1 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:19,240 Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl Lexp. 2 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:21,319 Speaker 2: And it's your girl Dre and the Cold, and you 3 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 2: are tuned in to another episode of Poor. 4 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:26,720 Speaker 3: Mind, where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. 5 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:32,480 Speaker 1: We gotta guest today, We gotta guess today. Okay, this has. 6 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 2: Been a long time coming, Yes it has. I don't 7 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:39,559 Speaker 2: like to talk to people who also have podcasts. That'd 8 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 2: be some of my favorite episodes personally. 9 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 1: Okay, so today we have missed Jay Hill in the building. Okay. 10 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 2: I like to let people give, you know, their interjection 11 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 2: and let them know, you know, so let the girls 12 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 2: know who you are, what you got going on, all 13 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 2: that good stuff, mister j Hill. 14 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 4: I got a podcast, Jahill Podcast. 15 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 5: I know. I have another podcast with my fiance called 16 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 5: The Gemini Scop. Your podcast. I mean that's pretty much it, man, Like, 17 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 5: I mean, I'm just working. 18 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: Why did you get into podcasting? 19 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 2: Because I know, like our stories, like you know, we 20 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:17,040 Speaker 2: were friends and people like, oh, y'all so funny. But 21 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 2: you know you had your podcast solo at first, So 22 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 2: what made you like get into that? 23 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 5: Yeah? 24 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 4: I got fired, so I mean it was it was like. 25 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 3: It was no joy. 26 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:28,839 Speaker 5: Yeah, I had no chur so, Like it's funny because 27 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 5: like when I was doing a podcast, I didn't even 28 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 5: know it was a podcast. Like I had a show 29 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 5: on DTL AL Radio and it was like a freestyle show. 30 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 5: It was like really big in Baltimore, like he's doing 31 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 5: really good numbers. And I got into altercation. H then 32 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 5: I got fired. So like my my line brother gave 33 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 5: me seventeen hundred dollars, I bought two shore mics. I 34 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 5: bought the little focused right thing, and I was like, man, 35 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 5: I set up in the crib and I set up 36 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 5: on like the little lunch table, you know, the little 37 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 5: fold out lunch table, and we was just doing free 38 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 5: stars out the crib. Yeah. We put the I had to. 39 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 5: You couldn't even tell, Like I put all the phone 40 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 5: on the back of the wall. I had like little 41 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 5: posters and ship like that. 42 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 1: On the floor, like what we finna talk about today. 43 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,799 Speaker 4: I think that's how the Aaron Kin started though, I think. 44 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, on the floor doing whatever. So you used to 45 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 1: work at the radio stations. 46 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:26,679 Speaker 5: Yeah, I used to work at DTL R. Then I 47 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 5: used to work at like k y S, and then 48 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 5: I used to YE and I used to work at 49 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:33,639 Speaker 5: UH squat Morgan w e A. I got fired from 50 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 5: there too. 51 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 2: So you had a background and like radio yeah, because 52 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:39,920 Speaker 2: you know what, I'm not gonna lie. Like when you 53 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:41,799 Speaker 2: asked us to come on the pod. I remember I 54 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 2: text your I was like, hey, he wants to come 55 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:46,080 Speaker 2: on the pod. And I hate to say this, I'm 56 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:47,919 Speaker 2: gonna be honest right now. So y'all don't get mad 57 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 2: at me. Pop ship, but it's not pop and ship. 58 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 2: I hate going on people podcasts. And the reason I 59 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 2: say that is because a lot of times people want 60 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 2: me and Drea to sit on their couch and it's 61 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 2: gonna be a poor Minds episode of you don't speak 62 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 2: the funk up, Yeah, and let us know what you're 63 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 2: gonna talk about, because I'm end up talking to her 64 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:05,640 Speaker 2: and be like, well, you know. 65 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 1: What I'm saying. 66 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 2: But I respected it so much because when we came 67 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 2: on there, like you was ready, it was very prepared 68 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:14,239 Speaker 2: and it was such a good episode. 69 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 5: It was fun. 70 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was really. 71 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 2: I was like, man, we gotta have them on the show, 72 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 2: you know, because like I said, it's been a lot 73 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 2: of times and we're going to other people's shows. 74 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 1: Y'all don't be trying to look it up because they 75 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 1: always let me see what show they went. 76 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, but it was a good episode though, if they 77 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 6: look up the episode we did on his podcast that. 78 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 5: Y'all are real drunk niggas. Got lit. 79 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 3: We and then we were supposed to go out afterwards. 80 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, I think I said I didn't want 81 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 5: to go. 82 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 7: No. 83 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 1: No, he did say no, I'm not going. 84 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, like I already know I was not not well. 85 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 3: It was one of your friends. 86 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 5: Yea friends friends, They're gonna go out of ten like me, I'm. 87 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 1: Like, y'all stood up. 88 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 6: It was like a long time ago because this was 89 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 6: when what was no but it was one gate was 90 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 6: still opening the clothes now. 91 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like last year. That's when my titties 92 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 1: was fresh. Yeah you know I had woke up straight 93 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 1: off the surgery. 94 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 5: My friend's gonna go ten out of ten. But I 95 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 5: already am like no. 96 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:17,359 Speaker 6: Ye. 97 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:19,359 Speaker 1: Also, you know I ain't ship. 98 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 2: I just thought about that because that's how I tell Tom. 99 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:23,839 Speaker 2: I have so many surgeries. 100 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:27,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, this is when I just got with them. 101 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 1: That's how I tell Tom. Y'all strip Okay, it's accurate. 102 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:36,280 Speaker 2: So before we get into these topics today, you said 103 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:38,720 Speaker 2: fiance because the girls was gonna comfort you, because that's 104 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:40,040 Speaker 2: what they do when on. 105 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 1: Account this man is engaged. 106 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:47,160 Speaker 2: Okay, so how long have y'all been together total ship? 107 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 5: It'd be six years February. And how long y'all been 108 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 5: engaged since June? 109 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 1: I like that, you. 110 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 2: Know, because sometimes you ask a person how long have 111 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 2: they been together versus engaged, they'd be like, man, we've 112 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 2: been together for six years and I just asked her 113 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 2: to marry me last month. 114 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:05,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, we're gonna get married next month. 115 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:08,680 Speaker 3: So you wasn't playing right around the corner. 116 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:12,159 Speaker 5: Yeah, we're gonna get No, I'm lying, No, it is 117 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 5: next month twelve, we're gonna get married. 118 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, like the question, you were like, let's do it. 119 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, we're gonna have a wedding, though we're not 120 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:23,039 Speaker 5: when the twelve. It's not gonna be like a wedding. 121 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 2: They do like the paperwork, but whenever the wedding happens, 122 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:28,839 Speaker 2: I do sing very well. 123 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 1: So if y'all I don't even charge. 124 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:32,799 Speaker 5: You, it's on a hot say less. 125 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:33,679 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 126 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 3: Are y'all both from Baltimore? How did y'all mean? 127 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 5: No, she's from Connecticut. She she she's from Connecticut. Oh, 128 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:43,359 Speaker 5: she's from Montgomery County by way of Connecticut. I guess 129 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 5: you said, yeah, originally from Connecticut. But I met her 130 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 5: like in DC. I was doing this it's like a 131 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 5: fake reality TV show and she didn't really do nothing, 132 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 5: but it was like a bunch of like what you 133 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 5: call them influencers from a d m V. I think 134 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:59,719 Speaker 5: I was the only one from Baltimore. So like we 135 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 5: was on and I've seen it. We just popped it off. 136 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, so is it true like when guys like meet 137 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: a girl like they know, like, so, did you know 138 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:10,720 Speaker 1: like she was wifey like material off top? 139 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:12,359 Speaker 5: No not really. I had just got out of her 140 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 5: breakup and I wasn't really fucking with like Instagram chicks. 141 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 4: Yeah no, no, no, she's not. 142 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:22,719 Speaker 5: Oh like yeah, so like I was like all the 143 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:25,479 Speaker 5: way turned off by that ship. So like I seen 144 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 5: your last girl was yeah yeah, yeah, so I seen 145 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 5: her and we was just vibing for it wasn't even 146 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 5: nothing like that. We was just vibing. I talked ship 147 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 5: for real. So she was talking because I was talking 148 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 5: about like Instagram chicks and she was like you saying hurt, 149 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 5: Like yeah, she was like she was talking, so like 150 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:43,839 Speaker 5: that's what Instantly, I don't know, we was just vibing 151 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:45,039 Speaker 5: for real. Yeah. 152 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 2: After that so often because I feel like a lot 153 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:50,159 Speaker 2: of men they always say, oh, when a man knows, 154 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:52,159 Speaker 2: he knows right off top. But when did you figure 155 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 2: out out of the six years, when did you know, like, Okay, 156 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 2: this is going to be my wife? Was it like 157 00:06:58,160 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 2: second year thirty? 158 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 5: I was It was probably like around when I proposed 159 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 5: to be that's real ship. Yeah, like I'm gonna keep 160 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 5: all the way funky with you. I ain't really with 161 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 5: like the traditional relationship advice like that, and she might 162 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 5: not like this, but I feel like for me, it 163 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:16,160 Speaker 5: was like, man, we've been thugging. You know what I'm saying, 164 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 5: Like what the like, what am I doing? What? We're 165 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 5: gonna be married? We're not because like we've been thugging. 166 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 5: She she's there with me, on with her. We got 167 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 5: into all these arguments, break up, make up all this ship. 168 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 5: So it's like, bro, we fucking married, let's be married. 169 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 5: Keep it all the way funky with you. Like you know, 170 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 5: women want to hear like I was so love and 171 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 5: like I'm yeah, like, man, we family, so you I mean, 172 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 5: I keep it all the way funking with you to 173 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 5: like me like I'm a grown ass man, Like, bro, 174 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 5: what is he doing? Like yeah, you keep playing wife 175 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 5: games with somebody that's your girl, like she might gonna 176 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 5: be your wife, so like you're gonna do this because 177 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 5: this is what we yet that's what we get with it. 178 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 5: I'm trying to we got family together, Like listen, I 179 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 5: ain't trying to play no games. And I want all 180 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 5: my blessings to keep it all the way with you. 181 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 2: That's real because you know what this is what a 182 00:07:58,360 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 2: lot of people say. They be like, what's the same, 183 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 2: and something about why a botty cow when the milk 184 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 2: for free or something like that. 185 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 1: Is that the same? 186 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 2: I don't know, but it's a country thing. So it's 187 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 2: basically saying like when a woman is giving a man 188 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 2: all of these like whit like she's already acting like 189 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 2: a wife, that be. 190 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 5: Like why I marry her? 191 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 2: But I'm glad that you said it because you were like, Okay, 192 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 2: she's doing all these wifely things. I need to marry 193 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 2: this woman. You know what I'm saying, Especially because I 194 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 2: say this on both ends. I am not with the 195 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 2: gender wars I hate gender wars. I feel like me 196 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 2: and Dre definitely used to put a little gas and 197 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 2: the fire on that. 198 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:34,439 Speaker 6: Well no, I feel like I always just said spoke 199 00:08:34,520 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 6: my peace, like that's how I be feeling, you know. 200 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 6: But like even when it comes to marriage and stuff 201 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 6: like that, I really feel like it's person by person based, 202 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 6: person by person based, Like I feel like you do 203 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 6: have men that be like, oh, yeah, I knew I 204 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 6: was gonna marry my wife the first time I seen her. 205 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 6: And then I think you got men who like they 206 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 6: had to warm up and warm up to the woman 207 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:54,200 Speaker 6: and be like, Okay, I think that she might be 208 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 6: the one. I think I can see myself being with her. 209 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 6: But then we could also talk about how I think 210 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 6: some people just get married because they believe in partnership, 211 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:04,560 Speaker 6: not really the romance side of married. 212 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:06,439 Speaker 5: So your point, well not even to your point, we 213 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 5: touch on the the gender wars and ship like that, 214 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:14,079 Speaker 5: but the saying you said, right, like why why. 215 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:17,720 Speaker 1: Belt for free? Yeah that's not the right saying. 216 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:21,040 Speaker 5: But what I keep it a hundred with you, like, 217 00:09:21,080 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 5: it's that's why I said it, how I say it, 218 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 5: And I like I walk in that because a lot 219 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 5: of people out here trying to be something that they ain't. 220 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:27,320 Speaker 5: They figured you know what I'm saying, like I ain't 221 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:28,719 Speaker 5: with the figures to you making sure that ain't. That 222 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 5: ain't who I am. So like, I say that proudly 223 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 5: and I know my my fiance might not like it, 224 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:33,440 Speaker 5: but that's my truth. 225 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 4: And there's a lot of men out here. 226 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 5: Who need to hear that, right, because you do have 227 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 5: people who is like, man, were doing all this so 228 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:40,839 Speaker 5: like and then they be scared to keep it on hundred. 229 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 5: It's like, man, I don't know if we good or bad? Yeah, 230 00:09:43,720 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 5: but that's relationships. You feel me like, I don't know 231 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 5: if we like we good this day, we bad this day. 232 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 5: You ain't respecting me this day. I'm tired of you 233 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 5: this day. Then I love you this day all the 234 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:54,319 Speaker 5: way with you, right. I feel like that's a lot 235 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:57,559 Speaker 5: of our experiences. But we got Instagram, so everybody want 236 00:09:57,600 --> 00:10:00,559 Speaker 5: to be perfect. Nah, that's whack. So I'm like, bro, Nah, 237 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:03,200 Speaker 5: we regular, just like y'all regular. But I had to 238 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 5: find something in me like bro, like, listen, man, I'm 239 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 5: not I'm not about to be playing these games. And 240 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 5: plus bro, I love God, so I want all my blessings. 241 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:10,719 Speaker 5: You feel me like I'm all the way funky with you, 242 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:12,680 Speaker 5: just just like I'm not about to keep playing house 243 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:14,760 Speaker 5: and like sleeping out up like you feel me. 244 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 4: I'm listen, man, like we're gonna do this, so we're 245 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 4: not gonna do it. 246 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:19,959 Speaker 5: So like to your point, people do that though, like 247 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:21,680 Speaker 5: you feel me, like people, it ain't the fact that 248 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 5: like people don't and I mean to wrap y'all up, 249 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:26,560 Speaker 5: but it ain't the fact that people like they don't 250 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 5: know or nothing like that. It's just they be scared. Bro. 251 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 5: Niggas go through real stuff and relationships, and it's like, man, 252 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 5: if you start thinking, like man, we get together and 253 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 5: get divorced, all that's real. 254 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, but like you gotta find something within yourself. 255 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:40,319 Speaker 2: And I also think people are just scared of commitment. 256 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 2: Like I said, I think a lot of times because 257 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 2: it is true though women are starting to discover like 258 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 2: I'd rather be single than to be struggling with a nigga, 259 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:49,719 Speaker 2: and I feel. 260 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 1: The same way. 261 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 6: But as I think some people get married because they 262 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:54,680 Speaker 6: don't want to struggle. Like that's what I was saying about, 263 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 6: like the partnership side of getting married. Like just so 264 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 6: you don't have to go through life alone, or maybe 265 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 6: y'all don't have you don't have to pay for things 266 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 6: alone and stuff like that. I think some people get 267 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 6: married for that reason. It's not so much because they're like, oh, 268 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:08,080 Speaker 6: I'm madly in love with this person. This is the 269 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 6: love of my life, and I feel like I'll never 270 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 6: find nobody like you. It's like, okay, well you know, 271 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 6: you keep it. 272 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 5: Fun with you. You could definitely find somebody like anybody 273 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:16,320 Speaker 5: that you with. 274 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 3: You said you can find with you. 275 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 4: Definitely find somebody like anybody that you with. 276 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 6: So y'all think so you think that everybody replaceable? Yeah, really, 277 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 6: well that's interesting with getting me. 278 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:32,319 Speaker 3: I don't like that. I don't like that. 279 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 2: And see, and this is where I because honestly where 280 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:39,439 Speaker 2: I'm at in life, Like I tell Dre this all 281 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 2: the time. I had to and I'm doing this in 282 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 2: my therapy like I'm learning to heal because I like, Okay, 283 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:48,319 Speaker 2: I want partnership. I know that I don't want to 284 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 2: navigate my life the rest of my life alone. I 285 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 2: want that partnership, not because I need to pay my 286 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:58,680 Speaker 2: rent or split things. I'm a lover. I'm a romantic girl. 287 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 2: Like I love that. So when I find my person, 288 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 2: I want to feel like it's somebody that I feel 289 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 2: like is irreplaceable. I want him to make me feel 290 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 2: like I'm irreplaceable. I like my man obsessed with me, 291 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 2: and I want to be obsessed with my men. So 292 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 2: I feel like, if we really have that really real 293 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:19,120 Speaker 2: love that I'm looking for, it shouldn't feel like because 294 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 2: everybody is irreplaceable. 295 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:23,600 Speaker 5: Basically too, yes, why not. 296 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 1: I'm not saying it's gonna be perfect. 297 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 2: We're gonna argue, well, I'm gonna fight, but I want 298 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 2: somebody that we wake up every morning that we choose 299 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:33,679 Speaker 2: each other. Yeah, just because you hate me today I 300 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 2: get on. 301 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 1: Your nerves, you can't, but we're gonna. I'm gonna choose 302 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 1: you to. 303 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:40,839 Speaker 5: With that being said, though they're replaceable, but you choose 304 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 5: not to replace them, but. 305 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 1: They're not replaceable. 306 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:45,680 Speaker 6: Though everybody's not replaceable, I was gonna say I agree 307 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 6: with replaceable from the context of like I can find 308 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 6: another man at any given point, like I could find 309 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 6: somebody else to be in your shoes. 310 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 3: But I think that. 311 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 6: Most people are not replaceable because you're not gonna find 312 00:12:58,160 --> 00:12:59,719 Speaker 6: somebody that's exactly like. 313 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:04,360 Speaker 5: I just said this on our podcast. The thing about it, Bro, 314 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 5: I ain't gonna lie to you man like. That's why 315 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 5: it's important to have a community of people, like a 316 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:11,840 Speaker 5: black minded individuals. Right. The thing that helped me stay 317 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 5: with my woman is understanding that I'm not by myself. 318 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:16,120 Speaker 4: And what I mean by that is when I talk 319 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 4: to my. 320 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 5: Homies and I'm like, Yo, she just don't appreciate me, 321 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 5: man like, she just she just never satisfied. Guess what 322 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 5: my homies say. That's murted probably feeling the same way, bro, 323 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:26,800 Speaker 5: And that happens across the board. No, I understand that, Like, 324 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 5: it's not just me. A lot of times we want 325 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 5: to skip, jump and run because we think, oh it's me, 326 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 5: it's me, or like it's them, it's them. I can 327 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 5: find somebod else that can replace her and do this 328 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 5: and do something different. Now you're gonna have the same problems. 329 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 5: It's who you decide to stay with. Right. So even 330 00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:41,119 Speaker 5: to your point, it's not the fact that she's replaceable. 331 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:42,839 Speaker 5: It is the fact that I know that I'm replaceable. 332 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 5: So now it's not it's not even the fact that like, bro, 333 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 5: y'all can replace my woman, like you better do this. 334 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,200 Speaker 4: Nah, it's the fact that I know that I'm replaceable. 335 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 5: So when I look at it contemplations in this real right, 336 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:52,559 Speaker 5: So when I look at her chick as a man 337 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:54,680 Speaker 5: I am and I be like, damn I drill at 338 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 5: Guess what shit is Another nigga that probably drill my chick. 