1 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time y'all don't know, y'all back a 2 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: suit on, looking back to back down, giving the move 3 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:19,639 Speaker 1: like theming buck bus things and its cubs do me 4 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:26,600 Speaker 1: true good it Steve Hary listening to me to other 5 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 1: for ste please don't join joined me to be with me. 6 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 1: You gotta turn, you gotta turn turn turn, got to 7 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 1: turn out to the water, the water. Come come on 8 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 1: your back that it, huh? I sure will a good 9 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, come on dig 10 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 1: me now, one and only Steve Harvey, I got a 11 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: radio show him just trying to give God some back, 12 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: just some back of what even gave me, just a portion, 13 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:25,919 Speaker 1: you know. Just I'm just trying, man to to show 14 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 1: some type of gratitude for all his blessings. I'm just 15 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 1: trying to man, just just get it right sometimes, you 16 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 1: know what I mean. I mean, man, you just can't 17 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 1: do what you want to do and just live wrong 18 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 1: all the time. Man, you got it at one point 19 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 1: in time, Steve, come home. Man, come on, man, you 20 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:49,079 Speaker 1: could do better. I know you can, you know saying, 21 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 1: and you know what I had to do. I had 22 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: to stop saying. I'm gonna try to do better, and 23 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 1: I just had to say, hey, man, I'm going to 24 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 1: do better. You know, trying it is just to put 25 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 1: forth an effort and then if it don't work, well okay. 26 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 1: But if you make up in your mind and I'm 27 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 1: going to do something, then trying isn't enough. It's getting 28 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 1: it done is the only thing that matters. Sin It's 29 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 1: the difference between doing and trying. We're gonna try to 30 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 1: win the game, or we're gonna go out here to 31 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 1: win the game. Now, trying to win the game means 32 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 1: that you could lose. But when you got in your 33 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 1: mind made up, most athletes will tell you that they 34 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: go out there with the full intent and purpose of 35 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 1: winning and winning. Only see they don't put the second 36 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 1: place finish on the cover Sports Illustrated. Second place don't 37 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: get you there. You got to win. And now take 38 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: it out of the scope of athletics, but keep it 39 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: in that type of type of analogy in life. Man, 40 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: you just want to you want to win in life, 41 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 1: don't you. I mean, at the end of the day, 42 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: don't you want to be on the cover of Sports 43 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 1: Illustrated the life Don't you want to be recognized for 44 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: your hard work. Don't you want, you know, to be 45 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 1: recognized within the bonus structure down at your job. Don't 46 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: you want to have your plaque up on the wall 47 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 1: down at your job? I mean most people do. Some 48 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 1: people could care less. Some people don't care about looking 49 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: good or being their best. And that's cool. But I 50 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 1: ain't talking to them though. I'm talking to you. I'm 51 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 1: talking to those of you who want to be the 52 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 1: best you can be. You know, people kill me when 53 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:20,720 Speaker 1: they're getting mad at people here and he Brown knows 54 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: and he hall up on an employee of them. All. Man, 55 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,160 Speaker 1: the dude doing his job to the best of his ability, 56 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:27,480 Speaker 1: and he getting recognized for it? What they got to do? 57 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 1: It all that you're talking about because you ain't up there. 58 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 1: There's an amazing man, how people describe other people's success. 59 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 1: He's so lucky, lucky? Hey man, don't they kind of 60 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:39,160 Speaker 1: get you a little bit when people call you lucky? 61 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: When let me tell you what luck really is, y'all. 62 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:46,280 Speaker 1: Luck is when hard work bumps up into opportunity. Some 63 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:49,840 Speaker 1: people call that luck. But hold on, let's think about this. 64 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 1: If you wasn't working hard an opportunity presented itself, what 65 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 1: would you call that. But see, when you've been working hard, 66 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:00,240 Speaker 1: an opportunity presents itself and it bumps up into each other. 67 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: Now people want to call that luck. But hold up here, 68 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 1: go to part though to day, ain't paying no attention 69 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: to Yeah, that opportunity came by. But if you had 70 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:09,919 Speaker 1: not been working hard and the hard work had not 71 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,719 Speaker 1: ran up in the opportunity, what would you have? No, sir, 72 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:16,479 Speaker 1: it's not luck, it's work. It is work, because as 73 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 1: a scripture that says, faith without works is dead. But 74 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 1: my mama was a Sunday school teacher. She taught me enough. 75 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 1: Though Now I know different between right and wrong, just 76 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:29,839 Speaker 1: like you do. You ain't gotta you know itcus me 77 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 1: when people write a strawberry letter? Am I wrong for this? 78 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 1: You know? Gooding? Well, look at let's read your letter? 79 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 1: Are you wrong for this? You know you're wrong? What 80 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:39,159 Speaker 1: you don't need that's to be telling, you know? But 81 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this anyway. Well e see, go ahead, though, 82 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 1: do what you want to do. But you know what, y'all, 83 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 1: here's the best advice I can give you. This is 84 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: what I really came to talk about this morning, but 85 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 1: I got sidetrack because I listened, get out of your 86 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:57,600 Speaker 1: own way. So many of us are blocking our home 87 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:02,040 Speaker 1: blessings were just in our own way. We are in 88 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:05,719 Speaker 1: our own way. And one of the most dangerous ways 89 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: you can get in your way is to do it 90 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 1: your way, to get it figured your way, and to 91 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 1: lock in on your way and just the way it's 92 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: got to go. Do you know how many people are 93 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 1: blocking a blessing? Do you know how long I blocked 94 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 1: mine with that mindset? Right there? Look, because it's the 95 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 1: way you do it, Do you think that make it 96 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: the right way? You think jazz because you didn't thought 97 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:31,479 Speaker 1: on it long and hard, and that's what you really want. 98 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 1: Do you really think that your way is the right 99 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 1: way or could that be a better way? See? Until 100 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:40,159 Speaker 1: I started listening to God and started paying attention to 101 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: his way, man, I was spending my wheels. Man, I 102 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:46,200 Speaker 1: was out here so determined this how I was going 103 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 1: to do it. But you know I had to learn 104 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:50,600 Speaker 1: how to get out of my own way because just 105 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:53,279 Speaker 1: because I could do it my way didn't mean it 106 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:56,480 Speaker 1: was the right way. I had to get out of 107 00:06:56,560 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 1: my own way. Just get out your way, man, Now, 108 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: what what does that mean? That means? See? Set your goals. 109 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: That means have your dreams. That I'm saying, set your goals. Man, 110 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: I ain't saying don't set goals. Listen to me. Set 111 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: your goals. What is it you want to happen? What 112 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 1: is it you like to have? What is it you 113 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 1: like to be? What are you aspire to? Set your 114 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 1: goals and set your dreams. Now take your goals and 115 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 1: your dreams to God and ask God to show you how. Man, 116 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 1: you can save yourself a lot of pain. Listen to 117 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 1: somebody who did it his way for so long. And 118 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 1: when I finally got out of my way, out of 119 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 1: my own way. When you've heard old people say, let 120 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 1: go and let God, you've heard them say that I didn't. 121 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: I didn't get it, but I got it. Now let 122 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 1: go and let God. And it's amazing little saying. Though 123 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:00,680 Speaker 1: now you know you may not get it now. It 124 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 1: took me a bunch of years to get it too. 125 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 1: But when I took my goals and my dreams and 126 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 1: my vision to God and I said, God, this is 127 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 1: what I hope for, this is what I aspired to, 128 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 1: this is what I want to be, this is why 129 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 1: I would love to get to. Then I said help me, 130 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: show me how point me in the right direction. Let 131 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 1: me follow your footsteps, guide me and give me a 132 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 1: spirit of discernment. Show me who wrong? Because I meet 133 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 1: people every day. Ain't up to no good with me 134 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:34,319 Speaker 1: every single day. Oh man, Man, I can't believe I 135 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:36,960 Speaker 1: run up into you. Man, the Lord told me something's 136 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 1: gonna happen to me today. Well, see, I talked to 137 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 1: him every day. He did not mention you to me. 138 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: He ain't said nothing to me. He didn't tell me 139 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 1: what was gonna happen in mind. Now, I don't mean 140 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 1: it can't happen because I'm open to it. So really, man, 141 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 1: I'm and and please know I'm listening as well as 142 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 1: I've ever listened before. But but get yourself together, though, 143 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 1: see no your goals in your dreams, and then let 144 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:02,719 Speaker 1: God show you how to do it. He'll do it. 145 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:06,959 Speaker 1: You know. It's so important everybody, that you get focused, 146 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 1: that you aim for something, that you dream of something, 147 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 1: that you aspire to something. But it's the most the 148 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:16,080 Speaker 1: best thing you can do. After you do all that, Man, 149 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:19,560 Speaker 1: get God involved in it. Man, talk to him. I mean, 150 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: why would you not what you got to lose? You 151 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 1: ain't got to go down there and make no big 152 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: scene and run laps around the church and run up 153 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 1: there and throw yourself on the altar and scream and 154 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 1: flip over and throw money in the air. You ain't 155 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 1: got to do that. This you and God, man, This, 156 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 1: you and God. You know you got to serve and 157 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 1: praise him the way you do it. You gotta let 158 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 1: nobody else tell you highs done. It's a personal relationship. 159 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:43,679 Speaker 1: People kill me if you don't do it this way. 160 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:45,200 Speaker 1: If you don't come here to this church and you 161 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: don't run around in this circle and you don't get 162 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 1: flipped in the air, you don't, Hey, man, you better 163 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 1: go have a relationship with God. See what that's about. 164 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:54,320 Speaker 1: You understand? Nobody throw you off with all that? All right, 165 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 1: all right, y'all talk to him. He loves to hear 166 00:09:56,280 --> 00:10:03,680 Speaker 1: from you today. You're listening, ladies and gentlemen. Man, have 167 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 1: your undivided attention. Please welcome all rise, hear ye, hear ye. 168 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 1: This is the Steve Harvey Morning shown. Man. Do you 169 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:18,319 Speaker 1: know why I sound glad a lot lately? Because I 170 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 1: have reached a new level of gratitude with my heavenly Father. 