Because that means that people weren't forming strong connections that

1195
01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:16,600
Speaker 1: you guys were just kind of like so in love

1196
01:05:16,640 --> 01:05:18,880
Speaker 1: with everyone, know. I think it was that we were

1197
01:05:19,120 --> 01:05:21,560
Speaker 1: forming strong connections. It was it was a little bit

1198
01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:24,880
Speaker 1: of like a brow out at the beginning, a little

1199
01:05:24,880 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 1: bit like we were just I don't know. But it's

1200
01:05:26,640 --> 01:05:30,200
Speaker 1: so funny. Also because before the first um Rows ceremony,

1201
01:05:30,240 --> 01:05:32,560
Speaker 1: all of the girls were like having girl chat, We're like, oh,

1202
01:05:32,640 --> 01:05:34,400
Speaker 1: you know, well, I'll probably give my roast of this person.

1203
01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:36,680
Speaker 1: We literally were like going down the list and it's

1204
01:05:36,720 --> 01:05:39,520
Speaker 1: just so funny how like a cocktail party changes everything

1205
01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:44,919
Speaker 1: really clacktail parties like six hours. I gotta figure this out.

1206
01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:47,040
Speaker 1: Are you guys like making out with everybody to like

1207
01:05:48,800 --> 01:05:51,640
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like it was like very friendly.

1208
01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:54,280
Speaker 1: There's a couple of weeks like people definitely put people

1209
01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:57,000
Speaker 1: in the friend zone, and then I think the changeover

1210
01:05:57,120 --> 01:05:59,640
Speaker 1: was when people would say, Okay, we're in the friend zone,

1211
01:05:59,760 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 1: but the only way we're going to actually maybe try

1212
01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:06,120
Speaker 1: to have like a successful relationship and maybe like your

1213
01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:09,280
Speaker 1: best friend becomes your significant other, Like maybe we need

1214
01:06:09,320 --> 01:06:11,000
Speaker 1: to step out of the friend zone and like see

1215
01:06:11,040 --> 01:06:13,720
Speaker 1: if there could be a relationship here. So that's sort

1216
01:06:13,760 --> 01:06:15,760
Speaker 1: of like for yeah, I think that was like the

1217
01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:17,880
Speaker 1: shift for a couple of people is like moving out

1218
01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:21,480
Speaker 1: of the friend zone. But that's like it's actually think

1219
01:06:21,480 --> 01:06:27,160
Speaker 1: about it. That's absolutely incredible. Zone and paradise go hand

1220
01:06:27,160 --> 01:06:30,120
Speaker 1: in hand. Me and Jack, Carly and Evan. It's true

1221
01:06:30,800 --> 01:06:34,640
Speaker 1: Panner and Jade. Tanner and Jade were not friends. They

1222
01:06:34,640 --> 01:06:39,520
Speaker 1: were lovers right off the bat. Lovers and friends. They

1223
01:06:39,520 --> 01:06:43,040
Speaker 1: had many sleepovers together, some of those as friends, some

1224
01:06:43,120 --> 01:06:46,200
Speaker 1: of those as lovers, and so we can consider them

1225
01:06:46,200 --> 01:06:49,680
Speaker 1: both friends and lovers. All right, it's time for our

1226
01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:54,640
Speaker 1: speed round of questions. My favorite part girls and one word,

1227
01:06:55,320 --> 01:06:57,760
Speaker 1: Well not that this one. This one doesn't get one word.

1228
01:06:58,440 --> 01:07:00,320
Speaker 1: Remember this is a PG three team. I feel like

1229
01:07:00,320 --> 01:07:03,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be really bad. No, no, no, no, I'm like,

1230
01:07:03,360 --> 01:07:07,000
Speaker 1: oh lord, all right. Who what was your number one

1231
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:11,680
Speaker 1: beauty struggle in Paradise? Oh? The heat, Like I don't

1232
01:07:11,720 --> 01:07:15,640
Speaker 1: sweat normally, and I just sweat. I had like a

1233
01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:18,440
Speaker 1: permanent like just sweat on me, and I was just

1234
01:07:18,640 --> 01:07:21,680
Speaker 1: I couldn't. I never wanted to do my makeup again

1235
01:07:21,720 --> 01:07:24,440
Speaker 1: ever again. After I left, I did it so I

1236
01:07:24,440 --> 01:07:26,040
Speaker 1: had to do it every hour. You have to do

1237
01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:28,960
Speaker 1: makeup every hour. I mean, people don't realize, like I

1238
01:07:29,000 --> 01:07:32,280
Speaker 1: hope whenever we all get roasted for looking tragic on television,

1239
01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:35,040
Speaker 1: that they just take into account like it was hot

1240
01:07:35,120 --> 01:07:38,080
Speaker 1: and there was no air conditioning. I'm also still now

1241
01:07:38,240 --> 01:07:40,400
Speaker 1: dealing with like the acne that I got while I

1242
01:07:40,440 --> 01:07:46,880
Speaker 1: was there, were constantly putting on Yeah, it's the worst.

1243
01:07:47,400 --> 01:07:51,680
Speaker 1: Who is your favorite bartender yuki or wells well, but

1244
01:07:51,720 --> 01:07:59,480
Speaker 1: you are saying, but she didn't really make drinks. Shed

1245
01:08:00,040 --> 01:08:06,240
Speaker 1: there be lime though, the sweetest. She's a good water port.

1246
01:08:10,040 --> 01:08:14,480
Speaker 1: Was there any gross out bathroom or bedroom stories? I

1247
01:08:14,480 --> 01:08:18,320
Speaker 1: think just the oh p I mean there was one

1248
01:08:19,040 --> 01:08:22,320
Speaker 1: sights like randomly just turned on and it was like

1249
01:08:22,479 --> 01:08:26,040
Speaker 1: a swarm of the beetles. And I'm telling you, it

1250
01:08:26,160 --> 01:08:29,080
Speaker 1: was like freaking the plague. Oh my god, it was

1251
01:08:29,240 --> 01:08:35,439
Speaker 1: it was Wait, wasn't there only a certain bathroom? Wasn't

1252
01:08:35,479 --> 01:08:39,360
Speaker 1: there a certain bathroom actually that you would go? Yeah? Yeah,

1253
01:08:39,400 --> 01:08:41,400
Speaker 1: there was one. The other one the tree has. The

1254
01:08:41,439 --> 01:08:44,280
Speaker 1: one the treehouse has an actual door and locked the

1255
01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:48,400
Speaker 1: air conditioning and air condition There was an air conditioning room,

1256
01:08:48,800 --> 01:08:50,400
Speaker 1: like I think in the whole place that had air

1257
01:08:50,439 --> 01:08:56,519
Speaker 1: conditioning was a boom boom room. Oh I remember they

1258
01:08:56,600 --> 01:08:58,800
Speaker 1: added air conditioning to that room. They didn't have air

1259
01:08:58,840 --> 01:09:01,120
Speaker 1: conditioning back when I was out. That room one room?

1260
01:09:01,760 --> 01:09:04,040
Speaker 1: So what kind of room is it that everybody's just

1261
01:09:04,040 --> 01:09:08,080
Speaker 1: going in there? Blown it? I didn't know he can

1262
01:09:08,200 --> 01:09:14,120
Speaker 1: go in that bathroom though, Oh my gosh, of course

1263
01:09:14,160 --> 01:09:15,599
Speaker 1: you have to go in that bathroom is the only

1264
01:09:15,600 --> 01:09:21,720
Speaker 1: one privacy. The other one beans imagine she had to

1265
01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:25,360
Speaker 1: find her favorite bathroom sometimes, and this is disgusting to say,

1266
01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:27,960
Speaker 1: I would just go to the kitchen bathroom because that

1267
01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:33,960
Speaker 1: one nobody heard anything in because you yeah, but it's

1268
01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:39,160
Speaker 1: so close to the kitchen. Oh gosh, thanks for sorry.

1269
01:09:40,360 --> 01:09:44,080
Speaker 1: Can't wait to talk to you all over here alright,

1270
01:09:44,200 --> 01:09:47,240
Speaker 1: last class speed round question. It's not really much of

1271
01:09:47,240 --> 01:09:50,439
Speaker 1: a speed round, is it. Um the guy who really

1272
01:09:50,520 --> 01:09:54,479
Speaker 1: caught your eye when you walked down the stairs. I

1273
01:09:54,600 --> 01:09:57,479
Speaker 1: was sec I say, I was second to last walk down,

1274
01:09:58,360 --> 01:10:03,000
Speaker 1: so nobody listened to this podcast. I was a second

1275
01:10:03,000 --> 01:10:04,640
Speaker 1: with the last, so I walked down the stairs. So

1276
01:10:04,720 --> 01:10:06,840
Speaker 1: I the only person that I a physically saw walk

1277
01:10:06,920 --> 01:10:11,479
Speaker 1: down the stairs was David Um and it was favorite

1278
01:10:11,560 --> 01:10:19,880
Speaker 1: David Chicken Chicken. This is a special question for me

1279
01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:22,040
Speaker 1: because that was when I had loved at first sight

1280
01:10:22,080 --> 01:10:24,479
Speaker 1: with Jerry, when well, I walked down the stairs and

1281
01:10:24,520 --> 01:10:27,000
Speaker 1: I saw him at the bar. No, no, no, no, no,

1282
01:10:27,040 --> 01:10:29,920
Speaker 1: not all. I think you're running a great comic really,

1283
01:10:31,040 --> 01:10:32,760
Speaker 1: but like that was a big deal. So like there

1284
01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:34,639
Speaker 1: was nobody who came down the stairs and you saw

1285
01:10:34,680 --> 01:10:36,760
Speaker 1: at the bar. That was like wham, I like him.

1286
01:10:36,880 --> 01:10:40,120
Speaker 1: There was but it just wasn't. It wasn't coughing up.

1287
01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:43,880
Speaker 1: It wasn't for a while, so I can't say coming

1288
01:10:44,560 --> 01:10:46,880
Speaker 1: first sight, he's coming. It was totally love it first

1289
01:10:46,880 --> 01:10:49,320
Speaker 1: sight for both of us. I saw that. Well, I

1290
01:10:49,320 --> 01:10:51,800
Speaker 1: don't know. I can't say that, but I think it

1291
01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:55,680
Speaker 1: was definitely like Angela, yes, and Elsa's covering this up.

1292
01:10:55,960 --> 01:10:59,360
Speaker 1: We were gonna watch this carefully from here and now, um,

1293
01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:02,280
Speaker 1: I would love. I mean, I gotta tell you, if

1294
01:11:02,360 --> 01:11:05,760
Speaker 1: any of you said David was your love at first sight,

1295
01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:08,800
Speaker 1: I would, I would actually right now. And you don't

1296
01:11:08,800 --> 01:11:10,280
Speaker 1: want that because it's really hot in here, and like

1297
01:11:10,320 --> 01:11:12,599
Speaker 1: I said, there's a lot going on at my shirt

1298
01:11:12,600 --> 01:11:16,600
Speaker 1: off and stuff, so like no pants then yeah. But anyways,

1299
01:11:16,760 --> 01:11:19,799
Speaker 1: if it's not David and the chickens, which we assume

1300
01:11:19,960 --> 01:11:21,840
Speaker 1: is your love at first sight, who else is it?

1301
01:11:23,479 --> 01:11:25,040
Speaker 1: I don't have to pay see, Like this is what

1302
01:11:25,080 --> 01:11:32,719
Speaker 1: I'm saying, my I I would say somebody that caught

1303
01:11:32,720 --> 01:11:35,200
Speaker 1: my eye immediately. I can't believe you guys have to

1304
01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:37,040
Speaker 1: think about this so long? Well, do you not? We

1305
01:11:37,200 --> 01:11:39,719
Speaker 1: just said like the beginning of Paradise met a little

1306
01:11:39,720 --> 01:11:45,280
Speaker 1: bit slow. To Matt Zukri was so ear literally he

1307
01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:48,639
Speaker 1: was you know who kind of looks like Matt Zukri

1308
01:11:48,960 --> 01:11:57,680
Speaker 1: is nick Yeah, Nikki slig that tasted in this episode.

1309
01:11:57,920 --> 01:12:01,080
Speaker 1: I cannot handle it. You can't. Oh my god, we

1310
01:12:01,160 --> 01:12:04,200
Speaker 1: forgot to talk about that. He was flirting with somebody.

1311
01:12:05,080 --> 01:12:08,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it was so painful. Oh no, he's

1312
01:12:08,040 --> 01:12:11,559
Speaker 1: painful to He's like doing with his fingers that looks

1313
01:12:11,600 --> 01:12:16,040
Speaker 1: like he's like penetrated, like trying to like subconsciously penetrate her.