339 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 5: So I gotta remember, like just as I can do, 340 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 5: shit can do so all the way folks, so like 341 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:05,080 Speaker 5: they keep it a hunted, like it keeps me humble, 342 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:07,959 Speaker 5: and the like, Nah, nigga, your ship. You you're just 343 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 5: think too like you replaceable as well. So the fact 344 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:12,960 Speaker 5: that like when we say it, it sounds like I'm saying, 345 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:15,840 Speaker 5: like my chickens replaceable. Now, nigga, you replaceable, so you 346 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:18,760 Speaker 5: better keep your shit toget. All of us are replaceable. 347 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 5: Just like I'm a man and I'm be like, Bay, 348 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 5: what a remote that? And it's under the it's under 349 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 5: the couch. Another man gonna be like, Babe, what a 350 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 5: remote that? It's under the couch. We all do the 351 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 5: same ship, you know, I'm saying, that's all I'm saying. 352 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:30,440 Speaker 5: It's the same things it is. 353 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:33,640 Speaker 6: But but when it comes to feelings, I feel like 354 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:38,640 Speaker 6: that's when shit, get a little competent, that's body to 355 00:14:38,760 --> 00:14:41,560 Speaker 6: do the same thing that someone else is doing. But 356 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 6: that feeling sometimes is just irreplaceable, Like I can't find 357 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 6: nobody to make me feel this way the same. 358 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 5: Find nobody, but you can find something. You can find 359 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 5: a place, you can find a thing. I'm gonna keep 360 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 5: it a hunted with you like that feeling ship. I pray. 361 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 5: I pray that God continues to like overweight my woman feelings. 362 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 5: If it came down to feelings, we will never be 363 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:00,800 Speaker 5: married because one day I feel good and one day 364 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 5: I don't. One day I feel like you're the best 365 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 5: person in the world, one day I feel like, God, 366 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 5: what the hell I think? 367 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 2: That's why I said, I have to be with somebody 368 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 2: who really has a high emotional intelligence, because if you everybody, 369 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 2: y'all should know that feelings are fickled. 370 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:20,360 Speaker 1: Fact there literally we talked this morning. Me Andre had 371 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:21,760 Speaker 1: a conversation this morning. 372 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 2: About a situation that had happened because emotions were high 373 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 2: and somebody made a decision and then the next day 374 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 2: they was like, oh, my bad, because you know, I 375 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 2: need somebody to understand that, like, hey, just because you 376 00:15:34,960 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 2: don't like me today you're gonna be mad when I 377 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 2: pack up my bags and leave. So don't make permanent 378 00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 2: decisions off of temporary feelings. We should all know that, 379 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 2: And like Drea said, I agree with Drea on that part. 380 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, you can be replaced, but I'm not 381 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 2: gonna feel You're not gonna feel how you feel with. 382 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:55,320 Speaker 6: Big emotions are fleeting, but I want somebody that when 383 00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:58,040 Speaker 6: the emotions is high, this is how you make me feel, 384 00:15:58,040 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 6: because it could be with somebody else where. It's like, oh, 385 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 6: feeling's gonna be fleeting with you too, but you still 386 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 6: don't make me feel like these. 387 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 1: Last yea look as perfect example. 388 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 6: We just not asked compatible, or maybe we just don't 389 00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 6: have as much incoming, or maybe we just don't see 390 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:12,040 Speaker 6: the world the same. 391 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:13,960 Speaker 3: Maybe you just don't love me the same. 392 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 6: Like not to say we don't still love each other 393 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 6: too in this new relations right, we just ain't got 394 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 6: that type of I don't know, world shaking love to 395 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:24,360 Speaker 6: me and this other nigga desire. 396 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 5: I ain't gonna lie to you man like, I don't 397 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 5: know like I feel you though with you, but at 398 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 5: the same time, like man like, we're grown, like you said, 399 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 5: like we're grown. 400 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 4: So it's like, man, that feeling shit, Man, I have 401 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:35,240 Speaker 4: got my back. 402 00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:37,400 Speaker 3: You feel like you shouldn't go chasing it, not even. 403 00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 5: Chasing it, Like, bro, I'm with my woman because of 404 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 5: the ship. That like, I'm with her because who she 405 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 5: is to me. You feel what I'm saying and like 406 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:45,600 Speaker 5: who we are together? 407 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 3: But see see and. 408 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 1: This is my because you know what's crazy. 409 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 2: I had a situation one time and I was dealing 410 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 2: with this man and I know, y'all he loved me down, 411 00:16:56,840 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 2: love me down. And he was like why did he 412 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 2: asked me? He was like, why do you love me? 413 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 2: And I started naming like a whole bunch of shit, 414 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 2: like you know, I got in my bag a little bit, 415 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:06,439 Speaker 2: you know, I. 416 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 1: Started naming all this. I was like, oh, you're a 417 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:09,119 Speaker 1: great father, you know. 418 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 3: I like what you made me feel. 419 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:12,359 Speaker 2: I like how you show up for me. I like 420 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:14,000 Speaker 2: how you romance me and all this stuff. 421 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:16,880 Speaker 1: And I was like, after I got done, I was like, okay, 422 00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:19,200 Speaker 1: so why do you love me? He was like I 423 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:20,640 Speaker 1: love the way you love. 424 00:17:20,520 --> 00:17:23,719 Speaker 2: Me and the reason It made me mad because it 425 00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 2: was like it was nothing about me personally, like I 426 00:17:27,320 --> 00:17:29,119 Speaker 2: know I love you good. Oh, I know I was 427 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:31,440 Speaker 2: putting that love and on them. I know I love 428 00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:34,199 Speaker 2: you good, but what about me do you love? And 429 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:37,119 Speaker 2: that's what I'm saying. That's why I realized, like the 430 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 2: love you can love somebody, but this person, I love 431 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:44,399 Speaker 2: them differently because I know that they love qualities about me, 432 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 2: Like he was everything he was saying. It was just 433 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:48,440 Speaker 2: about how I love him. So that's why I say 434 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:52,200 Speaker 2: what that difference is. Because perfect example, if something happened 435 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:54,120 Speaker 2: to me and dress argued right now and I said 436 00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:56,600 Speaker 2: I quit the show, drag could have a replace me 437 00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 2: here next week. It's gonna be a thousand y'all messager 438 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:00,679 Speaker 2: Like I could do what Legs do. I could do 439 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 2: what Lex do, but guess what, it ain't gonna be 440 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 2: poor mind. 441 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, it ain't gonna be. 442 00:18:04,520 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 1: It'll be. It could be a great show. 443 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 2: Y'all could go on tours, sell our tickets, but people 444 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 2: gonna still be like, damn no, what do you remember 445 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:13,200 Speaker 2: when it was poor mine? So that's what I'm saying. Yeah, 446 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:16,480 Speaker 2: everybody replaceable, but you need that feeling. 447 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:18,200 Speaker 4: Y'all watch podcasts right or not? 448 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:22,640 Speaker 5: So for example, Joe Button podcast, right, yeah, we all 449 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:25,640 Speaker 5: know Joe Button podcast because of Royal more right, right, 450 00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 5: sh it was good, it was it really good, fantastic, 451 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 5: we all fell in love with it. Yes, they got 452 00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:34,440 Speaker 5: a new co hosts on and it's probably exponentially better, 453 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:36,520 Speaker 5: Like it's probably ten times better to keep it all 454 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:38,959 Speaker 5: the way funky with me. So it's like, yeah, we 455 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 5: replaced with it might not be poor minds, but it 456 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:42,240 Speaker 5: could be better. But all all I'm saying is when 457 00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:43,960 Speaker 5: I say I love my woman because I like what 458 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:45,679 Speaker 5: we are together, like who she is to me, not 459 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:47,320 Speaker 5: the fact that she loved me. I love her because 460 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 5: like she's nurturing, right, I probably can find another woman 461 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:52,439 Speaker 5: that's nursing, but I ain't even I ain't even willing 462 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:54,680 Speaker 5: to take that risk. Say, like me and my woman 463 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:58,160 Speaker 5: got something that like I had never had with somebody else. 464 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:02,200 Speaker 5: So it's like I'm willing to go through the triumphs 465 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 5: for her. It's like it's always compared to my work 466 00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 5: because as men, like the only thing that we really 467 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:08,159 Speaker 5: could see sometimes is working the money. Right, And I 468 00:19:08,160 --> 00:19:09,480 Speaker 5: told her the other day, like I feel like I 469 00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:13,200 Speaker 5: love her almost or just as much as I love 470 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:15,119 Speaker 5: my dream. And nobody has ever come close to that, 471 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 5: not even my mom. You know what I'm saying, like 472 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:19,160 Speaker 5: nobody and she know, like nobody will ever come and 473 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 5: come close to my dream. But I'm willing to go 474 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 5: through the hell fire and whatever to get to my 475 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:26,880 Speaker 5: dream because that's what i want. Same thing with my woman. 476 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:28,679 Speaker 5: You feel me like I'm willing to go whatever, go 477 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:30,879 Speaker 5: through whatever, to stick it out with my woman because 478 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:31,720 Speaker 5: we got each other back. 479 00:19:31,760 --> 00:19:33,359 Speaker 4: You know what I'm trying to say. I could tell 480 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:35,439 Speaker 4: you a thousand things that's good about her, for sure, 481 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:36,400 Speaker 4: but I'm telling. 482 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:38,280 Speaker 5: You why I love her, like while we together. You 483 00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, Like my dream ain't to keep 484 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 5: it a hundred, like it ain't really giving me nothing crazy, 485 00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:45,720 Speaker 5: I'll probably go get another fire and make more money. 486 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:47,639 Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, like have less stress, but 487 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:49,680 Speaker 5: it's my dream. You know what I'm saying, Like that's 488 00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:52,680 Speaker 5: that's my woman. You feel me like we family outside 489 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:56,760 Speaker 5: of the fiance, boyfriend, girlfriend, like we family. Can't can't 490 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:58,840 Speaker 5: nobody replace that, can't nobody take that away from me. 491 00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:00,840 Speaker 5: I can go through other things with somebody, but I'm 492 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 5: here with you. 493 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:03,520 Speaker 2: I say, yeah, but I get that, but and I 494 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:05,560 Speaker 2: think that's what people need to understand because I know, 495 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 2: like we can sit here and disagree about it, but 496 00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 2: that's why I always say, do what works for you, 497 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:15,440 Speaker 2: because obviously that's what is working for y'all. And y'all 498 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 2: have a beautiful family. You know, look y'all about to 499 00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 2: get married. Maybe I ain't even close to walking down 500 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 2: the aisle. 501 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:23,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, I understand it because I guess like 502 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:26,399 Speaker 6: even in my relationship that I'm in right now, like 503 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:30,719 Speaker 6: me and my oh so annoying me and my men, 504 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:32,880 Speaker 6: we talk about that all the time, because sometimes it's 505 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,960 Speaker 6: just about finding somebody who have your back in, somebody who, 506 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:40,199 Speaker 6: like you said, just has never made you feel like 507 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 6: nobody else that you've been with in the past has 508 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:44,119 Speaker 6: ever made you feel the way that these persons make 509 00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:45,439 Speaker 6: you feel, even though. 510 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:46,440 Speaker 3: It's not about feeling. 511 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 6: But guess what though, like you said, with you and 512 00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:51,919 Speaker 6: your girl, you feel like that's the closest thing to 513 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:54,159 Speaker 6: your dream that you feel like you will fight for 514 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:54,920 Speaker 6: is yo woman. 515 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:59,119 Speaker 5: Guess what though, what the same shit that make you 516 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:02,000 Speaker 5: laugh or make you cry. What I mean is man, 517 00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:04,800 Speaker 5: you get caught up in these feelings, and I understanding 518 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:06,439 Speaker 5: that man, she gonna make you feel the best you 519 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 5: ever felt, but she also got the power to make 520 00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:14,480 Speaker 5: me feel the worst you ever felt. Value Man, I'm 521 00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 5: trying to tell you, but that's the point. I'm just saying, 522 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:19,359 Speaker 5: like we men so like even to your point, right, 523 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:22,119 Speaker 5: and it's ain't thing like nothing about your situation, but 524 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:25,879 Speaker 5: like I feel like these lover chorls happen, and like 525 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:28,000 Speaker 5: men versus women happening because we don't just accept who 526 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 5: we are. That's the that's the key to all of 527 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,439 Speaker 5: this ship. Bro. If you love me for whatever you 528 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:34,399 Speaker 5: love me for, I gotta accept that. And if I 529 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:36,159 Speaker 5: love you for whatever I love you for, if you 530 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 5: don't agree with it, we gotta. I just gotta. You 531 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:40,200 Speaker 5: got to accept that about me. What happens is because 532 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 5: it don't make sense to us. We're trying to run 533 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:45,320 Speaker 5: from it. But like, bro, the faster you can accept it. 534 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:47,240 Speaker 5: But I love my woman. Know why. The moment I 535 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:49,439 Speaker 5: started to really love my woman through six years is 536 00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:50,920 Speaker 5: the moment I was like, you know what, I love 537 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:52,880 Speaker 5: her for her? So that mean the good, the bad, 538 00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:55,320 Speaker 5: indifferent the ship that I'm like, yo, why the she 539 00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:57,600 Speaker 5: would ever do that? I still love you through it. 540 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,119 Speaker 5: We go through this. We hear so much because I'm 541 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 5: gonna say I want this, I want that. Well, if 542 00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:03,840 Speaker 5: she want that, then you don't want her. As simple 543 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:05,639 Speaker 5: as that. It's just it's so simple. 544 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:07,479 Speaker 3: We try to trying to make it worse, like we're 545 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:08,360 Speaker 3: trying to challenge you. 546 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 5: Listen, man, And that's why I say, if you single, 547 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,600 Speaker 5: stay single, because you can make it about you. Like 548 00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 5: and today's age again, I ain't trying to preach. It's 549 00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:17,600 Speaker 5: probably to whatever. Like I feel like, it just is 550 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,000 Speaker 5: what it is. This is me, this is me. No, 551 00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:21,280 Speaker 5: I feel like, oh, I feel like in today's age, 552 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 5: it's all about me, me, me, me, you feel me 553 00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 5: self love and that's good. So stay single because once 554 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:29,119 Speaker 5: you're not single, it ain't about you no more. And 555 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:30,160 Speaker 5: that's where it goes wrong. 556 00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:30,920 Speaker 1: That's hard. 557 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:32,440 Speaker 5: Like that's why I was like, you know what, we 558 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,159 Speaker 5: might as well get married because it's never been like 559 00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 5: it's stopped being about me a long time ago, so 560 00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:37,639 Speaker 5: I might as well be married. So I like, so, 561 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,479 Speaker 5: if you on the podcast talking that shit about men 562 00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:43,119 Speaker 5: versus women and you single, do that cool. But the 563 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 5: moment you get in a relationship, you know it ain't 564 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,080 Speaker 5: going like that. And if it is, then you ain't 565 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:46,920 Speaker 5: gonna last too long. 566 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:48,120 Speaker 1: It just is what it is. 567 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 6: You gotta always consider I mean, he right, you do. 568 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:53,720 Speaker 6: You gotta always consider the other person feeling. This episode 569 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:56,240 Speaker 6: is sponsored by Bitterhelp. What's Up, y'all is your Girl 570 00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 6: XP and it's sugarl Drea Nicole. 571 00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:01,399 Speaker 3: And y'all know it is a holiday season. 572 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,800 Speaker 2: So as much as everybody is happy, a lot of 573 00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 2: times people struggle during the holiday season. So if you 574 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 2: ever thought about giving therapy a try, this can be 575 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:11,920 Speaker 2: a gift to yourself this holiday. 576 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 6: Yes, seasonal depression is a real thing, and that's why 577 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:19,800 Speaker 6: I love Betterhelp because you can literally access your therapist 578 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 6: from the comfort of your own home. You don't even 579 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 6: have to leave your house. They make things so easy, 580 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,400 Speaker 6: so convenient. There's also an app that you can use 581 00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 6: on your phone if you are out and about and 582 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:31,199 Speaker 6: you need to talk to your therapies. And if you 583 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:33,840 Speaker 6: don't like your therapists, you can always change therapies. And 584 00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:36,639 Speaker 6: that's super quick and easy too. And Better Help is 585 00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:37,720 Speaker 6: super affordable. 586 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:39,720 Speaker 2: Yes, so what you're gonna do is go to better 587 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 2: help dot com backslash poor minds that's better h e 588 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 2: lp dot com backslash poor minds to get ten percent 589 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,600 Speaker 2: off of your first month. I'm telling y'all it's super 590 00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 2: affordable and you're not gonna regret it. Visit betterhelp dot 591 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:56,680 Speaker 2: com slash poor minds today to get ten percent off 592 00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 2: of your first month. That's better help H E LP 593 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:01,600 Speaker 2: dot com slash poor minds. 594 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? 595 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:05,520 Speaker 3: Is your girl XP and it's SUGGARL dre and the code. 596 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:07,560 Speaker 2: And if y'all are like me and you only got 597 00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 2: three dollars in y'all account, you know a lot of 598 00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:13,000 Speaker 2: it comes from all the subscription services that you don't use. 599 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:16,440 Speaker 6: Girl, I have so many subscription services. When I be 600 00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 6: looking at my account, it's coming out fifty dollars, twenty dollars, 601 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,560 Speaker 6: thirty dollars, and I don't even use half the stuff. 602 00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:24,399 Speaker 3: I wish that it was away, that I could just 603 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 3: get rid of all of it without having to call 604 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:27,400 Speaker 3: customer service. You can. 605 00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:30,679 Speaker 2: It's called rocket money dot com. Let me tell you 606 00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 2: what they gonna do. They gonna look at all your 607 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:35,880 Speaker 2: subscriptions and lets you know where all your money is going. 608 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,199 Speaker 2: And they make it super easy for you to cancel 609 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 2: all that stuff. 610 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:40,679 Speaker 1: I'm telling you that's how they get you. 611 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 2: They'd be like, oh, it's thirty days free, and then 612 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:44,400 Speaker 2: you're gig after that thirty day. 613 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:46,720 Speaker 1: Well, rocket money gonna remind you. 614 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:48,720 Speaker 2: I'm telling y'all, they have saved people up to seven 615 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:51,880 Speaker 2: hundred and twenty dollars a year, and overall they've saved 616 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:55,159 Speaker 2: people over five hundred million dollars in canceled subscriptions. 617 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,159 Speaker 1: That's a lot of money. That's a lot of money, 618 00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:57,920 Speaker 1: I'm telling you. 619 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:00,480 Speaker 2: So there's probably things that you're signed up for that 620 00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:03,280 Speaker 2: you don't even remember, probably coming off on a credit. 621 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:05,480 Speaker 1: Card you don't even really use no more. So with 622 00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:06,679 Speaker 1: the holidays coming up, you. 623 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:10,119 Speaker 6: Use that money for you, I'm telling you, for you. 624 00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 2: So what you're gonna do is go to rocket money 625 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:20,119 Speaker 2: dot com backslash poor minds. That's Rocket money dot com 626 00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:21,200 Speaker 2: slash poor minds. 627 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 5: Y'all. 628 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 2: Cancel them subscriptions, period. Stop wasting your money on things 629 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:28,960 Speaker 2: you don't use. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to 630 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,679 Speaker 2: Rocket money dot com slash poor minds. 631 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:33,120 Speaker 5: Let's have fun. 632 00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:35,760 Speaker 4: Man's talk about big boys. 633 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:40,879 Speaker 1: Okay, we haven't you know what's crazy. 634 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:44,520 Speaker 3: We haven't got to the first topic. That was just 635 00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:45,200 Speaker 3: the icebreaker. 636 00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:48,160 Speaker 1: So Ti, first of all, because I'm a little look 637 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:51,400 Speaker 1: over here. Now, don't take too much. I'm talking about 638 00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:54,560 Speaker 1: a whole what we drinking today, ty okay. 639 00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:57,040 Speaker 8: So we have two different cocktails going on today for 640 00:25:57,160 --> 00:26:00,399 Speaker 8: our guest. We have the Old Dirty Chie, which is 641 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:03,440 Speaker 8: a Chai old fashion, So we have some Aniejo tequila. 642 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:06,840 Speaker 8: You have some Chai syrup, We have some bitters, and 643 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:10,800 Speaker 8: then it's garnished with a star anise inside a orange 644 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:12,240 Speaker 8: peel and a cinnamon stick for him. 645 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:14,400 Speaker 1: Oh, a star, star a nise. 646 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:27,879 Speaker 8: It's on y'all's too, yeah star, And so y'all, this 647 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:30,560 Speaker 8: one is gonna be the Dirty Child Martini. It's kind 648 00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:32,800 Speaker 8: of a play on an espresso martini. And of course 649 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:36,920 Speaker 8: we're featuring our favorite Lsah. So we have some tequila 650 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:40,159 Speaker 8: for Drea, some vodka for Lex, some of the ls liquor, 651 00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:42,440 Speaker 8: a little bit of Kolua, which is a coffee of 652 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:45,520 Speaker 8: cor and then we have some Chai syrup in there 653 00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:48,040 Speaker 8: as well, and some cold brew so that gives that 654 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:50,200 Speaker 8: kind of a little wake up. And then it's garnished 655 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,920 Speaker 8: with three espresso beans and that star anise and a 656 00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:53,719 Speaker 8: little bit of nutmeg. 