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Subject he can't talk without touching me. 11 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,479 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I met a man online and he's 12 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 1: a decent guy with a good job and a great 13 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:37,519 Speaker 1: set of friends. We've gone on double dates with my 14 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 1: friends and his friends, and I did that because that's 15 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:42,480 Speaker 1: how you get. 16 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 3: To really know a person. 17 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 1: The drawback of it is that my friends also get 18 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: to point out the bad things about my man. We 19 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 1: had a double date with my best friend and her 20 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 1: man and my best He said that it's too soon 21 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 1: for my man to be as hands on as he is, 22 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 1: meaning he can't talk without touching me. She said he 23 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 1: was going to start pressuring me for sex too soon. 24 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 1: She was spot on with that one, so I couldn't 25 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 1: be mad at her. The second date was with my 26 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:11,680 Speaker 1: cousin and her husband, and my cousin's husband that the 27 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 1: guy shouldn't be grabbing my butt in. 28 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 3: Public like that because it's tasteless. 29 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 1: I did not care what he said, because I know 30 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 1: he's not a romantic type of guy from what my 31 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 1: cousin has said about him. But when I'm alone with 32 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: my new man and in public, he really can't talk 33 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 1: without putting his hands on my body. In the car, 34 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 1: he wants to hold my hand and drive with his 35 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 1: left hand. He has his hand on my thigh when 36 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 1: we're having dinner, and if we're at a bar having 37 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 1: a drink, he will slide my chair right up beside 38 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:43,960 Speaker 1: him so he can rub my shoulder or have his 39 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: hand in various places on my body. We met seven 40 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 1: weeks ago and we haven't been intimate, but like my 41 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 1: bestie said, he's already itching to have sex. The final 42 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: straw for me was when he put his hand between 43 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:00,559 Speaker 1: my legs and a restaurant and asked if he could 44 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 1: have it. I asked what it was. It's a complete 45 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: and utter turn off. Do I throw away the man 46 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 1: for this? One flaw or is this something we can 47 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 1: work on. He doesn't do well with subtle hints. Oh, 48 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 1: he's a little out of control doing that in public 49 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 1: and at a restaurant. But the most important thing here 50 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,079 Speaker 1: is what you're comfortable with. 51 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 3: And that's all. 52 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: If you don't want this man that you've only been 53 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 1: dating for seven weeks to have his hands all over 54 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 1: you and you shouldn't, why don't you say something to him? 55 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 1: Why don't you tell him to stop, move his hands away? 56 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 1: It is very disrespectful of him to be touching you 57 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,559 Speaker 1: so inappropriately and in front of your friends. 58 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 3: And family like that. How have you let it go 59 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 3: this long? 60 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: That's my question to you. If you don't want him 61 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: to do it to you, then don't let him do 62 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 1: it to you. You've got to be realistic, though. I mean, 63 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 1: he's a man who is obviously attracted to you, and 64 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: I'm sure he feels seven weeks is a long time 65 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 1: on his calendar. He's ready to get busy, but clearly 66 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: you're not because you're still trying to get to know him. 67 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: But you got to remember, I mean, it's simple. This 68 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: is your body, and if you're not slapping, stopping him 69 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 1: or slapping him, and you're not saying anything about his 70 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 1: touching you. 71 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 3: He's not gonna stop. 72 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: You gotta tell him if that's what you want. If 73 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:25,800 Speaker 1: he leaves because you spoke up for yourself, then let 74 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 1: him go. If he stays, tell him you don't want 75 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 1: him touching you like that anymore. You want to get 76 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 1: to know him, and you guys need to slow down. 77 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 4: Steve, Oh, this letter, it's so common sense. It's just 78 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 4: Shirley's absolutely correct in what she's said. This let us 79 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 4: it's really what you want. But you're not conveying this 80 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 4: to the man. So what you want him to do? 81 00:03:56,600 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 4: Because right now, this dude, he don't think you do 82 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 4: it nothing wrong, but you think the man is wrong. 83 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 4: And now I'm gonna tell you where I'm gonna tell you. Well, 84 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 4: let me show you a couple of things. Just let him. 85 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 2: You met this man online. 