1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 3: Y'all don't know y'all. 4 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:10,640 Speaker 4: At all at all, So. 5 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 5: Don't given the. 6 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 6: Busy listening to show. 7 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 7: I don't joy, Yeah, joy. 8 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 8: You know you turn love, turn turn. 9 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:43,040 Speaker 3: To turn the mouth turn. 10 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 7: You probably got to turn the mouth, turn out, turn 11 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 7: the mon. 12 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 9: Look. 13 00:01:55,840 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 2: Come come on, you'll think, uh huh, I sure will. 14 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 2: Good morning everybody. Y'll listening to the voice, Come on, 15 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 2: dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a 16 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:15,399 Speaker 2: radio show today, folks. I just want to dive right 17 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 2: in because I think I got it here. It is. 18 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 2: Did you know that there is a life for you 19 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 2: that's greater than you could have ever dreamed of? Did 20 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 2: you know that there's a life for you better than 21 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 2: the one you've ever felt before? And did you know 22 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 2: that there was a life for you much bigger than 23 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 2: the one you wanted? And lastly, did you know that 24 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 2: what I just said is true? Did you know that 25 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 2: did you know that the things I just said are 26 00:02:56,960 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 2: available to you? It's not just intended for those who 27 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 2: receive awards. It's for everybody. Yeah, you too, It's for 28 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 2: you who didn't get your high school diploma. It's for 29 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 2: you who are incarcerated. It's for you who have two strikes. 30 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 2: It's for you who've been sentenced to life. It's for 31 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 2: you who've gotten out and have a felony record and 32 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 2: can't seem to get it together. It's for you who 33 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 2: have an illness. It's for you who the doctors have 34 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 2: given up on. It's for you. This life I'm talking 35 00:03:54,200 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 2: about is for you. Did you know that there is 36 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 2: a life for you better than the one you dreamed about, 37 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 2: better than the one you've imagined, a life better than 38 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 2: the one you thought of, That there's a life for 39 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 2: you better than the one you've ever felt before. There's 40 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 2: a life for you better than the one you saw 41 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:21,160 Speaker 2: for yourself. There's a better life for you than the 42 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 2: one you expected and even the one you wanted. Did 43 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 2: you know that this is true for you? See, here's 44 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 2: let me give you the secret to this thing. Now 45 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:40,280 Speaker 2: you have to believe that it is for you. Now, 46 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:43,599 Speaker 2: you gotta fight through the doubts. You gotta fight through 47 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 2: the wiel of satan, because the devil is busy man. 48 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,279 Speaker 2: The devil wants you to think that it's hopeless. The 49 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:51,919 Speaker 2: devil wants you to think that this is it The 50 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,280 Speaker 2: devil wants you to think that ain't no more to it. 51 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 2: The devil wants you to think that this applies to 52 00:04:57,160 --> 00:04:59,799 Speaker 2: other people. But you, Yeah, you've been dealt the worst 53 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 2: hand of them all, which you ate. But that's what 54 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 2: the devil wants you to think. So you gotta fight through. Now, 55 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 2: You gotta fight through to get to what I just 56 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 2: said is available for you. But what else you got 57 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:14,040 Speaker 2: to do? You ain't doing nothing else, might as well fight. 58 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 2: Why just wake up and just let it be? Why 59 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 2: would you wake up every day and just exist when 60 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 2: there's a chance for you to actually live? See the 61 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:25,679 Speaker 2: reason I don't mind smiling so much now is because 62 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 2: I'm no longer existing. I'm living now. See. See, that's 63 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 2: what you want to get to. You don't want to exist, 64 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 2: to wake up paycheck to paycheck, date today, not knowing, 65 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:41,679 Speaker 2: not understanding, not have and can't can't get this, can't 66 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:44,679 Speaker 2: get that, can't go here, can't go there, Gota wait, 67 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 2: gota wait, goda wait, goda wait till it seems like 68 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 2: you never get nowhere. You can get out of that 69 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 2: rut of life, feeling like when you wake up in 70 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 2: the morning that your life is whole hum that you 71 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 2: just in a rut. I drive the same way to work. 72 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 2: I do the same thing on my job. When I 73 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 2: get off, I drive all the way back home. I 74 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 2: sit there, I read the newspaper. I watered the lawn. 75 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 2: I'm so sick of my life. It ain't this, ain't 76 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:12,840 Speaker 2: what I wanted, man, and start wak up and start over, 77 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 2: do the same thing. Then the weekend gets in. You 78 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 2: got to mold the lawn, and then you try to 79 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 2: fix something in the garage, and you feel like your 80 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:22,160 Speaker 2: life is in a rut. I'm talking about if this 81 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 2: feels like a rut to you, and if it's what 82 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 2: you've always wanted, I'm cool with that. But I'm talking 83 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:30,160 Speaker 2: to people who want it more, who would love their 84 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 2: life to be more, who would love their life too 85 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 2: different to be different. Now, I'm not criticizing you if 86 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:39,240 Speaker 2: I just described your life. I'm just only talking to 87 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 2: the ones who would dad to believe that there's more 88 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 2: to it than this. I'm only talking to the ones 89 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 2: who would dad to accept the challenge to fight through 90 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 2: and see what God got for you. Instead of listening 91 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:57,159 Speaker 2: to Satan all the time. Devil is busy, man. Please 92 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 2: understand he's so busy, so busy, trying to treat you, 93 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 2: get you into the crove. You know they doing all 94 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:06,919 Speaker 2: kinds of stuff now, man, you know atheists and already 95 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 2: got prayer taken out of schools. Excuse me, look at 96 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 2: our skills schools, not as a push by the atheists 97 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 2: to get the words in God we trust, taking off 98 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 2: our money. Here's a deal. If you don't believe in God, 99 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 2: and you don't want trust in God, just going about 100 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 2: your business. But what you can't do is spill off 101 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 2: all into what I'm talking about. That's the problem I 102 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 2: have with all of them. If you're gonna do you, 103 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 2: then't do you, but don't spill off into what I got. Now. See, 104 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 2: if you don't believe what I'm saying, then I ain't 105 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 2: talking to you. Let's just be clear about the relationship 106 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 2: with Steve Harvey and his crew. I'm only talking to 107 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 2: the people that believe that are looking for something else, 108 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 2: that want something more, that wants something better, that's got 109 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 2: to be out there searching and hoping and trying to 110 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 2: do more. That's all I'm talking to now. If you 111 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 2: don't believe what I'm saying is true, then't go ahead, 112 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 2: try it your way, go see, write me, email me, 113 00:07:57,120 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 2: let me know how it's going for you. But I'm 114 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 2: telling you of a way that's tried and true. If 115 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 2: you go to God, if you go to your creator, 116 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 2: your maker, if you go to him and you go 117 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 2: to him for real and tell him, hey, you know what, 118 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 2: I want you to go ahead and take over from here. 119 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 2: I'm done. I'd have done all I know how to 120 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 2: do outa tried everything I know how to try. I'm 121 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:24,679 Speaker 2: sick of me right now. Hey look here, you created 122 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 2: me what you want me to do, and you had 123 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 2: the cool thing about it. When I made that decision, y'all. See, 124 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 2: I was so afraid for years that I was going 125 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 2: to miss out on something if I did that. I 126 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 2: couldn't do this no more. But the stuff I needed 127 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 2: to stop doing. I really need to stop the things 128 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 2: I was afraid of not being able to do anymore, 129 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 2: with the very same things I really didn't need to 130 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 2: be doing no more in the first place. On the 131 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 2: real man, on the real all that temporary fun I 132 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:53,880 Speaker 2: was having all them temporary outlets. I was using all 133 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:57,080 Speaker 2: them temporary things, trying to fulfill myself I was doing. 134 00:08:57,200 --> 00:09:00,120 Speaker 2: I was just doing a bunch of temporary mess man. 135 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 2: I said, hold up, man, I want something permanent. Man, 136 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:05,719 Speaker 2: I want a permanent feeling in my heart that it's 137 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 2: gonna be all right. So he replaced all that fun 138 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 2: with joy. But it was only because I went and 139 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:14,679 Speaker 2: I faced him. He didn't take me and stopped me 140 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 2: from being me. He just made a better version of me. See, 141 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 2: God don't take he because all the stuff he sent 142 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:24,679 Speaker 2: you through, he needed you to go through all him. 143 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 2: He needed you to have him experience of what it 144 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 2: felt like to be locked up. He needed you to 145 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 2: have experience and know what it was to lose everything. 146 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 2: He needed you to have experience to make you tough. 147 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 2: You just gonna be a tough one. I'm a tough 148 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 2: soldier in his army. That's all. I just say. One 149 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:45,199 Speaker 2: of the weak ones. I protect the weak ones. God 150 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 2: didn't take a lot of stuff from except the stuff 151 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 2: I needed. But the stuff he made me to be, 152 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:53,200 Speaker 2: He allowed me to keep it, and he just made 153 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,319 Speaker 2: it better of me. Do that, y'all and you can 154 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:56,199 Speaker 2: have what you want. 155 00:09:56,840 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 4: You're listening. 156 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 2: Show, ladies and gentlemen, man have your attention. Please. Today's 157 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 2: show is dated. It is dedicated to mountain people, scuba divers, 158 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 2: an archaeologist, mountain people, scuba divers and archaeologists. None of 159 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:23,680 Speaker 2: them are listening right now. We're just trying to draw 160 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 2: them in. So we're sending out random dedications to people 161 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 2: I know ain't listening to the show. My show is worldwide, 162 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 2: but not underwater. My show is worldwide, but I don't 163 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 2: like up high places, and my show is worldwide. I 164 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:42,000 Speaker 2: don't care for people that dig holes, Ladies and gentlemen. 165 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 2: Steve Harvey Morning Show, Shirley Strawberry. 166 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 10: Hello Steve, and mountain people, scuba divers and archaeologists wherever you. 167 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 1: Are calling for real, Good morning, Steve. 168 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:55,120 Speaker 4: What's up? 169 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: Mountain people in them? 170 00:10:56,600 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 11: All of you see May Junior astronauts ain't listening either. 171 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. Now we haven't dedicated anything to him yet, Junior, 172 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 2: I do the dedication. Don't step on the stay you 173 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 2: get to ask. Yeah, yeah, don't jump with joke Jr. 174 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 2: All right, jumping, yeah, yeah, joke jumping. 175 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 12: Put up Jake a mountain, a mountain man, or just 176 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 12: in a scuba diver walk into the bar. The bartender said, 177 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 12: y'all need to get out of here with that bull 178 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 12: because I don't know none of y'all. 179 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 2: Get the hell out of here, nephew. 180 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:44,200 Speaker 9: Hey, top of the morning, mountain people, listen to the story. 181 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 2: About a man named Jed gets up Mountain people. Okay, 182 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 2: here's a question I have to start the day off, Shirley. 183 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:52,680 Speaker 2: If you are not doing radio, what job would you 184 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 2: love to have? Oh? 185 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:58,520 Speaker 1: That's he see, I'd be a singer. Really have to ask. 186 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 12: Jay, Jay, let me get just so me me. 187 00:12:07,280 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 2: I'll just some Whitney for you. Just yeah, yeah, calling. 188 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 2: What would you want to be? Right in the college 189 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 2: you want to do? What would you want to be? 190 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:26,080 Speaker 13: I think I would want to work in television. 191 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:31,680 Speaker 2: You're gonna be a radio rest of your life? Yeah? 192 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 2: We wrote watch the Hologram? 193 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 4: Still you thank you? 194 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 11: Book your notes, sticky notes. 