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Speaker 1: My fiance has a girl best friend. He says isn't

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Speaker 1: good looking enough to date. I don't trust.

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Speaker 2: Him, babe, I would cheat if she was hot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah about he's so deleted, says I met my fiance

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Speaker 1: three years ago and I love him, truly. Mistake your

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Speaker 1: first mistake. I'll call him Derek. H he has a

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Speaker 1: girl best friend. I'll call her Alex that I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't really like much. She made it very clear

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Speaker 1: in the beginning that all Derek's girlfriends were jealous of

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Speaker 1: the relationship. Sounds like a pick meet girl, Nico. Actually,

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Speaker 1: all of Derek's girlfriends are really jealous of me. We

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Speaker 1: have like a really close spond He just won't date me.

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Speaker 2: He just won't date me, but he would I get

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Speaker 2: I get a nose job. He's coming after me.

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Speaker 1: I am not the jealous type, and I don't consider

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Speaker 1: friendships with the other sex wrong. But I found her

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Speaker 1: statement weird and very different from how I am personally.

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Speaker 1: She just sounds like a lame person. If I sense,

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Speaker 1: if I sense that a friend's partner felt insecure around me,

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Speaker 1: I would lay low to make them feel secure and

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Speaker 1: work on the relationship. My friendship with the partner is

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Speaker 1: fine in the background anyway, The first year was exhausting,

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Speaker 1: but we were still just dating, so I didn't feel

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Speaker 1: any right to speak since they have known each other

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Speaker 1: for fifteen years. Like on weekends, when she knew that

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Speaker 1: he was with me, she would call all the time.

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Speaker 1: On my birthday, she called him hysterical, saying that her

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Speaker 1: cat was gone, and when he was there, the cat

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Speaker 1: was fine. Maybe the cat just showed up, or maybe

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Speaker 1: she's a liar.

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Speaker 3: Well, maybe the cat's a metaphor for something else.

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Speaker 2: Oh on.

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Speaker 1: And also this was on Opie's birthday.

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Speaker 2: So basically, yeah, she's trying to pull him away from

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Speaker 2: his relationship to weasele her way in.

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Speaker 1: Weasel, her way in girl. If she doesn't want to date,

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Speaker 1: off to weasel. If he doesn't want to date you,

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Speaker 1: you don't. Don't try and trick him, just find someone else.

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Speaker 1: When I planned his birthday, she planned a big surprise party,

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Speaker 1: even though he doesn't like big parties, but he was

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Speaker 1: already at her house when we got serious. I thought

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Speaker 1: that it was time for me to set boundaries. In

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Speaker 1: the beginning, he dismissed my boundaries and couldn't understand what

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Speaker 1: I was worried about.

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Speaker 2: She's literally trying telling you what a wedgships.

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Speaker 1: Hope he is telling you what I was worried about.

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Speaker 2: So what do you mean? Maybe he's freaking listen.

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Speaker 1: Listen, use your ears freak. But we had many discussions

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Speaker 1: and communication about relationship relationships, about relationships and friendships, and

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Speaker 1: he could finally see my side of the story. The

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Speaker 1: relationship soured a bit because he wasn't answering or running

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Speaker 1: to her every single time she wanted. Because she wants

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Speaker 1: you to act like her boyfriend. Yea, and or she

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Speaker 1: wants Op's boyfriend to act like her boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: But he's not going to do that.

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Speaker 1: But he's not going to do that. Fully, he's not

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Speaker 1: gonna do that. She started being rude and mocking towards

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Speaker 1: him to so distance and sell from her until they

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Speaker 1: made up after we got engaged and she reached out

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Speaker 1: to talk and apologize.

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Speaker 2: She's a wolf in wolf's clothing.

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Speaker 1: She's so obviously a wolf that it's embarrassing if you

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Speaker 1: let her eat the sheep.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's like Jacob when he turned into a wolf.

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Speaker 2: That's just a wolf.

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Speaker 1: He's just a wolf. This was six months ago, and

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Speaker 1: now she's all over our lives again, and Derek is

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Speaker 1: a bit dismissive when I say she's crossing boundaries again, Derek,

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Speaker 1: Why are you so stupid, Daryl blind?

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Speaker 2: Maybe you should just be with her, Yeah maybe, Obviously

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Speaker 2: you don't want to set up any relationship boundaries. Maybe

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Speaker 2: just be in a relationship with the other person.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you don't have to worry about the boundaries, Derek.

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Speaker 2: Derek.

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Speaker 1: Then, yesterday I was with Derek at a dinner party.

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Speaker 1: He had a bit to drink, and I heard him

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Speaker 1: talking to his best friend, a guy, about getting married,

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Speaker 1: and Derek was telling him that he was so he

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Speaker 1: was excited. His best friend said that he always thought

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Speaker 1: Derek would end up with Alex because of how close

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Speaker 1: they are and how much they love each other. He

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Speaker 1: told him that Alex loved him and always did. Why

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Speaker 1: is the friend being messy.

