WEBVTT - The Holidays are Here! 0:00:01.920 --> 0:00:05.359 Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I'm heart Radio Podcast. 0:00:06.040 --> 0:00:07.880 We're going to start the show mad at Easton. How's 0:00:07.880 --> 0:00:08.240 that sound? 0:00:08.240 --> 0:00:10.480 I'm mad at you Easton, You're mad at me? 0:00:10.640 --> 0:00:14.000 I am guys, this is the wine Down pot. 0:00:14.040 --> 0:00:16.560 I'm like really mad. I like how to well it 0:00:16.560 --> 0:00:18.720 was Jana's idea, but Jana had a really good idea 0:00:18.880 --> 0:00:21.160 and I was like, oh, and then they mentioned, oh, 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:23.720 Easton could come, he should come out to Wilmington and help. 0:00:23.760 --> 0:00:30.240 But no, ohday, It's yeah, it's my damn birthday. 0:00:30.880 --> 0:00:31.639 Selfish of you? 0:00:32.000 --> 0:00:34.560 Selfish. I didn't want to come to Tree Hill. 0:00:35.240 --> 0:00:37.320 Do you do you have a thing against One Tree Hill? 0:00:38.320 --> 0:00:43.640 I love One Tree Hill and I love It's true. 0:00:43.680 --> 0:00:45.960 I love, I love the city of Wilmington. I loved 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:47.800 my two days I spent there, and that was the 0:00:47.840 --> 0:00:49.880 last flight I took before the pandemic. 0:00:50.200 --> 0:00:53.760 Tell me here, tell me your favorite thing about One 0:00:53.760 --> 0:00:54.200 Tree Hill. 0:00:55.040 --> 0:00:59.960 My favorite thing about One Tree Hill definitely uh uh. 0:01:00.800 --> 0:01:05.080 I love the character of Alex Duprey. 0:01:05.440 --> 0:01:06.720 You've never seen it. 0:01:07.000 --> 0:01:07.720 I love you. 0:01:08.319 --> 0:01:09.920 I like that the show. 0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:14.600 I love I love the basketball aspect. I love everything 0:01:14.600 --> 0:01:22.000 that happens at Trick. I love uh uh. All the 0:01:22.000 --> 0:01:24.160 great role models in the show. 0:01:24.200 --> 0:01:26.839 What was your favorite Alex Duprey scene? 0:01:27.800 --> 0:01:32.160 Go the definitely the one where she where she models 0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:33.880 the clothes over bros. 0:01:34.160 --> 0:01:37.440 Okay, you did watch that's a that's a good one. 0:01:38.720 --> 0:01:40.880 The day you sang on there, I. 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:43.119 Have a clothes over bros shirt Jana that I wear 0:01:43.160 --> 0:01:44.800 with regularity. 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:46.360 Really with regular Yes, you know who. 0:01:46.400 --> 0:01:48.520 I was so surprised that was a wonder Hill fan 0:01:48.600 --> 0:01:52.000 was Jimmy Allen When I didn't know that, Yeah, I 0:01:52.040 --> 0:01:54.200 was just like, I remember the first time meeting him, 0:01:54.240 --> 0:01:56.200 he called me Alex Duprey and I was like, wait, 0:01:56.280 --> 0:01:57.280 I'm so confused. 0:01:58.160 --> 0:01:59.840 I mean, I think a lot of people are closet. 0:02:00.960 --> 0:02:03.000 I mean, I just found out that my best friend 0:02:03.080 --> 0:02:08.000 was a massive tree Hiller. Matt An, I'm sorry what 0:02:08.080 --> 0:02:10.000 I thought you liked me for me? Catherine to. 0:02:13.160 --> 0:02:16.960 The House of At the House of Blues, Anaheim, You're performing, 0:02:17.000 --> 0:02:18.959 and you know, everyone's going crazy because it's a Janet 0:02:19.000 --> 0:02:20.600 Creamer show, and then like in the middle you're like, 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:22.760 where am my one tree Hiller's at And the place 0:02:22.800 --> 0:02:26.760 started vibring. It was I've never heard an audience reaction 0:02:26.880 --> 0:02:27.360 like that before. 