171 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 1: I just really man started understanding that and really really 172 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 1: facing the fact that the more gratitude I showed, the 173 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:35,079 Speaker 1: more things he'll give me to be grateful for. So 174 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 1: I just decided to make it a very very conscious 175 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 1: effort to stay grateful, stay in touch with him, talk 176 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:44,679 Speaker 1: with him continually, stop trying to figure my life out, 177 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 1: ask him what it is he wants me to do. 178 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 1: Give us this day our daily bread. And I'm telling you, man, 179 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 1: that that simple change right there has made a world 180 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:59,440 Speaker 1: of difference in my outlook. And when you change your outlook, 181 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 1: you change outcome. So here it is. This is a 182 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 1: new day. This show has dedicated everybody with a great 183 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:08,320 Speaker 1: outlook today, Ladies and gentleman Sherley Strong Bear, Hey, Steve, 184 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:11,840 Speaker 1: good morning, good morning, good morning. He is who I know, 185 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:15,439 Speaker 1: got a good outlook, junior boss. Hey, I'm healthy and 186 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 1: I ain't in that hospital. I'm good. It's a good day, 187 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:21,079 Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. A man who has to be grateful, 188 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 1: fresh out of sy ain't no telling what happened. We 189 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: will find out Top top UNC Steve Sherlett, Jiminia top 190 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:35,880 Speaker 1: of the morning. So how was it, man? I wasn't 191 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: operation and everything? What happened? It was good. Two hour 192 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 1: operation count back to five. I think I got to two, 193 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:44,560 Speaker 1: and when I woke up it was two hours later. 194 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:48,559 Speaker 1: To put me under man, I said, I'm cool. Long 195 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: as I look around the room, I make sure Conrad murrying, 196 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 1: and as long as he ain't the one yeah putting 197 00:11:53,640 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 1: me down, I'm good. You are, yes, long with Conrad 198 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 1: ain't in that, I'm good. But I will tell y'all 199 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 1: the nephew did make y'all proud and embarrassed myself. I 200 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:14,200 Speaker 1: did do that. You made us no doubt about that. Okay, 201 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:16,960 Speaker 1: so I wake up up. If you didn't have a 202 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:20,840 Speaker 1: stupid steward, go ahead. I woke up two hours, lunked out. 203 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:23,240 Speaker 1: They threw at the surgeon. The nurse standing over. She says, 204 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 1: we're done. I say, that's it. He said, we've been 205 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:28,840 Speaker 1: gone for two hours. I said, you're serious. He said yes. 206 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 1: And I'm sitting there in the gown. But I remember, 207 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:33,959 Speaker 1: you know, when I went in, I had the gown 208 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 1: and my underwear on, and I said, hey, hey, what 209 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 1: my underwear? I went in there with underwear. Well, Tommy, 210 00:12:42,320 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 1: you had a bit of an accident during the search. 211 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:49,400 Speaker 1: And then and my wife in the back corner. You 212 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 1: peete on yourself doing surgeon Bardell putting it in place. 213 00:12:58,160 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 1: Yeah you did. I'm telling everybody yourself you're surgery. Did 214 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:14,439 Speaker 1: you tell anybody? Did you tell anybody in that damn hospital? 215 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 1: That was nephew comments They knew that day, Jana, and 216 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:23,079 Speaker 1: you just tell bought the name all the way down. 217 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 1: WHOA Okay? Well, uh wow, nephew coming up at thirty 218 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 1: two after, we're gonna talk about the first public impeachment hearings. 219 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:41,680 Speaker 1: Unless you have more to say, nephew, Uncle Steve. Wow, 220 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 1: We're gonna do that right after this. You're listening to 221 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:50,480 Speaker 1: the morning show, all right. So TikTok, TikTok. Yesterday was 222 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:55,200 Speaker 1: the first public impeachment hearing um. The Democrats decided to 223 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:59,000 Speaker 1: start the hearings with two State Department witnesses, Bill Taylor, 224 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 1: the top US diplomat in Ukraine, and Deputy Assistant Secretary 225 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 1: of State George Kent. Both Taylor and Kent have long 226 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:10,679 Speaker 1: careers and deep experience with Ukraine in particular, and both 227 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 1: are rather appalled by what President Trump did with Ukraine. 228 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 1: Democratic Chairman Adam Schiff said in his opening statement, is 229 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:23,120 Speaker 1: this what Americans should now expect from their president. Take 230 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: a listen. Is this what Americans should now expect from 231 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 1: their president? If this is not an impeachable conduct, what 232 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 1: is does the oath of office itself requiring that our 233 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 1: laws be faithfully executed, that our president defend a constitution 234 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 1: that balances the powers of its branches, setting ambition against ambition, 235 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 1: So we become no monarchy, still have meaning. These are 236 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:48,160 Speaker 1: the questions we much ask an answer without rank, or 237 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 1: if we can without delay, regardless and without party favor, 238 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:55,479 Speaker 1: and without prejudice, if we are true to our responsibilities. 239 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 1: Benjamin Franklin was asked what kind of a country America 240 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:01,920 Speaker 1: was to become public. He answered, if you can keep it. 241 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 1: The fundamental issue raised by the impeachment in Korean too, 242 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 1: Donald J. Trump, is can we keep it without prejudice 243 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 1: and without partisanship? Yeah, two things that this country is 244 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 1: not really good at all. So here we go. We've 245 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 1: started the inquiry process for impeachment. The Republicans are gonna 246 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 1: sit over there and just go, he's done nothing impeachable. Uh, 247 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:40,040 Speaker 1: you know, he's done apps. There was no prope whatever 248 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 1: they call it or whatever they want to call it. 249 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 1: That was none of that he's done nothing illegal. The 250 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 1: economy is booming. Uh, there's we've got enough people that 251 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 1: says that that's not what he was doing, and that's 252 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 1: where they're gonna sit. But also I got what they're 253 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 1: gonna sit. Are we being aggressive though? Are the Democrats 254 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 1: being a press? Well let me say this. I saw 255 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 1: the opening and Um, the Democrats laid out their case. 256 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:19,080 Speaker 1: They definitely have a case. Uh. The Republicans tried to 257 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 1: stop Adam Shipp in his opening statement at every turn. 258 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 1: I think his name is Jim Jordan, the one they 259 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 1: called the bulldog. He was on Ready set go. Did 260 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 1: have a question though, yeah, wish Yeah, Adam Schiff handled 261 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: himself very well. It was dignified. Uh, they have they 262 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 1: do have a case. Uh. Bill Taylor, Ambassador Taylor and 263 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:47,080 Speaker 1: Deputy Secretary of State George Kent. They both spoke very well. 264 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 1: They spoke their truth. So, um, that's all I got 265 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 1: a chance to see today. Yeah, I didn't see it. 266 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 1: I'm still out the country. But here's here's here's my problem. 267 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:01,960 Speaker 1: The Democrats. I believe they do have a case. I 268 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:07,280 Speaker 1: believe that in the House he will get voted to 269 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:10,760 Speaker 1: take it to impeachment. But when it gets to the Senate, 270 00:17:10,760 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 1: whether Republicans have the majority. I don't see how it's 271 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:16,679 Speaker 1: gonna get out of the Senate. And it has to 272 00:17:16,720 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 1: get out of the Senate to become an impeachable offense, 273 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 1: to my understanding, that's the way it works. Yes, so 274 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 1: I don't see they're gonna hold party, Lineman. This is 275 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:34,680 Speaker 1: the most racially divided and bipartisanship I've ever seen. Ever. 276 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:37,200 Speaker 1: They don't work across the out on a damn that 277 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:42,040 Speaker 1: bipartisan whatever that bipartisan means, they work together, Democrats and 278 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 1: Republicans partison. If they don't, yeah, well they ain't dead. 279 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 1: But but to I mean abuse of power for sure, 280 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:57,120 Speaker 1: abuse of power for sure. So we'll see how it goes. Uh. 281 00:17:57,160 --> 00:18:01,200 Speaker 1: It was just crazy, uh, David Nunez his opening statement, 282 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:05,400 Speaker 1: I mean it read like, uh like he was doing 283 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 1: a TV show or or lines from a movie or something. 284 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 1: It was just um. Anyway, it's going to go on 285 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:16,639 Speaker 1: this week and next week as the witnesses continue to 286 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 1: come in and tell their side of the story. So 287 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:23,520 Speaker 1: we'll be watching, of course. Are they showing this on Fox? Yes, 288 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:28,880 Speaker 1: I ever ChIL okay, Yeah, then that's gonna be interesting. 289 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 1: That's gonna be interesting because a lot of Fox viewers 290 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 1: have never seen the facts that CNN lays out because 291 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 1: Fox don't report that. Fox does not report everything that 292 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:46,160 Speaker 1: the President has done, every lie he's told. They don't, 293 00:18:46,240 --> 00:18:49,119 Speaker 1: they don't, they don't show it that way. They just 294 00:18:49,280 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 1: flat out don't report a lot of what he does. 295 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:55,600 Speaker 1: And that's what keeps his U base energized. It's gonna 296 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 1: be real interesting when all of them sitting now. He'll 297 00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 1: lose some support, but his bay, those people are just 298 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 1: And the thing about it was that what I did 299 00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:12,320 Speaker 1: learn from it, Steve, the takeaway was that Rudy Giuliani 300 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:16,359 Speaker 1: is our secretary of State. Hey, and I don't know. 301 00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:19,520 Speaker 1: Giuliani was hoping dim to shut up talking. Yea, so 302 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 1: he needed to be in now. Yeah, forget Mike Pompeo. 303 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 1: Rudy Giuliani is a Secretary of State. Okay, he was 304 00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:30,120 Speaker 1: handling our forum foreign policy. Well, guys. The next plan 305 00:19:30,280 --> 00:19:33,640 Speaker 1: hearing is on Friday, when former US Ambassador to Ukraine 306 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 1: Marie Ivanovitch is slated to testify. That's a woman that 307 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 1: was fired. She was ousted from her post back in April, 308 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:43,640 Speaker 1: so she wasn't around from any of the key events 309 00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:46,960 Speaker 1: of this scandal, but her fate is sort of prologue 310 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:49,280 Speaker 1: to the story, since she is viewed as the victim 311 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 1: of a smearpan campaign from the president's lawyer. Here's its 312 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 1: name again, Rudy Giuliani and his Ukrainian allies that the 313 00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:59,439 Speaker 1: President claims he doesn't know, but he's in all these 314 00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:05,879 Speaker 1: pictures with them. So um, it's interesting. Yeah, it's very interesting. Yeah, 315 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 1: interesting to watch. Rudy is in a lot of trouble. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 316 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:15,720 Speaker 1: he's not gonna testify. Man, I don't believe nothing this guy. No. 317 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:20,359 Speaker 1: I think he's just gonna refuse. And you can indict 318 00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:22,760 Speaker 1: a sitting president, so what they're gonna do to him? 319 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 1: I just think he's gonna refuse. He's never gonna show 320 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 1: you his tax returns. He's not doing none of that. 321 00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:33,399 Speaker 1: Stud is a gangster man and they like him. Is. 322 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:37,159 Speaker 1: He's running the country like he would run his business, right, Okay, 323 00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:42,120 Speaker 1: coming up next, Coming up next, nephew is back from 324 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:44,920 Speaker 1: surgery and he's gonna run that prank back right after 325 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:50,239 Speaker 1: this you're listening to coming up at the top of 326 00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:56,000 Speaker 1: the hour and Entertainment News, John Legend guys. John Legend 327 00:20:56,160 --> 00:21:01,600 Speaker 1: was crowned People magazine Sexiest Man of the Year. Congratulations 328 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:06,639 Speaker 1: John Legend. Oh yeah, yeah, yes, yes, past I love it. 329 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:18,600 Speaker 1: Didn't consider you, yeah Legend, John Legend, I ain't no, yeah, yeah, 330 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:23,639 Speaker 1: I know I ain't in it. Yeah, I love clearly, 331 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:28,560 Speaker 1: clearly clearly. Oh we love it. Three the three of us. Yeah, 332 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:32,200 Speaker 1: he's a bad brother. Yeah, he's socially conscious and all 333 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:38,680 Speaker 1: of that great voice, great stylish, but unconscious on him 334 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:44,320 Speaker 1: being sexy. I'm unconscious. Yeah, yeah, Well he's sexiest Man 335 00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:47,200 Speaker 1: of the Year. Little Nah's x nabs a a huge 336 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:50,000 Speaker 1: country music award, and uh, we're gonna talk about these 337 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:52,399 Speaker 1: stories and miss and will be here with today's national 338 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:54,520 Speaker 1: news at the top of the hour. But right now 339 00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 1: the nephew is here. Would run that prank back? What 340 00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:00,040 Speaker 1: you got for us? Nav fresh out of Carol and 341 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:13,080 Speaker 1: allows his damn mine has People magazine. Let's go get Hello. Hello, 342 00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:17,399 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach are Please. This is hi Brady. 