WEBVTT - A Q&A Before the “I Dos”

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<v Speaker 1>Wind Down with Janet Kramer and iHeart Radio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>It's wedding week.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you all so excited?

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone? Grab your xanax? Kristen text Shane Kristen, Yeah, texts

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<v Speaker 2>both of us, and she's like Gramer, just checking in.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like over here on the side, like do I

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<v Speaker 3>need sant X?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you need the xanaxpo. We just have a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of moving pieces right now. Our Dada just left

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<v Speaker 2>and the kids don't see him for two weeks, and

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<v Speaker 2>then they see him for five hours and then he

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<v Speaker 2>leaves again for another seven days. So I'm dealing with

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of emotions of and legend and love. Don't

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<v Speaker 2>show those the same. Uh huh?

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<v Speaker 3>So do you normally need zanex, like for like a

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<v Speaker 3>long flight.

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<v Speaker 2>No, the flying is not, it's not that, it's all

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<v Speaker 2>the leading up to got it? Yeah? Which fair? I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>obviously I haven't taken one since the last time, and

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<v Speaker 2>I flew to London and I took but that was

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<v Speaker 2>all so because and I know she doesn't listen, so

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<v Speaker 2>I can say it. My mother in law got to

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<v Speaker 2>my house, yeah, right before I left, and I was

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<v Speaker 2>like the world's spinning. How you feeling babe's wedding.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm good. What's zonax?

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<v Speaker 3>It's exactly what you think. It would be a TA

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<v Speaker 3>for Americans. Kristin needed to make sure that they had one.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I like to just I always have one in

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<v Speaker 2>my purse, but I haven't taken one in I mean years,

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<v Speaker 2>same years. I'll have a panic attack before I take

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<v Speaker 2>a Xanax.

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<v Speaker 4>And X calms you there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I can remember flying years ago with

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<v Speaker 3>her and her just starting to have a slight panic attack,

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<v Speaker 3>searching through her purseon like, what are you doing? Just

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<v Speaker 3>make sure it's here. She just has to see it.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes it's just knowing a habit.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just knowing it's there, Like it's there, We're good.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't ever take it. It's just there. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 2>needed the wind. You don't have anxiety? No? Do you

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<v Speaker 2>think you do? And it maybe it just doesn't show

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<v Speaker 2>the same way because Preston also claims that he doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>have anxiety. And I just don't know how that camp

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<v Speaker 2>can be true.

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<v Speaker 5>Not unless it's like a traumatic event or incident. Then

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think it either.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh No, you get anxiety when you wake up the

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<v Speaker 2>next day. If you had alcohol yeah, so you have

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<v Speaker 2>felt anxiety. Yeah, yeah, I feel the same way after

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<v Speaker 2>I drink. Actually, yeah, same, I get That's the only

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<v Speaker 2>time I now get anxiety is if I the next morning.

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<v Speaker 5>But I wouldn't I wouldn't take something for that because

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<v Speaker 5>it's easily manageable and tellingly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, such an athlete.

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<v Speaker 3>But I mean I'm kind of the same way. Like

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't say I have anxiety, but there are definitely

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<v Speaker 3>certain triggers that'll make me anxious and I know what

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<v Speaker 3>that feeling is. But I also wouldn't have to take something.

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<v Speaker 3>But I could see where if you had that often

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<v Speaker 3>and a lot, where you'd eventually need to have something

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<v Speaker 3>for it for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>See, it's like my my nervous system doesn't respond to

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<v Speaker 2>what my mind is telling it. Sure, and so second,

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<v Speaker 2>because if I can't get them to like the last

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<v Speaker 2>time I took it was right before London and I

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<v Speaker 2>really just could not get everything calmed down. Hey, can

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<v Speaker 2>we go back to it's weddings not be anxious. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>the good news is we know for sure that we

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<v Speaker 2>want to get married, so we don't have to be

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<v Speaker 2>anxious about that. The travel, I think that is the

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<v Speaker 2>only piece that I'm anxious about. I'm not anxious about

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<v Speaker 2>you too at all, wildly excited about what you're up to.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just the backing. Yeah, I think the only thing

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<v Speaker 2>I'm anxious about is the sleep leading up to the wedding,

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<v Speaker 2>where I'm afraid that Roman won't sleep through the night

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<v Speaker 2>and so and I know, I think if anyone's met

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<v Speaker 2>me on a bad day, it's because I didn't sleep

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<v Speaker 2>right and eat. So those are the two things I like,

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<v Speaker 2>was I hungry or was I tired? And so I

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<v Speaker 2>oh you anxious? No anxious? I shell up okay, But

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<v Speaker 2>with the sleeping part, like I know that I require sleep.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it's unknown, it's unknown how Roman's going to respond difference.

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<v Speaker 2>But I also have such empathy for the little babes

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<v Speaker 2>that's also going through you know, time change and jet lags,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's like I have patience for that. But then

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<v Speaker 2>I also am like, oh gosh, I hope he sleeps

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<v Speaker 2>because I know we both need it too leading up

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<v Speaker 2>to the wedding.

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<v Speaker 5>And we also have three sets of grandparents right and

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<v Speaker 5>we don't get a chance to take them.

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<v Speaker 2>Cues annex. No, I think Roman is going to rock

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<v Speaker 2>it for what it's worth. I really think he is

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<v Speaker 2>going to rock it. And I don't know why I think.

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<v Speaker 2>I just so so confidently, but maybe I'm supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>say that to you. I mean, he's the best baby ever.

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<v Speaker 2>So again, like I just I feel for their little bodies,

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<v Speaker 2>like they have no idea what's going on. H but

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<v Speaker 2>like we don't have anyone coming with us. If we

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<v Speaker 2>don't have a nanny, we don't have a babysit are

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<v Speaker 2>coming and so your parents aren't in the house with

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<v Speaker 2>us leading up to the week. So that's that's my thing,

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<v Speaker 2>is in the middle of the night, like we can't

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<v Speaker 2>pass off the baby and be like all right, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>because during the day I want to be out and

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<v Speaker 2>exploring with the kiddos, Like I'm not taking naps during

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<v Speaker 2>the day because it's like this is my one week

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<v Speaker 2>with the bigs too, to explore and have fun and

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<v Speaker 2>do all that. So you know, we don't have anyone,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just us in the middle of the night, so

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, we really need Roman to sleep.

