WEBVTT - ADHD pt 1

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, everybody. In today's episode and in part two, we

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<v Speaker 1>talk very frankly about ADHD and all that that means

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<v Speaker 1>over the lifetime of a person who has it. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you're a parent with a kiddo who has ADHD,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe considered listening by yourself first before you share it

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<v Speaker 1>with them. Just a thought. Hope you enjoy these episodes.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to Stuff you Should Know, a production of iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, and welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh Clark, and

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<v Speaker 1>there's Charles w chuck'bryan, and there's Jerry Jerome Roland. You

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<v Speaker 1>put the three of us together and you got yourself

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<v Speaker 1>a podcast called Stuff you Should Know.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right. And this is the.

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<v Speaker 4>Sort of long simmering we've had it on the back

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<v Speaker 4>burner down to as low as a consummer. You had

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<v Speaker 4>many many months the ADHD. What is now to be

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<v Speaker 4>a two part episode because we've had I mean, that's

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<v Speaker 4>not why we're splitting it up, but we have had

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of requests for this over the years, and

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<v Speaker 4>you know, it's big that could certainly be more than

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<v Speaker 4>two episodes. And as much as I wanted to try

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<v Speaker 4>and split this up into AD and HD for fun,

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<v Speaker 4>and it kind of doesn't work that way, so we're

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<v Speaker 4>just gonna split it up into two parts.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're more thinking of ac DC.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, okay, that's that's what I think it is. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I gotcha, No, chuck.

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<v Speaker 1>Instead, today we're talking about ADHD, which stands for attention

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<v Speaker 1>deficit hyperactivity disorder. Kind of wordy, but it really does

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<v Speaker 1>get the point across because with ADHD, I'm sure a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people are familiar with it, especially the people

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<v Speaker 1>who requested it. It's a I'm not exactly sure exactly

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<v Speaker 1>what kind of disorder it is, whether it's a mental disorder,

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<v Speaker 1>a personality disorder, an externalizing disorder. There's actually a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of debate about it, but essentially, it's where people have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of trouble paying attention, sitting still focusing, and

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of other stuff that we'll talk about, and

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<v Speaker 1>you put it all together and it can make life

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<v Speaker 1>kind of hard to navigate. And at first we'll talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it a lot more. But kids, it used to

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<v Speaker 1>be like little boys fidgeting essentially was what ADHD or

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<v Speaker 1>ADD at the time was considered. But over time it's

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<v Speaker 1>really kind of expanded. We've realized way more girls have

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<v Speaker 1>it than we thought before, and we've also come to

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<v Speaker 1>realize that adults have it too, and that's a I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a really big, huge disorder, and a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people just kind of use it as shorthand, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I forgot my keys, it's my ADHD or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>But the more you know about it, the more you

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<v Speaker 1>realize it's a genuinely debilitating disorder that people have.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and sometimes you may lose your keys.

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<v Speaker 1>It's true, that is a big part of it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>they're not wrong about that.

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<v Speaker 3>One for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>So you know, when it comes to something like this,

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<v Speaker 4>that is only and I mean, honestly, in the last

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<v Speaker 4>like twenty five ish years, really come more into focus

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<v Speaker 4>as far as our understanding of it.

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<v Speaker 3>When you look.

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<v Speaker 4>Back through medical and you know, psychiatric literature, you're going

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<v Speaker 4>to see it pop up. They just didn't know what

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<v Speaker 4>it was at the time. And in this case you

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<v Speaker 4>can probably go back all the way to the eighteenth

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<v Speaker 4>century with a Scottish physician named Sir Alexander Crichton, who

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<v Speaker 4>in his seventeen eighty nine book talked about children who

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<v Speaker 4>were unable to focus on one thing at a time

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<v Speaker 4>and you know, it's one of those clear cases kind

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<v Speaker 4>of like, oh, well, it was probably somebody with ADHD.

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<v Speaker 4>It is not just a modern condition because kids eat

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<v Speaker 4>too much sugar and they have screens in their lives.

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<v Speaker 4>Screens can we'll talk about that. Can certainly, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>make things worse, But it's not like, oh, because people

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<v Speaker 4>are so busy and there's too many distractions these days,

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<v Speaker 4>and back in the olden times when there were no distractions,

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<v Speaker 4>people didn't suffer from something like this. It's just not

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<v Speaker 4>true when you hear about some of these old descriptions.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, not at all. And our understanding of it

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<v Speaker 1>has progressed like over the centuries. But it is interesting

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<v Speaker 1>that it started in the eighteenth century because I mean

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<v Speaker 1>Crichton nailed it on the head, like he's like, there's

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<v Speaker 1>definitely something here, and I guess it just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>stayed there for a little while until nineteen oh two

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<v Speaker 1>when a pediatrician from the UK named Sir George Frederick.

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<v Speaker 1>Still ironically, yeah, I thought that too. He described children

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<v Speaker 1>who had a defect of moral control, which is essentially

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<v Speaker 1>saying that these are kids who have troubled delaying gratification,

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<v Speaker 1>not thinking about negative consequences when they carry out actions,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's impulsivity. That's what we call it today, is impulsivity.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what Still was essentially describing at the time.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, in the thirties, some more descriptors came along from

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<v Speaker 4>the courtesy of some German physicians I named Franz Kramer

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<v Speaker 4>and Hans pol No in this case talking about more

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<v Speaker 4>of the hyperactivity side of things. And then about five

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<v Speaker 4>years after that, still in the nineteen thirties, in nineteen

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<v Speaker 4>thirty seven, a big I guess breakthrough came along when

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<v Speaker 4>a doctor for the Rhode Island Facility for Children with

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<v Speaker 4>neurological problems, saying Charles Bradley was doing an experiment where

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<v Speaker 4>he was doing a imaging test on the brain, and specifically,

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<v Speaker 4>in this case with kids, he was draining some brain

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<v Speaker 4>or some fluid around the brain. Rather gave the kids headaches,

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<v Speaker 4>he treated them with benza dream, which is an amphetamine,

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<v Speaker 4>And what he found out was, Wow, this doesn't seem

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<v Speaker 4>to make any intuitive sense, but giving these children amphetamines

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<v Speaker 4>is at least for about half of them, made them

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<v Speaker 4>less vigety and more focused, and all of a sudden

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<v Speaker 4>you're onto a pharmaceutical potential, pharmaceutical treatment.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, what a way to accidentally stumble into that,

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<v Speaker 1>because even today we're not exactly sure how stimulants like

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<v Speaker 1>take care of ADHD symptoms. We just know they really

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<v Speaker 1>really work. Luckily, this doctor was like quick complaining, take

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<v Speaker 1>some benz adream and shut up little.

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<v Speaker 3>Kids, and back then the kids obeyed, So.

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<v Speaker 1>There was a so that was actually kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>diversion nineteen thirty seven when when Charles Bradley discovered this

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<v Speaker 1>that amphetamines treat ADHD, it didn't like take off like wildfire,

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<v Speaker 1>because there was an interim period between then and like

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<v Speaker 1>the fifties where psychiatrists and psychologists were like, all this

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<v Speaker 1>stuff needs to just be talked out through psychoanalysis. That's

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<v Speaker 1>how you treat you know, mental disorders. And in the

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<v Speaker 1>fifties finally people were like, no, let's start prescribing drugs.

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<v Speaker 1>And one of the first companies was Siba Geige pharmaceutical company.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're definitely going to go out of business

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<v Speaker 1>if that's the name of your pharmaceutical company. But they're

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<v Speaker 1>the first ones who developed Riddlin. And it turns out

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<v Speaker 1>that the guy who developed the drug leandro penzone penizone.