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Speaker 2: Because they're trying to wing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Alex and the other friend are in it together.

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Speaker 1: Derek's answer was that she was great and he loved

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Speaker 1: her too, but that she wasn't good looking and that

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Speaker 1: was always a problem to him.

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Speaker 2: That's don't say the quiet part out.

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Speaker 1: Line, stop it, just say I'm not interested in her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how I feel about this. I expected

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Speaker 1: him to say something else, or at least more more

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Speaker 1: than just that she isn't physically attractive to him. I

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Speaker 1: didn't know that he loved her like that, but he does.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't, he doesn't, he doesn't love her like that.

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Speaker 2: He's like, yeah, like maybe there would have been something romantic,

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Speaker 2: but I'm just not attracted to her. But I see

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Speaker 2: her as a friend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that he would consider dating her if she was

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Speaker 1: more attracted to him. I don't know why I'm sad.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I have different views on what love of unrealistic views.

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Speaker 1: Is this a good enough reason to break the engagement

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Speaker 1: or at least postpone it? Or am I overreacting? And

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Speaker 1: there is an update?

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Speaker 2: I don't think you're overreacting. You should be very wary, yes.

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Speaker 1: Per and also of his like not listening concern. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: lack of concern, lack of you know, not listening to you,

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Speaker 1: trying to set up establish boundaries. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: it's enough to fully break off.

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Speaker 2: No, but he is a y. It's a definite little

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Speaker 2: red flag that he's not listening to you. I don't

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Speaker 2: know why he is including this person in his life

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Speaker 2: that is obviously trying to break up his relationship. That

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Speaker 2: and he also.

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Speaker 1: Knows, yeah, that she is in.

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Speaker 2: Love with him. Question for you, which is and also

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Speaker 2: for everyone in chat? Can you keep a platonic relationship

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Speaker 2: with someone you know is in love with you? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't know if you can.

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Speaker 3: We had a friend in a similar situation, Yeah, what

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Speaker 2: Oh we did. Yeah, and like we're not really friends

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Speaker 2: with that person though anymore, because it's real. It's really

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Speaker 2: hard to be in a platonic relationship with someone who

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Speaker 2: wants to not be platonic consistently if they consistently have feelings.

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Speaker 2: I think it's almost impossible.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and if you if the boyfriend knows this and

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Speaker 1: is not establishing boundaries with her.

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Speaker 2: Then he's complicit in it. Yeah, he probably likes the attention.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, which is a rich Maybe that is a breakup? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know itself.

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Speaker 2: I think it's not quite It wouldn't be quite a

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Speaker 2: breakup for me, but I think I would have that conversation.

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Speaker 2: If he doesn't establish boundaries again, then breakup. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I honestly think I.

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Speaker 2: Am in breakup territory.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, I think I have a friend that does

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Speaker 3: have a crush on me, but I just ignore it

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Speaker 3: and I make it strictly platonic on my side. And

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Speaker 3: I know I kind of had those feelings, but I

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Speaker 3: love being around her family and I like being around

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Speaker 3: her too, so I just kind of like, don't even

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Speaker 3: give into that, and I just treat her as a

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Speaker 1: I think it is different.

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Speaker 2: I think once you're in a relationship, you have to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I know I think that Riley, I think

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Speaker 1: so I think it is.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well she might visit sometime, but she's never admitted

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Speaker 3: to me that she's Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, boundaries that I think it was me if like

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Speaker 2: I would, I mean, I would probably put more concrete boundaries,

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Speaker 2: like if it was like if you notice, you know,

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Speaker 2: stuff that was a little bit romantic, I would say, hey,

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Speaker 2: like now, and I'm in a relationship, I don't think

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Speaker 2: you could be acting like this, like if you want

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Speaker 2: to maintain this friendship, like we're gonna have to change

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Speaker 2: the dynamic for sure.

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Speaker 1: But there's a little bit more to the story. There's

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Speaker 1: an update. I talked to him now, and he was

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Speaker 1: very shocked when I told him what I heard, and

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Speaker 1: he said that wasn't the only reason, and he doesn't

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Speaker 1: know why he made it about her looks only, but

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Speaker 1: he was annoyed a his friend who brought her up

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Speaker 1: when he was talking about our wedding plan. He isn't

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Speaker 1: attracted to her in general, both looks and personality wise,

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Speaker 1: because they're very different, and he sees her like a sister,

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Speaker 1: like his annoying sister. He basically grew up with her

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Speaker 1: they were neighbors. He admitted that he knew she had

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Speaker 1: feelings for him under periods of time, but he thought

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Speaker 1: she loved him when she didn't have another boyfriend, because

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Speaker 1: when she has a new boyfriend, she's had over heels

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Speaker 1: in love with that dude. About making a choice, he

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Speaker 1: said it was a no brainer and that he would

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Speaker 1: right Why. Oh, okay, see.

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Speaker 2: That's why I saw. That's why communication is key, harpar.

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Speaker 1: I don't think break up. I think this is perfect.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I played a loyalty test with my husband, but

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Speaker 2: now he's upset and I think I ruined our relationship.