1314
01:12:17,360 --> 01:12:21,960
Speaker 1: The vulcan. It was the Star Trek Bulcan handshake or something,

1315
01:12:22,000 --> 01:12:24,439
Speaker 1: because you know that I can't do it, but if

1316
01:12:24,479 --> 01:12:27,240
Speaker 1: you watch Star Trek, he would do that and the

1317
01:12:27,479 --> 01:12:33,000
Speaker 1: intersect them. It was like and he was so wasted

1318
01:12:33,200 --> 01:12:36,040
Speaker 1: and she's just like, I have a headache. And he well,

1319
01:12:36,400 --> 01:12:39,560
Speaker 1: he's like he's a lawyer. He comes across like a

1320
01:12:39,680 --> 01:12:46,280
Speaker 1: dumbass maniac on the first episode. Maniac. So fun to

1321
01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:49,640
Speaker 1: watch though, Oh my god. Anyway, highlight you guys, it

1322
01:12:49,840 --> 01:12:53,559
Speaker 1: is UM ten eleven right here on the Pacific time zone.

1323
01:12:53,960 --> 01:12:56,760
Speaker 1: It's an It's eleven with Ben and we still have

1324
01:12:56,920 --> 01:13:00,920
Speaker 1: Kendall here sitting to join us, so they these thank

1325
01:13:01,000 --> 01:13:07,800
Speaker 1: you on your castmate, Kendall Angela. Here's the deal. We

1326
01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:12,719
Speaker 1: really appreciate you coming on the podcast. We'll be rooting

1327
01:13:12,760 --> 01:13:15,519
Speaker 1: for your love stories. Thank you for coming on. We

1328
01:13:15,600 --> 01:13:17,120
Speaker 1: don't know who you are. We didn't know who you

1329
01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:19,000
Speaker 1: were when you came on here, but now we know

1330
01:13:19,120 --> 01:13:21,240
Speaker 1: who you are, and we're your biggest fans. And all

1331
01:13:21,680 --> 01:13:24,600
Speaker 1: the three hundred thousand listeners out there, why do you

1332
01:13:24,720 --> 01:13:28,360
Speaker 1: keep under valuing how many listeners are like half a million,

1333
01:13:28,920 --> 01:13:32,960
Speaker 1: oh five hundred thousand listeners out there? Please understand that

1334
01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:39,439
Speaker 1: these two are special people, love looking and now we

1335
01:13:39,520 --> 01:13:41,639
Speaker 1: know who you are. So thanks for coming on. Thank you, Ben,

1336
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:45,280
Speaker 1: Thank you Ashley, Thanks for having us, thanks for being here.

1337
01:13:45,479 --> 01:13:48,760
Speaker 1: Who the heck are you? Angela? Ye? Now y'all know

1338
01:13:50,439 --> 01:13:53,960
Speaker 1: you know? All right? Before we speak to this blonde hair,

1339
01:13:54,080 --> 01:13:56,439
Speaker 1: blue eye beauty next to me, we have a question

1340
01:13:56,520 --> 01:13:59,720
Speaker 1: from one of our listeners, Andrea. She goes, how come no,

1341
01:13:59,800 --> 01:14:02,160
Speaker 1: but he is talking about Ben in the Paradise promo?

1342
01:14:02,320 --> 01:14:07,800
Speaker 1: What are you doing in there? Oh? Yeah, love? What

1343
01:14:07,880 --> 01:14:14,519
Speaker 1: are you doing in the like? Um? Was that called suit? Yeah?

1344
01:14:15,360 --> 01:14:18,479
Speaker 1: The second time you've done that a mariachi thing. Yeah.

1345
01:14:19,120 --> 01:14:21,400
Speaker 1: The thing is you have to really put all cards

1346
01:14:21,439 --> 01:14:23,439
Speaker 1: at the table to find love. And I was willing

1347
01:14:23,520 --> 01:14:24,760
Speaker 1: to do with it, and so I put on a

1348
01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:27,240
Speaker 1: mariachi suit, I went down to Paradise. I flew myself

1349
01:14:27,320 --> 01:14:30,439
Speaker 1: down there. I showed up on the island and I

1350
01:14:30,520 --> 01:14:33,760
Speaker 1: saw who would take me and the I mean not

1351
01:14:33,920 --> 01:14:35,960
Speaker 1: to give a spoiler, but nobody took me, and so

1352
01:14:36,080 --> 01:14:38,160
Speaker 1: I came back home and I'm back here on the

1353
01:14:38,240 --> 01:14:41,760
Speaker 1: parad on the podcast, the love story is sad. You're

1354
01:14:41,760 --> 01:14:43,479
Speaker 1: gonna to see a play out. It's tough. It's hard

1355
01:14:43,560 --> 01:14:46,639
Speaker 1: for me. I should have legitimately walked down those stairs

1356
01:14:46,680 --> 01:14:49,240
Speaker 1: in Paradise. I mean, we have some incredible women that

1357
01:14:49,439 --> 01:14:52,439
Speaker 1: came there on night one, and our next guest is

1358
01:14:52,560 --> 01:14:54,400
Speaker 1: definitely one of them. Kindle, you you've been on this

1359
01:14:54,479 --> 01:14:57,240
Speaker 1: podcast before. I had been on this podcast before. Hello

1360
01:14:57,320 --> 01:15:03,920
Speaker 1: again everyone, Hello Kendle. I've got Ashley really really needs

1361
01:15:03,960 --> 01:15:06,240
Speaker 1: to take this away, but I got some questions for goods.

