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Speaker 2: Is your girl lex Pe and it's your girl, and

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Speaker 2: you are tuned in to another episode of four Mine

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Speaker 2: Mine speaks thoughts. As you can see, we have a

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Speaker 2: guest today.

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Speaker 1: You love when we have batties on the show.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so look, befo, I'm gonna say your name and

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Speaker 2: introduce you because look, only one of us can read

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Speaker 2: or give you a here, ain't me?

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Speaker 1: How did I say your last name?

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Speaker 2: It's so funny because that's actually my middle name. Everyone

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Speaker 2: always thinks it's my last name. It's my middle name.

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Speaker 2: It's a niece.

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Speaker 1: Okay, gotcha.

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Speaker 2: So let the people know who you are. Girls, it's

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Speaker 2: your girl, Jilly from Age Town. Girls, we are here.

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Speaker 1: We are so excited.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for.

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 3: You are busy girl, Miss busy girl.

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Speaker 2: Don't drop I know you could cook, girl, I can cook,

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Speaker 2: you know. I see you dropped the cook was that

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Speaker 2: it's almost been. It's been a year and a half.

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Speaker 2: I dropped it in November of twenty twenty. It was

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Speaker 2: during quarantine.

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Speaker 3: I dropped it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so that's been. That was literally kind of when

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Speaker 4: my you know, quarantine hit. People weren't doing anything right,

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Speaker 4: So I was like I'm not good with not doing

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Speaker 4: It was funny because long story short, I was cooking

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Speaker 4: all the time during quarantine, so many recipes. My boyfriend

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Speaker 4: was like, you need to like do it. It was

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Speaker 4: a great idea that was I did it. It's a

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Speaker 4: cookbook slash look book, so every single recipe has a

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh lot. So I was making during quarantine with cereal,

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Speaker 2: but to mix together a serial book you hilarious something

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Speaker 2: now saying when you make certain cereals the flavor.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was just making a little romen noodle. Moving

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Speaker 2: They make different variations took up. I came out with

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Speaker 2: hugged me my mom a little bit. I was like that,

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Speaker 2: come on out. Yeah, and I actually dropped June. So

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Speaker 2: it hasn't even been a year since I dropped that.

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Speaker 2: That was June of twenty twenty one.

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Speaker 4: That took me like ten months to actually make and

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Speaker 3: So that was all during Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well I'm not the process of like because you know,

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Speaker 2: I watched The Housewives and stuff. You know that, and

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Speaker 4: Very and then too, it's just you have to realize

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Speaker 4: it's so time consuming. And I'm a person who works

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Speaker 3: This, and I'm like, no, this isn't working. Almost quit

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Speaker 4: It's taking so long, and then you have to do

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Speaker 3: Another thing in my belt. Under my belt, I have.

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Speaker 2: A lot in comment. First of all, you use big

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Speaker 2: words because I said relationship. The fun is only relation.

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Speaker 2: Hell not on a hot dog. But no, I feel

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Speaker 1: I'm posting on my clothes.

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Speaker 2: Look at this, y'all. Yeah, I'm definitely a moving filing. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: they pop out and post and people be like, dang,

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Speaker 4: So it's so like I hate that feeling too because

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Speaker 2: And so like without right, I was gonna laugh as

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Speaker 4: Know, with my hair done, I can't, I physically can't

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Speaker 2: But this is definitely given Grandma. But it's alright, it's

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Speaker 2: But Nay Day Fiance is like people from different countries

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Speaker 2: You know what about I feel like people who like today,

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Speaker 2: They are cheating now. The men too, I.

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Speaker 4: Like not going into it, right, It's not like one

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Speaker 3: Good of it? Like that.

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Speaker 2: But I am a pop hold it out, okay, PLP

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Speaker 3: Down all of this, Okay, I like that every day.

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Speaker 2: I know that. Like it depends on the term, Like

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Speaker 2: Get mine.

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Speaker 3: We can rekindle the flame flame, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Okay. So we're gonna get into the first topic. I

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Speaker 2: Have you ever helped dealt with this, like feeling like

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Speaker 3: Make announcements. They feel like they got to announce something.