195 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 2: I hear the hete it's uh television, junior, sir. Yeah, 196 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 2: I want to be an NFL running back. What I 197 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:52,679 Speaker 2: want to be? 198 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 3: See that you can see that. 199 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 2: I want to I want to play I could see that. Jay, 200 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 2: what would you be video point man? Yes? Long right there? 201 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:07,960 Speaker 2: Your uh here's gonna be a good one. Tommy, what 202 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:08,520 Speaker 2: you want to. 203 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 9: Be shipping Dales baby chipping Dale's uh wear nothing. 204 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 10: Yes, my singer is looking real good to you right 205 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:19,839 Speaker 10: about now, isn't it. 206 00:13:19,960 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 1: Uh huh, mom TV job. 207 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:27,719 Speaker 10: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour. We're 208 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 10: gonna run that brank back right after this. You're listening 209 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:35,680 Speaker 10: morning show, all right, and it's time now to start 210 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 10: your morning off. 211 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 4: With the nephew and run that prank back. What you 212 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 4: got for his nep. 213 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 2: A wedding with Butcher cat Dog if you would. 214 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 5: Hello, Hell, I'm trying to I'm trying to reach allan. 215 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 5: This is hey. How you doing this? Butcher man? But 216 00:13:50,240 --> 00:13:52,960 Speaker 5: uh yeah you was you was at the cookout the 217 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 5: other day with the family. I'm Christian's cuzin okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 218 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 5: y'all was you was a at the cookouts the of 219 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:03,600 Speaker 5: the day. I wanted to reach out to you, I know, 220 00:14:03,679 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 5: the weddingess in the next two weeks, right, yeah, yeah, 221 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:14,440 Speaker 5: yeah yeah, you ready for that? Yeah? Okay, Well, hey man, 222 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:17,520 Speaker 5: I got a little bit of a problem that uh 223 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 5: you know, we kind of wanted to call you about, 224 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 5: you know, because the family got together and had a 225 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 5: little meeting, like and what the deal is is just here. 226 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 5: I know, I know you excited and want to marry 227 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 5: my cousin and she kind of excited too about the 228 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 5: whole thing. But you know, like the family members, we 229 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 5: got together and decided that for right now, I mean 230 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 5: right now, we findsh like we find the call the 231 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 5: wedding now for right now? 232 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 14: What you talking about? 233 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 5: What you talking about calling the wedding off? Well see, 234 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 5: you know, everybody, thank you cool and I and uh 235 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 5: you know we real real passionate man about you know, 236 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 5: people marrying into our family or whatever. Like you know, 237 00:14:57,400 --> 00:14:59,240 Speaker 5: the gathering of the day. You know that was a 238 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 5: hot look, thank everybody brains something right. 239 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 14: Hold on, christ ain't ever tell me no like that 240 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 14: about what about something about not getting no married? 241 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 5: Okay, well see right here, like I say, this is 242 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 5: what the family done, decided on, what. 243 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 14: The family decided on. 244 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 5: Okay, you see this is what I'm trying to tell you. See, 245 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 5: we're a real close knit family and it's like this here. 246 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:19,600 Speaker 5: See first of all, let me get you to understand 247 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 5: is here you're talking to Butcher right now. All right, 248 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 5: here's a deal. You know, we didn't decided that the 249 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 5: wedd name in the appen in two weeks until like 250 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 5: when we had we had the pot look, barbecue. Everybody 251 00:15:30,680 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 5: brings something. Why you ain't brain nothing what you're talking about? 252 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 5: I'm paying for what? Oh oh oh, oh oh oh. 253 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 5: That's what you've been to throw up in our faces 254 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 5: that you're paying for the wedd Hell yeah, who's I 255 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 5: supposed to bring? Hey? Man, everybody brings something. We have 256 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 5: a pot. Look, you know, everybody brings something contribute to 257 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 5: to to the function of the event that's going on, 258 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 5: you know. And for you to walk up in there 259 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 5: and I have nothing that let us know what kind 260 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 5: of person you're gonna be in the family. We can't 261 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 5: have it con this again. This butcher right here, I 262 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 5: don't know no butcher. Look, I came to the family 263 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:02,880 Speaker 5: gathering picnic. 264 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 14: I came there and showed up, loving on all y'all, 265 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 14: telling y'all great this was gonna be. And now you're 266 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 14: telling me I can't married Christal? 267 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:10,000 Speaker 5: Is that what? 268 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 14: Telling me? 269 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:12,760 Speaker 5: I ain't man in the family that already voted and 270 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:15,560 Speaker 5: when the family vote, dog, that's it. I ain't marrying 271 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 5: the family. You may you've married my cousin, Christian, that's 272 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 5: what you're trying to do. And you ain't fit the 273 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 5: mary house. 274 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:25,680 Speaker 14: Look, i'ma calling up to my job talking like this. 275 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 14: I'm already on hot from the day with some boat 276 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 14: my supervis of them pulls. 277 00:16:30,120 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 5: Do not come calling me with no vote. Hey man, 278 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 5: let me tell you this here until we can decide 279 00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 5: that you good for Christian, until we can decide that 280 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 5: you know you can handle being married to her, and 281 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 5: you come correct as a family member. And if you're 282 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:45,320 Speaker 5: gonna come to pot, look then you bring a pot. 283 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:46,520 Speaker 5: You ain't brain nothing. 284 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 14: I ain't gotta fearing nothing. I'm paying for this wed 285 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 14: and I don't give watch you up there, all that 286 00:16:50,760 --> 00:16:53,080 Speaker 14: money out on dropped for this? How about two bottles 287 00:16:53,120 --> 00:16:53,720 Speaker 14: of wine to it? 288 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 5: You bought when I ain't seen no wine. I don't 289 00:16:57,360 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 5: care if you got that wine or not. 290 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:00,040 Speaker 14: I saw her mama drinking it. 291 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 5: Okay, well, I ain't getting no wine. I don't remember 292 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:05,399 Speaker 5: nobody bringing no wine. See Butcher normally see everything that 293 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:05,760 Speaker 5: go on. 294 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:09,439 Speaker 14: I got class. I don't know what he's talking about, Butchy, whatever, 295 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:12,119 Speaker 14: I bought some wine. Mamma was drinking it, and I 296 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:14,440 Speaker 14: ain't playing that this wedding going down. I didn't spend 297 00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 14: over twenty three thousand. 298 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 5: Dollars on that, Hey man, I didn't already told you that. 299 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:20,520 Speaker 5: The family then voted on that the wind name. I 300 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 5: don't give up what the family voted on. 301 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:24,159 Speaker 15: I them pay for this. 302 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 14: I ain't heard nothing from Christian about this. 303 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:28,879 Speaker 5: Christen might not know what we'd done voted on. We 304 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:32,960 Speaker 5: made the decisions sometimes for everybody you undersaying that. 305 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 14: Don't include me. 306 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 5: We'll let Christian know that we's gonna stop the web. 307 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 5: I'm just calling to let you know before I didn't 308 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:40,720 Speaker 5: even tell her. What's up you. 309 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 14: Trying to tell me? 310 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:43,639 Speaker 5: Christen don't even know now. We ain't told her that 311 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 5: we don't agree with you yet and that we're gonna 312 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 5: stop the win. We ain't told of it. Man, get 313 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:48,160 Speaker 5: out of here. 314 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 14: I don't paid all this money for this. Man, y'all 315 00:17:49,840 --> 00:17:50,359 Speaker 14: ain't stopping. 316 00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 5: Hey, man, I done already told you what we're doing. 317 00:17:53,440 --> 00:17:53,719 Speaker 2: All right. 318 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:56,480 Speaker 5: I'm not finna continue to go back and forth with you. 319 00:17:56,600 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 14: Better go off my alreadys and your voice at me. 320 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 5: I don't know, hell you I tell you what. Let 321 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 5: me say this to you. I don't care if I 322 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 5: got to bust up in that church and stop this 323 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:07,440 Speaker 5: wedding because you then win against what we just said. 324 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 5: Whatever I got to do. 325 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:10,440 Speaker 15: I don't know who you with. 326 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 5: I wish yoall was try to stop this wedding. Look 327 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 5: we can have a list right now, I can get 328 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:16,760 Speaker 5: off of work. I'm already going. 329 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:19,080 Speaker 14: Through some books and I'm already on fire. I will 330 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:21,720 Speaker 14: come there and bust yo right now. 331 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:25,439 Speaker 5: You know what, see see what she was going with Nigel. 332 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:29,080 Speaker 5: See Nigel, ain't act like this, Oh what I don't know. 333 00:18:29,119 --> 00:18:31,399 Speaker 14: You didn't bring that me and that don already have 334 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 14: don't even bring that came. 335 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 5: Up in me. Hey man, amen, I'm just keeping it 336 00:18:35,080 --> 00:18:37,720 Speaker 5: real with you. Nigel, ain't act like this here that 337 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 5: we don't have words. And if that doesn't want to 338 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:41,720 Speaker 5: come and bust up in that too, he. 339 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 15: Get dealt with just like that. 340 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:43,439 Speaker 11: A man. 341 00:18:43,720 --> 00:18:45,679 Speaker 5: I'm just trying to say, it's a whole family one 342 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 5: hundred dollars. 343 00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:48,440 Speaker 15: I don't want to hear nothing about this no more. 344 00:18:48,640 --> 00:18:50,399 Speaker 5: Tell me where to be and we can deal with 345 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 5: this right now. I'm just letting you know. The family 346 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 5: then voted the family and already no voting. Now what 347 00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:58,640 Speaker 5: we'll do we'll push the way in back and then 348 00:18:58,920 --> 00:19:02,359 Speaker 5: give us time to read evaluate you and we evaluate me. 349 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 14: I don't need no evaluation from y'all, me and Christen 350 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 14: get married. How do I put some money on this? 351 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 5: All I know is the wedding ain't happening. 352 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 14: That the wedding is happening now after them pay for 353 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 14: all this talk some books you the family were gonna 354 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 14: get married in two and a half weeks if joh, 355 00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 14: if y'all don't come in, if y'all come up in that, 356 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:22,200 Speaker 14: y'all gonna get dealt with men straight. 357 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 5: That I'm trying to say, day man, I'm trying to 358 00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:28,600 Speaker 5: tell you man right now, the family don't want you 359 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:31,960 Speaker 5: in the family right now. I don't give it about y'all. 360 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:33,960 Speaker 14: Ain't in love with y'all. I'm mar and Christens and 361 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:36,000 Speaker 14: I can give a if I see y'all ever again. 362 00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you this here. The family voted on 363 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 5: one more thing you need to go on on. Know 364 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 5: that while we're at it, this ain't. 365 00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 14: No damn democracy. 366 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:43,439 Speaker 5: We getting married. 367 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 14: That is between HI and I and if y'all don't 368 00:19:46,280 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 14: want to be there, jump. 369 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:50,480 Speaker 5: Off in the dish. Yeah, it's one more thing we 370 00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:52,760 Speaker 5: done voted on. What the else you don't voted on? 371 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 5: We voted on this. This is nephew Tommy from the 372 00:19:56,359 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 5: Steve Harvey Morning Show, Christians and Todd Family. They got 373 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:14,439 Speaker 5: me the prank phone call you. 374 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 14: You Tommy, I don't put all that money out like that. 375 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:20,360 Speaker 5: I was like, no, Sun, I got one more thing. 376 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:22,479 Speaker 5: I got to ask you, dog, what is what is 377 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 5: the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in 378 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:26,200 Speaker 5: the lane? 379 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:32,200 Speaker 14: Steve Hardy Morning Show. Baby, I'm being real with you, man, 380 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:33,920 Speaker 14: somebody gonna you up. 381 00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:39,400 Speaker 9: We ain't got to praise it up in here. I'll 382 00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 9: be back in another hour. You ain't got to give 383 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:42,240 Speaker 9: me no praise already. 384 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 10: Know it's to thinking of you coming up next to 385 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:48,360 Speaker 10: his ask the CLO or Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey back. 386 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 3: In the building. 387 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 4: You're listening hard Morning Show. 388 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:55,159 Speaker 10: All right, guys, time now for us the c l O, 389 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:59,200 Speaker 10: Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey is here. This one is 390 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:03,240 Speaker 10: from John in Memphis. Johnny writes, I must be the 391 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:04,440 Speaker 10: biggest fool. 392 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:04,920 Speaker 4: On the planet. 