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Speaker 1: What were you thinking of your eightieth birthday? They thought

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Speaker 1: I was surprised you were not. I knew about it,

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Speaker 1: honeyway before they thought I did chill. I know, but

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Speaker 1: I had to go along with it. I said, oh wow.

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Speaker 1: And when we opened the door and saw all of

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Speaker 1: those wonderful people, I said, oh, I'm so shocked. Thanks

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Speaker 2: Today's episode is brought to you by boost Mobile. So

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Speaker 2: I want to toast to you, to me and thank

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Speaker 2: you for inviting me and my crew into your home.

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Speaker 1: You have a lovely crew, and you're my best friend

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Speaker 1: already already. I've known you for so long and I've

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Speaker 1: just admired you.

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Speaker 3: Really.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, girl, you gotta going off well.

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Speaker 2: I have admired you obviously for many years, and your

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Speaker 2: home feels as joyful and magnetic as you do.

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Speaker 1: Thank thank you so much, Thank you, honey.

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Speaker 3: That is a wine, isn't it wine? What is that?

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Speaker 1: I shouldn't give him a plug? I'm not. I'll tell

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Speaker 1: you though.

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Speaker 3: It's an expensive one though, isn't it. That's right before

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Speaker 3: we start, because I could usually get very comfortable in

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Speaker 2: Took up my shoes already, had me a little patty

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Speaker 2: pie already, but I do want to do a proper intro.

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Speaker 2: Get some accolades going here so everybody can recognize the

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Speaker 2: presence that we're in today. Patti LaBelle is an undeniable

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Speaker 2: music legend whose career spans over six decades with classics

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Speaker 2: like Lady Marmalade on My Own, If only you knew.

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Speaker 3: She's a Grammy winner, a Billboard chart topper.

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Speaker 2: She has been inducted into the Grammy Hall of Fame,

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Speaker 2: the Hollywood Walk of Fame, the Apollo Theater Hall of Fame.

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Speaker 3: I mean this honestly, this could take all day and

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Speaker 2: She's a phenomenal cook, like everybody knows, she has a

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Speaker 2: track record of cooking for some of the music's industries

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Speaker 2: best legends. They have been raving about her meals for years,

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Speaker 2: and that eventually led to the founding of her own

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Speaker 3: Her food company is undeniably successful.

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Speaker 2: She has a heart as good as her voice and

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Speaker 2: an energy that is just unmatched. The legendary Catti Labella

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Speaker 2: is our guest today on IRE. When you think about

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Speaker 2: some of those things, what do they mean to you?

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Speaker 3: Are they important to you? Like when you think of accolades,

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Speaker 3: and all those awards and those moments and those.

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Speaker 1: I think it's a blessing. I don't take anything for granted. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And so when I'm being honored, and I just hope

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Speaker 1: I say the right speech when I receive the award,

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Speaker 1: you want to say something good, something good, and something meaningful.

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Speaker 2: But it's crazy because even when you come in your house,

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Speaker 2: all of this there's so much like memorabilia here. Like

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Speaker 2: you clearly it means something like your your history, your career,

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Speaker 2: your impact. I feel like you take the time to

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Speaker 1: I do. I sometimes look at some of the awards

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Speaker 1: that I've gotten, in some of the letters from certain

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Speaker 1: presidents and especially Obama, I look at what I have achieved,

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Speaker 1: and how many people I think like me, love you,

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Speaker 1: love me, And you know, you can never ever say

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Speaker 1: enough about that. It's just always an honor and a

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Speaker 1: pleasure to know that somebody cares. I don't take it

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Speaker 1: for granted. Never. Sometimes I think it's like outrageous to

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Speaker 1: certain people. They might say I'm too loud, too big,

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Speaker 1: too just wrong. You know a lot of people think

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Speaker 1: that you know that these people, some people that I

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Speaker 1: won't name anyway. Girl, Listen, I have all my life,

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Speaker 1: I have been big in voice and never holding back.

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Speaker 1: And even as a kid like young, no, Young, I

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Speaker 1: was very shy. I didn't do anything. I played with

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Speaker 1: my cat called him skippy. He committed suicide because I

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Speaker 1: he ran away one day, but I know he wanted

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Speaker 1: and I had butterflies. I was a very lonely child.

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Speaker 1: No friends, really, cats and butterflies.

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Speaker 3: Yes, that is not what I would have expected.

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Speaker 1: Oh and I would go in the garage and make

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Speaker 1: hot sauce. I would use ketchup. Yeah that I did

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Speaker 3: That's not it can't be possible.

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Speaker 1: Because I see you on that stage, well that's what

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Speaker 1: you see stage Patty, and then here is Patty with you.

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Speaker 1: I'm very like, I was very nervous to do this

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Speaker 1: because you're big, No, and I'm big, I know, but

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Speaker 1: saw you in the kitchen, I was it's real, and

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Speaker 1: it's because you're so special. Thank you. And I meet

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Speaker 1: Don't hold back.

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Speaker 3: I love that. That's so surprising to me. It's so amazing.

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Speaker 2: Does it ever change that, like inner kind of I

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Speaker 1: I still question certain things about me. At eighty one,

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Speaker 1: I still asked, well, what do you think about that?

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Speaker 1: What do you think about this? And if it's something

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Speaker 1: them anymore. I just figured it out all my own,

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Speaker 1: figure out your own. No, but I every year that

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Speaker 1: I've been on this planet, I've been whoever I ended

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Speaker 1: up being. At the end of that year. She was cool,

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Speaker 1: she was good. She was the one that I have

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Speaker 1: to be because I couldn't pretend that she didn't exist.

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Speaker 3: We just had. We had Jill Scott on the podcast recently.

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Speaker 1: Your Phil spend a lot of time with her when

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Speaker 1: get tim She is always on tour, and I'm always

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Speaker 2: The reason I brought her up is because we just

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Speaker 2: and I'm curious your take on it. She said, Jill

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Speaker 2: Scott thing of life for women? She said, you work

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Speaker 2: you work how you want to in your forties, you

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Speaker 1: The perspective seventies and eighties. What happens? You still do

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Speaker 1: what you did in your fifties. I do really? Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: so you there's no shift? But do you does that

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Speaker 1: any of that ring true to you? That some of

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Speaker 3: Really, I know I know it. Are you the same?

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Speaker 1: I'm the same, boring girl.

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Speaker 3: You're not making the same mistakes though.

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Speaker 1: No, that I won't. I won't make any more, no more,

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Speaker 1: no more, no more drama. None.

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Speaker 3: You're not making the same asation in your forties.

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Speaker 1: Well, maybe I still have little pieces of some of

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Speaker 1: my thirties and forties in my eighties, I do, uh,

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Speaker 1: And it's nothing that's going to hurt me, you know. I,

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Speaker 1: Like I said, I'm blessed to be in this place

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Speaker 1: thinking the way I did in thirties and forties.

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Speaker 2: Having a business, a successful business. Yeah, It's like I.

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Speaker 1: Never really thought at eighty I would really still be

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Speaker 3: Really.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm amazed at my stamina. I'm amazed at my

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Speaker 1: still having an audience. I'm amazed that I haven't had

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Speaker 1: a or an album in twenty twenty two years at

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Speaker 1: R and B album. I've had jazz and gospel, but

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Speaker 1: I'm working on the R and B album. I'm saying, God,

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Speaker 1: it has been a long time since that happened. And

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Speaker 1: like I said, I'm still saying, girl, you're blessed because

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Speaker 1: people don't even buy music from eighty year old chicks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, They're gonna buy yours, though, I hope.

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Speaker 1: So, because I'm gonna give them something they can feel.

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Speaker 3: For sure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what were you thinking of your eightieth birthday because

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Speaker 1: I saw some of the photos and videos and I

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Speaker 1: first of all, they thought I was surprised, you were not.

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Speaker 1: I knew about it, honeyway before they thought I did,

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Speaker 1: telling me that we're going to a meeting with Walmart.

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Speaker 1: Now I had this beautiful zang toy dress on now

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Speaker 1: and all these leans on my.

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Speaker 3: Your eightieth birthday, eightieth bird?

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Speaker 1: What are we going to a meeting with Walmart for

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Speaker 1: me looking like this?

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Speaker 3: So you're paying along?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And they still thought they got me when we

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Speaker 1: went to the back of this restaurant. We pulled in

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Speaker 1: I knew, but I had to go along with it.

