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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and iHeart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 2: It's wedding week.

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Speaker 3: Are you all so excited?

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Speaker 2: Everyone? Grab your xanax? Kristen text Shane Kristen, Yeah, texts

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Speaker 2: both of us, and she's like Gramer, just checking in.

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Speaker 3: I'm like over here on the side, like do I

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Speaker 3: need sant X?

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Speaker 2: What do you need the xanaxpo. We just have a

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Speaker 2: lot of moving pieces right now. Our Dada just left

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Speaker 2: and the kids don't see him for two weeks, and

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Speaker 2: then they see him for five hours and then he

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Speaker 2: leaves again for another seven days. So I'm dealing with

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Speaker 2: a lot of emotions of and legend and love. Don't

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Speaker 2: show those the same. Uh huh?

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Speaker 3: So do you normally need zanex, like for like a

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Speaker 3: long flight.

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Speaker 2: No, the flying is not, it's not that, it's all

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Speaker 2: the leading up to got it? Yeah? Which fair? I mean,

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Speaker 2: obviously I haven't taken one since the last time, and

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Speaker 2: I flew to London and I took but that was

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Speaker 2: all so because and I know she doesn't listen, so

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Speaker 2: I can say it. My mother in law got to

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Speaker 2: my house, yeah, right before I left, and I was

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Speaker 2: like the world's spinning. How you feeling babe's wedding.

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Speaker 4: I'm good. What's zonax?

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Speaker 3: It's exactly what you think. It would be a TA

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Speaker 3: for Americans. Kristin needed to make sure that they had one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like to just I always have one in

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Speaker 2: my purse, but I haven't taken one in I mean years,

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Speaker 2: same years. I'll have a panic attack before I take

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Speaker 2: a Xanax.

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Speaker 4: And X calms you there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I can remember flying years ago with

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Speaker 3: her and her just starting to have a slight panic attack,

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Speaker 3: searching through her purseon like, what are you doing? Just

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Speaker 3: make sure it's here. She just has to see it.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it's just knowing a habit.

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Speaker 3: It's just knowing it's there, Like it's there, We're good.

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Speaker 2: I don't ever take it. It's just there. Okay, I

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Speaker 2: needed the wind. You don't have anxiety? No? Do you

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Speaker 2: think you do? And it maybe it just doesn't show

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Speaker 2: the same way because Preston also claims that he doesn't

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Speaker 2: have anxiety. And I just don't know how that camp

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Speaker 2: can be true.

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Speaker 5: Not unless it's like a traumatic event or incident. Then

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Speaker 5: I don't think it either.

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Speaker 2: Oh No, you get anxiety when you wake up the

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Speaker 2: next day. If you had alcohol yeah, so you have

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Speaker 2: felt anxiety. Yeah, yeah, I feel the same way after

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Speaker 2: I drink. Actually, yeah, same, I get That's the only

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Speaker 2: time I now get anxiety is if I the next morning.

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Speaker 5: But I wouldn't I wouldn't take something for that because

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Speaker 5: it's easily manageable and tellingly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, such an athlete.

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Speaker 3: But I mean I'm kind of the same way. Like

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't say I have anxiety, but there are definitely

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Speaker 3: certain triggers that'll make me anxious and I know what

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Speaker 3: that feeling is. But I also wouldn't have to take something.

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Speaker 3: But I could see where if you had that often

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Speaker 3: and a lot, where you'd eventually need to have something

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Speaker 3: for it for sure.

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Speaker 2: See, it's like my my nervous system doesn't respond to

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Speaker 2: what my mind is telling it. Sure, and so second,

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Speaker 2: because if I can't get them to like the last

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Speaker 2: time I took it was right before London and I

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Speaker 2: really just could not get everything calmed down. Hey, can

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Speaker 2: we go back to it's weddings not be anxious. Well,

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Speaker 2: the good news is we know for sure that we

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Speaker 2: want to get married, so we don't have to be

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Speaker 2: anxious about that. The travel, I think that is the

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Speaker 2: only piece that I'm anxious about. I'm not anxious about

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Speaker 2: you too at all, wildly excited about what you're up to.

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Speaker 2: It's just the backing. Yeah, I think the only thing

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Speaker 2: I'm anxious about is the sleep leading up to the wedding,

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Speaker 2: where I'm afraid that Roman won't sleep through the night

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Speaker 2: and so and I know, I think if anyone's met

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Speaker 2: me on a bad day, it's because I didn't sleep

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Speaker 2: right and eat. So those are the two things I like,

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Speaker 2: was I hungry or was I tired? And so I

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Speaker 2: oh you anxious? No anxious? I shell up okay, But

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Speaker 2: with the sleeping part, like I know that I require sleep.

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Speaker 5: Well, it's unknown, it's unknown how Roman's going to respond difference.

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Speaker 2: But I also have such empathy for the little babes

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Speaker 2: that's also going through you know, time change and jet lags,

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Speaker 2: so it's like I have patience for that. But then

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Speaker 2: I also am like, oh gosh, I hope he sleeps

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Speaker 5: And we also have three sets of grandparents right and

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Speaker 5: we don't get a chance to take them.

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Speaker 2: Cues annex. No, I think Roman is going to rock

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Speaker 2: it for what it's worth. I really think he is

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Speaker 2: going to rock it. And I don't know why I think.

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Speaker 2: I just so so confidently, but maybe I'm supposed to

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Speaker 2: say that to you. I mean, he's the best baby ever.

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Speaker 2: So again, like I just I feel for their little bodies,

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Speaker 2: like we don't have anyone coming with us. If we

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Speaker 2: don't have a nanny, we don't have a babysit are

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Speaker 2: coming and so your parents aren't in the house with

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Speaker 2: us leading up to the week. So that's that's my thing,

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Speaker 2: is in the middle of the night, like we can't

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Speaker 2: pass off the baby and be like all right, you know,

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Speaker 2: because during the day I want to be out and

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Speaker 2: exploring with the kiddos, Like I'm not taking naps during

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Speaker 2: the day because it's like this is my one week

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Speaker 2: with the bigs too, to explore and have fun and

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Speaker 2: do all that. So you know, we don't have anyone,

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Speaker 2: it's just us in the middle of the night, so

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Speaker 2: I'm like, we really need Roman to sleep.

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Speaker 4: Remember when you used to come in naughtis and you'd

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Speaker 4: sleep to the left and.

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Speaker 2: Then yeah, because you were at the gym all day

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Speaker 2: or you were at your training all day was a

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Speaker 2: club the club, Yeah, so I didn't have to wake up,

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Speaker 2: but now I need to for the babies.

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Speaker 3: So will you just like take Roman like during the

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Speaker 3: day all day and just kind of let him nap.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're just going to let him wherever he is

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Speaker 2: during the day. I mean maybe maybe your mom could

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Speaker 2: help when we go somewhere, but I think when we

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Speaker 2: we're strolling around and yeah, like we'll give him one

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Speaker 2: we're staying at, and then the other like you know,

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Speaker 2: morning nap. We can just do from wherever.

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Speaker 5: And if he's falling asleep, just take him at the

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Speaker 5: straw and hold them against the sex they may I know,

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Speaker 5: when then.

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Speaker 2: Bless, he'll be a great little home country.

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Speaker 3: He'll probably he'll probably be better than all of us,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: So I'll probably just got a little worried though, because

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Speaker 2: I follow my one girlfriend just went to I think

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Speaker 2: she went to Italy and her son is ten months old,

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Speaker 2: and she was like, we didn't sleep for a week,

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Speaker 2: like he was up all night. So I think I

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Speaker 2: have that I have that expectation. So if anything, if

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Speaker 2: we get a night sleep, then it'll be great.

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Speaker 3: Keep that expectation and it'll it'd be so good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because I don't. But again I'm glad we're not

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Speaker 2: traveling with like anyone because it's it's you know, we

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Speaker 2: and stuff. Let's earmark that and we'll circle back in

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Speaker 2: a week. Much But we really wouldn't. I mean no,

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Speaker 2: we don't have any one full time to be able well,

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Speaker 2: and taking someone is expensive, very extensive. I know. That's

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Speaker 2: why I was like, I love Emma for hair and makeup,

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Speaker 2: but I was like, oh, I love you so much,

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Speaker 2: but I love you in the United States. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Oh man, all right, so this is like wedding episode

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Speaker 3: number two.

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Speaker 2: Right, so now we had our pre what we had

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Speaker 2: our we had our bridal shower on here.

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Speaker 3: We did, so now we get to ask.

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Speaker 2: Whatever questions we want. Yeah, welcome, Alan, allowed to be

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Speaker 3: You have to hear them.

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Speaker 2: This is is this a Your reactions are part of it? Alan?

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Speaker 2: Have you written your vows.

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Speaker 4: Yet started not completed?

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Speaker 2: When do you suspect you complete them?

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Speaker 4: This weekend by Sunday evening.

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Speaker 2: Are they lengthy? That's what I'm trying to figure out.

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Speaker 2: I know I'm doing, thank you because I was like,

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Speaker 2: because I'm like the same page. What if like that

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Speaker 2: would be so three paragraphs? Three? Yeah, like if it's

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Speaker 2: if it's a few sentences to three paragraphs, that'd be

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Speaker 2: like the worst.

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Speaker 3: Wait, I have a question. Who goes first? Oh god,

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Speaker 3: that's also super important.

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Speaker 2: I think doesn't the woman go first?

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Speaker 3: Is that a thing I don't know?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so we need to answer that.

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Speaker 4: What do I think.

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Speaker 2: What first first? Well, it's not like we can change anything,

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Speaker 2: so they just go first and rocket? Okay, all right,

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Speaker 2: but go ahead back to the question, sir. Are they long?

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Speaker 4: Not too long? Okay?

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Speaker 5: I think long enough without it being good away on

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Speaker 5: this song, I may start to bore people, so then yeah,

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Speaker 5: it's long enough.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but nothing Just like the weather in Scotland. Starting

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Speaker 2: to understand you were like the weather and it could

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Speaker 2: be great. It could be sixty one. Are you using

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Speaker 2: a piece of paper?

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Speaker 4: Sixty one? That is great?

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Speaker 2: Sixty fabulous. I heard you're hoping for sixty one? Are

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Speaker 2: you using a piece of paper?

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Speaker 5: On the day, I will use a piece of paper

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Speaker 5: to rehearse, but I won't use it on the day.

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Speaker 2: M interesting.

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Speaker 5: Do you.

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Speaker 2: Would you judge if Janna used a piece of paper? No, No,

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Speaker 2: you hesitated.

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Speaker 5: She will be prepared, you'll prepare appropriately. Maybe you'll be ready.

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Speaker 4: I don't.

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Speaker 5: I don't see you bringing out a piece of paper

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Speaker 2: So in our last episode, he doesn't listen.

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Speaker 3: No, but this came up the other day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, Yeah, okay, I wouldn't.

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Speaker 4: Judge you, not at all. I wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: I'm so scared for you.

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Speaker 5: One of those one of those ones when you're younger,

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Speaker 5: your mom says to me, I'm not angry, I'm just.

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Speaker 2: I'm that's a worldwide the kind of thing I I

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Speaker 2: will say what I think it'd be really pretty though,

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Speaker 2: if we had them written out so that way we

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Speaker 2: can then frame them, because I'll forget what you said,

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Speaker 2: like I forgot what you said when you propose to me. So,

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Speaker 2: but we could remember the vowels that we said to

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Speaker 2: each other, because the vowels are important to remember. So

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Speaker 2: even if I don't bring out the piece of paper,

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Speaker 2: can we at least have it written down so that

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Speaker 2: way we can then maybe frame them.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely.

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Speaker 2: I she's allowed to bring the paper, thank you. I'm

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Speaker 2: already stressed about whatever she wants.

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Speaker 5: So if I feel like I'm going to start waffling

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Speaker 2: And I'm sure everyone there will care. It would be

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Speaker 4: But that good plan, think about it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, alrighty, he's leaving me out on my boat by myself.

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Speaker 3: Got two paddlers back to you, kat, Okay, these are

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Speaker 4: These are your questions for other people's questions.

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Speaker 2: Well there, it's a mix of all of them.

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Speaker 3: That was definitely a question we needed answered, but I'm

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Speaker 2: We needed it answered, and I'm not sure that it was,

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Speaker 4: More of it.

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Speaker 5: See she said to me, how long will it be?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so have y'all picked out the first dance song? Yes,

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Speaker 2: Yes, did you see that? Yeah? We did? So we

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Speaker 2: how you feel about vows? Just observing some things here

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Speaker 1: I was having right you were, Yeah, okay, so we

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Speaker 2: How much of the wedding planning have you been a

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Speaker 5: I think I'd be involved in every phone call and

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Speaker 4: So yeah, most of it I can.