343 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:22,400 Speaker 1: This is offer on the Dallas Police Department. Okay, wanted 344 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:24,680 Speaker 1: to give you a call. Man, We have your husband, 345 00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:29,000 Speaker 1: mister Calvin. Is there any way you can actually come 346 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 1: down to the police station today. Calvin. Is he Calvin? Okay, 347 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:41,879 Speaker 1: we have Calvin. He's been picked up for a Class 348 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:45,800 Speaker 1: C mister demeanor, and I wanted to see if you're 349 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:47,879 Speaker 1: able to pick him up. We're not going to press charges. 350 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 1: There is a two hundred and fifty dollars fine that 351 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:52,600 Speaker 1: needs to be paid, but well, I'm giving you a call. 352 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:54,919 Speaker 1: He asked me to call his wife to see if 353 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:57,640 Speaker 1: you would actually come and pick him up. So it's 354 00:22:57,680 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 1: a two hundred and fifty dollars fine doing something's like 355 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,520 Speaker 1: get there. Yes, we do need two hundred fifty dollar 356 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:06,480 Speaker 1: five okay, lord, because I don't I don't have it. 357 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:08,159 Speaker 1: I'm not to call his mom and get it. What 358 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:12,920 Speaker 1: is he there for? Uh? He was in decent exposure, ma'am. 359 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 1: He was in a park. Are you familiar with Lakeside Park? Yeah? Okay, 360 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:20,679 Speaker 1: he was out at Lakeside Park and he was in 361 00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:23,959 Speaker 1: decent exposure. He had no clothes on. He was with 362 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:27,960 Speaker 1: another person, another female, out there, and they had no 363 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:32,640 Speaker 1: clothes on, waiting. Hole the hell up. You had maken 364 00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:36,159 Speaker 1: a big mistake because Calvin supposed to work. That's what 365 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 1: hell Calvin's supposed to be. It's not a car. So 366 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:46,000 Speaker 1: you saying that you saw him. It's not a detective. 367 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 1: That was actual police officer man that actually brought them in. 368 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 1: They're both were brought in here, um about two hours ago. 369 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 1: He's been processed. He has been processed, but we need 370 00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:59,240 Speaker 1: somebody to actually come pick him up. Now take this 371 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 1: get okay, what tells me what is the two of 372 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 1: the females. What's the female name is? Ya'll risk too 373 00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:07,360 Speaker 1: that with him. She has been arrested. She's actually on 374 00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:09,640 Speaker 1: the other side of the jail. She's on the woman's 375 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 1: wedding's side. Okay, can you get in that name. I 376 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 1: do not have her name in front of me. I 377 00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:17,360 Speaker 1: will be able to have that a little later or um. 378 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:20,040 Speaker 1: But right now, I think more importantly, he's he's actually 379 00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 1: sitting in a holding tank with with no clothes on. 380 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,920 Speaker 1: So I wait a minute, I mean Calvin then lost 381 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 1: this guy nine. I'm not coming to pick him up 382 00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:31,280 Speaker 1: on my Let me carry you. What you need to 383 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:34,119 Speaker 1: be killing Calvin. You need to tell Calvin that he 384 00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:35,880 Speaker 1: needs to come up with two hundred and fifty dollars 385 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 1: to get you just gotta sit hop in and any 386 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:40,880 Speaker 1: need to come up with some more money to pay 387 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:43,639 Speaker 1: for this divorce because I'm handing him music paper and 388 00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:46,480 Speaker 1: you telling him, y'all, y'all do us all. I'm an 389 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,600 Speaker 1: calls mama, she can come get this. I know well, 390 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 1: cavin ever walk this close down now when he gets 391 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 1: this brother guy to see that, you know that's what 392 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:02,400 Speaker 1: they're taken now, you know what. Yeah, I'm calling this mom, 393 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna tell she ain't gonna believe me because 394 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:07,119 Speaker 1: I wanted to bring her down. She always on his side, 395 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,600 Speaker 1: to see, she always on his side. So I want 396 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:12,680 Speaker 1: to take her on the fancied fun with his head 397 00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 1: up that naked and then and then and then she 398 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 1: let him explain that. Yeah, but you kill him perfect 399 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:22,160 Speaker 1: and make sure you tell him that I said. Then 400 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:24,879 Speaker 1: you get him about the situation. I'm not coming to 401 00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,679 Speaker 1: get him and he ain't bringing hi. Thank you. Let 402 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:31,640 Speaker 1: him bring up he wants. Okay, Uh, miss miss Breed, 403 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:36,679 Speaker 1: all right, I just got some paperwork in here about 404 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:41,240 Speaker 1: who the actual female he was arrested with. She was 405 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:46,040 Speaker 1: also out there at Lakeside Park and uh, let's see here. 406 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:56,720 Speaker 1: It seems like we gotta miss Francis Francis, Uh who Francis? 407 00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:03,480 Speaker 1: You shure you found Francis Nike. Yes, ma'am, are you 408 00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:06,679 Speaker 1: I'm sorry? Do you know of Francis? Yes, I'm a Francis. 409 00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:11,960 Speaker 1: That's my first Okay, Well, can I say something else 410 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:15,399 Speaker 1: about your sister? Can I tell you this? Go ahead? 411 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 1: Francis got me the prank phone? Call you, baby? This 412 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:21,639 Speaker 1: is Nephew till Me from the Steve Harvey Moran Show. Brie, 413 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:30,440 Speaker 1: you just got pranked by your sister Francis. Oh Lord Jesus, 414 00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:32,960 Speaker 1: if I tell you what I just have done on 415 00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:36,400 Speaker 1: this fun I can't tell you. Bob Francis, I will 416 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 1: getting ready to come up there and all four and 417 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:43,640 Speaker 1: I know, damn well, Cavil wasn't up there naked. He's 418 00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:45,520 Speaker 1: not doing it like that. I mean, they don't even 419 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 1: really get along. I mean, I'm like, is that what 420 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:51,840 Speaker 1: I'm all about? Really? I ain't got time to follow this. 421 00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:55,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get Francis, thank you though, he Can I 422 00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:58,119 Speaker 1: ask you something, Bree, baby? What's what's the baddest radio 423 00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 1: show in the land? Oh Steven show? Friends? If okay, 424 00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 1: you know Calvin and lost his damn man, y'all know that, 425 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:18,399 Speaker 1: you know? Yeah, man lost this damn man. Listen. I 426 00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 1: gotta comedy laugh Fast Comedy laugh Fest. You can go 427 00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 1: to my website and see everybody that's on the show. 428 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,280 Speaker 1: Go to Thomas Miles dot com. Comedy Laugh Fest jumps 429 00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 1: off December to seventh in the DMV. All right, that's 430 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 1: that DC Virginia, Maryland area. It is the one and 431 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:38,760 Speaker 1: only d L. Hughley, It is Eddie Griffin, it is 432 00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:41,680 Speaker 1: d On Cole, it is Tommy Davidson, hosted by yours 433 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,359 Speaker 1: truly nephew Tommy. And then it goes on to the 434 00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:47,040 Speaker 1: twenty eight to twenty eighth. We will be in Chicago 435 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:51,199 Speaker 1: the twenty ninth. Now check go to Thomas Miles dot com. 436 00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 1: I don't want to confuse you because the lineup changes, 437 00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:57,159 Speaker 1: but you are gonna have DL. You all gonna have 438 00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:00,720 Speaker 1: Dan Coley' all gonna have nephew Tommy said in a 439 00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:04,840 Speaker 1: change is earthquake interchanges Bruce Bruce in a changes Come 440 00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 1: check it out. Go to Thomas Miles dot com and 441 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,000 Speaker 1: you will see we were there twenty seven through the 442 00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:11,960 Speaker 1: thirty first. We might be in a city near you. 443 00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:15,840 Speaker 1: That is Comedy Laughest. Well that's great. Mean you're gonna 444 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:20,200 Speaker 1: be doing fine. Yeah, yeah, I'm gonna be friend, you know, 445 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:21,640 Speaker 1: if I got to go out there, my damn sling, 446 00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:23,400 Speaker 1: as long as I don't pee on myself. No, I'm 447 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 1: good at you. Oh my god. All right, thank you 448 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:31,920 Speaker 1: that baby blad Arson coming up at the top of 449 00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:40,160 Speaker 1: the hour Entertainment and National News right after this. You're 450 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:47,239 Speaker 1: listening to show, all right, So guys, John Legend, that's right, 451 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:53,120 Speaker 1: I said. John Legend is crowned People magazine Sexiest Man Alive. 452 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:57,120 Speaker 1: Baby John said in a tweet that he is perplexed, 453 00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:02,120 Speaker 1: but he thanks people for funding see uh of the 454 00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:05,240 Speaker 1: honor John Legend, who is forty years old. He told 455 00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,920 Speaker 1: People Magazine, I was excited, but I was a little 456 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 1: scared at the same time, because it's a lot of pressure. 457 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:13,880 Speaker 1: Everyone's going to be picking me apart to see if 458 00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 1: I'm sexy enough to hold this title. I'm also following 459 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:20,480 Speaker 1: idress Elba, which is not fair and it's not nice 460 00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:24,320 Speaker 1: to me. Wife Chrissy Teague and tweeted, I cannot wait 461 00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:26,920 Speaker 1: for people to get mad about John being the sexiest 462 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:31,200 Speaker 1: Man Alive. It's my new Starbucks Holiday Cup. Other previous 463 00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:37,040 Speaker 1: winners include, of course, Dwayne Johnson, Denzel Washington, Brad Pitt Idress, 464 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 1: Elba and David Beckham. Now see, listen to me. Clearly, 465 00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:45,800 Speaker 1: I know I don't belong in that group. I'm I'm 466 00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:49,280 Speaker 1: good with that. I know the acres man alive. Yeah, 467 00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:55,040 Speaker 1: sexiest riches. You just ain't got money, so let's just 468 00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:58,000 Speaker 1: stop and get no no, no, no, no, no no 469 00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:02,280 Speaker 1: no all in people it's got money. I'm very clear 470 00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:05,960 Speaker 1: that I don't be long on that list. I have 471 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:09,840 Speaker 1: never thought I would be. I would be beyond perplexed 472 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:12,680 Speaker 1: if they announced that I was the winner. A matter 473 00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 1: of fact, I called out and there see what the 474 00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:19,800 Speaker 1: hell was wrong? Am I being pranked? Tommy must be hell? 475 00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:24,880 Speaker 1: People have said have made me to day man a lie? Okay, 476 00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:29,760 Speaker 1: sexis man? Damn near dad? Okay, so just for just 477 00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:34,840 Speaker 1: for kicks and giggles. Steve uh ring Ring Hello, Hello, 478 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:38,760 Speaker 1: hello man, I speak to Steve Harvey. Please. Oh hi Steve. 479 00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:44,600 Speaker 1: This is Shirley Strawberry from People Magazine. Um from People magazine. Okay, cool, 480 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:48,200 Speaker 1: what y'all look for all interviews you have to call 481 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:51,720 Speaker 1: my publics. Oh no, no, no, no no no. This 482 00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:54,000 Speaker 1: is not for an interview. You've been at our magazine 483 00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:57,720 Speaker 1: many many times. I just wanted to let you know 484 00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:02,000 Speaker 1: that I have the honor of telling you that you 485 00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:09,520 Speaker 1: are People Magazines sexiest Man of the Year. Hello, got 486 00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:26,320 Speaker 1: it got to be so who? Hello Tommy, mister Harvey's 487 00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:30,840 Speaker 1: quit playing man, know who you is? Quit playing Tommy? 488 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:35,400 Speaker 1: I love Tommy. Tommy has put me on the phone. No, 489 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:39,240 Speaker 1: there's no there's no one on here but me, mister Harvey. 490 00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:43,040 Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry, I'm editor, lady, lady, I ain't got time 491 00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:52,320 Speaker 1: Tommy Magazine, Tommy, tom You baby is oh you? Shirley 492 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,000 Speaker 1: is the co host of the show. Hey white lady, 493 00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:58,880 Speaker 1: listen to me. I ain't got time for this year. 494 00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:02,800 Speaker 1: Mister Harvey, your little bushy voice that ain't even real. 495 00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:06,200 Speaker 1: Nobody that ain't even real. Don't nobody really talk like that? 496 00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:08,760 Speaker 1: I can't tell if you're excited or if you're angry, 497 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,600 Speaker 1: mister Harvey, I just told you we named you sexiest 498 00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:20,640 Speaker 1: man alive. Congratulations. What I just see? Girl? Y'all know 499 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 1: how to get in touch with Will Smith for nothing? 500 00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:28,960 Speaker 1: You want to try a little ask Kevin you got 501 00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:33,160 Speaker 1: nice and that ladies and gentlemen, is how that would go? 502 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:37,560 Speaker 1: If Steve repeats for sexiest Man alive. Okay, I can 503 00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:44,960 Speaker 1: see you saying all of that, but congratulations to John Legend. 504 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,480 Speaker 1: He is a great guy who has it all time. 505 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:52,280 Speaker 1: Now Steve for today's headlines, A sexy man alive, Come 506 00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:56,600 Speaker 1: on s miss ed trill, Thank you very much. Okay, 507 00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:58,840 Speaker 1: this is answered with the news. The House Intelligence Committee 508 00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:01,280 Speaker 1: offen the public phase of it's impeachment and career yesterday. 