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<v Speaker 1>His wife was named Rita and he named it as.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right, lovely Rita.

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<v Speaker 4>So it was the first half of the twentieth century

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<v Speaker 4>when things started to change, you know, you know not

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<v Speaker 4>I guess I could say begin in earnest as far

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<v Speaker 4>as researching this kind of thing. A lot of like

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<v Speaker 4>research into brain injuries were happening at the time, and

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<v Speaker 4>they thought that, well, hey, this is what's going on

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<v Speaker 4>with any kind of developmental issue. It's almost certainly a

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<v Speaker 4>brain injury. That can be the case for sure with

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<v Speaker 4>all kinds of developmental issues, including ADHD in this case.

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<v Speaker 4>But in the nineteen sixties that started to go out

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<v Speaker 4>of favor a little bit and they started to realize that, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of this stuff, there are a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>actually distinct conditions, and you can't just lump them all

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<v Speaker 4>in there and say it's because a kid hit his

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<v Speaker 4>head when they were young.

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<v Speaker 1>No. So in the late sixties, the DSM two, the sequel,

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<v Speaker 1>the introduced to diagnosis called hyperkinetic Reaction of childhood and

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<v Speaker 1>it's essentially ADHD that they were talking about, And this

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<v Speaker 1>is the first time it showed up in psychiatry or

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, this is actually a thing. We just aren't

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<v Speaker 1>clear what to name it yet, clearly because we're calling

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<v Speaker 1>it hyperkinetic reaction of childhood. And within a decade and

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<v Speaker 1>a half we finally had it nailed down to attention

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<v Speaker 1>deficit disorder ADD, which people of our age, that was

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<v Speaker 1>what the name we were first exposed to. For sure,

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<v Speaker 1>it was not ADHD, this new fangled version. It was

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<v Speaker 1>ad D and that's the way it was, and you.

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<v Speaker 3>Liked it, right, right.

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<v Speaker 4>ADD had a couple of subtypes depending on whether there

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<v Speaker 4>was hyperactivity involved, but they it wasn't like a part

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<v Speaker 4>of the actual definition at this point. I think seven

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<v Speaker 4>years later it finally landed upon I guess this would

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<v Speaker 4>be nineteen eighty seven. But a junior, I'm sorry, sophomore

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<v Speaker 4>in high school?

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<v Speaker 1>How is eleven?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, you were just a cute little eleven year old.

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<v Speaker 4>How was a well I didn't get pimples, luckily, but

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<v Speaker 4>it would be pimply faced teenager when ADHD finally rolls

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<v Speaker 4>through the door. And I think if you had no

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<v Speaker 4>hyperactivity attached at that time, it could it was called

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<v Speaker 4>undifferentiated ADD Right am I.

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<v Speaker 3>Saying all this?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>I think so yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You totally.

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<v Speaker 4>And then in the nineties, another big breakthrough came through

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<v Speaker 4>when they found out, hey, there's a genetic component to

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<v Speaker 4>all this, and there are actually a lot of.

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<v Speaker 3>Adults that have this.

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<v Speaker 4>We thought kids just grew out of this kind of thing,

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<v Speaker 4>but now adults are saying, like when they're diagnosing like

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<v Speaker 4>gen xers, basically diagnosing their kids, they're saying, wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 4>that sounds a lot like me, maybe I have it,

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<v Speaker 4>and oh, my goodness, I do, and that maybe also

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<v Speaker 4>why my kid has it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. One of the reasons why they used to think

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<v Speaker 1>it was just a child the disorder that you grew

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<v Speaker 1>out of was because the first batch of kids with

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<v Speaker 1>ADHD or ADD they weren't followed into adulthood. They stopped

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<v Speaker 1>studying them after they were kids, so they just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>think about it. And then also, and this is really

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<v Speaker 1>sad if you think about this as an adult. As

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<v Speaker 1>you grow up, you get so good at masking your

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<v Speaker 1>symptoms in order to blend into society totally that researchers

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<v Speaker 1>were unaware that there was a whole group of people

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<v Speaker 1>with a disorder that was just went unrecognized because they

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<v Speaker 1>were good at disguising it, which is a huge part

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<v Speaker 1>of ADHD, and it turns out just being neurodiverse in general.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, for sure. And we'll get to masking more in

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit. But another revision in ninety four in

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<v Speaker 4>the DSM finally divided ADHD up into three types, the

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<v Speaker 4>enotent of type, hyperactive impulsive type, and then the combined type,

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<v Speaker 4>which is both.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and that's where we are today.

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<v Speaker 3>Right where we are today.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know, the more we learn, I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>every ten years that there's another change.

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<v Speaker 3>So who knows where it's gonna stop.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're just going to keep adding letters. Maybe, So

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<v Speaker 1>I say we take a break and come back and

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<v Speaker 1>talk about how this whole thing kind of works in

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<v Speaker 1>the brain.

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<v Speaker 3>As far as we know, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely should know a.

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<v Speaker 5>Y s K. Lately I've been learning some stop about

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<v Speaker 5>insoma or aluminia.

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<v Speaker 2>How about the one on border like disorder, that ynder order,

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<v Speaker 2>that one be warm But it was so nice I

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<v Speaker 2>learned this, why definitely, body listen, stop stop.

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<v Speaker 3>Chuck.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't remember if I said it already, but I

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<v Speaker 1>have ADHD myself. What Yeah, And then Jerry does too.

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<v Speaker 1>It turns out this is the most amazing part of this.

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<v Speaker 1>Jerry and I were diagnosed within like a week of

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<v Speaker 1>each other, and we both told you on the same day,

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<v Speaker 1>and you found out that you were the only third

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff you should know that doesn't have ADHD.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, and I was like, oh, this is great to

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<v Speaker 4>know here fifteen years into our career.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm surrounded.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm surrounded. But you guys are both wonderful and understanding

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<v Speaker 4>this stuff helps everybody understand things because, as you'll see

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<v Speaker 4>throughout this episode, ADHD affects you, and it affects your parents,

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<v Speaker 4>your loved ones, your partners, your business partners. And I

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<v Speaker 4>think the more people understand all this stuff, the more

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<v Speaker 4>empathy we can all have for each other.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounded like a really word prey children's book.

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<v Speaker 3>About ADHD, not a kid's book writer. Even though we

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<v Speaker 3>have a kid's book exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>That still holds true. So Chuck, there's like it's clear,

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<v Speaker 1>like you said, they have a genetic or they found

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<v Speaker 1>a genetic component to this whole thing. They've also found

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<v Speaker 1>that there are definite differences in brain structure with people

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<v Speaker 1>who have ADHD. The brains are just simply physically different.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the things is that they're smaller in places,

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<v Speaker 1>like they have less volume. Maybe some parts are thinner,

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<v Speaker 1>some parts maybe thicker. And it's really important to point

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<v Speaker 1>out that brain size is not relative to intelligence. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you're verin smaller doesn't mean like you aren't intelligent.

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe here's a really good place to point out

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<v Speaker 1>that one of the things that I think is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of overlooked about people with ADHD is they have the

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<v Speaker 1>same thoughts and feelings and emotions that anybody else does.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just that they have trouble regulating those emotions and

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<v Speaker 1>regulating those behaviors that the same impulses that everybody else

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<v Speaker 1>gets can slip through with a person with ADHD. That

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<v Speaker 1>that damper that's like, well, I can't do that because

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<v Speaker 1>it's socially unacceptable that neurotypical people have is kind of

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<v Speaker 1>absent for the most part in people with ADHD unless

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<v Speaker 1>they're really paying attention and trying to hold it back.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes.

