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Speaker 1: Who baby, my baby, I need you, Oh, I need you.

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Speaker 1: What to Expect is a production of I Heart Radio.

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Speaker 1: I'm your host Heidi Mrko, and I'm a mom on

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Speaker 1: a mission, a mission to help you know what to

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Speaker 1: expect every step of the way. It's one of the

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Speaker 1: most momentous and messy milestones of the first year starting solids.

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Speaker 1: But as you think about baby's first bite, you're probably

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Speaker 1: wondering what exactly that first bite should be, not to

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Speaker 1: mention exactly when and how you should be serving it out.

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Speaker 1: And today we're dishing up everything you need to know

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Speaker 1: about introducing solids. Emma's here with me. Hey, Emma, Hey,

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Speaker 1: this is so exciting for me because this is such

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Speaker 1: a great stage, because this is when I can literally

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Speaker 1: eat off my kid's plate like it begins, it begins.

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Speaker 1: So all the scraps that are left over, yea, all

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Speaker 1: of them. So that's good. But do you remember the

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Speaker 1: first time that I gave you solids? Come on, you

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Speaker 1: must remember, yeah, no, of course not. Back in the day,

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Speaker 1: it wasn't really a choice of what you were going

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Speaker 1: to give baby for first solids, because it was going

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Speaker 1: to be right cereal every time, and it was those

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Speaker 1: white flakes that absolutely have no taste or texture, and

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Speaker 1: you dissolve them in breast milk or formula and then

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Speaker 1: make them into this gross white soupy stuff. And I

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Speaker 1: put it on a spoon and it went in your

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Speaker 1: mouth and then most of it came right back out

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Speaker 1: of your mouth. And we did capture it on video

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Speaker 1: because Dad Eric had the cam quarter handy. Yes, and

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Speaker 1: it was super cute. But I think we introduced right

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Speaker 1: cereal first with Wyatt too, but I'm not exactly sure.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to remember what you started lennox on. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: I don't remember anything on that, mom, Like, I didn't

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Speaker 1: write anything down. Well, I know it wasn't right Cyril,

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Speaker 1: because we had moved on from that. It was probably

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Speaker 1: a vegetable perium thing. Was probably like a packet. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because he loved he absolutely loved I remember, um was

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Speaker 1: it a Plumber organic pet? I loved them too, And

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Speaker 1: he loved the purple carrot one. Yeah, he liked the

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Speaker 1: purple carrot. There was also one that tastes like Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 1: I think it was like cinnamon something. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It was so good. Yeah, I loved it. Maybe you

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Speaker 1: mean I remember him eating whole milk yogurt. I remember

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Speaker 1: one time we were at a video shoot. You had

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Speaker 1: table and there and there's a there's a bowl of

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Speaker 1: cream cheese and he just like dove headfirst into it

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Speaker 1: a lot of dream cheese. It was crazy, Um, how

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Speaker 1: did you start with Sebby? So we were on our

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Speaker 1: way to Lebanon to baptize Sebby and arrived at Heathrow

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Speaker 1: and it was just one of those like hey, just

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Speaker 1: try food. So we gave him a banana. He was

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Speaker 1: not about that life. He's like, what is this? That changed? Yes,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, I was actually expecting him to be way

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Speaker 1: more into it and that whole trip, like he participated

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Speaker 1: in like Lebanese spices and stuff like baby food, and

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Speaker 1: he wasn't. He hated it. He hated any sort of

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Speaker 1: baby food. Lennox loved a good pouch. Sevy was not

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Speaker 1: on board, which is I, boy, have those roles reverse.

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Speaker 1: So let's take a quick break and when we come back.

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Speaker 1: I'm answering the biggest questions you have about starting solids? Okay, mom,

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Speaker 1: so let's break down the biggest questions our listeners have

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Speaker 1: about starting those solids. How do you really know that

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Speaker 1: your baby is ready to start solids? I know that

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Speaker 1: things are obviously different with every baby, but what's like

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Speaker 1: the average age range? And when should we have that

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Speaker 1: do this? Should we do this? So most pediatricians give

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Speaker 1: the official green light, that's the a P recommendation at

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Speaker 1: six months, but don't wait, don't wait to have the conversation,

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Speaker 1: have it at the four months check up, because that

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Speaker 1: way you can ask all your questions and you can

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Speaker 1: be prepared. Some pediutricians will give you the go ahead

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Speaker 1: just a little bit earlier. Definitely not before four months.

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Speaker 1: But if a baby is absolutely chomp at the bit,

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Speaker 1: if she's showing signs of readiness, and there's a whole

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Speaker 1: long list of signs of readiness, but the highlights are

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Speaker 1: The other thing is some babies start taking an interest

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Speaker 1: that might mean that they're eyeing every bite you take

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Speaker 1: or they're grabbing at your spoon. Would you guys, actually,

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Speaker 1: sometimes trigger allergies. But it's also a matter of digestive readiness,

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Speaker 1: because a baby who's too young doesn't have the enzymes

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Speaker 1: from breast milk or formula. Now, on the other hand,

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Speaker 1: waiting too long the downside isn't necessarily about them needing

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Speaker 1: it's way harder, you know, to teach an older baby

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Speaker 1: you know, they're stubborn. Yeah, they're used to their liquids

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Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, you're you're putting something

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Speaker 1: in your hands. I feel like there are so many

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Speaker 1: unknowns and variables in the situation. What are the best

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Speaker 1: what is right for your baby? Well, like I said,

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Speaker 1: not right cereal, that's not recommended anymore. That was always

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Speaker 1: It has iron, but babies can get that important iron

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Speaker 1: It's not like the world is literally their oyster at first.

