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Speaker 1: What's up its lip Service? I'm angela yee Geordie, George.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure, go.

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Speaker 3: All right and listen. We're gonna have some fun today

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Speaker 3: talking about some things. So first off, len Avan, I

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Speaker 3: want to say congratulations to you.

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Speaker 1: She looked at me.

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Speaker 3: She's got a new show on the People's Brief that

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Speaker 3: you guys can check out. The conversations will be a

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Speaker 3: little bit different today, but you got you got this.

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Speaker 3: I'm cool, Okay, good. I'm not just a political talking

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Speaker 3: here everybody. I'm just a girl.

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Speaker 1: Listen. And I did see one one.

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Speaker 3: Video that you had about having like a respectful breakup,

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Speaker 3: like breaking up and just being like still that peace. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: at peace, which we'll talk about in a second, because

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Speaker 3: it is that possible. Sugar's here and Christopher Martin's here.

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Speaker 3: You guys also are performing in New York, and I've

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Speaker 3: seen you both on stage together quite a bit as

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Speaker 3: of late, so we'll start with you. So you've been

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Speaker 3: here before, yes, on lip Service. But that was a

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Speaker 3: long time ago.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 3: It was anears ago, so we're glad to have you back.

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Speaker 3: It was more than that, No, maybe, no, definitely was

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Speaker 3: more than that was because that was the pandemic a couple.

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Speaker 5: Of years ago.

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Speaker 4: It's longer than two years.

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Speaker 3: And I actually said I was in Jamaica during the

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Speaker 3: pandemic and that was it. I had to go there

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Speaker 3: to do something at UI and so we all had

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Speaker 3: a chance to hang out.

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Speaker 1: That was a wild time.

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Speaker 4: That was a great time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I do recall, Yes, we have fun.

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Speaker 3: But but you have a new song out right now

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Speaker 3: that everybody has been talking about. Some IMNA call it

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Speaker 3: quote unquote controversial. Okay, tell us about it, please.

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Speaker 1: Rightly. Preparing myself, it was.

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Speaker 4: The name of the song is wife and Sweetheart.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, sooner your wife be your sweetheart?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely, she could be both. That's a good way

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Speaker 4: of interpreting the song. A lot of a lot of people,

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Speaker 4: A lot of people interpret the song right off the bat.

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Speaker 4: That was me saying I want one wife and I

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Speaker 4: want a sweetheart, which are two different people. But I

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Speaker 4: love your interpretation of it right off the bat. My

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Speaker 4: wife is my sweetheart as well.

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Speaker 1: So HOWD and three are y'all going out together?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: Because the music'all.

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Speaker 4: Personalities. Yeah, but at the of the D is still

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Speaker 4: it's mixed reactions mm hmm. But Everybody loves it. They

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Speaker 4: love the melody of it. Some people say that the

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Speaker 4: content of it is what, Yeah, he's driving.

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Speaker 3: You know those songs when you're young and you don't

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Speaker 3: know what you're singing. You like that.

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Speaker 1: But I love it.

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Speaker 4: I love it, man, And they sing along to it,

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Speaker 4: like everywhere I go up and I perform it. They

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Speaker 4: love it. But you know, it's like they just have

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Speaker 4: to say, why would you sing this song? I'm like,

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Speaker 4: I'm singing it because you're singing it. You love it,

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Speaker 4: and that's the reason I'm sing it. I'm a musician,

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Speaker 4: you know. I mean, I'm an entertainer entertained.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever been in a situation like that or

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Speaker 1: what was the inspiration?

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Speaker 3: Inspiration is whenever someone does this like here gesture you

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Speaker 3: guys like language.

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Speaker 4: It's like a lot of men think about it. A

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Speaker 4: lot of guys think about it, and some guys are

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Speaker 4: not really Western minded. Some of them are of the

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Speaker 4: Eastern kind of thinking, like Africa and all of those

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Speaker 4: places where it is not prohibited it is welcomed, understand,

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Speaker 4: but also over here on the western side. Seat that's

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Speaker 4: something double when it really is if if if people

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Speaker 4: want to be open and honest, and this is what

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Speaker 4: they want to do that. I think it's fine, understand

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Speaker 4: and both ways, right, sugar, I think it should go

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Speaker 4: both ways. I don't.

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Speaker 5: I don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't feel like you should be a double standard progressive. No, understand,

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Speaker 4: if they can, if they can handle it, then they

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Speaker 4: can do that. But women are our most soul creatures

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Speaker 4: than men. You know, you all are more emotional.

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Speaker 6: So do you have the conversation like how how would

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Speaker 6: you broach that topic with with your wife?

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Speaker 4: Play the song first, you know, and listen, listen to

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Speaker 4: this song.

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Speaker 1: And if you like it, we can talk about it.

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Speaker 4: You know, you could. You could just play the song

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Speaker 4: and this and then the song is like the icebreaker,

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Speaker 4: and then you can have a discussion about like what

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Speaker 4: is he saying? What do you think about that?

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Speaker 1: You know you responded to this song?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, so tell me what happened like behind

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Speaker 3: the scenes for you to say, I gotta say something.

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Speaker 7: Well, he just said women are emotional, definitely, And so

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Speaker 7: I have this thought like, if you believe we are

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Speaker 1: Have a sweetheart m double emotions?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're killing us. It's vibes.

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Speaker 7: And so if if I did the flip to what

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Speaker 7: he did, Like, what if.

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Speaker 2: I want you and my sadman to be friends. It's

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Speaker 2: a question. I know men can't handle it.

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Speaker 5: They get about that because the comment about women being emotional,

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Speaker 5: I don't know. Men tend to act very recklessly out

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Speaker 5: of their emotion all the time about women.

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Speaker 3: When people don't get whenever something happens.

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Speaker 4: What I meant by emotional, I was I was saying

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Speaker 4: for you to have like two partners, or you have

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Speaker 4: to be You're not like that. I don't think women

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Speaker 4: are built like that.

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Speaker 1: We can only love one person.

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Speaker 4: No, I don't feel like you only love one person.

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Speaker 4: But for argument's sake, Like a man could go to

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Speaker 4: the club and he meets up sexy women, he's attracted

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Speaker 4: to her. He could do the act and it's like nothing,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean. He gets up the next

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Speaker 4: day and he leaves and it's nothing to me. I

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Speaker 4: feel like a woman has to feel like invested in

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Speaker 4: some way to go all the way with a man,

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Speaker 4: regardless of whether she finds him attractive or not, you

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Speaker 7: I just feel like, or maybe it's just the idea

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Speaker 7: of society that makes us believe we should feel that way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe we just.

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Speaker 3: Don't say nothing because y'all go back, and maybe we

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you see all the time we admire and hey.

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Speaker 4: I feel like you could see him and you feel

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Speaker 4: like he's attractive. On in your check frien.

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Speaker 5: I want to say, like you said it too, like

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Speaker 5: we are in the West, and the West has a

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Speaker 5: very particular way about rearing women. However, over time, women's

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Speaker 5: women these days who can meet a fine man in

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Speaker 5: the bar and do the act and move on by

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Speaker 5: their business. Don't. So I'm just saying, like you gotta

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Speaker 5: it's not my cup of tea. I would like my

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Speaker 5: man to be my man. But I also think if

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Speaker 5: you have the conversation, there are plenty of women who

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Speaker 5: are embracing different types of relationships. My nailtick was just

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Speaker 5: putting me on to her boyfriend and her boyfriend as

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Speaker 5: a girlfriend, and how they all got it going on.

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Speaker 4: And everybody's happy.

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Speaker 3: And everybody asked Jordan because she's single and she has

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Speaker 3: no she's got a roster or did did.

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Speaker 1: It was last?

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Speaker 3: I asked her, I said, would you would you want

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Speaker 3: to have like a man and a side piece? And

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Speaker 3: she said yeah, but she just wouldn't want them to

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Speaker 3: be together, like go out together. She would be because

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Speaker 3: it's kind of like Spike Lee. She's got to have

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Speaker 3: it that movie in a way with Nola. And then

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Speaker 3: she had three boyfriends and they all knew about each other,

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Speaker 3: ran into each other, they were kind of emotional.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't want to be one big, happy family.

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Speaker 6: I just want to have those different parts of my

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Speaker 6: life separate. And our time is our time. We don't

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Speaker 6: need a joint time. We don't need a family Sunday dinner.

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Speaker 6: I'm not trying to do all that. And that's good too,

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Speaker 6: that's good, you know, of course, sugar.

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Speaker 3: But okay, financially, what does a man have to bring

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Speaker 3: to the table though, to be able to maintain something

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Speaker 3: like that.

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Speaker 7: Well, there's a saying that goes threesome is a rich

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Speaker 7: man's game, and so for a man to want that

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Speaker 7: type of lifestyle.

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Speaker 1: You see that Marrye, you see that Louis.

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Speaker 4: Well too. Honestly, if I'm to be very honest, I

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Speaker 4: didn't one of those topics in the song. I never

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Speaker 4: said anything about three in the song. That's an interpretation, yeah,

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Speaker 4: but I.

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Speaker 2: Just that's my interpretation. And I'm sure other.

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Speaker 7: People see the because because I never mentioned that when

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Speaker 7: I'm beating least time, take my time. But you said

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Speaker 7: the chair, we are part right and everything is all right?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the coldly, I forget about it.

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Speaker 4: It would be nice, It would be nice, nice, the three. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And then I said, heard that, don't you know? The

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Speaker 4: standards double that's you know what I mean, That's all

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Speaker 2: It's not that beaten, but there theyn't want.