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<v Speaker 4>Remember when you used to come in naughtis and you'd

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<v Speaker 4>sleep to the left and.

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<v Speaker 2>Then yeah, because you were at the gym all day

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<v Speaker 2>or you were at your training all day was a

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<v Speaker 2>club the club, Yeah, so I didn't have to wake up,

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<v Speaker 2>but now I need to for the babies.

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<v Speaker 3>So will you just like take Roman like during the

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<v Speaker 3>day all day and just kind of let him nap.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're just going to let him wherever he is

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<v Speaker 2>during the day. I mean maybe maybe your mom could

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<v Speaker 2>help when we go somewhere, but I think when we

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<v Speaker 2>travel during the day, like he can just nap when

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<v Speaker 2>we're strolling around and yeah, like we'll give him one

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<v Speaker 2>really good nap when like at home at the house

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<v Speaker 2>we're staying at, and then the other like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>morning nap. We can just do from wherever.

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<v Speaker 5>And if he's falling asleep, just take him at the

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<v Speaker 5>straw and hold them against the sex they may I know,

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<v Speaker 5>when then.

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<v Speaker 2>Bless, he'll be a great little home country.

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<v Speaker 3>He'll probably he'll probably be better than all of us,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'll probably just got a little worried though, because

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<v Speaker 2>I follow my one girlfriend just went to I think

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<v Speaker 2>she went to Italy and her son is ten months old,

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<v Speaker 2>and she was like, we didn't sleep for a week,

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<v Speaker 2>like he was up all night. So I think I

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<v Speaker 2>have that I have that expectation. So if anything, if

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<v Speaker 2>we get a night sleep, then it'll be great.

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<v Speaker 3>Keep that expectation and it'll it'd be so good.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because I don't. But again I'm glad we're not

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<v Speaker 2>traveling with like anyone because it's it's you know, we

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<v Speaker 2>get to really just soak it in with the fam

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff. Let's earmark that and we'll circle back in

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<v Speaker 2>a week. Much But we really wouldn't. I mean no,

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<v Speaker 2>we don't have any one full time to be able well,

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<v Speaker 2>and taking someone is expensive, very extensive. I know. That's

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<v Speaker 2>why I was like, I love Emma for hair and makeup,

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<v Speaker 2>but I was like, oh, I love you so much,

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<v Speaker 2>but I love you in the United States. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh man, all right, so this is like wedding episode

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<v Speaker 3>number two.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, so now we had our pre what we had

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<v Speaker 2>our we had our bridal shower on here.

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<v Speaker 3>We did, so now we get to ask.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever questions we want. Yeah, welcome, Alan, allowed to be

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<v Speaker 2>in here.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to hear them.

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<v Speaker 2>This is is this a Your reactions are part of it? Alan?

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<v Speaker 2>Have you written your vows.

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<v Speaker 4>Yet started not completed?

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<v Speaker 2>When do you suspect you complete them?

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<v Speaker 4>This weekend by Sunday evening.

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<v Speaker 2>Are they lengthy? That's what I'm trying to figure out.

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<v Speaker 2>I know I'm doing, thank you because I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm like the same page. What if like that

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<v Speaker 2>would be so three paragraphs? Three? Yeah, like if it's

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<v Speaker 2>if it's a few sentences to three paragraphs, that'd be

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<v Speaker 2>like the worst.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, I have a question. Who goes first? Oh god,

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<v Speaker 3>that's also super important.

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<v Speaker 2>I think doesn't the woman go first?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that a thing I don't know?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so we need to answer that.

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<v Speaker 4>What do I think.

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<v Speaker 2>What first first? Well, it's not like we can change anything,

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<v Speaker 2>so they just go first and rocket? Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>but go ahead back to the question, sir. Are they long?

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<v Speaker 4>Not too long? Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>I think long enough without it being good away on

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<v Speaker 5>this song, I may start to bore people, so then yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>it's long enough.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but nothing Just like the weather in Scotland. Starting

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<v Speaker 2>to understand you were like the weather and it could

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<v Speaker 2>be great. It could be sixty one. Are you using

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<v Speaker 2>a piece of paper?

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<v Speaker 4>Sixty one? That is great?

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<v Speaker 2>Sixty fabulous. I heard you're hoping for sixty one? Are

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<v Speaker 2>you using a piece of paper?

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<v Speaker 5>On the day, I will use a piece of paper

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<v Speaker 5>to rehearse, but I won't use it on the day.

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<v Speaker 2>M interesting.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you judge if Janna used a piece of paper? No, No,

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<v Speaker 2>you hesitated.

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<v Speaker 5>She will be prepared, you'll prepare appropriately. Maybe you'll be ready.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't see you bringing out a piece of paper

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<v Speaker 5>on the day and reading from it.

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<v Speaker 2>So in our last episode, he doesn't listen.

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<v Speaker 3>No, but this came up the other day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know, Yeah, okay, I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 4>Judge you, not at all. I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so scared for you.

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<v Speaker 5>One of those one of those ones when you're younger,

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<v Speaker 5>your mom says to me, I'm not angry, I'm just.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm that's a worldwide the kind of thing I I

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<v Speaker 2>will say what I think it'd be really pretty though,

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<v Speaker 2>if we had them written out so that way we

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<v Speaker 2>can then frame them, because I'll forget what you said,

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<v Speaker 2>like I forgot what you said when you propose to me. So,

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<v Speaker 2>but we could remember the vowels that we said to

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<v Speaker 2>each other, because the vowels are important to remember. So

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<v Speaker 2>even if I don't bring out the piece of paper,

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<v Speaker 2>can we at least have it written down so that

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<v Speaker 2>way we can then maybe frame them.

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 2>I she's allowed to bring the paper, thank you. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>already stressed about whatever she wants.

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<v Speaker 5>Only joking you can do. I know there's so much

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<v Speaker 5>other things and that are going on, and so do

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<v Speaker 5>what makes you feel.

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<v Speaker 2>I just the problem is I have so many thoughts

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<v Speaker 2>about you that it's hard to I then I go,

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<v Speaker 2>I go. Catherine knows this like whenever I do to speaking,

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<v Speaker 2>I will write a full thing out and then I

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<v Speaker 2>just go rogue, and then I get lost, and then

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh god no, and then I get my

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<v Speaker 2>head on God, now I just forgot this piece, and

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<v Speaker 2>now I forgot that, and then no, boy, oh boy boy,

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<v Speaker 2>And that's when the Michigan sneaks out in the middle

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<v Speaker 2>of scott Life. O so TBD. So we really didn't

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<v Speaker 2>get very far with that.

