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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: JR.

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Speaker 3: Is on the phone today for our first Date follow

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Speaker 3: up and he's getting ghosted by Marie. So in a

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Speaker 3: second we're going to call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 3: tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe you get

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Speaker 3: him another date.

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Speaker 2: But first, JR. How long has it been since you

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Speaker 2: heard from Marie?

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Speaker 4: Oh man, A couple of days. I guess maybe a

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Speaker 4: week now.

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Speaker 2: Okay, did you try to hit her up?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've called a couple of times. I didn't leave

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Speaker 4: a voice message every time I called because I didn't

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Speaker 4: want to sound crazy or whatever. But she just hasn't

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Speaker 4: called back. I got nothing.

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll tell us about the date.

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Speaker 4: It was awesome, so we mount on the apps. I

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Speaker 4: just was so attracted to how nurturing she seemed. I mean,

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Speaker 4: she had pictures with animals, she was out in nature,

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Speaker 4: you know, okay, with her friends. I mean the second

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Speaker 4: we started talking, it was like I was telling her

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Speaker 4: about how always wanted to ride a horse, but I've

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Speaker 4: been like real afraid to try. And she laughed at it,

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Speaker 4: you know, But like it was that cute kind of laugh,

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Speaker 4: and then she was like really encouraging, and we decided

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Speaker 4: that actually our first meeting would be for me to

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Speaker 4: go horseback riding.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's a cool first day.

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Speaker 4: It was amazing, Like I actually rode a horse. She

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Speaker 4: was amazing. She was like like my personal cheerleader.

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Speaker 6: She was just.

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Speaker 4: So warm and energetic and and I mean she.

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Speaker 2: Was gorgeous too.

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Speaker 6: I just oh, I can't get it out.

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Speaker 4: Of my mind. It was amazing. And after we rode horses,

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Speaker 4: we you know, we went home to shower and we

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Speaker 4: changed and then we met up for dinner. And oh

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Speaker 4: my gosh, I'm smiling so hard right now just thinking

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Speaker 4: about it.

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Speaker 2: It was things, things are going great.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 4: We we even kissed before we went into the restaurant.

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Speaker 2: And that's a good sign, really good sign.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. That's usually it's like if you're lucky

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Speaker 4: after dinner. You know, this was right away and you know,

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Speaker 4: set the tone for some real romance. And after dinner,

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Speaker 4: you know, we kissed again and I told her that

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Speaker 4: I was gonna call her this week with a plan

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Speaker 4: for another adventure. You know, it's just.

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Speaker 2: This is so good, so you're really into her.

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Speaker 5: It sounds like the date went great though, to have

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Speaker 5: a two part date and kisses and feels like there

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Speaker 5: was really great momentum.

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Speaker 2: What could have gone wrong? You think?

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Speaker 4: You know, the only thing that I can really think

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Speaker 4: of is like, you know, I'm the type of person that, like,

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Speaker 4: sometimes I stay the wrong thing at the wrong time.

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Speaker 4: You know, I don't mean to, but like we were

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Speaker 4: sitting at dinner and I noticed that she had like

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Speaker 4: an her handbag and some fancy jewelry, and you know,

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Speaker 4: she's a teacher, and right away you wanted to make

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Speaker 4: a little joke because she had really fancy stuff. So

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Speaker 4: I remember saying like, hey, what are you on OnlyFans

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Speaker 4: or something like the you know, how do you afford

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Speaker 4: that fancy stuff? She It was like the only point

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Speaker 4: where I forget all that romance is she looked just

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Speaker 4: but She's like, I'm just I'm a good thrifter. And

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Speaker 4: there was a little awkward moment there.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 4: I moved on from it and I told her, you say, hey,

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Speaker 4: I'm mean to offend you or anything, and I told

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Speaker 4: her it was a joke, and that was the only

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Speaker 4: was like, oh, is that what it was? Did I

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Speaker 4: really ruin it by put my foot in my mouth again?

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Speaker 2: Okay, it sounds like you're joked in land. You got

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Speaker 2: to tell that one, right, just right, you got to

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Speaker 3: Like yeah, okay, well yeah, maybe that's why she's not

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Speaker 3: calling you back. We'll play a song come back and

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Speaker 3: then call her and see if some tell us why

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Speaker 3: she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date.

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Speaker 4: Okay, oh my gosh, please, yes, thank you.

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll play a song, come back and get

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Speaker 2: your first day follow up.

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Speaker 1: Next first date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 3: Right in the middle of today's first Day follow up,

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Speaker 3: if you're just joining us, Jr. Is on the phone

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Speaker 3: and he's getting ghosted by Marie and so in the

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Speaker 3: second we're gonna call her and see if she's hell

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Speaker 3: us why she's ghosting him. But before we do that, Jarah,

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Speaker 3: why don't you catch us up on your situation?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So went on the best first day I've ever had.