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Speaker 4: To hear what they want to hear, and that's perfectly.

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Speaker 4: So that's the good thing about entertainment. You understand. You

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Speaker 4: put that body out coat here and you are lower

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Speaker 4: the masses to have fun with.

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Speaker 3: What are your thoughts in real life about three sims threesomes?

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Speaker 2: She I married.

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Speaker 4: I'm I think I feel like every man has that

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Speaker 4: in either the back of their mind or the side

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Speaker 4: or the front of their mind. They would want to.

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Speaker 3: Sa your home mind basically every.

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Speaker 4: I feel like every man would want to experience that

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Speaker 4: kind of vibe. Hmm, yeah, I feel like it's on

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Speaker 4: almost every man's booky list.

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Speaker 1: Ladies, how do you feel about three SIS.

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Speaker 2: Takes before?

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Speaker 1: And I'm good.

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Speaker 2: I'm good.

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Speaker 5: I think I'm good as well. Yeah, especially where I'm

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Speaker 5: at right now. My man is my man is my

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Speaker 5: man on Thursday, Friday, today, Monday through Wednesday as well,

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Speaker 5: not just the weekend, just the weekend.

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Speaker 2: I'm cool.

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Speaker 5: M M, I'm cool.

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Speaker 2: I'm not really down for all of that.

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Speaker 7: I'm too jealous to to see something like that.

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Speaker 8: But if they both were on you though, that's something painful,

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Speaker 8: no painful for.

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Speaker 4: A sitting A three some three something is not like

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Speaker 4: two dudes and a girl. It could never be that.

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Speaker 4: It's like what I mean, I mean, it's not for

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Speaker 4: for like, well, I am Jamaica and I'm speaking for

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Speaker 4: my island. I don't feel like well, I feel like

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Speaker 4: it's still it's not just because it's three people. Why

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Speaker 4: it's a threesome. I feel like threesome for a man.

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Speaker 4: He's a man and two women the defastandard.

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Speaker 7: But they have a different name for it when it's man,

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Speaker 7: when when its train they call it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they call it that sounds violent.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, well it's it's the same thing.

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Speaker 3: It makes it sound violent if it's not that sounds.

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Speaker 4: Is very for me, like it doesn't sound that harsh. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Do you think that a lot of stuff happens but

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Speaker 1: This, you can't do that. It be happening.

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Speaker 2: It's happening.

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Speaker 4: No, the isn't there for them say right, I'm not

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Speaker 3: But y see, it's like a lot of things that

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, a lot of things.

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Speaker 3: But everybody's still doing it but no one's talking about it.

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Speaker 7: But it makes them enjoy it even the better because

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Speaker 2: From about this blam blam, and they know they're doing it.

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Speaker 1: But I mean, like we all know. Someone commented and

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Speaker 1: asked what came first? The cheaters prayer or my my

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Speaker 4: Definitely didn't work.

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Speaker 1: That period didn't work. Have you you been caught cheating? Though?

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Speaker 1: Never really because.

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Speaker 4: You don't cheat.

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Speaker 5: Cheat Jamaican man don't do it lot of things.

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Speaker 4: Do you see? It was a funny thing that it's

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Speaker 4: a Jimmy cheat. We give the nutritions bon you know

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Speaker 4: you're familiar with bon, right, you never heard the term bun? Unfortunately.

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Speaker 5: I'm just I was gonna say an American black, but.

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Speaker 4: Sugar, sugar?

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Speaker 2: Can you it's the same thing like.

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Speaker 7: But like, like I said, we'll call different the same

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, have you ever been cheated on?

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Speaker 4: Sugar?

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Speaker 2: Of course we get.

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Speaker 1: Tell me how did you find out? And how did

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Speaker 3: Because are you like a calm or was it like

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Speaker 2: This which one other time.

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Speaker 7: Guys, there was this bone where this guy he wasn't

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Speaker 7: even all that never nice.

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Speaker 1: They looked always the basic ones.

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Speaker 7: Indeed of this cowboy looking shoes gonna look good. I'm

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Speaker 7: that making him a look nice at you clean them up?

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Speaker 7: This whole time, I didn't know this guy was making

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 2: And he told me it was his sister.

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Speaker 7: And no, with you, that's in love.

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Speaker 4: He didn't love with something.

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Speaker 1: He didn't get that far.

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Speaker 4: Of course, I'm not.

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Speaker 3: I hated a guy and he had a baby mom

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Speaker 3: his brothers. Yeah, my brother does and later on when

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Speaker 3: he got arrested, I found out it was really his Wow.

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Speaker 1: I know, it's crazy.

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Speaker 5: It's a lot of.

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Speaker 1: I was like this is like that's it.

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Speaker 3: And the reason why believing because I was like, nobody's

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Speaker 1: How did you find out that way? Really?

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Speaker 7: I just felt it in my energy. I just felt it,

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Speaker 7: like I just little things. I remember one day I

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Speaker 7: was getting my hair done and I was sitting with

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Speaker 7: there was a pack of skittles. As soon as I

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Speaker 7: of baby the guy wants? I was like everything paused

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Speaker 7: on the skittles just fell on the girl.

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Speaker 7: Just it just it just fell and there was a

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Speaker 4: Was that fool big time?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I say five man shoes, he'll run out on you.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that is.

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Speaker 2: But I'm sure the baby is hungry now.

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Speaker 6: And did she she knows, so she knew she was

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Speaker 5: Yeah, found.

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Speaker 1: That's different.

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Speaker 4: People sugar nen know, but know I just sugar them.

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Speaker 4: Did cry?

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Speaker 5: That was the wife.

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Speaker 4: She was a sweetheart, and everything falling into place.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, if.

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Speaker 4: What I was I have been before. It's awful. What happened,

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Speaker 4: It's crazy, tell us yo, listen, but this one was

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Speaker 4: So listen the how intense it was. I couldn't get

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Speaker 4: went I was like, bossie, this is my girlfriend, and

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Speaker 4: I said, I when I'm a girl, friend, I want

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Speaker 4: and said yeah one boy a night. I won't call the.

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Speaker 1: Name somebody now yeah, yeah, woe boy.

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Speaker 4: One night and I say yeah, and I say yeah,

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Speaker 4: but maybe not instill I don't know. I said, all right.

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Speaker 4: Then color say you were at X place and my

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Speaker 4: I couldn't get her. So our auntie called me and said, yo,

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Speaker 4: to her? She never wont come, so when I went

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Speaker 4: So when she finally come out, with her face black

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Speaker 4: to you? And she tell me this sun in meitar

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Speaker 1: Sinking is.

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Speaker 4: When I went home that evening, I was in the

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Speaker 4: I never feel like I got to get over that pin.

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Speaker 4: It was really really really hurtful.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, No, you forget them bond when you're young. You

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Speaker 5: We up.

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Speaker 4: You forget that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but that kind of reine you later because you

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Speaker 4: Strength me because you understand it's not everybody that is

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Speaker 3: That's when people, when you're young, you have a lot

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Speaker 4: You you forget, you have strengthening on from.

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Speaker 1: Your Oay, what do you think about that?

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I'm still stuck on the fact that somebody

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Speaker 4: That's old man. She was really a good man.

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Speaker 1: So that was the guy that she was. And he

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Speaker 1: about you probably.

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Speaker 4: Now yeh or no, seemingly. I don't know how going on.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if if she telling more mere or

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Speaker 4: she told him that she was single and in final

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Speaker 4: for me, or I don't know how it goes in

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Speaker 4: any event. I never my girl got But.

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Speaker 3: She wasn't even scared to leave him because of that,

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Speaker 3: because maybe he was physical with her, she didn't want

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but you're going on to be very honest with you,

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Speaker 4: it couldn't have been that case because she was everywhere

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Speaker 4: with me, right, Yeah, So it's like it's not even

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Speaker 4: like middle that hider or not. Yeah, she did it everywhere.

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Speaker 1: With me, and at this point he was a big deal.

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Speaker 4: Yeah them my heart just win. She could be Yeah,

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Speaker 4: you couldn't hide. Yeah, yeah, you couldn't hide.

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Speaker 5: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: When the COMPI films all over the like everybody normal face.

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Speaker 4: This is Christopher Martin, I understand. So yeah, and she

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Speaker 4: was with me all the while, so I feel like

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Speaker 4: it was my girl, but it wasn't my.

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Speaker 1: Right did you? So what did you do after that?

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Speaker 1: Did you still talk to her?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 5: Really? Them?

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Speaker 4: Paying the still? Can I really keep in contact with

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Speaker 4: the person? You'll be always reminded of it. Just get

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Speaker 4: tough and over time at those times, can heal them?

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Speaker 4: Kind of paying the still them kind of bonded?

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Speaker 3: Well, we're talking about feeling what it feel so bad? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: because guess what happened.

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Speaker 2: That's that's a very hot one. She gets beat up.

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Speaker 7: And remember the time over yet you know, I'm still

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Speaker 7: you're so in love with full of black and blue

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Speaker 4: Have been for five hour that's a bad water does

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Speaker 4: a beat. I just did it. I'm sop up and

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Speaker 4: then wash off again and so again.

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Speaker 5: I was in the.

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Speaker 3: Most guys going to admit how hurt they get when

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Speaker 4: It was a big deal, man, it was a big deal.

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Speaker 4: Full circle sing.

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Speaker 1: The big deal.

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Speaker 2: But you know what is so cool?

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Speaker 4: You know what cool?

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Speaker 7: It's cool how you you took a shower because someone

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Speaker 7: then fighter bounds up at the be Was it just

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Speaker 7: because she wasn't being strip?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, yeah, no matter what?