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<v Speaker 5>I always go back to someone once said to me,

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<v Speaker 5>don't build me a clock, just tell me the time.

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<v Speaker 5>So if I feel like I'm going to start waffling

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<v Speaker 5>on and rambling, I'll just But I don't care if

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<v Speaker 5>you've got ten pieces of paper or you take ten

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<v Speaker 5>minutes or an hour or five minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm sure everyone there will care. It would be

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<v Speaker 2>great if maybe we could just see a sneak at yours.

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<v Speaker 2>We can just take creative direction over here. But just

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<v Speaker 2>let marinate on that, let us know what you think.

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<v Speaker 3>Can you write them down first and we see how

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<v Speaker 3>long it is on paper? That would be helpful, or

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<v Speaker 3>when you're writing yours, right, and then you can see

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<v Speaker 3>if you're comfortable reading it or not reading it.

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<v Speaker 4>But that good plan, think about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, alrighty, he's leaving me out on my boat by myself.

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<v Speaker 2>You won't be alone.

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<v Speaker 3>Got two paddlers back to you, kat, Okay, these are

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<v Speaker 3>so funny. I'm not going for this one yet.

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<v Speaker 4>These are your questions for other people's questions.

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<v Speaker 2>Well there, it's a mix of all of them.

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<v Speaker 3>That was definitely a question we needed answered, but I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going through these other people's questions.

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<v Speaker 2>We needed it answered, and I'm not sure that it was,

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<v Speaker 2>but we really didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>More of it.

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<v Speaker 5>See she said to me, how long will it be?

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<v Speaker 5>I probably won't speak for more than ninety seconds.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, that works. That help Well, that's helpful. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So this is actually for both of y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so have y'all picked out the first dance song? Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>you'll have, and y'all practiced dancing to it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, did you see that? Yeah? We did? So we

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<v Speaker 2>are wedding song is We had a few that we

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<v Speaker 2>were going back and forth on, but we ended up

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<v Speaker 2>with a Kalum Scott song. Oh nice, I can't wait.

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<v Speaker 2>It's really pretty.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>And then we did practice a dance, which, by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm really glad we did because we would have made

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<v Speaker 2>a fool of ourselves, like massively, Wait, Alan, are you

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<v Speaker 2>a good dancers? He does not dance with me ever,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm always trying to like steal dances in the

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<v Speaker 2>kitchen and he's like, no, no, not till our wedding day.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I think we we I love the standards.

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<v Speaker 2>We were having what just a date night, and I

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<v Speaker 2>don't even know how it started. Did you? Did you

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<v Speaker 2>bring it up? We were just listening to music and

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<v Speaker 2>then oh oh yeah, we were listening to music, and

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<v Speaker 2>then I just kind of started dancing with you. And

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<v Speaker 2>then what happened was is we were stepping at each

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<v Speaker 2>other's feet, and I was like, hey, babe, maybe we

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<v Speaker 2>should uh pull up some stuff on YouTube and actually

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<v Speaker 2>figure this out. Maybe it's like a driving on the

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<v Speaker 2>wrong side of the road kind of thing. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 2>was our breaking of our feet were going at the

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<v Speaker 2>same time, and I think I was trying to lead,

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<v Speaker 2>and so it was just and I think now we

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<v Speaker 2>got it pretty locked in because I don't want a

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<v Speaker 2>prag but like dancing with the stars, it feels like

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<v Speaker 2>our side feels very confident about that first dance. Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>how you feel about vows? Just observing some things here

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<v Speaker 2>five six, seven, eighth.

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<v Speaker 1>I was having right you were, Yeah, okay, so we

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<v Speaker 1>have that set Alan.

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<v Speaker 2>How much of the wedding planning have you been a

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<v Speaker 2>part of? Inquiring minds would like to know. This is

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<v Speaker 2>no judgment, by the way, These are just honest questions

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<v Speaker 2>because I know a lot of guys are like, truthfully,

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<v Speaker 2>whatever she wants. Some guys are very passionate all in

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<v Speaker 2>some are right down the middle.

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<v Speaker 5>I think I'd be involved in every phone call and

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<v Speaker 5>every think of the emails.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, most of it I can.

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<v Speaker 2>Vouch for that. Yeah, I believe it. Yeah. Are you

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<v Speaker 2>passionate about the details? Are you just their support?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I've got opinion of the details, and it's always

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<v Speaker 5>a joint decision. But I think that the details are important.

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<v Speaker 2>I do too, Alan, I'm so happy we get to

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<v Speaker 2>marry you, back to you, back to you in the field.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So for both of y'all, what moment and I

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<v Speaker 3>think this could be like the whole week, But what

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<v Speaker 3>moment are you the most excited for?

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<v Speaker 2>For me, it's just walking down the aisle to I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to cry so much at this wedding.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and for me it's it's not cliche, it's just

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<v Speaker 5>how I feel, but just watching or walking towards me

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<v Speaker 5>as the piece that I'm looking forward to the most.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, did you know that was one of the questions

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<v Speaker 3>who's going to cry first?

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<v Speaker 2>As if that's a question you might surprise us.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually funny, there's certain things that make me cry, and

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<v Speaker 3>oddly enough, someone walking down the aisle every time makes

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<v Speaker 3>me tear up. It's just a thing, you know, such

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<v Speaker 3>a beautiful moment.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, it's such a raw ye.

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<v Speaker 3>In the groom space like so, I don't know, it'll

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<v Speaker 3>be a toss up.

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<v Speaker 2>It'll be Catherine ceremony. I won't make it to the ceremony. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>it'll be well, we're getting ready for sure, I mean

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not. Yeah, you absolutely.

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<v Speaker 3>During the day before we even get there.

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<v Speaker 2>Obvious. Maybe just the moment I see you in a

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<v Speaker 2>different country. I don't know. All of those things make

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<v Speaker 2>me feel something special. I am who I am. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't you don't think you'll cry.

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<v Speaker 4>That's not true. I say there will be a tear, there.

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<v Speaker 2>Will be a dear. He's so I love it so much.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so Scottish. Some answers are just you just have

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<v Speaker 2>to really marinate in it for a second.

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<v Speaker 4>One emotional powerful tier.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very brave, heart of you, and we're charging on

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<v Speaker 2>with a wink. One emotional tear.

