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Speaker 1: It is as the clo All right, Colo, This is

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Speaker 1: from April and Newark, who writes, I'm seeing a guy

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Speaker 1: that is fifteen years older than me, and I love

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Speaker 1: everything about him except for sex. He tries to buy

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Speaker 1: me nice things just so he can tell me that

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Speaker 1: I owe him. I want the nice things with no

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Speaker 1: strings attached. Why is he so focused on the sex?

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Speaker 2: Why I don't understand the question. You're saying he buys

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Speaker 2: you stuff to tell you that you owe him? All

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Speaker 2: right now, is he saying the stuff that you owe

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Speaker 2: him is the sex? Is that what she says?

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Speaker 3: That's what she's saying that he's said.

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Speaker 4: Maybe listen to me. He just pointing it out. That's

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Speaker 4: what it's all for.

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Speaker 2: Wait, what's that's That's what it is, All of this

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Speaker 2: for that and nobody helping you out with your rent

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Speaker 2: and paying cards.

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Speaker 4: And he's sending these kids to school.

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Speaker 2: If ain't no sex tied to it, that that's he

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Speaker 2: just he just pointing it out.

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Speaker 3: Well, maybe that's what she doesn't like the fact that

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Speaker 3: he points it out.

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Speaker 2: We got I buy cars and swimming pools and diamond

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Speaker 2: rings for sex.

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Speaker 4: Wait a minute, are you buy what now? Cars?

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Speaker 2: Swimming pools, diamond rings for six Burking bags.

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Speaker 4: Six.

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Speaker 2: I mean, look, man, it's like this. It's it's it's a.

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Speaker 2: It's a it's a form of wining and dining. Now,

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Speaker 2: the problem she has is you may not be getting

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Speaker 2: the commitment that comes with all of that.

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Speaker 4: Wives do wives get the commitment.

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Speaker 2: Husbands try to provide for their wives everything they asked for.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're just not getting the commitment.

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Speaker 2: So he making sure that your The commitment he want

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Speaker 2: from you is what you do to him.

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Speaker 4: I now, yo me.

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Speaker 2: See that's yeah, that's now, that's tacky. It's tacky, but

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Speaker 2: that's what he tied it to.

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Speaker 4: See. So what he gotta do is he just got it.

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Speaker 4: He just gotta.

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Speaker 2: Expect it instead of reminding you. Yeah, no, it don't

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Speaker 2: sound good. It don't sound good.

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Speaker 4: She knows. I don't want you to forget that what

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Speaker 4: I don't want? Yeah, he don't either. Too many nice

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Speaker 4: things and no six coming up.

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Speaker 3: That's all right.

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Speaker 4: You like that bag much?

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Speaker 3: You like it exactly?

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Speaker 4: You like it a lot? Me too? All right, say

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Speaker 4: you like that bag?

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you, let me tell you how I

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Speaker 2: like its?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 1: My birthday is three days after Christmas and My husband

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Speaker 1: didn't get me a gift this year. He bought a

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Speaker 1: new hot water heater in December and we agreed not

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Speaker 1: to do gifts.

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Speaker 3: But what about my birthday?

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Speaker 1: Why does he get uptight when I say I expected

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Speaker 1: a gift.

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Speaker 2: You got that hot water heater for Christmas?

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Speaker 4: You better get it there and take that bath. Listen

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Speaker 4: to me, you see.

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Speaker 2: Now, let me tell you some friend, what a woman

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Speaker 2: says is not what she means never, so bruh, you

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Speaker 2: gotta get used to that. Y'all said we're gonna give

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Speaker 2: this hot water heater, so weeen doing gifts this year.

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Speaker 2: That was for Christmas. She watered a birthday gift.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I don't get the dish washing for not appliances.

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Speaker 3: Want something personal.

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Speaker 4: And appliances does not qualify. Trust me.

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Speaker 2: They don't take moll of your wife, no vacuum clean

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Speaker 2: for the house.

