Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and iHeart Radio podcast.
Speaker 2: It's wedding week.
Speaker 3: Are you all so excited?
Speaker 2: Everyone? Grab your xanax? Kristen text Shane Kristen, Yeah, texts
Speaker 2: both of us, and she's like Gramer, just checking in.
Speaker 3: I'm like over here on the side, like do I
Speaker 3: need sant X?
Speaker 2: What do you need the xanaxpo. We just have a
Speaker 2: lot of moving pieces right now. Our Dada just left
Speaker 2: and the kids don't see him for two weeks, and
Speaker 2: then they see him for five hours and then he
Speaker 2: leaves again for another seven days. So I'm dealing with
Speaker 2: a lot of emotions of and legend and love. Don't
Speaker 2: show those the same. Uh huh?
Speaker 3: So do you normally need zanex, like for like a
Speaker 3: long flight.
Speaker 2: No, the flying is not, it's not that, it's all
Speaker 2: the leading up to got it? Yeah? Which fair? I mean,
Speaker 2: obviously I haven't taken one since the last time, and
Speaker 2: I flew to London and I took but that was
Speaker 2: all so because and I know she doesn't listen, so
Speaker 2: I can say it. My mother in law got to
Speaker 2: my house, yeah, right before I left, and I was
Speaker 2: like the world's spinning. How you feeling babe's wedding.
Speaker 4: I'm good. What's zonax?
Speaker 3: It's exactly what you think. It would be a TA
Speaker 3: for Americans. Kristin needed to make sure that they had one.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like to just I always have one in
Speaker 2: my purse, but I haven't taken one in I mean years,
Speaker 2: same years. I'll have a panic attack before I take
Speaker 2: a Xanax.
Speaker 4: And X calms you there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I can remember flying years ago with
Speaker 3: her and her just starting to have a slight panic attack,
Speaker 3: searching through her purseon like, what are you doing? Just
Speaker 3: make sure it's here. She just has to see it.
Speaker 2: Sometimes it's just knowing a habit.
Speaker 3: It's just knowing it's there, Like it's there, We're good.
Speaker 2: I don't ever take it. It's just there. Okay, I
Speaker 2: needed the wind. You don't have anxiety? No? Do you
Speaker 2: think you do? And it maybe it just doesn't show
Speaker 2: the same way because Preston also claims that he doesn't
Speaker 2: have anxiety. And I just don't know how that camp
Speaker 2: can be true.
Speaker 5: Not unless it's like a traumatic event or incident. Then
Speaker 5: I don't think it either.
Speaker 2: Oh No, you get anxiety when you wake up the
Speaker 2: next day. If you had alcohol yeah, so you have
Speaker 2: felt anxiety. Yeah, yeah, I feel the same way after
Speaker 2: I drink. Actually, yeah, same, I get That's the only
Speaker 2: time I now get anxiety is if I the next morning.
Speaker 5: But I wouldn't I wouldn't take something for that because
Speaker 5: it's easily manageable and tellingly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, such an athlete.
Speaker 3: But I mean I'm kind of the same way. Like
Speaker 3: I wouldn't say I have anxiety, but there are definitely
Speaker 3: certain triggers that'll make me anxious and I know what
Speaker 3: that feeling is. But I also wouldn't have to take something.
Speaker 3: But I could see where if you had that often
Speaker 3: and a lot, where you'd eventually need to have something
Speaker 3: for it for sure.
Speaker 2: See, it's like my my nervous system doesn't respond to
Speaker 2: what my mind is telling it. Sure, and so second,
Speaker 2: because if I can't get them to like the last
Speaker 2: time I took it was right before London and I
Speaker 2: really just could not get everything calmed down. Hey, can
Speaker 2: we go back to it's weddings not be anxious. Well,
Speaker 2: the good news is we know for sure that we
Speaker 2: want to get married, so we don't have to be
Speaker 2: anxious about that. The travel, I think that is the
Speaker 2: only piece that I'm anxious about. I'm not anxious about
Speaker 2: you too at all, wildly excited about what you're up to.
Speaker 2: It's just the backing. Yeah, I think the only thing
Speaker 2: I'm anxious about is the sleep leading up to the wedding,
Speaker 2: where I'm afraid that Roman won't sleep through the night
Speaker 2: and so and I know, I think if anyone's met
Speaker 2: me on a bad day, it's because I didn't sleep
Speaker 2: right and eat. So those are the two things I like,
Speaker 2: was I hungry or was I tired? And so I
Speaker 2: oh you anxious? No anxious? I shell up okay, But
Speaker 2: with the sleeping part, like I know that I require sleep.
Speaker 5: Well, it's unknown, it's unknown how Roman's going to respond difference.
Speaker 2: But I also have such empathy for the little babes
Speaker 2: that's also going through you know, time change and jet lags,
Speaker 2: so it's like I have patience for that. But then
Speaker 2: I also am like, oh gosh, I hope he sleeps
Speaker 2: because I know we both need it too leading up
Speaker 2: to the wedding.