1362
01:15:09,720 --> 01:15:15,759
Speaker 1: When when when uh uh Paradise first uh started? Somebody

1363
01:15:15,840 --> 01:15:18,000
Speaker 1: came back from Paradise a few weeks in and they said,

1364
01:15:18,160 --> 01:15:21,120
Speaker 1: Kendall is literally the most beautiful person I've ever seen

1365
01:15:21,200 --> 01:15:25,280
Speaker 1: with my own eyes. Oh that's so sweet. On Paradise, Um,

1366
01:15:25,439 --> 01:15:28,640
Speaker 1: they were not on Paradise, so that somebody you've met

1367
01:15:28,640 --> 01:15:30,400
Speaker 1: outside of Paradise. But anyways, we're not going to give

1368
01:15:30,439 --> 01:15:33,400
Speaker 1: that up. But my question for you, all of us

1369
01:15:33,439 --> 01:15:37,600
Speaker 1: know you're beautiful. Everybody in americanos you're beautiful. Here's the

1370
01:15:37,720 --> 01:15:43,280
Speaker 1: question I have for you, Kendle. You're intriguing. That word, yeah,

1371
01:15:43,439 --> 01:15:46,560
Speaker 1: let's call you intriguing because you are. You're interesting. You

1372
01:15:46,720 --> 01:15:50,840
Speaker 1: you suck us all in. Before Ashley kind of goes

1373
01:15:50,920 --> 01:15:54,400
Speaker 1: off on her questions, I want to ask you. I

1374
01:15:54,640 --> 01:15:57,439
Speaker 1: find it. I find I sit down and I watch

1375
01:15:57,520 --> 01:15:59,360
Speaker 1: you on TV and I'm like, Okay, this girl's got

1376
01:15:59,439 --> 01:16:01,840
Speaker 1: so much to her. And then you started talking about

1377
01:16:01,880 --> 01:16:05,640
Speaker 1: picnics and cemeteries and all these things that are like

1378
01:16:05,920 --> 01:16:09,120
Speaker 1: super weird and dark, and I lose, like and I

1379
01:16:09,200 --> 01:16:12,280
Speaker 1: can get pretty dark. Like I'm a man who definitely

1380
01:16:12,400 --> 01:16:16,120
Speaker 1: believes in the mystic. I definitely believe that Jesus Christ

1381
01:16:16,600 --> 01:16:19,200
Speaker 1: died and rose again, like I believe in some stuff

1382
01:16:19,240 --> 01:16:22,840
Speaker 1: that like most people will be like, let's explain her something.

1383
01:16:23,080 --> 01:16:26,160
Speaker 1: You see beauty and death too, right, You're saying, oh, yeah,

1384
01:16:26,920 --> 01:16:29,640
Speaker 1: for life to happen, death needs to exist. But the

1385
01:16:29,760 --> 01:16:32,560
Speaker 1: problem is when you talk about it, there's like this

1386
01:16:33,040 --> 01:16:36,080
Speaker 1: element where all I know you as is somebody like

1387
01:16:36,280 --> 01:16:40,600
Speaker 1: likes taxidermy and has picnics and cemeteries, And for that

1388
01:16:40,920 --> 01:16:44,240
Speaker 1: I go like, I could see relationship with Kindle. I

1389
01:16:44,240 --> 01:16:48,680
Speaker 1: would supership with Kindle. But I stop at these so

1390
01:16:48,800 --> 01:16:52,439
Speaker 1: the reasons I can explain why I love I'm setting

1391
01:16:52,439 --> 01:16:55,400
Speaker 1: you up to say it's just you if it is great,

1392
01:16:58,560 --> 01:17:01,840
Speaker 1: But let's I think, Um, I think maybe I just

1393
01:17:01,920 --> 01:17:04,800
Speaker 1: have a different perception of things. I guess the reason

1394
01:17:04,840 --> 01:17:07,840
Speaker 1: why I love having picnics and cemeteries is because they

1395
01:17:07,880 --> 01:17:10,040
Speaker 1: are one of the only areas you can go to

1396
01:17:10,479 --> 01:17:13,479
Speaker 1: that are just incredibly beautiful. They're like parks, and there's

1397
01:17:13,520 --> 01:17:15,800
Speaker 1: not really many people that are there, and um, if

1398
01:17:15,840 --> 01:17:17,839
Speaker 1: you go to the Hollywood Cemetery, there's like a beautiful

1399
01:17:17,920 --> 01:17:22,000
Speaker 1: lake and there's um geese and there's swans and there's peacocks.

1400
01:17:22,240 --> 01:17:24,599
Speaker 1: Is it allowed to just picnic in any old cemetery?

1401
01:17:25,200 --> 01:17:27,639
Speaker 1: Thank you for that question, because when I was playing

1402
01:17:27,720 --> 01:17:29,880
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift for Halloween this year, I was trying to

1403
01:17:29,920 --> 01:17:32,320
Speaker 1: recreate her music video in the cemetery, and then I

1404
01:17:32,400 --> 01:17:34,200
Speaker 1: got to the cemetery to recreate it and I was like,

1405
01:17:34,240 --> 01:17:37,000
Speaker 1: this feels wrong and turned around, Well, no, it's actually, well,

1406
01:17:37,000 --> 01:17:38,960
Speaker 1: the one thing that I find is like the one

1407
01:17:39,000 --> 01:17:43,200
Speaker 1: thing like Martos is a beautiful holiday because in a

1408
01:17:43,280 --> 01:17:45,960
Speaker 1: way it's um, you can go with the dead and

1409
01:17:46,040 --> 01:17:49,840
Speaker 1: you can, yeah, and it's a beautiful memory. And I

1410
01:17:49,920 --> 01:17:51,800
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of people are afraid of death

1411
01:17:51,840 --> 01:17:55,200
Speaker 1: and they're afraid of facing their own mortal or their mortality.

1412
01:17:55,680 --> 01:17:58,360
Speaker 1: So um, when you go to cemeteries, you feel afraid

1413
01:17:58,400 --> 01:18:00,760
Speaker 1: because you you face your own right, it's like you're

1414
01:18:00,800 --> 01:18:04,719
Speaker 1: staring at your future and that aside. Are you allowed

1415
01:18:04,880 --> 01:18:07,840
Speaker 1: to just go to Bristol Farms, get a basket and

1416
01:18:07,960 --> 01:18:10,400
Speaker 1: take it to any cemetery? I'm sure? Well, yeah, I

1417
01:18:10,439 --> 01:18:12,640
Speaker 1: know I called. I've called cemeteries before and I've told

1418
01:18:12,720 --> 01:18:13,880
Speaker 1: them that I want to go and have a picnic

1419
01:18:13,920 --> 01:18:16,720
Speaker 1: and they're cool with it. But I went to Yeah,

1420
01:18:16,760 --> 01:18:20,040
Speaker 1: I went to this one, uh cemetery in Los Angeles.