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Speaker 4: We broke one of my fears going horseback riding. We

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Speaker 4: kissed before dinner, after dinner. It was something straight out

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Speaker 4: of a movie as far as I'm concerned. And I

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Speaker 4: may have put my foot in my mouth, but I

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Speaker 4: think it went really well overall, and I can't get

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Speaker 4: her to get back to me, and I really want

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Speaker 4: to go on another adventure with her.

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Speaker 5: Your foot in your mouth was there because you asked

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Speaker 5: her if she was on only fans because she had

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Speaker 5: nice things?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it was a joke, right right? All right?

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Speaker 4: Man?

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Speaker 2: Are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 4: I'm nervous, but I am absolutely ready.

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 6: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hi, man, speak to Marie please. This is her.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Marie, how are you? My name is Jebel. I'm

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Speaker 3: calling from a radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show

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Speaker 3: him Marie.

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Speaker 5: I'm Nina also on the show.

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Speaker 2: Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hey.

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Speaker 3: How are you great? Thanks for asking? Have you ever

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Speaker 3: heard of the show before?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I love the show.

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Speaker 2: Oh great. Do you like the first A follow ups?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Yes, congratulations because this is a first A follow up.

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Speaker 3: You're gusting somebody and the emailed us about you.

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Speaker 2: Do you know who that would be?

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Speaker 3: Yes Jr? Yes Jr. So he emailed us and told

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Speaker 3: us about your date. He said, he really liked you,

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Speaker 3: and he's not sure why are you ghosting him? Deepoint telling us, oh.

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Speaker 6: My goodness, I'm so very well, I really liked him too.

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Speaker 6: But and and the date was great and everything, but

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Speaker 6: to be honest, he was asking some personal questions and

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Speaker 6: he seemed like he was crying a little bit. I

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Speaker 6: couldn't tell if he was joking or not, but he,

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Speaker 6: you know, it was getting a little too close to

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Speaker 6: finding out a secret, honestly. And I I just don't

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Speaker 6: go out with guys.

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Speaker 2: Like that, like inquisitive, like guys like that, do you what.

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Speaker 6: Do you mean, Yeah, like you know, nosy. You know,

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Speaker 6: I like to keep my privacy, you know, like my

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Speaker 6: personal business is my business.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what do you mean by that?

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Speaker 6: Well, you know, I just I want a guy that

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Speaker 6: like me for me, and I'm not sure if he does.

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Speaker 6: And I, you know, I'm not sure if he's like

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Speaker 2: You don't know if he's creepy or not. Why.

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Speaker 6: Well, he made a comment about my jewelry and my

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Speaker 6: bags that I mean, I'd like to have nice stuff.

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Speaker 6: And he asked me if I was on OnlyFans and

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Speaker 6: and and it made me think, is that how he

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Speaker 6: saw me? Is that?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 2: Is that why he's okay?

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Speaker 5: So you feel like he put two and two together

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Speaker 5: and you're usually low key about it.

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Speaker 2: You probably knew how people that want to date you

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Speaker 2: because of that.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, it's happened before, honestly, and I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 6: that's how he knows me. I'm pretty sure he figured

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Speaker 6: it out and that's why he asked me for a date.

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Speaker 4: Ohh whoa, whoa wait a minute, So you you are

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Speaker 4: only fans.

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Speaker 2: He's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 6: No, Oh my god, Oh my goodness, old.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Oh my gosh. Yeah, I swear I did not

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Speaker 4: know you were on there.

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Speaker 6: I was just making a joke.

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Speaker 2: That is a bad time joke.

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Speaker 6: I thought that you that you for sure knew I

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Speaker 6: was on and that's why you asked me out. So

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Speaker 6: you really just saw me on the app and and

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you seem so sweet. It's one percent for like

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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, I'm going to cry.

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Speaker 4: It is cool that you have an only fans.

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Speaker 6: I like it, you do, You're cool with it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't care about that. I'd never judge you

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Speaker 4: for that, you know, I mean, if you want to

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Speaker 4: keep it a secret, maybe, you know, don't bring out

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Speaker 4: the fancy stuff. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: You were doing so well. This is just another one

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Speaker 2: this moment. I like what I say.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I'm sorry. I was so stupid. I was

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Speaker 4: just trying to do I danced in person, but you

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Speaker 4: guys can't see that and it was supposed to be

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Speaker 2: But you rode a horse j R. You did Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and she was amazing.

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Speaker 4: I never would have done it if it wasn't for Marie,

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Speaker 4: like it was.

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Speaker 6: It was. You were my little You're my hero that day, Marie.

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Speaker 2: It was great. You guys are actually really cute.

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Speaker 6: Thank you. You are really sweet, Air and I and

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Speaker 6: I do really like you, Marie.

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Speaker 2: Would you like to go on another date with you?

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Speaker 4: Are?

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Speaker 2: We'll pay for it?

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Speaker 6: Really? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, Please please say yes.

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Speaker 2: Please say yes. I swear to already whoever?

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Speaker 6: Yes, great?

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Speaker 2: Sorry, you will First date follow up