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<v Speaker 4>Well you.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean there was a little dixie cup to just

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<v Speaker 2>savor it. But like a lot or just like a tear,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I have a feeling every time we

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<v Speaker 2>talked what We started talking about it the other night

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<v Speaker 2>and I started crying just thinking about it, about walking

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<v Speaker 2>down Oh, because I I had this is the os

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<v Speaker 2>it gets me. Started to get a little tier right.

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<v Speaker 2>But he was asking if my dad was walking me

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<v Speaker 2>down the aisle and I debated it, but but I

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<v Speaker 2>said no, and he you kind of were you questioned it.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't question it because I don't agree with it.

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<v Speaker 5>I questioned it because I just then wasn't aware that

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<v Speaker 5>you were you were going to do it on your own.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And he was just like, well why, and I

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<v Speaker 2>said I told him. I was like, it's a walk

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<v Speaker 2>that I need to take by myself. And then that

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<v Speaker 2>like made me start crying, and I was like, it's

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<v Speaker 2>taken me a long time to get here, and I

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<v Speaker 2>know that this will be the last walk I do alone.

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<v Speaker 2>And so it's like me walking to you. And even

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<v Speaker 2>though I have you know, walks with God and all that,

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<v Speaker 2>but like you know what I mean, Like this is

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<v Speaker 2>my last like my last walk alone and I'm walking

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<v Speaker 2>to you. It just there's it's it's a it that

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<v Speaker 2>sentiment means something to me, very silso powerful. Absolutely, So

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<v Speaker 2>I wondered if Jace would walk with you. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to have them walk together. Yeah, I love that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>are you tabling the one? I think you're tabling? Which

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<v Speaker 2>one is this? Well, we'd like to tell you, but

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<v Speaker 2>we need to just talk in code through our eyes.

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<v Speaker 3>The funny one or a different one.

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<v Speaker 2>You ask the funny one, and then if you haven't

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<v Speaker 2>asked you it is okay. I want to know if

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<v Speaker 2>Alan has seen your wedding dress, or if he has

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<v Speaker 2>any idea about what it might be like, because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>this part really matters to me. He hasn't seen it,

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<v Speaker 2>but what do you think it looks like?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I helped you narrow it down, had this discussion.

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<v Speaker 5>I helped you narrow it down at the beginning, so

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<v Speaker 5>I have I don't even because that was so long ago.

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<v Speaker 5>Now that I don't have an idea, and I would

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<v Speaker 5>never ruin it for you or the girls on myself

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<v Speaker 5>by having a sneak peak of it in the in

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<v Speaker 5>the closet, So no, I don't. It's a complete surprise,

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<v Speaker 5>and that's the way I want it to.

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<v Speaker 2>The seamstress lady was here and he was just like,

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<v Speaker 2>don't even. He's like, I don't even want to see

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<v Speaker 2>the bag. Okay, that's when the powerful tier will happen.

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<v Speaker 2>Will you do a first look? Now? Oh I love this? Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>a first look so we're all photos after uh huh,

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<v Speaker 2>which it's going to be a bummer for the guests

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<v Speaker 2>because they'll have to wait longer. So usually the first

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<v Speaker 2>look you get your photos and stuff out of the way.

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<v Speaker 2>But for me, I don't know. I just think it's

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<v Speaker 2>something where having that first look be walking down the aisle?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you unless you disagree, and then we can totally

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<v Speaker 2>do a first look. We just have to tell people

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<v Speaker 2>first look, I want to revisit how involved if we'd

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<v Speaker 2>been on the planning of Yeah, like if y'all checking in,

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<v Speaker 2>if y'all took photos together before y'all obviously see each

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<v Speaker 2>other before the wedding, so like it would be a

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<v Speaker 2>private moment just us. We would turn around then see

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<v Speaker 2>each other, and then we would take some photos and

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<v Speaker 2>then we do the ceremony. It's like a thing. Now

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people do it, probably here not there.

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<v Speaker 2>Also they do like first touch sometimes, which also sounds creepy,

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<v Speaker 2>but stay with me, like they just meet like door,

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<v Speaker 2>like on the other side of a door and just

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<v Speaker 2>like hold a hand and have a word with each

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<v Speaker 2>other and never see each other. That's not my thing,

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<v Speaker 2>but a lot of other people do.

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<v Speaker 4>So let me get this straight.

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<v Speaker 5>So first look, as you and I get pictures taken

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<v Speaker 5>before you walk there, now.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, why it's because it saves time on the photos

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<v Speaker 2>time post wedding ceremony. And then I think also it

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<v Speaker 2>helps people's nerves too, maybe before walking down the aisle.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, y'all are not doing it before, you're doing it after, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, we're doing photos after.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, yeah, y'all are doing photos after. Y'all are doing

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<v Speaker 3>that okay because he was thank you, Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't agree with having before you walk.

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<v Speaker 3>Y'all are saying the same thing. Yeah, okay, you guy

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<v Speaker 3>should get married. Compatible I like it. I saw y'all

0:21:15.440 --> 0:21:17.480
<v Speaker 3>y'all were different. Will you do like stuff like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>he do stuff with his men and stuff before and then.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah you have you'll do photos with your guys before,

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<v Speaker 2>we'll do photos with the girls stuff like that, but

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<v Speaker 2>then we do joint ones afterwards.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, Yeah, like that that's the way to do it.

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<v Speaker 3>They can wait, I guess can wait.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I think I think they started that whole thing too,

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<v Speaker 2>because it allowed people to have like a moment together,

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<v Speaker 2>because once you're married, it feels like all the people

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<v Speaker 2>are hugging and kissing. It's lovely, but you sometimes miss

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<v Speaker 2>the connection point after.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, do you want to do the fust touching?

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<v Speaker 3>I could have seen her going neither way on that one.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's not. I mean I feel like we're a

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<v Speaker 2>little or nothing the same way. So if I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to touch you, I'm just gonna see your face. Yeah yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>but it feels a little like I'm not gonna say no.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm so excited for people that choose that. I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's really romantic. Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, all right, are we done with the actual wedding questions?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you have any more wedding questions?

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<v Speaker 2>I like it? What's your funny one?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, it's down here in a quiz for Alan?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, Alan gets his own private quiz.

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<v Speaker 3>I have to know which one I'm talking about. Was

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<v Speaker 3>there any other wedding questions that you have?