0:02:27.760 --> 0:02:29.760 I know tree Hillers are like the greatest people in 0:02:29.760 --> 0:02:33.680 the world. But we're trying to do a podcast in 0:02:34.840 --> 0:02:37.799 The problem is is I'm going to Ireland, and then 0:02:38.360 --> 0:02:39.960 I got some travel, and then I was going to 0:02:40.000 --> 0:02:41.560 I'm going to a wonder Hill convention. So we were 0:02:41.560 --> 0:02:46.000 trying to do like a live not live, but recording 0:02:46.040 --> 0:02:49.800 from there. But it's just Easton. Everyone can just write 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:52.080 to Easton and just say that they're just disappointed in 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:55.519 Easton on his birthday. What are you and your wife. 0:02:55.320 --> 0:02:59.520 Going to do? I don't know, but I don't. We 0:02:59.560 --> 0:03:02.560 have a low plans, but I didn't want to like 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:04.480 not be with her. 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:07.440 I'm so kidding. I'm We're literally just giving you a 0:03:07.480 --> 0:03:10.240 hard time. I'm not really excited for you. And when 0:03:10.320 --> 0:03:12.440 I got I got probably a big one, right, it's 0:03:12.440 --> 0:03:14.600 a big forty. 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:15.839 Yeah, Oh my god, is he like twenty? Thanks? 0:03:15.919 --> 0:03:19.440 I love Yes, I am twenty. I am twenty years old. 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:22.359 You know, you know thirty fourth, the thirty fourth year 0:03:22.400 --> 0:03:23.000 is a big year. 0:03:23.200 --> 0:03:26.400 It's a big deal. Everyone remembers their thirty fourth birthday. 0:03:26.400 --> 0:03:26.960 It's a big one. 0:03:27.480 --> 0:03:27.679 Yeah. 0:03:27.720 --> 0:03:30.079 I would take that over Wilmington too, for sure. 0:03:30.560 --> 0:03:32.640 My heart broke when I got the call because I 0:03:32.720 --> 0:03:34.520 was like, if this was any other day, I would 0:03:34.639 --> 0:03:36.640 jump at this opportunity. You know, if it was my 0:03:36.680 --> 0:03:38.840 wedding anniversary, I would have gone. But oh my god, 0:03:40.160 --> 0:03:44.120 that's a joke. No, But I'm very sad I won't 0:03:44.120 --> 0:03:45.640 be able to be there because I do love the 0:03:45.640 --> 0:03:48.720 city of Wilmington, uh and I love One Tree Hill 0:03:48.960 --> 0:03:51.080 and I most importantly though, I just love. 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:51.840 Hanging out with Janet. 0:03:51.880 --> 0:03:52.040 Oh. 0:03:52.520 --> 0:03:54.200 You know, well any moment I can get to be 0:03:54.240 --> 0:03:55.400 with you in personal. 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:58.640 Page sure, which I want to talk about in a second, 0:03:58.720 --> 0:04:00.240 but I just want to say that today is a 0:04:00.240 --> 0:04:03.400 special Filo bonus episode. We love Filo all the channels 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:06.360 that we can get, and you can watch a Filo 0:04:06.440 --> 0:04:09.800 today to see Jenny Garth in a kind hearted Christmas. 0:04:09.800 --> 0:04:12.280 And again, remember guys, if you want to watch Filo 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:15.200 in so many amazing TV shows and streaming all of 0:04:15.200 --> 0:04:17.240 your favorites, you can get twenty five percent off your 0:04:17.279 --> 0:04:19.359 first two months, which is an insane deal. So go 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:23.120 to Filo dot tv slash Jana Easton, I need you 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:25.760 back on because the last time we hung out was 0:04:26.040 --> 0:04:31.920 in Vegas and we never talked about it when we gambled. 0:04:32.720 --> 0:04:35.160 That's right, that's right, my high roller moment. 