509 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:03,480 Speaker 1: If you didn't see. It started out with a testimony 510 00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:06,720 Speaker 1: by Deputy Assistant Secretary for European and Eurasian Affairs, George 511 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:10,760 Speaker 1: Kent and the acting US Ambassador in Ukraine at William Taylor, 512 00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:12,920 Speaker 1: a tailor board witness to a scheme that he and 513 00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:16,160 Speaker 1: Kent described as being direct opposition to US interests, and 514 00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 1: which he further described as wildly orthodox and way out 515 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:23,320 Speaker 1: of biology. I think it's crazy to withhold security assistance 516 00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:26,840 Speaker 1: for help with a political campaign. What did you mean 517 00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:30,360 Speaker 1: when you said you thought it was crazy. I meant 518 00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:36,000 Speaker 1: that because of the importance of security assistance, because that 519 00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:39,320 Speaker 1: was so important, That security ass was so important for 520 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:44,840 Speaker 1: Ukraine as well as our own national interest. To withhold 521 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:49,640 Speaker 1: that assistance for no good reason other than help with 522 00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:54,960 Speaker 1: a political campaign made no sense. It was illogical, It 523 00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:58,760 Speaker 1: could not be explained. It was crazy falseman largely repeated 524 00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:01,480 Speaker 1: the testimony that they gave closed towards. Meanwhile, President Trump 525 00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 1: received another legal slap yesterday. The US Appeals Court decided 526 00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:08,600 Speaker 1: not to revisit an October decision supporting a House subpoena 527 00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 1: for his financial records. Trump's lawyers can still appeal to 528 00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:14,960 Speaker 1: the Supreme Court. Ohio Congressman Tim Ryan says he's endorsing 529 00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 1: Joe Biden for president. Ryan, a former presidential candidate himself, 530 00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:21,880 Speaker 1: tells MSNBC that this election is more than just beating 531 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:24,240 Speaker 1: Donald Trump. He says, it means more to the American 532 00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:26,600 Speaker 1: people than just beating the man. The best thing we 533 00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:29,200 Speaker 1: can do for the environment and climate change is to 534 00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,439 Speaker 1: beat Donald Trump or provide healthcare and prescription drugs. We've 535 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:34,760 Speaker 1: got to beat Donald Trump. And to me, it's clear 536 00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:37,359 Speaker 1: as you go round and round and think about all 537 00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:40,960 Speaker 1: of these great candidates, that that's Joe Biden, and I'm 538 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:42,640 Speaker 1: going to support him. I'm going to do everything I 539 00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:44,600 Speaker 1: can for him in the Early States and then the 540 00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:48,000 Speaker 1: Midwest to help him become the nominee and beat Donald Trump. Meanwhile, 541 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:51,560 Speaker 1: there's another possible entry former Massachusetts Governor Duval Patrick, who, 542 00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:54,080 Speaker 1: as reportly, told some senior Democrats he's ready to enter 543 00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,880 Speaker 1: the primary race tomorrow. Cops and Philly say that an 544 00:34:56,920 --> 00:35:00,160 Speaker 1: eleven month old baby shot several times when his father 545 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,239 Speaker 1: allegedly took him along on a drug deal as a 546 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:05,560 Speaker 1: human shield, thinking nobody would shoot the child. The baby 547 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,200 Speaker 1: shot in the head, torso, and if he survives, would 548 00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 1: most likely be a quadriplegic. That father in the feast 549 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:14,319 Speaker 1: Monroe is obviously under arrest, Yes he is. Yesterday, Colin 550 00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,640 Speaker 1: Kaepernick tweeted in response to the NFL hosting a private 551 00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:20,279 Speaker 1: workout for him in Atlanta over the weekend, and an 552 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:23,239 Speaker 1: NFL analyst, Ian Rappaport says that Jay Z, who's been 553 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:25,480 Speaker 1: working with the NFL and some social justice issues, was 554 00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:28,520 Speaker 1: involved in that and pushed the idea. Today's nationale Teddy 555 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:35,319 Speaker 1: Bear Day. Now back to Steve Harvey Morning show. You're 556 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:40,680 Speaker 1: listening to all right, so we have to say congratulations 557 00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:45,480 Speaker 1: to Lamar owed him again. Lamar has proposed to his girlfriend. No, 558 00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:48,520 Speaker 1: it is not Chloe Kardashian. They did not get back together. 559 00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:55,800 Speaker 1: Her net. Don't do that, Tommy. Her name is Sabrina Parr. 560 00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:59,560 Speaker 1: They've been dating for three months. You know he doesn't 561 00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:03,040 Speaker 1: go in for long proposals, you know that long engagements 562 00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:06,800 Speaker 1: or anything. Sabrina instagram her fantastic news with the photo 563 00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:11,839 Speaker 1: of the massive pear shaped diamond ring that Lamar gave her. 564 00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:15,000 Speaker 1: It is beautiful, she wrote to her followers in all 565 00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:19,640 Speaker 1: caps quote, I said, yes, I love it, So congratulations 566 00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:23,000 Speaker 1: to Lamar and sabrinas like, yeah, it seems like November 567 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 1: and December is a popular time to propose. Um, so 568 00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:30,440 Speaker 1: I got to ask you this today's relationship topic. Is 569 00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:34,120 Speaker 1: it easier to be single in a relationship, married or divorced? 570 00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:38,240 Speaker 1: What do you guys thinks? Junior? You say single because 571 00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:42,319 Speaker 1: you're single? Yeah, yeah, all right, and what is much? 572 00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:45,719 Speaker 1: Go ahead, jud no God to say I'm single? You know, 573 00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:49,680 Speaker 1: I just wear about me? Uh that's why. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, 574 00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:54,399 Speaker 1: that's the simplest. Yeah. I think it's Oh, I think 575 00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:57,680 Speaker 1: it's very easy to be divorced. I think that's the 576 00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:04,240 Speaker 1: happiest happy that to get divorced. Yeah, I think divorce 577 00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:08,680 Speaker 1: like death. Oh oh well, listen, I mean, divorce is hard, 578 00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:12,319 Speaker 1: but after it's over, though, that's the happiest to lead 579 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:17,080 Speaker 1: a man's life that's his happiest. Not really, but I'm 580 00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:20,880 Speaker 1: just saying, you know, it's it's difficult, divorce is difficult. 581 00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,359 Speaker 1: But after so it's the best day of his life. 582 00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:28,520 Speaker 1: But with Junior, I think single is there. Yeah, it's 583 00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:30,600 Speaker 1: the most careful time because you ain't got worried about 584 00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,719 Speaker 1: no especially if you're single with no kids. Yeah, oh man, 585 00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,040 Speaker 1: you got going to do it how you want to 586 00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:39,720 Speaker 1: do it, no one to answer. You can do whatever 587 00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:43,439 Speaker 1: you want. At the same time, after being divorced, after 588 00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:47,880 Speaker 1: being single, and after being happily married, this is actually 589 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:53,360 Speaker 1: the best phase of my life ever. The last fourteen 590 00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:56,800 Speaker 1: years of my life have been the best that I 591 00:37:56,920 --> 00:38:01,000 Speaker 1: have no other period that even comes the thing, well, 592 00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:04,560 Speaker 1: I wanted to get to your nephew. Happily married is 593 00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:09,319 Speaker 1: a beautiful thing. I'm all that all day long. I'm 594 00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:13,680 Speaker 1: gonna tell you something doing this surgeon if my Tommy, 595 00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:17,879 Speaker 1: are you for real right now? What I say? No? Yeah, 596 00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:22,520 Speaker 1: all day long? Ain't nobody happily made all damn day long? 597 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:26,440 Speaker 1: He ain't nobody that you mean? You ain't looked upside 598 00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:32,799 Speaker 1: her head? And the time? Are you on? Man? I'm 599 00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:35,480 Speaker 1: a man's right now. What I say, y'all, oh man, 600 00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,480 Speaker 1: all day long, I said you happy in your man? 601 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:43,479 Speaker 1: All right? Well, listen, coming up at thirty four after 602 00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:46,960 Speaker 1: the hour, we're gonna do some trending sports news. Colin 603 00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:51,040 Speaker 1: Kaepernick gets an NFL workout. We'll talk about that right 604 00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:57,800 Speaker 1: after the time you're listening and trending sports news. Colin 605 00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:00,560 Speaker 1: Kaepernick's chances of returning to the NFL bell will get 606 00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,239 Speaker 1: a big boost this weekend, when he will get to 607 00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:07,600 Speaker 1: work out for representatives from all thirty two teams. Thirty 608 00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:11,080 Speaker 1: two year old Kaepernick hasn't played since twenty sixteen, which 609 00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:14,759 Speaker 1: is when he began protesting police brutality and racial injustice 610 00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:18,239 Speaker 1: by kneeling during the national anthem. The league invited him 611 00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:22,160 Speaker 1: yesterday to an open workout in Atlanta on Saturday that 612 00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,480 Speaker 1: all teams are welcome to attend. Kaepernick will get on 613 00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:27,719 Speaker 1: the field to show whether or not he's still in 614 00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:31,279 Speaker 1: game shape, and will also sit for interviews, but it 615 00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:34,959 Speaker 1: is unclear how many teams will actually attend, especially since 616 00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:38,800 Speaker 1: they've been given such short notice. Kaepernick's reps asked the 617 00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:41,840 Speaker 1: league to move the workout to Tuesday because half of 618 00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:44,880 Speaker 1: the teams will be busy traveling on Saturday, and therefore 619 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:48,840 Speaker 1: some coaches in general managers may not be available to attend. 620 00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:56,320 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, so today, move it to Tuesday. No, 621 00:39:56,680 --> 00:40:01,279 Speaker 1: it's gonna know, yeah, it's gonna be Saturday. Yeah. Well, 622 00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:03,200 Speaker 1: who you think he could play for it? Right now? 623 00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:06,879 Speaker 1: Who can use a quarterback right now? I don't know. Well, 624 00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:10,600 Speaker 1: you know, I don't know, man, let's I like calling, 625 00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:13,600 Speaker 1: I really really do. He hasn't played in a while, 626 00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:19,200 Speaker 1: and last time he did play it was an effective play. 627 00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:24,920 Speaker 1: Do I think he deserves a shot? Absolutely? Now, are 628 00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:28,640 Speaker 1: the teams who could use take a look at him? Yes, 629 00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:32,400 Speaker 1: I think Uh. I think that Chicago could take a 630 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,920 Speaker 1: look at him because they have a struggling QB situation 631 00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:38,960 Speaker 1: up there. I think he would be good to look 632 00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:43,919 Speaker 1: at down in Tampa Bay because they're struggling a bit, 633 00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:47,960 Speaker 1: I think, And you know, I think it's a lot 634 00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:51,480 Speaker 1: of places, man, that could use some um the Jets 635 00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:54,720 Speaker 1: need to back up. Uh, it's a lot of teams 636 00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:58,080 Speaker 1: need to back up, you know. And so he's I 637 00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:00,480 Speaker 1: think he's worth a look. I don't. I don't know 638 00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:04,440 Speaker 1: that he could start for anybody right now, but he 639 00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:08,879 Speaker 1: could definitely yeah, I think I don't think he could 640 00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:11,600 Speaker 1: start for anybody right now, but I think he's definitely 641 00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:14,359 Speaker 1: cap buller playing backup and then getting a shot at 642 00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:18,319 Speaker 1: the starting job. You gotta remember he ain't been hit 643 00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:22,000 Speaker 1: in three fo you yeah at all? Yeah, he has 644 00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:30,080 Speaker 1: no contact though he doesn't every day, right, Yeah, with 645 00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:38,080 Speaker 1: getting hit, that shape can change. Yeah yeah, yeah, But 646 00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:40,000 Speaker 1: I'm glad of giving him some kind of shot. I 647 00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:42,160 Speaker 1: hope it's I hope it's a good shot. Yeah, me too, 648 00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:44,520 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. You know, it's kind of 649 00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:47,520 Speaker 1: little little funkingness to it. It's sad this short notice. 650 00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:50,480 Speaker 1: You know, they gave him sad a lot of teams traveling, 651 00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:53,120 Speaker 1: like they said, you know, so you know, it's kind 652 00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:55,320 Speaker 1: of got a little taken or leave it flavor to it, 653 00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:59,560 Speaker 1: but you know, you never know. I hope he lands somewhere. 