393 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:07,119 Speaker 10: The other night, I got a hotel room with a 394 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:10,199 Speaker 10: married woman and she said she was hungry, so she 395 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:13,280 Speaker 10: ordered food. I took a shower and put all of 396 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 10: my belongings on the nightstand. When I was taking a shower. 397 00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:19,320 Speaker 10: She yelled that she was going down to get the food. 398 00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:22,920 Speaker 10: She left and took all of my cash and jewelry, 399 00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:26,119 Speaker 10: and she blocked my calls. I don't care about the money, 400 00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:29,480 Speaker 10: but my deceased wife bought the necklace and I want 401 00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 10: it back. Should I stop by her house and get it? 402 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:37,520 Speaker 2: Wow? Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, dog. Let's go over this. 403 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,479 Speaker 2: You were in a hotel room with a married woman 404 00:21:43,119 --> 00:21:48,520 Speaker 2: with your deceased wife necklace. Oh, she bought you. You 405 00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:51,560 Speaker 2: went in the bathroom, she stole everything, told you she 406 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,880 Speaker 2: was going downstairs to get the food. You come out 407 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:57,720 Speaker 2: in the necklace gone. You want to go over the 408 00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:03,680 Speaker 2: married woman house to get your necklace back? Hey, dog, 409 00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:06,040 Speaker 2: your wife already deceased. 410 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:09,120 Speaker 4: I want to see. 411 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:14,360 Speaker 2: What is you trying to do? Though? Here you miss her, 412 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:19,560 Speaker 2: so you're gonna go over there. Boy, Listen to me 413 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 2: deal with her later on. But you cannot go to 414 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:25,640 Speaker 2: that house now. You can contact her at her job 415 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:29,160 Speaker 2: and say, hey, listen, here's the deal. All I want 416 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 2: is a necklace back. Are your husband gonna know everything? 417 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:37,640 Speaker 2: But I just want the necklace back? All right? Since 418 00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:40,760 Speaker 2: you bring this stuff back over here, though, I'm gonna 419 00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 2: need my money to that. I ain't gonna lie to you. 420 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,840 Speaker 2: I'm gonna need you or your husband. Yeah, I know 421 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:48,639 Speaker 2: he don't care about it. But since you bring this 422 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:53,280 Speaker 2: necklace back, your husband gonna know everything. All right? 423 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 10: Moving on, Sandra says, I'm forty seven years old, married 424 00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 10: and sleeping with my gynecologist. We had sex a few 425 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:04,119 Speaker 10: times in his office, but I'm worried because he's not 426 00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:07,800 Speaker 10: a savvy cheater. He touches me and kisses on me 427 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:11,200 Speaker 10: and the elevator, and I warned him about cameras being 428 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:14,639 Speaker 10: all over the place. His receptionist just started giving me 429 00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 10: the evil eye. 430 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 4: And she's short with me. Now. 431 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:19,159 Speaker 10: He said not to pay any attemption. Meant not to 432 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:22,160 Speaker 10: pay her any mind, But I'm scared of her. Should 433 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 10: I ask her what her problem is? 434 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 2: You already know what the problem is. You a woman, 435 00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:33,119 Speaker 2: You already know, y'all. Women, you know why she's short 436 00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 2: with you and giving you the evil eye? You want 437 00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:38,480 Speaker 2: what you're gonna ask? Is there something wrong? Yes, it's 438 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:42,639 Speaker 2: something wrong. You in the office, like I one, got 439 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:48,919 Speaker 2: to go in there and clean up. Okay, all this 440 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:52,920 Speaker 2: extra paper in the trash can't be examining. 441 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, she said in his office, in her. 442 00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:01,520 Speaker 2: Guts, paper in the trash. What is you using all 443 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:02,440 Speaker 2: them sheets? Fall? 444 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:03,080 Speaker 5: Oh? 445 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 10: No, because she's married. But then she said she's scared 446 00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:09,640 Speaker 10: of her. 447 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:10,600 Speaker 2: What is that about? 448 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:12,640 Speaker 10: She's scared of her and she wants to step too 449 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:13,680 Speaker 10: the girlhood. 450 00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 2: You gonna step to her and do what? Get slapped 451 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:23,679 Speaker 2: all into the You're gonna get slapped back into the elevator, 452 00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:26,359 Speaker 2: all right? 453 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:30,040 Speaker 10: Korea and Tampa says, I'm dating a great man that's 454 00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:34,160 Speaker 10: a single father to three boys, and I love them dearly, 455 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 10: but they are all so gross, including my boyfriend. Their 456 00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,600 Speaker 10: house always smells like a dirty clothes hamper, and they 457 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:43,359 Speaker 10: always miss the toilet. 458 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 4: Bowl, so I have to squat when I use it. 459 00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 10: They constantly pass gas, and they love to come around 460 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 10: me and do it then run away laughing. It's all 461 00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 10: fun and games daily. Is it okay to set boundaries 462 00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:58,639 Speaker 10: with the boys since their dad won't? 463 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know what you're gonna do at 464 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:05,480 Speaker 2: the house. Does she live there, Shirley, No, No, she 465 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:10,720 Speaker 2: doesn't live there. You're visiting. It's all dudes. They trifling 466 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:15,600 Speaker 2: for guys, But I look the missing the toilet. They're 467 00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:18,680 Speaker 2: gonna do that now, I don't understand how nobody picking 468 00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:22,280 Speaker 2: up this seat though, but that's that's a guy thing too. 469 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:26,880 Speaker 2: Sometimes they're young. Why don't you break up with him? 470 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you? 471 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 1: Leave the nasty. 472 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 4: Tamper house. 473 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:40,760 Speaker 1: She can't talk to him about it, she said, she. 474 00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:48,720 Speaker 2: Bound, well, I understand what she said. She could have 475 00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:50,800 Speaker 2: her talk to I mean, you know, look, I mean 476 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,359 Speaker 2: she could put her foot down. You a woman, you 477 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,840 Speaker 2: can get this is going to stop. If I'm gonna 478 00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 2: come over here and you all enjoying all this cooking 479 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:00,600 Speaker 2: and stuff, You're gonna have to do better. 480 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, clean, And. 481 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,719 Speaker 2: If they care about you, they gonna make an answer. 482 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:06,359 Speaker 4: Get some for breeze. 483 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:13,000 Speaker 9: Were cooking gassy food too? 484 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:16,640 Speaker 2: All right? 485 00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:17,680 Speaker 4: Moving on? 486 00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 10: Steve Philo Kira and Shreveport says, I got a call 487 00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:24,160 Speaker 10: from a female saying she had sex with my boyfriend 488 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:27,359 Speaker 10: multiple times. In the back of his camera. He was 489 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:29,840 Speaker 10: right there, so I let him hear the call. He 490 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:31,919 Speaker 10: said it was the crazy girl that works at the 491 00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 10: car wash and she always flirts with him, but he 492 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:38,400 Speaker 10: thinks something is not quite right with her mentally. He said, 493 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 10: I should go to the car wash and see for myself. 494 00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:44,800 Speaker 10: Did he make all of this up to throw me off. 495 00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:46,920 Speaker 10: Shouldn't go down to the car wash? 496 00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 2: He got your thinking about going down there that car washed? 497 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:55,600 Speaker 2: Or don't it my dog? You be proud, I likest one. 498 00:26:56,080 --> 00:27:00,160 Speaker 2: That's the crazy ass girl down at the car wash. 499 00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 2: I don't know what she tripping. Now you need to 500 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:07,440 Speaker 2: go down there and see for yourself. Now two things 501 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:12,400 Speaker 2: that's gonna happen. What two things can happen? You can 502 00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,880 Speaker 2: go down there to the car wash and you could 503 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,200 Speaker 2: discover that it ain't no girl work at the car 504 00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:23,840 Speaker 2: wash at all, because that's why he invited you down 505 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:29,199 Speaker 2: to the car wash. Okay, but now you're gonna do 506 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:33,720 Speaker 2: have to explain why how this girl got who's ever 507 00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 2: phone number she called? And how they know how to 508 00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:43,240 Speaker 2: put you together with her? Work your line? So now 509 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:48,560 Speaker 2: you lives got to have levels. It's called level line. 510 00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,040 Speaker 4: You got to level line. 511 00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:54,359 Speaker 2: That level lines. 512 00:27:56,800 --> 00:28:01,000 Speaker 4: Morning shows Jay and Jr. 513 00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:03,280 Speaker 13: Are here with some pointers for people. 514 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:07,240 Speaker 10: Okay, So no matter what you're into, whether it's drinking 515 00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:11,919 Speaker 10: alcohol or smoking legally, now this is how you know. 516 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:14,600 Speaker 13: When you've had enough and it's time to what put 517 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:15,200 Speaker 13: and put. 518 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:15,680 Speaker 3: It down down? 519 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,160 Speaker 12: Yeah, it's time to put it down all right, Jake, 520 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 12: go ahead, Okay, when you got your light on your phone, 521 00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:25,000 Speaker 12: your light is on your phone and you're looking for 522 00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:26,960 Speaker 12: your phone, it's time to put it down. 523 00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:31,199 Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, that's that's absolutely true. 524 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:32,480 Speaker 1: It's in your hand. 525 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:36,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, and all mine is real. 526 00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 11: And I don't care if he is missing this morning, 527 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 11: but this is when he's gonna stop. Uh lakia uh 528 00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:42,720 Speaker 11: if you. 529 00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:44,600 Speaker 5: If you start it drinking O e U. 530 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 11: But every time you have a police sign you grabbed me, 531 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 11: put all e down. You don't need to drink this 532 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,760 Speaker 11: no moment. I'm trying to tear my clothes up. Police go, 533 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:55,680 Speaker 11: but I'm not going to city with do this with y'all. 534 00:28:55,840 --> 00:29:00,440 Speaker 1: Jay, you know he is her coming. 535 00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:06,480 Speaker 3: Put it down. It's three o'clock in the morning. 536 00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 12: You throwing out a tricky to make Thanksgiving dinner and 537 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:11,960 Speaker 12: it ain't even Thanksgiving. It's time to put it down. 538 00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:12,800 Speaker 12: It's time. 539 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:21,880 Speaker 1: It's just Tuesday. Yeah, it's just too. 540 00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:28,400 Speaker 11: He's gonna know if you say what a huh in 541 00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:30,280 Speaker 11: the conversation MORETI five times? 542 00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:35,920 Speaker 1: What, it's time to put it down? Yeah, you're right. 543 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:38,600 Speaker 2: What about wha wha wha? 544 00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:44,120 Speaker 3: What what I got one? Here we go. 545 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 1: I'm good. 546 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:56,600 Speaker 12: If you like what you're smoking on both ends, it's 547 00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:57,400 Speaker 12: trying to put it. 548 00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 4: Down on both ends. 549 00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, cook, you got. 550 00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:06,320 Speaker 1: One of you okay to tell you something? 551 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 11: How come over your house and I walked up stairs 552 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:14,720 Speaker 11: and you playing PlayStation and you got the headphones on. Dog, 553 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:18,120 Speaker 11: whatever you is you doing, it's time to put that down. 554 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:19,280 Speaker 3: You see down. 555 00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,680 Speaker 11: You're talking to a hand, said so what a place 556 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 11: that you controlled it in your hand as you smoking? 557 00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:30,440 Speaker 3: I got I. 558 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:33,520 Speaker 2: Know what you're just happened with a friend of mine. 559 00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 2: If you driving? Yeah, uh and we just said that 560 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:40,600 Speaker 2: this light and it ben't changed greenies three times. Yeah 561 00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:42,640 Speaker 2: we're still now. 562 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:46,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, but staring at the which you. 563 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:51,480 Speaker 2: Get time you put it down down down? 564 00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:57,840 Speaker 12: Well you you decide to and you waiting for the 565 00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 12: cake to be done. Got all the ingredients in the pan, 566 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 12: but what you did was you stuck it in the 567 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:10,680 Speaker 12: dish washing and you waiting. Yeah, yeah, put it. 568 00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:14,320 Speaker 16: Come put it down there, don't need. 569 00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I got if you done, got huggy and you 570 00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:24,640 Speaker 2: didn't decided? You want some pinto beans and you soaking them? 571 00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:28,080 Speaker 2: Can you just get a spoon and sit down and 572 00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 2: start eating? 