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Speaker 2: Vouch for that. Yeah, I believe it. Yeah. Are you

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Speaker 5: No, I've got opinion of the details, and it's always

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Speaker 2: I do too, Alan, I'm so happy we get to

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Speaker 3: Okay, So for both of y'all, what moment and I

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Speaker 2: For me, it's just walking down the aisle to I'm

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and for me it's it's not cliche, it's just

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Speaker 3: Oh, did you know that was one of the questions

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Speaker 3: who's going to cry first?

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Speaker 2: As if that's a question you might surprise us.

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Speaker 3: Actually funny, there's certain things that make me cry, and

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Speaker 3: me tear up. It's just a thing, you know, such

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it's such a raw ye.

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Speaker 3: In the groom space like so, I don't know, it'll

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Speaker 2: It'll be Catherine ceremony. I won't make it to the ceremony. Oh,

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Speaker 2: it'll be well, we're getting ready for sure, I mean

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Speaker 3: During the day before we even get there.

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Speaker 2: Obvious. Maybe just the moment I see you in a

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Speaker 2: different country. I don't know. All of those things make

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Speaker 2: me feel something special. I am who I am. Well,

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Speaker 2: you don't you don't think you'll cry.

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Speaker 4: That's not true. I say there will be a tear, there.

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Speaker 2: Will be a dear. He's so I love it so much.

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Speaker 2: It's so Scottish. Some answers are just you just have

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Speaker 4: One emotional powerful tier.

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Speaker 2: It's very brave, heart of you, and we're charging on

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I have a feeling every time we

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Speaker 2: But he was asking if my dad was walking me

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Speaker 5: I didn't question it because I don't agree with it.

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Speaker 5: I questioned it because I just then wasn't aware that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And he was just like, well why, and I

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Speaker 2: And so it's like me walking to you. And even

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Speaker 3: The funny one or a different one.

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Speaker 2: You ask the funny one, and then if you haven't

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Speaker 5: Well, I helped you narrow it down, had this discussion.

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Speaker 5: Now that I don't have an idea, and I would

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Speaker 2: The seamstress lady was here and he was just like,

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Speaker 2: Will you do a first look? Now? Oh I love this? Okay,

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Speaker 2: Do you unless you disagree, and then we can totally

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Speaker 2: Also they do like first touch sometimes, which also sounds creepy,

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Speaker 4: So let me get this straight.

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Speaker 5: So first look, as you and I get pictures taken

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why it's because it saves time on the photos

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Speaker 3: Wait, y'all are not doing it before, you're doing it after, right.

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Speaker 2: Right, we're doing photos after.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, yeah, y'all are doing photos after. Y'all are doing

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Speaker 4: I don't agree with having before you walk.

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Speaker 3: Y'all are saying the same thing. Yeah, okay, you guy

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Speaker 3: should get married. Compatible I like it. I saw y'all

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Speaker 3: y'all were different. Will you do like stuff like, well,

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Speaker 2: Yeah you have you'll do photos with your guys before,

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Speaker 2: we'll do photos with the girls stuff like that, but

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, Yeah, like that that's the way to do it.

439
00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:31,600
Speaker 3: They can wait, I guess can wait.

440
00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:34,840
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think I think they started that whole thing too,

441
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:37,919
Speaker 2: because it allowed people to have like a moment together,

442
00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:41,359
Speaker 2: because once you're married, it feels like all the people

443
00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:44,160
Speaker 2: are hugging and kissing. It's lovely, but you sometimes miss

444
00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:45,520
Speaker 2: the connection point after.

445
00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:49,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, do you want to do the fust touching?

446
00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:53,120
Speaker 3: I could have seen her going neither way on that one.

447
00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:55,359
Speaker 2: No, it's not. I mean I feel like we're a

448
00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:57,080
Speaker 2: little or nothing the same way. So if I'm going

449
00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:59,520
Speaker 2: to touch you, I'm just gonna see your face. Yeah yeah, okay,

450
00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:02,919
Speaker 2: but it feels a little like I'm not gonna say no.

451
00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 2: And I'm so excited for people that choose that. I

452
00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:07,280
Speaker 2: think it's really romantic. Absolutely.