Speaker 5: And we also have three sets of grandparents right and
Speaker 5: we don't get a chance to take them.
Speaker 2: Cues annex. No, I think Roman is going to rock
Speaker 2: it for what it's worth. I really think he is
Speaker 2: going to rock it. And I don't know why I think.
Speaker 2: I just so so confidently, but maybe I'm supposed to
Speaker 2: say that to you. I mean, he's the best baby ever.
Speaker 2: So again, like I just I feel for their little bodies,
Speaker 2: like they have no idea what's going on. H but
Speaker 2: like we don't have anyone coming with us. If we
Speaker 2: don't have a nanny, we don't have a babysit are
Speaker 2: coming and so your parents aren't in the house with
Speaker 2: us leading up to the week. So that's that's my thing,
Speaker 2: is in the middle of the night, like we can't
Speaker 2: pass off the baby and be like all right, you know,
Speaker 2: because during the day I want to be out and
Speaker 2: exploring with the kiddos, Like I'm not taking naps during
Speaker 2: the day because it's like this is my one week
Speaker 2: with the bigs too, to explore and have fun and
Speaker 2: do all that. So you know, we don't have anyone,
Speaker 2: it's just us in the middle of the night, so
Speaker 2: I'm like, we really need Roman to sleep.
Speaker 4: Remember when you used to come in naughtis and you'd
Speaker 4: sleep to the left and.
Speaker 2: Then yeah, because you were at the gym all day
Speaker 2: or you were at your training all day was a
Speaker 2: club the club, Yeah, so I didn't have to wake up,
Speaker 2: but now I need to for the babies.
Speaker 3: So will you just like take Roman like during the
Speaker 3: day all day and just kind of let him nap.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're just going to let him wherever he is
Speaker 2: during the day. I mean maybe maybe your mom could
Speaker 2: help when we go somewhere, but I think when we
Speaker 2: travel during the day, like he can just nap when
Speaker 2: we're strolling around and yeah, like we'll give him one
Speaker 2: really good nap when like at home at the house
Speaker 2: we're staying at, and then the other like you know,
Speaker 2: morning nap. We can just do from wherever.
Speaker 5: And if he's falling asleep, just take him at the
Speaker 5: straw and hold them against the sex they may I know,
Speaker 5: when then.
Speaker 2: Bless, he'll be a great little home country.
Speaker 3: He'll probably he'll probably be better than all of us,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: So I'll probably just got a little worried though, because
Speaker 2: I follow my one girlfriend just went to I think
Speaker 2: she went to Italy and her son is ten months old,
Speaker 2: and she was like, we didn't sleep for a week,
Speaker 2: like he was up all night. So I think I
Speaker 2: have that I have that expectation. So if anything, if
Speaker 2: we get a night sleep, then it'll be great.
Speaker 3: Keep that expectation and it'll it'd be so good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I don't. But again I'm glad we're not
Speaker 2: traveling with like anyone because it's it's you know, we
Speaker 2: get to really just soak it in with the fam
Speaker 2: and stuff. Let's earmark that and we'll circle back in
Speaker 2: a week. Much But we really wouldn't. I mean no,
Speaker 2: we don't have any one full time to be able well,
Speaker 2: and taking someone is expensive, very extensive. I know. That's
Speaker 2: why I was like, I love Emma for hair and makeup,
Speaker 2: but I was like, oh, I love you so much,
Speaker 2: but I love you in the United States. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Oh man, all right, so this is like wedding episode
Speaker 3: number two.
Speaker 2: Right, so now we had our pre what we had
Speaker 2: our we had our bridal shower on here.
Speaker 3: We did, so now we get to ask.
Speaker 2: Whatever questions we want. Yeah, welcome, Alan, allowed to be
Speaker 2: in here.
Speaker 3: You have to hear them.
Speaker 2: This is is this a Your reactions are part of it? Alan?
Speaker 2: Have you written your vows.
Speaker 4: Yet started not completed?
Speaker 2: When do you suspect you complete them?
Speaker 4: This weekend by Sunday evening.
Speaker 2: Are they lengthy? That's what I'm trying to figure out.
Speaker 2: I know I'm doing, thank you because I was like,
Speaker 2: because I'm like the same page. What if like that
Speaker 2: would be so three paragraphs? Three? Yeah, like if it's
Speaker 2: if it's a few sentences to three paragraphs, that'd be
Speaker 2: like the worst.
Speaker 3: Wait, I have a question. Who goes first? Oh god,
Speaker 3: that's also super important.
Speaker 2: I think doesn't the woman go first?
Speaker 3: Is that a thing I don't know?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Okay, so we need to answer that.
Speaker 4: What do I think.
Speaker 2: What first first? Well, it's not like we can change anything,
Speaker 2: so they just go first and rocket? Okay, all right,
Speaker 2: but go ahead back to the question, sir. Are they long?
Speaker 4: Not too long? Okay?
Speaker 5: I think long enough without it being good away on
Speaker 5: this song, I may start to bore people, so then yeah,
Speaker 5: it's long enough.