86 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 4: He's a decent guy, got a good job, gray, set 87 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 4: of friends who go on double dates with friends and 88 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 4: his friends, my friends and his friends. I did that 89 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:19,359 Speaker 4: because that's how you get to really know a person. Okay, 90 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 4: that's a good idea, because you got to see how 91 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 4: it interacts with other people. Other people's opinion of him, 92 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 4: his opinion of your friends that said good death. The 93 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 4: drawback is that my friends also get to point out 94 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 4: the bad things about my man. Well didn't you just 95 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 4: say that's why you went out with him, so you 96 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 4: can get to know him, and sometimes you can get 97 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 4: Your friend's opinions can matter, but they shouldn't, but they 98 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:46,360 Speaker 4: can depend on who the friend is. 99 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 2: See, we had a. 100 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 4: Double date with my best friend and her man and 101 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 4: my best He said that it's too soon for my 102 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 4: man to be hands on as he is, meaning he 103 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 4: can't talk without touching me. She said he was gonna 104 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 4: start pressing me for sex too soon. Uh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 105 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 4: yeah because why because that's what we do. That's why 106 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 4: he dating you. He dating you to have sex. That's 107 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 4: why all men date you. Is this a secret? And 108 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 4: is this a new book? All men date you because 109 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 4: they want to have sex with you. I have a 110 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 4: shaker for you. Y'all dating men because y'all want to 111 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 4: have sex with them? That tada, yeah, take them frowns 112 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 4: off y'all's face on this zoom. Yeah, that's why you 113 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 4: date men. Now, y'all not gonna out with lys say 114 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 4: that because you want some other things too, of course, 115 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 4: but at the bottom line, you know what this bout stop? 116 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 2: Come on, now, how we gonna. 117 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 4: Have a family. I want to get married one day. 118 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:07,840 Speaker 4: I want to have a family. We know what we're 119 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 4: gonna have to do, then let's get to doing it. 120 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 4: That's what this is all about. She was spot on 121 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 4: with that when her girlfriend he was gonna pressure me 122 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 4: to have sex? That ain't she brilliant? So I couldn't 123 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 4: be mad with her. The second day was with my 124 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 4: cousin and her husband said. Her husband said, the guy 125 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 4: shouldn't be grabbing my buddy in public like. 126 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 2: That because it's tastes. 127 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:37,839 Speaker 4: That is tastess grab hangout, but in front of people, 128 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:38,799 Speaker 4: that's tasteles. 129 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 3: It is hang on, Steve. 130 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at 131 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:46,039 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour of today's Strawberry Letter 132 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: subjects he can't talk without touching me. We'll get back 133 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: into it right after this. 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The subject is he can't talk 144 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: without touching me. 145 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, lady, And you've been out with your 146 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 4: friends with him and everything, and theyden told you he's 147 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 4: a little touching too much because he gonna press you 148 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 4: for sex. She was right about that. Duh, Yeah, he 149 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 4: is going to ask you for sex eventually. I think 150 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 4: you note that. That's why both y'all was online. You 151 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 4: get online so you can find a relationship. But in 152 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 4: order to be in a relationship, you're going to have 153 00:07:57,120 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 4: to relate. Are you feeling like you own a ship. 154 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 2: And analogy? 155 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 3: What it rocks back and forth? 156 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 4: You online to get into a relationship. Okay, to be 157 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 4: in a relationship, you have to have a relay shun 158 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 4: with someone, and it's got to feel like y'all own 159 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 4: a ship. 160 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 2: Because the ship. 161 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 4: Rocks back and forth. That's what a relationship is. Two 162 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:39,079 Speaker 4: people that can relate to each other till it gets 163 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 4: so good y'all start rocking back and forth. That's the relationship. 164 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 3: Wow, my god, we can't home. We can't see that. Huh. 165 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 2: Now, what the hell? 166 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 4: Now? Your girlfriend talking about he two hands on? He 167 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:58,880 Speaker 4: gonna want to have sex soon? Yes he is, Yeah, 168 00:08:58,960 --> 00:08:59,600 Speaker 4: he gonna. 169 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 3: Want to not soon now been seven weeks. 170 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 4: She was spot on with that, so I couldn't be 171 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 4: mad at her. The second day, my cousin and her husband. 172 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 4: Her cousin husband said the guy shouldn't be grabbing my 173 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 4: butty in public like that because it's tasteless. That's true. 174 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:18,440 Speaker 4: Tasteless is true. But your other cousin though, telling you 175 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 4: he gonna press you for sex. That's what he supposed 176 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 4: to do. Why is this her damn busin and stuff? 177 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 4: Didn't her husband press her for sex one day? 178 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:28,199 Speaker 2: Didn't she have it? 179 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:31,679 Speaker 4: I did not care what he said, because I know 180 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 4: he's not a romantic type of a guy. Okay, but 181 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 4: you did care what the other lady said, what my 182 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 4: cousin has said. But when I'm alone with my new 183 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 4: man and in public, he really can't talk without putting 184 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 4: his hands on my body. In the car, he want 185 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:47,959 Speaker 4: to hold my hand to drive with the left hand. 186 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 2: Damn. 187 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 4: Maybe it ain't just your cousin's husbands that ain't romantic. 