654 00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:03,239 Speaker 1: I really really do, right, I really really do. Man. 655 00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:07,160 Speaker 1: I just like the fact that he's not giving up 656 00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:10,640 Speaker 1: on his dream. You know, that's his dream to play football, obviously, 657 00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:14,440 Speaker 1: and um he's staying in shape and he's staying ready 658 00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:16,600 Speaker 1: so he won't have to get ready. That part I 659 00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:19,440 Speaker 1: like it about. You know, it's saying about money he 660 00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:22,399 Speaker 1: got money. Yeah, I want to play. He wants to play, 661 00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:27,120 Speaker 1: he want compete, man, And I think I'm with him. 662 00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:29,799 Speaker 1: I like him a lot. I like him a lot. 663 00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:31,960 Speaker 1: I hate that they played him out so long in 664 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:36,480 Speaker 1: his prime years, but yeah, I think he's good. Is 665 00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:38,880 Speaker 1: it like? But you know, if you stay in great shape, 666 00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:41,600 Speaker 1: you know, like like like a Brady or something like that, 667 00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:44,399 Speaker 1: it can happen. Bred far play for a long time. 668 00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:48,680 Speaker 1: You know, quarterbacks up, you know, right, they stick around. 669 00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:52,600 Speaker 1: Did Ali have to sit out in his brand? Was 670 00:42:52,640 --> 00:43:00,560 Speaker 1: gonna ask? Yeah? Yeah, absolutely absolutely, man, Yeah that three 671 00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:06,880 Speaker 1: years and came back and took every title. This is 672 00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:10,600 Speaker 1: a bad man now, making no mistake about it. But 673 00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:15,319 Speaker 1: they stripped him in his prime. But he still came back, man, 674 00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:20,440 Speaker 1: you know, and and made a huge just an amazing 675 00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:25,320 Speaker 1: athlete and more than an athletic, was a spokesperson for 676 00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:30,880 Speaker 1: the world. Yeah, Ali was probably the greatest athlete ever lived. Wow, 677 00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:36,320 Speaker 1: that's saying a lot. Yeah, yea. All right, Well, guys, 678 00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:38,759 Speaker 1: coming up next, the nephew in the building with a 679 00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:44,839 Speaker 1: praying phone call. Right after this, you're listening, coming up 680 00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:47,320 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes 681 00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:51,000 Speaker 1: after it's my Strawberry letter for today, subject her old 682 00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:55,239 Speaker 1: man is taking care of my family. Okay, yeah, but 683 00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:58,719 Speaker 1: right now, yeah, wait till you hear this one. Right 684 00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:02,000 Speaker 1: now though the nephew is here in the building with 685 00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:05,000 Speaker 1: today's prank phone call. What you got for us? Now, Well, 686 00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:07,560 Speaker 1: surely we're gonna have Chopper's funeral, but we're gonna have 687 00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:11,120 Speaker 1: it at the club. Chopper's funeral at the club. Let's 688 00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:16,080 Speaker 1: go to the club. Come on, cat, Yeah, I'm trying 689 00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:21,160 Speaker 1: to reach your James, James James, Yeah, yeah, what's up? Hey, 690 00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:24,479 Speaker 1: this this is a Gerald. Uh. I was a friend 691 00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:29,840 Speaker 1: of uh, your your friend Chopper, Yeah, huh and Chopper 692 00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:35,360 Speaker 1: just uh passed away last week, right, yeah, I know 693 00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:37,680 Speaker 1: they posed hall the funeral and stuff over at uh 694 00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:42,080 Speaker 1: at mom Baptist Church, and uh, I don't really know you, 695 00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:44,160 Speaker 1: but me, Me and me and Chopper and a bunch 696 00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:45,799 Speaker 1: of rest of was man. We used to hang out 697 00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,520 Speaker 1: at the club not too far from the house. You know, 698 00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:51,839 Speaker 1: that's pretty much with chopping Wood all the time at 699 00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:54,080 Speaker 1: the club. Anyway, what a bunch of us was over 700 00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:56,880 Speaker 1: at the club talking man and I was we was 701 00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:59,360 Speaker 1: really want to reach out to one of the family members. 702 00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:01,160 Speaker 1: You know, and then somebody said you was, you know, 703 00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:05,320 Speaker 1: kind of a good friend of his. And when we 704 00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:07,879 Speaker 1: we we we decided to call you and see if 705 00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:11,319 Speaker 1: you didn't mind. Do you think that you can talk 706 00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:16,319 Speaker 1: to some of the family members and see if they 707 00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:21,080 Speaker 1: don't mind having the funeral at the club. At the club, 708 00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:24,040 Speaker 1: let me let me try to explain something to you, Jane. 709 00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:27,320 Speaker 1: What we're trying to do is, see, we believe that 710 00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:31,399 Speaker 1: we believed you said at the club. Come on the club, 711 00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:35,080 Speaker 1: there's a funeral. What I understand it. But see, see 712 00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:38,239 Speaker 1: chop Choppa ain't really go to church a whole lot. 713 00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:40,160 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. He didn't really really go 714 00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:42,440 Speaker 1: long as I've been knowing him. Now, he loved a 715 00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:48,719 Speaker 1: lord and stuff like that. But I understand, But see, 716 00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:52,680 Speaker 1: Chopper woodn't Chopper Chopper went to the club. So what 717 00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:57,680 Speaker 1: I'm asking you will let's have the funeral at the club. Hell, no, bro, 718 00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:01,480 Speaker 1: come on, we can't have that, no club man. Come on. 719 00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:04,680 Speaker 1: What I'm saying is, though, is that he wasn't really 720 00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:08,239 Speaker 1: no church going person. I believe that a person ought 721 00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:11,520 Speaker 1: to be the last words are to be said over 722 00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:14,400 Speaker 1: him in a place. He's more familiar with. You know 723 00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,560 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, player, Player, No, I don't. I don't 724 00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:19,759 Speaker 1: know what you mean. Players. No, just just gotta be 725 00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:22,239 Speaker 1: a funeral. This is this is church for I go 726 00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:24,319 Speaker 1: to church and all my folks go to church. Now 727 00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:26,400 Speaker 1: we we gotta do this thing up in church. This 728 00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:28,560 Speaker 1: is a church thing. But you don't feel But do 729 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:30,520 Speaker 1: you understand where I'm coming from? No, that a man 730 00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:33,120 Speaker 1: ought to going on and and the last words are 731 00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:35,080 Speaker 1: to be in a place he more familiar with. Now, 732 00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:37,800 Speaker 1: if he went to church, then I understand that you 733 00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:41,120 Speaker 1: see him, bro, No, no, see this is his chance 734 00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:44,279 Speaker 1: to get itself right. Weren't we gonna have him up 735 00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:48,439 Speaker 1: in church in front of everybody? You know? That don't 736 00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:50,880 Speaker 1: make sense? Who's this again? I mean? Who are you? 737 00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:54,440 Speaker 1: My name Gerald? But who is Gerald? I mean? How 738 00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:56,239 Speaker 1: do you? How do you relate to this? Are you 739 00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:59,759 Speaker 1: preach your are you no? No? Are you? No? No? No, no, 740 00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:02,480 Speaker 1: I'm I'm I was friends with Chopper and see I 741 00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:05,040 Speaker 1: hung out at the club and still hang out there 742 00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:07,879 Speaker 1: with a whole bunch of you know, was real good 743 00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:10,200 Speaker 1: friends with Chopping, and we were saying that, you know, 744 00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:14,640 Speaker 1: Chopper's the last words about Chopper or to be said 745 00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:16,640 Speaker 1: at the club, because see that's what Chopper was. But 746 00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:19,719 Speaker 1: five six days a week, that's what Chopper was. Yeah, 747 00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:22,799 Speaker 1: but what church are you affiliated with? I mean, what what? Why? 748 00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:26,240 Speaker 1: To hell? What? I try to talk to the family, 749 00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:28,719 Speaker 1: make me look stupid in front of the family, telling 750 00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:30,880 Speaker 1: them to put the thing in a club? How that 751 00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:33,439 Speaker 1: gonna go off? Well? See, see that's what I'm saying. 752 00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:35,640 Speaker 1: You know him way more than we do, because see 753 00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:38,359 Speaker 1: that you're talking about trying to move from a damn 754 00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:40,920 Speaker 1: you you don't add a church to a damn nightclub 755 00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:43,279 Speaker 1: or strip club or something. No, no, no strip club, 756 00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:46,040 Speaker 1: just a nightclub. It's the same thing, ain't it. I 757 00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:49,800 Speaker 1: mean you talking about having folks traveled from across the 758 00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:53,440 Speaker 1: country and meeting into the damn club. What kind of that? 759 00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:57,399 Speaker 1: But that's what Chopper was. That's what Chopper was. I'm 760 00:47:57,480 --> 00:47:59,919 Speaker 1: gonna look if I'm the one telling them to rule 761 00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:03,120 Speaker 1: to the club, You're gonna look like somebody that's trying 762 00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:05,440 Speaker 1: to I'm gonna look like a fool. No you're not. 763 00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:07,480 Speaker 1: You're gonna look like somebody that's trying to keep it real. 764 00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:10,040 Speaker 1: Come to the damn funeral. If I will to do 765 00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,279 Speaker 1: something like that. Okay, okay, let me ask you this 766 00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:15,919 Speaker 1: hitting Oh Jane, do you think you can maybe get 767 00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:20,880 Speaker 1: the body and bring it over to the club. No, well, 768 00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:23,640 Speaker 1: I'm just saying before they even do the funeral or whatever. 769 00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:27,640 Speaker 1: You Hell, no, I ain't touching getting the walk in 770 00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:32,440 Speaker 1: the dog by my body. For hell now. We're just 771 00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:35,320 Speaker 1: trying to say our last words at chopper Man in 772 00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:39,080 Speaker 1: a place that chopper most. No. Hell again, who you 773 00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:42,840 Speaker 1: you get my number? Somebody at the club had your numbers, 774 00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:45,480 Speaker 1: said you was crint. But why do y'all call me? 775 00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:49,279 Speaker 1: Of all folks, y'all call me, They say you good. 776 00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:51,320 Speaker 1: You in with the family, and you can tell me 777 00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:53,839 Speaker 1: the family. But I ain't end in the family. Make 778 00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:57,719 Speaker 1: me look stupid. Hell now, won't y'all I get all 779 00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:00,200 Speaker 1: of them to the family, y'all call the family. I'll 780 00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,799 Speaker 1: tell him that yourself. Man, I won't. I just want 781 00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:04,799 Speaker 1: trying to get you to brain the body by man 782 00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:08,200 Speaker 1: and let us no, I ain't touching no dead body. 783 00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:10,880 Speaker 1: We just want to have one, lads, drink with chopper Man. 784 00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,680 Speaker 1: You have one with your boys, and you you get 785 00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:17,799 Speaker 1: together with him and y'all talk about bottom and let 786 00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:19,960 Speaker 1: him know how Chopper one? What kind of prison was? 787 00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:22,200 Speaker 1: What kind of prison? But we need to we won't 788 00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:25,160 Speaker 1: chop up to be there. This Chopper, this is Chopper 789 00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:29,040 Speaker 1: you talking about? Man, Bring y'all to the church. Y'all 790 00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:31,440 Speaker 1: need to be up in the church. We want to 791 00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:33,920 Speaker 1: have a Chopper at the club. Well, we didn't know 792 00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:37,000 Speaker 1: them all, man, y'all full of well, we know my 793 00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:40,279 Speaker 1: cup looking like a food at the damn funeral? What 794 00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:43,560 Speaker 1: this about Chopper though? And then I'm writing about Chopper. 795 00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:47,120 Speaker 1: You'll break Chopper to that club, y'all tripping? Man, I 796 00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:50,439 Speaker 1: ain't doing I'm just going to this funeral. I'm gonna 797 00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:52,600 Speaker 1: care to say what I think about Chopping, and I'm 798 00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:55,200 Speaker 1: going tall. If y'all want to act crazy in front 799 00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:56,480 Speaker 1: of the town of y'all call the fun of y'all 800 00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:59,440 Speaker 1: selling me that. Look, I got one more thing I 801 00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:04,080 Speaker 1: want to s I don't even know what this is. 802 00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:07,800 Speaker 1: Nephew tim me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You 803 00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:16,160 Speaker 1: just got pranked by your board. This nephew taught me. 804 00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:19,120 Speaker 1: Man from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your boyd told 805 00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:26,640 Speaker 1: me to prank you. Man, I just know James. This 806 00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:32,560 Speaker 1: is nephew tim Me Boy no non play. Oh man, 807 00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:36,480 Speaker 1: I can't believe this. No, he didn't. I can't even 808 00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:38,480 Speaker 1: believe he did that. Hey man, I got one more 809 00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:41,960 Speaker 1: thing to ask you, man, what is the baddest radio 810 00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:46,560 Speaker 1: show in the land. The Steve Harvey Moaning Show. You know, 811 00:50:46,719 --> 00:50:48,480 Speaker 1: Fuelling ain't got to be at the church. Sometimes he 812 00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:50,279 Speaker 1: can be at the club too, you know what I'm saying. 813 00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:55,839 Speaker 1: You have it anyway, that's spent all this time, way 814 00:50:55,920 --> 00:51:03,160 Speaker 1: spending time? You might well have holiday comedy jam. We 815 00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:05,800 Speaker 1: are coming your way Friday d cent of the twentieth 816 00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:07,960 Speaker 1: at the Matt m Philadelphia. You don't want to miss it. 817 00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:10,320 Speaker 1: It's the holiday comedy jam you got Earthquake Jam, d 818 00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:13,480 Speaker 1: Brown Kid Junior Spates hosted by yours truly in a 819 00:51:13,520 --> 00:51:16,080 Speaker 1: few times. That is Friday d cent of the twentieth. 