0:04:35.040 --> 0:04:38.480 No fun so completely it was we were why were 0:04:38.520 --> 0:04:43.279 we there over the iHeart Festival? Yeah, And I asked Easton, 0:04:43.880 --> 0:04:47.400 it was amazing, beautiful wife to come gamble with us 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:50.200 and so and you guys, you thought we were just 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:55.000 going to go to like the slow we're not big gamblers. 0:04:55.040 --> 0:04:56.880 So I was like, oh, I think we're gonna and 0:04:57.160 --> 0:04:59.320 I didn't know about you know what a high roller 0:04:59.400 --> 0:05:04.960 you are, so we're just gonna we're well, no, we 0:05:05.200 --> 0:05:06.640 we thought it was gonna make slots and stuff. When 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:08.800 we get down there and Jane is like, we're playing blackjack, 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:11.000 and I'm like, oh, geez, I don't know how to 0:05:11.080 --> 0:05:11.960 last I played this game. 0:05:11.960 --> 0:05:13.640 I got yelled at by an old man like I 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:14.599 don't I don't know how. 0:05:14.440 --> 0:05:18.960 To do this, but wow, what an experience that was. 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:19.919 Sits down at the table. 0:05:20.240 --> 0:05:23.039 So he sits down at the table, sit. 0:05:22.880 --> 0:05:23.320 Down the table. 0:05:23.360 --> 0:05:25.640 I think we put down forty dollars because that was 0:05:25.680 --> 0:05:28.479 what I had in my pocket. And uh, we you know, 0:05:28.600 --> 0:05:31.400 Jana tells us what to do because she's like, okay, 0:05:31.400 --> 0:05:33.640 you got it. You gotta stay when when to hit? 0:05:33.880 --> 0:05:36.080 I learned the little hand motions you tap the table. 0:05:36.200 --> 0:05:38.520 You know, yea, you shake your hand when it's time 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:41.880 to stay, and uh, you know, it's fun. We I 0:05:41.920 --> 0:05:44.400 will say, we lose almost all of our money, like 0:05:44.640 --> 0:05:48.080 in the first few hands. Then Jana, my guardian angel, 0:05:48.200 --> 0:05:51.599 she gives me ten dollars to keep playing, and and 0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:55.120 then that's when they's turned around. Then oh man, we 0:05:55.120 --> 0:05:58.000 were just winning, baby, We're like at one point some 0:05:58.040 --> 0:05:59.440 friends of mine came by to say hi, and I 0:05:59.440 --> 0:06:00.919 turned my back, and then I came back and like 0:06:00.960 --> 0:06:01.839 the money had tripled. 0:06:01.839 --> 0:06:04.080 It was just a giant pile of chips. I could. 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:06.200 We won like two hundred dollars at the end of it. 0:06:06.200 --> 0:06:06.839 It was awesome. 0:06:07.080 --> 0:06:08.960 I know, it was so cute. It was so fun 0:06:09.000 --> 0:06:11.000 to sit there and play. I mean, I love black Jacket. 0:06:11.000 --> 0:06:13.200 I think it's so much fun, especially when there's a 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:15.080 good person. 0:06:14.880 --> 0:06:17.600 Like we had a terrible dealer that night, but we 0:06:17.640 --> 0:06:20.160 had the other two men at the table that were amazing. 0:06:20.320 --> 0:06:21.719 Oh my god, there's so so fun. 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:23.480 So that made it better. And then they helped us 0:06:23.600 --> 0:06:24.080 and stay. 0:06:24.200 --> 0:06:26.279 Or bottom line is we like to hang out with 0:06:26.279 --> 0:06:27.360 you to Easton, so. 0:06:28.080 --> 0:06:30.279 Oh thank you. That really was a special moment. 0:06:30.360 --> 0:06:32.039 I was like, I can't believe I'm getting all this 0:06:32.160 --> 0:06:34.080 money and I get to hang out with Jana and Catherine. 