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Speaker 4: Right and many yeah, my mind could never even even

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Speaker 4: go to that extent.

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Speaker 3: And now you've ever been now you had a you

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Speaker 3: did this this, I would say, what would you call it?

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00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:23,680
Speaker 3: Not a poem? Song about a poem? Okay, but it's

449
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 3: so like song like yeah, but you talked about basically

450
00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 3: dealing with a breakup and still being cool because some

451
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:34,920
Speaker 3: people would say I can't be cool with somebody or

452
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 3: or respectfully breaking up with somebody.

453
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:38,919
Speaker 5: Yeah, where was that?

454
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 3: Where did that come from?

455
00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:45,360
Speaker 4: God? Jesus, Jesus, Sorry Jesus, like.

456
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:55,199
Speaker 5: Sorry, Jesus, Like no, I was just I was in

457
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:58,600
Speaker 5: a relationship for eight years and it just wasn't serving

458
00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 5: me anymore and it was actually like really weighing me

459
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 5: down pretty heavy in so many different ways. He wasn't

460
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:06,639
Speaker 5: putting his hands on me, he wasn't cheating on me,

461
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:11,560
Speaker 5: but he just also we weren't compatible. I was paying

462
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:15,639
Speaker 5: for everything, and I was being made to feel like

463
00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:18,639
Speaker 5: the life that I chose I brought on myself, like

464
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 5: he didn't have to assist in particular ways, and I

465
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:24,440
Speaker 5: was just being gas lit. Once again, sorry to this man,

466
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 5: because he was really good to me when I met him,

467
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:29,199
Speaker 5: But it's one of those things where you realize you're

468
00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 5: only supposed to be with a person for a season,

469
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:32,960
Speaker 5: that they're brought into your life for a reason and

470
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:37,400
Speaker 5: not necessarily to stay. So good person, just not good

471
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:37,679
Speaker 5: for me.

472
00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:39,200
Speaker 1: Linda, what did you learn from that?

473
00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:41,680
Speaker 3: Because I want to say, also, when things like that happen,

474
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 3: you also are like, never again am I doing X,

475
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 3: Y and Z.

476
00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:50,879
Speaker 5: I won't be paying for everything now because.

477
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:54,480
Speaker 3: Like, because that happens to a lot of women. We've

478
00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 3: you know, I've been in that situation where I feel

479
00:24:56,600 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 3: like I'm like, why am I doing everything and carrying it?

480
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:03,399
Speaker 3: And you're not ambitious enough to handle it and I

481
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:06,320
Speaker 3: can't rely on you if something happens. But people look

482
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:09,560
Speaker 3: at women like if finance is a part of what

483
00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:12,199
Speaker 3: it is that you need, they look at that like

484
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 3: it's a bad thing.

485
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 1: But you when you've been through some shit. It's like,

486
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that again.

487
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I just upset very specific boundaries. The person

488
00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:23,679
Speaker 5: that i'm the person that'll be my person has to

489
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 5: have his own dreams, goals. He's got to be financially stable,

490
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 5: diversified portfolios. He's got to have the attitude that I

491
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 5: don't have to ask him for nothing, that me and

492
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:34,439
Speaker 5: his future kids won't got to ask him for nothing.

493
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 5: The house that I want is not a problem, and

494
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 5: I don't need. The thing is, I've never need a

495
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 5: person to take care of me, and I think that's

496
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 5: how I got stuck in a situation that I was

497
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 5: in because I was never raised to want a man

498
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 5: for money, and I also was raised to believe that

499
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:49,639
Speaker 5: what I want to do with my life, I was

500
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,360
Speaker 5: going to be able to take care of myself too.

501
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 5: But I ended up setting a very low standard for

502
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 5: how I needed, how I needed partnership to exist in

503
00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 5: my life so I didn't have to carry everything by myself.

504
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:02,399
Speaker 5: What I learned about me is I'm not meant to

505
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 5: be the breadwinner. I'm not meant to be the provider

506
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 5: for the family. I am meant to be supported so

507
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:12,679
Speaker 5: I can do the work that I'm supposed to do. Yeah,

508
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,199
Speaker 5: So I don't know, I don't care how that sounds

509
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 5: with whoever it's supposed to be for me, that's not

510
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:17,359
Speaker 5: gonna be a problem for him. Yeah.

511
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:21,920
Speaker 6: I feel like people, also with women in particular, it's

512
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 6: like if they're not cheating, if they're not doing anything

513
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:28,359
Speaker 6: wrong per se, it's like that should be good enough,

514
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 6: you know what I mean. I feel like that's put

515
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,760
Speaker 6: upon us by a society. It's not just us thinking

516
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 6: the bars that low. It's like that's really what people

517
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:39,080
Speaker 6: put on us. We got to be right whatever, and

518
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:40,639
Speaker 6: they're like, oh, well you've got a good minute home.

519
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 6: It's like okay, you're with him shooting in the gym, right,

520
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:47,000
Speaker 6: And so it's like we're shame for wanting more than

521
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 6: just get Yeah, and I think God should want that too,

522
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 6: Like I don't think man should want a woman that

523
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 6: they got to handle everything, take care of everything, be

524
00:26:56,640 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 6: like you know, I think I always feel like relashis

525
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,679
Speaker 6: ships everybody got to bring like their whole self and

526
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 6: be able to handle things and then doing it together.

527
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,880
Speaker 1: It's just the bonus. Yeah, Yeah, that's how I look

528
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:08,159
Speaker 1: at it.

529
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:10,119
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I said that too, well, it's in a

530
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 5: piece that's coming. But just thinking about the whole concept

531
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 5: with fifty fifty, I don't fifty fifty that's and I

532
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 5: want two hundred. I want a whole person to match

533
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 5: my whole person, and we vibe and figure it out

534
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 5: from there, like I don't need any correct correct as

535
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:32,520
Speaker 5: far as the.

536
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 1: Right, I got these vibes. What do you think about that, Sugar?

537
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 7: Of course it works because I mean for me, I

538
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:43,400
Speaker 7: would like to buy my man a car.

539
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:46,880
Speaker 2: He would buy a car for me, you know anything.

540
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:49,439
Speaker 7: I want to match his energy, right, you know, And

541
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:54,120
Speaker 7: that's why I work so hard because he has been

542
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 7: the backbone of my family and just me what of

543
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:03,639
Speaker 7: where I can't provide, He's there are and I would

544
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 7: like to be that for.

545
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:07,120
Speaker 2: Him one day. So I'm listening to you and I'm like, yo,

546
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:08,440
Speaker 2: that's what I want.

547
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,639
Speaker 3: How hard is it doing music? And he got like

548
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 3: seeing you you know with fans.

549
00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 7: He's good, he's school, he's cool because he knows he

550
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:18,919
Speaker 7: knows me.

551
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:21,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's not.

552
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:29,880
Speaker 4: Virtual solid still really he's cool, really worrible.

553
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 1: You know, Christy, You've done like a lot of songs

554
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 1: about Yeah, it's just how does but your good friends

555
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 1: with Romaine Virgo and he's such a great like husband

556
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 1: and family.

557
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 5: Man.

558
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 1: They got a YouTube. Does he brought on you? Are

559
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 1: you like?

560
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 4: No, You're every every everybody has their own path, you know, Yeah,

561
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 4: for sure, everybody. Every everyone has their own path. You understand.

562
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 4: Not because I don't show that side of my life

563
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 4: doesn't mean that that's not how I am. Okay, I

564
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 4: understand you definitely, man, Not because not because I I

565
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 4: sing those songs meaning that that's my mindset. Because not

566
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 4: all my songs are reflection of my life. I understand. Yeah,

567
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 4: some of the songs. I'm just a very good storyteller. Yeah,

568
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 4: And I know that the masses would like this kind

569
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 4: of idea that I've conjured up in my mind, and

570
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 4: that's what it is, that you.

571
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 1: Have a wife and a sweetheart, would.

572
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 4: You I don't think so. No, I don't think so.

573
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 4: I don't think I don't I don't think I can

574
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 4: manage that, just say I wish. Yeah, But it's nice

575
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 4: to sing about to.

576
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 1: Think about it.

577
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 4: It's nice to sing about it and to hear the

578
00:29:57,680 --> 00:29:59,719
Speaker 4: reactions from the different people.

579
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 5: I think that people could benefit though from you saying,

580
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 5: like what your ideal thing is too because I think

581
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:08,520
Speaker 5: we have a not to say, not to say we

582
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 5: shouldn't have any of it, but I think we have

583
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 5: excess of these ideals that create for unhealthy situations that

584
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 5: people who want to be like you emulate in ways,

585
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 5: and they don't have they don't have the tools, they

586
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 5: don't have the communication skills to actually set up safe

587
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 5: environments for these things to exist. So I'm just saying

588
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 5: I think, particularly with men, I think the black community

589
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 5: benefits from them saying like what they really want, not

590
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 5: what people think they should have. So you know, a

591
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 5: little bit of both.

592
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 4: And that's why I do, and that's why I do

593
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 4: a little bit double. So yeah, so I can see

594
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 4: her and I can say, yeah, I do sing songs

595
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 4: about this, but I also sing songs about the faith

596
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 4: and loving yourself and yeah, of course God is the

597
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 4: same time a life that will change.

598
00:30:54,440 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 7: It's realistic and people can relate to because there are

599
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 7: people out there who actually feel like this.

600
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 2: I wish they could live this type of life. There

601
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 2: are there are people out there.

602
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 7: I understand what you're saying about, you know, putting things

603
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 7: out there that that can actually help to.