1421
01:18:20,120 --> 01:18:21,760
Speaker 1: I love going to Um it's on your rady to

1422
01:18:21,760 --> 01:18:24,320
Speaker 1: brimping actual on your ready here um And I love

1423
01:18:24,400 --> 01:18:30,040
Speaker 1: going there because I like sitting there on excuse very famous.

1424
01:18:30,120 --> 01:18:32,040
Speaker 1: I love going to forest Lawn um. Um. So I

1425
01:18:32,120 --> 01:18:34,400
Speaker 1: like going there and actually the deer will come down

1426
01:18:34,880 --> 01:18:36,920
Speaker 1: from the hills and they'll eat all the roses and

1427
01:18:36,960 --> 01:18:38,560
Speaker 1: all the flowers on the on the graves, and I

1428
01:18:38,640 --> 01:18:40,280
Speaker 1: just think it's really cool to go and to watch

1429
01:18:40,439 --> 01:18:43,280
Speaker 1: them because there's like so much life around so much death,

1430
01:18:43,720 --> 01:18:46,439
Speaker 1: and um, it's not so much that I like being you.

1431
01:18:47,439 --> 01:18:49,360
Speaker 1: There isn't that where Michael Jack is. Yeah, And and

1432
01:18:49,400 --> 01:18:52,240
Speaker 1: there's parking, guys, there's so much parking in cemetery. I

1433
01:18:52,360 --> 01:18:55,240
Speaker 1: wanted to force Lawn to get this Instagram and then

1434
01:18:55,320 --> 01:18:57,439
Speaker 1: I said, I can't ever do that because I saw

1435
01:18:57,520 --> 01:19:01,240
Speaker 1: people mourning around me and visiting their loved ones, and

1436
01:19:01,360 --> 01:19:05,080
Speaker 1: I was like, I feel so not to honor it

1437
01:19:05,360 --> 01:19:08,200
Speaker 1: rather than make a music video. Yeah, okay, so that's

1438
01:19:08,240 --> 01:19:10,160
Speaker 1: what it was. Yeah, I got there. I got I mean,

1439
01:19:10,280 --> 01:19:13,400
Speaker 1: I like going what it was. What I mean, they

1440
01:19:13,520 --> 01:19:16,080
Speaker 1: let you watch movies at the Hollywood Cemetery. You watch

1441
01:19:16,160 --> 01:19:17,800
Speaker 1: movies there. I like going there and bringing a book

1442
01:19:17,960 --> 01:19:19,640
Speaker 1: and maybe bring an apple or something and just like

1443
01:19:19,760 --> 01:19:25,160
Speaker 1: hang out And is this real? It is an apple

1444
01:19:25,680 --> 01:19:28,800
Speaker 1: and an apple? She's a Disney protest right now. I

1445
01:19:28,920 --> 01:19:31,960
Speaker 1: get it. Like she made a statement, there's so much

1446
01:19:32,080 --> 01:19:35,960
Speaker 1: life around so much death. I understand it, Like it

1447
01:19:36,120 --> 01:19:38,439
Speaker 1: is a unique place to hang out. It's different it

1448
01:19:38,600 --> 01:19:44,360
Speaker 1: stretches you. It pushes you to contemplate, It pushes you

1449
01:19:44,479 --> 01:19:48,160
Speaker 1: to contemplate death, it puts you as also contemplate life.

1450
01:19:48,200 --> 01:19:51,360
Speaker 1: So I get it, Kindle. I just think that The

1451
01:19:51,600 --> 01:19:55,519
Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise is not the place to bring this up.

1452
01:19:56,040 --> 01:20:04,960
Speaker 1: But Ben can weakly talk about the even crazier thing. Okay, Ben,

1453
01:20:05,800 --> 01:20:11,800
Speaker 1: the grocer had never been on a picnic. That possible. Anyways, Kendall,

1454
01:20:11,800 --> 01:20:14,080
Speaker 1: we close this conversation I gave you. I was just

1455
01:20:14,160 --> 01:20:15,800
Speaker 1: trying to feel you a little bit, relate with you.

1456
01:20:16,000 --> 01:20:18,519
Speaker 1: I understand you a little bit more now. Thank you

1457
01:20:18,640 --> 01:20:21,560
Speaker 1: for sharing this. I appreciate your curiosity. You've got a

1458
01:20:21,680 --> 01:20:24,600
Speaker 1: depth at which we've never seen on this show, and

1459
01:20:24,760 --> 01:20:28,040
Speaker 1: so at some level it's hard to understand, but at

1460
01:20:28,040 --> 01:20:31,000
Speaker 1: another level it's amazing to witness. We just got to

1461
01:20:31,040 --> 01:20:35,439
Speaker 1: get to know you better. So anyways, question, you're hanging

1462
01:20:35,479 --> 01:20:37,360
Speaker 1: out and getting to know a guy who's never been

1463
01:20:37,479 --> 01:20:39,320
Speaker 1: on a picnic and it can't even talk to you

1464
01:20:39,560 --> 01:20:42,759
Speaker 1: about picnics, and you're into him. And he's a grocer,

1465
01:20:43,160 --> 01:20:47,200
Speaker 1: he works with food. I you know, Joe is just

1466
01:20:47,360 --> 01:20:51,400
Speaker 1: somebody that he's just I think he just makes me laugh.

1467
01:20:51,800 --> 01:20:55,160
Speaker 1: He's just hilarious and um, he's just so honest and

1468
01:20:55,320 --> 01:20:59,559
Speaker 1: genuine and um, you just can't help but to get Joe.

1469
01:20:59,600 --> 01:21:02,679
Speaker 1: When you out with Joe, you know you feel tingly

1470
01:21:02,800 --> 01:21:07,760
Speaker 1: for Joe. I definitely, I definitely felt something for Joe

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01:21:07,840 --> 01:21:12,120
Speaker 1: the first the first okay, the first episode. Who else

1472
01:21:12,240 --> 01:21:13,920
Speaker 1: was really interested in you? I feel like there was

1473
01:21:13,960 --> 01:21:19,080
Speaker 1: another guy we really trying to move on in cod Okay,

1474
01:21:19,800 --> 01:21:23,439
Speaker 1: Colvid did try to talk to you before, and you

1475
01:21:23,640 --> 01:21:26,240
Speaker 1: felt weird about it? Um, Yeah, I mean I think

1476
01:21:26,320 --> 01:21:28,040
Speaker 1: Colton is a great guy. He has the same name

1477
01:21:28,200 --> 01:21:31,240
Speaker 1: name as my brother, so that automatically was kind of like,

1478
01:21:31,560 --> 01:21:34,880
Speaker 1: I don't want to like you know, Um, but yeah,

1479
01:21:34,880 --> 01:21:41,559
Speaker 1: I really like cold think. Yeah, I know it does,

1480
01:21:41,680 --> 01:21:44,840
Speaker 1: but I think no, I think he's a great guy.