0:06:34.080 --> 0:06:34.880 This is so much fun. 0:06:36.240 --> 0:06:37.159 You like hanging out with me? 0:06:37.200 --> 0:06:37.800 To Easton? 0:06:37.960 --> 0:06:38.320 I do? 0:06:38.360 --> 0:06:38.560 I do? 0:06:38.640 --> 0:06:39.920 I felt like I hit the jackpile. 0:06:40.720 --> 0:06:45.920 Oh but I'm want Hey, Mark, you want to come 0:06:45.920 --> 0:06:46.720 to Wilmington. 0:06:47.480 --> 0:06:51.440 Oh no, Dad, Dad, I. 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:54.240 Promise I'm not nearly as fun as Easton to hang 0:06:54.279 --> 0:06:59.680 out with. Enjoyable. I'm back. 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:01.960 Oh did you get COVID? 0:07:02.960 --> 0:07:06.520 No? No, No, Everything's fine. Some days I'm in, some 0:07:06.640 --> 0:07:07.640 days I'm gonna keeping. 0:07:07.480 --> 0:07:08.680 One day in. You got COVID? 0:07:09.279 --> 0:07:10.080 Huh. 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:17.520 Interesting. So we have Jenny Garth coming on. I'm excited 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:20.720 to talk to them about Christmas. What are you looking 0:07:20.760 --> 0:07:22.440 forward to Christmas? Mark? 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:25.760 I am looking forward to going to Hawaii. 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:26.200 What. 0:07:26.880 --> 0:07:30.640 I've never been to Hawaii before. This was an idea 0:07:30.880 --> 0:07:33.480 that came last Christmas. We were in Big Bear because 0:07:33.480 --> 0:07:35.360 it was the first Christmas we couldn't go to Wisconsin. 0:07:35.440 --> 0:07:37.720 It'd been you know, our kids have never not spent 0:07:37.880 --> 0:07:41.160 Christmas in Wisconsin with the grandparents. So my brother in law, 0:07:41.200 --> 0:07:44.320 who is a mailman, said, I am off the week 0:07:44.320 --> 0:07:46.800 of Christmas and New Year. In twenty one I'm never 0:07:46.920 --> 0:07:49.480 off Christmas and New Year. I may never again be 0:07:49.560 --> 0:07:52.400 off Christmas in New Year. Let's go to Hawaii. So 0:07:52.440 --> 0:07:55.040 we got it all planned out. We're going to Owaihu 0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:56.240 Is that where Honolulu is? 0:07:56.680 --> 0:07:59.360 I don't know. I've only been to Kawai and Maui. 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:02.360 I recommend and taking a little plane if you have 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:04.080 time to go to Kauai because it's. 0:08:04.000 --> 0:08:06.120 Well, we're doing two weeks there, so we may have time. 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:09.480 Yeah, Like Kawhi is beautiful, and then Maui is it's 0:08:09.560 --> 0:08:12.040 kind of like la. But the road to Hanna is stunning. 0:08:12.400 --> 0:08:14.679 So if you have a chance to do that too, great. 0:08:14.720 --> 0:08:16.640 But I've never been to Wahu. You all tell tell 0:08:16.720 --> 0:08:17.000 us how. 0:08:17.240 --> 0:08:20.200 Very excited we're flying in Honolulu. There's this really cool 0:08:20.240 --> 0:08:22.640 like resort where, like you know, presidents stay and that's 0:08:22.640 --> 0:08:26.320 where our ABNB is right near that. So yeah, we're 0:08:26.400 --> 0:08:26.960 very excited. 0:08:27.320 --> 0:08:31.240 Wow, oh my goodness, I have a So then you 0:08:31.440 --> 0:08:33.920 are you selling celebrating actually Christmas there? 