573 00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:34,480 Speaker 1: Sucking dog? 574 00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:39,640 Speaker 11: Put that out you got to quit some you got 575 00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:41,880 Speaker 11: to you got it. 576 00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:44,360 Speaker 1: Let me take you some time. 577 00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 2: Take something right now. 578 00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:51,800 Speaker 11: If you come out to the bathroom and your bathtowel 579 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:56,000 Speaker 11: don't make it to the other side, and you come out, Toby, Hey, 580 00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:59,080 Speaker 11: somebody called me, mane, it's time put the down. 581 00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:00,680 Speaker 2: You saw me gonna need to that damn pie. 582 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,080 Speaker 1: Okay, we can't see this. 583 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:08,160 Speaker 3: All right? You get the work. You get the work. 584 00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:11,160 Speaker 12: You have to go to the restroom and you find 585 00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:13,600 Speaker 12: out you got on three pair underwear. 586 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:19,560 Speaker 1: What happened there? 587 00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:24,560 Speaker 11: I don't know, but you got three pair tros. But 588 00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:27,320 Speaker 11: you told somebody. 589 00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 2: If you live in Chicago and it's one below zero, 590 00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 2: that's cold, yes, and you standing outside with the cigarette 591 00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:40,239 Speaker 2: smokers and all of them is smoking a cigarette, but 592 00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:45,960 Speaker 2: you're smoking your home. You doing weed instead of a cigarette. 593 00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 2: You got to quick. 594 00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,720 Speaker 11: I tell you, I'll tell you what if every time 595 00:32:53,760 --> 00:33:01,040 Speaker 11: I'm sitting along with you, now you say you hear that, Hey, hey, 596 00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:03,800 Speaker 11: I can't watch the game and figure out what the 597 00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:04,280 Speaker 11: hell your. 598 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 2: You hit it? 599 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:13,400 Speaker 3: You get hungry. 600 00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:16,040 Speaker 12: You you say you hungry, and you come back at 601 00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:19,560 Speaker 12: the kitchen and you eat macaroni straight out the box, 602 00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:21,440 Speaker 12: straight out a box. 603 00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:22,120 Speaker 2: Right. 604 00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:25,720 Speaker 4: It goes with those pentel beans from earlier. 605 00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:33,640 Speaker 2: If you don't pop some popcorn in the marketwave open 606 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:38,000 Speaker 2: it up, hot ate all the popcorn. Yeah, and you 607 00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:43,200 Speaker 2: now trying to down them kernels. That's what on pop sea. 608 00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:46,160 Speaker 2: You're just over there dealing with it. Wow. 609 00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:52,440 Speaker 10: Touch Yeah, that's. 610 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:51,400 Speaker 2: Way too much. 611 00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:55,959 Speaker 11: Okay, I'm right now, I'm tating right now. I'm thinking, man, 612 00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:57,920 Speaker 11: because he keep doing this. But I'm telling you this. 613 00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:00,280 Speaker 11: You gotta put this down. If I come over and 614 00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,480 Speaker 11: I see you in the front yard and you and 615 00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:08,160 Speaker 11: your pit bull the same weight both y'all one twenty five, No, 616 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,120 Speaker 11: you gotta put it down. You and your dog scaring 617 00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:15,799 Speaker 11: nobody hard poses out, nobody's kicking. 618 00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:18,919 Speaker 2: Your dog leading you. 619 00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:27,440 Speaker 12: If you stand in the middle of your room and 620 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:29,880 Speaker 12: you're looking at a light bulb and you say the 621 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:31,520 Speaker 12: sun is bright today. 622 00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:41,839 Speaker 10: Time, all right, thank you, guys, that was a good 623 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:45,959 Speaker 10: time to put it down. You're listening Hardy Morning Show 624 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:46,879 Speaker 10: all right. 625 00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:47,120 Speaker 14: Time. 626 00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:50,440 Speaker 10: Now, guys were around of would you rather would you 627 00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:54,680 Speaker 10: rather mow your own lawn for one year, or would 628 00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,040 Speaker 10: you rather living huh. 629 00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:01,640 Speaker 4: Okay? Or would you rabbit. 630 00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:06,160 Speaker 10: Live in a four hundred square foot house for thirty days. 631 00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:11,439 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna do be. I mean, yeah, you don't 632 00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:15,520 Speaker 2: like eh, but you're talking about mowing for a year. 633 00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,799 Speaker 4: Old year your own lawn though. 634 00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:21,120 Speaker 2: I take that thirty day. Yeah, I make the house. 635 00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:27,279 Speaker 9: You're gonna have a lot of uh bruises on your 636 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:28,600 Speaker 9: head because you're gonna bump everything. 637 00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,719 Speaker 2: You're gonna bump your head, your knee, You're gonna be 638 00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:31,200 Speaker 2: messing that. 639 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,879 Speaker 9: After thirty you're talking about Steve right, yeah, every time 640 00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:35,600 Speaker 9: he turned around. 641 00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:40,360 Speaker 2: I'm gonna have trouble using the bathroom that close to 642 00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 2: the kitchen. That's gonna be my problem. You're gonna have 643 00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:47,560 Speaker 2: a problems getting there now. Yeah, I'm gonna have to 644 00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:50,600 Speaker 2: burn a bed sheet while I'm using the bathroom. So 645 00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,680 Speaker 2: not having this over here by the kitchen, because I'm 646 00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:57,880 Speaker 2: telling you right now, I'm gonna have to start a 647 00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,040 Speaker 2: fire every time I go to the bathroom and a 648 00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:05,759 Speaker 2: little tiny out. We've got to get some in here 649 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:11,400 Speaker 2: something all right? 650 00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:14,759 Speaker 10: Moving on, Tommy, since you brought it up, would you 651 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:19,919 Speaker 10: rather be five five and a billionaire me or six 652 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:23,640 Speaker 10: four and just earn you know, five figures annually. 653 00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:28,240 Speaker 2: I'm gonna go I take that five fight I'm. 654 00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:30,719 Speaker 1: Good five because the five figures or six figures? 655 00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:31,520 Speaker 4: Five figures? 656 00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:33,640 Speaker 2: He said, a billion Oh you're talking about the other guy. 657 00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:36,160 Speaker 10: Yeah, would you rather be five five and a billionaire? 658 00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:40,080 Speaker 10: Would you rather be six four and earn five figures annually? 659 00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:42,879 Speaker 9: No, I'm gonna go with five five. When I stand 660 00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 9: on my wallet, I'm taller than the Yeah, I'm trying. 661 00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:49,160 Speaker 4: To how about six figures. 662 00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:50,640 Speaker 9: That I'm still going that. I'm still going with that 663 00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:52,520 Speaker 9: five five. I ain't got a problem with this five five. 664 00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:54,879 Speaker 9: I got no problem with him, not with them. 665 00:36:55,360 --> 00:37:00,680 Speaker 2: Five shouldn't. Yeah, what shouldn't? It is what it is? 666 00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:05,200 Speaker 2: You know, you have to deal with her. To me personally, 667 00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:07,160 Speaker 2: I have a problem with her. I'm gonna be six 668 00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:09,600 Speaker 2: fold giving him six figures and let me try to 669 00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:10,280 Speaker 2: flip it. 670 00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:13,480 Speaker 4: A millionaire. 671 00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:18,120 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna try to explain myself to everybody, athlete. 672 00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:24,120 Speaker 2: I just gotta add to what you're looking at. All right, 673 00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,719 Speaker 2: here's hell, y'all keep staring at me for. 674 00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:32,080 Speaker 10: All right, more of this crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey 675 00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:35,120 Speaker 10: Morning Show. Right after this, you're listening. 676 00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:36,839 Speaker 4: Harvey Morning Show. 677 00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:40,520 Speaker 1: All right, So Steve, your boy. 678 00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:43,680 Speaker 10: Janthony Brown is here, and uh, I don't know if 679 00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:46,040 Speaker 10: you knew this, but he has another new book out, 680 00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:48,960 Speaker 10: and this one's called Signs that tell You're about to 681 00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:49,680 Speaker 10: get dumped? 682 00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,520 Speaker 3: Come on, how many books have you. 683 00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:56,839 Speaker 2: Written, Steve? You've already called me. 684 00:37:57,120 --> 00:38:03,200 Speaker 12: No, I'm trying to match up with you and write books. 685 00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:05,720 Speaker 12: And in the days, I'm not here, I'm up writing, 686 00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:09,600 Speaker 12: I'm writing. I'm okay, I'm not here. 687 00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:10,080 Speaker 3: I'm writing. 688 00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:13,600 Speaker 12: So this new book it is called Signs You Might 689 00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:15,360 Speaker 12: be About to get dump? 690 00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:16,879 Speaker 2: Chapter one. 691 00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:17,920 Speaker 3: This is a great chapter. 692 00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:20,600 Speaker 12: She says she's going on a girl trip, but she 693 00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:23,480 Speaker 12: ain't packing up but victorious secrets and condoms. 694 00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:25,359 Speaker 3: You know she ain't gonna You know, you need to 695 00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:26,080 Speaker 3: look into that. 696 00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:32,719 Speaker 17: Okay, she told you, She told you she needs to 697 00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:35,759 Speaker 17: stay late with the kids and work with them with 698 00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:37,880 Speaker 17: their homework at Starbucks. 699 00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:47,759 Speaker 12: Whatever. Don't give me that signs you about to get dumph? Yeah, 700 00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:52,279 Speaker 12: cle you over to the house now, y'all chilling. You 701 00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:56,280 Speaker 12: find a man's jacket at the house. It's eight sizes 702 00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:58,520 Speaker 12: too big, but she says it's for you. 703 00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:05,880 Speaker 4: What ever? Ud about to get dumped? 704 00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:08,160 Speaker 3: You about to get dump? 705 00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:13,279 Speaker 12: She in the kitchen, cooking ribs chicken, turkey me for 706 00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:16,520 Speaker 12: her mama. Now you know damn well her mama's. 707 00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:17,080 Speaker 3: Are that you're tearing? 708 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:18,400 Speaker 2: Come? What's up with you? 709 00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:20,799 Speaker 3: I don't know that. 710 00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:29,000 Speaker 12: Come on, she stupid written on my face. You're about 711 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:29,480 Speaker 12: to get dumb. 712 00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:33,520 Speaker 10: Something's new book she tells you. 713 00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,000 Speaker 3: She said, you baby, I'm gonna be going to a 714 00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:39,399 Speaker 3: baby shower. But it starts at eleven o'clock at night. 715 00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:43,400 Speaker 12: And uh, they asked us all the way sequin dresses. 716 00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:45,359 Speaker 2: So but I'll be I'll be back. 717 00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:47,799 Speaker 3: So all right, it started left night. 718 00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:50,040 Speaker 2: Do I look like a. 719 00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:55,080 Speaker 4: Food to you? 720 00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:56,319 Speaker 2: Look at me? Good? 721 00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:56,480 Speaker 5: Look? 722 00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:57,719 Speaker 3: Do I look stupid? 723 00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:00,759 Speaker 2: Yeah? 724 00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,880 Speaker 3: She been out all day long. It's eleven o'clock at night. 725 00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:04,400 Speaker 2: Here she come. 726 00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:07,279 Speaker 12: Traps in eleven eleven thirty round quarter to twelve. You're 727 00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:10,880 Speaker 12: sitting there, wait, traps it in right, And she smelled 728 00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:12,720 Speaker 12: like old spike man. 729 00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:18,439 Speaker 4: What's got some time? 730 00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:20,960 Speaker 1: You've been thinking? 731 00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:21,319 Speaker 11: Right? 732 00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:30,359 Speaker 12: Chapter nine said I'm writing, I'm right. 733 00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:30,920 Speaker 4: Yeah. 734 00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:33,719 Speaker 12: All of a sudden, y'all getting busy, right, and you 735 00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:36,160 Speaker 12: see about four or five freak moves I ain't never 736 00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:36,840 Speaker 12: seen before. 737 00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:38,280 Speaker 3: You went whoa, whoa? 738 00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:42,359 Speaker 12: When you you eve been doing that? 739 00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:51,120 Speaker 4: It's crazy enough? 740 00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:56,040 Speaker 12: You tell me somethinghe where when you doing that hanging 741 00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:57,719 Speaker 12: off the ceiling fan and stuff like that? 742 00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:59,760 Speaker 3: What what you doing. 743 00:40:59,560 --> 00:40:59,840 Speaker 18: That with. 744 00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:05,279 Speaker 3: Y'all laying in bed? 745 00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:05,560 Speaker 9: Right? 746 00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:09,160 Speaker 12: It's just chapter this chap, Oh, this chapter thirteen. It's 747 00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:13,719 Speaker 12: the chapter you hear ring Chapter thirteen. You hear ring 748 00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:14,800 Speaker 12: tone and. 749 00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:19,000 Speaker 18: They goes, no, no, no, no, boom boom boom boom 750 00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:25,200 Speaker 18: that the ring tong right, No, no, no, she didn't 751 00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:25,680 Speaker 18: let it ring. 752 00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:34,839 Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, no, you're right. 753 00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,640 Speaker 12: That that's that's Jake from State Farm. 754 00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:36,520 Speaker 2: Get ouid here? 755 00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:40,480 Speaker 4: What are you wearing? 756 00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:41,000 Speaker 5: Jake? 757 00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:45,560 Speaker 3: Oh, that's Jake from State Farm. 758 00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:52,719 Speaker 12: It's been four months, right, you about to get done 759 00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:53,360 Speaker 12: this book? 760 00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:54,160 Speaker 3: This is a good book. 761 00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,239 Speaker 12: Signs and tell when you about to get It's been 762 00:41:56,360 --> 00:42:00,480 Speaker 12: four months and y'all ain't done nothing. You said, you 763 00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:03,320 Speaker 12: know it's been four months. It's for four months. 764 00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:07,040 Speaker 3: You must think I'm stupid. Don't nobody for four damn month? 