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely, And what's you know fascinating is that they can

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<v Speaker 4>detect some of these differences, like you know, with brain scans,

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<v Speaker 4>physical differences as early as age four h which you know,

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<v Speaker 4>it suggests at least that like this is innate like

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<v Speaker 4>you were probably born with this if you can be

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<v Speaker 4>you know, four years old and detect differences in brain scans.

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<v Speaker 4>Another big one, and this is kind of the the

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<v Speaker 4>real crux of the whole thing is if you were

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<v Speaker 4>a person with ADHD, then that means that you have

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<v Speaker 4>a deficit of two things that really make a big

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<v Speaker 4>difference in your life. Dopamine and nora epinephrine, two things

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<v Speaker 4>that we've talked about quite a lot over the years.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know, we know what dopamine does. And part

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<v Speaker 4>of the challenge of ADHD is if you're not getting

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<v Speaker 4>a dopamine hit. And this is just a sort of

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<v Speaker 4>a big generalization, but I think if you have ADHD,

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<v Speaker 4>you can probably relate if you're not getting that hit

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<v Speaker 4>of a dopamine, which is a you know, part of

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<v Speaker 4>the reward center, like, hey, you did a great job

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<v Speaker 4>cleaning that room and making that bed, and just look

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<v Speaker 4>at it, my dopamine is hitting and I feel great

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<v Speaker 4>about that. If you're not getting that, or that's you know,

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<v Speaker 4>dampered in some way, then you're not gonna be as

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<v Speaker 4>interested in cleaning that room or making that bed.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not that.

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<v Speaker 4>Your kid doesn't care or as lazy or loves a

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<v Speaker 4>mess is because they literally don't get that same reward

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<v Speaker 4>or adults that same reward that someone who doesn't have

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<v Speaker 4>that neurodiversity does.

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<v Speaker 3>And so they're not going to be incentivized to do

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<v Speaker 3>that thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And as we talked about in the dopamine episode, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like dopamine gives you that hit of feeling good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the thing that comes along with whatever makes you

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<v Speaker 1>feel good and says this is important, learn this and

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<v Speaker 1>remember this so that the next time you're faced with

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<v Speaker 1>cleaning a room, you can remember, Oh, there's some good

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<v Speaker 1>feeling at the end of this, and if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have that, yeah, there's there's no reason whatsoever for you

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<v Speaker 1>to get up and clean a room. Especially there's like,

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<v Speaker 1>as we'll see, there's actual brain function that's missing or

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<v Speaker 1>impaired in people with ADHD that allows them to self

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<v Speaker 1>arouse and be like, I should really do this. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to get up and do this.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>And fatigue is another sort of I guess, cosymptom of

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<v Speaker 4>ADHD sometimes because maybe you don't sleep as well, maybe

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<v Speaker 4>the hyperactivity is just wearing you out, or your anxiety which.

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<v Speaker 3>Can also come along.

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<v Speaker 4>So not only are you not getting that dopamine hit,

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<v Speaker 4>and your body isn't learning and your brain isn't learning, Like, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>here's the reward that comes with making that bed if

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<v Speaker 4>you're fatigued at the same time, and let's say you're

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<v Speaker 4>an adult and it's not just like make your bed,

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<v Speaker 4>small child. If you have a huge amount of things

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<v Speaker 4>on your plate and you're fatigued and you're not getting

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<v Speaker 4>that dopamine hit, it can I'm sure feel like the

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<v Speaker 4>weight of the world is coming down on you and

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<v Speaker 4>you could go into shutdown mode.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So one thing I saw is that they don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that people with ADHD produce less dopamine. The current

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<v Speaker 1>understanding is that people with ADHD have more dopamine transporters,

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<v Speaker 1>so that dopamine gets moved out of the brain faster,

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<v Speaker 1>so you have less of it at any given point

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<v Speaker 1>in time, not that you make less of it. The

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<v Speaker 1>other one you mentioned is nora pineffron, and that's usually

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<v Speaker 1>the thing that allows you to kind of rouse yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>and it helps you also very import and regulate emotion,

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<v Speaker 1>regulate self control, regulate attention. And so those are the neurotransmitters,

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<v Speaker 1>the big ones that definitely in some way, shape or

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<v Speaker 1>form effect ADHD. We just don't fully understand it. But

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<v Speaker 1>one of the other big things that has to do

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<v Speaker 1>with the brain is the typically the frontal lobe or

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<v Speaker 1>the frontal cortex contains like our higher thinking, our higher behaviors,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's usually put together in something called executive function

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<v Speaker 1>which is a suite of behaviors and cognitive abilities that

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<v Speaker 1>essentially let us just be you know, functioning people in

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<v Speaker 1>society as far as the terms of society.

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<v Speaker 4>Require, Yeah, like how you prioritize your tasks, how you

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<v Speaker 4>handle distractions that come your way, how you control what

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<v Speaker 4>impulses that come your way that may or may not

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<v Speaker 4>distract you from those tasks. And you know, we're going

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<v Speaker 4>to talk about I guess like six broad executive functioning components,

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<v Speaker 4>and if you have ADHD, one or all of these

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<v Speaker 4>are going to be dinged in some way. Doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 4>you can't you have zero executive functioning by any means,

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<v Speaker 4>but it just means with these six things, some of

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<v Speaker 4>them may be worse than others because ADHD, like most things,

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<v Speaker 4>sort of exist on the spectrum as far as how

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<v Speaker 4>sibiera might be for each individual. The first part of

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<v Speaker 4>that executive functioning is working memory. Of course, that's just

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<v Speaker 4>your you know, that's your working memory. It's just like

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<v Speaker 4>thoughts at any given moment about what you're doing and

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<v Speaker 4>what you are remembering to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Right. You usually think of working memories like remembering a

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<v Speaker 1>phone number while you're going to write it down, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>but it also involves everything from like engaging in a conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>planning a vacation, like anything where you're having to hold

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of thoughts like in the front of your

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<v Speaker 1>mind while you're kind of working it all out. That's

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<v Speaker 1>working memory, and it's really important and it's very frequently

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<v Speaker 1>impaired in people with ADHD. Another classic executive function that

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<v Speaker 1>is essentially universal as far as ADHD symptoms go is

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<v Speaker 1>self restraint or inhibition control, and not just physically, but

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<v Speaker 1>also emotionally and attentionally too, like staying in a conversation

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<v Speaker 1>not blurting out something offensive about someone's hair style even

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<v Speaker 1>though you don't mean to hurt their feelings. Another one too,

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<v Speaker 1>being on a diet and then just being like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna eat a bunch of cookies too. Who cares

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of all of those things? Have to do

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<v Speaker 1>with inhibition control, and that's just a big part of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and you can still say, like geez, who wears

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<v Speaker 4>a mullet these days? Just say it very quietly to

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<v Speaker 4>your friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Or just think it. And that's another thing too. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's why a lot of people who don't have

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<v Speaker 1>ADHD recognize because they were thinking the same thing, but

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<v Speaker 1>they know not to say it. This person says it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. That's the friends.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, if you've ever heard anybody say something like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I got no filter, that person has no filter.

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<v Speaker 3>That person may have ADHD.

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<v Speaker 1>Is a good chance, you know, they're just irresponsible one

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<v Speaker 1>of the two.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's true. You can also just be a jerk.

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<v Speaker 4>Planning, organizing, and problem solving is another big one. If

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<v Speaker 4>you have a goal for work or life or whatever, school,

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<v Speaker 4>what you usually do when you're executive and when you're

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<v Speaker 4>an executive, no, when you're when you're functioning executively. As

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<v Speaker 4>you take that goal, you look at it, you break

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<v Speaker 4>it down into steps and smaller parts. You do an

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<v Speaker 4>evaluation of, like what's the best way to tackle this thing?

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<v Speaker 4>And that's a big, big part of problem solving. If

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<v Speaker 4>that is impaired with ADHD, and you're throwing a big

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<v Speaker 4>task or a big worker school project, you may kind

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<v Speaker 4>of just freeze for a while, and you know, you

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<v Speaker 4>know this sounds bad, but you might just sit there

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<v Speaker 4>and think about something entirely different for a little while.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you might go to great links to avoid that task.

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<v Speaker 1>And also not just procrastinating, but like really genuinely having

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<v Speaker 1>trouble focusing because you don't know what to do. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't know where to start.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like you can't do it. It's not that's a

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<v Speaker 4>disinterest or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Right. Another one's decision making, which kind of ties into that,

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<v Speaker 1>where you know, you can't just say yes to everything.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not how life works. So you have to take

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<v Speaker 1>into like account future consequences and you have to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out do I have time to do all of these things,

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<v Speaker 1>and if not, which one's more important? Like all that

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<v Speaker 1>goes into decision making, and that can be largely impaired too,

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<v Speaker 1>not just not like necessarily all the time, But you

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<v Speaker 1>were just kind of mentioning something called ADHD paralysis that

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<v Speaker 1>where like things can get so overwhelming you cannot know

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<v Speaker 1>where to start your you know, like your bosses coming

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<v Speaker 1>down the hall to get this report. You haven't even

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<v Speaker 1>started on, and like you just shut down. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>decide anything, you can't really focus on anything. That's called

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<v Speaker 1>ADHD paralysis, and that can come from having to make decisions.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and that's where as a parent or as a partner,

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<v Speaker 4>a business partner or life partner to someone, if you

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<v Speaker 4>don't have that challenge, that's when you can really step

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<v Speaker 4>up and sit down with your kid or your friend

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<v Speaker 4>or partner and say, all right, let's sit down and

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<v Speaker 4>look at this. Let's talk about the steps, like maybe

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<v Speaker 4>what a good first step might be, maybe get a

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<v Speaker 4>little help organizing something. Those are Like to be a

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<v Speaker 4>really active involved parent or partner is key to everyone,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, doing the best they can in life.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 1>And we'll talk more about like what parents and like

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<v Speaker 1>family members and spouses and all that can do later

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<v Speaker 1>on down the road. But that's a great that's a

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<v Speaker 1>great thing to hit multiple times, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Time management is another big one that kind of ties

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<v Speaker 4>into a little bit of the planning and organization and

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<v Speaker 4>stuff like that. But just being able to allocate your time,

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<v Speaker 4>keep track of the deadlines.

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<v Speaker 3>It may seem counterintuitive.

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<v Speaker 4>But if you are a person with ADHD, you might

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<v Speaker 4>do much better with a deadline instead of some just

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<v Speaker 4>amorphous task this handed to you. So like knowing the

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<v Speaker 4>deadline may be really good for you, or the deadline

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<v Speaker 4>may just come and go sometimes as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and it's not necessarily because they're like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>care about this deadline. They may have literally forgotten about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I read a horror story Chuck about a guy with

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<v Speaker 1>ADHD an adult whose boss came to him and said, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, why don't you run Monday's meeting. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to be there, And the guy was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>knew that this was like a step toward like getting

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<v Speaker 1>me ready for the next level, for a promotion into management,

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<v Speaker 1>So he was really excited about it, and then over

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<v Speaker 1>the weekend he totally forgot about it. When the Monday

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<v Speaker 1>meeting came around, he sat down with everybody else waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for the boss, wondering where the boss was, and they

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<v Speaker 1>all just left the meeting and went back to work,

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<v Speaker 1>and his boss came and asked him how the meeting went,

0:25:01.240 --> 0:25:03.040
<v Speaker 1>and he's like, what are you talking about? And it

0:25:03.119 --> 0:25:06.679
<v Speaker 1>finally sunk into him, like what had just happened, and

0:25:06.760 --> 0:25:10.800
<v Speaker 1>think about that, like, he just probably totally scuttled any

0:25:10.880 --> 0:25:15.200
<v Speaker 1>chance of that promotion. Yeah, because he just forgot about it.

0:25:15.480 --> 0:25:17.720
<v Speaker 1>And that's just something that can happen with it. That's

0:25:17.720 --> 0:25:20.879
<v Speaker 1>a frequent reason people with ADHD miss deadlines. They just

0:25:20.920 --> 0:25:22.080
<v Speaker 1>forget that they have one.

0:25:22.440 --> 0:25:26.240
<v Speaker 4>You should have saved that for Halloween. That horror story, Yeah,

0:25:26.400 --> 0:25:27.360
<v Speaker 4>where's the knocker?

0:25:27.880 --> 0:25:32.600
<v Speaker 1>Didn't that just turn your stomach least imagining that guy

0:25:32.800 --> 0:25:33.200
<v Speaker 1>for sure.

0:25:33.840 --> 0:25:36.960
<v Speaker 4>And then the last part of executive functioning that can

0:25:37.040 --> 0:25:40.320
<v Speaker 4>be impaired is another big one. It's called task shifting,

0:25:41.520 --> 0:25:43.280
<v Speaker 4>and it leads into a couple of things we're going

0:25:43.359 --> 0:25:45.320
<v Speaker 4>to talk about. That means you get out of your

0:25:45.359 --> 0:25:48.159
<v Speaker 4>default mode, which we'll expand on here in a second,

0:25:49.119 --> 0:25:52.040
<v Speaker 4>and doing something called set shifting, which is you know,

0:25:52.080 --> 0:25:56.000
<v Speaker 4>being able to switch from task to task, being flexible

0:25:56.119 --> 0:26:00.960
<v Speaker 4>as you're doing that, maybe realizing that different tasks and

0:26:01.160 --> 0:26:05.199
<v Speaker 4>different situations require different rules. And if you don't have that,

0:26:05.280 --> 0:26:08.159
<v Speaker 4>if that's impaired, you might be really rigid in how

0:26:08.200 --> 0:26:10.200
<v Speaker 4>you think something has to be done, a very black

0:26:10.240 --> 0:26:13.520
<v Speaker 4>and white thinking. They can come across to others as stubborn,

0:26:13.960 --> 0:26:17.440
<v Speaker 4>but in the ADHD mind, you just have a hard

0:26:17.480 --> 0:26:20.280
<v Speaker 4>time task shifting right exactly.

0:26:20.320 --> 0:26:22.479
<v Speaker 1>And that's a huge classic one too, like you just

0:26:23.080 --> 0:26:25.760
<v Speaker 1>focus on one thing or you can't start another thing too.

0:26:25.960 --> 0:26:29.480
<v Speaker 1>And if you put all that together in life, people

0:26:29.520 --> 0:26:35.000
<v Speaker 1>with ADHD, they have trouble remembering to pay bills, they

0:26:35.200 --> 0:26:38.040
<v Speaker 1>forget that they have homework, They say or do in

0:26:38.119 --> 0:26:40.919
<v Speaker 1>appropriate things like not waiting for their turn to speak.

0:26:41.720 --> 0:26:46.720
<v Speaker 1>They have trouble self motivating, staying on task. They misplace things,

0:26:47.040 --> 0:26:49.360
<v Speaker 1>They have false memories, which is a really big one

0:26:49.359 --> 0:26:53.399
<v Speaker 1>that we'll talk about. They can't remember important dates or

0:26:53.440 --> 0:26:55.520
<v Speaker 1>that they're supposed to run a meeting. And another big

0:26:55.560 --> 0:27:00.440
<v Speaker 1>one too is that they'll very frequently ADHD causes you

0:27:00.480 --> 0:27:04.520
<v Speaker 1>to walk into a room and you have no idea

0:27:04.640 --> 0:27:06.440
<v Speaker 1>what you went in there for. You knew you went

0:27:06.480 --> 0:27:10.399
<v Speaker 1>in there for. Something that happens sometimes too, but imagine

0:27:10.520 --> 0:27:11.200
<v Speaker 1>every time.

0:27:11.440 --> 0:27:14.439
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, now I can't because it's it's frustrating and it

0:27:14.480 --> 0:27:15.720
<v Speaker 4>can also be alarming.

0:27:16.800 --> 0:27:19.480
<v Speaker 1>Yes, that's another thing too, is especially as you age

0:27:19.480 --> 0:27:21.720
<v Speaker 1>with ADHD, you can still be like, okay, is this

0:27:21.800 --> 0:27:24.480
<v Speaker 1>ADHD or am I developing early on said dementia? Like

0:27:24.520 --> 0:27:27.440
<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of overlap and it can be very scary,

0:27:27.800 --> 0:27:30.760
<v Speaker 1>but sure you also learn tricks like you just leave

0:27:30.800 --> 0:27:32.640
<v Speaker 1>the room and go back out to where you just were,

0:27:32.640 --> 0:27:35.560
<v Speaker 1>and you're going to see like a clue that will

0:27:35.600 --> 0:27:37.680
<v Speaker 1>prompt you to remember, and then you just think about

0:27:37.720 --> 0:27:40.359
<v Speaker 1>it while you're going into the room and then you remember.

0:27:40.520 --> 0:27:42.879
<v Speaker 1>It's usually just amounts to an extra trip back out

0:27:42.920 --> 0:27:44.879
<v Speaker 1>of the room and then back into it. But it

0:27:44.920 --> 0:27:46.439
<v Speaker 1>is just frustrating for sure.

0:27:46.840 --> 0:27:48.600
<v Speaker 4>You know what they call that in the l film biz.

0:27:48.720 --> 0:27:52.080
<v Speaker 4>Do you remember a mcguffin, Now you go back to one?

0:27:53.040 --> 0:27:55.479
<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, yeah, that's right, that's right back to one.

0:27:55.520 --> 0:27:57.639
<v Speaker 1>Dad saying that he would always pinch the bridge of

0:27:57.680 --> 0:27:59.879
<v Speaker 1>his nose while he was saying, yeah, back.

0:27:59.720 --> 0:28:01.920
<v Speaker 3>To one just means first position of that scene.

0:28:01.960 --> 0:28:04.120
<v Speaker 4>Like if the scene starts and you're in the doorway,

0:28:04.320 --> 0:28:06.160
<v Speaker 4>go back to one, You go back to that doorway.

0:28:06.240 --> 0:28:09.640
<v Speaker 4>So maybe that's a fun way to remember that kind

0:28:09.680 --> 0:28:09.920
<v Speaker 4>of thing.

0:28:10.280 --> 0:28:11.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love that, Chuck.

0:28:11.359 --> 0:28:11.840
<v Speaker 3>Way to go.

0:28:14.840 --> 0:28:16.320
<v Speaker 4>Now, let's not take a break yet, because I think

0:28:16.359 --> 0:28:21.480
<v Speaker 4>we should talk. I mentioned default mode. Default mode network

0:28:21.560 --> 0:28:25.119
<v Speaker 4>is a very big part of this, at least understanding

0:28:25.160 --> 0:28:30.800
<v Speaker 4>of this. The brain regions collectively that function when you're

0:28:31.080 --> 0:28:34.080
<v Speaker 4>just hanging out when you're hanging out on the couch,

0:28:34.200 --> 0:28:37.280
<v Speaker 4>you don't have anything to do in the moment. I

0:28:37.320 --> 0:28:40.960
<v Speaker 4>mean people with no children can identify with this, maybe

0:28:41.280 --> 0:28:44.320
<v Speaker 4>I can't. But the times of the day where you

0:28:44.360 --> 0:28:46.880
<v Speaker 4>can just sit around and introspect and daydream and zone

0:28:46.880 --> 0:28:50.600
<v Speaker 4>out a little bit, that's called default mode. And when

0:28:50.600 --> 0:28:53.080
<v Speaker 4>you're doing that, there are parts of your brain that

0:28:53.240 --> 0:28:57.120
<v Speaker 4>become really active and light up during default mode. And

0:28:57.320 --> 0:29:01.760
<v Speaker 4>if you have if you're a neurotypical person, going between

0:29:02.480 --> 0:29:05.480
<v Speaker 4>default mode, because once you have to kick into action mode,

0:29:05.480 --> 0:29:09.200
<v Speaker 4>that default mode turns off and switching between those if

0:29:09.200 --> 0:29:12.200
<v Speaker 4>your neurotypical is you know, it works as it should

0:29:12.280 --> 0:29:17.840
<v Speaker 4>if you have ADHD, and the problem is that default

0:29:17.840 --> 0:29:22.960
<v Speaker 4>mode stays on sometimes they've shown this in brain imaging studies.

0:29:23.040 --> 0:29:28.440
<v Speaker 4>So if you're doing a task that requires focus, your

0:29:28.480 --> 0:29:31.040
<v Speaker 4>default mode still may be on and that's active at

0:29:31.080 --> 0:29:34.640
<v Speaker 4>the same time. And those two things are not SYMPATICO.

0:29:34.840 --> 0:29:38.200
<v Speaker 1>No, and like by sometimes it's pretty much all the time,

0:29:38.480 --> 0:29:41.800
<v Speaker 1>like it just does not shut off. So that amounts

0:29:41.840 --> 0:29:47.040
<v Speaker 1>to there's a psychiatrist and Ned Hollowell, MD, who put

0:29:47.040 --> 0:29:50.920
<v Speaker 1>it as a persistent magnetic pull away from the task

0:29:50.960 --> 0:29:55.240
<v Speaker 1>at hand into distraction. So you're because your brain is

0:29:55.240 --> 0:29:57.640
<v Speaker 1>like no, no, no, we're over here, We're going to daydream.

0:29:57.680 --> 0:30:02.240
<v Speaker 1>Because your default mode network is on, you can't focus

0:30:02.720 --> 0:30:05.320
<v Speaker 1>for long periods on the task at hand, or if

0:30:05.360 --> 0:30:09.240
<v Speaker 1>you can, it's a constant struggle to resist. You're letting

0:30:09.240 --> 0:30:12.600
<v Speaker 1>your mind wander. You have to actively keep it focused

0:30:13.040 --> 0:30:15.840
<v Speaker 1>on the thing you're doing because you're like you said,

0:30:15.840 --> 0:30:18.800
<v Speaker 1>the action network didn't take over and the default mode

0:30:18.800 --> 0:30:23.920
<v Speaker 1>network go down, you know, proportionately to one another. Now

0:30:23.920 --> 0:30:24.880
<v Speaker 1>they're just both.

0:30:24.640 --> 0:30:29.400
<v Speaker 3>On default net network go down turned into tuk took

0:30:29.480 --> 0:30:29.680
<v Speaker 3>for me?

0:30:29.880 --> 0:30:34.000
<v Speaker 4>Yeahs is so, And we'll talk about medication and you know,

0:30:34.720 --> 0:30:39.440
<v Speaker 4>I guess probably in part two. But aside from medication,

0:30:39.560 --> 0:30:44.120
<v Speaker 4>if you are trying to help turn that default mode

0:30:44.120 --> 0:30:48.720
<v Speaker 4>network down or off, breathing techniques are a big part

0:30:48.720 --> 0:30:51.640
<v Speaker 4>of that, Like trying to stay in the present, bring

0:30:51.680 --> 0:30:55.920
<v Speaker 4>yourself back to the present through breathing techniques and mindfulness exercises,

0:30:55.960 --> 0:30:57.160
<v Speaker 4>those can go a long way.

0:30:58.160 --> 0:31:01.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, for sure. Do you want to take a break

0:31:01.400 --> 0:31:03.720
<v Speaker 1>and then come back and talk some more about you

0:31:03.800 --> 0:31:05.760
<v Speaker 1>know ADHD Yeah?

0:31:05.880 --> 0:31:07.720
<v Speaker 3>Sure, so it three here.

0:31:07.920 --> 0:31:15.480
<v Speaker 1>Definitely should know.

0:31:16.040 --> 0:31:17.320
<v Speaker 4>Y s K get.

0:31:19.640 --> 0:31:26.280
<v Speaker 5>Lately, I've been learning some stuff about insomnia or aluminia.

0:31:27.000 --> 0:31:32.640
<v Speaker 2>How about the one on borderlight disorder that are under order?

0:31:33.200 --> 0:31:35.760
<v Speaker 2>Heard that one before, but it was.

0:31:35.800 --> 0:31:37.880
<v Speaker 1>So nice I learned this.

0:31:38.200 --> 0:31:41.360
<v Speaker 5>Why except everybody listen up.

0:31:43.880 --> 0:31:49.160
<v Speaker 2>Shot, stop stop stop?

0:31:52.840 --> 0:31:53.160
<v Speaker 3>All right?

0:31:53.320 --> 0:31:56.360
<v Speaker 4>So, uh, this is a big one, maybe one of

0:31:56.360 --> 0:32:00.400
<v Speaker 4>the biggest sort of downsides to ADHD. Uh, And don't worry,

0:32:00.440 --> 0:32:02.880
<v Speaker 4>there are some upsides too, because you know there are

0:32:02.920 --> 0:32:06.600
<v Speaker 4>some quote ADHD superpowers here and there that we're going

0:32:06.680 --> 0:32:10.080
<v Speaker 4>to talk about, so take heart. But one of the

0:32:10.080 --> 0:32:15.960
<v Speaker 4>biggest drawbacks is called rejection sensitive dysphoria or RSD.

0:32:16.480 --> 0:32:17.240
<v Speaker 3>It's a very.

0:32:17.040 --> 0:32:19.920
<v Speaker 4>Destructive thing if you have it. It's very destructive to

0:32:20.000 --> 0:32:25.280
<v Speaker 4>people around you. It's the basically it's basically when any

0:32:25.360 --> 0:32:28.960
<v Speaker 4>any kind of rejection or even appearance of rejection, even

0:32:29.000 --> 0:32:34.080
<v Speaker 4>if it's not rejection, will trigger a very very intense

0:32:34.120 --> 0:32:38.680
<v Speaker 4>flood of emotion that is, it almost has and can

0:32:38.720 --> 0:32:42.000
<v Speaker 4>feel like it's having, and can have an actual physical

0:32:42.000 --> 0:32:47.160
<v Speaker 4>effect that is so strong. Not just a fear of rejection,

0:32:47.360 --> 0:32:52.120
<v Speaker 4>just a because no one likes rejection, but if you

0:32:52.240 --> 0:32:57.120
<v Speaker 4>have ADHD and RSD anything like that can bring a

0:32:57.160 --> 0:32:59.080
<v Speaker 4>real flood of negativity around you.

0:32:59.440 --> 0:33:02.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it can be actual rejection, but it can also

0:33:02.440 --> 0:33:05.880
<v Speaker 1>be something like constructive criticism, which is important to be

0:33:05.920 --> 0:33:10.160
<v Speaker 1>able to take a perceived slight, maybe a made up slight,

0:33:11.120 --> 0:33:16.120
<v Speaker 1>somebody's fleeting facial expression, and offhand comment your own false beliefs.

0:33:16.520 --> 0:33:20.640
<v Speaker 1>And then there's two ways generally that a person with

0:33:20.760 --> 0:33:24.120
<v Speaker 1>RSD or we should just say ADHD will respond to

0:33:24.160 --> 0:33:28.080
<v Speaker 1>that to that perceived rejection. They can internalize where they'll

0:33:28.120 --> 0:33:32.800
<v Speaker 1>just emotionally curl up into a ball and just shut down,

0:33:33.680 --> 0:33:36.680
<v Speaker 1>or they may also lash out and they'll have a

0:33:36.760 --> 0:33:40.960
<v Speaker 1>meltdown or an outburst, or they'll become angry. That's called externalization.

0:33:41.640 --> 0:33:43.880
<v Speaker 1>And so to really kind of put it in perspective,

0:33:44.240 --> 0:33:48.080
<v Speaker 1>imagine either one of those being the response that you

0:33:48.240 --> 0:33:51.480
<v Speaker 1>get when you ask someone to not leave their dirty

0:33:51.520 --> 0:33:52.400
<v Speaker 1>dishes in the sink.

0:33:53.160 --> 0:33:54.360
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like that's RST.

0:33:54.640 --> 0:33:56.800
<v Speaker 1>That's what it's like living with RSC. That's what it's

0:33:56.800 --> 0:33:58.800
<v Speaker 1>like having with RSC. And the big problem is the

0:33:58.840 --> 0:34:01.960
<v Speaker 1>whole thing is instant. It's not like I'm gonna have

0:34:02.000 --> 0:34:05.120
<v Speaker 1>an outbur burst, I'm gonna melt down, I'm gonna emotionally

0:34:05.120 --> 0:34:08.360
<v Speaker 1>ball up. It just it just it goes from trigger

0:34:08.440 --> 0:34:10.400
<v Speaker 1>to response with nothing in between.

0:34:10.840 --> 0:34:13.320
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and then you know, the person in your life

0:34:13.320 --> 0:34:17.160
<v Speaker 4>may end up, even if they're understanding of what's going on,

0:34:17.239 --> 0:34:20.040
<v Speaker 4>may end up walking on eggshells, may not want to

0:34:20.080 --> 0:34:25.120
<v Speaker 4>criticize or constructively or otherwise anything about that person in

0:34:25.200 --> 0:34:28.520
<v Speaker 4>fear of like a meltdown or an emotional outburst or

0:34:28.560 --> 0:34:31.840
<v Speaker 4>something like that, because it can it can really disrupt

0:34:31.960 --> 0:34:35.240
<v Speaker 4>like a relationship. So you know, you've got one side

0:34:35.320 --> 0:34:38.799
<v Speaker 4>where someone can't help something, and you've got the other

0:34:38.920 --> 0:34:42.480
<v Speaker 4>side where even if that person can't help it, it's

0:34:42.600 --> 0:34:45.720
<v Speaker 4>destructive to the relationship. So I'm just gonna do everything

0:34:45.719 --> 0:34:47.920
<v Speaker 4>I can to avoid any sort of confrontation.

0:34:48.520 --> 0:34:50.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it makes it really hard to have a connection

0:34:50.400 --> 0:34:52.440
<v Speaker 1>with somebody who might just melt down at you at

0:34:52.480 --> 0:34:56.640
<v Speaker 1>the slightest provocation, right, Yeah, and you said something the

0:34:56.680 --> 0:34:59.160
<v Speaker 1>person can't help it. The person with RC cannot help this.

0:34:59.280 --> 0:35:04.080
<v Speaker 1>They're not being a jerk, like, they can't not do this.

0:35:04.320 --> 0:35:07.319
<v Speaker 1>And one of the problems with it is that it's

0:35:07.360 --> 0:35:10.800
<v Speaker 1>really fleeting. It's like a tidal wave or getting punched

0:35:10.800 --> 0:35:13.720
<v Speaker 1>in the stomach, that's what it feels like. The overwhelming emotion,

0:35:13.960 --> 0:35:17.839
<v Speaker 1>like you said, but that's fairly fleeting, and then that

0:35:17.920 --> 0:35:21.280
<v Speaker 1>gets replaced by regret and then feelings of shame every

0:35:21.320 --> 0:35:25.440
<v Speaker 1>time because you're just so ashamed you can't control yourself. Right, So,

0:35:26.320 --> 0:35:31.040
<v Speaker 1>some people who have RSD will become people pleasers where

0:35:31.200 --> 0:35:35.200
<v Speaker 1>they don't share their thoughts, they're true emotions, they're true opinions,

0:35:35.600 --> 0:35:39.720
<v Speaker 1>they don't share themselves because what they're doing is cutting

0:35:39.800 --> 0:35:44.640
<v Speaker 1>off as much risk as possible of being rejected and

0:35:44.680 --> 0:35:47.640
<v Speaker 1>thus triggering an about of RSD.

0:35:48.320 --> 0:35:51.799
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah, that's a vicious cycle, it is.

0:35:52.080 --> 0:35:54.200
<v Speaker 1>And so initially they used to think that it was

0:35:54.239 --> 0:35:57.000
<v Speaker 1>comorbid with ADHD, that it was a separate thing, and

0:35:57.040 --> 0:36:00.120
<v Speaker 1>it's not even recognized in the DSM yet. It's that

0:36:00.120 --> 0:36:05.400
<v Speaker 1>that recently recognized. But apparently studies have found that essentially

0:36:05.440 --> 0:36:09.120
<v Speaker 1>one hundred percent of people with ADHD also have RSD.

0:36:09.640 --> 0:36:12.760
<v Speaker 1>So they're just basically coming to the conclusion that it's

0:36:12.840 --> 0:36:15.480
<v Speaker 1>a it's a terrible symptom of ADHD.

0:36:15.880 --> 0:36:16.800
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly.

0:36:17.600 --> 0:36:21.880
<v Speaker 4>We'd mentioned some benefits and positive things. Hyper focus is

0:36:21.880 --> 0:36:25.800
<v Speaker 4>one of them. It's sometimes called the superpower of ADHD.

0:36:26.680 --> 0:36:29.480
<v Speaker 4>If you and I've seen this with all kinds of

0:36:29.520 --> 0:36:32.480
<v Speaker 4>people in my life that have ADHD, if it's there,

0:36:32.560 --> 0:36:35.279
<v Speaker 4>if it's something they're into and they're interested in, and

0:36:35.320 --> 0:36:38.840
<v Speaker 4>they can zero in on that thing. It is like,

0:36:39.920 --> 0:36:42.799
<v Speaker 4>I mean, hyper focus doesn't even begin to describe it.

0:36:42.840 --> 0:36:47.120
<v Speaker 4>They can tune out everything, and sometimes to their own detriment,

0:36:47.200 --> 0:36:49.200
<v Speaker 4>you know, if it's like other things in their life

0:36:49.200 --> 0:36:52.600
<v Speaker 4>that need attention, hyper focus can distract away from those.

0:36:53.400 --> 0:36:56.880
<v Speaker 3>But it can also be a great thing. If you

0:36:57.200 --> 0:36:59.320
<v Speaker 3>are someone.

0:36:59.080 --> 0:37:03.760
<v Speaker 4>With ADHD, you may have a real like a real

0:37:04.000 --> 0:37:07.920
<v Speaker 4>skill for like zoning in on something. Maybe a particular

0:37:08.000 --> 0:37:10.200
<v Speaker 4>kind of job might be really really good for you, right,

0:37:10.480 --> 0:37:13.600
<v Speaker 4>or particular tasks maybe really really great for you, and

0:37:13.640 --> 0:37:16.120
<v Speaker 4>you can get a lot done sometimes that way.

0:37:16.400 --> 0:37:19.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's like the exact opposite of your inability to

0:37:19.160 --> 0:37:20.200
<v Speaker 1>self motivate, right.

0:37:20.440 --> 0:37:21.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:37:21.239 --> 0:37:25.799
<v Speaker 1>I saw a corporate study bandied about the statistic all

0:37:25.840 --> 0:37:29.879
<v Speaker 1>over the place, but essentially this one company found that

0:37:30.120 --> 0:37:34.920
<v Speaker 1>a person, a neurodiverse person who is locked into something

0:37:35.239 --> 0:37:38.239
<v Speaker 1>that interests them in their work will essentially do the

0:37:38.360 --> 0:37:41.239
<v Speaker 1>job of two people. They produce between ninety and one

0:37:41.320 --> 0:37:45.160
<v Speaker 1>hundred and forty percent more work than their peers in

0:37:45.239 --> 0:37:49.560
<v Speaker 1>the same, say, department, and that their work is consistent

0:37:49.640 --> 0:37:53.920
<v Speaker 1>and error free, typically because they're just totally laser focused

0:37:53.920 --> 0:37:56.360
<v Speaker 1>on that thing. So if you can find a job

0:37:56.680 --> 0:38:00.279
<v Speaker 1>that holds your interests like that, you're you're very much

0:38:00.280 --> 0:38:03.040
<v Speaker 1>in luck, because unfortunately, one of the things that is

0:38:03.040 --> 0:38:06.560
<v Speaker 1>a huge challenge for people with ADHD is finding a job.

0:38:06.800 --> 0:38:09.359
<v Speaker 1>When you have to find a job that doesn't hold

0:38:09.400 --> 0:38:13.319
<v Speaker 1>your interests, it's very difficult to arouse yourself to do that,

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<v Speaker 1>even though you know like you have to do this

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<v Speaker 1>and you should be doing it and you feel terrible

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<v Speaker 1>for not doing it, it's really hard to do sometimes.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, which is why I sort of understanding yourself and

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<v Speaker 4>your challenges is like really key when you go out

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<v Speaker 4>into the world and join the workforce, Like it's important

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<v Speaker 4>for anyone to go into the job starts thinking like,

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<v Speaker 4>all right, what am I really good at and what

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<v Speaker 4>are my challenges? But I just think it's probably times

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<v Speaker 4>a million if you have ADHD.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and yeah, for sure. Another kind of something related

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<v Speaker 1>to this is you can become laser focused on just

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<v Speaker 1>everyday tasks that end up catching your interest somehow surprisingly,

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<v Speaker 1>and so people with ADHD, if they're doing a task

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<v Speaker 1>and they're in hyper focus, it'll take them way longer

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<v Speaker 1>to do it frequently, But that's because they're doing a

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<v Speaker 1>perfect job of it. So, like say vacuuming the car,

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<v Speaker 1>you just go to vacuum the car and you're like, huh,

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<v Speaker 1>this caught my interest in Now I'm totally focused on

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<v Speaker 1>making this car immaculately clean in every way, shape or form.

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<v Speaker 1>So of course it's going to go from taking fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>minutes to taking an hour and a half. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>but when you're done, the car looks awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So maybe they're probably CEOs all over the place now

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<v Speaker 4>trying to staff up certain departments.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's actually a thing, and there.