0:08:34.679 --> 0:08:36.560 Yeah, we're there for Christmas and then we leave New 0:08:36.600 --> 0:08:37.079 Year's Day. 0:08:37.120 --> 0:08:40.320 I say, I've always wondered about that because like you 0:08:40.360 --> 0:08:42.120 just tell your kids that Sanna comes to or I 0:08:42.120 --> 0:08:44.439 guess the kids know there's no Sanna. So now they're that. 0:08:44.440 --> 0:08:48.040 Eighteen, they're fifteen and twelve. Yeah, I mean yeah, they've 0:08:48.040 --> 0:08:50.080 done every They were sad to not go to Wisconsin, 0:08:50.120 --> 0:08:51.679 but we brought up the idea of Hawaii. They're like, 0:08:51.720 --> 0:08:53.319 oh that's better. Yeah, let's see. 0:08:53.360 --> 0:08:55.200 I think that'll be fun eventually, because like right now 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:57.480 I'm in the stage like I love having beat, like 0:08:57.559 --> 0:08:59.760 not traveling and being here. But once they get older, 0:08:59.800 --> 0:09:01.559 it's kind of like, okay, this is like. 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:04.040 Yeah, we talk about that all the time. Yeah. Nick's like, 0:09:04.080 --> 0:09:05.840 are we at that point now where we're traveling yet 0:09:06.160 --> 0:09:07.400 or are we still buy five year old? 0:09:07.400 --> 0:09:09.600 Tell me ye oh yeah, and then. 0:09:09.520 --> 0:09:11.240 You have to like still buy for the older kids 0:09:11.320 --> 0:09:13.000 or the five year old's gonna be like, wait, why 0:09:13.040 --> 0:09:17.400 didn't they get sharing Sannah. So we're close but not 0:09:17.520 --> 0:09:17.920 there yet. 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:21.520 Well let's take a break and then talk more Christmas 0:09:21.600 --> 0:09:27.120 with Jenny Garth. I am constantly looking for ways to 0:09:27.200 --> 0:09:30.240 cut expenses. Oh my goodness, where do I start all 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:32.800 the stuff for the kids, all my things that I 0:09:33.000 --> 0:09:35.640 like to do. Maybe a little bit of Amazon. So 0:09:35.720 --> 0:09:37.719 when I added up what I pay every month for 0:09:37.880 --> 0:09:41.040 cable plus a couple premium channels on top of what 0:09:41.160 --> 0:09:43.280 I pay for on demand streaming services. 0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:44.600 I was shocked. 0:09:45.360 --> 0:09:48.600 Well, Filo was created by TV lovers for TV lovers. 0:09:48.920 --> 0:09:51.240 Here's what I get for just twenty five dollars a 0:09:51.360 --> 0:09:55.920 month over sixty premium TV channels, A massive on demand 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:59.560 library of top tier beloved shows and movies to watch 0:09:59.679 --> 0:10:03.480 any time. I want, unlimited DVR, the best and biggest 0:10:03.559 --> 0:10:05.959 in industry that lets me save shows for up to 0:10:06.120 --> 0:10:08.280 a year, and I can stream Filo on up to 0:10:08.360 --> 0:10:11.319 three devices at the same time. Filo is super easy 0:10:11.360 --> 0:10:14.240 to set up with no hassles and no contracts. Add 0:10:14.320 --> 0:10:17.080 up what you're paying for TV and streaming brutal right, Well, 0:10:17.160 --> 0:10:20.079 Filo gives me a totally better TV experience for just 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:22.680 twenty five dollars a month. And I asked my friends 0:10:22.720 --> 0:10:24.680 at Filo if I could offer you guys a special 0:10:24.760 --> 0:10:27.559 deal to try Filo, and they said, of course. So 0:10:27.679 --> 0:10:30.000 I got you twenty five percent off your first two months. 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:33.600 Go to Filo dot tv slash Jana. That's Filo dot 0:10:33.640 --> 0:10:34.920 TV slash Jana. 0:10:40.520 --> 0:10:43.640 Hi pretty lady, Hi, Sorry, sorry, I thank you guys. 0:10:43.679 --> 0:10:46.599 Wait, don't even worry. I was giving my best d 0:10:46.760 --> 0:10:47.920 some total gossip. 0:10:48.920 --> 0:10:49.079 Good. 0:10:51.040 --> 0:10:53.600 Are you excited to get into the holiday spirit? 0:10:53.720 --> 0:10:54.120 My friend? 0:10:54.800 --> 0:10:59.040 So, yeah, this morning I took my daughter who's in 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:02.160 high school, to school in my bathrobe and slippers, and 0:11:02.360 --> 0:11:05.079 then I came home in the same bathrobe and slippers 0:11:05.120 --> 0:11:06.920 and put up to Halloween decorations. 0:11:07.040 --> 0:11:08.559 What is it two days before Halloween? 0:11:09.520 --> 0:11:11.120 Hey, least they're up. I mean I don't even have 0:11:11.200 --> 0:11:12.200 them up, so that's fair. 0:11:12.920 --> 0:11:13.760 So I'm doing good. 0:11:13.800 --> 0:11:15.760 I'm in the Halloween spirit and then I'm going to 0:11:15.800 --> 0:11:17.719 get into the Thanksgiving spirit, and then I'm going to 0:11:17.760 --> 0:11:18.680 do the Christmas spirit. 0:11:19.480 --> 0:11:20.360 I loved you that day. 0:11:20.679 --> 0:11:23.160 And speaking of the robes, do you want to say 0:11:23.200 --> 0:11:24.960 when you talked about their Dana story? 0:11:25.080 --> 0:11:27.000 So, like last week, I showed up to the bus stop. 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:29.920 You know, my hair is like frizzy in my pajamas, 0:11:30.160 --> 0:11:31.960 I may or may not have to brawn. I don't 0:11:31.960 --> 0:11:34.640 even remember at this point, and really not. All the 0:11:34.720 --> 0:11:36.840 moms at the bus stop are like dressed to the nines, 0:11:37.000 --> 0:11:39.959 and I'm like, do we do this? Like do we 0:11:40.080 --> 0:11:42.120 dress up for the bus stop? So anyway, so I 0:11:42.200 --> 0:11:44.360 did a story and I was like, who dresses up 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:46.719 for the bus stop? And who looks like this, you know, 0:11:46.880 --> 0:11:48.520 and most people looked like said. 0:11:48.360 --> 0:11:48.959 Yeah, it looks like me. 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:50.719 I don't remember every wearing a broad to the bus 0:11:50.760 --> 0:11:52.720 stop like I just my hair is never bro I. 0:11:52.720 --> 0:11:55.120 Just had a sweatshirt on. So yeah, really tell you. 0:11:55.200 --> 0:11:57.199 Guys, I'm so jealous that you have a bus stop 0:11:57.280 --> 0:11:59.040 to go to. I will live in a town with 0:11:59.120 --> 0:11:59.800 a bus stop. 0:12:00.320 --> 0:12:02.520 Hey, man, make your way to Tennessee. And it's I'm 0:12:02.559 --> 0:12:06.080 telling you what it's. It's the bus stop is it's 0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:08.520 it's a happening place. Let me tell you it sounds nice. 0:12:08.760 --> 0:12:11.760 The same for the car rider line, Like half those 0:12:11.800 --> 0:12:14.600 people have to be wearing like you said, the bathrobe, right, 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:16.240 not like dressed up in the car. 0:12:16.800 --> 0:12:19.559 I hope. So my windows are really tinted so I 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:21.199 can be in there. I can do whatever I want 0:12:21.280 --> 0:12:21.440 in my. 0:12:21.520 --> 0:12:22.400 Car and I won't know. 0:12:22.840 --> 0:12:23.280 That's great. 0:12:23.440 --> 0:12:25.480 My mom always said though, She's like, what happens if 0:12:25.559 --> 0:12:26.959 like you break down and I'm like, well, then I'm 0:12:26.960 --> 0:12:29.880 gonna look like, you know, someone with a robe and 0:12:29.960 --> 0:12:31.120 slippers on, Like that's fine. 0:12:31.200 --> 0:12:33.400 I always think that. Can you just imagine it on 0:12:33.480 --> 0:12:34.839 the side of the freeway. 0:12:36.440 --> 0:12:40.040 Slippers Jenny would have had a field day with you. 0:12:40.800 --> 0:12:42.160 I literally was the thoughts. 0:12:41.960 --> 0:12:44.000 Were going through my mind as obviouly was like, oh shit, okay, 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:45.240 I cannot have an accident. 0:12:45.240 --> 0:12:46.600 I've drive really carefully. 