820 00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:18,680 Speaker 1: Tickets on sale at all ticket Master outlets and you 821 00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:21,279 Speaker 1: can go to the met Philadelphia box office and get 822 00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:24,360 Speaker 1: your tickets. You're at there. This is a w D 823 00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:28,680 Speaker 1: A s f M event. All right, man, Hey, So 824 00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:32,040 Speaker 1: what was you thinking about when you released yourself from 825 00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:35,000 Speaker 1: the operator on operating What was you thinking about? Where 826 00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:37,719 Speaker 1: was you at? Junior? I was under I was sedated, 827 00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:39,960 Speaker 1: I was out. Yeah, but in your dream was you 828 00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:42,759 Speaker 1: thinking you was in the bathroom? I don't know. I 829 00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:45,759 Speaker 1: don't even remember dreaming. When you go that far under 830 00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:54,719 Speaker 1: you too far? How can yeah? You dream? You year 831 00:51:54,880 --> 00:52:00,239 Speaker 1: nat and as a boy is so real? Yeah? As 832 00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:05,880 Speaker 1: an adult? Over here, body's tree always outside. So well, 833 00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:12,640 Speaker 1: all right, guys, thank you, nephew, thank you, guys. Coming 834 00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:16,040 Speaker 1: up next Strawberry Letter. We'll get into its subject, her 835 00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:19,440 Speaker 1: old man is taking care of my family right after this. 836 00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:26,400 Speaker 1: You're listening to Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And 837 00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:30,520 Speaker 1: if you need advice on relationships, on dating, sex, work, parenting, 838 00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:34,800 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey 839 00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:38,719 Speaker 1: FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. Okay, we could be 840 00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:41,560 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 841 00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:44,719 Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now. Let's go. 842 00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:47,640 Speaker 1: Let's buckle up and hold on tight. We got it 843 00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:51,600 Speaker 1: for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter, Dear Stephen Shirley. 844 00:52:52,040 --> 00:52:54,720 Speaker 1: The subject her old man is taking care of my family. 845 00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:58,399 Speaker 1: I jumped ahead of myself, excited to get into this one. 846 00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:02,680 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I have two children with my high school. Sweetheart, 847 00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:06,960 Speaker 1: we both come from seriously dysfunctional families, and we were 848 00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:12,279 Speaker 1: all each other had. Shortly after we graduated, I got 849 00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:16,600 Speaker 1: incarcerated for eighteen months on a drug possession charge. During 850 00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:19,800 Speaker 1: this time, my kid's mother met an older guy, and 851 00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:22,320 Speaker 1: he began to take care of her and my kids. 852 00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:25,800 Speaker 1: He bought her a new car and moved her and 853 00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:29,440 Speaker 1: the kids into an upscale apartment. I'm not a fool, 854 00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:33,160 Speaker 1: so I know there was give and take in this situation, 855 00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:35,200 Speaker 1: but I was locked up, so what could I say. 856 00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:38,160 Speaker 1: I've been out of jail for about nine months, and 857 00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:41,560 Speaker 1: he has continued to cover all of my family's expenses. 858 00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:44,000 Speaker 1: I talked to my girl about the older guy, and 859 00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:46,200 Speaker 1: she says she has no problem with me staying with 860 00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:50,440 Speaker 1: her and getting my life back on track. But here's 861 00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:54,560 Speaker 1: a big problem. I can't take the disappearance of my 862 00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:58,000 Speaker 1: girl once or twice a week. I know where she's going, 863 00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:03,080 Speaker 1: but we never talk about it, and feel I feel 864 00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:07,239 Speaker 1: more and more emasculated each time she disappears. I have 865 00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:09,520 Speaker 1: a decent job, but it's not the type of job 866 00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:12,400 Speaker 1: that will keep her in the lifestyle she's accustomed to. 867 00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:15,279 Speaker 1: The only way I know how to do that would 868 00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:17,480 Speaker 1: be to go back to doing what got me sent 869 00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:20,320 Speaker 1: to jail years ago. My girl told me that she 870 00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:22,600 Speaker 1: hopes I can step up to the plate and take 871 00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:24,839 Speaker 1: care of my family so she can let the guy 872 00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:28,160 Speaker 1: go and we can be a family again. I appreciate 873 00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:30,520 Speaker 1: this guy for holding it down while I was gone, 874 00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:33,160 Speaker 1: but she needs to let him go now and adjust 875 00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:37,759 Speaker 1: her lifestyle a little bit, but a little bit. I 876 00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:40,600 Speaker 1: have thought about leaving while I still have some pride 877 00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:44,520 Speaker 1: and dignity, but I couldn't stand leaving my children again. 878 00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:46,759 Speaker 1: Is it too much to ask for her to move 879 00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:49,080 Speaker 1: to a less expensive apartment that we can build a 880 00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:52,160 Speaker 1: new life together. She says she loves me more than anything, 881 00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:56,080 Speaker 1: but I'm not so sure. What should I do? Please advise, Well, 882 00:54:56,600 --> 00:55:00,040 Speaker 1: if she loves you more than anything, seems like you 883 00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:02,440 Speaker 1: would be with you and she would have already left 884 00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:05,960 Speaker 1: this older guy. And if you love her like you 885 00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:08,120 Speaker 1: say you do, you have to take that chance. You 886 00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:11,920 Speaker 1: got to take that risk and ask her, you know, 887 00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:13,839 Speaker 1: what does she want to do or will she come 888 00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:17,920 Speaker 1: back to you and move to a lesser lifestyle. You know, 889 00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:21,840 Speaker 1: sometimes when you get introduced to two different things and 890 00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:24,719 Speaker 1: newer things, you get accustomed to it, and you don't 891 00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:27,600 Speaker 1: want to leave that situation, but you know you can 892 00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:30,640 Speaker 1: take the risk and ask her, please don't go back 893 00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:32,800 Speaker 1: to doing what you used to do to make money. 894 00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:36,200 Speaker 1: You already know the end of that movie. Okay, you 895 00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:38,800 Speaker 1: know that drugs is not the way to go. I 896 00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:41,800 Speaker 1: do hope you get yourself together. I really do. You 897 00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:46,120 Speaker 1: sound like a decent guy, you know. However, you're moving 898 00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:50,640 Speaker 1: in with her knowing the circumstances. You know, is there 899 00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:54,000 Speaker 1: a time limit? Are you have you made a plan? 900 00:55:54,200 --> 00:55:55,560 Speaker 1: You know, I'm going to stay with you for a 901 00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:57,759 Speaker 1: couple of months until I get myself together. Then I'm 902 00:55:57,760 --> 00:55:59,400 Speaker 1: gonna get my own and I want you and the 903 00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:01,840 Speaker 1: kids to come back to me. That seems how it 904 00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:04,400 Speaker 1: should work out, you know, And then you won't have 905 00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:06,439 Speaker 1: to sit there and watch her go back and forth 906 00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:10,279 Speaker 1: to this man and all of that. So that's my 907 00:56:10,400 --> 00:56:13,480 Speaker 1: advice to you. Save your money, get yourself together, get 908 00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:16,400 Speaker 1: out of there with her where you can see what's 909 00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:18,879 Speaker 1: going on, and ask her if she wants to come back. 910 00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:21,040 Speaker 1: Do you really still want her back? If you love her, 911 00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:23,439 Speaker 1: then that's what you're gonna have to do. I don't 912 00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:26,080 Speaker 1: think you should uh, you know, leave your kids and 913 00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:28,759 Speaker 1: all of that, but get your own stuff, your own 914 00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:33,239 Speaker 1: self stuff, and you know, get your own house so 915 00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:35,160 Speaker 1: you can be with her and be with your family 916 00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:37,160 Speaker 1: if that's still what she wants to do. But even 917 00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:39,359 Speaker 1: if she doesn't come with you, you'll have your own 918 00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:42,480 Speaker 1: place where your kids can come. Steve, this is a 919 00:56:42,560 --> 00:56:45,080 Speaker 1: pretty sad letter because this is a young brother had 920 00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:48,120 Speaker 1: wrote this letter. And you know, I could have a 921 00:56:48,239 --> 00:56:51,239 Speaker 1: ton of jokes for this, but let me try to 922 00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:53,759 Speaker 1: help you a little soldier. Let me let me try 923 00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:58,600 Speaker 1: to just give you what I think. You got two kids, 924 00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:04,799 Speaker 1: which is your ultimate responsibility. With your high school sweetheart. 925 00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:11,040 Speaker 1: You both came from seriously dysfunctional families, you say, And 926 00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:15,480 Speaker 1: so that's pretty much explains what we're gonna hear in 927 00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:19,960 Speaker 1: this letter. You say, shortly after y'all graduated, you got 928 00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:24,760 Speaker 1: incarcerated for eighteen months for drug possession. Then while you 929 00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:30,600 Speaker 1: await your baby, mama met an older man and he 930 00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:35,520 Speaker 1: began taking care of her and my kids, well the kids, 931 00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:39,520 Speaker 1: hern the kids that put y'all in the upscale apartment, 932 00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:42,240 Speaker 1: you know. Then you say, I ain't no food, so 933 00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:45,480 Speaker 1: I know there was some give and taking. This situation, 934 00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:49,600 Speaker 1: but I was locked up, so what could I say. Now, 935 00:57:49,680 --> 00:57:51,880 Speaker 1: you've been out of jail now for nine months, and 936 00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:56,120 Speaker 1: he has continued to cover all of my family's expenses. 937 00:57:56,600 --> 00:57:59,080 Speaker 1: You just said a little bit earlier. You know that 938 00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:03,560 Speaker 1: some give and taking this relationship. He's continuing to take 939 00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:06,400 Speaker 1: care of all your family's expenses. I talked to him 940 00:58:06,400 --> 00:58:09,919 Speaker 1: a girl about the older guy. She says, she ain't 941 00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:12,400 Speaker 1: got no problem with me staying with her getting my 942 00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:15,320 Speaker 1: life back on track, which is exactly what she didn't 943 00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:18,520 Speaker 1: had to tell this man that my baby's father got 944 00:58:18,600 --> 00:58:20,400 Speaker 1: out of jail and I need to help him so 945 00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:23,560 Speaker 1: he can get his life on track. Not an older guy. 946 00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:28,360 Speaker 1: Young man then went along with this because she got 947 00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:30,320 Speaker 1: to come over there a couple of times a week, 948 00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:34,200 Speaker 1: and that's all it was. And so they had a 949 00:58:34,200 --> 00:58:37,880 Speaker 1: little arrangement going. So as long as she's keep coming 950 00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:40,360 Speaker 1: over two times a week, this ain't gonna be no 951 00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:43,680 Speaker 1: problem for her, I mean for him. So you talk 952 00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:45,520 Speaker 1: to my girl, she said, she ain't got no problem 953 00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:48,840 Speaker 1: with you staying with her. But here's the big problem. 954 00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:51,680 Speaker 1: I can't take the disappearance of my girl once or 955 00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:55,040 Speaker 1: twice a week. I know where she's going, but we 956 00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:57,280 Speaker 1: never talk about it, and I feel more and more 957 00:58:57,320 --> 00:59:01,840 Speaker 1: emasculated each time she disappeared. Is yes you do, and 958 00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:04,000 Speaker 1: yes you should, and we come back. I'm tell you 959 00:59:04,080 --> 00:59:06,120 Speaker 1: what I think. All right, we're gonna have heard two 960 00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:09,880 Speaker 1: of Steve's response coming up at twenty three after the hour. 961 00:59:10,120 --> 00:59:13,600 Speaker 1: Subject of today's Strawberry Letter, her old man is taking 962 00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:16,560 Speaker 1: care of my family. We'll be back right after this. 963 00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:22,640 Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Steve, Come on, let's recap today's 964 00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:26,320 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. This subject her old man is taking care 965 00:59:26,480 --> 00:59:30,360 Speaker 1: of my family. Here's a deal without the jokes. Here's 966 00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:33,280 Speaker 1: a young man that was high school sweetheart to had 967 00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:36,560 Speaker 1: two kids. Soortly after they graduated, he got arrested on 968 00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:40,600 Speaker 1: drug possession. He served eighteen months. While he was away, 969 00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:43,880 Speaker 1: his girl started dating this older man. He'd moved her 970 00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:47,840 Speaker 1: and the two kids into an upscale apartment, and when 971 00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:50,840 Speaker 1: he got out, he wanted to get his life back together. 972 00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:53,480 Speaker 1: So he's thinking he had something. She said, I don't 973 00:59:53,520 --> 00:59:55,920 Speaker 1: mind you stand here while you get your life together, 974 00:59:56,480 --> 01:00:00,400 Speaker 1: sounding me like, you know, get yourself together and then 975 01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:03,200 Speaker 1: get your stuff and get out. I don't know, I'm 976 01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:05,880 Speaker 1: just saying she don't mind you coming over that you 977 01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:09,080 Speaker 1: get your life together. But you know there's a give 978 01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:12,040 Speaker 1: and take. This man paying all these bills, taking care 979 01:00:12,040 --> 01:00:16,280 Speaker 1: of these kids. She disappears twice a week. Now when 980 01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:19,840 Speaker 1: she disappears, young man just throws you into something and 981 01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:24,040 Speaker 1: you say, you feel more and more emasculated. Now that's 982 01:00:24,080 --> 01:00:26,400 Speaker 1: a pretty good word for somebody that's being locked up 983 01:00:26,440 --> 01:00:29,680 Speaker 1: for eighteen months. So you've obviously taken some time and 984 01:00:29,800 --> 01:00:33,320 Speaker 1: you're pretty articulate. God, where you even put this letter together? 