657 00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:55,960 Speaker 6: Maybe this is my perfect type of dream because I 658 00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:59,679 Speaker 6: love me some espresso, I love me some Las cream 659 00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:00,600 Speaker 6: and some klue. 660 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,720 Speaker 1: Yeah and Chai, I love a La and I love 661 00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:04,680 Speaker 1: a coffee bee. 662 00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:09,359 Speaker 6: Yeah, she said, bes you was all over it. Okay, 663 00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:12,800 Speaker 6: he said, you need another one. 664 00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 2: And you know, we all it's Christmas season and we're 665 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 2: giving y'all know. LS Cream is a black owned liquor. 666 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:22,120 Speaker 2: If y'all like a cream liquor, it's Christmas time, y'all 667 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,439 Speaker 2: can have it warmed up added to your coffee at 668 00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 2: a little whiskey in there if you want a. 669 00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 1: Stronger hot coco, a little hot coco. So you know, 670 00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:30,399 Speaker 1: we got to give you a little bottle. You know 671 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:30,920 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. 672 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,320 Speaker 2: You know, you and your bookie can pull up now, 673 00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:35,560 Speaker 2: don't put it in the baby bottle. 674 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:40,680 Speaker 3: But yes, it's so good. It's like Bailey's but elevated. 675 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:44,359 Speaker 3: It's vegan. Oh yeah, it's vegan. 676 00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:47,000 Speaker 6: It's no dairy any So if you're not into diry, 677 00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,359 Speaker 6: that's not what you do. Elis is perfect for you. 678 00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:50,960 Speaker 6: And like we said, you can put it in all 679 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,800 Speaker 6: of your festive holiday dream Yes. 680 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,280 Speaker 2: So shout out to LS Cream Liquour. Okay, so we're 681 00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:58,960 Speaker 2: gonna get into the first topic. So let me tell 682 00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:02,679 Speaker 2: you a situation, because obviously you are a man in 683 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:04,760 Speaker 2: a successful relationship, so we're about to ask you all 684 00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:05,160 Speaker 2: the quarter. 685 00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:07,080 Speaker 5: That's not I'm not trying to make this shit boring, 686 00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:10,520 Speaker 5: like it ain't born like man like we got like, 687 00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:11,560 Speaker 5: let's have fun. 688 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,439 Speaker 3: Let's talking about that. 689 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:20,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I have to ask. 690 00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:25,720 Speaker 3: He came like, turned up. Now we're gonna talk about relationships. 691 00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:29,360 Speaker 1: People about relations girl. 692 00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 5: My girl said, like, we're talking talking about I'm like, 693 00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:35,080 Speaker 5: I don't know, she's want to be talking about sex. 694 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:36,600 Speaker 5: I'm like, well, we're gonna be talking about sex. 695 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:39,840 Speaker 1: I mean, we ain't got to the bag and. 696 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:45,160 Speaker 3: Talk about six ready, talk about a little thing. 697 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,120 Speaker 1: I'm about to drop that mistle. 698 00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:52,400 Speaker 2: To cut off. You know, you gotta be respectful. That 699 00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:56,720 Speaker 2: missed the Finn fall off real quick. Okay, So listen. 700 00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:58,520 Speaker 2: I wanted to talk about this because my friend had 701 00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 2: a situation. She was texting this dude and they were, 702 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:04,120 Speaker 2: you know, going back and forth. Conversation was great, and 703 00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 2: then she was like he was like saying something like, oh, 704 00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:08,600 Speaker 2: I'm gonna make up a nickname for you x y Z, 705 00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:11,760 Speaker 2: And he was like, so by the time we hang out, 706 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 2: I'm gonna have a good nickname for you. 707 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:15,280 Speaker 1: And then she was like, oh my gosh, I love that. 708 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:16,000 Speaker 1: He was like yeah. 709 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:17,840 Speaker 2: So next time, he was like, I gotta make some 710 00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:19,960 Speaker 2: money back because I lost a lot of money this weekend. 711 00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,080 Speaker 1: So once I get my money together, I'm gonna. 712 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,880 Speaker 2: Take you out. And she was like ew and she 713 00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:30,000 Speaker 2: stopped responding. I feel like this. We and her agreed 714 00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:34,719 Speaker 2: on this. I hate when men bring up money too early. 715 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:37,520 Speaker 2: If we just exchange numbers, are. 716 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,880 Speaker 3: We just telling me you don't need to tell. 717 00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 1: Me, Hey, I only got fifty dollars, where can we go? 718 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:42,760 Speaker 3: Yeah? 719 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 1: Are you telling me this? 720 00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,640 Speaker 2: Just tell me, hey, meet me here and you low 721 00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:48,320 Speaker 2: keyno because that's what you can afford. 722 00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:51,880 Speaker 1: But bringing up money too early is absolutely terrible. 723 00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 6: Okay, but what if he don't bring it up and 724 00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 6: then he just take you, like to the coffee shop 725 00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:57,360 Speaker 6: on the first day, then. 726 00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:59,240 Speaker 2: Why should you should tell me? You know what I 727 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:03,400 Speaker 2: seen on the show, not me personally, but. 728 00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:05,320 Speaker 3: But how could a man approach you in a situation 729 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:05,640 Speaker 3: like this? 730 00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 1: A man that don't got the funds, no better. 731 00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:09,720 Speaker 3: He ain't about to have no fun. 732 00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:13,640 Speaker 1: Niggas don't watch the show that I. 733 00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:17,560 Speaker 7: Had approach. 734 00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:20,160 Speaker 3: He ain't out the fun. Hem about to have no fun? 735 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,600 Speaker 2: No fun cause you know what, because I likes to 736 00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:26,680 Speaker 2: have too much fun on my day, because hey, if 737 00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:28,520 Speaker 2: we have a good first day, by the second day, 738 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 2: we fucking. 739 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:30,960 Speaker 1: Day. 740 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:33,160 Speaker 5: Why not the first day? 741 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:42,280 Speaker 2: I used to but you know what, s because I 742 00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:44,320 Speaker 2: get it, because you know what, in my younger days, 743 00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:47,600 Speaker 2: the reason I feel like, because as you get to 744 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:50,320 Speaker 2: know somebody, you'd be like, oh, ship. 745 00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:52,800 Speaker 3: I should have waited. I should have waited cause niggas 746 00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:53,680 Speaker 3: be weird. 747 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:56,080 Speaker 2: Niggas get obsessive, or you be like this nigga lame. 748 00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,440 Speaker 2: They gonna show their lameness if you just give it 749 00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:03,520 Speaker 2: some time. Okay, I love giving niggas time. You gonna 750 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 2: talk yourself out the pussy every time. 751 00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:05,920 Speaker 5: Now. 752 00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:08,400 Speaker 2: So if you bring up money too early, this and 753 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:10,280 Speaker 2: X Y, and I'm not saying like a nigga gotta 754 00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:12,400 Speaker 2: take me on a thousand dollars date for the first date. 755 00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:16,320 Speaker 1: I always say I like to be creative. So guess what. 756 00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:17,840 Speaker 2: If a man says, you know what, I found this 757 00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:21,080 Speaker 2: little coffee shop. They have like singers, I know you 758 00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:23,520 Speaker 2: love R and B. And they have like a live man, 759 00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:25,440 Speaker 2: I would love to take you here. It's my live 760 00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:28,280 Speaker 2: band because I love live music. He didn't have to 761 00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,600 Speaker 2: tell me that he ain't got no money, you know 762 00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:32,760 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. He like the Express, he know the 763 00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:36,480 Speaker 2: menu Express on my tens five dollars, jig can get 764 00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:39,480 Speaker 2: about six of them holes Cause you know me, I'm 765 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:41,800 Speaker 2: all about saying that third of dollar, but I kind 766 00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:43,640 Speaker 2: of disagree because I feel like you're gonna find out 767 00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:47,240 Speaker 2: eventually anyways, if he not having like, if he not 768 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 2: getting money like that, especially the type of girl you are, you're. 769 00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:51,400 Speaker 1: Gonna want to go Queen. 770 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:54,280 Speaker 6: I'm just saying you're gonna wanna go on dates. Eventually 771 00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 6: a coffee shop ain't gonna be good enough. You gonna 772 00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:58,640 Speaker 6: want that. Well, we talked about their Tomahawk, the Lopster 773 00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:02,280 Speaker 6: till eventually you won't want that. And if he can't 774 00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:04,560 Speaker 6: do those things, you're gonna find out anyways. Then all 775 00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:07,120 Speaker 6: y'all don't wasted each other's time, because clearly it's not 776 00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:07,720 Speaker 6: gonna work. 777 00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:11,640 Speaker 5: Because I aint your damn tom Listen, listen, she wastes 778 00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:13,880 Speaker 5: her time. Yeah, because listen, if a nigga got money, 779 00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:16,200 Speaker 5: if my money long at the time, I'm good. I'm 780 00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:17,880 Speaker 5: gonna treat you because I like to have fun anyway, 781 00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:19,440 Speaker 5: so I want to trick off all that just to 782 00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 5: get the pussy. I'm gonna keep it all the way 783 00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,440 Speaker 5: a hundred with you. Listen, you want to see if 784 00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 5: a nigga serious or not. You might this might be 785 00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,200 Speaker 5: in approb because I got a daughter now, But I'm 786 00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 5: saying for real, to keep a hundred. If you really 787 00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:32,240 Speaker 5: want to know a nigga serious, give her that box. 788 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:35,080 Speaker 5: You'll see I be still running up. Get'll box. You 789 00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:37,560 Speaker 5: don't see it, be still running out. 790 00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,280 Speaker 1: That's what you gotta wait. 791 00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 5: I'm gonna wait for you all I want. I'm still 792 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:45,440 Speaker 5: gonna be fucking off this one. I keep it with 793 00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:47,560 Speaker 5: you like I'm being straight up with you. Be real. 794 00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:53,720 Speaker 6: But mister j Hill, you to get You are not 795 00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:55,680 Speaker 6: telling us nothing we don't know. I don't say at 796 00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:57,440 Speaker 6: this and people have been watching this show for a 797 00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:57,800 Speaker 6: long time. 798 00:32:57,800 --> 00:32:59,080 Speaker 3: I have said that numerous times. 799 00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:01,440 Speaker 6: I feel like, no matter how many games you try 800 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 6: to play with a nigga, if all he trying to 801 00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:05,520 Speaker 6: do is fuck, he's gonna fuck you and then get 802 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,280 Speaker 6: the fuck on, even if that means he got to 803 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:09,840 Speaker 6: spend money or do whatever he needs to do toplicity, 804 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:12,680 Speaker 6: because if he has the money, then it doesn't matter. 805 00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 3: That's not nothing for it. 806 00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:18,040 Speaker 2: How much the box cost, it's not a price on it, 807 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,760 Speaker 2: So it's not okay, okay. The reason I say it's 808 00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:22,840 Speaker 2: not a price on it, I'm not gonna lie to 809 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:23,520 Speaker 2: you since we keep no. 810 00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 5: One hundred. 811 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,240 Speaker 1: I got my back beat in last night. 812 00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:31,040 Speaker 2: Okay, I got my back beat in last night, and 813 00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:32,760 Speaker 2: it was real about the fucking good. 814 00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:36,200 Speaker 1: Okay. But me and this nigga, I've been dating. 815 00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:37,760 Speaker 2: Me and this nigga been on and off date and 816 00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,200 Speaker 2: getting to know each other for eleven months. 817 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,240 Speaker 6: That that's why I said. But because she gotta tell 818 00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:46,320 Speaker 6: you the rig I knew that we got on camels. 819 00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:47,360 Speaker 6: That's why steeping over the. 820 00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:52,520 Speaker 5: Imagine if start texting, imagine the nigga stoped text you 821 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:53,040 Speaker 5: tomorrow because the. 822 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 1: Sh was not he but this is the thing, though 823 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:57,680 Speaker 1: he asked, was that gonna be in a relationship? Though 824 00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:59,840 Speaker 1: he like he did, he worked with this morning, said 825 00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,760 Speaker 1: are we doing? I said, I know that, right, Garfield? 826 00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:07,560 Speaker 9: I know that right Garfield showed up in Clode then bitch, 827 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 9: okay left right, let me see you do it. Hey, 828 00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:19,440 Speaker 9: we was in that good nothing Okay, But back to 829 00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:22,400 Speaker 9: the point the reason I'm saying this though, but what 830 00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:24,920 Speaker 9: do I usually do that? No, but me and him 831 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:26,479 Speaker 9: do have a different relationship because that's. 832 00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:29,120 Speaker 1: Literally like one of my best friends and we're talking 833 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:32,319 Speaker 1: about y'all didn't have six on the first date? 834 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:32,719 Speaker 5: First? 835 00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:35,440 Speaker 3: No, But I said the reason, how much do the 836 00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:36,120 Speaker 3: pussy cause? 837 00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:36,279 Speaker 1: No? 838 00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:41,600 Speaker 6: No, oh god please, you said how many dates? Though 839 00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:42,920 Speaker 6: you said how many dates. 840 00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:43,239 Speaker 10: Does it take? 841 00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:46,040 Speaker 2: Okay, so listen, The reason I say is different because 842 00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:48,040 Speaker 2: you said a man gonna do whatever he wants to 843 00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:50,320 Speaker 2: get the pussy and then he could disappear tomorrow. The 844 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:53,160 Speaker 2: reason I said this is different because I know him. 845 00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:56,840 Speaker 2: It's been eleven months. He's not about to just switch 846 00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,919 Speaker 2: up on me, and things are not about to be well, 847 00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:01,320 Speaker 2: I don't think so. 848 00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:04,239 Speaker 3: So y'all been like really close for I mean what, 849 00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:05,279 Speaker 3: we fell off for a. 850 00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:08,760 Speaker 1: While, but after like we got back, it's like we're friends, 851 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 1: like we have a real friendship. 852 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:10,319 Speaker 5: Right. 853 00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,960 Speaker 4: How long has it been consistently consistent? 854 00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,520 Speaker 1: Okay? When we first met in December, we were talking 855 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:18,400 Speaker 1: consistently from December to about April. 856 00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:19,880 Speaker 3: Okay, so then we fell off for. 857 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:20,520 Speaker 1: Like two months. 858 00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:25,040 Speaker 2: So ever since, like I want to say, maybe August, 859 00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:28,360 Speaker 2: we've been hanging out, but it's been like platonic in 860 00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:30,440 Speaker 2: the past month. I will say, we've been kind of like, 861 00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:33,520 Speaker 2: you know, dating and you know, doing a little one too. 862 00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:36,160 Speaker 2: So last night, you know, I decided, you know, let 863 00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:37,920 Speaker 2: me see what it hit. But you know, I was 864 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:42,239 Speaker 2: getting a little curious. Okay, But I feel like, even 865 00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:46,239 Speaker 2: if it doesn't work out romantically, the way our communication 866 00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:49,160 Speaker 2: is because we have that friendship there and we have 867 00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:53,279 Speaker 2: a respect, even if things don't work out romantically, he's 868 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:55,759 Speaker 2: gonna respect me enough to be like, xyz, this is 869 00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:56,279 Speaker 2: what's going on. 870 00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:58,080 Speaker 1: It ain't gonna be no switch up. 871 00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:03,440 Speaker 5: I mean, like, yeah, you right, because it's a respect. 872 00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,520 Speaker 2: That's why I'm not saying, wait eleven months, That's not 873 00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:08,800 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. And when I say, I'm not saying 874 00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:11,480 Speaker 2: he waited for eleven months, because trust me, he was 875 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:13,360 Speaker 2: outside doing his thing. It was a lot, it was 876 00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 2: a lot going on. I'm not saying he waited and 877 00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:18,160 Speaker 2: he was pursuing me for eleven months. I'm saying we 878 00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:22,319 Speaker 2: built a friendship, we built a respect, we built a love. 879 00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:25,680 Speaker 2: Sometimes when you have love for somebody that's not only romantic. 880 00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:27,480 Speaker 2: There's gonna be a different dynamic there. 881 00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:28,640 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 882 00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,680 Speaker 5: That's why I say I'm gonna keep it up. 883 00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:32,759 Speaker 3: We need to you. 884 00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:35,759 Speaker 2: I was dealing with a man and this and he 885 00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:37,560 Speaker 2: my homie too. But I gave it up on the 886 00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:38,960 Speaker 2: third day, and I was like, damn, I should have 887 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:42,360 Speaker 2: waited because I would have realized the things that he 888 00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:42,920 Speaker 2: had going on. 889 00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:45,799 Speaker 5: You feel, I mean, I guess my my my thought 890 00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:47,879 Speaker 5: process is jaded because but but I am a man, 891 00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:49,719 Speaker 5: so I still think. I still think like a man. 892 00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:51,320 Speaker 4: But I don't know. I got my shorty when I 893 00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:52,960 Speaker 4: was twenty six, so I guess like you feel me like, 894 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,680 Speaker 4: I ain't really experience like real adulthood single. 895 00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:58,120 Speaker 5: But even then, just keep keeping it fun, keep it 896 00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:00,680 Speaker 5: funking with you. No chick that I was like Courton 897 00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:04,640 Speaker 5: or like dating that we was cool with for eleven 898 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,759 Speaker 5: months became my girlfriend, and they always hurt every time 899 00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:08,520 Speaker 5: I got a new girlfriend because they stood. They were 900 00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:10,560 Speaker 5: still around when me and a girlfriend broke up. They 901 00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:12,600 Speaker 5: were because we was cool. We was right like they 902 00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:14,160 Speaker 5: was my friends and we knew we was friends. So 903 00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,000 Speaker 5: every time I got our relationship. We was fucking. 904 00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:21,080 Speaker 3: Married straight up with you. Maybe I was young, I know, 905 00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:23,880 Speaker 3: but and then to the other point, I'm sorry, and 906 00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:24,239 Speaker 3: what are. 907 00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,560 Speaker 5: We talking about respecting? Like if I'm fucking you, I 908 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:28,440 Speaker 5: got respect, I don't know, like like I. 909 00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:30,799 Speaker 1: Never that's you because you're a god fearing man. 910 00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:35,840 Speaker 5: Even like when I was I wasn't really like it 911 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:38,600 Speaker 5: was thoughts, but I didn't care, like I was outside 912 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:40,719 Speaker 5: my weight, like yeah, we fu, I don't care. She 913 00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:43,400 Speaker 5: I never even thought about it like that. Like niggas 914 00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:45,640 Speaker 5: I get pussy, don't be like, oh this bitch just 915 00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:53,640 Speaker 5: like no, I'm just being straight up with you. It's differ. 916 00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:57,600 Speaker 3: It's I think it just depends on the nigga and 917 00:37:57,960 --> 00:37:58,440 Speaker 3: then the girls. 918 00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:01,440 Speaker 5: At that age, I'm could still be like, that's my homie. 919 00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:04,160 Speaker 5: Her boyfriend probably never know. I would never even disrepect. Yeah, 920 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:06,759 Speaker 5: I'm gonna respect you. That I mean, I'm gonna take 921 00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:08,840 Speaker 5: you serious though, that's awesome say this. 922 00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:13,839 Speaker 2: I think it's with this situation is different because I've 923 00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:16,239 Speaker 2: we very much like I know his intentions because this 924 00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:17,759 Speaker 2: is not the first time he's asked me to be 925 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:19,840 Speaker 2: in a relationship with him, and things like that. So 926 00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:23,080 Speaker 2: I think he is a different example, just because I 927 00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:25,800 Speaker 2: told you this before. I said on paper like he's perfect, 928 00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:29,279 Speaker 2: you know, like it was more so me, you know, 929 00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:32,200 Speaker 2: because I had different things going on. I was doing this, 930 00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:39,000 Speaker 2: I was doing X y Z. Right now, I'll call 931 00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:39,600 Speaker 2: him right now. 932 00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:41,799 Speaker 4: I want you to be my man. 933 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:44,680 Speaker 1: He gonna be like I am your man. That's the 934 00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:48,440 Speaker 1: way he goes. You say, No, I'm not misleading him. 935 00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:55,040 Speaker 1: I like him right now. I don't know. Don't look at. 936 00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:03,560 Speaker 3: Hey, Hey, okay, I'm trying to get the tea. You 937 00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:04,719 Speaker 3: not want to get the. 938 00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:05,279 Speaker 5: Tea for me? 939 00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:08,960 Speaker 1: I stead I'm dropping that mista. In the second, what's up, y'all? 940 00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:11,239 Speaker 1: As your girl XP and it's your girl Dre and 941 00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:13,160 Speaker 1: the coal. And this is for all my. 942 00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:17,640 Speaker 2: People who have an e commerce business online Shipstation dot 943 00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:20,239 Speaker 2: com is gonna make this holiday season so easy for you. 944 00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:23,400 Speaker 6: Yes, I actually have been using ship station with my 945 00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:27,560 Speaker 6: business music Beauty, and it has made the shipping process seamless. 946 00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:29,920 Speaker 6: I love it for so many reasons other than just 947 00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:32,440 Speaker 6: the shipping, but like it also helps you gather customer 948 00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:34,600 Speaker 6: information and get feedback. 949 00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:37,040 Speaker 2: Yes, and the y'all know it's holiday season, so people 950 00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:40,720 Speaker 2: like to return things. So if somebody has to return something, 951 00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:44,120 Speaker 2: they still make the customer experience very smooth for them, 952 00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:46,480 Speaker 2: so they'll still come back and purchase from you. 953 00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:48,400 Speaker 1: Okay, So what you're gonna. 954 00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:50,600 Speaker 2: Do is go to shipstation dot com and use code 955 00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:54,359 Speaker 2: poor minds today. Listen, you're gonna get sixty days for free. 956 00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:55,239 Speaker 5: Do y'all know how much. 957 00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:56,000 Speaker 1: Money that's gonna save? 958 00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:56,279 Speaker 11: Y'all? 959 00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:58,080 Speaker 1: If you want a business online, you know. 960 00:39:58,280 --> 00:39:59,800 Speaker 5: So go ahead. 961 00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:02,239 Speaker 6: I was just gonna say, cause you know, they gotta 962 00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:04,800 Speaker 6: know what websites they can use all of them. You 963 00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:09,040 Speaker 6: can use Amazon, it'sy Shopify all eg oh my. 964 00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:11,279 Speaker 3: God, what a I know? 965 00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:12,200 Speaker 5: LIESU? 