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I don't 6 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: think anybody here has actually been to a therapist before, 7 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: even though, let's face it, we all probably need well, 8 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 1: everyone needs its special but you know, from what I've 9 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 1: seen on TV and in movies, it's a very long, 10 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:35,880 Speaker 1: complicated process where they ask you lots of subtle questions 11 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 1: to find the deeper you and get in touch with 12 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:42,239 Speaker 1: your inner feelings. Well, today we're just gonna skip all 13 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 1: that boring stuff when we call a guy and get 14 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 1: right down to it and ask why do you think 15 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:50,599 Speaker 1: you're such a hot mess? And nobody that's how they 16 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 1: should do it. We're gonna give it a try. In 17 00:00:53,080 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: your phone tap right now, it's another taps on the twenties. Hello, Hi, 18 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:04,400 Speaker 1: this is Kathy Turner from Health Therapy. Is this Pete? 19 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:07,039 Speaker 1: It is? How can I help you? Hi? Pete? It 20 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:08,959 Speaker 1: looks like your wife Samantha set you up for a 21 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 1: session with us. That's exciting. Yeah, yeah, she's she's into 22 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: this fall therapy thing. I've never tried it before, but right, yeah, 23 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 1: are you nervous? I mean, you know, I don't have 24 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 1: any kind of crazy issues going on, but I'm stressed 25 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,680 Speaker 1: a little bit. Right. Nobody thinks they need it till 26 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:29,839 Speaker 1: they get punched in the mouth. Then all of a sudden, 27 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:34,319 Speaker 1: plans go out the window. Huh wait, I'm sorry what Oh, 28 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: that's just a Mike Tyson quote. You wait your quote, 29 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: Mike Tyson. And you're a therapist's office. If we have to, yeah, 30 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:45,480 Speaker 1: if we have to. So I'm going to give you 31 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 1: a little homework to do before the therapy session. Okay, 32 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: could you take out a pen and paper for me? 33 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 1: And I just want you to try to answer this question, 34 00:01:54,680 --> 00:02:00,559 Speaker 1: why do so many people hate me? Wait? That hard 35 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 1: for you to hear. It's just a simple question. It's 36 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: a weird question. I don't feel like I don't feel 37 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: like people hate me. I'm gonna being honest. Oh okay, 38 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:17,119 Speaker 1: I'm just making a note here, strong denial. Interesting, it's 39 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: not the Nile. Don't write that down. I I'm being honest. 40 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 1: I'm people don't hate me. Why don't we compromise, Pete? 41 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 1: Why don't we do this? How about you talk to 42 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:28,519 Speaker 1: five co workers and find out why they think you're 43 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: an apple? Are you getting serious right now? Yeah? Truth hurts. 44 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: That's from Lizzo. I'm not okay. I don't see how 45 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 1: this is helpful at all. Like, isn't therapy about helping 46 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 1: the person become a better I'm not gonna want me 47 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 1: to walk around asking people if they think I'm an apple? 48 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 1: Ding ding ding ding ding ding, Pete. Yes, we all 49 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: need to start somewhere. And so if you really don't 50 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 1: feel comfortable with those options, yeah, no, I don't. I 51 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 1: don't feel those options. I hear you. I hear you. Now, 52 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 1: I'm just going to ask you to do something a 53 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 1: little bit easier, more on your level. I'm not could 54 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 1: you call your mother and find out why she loves 55 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 1: your older brother more than you? And you know what? Okay? 56 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 1: I am sick of you insinuating that I'm some kind 57 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:20,679 Speaker 1: of a bad person. My sense that you're frustrated? Am 58 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:24,639 Speaker 1: I sensing that? Right? Really? Genius? Do you hear my frustration? 59 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 1: We're going to take a deep breath together, Pete. We're 60 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:29,959 Speaker 1: going to take a deep breath right now. Oh, I'm 61 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 1: not taking any kind of a deep breath. And then 62 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: we're gonna pivot. Okay, we're gonna pivot to an easier question. 63 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 1: Could you I'm pivoting to hanging up? You just tell 64 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: me why you think your mother in law is an apphole? 65 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 1: Where are you pulling this from? I love my mother 66 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 1: in law. Mother that down. My mother in law is 67 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: actually an incredibly nice, sweet person. Okay, but that's not 68 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: helpful for this exercise. But let's just say your mother 69 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: in law heard you were going to a therapy session 70 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: and she reached out to someone else, like, I don't 71 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 1: know a radio station about it. What are you even 72 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 1: talking about? You're making no sense. What do you mean 73 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 1: radio station? Yes, let's just say your mother in law 74 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 1: reached out to Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning and said, 75 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: I want to do a prank phone call on my 76 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:16,719 Speaker 1: son in law Pete because he doesn't believe therapy is helpful. 77 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 1: How does that make you feel, Pete, I'm confused. I 78 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 1: don't know what you're talking about. What do you mean? Like? 79 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: Like confusion makes sense because this is actually brought for 80 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 1: the radio station. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. We're 81 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:35,160 Speaker 1: doing a phone tap on you. Wait, I'm not a therapist. 82 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 1: I probably need therapy, but no, your mother in law 83 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 1: set you up. Oh my god, I feel creepy. Sorry. 84 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 1: She actually wanted to say she's proud of you for going, 85 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 1: and then everybody needs it and it's going to be 86 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 1: helpful and to have a positive attitude. Okay, yeah, well 87 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: after this call, I think I'm gonna need therapy. You 88 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 1: wouldn't be the first person that we called. It said 89 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 1: that wake up every morning with funk Tabs Weekend mornings 90 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 1: on the twenty Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning