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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Anna, good morning, Welcome, Hi guys, We're glad

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Speaker 1: trying to figure out why you may have gotten ghosted

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Speaker 2: Okay, So we met through mutual coworkers and one of

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Speaker 3: Like my coworker said he would be a good fit

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Speaker 2: Thought we would get along. And to be honest, I'm

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Speaker 2: so good the dating apps that I was.

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Speaker 4: Like, yeah, give it a go.

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Speaker 3: And so we emailed.

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Speaker 2: First and then we talked on the phone, and then

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Speaker 2: eventually we met up and I got to be honest,

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Speaker 3: Better looking than I thought you would be, which is.

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Speaker 2: Great, and he seems you know, he said he was

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Speaker 2: our first date was drinks, and then our second date

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Speaker 4: Okay, really really good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't believe what I'm saying this on the radio.

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Speaker 3: But after that, totally ghost it. Like at first he

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Speaker 2: Like short replies to text and then just didacting and

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Speaker 2: I thought it went really well, and I really don't.

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Speaker 5: Know what happened.

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Speaker 1: I usually like the friend hookup thing because when you're

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I felt like we really hit it off and like

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Speaker 1: All right, So you've reached out to this guy what

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Speaker 2: No, I texted him like I guess the next day,

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Speaker 4: But then it was like, well that's that's a good please.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're glad that he's alive. Let's call Joey. We're

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Speaker 1: hopefully whatever's going on, we can straighten it out and

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Speaker 4: That we pay for.

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Speaker 3: Cool, that'd be great.

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Speaker 1: All I gotta play one song. Hang on, we'll come

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Speaker 1: back and do it. You have to hear what happens

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Speaker 1: next in part two, avoiding about the phone after Chaperone

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Speaker 1: back game two minutes. It's the frend Show, Chaperone, the

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Speaker 1: French Show. He is a good morning, thanks for waking

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Speaker 1: up with us. Hey Anna, Hey, all right, let's call Joey.

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Speaker 1: You guys, we were set up by some coworker friends whatever.

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Speaker 1: They thought you'd be a good match. You went out twice.

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Speaker 1: The second date back to your place. Things went really well,

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Speaker 5: Hello?

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Speaker 4: Is this Joey? Yeah, this is hi Joey. Good morning

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Speaker 4: Fred from the Friend Show.

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Speaker 1: The whole crew is here and I'm sorry to bother,

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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, I was.

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Speaker 5: Anna, she she was She was really cool. We had

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Speaker 5: Well, it turns out that she's got this huge five

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Speaker 4: Oh then the python, Peyton the python. Well that's just adorable.

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Speaker 3: It's ridiculous, And they're rarely attack.

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Speaker 5: Was like in the middle of the night, snake gets

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Speaker 4: That's not I got.

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Speaker 1: You gotta know, people do have and I'm not saying

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Speaker 2: Like Peyton and Paco, if you met them, you would

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Speaker 3: Everybody likes someone they need them.

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Speaker 5: Well, apparently, I'm sure they would love you to really sweet.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So Joe, you can't get over this.

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Speaker 1: We're not not moving past it, like even though you

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Speaker 5: Mean, yeah, I was able to chill long enough to

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Speaker 5: I'm Anna, You're you're like really nice and but if

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Speaker 5: that's like such a huge part of your life, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 5: I just I can't be with someone who raises living

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Speaker 1: All right, that's a no for you, Doug. All Right, look, Anna,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's not gonna work. This has never happened

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Speaker 2: Uh see, No, people tend to be really into them

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Speaker 5: Like, well, you're such a worst about it.

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Speaker 1: But I mean out to uh Peyton, im Paco and

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Speaker 1: shout out to the worst Joey and uh, I guess

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Speaker 1: I might be kind of a wors too. I'm not

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Speaker 1: sure that I wouldn't date you, but I would take

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Speaker 1: some getting used because I just don't know enough about

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Speaker 1: a five foot long.

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Speaker 2: Be open to learning, right, like, be open to like

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Speaker 2: spending some time with them and getting to know them,

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Speaker 2: and then I think you'd be sprised.

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Speaker 4: But whatever, All.

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Speaker 1: Right, fair enough, well guys, best of luck to both

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Speaker 1: of you, and thanks for your time.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, yeah, thanks guys.

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