966 00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:16,840 Speaker 1: So go to ship station dot com backslash poor minds 967 00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:18,239 Speaker 1: sixty days for free. 968 00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:19,400 Speaker 5: Tell them we sent you. 969 00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:23,120 Speaker 2: Go to shipstation dot com and use code poor minds 970 00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:26,040 Speaker 2: today and sign up for your free sixty day trial 971 00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:29,320 Speaker 2: that shipstation dot Com code poor minds. 972 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:30,600 Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? 973 00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:33,719 Speaker 3: Is your girl XP and it's Sugarl Dre and the Cold. 974 00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:36,840 Speaker 1: And y'all know, like I know, credit is so important. 975 00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:39,919 Speaker 6: It is, and that is why I love the Chime 976 00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:43,680 Speaker 6: credit Builder visa credit card from Chime because you can 977 00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:45,600 Speaker 6: use it on every day purchases, and it will help 978 00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:46,600 Speaker 6: boost your credit score. 979 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:47,000 Speaker 5: Yes. 980 00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:49,279 Speaker 2: And the best thing about it is there's no annual fee, 981 00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:52,960 Speaker 2: no interest, no credit check, nothing. So if you have 982 00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,880 Speaker 2: no credit or bad credit, this is the card for you. 983 00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:58,560 Speaker 2: I'm telling you, you can't do nothing without good credit. 984 00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,719 Speaker 2: Trust me, girl, all right. So what you're gonna do 985 00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:04,759 Speaker 2: is go to Chime dot com backslash poor minds. It 986 00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:07,960 Speaker 2: gets started today. And also the good thing is if 987 00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:11,000 Speaker 2: you are qualified, you can get your checks deposited two 988 00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:11,760 Speaker 2: days earlier. 989 00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:13,359 Speaker 3: That needs my money. 990 00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:15,600 Speaker 2: Here's my money, and I want it now right now, 991 00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:19,239 Speaker 2: You heard me, So go to chime dot com backslash 992 00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:23,040 Speaker 2: poor minds. It gets your credit cards started today. Start 993 00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:25,840 Speaker 2: building your credit. Open a Chime checking account with at 994 00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:29,480 Speaker 2: least two hundred dollars qualifying direct deposit to get started. 995 00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:33,680 Speaker 2: Get started at chime dot com backslash poor minds. That's 996 00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:37,440 Speaker 2: Chime dot com backslash poor minds. The time credit building 997 00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:39,040 Speaker 2: pes of credit card issue by Strip Banking a member 998 00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:41,239 Speaker 2: FBI c Chaine check account is twohnd dollars qualifying direct 999 00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:42,000 Speaker 2: posit required to apply. 1000 00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:43,160 Speaker 1: I do a network eighteen with raw fees. 1001 00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:44,719 Speaker 2: May apply one time payment history may have a positive 1002 00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:46,720 Speaker 2: impact on your credit card lay payments may negatively impact 1003 00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:50,319 Speaker 2: your credit cord results mayberry. So, okay, back to the topic, GG, 1004 00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:54,200 Speaker 2: you got off topic. So do you think men can 1005 00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:55,960 Speaker 2: talk about because like the example I. 1006 00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:58,239 Speaker 6: Use was, I want to know, I want to know. 1007 00:41:58,360 --> 00:41:59,759 Speaker 6: I don't think you can talk about it too early. 1008 00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:01,560 Speaker 6: If you know you're not in a financial position to 1009 00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:03,560 Speaker 6: be dating me, let me know in the beginning. 1010 00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:05,000 Speaker 1: No, you don't have to let me know. Just let's 1011 00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:08,080 Speaker 1: stop talking. Just ghost me or something. No, but I 1012 00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:10,880 Speaker 1: don't want you to ghost I would I do. I 1013 00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:12,800 Speaker 1: don't want you to ghost me before you tell me 1014 00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:14,920 Speaker 1: I can't afford it. No, I want to know because 1015 00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:17,279 Speaker 1: I would rather know that. This is why, like you like, 1016 00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:19,080 Speaker 1: you're not in a position to date me, and I 1017 00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:20,080 Speaker 1: could respect that. Now. 1018 00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:21,719 Speaker 6: If you ghost me and then you try to come 1019 00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:24,080 Speaker 6: back around because you know how money came up, because 1020 00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:25,320 Speaker 6: you know how trying. 1021 00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:26,680 Speaker 3: To spend the block, I'm gonna be like, nigga, want 1022 00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:27,279 Speaker 3: where the fuck you? 1023 00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:29,600 Speaker 1: I don't stand on. 1024 00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:32,000 Speaker 6: Business, bitch, I'm gonna be like no, I'm gonna be 1025 00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:33,800 Speaker 6: like how you just gonna ghost me like that and 1026 00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:35,600 Speaker 6: not say nothing, like what the fuck and you think 1027 00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:36,359 Speaker 6: we just about to start. 1028 00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:42,120 Speaker 1: Wait, go ahead, I want to know if you not know. 1029 00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:44,480 Speaker 2: No, I don't want to know because guess what if 1030 00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:47,400 Speaker 2: you tell me that you can't. Oh, I got to 1031 00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:49,239 Speaker 2: hit a play because I lost some money last week. 1032 00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,640 Speaker 2: Now I'm about to ghost you. Somebody getting ghosted, whole 1033 00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:56,040 Speaker 2: ad nigga. Somebody getting ghosted, bitch. So you better just 1034 00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:58,239 Speaker 2: ghost my bitch. You better beat me to the punch. 1035 00:42:58,840 --> 00:42:59,239 Speaker 5: You want to know. 1036 00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:00,239 Speaker 10: Yeah, I'm not. 1037 00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:01,880 Speaker 3: Gonna go so we can still be cool. We can 1038 00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:04,000 Speaker 3: still be like cordial, so we. 1039 00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:06,040 Speaker 5: Can go drink. First off, I ain't if I don't 1040 00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:08,719 Speaker 5: got it, we ain't going No damn dates one and two. 1041 00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:11,000 Speaker 5: If I like you that much, pull up to the crib, Bro, 1042 00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:14,160 Speaker 5: I got a date for you. We're gonna go smoke 1043 00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:16,560 Speaker 5: that hoo could meet. Yeah, you think so, you would 1044 00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:17,960 Speaker 5: have put that hookah tipping your mouth. 1045 00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:21,400 Speaker 3: I'm talking everyone. It's not about I'm not. 1046 00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:24,520 Speaker 5: Pulling all these chicks that's on a pedestal for one 1047 00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:29,600 Speaker 5: niggas a slept for another nigga. I'm trying to tell you, bro, 1048 00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:32,040 Speaker 5: talking about maybe the riches, but I ain't gonna ask you. 1049 00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:33,960 Speaker 5: I've never been rich, and I ain't never had that problem. 1050 00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:36,640 Speaker 5: I've never, like never, and it be a broke nig 1051 00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:38,719 Speaker 5: to keep it all the way from it. Be a 1052 00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:41,200 Speaker 5: broke niggas. That's getting the best box because you ain't 1053 00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:42,800 Speaker 5: gotta worry about nothing that's gonna come with it. You 1054 00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:44,919 Speaker 5: like he got a good dick, man, ain't no, ain't 1055 00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:46,640 Speaker 5: with him. You can go give him that pussy the 1056 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:48,200 Speaker 5: nigga you like he gonna wait eleven months. You know, 1057 00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:50,799 Speaker 5: I'm saying the broke nigga will beating that that back out. 1058 00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:57,960 Speaker 3: I'm just not that saying. Broken niggas got the bus my. 1059 00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:00,239 Speaker 5: Bad way in Atlanta. We ain't being real. I'm sorry, man, 1060 00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:01,160 Speaker 5: I'm everybody. 1061 00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:06,600 Speaker 3: I'm I'm saying everybody very you ain't talking to him. 1062 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:09,320 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you. 1063 00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:12,080 Speaker 2: But I said that earlier because in that situation where 1064 00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:14,239 Speaker 2: we were giving a scenario of taking me on a 1065 00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:17,480 Speaker 2: coffee day, I'm not gonna lie that would never happen. 1066 00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:20,120 Speaker 2: I feel like I attract a certain type of man. 1067 00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:22,840 Speaker 1: I really do like. I feel like the type of 1068 00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:24,480 Speaker 1: men who approached. 1069 00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:26,040 Speaker 3: Me that the same drink you got. I don't want. 1070 00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:29,640 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, get the race best, like, I'm. 1071 00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:30,239 Speaker 3: We No, she. 1072 00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:41,879 Speaker 10: Don't came. She was like, people in the room, what's 1073 00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:42,279 Speaker 10: going up? 1074 00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:44,960 Speaker 1: He don know it? 1075 00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:47,320 Speaker 2: But no, I feel like I'm not gonna lie. I 1076 00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:49,279 Speaker 2: haven't done that in a long time because I feel 1077 00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:51,120 Speaker 2: like what you have been through. 1078 00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:58,960 Speaker 1: No, his name is j Hill. Now why he was scared. 1079 00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:02,879 Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, I feel your legs. I feel 1080 00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:06,640 Speaker 1: me to you because she was asking me. 1081 00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:09,200 Speaker 3: She was like, she was like, do you want something else? 1082 00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:11,040 Speaker 3: And I was like, yeah, I think I want that. 1083 00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:27,880 Speaker 7: Okay, I'll take another one too, ta, I'll take you 1084 00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:29,640 Speaker 7: know whatever that and whatever everybody else have. 1085 00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:32,439 Speaker 2: But anyways, like I said, I'm not gonna lie to y'all. 1086 00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:37,239 Speaker 2: I'm thirty four years old. I cannot remember the last 1087 00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:39,120 Speaker 2: time I was dealing with a man who wasn't able 1088 00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:41,480 Speaker 2: to do the things that I wanted to do. I'm 1089 00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:44,000 Speaker 2: very vocal and honest about what I want. You know why, 1090 00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:47,080 Speaker 2: because when I wasn't, I was not getting the results 1091 00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:48,080 Speaker 2: I wanted out of dating. 1092 00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:50,640 Speaker 1: I was not happy and it was a lot for me. 1093 00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:53,640 Speaker 1: I recently I tell this to all my friends now. 1094 00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:55,200 Speaker 2: When I go on a first date with a man, 1095 00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:58,040 Speaker 2: I let him know my expectations this is why another 1096 00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:00,640 Speaker 2: guy I was seeing, I told you this morning, and 1097 00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:02,440 Speaker 2: I told her that's why we're not seeing out of 1098 00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:04,680 Speaker 2: our right now, because you need to know how to 1099 00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:06,879 Speaker 2: date me. Yeah, and I know you got the means 1100 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:08,239 Speaker 2: to do it. You either gonna do it, are you not? 1101 00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:10,040 Speaker 5: So you give him, You're give him some time to 1102 00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:10,560 Speaker 5: get together. 1103 00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:12,319 Speaker 1: No, I'm not giving you no time. You're either gonna 1104 00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:12,880 Speaker 1: do it, are you not? 1105 00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:15,879 Speaker 4: So that's why you ain't calling eleven months. They're telling 1106 00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:16,120 Speaker 4: him you. 1107 00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:17,840 Speaker 1: I didn't call eleven months. 1108 00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:19,840 Speaker 5: Hey, I'm saying call him now. Telling me that you 1109 00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:21,640 Speaker 5: want to be a man, but you got your options, 1110 00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:22,520 Speaker 5: op man, that's why you're. 1111 00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:24,160 Speaker 1: Not about options. 1112 00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:26,440 Speaker 3: He's saying, that's why y'all took them a little breaks. 1113 00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:28,400 Speaker 1: He was. No, it wasn't me. 1114 00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:31,799 Speaker 3: It wasn't It was just like it was a lot. 1115 00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:33,160 Speaker 1: It's a lot to the story. 1116 00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:37,319 Speaker 3: Lords with the story. 1117 00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:39,560 Speaker 5: I thought she was going, I thought he's a hanging 1118 00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:41,480 Speaker 5: the money. So she gave him nickname brokie or something. 1119 00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:43,440 Speaker 5: Oh hell, cause she was like he was one of 1120 00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:44,960 Speaker 5: the nicknames of some ship. So I'm thinking she was 1121 00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:46,080 Speaker 5: about to call him broke or like. 1122 00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:47,800 Speaker 1: That's why I was saying I haven't dealt with a 1123 00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:51,440 Speaker 1: broken not you. Oh the story. 1124 00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:52,120 Speaker 10: Yeah he is. 1125 00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:54,319 Speaker 1: He's essentially bro. He couldn't take her. 1126 00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:55,600 Speaker 5: Out, so she started messing with him. 1127 00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:58,080 Speaker 2: She no, I mean, she didn't even respond when he said, oh, 1128 00:46:58,120 --> 00:46:59,600 Speaker 2: I gotta get some money to take you out. 1129 00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:01,120 Speaker 5: She just thout responding. 1130 00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:03,480 Speaker 1: Because at the end of the day, So she ghosted him. Yeah, 1131 00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:06,160 Speaker 1: she ghosted him because I feel like this and I'm 1132 00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:07,960 Speaker 1: not even gonna lie. Like my friend is not like 1133 00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:11,680 Speaker 1: she makes does well for herself. She makes a lot 1134 00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:14,719 Speaker 1: of money interrary so, but she's not the kind of 1135 00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:18,600 Speaker 1: girl like where you gotta take her on greach for 1136 00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:22,239 Speaker 1: her first, so you gotta take her to Grease for 1137 00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:24,560 Speaker 1: the second date. She's not even like that. If he 1138 00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:26,759 Speaker 1: would have just shut up, they would have had a ball. 1139 00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:28,680 Speaker 3: Oh it's starting time. 1140 00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:34,000 Speaker 1: Sh it's starting time. I told you blaming on time. 1141 00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:35,279 Speaker 5: I said him away, I suck. 1142 00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:38,000 Speaker 1: So Yeah, I feel like money talk is too early. 1143 00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:38,520 Speaker 1: We're gonna move on. 1144 00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:43,600 Speaker 5: No, I've I ain't even knowing that. 1145 00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:45,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, So I feel like with. 1146 00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:47,680 Speaker 2: Her, she makes her own money, she does well for herself. 1147 00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:51,320 Speaker 2: I'm not saying her expectations aren't high. Her expectations are different. 1148 00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:53,680 Speaker 2: She's more of like, let's just go out and vibe. Yeah, 1149 00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:55,640 Speaker 2: that's the kind of girl she is. If he would 1150 00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:57,360 Speaker 2: have just shut the fuck up, they really could have 1151 00:47:57,400 --> 00:48:00,239 Speaker 2: went on a cool little date and he probably you know, 1152 00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:01,600 Speaker 2: I'm not saying he gonna fuck, but they would have 1153 00:48:01,600 --> 00:48:02,439 Speaker 2: probably had a good time. 1154 00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:04,080 Speaker 5: You know. The problem though, to keep it a hundred 1155 00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:08,200 Speaker 5: with you women, we got fragile egos. We got too 1156 00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:10,120 Speaker 5: big of an ego. We keep it a hundred with 1157 00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:14,040 Speaker 5: you right now, y'all ain't regular, right. I don't know 1158 00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:16,160 Speaker 5: if she regular or not right, And I feel like 1159 00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:19,839 Speaker 5: what happened is niggas try to like extend themselves when 1160 00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:22,200 Speaker 5: they over extend themselves when they trying to they trying 1161 00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:25,879 Speaker 5: to court a chick, right, And like if I would 1162 00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:27,680 Speaker 5: just suggest don't do that, you know what I'm saying, Like, 1163 00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:29,839 Speaker 5: if you got charisma, use what you got to get 1164 00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:31,799 Speaker 5: what you want. You feel me like like you said, 1165 00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:34,400 Speaker 5: you you set your your boundaries and you and you 1166 00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:37,520 Speaker 5: stand on that. That's cool. If you meet Alex and 1167 00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:39,759 Speaker 5: she say that, you feel me like, you give it 1168 00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:41,480 Speaker 5: what you can. If she gonna rock with you, she's 1169 00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:43,239 Speaker 5: gonna rock with you. She's not she not you feel me. 1170 00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:44,840 Speaker 5: But a lot of times niggas see girls like that 1171 00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:47,160 Speaker 5: and they be like, man, I want her some gonna 1172 00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:51,239 Speaker 5: do whatever. I gotta get it so bad, I can't 1173 00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:52,520 Speaker 5: stop for I ain't relying. 1174 00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:57,920 Speaker 1: They be on me, They be on my body. Niggas 1175 00:48:57,960 --> 00:48:58,840 Speaker 1: be on my body. 1176 00:48:59,000 --> 00:48:59,279 Speaker 10: They do. 1177 00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:02,040 Speaker 5: They be on That's why you like how you are though, 1178 00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:04,320 Speaker 5: like what that's like? 1179 00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:07,120 Speaker 3: That's why you're like, how am I. 1180 00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:09,840 Speaker 5: You move? Like? 1181 00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:12,760 Speaker 2: You know that because I am. I'm a very confident 1182 00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:15,920 Speaker 2: person now. I do know my flaws though as well. 1183 00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:18,360 Speaker 2: I have my accountability. I know I'm not perfect, but 1184 00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:21,120 Speaker 2: do I feel like I'm special as fuck and a 1185 00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:24,680 Speaker 2: nigga would be the luckiest man on earth to have 1186 00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:29,200 Speaker 2: me absolutely, Like I really feel like when it comes 1187 00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:31,959 Speaker 2: to women, especially like being fine making money and also 1188 00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:36,759 Speaker 2: just being a good partner top three. That's literally how 1189 00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:39,000 Speaker 2: I feel about myself. So I feel like I deserve 1190 00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:41,880 Speaker 2: to be picky. I deserve to pick when a nigga 1191 00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:44,040 Speaker 2: not doing X y Z, and I deserve if I 1192 00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:46,160 Speaker 2: want to go somebody because you not doing right, I 1193 00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:47,279 Speaker 2: don't just goho sot out the blue. 1194 00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:50,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a little warning. Whole as nigga, I'm. 1195 00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:50,960 Speaker 3: Warn you a little bit. 1196 00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:54,600 Speaker 1: Now, I'm a warn your whole as. 1197 00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:59,400 Speaker 2: I'm a warn your ass, okay, because at least I 1198 00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:01,120 Speaker 2: like to work communicate. 1199 00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:04,400 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I'm gonna do what I 1200 00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:06,320 Speaker 1: gotta do. I'm gonna let you know. 1201 00:50:06,560 --> 00:50:09,479 Speaker 2: But then once you keep playing, I'm gonna move around 1202 00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:11,040 Speaker 2: because hey, guess what, you fuck up. 1203 00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:12,800 Speaker 5: It's a long ass line, That's why. So let me 1204 00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:15,200 Speaker 5: ask you that. But that right there right if you 1205 00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:18,160 Speaker 5: it might be hard to answer if you ain't have 1206 00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:20,480 Speaker 5: the attention that you have, would you have the same 1207 00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:21,480 Speaker 5: confidence that you got? 1208 00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:21,920 Speaker 1: Yes? 1209 00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:25,959 Speaker 2: Yes, And the reason why is because it's not about 1210 00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:28,560 Speaker 2: the My confidence doesn't come for my attention. 1211 00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:29,680 Speaker 5: I've been getting attention. 1212 00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:33,640 Speaker 1: My confidence, I always say this was came from people 1213 00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:36,560 Speaker 1: who really knew me and loved me outside the things 1214 00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:39,120 Speaker 1: that I love, like my friendship with Dre. I always 1215 00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:41,520 Speaker 1: say Dre gave me so much confidence because she was like, bitch, 1216 00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:44,360 Speaker 1: you're beautiful, you're funny, You're this, you're that, You're a 1217 00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:48,200 Speaker 1: good She pours into me. I got niggas giving me 1218 00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:52,640 Speaker 1: attention since I've been younger, literally, so it wasn't about 1219 00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:55,279 Speaker 1: this show or anything else. It was just around being 1220 00:50:55,320 --> 00:50:57,560 Speaker 1: around people who really know me and really see me 1221 00:50:57,680 --> 00:50:58,400 Speaker 1: and understand me. 1222 00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:01,400 Speaker 2: And I'm like, damn, I am gonna amazing person because 1223 00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:05,919 Speaker 2: this girl knows me to the core. My sister knows 1224 00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:07,880 Speaker 2: me to the core. And it's like the fact that 1225 00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:10,279 Speaker 2: they just go so hard for me, you know what 1226 00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:12,359 Speaker 2: I'm saying. I'm like, okay, you know what. And then 1227 00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:15,880 Speaker 2: you know men that I have dated. I had a 1228 00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:18,000 Speaker 2: nigga text me. He was he was on vacation on 1229 00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:20,520 Speaker 2: his birthday. He was like, man, I know it's been 1230 00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:22,440 Speaker 2: four years since we talked, but I miss yo ob 1231 00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:23,880 Speaker 2: It's been four years. 1232 00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:29,040 Speaker 1: You still missing the boys? He an nigga, I cannot 1233 00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:30,600 Speaker 1: be duplicated. 1234 00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:33,960 Speaker 3: But with that shit, that's just niggas. 1235 00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:35,640 Speaker 1: Though, no, yeah, it is just niggas. 1236 00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:39,040 Speaker 2: But I'm saying, when you make somebody feel something, Yeah, 1237 00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:42,520 Speaker 2: like you said earlier, sometimes I'm not saying I give 1238 00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:45,120 Speaker 2: this to every nigga, but it'd be something I touch 1239 00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:48,400 Speaker 2: a nigga, I anoint to nigga. Sometimes that pussy anoint 1240 00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:53,120 Speaker 2: to this nigga. Hey, when that pussy annoint you, and 1241 00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:54,680 Speaker 2: then I'm making your laugh a little bit. 1242 00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:56,080 Speaker 1: You ain't gonna get that again. 1243 00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:57,640 Speaker 5: It's the laugh, not the pussy there. 1244 00:51:57,719 --> 00:52:03,120 Speaker 1: It's the boat, it's the off, it's both of them. 1245 00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:08,000 Speaker 1: Imagine the nigga, imagine you laughing your asshole, the bitch, 1246 00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:10,880 Speaker 1: finest fuck. And I got the nerve to have some 1247 00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:11,560 Speaker 1: good pleasing. 1248 00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:13,920 Speaker 3: But I want to ask somebody to start. I want 1249 00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:15,160 Speaker 3: to ask you, mister J. 1250 00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:17,359 Speaker 5: Hughes. I ain't gonna lie to wyre. Y'all say, mister 1251 00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:23,279 Speaker 5: J Hill crazy. My nigga's back home probably like nay, right. 1252 00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:27,040 Speaker 1: Now, we call you mister. 1253 00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:29,600 Speaker 6: I just wanted to have I just wanted to have 1254 00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:31,120 Speaker 6: a man on the show so I can ask him this, 1255 00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:33,920 Speaker 6: how do y'all feel? Because it's funny because I think 1256 00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:35,640 Speaker 6: us as women will stay here and try to like 1257 00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:39,799 Speaker 6: tell niggas like what niggas think, because that's literally. 1258 00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:44,040 Speaker 3: What I'm gonna tell nigga what it's how do men 1259 00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:45,080 Speaker 3: feel about women? 1260 00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:47,359 Speaker 6: Us trying to tell y'all how y'all think or how 1261 00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:49,560 Speaker 6: men move because even though obviously you're not the niggas 1262 00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:51,400 Speaker 6: that she dated or the niggas that I dated, but 1263 00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:54,520 Speaker 6: you're still a man, So I think men know how 1264 00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:57,000 Speaker 6: other men think, just like women know, we know how 1265 00:52:57,080 --> 00:52:58,040 Speaker 6: other women think. 