1481
01:21:45,120 --> 01:21:46,840
Speaker 1: He's just not He's not He's not really my type.

1482
01:21:46,880 --> 01:21:50,559
Speaker 1: But I he also dated two of my friends, so um,

1483
01:21:51,000 --> 01:21:53,120
Speaker 1: to me, I feel like I don't want to get

1484
01:21:53,200 --> 01:21:56,000
Speaker 1: involved in that. There's already so much going on. Um,

1485
01:21:56,560 --> 01:21:58,519
Speaker 1: but yeah, I think he just wanted to talk with

1486
01:21:58,600 --> 01:22:00,840
Speaker 1: me because he wanted to get some feedback because I

1487
01:22:00,880 --> 01:22:02,599
Speaker 1: was friends with both Becca and Tia, So I think

1488
01:22:02,640 --> 01:22:06,280
Speaker 1: he just wanted to get more clarity younger than you.

1489
01:22:07,240 --> 01:22:09,200
Speaker 1: I don't think you guys at the same age, like

1490
01:22:09,320 --> 01:22:14,760
Speaker 1: maybe I'm a little more young. Yeah, yeah, he's I

1491
01:22:14,840 --> 01:22:18,000
Speaker 1: think he he has so much to experience, you know,

1492
01:22:18,120 --> 01:22:20,599
Speaker 1: and I see so much like curiosity and excitement in him,

1493
01:22:20,640 --> 01:22:23,000
Speaker 1: and I feel like that's something that he was probably

1494
01:22:23,040 --> 01:22:27,519
Speaker 1: hoping to go to Paradise to discover. Okay, okay, um,

1495
01:22:28,240 --> 01:22:30,400
Speaker 1: are we going to see you date someone that will

1496
01:22:30,560 --> 01:22:37,040
Speaker 1: surprise us? Um? I'm not sure. Okay, yeah, I mean

1497
01:22:37,439 --> 01:22:39,360
Speaker 1: I feel like going into it, I just wanted to

1498
01:22:39,360 --> 01:22:42,120
Speaker 1: have a very open mind and I wanted to surprise

1499
01:22:42,200 --> 01:22:45,479
Speaker 1: myself with who um I ended up talking to, and

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01:22:45,640 --> 01:22:49,360
Speaker 1: so I guess initially, I mean, as you can see

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01:22:49,360 --> 01:22:52,599
Speaker 1: in the first episode, I wanted to just talk to everybody,

1502
01:22:53,120 --> 01:22:59,599
Speaker 1: and Joe actually surprised me a lot. Pet Paradise question.

1503
01:23:01,080 --> 01:23:02,880
Speaker 1: I did not make out with everybody, That's what I'll

1504
01:23:02,880 --> 01:23:08,160
Speaker 1: tell you. Come on the number, being like so good

1505
01:23:08,280 --> 01:23:11,600
Speaker 1: to there there. You know their producers guys, kissing is

1506
01:23:11,640 --> 01:23:14,360
Speaker 1: a way to really get to know somebody. So we

1507
01:23:14,439 --> 01:23:17,720
Speaker 1: saw Tia kind of rip on Crystal. She wasn't really

1508
01:23:17,800 --> 01:23:20,360
Speaker 1: holding back. She kind of yeah, she made fun of

1509
01:23:20,400 --> 01:23:25,920
Speaker 1: her a little bit. The beginning, How are you and Crystal? Um?

1510
01:23:26,160 --> 01:23:28,760
Speaker 1: I have no animosity towards Crystal. I think Crystal is

1511
01:23:28,760 --> 01:23:31,200
Speaker 1: a cool girl. She's a very powerful woman, and um,

1512
01:23:32,200 --> 01:23:35,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, I personally don't feel like

1513
01:23:35,080 --> 01:23:37,000
Speaker 1: I have anything that I have to like hash out

1514
01:23:37,080 --> 01:23:38,600
Speaker 1: with her. I mean, we had her whole thing in

1515
01:23:38,640 --> 01:23:40,640
Speaker 1: ARI season, but I don't think that came from a

1516
01:23:40,680 --> 01:23:42,960
Speaker 1: place of disliking each other. I think that came from

1517
01:23:42,960 --> 01:23:45,479
Speaker 1: a place of just being backed into a corner. And

1518
01:23:45,520 --> 01:23:47,439
Speaker 1: then you know, we all kind of act differently, and

1519
01:23:47,760 --> 01:23:49,960
Speaker 1: she seems knew and improved or sort of the same

1520
01:23:50,000 --> 01:23:53,040
Speaker 1: old Crystal. Um. I think I definitely feel like she

1521
01:23:53,120 --> 01:23:54,960
Speaker 1: learned a lot from R season and I think she's

1522
01:23:54,960 --> 01:23:58,960
Speaker 1: bringing that into Paradise and um, yeah, I mean she's

1523
01:23:59,160 --> 01:24:03,240
Speaker 1: she's a very powerful Which process made you more emotional? Um?

1524
01:24:03,479 --> 01:24:07,680
Speaker 1: The Bachelor Paradise for sure, That's what I always say.

1525
01:24:07,720 --> 01:24:11,400
Speaker 1: It's a whole different beast, so different if you're constantly

1526
01:24:11,479 --> 01:24:13,680
Speaker 1: with the other person. I think I've laughed harder than

1527
01:24:13,680 --> 01:24:16,000
Speaker 1: I've ever laughed there, and I've probably cried harder than

1528
01:24:16,000 --> 01:24:18,400
Speaker 1: I've ever cried there totally. So there's a lot of

1529
01:24:18,680 --> 01:24:22,000
Speaker 1: different extremes which is actually really fun. Yeah, because I

1530
01:24:22,040 --> 01:24:24,519
Speaker 1: saw in the preview it looked like we saw cry

1531
01:24:24,680 --> 01:24:28,439
Speaker 1: fest from you that we didn't see with Ari. Yeah.