985 01:00:34,280 --> 01:00:36,920 Speaker 1: So I got a decent job, but it's not the 986 01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:39,840 Speaker 1: type that will keep her in the lifestyle she's accustomed to. 987 01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:42,360 Speaker 1: Not The only way that you know how to do that, 988 01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:44,080 Speaker 1: you say, is go back to the thing that got 989 01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:47,040 Speaker 1: you locked up. Okay, now let's be for real now, 990 01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:50,160 Speaker 1: partner being locked up, there's nothing in your house worth 991 01:00:50,240 --> 01:00:52,160 Speaker 1: getting locked up for or less. Somebody try to do 992 01:00:52,320 --> 01:00:55,640 Speaker 1: bodily harm to your wife and kids. This ain't your 993 01:00:55,680 --> 01:00:59,120 Speaker 1: wife and these are your kids. Now, if you protect 994 01:00:59,160 --> 01:01:01,680 Speaker 1: your kids life, that's one thing. But you want to 995 01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:04,680 Speaker 1: buy some stuff, So you're gonna go back in prison 996 01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:08,440 Speaker 1: cause of that? Oh no, sun oh no, sun oh no, 997 01:01:09,040 --> 01:01:11,400 Speaker 1: oh no, We're not gonna do that no more. You know, 998 01:01:11,520 --> 01:01:13,960 Speaker 1: sometimes when you get when you get locked up, sometimes 999 01:01:14,040 --> 01:01:17,360 Speaker 1: when you lose stuff like your freedom or everything you own. 1000 01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:20,560 Speaker 1: Sometimes God trying to get our attention to let us 1001 01:01:20,600 --> 01:01:23,280 Speaker 1: see something, and you might be getting the attention of 1002 01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:28,680 Speaker 1: what you see. Maybe your girl is a little bit tricky. Now, Look, 1003 01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:33,040 Speaker 1: she disn't appeared twice a week. But then you know 1004 01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:35,840 Speaker 1: she told you that she hoped you could step up 1005 01:01:35,960 --> 01:01:38,480 Speaker 1: to the plate and take care of my family, so 1006 01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:42,320 Speaker 1: she can let the guy go. What so, in other words, 1007 01:01:42,440 --> 01:01:45,160 Speaker 1: until you can prove to be more, she ain't letting 1008 01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:47,800 Speaker 1: this other guy go. Hold up, man, what kind of 1009 01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:50,600 Speaker 1: chick is this? Now? And we can be a family again. 1010 01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:54,760 Speaker 1: Whoa wait a minute. But until then, I'm gonna keep 1011 01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:57,200 Speaker 1: sleeping with this dude over here. You don't need to 1012 01:01:57,280 --> 01:01:59,920 Speaker 1: say nothing, because he taking care of business that you couldn't. 1013 01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:02,640 Speaker 1: Now you said, I appreciated this guy for holding it 1014 01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:05,440 Speaker 1: down while I was gone. Now you didn't stop saying 1015 01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:08,280 Speaker 1: that you didn't. That's a nice manly thing to say, 1016 01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:10,600 Speaker 1: But you didn't appreciate that because you wish you was 1017 01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:12,920 Speaker 1: here doing it yourself. Now he got a little bit 1018 01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:16,520 Speaker 1: more money than you. Now, your family over there, and 1019 01:02:16,680 --> 01:02:20,080 Speaker 1: now you say you appreciate him holding it down, But 1020 01:02:20,200 --> 01:02:22,520 Speaker 1: she needs to let him go now and adjust her 1021 01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:26,200 Speaker 1: lifestyle a little bit. I have thought about leaving, you know, 1022 01:02:26,400 --> 01:02:28,720 Speaker 1: while I still have some pride and dignity, but I 1023 01:02:28,800 --> 01:02:31,280 Speaker 1: couldn't stand leaving my children again. It's too much to 1024 01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:33,280 Speaker 1: ask of her to move? Is it too much to 1025 01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:36,720 Speaker 1: answer to lose a specif apartment so we could build 1026 01:02:36,760 --> 01:02:39,200 Speaker 1: a new life together. She said she loves me more 1027 01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:43,040 Speaker 1: than anything. Well you can find that out. All you 1028 01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:45,400 Speaker 1: got to do is say, baby, I got the money 1029 01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:49,040 Speaker 1: for a lesser apartment. I want my family together. I 1030 01:02:49,080 --> 01:02:51,080 Speaker 1: don't want you to have to try to service this 1031 01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:54,040 Speaker 1: debt with this older guy. I don't want you to 1032 01:02:54,160 --> 01:02:56,440 Speaker 1: have to pay for your rent with your body. So 1033 01:02:56,720 --> 01:02:58,760 Speaker 1: I think we all adjust. I got us a place 1034 01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:00,800 Speaker 1: we can all be in his school a little bit tight. 1035 01:03:01,080 --> 01:03:03,000 Speaker 1: And you find out right away if she loves you 1036 01:03:03,520 --> 01:03:06,160 Speaker 1: or she loved the arrangement she got. Does she love 1037 01:03:06,280 --> 01:03:09,160 Speaker 1: you or she loved lifestyle she got? And I ain't 1038 01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:11,440 Speaker 1: really saying nothing bad against this little girl. She got 1039 01:03:11,520 --> 01:03:13,919 Speaker 1: put in a tough position when you got sent away 1040 01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:17,040 Speaker 1: for eighteen months. But now you're back, and you want 1041 01:03:17,120 --> 01:03:19,000 Speaker 1: some things to go back to where they were, but 1042 01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:21,720 Speaker 1: sometimes they're not meant to go back to where they were, 1043 01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:25,320 Speaker 1: young man, and that's oftentimes where we have to learn 1044 01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:27,760 Speaker 1: in life. The things we want may not be what's 1045 01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:30,600 Speaker 1: in the plan and the master plan. So you gotta 1046 01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:32,920 Speaker 1: kind of be open to that because maybe you're finding 1047 01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:36,120 Speaker 1: out some things. If it ain't this dude right here, partner, 1048 01:03:36,560 --> 01:03:39,400 Speaker 1: it could be somebody else. Now, I'm not gonna do 1049 01:03:39,480 --> 01:03:41,760 Speaker 1: what women do is say that wants a cheat, always 1050 01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:43,920 Speaker 1: a cheat. I'm not gonna say that. I'm saying, but 1051 01:03:44,040 --> 01:03:46,720 Speaker 1: you got to at least find out if she's willing 1052 01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:48,640 Speaker 1: to cut some of this goal, if she loves you 1053 01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:51,440 Speaker 1: more than anything and want y'all to work together as 1054 01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:54,240 Speaker 1: a family, or she gonna keep service in this debt 1055 01:03:54,440 --> 01:03:57,080 Speaker 1: because that's what she's doing, and that puts you the 1056 01:03:57,160 --> 01:03:59,640 Speaker 1: bad position. You're dog gonna write it to masculate you. 1057 01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:01,840 Speaker 1: Every time you look out the door, you know your 1058 01:04:01,880 --> 01:04:04,800 Speaker 1: girl going somewhere twice a week, staying out all times 1059 01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:06,480 Speaker 1: a night. You're at the house, these kids. You know 1060 01:04:06,560 --> 01:04:09,280 Speaker 1: where she at, but y'all don't say nothing about it. 1061 01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:14,360 Speaker 1: So I don't want you to get frustrated and then 1062 01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:17,240 Speaker 1: wind up doing something stupid. So before you do that, 1063 01:04:17,880 --> 01:04:20,439 Speaker 1: I know you think if you walk away that it's 1064 01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:24,040 Speaker 1: just gonna push your into his arms. But she's already 1065 01:04:24,200 --> 01:04:27,960 Speaker 1: in his arms, so you're really not pushing her nowhere. 1066 01:04:28,640 --> 01:04:31,160 Speaker 1: You're just moving out so you can get yourself together, 1067 01:04:32,200 --> 01:04:34,040 Speaker 1: and I think you need to focus on that. Keep 1068 01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:36,400 Speaker 1: taking care of your kids. Don't never stop taking care 1069 01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:40,320 Speaker 1: of your children. That's our responsibility as men. Whether we're 1070 01:04:40,360 --> 01:04:42,520 Speaker 1: in love with the girl or not anymore, has nothing 1071 01:04:42,560 --> 01:04:45,560 Speaker 1: to do without responsibility as men and fathers. You have 1072 01:04:45,640 --> 01:04:47,800 Speaker 1: a main obligation to take care of your children. If 1073 01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:50,960 Speaker 1: you do that, then you're being a man. There's nothing 1074 01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:53,440 Speaker 1: that says you have to stay with her, try to 1075 01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:55,320 Speaker 1: work through it or work it out. If you don't 1076 01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:57,840 Speaker 1: want to, you don't have to, but you do have 1077 01:04:58,000 --> 01:05:01,600 Speaker 1: to take care of them kids. That's not an option 1078 01:05:01,720 --> 01:05:05,480 Speaker 1: on excuse. So take care of kids and then ask 1079 01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:08,440 Speaker 1: her if she ready to make this thing a family. 1080 01:05:09,160 --> 01:05:11,200 Speaker 1: You know, everybody make mistakes, and give her a chance 1081 01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:13,360 Speaker 1: to let you know where she stands on it. That's 1082 01:05:13,440 --> 01:05:17,080 Speaker 1: my suggestion, Steve, that's right. You can post your comments 1083 01:05:17,120 --> 01:05:20,840 Speaker 1: on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram 1084 01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:23,840 Speaker 1: and Facebook, and don't forget to check out the Strawberry 1085 01:05:23,920 --> 01:05:27,080 Speaker 1: Letter podcast on demand now coming up at forty six 1086 01:05:27,160 --> 01:05:31,960 Speaker 1: after the hour, from the Talk, our girl Cheryl Underwood. 1087 01:05:32,360 --> 01:05:37,919 Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to show, all right, Steve, 1088 01:05:38,040 --> 01:05:41,080 Speaker 1: come on, introduce our girl from the Talk. She is here, 1089 01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:46,880 Speaker 1: sure under Wood, Steve Holly, listen, Man, I ain't even 1090 01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:50,600 Speaker 1: left the house. Man, I'm in my pajamas. Hees cereal. 1091 01:05:50,920 --> 01:05:53,560 Speaker 1: These hearings is off the chain. I never seen so 1092 01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:57,080 Speaker 1: many white people testifying against each other, says Law and Order. 1093 01:05:57,360 --> 01:06:03,160 Speaker 1: What Sam Waterston? I mean, they're dropping dives. Listen, they 1094 01:06:03,320 --> 01:06:07,160 Speaker 1: telling everything they talking about. Trump didn't care about the Ukrainius. 1095 01:06:07,360 --> 01:06:10,760 Speaker 1: All he cared about was getting the bidens. I'm like, damn, 1096 01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:14,560 Speaker 1: and and what is going on with the Republican Party? 1097 01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:18,760 Speaker 1: You know, dang, dang. They still drinking akool aid? What 1098 01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:22,480 Speaker 1: is going on to I don't know they drinking a 1099 01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:24,680 Speaker 1: kool ai. They be like, so, what so what so? 1100 01:06:24,880 --> 01:06:27,320 Speaker 1: What so? What? You know what I'm saying? That ain't 1101 01:06:27,320 --> 01:06:32,040 Speaker 1: the way, that's straw This isn't what happened. Oh they 1102 01:06:36,920 --> 01:06:41,080 Speaker 1: they they they go and see, I'm trying to figure out, stay, 1103 01:06:41,480 --> 01:06:45,320 Speaker 1: what the what? What is Trump? What is he hypnotizing them? 1104 01:06:45,360 --> 01:06:49,800 Speaker 1: What they sleeping together? What's what's going on? What it 1105 01:06:49,960 --> 01:06:52,960 Speaker 1: is Steve Harvest? What it is? Steve Harvest? So many 1106 01:06:53,040 --> 01:06:57,440 Speaker 1: of them? Yes, And I kid you not. There's a 1107 01:06:57,680 --> 01:07:03,280 Speaker 1: deep admiration for him for his face. Look at him. 1108 01:07:03,360 --> 01:07:05,160 Speaker 1: He's up there and telling him what they want to 1109 01:07:05,240 --> 01:07:08,840 Speaker 1: tell him. He's saying what they want to said. He's rich, 1110 01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:14,400 Speaker 1: he's got strippers, he's got Playboy buddies, he's got all 1111 01:07:14,440 --> 01:07:18,000 Speaker 1: in buildings with his name on it. He's got got 1112 01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:21,680 Speaker 1: his own hair playing with Trump on it. He's got helicopters, 1113 01:07:21,960 --> 01:07:31,400 Speaker 1: and he's on TV and his house and he's got helicopters, 1114 01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:34,280 Speaker 1: and he's got women over his house with his wife. 1115 01:07:34,320 --> 01:07:37,320 Speaker 1: Ain't that? And I'm telling you, man, there is a 1116 01:07:37,640 --> 01:07:42,760 Speaker 1: deep admiration for a lot of people who ain't got 1117 01:07:42,920 --> 01:07:45,800 Speaker 1: no problem with their lifestyle because that's what they do 1118 01:07:45,880 --> 01:07:49,000 Speaker 1: if they had that money. I really believe that he 1119 01:07:49,160 --> 01:07:52,440 Speaker 1: believed he is the dictator. He is al half his king. 1120 01:07:54,840 --> 01:07:58,480 Speaker 1: He believed he is everything and everything he does. He 1121 01:07:58,640 --> 01:08:01,320 Speaker 1: cooled with doing it because about around him is either 1122 01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:04,320 Speaker 1: suckers are scared and they won't walk up and boss 1123 01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:07,320 Speaker 1: up on this dude. But I think the hearings is 1124 01:08:07,400 --> 01:08:09,720 Speaker 1: off the chain. They dropping so many dimes and man, 1125 01:08:09,960 --> 01:08:14,040 Speaker 1: people get oh toad on Junior Jill. They need to 1126 01:08:14,080 --> 01:08:16,320 Speaker 1: stop them too from talking. That's what they need to do. 1127 01:08:16,560 --> 01:08:18,040 Speaker 1: If Trump need to get out of that White House, 1128 01:08:18,080 --> 01:08:20,439 Speaker 1: get down into their Capitol hill and stop them too. 1129 01:08:22,800 --> 01:08:27,680 Speaker 1: Mad they go testify, they define subpoenis and everything. They say, 1130 01:08:27,760 --> 01:08:30,720 Speaker 1: you can't tell me who I'm a talk, but they 1131 01:08:30,760 --> 01:08:33,880 Speaker 1: get indignant. They just show up stop telling stuff. You'd 1132 01:08:33,920 --> 01:08:40,200 Speaker 1: be like, damn all that, Cheryl, thank you so much. Carl. 1133 01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:44,679 Speaker 1: We gotta get out of coming up at the top 1134 01:08:44,760 --> 01:08:48,120 Speaker 1: of the hour. I know, right, Uh? Is Rihanna trying 1135 01:08:48,200 --> 01:08:50,639 Speaker 1: to tell us something? We'll get into it right after 1136 01:08:50,760 --> 01:08:58,599 Speaker 1: this you're listening to all right, here's the question. Is Rihanna, 1137 01:08:59,160 --> 01:09:01,000 Speaker 1: who we all know him love? Is she trying to 1138 01:09:01,080 --> 01:09:04,120 Speaker 1: tell us something in order for Rihanna to shine bright 1139 01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:06,920 Speaker 1: like a diamond? Or wait, let me change that, because 1140 01:09:07,080 --> 01:09:10,880 Speaker 1: her name is Rihanna, Okay, Rihanna. In order for Rihanna 1141 01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:14,599 Speaker 1: to shine bright like a diamond, she might be taking 1142 01:09:14,640 --> 01:09:17,320 Speaker 1: a break. She's thirty one years old. She's an entrepreneur. 1143 01:09:17,479 --> 01:09:21,839 Speaker 1: We all know that. Well. Yesterday, Rihanna took to Instagram 1144 01:09:21,960 --> 01:09:25,720 Speaker 1: to share a pouty selfie while wearing an oversized black hat, 1145 01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:29,680 Speaker 1: gold chains, and a T shirt that read art school dropout. 1146 01:09:30,360 --> 01:09:34,839 Speaker 1: Okay now. In the caption, she wrote to all my friends, family, 1147 01:09:34,960 --> 01:09:37,560 Speaker 1: co workers who I have yet to get back to 1148 01:09:37,760 --> 01:09:41,080 Speaker 1: in the past month, Please forgive me. This year has 1149 01:09:41,120 --> 01:09:44,400 Speaker 1: been quite an overwhelming one and I'm working on that 1150 01:09:44,720 --> 01:09:48,680 Speaker 1: ish called balance BRB. All right, we all know that 1151 01:09:48,800 --> 01:09:54,160 Speaker 1: BRB means be right back right. That was the final 1152 01:09:54,240 --> 01:09:57,320 Speaker 1: message to her fans. So the question is, is Rihanna 1153 01:09:57,400 --> 01:10:00,800 Speaker 1: gonna be right back? Is she taking a break? Uh? Well, 1154 01:10:00,840 --> 01:10:03,400 Speaker 1: she'd be a big round booty. I thought that would 1155 01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:10,479 Speaker 1: be our big for us. Huh, It's be right back 1156 01:10:11,040 --> 01:10:16,240 Speaker 1: okay all day? All right? Oh yeah, bunty. I mean, 1157 01:10:16,320 --> 01:10:18,120 Speaker 1: but we all need to take a break every now 1158 01:10:18,160 --> 01:10:21,400 Speaker 1: and then. I mean, don't you guys agree, I mean 1159 01:10:21,479 --> 01:10:27,200 Speaker 1: absolutely everybody got to take a break. I'm sucking your teeth. 