453
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:11,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, are we done with the actual wedding questions?

454
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:12,240
Speaker 3: Do you have any more wedding questions?

455
00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:13,400
Speaker 2: I like it? What's your funny one?

456
00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:15,000
Speaker 3: Oh, it's down here in a quiz for Alan?

457
00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:18,080
Speaker 2: Oh okay, Alan gets his own private quiz.

458
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:21,800
Speaker 3: I have to know which one I'm talking about. Was

459
00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,159
Speaker 3: there any other wedding questions that you have?

460
00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:27,879
Speaker 2: No, that's it. I can't wait. You guys, this is

461
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:31,399
Speaker 2: actually really helping my anxiety. Oh good? Uh huh, Like

462
00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:35,200
Speaker 2: I know, No, it's I'm not I have no anxiety

463
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:40,280
Speaker 2: at all about us. I could just get a sponsorship

464
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:44,400
Speaker 2: from say an anxiety awesome. It's not any of it. It's

465
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 2: just the travel. There's there's just so many moving pieces

466
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:50,520
Speaker 2: on our home front right now, and so many big

467
00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 2: emotions on our home front. And I also, Preston and

468
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:55,840
Speaker 2: I are just so excited. We're going in early. We

469
00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:58,000
Speaker 2: get a couple of days, so we're making this our

470
00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:00,560
Speaker 2: excuse to have a minute together, which is going to

471
00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:03,400
Speaker 2: serve us well because this summer is pretty brutal. So yeah,

472
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:05,480
Speaker 2: none of my anxiety is about your big day. And listen,

473
00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 2: this is what I keep thinking about because I had

474
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 2: a really beautiful call with my therapist. Why does she

475
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 2: keep having calls with you and not with me? She

476
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:19,440
Speaker 2: tucked me in last time and gave me a pat

477
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:20,480
Speaker 2: on the back and I was like, I think you're

478
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 2: ready for Scotland. That was like two weeks ago, and

479
00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:27,919
Speaker 2: I was like, are you sure When she tucks you in?

480
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:32,400
Speaker 3: She you and I got like demoted completely, So good

481
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:33,000
Speaker 3: job for you.

482
00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 2: Being healthy and whole cat makes you questions things time,

483
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:38,600
Speaker 2: and they will every time we do a podcast. I

484
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,639
Speaker 2: just got out the phoney and I'm like, cravy, what

485
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 2: do I gotta do around here? Anyway? I'm sorry, she's

486
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:52,840
Speaker 2: very triggered, but you found her first. It's fine. And

487
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 2: oh no, we just had like a final I'm glad,

488
00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:00,719
Speaker 2: so happy. I have one joy full tear for you.

489
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:02,800
Speaker 3: Oh god, that's funny.

490
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:03,359
Speaker 1: Again.

491
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 2: We were just talking about it and it was just

492
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 2: because you know, Amy and I have. I started with

493
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 2: her when I had massive anxiety and was in a

494
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 2: very bad relationship, and she helped me walk through, you know,

495
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 2: the last five and a half years of my life.

496
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 2: And so, you know, we just kind of reminisced about

497
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 2: the conversations that started in the room and she's like,

498
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 2: can you believe that we're here now and talking about

499
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:31,159
Speaker 2: a wedding? And she helped me with anxiety piece of it,

500
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 2: because my anxiety is obviously with the kids. That we

501
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 2: talked about that in the one episode. But it was just, yeah,

502
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:40,439
Speaker 2: it was it was just beautiful because really, truly, in

503
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:43,120
Speaker 2: three weeks, y'all will be home, We'll be with our kids,

504
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:45,280
Speaker 2: we'll be back in the same routine. And it's like,

505
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 2: why didn't we just take a breath and enjoy the

506
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,040
Speaker 2: moment because the moment is going to pass before we

507
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 2: know it, and it'll be back to school. I'll be back.

508
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:54,160
Speaker 2: I'm like, God, I wish I would have enjoyed myself more.

509
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 2: And so it's like, even in the stress of Roman

510
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,119
Speaker 2: not sleeping, or the stress of you know, the kids

511
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:01,679
Speaker 2: being tired, or or you know, I missed my kids

512
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 2: fiercely in Italy, it's like, in one week we'll be

513
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 2: back with them and we'll be back to normal seventy

514
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:10,119
Speaker 2: thirty and school will in all the stress. So it's like,

515
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 2: enjoy that moment because it'll be over in a second.