1532
01:24:28,720 --> 01:24:31,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like it's interesting because you can

1533
01:24:31,960 --> 01:24:34,680
Speaker 1: kind of you're kind of just like so much more

1534
01:24:35,040 --> 01:24:38,400
Speaker 1: choices in a way, and there's more elements to it,

1535
01:24:38,640 --> 01:24:41,800
Speaker 1: and it's so unpredictable. And also to think about it

1536
01:24:41,840 --> 01:24:44,800
Speaker 1: this way, you're with the person that you're dating seven there,

1537
01:24:45,120 --> 01:24:47,680
Speaker 1: you have so much time with them, and so I

1538
01:24:47,840 --> 01:24:50,560
Speaker 1: feel like everything is so expedited. I was able to

1539
01:24:51,000 --> 01:24:53,559
Speaker 1: really get to know the people that I was dating,

1540
01:24:53,760 --> 01:24:56,240
Speaker 1: and um, you know, I see beauty and so many

1541
01:24:56,280 --> 01:24:59,599
Speaker 1: different kinds of people. So it's yeah, it's it's hard.

1542
01:24:59,680 --> 01:25:03,519
Speaker 1: It gets very difficult. Yeah. Yeah, and um, it's not

1543
01:25:03,960 --> 01:25:06,679
Speaker 1: the kind of person we need on the show. Thanks.

1544
01:25:07,920 --> 01:25:10,760
Speaker 1: You like transcend the show a little bit, and that's

1545
01:25:10,760 --> 01:25:12,120
Speaker 1: not easy to We have a lot of respect for

1546
01:25:12,160 --> 01:25:16,120
Speaker 1: the show, but you like you look past the craziness

1547
01:25:16,280 --> 01:25:19,800
Speaker 1: and look towards the actual meaning of the show and

1548
01:25:19,840 --> 01:25:22,560
Speaker 1: then actual meaning of the person. I think you're the

1549
01:25:22,600 --> 01:25:25,040
Speaker 1: exact type of person we need. I'm excited to watch

1550
01:25:25,120 --> 01:25:28,200
Speaker 1: this play out. I think you make out with two

1551
01:25:28,280 --> 01:25:32,360
Speaker 1: people too. A guest, I think too, maybe three. Do

1552
01:25:32,479 --> 01:25:35,160
Speaker 1: you want to tell us which potty you used when

1553
01:25:35,160 --> 01:25:42,600
Speaker 1: you have to go to the bathroom? Connection? I thinking

1554
01:25:42,640 --> 01:25:50,280
Speaker 1: about texting and don't do that. That's right. Good. Did

1555
01:25:50,320 --> 01:25:55,639
Speaker 1: you find one? Is there a special a special bathroom? Yeah? Um,

1556
01:25:56,400 --> 01:25:59,920
Speaker 1: I feel like I don't know, you know, a surprise.

1557
01:26:00,040 --> 01:26:03,120
Speaker 1: It wasn't as difficult to find privacy as I expected. Really,

1558
01:26:03,280 --> 01:26:05,360
Speaker 1: I would like like to go into the girl's bedroom

1559
01:26:05,479 --> 01:26:07,160
Speaker 1: during the day and like take a nap, but it

1560
01:26:07,280 --> 01:26:09,160
Speaker 1: really I was just closing my eyes or like writing

1561
01:26:09,160 --> 01:26:10,960
Speaker 1: in my journal or something. But you use the excuse

1562
01:26:11,040 --> 01:26:13,519
Speaker 1: taking an app Actually I did take more naps than

1563
01:26:13,520 --> 01:26:15,560
Speaker 1: I ever have in my life. Her Yes, and it

1564
01:26:15,720 --> 01:26:22,599
Speaker 1: was drinking and the crying. Yeah, nothing is more true

1565
01:26:22,640 --> 01:26:26,200
Speaker 1: than that statement. When I get emotional lately, Like I've

1566
01:26:26,280 --> 01:26:29,200
Speaker 1: experienced the weirdest thing that when I get emotional, it's

1567
01:26:29,200 --> 01:26:32,200
Speaker 1: almost like I lay down to sort of and I

1568
01:26:32,240 --> 01:26:34,280
Speaker 1: don't know if I pass out or like if I

1569
01:26:34,320 --> 01:26:38,080
Speaker 1: fall asleep. But like, when I get emotionally, it's more

1570
01:26:38,200 --> 01:26:41,120
Speaker 1: than anything because it releases certain chemicals into your body

1571
01:26:41,160 --> 01:26:44,839
Speaker 1: and it causes you it actually reduced it actually releases

1572
01:26:44,920 --> 01:26:47,599
Speaker 1: like endorphins, so you feel happier when you cry when

1573
01:26:47,600 --> 01:26:52,880
Speaker 1: you sob I don't feel happy when I'm bawling. But

1574
01:26:52,960 --> 01:26:54,600
Speaker 1: don't you feel like you feel better after you have

1575
01:26:54,640 --> 01:26:56,400
Speaker 1: a good I mean I usually have to take it.

1576
01:26:57,200 --> 01:27:00,040
Speaker 1: It's actually pain. It takes it takes away pain, and

1577
01:27:00,120 --> 01:27:02,320
Speaker 1: you cry as well. It's like a release. But then

1578
01:27:02,360 --> 01:27:05,400
Speaker 1: I literally almost as past out, like I had a thing.

1579
01:27:05,880 --> 01:27:09,880
Speaker 1: Oh Ben, my bedtimes ten o'clock. Typically it's eleven thirties

1580
01:27:10,520 --> 01:27:12,960
Speaker 1: time right now, so I'm about to cry and I

1581
01:27:13,000 --> 01:27:18,040
Speaker 1: don't know a thing really quick. I want to know

1582
01:27:18,080 --> 01:27:20,760
Speaker 1: if you guys have ever experienced it, Ashley, especially where

1583
01:27:20,800 --> 01:27:23,679
Speaker 1: I cried and cried so much, and then I remember

1584
01:27:23,760 --> 01:27:26,519
Speaker 1: laying down and then it was like midnight, and I

1585
01:27:26,560 --> 01:27:28,880
Speaker 1: don't know what happened from five o'clock to midnight. I'm like,

1586
01:27:29,200 --> 01:27:31,920
Speaker 1: I just like fall asleep, Like I just remember covering

1587
01:27:31,960 --> 01:27:34,960
Speaker 1: my head and being so sad, and then like time