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Speaker 1: I said, oh wow. And when we opened the door

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Speaker 3: There for me a little bit. So take me into

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Speaker 3: the party.

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Speaker 1: Gosh, Gail King, I think, whoope. It was so many

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Speaker 1: entertainers there, and so many like my mailman was there.

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Speaker 1: Your man from Philadelphia came to New York to the party.

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Speaker 1: He was invited, They were invited, and just everybody, everybody,

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Speaker 1: my niece was there, Oh, Stacy. The day is Stacy's birthday.

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Speaker 1: May eighteen. Happy Birthday, Stacy. Yeah, she was there. All

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Speaker 1: of my I don't have many family members left, but

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Speaker 3: That's so beautiful.

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Speaker 1: It was a beautiful party.

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Speaker 3: And I think I think, uh, it's tricky, Like why

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Speaker 3: It's scary for some people, Like I don't know that

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Speaker 2: I want her to because it's like because she's young

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Speaker 3: What did you? Did somebody teach you that? Did you

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Speaker 1: I think I was taught by my mother and my father.

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Speaker 3: This is not what I expect. I know, I'm so fascinated.

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Speaker 3: That's why we're gonna get you some wine.

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Speaker 1: Yea. I swick Hey, everybody, thank you for looking and listening.

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Speaker 3: Hasy early birthday.

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Speaker 1: Thank you Darling Swig.

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Speaker 2: Through some of these moments in your life, some of

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Speaker 3: On so on my own.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I hear that song now in twenty twenty six,

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Speaker 3: What year did you make that song?

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Speaker 1: It must have been about twenty years ago. No, maybe more,

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Speaker 1: Oh it was in the eighties, Batty, Okay, it was

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Speaker 1: forty years ago. Wow, So you whoa go ahead make

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Speaker 1: I love that song such you still love it?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 3: How could you not? Right when you hear that song

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Speaker 2: It's like I thought everything was going to be okay,

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Speaker 1: Sometimes, yes, And what is the lesson in that? I

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Speaker 2: That's the way I think, Well, you did it well then,

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Speaker 2: because the breakups are not easy for a lot of people.

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Speaker 1: And we're recording together, so we still see each other,

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Speaker 1: you know, we work together still, Yes, all these years,

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Speaker 3: It's still friendship and love and family, right, it's still family.

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Speaker 1: I mean we gave birth to a wonderful son. He

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Speaker 1: But that's life, it is, right, m hm. Yes, it's

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Speaker 3: Like, Okay, I got through that and it was you know,

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Speaker 1: We knew we had to split, so it wasn't hard.

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Speaker 1: It was ineverable. We knew that we couldn't be together

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Speaker 3: Yes, and then never a desire to do it again. No, No,

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Speaker 3: you're okay with that, Honey.

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Speaker 1: I'm eighty one, I'm getting married. You never know I

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Speaker 1: would look good? Yeah, you would be student, still be

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Speaker 1: a fly, Brian, right, But I'm living my life like

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Speaker 1: it's platinum.

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Speaker 3: Yes, if only you knew, if only.

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Speaker 1: You knew how much I I'm crazy about you. I mean,

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Speaker 1: that's the song that you're very much in love and

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Speaker 3: It's just the.

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Speaker 2: Lyrics of it, like you can't even inspect you probably

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Speaker 1: Because I love you so and you don't even know.

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Speaker 2: You don't even know what I'm sitting here. You could

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Speaker 2: be in a whole marriage, your whole relationship. You could

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Speaker 1: It's true, I mean, and so many people live that life,

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Speaker 3: But you never have no not like that, you say,

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Speaker 3: Have you always said what I always say?

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Speaker 1: What's on my heart? You know, I'm not going to

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Speaker 1: in their own heads. Oh yes, so we can do that,

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Speaker 1: So we don't say it all the time. Yeah, punks,

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Speaker 3: Does everybody say it?

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Speaker 2: Lady Marmalade, So the open Hey, sister, ghos, sister, soul sister,

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Speaker 3: What is a soul sister? What is the meaning of

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Speaker 3: a soul sister? To you?

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Speaker 1: Well, in this particular song, well, she's a hooker and

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Speaker 1: Vuli way means will you sleep with me tonight? When

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Speaker 1: Bluebells singing no LaBelle. That's when we were at LaBelle

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Speaker 1: can't snatch the mattress from them. They gotta they gotta

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Speaker 3: And that's what a soul sister is. What is the

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Speaker 1: No soul sister is not a hooker. No soul sister

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Speaker 1: is just us. We're soul sisters. Yeah, I'm in and

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Speaker 3: I feel like you are a soul sister too.

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Speaker 1: I sure am. I am a soul sister.

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Speaker 3: What does that mean to you?

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Speaker 2: Though?

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Speaker 3: Like it means it's a it's like.

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Speaker 1: A graduation because when you're a baby, you're a little girl,

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Speaker 1: and as you grow up and to whatever you're going

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Speaker 1: to do you become a soul soul soul sister. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm a soul sister because I I do soul things,

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Speaker 1: You don't have to be black to be a soul sister.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I just consider myself a soul sister, but not

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Speaker 3: I would know some people might get it twisted, you know,

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Speaker 3: but that's that's what it is to me. That's beautiful.

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Speaker 3: The soul sister.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, soul sisters are good.

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Speaker 3: And from your soul. It's probably why you connect with

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Speaker 1: I sure do.

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Speaker 3: Of course, somebody loves your baby, it's one of my favorites.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 2: But it's interesting because you you're like deeply in love.

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Speaker 2: If somebody loves your baby. You said you can make

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Speaker 1: Now you know that's a lie, but that was the lyric. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Bunny Siegler wrote that one. You put that line, and

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Speaker 1: I said, I'm gonna say it, I'm gonna sing it,

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Speaker 1: but you can never make a slave out of me.

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Speaker 3: I worship you, oh yeah, and nobody else.

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Speaker 1: I give my heart to you, forever and ever, and ever. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's a deep love song.

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Speaker 3: You sing like you mean that they do you do mean?

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Speaker 1: I do mean it? Yes, somebody that somebody is.

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Speaker 3: Me, somebody loves your baby all the way live. Yes,

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Speaker 3: But I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think now, especially like women are so like independent

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Speaker 3: Like worshiping your man, that kind of notion of of being.

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Speaker 1: So it's like giving you all to a man. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm not that girl.

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Speaker 3: You're not.

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Speaker 1: No, no, unless it's really deep deep love.

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Speaker 3: You felt that though before in your life?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh HIPI yeah, I'm only human. Yes, But some

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Speaker 1: of the lyrics and certain songs, like I said, I

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Speaker 1: No way will ever be that for anybody.

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Speaker 3: You could probably sing anything. Huh.

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Speaker 1: Well, I try. I try to with meaning and with

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Speaker 1: ormalate is a song. I'm not that girl. You know

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Speaker 1: some of the lines you just say, God what I

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Speaker 1: to have songs that I can say every line. What

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Speaker 1: are you most proud of in your career. My career, Well,

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Speaker 1: it's not my career but my life. I'm most proud

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Speaker 1: of my son. He's better than a grammy.

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Speaker 3: How did being a mom change you? Though?

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Speaker 1: Like I never thought I would ever have a child.

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Speaker 1: Why because I was into my animals, my cats and dogs.

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Speaker 3: You're about to be a cat.

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Speaker 1: A cat woman. No, I just really never thought of

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Speaker 1: becoming pregnant. And the story is which I know, Zuria,

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Speaker 1: I don't like to hear. But my friend Laura Neiro,

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Speaker 1: a great performer. She took us to Japan, me and

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Speaker 1: mine husband, and sorry, was made in Japan.

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Speaker 3: He hates that. You don't want to know. You don't

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Speaker 1: I know, but he was made in Japan. And the

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Speaker 1: best gift that I could could have gotten was given

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00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:31,399
Speaker 1: birth to him. Yeah, has changed?

439
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:34,720
Speaker 3: So what ships you have a baby even on your own, your.

440
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 2: Patty bell already you're already Patty LaBelle right when you

441
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:39,439
Speaker 2: had him, you already have a successful career.

442
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:40,600
Speaker 3: Here's the deal.