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's it. I can't wait. You guys, this is

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<v Speaker 2>actually really helping my anxiety. Oh good? Uh huh, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I know, No, it's I'm not I have no anxiety

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<v Speaker 2>at all about us. I could just get a sponsorship

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<v Speaker 2>from say an anxiety awesome. It's not any of it. It's

0:22:44.480 --> 0:22:48.520
<v Speaker 2>just the travel. There's there's just so many moving pieces

0:22:48.560 --> 0:22:50.520
<v Speaker 2>on our home front right now, and so many big

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<v Speaker 2>emotions on our home front. And I also, Preston and

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<v Speaker 2>I are just so excited. We're going in early. We

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<v Speaker 2>get a couple of days, so we're making this our

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<v Speaker 2>excuse to have a minute together, which is going to

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<v Speaker 2>serve us well because this summer is pretty brutal. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>none of my anxiety is about your big day. And listen,

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<v Speaker 2>this is what I keep thinking about because I had

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<v Speaker 2>a really beautiful call with my therapist. Why does she

0:23:10.440 --> 0:23:17.480
<v Speaker 2>keep having calls with you and not with me? She

0:23:17.840 --> 0:23:19.440
<v Speaker 2>tucked me in last time and gave me a pat

0:23:19.480 --> 0:23:20.480
<v Speaker 2>on the back and I was like, I think you're

0:23:20.480 --> 0:23:22.280
<v Speaker 2>ready for Scotland. That was like two weeks ago, and

0:23:22.320 --> 0:23:27.919
<v Speaker 2>I was like, are you sure When she tucks you in?

0:23:28.200 --> 0:23:32.400
<v Speaker 3>She you and I got like demoted completely, So good

0:23:32.480 --> 0:23:33.000
<v Speaker 3>job for you.

0:23:33.080 --> 0:23:36.280
<v Speaker 2>Being healthy and whole cat makes you questions things time,

0:23:36.480 --> 0:23:38.600
<v Speaker 2>and they will every time we do a podcast. I

0:23:38.800 --> 0:23:41.639
<v Speaker 2>just got out the phoney and I'm like, cravy, what

0:23:41.680 --> 0:23:49.520
<v Speaker 2>do I gotta do around here? Anyway? I'm sorry, she's

0:23:49.680 --> 0:23:52.840
<v Speaker 2>very triggered, but you found her first. It's fine. And

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<v Speaker 2>oh no, we just had like a final I'm glad,

0:23:57.520 --> 0:24:00.719
<v Speaker 2>so happy. I have one joy full tear for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh god, that's funny.

0:24:03.080 --> 0:24:03.359
<v Speaker 1>Again.

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<v Speaker 2>We were just talking about it and it was just

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<v Speaker 2>because you know, Amy and I have. I started with

0:24:08.320 --> 0:24:11.080
<v Speaker 2>her when I had massive anxiety and was in a

0:24:11.280 --> 0:24:14.520
<v Speaker 2>very bad relationship, and she helped me walk through, you know,

0:24:14.600 --> 0:24:17.800
<v Speaker 2>the last five and a half years of my life.

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<v Speaker 2>And so, you know, we just kind of reminisced about

0:24:21.960 --> 0:24:24.520
<v Speaker 2>the conversations that started in the room and she's like,

0:24:24.520 --> 0:24:26.960
<v Speaker 2>can you believe that we're here now and talking about

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<v Speaker 2>a wedding? And she helped me with anxiety piece of it,

0:24:31.200 --> 0:24:33.800
<v Speaker 2>because my anxiety is obviously with the kids. That we

0:24:33.840 --> 0:24:37.800
<v Speaker 2>talked about that in the one episode. But it was just, yeah,

0:24:37.800 --> 0:24:40.439
<v Speaker 2>it was it was just beautiful because really, truly, in

0:24:40.560 --> 0:24:43.120
<v Speaker 2>three weeks, y'all will be home, We'll be with our kids,

0:24:43.160 --> 0:24:45.280
<v Speaker 2>we'll be back in the same routine. And it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>why didn't we just take a breath and enjoy the

0:24:47.760 --> 0:24:50.040
<v Speaker 2>moment because the moment is going to pass before we

0:24:50.080 --> 0:24:52.040
<v Speaker 2>know it, and it'll be back to school. I'll be back.

0:24:52.080 --> 0:24:54.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, God, I wish I would have enjoyed myself more.

0:24:54.520 --> 0:24:56.560
<v Speaker 2>And so it's like, even in the stress of Roman

0:24:56.640 --> 0:24:59.119
<v Speaker 2>not sleeping, or the stress of you know, the kids

0:24:59.160 --> 0:25:01.679
<v Speaker 2>being tired, or or you know, I missed my kids

0:25:01.960 --> 0:25:05.080
<v Speaker 2>fiercely in Italy, it's like, in one week we'll be

0:25:05.160 --> 0:25:07.280
<v Speaker 2>back with them and we'll be back to normal seventy

0:25:07.359 --> 0:25:10.119
<v Speaker 2>thirty and school will in all the stress. So it's like,

0:25:10.240 --> 0:25:12.480
<v Speaker 2>enjoy that moment because it'll be over in a second.

0:25:12.960 --> 0:25:15.240
<v Speaker 2>I think that was the final kind of you're right,

0:25:15.880 --> 0:25:18.840
<v Speaker 2>let's go be joyful. Well. We even did last night

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<v Speaker 2>like do we want to shorten the trip? Like would

0:25:20.440 --> 0:25:22.800
<v Speaker 2>that make us both feel better? You know? And ultimately

0:25:22.800 --> 0:25:25.480
<v Speaker 2>it was like no, yeah, because it's over like that,

0:25:25.680 --> 0:25:27.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah right, that's what you said, like so many times

0:25:27.840 --> 0:25:31.600
<v Speaker 2>our last vacation we went on first and last ward

0:25:32.040 --> 0:25:34.280
<v Speaker 2>you know. The first one was like soak this in.

0:25:34.400 --> 0:25:38.960
<v Speaker 2>It's going to be over soon. Yeah, yeah, yeah, my

0:25:39.080 --> 0:25:41.800
<v Speaker 2>last A man of many words, can't wait for those abouts.

0:25:41.880 --> 0:25:42.239
<v Speaker 2>Big goal.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, we're going to quiz for Alan.

0:25:57.040 --> 0:26:03.200
<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's what is Jana's character.