604
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 2: Grow the nation. But we do that. Music is also entertainment.

605
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 2: Had a little bit of that.

606
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 7: I want a little bit of laugh time, have danced

607
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 7: sometimes and sometimes.

608
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 2: We go.

609
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 1: Beautiful.

610
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 5: Naturally, that makes sense. I guess I think a lot

611
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 5: because I have to sort through a lot of what's

612
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 5: on the internet where people talk about.

613
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 7: Because music is a great tool, and it's a great tool.

614
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 7: I haven't been to so many places across the world.

615
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 7: And Christopher Martin was in was it Belly's last weekend,

616
00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 7: And when he got off the stage, he said, people

617
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 7: were asking, like, where is the girl?

618
00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've never been to belly.

619
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 7: Music is reach into you know, different colors on the earth,

620
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 7: And so I understand what you're saying.

621
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 2: It's a great tool.

622
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 4: It is.

623
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 3: And I think also women in reggae and dance hall

624
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 3: so powerful with the way that they're able to like

625
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 3: express their sexuality and have fun with it too. You know,

626
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:21,960
Speaker 3: that's a real thing because sometimes people, especially I think

627
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 3: women get shamed for things way more surely, you know,

628
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:29,200
Speaker 3: especially because we've been talking about these double standards so much.

629
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:31,960
Speaker 3: And the truth yeah, and the truth is that like

630
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 3: you know, even like people will act like women can't

631
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 3: date multiple guys at the time.

632
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 1: But if you're not in a relationship.

633
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 4: Why notationship you wanted. But but that's just as I'm saying,

634
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 4: that's just yeah. No, this side of the world knows

635
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 4: it's super judgmental. And then people's mindset is super judgment

636
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 4: because in Jamiica, like a man can have ten girlfriends month.

637
00:32:56,800 --> 00:33:00,080
Speaker 4: I might say, oh, you're to feu yo, yeah, I

638
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 4: love that, and then you know, you have a girl

639
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:07,560
Speaker 4: if she if she have two men, yeah, shadow, yeah, yeah, yeah,

640
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 4: I understand. And you know, I don't really subscribe to

641
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 4: what is popular in society or whatever. I just live

642
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 4: my life. I feel like I want to live my life,

643
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 4: you know, I mean, I make myself because at the

644
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:21,080
Speaker 4: end of the day, do good, they're going to talk

645
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 4: you do bad, You're going to talk anyway to me, understand.

646
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 4: And while I'm doing me, I'm I'll be doing things

647
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 4: that I'm proud of and what makes me happy, understand.

648
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 4: And I feel like if a woman wants to do

649
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 4: that and that makes her feel good in herself, then.

650
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 5: She do a thing.

651
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 4: I can't do it.

652
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 7: I can't do it, and that's honestly, I couldn't like

653
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 7: one at that time.

654
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 5: If you want to do.

655
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 1: But how do you know?

656
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 3: Because here's my thing, Like I see people get caught

657
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 3: up where they're not in a relationship but they're dating

658
00:33:57,280 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 3: and they don't have any other actions because you're dating

659
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 3: one person and that and sometimes that's not like the

660
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 3: most beneficient.

661
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,799
Speaker 7: Dating is different because if you really breaking though, when

662
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:13,399
Speaker 7: you're when you're when you're dating. I don't I don't

663
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:19,439
Speaker 7: believe people should have sex or should be intimate hard hard.

664
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 2: You feel like it's getting to know you kind of fears.

665
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 4: Getting you know, getting to know.

666
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 1: It's true. What if I body like you, but the

667
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: sex is terrible?

668
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 2: Does someone problem? I believe that because once that is terrible.

669
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:43,600
Speaker 3: But at that point you really like somebody, you got

670
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 3: to yeah, and then it's a pencil.

671
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 7: Like you said, I believe in test driving, you're gonna

672
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:50,400
Speaker 7: be sad forever.

673
00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 4: I believe in I believe.

674
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 6: I believe in test driving. I feel like it's experience,

675
00:34:57,040 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 6: not with everybody. You know, that's that's exclusively for the

676
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 6: guy that you were for me, for the guy that

677
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,840
Speaker 6: you really are feeling and you're like, Okay, are we

678
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 6: gonna take this to the next level or not? I

679
00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:10,400
Speaker 6: feel like that would be the time, and I'm like, okay,

680
00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 6: we might have a little sleepover, right, you know, okay.

681
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:14,719
Speaker 1: But I don't think it's like date number three.

682
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:16,759
Speaker 7: It has to get there, right, It has to get

683
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 7: at some point? Can I just keep dating and keep

684
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 7: not doing it responsible?

685
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 5: Yeah?

686
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 1: You want to responsible.

687
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:26,799
Speaker 5: Capital of the world.

688
00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 1: What makes his protection for women?

689
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 5: It's got to be smart.

690
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 4: What makes you feel good only wake the next day?

691
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 4: You won't have no regrets.

692
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 1: Wearing his sex in a relationship to you very much?

693
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:46,280
Speaker 5: I mean compatibility in that is just like I mean, yeah, Jesus.

694
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 1: Have you ever stayed too long because the sex was

695
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 1: so good? No, like eight years.

696
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 5: I'm a very cun dry like I things like that

697
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:56,800
Speaker 5: don't blind me. I think more often than not before

698
00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:00,839
Speaker 5: I'm thirty. Now, before thirty, potential could blind me more

699
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 5: than anything. And like wanting to make a thing makes

700
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 5: sense could blind me more than anything. But I'm typically

701
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:10,839
Speaker 5: a good judge of character. And the more you show

702
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 5: me that you're like your character is not where I

703
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 5: needed to be, the uglier you get.

704
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 1: What if the guy said I don't do.

705
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:24,239
Speaker 5: Or I don't do you, that's weird, I won't say

706
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:27,239
Speaker 5: it's not weird. Everybody has. That's not everybody has their

707
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 5: own thing.

708
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 7: But because because for me it's the energy thing. Connect

709
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:41,800
Speaker 7: that because trust me, that's not even necessary. If you

710
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:44,240
Speaker 7: have the right connection, not necessary.

711
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 1: It's really great.

712
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:50,399
Speaker 7: You don't think about it, if you have the right

713
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,320
Speaker 7: connection with that guy.

714
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,400
Speaker 6: But sometimes the vibes, even when you love someone, you're

715
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 6: committed to someone your that's your life partner, there are

716
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 6: times where it's like, I'm not feeling you right now,

717
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 6: but you know what, I could use this head real quick,

718
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 6: you know, Yeah, I don't know dosage.

719
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 7: I don't even have to talk right now at distagreeb

720
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,800
Speaker 7: Tyla Like, if you have the right connection with that

721
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 7: guy's not necessary.

722
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:30,200
Speaker 5: I think I think that if it works for you,

723
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 5: I'm not going to nobody's young. But you asked me,

724
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 5: I mean personally, person I mean it's also an expectation

725
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 5: at least with that women EXPM and if it's something

726
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 5: that women enjoy, I just feel like reciprocation, it's a.

727
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 1: Level of respect that.

728
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 3: Okay, if you so women don't have to do that

729
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:55,719
Speaker 3: for you either, then she doesn't have to.

730
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:58,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you're okay with that? You could be with Yeah, I.

731
00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:01,399
Speaker 4: Could be with who doesn't do that, because that's never

732
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 4: going to happen from me ever.

733
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, yeah never, you know what I mean.

734
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 4: And if I'm the last of a dying breed, then hoorah.

735
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 4: Understand but that will never happen and I and I

736
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 4: won't even second guess it. Like people say, no when

737
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 4: you find that girl that you're really in love with.

738
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 4: I'm in love and it will never happen.

739
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 5: Can I ask why?

740
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:24,880
Speaker 4: I'm like, no, it's just just me. And as I said,

741
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:26,480
Speaker 4: I grew up in.

742
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:28,400
Speaker 5: Germany and I was gonna say that too.

743
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 4: But I don't. I don't want to like put it

744
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 4: that is just because I was born in Jamaica. Why

745
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:35,879
Speaker 4: because you have enough man with that Jamaica said I did.

746
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 4: I understand it's not as taboo in Jamaic, I know

747
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:42,360
Speaker 4: as it once was. I mean maybe they're more liberal

748
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 4: right now than open minded. For me personally, I just

749
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:48,839
Speaker 4: can't see myself doing that.

750
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:51,720
Speaker 1: What is the mother no nose for you?

751
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:56,840
Speaker 4: All right? Or definitely don't even think board touching a

752
00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 4: girl in our black I don't know anal business.

753
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 1: Okay, boody play never like.

754
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:06,239
Speaker 4: Just don't even think them, understand now, you're damn in

755
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 4: the but nothing not listen from it. I don't even

756
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 4: think board it, and I don't even like it's not

757
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 4: even like I would ask a girl a question like

758
00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 4: has a man never played with your you? Just I would.

759
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:22,080
Speaker 4: I'm not going to ask her that, but if he's

760
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 4: a case we're in which like I don't want to

761
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:26,479
Speaker 4: someone judge you. But if she tells me that that's

762
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 4: something she's into, like she's right after but I'm attractive

763
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:32,359
Speaker 4: to me. Wow, you know what I mean?

764
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:35,280
Speaker 1: Okay, what about can you use toys?

765
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:39,800
Speaker 4: If them I use those when I'll watch Okay, a problem,

766
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:42,359
Speaker 4: but you know it can't go to the tuble place,

767
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 4: then just keep it, keep it traditional.