0:12:46.880 --> 0:12:48.920 And then I was thinking, oh, it's when you think 0:12:49.040 --> 0:12:51.280 you have to drive really carefully, that's when you have 0:12:51.360 --> 0:12:51.840 an accident. 0:12:52.120 --> 0:12:52.320 Yep. 0:12:52.679 --> 0:12:54.839 So I just let it go and whatever happened. But 0:12:54.880 --> 0:12:56.240 I made it home and no accidents. 0:12:56.320 --> 0:12:58.920 And now you look beautiful and you decorated for Halloween 0:12:59.040 --> 0:13:02.600 like you're you're you're there. When do you decorate for Christmas? Oh? 0:13:02.840 --> 0:13:03.040 You know. 0:13:03.200 --> 0:13:04.640 I was thinking it would be fun to do it 0:13:04.760 --> 0:13:09.240 right after Halloween, but then when you have Thanksgiving. I 0:13:09.280 --> 0:13:13.000 don't like to cross the holidays because it gets confusing. 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:16.520 Like to me, I'm the only one that really cares. 0:13:16.600 --> 0:13:19.720 But I just want to like really enjoy Thanksgiving because 0:13:19.720 --> 0:13:21.880 I have a daughter. One of my daughters is coming 0:13:21.920 --> 0:13:24.679 home from college for Thanksgiving and then she's coming home 0:13:24.760 --> 0:13:27.280 again for Christmas. So I thought I wanted to really 0:13:27.400 --> 0:13:29.719 like feel like it's Thanksgiving, and then when she comes 0:13:29.760 --> 0:13:31.280 back the second time, I wanted to really feel like 0:13:31.320 --> 0:13:34.080 it's Christmas. So I'm going to wait until the day 0:13:34.240 --> 0:13:36.319 after Thanksgiving to decorate this year. 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:38.319 I love that I have. 0:13:38.920 --> 0:13:43.520 I was talking to Catherine about this because I'm obviously 0:13:43.640 --> 0:13:49.400 recently divorced, and I started to get a little emotional 0:13:49.480 --> 0:13:53.480 when I started seeing, you know, everyone dressing up for Halloween, 0:13:53.559 --> 0:13:55.319 because we used to always like go out and like 0:13:55.600 --> 0:13:57.360 we would dress up together as a family, and now 0:13:57.400 --> 0:13:58.920 it's like, oh, it's different. And then I was like, 0:13:59.000 --> 0:14:01.719 oh God, And then so like Christmas and like I 0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:03.000 don't even know if I want to put a put 0:14:03.040 --> 0:14:04.839 up decorations because then that's just going to like make 0:14:04.880 --> 0:14:07.240 me sad or like what did you do after your 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:10.079 divorce to like did you embrace it or were you 0:14:10.240 --> 0:14:12.800 just like how was that first? Because I'm I'm I'm 0:14:12.880 --> 0:14:15.000 gonna be honest, like I'm like, I feel like even 0:14:15.040 --> 0:14:17.440 like thinking about it and just like get so emotional 0:14:17.520 --> 0:14:21.440 thinking about the first holiday of being divorced and being single. 0:14:22.200 --> 0:14:22.600 Mm hmm. 0:14:22.960 --> 0:14:23.160 Yeah. 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:29.720 Well for my last divorce, I had to I wait, 0:14:29.880 --> 0:14:34.680 I really thought about my kids. Like I just thought, yeah, 0:14:34.800 --> 0:14:37.680 that is going to make me sad, but I don't 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:40.520 really matter right now. What matters is my kid's happiness 0:14:40.600 --> 0:14:43.960 and making this you know, a good holiday for them 0:14:44.000 --> 0:14:47.520 because they're going through the ringer in their own way 0:14:47.840 --> 0:14:50.400 dealing with all of this, and so I just wanted 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:53.800 to make things seem as cozy and comfortable and familiar 0:14:53.960 --> 0:14:57.000 for them as I possibly could. So you kind of 0:14:57.040 --> 0:14:59.080 just have to put yourself on the back burner, HM. 0:14:59.480 --> 0:15:01.800 Which were used to doing. So we're good at it. 0:15:02.400 --> 0:15:04.960 But it just keep you know, just keep that in 0:15:05.120 --> 0:15:07.880 the forefront of your mind, that the kids really deserve 0:15:08.400 --> 0:15:12.280 a holiday, and you know, they didn't ask for this divorce. 