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<v Speaker 3>From One Tree Hills full name, full name? This is

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<v Speaker 3>so good, Alex depre Oh oh, great job, Jopped, I'm impressed.

0:26:18.040 --> 0:26:24.680
<v Speaker 2>Good job KB. Does Janna consider herself an introvert or

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<v Speaker 2>an extrovert?

0:26:25.800 --> 0:26:27.000
<v Speaker 4>That's a really good question.

0:26:27.400 --> 0:26:29.359
<v Speaker 2>I didn't write it. I wish I could take credit,

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<v Speaker 2>but I didn't.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, there's what Jannah thinks, and those then what I think.

0:26:33.119 --> 0:26:38.960
<v Speaker 5>I think fast and foremost that she thinks she's an extravert,

0:26:39.000 --> 0:26:41.639
<v Speaker 5>but I think genuinely she has introvert.

0:26:43.160 --> 0:26:45.159
<v Speaker 2>Cramer. I agree with them, Yeah, I do too.

0:26:45.560 --> 0:26:46.760
<v Speaker 3>Do you think you're an extrovert?

0:26:48.720 --> 0:26:53.119
<v Speaker 2>I think I've thought that for all my years, but

0:26:53.359 --> 0:26:56.960
<v Speaker 2>now I'm more truly like an introvert. Yeah. I think

0:26:57.040 --> 0:27:02.160
<v Speaker 2>people mistake in artistry you be an extrovert, because Preston too,

0:27:02.320 --> 0:27:06.440
<v Speaker 2>But I usually would like act as an extrovert because

0:27:06.480 --> 0:27:08.800
<v Speaker 2>it was just like my own insecurity kind of vibes.

0:27:08.960 --> 0:27:09.800
<v Speaker 2>That's also your career.

0:27:10.040 --> 0:27:13.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's very common. Like most celebrities are actually introverts.

0:27:14.119 --> 0:27:16.639
<v Speaker 3>They just put it on to be an extrovert, but

0:27:16.720 --> 0:27:19.520
<v Speaker 3>it's exhausting to them, and you know that usually is

0:27:19.520 --> 0:27:20.640
<v Speaker 3>a good sign of introvert.

0:27:20.840 --> 0:27:23.160
<v Speaker 2>I want you to ask the jes one so excited.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Alan, are you ready name all of Janna's tattoos?

0:27:28.119 --> 0:27:30.159
<v Speaker 2>This is not the juicy one. I didn't write it.

0:27:32.400 --> 0:27:33.560
<v Speaker 2>Now you can ask that one.

0:27:34.800 --> 0:27:47.320
<v Speaker 4>Fine, believe what true? And that's that's all I know

0:27:48.040 --> 0:27:51.800
<v Speaker 4>what so I can think of.

0:27:52.960 --> 0:27:54.880
<v Speaker 2>I want everyone that came to see us on wind

0:27:55.320 --> 0:27:58.080
<v Speaker 2>were to have a really special moment, for your special moment,

0:27:58.280 --> 0:27:59.960
<v Speaker 2>just a moment that we can all share in side

0:28:00.119 --> 0:28:02.520
<v Speaker 2>lens of tattoo fun.

0:28:02.640 --> 0:28:05.200
<v Speaker 3>But I don't think we've all gotten all the current ones,

0:28:06.040 --> 0:28:08.919
<v Speaker 3>not close, which I mean.

0:28:09.080 --> 0:28:11.200
<v Speaker 4>Oh, you've got the cross on the back of your neck.

0:28:18.000 --> 0:28:20.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, please don't edit the dramatic pause. All right, So

0:28:20.640 --> 0:28:23.920
<v Speaker 2>we're gonna go with my ant symbol. Okay, on this hand,

0:28:24.080 --> 0:28:30.760
<v Speaker 2>my flower, my Jerusalem Bethlehem flower, forgiveness, my white tattoo,

0:28:30.800 --> 0:28:35.680
<v Speaker 2>the whole truth and aramic enough. I've got serenity on

0:28:35.840 --> 0:28:38.640
<v Speaker 2>my side. I've got a feather on my other side,

0:28:38.680 --> 0:28:41.000
<v Speaker 2>and I've got an arrow on my foot. It's nice

0:28:41.040 --> 0:28:42.560
<v Speaker 2>to meet you. I'm about to marry you in a week.

0:28:43.600 --> 0:28:45.920
<v Speaker 2>That was a good one. Now, Jianna, do you know

0:28:46.000 --> 0:28:49.360
<v Speaker 2>all of Allen's This is my favorite tramp stamp on

0:28:49.400 --> 0:28:52.040
<v Speaker 2>the back of his back about his family in Italy,

0:28:52.240 --> 0:28:52.760
<v Speaker 2>on the back.

0:28:52.680 --> 0:28:54.600
<v Speaker 4>Of my back as opposed to the front of my back.

0:28:56.440 --> 0:28:59.520
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I like it. When to get spicy, it's just angry.

0:29:02.360 --> 0:29:04.960
<v Speaker 2>Defeat is hard for an athlete. Defeat is hard.

0:29:05.640 --> 0:29:06.920
<v Speaker 3>Did you know she had a white tattoo?

0:29:07.880 --> 0:29:08.120
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

0:29:08.320 --> 0:29:10.320
<v Speaker 2>Does anyone just forgot? Do you know I had any

0:29:10.360 --> 0:29:12.720
<v Speaker 2>of the other tattoos? I thought maybe you didn't know

0:29:12.720 --> 0:29:14.840
<v Speaker 2>about that. It's easy to forget I had one. Actually,

0:29:14.880 --> 0:29:17.000
<v Speaker 2>I forget that I have it because you can see

0:29:17.000 --> 0:29:19.400
<v Speaker 2>it was a really poor choice amongst the other ones.

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<v Speaker 5>To me, I have the problems. I have areas that

0:29:22.120 --> 0:29:24.400
<v Speaker 5>I focus on. In those areas, she doesn't have anything.

0:29:25.360 --> 0:29:28.280
<v Speaker 2>Wow. And I want to also a moment for those

0:29:28.320 --> 0:29:29.959
<v Speaker 2>wind down guests that were out on tour. I want

0:29:30.000 --> 0:29:35.440
<v Speaker 2>to think Nashville, Michigan, in Chicago. I want to ask

0:29:35.520 --> 0:29:37.160
<v Speaker 2>I would like this one to be asked, and Kati,

0:29:37.320 --> 0:29:39.880
<v Speaker 2>will you just do it? The time of day?