Speaker 2: Okay, but nothing Just like the weather in Scotland. Starting
Speaker 2: to understand you were like the weather and it could
Speaker 2: be great. It could be sixty one. Are you using
Speaker 2: a piece of paper?
Speaker 4: Sixty one? That is great?
Speaker 2: Sixty fabulous. I heard you're hoping for sixty one? Are
Speaker 2: you using a piece of paper?
Speaker 5: On the day, I will use a piece of paper
Speaker 5: to rehearse, but I won't use it on the day.
Speaker 2: M interesting.
Speaker 5: Do you.
Speaker 2: Would you judge if Janna used a piece of paper? No, No,
Speaker 2: you hesitated.
Speaker 5: She will be prepared, you'll prepare appropriately. Maybe you'll be ready.
Speaker 4: I don't.
Speaker 5: I don't see you bringing out a piece of paper
Speaker 5: on the day and reading from it.
Speaker 2: So in our last episode, he doesn't listen.
Speaker 3: No, but this came up the other day.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, Yeah, okay, I wouldn't.
Speaker 4: Judge you, not at all. I wouldn't.
Speaker 2: I'm so scared for you.
Speaker 5: One of those one of those ones when you're younger,
Speaker 5: your mom says to me, I'm not angry, I'm just.
Speaker 2: I'm that's a worldwide the kind of thing I I
Speaker 2: will say what I think it'd be really pretty though,
Speaker 2: if we had them written out so that way we
Speaker 2: can then frame them, because I'll forget what you said,
Speaker 2: like I forgot what you said when you propose to me. So,
Speaker 2: but we could remember the vowels that we said to
Speaker 2: each other, because the vowels are important to remember. So
Speaker 2: even if I don't bring out the piece of paper,
Speaker 2: can we at least have it written down so that
Speaker 2: way we can then maybe frame them.
Speaker 4: Absolutely.
Speaker 2: I she's allowed to bring the paper, thank you. I'm
Speaker 2: already stressed about whatever she wants.
Speaker 5: Only joking you can do. I know there's so much
Speaker 5: other things and that are going on, and so do
Speaker 5: what makes you feel.
Speaker 2: I just the problem is I have so many thoughts
Speaker 2: about you that it's hard to I then I go,
Speaker 2: I go. Catherine knows this like whenever I do to speaking,
Speaker 2: I will write a full thing out and then I
Speaker 2: just go rogue, and then I get lost, and then
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh god no, and then I get my
Speaker 2: head on God, now I just forgot this piece, and
Speaker 2: now I forgot that, and then no, boy, oh boy boy,
Speaker 2: And that's when the Michigan sneaks out in the middle
Speaker 2: of scott Life. O so TBD. So we really didn't
Speaker 2: get very far with that.
Speaker 5: I always go back to someone once said to me,
Speaker 5: don't build me a clock, just tell me the time.
Speaker 5: So if I feel like I'm going to start waffling
Speaker 5: on and rambling, I'll just But I don't care if
Speaker 5: you've got ten pieces of paper or you take ten
Speaker 5: minutes or an hour or five minutes.
Speaker 2: And I'm sure everyone there will care. It would be
Speaker 2: great if maybe we could just see a sneak at yours.
Speaker 2: We can just take creative direction over here. But just
Speaker 2: let marinate on that, let us know what you think.
Speaker 3: Can you write them down first and we see how
Speaker 3: long it is on paper? That would be helpful, or
Speaker 3: when you're writing yours, right, and then you can see
Speaker 3: if you're comfortable reading it or not reading it.
Speaker 4: But that good plan, think about it.
Speaker 2: Okay, alrighty, he's leaving me out on my boat by myself.
Speaker 2: You won't be alone.
Speaker 3: Got two paddlers back to you, kat, Okay, these are
Speaker 3: so funny. I'm not going for this one yet.
Speaker 4: These are your questions for other people's questions.
Speaker 2: Well there, it's a mix of all of them.
Speaker 3: That was definitely a question we needed answered, but I'm
Speaker 3: going through these other people's questions.
Speaker 2: We needed it answered, and I'm not sure that it was,
Speaker 2: but we really didn't.
Speaker 4: More of it.
Speaker 5: See she said to me, how long will it be?
Speaker 5: I probably won't speak for more than ninety seconds.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, that works. That help Well, that's helpful. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So this is actually for both of y'all.
Speaker 3: Okay, so have y'all picked out the first dance song? Yes,
Speaker 3: you'll have, and y'all practiced dancing to it.
Speaker 2: Yes, did you see that? Yeah? We did? So we
Speaker 2: are wedding song is We had a few that we
Speaker 2: were going back and forth on, but we ended up
Speaker 2: with a Kalum Scott song. Oh nice, I can't wait.
Speaker 2: It's really pretty.
Speaker 3: I love that.
Speaker 2: And then we did practice a dance, which, by the way,
Speaker 2: I'm really glad we did because we would have made
Speaker 2: a fool of ourselves, like massively, Wait, Alan, are you
Speaker 2: a good dancers? He does not dance with me ever,
Speaker 2: Like I'm always trying to like steal dances in the
Speaker 2: kitchen and he's like, no, no, not till our wedding day.