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Speaker 4: Can't give her no flash screen TV. You sitting up

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Speaker 4: there got the game on?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 4: It has to be a personalized idol.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how old he is, but he should

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Speaker 4: know better.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, doesn't say see buying hot water heaters. That's an

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Speaker 2: over forty thing right there. You're right because young people

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Speaker 2: don't even know.

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Speaker 4: You know, I.

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Speaker 3: Don't know how the waters heated.

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Speaker 2: They just you know, these as homeowners. These are homeowners

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Speaker 2: right here? They not written, these are homeowners. And how

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Speaker 2: much do how water heaters are? How water heater messed

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Speaker 2: up Christmas this year?

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Speaker 4: God though, but they needed it.

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Speaker 1: The house needs Yeah, she needs a birthday care, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Chris in Detroit. Chris says, my wife's

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Speaker 1: brother came to my house, got mad at my wife

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Speaker 1: and started yelling at her. I told him that he

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Speaker 1: cannot talk to my wife like that. She told me

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Speaker 1: to stay.

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Speaker 3: Out of it.

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Speaker 1: Now I'm mad because I stood up for her and

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Speaker 1: she disrespected me.

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Speaker 3: Did I overstep here?

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Speaker 4: No? Not in your house, not in your house. Not

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Speaker 4: in your house. Now. You y'all got that sibling thing

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Speaker 4: going on.

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Speaker 2: I understand that, but you can't come in my house

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Speaker 2: talking crazy to my wife. And I'm not loud to

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Speaker 2: If I holler at her, I get checked for hollering

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Speaker 2: at her.

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Speaker 4: But the hell you in here hollering at man?

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Speaker 2: So she was wrong for not understanding your side of it.

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Speaker 2: That's what she should have said, was baby baby. Just

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Speaker 2: let me and my brother work through this. We do

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Speaker 2: this all the time. I ain't He ain't gonna hurt me,

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Speaker 2: but it's gonna be some yelling. But I do respect you. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but he the husband, he did the right thing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I don't care who you are. Man, You're not coming

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Speaker 2: up in here hollering at my wife. Okay, Oh, please

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Speaker 2: understand me that that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the husband is mad for standing and he should be. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and she disrespected him.

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Speaker 4: Stand. You ain't got nothing to do with it. You

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Speaker 4: should have been arguing with this fool their whole.

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Speaker 1: Life, all right. Last one, Steve, Last one. It's from

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Speaker 1: Mickey and Beaumont. Mickey writes, I got my boobs done,

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Speaker 1: and my husband won't stop touching them. He squeezes them

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Speaker 1: and pulls at my piercings to the point that they

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Speaker 1: get sore.

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Speaker 3: He wouldn't want me pulling and tugging at his you

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Speaker 3: know what? So how do I get him to stop this?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 4: No, he don't care. He bought him.

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Speaker 2: He've been waiting on the happy birthday to me, marry

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Speaker 2: Christmas to me. You don't even want to stand.

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Speaker 4: To enjoy that mayor feeling.

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Speaker 2: Right now, it's it's like a new Yeah, I know

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Speaker 2: it could be he would get mad if I was

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Speaker 2: putting on his junk all the time.

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Speaker 4: No, he wouldn't.

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Speaker 3: But she's got piercing.

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Speaker 2: We'd be just sitting up here pulling find Wow. Well

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Speaker 2: you know she got piercing. Now she done decorated what

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Speaker 2: you wanted him to do.

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Speaker 3: She got piercing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you build them up and decorated it.

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Speaker 3: Girl, How does she get him to stop?

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Speaker 4: That's what she wants to know, and not finish. Stop

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Speaker 4: that's gonna happen. Stops brand new toy in the house.

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Speaker 3: All right, thank you, Clo coming up.

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Speaker 2: It's like getting a new refrigerator and then don't put

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Speaker 2: no food in it.

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