1266 00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:01,359 Speaker 5: Chat try to death. At the end of the day, 1267 00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:03,279 Speaker 5: I'm still a niggah. That's why I want people to know, 1268 00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:05,799 Speaker 5: like I'm still a niggah. Like so at the end 1269 00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:08,320 Speaker 5: of the day, like I just told my this, I 1270 00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:09,680 Speaker 5: swear to God, I said, bro, you know the crazy 1271 00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:12,200 Speaker 5: thing about women, A man will get y'all a blueprint 1272 00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:15,560 Speaker 5: and y'all still gonna be like but it's like, okay, 1273 00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:18,520 Speaker 5: that's me. It's like, okay, Like the one thing I 1274 00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:22,560 Speaker 5: learned about being in a relationship is like, okay, you 1275 00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:26,120 Speaker 5: smart man, you got it, like because you always think 1276 00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:28,920 Speaker 5: like even like I'm telling I feel like you probably 1277 00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:30,919 Speaker 5: always got attention. I feel like a lot of women 1278 00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:33,000 Speaker 5: always got attention and a lot of times to keep 1279 00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:35,759 Speaker 5: it damn trying to go there. But a lot of 1280 00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:39,080 Speaker 5: times the attention come early and it ain't the way 1281 00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:40,719 Speaker 5: it should come to keep it all the way up, funky, 1282 00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:42,640 Speaker 5: we ain't living in the fuck up world me. So 1283 00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:44,359 Speaker 5: even when you get give it up age you get, 1284 00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:46,479 Speaker 5: you used to get an attention. So I'm not saying 1285 00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:48,520 Speaker 5: like you don't get attention and like you' ain't used 1286 00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:51,400 Speaker 5: to it, But a lot of things you think is 1287 00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:54,600 Speaker 5: for is not like you're attractive, Like you know what I'm. 1288 00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:56,680 Speaker 4: Saying, Like your body look good, you got a platform. 1289 00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:59,880 Speaker 5: We can't ignore that. Right, you're successful, we can't ignore that. Right. 1290 00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:03,719 Speaker 5: But all of that ship is the outside things, right, 1291 00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:06,160 Speaker 5: Like it's about who you are as a person. Might 1292 00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:08,440 Speaker 5: have had somebody who had the best pussy, and it's 1293 00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:11,600 Speaker 5: just in her attitude make her have the worst. She's 1294 00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:14,160 Speaker 5: the least attractive because who she was as a person. 1295 00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:17,120 Speaker 5: You feel me, I feel like because we in this ship, 1296 00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:20,160 Speaker 5: like this is one thing I hate in Yeah, it's 1297 00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:22,120 Speaker 5: like because we got these lights and cameras and we 1298 00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:24,360 Speaker 5: think we lit and something like that, we think we 1299 00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,960 Speaker 5: are above average. It's like, nigga, humble yourself. 1300 00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:30,359 Speaker 2: Facts, who are you as a person. But that's why 1301 00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:34,120 Speaker 2: I said what I said. The people who really know me, Yeah, 1302 00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:36,520 Speaker 2: fucked her. I ain't never fuck you know these the 1303 00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:38,879 Speaker 2: people who really loved me and know me. It ain't 1304 00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:41,400 Speaker 2: about my pussy. And that's why I said the things 1305 00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:43,719 Speaker 2: that the people who matter that have the best things 1306 00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:44,520 Speaker 2: to say about me. 1307 00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:46,120 Speaker 1: I know it's real. 1308 00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:48,279 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like I don't. 1309 00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:50,759 Speaker 2: I don't feed into all this stuff because I know 1310 00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:52,719 Speaker 2: it's surface though. Me andre talking about this all the time. 1311 00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:55,719 Speaker 2: Y'all don't give a fuck about me, y'all give a 1312 00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:58,319 Speaker 2: fuck if I'm gonna make y'all last. Probably we had 1313 00:54:58,600 --> 00:55:00,200 Speaker 2: we had an instance where I was one time I 1314 00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:02,319 Speaker 2: was in the airport. I'm hard down crying. I had 1315 00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:04,800 Speaker 2: gone through something hard down to the airport crime. This 1316 00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:07,200 Speaker 2: man walked up to me. He was like, hey, legs, 1317 00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:08,799 Speaker 2: I know you stay right now, but bitch, I need 1318 00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,680 Speaker 2: my picture. And I was like, damn, no, what I'm 1319 00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:13,560 Speaker 2: telling you. But that's why I said. I realized, like, 1320 00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:16,320 Speaker 2: that's why I never let this ship phase me or 1321 00:55:16,360 --> 00:55:18,759 Speaker 2: make me feel different. It never gives me the big head. 1322 00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:20,919 Speaker 2: It's a blessing, of course. 1323 00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:25,000 Speaker 1: But that doesn't put that doesn't value, That doesn't make 1324 00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:26,320 Speaker 1: my value of a party. 1325 00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:28,400 Speaker 5: Can we toast to this real quick, y'all, don't man, 1326 00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:32,360 Speaker 5: Because like I think, even when, even even when I 1327 00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:35,320 Speaker 5: had y'all on, I think that's the part that I 1328 00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:39,160 Speaker 5: like the most about you. Yeah, that's the part that 1329 00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:41,719 Speaker 5: I that's the part that I like the most about y'all. Right, 1330 00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:44,160 Speaker 5: because y'all got a relationship, y'all with the real shit Yeah. 1331 00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:47,080 Speaker 5: The only thing is you gotta get to know somebody 1332 00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:48,440 Speaker 5: like that. When I hear you say that like, it 1333 00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:50,600 Speaker 5: makes me it almost give me goosebumps because that's real 1334 00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:53,400 Speaker 5: and it feels good to feel the realness. 1335 00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:53,560 Speaker 1: Right. 1336 00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:55,360 Speaker 5: But even like when I brought y'all on, and I 1337 00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:57,680 Speaker 5: think some of y'all fans might not like this, Like 1338 00:55:57,760 --> 00:55:59,200 Speaker 5: y'all talk about sex, but I want to talk about 1339 00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:01,560 Speaker 5: some elk. I know it's more. It's more to y'all, right, 1340 00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:04,800 Speaker 5: and the same thing, But when you led the conversation 1341 00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:08,680 Speaker 5: that made you top three, didn't it didn't include that part. 1342 00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:12,000 Speaker 5: Though it was money, looks and something else, right, it 1343 00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:14,320 Speaker 5: didn't include that part. And I say, you shure you 1344 00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:16,600 Speaker 5: should do it however you want to. But like when 1345 00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:19,040 Speaker 5: you're talking to somebody that's real, like we see past, 1346 00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:20,880 Speaker 5: all that ship, the money don't make you who you are, 1347 00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:23,960 Speaker 5: don't You can pay for that, right, All of that 1348 00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:25,920 Speaker 5: shit don't mean nothing, if anything. It makes you just 1349 00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:28,400 Speaker 5: like everybody else. Now you're a follower. So when you 1350 00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:31,440 Speaker 5: say ship like man, when I'm with my day ones, 1351 00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:34,480 Speaker 5: she gave me the confidence. I can hear you and 1352 00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:36,080 Speaker 5: I might be a little different, but I can when 1353 00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:37,480 Speaker 5: I when you say that, I'm like, nah, that's fact 1354 00:56:37,520 --> 00:56:39,239 Speaker 5: because I know when I'm with my friends, when I'm 1355 00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:41,719 Speaker 5: fuck niggas is fuck niggas. My friends is the ones 1356 00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:46,080 Speaker 5: that's like, nah, I'm just being real. Nah, bro, niggas 1357 00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:48,200 Speaker 5: be on some weirdose shit in this game with it. 1358 00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:51,320 Speaker 5: When I'm when I'm driving my homies right and niggas 1359 00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:53,880 Speaker 5: is like, man, nah, Like that's what gives me the confidence. 1360 00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:55,520 Speaker 5: And when you say that, it's like, man, nah, it's real. 1361 00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:58,000 Speaker 5: God give me the confidence to keep it on und 1362 00:56:58,160 --> 00:57:01,439 Speaker 5: like broad. 1363 00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:09,920 Speaker 3: But sticking up on you, mister Hughes. 1364 00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:12,000 Speaker 5: Sip. 1365 00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:14,960 Speaker 2: But no, I think that's what the real listeners of 1366 00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:17,680 Speaker 2: this show no, because when people cut the clips, they 1367 00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:19,320 Speaker 2: only see you know, us happening. 1368 00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:22,120 Speaker 1: You know, the sex topics, the relationship. But we talk 1369 00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:25,760 Speaker 1: about so much stuff on here. That's all I love. 1370 00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:28,560 Speaker 6: I think that you know, our clip editor, and I 1371 00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:30,960 Speaker 6: think I said this before on the show, like our 1372 00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:32,520 Speaker 6: clip editor he purposely, like. 1373 00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:34,400 Speaker 1: A lot of no well Hobby sends in. 1374 00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:37,400 Speaker 6: But that's what I'm saying. He send them the time 1375 00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:40,560 Speaker 6: time stamps because they know that that's what's gonna go viral. 1376 00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:42,120 Speaker 3: That's what's gonna get the attention. 1377 00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:44,200 Speaker 6: But obviously, if you listen to the show an hour 1378 00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:46,960 Speaker 6: and a half of a Poor Mind's episode, we're not 1379 00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:49,240 Speaker 6: only solely talking about six. I just think that's the 1380 00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:51,080 Speaker 6: perception that people get from, you know. 1381 00:57:51,920 --> 00:57:53,880 Speaker 4: But that's the importance of like say, your day ones 1382 00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:54,960 Speaker 4: and your your supporters. 1383 00:57:56,920 --> 00:57:58,480 Speaker 1: I don't give a about people knowing. 1384 00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:01,120 Speaker 2: Like if you know me, if the only thing you 1385 00:58:01,240 --> 00:58:03,560 Speaker 2: know about me is sitting on this couch, that's cool, 1386 00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:06,400 Speaker 2: But that doesn't make a. 1387 00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:09,360 Speaker 3: Bat a shot. I haven't you want to take a shot, 1388 00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:12,320 Speaker 3: I'll tell you. 1389 00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:17,760 Speaker 1: What I'm okay. So we're gonna. 1390 00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:24,280 Speaker 6: Con X one too, So we're gonna move on to 1391 00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:27,080 Speaker 6: the next topic. So for the next topic, like we 1392 00:58:27,160 --> 00:58:28,680 Speaker 6: kind of wanted to talk about because me and Lex 1393 00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:31,800 Speaker 6: always had these conversations, right, So you know, obviously outside 1394 00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:33,800 Speaker 6: of the show, we really are like best friends in 1395 00:58:33,880 --> 00:58:36,160 Speaker 6: real life. So we really be gossiping about a lot 1396 00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:39,080 Speaker 6: of shit because it's certain things that have happened in 1397 00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:41,919 Speaker 6: the media and on the internet, and we don't really 1398 00:58:41,960 --> 00:58:44,000 Speaker 6: talk about hot topics on the show, but we be 1399 00:58:44,080 --> 00:58:49,360 Speaker 6: on the phone gossiping, and I really feel like everybody gossips, 1400 00:58:49,680 --> 00:58:51,320 Speaker 6: like that's cool. When people be like, I want to 1401 00:58:51,360 --> 00:58:53,600 Speaker 6: be around the people that don't talk about people. They 1402 00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:57,920 Speaker 6: talk about giving money and investment and how to build 1403 00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:00,480 Speaker 6: and how to Yeah you got, I don't know what 1404 00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:01,920 Speaker 6: the fuck I'm talking about. 1405 00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:04,520 Speaker 3: I don't talk about people, and I don't like being 1406 00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:06,200 Speaker 3: around people that talk about other people. 1407 00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:10,640 Speaker 6: Everybody talk about people. Fat you're lying. Everybody talk about 1408 00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:13,000 Speaker 6: other people sometimes. So sometimes we all see that one 1409 00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:16,080 Speaker 6: little thing on the internet. It might be a childhood friend. 1410 00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:19,040 Speaker 6: It might be somebody that you know in college. It 1411 00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:21,480 Speaker 6: might be an ex girlfriend, ex boyfriend, or it might 1412 00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:23,120 Speaker 6: be a celebrity. It might be people you don't even 1413 00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:25,120 Speaker 6: know what you be like, beach, did you see. 1414 00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:27,840 Speaker 3: It this shit? Or you know, with y'all, nigga, did 1415 00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:28,680 Speaker 3: you see this shit? 1416 00:59:29,080 --> 00:59:29,520 Speaker 10: We all do. 1417 00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:33,600 Speaker 6: And I think even when you getting money on yes, 1418 00:59:34,120 --> 00:59:36,120 Speaker 6: And I think even when you get money, people try 1419 00:59:36,160 --> 00:59:38,760 Speaker 6: to act like once you start getting money, like oh now. 1420 00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:40,440 Speaker 3: You don't care about certain shit no more. 1421 00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:42,320 Speaker 6: But shit, I still be looking and I be looking 1422 00:59:42,360 --> 00:59:44,600 Speaker 6: for the tea, and I be listening, and I'll be 1423 00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:45,520 Speaker 6: talking about it too. 1424 00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:47,640 Speaker 1: So how do you feel like even as meiggas men 1425 00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:50,280 Speaker 1: be like they be like as a man, Yeah, you'll. 1426 00:59:53,080 --> 00:59:54,840 Speaker 3: I mean, at the end of the day, we're not 1427 00:59:54,920 --> 00:59:56,680 Speaker 3: gonna call it gossiping, but that's. 1428 00:59:56,560 --> 00:59:57,880 Speaker 5: What I was gonna say. At the end of the day. 1429 00:59:57,920 --> 01:00:00,200 Speaker 5: It is what it is, no matter how you worry, right, 1430 01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:02,520 Speaker 5: if you're talking about somebody else, you gossiping. Yeah, And 1431 01:00:02,600 --> 01:00:04,520 Speaker 5: then I work in the media, so you're talking about 1432 01:00:04,520 --> 01:00:06,200 Speaker 5: other people situations that don't got shit to do with you, 1433 01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:09,000 Speaker 5: You gossipel But what happened is again, men, have we 1434 01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:12,160 Speaker 5: myself included. I'm not no, I'm not holding the doll, 1435 01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:13,960 Speaker 5: I'm not a pot coloring and kettle black. It's just 1436 01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:17,240 Speaker 5: as men because our frag our eagles are so fragile 1437 01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:20,120 Speaker 5: and they're so big. We don't want to hear sound 1438 01:00:20,240 --> 01:00:21,560 Speaker 5: remotely close to what a woman do. 1439 01:00:21,960 --> 01:00:22,080 Speaker 1: Right. 1440 01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:26,040 Speaker 5: Women gossip, right, So what y'all do chopping it out 1441 01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:29,240 Speaker 5: niggas is gossiping too. And when you're talking, anytime you're 1442 01:00:29,240 --> 01:00:33,520 Speaker 5: talking about anytime you're talking about somebody else, something else 1443 01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:35,600 Speaker 5: that don't got ship to do with you, nigga, you gossip. 1444 01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:37,240 Speaker 5: It just is what it is. 1445 01:00:37,480 --> 01:00:40,000 Speaker 2: This is the thing I feel like, I try to 1446 01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:42,600 Speaker 2: look at everything from all angles. So this is kind 1447 01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:44,960 Speaker 2: of a weird comparison. But you know how sometimes people 1448 01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:48,760 Speaker 2: be like, oh, like somebody wears designer, Oh, let's. 1449 01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:49,080 Speaker 1: Take the shop. 1450 01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:50,040 Speaker 3: She ain't. 1451 01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:53,000 Speaker 1: Oh she got away for her shot. Okay, it's okay. 1452 01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:55,000 Speaker 1: Mister j Hill is ready. 1453 01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:58,880 Speaker 3: He could know we told him, trying to. 1454 01:00:58,880 --> 01:00:59,800 Speaker 1: Make it what it did. 1455 01:01:01,640 --> 01:01:04,919 Speaker 5: Damn, I'm sorry class you cut. 1456 01:01:06,240 --> 01:01:08,840 Speaker 1: We're having a good time. But okay, so why she 1457 01:01:08,960 --> 01:01:09,440 Speaker 1: boards that up? 1458 01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:11,720 Speaker 2: I just wanted to say, like, you know, people say like, oh, 1459 01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:15,040 Speaker 2: when somebody wears designer, they try to make themselves seem 1460 01:01:15,160 --> 01:01:17,800 Speaker 2: different or above people. But like Drea said, when people 1461 01:01:17,840 --> 01:01:19,920 Speaker 2: try to make it seem like they don't gossip, you're 1462 01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:22,960 Speaker 2: essentially doing the same thing. Everybody wants to seem like 1463 01:01:23,360 --> 01:01:26,800 Speaker 2: they're so different from society and they're the Black Sheep 1464 01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:29,440 Speaker 2: and x y Z when, like you said earlier, pertending 1465 01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:32,280 Speaker 2: to a whole different topic, we're all humans. Yeah, and 1466 01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:34,800 Speaker 2: one thing about me, I don't give a fuck. I 1467 01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:38,080 Speaker 2: don't give do I gossip? Hell yeah, if you post 1468 01:01:38,160 --> 01:01:41,440 Speaker 2: something juicy, I'm calling my friend and we laughing at 1469 01:01:41,480 --> 01:01:46,480 Speaker 2: your whole a period, I'm gonna be. 1470 01:01:46,520 --> 01:01:50,360 Speaker 1: In the group chat. I'm screenshot. My phone literally cannot 1471 01:01:50,720 --> 01:01:53,640 Speaker 1: record no videos because I got so many screenshots. If 1472 01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:54,360 Speaker 1: you won't ask. 1473 01:01:54,240 --> 01:01:59,880 Speaker 5: Niggas, let's break it down. That's that's breaking down further further, right, 1474 01:02:00,360 --> 01:02:03,120 Speaker 5: because the niggas ain't going like this, okay when you're 1475 01:02:03,120 --> 01:02:05,000 Speaker 5: in the chat, right, what we cheer and your team 1476 01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:06,400 Speaker 5: had a bad, bad game. 1477 01:02:06,640 --> 01:02:08,520 Speaker 1: Don't wait, let him finish his analogy they. 1478 01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:12,080 Speaker 5: Put they put the stats in the chat like, man, 1479 01:02:12,120 --> 01:02:15,160 Speaker 5: this niggas bum it's bum ass. Then give me my fantasy. 1480 01:02:17,160 --> 01:02:18,040 Speaker 5: I'm just saying so. 1481 01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:25,720 Speaker 6: That parlaid on here, you feel me, niggas be talking 1482 01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:34,400 Speaker 6: s Varian, that was the perfect was almost something when he. 1483 01:02:34,480 --> 01:02:40,320 Speaker 1: Said they did. Oh he won't wanted like I don't. 1484 01:02:40,160 --> 01:02:41,840 Speaker 6: Feel like that somboll shit, because I just feel like 1485 01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:45,160 Speaker 6: I know too many different people from different areas. 1486 01:02:45,200 --> 01:02:48,040 Speaker 3: I don't want to say different areas. Is it genre. 1487 01:02:49,240 --> 01:02:51,760 Speaker 1: Is genre? I feel like genre is like that's music. 1488 01:02:52,760 --> 01:02:55,720 Speaker 6: But that's like when you watch porn. Different democrats' compl 1489 01:02:57,080 --> 01:03:00,439 Speaker 6: what what's your porn? What's my favorite type for porn? 1490 01:03:02,560 --> 01:03:03,800 Speaker 1: She like to watch old Lady. 1491 01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:05,800 Speaker 3: I don't that is not old lady. 1492 01:03:06,360 --> 01:03:12,120 Speaker 1: She wanted to see pregnant Rosemary Sucker ebony cock. What 1493 01:03:12,400 --> 01:03:15,120 Speaker 1: the she is lying, mister dress. 1494 01:03:18,760 --> 01:03:22,240 Speaker 5: Maybe that was mine, I'm projectous. 1495 01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:25,120 Speaker 6: So it was so specific, because why is that what 1496 01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:28,240 Speaker 6: came in your mind? I don't like they call black 1497 01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:29,160 Speaker 6: people on. 1498 01:03:29,280 --> 01:03:33,360 Speaker 1: Porn because we he is crazy colored colored. 1499 01:03:33,960 --> 01:03:35,000 Speaker 10: They can't say colored. 1500 01:03:35,040 --> 01:03:40,360 Speaker 5: So they saying I don't even watch like man and woman, 1501 01:03:40,960 --> 01:03:44,440 Speaker 5: watch like women. Lesbian only watch like solo porn. But 1502 01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:47,600 Speaker 5: they be lying like I'm too smart for this ship, 1503 01:03:47,680 --> 01:03:49,520 Speaker 5: Like it'd be like, wait, you used to watch some. 1504 01:03:49,560 --> 01:03:54,480 Speaker 10: People mask boyfriend like nobody cousin. 1505 01:03:54,840 --> 01:03:58,040 Speaker 5: You think I'm a fool turn that ship anything turning 1506 01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:00,919 Speaker 5: up and then it take you to like it takes 1507 01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:05,360 Speaker 5: me like an hour just for two minutes, like hour. 1508 01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:08,720 Speaker 2: It took me hour to find Oh you pinky, you 1509 01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:11,880 Speaker 2: too straight? It was like, hey, I'm so horny the 1510 01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:13,360 Speaker 2: first video I see. 1511 01:04:13,400 --> 01:04:17,560 Speaker 1: Click, let's go to work. Let's go to work. 1512 01:04:17,680 --> 01:04:20,000 Speaker 3: I don't like poorn and be having too long of 1513 01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:22,480 Speaker 3: an intro th but I like girl on girl porn. 1514 01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:26,200 Speaker 5: Solo gets straight to the point and if they're doing 1515 01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:27,360 Speaker 5: too much faster, yeah. 1516 01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:29,440 Speaker 3: But I don't want I don't want the girl. 1517 01:04:32,320 --> 01:04:35,680 Speaker 5: The best part because girls they climbax too much. Just 1518 01:04:36,040 --> 01:04:38,680 Speaker 5: there's only one good one, one good face expression. 1519 01:04:38,800 --> 01:04:42,760 Speaker 3: I go to y'all, I don't Why do we here? 1520 01:04:43,120 --> 01:04:43,480 Speaker 1: I don't know? 1521 01:04:43,520 --> 01:04:45,240 Speaker 3: Because he asked what type of porn do I like? 1522 01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:47,880 Speaker 3: I like girl on girl porn, or I like, like 1523 01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:53,160 Speaker 3: I be typing in, like what what big one? I'll 1524 01:04:53,200 --> 01:05:00,919 Speaker 3: be typing in like big dig creamy work everywhere s y'all? 1525 01:05:01,400 --> 01:05:05,440 Speaker 1: Would I be typing in what I like to do? 1526 01:05:06,760 --> 01:05:07,720 Speaker 5: So you like saying what you do? 1527 01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:09,800 Speaker 6: You like saying what I like to see what I do? 1528 01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:14,800 Speaker 6: So i'm you know, I know I like so I 1529 01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:18,000 Speaker 6: be liking to watch that, and so that's what I 1530 01:05:18,120 --> 01:05:20,120 Speaker 6: be typing in. But I don't like nothing that takes 1531 01:05:20,160 --> 01:05:21,920 Speaker 6: too long, because I feel like with a lot of porn, 1532 01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:23,800 Speaker 6: like the storyline be too long. 1533 01:05:23,880 --> 01:05:25,560 Speaker 3: Like I'm not trying to watch you in the kitchen 1534 01:05:25,640 --> 01:05:28,520 Speaker 3: whipping up some eggs for thirty minutes before y'all get 1535 01:05:29,920 --> 01:05:30,160 Speaker 3: Let me. 1536 01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:33,960 Speaker 5: Let me see how coachure y'all are. I'm curious, get 1537 01:05:34,080 --> 01:05:37,800 Speaker 5: to the city. What's the best porn? Ever? I don't 1538 01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:40,400 Speaker 5: fucking know. I don't know. It's only one. 1539 01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:43,200 Speaker 1: I really don't know it with pinky. 1540 01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:47,280 Speaker 3: Like the Booty Talk series Booty Talk. 1541 01:05:49,160 --> 01:05:49,920 Speaker 5: I thought y'a would know. 1542 01:05:51,240 --> 01:05:52,760 Speaker 4: I ain't gonna say they're gonna say in the comments, 1543 01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:53,760 Speaker 4: they gonna okay, but this is. 1544 01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:59,560 Speaker 2: The porn like connoisseur, just because I'm not gonna lie. 1545 01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:02,120 Speaker 2: Like Dres said, she likes to watch stuff that like that, 1546 01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:06,600 Speaker 2: she can do. I most of the time when i'm masturbating, 1547 01:06:06,640 --> 01:06:08,400 Speaker 2: I'm watching my own videos that I have made. 1548 01:06:08,480 --> 01:06:11,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, not gonna lie. I like that too, So I'd 1549 01:06:11,400 --> 01:06:14,360 Speaker 1: rather watch that, like then watch a porn. 1550 01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:15,680 Speaker 5: Watch your videos that you mean? 1551 01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:19,640 Speaker 1: Yeah with yeh, look having. 1552 01:06:19,760 --> 01:06:23,840 Speaker 4: How many how many videos you got, how many different 1553 01:06:23,880 --> 01:06:24,480 Speaker 4: genres you got? 1554 01:06:24,880 --> 01:06:26,240 Speaker 10: Roller as fuck? 1555 01:06:27,240 --> 01:06:28,560 Speaker 5: You keep? You keep every guys. 1556 01:06:28,640 --> 01:06:34,640 Speaker 6: It's compilation, combination, compilation, you keep every everything. 1557 01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:35,600 Speaker 1: It's not every guy. 1558 01:06:36,480 --> 01:06:39,960 Speaker 2: I've had two men that I've made videos with a lot, 1559 01:06:40,360 --> 01:06:42,960 Speaker 2: I swear to God because not all you know why. 1560 01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:48,400 Speaker 2: But let me tell you why though, Because I like 1561 01:06:49,080 --> 01:06:52,800 Speaker 2: to explore in the bedroom, and I only date black men, 1562 01:06:53,680 --> 01:06:56,040 Speaker 2: and I've noticed that a lot of times black men 1563 01:06:56,080 --> 01:06:59,800 Speaker 2: don't like to explore in the best. So when I say, like, 1564 01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:02,000 Speaker 2: there's certain things I like in the bedroom, it was 1565 01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:03,800 Speaker 2: like I was able to do the things I like 1566 01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:05,760 Speaker 2: to do. And let me say this, I know they're 1567 01:07:05,760 --> 01:07:07,600 Speaker 2: gonna be like, oh, she talking about eating ass. 1568 01:07:07,720 --> 01:07:10,000 Speaker 3: Hey, mister j. Hill, you need to direct that question 1569 01:07:10,120 --> 01:07:10,480 Speaker 3: over there. 1570 01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:13,960 Speaker 1: No, no, and that's what I'm saying. I knew that 1571 01:07:14,040 --> 01:07:16,560 Speaker 1: y'all was about to say that in the commics. I'm 1572 01:07:16,600 --> 01:07:17,160 Speaker 1: not gonna lie. 1573 01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:18,640 Speaker 3: Why would you like that? 1574 01:07:19,200 --> 01:07:23,960 Speaker 2: Because no, let me finish my sentence. Things that I 1575 01:07:24,120 --> 01:07:27,360 Speaker 2: really really like in the bedroom I've really never talked 1576 01:07:27,400 --> 01:07:29,400 Speaker 2: about on here, because there was things that i've recently 1577 01:07:29,960 --> 01:07:31,160 Speaker 2: that I discovered this year. 1578 01:07:31,240 --> 01:07:32,720 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I didn't know I liked it 1579 01:07:32,880 --> 01:07:35,960 Speaker 1: was I didn't know. I'm not why it up because 1580 01:07:36,000 --> 01:07:42,439 Speaker 1: I feel like everybody should do what makes them talking 1581 01:07:42,480 --> 01:07:45,360 Speaker 1: about I mean it is, But like I said, I 1582 01:07:45,440 --> 01:07:48,240 Speaker 1: feel like some things I do like because I'm very open. 1583 01:07:48,040 --> 01:07:50,080 Speaker 2: On this platform, and you want to keep that a secret, 1584 01:07:50,440 --> 01:07:52,160 Speaker 2: because you know what. I like some things to be 1585 01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:55,320 Speaker 2: for me, like everybody knows, I'm able to as before 1586 01:07:56,800 --> 01:07:58,880 Speaker 2: he asked, bring. 1587 01:07:58,880 --> 01:07:59,680 Speaker 5: Up because that's the worst. 1588 01:07:59,720 --> 01:08:04,680 Speaker 1: One worst ain't the worst, and that's how you the worst. 1589 01:08:04,800 --> 01:08:06,560 Speaker 3: This is why black This is why black men are 1590 01:08:06,640 --> 01:08:07,120 Speaker 3: like worse. 1591 01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:10,000 Speaker 5: That is not the nigga asked he probably ain't shower 1592 01:08:10,000 --> 01:08:11,520 Speaker 5: because you suck a nigga dick when I'm a shower. 1593 01:08:11,880 --> 01:08:13,240 Speaker 1: That's that's a lie. 1594 01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:16,360 Speaker 5: So you never suck a dirty dick live you want? 1595 01:08:16,560 --> 01:08:18,400 Speaker 6: It's mean you keep doing I don't see you do 1596 01:08:18,520 --> 01:08:20,439 Speaker 6: that three times, so you never sucked the dirty dick. 1597 01:08:20,800 --> 01:08:21,080 Speaker 3: I don't. 1598 01:08:21,240 --> 01:08:22,840 Speaker 1: I've never sucked the niggas dick. 1599 01:08:22,880 --> 01:08:27,840 Speaker 5: And I was like tasted a nigga saw vinegar chip 1600 01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:31,960 Speaker 5: once twice bro stop, not that I remember. 1601 01:08:34,840 --> 01:08:36,040 Speaker 1: Practice is crazy. 1602 01:08:38,479 --> 01:08:41,280 Speaker 3: But now the thought of being a girl analogy makes it. 1603 01:08:41,479 --> 01:08:46,960 Speaker 12: It's sour cream and onion, sour cream, onion, the things 1604 01:08:47,000 --> 01:08:49,920 Speaker 12: I like to do, like you know, like it's a 1605 01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:51,720 Speaker 12: whole it's a whole thing. 1606 01:08:51,840 --> 01:08:53,599 Speaker 1: So I never had a nigga where I'm like, oh 1607 01:08:53,680 --> 01:08:54,200 Speaker 1: my god. 1608 01:08:55,080 --> 01:08:57,160 Speaker 5: Get you want money. It's only gonna get spike the 1609 01:08:57,240 --> 01:08:57,640 Speaker 5: views up. 1610 01:08:57,720 --> 01:09:00,240 Speaker 1: Just it ain't. It ain't nothing like that. I say 1611 01:09:00,280 --> 01:09:05,960 Speaker 1: I like certain things. What it's just certain type of things. You, 1612 01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:10,160 Speaker 1: mister j Hill, you is too horny. I'm gonna call 1613 01:09:10,240 --> 01:09:12,559 Speaker 1: your fiance. What nigga? 1614 01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:13,880 Speaker 3: What is it? 1615 01:09:13,960 --> 01:09:14,920 Speaker 1: I want to know to you? 1616 01:09:16,240 --> 01:09:17,439 Speaker 5: I want to do you it to you. 1617 01:09:19,880 --> 01:09:21,360 Speaker 10: I'm a type of me. 1618 01:09:21,880 --> 01:09:24,160 Speaker 3: Can I see what is it? 1619 01:09:24,520 --> 01:09:31,120 Speaker 13: You're gonna make some money? No, nigga, fuck, this wasn't 1620 01:09:31,120 --> 01:09:35,840 Speaker 13: even the sex topic. Horny ass nigga going to jail. 1621 01:09:37,080 --> 01:09:39,360 Speaker 3: I what type of pouring you watch? 1622 01:09:40,400 --> 01:09:43,559 Speaker 1: Who in here? Fucking do you fuck? Tell it? Think 1623 01:09:44,120 --> 01:09:45,720 Speaker 1: what the rooms smell like? 1624 01:09:47,920 --> 01:09:51,360 Speaker 3: Hey man, mister sit down, mister j Hill. 1625 01:09:53,760 --> 01:09:58,760 Speaker 1: The damn't mister j Hill, you know came in here? 1626 01:09:58,920 --> 01:10:01,679 Speaker 3: Cut up, mister j Hill? 1627 01:10:02,040 --> 01:10:02,760 Speaker 10: What is you doing? 1628 01:10:07,120 --> 01:10:11,040 Speaker 3: Why we're not doing it? We just we just don't 1629 01:10:11,080 --> 01:10:12,120 Speaker 3: have to name the episode. 1630 01:10:12,200 --> 01:10:17,320 Speaker 1: Mister Jay Hill featuring mister Jay Hill, mister j Hill 1631 01:10:17,479 --> 01:10:19,479 Speaker 1: featuring poor mother for real. 1632 01:10:22,160 --> 01:10:22,639 Speaker 5: Mister. 1633 01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:28,000 Speaker 3: Mister j Hill saying what their things mel like? 1634 01:10:30,080 --> 01:10:32,280 Speaker 5: She said she'd be doing things that she don't want 1635 01:10:32,320 --> 01:10:32,760 Speaker 5: to speak of. 1636 01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:37,800 Speaker 3: Because I don't get me wrong, I will say you say. 1637 01:10:37,720 --> 01:10:40,200 Speaker 5: You asses, because like I don't, you don't want to 1638 01:10:40,280 --> 01:10:40,760 Speaker 5: talk about. 1639 01:10:40,840 --> 01:10:43,719 Speaker 3: It's a lot of things that's worse to eating ass though. 1640 01:10:45,160 --> 01:10:45,920 Speaker 1: We're not vanilla. 1641 01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:52,000 Speaker 5: Even if even if you don't do it vanilla, what's 1642 01:10:52,080 --> 01:10:53,720 Speaker 5: worse than even if you didn't do it? What's worse 1643 01:10:53,760 --> 01:10:55,479 Speaker 5: than eating nigga? Eating nigga ass? 1644 01:10:56,680 --> 01:10:57,760 Speaker 3: I think that, like. 1645 01:10:59,800 --> 01:11:03,160 Speaker 5: Hold up fell Fellas, is anything worse than. 1646 01:11:03,720 --> 01:11:05,400 Speaker 3: I could I could ask to pay you. 1647 01:11:06,920 --> 01:11:08,719 Speaker 1: To pay, and I never paid. 1648 01:11:08,840 --> 01:11:11,160 Speaker 4: Okay, my bad, apologize because I'm thinking it's the same thing. 1649 01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:11,720 Speaker 5: My bad. 1650 01:11:12,160 --> 01:11:14,040 Speaker 1: Okay, I put on that strap. 1651 01:11:14,439 --> 01:11:15,240 Speaker 3: Pegging is putting on. 1652 01:11:15,600 --> 01:11:16,280 Speaker 5: I apologize. 1653 01:11:16,360 --> 01:11:18,040 Speaker 4: I'm thinking it's the same. 1654 01:11:18,240 --> 01:11:19,439 Speaker 5: I look at all that the same. 1655 01:11:19,920 --> 01:11:21,800 Speaker 3: Or what if she pegged your mouth this word like, 1656 01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:23,280 Speaker 3: what if she paid you in the booty didn't put 1657 01:11:23,320 --> 01:11:26,600 Speaker 3: in your mouth, that's worse. That's worse than eating that 1658 01:11:27,439 --> 01:11:30,080 Speaker 3: my mom was because I wasn't thinking about that ship. 1659 01:11:30,120 --> 01:11:31,360 Speaker 1: Okay, you're right, you're right. 1660 01:11:31,400 --> 01:11:34,639 Speaker 5: You got it, you got it, You got it, y'all, 1661 01:11:34,680 --> 01:11:36,519 Speaker 5: be work, you got it. 1662 01:11:36,800 --> 01:11:39,000 Speaker 1: Not a lot the list could go on. 1663 01:11:39,200 --> 01:11:42,559 Speaker 3: Hey, you got pag you in a booty, didn't peg 1664 01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:43,160 Speaker 3: your mouth. 1665 01:11:43,479 --> 01:11:45,400 Speaker 1: I could put a gag ball in your mouth. 1666 01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:48,000 Speaker 3: It could get you up, put some leather and put 1667 01:11:48,040 --> 01:11:50,320 Speaker 3: you in a cage. I think all that stuff is worse. 1668 01:11:50,880 --> 01:11:53,800 Speaker 5: You're right, you're right. When I think of eating as 1669 01:11:54,120 --> 01:11:56,840 Speaker 5: like aigat, I just like I don't even think of 1670 01:11:56,880 --> 01:11:58,759 Speaker 5: all that because it's like it's all the same. 1671 01:11:58,760 --> 01:12:01,080 Speaker 1: You know that, people like I just seen like one 1672 01:12:01,120 --> 01:12:03,160 Speaker 1: of my homegirls did this. This is literally, I swear 1673 01:12:03,200 --> 01:12:03,479 Speaker 1: to god. 1674 01:12:03,760 --> 01:12:06,240 Speaker 2: She tied her nigga legs up and she put like 1675 01:12:06,320 --> 01:12:10,719 Speaker 2: a little string around his balls, and it was like yeah, 1676 01:12:11,120 --> 01:12:12,960 Speaker 2: like it was like cutting the circulator and he liked it. 1677 01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:14,599 Speaker 5: He did. 1678 01:12:16,840 --> 01:12:22,840 Speaker 1: No, I didn't watch it. No, she told me you 1679 01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:27,840 Speaker 1: wouldn't be like for a friend all my life. Let 1680 01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:28,559 Speaker 1: me tell you something. 1681 01:12:28,920 --> 01:12:30,439 Speaker 2: I do a lot of things, but tied up a 1682 01:12:30,520 --> 01:12:32,559 Speaker 2: nigga balls because if them holes fall off, you ain't 1683 01:12:32,600 --> 01:12:33,639 Speaker 2: gonna take me to court. 1684 01:12:34,760 --> 01:12:38,759 Speaker 1: Swing poor mind's ll see bitch boy? Fuck now, baby, that's. 1685 01:12:40,120 --> 01:12:40,519 Speaker 10: Problem. 1686 01:12:41,080 --> 01:12:44,280 Speaker 3: That ain't like nothing. I ain't never tied up nobody balls. 1687 01:12:44,520 --> 01:12:48,240 Speaker 2: Okay, since we're talking about sex, please let's get into 1688 01:12:48,720 --> 01:12:51,480 Speaker 2: the bed out the big bow. 1689 01:12:54,200 --> 01:12:57,759 Speaker 5: About that's crazy. 1690 01:12:59,200 --> 01:13:00,720 Speaker 4: She's a magician, mister Jay Hill. 1691 01:13:00,760 --> 01:13:02,040 Speaker 1: We're gonna need a magician. 1692 01:13:02,120 --> 01:13:07,400 Speaker 5: That's why you drownk I'm really it's funny. I'm hockey 1693 01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:08,479 Speaker 5: like really. 1694 01:13:08,400 --> 01:13:10,640 Speaker 1: Like you having a good time. I believe you. 1695 01:13:10,840 --> 01:13:11,040 Speaker 3: I'm not. 1696 01:13:12,600 --> 01:13:15,760 Speaker 2: Anytime anybody sits on this poor mine's couch, they're gonna 1697 01:13:15,760 --> 01:13:17,840 Speaker 2: have all mister j Hill. 1698 01:13:18,360 --> 01:13:19,000 Speaker 10: And speaking of. 1699 01:13:19,040 --> 01:13:23,360 Speaker 5: Having balls, will now I'm playing it ain't with these 1700 01:13:24,360 --> 01:13:26,200 Speaker 5: our podcast episode gotta go crazy. 1701 01:13:26,439 --> 01:13:28,880 Speaker 2: Okay, mister j Hill, We're gonna ask you this because 1702 01:13:28,880 --> 01:13:33,400 Speaker 2: I had a conversation with somebody, and what every. 1703 01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:34,880 Speaker 5: Time you said I had a conversation with somebody just. 1704 01:13:35,080 --> 01:13:39,160 Speaker 2: Ultimately, no, I had no because I talked to Dre 1705 01:13:39,240 --> 01:13:40,719 Speaker 2: about this morning. I was like, I had a conversation 1706 01:13:40,720 --> 01:13:42,639 Speaker 2: with him. I couldn't believe he felt this type of way. 1707 01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:45,400 Speaker 5: Because that you was dealing with for eleven months. 1708 01:13:45,640 --> 01:13:47,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was so. 1709 01:13:49,640 --> 01:13:52,080 Speaker 2: He said, like if he goes to a woman's house 1710 01:13:52,120 --> 01:13:53,680 Speaker 2: and like he'll open the door, or he'll if he 1711 01:13:53,760 --> 01:13:56,360 Speaker 2: sees like condoms, Like if woman has condoms in her purse, 1712 01:13:56,439 --> 01:13:58,360 Speaker 2: cons in her joy, it's weird. 1713 01:13:59,280 --> 01:14:01,640 Speaker 1: I feel like a woman carrying condoms you should be 1714 01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:04,040 Speaker 1: happy because if you're having sex with this woman, y'all 1715 01:14:04,040 --> 01:14:07,120 Speaker 1: aren't in a committed relationship. That means she's protecting herself 1716 01:14:07,360 --> 01:14:10,920 Speaker 1: and that is essentially not from everything, but it could 1717 01:14:10,920 --> 01:14:15,120 Speaker 1: be protecting you as well. So a woman carrying condoms, 1718 01:14:16,240 --> 01:14:17,639 Speaker 1: men view, is a bad thing. 1719 01:14:18,120 --> 01:14:20,439 Speaker 5: Again, egles is too fragile, bro. 1720 01:14:21,040 --> 01:14:24,080 Speaker 1: So it's not about even the STDs. It's just about 1721 01:14:24,120 --> 01:14:28,200 Speaker 1: her getting that long slong back. 1722 01:14:30,680 --> 01:14:37,760 Speaker 5: The e g o oh ego. I thought you I 1723 01:14:37,800 --> 01:14:39,479 Speaker 5: thought it was like a I thought it was like 1724 01:14:39,600 --> 01:14:41,840 Speaker 5: you know, she said it. I was just yeah, I 1725 01:14:41,880 --> 01:14:44,320 Speaker 5: thought it was something. I thought you were saying something else. 1726 01:14:44,880 --> 01:14:46,280 Speaker 1: I thought it was like some type of like know, 1727 01:14:46,400 --> 01:14:48,559 Speaker 1: he don't feel the bars. I felt that bar. 1728 01:14:49,160 --> 01:14:49,599 Speaker 3: That was a bar. 1729 01:14:50,800 --> 01:14:51,559 Speaker 5: I ain't feeling nothing. 1730 01:14:52,600 --> 01:14:52,760 Speaker 11: Hill. 1731 01:14:53,320 --> 01:14:55,000 Speaker 1: She had to say that was a bar. 1732 01:14:55,400 --> 01:14:57,479 Speaker 5: What I was saying was, yeah, egos get it off. 1733 01:14:58,840 --> 01:15:00,519 Speaker 1: So okay. 1734 01:15:01,840 --> 01:15:05,320 Speaker 4: I feel like more women who are like responsible do that. 1735 01:15:05,400 --> 01:15:06,320 Speaker 4: Like even my fiance. 1736 01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:10,400 Speaker 5: The first day we had sex, it was Valentine's Day, 1737 01:15:10,439 --> 01:15:13,760 Speaker 5: right you always making we love my dumb ass look 1738 01:15:13,880 --> 01:15:17,400 Speaker 5: ain't gonna lie. So you know I used to host 1739 01:15:17,479 --> 01:15:20,160 Speaker 5: right so we we hosted the Rick Ross concert or whatever, 1740 01:15:20,160 --> 01:15:22,280 Speaker 5: and ship I'm hosting, so I bring it there because 1741 01:15:22,280 --> 01:15:26,439 Speaker 5: it's like date type vibe whatever. So I go, I 1742 01:15:26,520 --> 01:15:30,280 Speaker 5: go to right Ariday is crazy, My dumb ask got 1743 01:15:30,320 --> 01:15:30,799 Speaker 5: some flowers. 1744 01:15:31,360 --> 01:15:33,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, I try to get like a teddy bear and 1745 01:15:34,000 --> 01:15:36,639 Speaker 4: like and like some flowers or some ship. 1746 01:15:37,280 --> 01:15:38,800 Speaker 5: She was like, you got the. 1747 01:15:38,840 --> 01:15:42,479 Speaker 1: Cons period period? 1748 01:15:43,240 --> 01:15:43,720 Speaker 5: What the fun? 1749 01:15:43,880 --> 01:15:45,840 Speaker 3: I get this period? 1750 01:15:45,960 --> 01:15:47,400 Speaker 10: I got this so I couldn't get. 1751 01:15:49,360 --> 01:15:49,400 Speaker 5: You. 1752 01:15:50,000 --> 01:15:52,720 Speaker 3: You were nasty, missed. I knew you was nasty when 1753 01:15:52,720 --> 01:15:53,439 Speaker 3: you say you be white. 1754 01:15:53,479 --> 01:15:56,639 Speaker 1: No no that, but he's talking about missus Hill. 1755 01:15:56,800 --> 01:16:00,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, so she was like trying to get the teddy bear. 1756 01:16:00,160 --> 01:16:01,720 Speaker 5: So he didn't have to get the no no no 1757 01:16:01,760 --> 01:16:03,160 Speaker 5: no no no no no I was trying to get 1758 01:16:03,160 --> 01:16:04,760 Speaker 5: the teddy best so I could have to get so 1759 01:16:04,840 --> 01:16:05,240 Speaker 5: I would have. 1760 01:16:05,479 --> 01:16:09,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, but she was like, y'all are matchmate of here. 1761 01:16:09,479 --> 01:16:10,599 Speaker 1: She was like, you got a condoms. 1762 01:16:10,880 --> 01:16:12,040 Speaker 3: I'm like, what the fuck? 1763 01:16:12,080 --> 01:16:13,479 Speaker 5: He waste my money on this ship? 1764 01:16:13,520 --> 01:16:14,320 Speaker 3: I had to get this. 1765 01:16:15,360 --> 01:16:16,320 Speaker 1: Did she have condoms? 1766 01:16:16,600 --> 01:16:16,760 Speaker 5: Nah? 1767 01:16:16,880 --> 01:16:18,800 Speaker 4: She she told me by him, though, But I feel 1768 01:16:18,800 --> 01:16:19,320 Speaker 4: like it's the same. 1769 01:16:19,360 --> 01:16:21,280 Speaker 1: I feel like she wanted you to get them. 1770 01:16:21,560 --> 01:16:24,360 Speaker 5: All I'm saying is I think it depends the age group, 1771 01:16:24,439 --> 01:16:27,120 Speaker 5: Like if you're a grown man, those things don't really 1772 01:16:27,160 --> 01:16:29,559 Speaker 5: bother you as much. But again, I was twenty six though, 1773 01:16:29,800 --> 01:16:31,880 Speaker 5: so at twenty five it might. It might bother me, 1774 01:16:32,040 --> 01:16:36,439 Speaker 5: like this got conmics. But at thirty two, I'm like, thank. 1775 01:16:36,320 --> 01:16:38,200 Speaker 3: God, thank god she got you. 1776 01:16:38,320 --> 01:16:42,760 Speaker 5: Save me a trip in some money. Nigga, what's the 1777 01:16:42,800 --> 01:16:45,080 Speaker 5: ship called prices rods and and ship? 1778 01:16:45,360 --> 01:16:49,040 Speaker 1: What are you called prices rising? 1779 01:16:49,360 --> 01:16:49,679 Speaker 3: I thought? 1780 01:16:49,680 --> 01:16:53,680 Speaker 1: People saying, I was like Bob Barker. 1781 01:16:53,680 --> 01:16:58,200 Speaker 5: No, no inflation high as hell. So she got she 1782 01:16:58,280 --> 01:17:01,080 Speaker 5: got the she got the right one, she got magnums. 1783 01:17:01,120 --> 01:17:03,639 Speaker 1: Cool, I ain't thinking, I mean he had. 1784 01:17:05,160 --> 01:17:09,120 Speaker 5: She got the magnum. Honestly, all this sh is this 1785 01:17:09,280 --> 01:17:14,400 Speaker 5: is regular, No I'm just saying for niggas that might 1786 01:17:14,439 --> 01:17:16,559 Speaker 5: be wanting to think like that, Like if she got Magnets, 1787 01:17:16,560 --> 01:17:18,000 Speaker 5: I don't have to spend the extra money because they 1788 01:17:18,200 --> 01:17:19,720 Speaker 5: the price is higher by the name. 1789 01:17:19,880 --> 01:17:22,560 Speaker 6: But not when the nigga wants you to use a 1790 01:17:22,640 --> 01:17:34,519 Speaker 6: Magnum and then he can't, Like, no, we could have 1791 01:17:34,640 --> 01:17:35,439 Speaker 6: used the ricks. 1792 01:17:36,560 --> 01:17:39,320 Speaker 3: No yo, that yo. 1793 01:17:39,520 --> 01:17:41,720 Speaker 5: Y'all be on bullshit, And I ain't about to let 1794 01:17:41,800 --> 01:17:44,519 Speaker 5: y'all do this in my niggas out here. I'm gonna 1795 01:17:44,520 --> 01:17:44,880 Speaker 5: tell you all. 1796 01:17:44,840 --> 01:17:47,200 Speaker 3: Because I got amazing. 1797 01:17:49,640 --> 01:17:51,920 Speaker 5: It doesn't even matter about like the condom and the 1798 01:17:52,040 --> 01:17:55,800 Speaker 5: size though it don't like the size don't even go 1799 01:17:55,880 --> 01:17:58,920 Speaker 5: with the condom, is the quality and like the direction 1800 01:17:59,120 --> 01:18:01,840 Speaker 5: is dry, Like Magnium has a good name because of 1801 01:18:01,920 --> 01:18:04,160 Speaker 5: the quality of the condom. I think everybody want to 1802 01:18:04,800 --> 01:18:07,320 Speaker 5: Like people be saying ship just out of ignorance, like 1803 01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:09,240 Speaker 5: you know, like the condom size has nothing to do 1804 01:18:09,360 --> 01:18:09,840 Speaker 5: with the condom. 1805 01:18:10,479 --> 01:18:13,519 Speaker 3: You do gotta do with your dick though, No, you 1806 01:18:13,600 --> 01:18:15,879 Speaker 3: can get up a Magimum. 1807 01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:17,680 Speaker 1: No, we do gotta do. 1808 01:18:18,200 --> 01:18:19,000 Speaker 3: You gotta do what. 1809 01:18:19,439 --> 01:18:23,160 Speaker 5: Unless you get like an x L or something. Yeah, okay, 1810 01:18:23,280 --> 01:18:25,799 Speaker 5: but magniums don't start an x L I'm. 1811 01:18:25,840 --> 01:18:28,559 Speaker 3: Say Magnum because they for a bigger penis. 1812 01:18:29,320 --> 01:18:31,080 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you. I had a sex 1813 01:18:31,160 --> 01:18:34,240 Speaker 1: with a nigga before, and he tried to and that 1814 01:18:34,360 --> 01:18:36,519 Speaker 1: nigga was like that bigg was like get me out 1815 01:18:36,560 --> 01:18:36,800 Speaker 1: of here. 1816 01:18:37,040 --> 01:18:37,080 Speaker 7: No. 1817 01:18:37,240 --> 01:18:42,000 Speaker 3: But I'm saying that Magnum can't feel cog. 1818 01:18:42,600 --> 01:18:45,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes. 1819 01:18:46,360 --> 01:18:48,960 Speaker 6: That might be right, because I don't even knows are 1820 01:18:49,000 --> 01:18:51,479 Speaker 6: for a bigger a person who quote unquote has a 1821 01:18:51,520 --> 01:18:52,160 Speaker 6: bigger penis. 1822 01:18:52,200 --> 01:18:57,200 Speaker 3: That's why they made magnums. We won't be working at 1823 01:18:57,240 --> 01:18:57,679 Speaker 3: the studio. 1824 01:18:58,760 --> 01:19:06,200 Speaker 5: Speak for yourself trojans, right, yeah, okay, okay, because I 1825 01:19:06,520 --> 01:19:09,439 Speaker 5: probably I haven't wore condoms in like five years. 1826 01:19:09,520 --> 01:19:13,919 Speaker 1: Maybe I know that's right, mister, and missus Hill is nasty. 1827 01:19:14,840 --> 01:19:17,280 Speaker 3: Well, I was gonna say I agree with you because 1828 01:19:17,320 --> 01:19:19,479 Speaker 3: I had this conversation with like. 1829 01:19:20,360 --> 01:19:24,120 Speaker 14: We sometimes y'all know, y'all don't be fucking sometimes, what 1830 01:19:24,240 --> 01:19:29,160 Speaker 14: would you mis we being we know you got a baby, 1831 01:19:30,200 --> 01:19:33,599 Speaker 14: that baby didn't just uppealth. 1832 01:19:34,920 --> 01:19:38,000 Speaker 2: Okay, So before when you were single and dating, did 1833 01:19:38,080 --> 01:19:40,200 Speaker 2: you carry condoms or have condoms that I didn't? 1834 01:19:40,280 --> 01:19:40,439 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1835 01:19:40,479 --> 01:19:41,240 Speaker 1: I had them at my house. 1836 01:19:41,280 --> 01:19:42,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, how long did y'all? 1837 01:19:42,960 --> 01:19:45,000 Speaker 3: Did some carry them in my first because I feel 1838 01:19:45,040 --> 01:19:45,559 Speaker 3: like that means you. 1839 01:19:45,680 --> 01:19:50,400 Speaker 5: Going, yeah, but girls be going trying to get they do, 1840 01:19:51,680 --> 01:19:53,360 Speaker 5: girls be going out trying to get That's what. 1841 01:19:53,880 --> 01:19:55,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, if that's what, I'm not judging people who do, 1842 01:19:55,800 --> 01:19:58,040 Speaker 2: but I'm I'm not the girl who has condoms in 1843 01:19:58,120 --> 01:19:59,280 Speaker 2: my pers not in my perst. 1844 01:19:59,360 --> 01:20:01,200 Speaker 4: No, how long do y'all date somebody before y'all stop 1845 01:20:01,280 --> 01:20:02,000 Speaker 4: using games. 1846 01:20:02,920 --> 01:20:06,000 Speaker 2: Well, a conversation needs to be had, So it matters 1847 01:20:06,000 --> 01:20:09,760 Speaker 2: about the conversation. For me, it should now now, I'll 1848 01:20:09,800 --> 01:20:13,880 Speaker 2: say now now, back in the day, you know, I 1849 01:20:14,000 --> 01:20:17,559 Speaker 2: used to be an. 1850 01:20:17,000 --> 01:20:19,519 Speaker 3: It's the realist, like it should be one head but 1851 01:20:19,680 --> 01:20:21,599 Speaker 3: like oh yeah, yeah, I don't. 1852 01:20:21,439 --> 01:20:24,400 Speaker 2: Be happy no, yeah, Like now I do have those 1853 01:20:24,479 --> 01:20:28,760 Speaker 2: conversations because like, you know, safety first, and honestly you 1854 01:20:28,840 --> 01:20:32,439 Speaker 2: know with the safety too. It's like I've had situations when, 1855 01:20:32,760 --> 01:20:36,120 Speaker 2: let's be real, a man can throw your pH balance off. 1856 01:20:36,600 --> 01:20:38,120 Speaker 2: You know, you be talking in the club, trying to 1857 01:20:38,200 --> 01:20:39,679 Speaker 2: have fun. All of a sudden you smell a little 1858 01:20:39,680 --> 01:20:40,920 Speaker 2: fried catfish. 1859 01:20:41,000 --> 01:20:44,120 Speaker 5: And got a lot of catfish. That's what I'm saying. 1860 01:20:44,760 --> 01:20:47,920 Speaker 2: And it ain't dirty, but it's that she's having sex 1861 01:20:47,960 --> 01:20:51,920 Speaker 2: with this man and he's done through her phrll. So, I, hey, 1862 01:20:52,000 --> 01:20:55,160 Speaker 2: let's have a conversation. If we're gonna be having raw sex, 1863 01:20:55,200 --> 01:20:57,679 Speaker 2: we need to be only having sex with each other. 1864 01:20:57,840 --> 01:21:00,240 Speaker 4: I like, so let me ask you this thoughf y'all 1865 01:21:00,360 --> 01:21:01,280 Speaker 4: just having sex with each other? 1866 01:21:01,320 --> 01:21:03,120 Speaker 5: Why not just be in a relationship. 1867 01:21:02,840 --> 01:21:06,600 Speaker 1: Because that requires a lot, Because sometimes. 1868 01:21:06,560 --> 01:21:09,800 Speaker 5: Sex raw don't require a lot that let. 1869 01:21:09,720 --> 01:21:11,080 Speaker 1: Me tell Okay, let me break it down to you. 1870 01:21:11,160 --> 01:21:11,320 Speaker 5: Though. 1871 01:21:13,360 --> 01:21:15,840 Speaker 3: Everybody that's sitting over there in that corner all did this. 1872 01:21:17,160 --> 01:21:22,800 Speaker 1: But because let me say this though, because let me 1873 01:21:22,880 --> 01:21:27,800 Speaker 1: tell you, as a as a person, it got dark. 1874 01:21:28,000 --> 01:21:29,479 Speaker 3: We all like raw sex. 1875 01:21:29,840 --> 01:21:32,160 Speaker 2: Like in a perfect world, we will all just have 1876 01:21:32,360 --> 01:21:34,960 Speaker 2: raw sex with who we wanted to, right So, but 1877 01:21:35,120 --> 01:21:37,880 Speaker 2: sometimes it's like I'm not gonna lie. When I was 1878 01:21:37,920 --> 01:21:40,479 Speaker 2: dealing with the guy I was dealing with earlier this year, 1879 01:21:40,560 --> 01:21:43,240 Speaker 2: like we had a conversation and we were not using protection, 1880 01:21:43,960 --> 01:21:46,360 Speaker 2: but we weren't in a committed relationship. But it's not 1881 01:21:46,479 --> 01:21:49,200 Speaker 2: because we wanted to date other people. It's just because 1882 01:21:49,320 --> 01:21:50,280 Speaker 2: our schedules. 1883 01:21:49,920 --> 01:21:50,559 Speaker 5: Didn't the line. 1884 01:21:50,720 --> 01:21:52,280 Speaker 1: We had things going on, We had a lot, and 1885 01:21:52,400 --> 01:21:54,479 Speaker 1: he lives in a different city and this is x 1886 01:21:54,600 --> 01:21:59,920 Speaker 1: y Z. But then, like I said, what you saying, 1887 01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:01,719 Speaker 1: it's always it's a story. 1888 01:22:02,040 --> 01:22:02,960 Speaker 3: It is a story. 1889 01:22:03,479 --> 01:22:09,800 Speaker 1: I always got a story. It's not this. 1890 01:22:10,360 --> 01:22:11,760 Speaker 2: But I'm just saying, I feel like if you have 1891 01:22:11,840 --> 01:22:15,240 Speaker 2: the conversation, because people, we need to realize everybody got 1892 01:22:15,280 --> 01:22:16,840 Speaker 2: a different lifestyle going on. 1893 01:22:17,800 --> 01:22:20,080 Speaker 1: So you know, if I want to start. 1894 01:22:19,840 --> 01:22:26,559 Speaker 3: The life styles, just we got plenty bar. 1895 01:22:26,880 --> 01:22:28,479 Speaker 5: That was the bar. That was the bar, that was cool, 1896 01:22:28,640 --> 01:22:29,120 Speaker 5: that was cool. 1897 01:22:29,720 --> 01:22:34,080 Speaker 6: This here, lie, Well, what I was gonna say is 1898 01:22:35,360 --> 01:22:39,519 Speaker 6: realistically and I think it a gotcha. 1899 01:22:39,920 --> 01:22:41,680 Speaker 10: This is what people always. 1900 01:22:43,040 --> 01:22:43,240 Speaker 1: Say. 1901 01:22:43,360 --> 01:22:46,920 Speaker 3: We need to advocate for more on the show. 1902 01:22:47,360 --> 01:22:52,640 Speaker 5: I'm gonna advocate for sen I'm the last one though, 1903 01:22:52,680 --> 01:22:54,120 Speaker 5: because the whole. 1904 01:22:54,240 --> 01:22:56,640 Speaker 4: I'm so the whole time. But that's my personality. 1905 01:22:57,000 --> 01:22:59,200 Speaker 10: But the same. 1906 01:23:02,800 --> 01:23:07,840 Speaker 6: What I was gonna say, go ahead, I'm sorry, conversations 1907 01:23:07,880 --> 01:23:09,960 Speaker 6: needs to be had before you have our sakes with somebody. 1908 01:23:10,280 --> 01:23:13,360 Speaker 6: But realistically speaking, that is not what always happened. But 1909 01:23:13,360 --> 01:23:14,960 Speaker 6: I think that's what we should be saying to like 1910 01:23:15,040 --> 01:23:18,080 Speaker 6: the younger people, y'all need to be better. 1911 01:23:18,640 --> 01:23:23,280 Speaker 1: Don't don't do what I do because pussy open too long. 1912 01:23:23,360 --> 01:23:24,439 Speaker 3: But I wasn't gonna say that. 1913 01:23:29,000 --> 01:23:29,320 Speaker 7: I was. 1914 01:23:31,000 --> 01:23:34,000 Speaker 3: A change comes, A change has come. 1915 01:23:34,240 --> 01:23:35,280 Speaker 5: A change has come. 1916 01:23:35,600 --> 01:23:44,360 Speaker 3: Change has come. Oh my god, Oh y'all, that's what 1917 01:23:44,400 --> 01:23:45,120 Speaker 3: I was about to say. 1918 01:23:45,240 --> 01:23:45,559 Speaker 5: So I was. 1919 01:23:47,479 --> 01:23:49,360 Speaker 6: When I first started talking to my man, we just 1920 01:23:49,479 --> 01:23:52,080 Speaker 6: had sex on like some like a random it was 1921 01:23:52,120 --> 01:23:53,240 Speaker 6: just together. 1922 01:23:54,320 --> 01:23:57,439 Speaker 5: Like yes, wait when we did that, were talking to god? 1923 01:23:57,439 --> 01:24:00,360 Speaker 5: Because you talked to a god. Then oh you were 1924 01:24:00,360 --> 01:24:00,680 Speaker 5: saying like. 1925 01:24:00,720 --> 01:24:03,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I was talking to him, So why is 1926 01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:06,120 Speaker 3: not your man yet? He is my man? 1927 01:24:08,520 --> 01:24:12,679 Speaker 6: So anyways, when we first started dating, we had sex 1928 01:24:12,920 --> 01:24:16,640 Speaker 6: very randomly, but we already knew each other, so I 1929 01:24:16,680 --> 01:24:17,360 Speaker 6: ain't gonna lie. 1930 01:24:17,479 --> 01:24:20,360 Speaker 5: We ain't, you know, sometimes it happens. 1931 01:24:20,479 --> 01:24:23,000 Speaker 6: It was no condom, and it did just what he 1932 01:24:23,240 --> 01:24:25,680 Speaker 6: was until we got in a relationship, and obviously now 1933 01:24:25,880 --> 01:24:26,960 Speaker 6: it doesn't matter anymore. 1934 01:24:27,479 --> 01:24:30,280 Speaker 3: But I had one in my house. 1935 01:24:30,600 --> 01:24:31,720 Speaker 10: And I told him about it. 1936 01:24:31,760 --> 01:24:33,320 Speaker 3: After the fact. He was like, why you didn't tell 1937 01:24:33,360 --> 01:24:35,360 Speaker 3: me you had one? With the He didn't give a 1938 01:24:36,560 --> 01:24:39,200 Speaker 3: That's what I said, why didn't tell me? 1939 01:24:40,720 --> 01:24:41,680 Speaker 5: Why you ain't gonna kiss some? 1940 01:24:42,560 --> 01:24:45,360 Speaker 3: But then he got offended. He was like, so why 1941 01:24:45,400 --> 01:24:49,240 Speaker 3: did you have one? Because I was, he was like, 1942 01:24:49,280 --> 01:24:50,280 Speaker 3: why did you already have one? 1943 01:24:51,280 --> 01:24:56,240 Speaker 2: But like, for whatever reason, from thinking because they probably 1944 01:24:56,280 --> 01:24:59,679 Speaker 2: be thinking, Okay, I think men think when women have condoms, 1945 01:24:59,840 --> 01:25:01,080 Speaker 2: you fucking somebody else? 1946 01:25:01,720 --> 01:25:04,960 Speaker 3: But I feel like this, But I'm fucking then. 1947 01:25:05,200 --> 01:25:07,519 Speaker 10: I mean, prior to you, why you ain't have three? 1948 01:25:07,560 --> 01:25:09,040 Speaker 5: Why was it one? It should have been three? 1949 01:25:09,920 --> 01:25:11,559 Speaker 1: Well you know the number count. 1950 01:25:11,680 --> 01:25:13,639 Speaker 3: I didn't say it was years ago. 1951 01:25:13,720 --> 01:25:15,920 Speaker 5: I know, a dinosaur like. 1952 01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:19,639 Speaker 2: But what I'm saying it, I feel like you should. 1953 01:25:19,960 --> 01:25:22,280 Speaker 2: If a woman has a condom, you should be happy 1954 01:25:22,360 --> 01:25:25,840 Speaker 2: that affecting herself. Facts, facts, It shouldn't be an issue. 1955 01:25:25,920 --> 01:25:28,040 Speaker 5: But a single condom is type crazy like that. 1956 01:25:28,040 --> 01:25:31,679 Speaker 2: It's not crazy though, because the only reason I'm pulling 1957 01:25:31,720 --> 01:25:33,479 Speaker 2: out this condom is because you don't have one, whole 1958 01:25:33,479 --> 01:25:35,960 Speaker 2: ad nigga be happy. 1959 01:25:36,000 --> 01:25:40,160 Speaker 1: I'm prepared, yeah, because guess what, or you left it 1960 01:25:40,200 --> 01:25:40,760 Speaker 1: in your car. 1961 01:25:41,400 --> 01:25:43,200 Speaker 2: Now by the time you walk down to your car 1962 01:25:43,280 --> 01:25:45,400 Speaker 2: and puss it and dried up, it's cold outside. 1963 01:25:45,760 --> 01:25:48,000 Speaker 1: Pussy shivering. She watching that. 1964 01:25:48,160 --> 01:25:49,519 Speaker 4: When I was young, that used to be the worst. 1965 01:25:49,560 --> 01:25:51,400 Speaker 5: That was the dumbest thing. I don't know what, not 1966 01:25:51,640 --> 01:25:54,960 Speaker 5: coming up, not coming prepared, that was the dumbest. I 1967 01:25:55,040 --> 01:25:57,600 Speaker 5: gotta go to the store. That was stupid like that 1968 01:25:57,800 --> 01:26:02,080 Speaker 5: was like, what was it? Like? The pussy drives? You 1969 01:26:02,120 --> 01:26:03,040 Speaker 5: don't want to funk. 1970 01:26:02,880 --> 01:26:03,639 Speaker 1: That's what I'm telling. 1971 01:26:03,720 --> 01:26:07,559 Speaker 3: What so you agree the man fault? 1972 01:26:09,240 --> 01:26:09,839 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. 1973 01:26:11,840 --> 01:26:14,760 Speaker 5: Yeah for sure. Yeah, absolutely all I have is because 1974 01:26:14,760 --> 01:26:18,280 Speaker 5: i'm eating you agree, yeah? Like yeah, because if you're 1975 01:26:18,320 --> 01:26:21,400 Speaker 5: not feeling me, I'm eating a pussy. If you I 1976 01:26:21,479 --> 01:26:24,040 Speaker 5: don't know, I mean a pussy, if whatever, I mean 1977 01:26:24,080 --> 01:26:27,439 Speaker 5: a pussy like yeah, so it's my fault, no matter what. 1978 01:26:28,240 --> 01:26:32,840 Speaker 5: The pussy can no matter what. If I'm fucking you, 1979 01:26:33,000 --> 01:26:35,040 Speaker 5: come on, no, because I'll be trying to trick these 1980 01:26:35,080 --> 01:26:37,720 Speaker 5: trick asked questions. And I'm fucking you, then yes I 1981 01:26:37,800 --> 01:26:45,120 Speaker 5: should be unless no no, no, no, no, no matter 1982 01:26:45,160 --> 01:26:48,559 Speaker 5: what real eating I'm lying, No, no, no, i'mlying. I'm 1983 01:26:48,600 --> 01:26:50,360 Speaker 5: I'm gona keep it hunting. I'm lying. I was, I was. 1984 01:26:50,720 --> 01:26:54,000 Speaker 5: I apologize. I was the worst nigga to have sex with. 1985 01:26:54,760 --> 01:26:58,320 Speaker 5: Why because I like, I didn't eat everybody pussy. I 1986 01:26:58,520 --> 01:27:02,000 Speaker 5: kept some ky jelly and the closet and that ship 1987 01:27:02,080 --> 01:27:06,800 Speaker 5: is ten times jelly. Your closet is crazy always. I'm 1988 01:27:06,800 --> 01:27:07,320 Speaker 5: from Boston. 1989 01:27:08,040 --> 01:27:09,360 Speaker 1: He didn't want to roll that thing up. 1990 01:27:09,479 --> 01:27:10,160 Speaker 5: We all crazy? 1991 01:27:11,439 --> 01:27:14,640 Speaker 1: What what the ky jelly? You've never heard? You never 1992 01:27:14,680 --> 01:27:16,240 Speaker 1: heard of that? I mean I've heard of it, but 1993 01:27:16,439 --> 01:27:17,679 Speaker 1: you never used it. Pussy. 1994 01:27:18,200 --> 01:27:20,920 Speaker 5: Nah, so use, So what happened was like when you 1995 01:27:21,200 --> 01:27:23,280 Speaker 5: so if you got different type of niggas, right, I'm 1996 01:27:23,320 --> 01:27:25,200 Speaker 5: grown now, right, so like, and I'm in a relationship, 1997 01:27:25,240 --> 01:27:27,760 Speaker 5: so it's easy hindsight. He's always twenty twenty, right, So 1998 01:27:27,840 --> 01:27:30,080 Speaker 5: as a grown man, I'm like, if I'm having sex 1999 01:27:30,120 --> 01:27:31,599 Speaker 5: with a chick, of course i'm you know, pussy. That's 2000 01:27:31,640 --> 01:27:33,720 Speaker 5: that's what a grown man would say, right, But when 2001 01:27:33,760 --> 01:27:36,000 Speaker 5: I was outside, that wasn't the case. 2002 01:27:36,360 --> 01:27:37,560 Speaker 1: Sometimes you just to see it and you'd be like, 2003 01:27:37,760 --> 01:27:39,000 Speaker 1: something wrong with the puss. 2004 01:27:39,160 --> 01:27:41,160 Speaker 5: Nah, I'm just fucking like, I'm gonna keep it all 2005 01:27:41,160 --> 01:27:43,840 Speaker 5: the way funk, Like I gotta I gotta put myself back. 2006 01:27:44,160 --> 01:27:46,320 Speaker 5: Sometimes you can be far removed and like, because I've 2007 01:27:46,320 --> 01:27:47,960 Speaker 5: been in a relationship for six years, I'm kind of 2008 01:27:47,960 --> 01:27:50,280 Speaker 5: far removed. But when I was outside, it wasn't like that. 2009 01:27:50,400 --> 01:27:52,080 Speaker 5: Now as a grown up, and like I would say 2010 01:27:52,120 --> 01:27:54,280 Speaker 5: to the youngins, if you're having sex with a chick, 2011 01:27:54,960 --> 01:27:57,519 Speaker 5: it should be somebody that you trust enough to where 2012 01:27:57,520 --> 01:27:58,120 Speaker 5: you get the pussy. 2013 01:27:58,320 --> 01:27:59,800 Speaker 1: So that's why you wouldn't eat the pussy, because you 2014 01:27:59,800 --> 01:28:00,519 Speaker 1: didn't trust them. 2015 01:28:00,800 --> 01:28:03,519 Speaker 5: Nah, just everybody didn't deserve it. I was young, they 2016 01:28:03,560 --> 01:28:05,840 Speaker 5: deserve your penis. Oh, I said a groom. 2017 01:28:05,920 --> 01:28:06,080 Speaker 10: Man. 2018 01:28:06,160 --> 01:28:08,639 Speaker 5: I understand that. I said that, like, you're not about 2019 01:28:08,640 --> 01:28:14,599 Speaker 5: to trick me as the trick me as a girl. Man. Yes, 2020 01:28:14,680 --> 01:28:15,320 Speaker 5: I'm gonna say that. 2021 01:28:15,439 --> 01:28:20,120 Speaker 10: But when I was young, you wouldn't no. 2022 01:28:20,320 --> 01:28:24,360 Speaker 5: Put they don't even know put the pink the pink bottle. 2023 01:28:24,520 --> 01:28:25,000 Speaker 10: I ain't know. 2024 01:28:25,080 --> 01:28:26,519 Speaker 3: They would just be like, oh, I'm. 2025 01:28:29,439 --> 01:28:30,920 Speaker 10: That use. 2026 01:28:31,200 --> 01:28:31,240 Speaker 1: No. 2027 01:28:31,400 --> 01:28:33,600 Speaker 2: I definitely used the pink for her, the blue for you. 2028 01:28:33,720 --> 01:28:37,360 Speaker 2: I'm just saying I definitely used what's it called the 2029 01:28:37,439 --> 01:28:39,800 Speaker 2: k jelly? What is it called blue? 2030 01:28:39,960 --> 01:28:40,240 Speaker 1: Blue? 2031 01:28:40,720 --> 01:28:44,599 Speaker 3: And I hate the people talk about lube like that ship. 2032 01:28:45,360 --> 01:28:47,280 Speaker 1: If let me tell you something, if you like to 2033 01:28:47,360 --> 01:28:49,320 Speaker 1: have marathon sex and have sex for a long time, 2034 01:28:49,360 --> 01:28:51,200 Speaker 1: I always say, lube is okay. 2035 01:28:51,400 --> 01:28:53,560 Speaker 2: Don't mean your pussy batter, you dry this and that. 2036 01:28:54,240 --> 01:28:56,880 Speaker 2: Use some lube, girl, It's gonna make sex, enjoy your well. 2037 01:28:56,920 --> 01:28:58,599 Speaker 5: Y'all be having mar thone sex at thirty four. 2038 01:28:59,560 --> 01:29:03,639 Speaker 1: I'm too. I'm yeah, we're the same. Yeah, I'm older. 2039 01:29:04,120 --> 01:29:07,559 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. I'm trying to fuck something. 2040 01:29:08,160 --> 01:29:09,760 Speaker 1: I like to have sex. 2041 01:29:10,120 --> 01:29:11,240 Speaker 10: Girls, just be horny. 2042 01:29:11,360 --> 01:29:13,000 Speaker 1: I be horny. I'm not gonna lie. 2043 01:29:13,080 --> 01:29:16,160 Speaker 3: I'll be tired. No, I be like, I am tired 2044 01:29:16,160 --> 01:29:17,680 Speaker 3: to day hell we wanted to do. 2045 01:29:18,040 --> 01:29:22,120 Speaker 1: I mean this, fucking mister, j knees be hurting. 2046 01:29:22,360 --> 01:29:24,680 Speaker 5: I'll be tired to mister my knees be, my. 2047 01:29:24,720 --> 01:29:26,479 Speaker 3: Knees start popping after a while. 2048 01:29:26,680 --> 01:29:29,960 Speaker 5: I'm trying to be because I had sex with my 2049 01:29:30,040 --> 01:29:32,680 Speaker 5: girl and I just know she don't be like she'll come, 2050 01:29:32,760 --> 01:29:33,760 Speaker 5: but I just know she won't be done. 2051 01:29:33,920 --> 01:29:36,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'll be like, I'm telling you, I think 2052 01:29:36,640 --> 01:29:39,960 Speaker 1: the main like all I want to say, all fucking 2053 01:29:40,040 --> 01:29:40,360 Speaker 1: it up. 2054 01:29:40,960 --> 01:29:46,479 Speaker 5: I'm with like, and I ain't gonna lie to you. 2055 01:29:46,640 --> 01:29:49,280 Speaker 5: I got older, so I'll give you like ten fifteen 2056 01:29:49,360 --> 01:29:51,160 Speaker 5: pumps at the dot com fifteen. 2057 01:29:52,479 --> 01:29:55,320 Speaker 2: Boy fuck you because I'd be still trying to because 2058 01:29:55,320 --> 01:29:56,960 Speaker 2: I know she'd be wanting and I'd be like, this 2059 01:29:57,160 --> 01:29:59,320 Speaker 2: is my problem, and I came, what the fuck is 2060 01:29:59,360 --> 01:29:59,680 Speaker 2: we doing? 2061 01:29:59,840 --> 01:30:03,479 Speaker 1: And doing what Dray and what Joe said? 2062 01:30:03,640 --> 01:30:06,040 Speaker 6: More and more, I feel like, but I feel like 2063 01:30:06,360 --> 01:30:09,160 Speaker 6: from conversations we had, your pussy just don't give out 2064 01:30:09,680 --> 01:30:13,280 Speaker 6: for me once we right, I feel like. 2065 01:30:15,960 --> 01:30:18,719 Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying. That's like her ship don't be given. 2066 01:30:19,160 --> 01:30:23,240 Speaker 6: I'll let me tell you something about me. 2067 01:30:24,479 --> 01:30:27,000 Speaker 3: She could just getting started, I'd be like, hey, I 2068 01:30:27,080 --> 01:30:27,320 Speaker 3: got that. 2069 01:30:27,520 --> 01:30:27,720 Speaker 10: Try. 2070 01:30:28,760 --> 01:30:32,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, let me say something about like once we use 2071 01:30:32,240 --> 01:30:34,200 Speaker 6: the toy, once we started toys. 2072 01:30:34,280 --> 01:30:37,040 Speaker 3: If I put like that rolls were about to be 2073 01:30:37,120 --> 01:30:40,880 Speaker 3: doing you, I'll be pulling it out. 2074 01:30:42,080 --> 01:30:43,599 Speaker 5: I ain't gonna lie the best what's the best story 2075 01:30:43,680 --> 01:30:43,960 Speaker 5: to use? 2076 01:30:44,200 --> 01:30:47,720 Speaker 1: Like the rolls, the rolls, I'm not gonna lie or 2077 01:30:47,880 --> 01:30:48,880 Speaker 1: the messager. 2078 01:30:49,280 --> 01:30:56,080 Speaker 3: But yeah, well I like but not for me though 2079 01:30:56,120 --> 01:30:56,400 Speaker 3: for her. 2080 01:30:59,120 --> 01:31:00,719 Speaker 5: You ain't about to get me on this motherfucker. 2081 01:31:00,760 --> 01:31:02,360 Speaker 1: I was about to say, I thought you was putting. 2082 01:31:02,080 --> 01:31:06,160 Speaker 10: A little butt plug funny, but they don't do nothing 2083 01:31:06,240 --> 01:31:06,559 Speaker 10: for real. 2084 01:31:07,240 --> 01:31:11,160 Speaker 5: I don't play with men, but. 2085 01:31:11,439 --> 01:31:17,160 Speaker 6: Ever a butt plug, yeah said, I like butt plugs, 2086 01:31:17,400 --> 01:31:21,599 Speaker 6: but don't do nothing unless vibrate, like the regular one 2087 01:31:21,720 --> 01:31:23,240 Speaker 6: is just aesthetically pleasing. 2088 01:31:23,560 --> 01:31:24,479 Speaker 1: No, but they can feel it. 2089 01:31:25,600 --> 01:31:27,960 Speaker 5: It's not esthetically pleasing a while because it's like, like, 2090 01:31:28,080 --> 01:31:31,280 Speaker 5: you know, you gotta know men like we like to 2091 01:31:31,400 --> 01:31:34,120 Speaker 5: like accomplish goals. Right, you get the butt plug, you 2092 01:31:34,160 --> 01:31:36,680 Speaker 5: can see how far you can go unless you're just 2093 01:31:36,720 --> 01:31:38,560 Speaker 5: going all the way to the end. Yeah, into like 2094 01:31:38,640 --> 01:31:40,280 Speaker 5: the little finger thing. But if you got you know, 2095 01:31:40,360 --> 01:31:41,800 Speaker 5: if you can picture it's a butt player. You got 2096 01:31:42,280 --> 01:31:45,120 Speaker 5: the whole right, you behold it and it's the ball. 2097 01:31:45,280 --> 01:31:49,559 Speaker 5: It get bigger, it get big talking about ain't no bees? 2098 01:31:49,640 --> 01:31:50,800 Speaker 1: You're talking about ant no bees. 2099 01:31:51,320 --> 01:31:53,280 Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying. Bees are different from a but 2100 01:31:54,760 --> 01:31:57,160 Speaker 5: ant be that's because that's like how far can I go? 2101 01:31:57,360 --> 01:31:58,519 Speaker 1: How low can't you go? 2102 01:31:58,840 --> 01:31:59,080 Speaker 5: Yeah? 2103 01:32:00,360 --> 01:32:00,920 Speaker 1: Freaky for me? 2104 01:32:01,680 --> 01:32:02,120 Speaker 3: Wait the. 2105 01:32:05,640 --> 01:32:08,479 Speaker 1: Wait to the floor you is nasty, But the butt 2106 01:32:08,520 --> 01:32:14,519 Speaker 1: plug is just a little plus. Oh, we're gonna move on. 2107 01:32:14,680 --> 01:32:15,160 Speaker 5: That was enough. 2108 01:32:15,200 --> 01:32:16,840 Speaker 1: Six, We're over in time. 2109 01:32:18,120 --> 01:32:20,200 Speaker 5: No, we havn't a ball. This is actually a great episode. 2110 01:32:20,280 --> 01:32:23,880 Speaker 1: So now it's time to get into the bout a. 2111 01:32:25,360 --> 01:32:27,880 Speaker 3: Bow bow bow. 2112 01:32:29,400 --> 01:32:31,599 Speaker 2: Okay, So I have to do mine first. I'm sorry 2113 01:32:31,600 --> 01:32:33,240 Speaker 2: because y'all know I always got to give a spill. 2114 01:32:33,920 --> 01:32:37,720 Speaker 2: So y'all did y'all do y'all Spotify wrap up for 2115 01:32:37,800 --> 01:32:39,559 Speaker 2: the year? You know, we're getting close to the end 2116 01:32:39,600 --> 01:32:42,720 Speaker 2: of the year. I don't, okay, So what was your 2117 01:32:42,800 --> 01:32:45,160 Speaker 2: artist that you was listening to? What was your top artist? 2118 01:32:45,320 --> 01:32:46,639 Speaker 2: Just number on Drake? 2119 01:32:47,360 --> 01:32:49,400 Speaker 5: Did you do yours yet? I happened? 2120 01:32:49,400 --> 01:32:51,000 Speaker 2: Okay, so I didn't mind. Of course it was Meg 2121 01:32:51,080 --> 01:32:54,280 Speaker 2: the Stallion. Because I'm a real haughty act and I'll 2122 01:32:54,439 --> 01:32:58,760 Speaker 2: say this, Yeah, pull up her show her to. 2123 01:32:58,760 --> 01:32:59,240 Speaker 5: Do it real quick. 2124 01:32:59,439 --> 01:33:01,680 Speaker 1: I don't have so let me. Let me let me 2125 01:33:01,720 --> 01:33:03,040 Speaker 1: while y'all do that. Let me say this. 2126 01:33:03,320 --> 01:33:05,120 Speaker 2: So I did my wrap up for the year. It 2127 01:33:05,200 --> 01:33:07,600 Speaker 2: was Meg the Stallion Period. That's my more artist I 2128 01:33:07,840 --> 01:33:10,160 Speaker 2: And let me say this. Meg is winning right now, 2129 01:33:10,320 --> 01:33:12,880 Speaker 2: per usual, and I love that for her because as 2130 01:33:12,960 --> 01:33:16,400 Speaker 2: a black queen, she should be winning. She's doing the 2131 01:33:16,520 --> 01:33:20,200 Speaker 2: soundtrack for the color Purple period. I was born by 2132 01:33:20,240 --> 01:33:22,439 Speaker 2: the river. Iye, that's what you're supposed to do. Get 2133 01:33:22,520 --> 01:33:24,840 Speaker 2: your bag by any means necessary. She's doing something for 2134 01:33:24,920 --> 01:33:25,680 Speaker 2: the Olympics. 2135 01:33:26,240 --> 01:33:26,960 Speaker 3: Love that for her. 2136 01:33:27,360 --> 01:33:30,080 Speaker 2: But my bop of the week this week, let me 2137 01:33:30,120 --> 01:33:32,960 Speaker 2: tell you I've talked about this artist before. He's absolutely amazing. 2138 01:33:33,240 --> 01:33:37,439 Speaker 2: I'm actually gonna catch him on tour, Aaron Ray. So 2139 01:33:37,640 --> 01:33:39,519 Speaker 2: if you downloaded my R and B playlist that I 2140 01:33:39,600 --> 01:33:42,080 Speaker 2: made for y'all, I had the song Stay for the Night. 2141 01:33:42,200 --> 01:33:46,880 Speaker 2: But he just dropped his new project. It's called Home. 2142 01:33:47,000 --> 01:33:49,519 Speaker 2: Let me pull it up real quick. No, I am 2143 01:33:49,640 --> 01:33:53,400 Speaker 2: listening to it. I'm drum It's phases. I was gonna 2144 01:33:53,400 --> 01:33:57,120 Speaker 2: say phase, but it's phases three. His EP It is 2145 01:33:57,520 --> 01:34:00,200 Speaker 2: amazing from start to finish. But He has a song 2146 01:34:00,280 --> 01:34:03,120 Speaker 2: on there called Wait so Long, and I'm sorry. I 2147 01:34:03,320 --> 01:34:06,400 Speaker 2: love music that's like we can have sex to it 2148 01:34:06,520 --> 01:34:09,559 Speaker 2: and we're toxic together, but not toxic together. 2149 01:34:09,600 --> 01:34:10,680 Speaker 1: It's just like O but. 2150 01:34:10,800 --> 01:34:12,840 Speaker 3: Everybody knows she horny already dold me. 2151 01:34:13,040 --> 01:34:16,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it, so y'all listen. 2152 01:34:16,760 --> 01:34:17,320 Speaker 10: Can't help it. 2153 01:34:17,400 --> 01:34:19,880 Speaker 1: It's like a part of the sceneds so Wait so 2154 01:34:20,080 --> 01:34:21,320 Speaker 1: Long by Aaron Ray. 2155 01:34:21,400 --> 01:34:23,760 Speaker 2: It's given like why did you wait so long to 2156 01:34:23,840 --> 01:34:25,519 Speaker 2: tell me just how you felt about me? Because I 2157 01:34:25,560 --> 01:34:28,320 Speaker 2: could have been giving you this good deck. That's what 2158 01:34:28,439 --> 01:34:32,160 Speaker 2: the song is given so Aaron Ray. Y'all can spell 2159 01:34:32,240 --> 01:34:35,680 Speaker 2: his name A R I N W R A Y 2160 01:34:36,280 --> 01:34:38,639 Speaker 2: Wait so Long. That's my bop of the week. It's 2161 01:34:38,800 --> 01:34:41,599 Speaker 2: absolutely amazing, y'all. 2162 01:34:41,800 --> 01:34:45,120 Speaker 3: So I feel like because we have a recorded in 2163 01:34:45,280 --> 01:34:45,600 Speaker 3: like what. 2164 01:34:46,080 --> 01:34:46,840 Speaker 1: A long time? 2165 01:34:47,320 --> 01:34:47,840 Speaker 3: Three weeks. 2166 01:34:47,920 --> 01:34:50,280 Speaker 6: Yeah, I've been like busy with the tour and stuff. 2167 01:34:50,800 --> 01:34:53,920 Speaker 6: So y'all know, Drake like drops. Speaking of Drake, he 2168 01:34:54,360 --> 01:34:58,280 Speaker 6: drops the new version of for All My. 2169 01:34:58,360 --> 01:35:01,760 Speaker 3: Dogs or whatever. It's scary'alls version and like, I like 2170 01:35:01,880 --> 01:35:03,920 Speaker 3: this on the shoe but he ate the girls. 2171 01:35:04,640 --> 01:35:06,560 Speaker 1: Yeah you I didn't hear it till you. Let me 2172 01:35:06,680 --> 01:35:07,479 Speaker 1: listen to it mm. 2173 01:35:08,080 --> 01:35:09,800 Speaker 6: He was eating the girls up. He said, you need 2174 01:35:09,880 --> 01:35:12,240 Speaker 6: to get a stay after shave. You can't get a 2175 01:35:12,320 --> 01:35:14,200 Speaker 6: ten from your screen, your phone. 2176 01:35:14,400 --> 01:35:16,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like real juice. He got on the 2177 01:35:16,360 --> 01:35:18,960 Speaker 1: Real Estate girl, he got on the BBL girl. It 2178 01:35:19,080 --> 01:35:20,560 Speaker 1: was getting on everybody. 2179 01:35:21,040 --> 01:35:23,160 Speaker 5: Most hated Sexy. 2180 01:35:24,520 --> 01:35:26,439 Speaker 1: Can. I don't understand why do they hate her because 2181 01:35:26,439 --> 01:35:28,240 Speaker 1: she's physically her because. 2182 01:35:27,960 --> 01:35:28,919 Speaker 5: It's no substance. 2183 01:35:29,000 --> 01:35:31,840 Speaker 1: But I ain't lie to you, but she'd be having 2184 01:35:31,880 --> 01:35:33,679 Speaker 1: you be in the car gym and I don't listen 2185 01:35:33,720 --> 01:35:35,639 Speaker 1: to Yeah, he was like you like my voice? 2186 01:35:35,920 --> 01:35:38,080 Speaker 4: No, you heard I say it's my baby. Do like 2187 01:35:38,240 --> 01:35:39,639 Speaker 4: you like my voice and make you calm. 2188 01:35:41,880 --> 01:35:44,160 Speaker 5: It's like you saying to your fiance O my daughter, 2189 01:35:44,400 --> 01:35:47,920 Speaker 5: like you like my voice? It make you calm, oh calm. 2190 01:35:48,280 --> 01:35:49,879 Speaker 4: Then you should wait till I get home. 2191 01:35:49,800 --> 01:35:50,320 Speaker 1: Like like. 2192 01:35:51,920 --> 01:35:56,040 Speaker 3: You made it like a little I was afraid. 2193 01:35:57,320 --> 01:35:59,960 Speaker 1: No, no, I've been making it like. 2194 01:36:03,960 --> 01:36:08,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, like my voice and keep you calm like what 2195 01:36:09,040 --> 01:36:12,760 Speaker 5: I'm going face. Okay, you should wait till like your home. 2196 01:36:13,000 --> 01:36:16,160 Speaker 1: That's like, that's cute. That sounds like a nursery room. 2197 01:36:16,400 --> 01:36:17,080 Speaker 3: That's beautiful. 2198 01:36:17,160 --> 01:36:20,320 Speaker 2: You know what you need to hit Sexy Red up 2199 01:36:20,360 --> 01:36:22,479 Speaker 2: for that, because she could do a collaboration with like 2200 01:36:22,560 --> 01:36:25,280 Speaker 2: a toy line or something that would be because you 2201 01:36:25,320 --> 01:36:26,640 Speaker 2: don't know, I Spice. 2202 01:36:26,320 --> 01:36:29,640 Speaker 1: Just did the collaboration with I saw that where she 2203 01:36:29,680 --> 01:36:32,840 Speaker 1: got her amazing sexy Red could do that. 2204 01:36:32,960 --> 01:36:36,160 Speaker 5: But no, she she's like to be honest, bro her 2205 01:36:36,479 --> 01:36:40,840 Speaker 5: and her where she's at. It's might be a crazy take, 2206 01:36:40,960 --> 01:36:44,960 Speaker 5: but she has more songs where she's at now than 2207 01:36:45,160 --> 01:36:48,680 Speaker 5: Cardi B had when she We're not gonna do that. No, No, 2208 01:36:48,800 --> 01:36:49,400 Speaker 5: I like Cardie. 2209 01:36:49,439 --> 01:36:52,360 Speaker 4: I'm not wait no what I'm Cardi B. 2210 01:36:53,800 --> 01:36:57,000 Speaker 2: I don't like the comparisons because you know why, let 2211 01:36:57,040 --> 01:37:00,799 Speaker 2: me say this, because the comparisons makes it makes people 2212 01:37:00,920 --> 01:37:04,280 Speaker 2: feel like somebody hasn't done enough or what they have done. 2213 01:37:04,439 --> 01:37:07,519 Speaker 2: Because let's not get it tristed the Tomorrow to verse 2214 01:37:07,600 --> 01:37:10,400 Speaker 2: that Cardi B dropped. Nobody has had a more fire 2215 01:37:10,479 --> 01:37:11,040 Speaker 2: verse than so. 2216 01:37:11,160 --> 01:37:12,679 Speaker 4: But you know what happens though, you know they compare 2217 01:37:12,720 --> 01:37:13,360 Speaker 4: grace though, So. 2218 01:37:14,960 --> 01:37:15,639 Speaker 5: I'm just saying. 2219 01:37:17,400 --> 01:37:20,040 Speaker 1: I don't agree, and I don't agree in her career. 2220 01:37:19,880 --> 01:37:23,080 Speaker 5: Because think about it, No Cardi had the blood song 2221 01:37:23,520 --> 01:37:26,600 Speaker 5: she had, Okay, I'll pull it up. I'll pull it 2222 01:37:27,160 --> 01:37:30,240 Speaker 5: not now, I'm saying in general, no, no, no, not 2223 01:37:30,320 --> 01:37:32,479 Speaker 5: in general. I'm saying when Cardi B just hit the 2224 01:37:33,400 --> 01:37:36,400 Speaker 5: just hit the scene, what she was doing like homecoming concerts, 2225 01:37:36,560 --> 01:37:37,840 Speaker 5: she had like two songs. 2226 01:37:38,920 --> 01:37:39,200 Speaker 10: That's all. 2227 01:37:39,360 --> 01:37:45,519 Speaker 15: I'm okay, before she was like me, she was doing 2228 01:37:45,560 --> 01:37:48,240 Speaker 15: homecoming concerts, she had like she had forever, she had 2229 01:37:48,280 --> 01:37:50,840 Speaker 15: you know me, yeah whatever, yeah, and then she had 2230 01:37:51,120 --> 01:37:53,040 Speaker 15: the other song something made it big. 2231 01:37:53,400 --> 01:37:55,640 Speaker 1: Talk about after you're not talking about after all that. 2232 01:37:56,080 --> 01:38:01,160 Speaker 5: I'm like sexy real because we were talking about like homecomings. Yeah, okay, 2233 01:38:01,800 --> 01:38:05,280 Speaker 5: like sexy Red can really have a whole set list 2234 01:38:05,320 --> 01:38:05,839 Speaker 5: for homecoming. 2235 01:38:06,040 --> 01:38:08,920 Speaker 2: I agree with that, So let me clarify what he's saying. 2236 01:38:08,960 --> 01:38:12,400 Speaker 2: Especially Sexy Red has a whole set. Now we're talking 2237 01:38:12,400 --> 01:38:16,240 Speaker 2: about Cardi B. Pre Bow, that yellow Cardi B probably 2238 01:38:16,320 --> 01:38:18,280 Speaker 2: had like one or two songs she could perform or 2239 01:38:18,479 --> 01:38:22,800 Speaker 2: just at at yetto Yeah, yeah, okay, I'll give you that. 2240 01:38:22,960 --> 01:38:26,640 Speaker 2: I was about to say, hold on now, yeah, but no, 2241 01:38:26,800 --> 01:38:29,960 Speaker 2: I agree sexy Red. I think she's authentically herself. And 2242 01:38:30,000 --> 01:38:31,000 Speaker 2: I think that's the problem. 2243 01:38:31,479 --> 01:38:31,679 Speaker 1: Y'all. 2244 01:38:31,760 --> 01:38:34,519 Speaker 2: Let everybody be who they are until it's black women. 2245 01:38:35,160 --> 01:38:37,960 Speaker 2: Y'all say, y'all love that aesthetic, that ghetto aesthetic, But 2246 01:38:38,000 --> 01:38:39,599 Speaker 2: when a real ghetto bitch come along. 2247 01:38:39,720 --> 01:38:40,400 Speaker 5: It's an issue. 2248 01:38:40,680 --> 01:38:42,120 Speaker 1: Now, I'm not saying. 2249 01:38:41,920 --> 01:38:44,320 Speaker 3: Where they want everybody to have the same a city. 2250 01:38:44,400 --> 01:38:47,960 Speaker 2: They want everybody. Y'all said, y'all wanted natural women, right. 2251 01:38:48,120 --> 01:38:49,920 Speaker 2: Y'all said, y'all wanted people to be real and who 2252 01:38:49,960 --> 01:38:53,200 Speaker 2: they are. Right, because when black. 2253 01:38:53,000 --> 01:38:55,920 Speaker 1: Women do something that's authentically them, y'all always have something 2254 01:38:55,920 --> 01:38:56,160 Speaker 1: to say. 2255 01:38:56,160 --> 01:38:57,880 Speaker 5: But the word is a contradiction because they wanted that 2256 01:38:57,960 --> 01:39:01,120 Speaker 5: they would be rocking, they would be bumping, they will 2257 01:39:01,120 --> 01:39:03,400 Speaker 5: be exactly the other took from Philly what's her name? 2258 01:39:05,160 --> 01:39:10,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm not gonna lie I actually I've listened 2259 01:39:10,840 --> 01:39:14,479 Speaker 1: to it, but that's what that's my point. 2260 01:39:14,680 --> 01:39:18,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, if y'all care that much these are that's 2261 01:39:18,800 --> 01:39:19,160 Speaker 3: what I said. 2262 01:39:20,479 --> 01:39:23,599 Speaker 5: If y'all care that much these artists that y'all say 2263 01:39:23,680 --> 01:39:25,599 Speaker 5: these other artists should be, y'all will promote them. 2264 01:39:25,840 --> 01:39:27,600 Speaker 2: I don't let me say this because Lady London is 2265 01:39:27,680 --> 01:39:31,200 Speaker 2: actually bad as so it's like it's not about the 2266 01:39:31,360 --> 01:39:34,040 Speaker 2: looks and she actually is like hard. 2267 01:39:35,040 --> 01:39:36,280 Speaker 1: It was like just keeping on. 2268 01:39:36,520 --> 01:39:38,280 Speaker 2: Y'all need to keep it one hundred with y'all selves. 2269 01:39:38,400 --> 01:39:40,200 Speaker 2: They don't want that and they don't want to keep 2270 01:39:40,200 --> 01:39:40,800 Speaker 2: one hundred, but. 2271 01:39:40,920 --> 01:39:44,280 Speaker 3: They turn up like we're in that era right now, 2272 01:39:44,840 --> 01:39:45,599 Speaker 3: and that's fine. 2273 01:39:46,240 --> 01:39:49,320 Speaker 6: But again, I think that as an artist, you have 2274 01:39:49,439 --> 01:39:51,960 Speaker 6: to have a certain esthetic for people to rock with 2275 01:39:52,040 --> 01:39:54,000 Speaker 6: you and with you and to not get back lash. 2276 01:39:54,040 --> 01:39:57,280 Speaker 6: And I think for unfortunately, for whatever reason, people just 2277 01:39:57,400 --> 01:40:01,920 Speaker 6: feel like sexey Real don't have steady because. 2278 01:40:02,320 --> 01:40:03,800 Speaker 1: She's not traditionally. 2279 01:40:03,920 --> 01:40:06,880 Speaker 6: What people would say is like, well for me, it's 2280 01:40:06,920 --> 01:40:09,360 Speaker 6: not well for me, it's not even about her traditionally 2281 01:40:09,479 --> 01:40:11,960 Speaker 6: being attractive. I just feel like, you know, she don't 2282 01:40:12,000 --> 01:40:16,960 Speaker 6: got the bbl She don't, guy, That's what I'm saying. Yeah, 2283 01:40:17,120 --> 01:40:19,400 Speaker 6: but I don't know because I feel like some some 2284 01:40:19,720 --> 01:40:21,680 Speaker 6: artists have bbls and all that stuff too when they 2285 01:40:21,680 --> 01:40:22,559 Speaker 6: still not popular. 2286 01:40:23,120 --> 01:40:25,640 Speaker 1: What I'm saying is the look right now though we know, 2287 01:40:25,840 --> 01:40:27,920 Speaker 1: like the girls, they want the big this and that, 2288 01:40:28,400 --> 01:40:30,720 Speaker 1: and y'all scream about natural and being who you are 2289 01:40:30,760 --> 01:40:33,360 Speaker 1: and being authentic and being different, and that's literally what 2290 01:40:33,600 --> 01:40:34,560 Speaker 1: sexy Red is. 2291 01:40:35,160 --> 01:40:37,720 Speaker 2: She is herself, she has a natural body. She got 2292 01:40:37,760 --> 01:40:40,640 Speaker 2: her titties done and that's it for some reason. But 2293 01:40:40,840 --> 01:40:43,120 Speaker 2: at the same time though, but for some reason, titties 2294 01:40:43,120 --> 01:40:44,760 Speaker 2: are more. You can get your titties done, but you 2295 01:40:44,840 --> 01:40:45,920 Speaker 2: can't get your ass done. 2296 01:40:46,200 --> 01:40:46,880 Speaker 1: I don't know why. 2297 01:40:47,000 --> 01:40:48,960 Speaker 6: I think that's very weird about society. I think it's 2298 01:40:48,960 --> 01:40:51,240 Speaker 6: a black women thing. Yeah, but that but that's where 2299 01:40:51,240 --> 01:40:53,680 Speaker 6: we just make it. It makes women feel more like. 2300 01:40:53,840 --> 01:40:58,120 Speaker 5: Oh I'm not. It's like it's a status thing as well, right, 2301 01:40:58,240 --> 01:41:00,960 Speaker 5: so like, what do you mean a status? The poor 2302 01:41:01,000 --> 01:41:02,760 Speaker 5: people always gonna make fun of the risk people, right, 2303 01:41:02,840 --> 01:41:04,800 Speaker 5: think about it. We look at this King and shit, 2304 01:41:05,320 --> 01:41:07,439 Speaker 5: a lot of people probably talk talk about King. They 2305 01:41:07,479 --> 01:41:09,360 Speaker 5: say he had a silver sphone. He probably don't want 2306 01:41:09,400 --> 01:41:12,280 Speaker 5: to have a silver sphone. But as a parent, bro, 2307 01:41:12,400 --> 01:41:17,439 Speaker 5: that's the goal. The goal talking about is because of 2308 01:41:17,520 --> 01:41:20,800 Speaker 5: our culture. It's stupid ass black on black bullshit we 2309 01:41:20,880 --> 01:41:23,800 Speaker 5: do because of our culture. Now they're gonna tease you 2310 01:41:24,000 --> 01:41:25,920 Speaker 5: for growing up privilege when that's the whole point to 2311 01:41:25,960 --> 01:41:26,599 Speaker 5: get out to him. 2312 01:41:26,720 --> 01:41:29,280 Speaker 2: But you know what, that's not true though, because the society, 2313 01:41:29,479 --> 01:41:33,760 Speaker 2: because the Moni doesn't do that, he raps very well. 2314 01:41:34,400 --> 01:41:38,880 Speaker 2: They actually give him comparison because he lives in his truth. 2315 01:41:39,360 --> 01:41:41,680 Speaker 2: Let me tell y'all something that one thing that the 2316 01:41:41,800 --> 01:41:44,920 Speaker 2: media cannot take away from nobody is being your authentic self. 2317 01:41:45,400 --> 01:41:47,240 Speaker 2: And I can honestly say and I know I like 2318 01:41:47,320 --> 01:41:49,000 Speaker 2: to bring us in this equation all the time, but 2319 01:41:49,040 --> 01:41:51,040 Speaker 2: that's why I feel like poor minds is where we 2320 01:41:51,080 --> 01:41:53,120 Speaker 2: are because we are authentically us. 2321 01:41:53,360 --> 01:41:54,760 Speaker 1: And you can't do nothing with that. 2322 01:41:55,400 --> 01:41:58,600 Speaker 2: Like you can't say, oh fuck these You can say that, 2323 01:41:58,800 --> 01:42:01,600 Speaker 2: but the real recognize real. So I feel like for 2324 01:42:01,720 --> 01:42:04,880 Speaker 2: Domani and even his other son, Messayah, he'd be playing guitar. 2325 01:42:05,600 --> 01:42:09,360 Speaker 2: He's like, he makes like rock type style music and 2326 01:42:09,439 --> 01:42:13,120 Speaker 2: they live, they live in their bubble and they do 2327 01:42:13,240 --> 01:42:14,280 Speaker 2: what they're supposed to do. 2328 01:42:14,920 --> 01:42:15,080 Speaker 1: You know. 2329 01:42:15,200 --> 01:42:17,640 Speaker 2: Of course King gets all the attention because you know 2330 01:42:17,720 --> 01:42:19,920 Speaker 2: he's doing X, y Z and X. But though they're 2331 01:42:20,000 --> 01:42:24,160 Speaker 2: successful in their lane, because when you're authentically yourself, you're 2332 01:42:24,200 --> 01:42:26,480 Speaker 2: going to get the real accoladeses. 2333 01:42:26,600 --> 01:42:28,160 Speaker 5: I think I'm gonna keep it with you though. I 2334 01:42:28,200 --> 01:42:31,200 Speaker 5: think King is himself too, it's just we can't people 2335 01:42:31,400 --> 01:42:34,320 Speaker 5: can't see past tip like, no, it's. 2336 01:42:34,280 --> 01:42:36,960 Speaker 2: Not he's not authentically himself because I literally watched the 2337 01:42:37,000 --> 01:42:40,680 Speaker 2: clip of him saying I had it hard growing up. 2338 01:42:40,760 --> 01:42:42,600 Speaker 2: I had to go to grandma house and they were like, 2339 01:42:42,800 --> 01:42:44,120 Speaker 2: that's because you used to cry to go to your 2340 01:42:44,160 --> 01:42:44,840 Speaker 2: grandma house. 2341 01:42:45,880 --> 01:42:47,640 Speaker 1: And I'm not talking no, no. 2342 01:42:47,720 --> 01:42:50,920 Speaker 5: But if you ask. If you ask hypothetically, if you ask, 2343 01:42:51,920 --> 01:42:53,400 Speaker 5: for lack of better words, if you ask to have 2344 01:42:53,479 --> 01:42:54,760 Speaker 5: it heard, that don't mean you didn't have a heart. 2345 01:42:55,479 --> 01:42:58,120 Speaker 2: He probably asks to have it that way, but exactly 2346 01:42:58,360 --> 01:43:00,360 Speaker 2: because guess what, if you really got to hard, you 2347 01:43:00,400 --> 01:43:01,200 Speaker 2: don't have a choice. 2348 01:43:02,200 --> 01:43:03,960 Speaker 1: He got to choose. Do I want to be in the. 2349 01:43:04,000 --> 01:43:07,080 Speaker 2: Mansion and Buckhead or an Alpharetta or whatever they or 2350 01:43:07,120 --> 01:43:08,599 Speaker 2: do I want to go to my grandma house? 2351 01:43:08,680 --> 01:43:09,280 Speaker 1: He wanted that. 2352 01:43:09,720 --> 01:43:12,800 Speaker 2: He is trying to approve that. He a thug, asked nigga, 2353 01:43:12,800 --> 01:43:16,040 Speaker 2: It's like, why do you want that? That's glorify Your 2354 01:43:16,200 --> 01:43:19,120 Speaker 2: dad is the king. 2355 01:43:19,200 --> 01:43:23,599 Speaker 3: Nigga hustle man, your your daddy is tipped. 2356 01:43:23,600 --> 01:43:28,080 Speaker 1: Your mother is literally tiny from escape. You know, I 2357 01:43:28,200 --> 01:43:29,240 Speaker 1: would kill for that. 2358 01:43:29,720 --> 01:43:31,519 Speaker 6: But I think it's just I think it's just a 2359 01:43:31,600 --> 01:43:34,679 Speaker 6: classic case of people, you know, the grass being greener 2360 01:43:34,800 --> 01:43:36,960 Speaker 6: on the other side, Like people always wanted what they 2361 01:43:37,000 --> 01:43:37,320 Speaker 6: can't have. 2362 01:43:38,040 --> 01:43:41,479 Speaker 5: It's a classic case case of parenting. Though. That's the 2363 01:43:41,560 --> 01:43:43,960 Speaker 5: scuriest thing about parenting because you can do whatever you 2364 01:43:44,080 --> 01:43:47,160 Speaker 5: want to make sure your kid does right, and your 2365 01:43:47,200 --> 01:43:51,240 Speaker 5: kid is still going to become who they want to be. Like, yeah, 2366 01:43:52,640 --> 01:43:55,200 Speaker 5: I talked talked. I talked that, yes, right, that hilarious, right, 2367 01:43:55,680 --> 01:43:58,200 Speaker 5: And she was like, bro, like sometimes she got to 2368 01:43:58,240 --> 01:44:00,960 Speaker 5: miss her son's football game because she got tour And 2369 01:44:01,080 --> 01:44:04,040 Speaker 5: I'm like, damn, look how similar we are, right, Look 2370 01:44:04,080 --> 01:44:07,439 Speaker 5: how similar we are, even even Zohnnie. Right, It's like 2371 01:44:07,960 --> 01:44:12,519 Speaker 5: they would wish that their parents was there coming up. 2372 01:44:13,240 --> 01:44:16,080 Speaker 5: I would wish that my parents had money. But look 2373 01:44:16,120 --> 01:44:18,639 Speaker 5: at the decision we got. You're gonna go get the money. 2374 01:44:18,960 --> 01:44:22,160 Speaker 5: You're gonna miss some time, the right, You're gonna have time. 2375 01:44:22,360 --> 01:44:24,439 Speaker 5: You ain't gonna have no money. It's a classic case of, like, 2376 01:44:24,479 --> 01:44:26,320 Speaker 5: that's why I don't judge Nobody's a classic case of 2377 01:44:26,840 --> 01:44:29,519 Speaker 5: it's hard to You can do whatever you want to 2378 01:44:29,560 --> 01:44:31,240 Speaker 5: make sure your kids come up on the right end, 2379 01:44:31,360 --> 01:44:32,719 Speaker 5: and they still gonna be their own. 2380 01:44:32,560 --> 01:44:35,120 Speaker 6: Person, and they still might resent you for the fact that, like, yeah, 2381 01:44:35,200 --> 01:44:37,599 Speaker 6: you raised us and you made sure we had all 2382 01:44:37,640 --> 01:44:40,000 Speaker 6: of these opportunities, or we went to these great schools, 2383 01:44:40,120 --> 01:44:41,400 Speaker 6: or we went to college, whatever the. 2384 01:44:41,439 --> 01:44:44,040 Speaker 3: Case may be. But you wasn't there. But you was 2385 01:44:44,080 --> 01:44:46,200 Speaker 3: too blinding and hustling getting the money. 2386 01:44:46,360 --> 01:44:48,240 Speaker 1: But I'll say this, you know, the older you get 2387 01:44:48,280 --> 01:44:50,439 Speaker 1: the wires, you get that fact and growing up and. 2388 01:44:50,520 --> 01:44:52,519 Speaker 3: He's only eighteen. That's the thing with King too. We 2389 01:44:52,640 --> 01:44:55,320 Speaker 3: keep forgetting like not we but people keep forgetting like 2390 01:44:55,560 --> 01:44:56,799 Speaker 3: he's fucking eighteen. 2391 01:44:57,360 --> 01:44:59,439 Speaker 1: But I'll say this, the older you get, the wires 2392 01:44:59,439 --> 01:44:59,800 Speaker 1: that you get. 2393 01:45:00,120 --> 01:45:03,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, So growing up, my mom worked a lot and 2394 01:45:03,680 --> 01:45:05,840 Speaker 2: she was there a lot, but she wasn't there a lot. 2395 01:45:06,160 --> 01:45:08,360 Speaker 1: But I will say this, and this is to everybody. 2396 01:45:09,000 --> 01:45:13,280 Speaker 1: If you have your parents, you need to be grateful. 2397 01:45:13,960 --> 01:45:14,679 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. 2398 01:45:14,680 --> 01:45:17,400 Speaker 2: When I think about my life, if I had to 2399 01:45:17,479 --> 01:45:19,519 Speaker 2: give up my childhood and having my mom there and 2400 01:45:19,600 --> 01:45:21,280 Speaker 2: having her there in my adult life, I would definitely 2401 01:45:21,360 --> 01:45:24,880 Speaker 2: choose my adult life because I could, we could do more, 2402 01:45:25,320 --> 01:45:26,240 Speaker 2: and we could do things. 2403 01:45:26,160 --> 01:45:27,000 Speaker 1: On like how my time. 2404 01:45:27,240 --> 01:45:29,240 Speaker 2: I wanted to give her life to pay her back 2405 01:45:29,520 --> 01:45:31,840 Speaker 2: for everything she gave up for me. So it's like, 2406 01:45:31,880 --> 01:45:35,160 Speaker 2: instead of battling your parents and wasting time being mad, 2407 01:45:35,240 --> 01:45:38,880 Speaker 2: y'all better love on your parents. But especially if fuck it, 2408 01:45:38,960 --> 01:45:41,800 Speaker 2: if you have one parent, that's a blessing. If you 2409 01:45:41,880 --> 01:45:43,799 Speaker 2: have two, you are God's chosen. 2410 01:45:44,000 --> 01:45:46,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, don't got none, But that's the that's the that's 2411 01:45:46,360 --> 01:45:49,280 Speaker 5: the downfall in and that shit though. Bro, Yeah, like 2412 01:45:49,360 --> 01:45:52,120 Speaker 5: you said, do this eighteen even like John morn he 2413 01:45:52,240 --> 01:45:53,280 Speaker 5: was like twenty People. 2414 01:45:53,160 --> 01:45:55,479 Speaker 3: Be so hard on them, but imagine how reckleast and 2415 01:45:55,520 --> 01:45:59,639 Speaker 3: how crazy we was at eighteen. Yeah, but we didn't 2416 01:45:59,680 --> 01:46:01,120 Speaker 3: have that nobody was watching. 2417 01:46:03,040 --> 01:46:05,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, so quick to judge another motherfucker, But imagine if 2418 01:46:05,640 --> 01:46:07,240 Speaker 5: you had a carrying on your face at eighteen and 2419 01:46:07,360 --> 01:46:08,160 Speaker 5: my thing just. 2420 01:46:08,320 --> 01:46:09,400 Speaker 3: Wound ass adults. 