Speaker 2: And so I think we we I love the standards.
Speaker 2: We were having what just a date night, and I
Speaker 2: don't even know how it started. Did you? Did you
Speaker 2: bring it up? We were just listening to music and
Speaker 2: then oh oh yeah, we were listening to music, and
Speaker 2: then I just kind of started dancing with you. And
Speaker 2: then what happened was is we were stepping at each
Speaker 2: other's feet, and I was like, hey, babe, maybe we
Speaker 2: should uh pull up some stuff on YouTube and actually
Speaker 2: figure this out. Maybe it's like a driving on the
Speaker 2: wrong side of the road kind of thing. Yeah, it
Speaker 2: was our breaking of our feet were going at the
Speaker 2: same time, and I think I was trying to lead,
Speaker 2: and so it was just and I think now we
Speaker 2: got it pretty locked in because I don't want a
Speaker 2: prag but like dancing with the stars, it feels like
Speaker 2: our side feels very confident about that first dance. Maybe
Speaker 2: how you feel about vows? Just observing some things here
Speaker 2: five six, seven, eighth.
Speaker 1: I was having right you were, Yeah, okay, so we
Speaker 1: have that set Alan.
Speaker 2: How much of the wedding planning have you been a
Speaker 2: part of? Inquiring minds would like to know. This is
Speaker 2: no judgment, by the way, These are just honest questions
Speaker 2: because I know a lot of guys are like, truthfully,
Speaker 2: whatever she wants. Some guys are very passionate all in
Speaker 2: some are right down the middle.
Speaker 5: I think I'd be involved in every phone call and
Speaker 5: every think of the emails.
Speaker 4: So yeah, most of it I can.
Speaker 2: Vouch for that. Yeah, I believe it. Yeah. Are you
Speaker 2: passionate about the details? Are you just their support?
Speaker 5: No, I've got opinion of the details, and it's always
Speaker 5: a joint decision. But I think that the details are important.
Speaker 2: I do too, Alan, I'm so happy we get to
Speaker 2: marry you, back to you, back to you in the field.
Speaker 3: Okay, So for both of y'all, what moment and I
Speaker 3: think this could be like the whole week, But what
Speaker 3: moment are you the most excited for?
Speaker 2: For me, it's just walking down the aisle to I'm
Speaker 2: going to cry so much at this wedding.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and for me it's it's not cliche, it's just
Speaker 5: how I feel, but just watching or walking towards me
Speaker 5: as the piece that I'm looking forward to the most.
Speaker 3: Oh, did you know that was one of the questions
Speaker 3: who's going to cry first?
Speaker 2: As if that's a question you might surprise us.
Speaker 3: Actually funny, there's certain things that make me cry, and
Speaker 3: oddly enough, someone walking down the aisle every time makes
Speaker 3: me tear up. It's just a thing, you know, such
Speaker 3: a beautiful moment.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it's such a raw ye.
Speaker 3: In the groom space like so, I don't know, it'll
Speaker 3: be a toss up.
Speaker 2: It'll be Catherine ceremony. I won't make it to the ceremony. Oh,
Speaker 2: it'll be well, we're getting ready for sure, I mean
Speaker 2: I'm not. Yeah, you absolutely.
Speaker 3: During the day before we even get there.
Speaker 2: Obvious. Maybe just the moment I see you in a
Speaker 2: different country. I don't know. All of those things make
Speaker 2: me feel something special. I am who I am. Well,
Speaker 2: you don't you don't think you'll cry.
Speaker 4: That's not true. I say there will be a tear, there.
Speaker 2: Will be a dear. He's so I love it so much.
Speaker 2: It's so Scottish. Some answers are just you just have
Speaker 2: to really marinate in it for a second.
Speaker 4: One emotional powerful tier.
Speaker 2: It's very brave, heart of you, and we're charging on
Speaker 2: with a wink. One emotional tear.
Speaker 4: Well you.
Speaker 2: I mean there was a little dixie cup to just
Speaker 2: savor it. But like a lot or just like a tear,
Speaker 2: I don't know. I have a feeling every time we
Speaker 2: talked what We started talking about it the other night
Speaker 2: and I started crying just thinking about it, about walking
Speaker 2: down Oh, because I I had this is the os
Speaker 2: it gets me. Started to get a little tier right.
Speaker 2: But he was asking if my dad was walking me
Speaker 2: down the aisle and I debated it, but but I
Speaker 2: said no, and he you kind of were you questioned it.
Speaker 5: I didn't question it because I don't agree with it.
Speaker 5: I questioned it because I just then wasn't aware that
Speaker 5: you were you were going to do it on your own.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And he was just like, well why, and I
Speaker 2: said I told him. I was like, it's a walk
Speaker 2: that I need to take by myself. And then that
Speaker 2: like made me start crying, and I was like, it's
Speaker 2: taken me a long time to get here, and I
Speaker 2: know that this will be the last walk I do alone.