765 00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:07,919 Speaker 2: Get out of here? 766 00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:11,080 Speaker 4: Do I look. 767 00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:11,719 Speaker 3: Stupid to you? 768 00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:13,040 Speaker 4: These mouth noises? 769 00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:14,239 Speaker 5: Oh? 770 00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:20,879 Speaker 13: No, short, all right, Jay? 771 00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:24,000 Speaker 4: We can't wait to get it. Uh. And it'll be 772 00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:25,480 Speaker 4: on the best seller list for sure. 773 00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:26,080 Speaker 5: Uh. 774 00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:29,719 Speaker 10: Coming up next to the nephew with today's prank phone call, 775 00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:30,839 Speaker 10: coming up right after this. 776 00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:34,160 Speaker 4: You're listening Hard Morning show. 777 00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:37,720 Speaker 10: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about 778 00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:41,440 Speaker 10: four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today subject 779 00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:45,120 Speaker 10: I'm stressed out in my classroom. But right now the 780 00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:47,879 Speaker 10: nephew is in the building with today's prank phone call. 781 00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:48,960 Speaker 4: What you got for us today? 782 00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,560 Speaker 9: Now, Well, surely a lot of pairents hate to hear it. 783 00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:54,040 Speaker 9: Some of them get the call. You know, it happens. 784 00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:59,840 Speaker 9: Sometimes your son didn't make the team. I will say it, 785 00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:01,960 Speaker 9: your son. 786 00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:06,000 Speaker 2: Didn't make the team. Let's go get. 787 00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:08,080 Speaker 19: Hello. 788 00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:11,799 Speaker 5: Hello, I'm trying to reach miss Lydial. This is she. 789 00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:15,600 Speaker 5: This is coach Watkins up at the up at the school. 790 00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:17,680 Speaker 19: How are you, hey, Coach Watkins? 791 00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:18,320 Speaker 15: I'm fine. 792 00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:19,720 Speaker 19: What can I do for you? 793 00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:23,400 Speaker 5: Listen, We've had Maleik out for the last week and 794 00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:26,640 Speaker 5: a half. He's been coming to practice here at at 795 00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:29,360 Speaker 5: the Junior High School and wanted to reach out and 796 00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,440 Speaker 5: give you a call about everything that's going on. 797 00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:34,239 Speaker 19: Oh yeah, well, I know he's really excited. He can't 798 00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:37,840 Speaker 19: wait to start this season. He's ready walking all somewhere. 799 00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,000 Speaker 5: You know what, I'll be honest with you. He's a 800 00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:44,160 Speaker 5: great kid and he's got a good heart, and he's 801 00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:47,279 Speaker 5: really really really trying and trying to produce as much 802 00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:48,000 Speaker 5: as possible. 803 00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:50,719 Speaker 19: Well, you know, he loves the game and he's been playing. 804 00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:51,520 Speaker 15: Since he was a little kid. 805 00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:55,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, you know, this is you know, this is 806 00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:58,360 Speaker 5: the seventh grade. This is the first time some of 807 00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:01,960 Speaker 5: these kids have played organized football, and this is the 808 00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:04,839 Speaker 5: first time playing school football. And it's it's a big 809 00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,839 Speaker 5: it's a big transition that if you've been playing Little 810 00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,160 Speaker 5: league ball or Pop Warner or whatever you want to 811 00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:12,319 Speaker 5: call it. It's a it's a big difference, in a 812 00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:16,319 Speaker 5: big transition to go from one to the other. You understand, Yeah, 813 00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:17,160 Speaker 5: I do understand. 814 00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:19,520 Speaker 19: But Malik is been working really hard, yes, and he's ready. 815 00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:21,960 Speaker 5: Well well, well let me let me say this. My 816 00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:24,279 Speaker 5: main reason for calling you is letting you know that 817 00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:28,480 Speaker 5: Malague as of right now, is not going to be 818 00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:33,600 Speaker 5: able to make the cut as far as what you think, Well, 819 00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:34,839 Speaker 5: he's not going to be able to make the cut 820 00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:36,879 Speaker 5: as far as being on the team for this year. 821 00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:43,239 Speaker 15: Now, I got you said, wait, wait, you said that Malik. 822 00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:45,879 Speaker 19: Is not gonna be able to make the team, said 823 00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:47,239 Speaker 19: the team. 824 00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:51,040 Speaker 5: He's a great kid, you know, he's a great. 825 00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:53,279 Speaker 19: I know he's a great kid, but wait man, Now, 826 00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:56,840 Speaker 19: he didn't play Pop Warner and he was a SUNN quarterback, 827 00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:58,400 Speaker 19: So what are you talking about. He's not going to 828 00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:00,600 Speaker 19: make the team this year. He was the best they 829 00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:01,720 Speaker 19: had out on that squad. 830 00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:04,560 Speaker 5: Okay, and you know what, I've heard a lot about him. 831 00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:05,840 Speaker 5: I heard he did a great job. 832 00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:06,839 Speaker 15: Heard about him. 833 00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:08,920 Speaker 19: Wait a minute, what man, have you seen his deep 834 00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,240 Speaker 19: twenty touchdowns in the season? 835 00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:13,600 Speaker 15: I who know the kids is out there doing that. 836 00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:15,840 Speaker 5: But you know what, but right now, we got a 837 00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:19,320 Speaker 5: lot of different kids that are coming into this particular school, 838 00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:22,400 Speaker 5: so you know, the competition has gone greater and greater 839 00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:24,000 Speaker 5: than what we could possibly understand. 840 00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:27,520 Speaker 19: Wait a minute, when this is seventh grade, first of all, 841 00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:30,879 Speaker 19: everybody makes the team. Nobody gets cut in the first place. 842 00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:32,680 Speaker 15: You got an A team and a B team. 843 00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:35,160 Speaker 19: So you're telling me my baby ain't made none of 844 00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:35,760 Speaker 19: them teams? 845 00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:40,919 Speaker 5: Right right now, miss Lydia. You know, like I said, 846 00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:42,480 Speaker 5: Milika is a great kid. I like it. 847 00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:44,400 Speaker 15: I know what Milik is. I know that he's a 848 00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,160 Speaker 15: great kid and he's a ballplayer. 849 00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,880 Speaker 19: Now I make sure that so don't come telling me 850 00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:50,680 Speaker 19: that he's not good enough to make. 851 00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:53,560 Speaker 15: The cut on this seventh grade team. Well, come telling 852 00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:55,520 Speaker 15: me who who is the quarterback? 853 00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:55,799 Speaker 14: Who? 854 00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:57,160 Speaker 15: Yeah, you tell me what's going on? 855 00:45:57,200 --> 00:45:58,240 Speaker 19: Who is the quarterback? 856 00:45:58,520 --> 00:46:02,000 Speaker 5: Well? Actually, right now, my son is the quarterback. 857 00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:04,600 Speaker 19: Your son, well, I mean you know. 858 00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:10,239 Speaker 5: I played, Yeah, is actually the quarterback. He hasn't done 859 00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:13,759 Speaker 5: any Pop Warner or anything, but he really has what 860 00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:14,600 Speaker 5: it takes to be. 861 00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:19,759 Speaker 15: Never played football before, or he's never played organized football. 862 00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:21,360 Speaker 19: But he he's. 863 00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:23,480 Speaker 15: Gonna be the quarterback for the seventh grade team. 864 00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:24,440 Speaker 19: Is that what you're telling me? 865 00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:26,800 Speaker 5: Well, yeah, my son is actually a starting quarterback. But 866 00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:30,480 Speaker 5: that but that my son don't make the team and 867 00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:33,239 Speaker 5: my son score twenty touchdown? 868 00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:35,719 Speaker 15: Twenty touchdown? Is that what you're telling me? 869 00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:36,040 Speaker 5: Ah? 870 00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:39,080 Speaker 19: Hell no, this is I'm calling up to that school tomorrow. 871 00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:40,520 Speaker 15: I will be up there tomorrow. 872 00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:47,080 Speaker 5: Let me explain something. No no, no, no, no, no, no no. 873 00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:50,000 Speaker 19: I don't know what this is, this nepotism or whatever 874 00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:52,200 Speaker 19: you got going on around here. 875 00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:54,920 Speaker 15: But hell no, my son ain't Nathan what. 876 00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:59,759 Speaker 19: Hell no, it's gonna be smoking the city to mind when. 877 00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:02,040 Speaker 15: I get up there, Miss Lydia. 878 00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:04,239 Speaker 5: What I want to say this is that if your 879 00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:06,800 Speaker 5: son would take a year off lord and try to 880 00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:12,520 Speaker 5: get itself together and get the fundamentals together together, a 881 00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:15,560 Speaker 5: greater football player when he gets to be headed to 882 00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:16,160 Speaker 5: the eighth grade. 883 00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:18,000 Speaker 15: He was the wrong this thaw last year. What you 884 00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:21,640 Speaker 15: talking about this fundamentals together? Your son ain't never even played. 885 00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:24,319 Speaker 5: Well, you know what. I've worked with my son and 886 00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:27,200 Speaker 5: you know, and it's a little it's a little awkward 887 00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:29,080 Speaker 5: for me to try to talk about what my son 888 00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:29,560 Speaker 5: has done. 889 00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:32,680 Speaker 15: Yeah, you talking about because you don't know what your 890 00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:35,000 Speaker 15: son has done, because ain't nobody ever seen your touch? 891 00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:37,759 Speaker 15: You just got this dream probably something that you ain't 892 00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:40,319 Speaker 15: did you want to live vicency through him? Hell no, 893 00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:43,200 Speaker 15: that's just about it. 894 00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:45,840 Speaker 5: I don't like in school. I played in high school. 895 00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:48,360 Speaker 5: And let me say this, I'm trying to do the 896 00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:50,400 Speaker 5: best that I can and the best of my ability 897 00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:52,919 Speaker 5: to make sure that everybody gets a good and fair 898 00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:54,160 Speaker 5: shot at what's going on. 899 00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:56,880 Speaker 15: I said, But he don't get to play, so what 900 00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:59,680 Speaker 15: about getting get the. 901 00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:02,680 Speaker 5: Players are even work out to be a better. 902 00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:05,200 Speaker 15: Some brdle tell that to the mother mothers. 903 00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:05,719 Speaker 14: That's some boy. 904 00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:07,600 Speaker 15: I bet you, I guarantee you this my son to 905 00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:08,480 Speaker 15: be starting this year. 906 00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:10,240 Speaker 19: I guarantee you this you don't. 907 00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:11,080 Speaker 15: Want none of that, Okay. 908 00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:14,720 Speaker 5: Right now, all I can say is I need Malik 909 00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:18,080 Speaker 5: to actually bring his cliques back because my son's gonna 910 00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:21,600 Speaker 5: need him to play in I took them. 911 00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:24,879 Speaker 15: Your son ain't getting Your son's running down that field, 912 00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:26,560 Speaker 15: We're gonna run barefoot. 913 00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:29,080 Speaker 19: He ain't get mine nothing, ma'am. 914 00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:32,080 Speaker 5: From my records, understanding is that the cliques. 915 00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:35,080 Speaker 15: Actually came record, the one that told you that my 916 00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:39,520 Speaker 15: son can't fight your recordation. Thinking about your records, you 917 00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:43,719 Speaker 15: your mama and the day she bushed your ma'am. I'm 918 00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:45,120 Speaker 15: not gonna sit here and go back and. 919 00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:47,200 Speaker 5: Forth with you. All I'm trying to say is this 920 00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:49,600 Speaker 5: that maligu about to do. 921 00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:51,640 Speaker 15: You started looking for a new job. 922 00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:52,680 Speaker 19: Get your resume together. 923 00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:54,399 Speaker 5: Hey, you know what, ma'am, I'm not gonna go back 924 00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:55,840 Speaker 5: and for I got one more thing I need to 925 00:48:55,840 --> 00:48:56,360 Speaker 5: say to your you. 926 00:48:56,719 --> 00:49:00,279 Speaker 19: Nothing that you You ain't got nothing else to say 927 00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:02,120 Speaker 19: to me. My son to be playing, and. 928 00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:03,240 Speaker 15: I'll be up there tomorrow. 929 00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:05,880 Speaker 5: I have one more thing I need to say to you. 930 00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:06,200 Speaker 5: You listen. 931 00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,239 Speaker 19: Only thing you need to tell me is who I 932 00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:09,320 Speaker 19: need to talk to tomorrow. 933 00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:11,719 Speaker 5: Now. I'll let you know that as soon as I 934 00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:14,920 Speaker 5: tell you this are you're listening, I'm listening. What this 935 00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:20,080 Speaker 5: his nephew, Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your sister, 936 00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:35,200 Speaker 5: I ain't a got me to prank phone call you? What Hello? 937 00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:40,239 Speaker 15: I thought I was really cotant. You gotta be all 938 00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:46,920 Speaker 15: hot wheel when everybody said the school wasn't day day 939 00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:48,000 Speaker 15: was going though? 940 00:49:50,239 --> 00:49:53,279 Speaker 5: Oh man, man, I got something. Ask what is the 941 00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:58,600 Speaker 5: baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the land, the. 942 00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:05,560 Speaker 19: Steve reloaded shout, Oh lord, you. 943 00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:15,560 Speaker 20: Go right now in my new top Yeah, you need 944 00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:19,000 Speaker 20: to get your resume together because you're gonna need work. 945 00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:26,160 Speaker 2: You're trying to live by curiously through him because because you. 946 00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:30,439 Speaker 1: Did not run down the side all. 947 00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:40,200 Speaker 11: Your what Oh man, what every parent of a student 948 00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:40,880 Speaker 11: athlete is? 949 00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:42,479 Speaker 5: Yeah? 950 00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:50,640 Speaker 2: You involved with sportsman? You know touchdowns last year? He 951 00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:57,560 Speaker 2: he ain't making the team. Who is your boy? Oh 952 00:50:57,600 --> 00:50:59,920 Speaker 2: there's some of that nepotism bull. 953 00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:02,319 Speaker 3: Yes, she did say it. 954 00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:07,000 Speaker 10: Yeah, Tommy, I know how this stuff. 