0:15:12.320 --> 0:15:15.440 They didn't you know, it's not their fault. So just 0:15:15.520 --> 0:15:16.520 keep those things in mind. 0:15:16.840 --> 0:15:19.320 No, that's so true, And I appreciate you even because 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:21.320 I'm like part of me is like, man, I didn't 0:15:21.320 --> 0:15:23.000 even think of like, of course, it's like it's for 0:15:23.120 --> 0:15:26.200 the kids, but I think, you know, I don't know. 0:15:26.440 --> 0:15:28.280 I'm like, well, yeah, dun now, I like really want 0:15:28.320 --> 0:15:28.800 to go all out. 0:15:29.000 --> 0:15:30.800 Yeah, and you want it to be familiar and yeah, 0:15:30.800 --> 0:15:32.600 I'm all you don't want it to feel like a 0:15:32.920 --> 0:15:34.680 different year, you know, I mean. 0:15:34.680 --> 0:15:38.280 Just do it, do it, or you could just say 0:15:38.320 --> 0:15:41.960 screw it and take them on a tropical vacation for Christmas. 0:15:42.200 --> 0:15:44.720 That sounds great, that Mark, I'm coming to see all 0:15:44.960 --> 0:15:48.200 that in Hawaii because we were just talking about that. Yeah, no, 0:15:48.400 --> 0:15:49.920 I no, I get that, but no, but that makes 0:15:50.080 --> 0:15:53.400 that makes sense. I feel like it's just yeah, kind 0:15:53.440 --> 0:15:55.560 of walking through the like first that I'm just kind 0:15:55.600 --> 0:15:58.640 of like figuring out a little bit. But I wonder too, 0:15:58.760 --> 0:16:01.920 like do you ever feel like from your last divorce, 0:16:02.080 --> 0:16:05.520 like did it take you a while to kind of 0:16:05.720 --> 0:16:11.120 move on or did did you feel because because I like, 0:16:11.280 --> 0:16:14.000 I feel like I kind of keep going back when 0:16:14.080 --> 0:16:16.040 it's like I feel like I go forward and then 0:16:16.080 --> 0:16:17.120 I go ten steps back. 0:16:19.400 --> 0:16:24.640 Yeah, I mean everybody's circumstances are different, but yeah, every time, 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:29.640 you know, I would have to face my ex and 0:16:29.880 --> 0:16:34.560 his then girlfriend at my doorstep picking up my daughters 0:16:34.760 --> 0:16:38.320 to take them for a week, I took a million 0:16:38.400 --> 0:16:41.680 steps back, you know that. And when you have kids 0:16:41.720 --> 0:16:44.960 and you share custody, that's really hard and it makes 0:16:45.000 --> 0:16:47.840 it really hard to get over it because that person's 0:16:47.880 --> 0:16:51.960 in your life forever now and you have to find 0:16:52.320 --> 0:16:55.000 a way to sort of manage that and. 0:16:56.560 --> 0:16:57.280 Be okay with it. 0:17:00.120 --> 0:17:00.320 Yeah. 0:17:00.480 --> 0:17:03.080 I mean I I actually was on the treadmill earlier 0:17:03.120 --> 0:17:04.840 today and he was my ex was calling me about 0:17:04.840 --> 0:17:07.520 something and I just like had like this anxietness, like 0:17:07.600 --> 0:17:09.800 heaviness in my chest and because I think I'm just 0:17:09.880 --> 0:17:13.080 like upset about the emotions of the holiday and not 0:17:13.200 --> 0:17:15.760 wanting this and everything else. And it's like I found 0:17:15.800 --> 0:17:17.639 myself being like a little snippy, and I'm like, man, like, 0:17:17.680 --> 0:17:19.560 I can't wait till I can like release that and 0:17:19.720 --> 0:17:21.280 just be like, hey, how are you and like not 0:17:21.480 --> 0:17:26.000