Speaker 2: And so it's like me walking to you. And even
Speaker 2: though I have you know, walks with God and all that,
Speaker 2: but like you know what I mean, Like this is
Speaker 2: my last like my last walk alone and I'm walking
Speaker 2: to you. It just there's it's it's a it that
Speaker 2: sentiment means something to me, very silso powerful. Absolutely, So
Speaker 2: I wondered if Jace would walk with you. No, I'm
Speaker 2: going to have them walk together. Yeah, I love that. Yeah,
Speaker 2: are you tabling the one? I think you're tabling? Which
Speaker 2: one is this? Well, we'd like to tell you, but
Speaker 2: we need to just talk in code through our eyes.
Speaker 3: The funny one or a different one.
Speaker 2: You ask the funny one, and then if you haven't
Speaker 2: asked you it is okay. I want to know if
Speaker 2: Alan has seen your wedding dress, or if he has
Speaker 2: any idea about what it might be like, because you know,
Speaker 2: this part really matters to me. He hasn't seen it,
Speaker 2: but what do you think it looks like?
Speaker 5: Well, I helped you narrow it down, had this discussion.
Speaker 5: I helped you narrow it down at the beginning, so
Speaker 5: I have I don't even because that was so long ago.
Speaker 5: Now that I don't have an idea, and I would
Speaker 5: never ruin it for you or the girls on myself
Speaker 5: by having a sneak peak of it in the in
Speaker 5: the closet, So no, I don't. It's a complete surprise,
Speaker 5: and that's the way I want it to.
Speaker 2: The seamstress lady was here and he was just like,
Speaker 2: don't even. He's like, I don't even want to see
Speaker 2: the bag. Okay, that's when the powerful tier will happen.
Speaker 2: Will you do a first look? Now? Oh I love this? Okay,
Speaker 2: a first look so we're all photos after uh huh,
Speaker 2: which it's going to be a bummer for the guests
Speaker 2: because they'll have to wait longer. So usually the first
Speaker 2: look you get your photos and stuff out of the way.
Speaker 2: But for me, I don't know. I just think it's
Speaker 2: something where having that first look be walking down the aisle?
Speaker 2: Do you unless you disagree, and then we can totally
Speaker 2: do a first look. We just have to tell people
Speaker 2: first look, I want to revisit how involved if we'd
Speaker 2: been on the planning of Yeah, like if y'all checking in,
Speaker 2: if y'all took photos together before y'all obviously see each
Speaker 2: other before the wedding, so like it would be a
Speaker 2: private moment just us. We would turn around then see
Speaker 2: each other, and then we would take some photos and
Speaker 2: then we do the ceremony. It's like a thing. Now
Speaker 2: a lot of people do it, probably here not there.
Speaker 2: Also they do like first touch sometimes, which also sounds creepy,
Speaker 2: but stay with me, like they just meet like door,
Speaker 2: like on the other side of a door and just
Speaker 2: like hold a hand and have a word with each
Speaker 2: other and never see each other. That's not my thing,
Speaker 2: but a lot of other people do.
Speaker 4: So let me get this straight.
Speaker 5: So first look, as you and I get pictures taken
Speaker 5: before you walk there, now.
Speaker 2: Yeah, why it's because it saves time on the photos
Speaker 2: time post wedding ceremony. And then I think also it
Speaker 2: helps people's nerves too, maybe before walking down the aisle.
Speaker 3: Wait, y'all are not doing it before, you're doing it after, right.
Speaker 2: Right, we're doing photos after.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, yeah, y'all are doing photos after. Y'all are doing
Speaker 3: that okay because he was thank you, Okay.
Speaker 4: I don't agree with having before you walk.
Speaker 3: Y'all are saying the same thing. Yeah, okay, you guy
Speaker 3: should get married. Compatible I like it. I saw y'all
Speaker 3: y'all were different. Will you do like stuff like, well,
Speaker 3: he do stuff with his men and stuff before and then.
Speaker 2: Yeah you have you'll do photos with your guys before,
Speaker 2: we'll do photos with the girls stuff like that, but
Speaker 2: then we do joint ones afterwards.
Speaker 3: Absolutely, Yeah, like that that's the way to do it.
Speaker 3: They can wait, I guess can wait.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think I think they started that whole thing too,
Speaker 2: because it allowed people to have like a moment together,
Speaker 2: because once you're married, it feels like all the people
Speaker 2: are hugging and kissing. It's lovely, but you sometimes miss
Speaker 2: the connection point after.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, do you want to do the fust touching?
Speaker 3: I could have seen her going neither way on that one.
Speaker 2: No, it's not. I mean I feel like we're a
Speaker 2: little or nothing the same way. So if I'm going
Speaker 2: to touch you, I'm just gonna see your face. Yeah yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: but it feels a little like I'm not gonna say no.
Speaker 2: And I'm so excited for people that choose that. I
Speaker 2: think it's really romantic. Absolutely.
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, are we done with the actual wedding questions?
Speaker 3: Do you have any more wedding questions?
Speaker 2: I like it? What's your funny one?