955 00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:09,840 Speaker 2: Oh my god, tell me that one right there that 956 00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:16,680 Speaker 2: said my new Top three. 957 00:51:19,600 --> 00:51:23,160 Speaker 9: Big up to all the coaches that's coaching all about you. 958 00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:26,359 Speaker 9: We love y'all, We appreciate y'all. Man, we put our 959 00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:28,399 Speaker 9: kids in y'all hands, and y'all try to make out 960 00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:29,239 Speaker 9: the leads out of them. 961 00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:32,120 Speaker 2: So damn man, if you don't play mine, I'm the 962 00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:35,080 Speaker 2: lady on the phone. 963 00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:38,759 Speaker 10: All right, great one king of prank. 964 00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:40,239 Speaker 4: All right, thinking of you. 965 00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:43,360 Speaker 10: Coming up next Strawberry Letter. Subject I'm stressed out in 966 00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:46,319 Speaker 10: my classroom. We'll find out why right after this. 967 00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:49,600 Speaker 4: You're listening Hardy morning show. 968 00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:53,480 Speaker 10: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need 969 00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:57,120 Speaker 10: advice on relationships, if you need advice on sex, on dating, 970 00:51:57,160 --> 00:52:01,400 Speaker 10: on work, on parenting, and more, please submit your Strawberry 971 00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:05,279 Speaker 10: Letter to Steve Harvey FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. 972 00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:07,680 Speaker 10: We could be reading your letter live on the air, 973 00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:09,640 Speaker 10: just like we're going to read this one right here, 974 00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:10,520 Speaker 10: right now. 975 00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:13,000 Speaker 2: That's right, bug it up, Hold on tight, we got 976 00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:15,839 Speaker 2: it for you. Here. It is from the smart Man 977 00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:17,640 Speaker 2: Strawberry Letter. 978 00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:19,399 Speaker 4: Who's that all right? 979 00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:24,520 Speaker 10: Subject I'm stressed out in my classroom. Dear Stephen Shirley. 980 00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:27,160 Speaker 10: I am a thirty two year old man, and I 981 00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:31,200 Speaker 10: just started a job teaching adults that are getting a 982 00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:35,320 Speaker 10: ged I'm loving it so far, but I need advice 983 00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:39,440 Speaker 10: on how to handle a very aggressive female student in 984 00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:42,840 Speaker 10: her early sixties. At the end of one of my lectures, 985 00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:45,880 Speaker 10: she approached me and asked, what Jim I go to 986 00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:49,239 Speaker 10: because I have a very nice body. I blushed and 987 00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:52,520 Speaker 10: didn't know what to say. She winked at me and left. 988 00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:55,359 Speaker 10: Another day, she showed up to class in a very 989 00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:58,520 Speaker 10: revealing outfit and said she was going out afterwards with 990 00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:01,120 Speaker 10: her girls and invited me to join them because she 991 00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:03,080 Speaker 10: was looking for a young guy who could keep up 992 00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:05,759 Speaker 10: with her on the dance floor. I told her I 993 00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:07,680 Speaker 10: don't have a lot of time for that, but the 994 00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:10,920 Speaker 10: truth is she scares the heck heck out of me. 995 00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:14,719 Speaker 10: The next day, she came to class with a bag 996 00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:17,160 Speaker 10: of cherries. She said they were from a tree in 997 00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:20,759 Speaker 10: her backyard and for fun, she likes the tie. She 998 00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:23,960 Speaker 10: likes to tie the cherry stems in knots with her tongue, 999 00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:26,160 Speaker 10: and she asked me if I would like. 1000 00:53:26,160 --> 00:53:27,120 Speaker 4: To watch her do it. 1001 00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:29,440 Speaker 10: She said it was a gift for me being such 1002 00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:32,120 Speaker 10: a good teacher, and then she told me to pick 1003 00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:36,719 Speaker 10: the darkest cherries because they have the sweetest juice. Then 1004 00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:39,840 Speaker 10: she winked at me again and left. I'm an Asian 1005 00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:42,440 Speaker 10: guy and she's a dark brown woman, so I hope 1006 00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:44,920 Speaker 10: she won't think it's a race thing when I firmly 1007 00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:49,120 Speaker 10: reject her and tell her that she's being inappropriate. I 1008 00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:52,080 Speaker 10: can't risk any rumors of impropriety at work. 1009 00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:54,600 Speaker 13: And she's old enough to be my mother, So she 1010 00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:56,560 Speaker 13: does not turn me on at all? 1011 00:53:56,960 --> 00:53:59,320 Speaker 10: How can I stop her from acting out and making 1012 00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:02,879 Speaker 10: these commons without upsetting her? I get very stressed out 1013 00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,960 Speaker 10: knowing she's coming to class. You should see her, Please 1014 00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:09,719 Speaker 10: help me. Well, I gotta say, first of all, it's 1015 00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:12,719 Speaker 10: a great service you're providing, so thank you for that. 1016 00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:15,560 Speaker 4: Teaching adults ged, that's great. 1017 00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:19,319 Speaker 10: Thank you As for your very aggressive and way over 1018 00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:22,399 Speaker 10: the top cougar student. Yeah, she's out of order, she's 1019 00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:24,520 Speaker 10: out of line. And you know what, if it were 1020 00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:27,040 Speaker 10: the other way around, where an older man was harassing 1021 00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:30,080 Speaker 10: his young student, this letter would take a whole another turn. 1022 00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:31,719 Speaker 10: So you're going to have to do what you have 1023 00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:34,520 Speaker 10: to do here, you know. Yeah, you don't want to 1024 00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:38,840 Speaker 10: get in trouble for impropriety. Like you say, she doesn't 1025 00:54:38,880 --> 00:54:43,280 Speaker 10: turn you on. She's being very inappropriate as. 1026 00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:45,000 Speaker 1: A student either. 1027 00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:48,120 Speaker 10: You're going to have to be firm with her in 1028 00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:51,719 Speaker 10: no uncertain terms. You will not tolerate that in your classroom. 1029 00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:53,839 Speaker 10: If she continues, you're going to have to ask her 1030 00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:58,800 Speaker 10: to leave. You can ignore her every time she does anything, 1031 00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:02,480 Speaker 10: simply ignore her. But it's because she's so aggressive. 1032 00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:03,560 Speaker 4: I think you need to. 1033 00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:07,120 Speaker 10: Firmly sit her down and tell her she's out of order. 1034 00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:11,320 Speaker 10: The revealing outfits, the cherries, the innuendos with the darker 1035 00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:13,600 Speaker 10: the berry, the sweeter, the juice, and all of that, 1036 00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:16,960 Speaker 10: there's no place for it in your classroom. And if 1037 00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:19,279 Speaker 10: she doesn't, if she doesn't stop, you're going to have 1038 00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:23,160 Speaker 10: to ask her to leave. Simple as that. And that's 1039 00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:23,840 Speaker 10: what I think. 1040 00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:30,239 Speaker 2: You should do. All right, Steve, Well, y'all pray for 1041 00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:34,880 Speaker 2: me here I'll go. No you up. Thirty two year 1042 00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:39,120 Speaker 2: old man started the job teaching adults that's getting the 1043 00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:43,279 Speaker 2: ged I love it, but I've got a problem. I 1044 00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:48,000 Speaker 2: got this aggressive female student in her early sixties, and 1045 00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:49,960 Speaker 2: at the end of one of the classes, she came 1046 00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:52,680 Speaker 2: to me, ask you, what Jimmy go to? You know, 1047 00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:56,800 Speaker 2: you know, because you got a nice body, you blush. 1048 00:55:57,080 --> 00:55:59,680 Speaker 2: You ain't know what to say. She winked at you 1049 00:55:59,719 --> 00:56:03,160 Speaker 2: in there. You left. Then she saw it one day 1050 00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:07,880 Speaker 2: with a revealing outfit. On said she was gonna go 1051 00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:11,439 Speaker 2: out afterwards with her girls and invited me to join 1052 00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:13,359 Speaker 2: them because she's looking for a young guy who can 1053 00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:15,279 Speaker 2: keep up with her on the dance floor. Let's stop. 1054 00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:18,360 Speaker 2: Let's break this down for a minute. She and her sixties. 1055 00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:21,000 Speaker 2: How hard is it gonna be to keep up with 1056 00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:25,960 Speaker 2: her this damn dance? How hard is her ass dancing? 1057 00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:29,839 Speaker 2: I'm sixty and I can tell you right now, I'm 1058 00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:32,640 Speaker 2: sixty two. I just like that little back and forward 1059 00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:36,000 Speaker 2: movie side to the side. That's all I got for you. 1060 00:56:36,440 --> 00:56:36,840 Speaker 5: Ain't on. 1061 00:56:37,320 --> 00:56:41,000 Speaker 2: She ain't out there breakdancing for spinning on her head 1062 00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:46,640 Speaker 2: running man? All that cost? Hey mad No, she just 1063 00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:50,080 Speaker 2: standing there with her old ass going from side to side. 1064 00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:56,719 Speaker 2: So you should have went now then she I told her, 1065 00:56:56,800 --> 00:57:00,120 Speaker 2: you don't have a lot of time for that. But 1066 00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:03,239 Speaker 2: the truth is she scared the hell out you. Now 1067 00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:05,680 Speaker 2: here she make a move. Now she comes to class. 1068 00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:09,600 Speaker 2: Got this bag of cherries, she said, they from a 1069 00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:12,640 Speaker 2: tree in her backyard. Now, let me tell you something 1070 00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:16,680 Speaker 2: about old people. Old people like picking stuff and giving 1071 00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:24,720 Speaker 2: it away. I'm surprised she didn't can nothing for So 1072 00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:30,440 Speaker 2: it starts with just picking something. Then she gonna can 1073 00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:34,240 Speaker 2: something for you. Then she gonna go down the basement 1074 00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:37,040 Speaker 2: and come out with she gonna have some preserves for you. 1075 00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:41,360 Speaker 2: Then she gonna fry you some skillet coin and bring 1076 00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:45,720 Speaker 2: it to work. That's how it start. Old people always 1077 00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:50,400 Speaker 2: want to give you something to eat. All right. Now, 1078 00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:54,480 Speaker 2: she got this bag of cherries, and she said, for fun, 1079 00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:57,360 Speaker 2: she liked to tie the cherry stems in knots with 1080 00:57:57,480 --> 00:58:00,560 Speaker 2: her tongue, and asked me if you wanted to watch her. 1081 00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:04,760 Speaker 2: She's too old for this. You know, you watch a 1082 00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:08,120 Speaker 2: girl when she twenty thirty times a steal with her tongue. 1083 00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:12,320 Speaker 2: It's exciting. When you're sixty something, you could tie steal 1084 00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:15,440 Speaker 2: with your tongue. People be going, what is your old 1085 00:58:15,520 --> 00:58:21,600 Speaker 2: last doing? You need to get that steal out your 1086 00:58:21,600 --> 00:58:26,240 Speaker 2: mouth full, You mess around, choke yourself. When I come back, 1087 00:58:26,320 --> 00:58:28,400 Speaker 2: I'm gonna give you the rest of it because I 1088 00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:30,680 Speaker 2: know what's wrong, and I'm gonna tell you how to 1089 00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:31,280 Speaker 2: handle this. 1090 00:58:31,360 --> 00:58:33,600 Speaker 10: All right, Steve, We'll have part two of your response 1091 00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:35,600 Speaker 10: coming up at twenty three after the hour. 1092 00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:38,320 Speaker 13: Subject of today's Strawberry letter. 1093 00:58:38,360 --> 00:58:42,320 Speaker 10: I'm stressed out in the classroom right after this. You're 1094 00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:46,200 Speaker 10: listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right, Steve, come on, 1095 00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:47,919 Speaker 10: let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 1096 00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:48,440 Speaker 2: Subject. 1097 00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:49,960 Speaker 4: I'm stressed out in my classroom. 1098 00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:52,520 Speaker 2: Thirty two year old dude teaching adults how to get 1099 00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:55,760 Speaker 2: their ged is uncomfortable because this sixty year old woman 1100 00:58:55,840 --> 00:59:00,320 Speaker 2: is hitting on him. You know. She won't to get 1101 00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:02,720 Speaker 2: at him and invited her to dance. He said he 1102 00:59:02,720 --> 00:59:04,480 Speaker 2: didn't want to go. She need a young man to 1103 00:59:04,600 --> 00:59:06,760 Speaker 2: keep up with her. She and her sixties that you 1104 00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:10,520 Speaker 2: could have went. They sixty year old people can't dance 1105 00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:12,800 Speaker 2: that long. Dog. I can tell you that my damn self. 1106 00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:15,040 Speaker 2: You know, one or two dances, they go, sit down, 1107 00:59:15,120 --> 00:59:18,800 Speaker 2: they need She got taken shoes off everything. I told her. 1108 00:59:18,800 --> 00:59:21,360 Speaker 2: I ain't ever had time for that. And you don't 1109 00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:23,240 Speaker 2: like her because she's scared you. Then she brought this 1110 00:59:23,320 --> 00:59:26,560 Speaker 2: bag of cherries and said she picked him from a tree. 1111 00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:28,840 Speaker 2: I just tried to remind you last time. Old people 1112 00:59:28,920 --> 00:59:36,440 Speaker 2: like to pick stuff and give it away, flowers, cotton, cherries, apples. 