516
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 2: I think that was the final kind of you're right,

517
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 2: let's go be joyful. Well. We even did last night

518
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:20,440
Speaker 2: like do we want to shorten the trip? Like would

519
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 2: that make us both feel better? You know? And ultimately

520
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 2: it was like no, yeah, because it's over like that,

521
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 2: Yeah right, that's what you said, like so many times

522
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 2: our last vacation we went on first and last ward

523
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:34,280
Speaker 2: you know. The first one was like soak this in.

524
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 2: It's going to be over soon. Yeah, yeah, yeah, my

525
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 2: last A man of many words, can't wait for those abouts.

526
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:42,239
Speaker 2: Big goal.

527
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 3: All right, we're going to quiz for Alan.

528
00:25:57,040 --> 00:26:03,200
Speaker 2: Okay, that's what is Jana's character.

529
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:08,879
Speaker 3: From One Tree Hills full name, full name? This is

530
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 3: so good, Alex depre Oh oh, great job, Jopped, I'm impressed.

531
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:24,680
Speaker 2: Good job KB. Does Janna consider herself an introvert or

532
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:25,400
Speaker 2: an extrovert?

533
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:27,000
Speaker 4: That's a really good question.

534
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,359
Speaker 2: I didn't write it. I wish I could take credit,

535
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:29,880
Speaker 2: but I didn't.

536
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 5: Okay, there's what Jannah thinks, and those then what I think.

537
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 5: I think fast and foremost that she thinks she's an extravert,

538
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 5: but I think genuinely she has introvert.

539
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:45,159
Speaker 2: Cramer. I agree with them, Yeah, I do too.

540
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 3: Do you think you're an extrovert?

541
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:53,119
Speaker 2: I think I've thought that for all my years, but

542
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:56,960
Speaker 2: now I'm more truly like an introvert. Yeah. I think

543
00:26:57,040 --> 00:27:02,160
Speaker 2: people mistake in artistry you be an extrovert, because Preston too,

544
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:06,440
Speaker 2: But I usually would like act as an extrovert because

545
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 2: it was just like my own insecurity kind of vibes.

546
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 2: That's also your career.

547
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:13,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's very common. Like most celebrities are actually introverts.

548
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,639
Speaker 3: They just put it on to be an extrovert, but

549
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 3: it's exhausting to them, and you know that usually is

550
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:20,640
Speaker 3: a good sign of introvert.

551
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,160
Speaker 2: I want you to ask the jes one so excited.

552
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 3: Okay, Alan, are you ready name all of Janna's tattoos?

553
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,159
Speaker 2: This is not the juicy one. I didn't write it.

554
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 2: Now you can ask that one.

555
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 4: Fine, believe what true? And that's that's all I know

556
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,800
Speaker 4: what so I can think of.

557
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:54,880
Speaker 2: I want everyone that came to see us on wind

558
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 2: were to have a really special moment, for your special moment,

559
00:27:58,280 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 2: just a moment that we can all share in side

560
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 2: lens of tattoo fun.

561
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:05,200
Speaker 3: But I don't think we've all gotten all the current ones,

562
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,919
Speaker 3: not close, which I mean.

563
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 4: Oh, you've got the cross on the back of your neck.

564
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, please don't edit the dramatic pause. All right, So

565
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 2: we're gonna go with my ant symbol. Okay, on this hand,

566
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 2: my flower, my Jerusalem Bethlehem flower, forgiveness, my white tattoo,

567
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:35,680
Speaker 2: the whole truth and aramic enough. I've got serenity on

568
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 2: my side. I've got a feather on my other side,

569
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 2: and I've got an arrow on my foot. It's nice

570
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 2: to meet you. I'm about to marry you in a week.

571
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 2: That was a good one. Now, Jianna, do you know

572
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 2: all of Allen's This is my favorite tramp stamp on

573
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 2: the back of his back about his family in Italy,

574
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 2: on the back.

575
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 4: Of my back as opposed to the front of my back.

576
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 2: Oh, I like it. When to get spicy, it's just angry.

577
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,960
Speaker 2: Defeat is hard for an athlete. Defeat is hard.