0:29:40.400 --> 0:29:45.160
<v Speaker 3>Okay? What is Jianna's favorite time of day to have sex?

0:29:47.680 --> 0:29:49.280
<v Speaker 3>And if it's anything but night.

0:29:51.200 --> 0:29:54.360
<v Speaker 4>She's not more than person? Yeah, so yeah at night?

0:29:54.600 --> 0:29:54.840
<v Speaker 2>Okay?

0:29:54.880 --> 0:29:55.080
<v Speaker 4>Good?

0:29:55.800 --> 0:29:58.000
<v Speaker 2>I mean, is anybody a morning person? Sometimes in the

0:29:58.080 --> 0:30:00.680
<v Speaker 2>afternoon in a nice little closets from the other But

0:30:02.080 --> 0:30:05.080
<v Speaker 2>I love a sneaker. But we all know that, all right.

0:30:09.760 --> 0:30:12.400
<v Speaker 2>What's Jana's first song she ever released?

0:30:13.400 --> 0:30:14.920
<v Speaker 4>Oh, don't have a clue?

0:30:15.080 --> 0:30:17.080
<v Speaker 2>Janna, do you have a clue? Do you want to?

0:30:21.800 --> 0:30:24.440
<v Speaker 2>I hope she has a clue. Well, I know, sometimes

0:30:24.520 --> 0:30:25.160
<v Speaker 2>things you blurry.

0:30:25.240 --> 0:30:25.600
<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

0:30:26.600 --> 0:30:27.960
<v Speaker 3>Okay, I'm ready for rapid fire.

0:30:28.040 --> 0:30:28.480
<v Speaker 2>I am too.

0:30:29.400 --> 0:30:31.440
<v Speaker 3>So this is for both of you all though, So okay,

0:30:31.880 --> 0:30:32.680
<v Speaker 3>you gotta be ready?

0:30:32.760 --> 0:30:34.400
<v Speaker 2>Ready? Am I keeping like a scure?

0:30:37.440 --> 0:30:40.240
<v Speaker 3>Who about who apologizes first after a fight?

0:30:40.520 --> 0:30:40.560
<v Speaker 2>Me?

0:30:41.520 --> 0:30:42.280
<v Speaker 3>This is gonna be slow.

0:30:43.320 --> 0:30:45.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna have to narrate here a little because Alan

0:30:45.480 --> 0:30:46.880
<v Speaker 2>had a swift turn of the neck and the look

0:30:46.920 --> 0:30:47.440
<v Speaker 2>of disgust.

0:30:49.040 --> 0:30:50.040
<v Speaker 3>I guess he doesn't agree.

0:30:50.080 --> 0:30:52.440
<v Speaker 4>You're trying and diffuse quicker and I apologize Quicker.

0:30:53.160 --> 0:30:54.280
<v Speaker 2>Well, that's great teamwork.

0:30:54.680 --> 0:30:56.280
<v Speaker 3>I think she sees that as an apology.

0:30:57.080 --> 0:30:59.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I apologize to.

0:31:01.720 --> 0:31:03.320
<v Speaker 4>Okay Johna. No.

0:31:04.520 --> 0:31:07.920
<v Speaker 2>I think I think we both apologize when we do

0:31:08.080 --> 0:31:11.600
<v Speaker 2>things that like we we we I do diffuse, But

0:31:11.640 --> 0:31:13.840
<v Speaker 2>I also think we both come back and say like, hey,

0:31:14.600 --> 0:31:16.920
<v Speaker 2>sorry I was being whatever and you know you were

0:31:17.080 --> 0:31:19.360
<v Speaker 2>there today. Sorry I was being grumpy.

0:31:19.120 --> 0:31:24.240
<v Speaker 3>Or you know, rapid fire? Okay, who's funnier?

0:31:24.480 --> 0:31:24.760
<v Speaker 2>Alan?

0:31:26.440 --> 0:31:26.680
<v Speaker 5>Really?

0:31:27.080 --> 0:31:27.520
<v Speaker 2>Thanks? Man?

0:31:27.720 --> 0:31:28.600
<v Speaker 3>Who's more romantic?

0:31:28.800 --> 0:31:31.400
<v Speaker 2>This is so consensual? Like? Am I getting anywhere?

0:31:31.400 --> 0:31:32.000
<v Speaker 3>Wait? Would you say?

0:31:32.080 --> 0:31:32.280
<v Speaker 2>Y'all?

0:31:32.320 --> 0:31:40.560
<v Speaker 3>Both said me? I said me, m okay, okay, he

0:31:40.640 --> 0:31:42.480
<v Speaker 3>does not agree? Who takes longer to get ready?

0:31:42.840 --> 0:31:50.800
<v Speaker 2>Alan? We established to slow, Honey. It's always true. I'm

0:31:50.880 --> 0:31:55.840
<v Speaker 2>still ready on time even before absolutely, I know, Honey,

0:31:55.880 --> 0:31:56.760
<v Speaker 2>and you're still late.

0:31:58.280 --> 0:32:01.000
<v Speaker 3>So perfect timing for this question. Who's more stubborn?

0:32:02.960 --> 0:32:06.520
<v Speaker 2>Alan? Probably good admittance, Alan.

0:32:08.120 --> 0:32:10.080
<v Speaker 4>Especially, it's a good thing, it's a bad thing.

0:32:10.320 --> 0:32:11.720
<v Speaker 2>It's not a bad thing. It's not a bad thing.

0:32:11.760 --> 0:32:14.480
<v Speaker 2>But I'm also stubborn, so I think, but marinate on

0:32:14.520 --> 0:32:16.840
<v Speaker 2>how we can about it, and so am I.

0:32:17.720 --> 0:32:18.840
<v Speaker 3>I think we're all stubborn.

0:32:19.400 --> 0:32:28.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but there's a difference. Okay, Scotland one meaningful tier.

0:32:28.480 --> 0:32:29.600
<v Speaker 2>I just want to keep reminded me.

0:32:30.200 --> 0:32:33.480
<v Speaker 3>Okay, who spends more money Alan on what?

0:32:34.120 --> 0:32:41.800
<v Speaker 2>Oh? Yeah, but what has two wheels and it has

0:32:41.880 --> 0:32:47.360
<v Speaker 2>no place in your house? I mean, not on myself.