1588
01:27:35,080 --> 01:27:37,439
Speaker 1: does go by weird when you're having a day like that,

1589
01:27:38,040 --> 01:27:41,720
Speaker 1: either super fast or super slow. Yeah, but I'm better now,

1590
01:27:42,080 --> 01:27:45,840
Speaker 1: I'm glad, Okay, But yeah, Kendall, there is just something

1591
01:27:45,880 --> 01:27:50,760
Speaker 1: about paradise that it makes you feel everything. Yes, I

1592
01:27:50,880 --> 01:27:54,080
Speaker 1: felt so much. It's not as much of a fantasy

1593
01:27:54,200 --> 01:27:57,759
Speaker 1: land as the Bachelor is, because that's either a sorority

1594
01:27:57,840 --> 01:28:02,200
Speaker 1: house or a grand luxury date. But in Paradise, you're like,

1595
01:28:02,439 --> 01:28:05,320
Speaker 1: this is a beach bed that we're just chilling on exactly,

1596
01:28:05,360 --> 01:28:08,200
Speaker 1: and most there's not a lot of crazy luxurious. I mean,

1597
01:28:08,240 --> 01:28:10,840
Speaker 1: there are pious dates, but the majority of the time

1598
01:28:10,880 --> 01:28:12,880
Speaker 1: you hang out with the person that you're interested in

1599
01:28:13,320 --> 01:28:15,719
Speaker 1: is just kind of normal and you can talk about

1600
01:28:15,760 --> 01:28:19,960
Speaker 1: so much. Okay, Kendall, before we close out here, you're

1601
01:28:19,960 --> 01:28:22,759
Speaker 1: a great, a great participant of this podcast. We appreciate

1602
01:28:22,800 --> 01:28:27,560
Speaker 1: you a ton. Um. I mean that My question for

1603
01:28:27,680 --> 01:28:31,240
Speaker 1: you is, can the fans and the listeners out there,

1604
01:28:31,320 --> 01:28:35,280
Speaker 1: all of the half million listeners that listen to this podcast, um,

1605
01:28:35,439 --> 01:28:37,920
Speaker 1: can we be hopeful that at some point, not saying

1606
01:28:37,920 --> 01:28:41,160
Speaker 1: you're in love today, not saying you are in love

1607
01:28:41,200 --> 01:28:44,280
Speaker 1: at the end of this, can we be hopeful that

1608
01:28:44,360 --> 01:28:47,280
Speaker 1: at some point during Bachelor in Paradise you find love.

1609
01:28:49,560 --> 01:28:55,360
Speaker 1: I feel like, did you experience experience a experience? Yes,

1610
01:28:55,560 --> 01:28:58,320
Speaker 1: I definitely experienced the dimension of love and I think, um,

1611
01:28:58,439 --> 01:29:01,000
Speaker 1: I was really surprised with the way that I felt it.

1612
01:29:01,920 --> 01:29:05,439
Speaker 1: Who Kendall, We are excited to watch that. I'm a

1613
01:29:05,560 --> 01:29:07,880
Speaker 1: big fan of yours. Actually is a big fan of yours.

1614
01:29:08,360 --> 01:29:10,160
Speaker 1: Amy has always been a big fan of yours. Kendall,

1615
01:29:10,240 --> 01:29:12,760
Speaker 1: thank you for coming to Almost Famous podcast. What a

1616
01:29:12,960 --> 01:29:16,880
Speaker 1: terrific episode. I smiled through the entire thing, and I

1617
01:29:17,000 --> 01:29:20,240
Speaker 1: hope you guys did too, all four hundred to five

1618
01:29:20,320 --> 01:29:23,360
Speaker 1: hundred thousand of you. And this is a long podcast.

1619
01:29:23,400 --> 01:29:25,879
Speaker 1: I think we've been on for like almost two hours. Goodness,

1620
01:29:26,600 --> 01:29:30,160
Speaker 1: oh boy, I feel it. Hey. Thank you to Kendall,

1621
01:29:30,400 --> 01:29:32,960
Speaker 1: Eric Kenny, Angela and Annelie's for coming on the podcast.

1622
01:29:33,040 --> 01:29:36,719
Speaker 1: Thank you to ABC, m z K Productions for putting

1623
01:29:36,760 --> 01:29:39,920
Speaker 1: on The Bachelor and Paradise first episode. We're excited to watch.

1624
01:29:40,040 --> 01:29:45,480
Speaker 1: We're big fans. Will be here every week recapping every episode.

1625
01:29:45,640 --> 01:29:49,000
Speaker 1: Next week, every other episode, you know, the weeks. We

1626
01:29:49,040 --> 01:29:51,320
Speaker 1: don't do two weeks right, not to the finale, but

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01:29:51,400 --> 01:29:56,040
Speaker 1: we'll do. We'll do as many episodes. I forgot it's

1628
01:29:56,080 --> 01:29:58,920
Speaker 1: you and Colton on Tuesday. I said Monday earlier, But Tuesday,

1629
01:29:59,000 --> 01:30:01,360
Speaker 1: next Tuesday, we'll be Colt and I will be on

1630
01:30:03,360 --> 01:30:06,439
Speaker 1: Tuesday recapping the episode. He's gonna be my co host.

1631
01:30:06,479 --> 01:30:10,000
Speaker 1: We're gonna talk everything Bachelor in paradise. We're gonna really

1632
01:30:10,120 --> 01:30:12,400
Speaker 1: dissect his brains. We're not gonna let him walk away

1633
01:30:12,400 --> 01:30:15,880
Speaker 1: from this podcast just giving us bogus answers like I

1634
01:30:16,040 --> 01:30:19,439
Speaker 1: experienced the level of love at some point during the show.

1635
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Speaker 1: We're gonna make him exactly think about does he love

1636
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Speaker 1: Thanks for being there to edit and make sure everything

1648
01:31:01,200 --> 01:31:04,080
Speaker 1: looks good and feels good. Ashley, you're the best possible

1649
01:31:04,120 --> 01:31:07,320
Speaker 1: co host I've ever had, and the only one I

1650
01:31:07,439 --> 01:31:13,160
Speaker 1: have with the pipe. I wish you were wrong, but

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Speaker 1: it's in Denver and we've done very well for ourselves

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Speaker 1: with that I've been Ashley too. Follow the Benn and

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Speaker 1: Ashley I Almost Famous podcasts on I Heart Radio, or

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