2421 01:46:10,960 --> 01:46:13,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, I would have gotten canceled four or five times, 2422 01:46:13,200 --> 01:46:14,519 Speaker 5: like I would have been burst. And I'm like I 2423 01:46:15,080 --> 01:46:18,240 Speaker 5: was em burst at twenty five. Yeah, and I have 2424 01:46:18,439 --> 01:46:21,040 Speaker 5: nobody as many foul bron niggas. 2425 01:46:21,080 --> 01:46:22,559 Speaker 3: Man, I'll feel. 2426 01:46:24,040 --> 01:46:26,040 Speaker 5: Some of my tweets, some people be so quick to 2427 01:46:26,120 --> 01:46:27,639 Speaker 5: judge somebody, bro man. 2428 01:46:27,680 --> 01:46:29,000 Speaker 3: Need to be wilding on Twitter. 2429 01:46:29,200 --> 01:46:32,439 Speaker 2: It's hard, but I just hope that I really and 2430 01:46:32,520 --> 01:46:34,519 Speaker 2: it's not even coming from like a mean but I 2431 01:46:34,640 --> 01:46:37,960 Speaker 2: just hope that he really sees like, no matter now, 2432 01:46:38,120 --> 01:46:41,160 Speaker 2: his trauma, obviously, whatever he went through needs to be addressed. 2433 01:46:41,439 --> 01:46:43,559 Speaker 2: I don't think anybody, no matter how much money you make, 2434 01:46:43,680 --> 01:46:47,560 Speaker 2: is above like going to counseling and getting treatment and 2435 01:46:47,640 --> 01:46:49,679 Speaker 2: things like that, because you don't know what his struggles 2436 01:46:49,720 --> 01:46:52,560 Speaker 2: went through or what he went through personally. But I 2437 01:46:52,680 --> 01:46:55,280 Speaker 2: will say I do want him to realize like who 2438 01:46:55,360 --> 01:46:57,599 Speaker 2: your dad is, who your mom is, and how blessed 2439 01:46:57,640 --> 01:47:02,560 Speaker 2: you are. You literally have the golden bucket. But no, 2440 01:47:02,680 --> 01:47:07,200 Speaker 2: what I'm saying is you want to make it. It's no, 2441 01:47:07,720 --> 01:47:09,759 Speaker 2: it's no glory and being from the hood. 2442 01:47:09,920 --> 01:47:10,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, but you can't tell. 2443 01:47:10,840 --> 01:47:11,200 Speaker 5: People that. 2444 01:47:12,720 --> 01:47:14,920 Speaker 4: He's But that's what I'm saying. It's relative because he's eighteen. 2445 01:47:15,640 --> 01:47:16,600 Speaker 5: Like, well, I, well, the. 2446 01:47:16,640 --> 01:47:18,439 Speaker 2: Reason I can say that is because I didn't grow 2447 01:47:18,600 --> 01:47:22,320 Speaker 2: I didn't Damn. I didn't grow up in the hood, 2448 01:47:22,760 --> 01:47:24,559 Speaker 2: nor did I ever want to be from the hood. 2449 01:47:24,680 --> 01:47:27,439 Speaker 5: So I grew up in the hood, though, And that's 2450 01:47:27,479 --> 01:47:27,920 Speaker 5: what I'm saying. 2451 01:47:28,240 --> 01:47:30,280 Speaker 2: I don't understand where he's coming from. Even when I 2452 01:47:30,400 --> 01:47:32,720 Speaker 2: was eighteen, I never wanted to seem like, oh, I'm 2453 01:47:32,720 --> 01:47:33,280 Speaker 2: from the hood. 2454 01:47:34,360 --> 01:47:36,519 Speaker 6: But you also will never understand how he feels to 2455 01:47:36,600 --> 01:47:38,760 Speaker 6: be fair because you didn't grow up with famous searing. 2456 01:47:39,360 --> 01:47:41,800 Speaker 6: I remember a clip just resurfaced the other day where 2457 01:47:41,800 --> 01:47:43,960 Speaker 6: it was like a clip from Family Hustle from like 2458 01:47:44,080 --> 01:47:46,040 Speaker 6: and obviously we all know this show is all this hill. 2459 01:47:46,080 --> 01:47:48,880 Speaker 6: They haven't been on right for a while now, but like, 2460 01:47:49,040 --> 01:47:51,200 Speaker 6: he was literally crying because he was like, he wants 2461 01:47:51,240 --> 01:47:53,559 Speaker 6: to create his own name, for hisself. He don't want 2462 01:47:53,600 --> 01:47:56,360 Speaker 6: to just be t I and tiny son like he 2463 01:47:56,439 --> 01:47:58,640 Speaker 6: wants to have his own identity. So I feel like 2464 01:47:58,800 --> 01:48:01,280 Speaker 6: you don't know what they's like, Yo, mama's shadow because 2465 01:48:01,320 --> 01:48:02,720 Speaker 6: y'all mama wasn't famous. 2466 01:48:02,400 --> 01:48:05,200 Speaker 5: Your daddy was in fame even still like y'all have success, right, yeah, 2467 01:48:05,439 --> 01:48:07,759 Speaker 5: and y'all been in Atlanta courts right, I'm from Boston. 2468 01:48:07,800 --> 01:48:10,800 Speaker 5: We like when you nigga make it like it's a 2469 01:48:10,800 --> 01:48:13,000 Speaker 5: big thing for us. I feel like I'm from you 2470 01:48:13,200 --> 01:48:14,439 Speaker 5: from you've been in Atlanta. 2471 01:48:14,520 --> 01:48:14,640 Speaker 3: Right. 2472 01:48:14,920 --> 01:48:16,759 Speaker 5: The thing about it is a lot of people in Atlanta, 2473 01:48:17,680 --> 01:48:19,519 Speaker 5: and it's crazy to me. They see Tip and they think, 2474 01:48:19,640 --> 01:48:22,240 Speaker 5: like Tip is regular, right right. I'm like, y'all niggas 2475 01:48:22,280 --> 01:48:25,400 Speaker 5: is dumb. Right. So, but with all due respect, I 2476 01:48:25,439 --> 01:48:28,080 Speaker 5: say that to say it's easy to say what a niggah? 2477 01:48:28,240 --> 01:48:31,160 Speaker 5: But Yo, I compare it. I look at Tip like 2478 01:48:31,240 --> 01:48:33,680 Speaker 5: a Michael Jordan, like a Lebron James. You know how 2479 01:48:33,800 --> 01:48:35,479 Speaker 5: hard it is to be right, But think about you 2480 01:48:35,520 --> 01:48:37,160 Speaker 5: know how hard it is to be a Michael Jordan's 2481 01:48:37,160 --> 01:48:37,719 Speaker 5: son and trying. 2482 01:48:37,520 --> 01:48:39,000 Speaker 1: To play basketball coming out of it. 2483 01:48:39,479 --> 01:48:41,519 Speaker 5: You know how hard that is. It's to seem like yo, 2484 01:48:41,880 --> 01:48:43,639 Speaker 5: you're trying to. It's like, yo, you will never get 2485 01:48:43,680 --> 01:48:46,560 Speaker 5: out your so like it's like you can't judge. 2486 01:48:46,880 --> 01:48:47,760 Speaker 1: You can't judge it. 2487 01:48:47,840 --> 01:48:49,600 Speaker 2: But at the same time, like I said, he's not 2488 01:48:49,680 --> 01:48:51,960 Speaker 2: the only I mean, look at his other sons, but 2489 01:48:52,160 --> 01:48:53,920 Speaker 2: he's not doing them though, and he's not there. But 2490 01:48:54,080 --> 01:48:56,840 Speaker 2: I mean, look at Solange. Solange has made her own 2491 01:48:56,960 --> 01:48:58,800 Speaker 2: name and been her own person. It's so creative it 2492 01:48:58,880 --> 01:49:01,600 Speaker 2: makes so hard music getspirable. All I'm saying is I 2493 01:49:01,680 --> 01:49:05,080 Speaker 2: hope he gets on the right track because it's not impossible. 2494 01:49:05,560 --> 01:49:06,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's all I'm saying. 2495 01:49:06,720 --> 01:49:09,280 Speaker 2: It's not You really could have been made your own 2496 01:49:09,400 --> 01:49:12,360 Speaker 2: name for yourself, but you're so busy focused on the 2497 01:49:12,520 --> 01:49:15,120 Speaker 2: people who are not loving It was us. 2498 01:49:16,240 --> 01:49:18,640 Speaker 3: That was all of us though, I mean, that was me. 2499 01:49:18,880 --> 01:49:21,240 Speaker 5: That's why I can't understand. And I didn't have the cameras. 2500 01:49:21,280 --> 01:49:22,840 Speaker 5: But what happens is you put the camera in front 2501 01:49:22,840 --> 01:49:24,360 Speaker 5: of you. Didn everybody get to judge you. 2502 01:49:24,520 --> 01:49:28,640 Speaker 2: But blue print, No, his brothers are literally doing what 2503 01:49:28,840 --> 01:49:31,559 Speaker 2: he wants to do. Like he has the blueprint. Focus 2504 01:49:31,880 --> 01:49:34,160 Speaker 2: on who loves you for you and who don't see 2505 01:49:34,160 --> 01:49:36,280 Speaker 2: you as t I son. The other son goes by 2506 01:49:36,320 --> 01:49:37,519 Speaker 2: a whole different other name. 2507 01:49:37,560 --> 01:49:39,559 Speaker 5: All I'm gonna say is hindsight is always twenty twenty. 2508 01:49:39,640 --> 01:49:43,120 Speaker 5: But it's easy to say that in another situation, bro, 2509 01:49:43,240 --> 01:49:47,320 Speaker 5: But not like it's you got millions of people watching. No, 2510 01:49:47,520 --> 01:49:47,840 Speaker 5: it's just not. 2511 01:49:48,120 --> 01:49:50,160 Speaker 1: I will say, like I said, I'm rooting for him. 2512 01:49:50,280 --> 01:49:51,960 Speaker 2: I hope he gets to get But like I said, 2513 01:49:52,680 --> 01:49:56,680 Speaker 2: but like you, it's all with personality because they all 2514 01:49:56,760 --> 01:49:58,000 Speaker 2: grew up in the same household. 2515 01:49:58,160 --> 01:50:00,439 Speaker 6: I disagree though, I feel like even with the of 2516 01:50:00,600 --> 01:50:04,040 Speaker 6: just being kind of like watched now, with what we 2517 01:50:04,200 --> 01:50:07,599 Speaker 6: do and we are older than him and we don't 2518 01:50:07,640 --> 01:50:11,400 Speaker 6: have as much visibility right now, it's still be a 2519 01:50:11,439 --> 01:50:12,080 Speaker 6: lot of pressure. 2520 01:50:12,080 --> 01:50:14,640 Speaker 1: It's still be a lot of them. I'm more so 2521 01:50:14,760 --> 01:50:17,040 Speaker 1: comparing him and the money, but why are you? 2522 01:50:17,360 --> 01:50:20,200 Speaker 3: But I don't But I don't feel like the money 2523 01:50:20,280 --> 01:50:22,759 Speaker 3: is that much more successful than him right now. 2524 01:50:24,080 --> 01:50:26,000 Speaker 1: As far as the music, because he wants to be 2525 01:50:26,200 --> 01:50:27,160 Speaker 1: King wants to be an artist. 2526 01:50:27,280 --> 01:50:30,160 Speaker 2: But even still, why are we comparing him? It's not 2527 01:50:30,320 --> 01:50:32,600 Speaker 2: comparing what we're talking about. They grew up in the 2528 01:50:32,640 --> 01:50:35,280 Speaker 2: same household and he was talking about parenting. So the 2529 01:50:35,320 --> 01:50:37,120 Speaker 2: reason I say that I just said, I hope King 2530 01:50:37,400 --> 01:50:40,800 Speaker 2: sees that he can get to where he wants to 2531 01:50:40,880 --> 01:50:42,479 Speaker 2: go and you don't have to prove that you a 2532 01:50:42,600 --> 01:50:44,880 Speaker 2: hood nigga or that you this in x y Z, 2533 01:50:45,280 --> 01:50:46,479 Speaker 2: that you can just really folks. 2534 01:50:46,520 --> 01:50:49,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's I feel like. 2535 01:50:49,040 --> 01:50:51,280 Speaker 3: It's a fair it's a fair statement. But then I 2536 01:50:51,320 --> 01:50:52,400 Speaker 3: also feel like they didn't. 2537 01:50:52,439 --> 01:50:54,439 Speaker 6: They also didn't grow up the same like didn't the 2538 01:50:54,560 --> 01:50:56,640 Speaker 6: money and like the other one, they grew up with 2539 01:50:56,720 --> 01:50:58,920 Speaker 6: a mom and y'all like split between. 2540 01:50:58,880 --> 01:51:01,240 Speaker 1: Well, I know the money was well, the money was 2541 01:51:01,320 --> 01:51:04,040 Speaker 1: in the house from when I used to watch the show. 2542 01:51:04,720 --> 01:51:12,000 Speaker 16: So from what we used to watch, King Bang King 2543 01:51:12,400 --> 01:51:15,400 Speaker 16: after you need a pop because you're being bad. 2544 01:51:15,640 --> 01:51:20,360 Speaker 5: But we got just get because I was bad as hell. Man, 2545 01:51:20,479 --> 01:51:23,719 Speaker 5: I was. I was bad manny a devil with druds 2546 01:51:23,760 --> 01:51:24,160 Speaker 5: and everything. 2547 01:51:24,280 --> 01:51:27,000 Speaker 2: Okay, we don't obviously, Okay, so we got to answer 2548 01:51:27,080 --> 01:51:27,759 Speaker 2: some questions. 2549 01:51:27,840 --> 01:51:30,760 Speaker 3: Where the going just yeah, he went to get the question. 2550 01:51:30,960 --> 01:51:34,479 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, So mister J. Hill, let everybody know 2551 01:51:34,640 --> 01:51:37,240 Speaker 2: where they can find you at when your podcast drop, 2552 01:51:37,840 --> 01:51:39,920 Speaker 2: who the guests you got coming up, who you've had 2553 01:51:39,960 --> 01:51:40,920 Speaker 2: on all that good stuff. 2554 01:51:42,320 --> 01:51:43,599 Speaker 5: I ain't gonna say who I had on. I ain't 2555 01:51:43,640 --> 01:51:45,160 Speaker 5: gonna see who I got coming, but you will follow 2556 01:51:45,240 --> 01:51:48,560 Speaker 5: me up, mister underscore J Hill if you like the 2557 01:51:48,640 --> 01:51:52,200 Speaker 5: show I dropped on Wednesdays Sundays, and I dropped Gymnoscopio 2558 01:51:52,280 --> 01:51:58,000 Speaker 5: podcast on Thursdays. Uh. The audio for my My Interview 2559 01:51:58,080 --> 01:52:02,920 Speaker 5: podcast drops on Monday's Fridays, and the Gemini Scorpio podcast 2560 01:52:03,040 --> 01:52:06,040 Speaker 5: drops on Tuesdays. Yeah. 2561 01:52:06,160 --> 01:52:09,400 Speaker 2: Man, so talk a little bit about the Gemini Scorpio podcast, 2562 01:52:09,560 --> 01:52:11,920 Speaker 2: Like that's more like relationship based type of stuff. 2563 01:52:12,560 --> 01:52:15,040 Speaker 5: Man, It's just like it's a relationship podcast from a 2564 01:52:15,479 --> 01:52:18,040 Speaker 5: millennial standpoint, right. I feel like a lot of relationship 2565 01:52:18,080 --> 01:52:23,200 Speaker 5: podcasts nowadays are good. Yeah, it'd be like good, but 2566 01:52:23,479 --> 01:52:25,920 Speaker 5: that'd be it, right, So I wanted our podcast to 2567 01:52:26,080 --> 01:52:28,720 Speaker 5: like we started off on some toxic shit to keep 2568 01:52:28,720 --> 01:52:31,200 Speaker 5: it allay hundred. She has scorpion a Gemini. We started 2569 01:52:31,240 --> 01:52:33,400 Speaker 5: off like, Man, I feel like she be wrong. She 2570 01:52:33,479 --> 01:52:35,400 Speaker 5: feel like I'll be wrong. We're gonna just get on camera, 2571 01:52:35,479 --> 01:52:38,040 Speaker 5: y'all gonna tell us who wrong, right, But I feel 2572 01:52:38,080 --> 01:52:41,200 Speaker 5: like most relationships are like that. So like with our podcast, 2573 01:52:41,280 --> 01:52:44,400 Speaker 5: we just talked from a millennial standpoint from a right now, 2574 01:52:45,560 --> 01:52:48,080 Speaker 5: like we're going through it, we're growing through it, right, 2575 01:52:48,120 --> 01:52:51,360 Speaker 5: We're learning and that's what our podcast is about. So 2576 01:52:51,400 --> 01:52:52,800 Speaker 5: I want to give like all shout outs to all 2577 01:52:52,800 --> 01:52:55,120 Speaker 5: the other relationship podcasts because they're good, but i'd be 2578 01:52:55,160 --> 01:52:56,920 Speaker 5: feeling like it be that, like we're going to talk 2579 01:52:56,920 --> 01:53:00,680 Speaker 5: about the argument we just had yesterday. Want talk about that. 2580 01:53:00,720 --> 01:53:03,960 Speaker 2: Because I think one thing about podcasting, especially talking about relationships, 2581 01:53:04,120 --> 01:53:06,600 Speaker 2: like I think people get caught up and trying to 2582 01:53:06,640 --> 01:53:07,760 Speaker 2: be like inspirational. 2583 01:53:07,880 --> 01:53:11,439 Speaker 1: Hey, you gotta man, shut the fuck up. 2584 01:53:11,520 --> 01:53:13,240 Speaker 5: Fact, No, fact, shut the. 2585 01:53:14,920 --> 01:53:17,000 Speaker 10: Hey, that man don't like you. 2586 01:53:17,560 --> 01:53:18,479 Speaker 1: He didn't show up and. 2587 01:53:18,520 --> 01:53:21,760 Speaker 5: Buy your flowers up. 2588 01:53:22,560 --> 01:53:24,240 Speaker 2: Man, Let's get back to some real ship. But I 2589 01:53:24,360 --> 01:53:27,120 Speaker 2: appreciate I appreciate it. I'm not like because I watched 2590 01:53:27,120 --> 01:53:29,280 Speaker 2: your other podcast. I haven't watched that one yet, so 2591 01:53:29,320 --> 01:53:31,519 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie, but I appreciate you even saying that. 2592 01:53:32,360 --> 01:53:34,519 Speaker 2: I don't want to hear no generic bullshit about how 2593 01:53:34,560 --> 01:53:36,320 Speaker 2: a man don't like me because he didn't do X 2594 01:53:36,439 --> 01:53:38,920 Speaker 2: y Z, because you know what, sometimes a man might 2595 01:53:38,960 --> 01:53:40,760 Speaker 2: feel like I don't like him because I didn't show up. 2596 01:53:40,760 --> 01:53:43,320 Speaker 2: But guess what, I'm struggling with depression. I'm sad today. 2597 01:53:43,960 --> 01:53:46,400 Speaker 2: Y'all talk from that angle though y'all don't get real 2598 01:53:46,560 --> 01:53:49,519 Speaker 2: what really goes on. You know, people talk about podcast 2599 01:53:49,520 --> 01:53:53,400 Speaker 2: sit like me and Joy talk about real relationship friendship 2600 01:53:53,479 --> 01:53:55,160 Speaker 2: ship because we really go through that ship. 2601 01:53:55,680 --> 01:53:57,599 Speaker 1: So y'all make sure y'all check that out. So we're 2602 01:53:57,600 --> 01:53:58,599 Speaker 1: gonna answer some advice. 2603 01:53:58,760 --> 01:54:00,799 Speaker 6: So now it's time to get into that's our favorite 2604 01:54:00,840 --> 01:54:02,599 Speaker 6: segment of the show, which is pour your heart out. 2605 01:54:02,640 --> 01:54:04,080 Speaker 6: So you know, if you have any questions, you can 2606 01:54:04,120 --> 01:54:07,679 Speaker 6: always send them to ask for Minds at gmail dot com. 2607 01:54:07,800 --> 01:54:12,439 Speaker 6: That's askp ou r in my nds at gmail dot com. 2608 01:54:12,600 --> 01:54:17,160 Speaker 6: Send the show questions, send us your testimonials because we also, 2609 01:54:17,400 --> 01:54:18,720 Speaker 6: you know, I want to know if we fucked your 2610 01:54:18,760 --> 01:54:22,559 Speaker 6: life up, and y'all been saying it too, So yeah, 2611 01:54:23,280 --> 01:54:26,680 Speaker 6: let's get into it. Question number one. I've been with 2612 01:54:26,800 --> 01:54:29,559 Speaker 6: my man for almost seven years. We got together when 2613 01:54:29,560 --> 01:54:33,000 Speaker 6: we were in high school, throughout my undergraduate program and 2614 01:54:33,120 --> 01:54:36,200 Speaker 6: me starting my career. We recently went back to a 2615 01:54:36,280 --> 01:54:39,080 Speaker 6: friends kickback a girl there asking me have I ever 2616 01:54:39,160 --> 01:54:41,360 Speaker 6: had a threesome, And ever since that night, he's been 2617 01:54:41,440 --> 01:54:44,120 Speaker 6: asking if I would have one. We're very fun in 2618 01:54:44,200 --> 01:54:46,520 Speaker 6: the bedroom and I'm not opposed to it. In the 2619 01:54:46,600 --> 01:54:48,400 Speaker 6: back of my mind, I do feel like it could 2620 01:54:48,440 --> 01:54:51,800 Speaker 6: mess up our relationship. I've always heard stories about couples 2621 01:54:51,880 --> 01:54:55,240 Speaker 6: having them and breaking up after. We've never had sex 2622 01:54:55,320 --> 01:54:57,800 Speaker 6: with anyone other than each other. How do y'all feel 2623 01:54:57,800 --> 01:55:00,600 Speaker 6: about bringing a third person into a spy in to 2624 01:55:00,720 --> 01:55:02,000 Speaker 6: spice up the bedroom. 2625 01:55:03,240 --> 01:55:05,760 Speaker 1: I'll say this, if that's something that you want to do, 2626 01:55:06,000 --> 01:55:06,720 Speaker 1: go ahead and do it. 2627 01:55:06,800 --> 01:55:08,360 Speaker 2: But I feel like she asked, and all of a 2628 01:55:08,400 --> 01:55:11,320 Speaker 2: sudden he asking them whole ass, nigga's plotting on your ass? 2629 01:55:11,800 --> 01:55:13,920 Speaker 1: They plotting, Yeah, they're plotting. 2630 01:55:13,960 --> 01:55:16,840 Speaker 2: There's some fishy going on, because if my man has 2631 01:55:16,920 --> 01:55:18,960 Speaker 2: never talked about a threesome, and then all of a sudden, 2632 01:55:19,000 --> 01:55:21,200 Speaker 2: this girl pops up asking about a threesome, and then 2633 01:55:21,240 --> 01:55:24,120 Speaker 2: now he asks about it's some conversations going on, bitch 2634 01:55:24,280 --> 01:55:25,040 Speaker 2: behind the scene. 2635 01:55:25,160 --> 01:55:29,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, Yo, that's shit. Why was that the first? I 2636 01:55:29,320 --> 01:55:30,960 Speaker 5: feel like, Yo, as men, I'm gonna talk to the 2637 01:55:31,000 --> 01:55:35,520 Speaker 5: young men, right, old men, they be watching too. I'm 2638 01:55:35,560 --> 01:55:37,200 Speaker 5: gonna keep it all the way funking with you. Like so, 2639 01:55:40,320 --> 01:55:43,520 Speaker 5: I'm gonna say, as a young guy, I thought a 2640 01:55:43,640 --> 01:55:46,840 Speaker 5: threesome was a green light to be able to invite 2641 01:55:46,920 --> 01:55:50,320 Speaker 5: other women into the bedroom. And that's where I went wrong, right. 2642 01:55:50,840 --> 01:55:52,560 Speaker 5: I feel like as a young man when I was 2643 01:55:52,680 --> 01:55:55,720 Speaker 5: twenty seven, I feel like it was like, you know what, 2644 01:55:55,920 --> 01:55:57,240 Speaker 5: this is a reason for me not to have to 2645 01:55:57,320 --> 01:55:59,840 Speaker 5: cheat on my woman so I can recruit the worst 2646 01:55:59,880 --> 01:56:02,200 Speaker 5: thing to do as a man, I didn't know anybody, 2647 01:56:02,280 --> 01:56:03,920 Speaker 5: so as a if I could talk to like other 2648 01:56:04,080 --> 01:56:06,120 Speaker 5: men in a situation, I can't talk to the woman. 2649 01:56:06,480 --> 01:56:09,720 Speaker 5: But if that was to happen, you have to understand that, like, 2650 01:56:10,120 --> 01:56:12,360 Speaker 5: this is something for you and your lady, not something 2651 01:56:12,400 --> 01:56:15,360 Speaker 5: for you. The moment you try to make it about 2652 01:56:15,480 --> 01:56:18,560 Speaker 5: you is gonna make everything sticky. So I would not 2653 01:56:18,720 --> 01:56:22,080 Speaker 5: suggest if for the young lady, if it's something that 2654 01:56:22,160 --> 01:56:24,160 Speaker 5: you want to do, it's a girl that you chose 2655 01:56:24,840 --> 01:56:28,400 Speaker 5: do that. But if your lady decides to do that, fellas, 2656 01:56:28,600 --> 01:56:30,880 Speaker 5: do not go out on a recruitments free thinking that 2657 01:56:31,280 --> 01:56:33,800 Speaker 5: it's okay. No, you still have to have boundaries and 2658 01:56:33,840 --> 01:56:36,520 Speaker 5: respect your women. And I think that's what makes people 2659 01:56:37,600 --> 01:56:39,880 Speaker 5: start to break up and go wrong in my personality. 2660 01:56:39,960 --> 01:56:42,040 Speaker 1: And then it's like, stop inviting women in your bedroom 2661 01:56:42,120 --> 01:56:42,920 Speaker 1: if you don't like women. 2662 01:56:43,160 --> 01:56:45,760 Speaker 6: That's always gonna say to me. That's the most important 2663 01:56:45,840 --> 01:56:48,960 Speaker 6: part that a lot of people feel to realize if 2664 01:56:49,040 --> 01:56:51,760 Speaker 6: you not a woman who like women. Why are you 2665 01:56:51,880 --> 01:56:55,120 Speaker 6: trying to have threesomes just to apiase your nigga? If 2666 01:56:55,320 --> 01:56:57,520 Speaker 6: that's what he into and you not into that, then 2667 01:56:57,560 --> 01:57:00,560 Speaker 6: maybe y'all need to revisit is this relation ship gonna 2668 01:57:00,600 --> 01:57:02,840 Speaker 6: work for us? Especially if one person is perssing the 2669 01:57:02,920 --> 01:57:05,520 Speaker 6: other one and the other person not into it. Y'all 2670 01:57:05,560 --> 01:57:08,360 Speaker 6: need to try to figure out are we really compatible 2671 01:57:08,480 --> 01:57:12,360 Speaker 6: like this? Is this relationship sustainable? Because it might not be. 2672 01:57:13,000 --> 01:57:15,040 Speaker 6: I think you shall only have a threesome. 2673 01:57:14,760 --> 01:57:17,200 Speaker 3: As a woman. If that is what you're into. 2674 01:57:17,800 --> 01:57:19,720 Speaker 6: If you like other women and you like I really 2675 01:57:19,760 --> 01:57:21,400 Speaker 6: want to explore this and I really want to see 2676 01:57:21,440 --> 01:57:23,560 Speaker 6: what this is like, then you should have a threesome. 2677 01:57:23,800 --> 01:57:24,800 Speaker 3: If not, then don't do. 2678 01:57:24,840 --> 01:57:27,040 Speaker 5: It's a hell. 2679 01:57:28,120 --> 01:57:30,800 Speaker 1: It's a hell no period. 2680 01:57:30,920 --> 01:57:35,120 Speaker 3: I was gonna ask you, well, we even had a 2681 01:57:35,160 --> 01:57:37,560 Speaker 3: conversation about this before. I think it's the same thing. 2682 01:57:38,280 --> 01:57:40,240 Speaker 6: You are you asking if your man wants to have 2683 01:57:40,320 --> 01:57:43,280 Speaker 6: a threesome with you and another man, Well, then I 2684 01:57:43,400 --> 01:57:45,200 Speaker 6: think you need to ask yourself. 2685 01:57:46,040 --> 01:57:48,520 Speaker 3: Is he in a relationship with the right person? 2686 01:57:50,040 --> 01:57:50,240 Speaker 5: Sex? 2687 01:57:50,440 --> 01:57:55,000 Speaker 2: We talked about this a long time ago. Is as 2688 01:57:55,040 --> 01:57:55,920 Speaker 2: sex with two men? 2689 01:57:56,240 --> 01:57:59,880 Speaker 1: Is it a it's a train dress that train? 2690 01:58:00,040 --> 01:58:03,160 Speaker 3: What do you say, and I still feel that way 2691 01:58:03,560 --> 01:58:04,000 Speaker 3: a lot to you. 2692 01:58:04,160 --> 01:58:06,640 Speaker 5: Bro, I'm a grown ass man. It's whatever you want 2693 01:58:06,680 --> 01:58:09,000 Speaker 5: it to be. Like if you, like when I was 2694 01:58:09,080 --> 01:58:11,800 Speaker 5: twenty six, I probably would say train if you, bro, 2695 01:58:11,960 --> 01:58:13,960 Speaker 5: some people would be into ship that I'm just not into. 2696 01:58:14,120 --> 01:58:16,480 Speaker 5: Like I I newly found out that niggas like that 2697 01:58:16,560 --> 01:58:18,640 Speaker 5: ass eight, So I can't call them man gay because 2698 01:58:18,640 --> 01:58:18,760 Speaker 5: of that. 2699 01:58:18,960 --> 01:58:20,720 Speaker 1: Why you ain't got the point now, you know. 2700 01:58:20,720 --> 01:58:22,320 Speaker 5: What I'm saying that Because like I'm just saying, like, 2701 01:58:22,400 --> 01:58:25,360 Speaker 5: when you get older, you start to like everything that ain't. 2702 01:58:25,520 --> 01:58:27,160 Speaker 5: Everything that's good for the geese might not be good 2703 01:58:27,160 --> 01:58:27,480 Speaker 5: for the game. 2704 01:58:27,680 --> 01:58:29,160 Speaker 3: So it's like, Bro, I get it, Like, oh you 2705 01:58:29,280 --> 01:58:31,280 Speaker 3: got some old grandparents, That's. 2706 01:58:31,120 --> 01:58:33,000 Speaker 5: What I'm saying. Like, Yo, some girls might like that. 2707 01:58:33,080 --> 01:58:35,120 Speaker 5: Some niggas might like, yeah, if it's a threesome for you, 2708 01:58:35,160 --> 01:58:36,040 Speaker 5: it might be a threesome for you. 2709 01:58:36,520 --> 01:58:38,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna lie, I don't like more than one person 2710 01:58:38,400 --> 01:58:41,040 Speaker 1: in the bedroom. I think I like a one on 2711 01:58:41,200 --> 01:58:43,080 Speaker 1: one session. That's all I need. 2712 01:58:43,760 --> 01:58:47,120 Speaker 6: Yup say, I don't know. And this is again, it's 2713 01:58:47,200 --> 01:58:49,400 Speaker 6: not nothing is wrong. If you want to train ran 2714 01:58:49,520 --> 01:58:52,520 Speaker 6: on you, then that is your parade on you. 2715 01:58:52,680 --> 01:58:55,360 Speaker 5: It's a threesome might be three people. 2716 01:58:55,440 --> 01:58:58,480 Speaker 6: But what I'm saying, But what I'm saying is if 2717 01:58:58,560 --> 01:59:00,880 Speaker 6: that's what she liked, and that's what she like, I 2718 01:59:01,120 --> 01:59:05,920 Speaker 6: ain't got nothing against what you like. But what about 2719 01:59:06,800 --> 01:59:09,920 Speaker 6: I was about to say, but two dicks at one 2720 01:59:10,000 --> 01:59:13,160 Speaker 6: time is too much stimulation for me personally. 2721 01:59:13,640 --> 01:59:15,800 Speaker 5: Usually rolls and have sex with a nigga at the 2722 01:59:15,840 --> 01:59:16,200 Speaker 5: same time. 2723 01:59:16,280 --> 01:59:17,480 Speaker 1: That's not penetration. Bro. 2724 01:59:17,640 --> 01:59:21,000 Speaker 5: The rose is way more damns than anywhere. 2725 01:59:21,080 --> 01:59:23,320 Speaker 3: And let me let me get you though, but let 2726 01:59:23,400 --> 01:59:24,480 Speaker 3: me get into a science. 2727 01:59:24,560 --> 01:59:26,800 Speaker 6: But I feel like typically when three people are having 2728 01:59:26,840 --> 01:59:30,080 Speaker 6: sex with each other, everybody doing something that the same time. 2729 01:59:29,960 --> 01:59:31,960 Speaker 2: And one that's too much work. And let me also say, 2730 01:59:32,080 --> 01:59:38,240 Speaker 2: a lot of women do not orgasm from penetration. So penetration, 2731 01:59:38,440 --> 01:59:40,640 Speaker 2: that's easy to do. But once you start getting to 2732 01:59:40,680 --> 01:59:43,640 Speaker 2: the stimulating things, that's when, like you know, so if 2733 01:59:43,640 --> 01:59:46,520 Speaker 2: somebody needs more than one penetration, that's not making her 2734 01:59:46,600 --> 01:59:48,960 Speaker 2: come anyway. So that's not the thing that's taking us 2735 01:59:49,040 --> 01:59:50,240 Speaker 2: over the edge most of the time. 2736 01:59:50,440 --> 01:59:53,480 Speaker 3: Amen, And that's just too much for me. 2737 01:59:54,040 --> 01:59:56,200 Speaker 5: One niggamo be eating a box water, another nigga pount 2738 01:59:56,360 --> 01:59:57,839 Speaker 5: from the but that's too much. 2739 02:00:00,160 --> 02:00:07,080 Speaker 3: Like what does he know I seen your head to me? 2740 02:00:08,280 --> 02:00:10,440 Speaker 5: You know that's some Q shit, right, that's you know that, 2741 02:00:10,840 --> 02:00:11,920 Speaker 5: that's what hit. 2742 02:00:12,440 --> 02:00:14,160 Speaker 3: Remember the last time you saw the podcast, you was like, 2743 02:00:16,520 --> 02:00:16,840 Speaker 3: because you. 2744 02:00:16,840 --> 02:00:19,600 Speaker 1: Know, because y'all is torny I forgot. 2745 02:00:19,360 --> 02:00:21,600 Speaker 5: You know that meet the meet shit. It started from us. 2746 02:00:21,760 --> 02:00:25,240 Speaker 5: I believe it went viral and TikTok. But that's because y'all. 2747 02:00:25,080 --> 02:00:26,920 Speaker 1: Are the horniest men. The first time. 2748 02:00:27,720 --> 02:00:31,120 Speaker 5: Literally, God give us it. No no, no, no no, no, 2749 02:00:31,320 --> 02:00:32,000 Speaker 5: gives you ther experience. 2750 02:00:32,040 --> 02:00:34,080 Speaker 2: Okay, I'll tell y'all this is what happened. I was 2751 02:00:34,160 --> 02:00:36,160 Speaker 2: in college, when I was at U of age. This 2752 02:00:36,280 --> 02:00:38,480 Speaker 2: even before I went to TSU. I was at U 2753 02:00:38,560 --> 02:00:41,040 Speaker 2: of age and we went to a Q party. Bitch 2754 02:00:41,440 --> 02:00:43,440 Speaker 2: that niggas was doing that little thing in line. It 2755 02:00:43,560 --> 02:00:44,960 Speaker 2: was just a big ass nigga. 2756 02:00:45,160 --> 02:00:46,880 Speaker 5: How big was he? He was very big. 2757 02:00:47,000 --> 02:00:50,280 Speaker 2: He was like six four he I thought he was 2758 02:00:50,360 --> 02:00:52,920 Speaker 2: like forty eight and he was like twenty three. Because 2759 02:00:52,920 --> 02:00:55,680 Speaker 2: that's how they that's how they be looking. And mind you, 2760 02:00:55,760 --> 02:00:58,160 Speaker 2: I've always been a big woman. I'm not small, you know, 2761 02:00:58,200 --> 02:01:01,440 Speaker 2: I'm big, Mama. This nigga in front of everybody picked 2762 02:01:01,480 --> 02:01:03,480 Speaker 2: me up. I had a dress song. This is when 2763 02:01:03,480 --> 02:01:05,280 Speaker 2: I used to wear panties. Ooh, thank god because he 2764 02:01:05,360 --> 02:01:08,160 Speaker 2: was got a mouth full. He literally like picked me up. 2765 02:01:08,240 --> 02:01:10,160 Speaker 2: He sat me on his shoulders and he was going 2766 02:01:10,200 --> 02:01:10,360 Speaker 2: like this. 2767 02:01:11,560 --> 02:01:13,960 Speaker 5: I said, Oh, my question is did you like it? 2768 02:01:14,480 --> 02:01:17,480 Speaker 1: I little being, but I was shamed me if he 2769 02:01:17,560 --> 02:01:20,440 Speaker 1: did that to me. Now call me if you remember me, 2770 02:01:21,080 --> 02:01:25,000 Speaker 1: you of age. What year was it? Nineteen eighty three? 2771 02:01:27,320 --> 02:01:28,280 Speaker 5: I heard the birds. 2772 02:01:29,880 --> 02:01:36,640 Speaker 1: Like that too, like that shit, A time was had. 2773 02:01:38,320 --> 02:01:42,880 Speaker 2: Okay, so y'all, this has been an amazing episode. 2774 02:01:43,280 --> 02:01:43,520 Speaker 1: Y'all. 2775 02:01:43,640 --> 02:01:46,320 Speaker 2: Make sure y'all followed mister Jay Hill on our platforms. 2776 02:01:48,600 --> 02:01:54,040 Speaker 2: Mister j heil, I love him. He had been cutting 2777 02:01:54,120 --> 02:01:56,120 Speaker 2: up to that. This has been an amazing episode. This 2778 02:01:56,320 --> 02:01:59,360 Speaker 2: was a two hour episode. By the way, we have 2779 02:02:00,040 --> 02:02:01,920 Speaker 2: ever have episodes of this song. Y'all make sure y'all 2780 02:02:02,000 --> 02:02:04,880 Speaker 2: go to Muse Beauty Collection dot com. She got Yes, 2781 02:02:05,480 --> 02:02:07,240 Speaker 2: I forgot my item of a week. Y'all go ahead 2782 02:02:07,320 --> 02:02:08,120 Speaker 2: drop it real quick. 2783 02:02:08,520 --> 02:02:11,640 Speaker 6: Yes, so I got on my lip gloss. It's a 2784 02:02:11,760 --> 02:02:17,640 Speaker 6: Muse Beauty collection. Okay, my Musebaudycollection dot com. And I 2785 02:02:17,760 --> 02:02:20,520 Speaker 6: got all the lip glasses, all the lip liners, all 2786 02:02:20,600 --> 02:02:21,960 Speaker 6: the Matt Liqui lipsticks. 2787 02:02:22,000 --> 02:02:27,080 Speaker 3: Everything you need you know, she keep that lecture, y'all, 2788 02:02:27,200 --> 02:02:29,120 Speaker 3: go and get y'all love glass. 2789 02:02:29,560 --> 02:02:32,400 Speaker 1: Okay, we'll see y'all next week, y'all. Bye, y'all. Bae, 2790 02:02:33,880 --> 02:02:34,800 Speaker 1: come home late. 2791 02:02:35,480 --> 02:02:39,960 Speaker 17: It sees you badly beat the sun, tapping my shoulder 2792 02:02:40,720 --> 02:02:43,040 Speaker 17: thinking you gonna get you song. 2793 02:02:43,000 --> 02:02:45,480 Speaker 5: Smelling like praid that. 2794 02:02:45,720 --> 02:02:48,880 Speaker 18: I don't need that, well the song if you want, 2795 02:02:51,200 --> 02:02:54,600 Speaker 18: go back back where you came. From day to day 2796 02:02:55,200 --> 02:02:55,600 Speaker 18: with you. 2797 02:02:55,920 --> 02:02:59,640 Speaker 3: It's always something else work in my nerve. 2798 02:03:01,480 --> 02:03:05,440 Speaker 17: I don't desert what you put me through because I've 2799 02:03:05,480 --> 02:03:09,760 Speaker 17: been so true to you. Oh ship, let me with 2800 02:03:10,120 --> 02:03:15,320 Speaker 17: another name. Excuse see y'all heard it all the boy before. 2801 02:03:16,240 --> 02:03:21,600 Speaker 18: Hey, hey, all of y'all sweet top baby baby that 2802 02:03:22,120 --> 02:03:24,280 Speaker 18: but your lies ain't working out. 2803 02:03:25,000 --> 02:03:28,080 Speaker 3: And look who's hurt? And now see I had to 2804 02:03:28,280 --> 02:03:31,840 Speaker 3: shut you down. I had to shut you now. 2805 02:03:31,960 --> 02:03:36,680 Speaker 1: Wool, I was your fool. 2806 02:03:37,680 --> 02:03:38,840 Speaker 11: I believe in. 2807 02:03:39,040 --> 02:03:47,440 Speaker 19: You, Yes, yes, Now who's her? And now see, y'all 2808 02:03:47,600 --> 02:03:49,080 Speaker 19: had to shut it down. 2809 02:03:50,080 --> 02:03:51,600 Speaker 1: Had to shut you down. 2810 02:03:52,200 --> 02:03:55,760 Speaker 10: Hey, what were you thinking bringing. 2811 02:03:55,600 --> 02:03:57,160 Speaker 5: Her into my home? 2812 02:03:58,000 --> 02:03:59,000 Speaker 3: What was you there? 2813 02:03:59,600 --> 02:04:03,480 Speaker 19: You still fairly bunch your head by your lay in 2814 02:04:03,680 --> 02:04:06,400 Speaker 19: me and bring it to my cheek. 2815 02:04:07,040 --> 02:04:10,440 Speaker 5: I'm about to call my bees and bring it to 2816 02:04:10,760 --> 02:04:11,360 Speaker 5: the street. 2817 02:04:13,000 --> 02:04:13,840 Speaker 3: Nothing you can do. 2818 02:04:14,120 --> 02:04:18,800 Speaker 20: Oh and that's nothing you can say that can persuade 2819 02:04:18,960 --> 02:04:23,000 Speaker 20: me to pay with you or another day. Look, girl, 2820 02:04:23,200 --> 02:04:29,040 Speaker 20: the line to the point of no return. Yes, that 2821 02:04:29,400 --> 02:04:34,640 Speaker 20: is no longer concern. Heard it all before, hurting all before. 2822 02:04:36,440 --> 02:04:47,160 Speaker 11: Yeah, now look who's er? And now see I had 2823 02:04:47,320 --> 02:04:51,080 Speaker 11: this shut it, Hey had this shirt? You now. 2824 02:04:52,600 --> 02:04:56,520 Speaker 3: J Hill to build a carrier and he like Heyle, 2825 02:04:57,440 --> 02:04:58,160 Speaker 3: what did you just say? 2826 02:05:00,720 --> 02:05:03,520 Speaker 5: Oh as nigga with so bitch ass