188 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:55,959 Speaker 4: Maybe you ain't romantic, Keith, it sick a man want 189 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 4: to hold your hand while he driving. Damn, most women 190 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 4: go wild. That is so nice. He wants to hold 191 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:05,560 Speaker 4: my hand while they driving. Don't what as you touching me? Folk? 192 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 4: He has his hand on my thigh when we have 193 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 4: in dinner, and if we had a ball having a drink, 194 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:13,719 Speaker 4: he would slide my chair right up next to him 195 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 4: so he could rub my shoulder or have his hands 196 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 4: in various places on my body. Billy, we met seven 197 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 4: weeks ago and we haven't been intimate. But like my 198 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 4: bestie said, he's already itching to half sex. Already. Where 199 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 4: did you come to you? After seven weeks? He was 200 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:35,839 Speaker 4: ready for that long time ago. Now I ad MyD 201 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 4: you for waiting and trying to get to know the man, 202 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 4: and kind of pushes you towards that ninety day rule 203 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:43,319 Speaker 4: I created, and it makes a little bit of sense. 204 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:50,959 Speaker 4: But at seven weeks he's pressing. He's pressing now the 205 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:53,439 Speaker 4: final straw for me was when he put his hand 206 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:55,200 Speaker 4: between my legs and the restaurant. 207 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 2: Wait a mane, hold of black, hold on, hold on. 208 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:00,200 Speaker 4: There's been a whole lot of touching going on for 209 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 4: seven week Why are you still going out with him? 210 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 4: If this is so repulsive, If this touches you're seven 211 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 4: weeks and touching. Now, he'd have been on your thigh, 212 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 4: he'd have been on your shoulders. He ain't been all 213 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:13,439 Speaker 4: up in your hair. He'd have been on your kneecap. 214 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 4: He'd had your hand when he driving. Now y'all in 215 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 4: the restaurant. Now you're talking about the final straw. He 216 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:26,440 Speaker 4: don't put his hands between your legs. We had to 217 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 4: promise land. Now we ad the Holy Grail. We in 218 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 4: front of the Grand Canyon. 219 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 3: You have made your point. 220 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:41,600 Speaker 4: Right there at Niagara Falls, we at Victoria Lake. We 221 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 4: are the Empire State. We are one of the seven 222 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 4: Wonders of the world. That's number eight right there, And 223 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 4: all of y'all have one the eighth wonders of the world. 224 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:51,839 Speaker 4: And I began, if it ain't one of the most 225 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 4: wonderful wonders I've ever seen, I've been to the Grand Canyon. 226 00:11:56,960 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 4: He ain't got nothing that grand cany, ain't got nothing 227 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 4: on that thing. Ain't nothing nothing. I've been to Niagara Falls. 228 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 4: I'd rather be standing in front of a fine woman 229 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:08,959 Speaker 4: than to be a Naga fall. I'm telling you right now, 230 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 4: it ain't all that I've seen the Empire State. I've 231 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 4: been to Victoria Lakes, I've been to all the places. 232 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 4: Ain't nothing like standing right there in front of me. 233 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 4: I'm just telling you it's something. 234 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 3: I think we got it. I really do, well. 235 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 4: I don't think you do. I'm painting this picture now. 236 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 4: I only got a many left, so let me go 237 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 4: and get to this. He put his hand between my 238 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 4: leg and the restaurant and asked if he could have it. 239 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 4: I asked what it was? 240 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 2: You know? 241 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 4: Good? Hell? 242 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 2: Well, what it is? What is your playing, stupid fall? 243 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 2: I'm sick of your little dumb ass letter. What is it? 244 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 2: You know exactly what it is? 245 00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:55,080 Speaker 4: You know what he doing? 246 00:12:56,920 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 2: What is it to me? What is it is? Why 247 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:02,200 Speaker 2: we here? 248 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:03,199 Speaker 1: This? 249 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:09,440 Speaker 2: Why jam? Why I'm driving this? Why I leave today? 250 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 4: This? 251 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:11,559 Speaker 2: Why spend money on this soup? 252 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 4: This? 253 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 2: Why bought this day? By? 254 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 4: Look? 255 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 2: Well he kills It's the reason that the world go round? 256 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 2: What do you mean? What do you mean? What is it? 257 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 4: You is? 258 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 1: Leader Comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram, at Steve 259 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:32,679 Speaker 1: Harvey FM, and check us out on the Strawberry Letter podcast. 260 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:36,600 Speaker 1: It's free on the iHeartRadio app, where free never sounded 261 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:37,199 Speaker 1: so good. 262 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:39,240 Speaker 3: Good morning. 263 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 1: This is Shirley Strawberry and Tims. 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