443
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,680
Speaker 1: And I couldn't take care of him. So I had

444
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:48,160
Speaker 1: a great husband and a great he had a great

445
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:52,160
Speaker 1: sister who took him. I'm married, would take him everywhere

446
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 1: and they took care of him when I was, you know,

447
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:58,879
Speaker 1: on the road, which was a lot. We stayed on

448
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:01,440
Speaker 1: the road, and when I would come home, I would

449
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 1: try to buy him things and he said, I don't

450
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 1: need any new shoes, mom, I don't need pants. And

451
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 1: he would go in the truck. If a limo came

452
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 1: from me, he would go on the baggage truck. He

453
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:16,880
Speaker 1: would not ride in that limo. And today he still

454
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 1: doesn't tell people he's my son when we're doing business.

455
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:22,439
Speaker 1: When he's doing business and they find out later because

456
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 1: the promoter might come in the dress room after the

457
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 1: show to say thank you, Missa Bell, and I always say, oh,

458
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 1: this is Zori. He said, Zori my son. He said,

459
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:39,439
Speaker 1: you're her son. See, he never lets people know that, right.

460
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:43,840
Speaker 1: He doesn't go around I'm Patti Labell's son. Never will

461
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 1: you hear that from him? Well, yeah, so he's just

462
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 1: cool and he's here now and I know he's listening.

463
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:51,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to talk to you about that too.

464
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:53,640
Speaker 2: We'll get back to that too, because I know you're

465
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 2: doing such great business together.

466
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:58,840
Speaker 1: Oh yes, me and him and Charles and Alex.

467
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:06,320
Speaker 3: Oh, oh, break the buffet over there, you okay?

468
00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 1: No breaks on Broadway.

469
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 2: Look at me, I'm already like you're I'm blowing past

470
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:17,920
Speaker 2: your patty. Come on now, come on, now, what's on

471
00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:19,160
Speaker 2: your spirit these days?

472
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 3: Like, what's your What season is this for you?

473
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 1: It's a good season until I look at TV and

474
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 1: see the world and that's well, it's so bad right now,

475
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 1: you do. So I pray a lot for me and

476
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 1: for those who are going through. And we're all going through.

477
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 1: So that's on my spirit. It's scary, it's unpredictable, and

478
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:55,480
Speaker 1: it's gosh, some of the things I can't say. But

479
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:56,400
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

480
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 2: Of course, yes, yeah, of course. How do you How

481
00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 2: do you find peace for yourself in it? Because you can't.

482
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,360
Speaker 3: You still have to have joy.

483
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. I find joy in cooking and cleaning and doing

484
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 1: what I do, watching TV. I'll take that remote and

485
00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:15,160
Speaker 1: I click all day.

486
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:18,159
Speaker 2: I do.

487
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 1: I mean, that's what I do. I don't. I don't

488
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 1: really like party. Oh I play cards. We have card

489
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 1: games on the weekend.

490
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 3: That's a good time. What do you play?

491
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:32,440
Speaker 1: We play ac Deocy? Oh ay dude, yes, well you

492
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 1: can come through some of our games and we play

493
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 1: pity pat.

494
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:38,399
Speaker 3: I don't know, but I learned real fast.

495
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:41,119
Speaker 1: Oh, I'll teach you. It's so much fun because we

496
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 1: have like maybe ten or fifteen people on the weekend.

497
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:50,200
Speaker 1: Sometimes I cook, sometimes they'll all bring something anyway, and

498
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 1: that's so much fun. When I win, it's more fun, girl.

499
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 1: But when I lose, I say, I'll see you guys later.

500
00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:02,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go watch Netflix. It's so mad, right, I

501
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:07,879
Speaker 1: am competitive? Yes, So that's really And we play cards

502
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:10,919
Speaker 1: on the road, me and my glam squad.

503
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,199
Speaker 3: So that's how you keep some joy and keep some balance,

504
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 3: not get too sucked into like.

505
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:21,000
Speaker 1: Oh, we keep yes, And of course we all know

506
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 1: we're thinking the same things about what a bad place

507
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: the world is. And at the at this moment, do

508
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 1: you ever recall it being like this? Never even close

509
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 1: to it? Or no, I don't think so. I mean

510
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,879
Speaker 1: it could have been close, but it's never been like this.

511
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:47,880
Speaker 1: This is all the way deep. It's just scary.

512
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 3: So when you pray for it, what do you what

513
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:51,159
Speaker 3: do you ask for?

514
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 1: I asked for peace, and I asked for kids not

515
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:58,879
Speaker 1: to be hungry. You see those commercials where they're starving

516
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:02,679
Speaker 1: or somebody's beating the animal, and animals all beat up

517
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,680
Speaker 1: and stuff. I just wish that we could be nicer,

518
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 1: kind and kind in this world. That would help a lot. Yeah,

519
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,960
Speaker 1: get on the elevator. Nobody speaks. When we get on

520
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 1: the elevator. I speak to everybody. Yeah you have to.

521
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 1: Let's just we're frightened.

522
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:23,879
Speaker 3: What are the other things that people should do to

523
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:27,160
Speaker 3: be have a kinder or joyful, bright world?

524
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:33,240
Speaker 1: I would say, just acknowledge everyone, like nobody's not a

525
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 1: person that shouldn't be acknowledged. We're all somebody. And when

526
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 1: I see people just ignoring people who have less than them,

527
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 1: that bothers me. Cuddles is licking my ankle. He's over here,

528
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:50,440
Speaker 1: Yes he is. I have on lotion and he loves

529
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: this lotion. Patti, you got a good son, Thanks girl,

530
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 1: And all of those kind of things. When you don't

531
00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:02,719
Speaker 1: speak to your garbage men, when you don't speak to people,

532
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 1: when you think you're better than someone else, it's so

533
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:10,240
Speaker 1: many ugly things that we look at and see people

534
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:12,520
Speaker 1: go through that's so unnecessary.

535
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 3: Have you ever had to self correct something about yourself

536
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 3: that you didn't like and you had to change?

537
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 1: I bet I have. Oh, let me see, Yeah that

538
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 1: I speak too much to everybody you like, so anybody's nice. Yeah,

539
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 1: And I get in that trap where I think everybody's

540
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 1: wonderful and I give everybody a second chance. And sometimes

541
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 1: I wish I would not have because some of it

542
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 1: got me in trouble. Yes, but that's who I am.

543
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 1: Mislove a lot.

544
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 3: You give people too many chances.

545
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 2: I do.

546
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 1: Oh what Yeah, Oh, I have about ten people with

547
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 1: me who should have been gone. But it's hard for

548
00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:00,120
Speaker 1: me to say bye. And you've never so correct that,

549
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 1: you've never changed. You just stayed just like, stayed the

550
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 1: same to a fault. But that's my heart and I

551
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 1: just let people stay.

552
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 2: What is that?

553
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 3: It's crazy, That's really what it is. It's like, it's grazy.

554
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 1: Don't you love yourself a little more than that? And

555
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 1: I think I do hurt feelings? Huhn't you're compassionate? Oh,

556
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 1: I'm very like I said to a fault. Yeah, yes,

557
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 1: I'm a girl.

558
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 3: I'm so that girl.

559
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 1: I know you are.

560
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:40,719
Speaker 2: Well, That's why I'm interested in you saying that, because

561
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 2: I'm in a place in my life where I feel

562
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 2: like I'll give you a little history. Right, Like, So,

563
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 2: my father was not in my life, right, I thought

564
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 2: he was dead my whole life drugs. I found out

565
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 2: a couple of years, a few years ago that he

566
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:56,480
Speaker 2: was still alive. But my whole life, I thought this

567
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 2: man's trung. I wasn't mad at my father for not

568
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 2: being in my life. I thought he just had a

569
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 2: drug problem and he disappeared whenever. Then I found out

570
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 2: he was alive, like not that many years ago. And

571
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 2: so but doing that made me have it made me

572
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 2: have compassion for everybody. Oh he's not a bad person,

573
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 2: he just has a problem.

574
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 4: Or she's not she's not mean, she's just she wasn't

575
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 4: treated right. She's going through I just die right, He's

576
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 4: going to give her a break. But I learned that

577
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 4: from being a kid making excuses for a parent. That's

578
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 4: how you learn that, right, that's learned behavior. So then

579
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 4: as my life, as I'm getting older, I'm starting to.

580
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 3: Feel like maybe why, I don't know if I want

581
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 3: to do that so much. I want to be still.

582
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 2: I still want to be like you and still have

583
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 2: my I want to hold onto my compassion, but I

584
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 2: want to learn how to have some better discernment so

585
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 2: that I know that's hard.

586
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 1: It's hard when you're the way you are period that's

587
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 1: you A giver.

588
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 3: A yeah, but is there no way to that.