Speaker 3: Oh, it's down here in a quiz for Alan?
Speaker 2: Oh okay, Alan gets his own private quiz.
Speaker 3: I have to know which one I'm talking about. Was
Speaker 3: there any other wedding questions that you have?
Speaker 2: No, that's it. I can't wait. You guys, this is
Speaker 2: actually really helping my anxiety. Oh good? Uh huh, Like
Speaker 2: I know, No, it's I'm not I have no anxiety
Speaker 2: at all about us. I could just get a sponsorship
Speaker 2: from say an anxiety awesome. It's not any of it. It's
Speaker 2: just the travel. There's there's just so many moving pieces
Speaker 2: on our home front right now, and so many big
Speaker 2: emotions on our home front. And I also, Preston and
Speaker 2: I are just so excited. We're going in early. We
Speaker 2: get a couple of days, so we're making this our
Speaker 2: excuse to have a minute together, which is going to
Speaker 2: serve us well because this summer is pretty brutal. So yeah,
Speaker 2: none of my anxiety is about your big day. And listen,
Speaker 2: this is what I keep thinking about because I had
Speaker 2: a really beautiful call with my therapist. Why does she
Speaker 2: keep having calls with you and not with me? She
Speaker 2: tucked me in last time and gave me a pat
Speaker 2: on the back and I was like, I think you're
Speaker 2: ready for Scotland. That was like two weeks ago, and
Speaker 2: I was like, are you sure When she tucks you in?
Speaker 3: She you and I got like demoted completely, So good
Speaker 3: job for you.
Speaker 2: Being healthy and whole cat makes you questions things time,
Speaker 2: and they will every time we do a podcast. I
Speaker 2: just got out the phoney and I'm like, cravy, what
Speaker 2: do I gotta do around here? Anyway? I'm sorry, she's
Speaker 2: very triggered, but you found her first. It's fine. And
Speaker 2: oh no, we just had like a final I'm glad,
Speaker 2: so happy. I have one joy full tear for you.
Speaker 3: Oh god, that's funny.
Speaker 1: Again.
Speaker 2: We were just talking about it and it was just
Speaker 2: because you know, Amy and I have. I started with
Speaker 2: her when I had massive anxiety and was in a
Speaker 2: very bad relationship, and she helped me walk through, you know,
Speaker 2: the last five and a half years of my life.
Speaker 2: And so, you know, we just kind of reminisced about
Speaker 2: the conversations that started in the room and she's like,
Speaker 2: can you believe that we're here now and talking about
Speaker 2: a wedding? And she helped me with anxiety piece of it,
Speaker 2: because my anxiety is obviously with the kids. That we
Speaker 2: talked about that in the one episode. But it was just, yeah,
Speaker 2: it was it was just beautiful because really, truly, in
Speaker 2: three weeks, y'all will be home, We'll be with our kids,
Speaker 2: we'll be back in the same routine. And it's like,
Speaker 2: why didn't we just take a breath and enjoy the
Speaker 2: moment because the moment is going to pass before we
Speaker 2: know it, and it'll be back to school. I'll be back.
Speaker 2: I'm like, God, I wish I would have enjoyed myself more.
Speaker 2: And so it's like, even in the stress of Roman
Speaker 2: not sleeping, or the stress of you know, the kids
Speaker 2: being tired, or or you know, I missed my kids
Speaker 2: fiercely in Italy, it's like, in one week we'll be
Speaker 2: back with them and we'll be back to normal seventy
Speaker 2: thirty and school will in all the stress. So it's like,
Speaker 2: enjoy that moment because it'll be over in a second.
Speaker 2: I think that was the final kind of you're right,
Speaker 2: let's go be joyful. Well. We even did last night
Speaker 2: like do we want to shorten the trip? Like would
Speaker 2: that make us both feel better? You know? And ultimately
Speaker 2: it was like no, yeah, because it's over like that,
Speaker 2: Yeah right, that's what you said, like so many times
Speaker 2: our last vacation we went on first and last ward
Speaker 2: you know. The first one was like soak this in.
Speaker 2: It's going to be over soon. Yeah, yeah, yeah, my
Speaker 2: last A man of many words, can't wait for those abouts.
Speaker 2: Big goal.
Speaker 3: All right, we're going to quiz for Alan.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's what is Jana's character.
Speaker 3: From One Tree Hills full name, full name? This is
Speaker 3: so good, Alex depre Oh oh, great job, Jopped, I'm impressed.
Speaker 2: Good job KB. Does Janna consider herself an introvert or
Speaker 2: an extrovert?
Speaker 4: That's a really good question.
Speaker 2: I didn't write it. I wish I could take credit,
Speaker 2: but I didn't.
Speaker 5: Okay, there's what Jannah thinks, and those then what I think.
Speaker 5: I think fast and foremost that she thinks she's an extravert,
Speaker 5: but I think genuinely she has introvert.
Speaker 2: Cramer. I agree with them, Yeah, I do too.
Speaker 3: Do you think you're an extrovert?