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<v Speaker 4>Are probably people that should be auto detailers and start

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<v Speaker 4>up your own a small business that way.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Well, one of the things I saw I read

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<v Speaker 1>a del Watt or how do you say that that

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<v Speaker 1>consulting firm.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, it doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>I read one of their reports and they were saying that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, traditionally people think like, Okay, there's there's got

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<v Speaker 1>to be a good job for a neurodiverse person, like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe programming or coding or something like that. Just let

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<v Speaker 1>them go off and be themselves by themselves. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>they're starting to recognize like, no, like you can put

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that's neurodiverse in any job, and if they find

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<v Speaker 1>something interesting in it, they're going to excel at it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not necessarily a specific field that applies to neurodiverse people.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>And you know, kind of tagging onto what we were

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<v Speaker 4>just talking about, viewing yourself as you know, not having

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<v Speaker 4>some sort of defect or deficit and like, hey, this

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<v Speaker 4>is who I am, this is.

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<v Speaker 3>How I like.

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<v Speaker 4>I have no choice but to operate this way and

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<v Speaker 4>try and work, you know, within that framework, not the

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<v Speaker 4>framework of somebody who doesn't have this, who doesn't have ADHD.

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<v Speaker 4>Like it's a the world and jobs a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>times are kind of structured around I mean, yeah, the

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<v Speaker 4>entire world is structured around people who aren't neurodiverse. So

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<v Speaker 4>fitting into that world can be a real challenge no

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<v Speaker 4>matter what your neurodiversity is. So kind of working with

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<v Speaker 4>who you are and understanding that is a real key

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<v Speaker 4>to moving forward in life.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and there are a lot of positives upsides to

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<v Speaker 1>having ADHD that kind of give you talents that other

0:41:14.040 --> 0:41:18.040
<v Speaker 1>people don't necessarily have. Like one of them is I

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<v Speaker 1>saw it described as you're getting so much noise at

0:41:20.440 --> 0:41:23.799
<v Speaker 1>any given time you're inevitably going to also get more

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<v Speaker 1>data points than other people at any given time, And

0:41:26.920 --> 0:41:30.280
<v Speaker 1>people with ADHD have a typically an ability to connect

0:41:30.680 --> 0:41:34.440
<v Speaker 1>dots that other people make, connections that other people can't see.

0:41:35.120 --> 0:41:38.120
<v Speaker 1>That's a big one. Another one is like, if you

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<v Speaker 1>are multitasking and you actually get those projects done, that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of boundless energy that's synonymous with the hyperactive part

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<v Speaker 1>of ADHD, you're gonna get a ton of stuff done

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<v Speaker 1>in any given day, way more than like a neurotypical

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<v Speaker 1>person who you know, poops out halfway through the day.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Another potential positive is, you know, earlier when we were

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<v Speaker 4>talking about some of the impaired executive functions and being

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<v Speaker 4>super just sort of black and white and rigid, when

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<v Speaker 4>you apply that to a moral code, you may have

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<v Speaker 4>a very strong moral compass, whereas somebody who's a little

0:42:15.760 --> 0:42:19.000
<v Speaker 4>more sees like the gray instead of the black and

0:42:19.000 --> 0:42:21.880
<v Speaker 4>white might be like, well, you know, it's really not

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<v Speaker 4>so bad if this kind of if you do this

0:42:24.160 --> 0:42:27.040
<v Speaker 4>kind of thing, Whereas if you have a very strict

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<v Speaker 4>sort of view of right and wrong in a black

0:42:29.160 --> 0:42:31.040
<v Speaker 4>and white sense of that, you may be like, no,

0:42:31.160 --> 0:42:32.200
<v Speaker 4>that's just wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Chuck, there was this one time where I tried to

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<v Speaker 1>fight two guys who I thought were throwing rocks at

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<v Speaker 1>a manateee and like I was seeing red. You me

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<v Speaker 1>was even like it's not a manity stop and I

0:42:43.920 --> 0:42:46.960
<v Speaker 1>didn't even hear. And those guys were like, it's a rock,

0:42:47.000 --> 0:42:50.080
<v Speaker 1>We're not throwing rocks amanities. I was like, oh all right,

0:42:50.640 --> 0:42:53.880
<v Speaker 1>and luckily they were cool with it. But I was

0:42:53.920 --> 0:42:56.480
<v Speaker 1>ready to fight two dudes for throwing rocks at amanity.

0:42:56.640 --> 0:42:59.560
<v Speaker 1>Like my sense of justice was just that stricken.

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<v Speaker 3>I wish I would have been there. How might we

0:43:01.840 --> 0:43:03.000
<v Speaker 3>might have fought them anyway.

0:43:02.800 --> 0:43:07.239
<v Speaker 4>Josh, Just because I've never been in a fight, right, So,

0:43:07.440 --> 0:43:09.000
<v Speaker 4>like I don't know, it'd be fun to get in

0:43:09.000 --> 0:43:09.520
<v Speaker 4>a fight.

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<v Speaker 3>With you, right, sure?

0:43:10.760 --> 0:43:11.879
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah back to back?

0:43:12.360 --> 0:43:15.319
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, exactly with the two Musketeers.

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<v Speaker 1>Another one Chuck is if a person with ADHD gets excited,

0:43:19.719 --> 0:43:22.200
<v Speaker 1>it's infectious. Typically if they're in a place where they

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<v Speaker 1>feel safe and comfortable, like just showing their excitement and

0:43:25.000 --> 0:43:27.719
<v Speaker 1>just letting it hang out, You're probably going to get

0:43:27.760 --> 0:43:30.719
<v Speaker 1>excited along with them because it's just so it just

0:43:30.800 --> 0:43:32.960
<v Speaker 1>fills over. It can be really nice to.

0:43:32.920 --> 0:43:34.480
<v Speaker 3>Be around, for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>One more thing if you have ADHD, you very typically

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<v Speaker 1>catastrophize as far as thinking goes. You're just constantly expecting

0:43:45.280 --> 0:43:48.319
<v Speaker 1>the worst, just because over and over and over again

0:43:48.360 --> 0:43:50.840
<v Speaker 1>in your life the worst has come around because you

0:43:50.920 --> 0:43:54.680
<v Speaker 1>forgot to do something or whatever. So that catastrophic thinking

0:43:55.040 --> 0:43:58.239
<v Speaker 1>can actually be an asset in that you can look

0:43:58.280 --> 0:44:00.560
<v Speaker 1>at something that everybody's about to do, like, well, we're

0:44:00.560 --> 0:44:03.000
<v Speaker 1>all gonna die if we do this that no one

0:44:03.000 --> 0:44:06.000
<v Speaker 1>else saw, and you can find a safer option in

0:44:06.040 --> 0:44:09.640
<v Speaker 1>that way. It's actually a huge benefit of having ADHD,

0:44:09.680 --> 0:44:12.440
<v Speaker 1>even though you have to suffer with catastrophic thinking in

0:44:12.560 --> 0:44:14.279
<v Speaker 1>order for that to be an asset too.

0:44:14.440 --> 0:44:14.640
<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Chuck, I say that we end part.

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<v Speaker 3>One here, Yeah, just getting cooking too, and then we're.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to pick up part two and we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>talk more about ADHD and part two, and then while

0:44:28.960 --> 0:44:31.840
<v Speaker 1>we're talking about ADHD, we'll eventually finish part two and

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<v Speaker 1>then that will complete part one and two of ADHD.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think about that.

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<v Speaker 3>For a plan? I think that sounds great.

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<v Speaker 4>And as is custom here, we don't do listener mail

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<v Speaker 4>or anything for these two parters, so I guess we'll

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<v Speaker 4>just say see you Thursday.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and finish on that dramatic pause, like the very

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