589
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 2: You're making me scared right now because you're making me

590
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 2: feel like I'm always going to be like this.

591
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 1: You are I am, and that's not going to hurt you.

592
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:12,240
Speaker 1: I mean that's the way you're used to being and

593
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 1: I'm used to being this way, so I know I'm

594
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 1: not going to change at my age. I'm going to

595
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:19,240
Speaker 1: still be that person will give you fifteen chances.

596
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 3: I just do you have no regrets about that?

597
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 1: Yes? I do, but I can't change. So that's it.

598
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:33,200
Speaker 1: I'm that person that can walk over me sometimes because

599
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:37,560
Speaker 1: I'm not going to hurt you. But you are not stupid, really,

600
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 1: that's what it is. But don't call me stupid though.

601
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 1: But I'm a little special.

602
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 3: We're all a little special, yes we are, and we're

603
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 3: all trying to figure it out still.

604
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 1: Like I know I am. But I'm going to be

605
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 1: this girl probably until Yeah.

606
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,480
Speaker 3: Yes, do you beat yourself up? Are you like it?

607
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 3: Or no?

608
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 1: I do?

609
00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 3: Because that does that get easier?

610
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 1: I know, I keep I fought myself yesterday big time

611
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 1: for what I can't tell you. Okay, but you did

612
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 1: something I did something that was just not in my favor,

613
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 1: but I did it. You know, it was just something.

614
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 1: But after I did it, and after today, just thinking

615
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 1: about what I did, I said, well, that's just who

616
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 1: you are. You're never gonna change, so it's given.

617
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:32,400
Speaker 3: It's just like coming to terms with certain things and

618
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 3: who you are and being at peace with it.

619
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 2: And I do.

620
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 1: And then after I think about it, I think that

621
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 1: I'm a little more blessed than they are. So let

622
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: me continue to give and just beat myself up later.

623
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 1: But I can't stop geting.

624
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 3: That's so funny.

625
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 2: You know, today I was on the plane and I

626
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 2: don't usually repost things like this, but you're saying this,

627
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 2: and I posted something today.

628
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 1: What did you say?

629
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 3: It was a meme and I felt it, And what

630
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 3: you're saying is like the same thing. It's it's uh,

631
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 3: what you give, this is for you, then, Patty, maybe

632
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:06,120
Speaker 3: that's why I posted it.

633
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 2: Maybe it was for you.

634
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:11,759
Speaker 3: What we give doesn't always return, but what we give

635
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:16,360
Speaker 3: is always what we are. True, it's just what we

636
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:17,239
Speaker 3: ask what we are.

637
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 1: That's and I know you're the same way. You're not

638
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 1: going to change, and that's not a great thing to change.

639
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:27,360
Speaker 1: I mean, you're the way you are. You've been comfortable

640
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 1: in your life the way you are as a giver. Yeah,

641
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 1: that's who you are. Bills aren't ever going to change.

642
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 3: Don't you think people can change? Though, Patty? Do you

643
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:37,880
Speaker 3: think it's I.

644
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:39,759
Speaker 1: Think people can change, but I can't.

645
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:43,600
Speaker 3: But you can't get that. There's nothing you've changed in

646
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:44,759
Speaker 3: your life. I don't believe that.

647
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, there have been things, but it's hard for

648
00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 1: me to change what I'm feeling for certain people now,

649
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:55,440
Speaker 1: as far as me saying I'm finished, it's just so hard. Yeah. So,

650
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 1: I I think people call me Patty the forgiver.

651
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 3: That's but that's also probably why you're so blesseding why

652
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 3: people love you so much.

653
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 1: I just love loving on people.

654
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 3: I just do people feel that too.

655
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, Zori is that way too.

656
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 3: He likes loving on people too.

657
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:17,839
Speaker 1: Yes, he don't think I know it, but I knowin sight.

658
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 3: Right, here's a masculine version of that.

659
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 1: Really, he's that person, and I.

660
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:23,440
Speaker 3: Love that he is.

661
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:25,279
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take you back real quick and then we'll

662
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 2: wind up towards the MLA. When did you realize that

663
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 2: you were special? Like?

664
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:34,400
Speaker 3: When did you realize?

665
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 2: Man?

666
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:40,360
Speaker 3: I got this? Like, hmmm, this is gonna be something.

667
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:48,240
Speaker 1: Wow. I guess after I recorded Somewhere Over the Rainbow,

668
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 1: I started feeling really great about myself, and the way

669
00:35:55,520 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 1: people responded to it just made me feel wonderful.

670
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 3: Did you not grow up with that feeling?

671
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:05,680
Speaker 2: Because I always hear people who have careers like yours

672
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 2: and gifts like yours that they always had this sense of,

673
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 2: like this purpose that they were going to be.

674
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 3: I don't know.

675
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:14,920
Speaker 1: I never thought that. No, I never thought it would be.

676
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 1: I thought I would be a chef, That's what I

677
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 1: really thought it would be, but not a big, big entertainer.

678
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:27,719
Speaker 1: And the reason I feel that way with Rainbow is

679
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 1: that it was everyone's favorite of my singing my way,

680
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:36,800
Speaker 1: and whenever I would do TV shows or big shows

681
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:41,160
Speaker 1: or like a b T Award or the not Grimmys

682
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:43,879
Speaker 1: because they didn't have me there. But whenever I would

683
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 1: do that song, I would get such an ovation. And

684
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 1: that's the first time I felt like, oh girl, you

685
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:49,960
Speaker 1: got it.

686
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 3: And then how did you receive that?

687
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 1: I needed? I need applause?

688
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 3: Really? Oh yeah, where does that come from?

689
00:36:58,320 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 2: For me?

690
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:04,360
Speaker 1: It just comes from me. I don't know what it is.

691
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:07,880
Speaker 1: You always have validation, you need attention, like, well, I

692
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,239
Speaker 1: was so shy. I probably, like I said, I have

693
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 1: cats and butterflies. I don't nobody do that. I need applause.

694
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,799
Speaker 3: Are you addicted to it? Do you think a little bit? Yeah?

695
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 1: I am. When you put your heart in to anything

696
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 1: you do and you get a great response, that feels

697
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 1: like great, it feels great?

698
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:30,799
Speaker 3: Are there ups and downs in that? Though?

699
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 2: Because we're all chasing something, I'm always trying to figure out.

700
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,400
Speaker 2: Like I always stop myself and ask myself, like what

701
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:38,879
Speaker 2: are you chasing? Why are you working so hard?

702
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 3: Like what do you want? What is the end goal here?

703
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 3: Like what do you beating yourself up?

704
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 2: Because I want to make sure I want to be

705
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 2: intentional about that. So when you have a career like yours,

706
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:49,879
Speaker 2: like are you thinking that way?

707
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 3: Like are you chasing something or are you just in it?

708
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 1: Are you chasing? I am just always going to do it,

709
00:37:57,080 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 1: But I'm not chasing anything. If the standing of comes, fine,

710
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 1: if it doesn't, I'm still in it.

711
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 3: You're still in it.

712
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 1: So if it doesn't come, you're not sad. It's not

713
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 1: like a low no, really, because there been times when

714
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 1: there wasn't a standing ovation didn't bother me because I

715
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 1: knew I'd give it my best, but it's like a

716
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:20,840
Speaker 1: challenge for you, like a well, I don't know, what

717
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 1: do you think?

718
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 2: I think you probably you're a giver and so when

719
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:30,240
Speaker 2: they stand up, you feel like you've served them. True,

720
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 2: this is my guess from my conversation with you. I

721
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 2: feel like that's probably like.

722
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:40,320
Speaker 3: You're a giver. You feed people, you love on people.

723
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 3: I think.

724
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 2: So when you see people standing in ovation, you know

725
00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 2: they're moved, They're moved to a level of you've served

726
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 2: them in some.

727
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:48,239
Speaker 3: Type of way.

728
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:51,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it just makes me feel great to see it.

729
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:54,719
Speaker 1: And if I don't, I still feel great. You do, Yeah,

730
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:57,879
Speaker 1: when do you ever not? Because you always seem a child.

731
00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 1: There have been times when I couldn't sing, when my

732
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 1: voice was just not there, and I got scared. You know,

733
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:10,840
Speaker 1: I said, what is this? It was life? And it

734
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:15,480
Speaker 1: was because I worked so hard and sometimes you work

735
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: your voice away and I had sang my voice away

736
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 1: and it happened for a few months.