1160 01:10:28,760 --> 01:10:35,280 Speaker 1: I just took a break just now right there. That 1161 01:10:35,400 --> 01:10:39,040 Speaker 1: was my break for the morning. But you know, she's 1162 01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:43,000 Speaker 1: got her multi million dollar fentiue beauty line, she's got 1163 01:10:43,080 --> 01:10:46,920 Speaker 1: her lingerie, she's got her her clothing line. I mean, 1164 01:10:47,000 --> 01:10:48,960 Speaker 1: she's got so much. She hasn't made music in what 1165 01:10:49,240 --> 01:10:52,599 Speaker 1: three four years? Now, people are are really asking her 1166 01:10:52,680 --> 01:10:56,200 Speaker 1: to make music, but um, sometimes you know it does. 1167 01:10:56,360 --> 01:10:58,479 Speaker 1: I mean, I believe there's some truth to it that 1168 01:10:58,600 --> 01:11:01,800 Speaker 1: this year has been an over elming one because she's 1169 01:11:01,880 --> 01:11:10,479 Speaker 1: been busy, busy, busy, you know, yeah, everything get still 1170 01:11:10,560 --> 01:11:13,960 Speaker 1: saying she'd be back. Oh yeah, I like Rihanna. I 1171 01:11:14,040 --> 01:11:16,439 Speaker 1: mean she's made a lot of money, man, she can 1172 01:11:16,520 --> 01:11:19,120 Speaker 1: afford to take some time off and and just and 1173 01:11:19,560 --> 01:11:23,680 Speaker 1: just reinvent or do something, you know, whatever heart desire. Really, man, 1174 01:11:24,080 --> 01:11:27,160 Speaker 1: we all have to reinvent ourselves soon or late, all 1175 01:11:27,240 --> 01:11:29,560 Speaker 1: of us. Just so that's right, that's right if we 1176 01:11:29,640 --> 01:11:32,360 Speaker 1: want to stay relevant. All right, So check this out. 1177 01:11:32,400 --> 01:11:35,600 Speaker 1: A Florida man pulled over for reckless driving explained to 1178 01:11:35,680 --> 01:11:37,920 Speaker 1: the cops that he needed to get home in a 1179 01:11:38,040 --> 01:11:43,280 Speaker 1: hurry because he was out cheating on his wife. Really 1180 01:11:43,320 --> 01:11:47,599 Speaker 1: you understand this, really you understand I got to get 1181 01:11:47,640 --> 01:11:55,720 Speaker 1: to the house right now, don't He was clocked, saying 1182 01:11:57,439 --> 01:12:00,519 Speaker 1: he was going ninety miles an hour. His name is 1183 01:12:02,080 --> 01:12:04,559 Speaker 1: h His name is John ear Old Pickard. He's fifty 1184 01:12:04,600 --> 01:12:08,400 Speaker 1: two years old. The officer, though, was neither interested nor 1185 01:12:08,680 --> 01:12:12,760 Speaker 1: was he sympathetic to Pickard's extra mat marital affair, and 1186 01:12:12,920 --> 01:12:18,200 Speaker 1: placed him under arrest for reckless driving. Okay, yeah, yeah, 1187 01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:20,320 Speaker 1: you know what time it was though, that's that when 1188 01:12:20,320 --> 01:12:24,439 Speaker 1: you're driving ninety five thirty, ain't nobody eight m? Yeah, yeah, yeah, 1189 01:12:25,040 --> 01:12:28,639 Speaker 1: it's eight m. Damn. They're done as we lay moment 1190 01:12:28,840 --> 01:12:34,080 Speaker 1: right here. If you're married, speeding has to occur between 1191 01:12:34,360 --> 01:12:38,880 Speaker 1: one thirty five am and five thirty am. Them four 1192 01:12:39,000 --> 01:12:43,240 Speaker 1: hours is critical to get to the house, so you 1193 01:12:43,320 --> 01:12:45,720 Speaker 1: can at least say when I came in last night, 1194 01:12:47,840 --> 01:12:52,559 Speaker 1: but it has to be dark say that. Oh yeah. 1195 01:12:54,320 --> 01:12:57,120 Speaker 1: If he can get to that driveway by three and 1196 01:12:57,280 --> 01:13:01,400 Speaker 1: just sitting there, you're good, sitting the driveway out there 1197 01:13:01,439 --> 01:13:04,960 Speaker 1: looking for you. Sleep in the Yeah, you're sleep in 1198 01:13:05,040 --> 01:13:12,360 Speaker 1: ther Nah. They go feel they feel like yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 1199 01:13:12,360 --> 01:13:15,280 Speaker 1: try that one yeah yeah yeah. Then they wait till 1200 01:13:15,320 --> 01:13:17,320 Speaker 1: you go to sleep, and they look at their phone 1201 01:13:17,360 --> 01:13:19,360 Speaker 1: to see what time it will when you got in bed. 1202 01:13:19,960 --> 01:13:22,439 Speaker 1: Oh they got the Oh they go, where can you 1203 01:13:22,520 --> 01:13:25,240 Speaker 1: go sleep in the house and in a neutral zone, 1204 01:13:25,280 --> 01:13:28,080 Speaker 1: Where can you go what's a good spot living room 1205 01:13:28,200 --> 01:13:34,120 Speaker 1: calt I was watching coming up more music, more trending 1206 01:13:34,200 --> 01:13:36,559 Speaker 1: topics on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We'll be back 1207 01:13:36,600 --> 01:13:39,720 Speaker 1: in twenty minutes after the hour. Right after this, you're 1208 01:13:39,800 --> 01:13:45,880 Speaker 1: listening to Steve Morning Show. Well, one of a kind 1209 01:13:46,040 --> 01:13:50,439 Speaker 1: Paddock Philippe watch broke a world record when it's sold 1210 01:13:50,600 --> 01:14:04,840 Speaker 1: at an auction for thirty one million dollars. I know 1211 01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:09,360 Speaker 1: it features now. This watch features a reversible, reversible case 1212 01:14:09,520 --> 01:14:14,920 Speaker 1: in black and rose gold, eighteen carrots, solid gold dial plates, 1213 01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:20,160 Speaker 1: and a band made of black handstitched alligator leather. And 1214 01:14:20,479 --> 01:14:28,360 Speaker 1: guess what else? It tells time? Imagine that? Uh that's yeah, well, 1215 01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:30,240 Speaker 1: I mean the good thing about it is that the 1216 01:14:30,320 --> 01:14:34,439 Speaker 1: proceeds from the auction are going to a muscular dystrophy charity. 1217 01:14:34,600 --> 01:14:37,519 Speaker 1: So that's really cool. But come on, it is really 1218 01:14:37,600 --> 01:14:46,479 Speaker 1: a watch. Thirty one million dollars? Yeah, I mean anyway, yeah, yeah, 1219 01:14:46,680 --> 01:14:48,800 Speaker 1: I mean we look at our phones now anyway to 1220 01:14:49,280 --> 01:14:51,840 Speaker 1: tell time? Right, we don't even hardly look at our 1221 01:14:51,840 --> 01:14:58,000 Speaker 1: works are considered jewelry right now, ask you, ask you, 1222 01:15:00,640 --> 01:15:08,600 Speaker 1: I steal that break out running. I take that you 1223 01:15:08,720 --> 01:15:15,920 Speaker 1: can see the price tagging, are you? Yeah? I'll steal that, 1224 01:15:17,320 --> 01:15:19,519 Speaker 1: all right. We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning 1225 01:15:19,560 --> 01:15:21,559 Speaker 1: Show coming up. Oh let me look at my thirty 1226 01:15:21,600 --> 01:15:24,360 Speaker 1: one million dollar watch at thirty three minutes after the hour, 1227 01:15:24,560 --> 01:15:29,960 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show, all right? So guys, 1228 01:15:30,080 --> 01:15:34,200 Speaker 1: John Legend, that's right, I said, John Legend is crowned 1229 01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:40,679 Speaker 1: People Magazine Sexiest Man Alive Baby. Other previous winners include, 1230 01:15:40,720 --> 01:15:45,960 Speaker 1: of course, Dwayne Johnson, Denzel Washington, Brad Pitt, dress Elba, 1231 01:15:46,280 --> 01:15:50,400 Speaker 1: and David Beckham. Now see, listen to me. Clearly, I 1232 01:15:50,720 --> 01:15:54,719 Speaker 1: know I don't belong in that group. I'm I'm good 1233 01:15:56,560 --> 01:16:01,439 Speaker 1: Man Alive, sexiest riches all. You just ain't got money. 1234 01:16:01,960 --> 01:16:05,760 Speaker 1: So let's let's just stop my brother and get no no, no, no, no, 1235 01:16:05,880 --> 01:16:08,719 Speaker 1: no no no. All in people on that list got money. 1236 01:16:08,800 --> 01:16:12,120 Speaker 1: I would be beyond perplexed if they announced that I 1237 01:16:12,400 --> 01:16:14,400 Speaker 1: was the winner. A matter of fact, I called out 1238 01:16:14,400 --> 01:16:16,200 Speaker 1: and there see what the hell was wrong? Am I 1239 01:16:16,360 --> 01:16:21,600 Speaker 1: being cranked? Timmy? Must be hell? People have said, have 1240 01:16:21,800 --> 01:16:27,160 Speaker 1: made me to day man a lie okay, sextions man 1241 01:16:27,360 --> 01:16:31,160 Speaker 1: damn near day okay, So just for just for kicks 1242 01:16:31,160 --> 01:16:35,400 Speaker 1: and giggles, Steve uh ring Ring, Hello, Hello, man, I 1243 01:16:35,439 --> 01:16:38,920 Speaker 1: speak to Steve Harvey. Please. Oh hi, Steve. This is 1244 01:16:39,000 --> 01:16:44,519 Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry from People Magazine. Um where from People Magazine? Okay? Cool? 1245 01:16:44,600 --> 01:16:48,080 Speaker 1: What y'all look for all interviews you have to call 1246 01:16:48,240 --> 01:16:51,640 Speaker 1: my publicers. Oh no, no, no, no, no no. This 1247 01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:53,919 Speaker 1: is not for an interview. You've been in our magazine 1248 01:16:54,400 --> 01:16:57,640 Speaker 1: many many times. I just wanted to let you know 1249 01:16:58,120 --> 01:17:01,880 Speaker 1: that I have the honor of telling you that you 1250 01:17:02,120 --> 01:17:09,439 Speaker 1: are People magazines sexiest man of the Year. Hello, got 1251 01:17:09,479 --> 01:17:26,479 Speaker 1: it got to be so who? Hello? Mister Harvey's quit 1252 01:17:26,640 --> 01:17:30,719 Speaker 1: playing man, y'all know who you is? Qu're playing Tommy? 1253 01:17:31,120 --> 01:17:35,320 Speaker 1: I know Tommy. Tom has put me on the phone. No, 1254 01:17:36,080 --> 01:17:39,160 Speaker 1: there's no there's no one on here but me, mister Harvey. 1255 01:17:39,200 --> 01:17:42,920 Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry, I'm editor, lady lady, I ain't got time 1256 01:17:43,400 --> 01:17:52,200 Speaker 1: Tommy Magazine, Tommy Tom You baby is oh you Shirley 1257 01:17:52,479 --> 01:17:54,880 Speaker 1: is the co host of the show. Hey, white lady, 1258 01:17:54,960 --> 01:17:59,800 Speaker 1: listen to me. I ain't got time this year. Hary 1259 01:18:00,120 --> 01:18:03,280 Speaker 1: gets your little busy voice. That ain't even real. Nobody 1260 01:18:03,560 --> 01:18:06,120 Speaker 1: that ain't even real. Don't nobody really talk like that? 1261 01:18:06,400 --> 01:18:08,639 Speaker 1: I can't tell if you're excited or if you're angry, 1262 01:18:08,720 --> 01:18:11,480 Speaker 1: mister Harvey, I just told you we named you sexiest 1263 01:18:11,560 --> 01:18:20,560 Speaker 1: man Alive. Congratulations. What I just say? Girl, y'all know 1264 01:18:20,600 --> 01:18:22,479 Speaker 1: how to get in touch with Will Smith for nothing? 1265 01:18:22,680 --> 01:18:28,559 Speaker 1: You want to try a little ask Kevin he got 1266 01:18:28,600 --> 01:18:32,200 Speaker 1: a nice and that ladies and gentlemen of his house 1267 01:18:32,320 --> 01:18:36,479 Speaker 1: that would go if Steve reports for sexiest Man Alive. Okay, 1268 01:18:36,920 --> 01:18:43,720 Speaker 1: I could see you saying all of that, but congratulations 1269 01:18:43,800 --> 01:18:46,080 Speaker 1: to John Legend. He is a great guy who has 1270 01:18:46,120 --> 01:18:48,760 Speaker 1: it all. Coming up, our last break of the day 1271 01:18:48,960 --> 01:18:52,240 Speaker 1: and some closing inspirational remarks from the one and only 1272 01:18:52,400 --> 01:18:55,240 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey coming up at forty nine minutes after the hour. 1273 01:18:55,640 --> 01:18:59,679 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1274 01:19:00,680 --> 01:19:02,680 Speaker 1: Here we are last break of the day. Guys. It's 1275 01:19:02,720 --> 01:19:06,800 Speaker 1: been a pretty fun, crazy, crazy ignorant day on this 1276 01:19:07,000 --> 01:19:11,320 Speaker 1: crazy ignorant show. A lot of fun today. But Steve, 1277 01:19:11,400 --> 01:19:15,760 Speaker 1: now it's time to get a little serious and I 1278 01:19:15,880 --> 01:19:18,240 Speaker 1: just want to encourage people to do something really, really 1279 01:19:18,360 --> 01:19:21,800 Speaker 1: simple today. And I think this is something that most 1280 01:19:21,880 --> 01:19:29,760 Speaker 1: people would agree to want. It's really this simple. Everybody 1281 01:19:30,160 --> 01:19:34,360 Speaker 1: should want more for your life. I'm talking about your 1282 01:19:34,439 --> 01:19:37,479 Speaker 1: life right there, the one that you have, You should 1283 01:19:37,560 --> 01:19:41,720 Speaker 1: want more for your life. You should never allow yourself 1284 01:19:42,080 --> 01:19:46,200 Speaker 1: to become complacent. Now I want you to understand something. 1285 01:19:46,400 --> 01:19:51,960 Speaker 1: Some people get complacency confuse with they don't want to 1286 01:19:52,040 --> 01:20:00,120 Speaker 1: seem ungrateful. Once again, some people get complacency confused with 1287 01:20:00,360 --> 01:20:03,880 Speaker 1: not wanting to appear ungrateful. Well, I don't want to 1288 01:20:03,960 --> 01:20:06,120 Speaker 1: keep asking God for nothing because I don't want him 1289 01:20:06,160 --> 01:20:09,000 Speaker 1: to think I ain't grateful for what I have. Well, 1290 01:20:09,160 --> 01:20:13,080 Speaker 1: thank you for it. Then that's really simple. Simply thank 1291 01:20:13,200 --> 01:20:17,880 Speaker 1: God for what you have. That's the gratitude. But then 1292 01:20:18,680 --> 01:20:23,639 Speaker 1: it's still okay to want more for your life. Here's 1293 01:20:23,680 --> 01:20:28,080 Speaker 1: the good news. God actually wants you to have more 1294 01:20:28,360 --> 01:20:31,680 Speaker 1: for your life. God is really looking for people to 1295 01:20:31,760 --> 01:20:35,840 Speaker 1: show off. He really is. I happen to raise my 1296 01:20:35,960 --> 01:20:40,040 Speaker 1: hand all the time in volunteer I do. I just 1297 01:20:40,120 --> 01:20:45,519 Speaker 1: say God, pick me, come on, do me, use me, 1298 01:20:45,840 --> 01:20:49,760 Speaker 1: show me. Now that doesn't mean I'm perfect, I'm far 1299 01:20:49,960 --> 01:20:54,200 Speaker 1: from it. But I do want God's blessings to be 1300 01:20:54,280 --> 01:20:57,559 Speaker 1: able to flow through me, So I keep an open 1301 01:20:57,720 --> 01:21:00,679 Speaker 1: channel in my life for that stuff to float. First 1302 01:21:00,720 --> 01:21:05,160 Speaker 1: of all, I want more, that's the beginning of getting it. 1303 01:21:05,680 --> 01:21:09,040 Speaker 1: Then I have the good sense to ask him for more. 1304 01:21:09,479 --> 01:21:13,920 Speaker 1: You have not because you ask not. Well, I happen 1305 01:21:14,040 --> 01:21:21,519 Speaker 1: to be a big asker of stuff, So now I 1306 01:21:21,680 --> 01:21:25,400 Speaker 1: want more. I ask for more. Now here's the trick 1307 01:21:25,880 --> 01:21:29,639 Speaker 1: to asking for more and wanting more. You have got 1308 01:21:29,760 --> 01:21:36,200 Speaker 1: to be willing to do more. Oh, now you gotta 1309 01:21:36,280 --> 01:21:43,160 Speaker 1: do more. Now. That's the one thing that stops so 1310 01:21:43,400 --> 01:21:49,160 Speaker 1: many people from having and wanting more for their life. 1311 01:21:51,400 --> 01:21:55,640 Speaker 1: If God will give you blessings and God will increase 1312 01:21:56,439 --> 01:21:59,840 Speaker 1: your measure in life, if God comes to give you 1313 01:22:00,120 --> 01:22:04,320 Speaker 1: life and give you life more abundantly, if He's promised 1314 01:22:04,360 --> 01:22:07,720 Speaker 1: to do that for you, And what you have to 1315 01:22:07,800 --> 01:22:09,800 Speaker 1: do in return is you have to be willing to 1316 01:22:10,000 --> 01:22:15,200 Speaker 1: do more. See you, you can't get more without doing more. 1317 01:22:16,120 --> 01:22:20,200 Speaker 1: Convenience is built through inconvenience, you can stop wanting what 1318 01:22:20,400 --> 01:22:23,040 Speaker 1: you see everybody else with and you ain't willing to 1319 01:22:23,160 --> 01:22:26,720 Speaker 1: do what everybody else did to get it. Quick look 1320 01:22:26,760 --> 01:22:28,840 Speaker 1: at it, Oprah's pile over there. If you ain't willing 1321 01:22:28,880 --> 01:22:31,519 Speaker 1: to do what Oprah did, which Tom an average person 1322 01:22:31,680 --> 01:22:35,160 Speaker 1: is not because the average person wants to be comfortable, 1323 01:22:36,479 --> 01:22:40,880 Speaker 1: and you can't be successful and stay comfortable. I was 1324 01:22:40,920 --> 01:22:44,000 Speaker 1: interviewing the wrestler on my show yesterday day. But teach 1325 01:22:44,080 --> 01:22:46,320 Speaker 1: a great story. Man. This camp was really out of it, 1326 01:22:47,240 --> 01:22:52,519 Speaker 1: really really fascinating story he had. And we were talking 1327 01:22:53,880 --> 01:22:56,639 Speaker 1: and he was talking about living outside your comfort zone. 1328 01:22:57,400 --> 01:22:59,280 Speaker 1: And I told him one of the things that I've 1329 01:22:59,320 --> 01:23:01,200 Speaker 1: had to learn how to do in order to become 1330 01:23:01,280 --> 01:23:07,600 Speaker 1: successful is I've had to become comfortable with being uncomfortable. 1331 01:23:08,400 --> 01:23:12,479 Speaker 1: He said, wow, Wow, that's a great way to put it, Steep. 1332 01:23:14,040 --> 01:23:19,960 Speaker 1: I have learned how to be comfortable while I'm uncomfortable. 1333 01:23:21,520 --> 01:23:25,080 Speaker 1: Because in order to get successful, you have to be uncomfortable. 1334 01:23:27,000 --> 01:23:29,760 Speaker 1: You have to do things that you don't feel like 1335 01:23:29,920 --> 01:23:33,000 Speaker 1: doing all the time. You have to show up when 1336 01:23:33,000 --> 01:23:35,120 Speaker 1: you don't want to show up. You have to be 1337 01:23:35,240 --> 01:23:39,560 Speaker 1: there when you feel like being somewhere else. You have 1338 01:23:39,680 --> 01:23:42,280 Speaker 1: to say yes a lot of times when you really 1339 01:23:42,320 --> 01:23:46,960 Speaker 1: want to just say no. That's where you're at, man, 1340 01:23:48,280 --> 01:23:51,920 Speaker 1: That's how you become successful. But you can't keep asking 1341 01:23:52,040 --> 01:23:54,040 Speaker 1: God for more and you ain't willing to do more. 1342 01:23:55,479 --> 01:23:59,479 Speaker 1: It doesn't make any sense. It cannot happen that way 1343 01:23:59,560 --> 01:24:04,360 Speaker 1: for so come on, I want you to want more 1344 01:24:04,439 --> 01:24:08,320 Speaker 1: for your life. But there's a scripture that that bags 1345 01:24:08,400 --> 01:24:12,040 Speaker 1: that up too. It said to whom much is given, 1346 01:24:13,400 --> 01:24:19,160 Speaker 1: much is required. Now, if you don't want the requirements, 1347 01:24:20,560 --> 01:24:22,639 Speaker 1: then he gonna have to pull up on a given. 1348 01:24:25,960 --> 01:24:30,800 Speaker 1: But if you want the given, know that here come 1349 01:24:30,880 --> 01:24:35,680 Speaker 1: the requirements. So one more time, if you don't want 1350 01:24:35,720 --> 01:24:39,360 Speaker 1: the requirements, he gonna have to pull up on a given. 1351 01:24:41,120 --> 01:24:45,560 Speaker 1: Do not be the one who blocks your own blessings. 1352 01:24:46,200 --> 01:24:49,800 Speaker 1: Want more for your life and be willing to do 1353 01:24:49,960 --> 01:24:55,880 Speaker 1: the things to accept and receive more. It's just discipline. 1354 01:24:55,960 --> 01:24:58,880 Speaker 1: It's just some more work. But if you just cut 1355 01:24:58,960 --> 01:25:02,639 Speaker 1: out some of the be yes, man, man, just cut 1356 01:25:02,680 --> 01:25:05,680 Speaker 1: out some of the happy hours, just cut out some 1357 01:25:05,840 --> 01:25:09,400 Speaker 1: of the drinking. You can't smoke one every day though, 1358 01:25:10,800 --> 01:25:14,760 Speaker 1: you can't go to all the clubs something. You're just 1359 01:25:14,880 --> 01:25:18,240 Speaker 1: gonna run all the women that that's that's that's that's 1360 01:25:18,280 --> 01:25:22,320 Speaker 1: what you're gonna do, all of them. I got news 1361 01:25:22,400 --> 01:25:26,080 Speaker 1: for you, man. Can't be successful that way. You can't 1362 01:25:26,640 --> 01:25:44,320 Speaker 1: drop it on every great weekend. For all Steve Every contests, 1363 01:25:44,360 --> 01:25:47,679 Speaker 1: no purchase necessary void where prohibited. 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