1113 00:59:37,120 --> 00:59:40,320 Speaker 2: Like I said, I'm surprised she didn't care nothing for 1114 00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:43,640 Speaker 2: you and offer you some preserves. But if you keep 1115 00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:46,280 Speaker 2: on though, your ass gonna get a sweater made. You 1116 00:59:46,320 --> 00:59:51,640 Speaker 2: can believe that because knitting is next. She said it 1117 00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:54,640 Speaker 2: was a gift for me for being she asked. First 1118 00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:57,080 Speaker 2: of all, she tied these steals with her tongue too, 1119 00:59:57,520 --> 00:59:59,560 Speaker 2: And then she asked you if you wanted to watch 1120 00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:02,560 Speaker 2: her do But that's not exciting watching a sixty year 1121 01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:05,600 Speaker 2: old woman tie stem with her tongue, because you know 1122 01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:07,600 Speaker 2: she keep pushing her tongue up against the roof of 1123 01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:09,959 Speaker 2: her mom trying to tie that stem. Push them damn 1124 01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:12,640 Speaker 2: deniers out, and it's gonna throw the whole thing off. 1125 01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:17,040 Speaker 2: She said, it was a gift for me for being 1126 01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:23,120 Speaker 2: such a good teacher. Well, you don't have your ged yet, lady, 1127 01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:25,480 Speaker 2: so I don't know how good a damn teacher he is. 1128 01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:28,400 Speaker 2: And then he turned. Then she told you to pick 1129 01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:31,800 Speaker 2: the darkest cherish because we had the sweetest juice, and 1130 01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:35,320 Speaker 2: she winked and left again. Now I'm an Asian guy 1131 01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:37,480 Speaker 2: and she's a dark brown woman. Okay, so let me 1132 01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:40,760 Speaker 2: hip you to some culture. When she told you to 1133 01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:43,760 Speaker 2: pick the darkest cherish because they had the sweetest juice, 1134 01:00:44,240 --> 01:00:46,240 Speaker 2: that comes from the saying the black of the berry, 1135 01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:49,280 Speaker 2: the sweet of the juice. She being a very chocolate 1136 01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:54,360 Speaker 2: brown woman. It's a suggestion that she's juicy. That's all 1137 01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:58,480 Speaker 2: that means. So now, because you're an Asian guy, she's 1138 01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:00,520 Speaker 2: a dark brown woman. You don't want her to think 1139 01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:04,120 Speaker 2: it's a race thing when you firmly reject her and 1140 01:01:04,240 --> 01:01:07,760 Speaker 2: tell her that she's being inappropriate. Now, let me tell 1141 01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:10,120 Speaker 2: you what might happen to you here when you reject her. 1142 01:01:10,160 --> 01:01:11,040 Speaker 9: She old. 1143 01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:15,760 Speaker 2: And she's sixty two. You might get your ass slapped. 1144 01:01:17,840 --> 01:01:22,120 Speaker 2: You just might. I ain't promising it, but you might. 1145 01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:25,880 Speaker 2: She sound a little tough now. She out picking cherry, 1146 01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:29,520 Speaker 2: climbing trees and stuff in the backyard. You know if 1147 01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:31,680 Speaker 2: she go dance and she might be in some kind 1148 01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:40,919 Speaker 2: of shape. But you gonna reject her. And because of what, Well, 1149 01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,400 Speaker 2: let's talk about this first. Let me get how can 1150 01:01:44,440 --> 01:01:48,880 Speaker 2: I stop her from acting out in making these comments. 1151 01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:51,680 Speaker 2: You can't risk any rumors or impropriety at work, not 1152 01:01:51,840 --> 01:01:54,560 Speaker 2: in these days and times. You can't can't stop her 1153 01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:57,440 Speaker 2: from acting out and making these comments about upsetting her 1154 01:01:57,560 --> 01:02:01,200 Speaker 2: without upsetting her. I'm very stress south knowing she's coming 1155 01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:06,080 Speaker 2: to class. You should see her, Please help me. Well, 1156 01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:12,520 Speaker 2: we can't see her, but you gotta start saying something slick. 1157 01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:16,000 Speaker 2: You're gonna have to hurt her feelings though, because she's 1158 01:02:16,040 --> 01:02:20,640 Speaker 2: sixty and she really aggressive, and I don't know how 1159 01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:24,560 Speaker 2: I could suggest to you without being offensive. 1160 01:02:24,880 --> 01:02:25,760 Speaker 3: So don't. 1161 01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:28,720 Speaker 4: So don't go down that road. 1162 01:02:28,880 --> 01:02:31,320 Speaker 2: Okay. Well, okay, Shirley, Well I'm not gonna go down 1163 01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:36,440 Speaker 2: that road. But supposed, though, I'm just hypothetical. Okay, suppose 1164 01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:41,400 Speaker 2: he just would say to her, he don't he don't 1165 01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:47,840 Speaker 2: like uneducated with me. You not just say that. I'm 1166 01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:53,920 Speaker 2: just saying, I ad suppose that. Suppose Okay, let me 1167 01:02:53,960 --> 01:02:55,680 Speaker 2: see how I could dress this up for you. Maybe 1168 01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:58,680 Speaker 2: if he said I like to be with someone that 1169 01:02:58,760 --> 01:03:00,200 Speaker 2: I'm equally yoke with. 1170 01:03:01,160 --> 01:03:02,520 Speaker 4: Okay, that's better. 1171 01:03:03,160 --> 01:03:05,640 Speaker 2: And then she said, well, what do you mean by that? Well, 1172 01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:08,800 Speaker 2: your ass is old as you don't have a high 1173 01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:09,720 Speaker 2: school diploma. 1174 01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:11,400 Speaker 4: No, he cannot say that, and. 1175 01:03:11,440 --> 01:03:16,680 Speaker 2: I have a college education. No. I mean, I'm just 1176 01:03:16,720 --> 01:03:18,600 Speaker 2: trying to say how he can say that they're not 1177 01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:21,320 Speaker 2: equally yoked. I'm just trying what he could do. You 1178 01:03:21,360 --> 01:03:23,640 Speaker 2: need to take all these tight air clothes off and 1179 01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:29,919 Speaker 2: learn these damn multiple. You need to take all these 1180 01:03:29,960 --> 01:03:32,560 Speaker 2: tight air clothes off and sit out over here and 1181 01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:38,560 Speaker 2: learn these damn timetables over here. That's why you ain't 1182 01:03:38,560 --> 01:03:41,440 Speaker 2: got no diploma. Now tying these chair stems. 1183 01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:43,000 Speaker 4: With your damn tongue. 1184 01:03:44,520 --> 01:03:47,680 Speaker 2: You should have been paying attention to school, you sitting 1185 01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:50,800 Speaker 2: up in the math class tying stems with your tongue. 1186 01:03:52,520 --> 01:03:56,360 Speaker 2: Now you're too old for this. And since your fast 1187 01:03:56,400 --> 01:03:59,280 Speaker 2: ass down somewhere and your stomach is too big for. 1188 01:03:59,320 --> 01:04:04,800 Speaker 20: That tight ass dress, you don't know that you're gonna 1189 01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:05,560 Speaker 20: have to say. 1190 01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:08,840 Speaker 2: Something to get the attention. Yeah, and take them old 1191 01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:16,040 Speaker 2: lass wedge heels off, and nah, I don't want no 1192 01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:21,200 Speaker 2: damn crochet car. I'll go out with you if you 1193 01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:23,240 Speaker 2: could tell me the square root to eighty one. 1194 01:04:25,560 --> 01:04:26,760 Speaker 1: All right, thank you sir. 1195 01:04:27,360 --> 01:04:29,920 Speaker 10: You can email your Instagram US guys with your thoughts 1196 01:04:29,920 --> 01:04:33,080 Speaker 10: on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM, and please 1197 01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:36,200 Speaker 10: don't forget to check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. 1198 01:04:36,640 --> 01:04:39,360 Speaker 4: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. 1199 01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:43,360 Speaker 10: It's time for comedy roulette and uh so, here are 1200 01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:45,800 Speaker 10: the subjects, guys, Ready for this. 1201 01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:49,040 Speaker 13: Old player pickup lines? 1202 01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:54,800 Speaker 10: The things your parents said to threaten you, right, and 1203 01:04:54,920 --> 01:04:59,400 Speaker 10: this one things father say on their daughter's first date. O. 1204 01:05:00,520 --> 01:05:03,720 Speaker 4: Got it? We're gonna spin the wheel all of those. 1205 01:05:12,000 --> 01:05:15,000 Speaker 10: Oh it stopped on Things father say on. 1206 01:05:15,040 --> 01:05:17,280 Speaker 4: Their daughter's first date? All right, Jay, let's go. 1207 01:05:18,000 --> 01:05:20,200 Speaker 12: Okay, how about I just whoop you lass before you 1208 01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:21,800 Speaker 12: go out. Just get that out of the way. 1209 01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:30,760 Speaker 21: Okay, come on, n your things father say and their 1210 01:05:30,880 --> 01:05:31,959 Speaker 21: daughter's first date? 1211 01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:41,080 Speaker 11: Yeah, well, what you want your bituary to say? 1212 01:05:41,960 --> 01:05:44,800 Speaker 13: Things father say on their daughter's first date? 1213 01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:52,200 Speaker 2: FaceTime met the whole time. It put it on right 1214 01:05:52,240 --> 01:05:55,880 Speaker 2: now now? 1215 01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:02,040 Speaker 4: All right, thank you, Steve, father say on their first date? 1216 01:06:02,560 --> 01:06:02,800 Speaker 5: Jay. 1217 01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:05,040 Speaker 3: Okay, let me check your pocket. 1218 01:06:05,120 --> 01:06:07,080 Speaker 12: You've got kids in your pockets because if you do, 1219 01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:17,320 Speaker 12: if you do. 1220 01:06:13,200 --> 01:06:16,160 Speaker 4: Father saying their daughter's first date, un her, what you got? 1221 01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:18,240 Speaker 11: I just want you to know the hit man name 1222 01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:18,800 Speaker 11: is Harold. 1223 01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:30,480 Speaker 16: Okay, all right, Things father say on their daughter's first date, Steve. 1224 01:06:31,080 --> 01:06:33,880 Speaker 2: Ain't no man, no man. I'm gonna need a half sample. 1225 01:06:37,920 --> 01:06:41,640 Speaker 13: Guy. 1226 01:06:44,640 --> 01:06:46,919 Speaker 4: Things father say and their daughter's first date. 1227 01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:47,240 Speaker 17: Jay. 1228 01:06:48,160 --> 01:06:50,080 Speaker 12: Okay, you need to tell me you're going so I 1229 01:06:50,080 --> 01:06:52,320 Speaker 12: can meet you all there? All right, because I'll just 1230 01:06:52,320 --> 01:06:53,320 Speaker 12: tell me what will you hear it? 1231 01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:54,280 Speaker 2: I meet you there. 1232 01:06:54,320 --> 01:06:56,000 Speaker 3: You can take your car and I meet you there. 1233 01:06:56,040 --> 01:06:56,600 Speaker 3: I'll be there. 1234 01:06:56,640 --> 01:07:04,640 Speaker 10: Okay, all right, Things father say on their daughter's first date. 1235 01:07:05,400 --> 01:07:07,200 Speaker 11: I just want you to know you might be too 1236 01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:09,000 Speaker 11: young to get life insurance, but get SOF for your 1237 01:07:09,040 --> 01:07:09,600 Speaker 11: leader's house. 1238 01:07:17,560 --> 01:07:22,120 Speaker 2: Make sure your mom and on mister beneficial. All right. 1239 01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:26,600 Speaker 10: Last one, Steve, things father say on their daughter's first date. 1240 01:07:26,880 --> 01:07:29,440 Speaker 2: Say, man, put your hands up on this counter so 1241 01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:31,720 Speaker 2: I can cut them off. I'll give them back to 1242 01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:38,280 Speaker 2: you when you come back home. Who wow, drive what 1243 01:07:38,480 --> 01:07:40,480 Speaker 2: you need to go? Slow? Anyway? 1244 01:07:40,880 --> 01:07:45,200 Speaker 10: That's not even less Today we'll have more of the 1245 01:07:45,240 --> 01:07:47,000 Speaker 10: Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. 1246 01:07:47,520 --> 01:07:50,240 Speaker 4: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1247 01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:55,800 Speaker 10: All right, So, Steve, I saw this video on social 1248 01:07:55,840 --> 01:07:59,280 Speaker 10: media media recently of a man who was honest about 1249 01:07:59,360 --> 01:08:04,520 Speaker 10: why he ditched women without any explanation, any closure. I 1250 01:08:04,520 --> 01:08:07,280 Speaker 10: know you say men don't do closure, but he said 1251 01:08:07,720 --> 01:08:10,320 Speaker 10: that the woman he ghosted was either too much for 1252 01:08:10,440 --> 01:08:13,960 Speaker 10: him at the time and that meant to him that 1253 01:08:14,000 --> 01:08:16,000 Speaker 10: he didn't measure up to her. So he was trying 1254 01:08:16,000 --> 01:08:19,519 Speaker 10: to explain and put a button on why you know 1255 01:08:19,600 --> 01:08:21,760 Speaker 10: he did what he did in the past or was 1256 01:08:22,280 --> 01:08:25,799 Speaker 10: he looking for the past of the path of least 1257 01:08:25,840 --> 01:08:26,800 Speaker 10: resistance here? 1258 01:08:27,439 --> 01:08:27,479 Speaker 5: No. 1259 01:08:27,640 --> 01:08:30,320 Speaker 2: I think women have to understand something. You know, like 1260 01:08:30,400 --> 01:08:32,519 Speaker 2: I've always told them. I've said, you know, a lot 1261 01:08:32,600 --> 01:08:34,280 Speaker 2: of times when a man break up with you, a 1262 01:08:34,320 --> 01:08:37,240 Speaker 2: woman immediately goes to or what's wrong with me? That's 1263 01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:39,320 Speaker 2: not always the case. As a matter of fact, the 1264 01:08:39,320 --> 01:08:41,720 Speaker 2: majority of cases has not anything to do with you. 1265 01:08:42,080 --> 01:08:44,679 Speaker 2: It's something wrong with the man. It's just this brother 1266 01:08:45,240 --> 01:08:50,240 Speaker 2: online admitted that it was him that he couldn't measure up, 1267 01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:53,240 Speaker 2: that he wasn't ready, that he wasn't the man for 1268 01:08:53,360 --> 01:08:57,000 Speaker 2: the job, and that oftentimes is the case. And the 1269 01:08:57,080 --> 01:09:00,800 Speaker 2: reason men don't give you closure is because most men 1270 01:09:00,880 --> 01:09:03,880 Speaker 2: are not going to admit that ain't no. Don't no 1271 01:09:04,000 --> 01:09:06,040 Speaker 2: man want to come to you and go, you know, look, 1272 01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:10,200 Speaker 2: I just ain't man enough. You too much. Some men 1273 01:09:10,280 --> 01:09:12,320 Speaker 2: will do it, but a lot of men have broken 1274 01:09:12,400 --> 01:09:15,559 Speaker 2: up with women and just went, hey, look it ain't you, 1275 01:09:15,920 --> 01:09:17,559 Speaker 2: it's me, and then that's it. 1276 01:09:18,080 --> 01:09:19,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, And what does that mean? 1277 01:09:20,040 --> 01:09:22,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it means what this brother was saying, You 1278 01:09:22,920 --> 01:09:25,600 Speaker 2: were too much for me. You had some requirements I 1279 01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:29,840 Speaker 2: couldn't live up to. Your standards were too high. I'm 1280 01:09:29,880 --> 01:09:33,519 Speaker 2: not enough man for the woman you are. I can't 1281 01:09:33,560 --> 01:09:39,160 Speaker 2: feel the job application requirements out. I'm not ready for that. 1282 01:09:40,400 --> 01:09:43,920 Speaker 2: I want a woman who's less than you. I need 1283 01:09:43,960 --> 01:09:48,439 Speaker 2: somebody who's just less because you just too much now. 1284 01:09:48,560 --> 01:09:51,240 Speaker 2: And then they go on and they find women who 1285 01:09:51,320 --> 01:09:54,960 Speaker 2: are less and try to have relationship with them, and 1286 01:09:55,040 --> 01:09:57,000 Speaker 2: women get mad because how can he just move on 1287 01:09:57,080 --> 01:10:00,719 Speaker 2: and start in a relationship. Maybe he found less? Yeah, 1288 01:10:01,200 --> 01:10:02,519 Speaker 2: maybe he did. 1289 01:10:02,600 --> 01:10:03,720 Speaker 4: I do you know. 1290 01:10:03,680 --> 01:10:07,959 Speaker 2: What's to stop blaming yourself? What's wrong with stop blaming yourself? 1291 01:10:08,040 --> 01:10:12,519 Speaker 4: It's your life because a lot of women do that. 1292 01:10:13,280 --> 01:10:15,599 Speaker 9: Some men don't care about closure, you know, just they 1293 01:10:15,680 --> 01:10:17,920 Speaker 9: just move on and let you figure it out on 1294 01:10:17,960 --> 01:10:18,280 Speaker 9: your own. 1295 01:10:18,880 --> 01:10:22,120 Speaker 2: And that's usually the case, because I wrote a chapter 1296 01:10:22,320 --> 01:10:25,639 Speaker 2: men don't do closure because normally we don't and Tommy 1297 01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:28,920 Speaker 2: is exactly right. The majority of the time we just walk, well, 1298 01:10:28,960 --> 01:10:32,840 Speaker 2: know you nothing, you work through it out, and most 1299 01:10:32,920 --> 01:10:35,240 Speaker 2: a lot of men ain't gonna admit to their shortcomings. 1300 01:10:35,520 --> 01:10:37,800 Speaker 2: And then me and we don't feel like it's our obligation, 1301 01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:41,320 Speaker 2: I mean, and in truth, what happened to us was 1302 01:10:41,400 --> 01:10:44,439 Speaker 2: we didn't work. Now we ain't got to get seat 1303 01:10:44,520 --> 01:10:47,680 Speaker 2: now standing here and calling you back to explain why 1304 01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:52,479 Speaker 2: you know what that's gonna lead into. 1305 01:10:53,520 --> 01:10:56,160 Speaker 10: At that moment when you decide not to do closure 1306 01:10:56,200 --> 01:10:56,800 Speaker 10: and move on? 1307 01:10:56,880 --> 01:10:59,439 Speaker 4: What is going through your mind? What's going through the 1308 01:10:59,479 --> 01:11:00,519 Speaker 4: mind of a man? 1309 01:11:01,439 --> 01:11:02,639 Speaker 2: Wasn't over? Well? 1310 01:11:02,640 --> 01:11:03,560 Speaker 4: Who was? 1311 01:11:04,040 --> 01:11:06,960 Speaker 2: Yeah? Who behind you I'm looking for? Yeah, it's over. 1312 01:11:07,520 --> 01:11:09,639 Speaker 13: So there's no guilt, there's no remorse. 1313 01:11:10,160 --> 01:11:12,000 Speaker 2: No what I got? Well, I got to be killed. 1314 01:11:12,160 --> 01:11:14,000 Speaker 2: Are we getting out of something that ain't working for me? 1315 01:11:14,040 --> 01:11:14,280 Speaker 8: And you? 1316 01:11:14,960 --> 01:11:17,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm doing you a fake. I'm getting out of 1317 01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:19,759 Speaker 2: here now because this ain't working. You may think it's working, 1318 01:11:19,800 --> 01:11:22,000 Speaker 2: but all this arguing and all this what I ain't 1319 01:11:22,120 --> 01:11:24,120 Speaker 2: what you don't do? And where was you? And all 1320 01:11:24,200 --> 01:11:26,439 Speaker 2: this here? No no, no, no no, So you ain't 1321 01:11:26,439 --> 01:11:28,439 Speaker 2: got to question me no more, and I ain't got 1322 01:11:28,479 --> 01:11:29,360 Speaker 2: to answer the question. 1323 01:11:29,760 --> 01:11:31,360 Speaker 1: I'm out. 1324 01:11:31,439 --> 01:11:36,759 Speaker 2: That free yourself from having to wonder where I'm at anymore. 1325 01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:42,200 Speaker 2: And that's really how man looks at it. And that's 1326 01:11:42,240 --> 01:11:45,120 Speaker 2: a clean way to get out, because if it's over, 1327 01:11:45,240 --> 01:11:48,880 Speaker 2: it's over the whole the how come? What happened? Why not? 1328 01:11:49,680 --> 01:11:52,240 Speaker 2: We ain't got We don't really look it's over. No 1329 01:11:52,240 --> 01:11:54,400 Speaker 2: matter what I say, you're not gonna like to answer. 