737
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 3: Then you got it back.

738
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 1: I got it back, thank god. Yeah. I was petrified.

739
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 3: That must have been terrible. It was bad. Do people

740
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 3: know that?

741
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:30,800
Speaker 2: Is that?

742
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:34,359
Speaker 1: Like a non policing the audience. They knew, they knew, Yes,

743
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:38,280
Speaker 1: they knew. And I was always told you sound great.

744
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:40,719
Speaker 1: I know when I don't sound great.

745
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:43,719
Speaker 3: Huh. That's so interesting because you think somebody has a

746
00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:44,879
Speaker 3: gift and it's just always there.

747
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:49,000
Speaker 1: Oh honey, it leaves when it wants to, and you

748
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:52,720
Speaker 1: can't pray for it back. You can't do anything but say, Lord,

749
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 1: just what happened? And you don't know, And of course

750
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 1: you go to throat doctors and folk coaches and all

751
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:04,320
Speaker 1: that stuff, and they can't bring it back, you know,

752
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:07,000
Speaker 1: so you you're blessed to get it back.

753
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:10,279
Speaker 2: Yes, you think of it as a gift, right, like, oh,

754
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:14,279
Speaker 2: it is a gift, yeah, yes, and you take care

755
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 2: of it.

756
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 3: I'm sure I do.

757
00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:20,239
Speaker 1: I don't smoke, I have occasional wine. I don't drink

758
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 1: hard like. I don't do drugs. I don't do anything

759
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:27,399
Speaker 1: but have this wine and water what I wanted.

760
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 3: I mean, it's pretty good. It's pretty good, very good.

761
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:33,359
Speaker 2: Hey, guys. You ever sign up for a phone plan

762
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 2: thinking wow, what a great price, and then a few

763
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:37,399
Speaker 2: months later it's like, surprise, your.

764
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:38,080
Speaker 3: Bill is higher.

765
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766
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767
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Speaker 2: starting at just twenty five dollars a month. There's no

768
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Speaker 2: price hikes, there's no contract, and this is forever.

769
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Speaker 3: Plus.

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771
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Speaker 2: They invested billions building five G towers across the country.

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775
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776
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777
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778
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Speaker 2: remain active on the Boost Unlimited plan.

779
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Speaker 3: We have a little segment call our Voice Note section.

780
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 3: It's usually a friend or a family, a friend of

781
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 3: the pod who knows you're on. So today I chose

782
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 3: my mother because I was coming in. I was telling

783
00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:36,320
Speaker 3: her I was here. She was so excited I was,

784
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 3: and we were talking about you. So she sent my

785
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:40,840
Speaker 3: voice her voice note today and she actually had a

786
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:41,800
Speaker 3: little question for you.

787
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:43,359
Speaker 1: That's what is from my mother.

788
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 3: Name is Shirley. You'll meet her at some point wonder

789
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 3: my mother has a question, so she could asked Patty.

790
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:55,360
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so what is the question?

791
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 3: If you could ask? All right? So if you get

792
00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:02,759
Speaker 3: asked Patty a question, Patty is eighty two. I just

793
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 3: can't believe it.

794
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 4: I mean, how does she manage to say so joyful

795
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:08,880
Speaker 4: and exuberant.

796
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 2: That way?

797
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:10,359
Speaker 1: Right?

798
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 2: She has been like that since she's been in existence?

799
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 3: Oh no, I can't remember ever seeing her otherwise. That

800
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 3: was her question, how do you stay? Oh, Shirley?

801
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 2: Yeah's her birthday July twenty eight years of Leo. Okay, hey, Shirley,

802
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 2: I said, you're xuberant and joyful too.

803
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:31,479
Speaker 3: She was like from all the time.

804
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 1: Pata did not all the time, but most of the time.

805
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:41,280
Speaker 1: I mean, I am I. I always say to myself

806
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:46,719
Speaker 1: at eighty two, why are you still like you were

807
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 1: when you were forty?

808
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 3: Yeah?

809
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 2: What is that?

810
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:50,320
Speaker 3: You have to give us the key to that? Patty?

811
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:51,880
Speaker 1: You have no clue what it is?

812
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 5: Come on, what do you think it is? I think

813
00:42:56,200 --> 00:43:00,440
Speaker 5: it's God. I know it's God. I mean, all my

814
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:04,800
Speaker 5: sisters died at forty before they turned forty five, and

815
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 5: I'm still standing, and it is because of God. I

816
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:16,319
Speaker 5: don't go to church or anything like that. But it's

817
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 5: in my heart. I go to church in my home

818
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 5: with myself. I don't need a minister.

819
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:24,359
Speaker 3: You pray a lot.

820
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:28,279
Speaker 1: I pray a whole lot. Yes, And let me get

821
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:31,360
Speaker 1: through a show at ninety minute show and my voice

822
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:33,919
Speaker 1: was funny before I went on, but during that show

823
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 1: it came back stuff like that. And I say, after

824
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 1: that show, girl, you are truly blessed. Sounded like a

825
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 1: frog for a minute, and then pull it together. Then

826
00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 1: something good came out. Yeah.

827
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 3: So there's no like routines or rituals. It's just prayer

828
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 3: and it's just what it is.

829
00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 1: Yeah. And I let us know that I'm blessed surely,

830
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 1: and you are two girlfriends.

831
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, lean into that.

832
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:04,759
Speaker 1: She has to.

833
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

834
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 1: I mean, like I said, I'm here.

835
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:11,320
Speaker 3: I do think there's a difference. Everybody says I'm blessed.

836
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:15,759
Speaker 2: There's a difference in saying those words because it's like, oh,

837
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 2: what a blessing, But literally waking up every day and

838
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 2: feeling it and operating in it and acknowledging it is different.

839
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 2: You just carry it different when you live your life

840
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 2: that way versus something you say all the time.

841
00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:33,719
Speaker 3: And I feel like that's probably the.

842
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:36,800
Speaker 1: Reading my life this way. It's like I said, I

843
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 1: have a lot of faults, a lot of down moments.

844
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:44,840
Speaker 1: But when I can get up in the morning, I

845
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:49,719
Speaker 1: always say, he woke me up this morning. And now

846
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:52,800
Speaker 1: with this twenty four hours that I'm blessed with, depending

847
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:55,239
Speaker 1: on what time I wake up, I'm going to do

848
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:57,840
Speaker 1: the best I can with it with the time that

849
00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 1: I have. Like I said, my sisters didn't have as

850
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:05,840
Speaker 1: much time as I've been given. I've been given a

851
00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 1: lot of time.

852
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:08,880
Speaker 3: That must have been hard. How how many sisters did

853
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:09,839
Speaker 3: you have? Three? Three?

854
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 1: Oh wow, that's tough. Yes, and they all died before

855
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:19,240
Speaker 1: they turned forty five. That's outrageous. That's a lot of sadness,

856
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:21,440
Speaker 1: I know, a whole lot. What do you do with

857
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:22,320
Speaker 1: all that sadness?

858
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:24,960
Speaker 3: How have you mentioned that you take it?

859
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 1: And you say, well, I know they wouldn't want me

860
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 1: to feel bad that they're not here, you know, So

861
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 1: I do what they want me to do with My sister,

862
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:36,239
Speaker 1: Jackie was the biggest Patty Labell fighter ever. If you

863
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:38,400
Speaker 1: said you didn't like me, she was gonna beat you up.

864
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 1: And she was this big little thing. There was four

865
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 1: of you in the house growing up. Oh yeah, it

866
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 1: was four ladies. My god. We will wear each other's clothes,

867
00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 1: try to put them back before they got back from

868
00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:52,920
Speaker 1: work or whatever, so they wouldn't know that they've been worn.

869
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:55,960
Speaker 1: I used I was clean the school, honeywear and their clothes,

870
00:45:56,600 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 1: beautiful clothes. And I miss them all like crazy. So

871
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:06,160
Speaker 1: I have their pictures all around and say, gosh, what

872
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 1: would you do if you saw me do this or

873
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:11,440
Speaker 1: do that or dance with the stars. What would you say?

874
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:13,760
Speaker 1: What would they say? They would say, girl, you're crazy?

875
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:17,920
Speaker 1: So you still talk to the dancer. You still talk

876
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:22,560
Speaker 1: to them? Oh yeah, you still feel connected. I am connected.

877
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 3: Yes, so that's probably part of your blessing. They're probably

878
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 3: part of you.