578
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 3: Did you know she had a white tattoo?

579
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 4: Yeah?

580
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 2: Does anyone just forgot? Do you know I had any

581
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 2: of the other tattoos? I thought maybe you didn't know

582
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 2: about that. It's easy to forget I had one. Actually,

583
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 2: I forget that I have it because you can see

584
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,400
Speaker 2: it was a really poor choice amongst the other ones.

585
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 5: To me, I have the problems. I have areas that

586
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 5: I focus on. In those areas, she doesn't have anything.

587
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 2: Wow. And I want to also a moment for those

588
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:29,959
Speaker 2: wind down guests that were out on tour. I want

589
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 2: to think Nashville, Michigan, in Chicago. I want to ask

590
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 2: I would like this one to be asked, and Kati,

591
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 2: will you just do it? The time of day?

592
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 3: Okay? What is Jianna's favorite time of day to have sex?

593
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 3: And if it's anything but night.

594
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 4: She's not more than person? Yeah, so yeah at night?

595
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 2: Okay?

596
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:55,080
Speaker 4: Good?

597
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 2: I mean, is anybody a morning person? Sometimes in the

598
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 2: afternoon in a nice little closets from the other But

599
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 2: I love a sneaker. But we all know that, all right.

600
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 2: What's Jana's first song she ever released?

601
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 4: Oh, don't have a clue?

602
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 2: Janna, do you have a clue? Do you want to?

603
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 2: I hope she has a clue. Well, I know, sometimes

604
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 2: things you blurry.

605
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 4: I don't know.

606
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm ready for rapid fire.

607
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 2: I am too.

608
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 3: So this is for both of you all though, So okay,

609
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 3: you gotta be ready?

610
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 2: Ready? Am I keeping like a scure?

611
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 3: Who about who apologizes first after a fight?

612
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 2: Me?

613
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 3: This is gonna be slow.

614
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to narrate here a little because Alan

615
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 2: had a swift turn of the neck and the look

616
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 2: of disgust.

617
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 3: I guess he doesn't agree.

618
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 4: You're trying and diffuse quicker and I apologize Quicker.

619
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 2: Well, that's great teamwork.

620
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 3: I think she sees that as an apology.

621
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I apologize to.

622
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 4: Okay Johna. No.

623
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 2: I think I think we both apologize when we do

624
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 2: things that like we we we I do diffuse, But

625
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:13,840
Speaker 2: I also think we both come back and say like, hey,

626
00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 2: sorry I was being whatever and you know you were

627
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 2: there today. Sorry I was being grumpy.

628
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 3: Or you know, rapid fire? Okay, who's funnier?

629
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 2: Alan?

630
00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 5: Really?

631
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 2: Thanks? Man?

632
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 3: Who's more romantic?

633
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 2: This is so consensual? Like? Am I getting anywhere?

634
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 3: Wait? Would you say?

635
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 2: Y'all?

636
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 3: Both said me? I said me, m okay, okay, he

637
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 3: does not agree? Who takes longer to get ready?

638
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 2: Alan? We established to slow, Honey. It's always true. I'm

639
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:55,840
Speaker 2: still ready on time even before absolutely, I know, Honey,

640
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 2: and you're still late.

641
00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 3: So perfect timing for this question. Who's more stubborn?

642
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 2: Alan? Probably good admittance, Alan.

643
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 4: Especially, it's a good thing, it's a bad thing.

644
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 2: It's not a bad thing. It's not a bad thing.

645
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 2: But I'm also stubborn, so I think, but marinate on

646
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 2: how we can about it, and so am I.

647
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 3: I think we're all stubborn.

648
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, but there's a difference. Okay, Scotland one meaningful tier.

649
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 2: I just want to keep reminded me.

650
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 3: Okay, who spends more money Alan on what?

651
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, but what has two wheels and it has

652
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 2: no place in your house? I mean, not on myself.

653
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 2: Can we just back that up. I don't spend money

654
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 2: on myself. I send money on the kids and stuff. Yeah, okay,

655
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:57,959
Speaker 2: should we table that to make sure that we can

656
00:32:58,000 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 2: make it to next week? I think at the end,

657
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 2: I think that was Let's move on.

658
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:01,240
Speaker 3: Okay.

659
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:06,400
Speaker 2: Whoever thinks more Alan? Wow?