Speaker 2: I think I've thought that for all my years, but
Speaker 2: now I'm more truly like an introvert. Yeah. I think
Speaker 2: people mistake in artistry you be an extrovert, because Preston too,
Speaker 2: But I usually would like act as an extrovert because
Speaker 2: it was just like my own insecurity kind of vibes.
Speaker 2: That's also your career.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's very common. Like most celebrities are actually introverts.
Speaker 3: They just put it on to be an extrovert, but
Speaker 3: it's exhausting to them, and you know that usually is
Speaker 3: a good sign of introvert.
Speaker 2: I want you to ask the jes one so excited.
Speaker 3: Okay, Alan, are you ready name all of Janna's tattoos?
Speaker 2: This is not the juicy one. I didn't write it.
Speaker 2: Now you can ask that one.
Speaker 4: Fine, believe what true? And that's that's all I know
Speaker 4: what so I can think of.
Speaker 2: I want everyone that came to see us on wind
Speaker 2: were to have a really special moment, for your special moment,
Speaker 2: just a moment that we can all share in side
Speaker 2: lens of tattoo fun.
Speaker 3: But I don't think we've all gotten all the current ones,
Speaker 3: not close, which I mean.
Speaker 4: Oh, you've got the cross on the back of your neck.
Speaker 2: Yeah, please don't edit the dramatic pause. All right, So
Speaker 2: we're gonna go with my ant symbol. Okay, on this hand,
Speaker 2: my flower, my Jerusalem Bethlehem flower, forgiveness, my white tattoo,
Speaker 2: the whole truth and aramic enough. I've got serenity on
Speaker 2: my side. I've got a feather on my other side,
Speaker 2: and I've got an arrow on my foot. It's nice
Speaker 2: to meet you. I'm about to marry you in a week.
Speaker 2: That was a good one. Now, Jianna, do you know
Speaker 2: all of Allen's This is my favorite tramp stamp on
Speaker 2: the back of his back about his family in Italy,
Speaker 2: on the back.
Speaker 4: Of my back as opposed to the front of my back.
Speaker 2: Oh, I like it. When to get spicy, it's just angry.
Speaker 2: Defeat is hard for an athlete. Defeat is hard.
Speaker 3: Did you know she had a white tattoo?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Does anyone just forgot? Do you know I had any
Speaker 2: of the other tattoos? I thought maybe you didn't know
Speaker 2: about that. It's easy to forget I had one. Actually,
Speaker 2: I forget that I have it because you can see
Speaker 2: it was a really poor choice amongst the other ones.
Speaker 5: To me, I have the problems. I have areas that
Speaker 5: I focus on. In those areas, she doesn't have anything.
Speaker 2: Wow. And I want to also a moment for those
Speaker 2: wind down guests that were out on tour. I want
Speaker 2: to think Nashville, Michigan, in Chicago. I want to ask
Speaker 2: I would like this one to be asked, and Kati,
Speaker 2: will you just do it? The time of day?
Speaker 3: Okay? What is Jianna's favorite time of day to have sex?
Speaker 3: And if it's anything but night.
Speaker 4: She's not more than person? Yeah, so yeah at night?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 4: Good?
Speaker 2: I mean, is anybody a morning person? Sometimes in the
Speaker 2: afternoon in a nice little closets from the other But
Speaker 2: I love a sneaker. But we all know that, all right.
Speaker 2: What's Jana's first song she ever released?
Speaker 4: Oh, don't have a clue?
Speaker 2: Janna, do you have a clue? Do you want to?
Speaker 2: I hope she has a clue. Well, I know, sometimes
Speaker 2: things you blurry.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm ready for rapid fire.
Speaker 2: I am too.
Speaker 3: So this is for both of you all though, So okay,
Speaker 3: you gotta be ready?
Speaker 2: Ready? Am I keeping like a scure?
Speaker 3: Who about who apologizes first after a fight?
Speaker 2: Me?
Speaker 3: This is gonna be slow.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to narrate here a little because Alan
Speaker 2: had a swift turn of the neck and the look
Speaker 2: of disgust.
Speaker 3: I guess he doesn't agree.
Speaker 4: You're trying and diffuse quicker and I apologize Quicker.
Speaker 2: Well, that's great teamwork.
Speaker 3: I think she sees that as an apology.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I apologize to.
Speaker 4: Okay Johna. No.
Speaker 2: I think I think we both apologize when we do
Speaker 2: things that like we we we I do diffuse, But
Speaker 2: I also think we both come back and say like, hey,
Speaker 2: sorry I was being whatever and you know you were
Speaker 2: there today. Sorry I was being grumpy.
Speaker 3: Or you know, rapid fire? Okay, who's funnier?
Speaker 2: Alan?
Speaker 5: Really?
Speaker 2: Thanks? Man?
Speaker 3: Who's more romantic?
Speaker 2: This is so consensual? Like? Am I getting anywhere?
Speaker 3: Wait? Would you say?
Speaker 2: Y'all?
Speaker 3: Both said me? I said me, m okay, okay, he
Speaker 3: does not agree? Who takes longer to get ready?