879
00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:29,720
Speaker 1: Oh they are. They are. And my mother and father

880
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:34,760
Speaker 1: who died young, and I, like I said, I'm still standing.

881
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:37,680
Speaker 3: Wow. Yeah, yeah, yeah you say that.

882
00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:40,919
Speaker 2: Now with before I got your sisters, your parents going young,

883
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 2: there had to be a there had to be a period.

884
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:46,719
Speaker 3: Where that was not an easy time for you.

885
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 1: Oh it wasn't at all, but I.

886
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:51,600
Speaker 3: I did.

887
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 1: If you asked me to the video after I buried

888
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:59,320
Speaker 1: my sister Jackie and on my shoulder in the church

889
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 1: was a butterfly and I love butterflies. And that was

890
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:07,320
Speaker 1: her saying you better do that video because it was

891
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 1: something in my business that I was contracted to do

892
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 1: and I said said, no, I'm not going to do it.

893
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:17,239
Speaker 1: So when I did it, ah, I kicked my shoes off.

894
00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 1: I cried. So the tears in that particular video they

895
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 1: were real. Wow after bearing my sister, Yeah wow, it

896
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:29,399
Speaker 1: has been some good stuff I've gotten from them, good

897
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:35,880
Speaker 1: just good stuff, good advice, just good everything. Before they

898
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:39,239
Speaker 1: all passed, they passed it on to me. Well, they

899
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:41,560
Speaker 1: still left you with stuff even after they passed. Yes

900
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 1: they did.

901
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 3: They're still talking to you.

902
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:43,960
Speaker 1: Uh huh they are.

903
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:47,960
Speaker 3: What a blessing? Yes it is. I know you sang it.

904
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 1: Celia's Oh my God. I sang at her memorial. I

905
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 1: sang ive Maria. Her husband called me because he knew

906
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:59,319
Speaker 1: that we were buddies. And when I sing at her

907
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 1: memorial at the cathedral, I think that's where her services were.

908
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: Hell girl, I sang that song. I felt like an

909
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:11,960
Speaker 1: angel just singing for her. At the time.

910
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:13,759
Speaker 2: She didn't know you guys were friends. I know you

911
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 2: had that performance and stuff. I didn't know you were friends.

912
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 2: We were that sounds like a good time.

913
00:48:18,480 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 3: Oh crazy crazy, Oh room together? Are you crazy? Crazy?

914
00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:26,000
Speaker 1: Wonderful time? And so she was going to teach me

915
00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:29,279
Speaker 1: to speak Spanish and I was going to teach her

916
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:31,359
Speaker 1: to speak good English. I said, girl, I'm not even

917
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:35,279
Speaker 1: a good speaker of English, but I'm a teacher, right,

918
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 1: And we had plans together, but she left. Yeah, what

919
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:42,319
Speaker 1: a wonderful woman.

920
00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 3: Yeah. I was a big fan of hers too, were you?

921
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 2: Yeah?

922
00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 1: I loved seeing the two of you together and energy forever.

923
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:51,839
Speaker 1: How old was she when she passed about seventy five?

924
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 3: I thought she was older? Really, I thought so. I

925
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 3: thought she was old.

926
00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 1: You would know.

927
00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought she was older. I could be I

928
00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:01,239
Speaker 2: could totally be wrong. Seventy seven seventy seven.

929
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember that she was some woman.

930
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:06,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, you've had a lot of great experiences with people

931
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:07,960
Speaker 3: that I sure have.

932
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I have so many wonderful people in my

933
00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 1: life that were in my life. Richard Pryor was so,

934
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:20,840
Speaker 1: it was Prince and Michael Jackson and I had a

935
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:24,239
Speaker 1: moment tell me that, because have you seen this movie?

936
00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:26,720
Speaker 1: Isn't what I've seen it twice?

937
00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:28,800
Speaker 3: You did see it twice? I saw it twice already

938
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:30,440
Speaker 3: to oh the best movie.

939
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 2: It's so good because it's so I don't know, it

940
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:35,719
Speaker 2: just takes you to this one period. It makes you

941
00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 2: see him in the child in him in a different way.

942
00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:42,680
Speaker 1: How he went through his life was amazing and he

943
00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:47,280
Speaker 1: he was born with that talent. And I watched it twice.

944
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:48,759
Speaker 1: So he and I.

945
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:49,360
Speaker 2: I was.

946
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:54,839
Speaker 1: Performing overseas somewhere the Prince for some prince or something.

947
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 3: You and Prince was bestie.

948
00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:57,239
Speaker 1: This was enough.

949
00:49:57,440 --> 00:49:59,680
Speaker 3: He had like a crush on you, Loki who Prince?

950
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:00,759
Speaker 3: I know he did.

951
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:11,200
Speaker 1: I'm always joking, but he probably didn't. Yeah, he took

952
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:16,040
Speaker 1: care of miss Patty Patty And it was four prints

953
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:19,320
Speaker 1: of some big old you know, those rich people. And

954
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 1: so Michael was there and he and I sang Lady

955
00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:26,800
Speaker 1: Marmalade together that night, and I sang for him for

956
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:30,759
Speaker 1: the Oh god, it was somebody. I've done a few

957
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:33,120
Speaker 1: things with Michael. That was just beautiful. I can't remember.

958
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:35,479
Speaker 3: The other thing is Lady Marmalade? Is there a video

959
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 3: of that? Is that out? It might be That's something

960
00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:38,000
Speaker 3: I could.

961
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:42,360
Speaker 1: It might be on YouTube. Patty LaBelle and Michael Jackson

962
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:48,320
Speaker 1: sing Lady marmalade and we're worried. We were We're worried

963
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 1: somewhere over over What is that experience?

964
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 2: Like?

965
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:56,000
Speaker 1: It was just wonderful. I said, okay, why not? Why

966
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:59,480
Speaker 1: shouldn't he sing Lady Marmalade with me? And he did

967
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:01,920
Speaker 1: his little day. It was just beautiful.

968
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 3: Yeah.

969
00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:05,359
Speaker 1: I have a picture of him somewhere in this house.

970
00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:09,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to walk around the house and you

971
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 3: see all the PHO.

972
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:19,719
Speaker 1: So many wonderful moments, so many Huh what was it?

973
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:20,440
Speaker 2: Oh?

974
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:27,640
Speaker 1: Yes, that song, No I'll be there or no, no

975
00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 1: Dona they had that one. Oh that song and Darryl Coley.

976
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:41,800
Speaker 3: There's that, but not her and Michael singing Lady Wrmalade.

977
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:44,200
Speaker 3: I feel like there was video of you and Michael

978
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:46,120
Speaker 3: Jackson singing and.

979
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:49,760
Speaker 1: It might be where worry when we perform.

980
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 3: I don't know sut France? Is that sur south of France?

981
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:54,560
Speaker 4: Yes?

982
00:51:55,280 --> 00:52:02,800
Speaker 1: And it was for a prince right right anyway, I

983
00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:05,959
Speaker 1: don't remember. I just know I've had fun in my life.

984
00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 1: I've had so many wonderful moments and I am.

985
00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:13,239
Speaker 3: Just that's a good highlight reel.

986
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:17,839
Speaker 2: You got a good highlight reel of like memorable inauguration

987
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:21,800
Speaker 2: you went to that. Yeah, did you sing for the Obamas? No,

988
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 2: I saw a picture of you. I believe you never sang,

989
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:28,359
Speaker 2: but I did.

990
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:33,359
Speaker 1: Oh, I sure did, right in his face. That's my dog,

991
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 1: yeah right, Yes, it was he Michelle and Michelle's mother

992
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:41,920
Speaker 1: sitting in the front row, and I just gave him

993
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:44,239
Speaker 1: a little speech. I said, I am so honored to

994
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:48,720
Speaker 1: perform for mister Obama. I said, because you got swag.

995
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:54,320
Speaker 1: I've had fun times in my life. I have fun times.

996
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:59,320
Speaker 1: I had great times with Cyndy Lawber, with Pink, just

997
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:02,280
Speaker 1: with a lot of the young girls in the industry,

998
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:08,760
Speaker 1: with Gladys and Dion, with Oprah. Just times.

999
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:09,800
Speaker 3: Good for you.

1000
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 2: All right, let's go to some business a little bit,

1001
00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 2: because I love that you. I love that you're in

1002
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 2: business with your son, with my son. That's challenging for

1003
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:22,640
Speaker 2: sometimes people to work with family.