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Speaker 1: You wouldn't want to start with a plate of oysters,

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Speaker 1: but there are so many other foods that you can

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Speaker 1: start with. Veggies are favorite, like harrots, or sweet potatoes

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Speaker 1: or squash, those are all sweet veggies. Avocado that is

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Speaker 1: actually one of the best, very best first baby foods.

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Speaker 1: Most babies love it and if it's a ripe avocado.

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Speaker 1: It's the perfect texture fruit like mango or banana or watermelon.

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Speaker 1: I mean, the common wisdom is to start first with

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Speaker 1: even start with whole milk yogurt. Lennox loved whole milk yogurt.

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Speaker 1: Sebby loves scrambled egg, which is perfectly fine. First food,

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Speaker 1: whole grain cereal. If you're gonna do cereal, choose one

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Speaker 1: that's whole grain, not that refined very cereal. But really,

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Speaker 1: the best person to ask is not me, it's your pediatrician.

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Speaker 1: So that's why you should ask at the four months

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Speaker 1: with first? I did that. You know it's gonna get messy.

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Speaker 1: So my personal best advice is to get that camera ready.

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Speaker 1: You're not gonna want to miss that moment to look

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Speaker 1: back on. That's a Kodak moment. I'm dating myself. But

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Speaker 1: is there a right way to start introducing solids with

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Speaker 1: how you feed it to them. I want my kids

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Speaker 1: to feel like he's at a Michelin star meal his

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Speaker 1: first bite. You know, I really want to go in

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Speaker 1: with a bang. I know, you with a white napkins

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Speaker 1: and tablecloth. Yeah, yeah, you definitely have that right on

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Speaker 1: the messy part, because if it's not messy, you're you're

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Speaker 1: definitely doing something wrong. So skip the white tablecloth unless

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Speaker 1: you really like washing them. Let's set some basic ground

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Speaker 1: roles for starting solids. You want to start in a highchair,

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Speaker 1: not only because it's the safest place to feed baby salids,

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Speaker 1: but because it's a really good habit to get into,

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Speaker 1: not in your lab not n CARSI and ultimately not

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Speaker 1: when they're crawling around or running around. Emma guilty. And

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Speaker 1: of course you you definitely want to dress them for

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Speaker 1: the mess dress for mess um, which means either a

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Speaker 1: diaper or a diaper in a bib. And I say

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Speaker 1: advantage bib only for the fact that is a good

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Speaker 1: don't you think, yes, yes, yes, And then it definitely

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Speaker 1: helps to put a splat mat under did you use

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Speaker 1: the splat Matt. Yes, I still have it for Stubby.

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Speaker 1: He can't eat without spilling, and he's well either swat

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Speaker 1: Matt or a dog. Yeah, well I never had a dog,

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Speaker 1: then slow and slower wins the race, Um, you should

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Speaker 1: this enough. No pushing, no prodding. How much or how

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Speaker 1: little your baby eats should always be his business. And

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Speaker 1: also no projecting, like if you hate avocado, that doesn't

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Speaker 1: you have a sweet tooth doesn't mean your baby will

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Speaker 1: want everything sweet either. And as for the Michelin star,

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Speaker 1: I say baby steps. The potential is there to raise

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Speaker 1: Lennox who knows. So to me that sounds really time consuming.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's because I have two kids, So is it

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Speaker 1: really better to make your own baby food? Lint? I

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Speaker 1: would never call myself lazy, but I never ever once

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Speaker 1: if you want to go for it, if you're feeling motivated,

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Speaker 1: and it can be as easy as pureing an avocado,

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Speaker 1: be looking for recipes online, and that's fine. You can

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Speaker 1: make big batches, you can freeze them in ice cube

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Speaker 1: trays so that you have individual servings, but don't feel

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Speaker 1: any pressure to do it. You have enough to do,

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Speaker 1: and it's not necessarily more nutritious to make your own

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Speaker 1: it up yourself is more nutritious than buying frozen um

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Speaker 1: and in fact, most baby foods are super nutritious. When

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Speaker 1: there are so many healthy options. You can buy pouches

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Speaker 1: the salt and the sugar and the added fat because

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Speaker 1: your baby doesn't need that. You can also sabotage their

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Speaker 1: Sebby loves garlic right now, it's ironic. No, you don't

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Speaker 1: love garlic, but spices, whether it's cinnamon, garlic, curry, some

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Speaker 1: babies absolutely love that and there's no reason not to

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Speaker 1: give it to them. Sebby loves garlic because his dad

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Speaker 1: the flavor learning does begin in utero, but clearly it

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