768
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 5: I understand I feel like saying that you personally won't

769
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 5: do these things, but I think it also just goes

770
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 5: back to the way they were socialized. And I understanding

771
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 5: you're saying to Jamaica they're more liberal now, but just

772
00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:59,800
Speaker 5: thinking about the three Western women on the side of

773
00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 5: the can and our perspectives on it, I even you

774
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 5: saying stay traditional. I just think it has a lot

775
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:10,240
Speaker 5: to do with the environments you're in, nature versus nurture.

776
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:11,080
Speaker 5: That whole thing too.

777
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, on my environment nurtured me saying yo, don't love

778
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 4: man and don't go down and yeah, and don't do

779
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 4: no fold play. You understand that was real? No fould play,

780
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 4: no fault said, no place, don't fubble doubly understand. Yeah,

781
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 4: So so we grew up the wet understand certain things.

782
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 4: You're just not gonna do.

783
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:43,839
Speaker 1: You think that we all have things we would deny

784
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:44,359
Speaker 1: it till death.

785
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:50,240
Speaker 5: I think by virtue of just like being human beings

786
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 5: with experiences and shame, there are things we prefer for

787
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 5: other people not to know. But I think for the

788
00:40:56,480 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 5: context of the conversation when it involves hurting someone and

789
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 5: like in community, I don't think we should take those

790
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 5: things to be grave. I think that is a that

791
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:10,839
Speaker 5: is a tool of protecting what's the word I'm looking for,

792
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:15,240
Speaker 5: just detrimental things like to the community, like and yeah.

793
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 4: It's not a lot of people who, let's say it

794
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:22,359
Speaker 4: would be doing something that's detriment with the community per se.

795
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 4: I feel like in the are right now, it's like

796
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 4: what kind of freaking ship you would do that you

797
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 4: would not tell nobody, you know, Like, m That's what

798
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:39,479
Speaker 4: I feel like consensually yeah, not for just you feel

799
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:41,759
Speaker 4: like you want to do it.

800
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

801
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 4: And if my pron is new that you were doing this, like,

802
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:52,640
Speaker 4: they would be heavily devastated and disappointed. So you know what, because.

803
00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:59,399
Speaker 6: In privacy and shame and it sounds like you're talking

804
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:02,880
Speaker 6: about shame, like you were ashamed you wanted to do something.

805
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 4: And that's what I'm saying, Like a lot of like iree.

806
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 4: That's why I say people should just live their shoes

807
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 4: and do what they want to do, you know what

808
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 4: I mean. If you don't want to do it, but

809
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:14,680
Speaker 4: don't do something. If you like my friends or my

810
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:17,839
Speaker 4: family knew about this, they're going to be understanding. Yeah,

811
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 4: but people people like them like yo, if we do this,

812
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:23,960
Speaker 4: nobody can become enough.

813
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:25,399
Speaker 1: I do it right, they.

814
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 4: Understand, but them like it. So I didn't did us

815
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 4: lie because they don't want nobody to know.

816
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:34,320
Speaker 3: They don't want to strap on, you know what I'm saying.

817
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 1: They do.

818
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:41,239
Speaker 3: But there's some women that are okay, and I know

819
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:43,880
Speaker 3: some of them that were doing that and guys like it,

820
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 3: but they would never want anybody to know about them.

821
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,480
Speaker 1: I mean, which is fair.

822
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 6: Like I don't need I don't need all my family

823
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 6: and my friends know all my business.

824
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:53,280
Speaker 2: I'm not.

825
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 5: A pace of shame, right, That's what I'm saying. I

826
00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 5: think you also have to. It's gonna take time, but

827
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:02,879
Speaker 5: as a society, we got to reorient what we think

828
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 5: about shame, Like what you like sexually. As long as

829
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 5: we have we have two consenting adults, you don't have

830
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 5: to be ashamed of that. You can want it to

831
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 5: be private, but the things we should be ashamed of,

832
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:13,840
Speaker 5: to my point is the things that we're not talking about.

833
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 5: You know what.

834
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 3: It's interesting because the reason why I even started this

835
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 3: podcast was because I felt like black women didn't really

836
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:22,360
Speaker 3: have a space to be able to talk about things

837
00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:27,800
Speaker 3: like sex and relationships and learn. And sometimes that was

838
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:30,360
Speaker 3: and people have been like, people who like it have

839
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 3: been really appreciative to be able to be like, it's

840
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:35,400
Speaker 3: not just me that likes this, because sometimes what comes

841
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:39,919
Speaker 3: with that is people feeling like it affects their life

842
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 3: if there's things that they like and they think they're

843
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:45,160
Speaker 3: alone in it, you know. And also educational, like if

844
00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:47,239
Speaker 3: ever one day you wanted to perform oral sex, you

845
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:48,880
Speaker 3: could listen to this and learn the right way to

846
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 3: do it.

847
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 4: If ever one did a guy a guy, a guy

848
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:54,719
Speaker 4: who's never done.

849
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 3: It, because a lot of guys have listened to this

850
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:58,720
Speaker 3: show and learned how to do it.

851
00:43:59,000 --> 00:43:59,480
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

852
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 4: They learned to do it by watching.

853
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 3: I was talking about it like like lingos. Yeah, it

854
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 3: was a dirty word, the medical term. Like I can't

855
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:11,120
Speaker 3: say in.

856
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 4: The right for me, For me, I'm not saying it's

857
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 4: not right for everybody. I'm just saying about me, Like

858
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 4: I would never interesting, it would never be a situation.

859
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 4: What is that would change my mind? It is very strong,

860
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:27,279
Speaker 4: is it? Like?

861
00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:29,680
Speaker 5: Never perception of uncleanliness?

862
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:34,479
Speaker 4: Oh no, I would never say that because why why

863
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 4: would you have sex with someone who you think is something?

864
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 5: You know what I mean?

865
00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:39,719
Speaker 4: Why would you put you No?

866
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 1: Never hard to scooch up to your face.

867
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 4: Like it's like it's like maybe a girl is going

868
00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 4: on here, she's trying to like go like where you're going,

869
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:02,799
Speaker 4: Like you're going too far? Do you know what I mean?

870
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 1: But not if your wife and sweetheart died that to

871
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:06,840
Speaker 1: each other? Is that a problem?

872
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 4: Did it to each other?

873
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:10,319
Speaker 1: Like if there was a performer or all on each other?

874
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 5: No?

875
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:14,840
Speaker 4: Not think so? Ye?

876
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:16,400
Speaker 1: And that's what it is?

877
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:17,160
Speaker 2: That a problem?

878
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:18,320
Speaker 1: No, it's not a problem.

879
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 2: No, it's not a problem.

880
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:28,399
Speaker 4: Personally in the midst of fun and what they want

881
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 4: to do, I don't. I don't have what they want

882
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:38,359
Speaker 4: to keeping this whatever whatever, just like, you know, let's

883
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 4: have three, not talking about my wife and three.

884
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:45,240
Speaker 1: So now you don't want talk about your wife.

885
00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 4: Because at the end it is still I don't feel

886
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 4: like me singing the song wasn't like saying I want

887
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 4: I want to have my wife and my sweetheart together.

888
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:51,160
Speaker 5: You know.

889
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 4: It's just like I wanted to know each other.

890
00:45:56,239 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 1: About each other together. That could happen.

891
00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, But but that wasn't That wasn't that wasn't what

892
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 4: I was saying in the song. I was like, if

893
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:04,600
Speaker 4: I want to do if Sugar is my sweetheart, I

894
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:06,360
Speaker 4: want to be able to tell my wife, yo, I

895
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 4: go go. I'm gonna go see Sugar. You understand. And

896
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 4: it's okay because she understands that Sugar is our third person.

897
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 2: But what if we both want you in that moment.

898
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 4: Well, that is not a conversation that we can have.

899
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:24,280
Speaker 2: Right, I'm gonna be miserably, but I don't when.

900
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:27,239
Speaker 4: Right you said to me, no, love, I want to

901
00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:30,280
Speaker 4: come over, and and and I would say, talk to Patricia,

902
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:33,280
Speaker 4: you want to come over tonight and everybody good because

903
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 4: it's consensual. However, that's not the gist of what I

904
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 4: was saying. What I'm saying is I just want you

905
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 4: to know to be friends and everybody's good.

906
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:48,920
Speaker 3: This man's planning a little bit.

907
00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 1: That's like, definitely a little bit.

908
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 3: I'm just saying that we asked, was two women decided

909
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:56,799
Speaker 3: they wanted to link right, do them thing?

910
00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 4: If you want to have fun. Yeah, but I'm not.

911
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 4: It's not going to change my mind and be like,

912
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:05,440
Speaker 4: oh that looks so exciting. Let me dog.

913
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:10,319
Speaker 9: And she's like this was the best thing that's ever

914
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 9: happened to me.

915
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:23,839
Speaker 7: I'm just still Sometimes the women discover their true selves

916
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 7: in situations like that.

917
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:29,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, get what I'm probably like, realized them like that

918
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 4: and then people.

919
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:33,560
Speaker 2: And then you get kick you get kicked out the web.

920
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:39,920
Speaker 4: It's pivoting if they get to liking that too much,

921
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:42,239
Speaker 4: in realize that there's no more space for you. We

922
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:45,080
Speaker 4: are going to duel. You got to move on.

923
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 2: That first one. He got.

924
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 1: Squirting. Have you had a woman squared on? Okay? Is

925
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:57,600
Speaker 1: that okay? Okay?