1004
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:27,040
Speaker 1: Well, he's my manager also in my rock and roll life, Okay,

1005
00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:30,720
Speaker 1: so he's all around me and with Alex and Charles

1006
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 1: and Zuri. And they've always known for a fact that

1007
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:39,800
Speaker 1: I could cook. So back in the day we started

1008
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:44,719
Speaker 1: talking about food, and the sweetest hait of pie was

1009
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:47,960
Speaker 1: the first big things.

1010
00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:50,880
Speaker 3: Yes, we did. I remember when viral. Yes, I just

1011
00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 3: not one in the kitchen by the way.

1012
00:53:52,480 --> 00:53:53,239
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, good.

1013
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:55,160
Speaker 3: It was good, wasn't it delicious?

1014
00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:59,879
Speaker 1: Yes? And so right now we're doing breakfast Oh nice, yep.

1015
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:04,879
Speaker 1: Because my grandkids love waffles and so I made them

1016
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:06,560
Speaker 1: for them one day and they said, what did you

1017
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:09,000
Speaker 1: buy this, like from a grocery store. I said, no, boy,

1018
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:11,400
Speaker 1: I made that right there in the kitchen with my hands.

1019
00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:14,719
Speaker 1: And they said, oh, they're so good. That's what we're doing.

1020
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:19,840
Speaker 1: That with the syrup, the pancakes. O gosh, we're just

1021
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:24,360
Speaker 1: doing a lot of stuff. Yeah, and of course you

1022
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:27,920
Speaker 1: know the other stuff, the macaroni, the greens, the you have.

1023
00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 2: Like it's a full food line now and it's really well. Yeah,

1024
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:32,879
Speaker 2: it's doing really well.

1025
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:33,400
Speaker 1: Thank you.

1026
00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:37,520
Speaker 3: And syrup yeah, she said syrup. Yes.

1027
00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:43,200
Speaker 1: And I just like talking about how great that is,

1028
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:48,360
Speaker 1: you know, and not a surprise because it was quality.

1029
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:51,320
Speaker 1: You know, when you give great food for a decent price,

1030
00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:55,120
Speaker 1: you feel great about your products. So my product was

1031
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 1: something that you will fall in love with if you

1032
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 1: like good food, good products, and I know you do.

1033
00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:04,960
Speaker 1: I can't wait to try the other stuff. Yeah, you

1034
00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:10,200
Speaker 1: have to try the breakfast foods are there. Oh yeah, okay,

1035
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I'm gonna do that and so many stores.

1036
00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:15,040
Speaker 3: And what is your dream for this company?

1037
00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:19,080
Speaker 1: Like, is this a honey? Let's top it. Let's go

1038
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 1: as high as anybody. Let's be the best in this

1039
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:29,160
Speaker 1: industry because we're qualified to be the best. And it's

1040
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:33,759
Speaker 1: no joke. I mean, I am like you don't think small, huh,

1041
00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 1: I don't think small. No, you have to think top.

1042
00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:42,080
Speaker 1: And with the three guys, with Zuri, Charles and Alex,

1043
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:46,480
Speaker 1: it's nothing but top work. They work like well, they

1044
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 1: work hard promoting my mind. Yeah, and I'm I'm happy

1045
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:55,880
Speaker 1: to be with them. I trust all of them and

1046
00:55:56,040 --> 00:55:57,920
Speaker 1: that's a good thing in business. You have to trust

1047
00:55:58,000 --> 00:55:59,680
Speaker 1: who's taking care of your stuff.

1048
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:02,200
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1049
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1050
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Speaker 2: Yourself, what if I could go after what I actually

1052
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Speaker 3: All right, let's go to the bowl. This is our

1063
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:45,960
Speaker 3: irl bowl. Okay, pick a question out the bowl and.

1064
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 1: If money were limitless, what would you No, no, Patty,

1065
00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:58,360
Speaker 1: what would be the first thing you would buy or do?

1066
00:56:59,520 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 3: Who?

1067
00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:02,160
Speaker 1: I would buy a bunch of houses for people who

1068
00:57:02,239 --> 00:57:03,040
Speaker 1: can't afford them.

1069
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:04,919
Speaker 3: Oh what did you still?

1070
00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 1: I would yeah, yeah, because they're hard to buy. Yeah,

1071
00:57:10,640 --> 00:57:14,760
Speaker 1: they're very expensive, So limitless, I would just do stuff

1072
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:19,160
Speaker 1: like that, take cars, buy homes. Yeah, take care of people,

1073
00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:22,880
Speaker 1: all people who are in trouble.

1074
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:26,280
Speaker 3: What are still some of your big goals? What are

1075
00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 3: some of the things you still want to do in

1076
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:28,080
Speaker 3: the world.

1077
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:34,600
Speaker 1: Oh? Not much, really, I have done enough for me.

1078
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:38,680
Speaker 1: I'm not a vacation girl. I don't like to travel.

1079
00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:40,840
Speaker 1: It's no mountain you want to climb or heck no,

1080
00:57:41,280 --> 00:57:45,280
Speaker 1: there's no bune of jumping jumping, and no durn crazy stuff.

1081
00:57:45,400 --> 00:57:45,440
Speaker 3: No.

1082
00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:50,640
Speaker 1: I'm just satisfied with my life the way it is wow.

1083
00:57:51,360 --> 00:57:57,959
Speaker 1: I want to just keep performing and recording and doing

1084
00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:04,560
Speaker 1: what I do, dancing, playing those during cars, playing with

1085
00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:07,280
Speaker 1: the dogs, yes, playing with the dogs. But there is

1086
00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:09,400
Speaker 1: nothing that I think of that I will want to

1087
00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:12,960
Speaker 1: do other than what I'm doing already. What a beautiful

1088
00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 1: thing to be able to say I really mean it.

1089
00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:20,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, but I know. But everybody wants to be

1090
00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:22,920
Speaker 3: at It's peace what you're talking about, right, I'm.

1091
00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:26,840
Speaker 1: Very much at peace. Like I said, when I come home,

1092
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Speaker 1: I don't want to leave to go on vacation or

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Speaker 1: go someplace beautiful or whatever. This is it home. I

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Speaker 1: am happy being home.

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Speaker 3: Good for you.

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Speaker 1: No regrets. Do you have any regrets? Not really, no regrets, No,

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Speaker 1: nothing that's important. No, I'm good.

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Speaker 3: What do you think Your superpower is cooking? Cooking? Really? Really,

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Speaker 3: that's it. That's it.

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Speaker 1: That's my superpower.

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Speaker 3: It's not how you connect with me. Boy is like, no, my.

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Speaker 1: Superpower is cooking.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: And I made food today, I mean yesterday, and my

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00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:14,320
Speaker 1: beauty squad, my glam squad, they tasted the food that

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Speaker 1: I made and they all lost their minds. But they

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00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:19,480
Speaker 1: can only have a little bit because only had a

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Speaker 1: little left.

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Speaker 3: I know, you left because I will think I will.

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Speaker 2: Right. What do you like most about yourself besides your cooking?

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00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:32,720
Speaker 2: What do you I love my voice? I love my

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Speaker 2: singing voice.

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Speaker 3: Yes. What is one thing that you hope never changes

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Speaker 3: about you?

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Speaker 1: My heart? I hope my heart never changes. I hope

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Speaker 1: I continue that. I will continue to give, and I

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00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:53,480
Speaker 1: don't want that to change. Like I said, sometimes it's

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Speaker 1: to a fault, but I don't mind. You've come to

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Speaker 1: terms with that, right, Yes, I have. That's why I

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna work on that. I'm gonna work on that

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Speaker 1: for myself. You will.

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Speaker 3: I'm not at the terms that I'm still trying to

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Speaker 3: fight it.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I need better for it, girl, I

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Speaker 1: got it big. Oh, he has a bad cough to

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Speaker 1: the all right.

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Speaker 3: Baby still cuddles, Okay, No, he.

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Speaker 1: Has his laryn is collapsing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're baby, that's stuff.

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Speaker 1: That's mom.

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Speaker 3: Do you want me to get him? Do you want

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Speaker 3: me to get him? I get him, I get him,

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Speaker 3: I get him.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 3: I want to hold him?

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01:00:50,720 --> 01:00:51,520
Speaker 1: Yeah you want.

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Speaker 3: Can't. We're gonna get this okay, Yeah, we're gonna wrap.