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Speaker 2: This comes from throwaway stupid game and they say we've

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Speaker 2: been together for ten years and a great relationship up

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Speaker 2: until this point.

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Speaker 1: It's always how it goes.

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Speaker 2: No jealousy issues or anything like that. I go out

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Speaker 2: every Saturday with my friend and get dressed up and

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Speaker 2: I have quite a following on social media. Ooh, nothing special,

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Speaker 2: but each one is in the five figures. So I

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Speaker 2: post a pick every Saturday of my outfits plus picks

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Speaker 2: in the week. We got a little social media vanista.

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Speaker 2: What's it called? Feat fascist Fashionista? There we go Vanista.

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Speaker 2: This is to set the background that my husband doesn't

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Speaker 2: mind me sharing pictures and will often act as my photographer.

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Speaker 2: He's got social media but very rarely uses it, but

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Speaker 2: always likes my post. Just checked, and the last time

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Speaker 2: he did anything on Instagram other than like my post

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Speaker 2: was three years ago. He posted from a football game.

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Speaker 2: I've seen these videos before of women filming themselves while

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Speaker 2: they confess to their partners they have started in OnlyFans

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Speaker 2: to film the reaction. My friend started doing it to

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Speaker 2: their partners and posting the videos in our group chats,

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Speaker 2: and I thought I do the same. I walked into

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Speaker 2: the room and said, hey, Hubby, I've got something to

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Speaker 2: tell you. I started an only fans about a month ago,

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Speaker 2: and I'm going to start promoting it on my socials.

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Speaker 2: Is this a bad move or a good move or

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Speaker 2: a money move?

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Speaker 1: I'm honest, I kind of don't like the prank video.

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Speaker 2: I don't like pranks. I feel like a good prank.

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Speaker 2: Everyone's laughing, everyone's laughing, good joke, everyone's laughing. He looked

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Speaker 2: up with a smile and said, Wow, that's brave of you.

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Speaker 2: Makes sense though, with all the follows you've got. Bet

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Speaker 2: you'll make a fortune and contreat yourself to stuff.

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Speaker 1: That's really sweet.

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Speaker 2: He says he's found He says he's found friends to

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Speaker 2: I am exhausted just from this story and want to

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Speaker 1: Yeah. No, this is kind of ridiculous her behavior.

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Speaker 1: He thought about it is like, you know what do

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Speaker 1: And then she went, you're not gonna fight, You're.

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Speaker 2: Gonna fight for me. Yeah, terrible. I think great move

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Speaker 2: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives.

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Speaker 4: Time for okop, relamh cheat on me, face my wrath.

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Speaker 4: I trapped him naked in front of his neighbors. Okop,

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Speaker 4: this is Okayop.

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Speaker 2: I'm Samuel Donner and I'm John Fry and we tell

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Speaker 2: the funniest stories on the Internet. Yes we do.

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Speaker 4: And you know, Sam, there are lots of times where

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Speaker 2: Revenge can be either sweet or scary. Like I just

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Speaker 2: then the crazy ex just like burned all of their

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've never I've always wondered, like what are people

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Speaker 2: Like what goes on that?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I guess some people are just just crazy anyways,

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I think some people are just literally crazy.

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Speaker 2: You know, they say love will make it crazy, so

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Speaker 4: Love, man, you know what else will make it crazy?

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Speaker 4: What a great freaking story. I's here, Josh sheet on

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Speaker 4: me face my wrath. I trapped him naked in front

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Speaker 2: Wow hot, Molly Ohspepper.

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Speaker 4: This story is from a good friend who lives in

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Speaker 4: South America. Not my story, but hers. This happened about

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Speaker 4: sixteen years ago. My friend, let's call her Maria, had

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Speaker 4: He'd been to a party, got a girl drunk, and

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Speaker 4: as fir as rodeo on that grape vine. This vine

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Speaker 4: has been going to quite a few rodeos. Maria heard

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Speaker 4: The thing about this special often and of fun sam

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Speaker 2: Are we talking about a three way? Yes?

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Speaker 4: Oscar could not resist this tempting offer, so he went.

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Speaker 4: He goes into the building where she lives. He rides

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Speaker 2: So she's really chucking it out the window. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I've made a joke before about like crazy girlfriend's chucky

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Speaker 2: But I guess this bad boy deserves it. Oh, he's

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, she just locked him in the hallway naked.

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Speaker 4: Oscar rips the blindfold off and must have realized how

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Speaker 2: The humiliation that is quite some humiliation that I think

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Speaker 2: very properfully he learned his lesson, don't you goodness just

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Speaker 2: way faithful goodness correction. If you're not going to be faithful,

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Speaker 4: If you want to do that, go yeah, either have

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Speaker 2: Don't be in a relationship. Yeah, come on, man, come on,

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Speaker 2: just yeah, Now you have to deal with the wrath

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Speaker 2: at the girlfriend and exactly you gotta be running around

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Speaker 4: That's right, But you know, it's something you should always

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