1330 01:11:55,360 --> 01:11:57,840 Speaker 2: So how about just no answer? And that's usually how 1331 01:11:57,960 --> 01:12:00,400 Speaker 2: men look at that too. Don't we already know while 1332 01:12:00,400 --> 01:12:02,600 Speaker 2: we leave it. Yeah, of course we know. 1333 01:12:03,760 --> 01:12:06,439 Speaker 10: Okay, let me ask you this. Did you know when 1334 01:12:06,439 --> 01:12:09,280 Speaker 10: you met the woman? Did you know already know that 1335 01:12:09,400 --> 01:12:11,920 Speaker 10: she was too much for you? Or she was above 1336 01:12:11,960 --> 01:12:13,840 Speaker 10: your prey grade or you know out of. 1337 01:12:13,840 --> 01:12:18,120 Speaker 2: Your signs don't show up till late? Yeah, and then 1338 01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:22,880 Speaker 2: and then you got to understand, y'all find this clouds. 1339 01:12:22,360 --> 01:12:23,400 Speaker 4: Eyed you right? 1340 01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:23,960 Speaker 2: Say that? 1341 01:12:24,560 --> 01:12:28,360 Speaker 4: All right, Wow, this is good. This is good. 1342 01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:28,679 Speaker 5: Guys. 1343 01:12:28,680 --> 01:12:31,040 Speaker 10: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 1344 01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:33,559 Speaker 10: up at twenty minutes after the hour. Right after this, 1345 01:12:34,200 --> 01:12:40,160 Speaker 10: you're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, So, Steve, before 1346 01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:43,679 Speaker 10: we left, we were talking about men and they don't 1347 01:12:43,720 --> 01:12:44,240 Speaker 10: do closure. 1348 01:12:44,280 --> 01:12:45,160 Speaker 4: They just move on. 1349 01:12:45,640 --> 01:12:47,679 Speaker 10: And a lot of times it is them, or most 1350 01:12:47,760 --> 01:12:50,479 Speaker 10: times them and not the woman. Did you want to 1351 01:12:50,520 --> 01:12:53,400 Speaker 10: add anything to that? You were saying you already knew 1352 01:12:53,400 --> 01:12:56,960 Speaker 10: when you met the woman. Perhaps, well it was too 1353 01:12:57,040 --> 01:12:57,799 Speaker 10: much for you. 1354 01:12:57,920 --> 01:13:01,400 Speaker 2: When we meet a woman. I don't want to say game, 1355 01:13:01,439 --> 01:13:04,160 Speaker 2: because every man that meets you not playing a game. 1356 01:13:04,600 --> 01:13:07,880 Speaker 2: But game on. We now have to see what it's 1357 01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:11,320 Speaker 2: gonna take to win you over. Now, if it's a lot, 1358 01:13:11,520 --> 01:13:15,000 Speaker 2: we'll pretend to have a lot, but we can't sustain 1359 01:13:15,400 --> 01:13:19,280 Speaker 2: the pretense, the pretension, we just can't sustain it. And 1360 01:13:19,400 --> 01:13:22,000 Speaker 2: you know like oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I got myself together, 1361 01:13:22,040 --> 01:13:24,840 Speaker 2: I'm holding I'm strong, I'm dedicated, I'm working. And then 1362 01:13:24,880 --> 01:13:27,559 Speaker 2: when she keeps that pressure up, this is what I'm 1363 01:13:27,560 --> 01:13:29,439 Speaker 2: looking for. This is what when did you or are 1364 01:13:29,479 --> 01:13:31,960 Speaker 2: you still looking for a job? Did you still how's 1365 01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:34,360 Speaker 2: the job hunt going? How's the business going? And they 1366 01:13:34,439 --> 01:13:36,320 Speaker 2: gonna be cause they're gonna cause women gonna ask you 1367 01:13:36,640 --> 01:13:40,880 Speaker 2: because women want to feel safe, and that's an important 1368 01:13:40,880 --> 01:13:43,360 Speaker 2: thing for a woman. She wants to feel safe and 1369 01:13:43,400 --> 01:13:46,559 Speaker 2: so in you coming alonger in her life, whereas the 1370 01:13:46,600 --> 01:13:49,360 Speaker 2: security in this relationship. So it's not that she's a 1371 01:13:49,439 --> 01:13:52,360 Speaker 2: gold digger or nothing like that, she just wants to 1372 01:13:52,400 --> 01:13:56,000 Speaker 2: feel safe. Now, we've created the term gold digger to 1373 01:13:56,080 --> 01:13:57,800 Speaker 2: keep you out of our pockets and keep you from 1374 01:13:57,840 --> 01:14:00,400 Speaker 2: talking about our money. And women are stupid for falling 1375 01:14:00,479 --> 01:14:03,559 Speaker 2: into that trip, let me tell you, because you want 1376 01:14:03,560 --> 01:14:06,000 Speaker 2: to feel safe. And so now once we find out 1377 01:14:06,080 --> 01:14:09,200 Speaker 2: that these safety questions is going to keep coming, we 1378 01:14:09,280 --> 01:14:11,840 Speaker 2: get nervous and we back out. 1379 01:14:12,760 --> 01:14:14,360 Speaker 4: Good information, good information. 1380 01:14:14,520 --> 01:14:16,760 Speaker 10: We'll have more of a Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 1381 01:14:16,800 --> 01:14:19,599 Speaker 10: up at thirty three minutes after and we'll do a round. 1382 01:14:19,840 --> 01:14:25,160 Speaker 10: Would you rather right after this? You're listening Hardy Morning Show. 1383 01:14:25,520 --> 01:14:26,160 Speaker 13: All right time. 1384 01:14:26,200 --> 01:14:29,519 Speaker 10: Now, guys, we're around of would you rather? Would you 1385 01:14:29,640 --> 01:14:33,800 Speaker 10: rather mow your own lawn for one year? Or would 1386 01:14:33,840 --> 01:14:36,960 Speaker 10: you rather be living huh. 1387 01:14:36,800 --> 01:14:39,080 Speaker 2: B b okay? 1388 01:14:39,600 --> 01:14:40,759 Speaker 4: Or would you rather. 1389 01:14:42,160 --> 01:14:45,479 Speaker 10: Live in a four hundred square foot house for thirty days? 1390 01:14:46,760 --> 01:14:50,680 Speaker 1: Well, I'm just gonna do b I mean, yeah, you 1391 01:14:50,680 --> 01:14:53,200 Speaker 1: don't like tiny house, but. 1392 01:14:53,360 --> 01:14:55,400 Speaker 2: You're talking about mowing for a year old. 1393 01:14:55,760 --> 01:14:57,880 Speaker 4: Year your own lawn though, I'll. 1394 01:14:57,800 --> 01:15:04,040 Speaker 9: Take that there today the house. Now, you're gonna have 1395 01:15:04,080 --> 01:15:07,439 Speaker 9: a lot of uh bruises on your head because you're 1396 01:15:07,439 --> 01:15:08,320 Speaker 9: gonna bump everything. 1397 01:15:08,320 --> 01:15:10,959 Speaker 2: You're gonna bump your head. You you're gonna be messing. 1398 01:15:11,040 --> 01:15:14,120 Speaker 4: After thirty you're talking about Steve right. 1399 01:15:14,120 --> 01:15:18,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, every time he turned around. I'm gonna have trouble 1400 01:15:18,640 --> 01:15:21,360 Speaker 2: using the bathroom that close to the kitchen. That's gonna 1401 01:15:21,360 --> 01:15:26,920 Speaker 2: be my problem. You're fire problem getting there now now. Yeah, 1402 01:15:26,960 --> 01:15:29,360 Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to burn a bed sheet while I'm 1403 01:15:29,479 --> 01:15:32,640 Speaker 2: using the bathroom. So we not having this over here 1404 01:15:32,720 --> 01:15:37,160 Speaker 2: by the kitchen because I'm telling you right now, I'm 1405 01:15:37,160 --> 01:15:39,240 Speaker 2: gonna have to start a fire every time I go 1406 01:15:39,320 --> 01:15:44,720 Speaker 2: to the bathroom and a little tiny house, we've got 1407 01:15:44,760 --> 01:15:46,679 Speaker 2: to get some soot in here or something. 1408 01:15:51,439 --> 01:15:54,639 Speaker 10: All right, Moving on, temmy, since you brought it up, 1409 01:15:54,880 --> 01:15:59,080 Speaker 10: would you rather be five five and a billionaire? B 1410 01:15:59,920 --> 01:16:03,120 Speaker 10: or or six four and just earn you know, five 1411 01:16:03,160 --> 01:16:04,240 Speaker 10: figures annually? 1412 01:16:05,439 --> 01:16:08,400 Speaker 2: I'm gonna go I take that five fight. 1413 01:16:08,520 --> 01:16:11,360 Speaker 1: I'm good five because it five figures or six figures? 1414 01:16:11,640 --> 01:16:12,200 Speaker 4: Five figures? 1415 01:16:12,200 --> 01:16:14,400 Speaker 2: You said billion Oh you're talking about the other guy. 1416 01:16:14,640 --> 01:16:17,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, would you rather be five five and a billionaire? 1417 01:16:17,000 --> 01:16:20,919 Speaker 10: Would you rather be six four and earn five figures annually? 1418 01:16:21,760 --> 01:16:23,760 Speaker 9: No, I'm gonna go with five five. When I stand 1419 01:16:23,800 --> 01:16:25,800 Speaker 9: on my wallet, I'm taller than the room. 1420 01:16:26,280 --> 01:16:29,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm trying to how about six figures? 1421 01:16:30,280 --> 01:16:32,160 Speaker 9: I'm still going. I'm still going with that five five. 1422 01:16:32,160 --> 01:16:33,559 Speaker 9: I ain't got a problem with this firefive. 1423 01:16:33,960 --> 01:16:36,719 Speaker 2: I got no problem with you not with them fast 1424 01:16:37,080 --> 01:16:42,840 Speaker 2: shouldn't Yeah, what shouldn't? It is what it is. You 1425 01:16:42,880 --> 01:16:46,400 Speaker 2: know you have to deal with it, and me personally, 1426 01:16:46,479 --> 01:16:48,439 Speaker 2: I have a problem with it. I'm gonna be six 1427 01:16:48,520 --> 01:16:50,920 Speaker 2: foke giving them six figures and let me try to 1428 01:16:50,960 --> 01:16:51,599 Speaker 2: flip it. 1429 01:16:53,880 --> 01:16:54,880 Speaker 4: Like a millionaire. 1430 01:16:56,240 --> 01:16:59,439 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna try to explain myself to everybody I meet. 1431 01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:02,280 Speaker 2: Why so now I just got to add to what 1432 01:17:02,320 --> 01:17:03,000 Speaker 2: you're looking at. 1433 01:17:05,360 --> 01:17:08,040 Speaker 1: All right, here's one here, y'all keep staring. 1434 01:17:07,840 --> 01:17:09,920 Speaker 2: At me phone. You're five fat? 1435 01:17:10,720 --> 01:17:13,559 Speaker 10: Come on, would you rather have a six pack in 1436 01:17:13,640 --> 01:17:17,759 Speaker 10: really nice arms or would you rather have nice teeth 1437 01:17:17,960 --> 01:17:19,280 Speaker 10: and a great personality? 1438 01:17:20,040 --> 01:17:24,400 Speaker 1: Six and really nice arms? 1439 01:17:25,960 --> 01:17:28,880 Speaker 10: We're back and really nice arms or nice teeth and 1440 01:17:28,920 --> 01:17:32,400 Speaker 10: a great personality. That seemed like to be a hard one, 1441 01:17:32,439 --> 01:17:35,080 Speaker 10: So we'll save it for later. Coming up at forty 1442 01:17:35,160 --> 01:17:37,960 Speaker 10: nine minutes after the hour closing remarks. 1443 01:17:38,120 --> 01:17:40,840 Speaker 4: You're listening morning show. 1444 01:17:41,479 --> 01:17:43,680 Speaker 10: All right, guys, here we are last break of the 1445 01:17:43,800 --> 01:17:48,280 Speaker 10: day on this Monday, and Steve, you have some closing 1446 01:17:48,320 --> 01:17:49,040 Speaker 10: remarks for us. 1447 01:17:49,040 --> 01:17:55,479 Speaker 2: I know, all right, listen uh Today this morning, before 1448 01:17:56,479 --> 01:17:58,040 Speaker 2: we got on the air, I was sitting I was 1449 01:17:58,080 --> 01:18:02,560 Speaker 2: talking to j Anthony and Junior when you're having a conversation, 1450 01:18:03,280 --> 01:18:05,040 Speaker 2: and they said, man, you should do that for your 1451 01:18:05,040 --> 01:18:08,240 Speaker 2: clothes and remarks today. So this is based on a 1452 01:18:08,280 --> 01:18:14,120 Speaker 2: conversation we have. We were talking about advancing in life. 1453 01:18:15,040 --> 01:18:21,000 Speaker 2: We were having a conversation about what you are willing 1454 01:18:21,120 --> 01:18:26,240 Speaker 2: to do to advance in life? Are you are you 1455 01:18:26,280 --> 01:18:33,280 Speaker 2: willing to drop everything are you willing to make sacrifices? 1456 01:18:33,760 --> 01:18:34,200 Speaker 17: What are you. 1457 01:18:34,200 --> 01:18:37,360 Speaker 2: Willing to do to get to where you really want 1458 01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:40,880 Speaker 2: to be? So, what we were talking, I was talking 1459 01:18:40,920 --> 01:18:45,160 Speaker 2: about a person that I know that had a decision 1460 01:18:45,200 --> 01:18:51,559 Speaker 2: to make. He has a nice home, he has a 1461 01:18:51,600 --> 01:18:57,920 Speaker 2: good job, and he lives in a certain city. Right now, 1462 01:18:58,560 --> 01:19:00,640 Speaker 2: He's got a nice home, a good job, and he 1463 01:19:00,680 --> 01:19:05,240 Speaker 2: lives in a certain city. An opportunity was presented to him, 1464 01:19:05,560 --> 01:19:10,479 Speaker 2: but the opportunity was in another city. But if he 1465 01:19:10,560 --> 01:19:16,439 Speaker 2: took this opportunity, he would have a better job and 1466 01:19:16,520 --> 01:19:20,719 Speaker 2: which would enable him to buy and even nicer home. 1467 01:19:21,840 --> 01:19:25,360 Speaker 2: He didn't do it. As I was talking to my 1468 01:19:25,479 --> 01:19:29,599 Speaker 2: friend about Man, why didn't you do it? He said, Hey, Man, 1469 01:19:30,160 --> 01:19:36,240 Speaker 2: because I'm comfortable here. I'm all right with this, he said, Man, 1470 01:19:36,720 --> 01:19:41,320 Speaker 2: my job, it's all right, he said. My house is cool. Man, 1471 01:19:41,360 --> 01:19:45,720 Speaker 2: It's a little small, but it's cool and I like 1472 01:19:45,840 --> 01:19:46,280 Speaker 2: living here. 1473 01:19:46,320 --> 01:19:46,439 Speaker 9: Man. 1474 01:19:46,479 --> 01:19:48,680 Speaker 2: I got some friends, I got some family here. This 1475 01:19:48,760 --> 01:19:51,479 Speaker 2: city right here. I'm gonna just go home, stay here. 1476 01:19:53,479 --> 01:19:55,840 Speaker 2: End of conversation. Steve, I know what You're gonna try 1477 01:19:55,840 --> 01:19:58,240 Speaker 2: to talk with me out of it, but end of conversation. 1478 01:19:58,960 --> 01:20:02,599 Speaker 2: So I stopped talking to him. But when I left him, 1479 01:20:02,720 --> 01:20:06,960 Speaker 2: I was sad. Man, I was so sad for this guy, 1480 01:20:07,720 --> 01:20:12,320 Speaker 2: and it never ever stopped bothering me. What he said. 1481 01:20:13,120 --> 01:20:15,760 Speaker 2: He said, I'm okay here, I'm gonna just stay here. 1482 01:20:17,200 --> 01:20:20,080 Speaker 2: My job is all right. Man. This house it's a 1483 01:20:20,120 --> 01:20:23,519 Speaker 2: little small, but the city cool. I got some family 1484 01:20:23,520 --> 01:20:27,320 Speaker 2: and friends is cool. I know you're gonna try to 1485 01:20:27,360 --> 01:20:30,040 Speaker 2: talk me out of his Steve, but I'm good right here. 1486 01:20:30,680 --> 01:20:34,040 Speaker 2: But that decision he made really bothered me. Because, Man, 1487 01:20:34,080 --> 01:20:37,519 Speaker 2: I'll tell you why I troubled me so because I said, Wow, 1488 01:20:37,600 --> 01:20:41,400 Speaker 2: here's a guy that I know whould have looked over 1489 01:20:41,400 --> 01:20:44,040 Speaker 2: the fence with me. Man, a dude I grew up with. Man. 1490 01:20:44,120 --> 01:20:46,160 Speaker 2: We used to ride our bikes. We sit on the 1491 01:20:46,200 --> 01:20:48,840 Speaker 2: steps playing that's my car. When they came back. This 1492 01:20:48,960 --> 01:20:50,680 Speaker 2: is the same dude. Man. We used to ride our 1493 01:20:50,720 --> 01:20:53,000 Speaker 2: bikes and act like we was riding out the country. 1494 01:20:53,439 --> 01:20:56,559 Speaker 2: Me and my dude. Man, we always talked about doing 1495 01:20:56,640 --> 01:21:02,839 Speaker 2: something big, and when the opportunity came, he froze because 1496 01:21:02,880 --> 01:21:07,200 Speaker 2: he was comfortable. He was comfortable with his all right 1497 01:21:07,400 --> 01:21:09,680 Speaker 2: job in his house that wasn't really big enough. In 1498 01:21:09,760 --> 01:21:13,080 Speaker 2: this city of friends and family that he had, he 1499 01:21:13,120 --> 01:21:16,080 Speaker 2: didn't want to go to the new city. He didn't 1500 01:21:16,080 --> 01:21:19,320 Speaker 2: want the job that paid more. He didn't want the 1501 01:21:19,320 --> 01:21:22,760 Speaker 2: opportunity to buy a bigger home because it would have 1502 01:21:22,800 --> 01:21:25,400 Speaker 2: taken him out of his comfort zone. Because he wasn't 1503 01:21:25,439 --> 01:21:28,439 Speaker 2: comfortable in the new city. He was comfortable in the 1504 01:21:28,520 --> 01:21:31,759 Speaker 2: current city. And they was already had just worked himself 1505 01:21:31,880 --> 01:21:33,960 Speaker 2: up to say I'm okay with my house. The way 1506 01:21:33,960 --> 01:21:36,439 Speaker 2: it is. You can be okay with the house you is. 1507 01:21:36,640 --> 01:21:38,640 Speaker 2: You can be okay with the job. You can be 1508 01:21:38,680 --> 01:21:41,920 Speaker 2: okay with the car you driving. But if opportunity presents 1509 01:21:41,960 --> 01:21:45,960 Speaker 2: itself to become great. There are three things I'm about 1510 01:21:46,000 --> 01:21:48,719 Speaker 2: to give you, and all three things say the exact 1511 01:21:48,760 --> 01:21:51,240 Speaker 2: same thing. I'm just saying that three different ways in 1512 01:21:51,240 --> 01:21:52,800 Speaker 2: case you got to hear it the best way you 1513 01:21:52,840 --> 01:21:56,360 Speaker 2: need to hear it. These are all three the same thing, 1514 01:21:56,680 --> 01:21:59,840 Speaker 2: just which one fits you best. You can't get there 1515 01:22:00,400 --> 01:22:04,080 Speaker 2: if you all never attempt to go there one more time. 1516 01:22:04,920 --> 01:22:08,880 Speaker 2: You cannot get there. If you never attempt to go there, 1517 01:22:10,360 --> 01:22:14,880 Speaker 2: same thing, different way of saying it. You can't go 1518 01:22:15,600 --> 01:22:19,800 Speaker 2: if you never leave. Then, my father say this to 1519 01:22:19,840 --> 01:22:22,760 Speaker 2: me all time. You can't go, boy, If you never leave, 1520 01:22:23,920 --> 01:22:26,760 Speaker 2: you know, man, you can't go. If your feet don't move, 1521 01:22:27,760 --> 01:22:30,320 Speaker 2: you just can't. You can't go if you don't leave 1522 01:22:30,360 --> 01:22:32,479 Speaker 2: where you're going. If you don't leave, If you don't leave, 1523 01:22:32,520 --> 01:22:35,439 Speaker 2: you ain't going nowhere. You got to leave something to 1524 01:22:35,479 --> 01:22:38,760 Speaker 2: get to the next level. The next level requires you 1525 01:22:38,880 --> 01:22:44,599 Speaker 2: to leave. The next level requires you to go. You 1526 01:22:44,720 --> 01:22:49,960 Speaker 2: can't stay right here and get over there. You cannot. Man. 1527 01:22:50,720 --> 01:22:54,479 Speaker 2: Here's the third way to look at it. You have 1528 01:22:54,600 --> 01:22:59,599 Speaker 2: to leave. If you want to grow, you cannot grow 1529 01:23:00,120 --> 01:23:07,680 Speaker 2: staying there. You cannot expect to grow if you're unwilling 1530 01:23:07,800 --> 01:23:13,760 Speaker 2: to change. If you're unwilling to change, you cannot expect 1531 01:23:13,960 --> 01:23:18,760 Speaker 2: to grow. You can't, y'all. Let me say I'm to 1532 01:23:18,800 --> 01:23:22,360 Speaker 2: you again. You can't get there if you never attempt 1533 01:23:22,439 --> 01:23:25,479 Speaker 2: to go there. Maybe that's the way you like here? Now, 1534 01:23:25,479 --> 01:23:27,800 Speaker 2: how about this way right here? You can't go if 1535 01:23:27,800 --> 01:23:31,840 Speaker 2: you never leave. You got to leave somewhere to go somewhere. 1536 01:23:33,280 --> 01:23:35,880 Speaker 2: You can't go. Be great and stay the same and 1537 01:23:35,920 --> 01:23:39,360 Speaker 2: not be willing to change. I ain't changing. Oh well, brother, 1538 01:23:40,000 --> 01:23:42,439 Speaker 2: you get what What do you mean? You're not changing? 1539 01:23:42,720 --> 01:23:43,519 Speaker 3: This is how I am. 1540 01:23:44,520 --> 01:23:49,760 Speaker 2: No man. Growth requires that you change. Last one. You 1541 01:23:49,880 --> 01:23:53,840 Speaker 2: have to leave if you want to grow, I had 1542 01:23:53,840 --> 01:23:56,840 Speaker 2: to leave Cleveland to go become who I am. You 1543 01:23:56,920 --> 01:23:59,000 Speaker 2: may have to leave your city. You may have to 1544 01:23:59,080 --> 01:24:02,439 Speaker 2: leave your situation. You may have to leave your town, 1545 01:24:02,680 --> 01:24:06,120 Speaker 2: your job, you may have to leave a relationship. But 1546 01:24:06,160 --> 01:24:08,280 Speaker 2: you're gonna have to leave something if you want to grow, 1547 01:24:09,160 --> 01:24:11,519 Speaker 2: you ain't gonna grow and hold on everything you got. 1548 01:24:11,680 --> 01:24:14,080 Speaker 2: That's not how it works. Those are my closing remarks. 1549 01:24:14,120 --> 01:24:18,400 Speaker 2: Think about it, make a move, Make a move, y'all. 1550 01:24:18,439 --> 01:24:20,639 Speaker 2: Have a great day. Talk to God all right, Peace. 1551 01:24:31,200 --> 01:24:31,519 Speaker 3: For all. 1552 01:24:31,560 --> 01:24:35,280 Speaker 10: Steve Harvey contests no purchase necessary, void were prohibited. Participants 1553 01:24:35,320 --> 01:24:38,240 Speaker 10: must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1554 01:24:38,360 --> 01:24:42,160 Speaker 10: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey 1555 01:24:42,320 --> 01:24:43,400 Speaker 10: FM dot com. 1556 01:24:43,560 --> 01:24:46,280 Speaker 4: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show