Speaker 2: Alan? We established to slow, Honey. It's always true. I'm
Speaker 2: still ready on time even before absolutely, I know, Honey,
Speaker 2: and you're still late.
Speaker 3: So perfect timing for this question. Who's more stubborn?
Speaker 2: Alan? Probably good admittance, Alan.
Speaker 4: Especially, it's a good thing, it's a bad thing.
Speaker 2: It's not a bad thing. It's not a bad thing.
Speaker 2: But I'm also stubborn, so I think, but marinate on
Speaker 2: how we can about it, and so am I.
Speaker 3: I think we're all stubborn.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but there's a difference. Okay, Scotland one meaningful tier.
Speaker 2: I just want to keep reminded me.
Speaker 3: Okay, who spends more money Alan on what?
Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, but what has two wheels and it has
Speaker 2: no place in your house? I mean, not on myself.
Speaker 2: Can we just back that up. I don't spend money
Speaker 2: on myself. I send money on the kids and stuff. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: should we table that to make sure that we can
Speaker 2: make it to next week? I think at the end,
Speaker 2: I think that was Let's move on.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: Whoever thinks more Alan? Wow?
Speaker 4: Yeah, well.
Speaker 2: You're overthinking rapid fire moving that is Scotland rapid fire.
Speaker 5: Okay, that's subjective. That's subjective. Okay, you stuff, I overthink
Speaker 5: other things.
Speaker 4: I'm like, no, let's do this, so.
Speaker 3: Let's yeah this answer, okay, very treasure who's on their
Speaker 3: phone more?
Speaker 2: Alan?
Speaker 3: Who's more protective?
Speaker 2: Alan?
Speaker 3: He's not speaking? Who showers more?
Speaker 2: Alan?
Speaker 3: He's more likely to fall asleep watching TV?
Speaker 2: Jannah, you play this game? Yeah? Answer quickly up to
Speaker 2: the wedding? Like, do I have to give you a
Speaker 2: fake time? Wait?
Speaker 3: Are you late?
Speaker 5: Though?
Speaker 4: Too?
Speaker 2: So late? Oh no, it's painful. I give him fake time?
Speaker 2: I do? He gets fake tied Preston late? Yes, early? Yeah,
Speaker 2: but but I'm fine with slow. But late that's a
Speaker 2: different bar. You want to go back to any of
Speaker 2: the ones before? Were those pretty accurate?
Speaker 3: That apology can be sawd After this episode of he
Speaker 3: initiates having sex more often?
Speaker 2: Wow, that was okay.
Speaker 3: Who's more competitive?
Speaker 2: I want to know the answer? Hmm, I think we're
Speaker 2: equally competitive. Fair.
Speaker 3: Who's better at planning date nights?
Speaker 2: Allan? He always always makes that. He always makes a
Speaker 2: point in to book a date night. Okay, Honey, you're
Speaker 2: more romantic? Would you like that music?
Speaker 3: I think so.
Speaker 2: We'll give you that. You're more romantic. You write more
Speaker 2: notes around the house, I'll give you that. When he's
Speaker 2: he's stuck back on that question, Honey, let's go back
Speaker 2: to who's more romantic? Alan, who's more Who's more romantic?
Speaker 3: Allan?
Speaker 2: Okay, you guys, me flowers all the time. He's romantic.
Speaker 3: But really, who's more likely to be affectionate in public?
Speaker 2: Just staring?
Speaker 3: Obviously I have video footage that shows definitely, and I'm
Speaker 3: not dissing that by any means. Obviously we already answered this.
Speaker 3: Who's the better dnswer? Yeah, yeah, he's more spontaneous.
Speaker 4: Subjective?
Speaker 3: Who is more likely to laugh at their own jokes?
Speaker 4: One million?
Speaker 2: Yes, Alan, I'm kidding her own joke, I know, So
Speaker 2: we have to laugh at ourselves, so we know that
Speaker 2: everyone is laughing. Okay, all right, I have a question, yeah,
Speaker 2: to end it, if you could pick what's your what
Speaker 2: would be one word to describe each other? Like if
Speaker 2: you could describe Janna in one word?
Speaker 4: Perfect?
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm definitely crimes perfection the same version of a word.
Speaker 2: That's a word.
Speaker 3: That was going to be And I'm going to give
Speaker 3: you a perfection one dollar.
Speaker 2: I will say, because that was going to be my
Speaker 2: perfection one more time? Okay, I would say powerful. Oh
Speaker 2: that's good. Good? All right, guys, Well, the next time
Speaker 2: we hear from you, you are the Russells. Are you
Speaker 2: getting married. After this episode, I'm kind of like, should
Speaker 2: we have done this?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just going to get a book on being
Speaker 4: more romantic to go.
Speaker 2: I got my rooms. Don't think that our household joking, joking,
Speaker 2: kind of. I love you. You are more romantic. You
Speaker 2: write me cards and things. I love you so much
Speaker 2: and I can't wait to marry you. Okay, signing off work.
Speaker 2: You have the way down the plane. Bye bye,