926
00:47:57,680 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 4: It's not not like about not for squirreteam you know,

927
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:04,440
Speaker 4: I mean it happens naturally. It's like you bring her

928
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 4: to that feeling of you four it is like you

929
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 4: can't handle it. That's what I think. I don't feel like,

930
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:14,960
Speaker 4: is everyone make Maybe you have just squired as you're

931
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 4: a skirt for everybody. I don't know, but I feel

932
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:20,400
Speaker 4: like he's reach to a certain point.

933
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:24,319
Speaker 2: What you say, like, I think so?

934
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 4: I think so. I feel like maybe all women can squirret,

935
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 4: but never reached that point sexually where it happened.

936
00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:33,879
Speaker 1: You think all women can square?

937
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:35,200
Speaker 2: I don't know.

938
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 1: Have you squared it?

939
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 5: No?

940
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:37,799
Speaker 2: Have you?

941
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:39,880
Speaker 5: LINI? That was perfect?

942
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:42,719
Speaker 1: What about you? Jordan?

943
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 2: Okay, but I've heard about it.

944
00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:46,799
Speaker 1: You've heard about it?

945
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:47,240
Speaker 5: Yeah?

946
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:48,880
Speaker 1: You ever feel like you were about to when you

947
00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:49,640
Speaker 1: stab yourself?

948
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:52,920
Speaker 3: I think it's too hard perfectly?

949
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 4: Maybe that's it feel Yeah, like the first time it happened,

950
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 4: I thought it was like like, what is you know?

951
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 5: He's tight here? Crazy?

952
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:12,320
Speaker 4: I love? What?

953
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:12,799
Speaker 5: Like?

954
00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 1: What's going on? The first time?

955
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:20,960
Speaker 4: I mean, you start? But then I realized that you

956
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:26,759
Speaker 4: know it's actually I think up, Yeah, you know.

957
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:27,120
Speaker 5: What I mean?

958
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:34,960
Speaker 4: Find the places? Yeah, I'm just listening, but you respecting

959
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 4: to answer, which is an answer, which is.

960
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 1: Which is answer?

961
00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 4: You know what? An answer?

962
00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 5: Right? Sure? Definitely the whole album, and I am we

963
00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:48,879
Speaker 5: can talk about that.

964
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:50,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, can we talk about that?

965
00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 5: Sure?

966
00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:53,600
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, so tell me because people were asking

967
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 3: you started off with this parking lot pimping that was

968
00:49:56,200 --> 00:50:00,040
Speaker 3: really really popular on social media and on YouTube, and

969
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 3: and then now you have a show on Revolt that

970
00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 3: just started so yeah, so, which is amazing because she

971
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:10,520
Speaker 3: had so much of a following that people were like, okay,

972
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:11,840
Speaker 3: and then I saw people being like, when is the

973
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 3: album coming, and you said it.

974
00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:16,760
Speaker 5: Is, yeah. So I didn't intend to make an album.

975
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 5: I just know when I first got on social my

976
00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 5: goal was to create an audience for my poetry or

977
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 5: my spoken word, whatever you want to call it, because

978
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 5: I always know how a different approach to it because

979
00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 5: it does involve music. But I wouldn't consider myself a

980
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 5: rapper or a singer, like I stay in my lane

981
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 5: and I'm really good at what I do. But anyway,

982
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 5: the parking Lot took off, and I just felt like

983
00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:40,120
Speaker 5: leaving that relationship setting a lot of things down, like

984
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:43,360
Speaker 5: I had opened myself back up for my creative juices

985
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:45,000
Speaker 5: to flow and when I started writing again, it was

986
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 5: coming like water. So I wanted.

987
00:50:48,239 --> 00:51:00,040
Speaker 9: To see there you go.

988
00:50:50,480 --> 00:51:00,840
Speaker 5: Okay, that was quick.

989
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:01,719
Speaker 1: That was quick.

990
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:05,800
Speaker 5: But yeah, so I did want to do another content series,

991
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:07,239
Speaker 5: and I was trying to use the same formula I

992
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:09,479
Speaker 5: did with the parking lot to like give people short

993
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:11,799
Speaker 5: snippets so none of the pieces are past like what

994
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:15,240
Speaker 5: would be a real on Instagram. And I started posting

995
00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:17,479
Speaker 5: them and people were asking, like how can I listen

996
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 5: on Spotify, like where's the album? And I plan to

997
00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:23,239
Speaker 5: do that later in the year because I planned a

998
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 5: Winno Grammy. I plan to submit for a scoring word out,

999
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 5: but just the reception happened much faster, and I was

1000
00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 5: able to link with some people who write and compose

1001
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:35,520
Speaker 5: like original music because I was using a bunch of

1002
00:51:35,560 --> 00:51:39,359
Speaker 5: samples or like license free music or whatever. But I

1003
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 5: didn't really dope pieces that I paid for, you know,

1004
00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:45,239
Speaker 5: permission to use on social But I wanted to create

1005
00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:48,000
Speaker 5: original work if people were trying to listen. So we

1006
00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:52,080
Speaker 5: got an EP come in with like I think ten tracks,

1007
00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 5: ten tracks, and I'm really excited it's almost done, but

1008
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 5: I'm taking the time for my team to like put

1009
00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:02,120
Speaker 5: some like gas behind it and like roll it out

1010
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:04,960
Speaker 5: for real, because you know, before the show, I've been

1011
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:09,360
Speaker 5: doing everything as an individual artist, using my own money,

1012
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 5: paying for my own promotion, and.

1013
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:15,839
Speaker 3: Right, yeah, and that's I feel like the most satisfaction

1014
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:18,439
Speaker 3: comes from when you started off that way.

1015
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:20,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, And I think we're still gonna

1016
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:22,439
Speaker 5: I'm still gonna be an independent artist, but just put

1017
00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:24,120
Speaker 5: me with some resources so I don't have to do

1018
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:27,239
Speaker 5: everything by myself because that also just like drains me

1019
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:29,799
Speaker 5: as a creative. So I'm really excited about it. And

1020
00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:31,640
Speaker 5: it's just like the whole album is a story of

1021
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 5: a black woman in his time living in America, seeing

1022
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:37,799
Speaker 5: all the news that's coming by, but also being a

1023
00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:40,600
Speaker 5: full person with every day experience. Is like just turning

1024
00:52:40,640 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 5: thirty being like finally feeling like they got some symbolists

1025
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:47,080
Speaker 5: on adulthood because it's all like an experiment. Nobody knows

1026
00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:49,719
Speaker 5: what they're doing. So I'm excited because, as I said

1027
00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:52,719
Speaker 5: at the beginning, I think people, even though politics was

1028
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:55,720
Speaker 5: never my thing, history is really my thing and politics

1029
00:52:55,760 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 5: became a necessary conversation. People just see me as a

1030
00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 5: vending machine for information. Yeah, I am a whole person.

1031
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:03,080
Speaker 1: And after that election. You said I need a.

1032
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:06,520
Speaker 3: Break, absolutely absolutely, What are you thinking about us? Like

1033
00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:11,000
Speaker 3: with Donald Trump? I'm just curious, but what is the perception?

1034
00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 4: What is your what I mean, I want to know

1035
00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:16,080
Speaker 4: what you'll.

1036
00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:17,800
Speaker 1: Be thinking, like they're crazy in America?

1037
00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:22,200
Speaker 2: What do you Yeah, I really don't think about it.

1038
00:53:22,680 --> 00:53:24,960
Speaker 3: Hm, because I know people we go places, they be

1039
00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 3: like they're always like, I'm so sorry. Shoot, because I

1040
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 3: just want to put it out there. I have nothing

1041
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:33,000
Speaker 3: to do with that, correct.

1042
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 1: That's how I be feeling.

1043
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:36,359
Speaker 3: I be wanting to explain like I ain't got nothing,

1044
00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:40,400
Speaker 3: like it's not my idea.

1045
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 5: You did? Yeah, why America?

1046
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:50,640
Speaker 4: Listen all right, and this is just my thoughts on it.

1047
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 4: It's a black woman, yeah, hm, it would be the

1048
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:56,319
Speaker 4: first time a woman's going to be president. It could

1049
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:57,680
Speaker 4: not happen with a black woman.

1050
00:53:59,280 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 1: I thought.

1051
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 3: I did think it was exciting when it happened, But

1052
00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 3: then I also know that you're right. The mississ never

1053
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:06,480
Speaker 3: had their racism.

1054
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:08,920
Speaker 4: It never happen. Yeah, I think you have to have

1055
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 4: a female president before you know what I mean, that

1056
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:20,360
Speaker 4: was white. It has to be that way first for America.

1057
00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:22,960
Speaker 5: And I don't even think honestly, I don't think America

1058
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 5: would want to give a white woman the presidency. They

1059
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 5: didn't like, they don't trust, they don't trust them enough,

1060
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 5: the don't care about it enough enough. I at least

1061
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 5: thought I thought America had been put in a position

1062
00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 5: where they were going to have to be forced to

1063
00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 5: choose her. That's what I thought was Okay, they would

1064
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:38,759
Speaker 5: have won because like they threw her in, she only

1065
00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:40,919
Speaker 5: had one hundred days to run, and when you think

1066
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:43,000
Speaker 5: about it, the number she did get were only one

1067
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:45,759
Speaker 5: hundred days worth of a campaign. Had she had all

1068
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:48,640
Speaker 5: the time, she likely could have won. But but again,

1069
00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:50,120
Speaker 5: America was just going to be forced to be in

1070
00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:52,439
Speaker 5: that position because they didn't choose her, or they think

1071
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:55,239
Speaker 5: they didn't choose her because they don't understand like the

1072
00:54:55,280 --> 00:54:57,960
Speaker 5: twenty fifth Amendment, when the president is no longer in capacity,

1073
00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 5: the power goes to the vice president. They did technically

1074
00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:03,759
Speaker 5: choose her, but they didn't have to manually put her

1075
00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:06,200
Speaker 5: name on the ballot. So again, I just thought they

1076
00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 5: was gonna get caught up.