0:32:47.680 --> 0:32:50.520
<v Speaker 2>Can we just back that up. I don't spend money

0:32:50.520 --> 0:32:55.680
<v Speaker 2>on myself. I send money on the kids and stuff. Yeah, okay,

0:32:56.320 --> 0:32:57.959
<v Speaker 2>should we table that to make sure that we can

0:32:58.000 --> 0:32:59.400
<v Speaker 2>make it to next week? I think at the end,

0:32:59.480 --> 0:33:00.840
<v Speaker 2>I think that was Let's move on.

0:33:01.000 --> 0:33:01.240
<v Speaker 3>Okay.

0:33:02.360 --> 0:33:06.400
<v Speaker 2>Whoever thinks more Alan? Wow?

0:33:07.840 --> 0:33:08.480
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well.

0:33:09.920 --> 0:33:17.440
<v Speaker 2>You're overthinking rapid fire moving that is Scotland rapid fire.

0:33:17.480 --> 0:33:21.640
<v Speaker 5>Okay, that's subjective. That's subjective. Okay, you stuff, I overthink

0:33:21.960 --> 0:33:22.400
<v Speaker 5>other things.

0:33:22.440 --> 0:33:23.400
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, no, let's do this, so.

0:33:23.480 --> 0:33:27.719
<v Speaker 3>Let's yeah this answer, okay, very treasure who's on their

0:33:27.720 --> 0:33:28.160
<v Speaker 3>phone more?

0:33:28.520 --> 0:33:28.800
<v Speaker 2>Alan?

0:33:29.480 --> 0:33:30.440
<v Speaker 3>Who's more protective?

0:33:30.800 --> 0:33:31.080
<v Speaker 2>Alan?

0:33:32.720 --> 0:33:34.280
<v Speaker 3>He's not speaking? Who showers more?

0:33:34.600 --> 0:33:34.880
<v Speaker 2>Alan?

0:33:37.240 --> 0:33:38.960
<v Speaker 3>He's more likely to fall asleep watching TV?

0:33:39.360 --> 0:33:52.960
<v Speaker 2>Jannah, you play this game? Yeah? Answer quickly up to

0:33:53.080 --> 0:33:55.040
<v Speaker 2>the wedding? Like, do I have to give you a

0:33:55.120 --> 0:33:56.520
<v Speaker 2>fake time? Wait?

0:33:56.600 --> 0:33:57.160
<v Speaker 3>Are you late?

0:33:57.240 --> 0:33:57.400
<v Speaker 5>Though?

0:33:57.480 --> 0:33:57.640
<v Speaker 4>Too?

0:33:58.520 --> 0:34:01.600
<v Speaker 2>So late? Oh no, it's painful. I give him fake time?

0:34:02.320 --> 0:34:09.799
<v Speaker 2>I do? He gets fake tied Preston late? Yes, early? Yeah,

0:34:10.200 --> 0:34:15.080
<v Speaker 2>but but I'm fine with slow. But late that's a

0:34:15.080 --> 0:34:16.440
<v Speaker 2>different bar. You want to go back to any of

0:34:16.440 --> 0:34:18.080
<v Speaker 2>the ones before? Were those pretty accurate?

0:34:22.440 --> 0:34:25.480
<v Speaker 3>That apology can be sawd After this episode of he

0:34:25.640 --> 0:34:27.120
<v Speaker 3>initiates having sex more often?

0:34:28.440 --> 0:34:30.920
<v Speaker 2>Wow, that was okay.

0:34:31.280 --> 0:34:32.280
<v Speaker 3>Who's more competitive?

0:34:33.560 --> 0:34:36.239
<v Speaker 2>I want to know the answer? Hmm, I think we're

0:34:36.280 --> 0:34:38.160
<v Speaker 2>equally competitive. Fair.

0:34:38.440 --> 0:34:39.839
<v Speaker 3>Who's better at planning date nights?

0:34:40.400 --> 0:34:45.400
<v Speaker 2>Allan? He always always makes that. He always makes a

0:34:45.440 --> 0:34:48.120
<v Speaker 2>point in to book a date night. Okay, Honey, you're

0:34:48.160 --> 0:34:49.680
<v Speaker 2>more romantic? Would you like that music?

0:34:50.400 --> 0:34:50.840
<v Speaker 3>I think so.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll give you that. You're more romantic. You write more

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<v Speaker 2>notes around the house, I'll give you that. When he's

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<v Speaker 2>he's stuck back on that question, Honey, let's go back

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<v Speaker 2>to who's more romantic? Alan, who's more Who's more romantic?

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<v Speaker 3>Allan?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you guys, me flowers all the time. He's romantic.

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<v Speaker 3>But really, who's more likely to be affectionate in public?

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<v Speaker 2>Just staring?

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<v Speaker 3>Obviously I have video footage that shows definitely, and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not dissing that by any means. Obviously we already answered this.

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<v Speaker 3>Who's the better dnswer? Yeah, yeah, he's more spontaneous.

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<v Speaker 4>Subjective?

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<v Speaker 3>Who is more likely to laugh at their own jokes?

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<v Speaker 4>One million?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Alan, I'm kidding her own joke, I know, So

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<v Speaker 2>we have to laugh at ourselves, so we know that

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<v Speaker 2>everyone is laughing. Okay, all right, I have a question, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>to end it, if you could pick what's your what

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<v Speaker 2>would be one word to describe each other? Like if

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<v Speaker 2>you could describe Janna in one word?

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<v Speaker 4>Perfect?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I'm definitely crimes perfection the same version of a word.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a word.

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<v Speaker 3>That was going to be And I'm going to give

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<v Speaker 3>you a perfection one dollar.

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<v Speaker 2>I will say, because that was going to be my

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<v Speaker 2>perfection one more time? Okay, I would say powerful. Oh

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<v Speaker 2>that's good. Good? All right, guys, Well, the next time

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<v Speaker 2>we hear from you, you are the Russells. Are you

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<v Speaker 2>getting married. After this episode, I'm kind of like, should

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<v Speaker 2>we have done this?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm just going to get a book on being

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<v Speaker 4>more romantic to go.

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<v Speaker 2>I got my rooms. Don't think that our household joking, joking,

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<v Speaker 2>kind of. I love you. You are more romantic. You

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<v Speaker 2>write me cards and things. I love you so much

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<v Speaker 2>and I can't wait to marry you. Okay, signing off work.

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<v Speaker 2>You have the way down the plane. Bye bye,