660
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, well.

661
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 2: You're overthinking rapid fire moving that is Scotland rapid fire.

662
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 5: Okay, that's subjective. That's subjective. Okay, you stuff, I overthink

663
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 5: other things.

664
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 4: I'm like, no, let's do this, so.

665
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:27,719
Speaker 3: Let's yeah this answer, okay, very treasure who's on their

666
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 3: phone more?

667
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 2: Alan?

668
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 3: Who's more protective?

669
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 2: Alan?

670
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 3: He's not speaking? Who showers more?

671
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 2: Alan?

672
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 3: He's more likely to fall asleep watching TV?

673
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 2: Jannah, you play this game? Yeah? Answer quickly up to

674
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 2: the wedding? Like, do I have to give you a

675
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 2: fake time? Wait?

676
00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 3: Are you late?

677
00:33:57,240 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 5: Though?

678
00:33:57,480 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 4: Too?

679
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 2: So late? Oh no, it's painful. I give him fake time?

680
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:09,799
Speaker 2: I do? He gets fake tied Preston late? Yes, early? Yeah,

681
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 2: but but I'm fine with slow. But late that's a

682
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 2: different bar. You want to go back to any of

683
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 2: the ones before? Were those pretty accurate?

684
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 3: That apology can be sawd After this episode of he

685
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 3: initiates having sex more often?

686
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:30,920
Speaker 2: Wow, that was okay.

687
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:32,280
Speaker 3: Who's more competitive?

688
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,239
Speaker 2: I want to know the answer? Hmm, I think we're

689
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 2: equally competitive. Fair.

690
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:39,839
Speaker 3: Who's better at planning date nights?

691
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:45,400
Speaker 2: Allan? He always always makes that. He always makes a

692
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 2: point in to book a date night. Okay, Honey, you're

693
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 2: more romantic? Would you like that music?

694
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 3: I think so.

695
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 2: We'll give you that. You're more romantic. You write more

696
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 2: notes around the house, I'll give you that. When he's

697
00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 2: he's stuck back on that question, Honey, let's go back

698
00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 2: to who's more romantic? Alan, who's more Who's more romantic?

699
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 3: Allan?

700
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:10,240
Speaker 2: Okay, you guys, me flowers all the time. He's romantic.

701
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 3: But really, who's more likely to be affectionate in public?

702
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:16,320
Speaker 2: Just staring?

703
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 3: Obviously I have video footage that shows definitely, and I'm

704
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:29,320
Speaker 3: not dissing that by any means. Obviously we already answered this.

705
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:34,880
Speaker 3: Who's the better dnswer? Yeah, yeah, he's more spontaneous.

706
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:36,840
Speaker 4: Subjective?

707
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 3: Who is more likely to laugh at their own jokes?

708
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 4: One million?

709
00:35:44,719 --> 00:36:00,120
Speaker 2: Yes, Alan, I'm kidding her own joke, I know, So

710
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:03,400
Speaker 2: we have to laugh at ourselves, so we know that

711
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:09,160
Speaker 2: everyone is laughing. Okay, all right, I have a question, yeah,

712
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 2: to end it, if you could pick what's your what

713
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:16,640
Speaker 2: would be one word to describe each other? Like if

714
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:18,399
Speaker 2: you could describe Janna in one word?

715
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 4: Perfect?

716
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm definitely crimes perfection the same version of a word.

717
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 2: That's a word.

718
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 3: That was going to be And I'm going to give

719
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 3: you a perfection one dollar.

720
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:45,759
Speaker 2: I will say, because that was going to be my

721
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:52,719
Speaker 2: perfection one more time? Okay, I would say powerful. Oh

722
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 2: that's good. Good? All right, guys, Well, the next time

723
00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:58,880
Speaker 2: we hear from you, you are the Russells. Are you

724
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,760
Speaker 2: getting married. After this episode, I'm kind of like, should

725
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 2: we have done this?

726
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:04,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just going to get a book on being

727
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 4: more romantic to go.

728
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 2: I got my rooms. Don't think that our household joking, joking,

729
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 2: kind of. I love you. You are more romantic. You

730
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 2: write me cards and things. I love you so much

731
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:22,120
Speaker 2: and I can't wait to marry you. Okay, signing off work.

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00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 2: You have the way down the plane. Bye bye,