1077
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 3: And the marketing was like, y'all didn't even choose her.

1078
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:14,799
Speaker 3: That's the marketing. Yeah, that's not that's not true.

1079
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:17,879
Speaker 4: Not doing a thing.

1080
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:26,359
Speaker 5: It must be Yeah, you know what I mean. Do

1081
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:28,160
Speaker 5: you think you guys are going to be affected like

1082
00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:30,799
Speaker 5: economy wise, like affected by all the bullshit he got

1083
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:31,239
Speaker 5: going on.

1084
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:36,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, the world's affected in somewhere because because there was

1085
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:39,880
Speaker 4: one point where we were supposed to cut ties with Cuba.

1086
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:42,320
Speaker 4: I don't know what. I don't know how that happened,

1087
00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:47,479
Speaker 4: what happened to that? But you know, yeah, everybody's affected. Yeah,

1088
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:50,280
Speaker 4: I just come on a president.

1089
00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:53,240
Speaker 1: You feel like right now?

1090
00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:56,279
Speaker 3: As far as reggae and dance hall music, it's an

1091
00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:59,480
Speaker 3: amazing time globally because I feel the energy.

1092
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 4: It's in a very good place, you know what I mean?

1093
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:03,040
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1094
00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:09,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, and Big of the Teacher Yeah vibes t yeah.

1095
00:56:09,280 --> 00:56:12,280
Speaker 4: Is an injection of great energy into the industry forge

1096
00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:16,040
Speaker 4: and dancer, I understand. Yeah. Man. It goes to show

1097
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:18,720
Speaker 4: that it has the power, It has the pulling power

1098
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:23,080
Speaker 4: because well, you don't know, he's an exceptional talent and

1099
00:56:23,160 --> 00:56:25,600
Speaker 4: an exception as well, because when you pull up and

1100
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:28,320
Speaker 4: at the venue, then we're not talking about five those capacity,

1101
00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:33,399
Speaker 4: those capacity my party thousand places, you know what I mean.

1102
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:36,279
Speaker 4: And it didn't just happen once or twice, so you

1103
00:56:36,320 --> 00:56:37,400
Speaker 4: see that it wasn't a fluke.

1104
00:56:37,640 --> 00:56:38,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, understand.

1105
00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:42,920
Speaker 7: I want to also pick up the icons, the icons

1106
00:56:42,920 --> 00:56:48,640
Speaker 7: in music, because I saw where Barry Salmon, Sean Paul

1107
00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:50,879
Speaker 7: and Jaggie they did.

1108
00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:55,840
Speaker 2: They did the Ubs Arena as well, and it was the.

1109
00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:58,840
Speaker 1: Full like that is so powerful?

1110
00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:02,040
Speaker 3: Is the power as you're Talian Stevens. Yeah, I mean

1111
00:57:02,080 --> 00:57:03,680
Speaker 3: that's right there too.

1112
00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 7: Yeah, the poet there is so powerful when you have

1113
00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:11,920
Speaker 7: a platform and you can introduce, use it to introduce

1114
00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:17,560
Speaker 7: somebody else, you know, because I'm here now with Christopher Martin.

1115
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:25,360
Speaker 7: Yes I'm sugar, but because of this collaboration, I am

1116
00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 7: being seen more. You know.

1117
00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:31,560
Speaker 2: It's ability. Yeah, it's something I appreciate.

1118
00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:37,200
Speaker 7: So I'm just hoping other artists the icons also see

1119
00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:40,560
Speaker 7: the poe that they have, you know, to to you

1120
00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:44,280
Speaker 7: can put out some artists out there. There's so many

1121
00:57:44,920 --> 00:57:48,040
Speaker 7: because there are so many young artists out there who

1122
00:57:48,040 --> 00:57:51,440
Speaker 7: are looking for opportunities, and there are so many times

1123
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:55,360
Speaker 7: when we spend time talking about what needs to be done,

1124
00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:56,960
Speaker 7: but we don't do what.

1125
00:57:56,960 --> 00:57:57,800
Speaker 4: Needs to be done.

1126
00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:01,439
Speaker 7: How to talk about it, you know, and so that's

1127
00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 7: what I would like. I'm so happy to be here

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00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:05,000
Speaker 7: because at least make it said this.

1129
00:58:06,520 --> 00:58:08,120
Speaker 4: You know, we.

1130
00:58:08,120 --> 00:58:11,120
Speaker 3: Need to do more than we say. Man yea, even

1131
00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 3: because we're being in man. I think it was a

1132
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:16,960
Speaker 3: bounty killer that posted and tell people to go. Definitely,

1133
00:58:17,120 --> 00:58:20,000
Speaker 3: even no matter what differences are, it's good for the

1134
00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:21,000
Speaker 3: whole time.

1135
00:58:21,520 --> 00:58:27,080
Speaker 4: The industry, industry one hundred. I don't know, we grew up,

1136
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:29,960
Speaker 4: you know what I mean? You don't know. You You

1137
00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:33,000
Speaker 4: have many icons in the business that did it kind

1138
00:58:33,000 --> 00:58:36,880
Speaker 4: of big scale as you mentioned, Shaggy Shan, Paul Shaba.

1139
00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:39,840
Speaker 4: You understand who Ju Banton, You know what I mean.

1140
00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:46,120
Speaker 4: These people are people who've packed and places where it's reggae. Understand.

1141
00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:50,040
Speaker 4: Regging is dance, you understand. So the space that it's

1142
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:53,480
Speaker 4: in right now, a lot of eyes are on it.

1143
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 4: So it's just it's good for everything, everybody. It's just

1144
00:58:57,280 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 4: for us to capitalize on the wave. Have yeah waving.

1145
00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:11,680
Speaker 1: Waving. I told you we got to go. I'm ready,

1146
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:12,560
Speaker 1: I'm ready to go.

1147
00:59:12,640 --> 00:59:13,080
Speaker 4: She's there.

1148
00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:14,959
Speaker 1: So do you live in New York?

1149
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:16,240
Speaker 5: I live in Atlanta.

1150
00:59:16,440 --> 00:59:19,640
Speaker 3: Oh okay, so you only are here in town for this? Yeah,

1151
00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:22,240
Speaker 3: So talk to me about getting your deal with Revolt

1152
00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:23,400
Speaker 3: and how that even happened.

1153
00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 5: It was it was a conversation between me and the Lord.

1154
00:59:27,520 --> 00:59:29,920
Speaker 5: Either I was gonna be obedient or I was gonna struggle.

1155
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:34,640
Speaker 5: And as I said, along with my breakup came a

1156
00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:37,040
Speaker 5: lot of things. I lost a lot of people, not

1157
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:38,439
Speaker 5: not necessarily in a bad way.

1158
00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:40,880
Speaker 1: Not you mean like friends, because you guys had me

1159
00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:41,760
Speaker 1: to like, what do you know?

1160
00:59:42,240 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 5: No, I just mean quite literally, like my assistant that

1161
00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:46,920
Speaker 5: had been with me for three years she went on

1162
00:59:46,960 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 5: to do something else. Some friends that I just had

1163
00:59:52,040 --> 00:59:54,560
Speaker 5: personally even up through lent this year because I let

1164
00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:56,520
Speaker 5: go a lot for LT again, still trying to be

1165
00:59:56,600 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 5: in tune with what the Lord has for me. I

1166
00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:04,720
Speaker 5: lost friends in that season, and I just put a

1167
01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:07,240
Speaker 5: lot of stuff down, like whether it's my business, my nonprofit,

1168
01:00:07,280 --> 01:00:09,960
Speaker 5: things that I was trying to force to be stable

1169
01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:12,840
Speaker 5: and just weren't like I was trying to be in control,

1170
01:00:13,000 --> 01:00:15,320
Speaker 5: and so I took my hand off everything. I said, Lord,

1171
01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:16,960
Speaker 5: you always taking care of me. So I'm just gonna

1172
01:00:17,320 --> 01:00:19,800
Speaker 5: quite literally sit here and I'm gonna be still. And

1173
01:00:19,840 --> 01:00:22,760
Speaker 5: that was boring, and it wasn't lonely, but I had

1174
01:00:22,760 --> 01:00:24,720
Speaker 5: to get used to being by myself as I lived

1175
01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 5: with my ex and I moved to a new place,

1176
01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:29,840
Speaker 5: there's just a major season of transition. But anyway, my

1177
01:00:29,920 --> 01:00:31,520
Speaker 5: prayer was like, I'm gonna put it down and I'm

1178
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:35,080
Speaker 5: gonna wait on you. And two weeks later I got

1179
01:00:35,080 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 5: a phone call that said Revolte wanted to give me

1180
01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:39,120
Speaker 5: a show. And I hadn't even I hadn't, I hadn't

1181
01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:42,439
Speaker 5: spoken to Revolt about any sort of platforming and maybe

1182
01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:44,400
Speaker 5: a year and a half but my name had been

1183
01:00:44,440 --> 01:00:47,400
Speaker 5: in room since I started back in twenty twenty. So

1184
01:00:47,440 --> 01:00:48,760
Speaker 5: I'm just really grateful for that.

1185
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:52,520
Speaker 1: And organically, organically, for sure, for.

1186
01:00:52,440 --> 01:00:53,520
Speaker 4: Sure do it.