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Speaker 1: Up with yes, cuddles was hanging on the b sen

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Speaker 1: my God, look at cuddles baby. Okay, Yeah, he's not well,

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01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:15,240
Speaker 1: you know, but he's hanging.

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Speaker 3: He is hanging in there. God bless Triple O. G

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Speaker 3: over there. He sure is all right. This is our

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01:01:22,720 --> 01:01:23,280
Speaker 3: final one.

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01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:25,720
Speaker 2: If God would have sent you a text on your

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01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:27,960
Speaker 2: phone right now, you got you still got a flip phone, Patty,

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01:01:28,160 --> 01:01:28,640
Speaker 2: I got that.

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01:01:28,720 --> 01:01:32,920
Speaker 1: Flip purple phone. I don't text.

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Speaker 3: You don't text.

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01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:36,840
Speaker 1: No, I don't have a d M or whatever that

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01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:38,280
Speaker 1: stuff is. I don't do that stuff.

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01:01:38,360 --> 01:01:39,960
Speaker 3: Please, I can't take it. If you had a d M,

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01:01:40,080 --> 01:01:41,080
Speaker 3: that would be nuts. Right.

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01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:45,160
Speaker 1: I'm just a phone girl, a regular phone. You talk landline,

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Speaker 1: you talk to people. Yes, are you a talker on

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01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:47,840
Speaker 1: the phone?

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01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:49,160
Speaker 3: Like, do you like the phone?

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01:01:49,400 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 1: The talk on the phone.

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01:01:50,960 --> 01:01:53,120
Speaker 3: So how do you connected with friends and family?

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01:01:53,600 --> 01:01:55,760
Speaker 1: Because if they call and I don't feel like talking,

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01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:59,720
Speaker 1: I'll say I'm getting massage. I might tell a little

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01:01:59,720 --> 01:02:03,440
Speaker 1: white lie. Yeah, I don't like talking on the phone.

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01:02:03,840 --> 01:02:06,720
Speaker 1: Plus I'm saving my voice most of the time, so

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01:02:06,920 --> 01:02:08,480
Speaker 1: having conversation is not.

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Speaker 3: Not wears you out?

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01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:13,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it takes your voice away.

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01:02:14,240 --> 01:02:14,439
Speaker 3: Yeah.

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01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:16,560
Speaker 1: I can't believe you're going back in the studio. Oh

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01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:19,000
Speaker 1: I have to girls been so long since I've done

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01:02:19,040 --> 01:02:21,800
Speaker 1: an R and B album. Most of it is done,

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01:02:22,280 --> 01:02:23,840
Speaker 1: And what is the gold there? Like, what do you

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01:02:24,080 --> 01:02:26,120
Speaker 1: is it just because it's on your spirit? Is it's

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01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:29,919
Speaker 1: something that should have been done many years ago? I'm

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01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:30,760
Speaker 1: long overdue.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and where do you hope that lands in the world?

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Speaker 1: Like, what do you make It's going to land a

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Speaker 1: triple triple platinum, That's what it's going to land. Girlfriend, Okay, urge?

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Speaker 3: Do you have like plans for it to tour and

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Speaker 3: like it.

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Speaker 1: A whole everything? I never stopped touring, never ever stop touring,

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Speaker 1: So I plan to do all that. Yeah, while you're

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01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:56,200
Speaker 1: taking care of the cuddles and your and doing everything,

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01:02:56,760 --> 01:02:58,919
Speaker 1: you don't stop one thing because you have more things

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01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:01,400
Speaker 1: on your plate. You continue to do it all.

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Speaker 2: Yes. So if God were to text you right now,

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Speaker 2: this is our final question. If God were to text

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01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:10,880
Speaker 2: you right now, even though you don't text, you gotta text,

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01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:14,920
Speaker 2: and it was God right and he texted you, what

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01:03:15,040 --> 01:03:18,640
Speaker 2: would it say. It would say, don't stop what you're doing, baby,

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Speaker 2: keep it up because you're doing it. Well, that's what

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Speaker 2: God would say.

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Speaker 1: Here's to you. If I had a hen I hold

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Speaker 1: my glass the dog you are doing it well, miss

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01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:33,360
Speaker 1: le Bell, I love you so much?

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Speaker 3: Was it very much? I know you never stopped touring?

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Speaker 3: But what about the Queen's Tour?

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Speaker 1: What is Oh my gosh, this is the second half

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01:03:41,960 --> 01:03:45,960
Speaker 1: of the Queen's Tour. We toured about two months ago.

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Speaker 3: Now, who's on the tour? For people?

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Speaker 1: You're the ladies that's on the tour Stephanie Mills, Gladys Knight,

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Speaker 1: Shaka Khan and Patty Lobel And we're doing this weekend

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01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:04,800
Speaker 1: all so this weekend, yes, no in Texas and I

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Speaker 1: need to get to that. I don't remember where I'm going.

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01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:10,960
Speaker 1: I just know I'm going. And this is the last

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01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:15,720
Speaker 1: three shows of the Queen's toy Yes, wow, what is

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01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:18,520
Speaker 1: that experience? It's been wonderful. But you can get a

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01:04:18,640 --> 01:04:21,400
Speaker 1: chance to watch them because we all have like forty

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01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:24,320
Speaker 1: five minutes and the next act goes right on, and

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01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:27,880
Speaker 1: next goes on. So when you go there, you do

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01:04:28,040 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 1: your part and then you leave the building go back

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01:04:30,720 --> 01:04:33,760
Speaker 1: to the hotel. But I sneak sometimes and I'll get

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01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:38,600
Speaker 1: there earlier to see Gladys and Steph and we just

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01:04:38,760 --> 01:04:40,600
Speaker 1: have fun. But we never get a chance to chit

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01:04:40,720 --> 01:04:43,560
Speaker 1: chat because we're all really right on behind each other

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01:04:43,640 --> 01:04:44,120
Speaker 1: and running.

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01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:46,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it might be nice to have that.

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01:04:47,800 --> 01:04:50,680
Speaker 1: It is for four black women to do what we do,

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01:04:51,560 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 1: and we do it like with no egos and no

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01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:59,200
Speaker 1: one's trying to outdo anyone. We just sing, yeah, what

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01:04:59,360 --> 01:04:59,840
Speaker 1: is the key to that?

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Speaker 3: I think you'll all probably really say, because we're.

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Speaker 1: All secure and who we are and there's no competition none.

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01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:11,000
Speaker 1: And I would do it again, and we might do

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01:05:11,160 --> 01:05:13,880
Speaker 1: it again. You need to, yes, I think we will.

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01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:16,520
Speaker 3: You always talk. We always talk about how you poured

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01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:18,240
Speaker 3: into everybody who poured into you.

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01:05:18,960 --> 01:05:24,000
Speaker 1: In a Simon really, yes, she did. She would talk

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Speaker 1: to me all the time about looking for the better.

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01:05:26,760 --> 01:05:29,280
Speaker 1: In other words, if I was drinking wine and they

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01:05:29,280 --> 01:05:31,320
Speaker 1: would bring it to me in a paper cup, she said,

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01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:36,840
Speaker 1: oh no dot, no crystal for you. And since then

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01:05:37,240 --> 01:05:38,640
Speaker 1: there's been no paper cups.

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Speaker 3: Well, if Nina Simon said.

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Speaker 1: And she's serious, she was serious. It was my friend.

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Speaker 3: She was your friend.

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Speaker 1: We talked every two weeks.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: She would be in London or somewhere overseas and she

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01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:56,959
Speaker 1: would just call me and we would just talk. She said,

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01:05:56,960 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 1: you should find a man for me. Yet said, no, Boon, no,

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01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:05,360
Speaker 1: nobody's worthy for real. She's she was that girl, just

1241
01:06:05,680 --> 01:06:08,680
Speaker 1: wonderful moments with her, and she she was like, you

1242
01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:12,320
Speaker 1: need the finer things. Oh yeah, yeah, bluff up. But Nina,

1243
01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:16,160
Speaker 1: she outright just told me no plastic cups, no paper cups.

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01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:19,880
Speaker 1: Crystal diing, I said, okay, and I've been knowing Crystal.

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Speaker 1: This is Crystal. Hey, can't expect nothing else to you,

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01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:28,040
Speaker 1: my dear to you, Miss LaBelle.

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Speaker 3: LaBelle in real life, in real loone.

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01:06:34,960 --> 01:06:38,200
Speaker 1: Hi. This is Katti LaBelle in real life.

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Speaker 3: Hey, guys, thanks for watching.

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