1187
01:00:53,640 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, I've been pitching shows I put in my bio

1188
01:00:57,000 --> 01:00:59,200
Speaker 5: years ago, stopped playing somebody to get his girl a show,

1189
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:03,920
Speaker 5: and I've been pitching things scripted series, unscripted series, book projects,

1190
01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:07,080
Speaker 5: And like every meeting I took, everybody loved the idea,

1191
01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:08,560
Speaker 5: but they were like, oh, it's just not the right

1192
01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:11,040
Speaker 5: time for the market, or we don't really understand it,

1193
01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:13,880
Speaker 5: or this feels too smart for us for me to

1194
01:01:13,880 --> 01:01:16,000
Speaker 5: get exactly what I needed, when I needed it and

1195
01:01:16,000 --> 01:01:19,120
Speaker 5: how I wanted it. So the team at Revote is amazing.

1196
01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:21,760
Speaker 5: Everybody is so protective of me, and I'm really grateful

1197
01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:24,440
Speaker 5: for that. But they're also just really good people to

1198
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:26,440
Speaker 5: work with and they want to be as loud as

1199
01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:29,280
Speaker 5: I want to be. That's gra and we need that

1200
01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:37,160
Speaker 5: when you can be load right, So I'm grateful.

1201
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:40,520
Speaker 1: Cong thank you, and so for.

1202
01:01:42,200 --> 01:01:44,000
Speaker 3: When is a new project coming out? Because I feel

1203
01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:46,560
Speaker 3: like you've been doing things, but it's been a minute.

1204
01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, the new album comes out in the September October.

1205
01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:53,720
Speaker 1: What's the next single too?

1206
01:01:53,760 --> 01:01:56,800
Speaker 4: So we know after wife and thought, we have a

1207
01:01:56,840 --> 01:02:00,480
Speaker 4: song called sky What don't do that?

1208
01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:01,080
Speaker 2: Sacky?

1209
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:02,240
Speaker 4: Sucky?

1210
01:02:03,000 --> 01:02:07,680
Speaker 1: Okay, a second.

1211
01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:09,800
Speaker 5: Girl I heard, I was just gonna act like I

1212
01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:12,160
Speaker 5: knew what it meant.

1213
01:02:12,680 --> 01:02:14,640
Speaker 4: I was aware of she likes socking.

1214
01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:20,760
Speaker 6: Okay, we're talking about Noble first.

1215
01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:30,960
Speaker 1: Interesting you're playing and Shi what about you?

1216
01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:32,920
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1217
01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:36,800
Speaker 7: So well, I've been working on my album. We are

1218
01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:40,440
Speaker 7: kind of holding that back a little bit though, because

1219
01:02:40,520 --> 01:02:44,120
Speaker 7: you know, it's best to have more visibility so you

1220
01:02:44,200 --> 01:02:45,800
Speaker 7: have more people to sell to.

1221
01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:47,560
Speaker 2: So I'm not in a hurry.

1222
01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:51,080
Speaker 7: I'm just happy for this connection between myself and Christopher Martin.

1223
01:02:51,160 --> 01:02:52,800
Speaker 1: Did you guys know what other even before this?

1224
01:02:54,200 --> 01:02:54,520
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1225
01:02:55,000 --> 01:03:00,480
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, it was from the same talent competition then.

1226
01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:07,480
Speaker 2: The same year. Yeah, I did. I don't remember.

1227
01:03:07,800 --> 01:03:09,560
Speaker 1: It's like an area.

1228
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:13,880
Speaker 7: Yeah, and so I've been watching him. I've been watching Roman,

1229
01:03:14,440 --> 01:03:18,000
Speaker 7: and I've been saying, like, look, these guys are doing

1230
01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:20,480
Speaker 7: so well and they came from the same competition. I

1231
01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:24,120
Speaker 7: want to I need to grow, I need to keep going.

1232
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 7: I'm gonna just keep on playing that in my head.

1233
01:03:26,880 --> 01:03:29,479
Speaker 7: And I'm so happy for the embrace right now.

1234
01:03:29,560 --> 01:03:30,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's important.

1235
01:03:30,960 --> 01:03:33,000
Speaker 3: I want to say to embrace the women because I

1236
01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:34,320
Speaker 3: know it's a harder road alway.

1237
01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:35,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely.

1238
01:03:35,320 --> 01:03:35,480
Speaker 5: You know.

1239
01:03:35,640 --> 01:03:37,760
Speaker 1: So I love that I'm a girl.

1240
01:03:37,800 --> 01:03:41,160
Speaker 4: She's super talented. I appreciate her, respect her talent. So

1241
01:03:41,240 --> 01:03:44,640
Speaker 4: if and I'm by extension, I can do this.

1242
01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:48,080
Speaker 1: It's yeah, it's easy.

1243
01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:49,760
Speaker 4: To share my platform, to share whatever is going on

1244
01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:50,040
Speaker 4: for me.

1245
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:51,320
Speaker 1: But you take her version.

1246
01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:54,320
Speaker 4: But I.

1247
01:03:56,680 --> 01:03:57,720
Speaker 2: Love it.

1248
01:03:57,840 --> 01:04:01,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, but you don't know when we need this show out.

1249
01:04:02,040 --> 01:04:06,040
Speaker 4: They show out whenever she sings it. It's like, yo, yo,

1250
01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:08,320
Speaker 4: you see why didn't you guys create all of this

1251
01:04:08,440 --> 01:04:11,600
Speaker 4: excitement for me. I love that.

1252
01:04:11,680 --> 01:04:14,200
Speaker 3: I love that for her, and we need a female

1253
01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:19,120
Speaker 3: version of Saki whenever that's goodness ideas.

1254
01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:24,000
Speaker 6: Sorry, you need a female version, call it the Saki

1255
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:31,040
Speaker 6: bomb bomb.

1256
01:04:30,040 --> 01:04:32,000
Speaker 4: Good vibes man, you know what I mean, it's it's

1257
01:04:32,080 --> 01:04:34,400
Speaker 4: it's it's such a pleasure. As I was saying, she's

1258
01:04:34,840 --> 01:04:37,720
Speaker 4: she's a wonderful energy, you know, I mean energy. Energy

1259
01:04:37,720 --> 01:04:41,320
Speaker 4: goes a far away because people can't be talented. They

1260
01:04:41,320 --> 01:04:44,160
Speaker 4: can have everything going for them where talent is concerned, Yeah,

1261
01:04:44,200 --> 01:04:48,680
Speaker 4: but their energy is just y and I I will

1262
01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:53,000
Speaker 4: stop you from excelling how you're supposed to. And my

1263
01:04:53,080 --> 01:04:56,040
Speaker 4: friend believe and see like everything happens in its own time.

1264
01:04:56,400 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 4: It's divine, isn't it mm hmm a fair time. I'm loved.

1265
01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:03,120
Speaker 3: Me and Jordan were talking about how you don't you

1266
01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:07,040
Speaker 3: don't normally like you know, you swear words things like

1267
01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:07,920
Speaker 3: that in your music.

1268
01:05:08,160 --> 01:05:09,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, you said, your.

1269
01:05:08,960 --> 01:05:11,520
Speaker 4: Mom listens listen to my music.

1270
01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:13,320
Speaker 1: What does you think about my wife and sweetheart?

1271
01:05:13,440 --> 01:05:16,640
Speaker 4: Right? She says she likes the melody? She doesn't, right,

1272
01:05:17,920 --> 01:05:24,720
Speaker 4: she said she loved the melody Junior nice. Well, I'm like,

1273
01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:28,760
Speaker 4: it's like like the melody as well because they're both Christians.

1274
01:05:29,880 --> 01:05:33,040
Speaker 4: So yeah, they're both Christians, so you won't really go

1275
01:05:33,080 --> 01:05:36,000
Speaker 4: around with my mom thinks what I think? He honestly,

1276
01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:38,920
Speaker 4: he likes the melody as well. But what I'm saying

1277
01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:42,200
Speaker 4: I'm not too in tune with it, but that's fine, Yes, fine,

1278
01:05:43,640 --> 01:05:46,080
Speaker 4: thank you very much, and I'm an entertainer.

1279
01:05:50,520 --> 01:05:55,560
Speaker 1: Thank you, fat you. And how can people watch your

1280
01:05:55,640 --> 01:05:56,720
Speaker 1: your shirt people's brief.

1281
01:05:56,880 --> 01:05:59,320
Speaker 5: You can watch it on Revote Tuesday nights, nine pm

1282
01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:03,040
Speaker 5: if you had any sort of cable type deal Exfanity Sling,

1283
01:06:03,720 --> 01:06:08,400
Speaker 5: Filo Brian, it's on Prime, like Revolt TV has an

1284
01:06:08,400 --> 01:06:08,800
Speaker 5: app on.

1285
01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:12,200
Speaker 4: Prime because I just said to her that I'm gonna

1286
01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:14,920
Speaker 4: I'm gonna revolt because I see it on Prime. But

1287
01:06:15,280 --> 01:06:17,120
Speaker 4: I've never really had a reason to go and revolt.

1288
01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:21,480
Speaker 5: So no, we stream it eleven the next day and

1289
01:06:21,520 --> 01:06:25,160
Speaker 5: then YouTube YouTube clips the next day as well. Yeah.

1290
01:06:25,160 --> 01:06:29,800
Speaker 3: Period, congratulations, congratulations to everybody.

1291
01:06:29,880 --> 01:06:32,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're all doing many things. We're all a big deal,

1292
01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:38,640
Speaker 1: very very very big big all right. It is lip

1293
01:06:38,760 --> 01:06:39,120
Speaker 1: service