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Speaker 2: I think it's almost too almost when you announce your car.

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Speaker 4: I haven't had in a sense of like them trying

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Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, bitch, like you.

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Speaker 2: How you feel me? I mean, gotta be careful of

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Speaker 2: will just say it's really sad. Yeah, it's sad because

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Speaker 2: I'm not in competition with, first off, anyone right alone

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Speaker 2: to be. It's sad how you know people support strangers

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Speaker 2: so weird because it's like why not, like what is it?

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Speaker 2: We are not in the same field at all.

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Speaker 4: Right, you're not doing this, You're not you know, putting

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 3: What is it?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 2: it reposts everything that I do, but or you don't

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Speaker 3: But the least you could do is congratulate me.

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Speaker 2: And I feel like a lot of people just don't

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Speaker 4: So if you, my friend, I put out a perfume,

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Speaker 4: I put on a cookbook, I've dropped single after single

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Speaker 4: after single after single, Right, you haven't purchased not one

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Speaker 2: Like that's like, yeah.

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Speaker 3: That's different.

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Speaker 2: It's like if you haven't purchased not one thing, that's

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Speaker 2: a little skey. But I do feel like you know,

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Speaker 2: like if you're coming out with stuff all the time,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, can you never know how people.

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Speaker 2: Find out this are but like you haven't bought anything

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Speaker 2: I don't like it. And that's how I am with

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Speaker 2: It takes two it's gonna be on your story for

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Speaker 4: If we're being real about a repost, it doesn't in

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Speaker 4: a like it's not gonna change my career. It change

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Speaker 4: it's like if one person saw it, just the fact

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Speaker 3: It really does.

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Speaker 2: And I look at it like this, like I know

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Speaker 2: But I feel like it doesn't matter who I collaborate with,

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Speaker 3: That don't know who we are.

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Speaker 2: So if you repost me, it might be three people

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Speaker 2: that don't know who we are. But those three people

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Speaker 2: could go get their hair down and be like, hey,

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Speaker 2: put on poor minds. This shit is funny, right, So

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Speaker 2: it's like you just never know who might see what.

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Speaker 2: That's my thing about it, Yeah, because I always feel

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Speaker 2: all about to be eating.

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Speaker 3: And see how you just said that. I'm the type

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Speaker 4: Who I don't like hanging around people who aren't, you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm not trying to the the only one, you know.

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Speaker 4: I'm not trying to go to lunch and pay for

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Speaker 4: sexy when everybody's bossing up like I'm a big person

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Speaker 4: on my friend even though a lot of my friends, no,

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Speaker 4: if you're doing you know this, whatever it is, school

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Speaker 2: Just why I don't want.

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Speaker 3: To can't relate.

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Speaker 4: It's like at one point maybe we weren't in the

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Speaker 3: Like you really don't have much in commony. You just

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Speaker 4: You just don't get It creates the jealousy sometimes it's

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Speaker 4: I want to talk on that because I feel like

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Speaker 4: like you're not doing nothing. It's right, just repost your people. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: like that ain't come on. That's also very tit for tat.

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Speaker 2: That's how you know, I know it's weird, but I

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Speaker 2: especially for me because I'm a person I don't do nothing.

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Speaker 2: I show everybody love because one thing, I don't care

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Speaker 2: if a thousand girls start a podcast tomorrow, tomorrow, I'm

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Speaker 3: Because you know what people have. It's twenty four hours

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Speaker 2: If they can listen to poor minds, they have time

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Speaker 2: to listen to this podcasting.

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Speaker 3: You ain't stopping nothing over here.

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Speaker 2: So it's so weird when people just don't feel the

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Speaker 2: need to spread love or spread congratulations or clap for

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Speaker 2: other people. Because when you don't clap for other people,

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Speaker 2: it's never gonna be your turn, it's never gonna be

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Speaker 2: or if it is, it ain't gonna last. You're not

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Speaker 2: gonnaevity never. When you sit up there and you're so

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Speaker 2: it's not necessarily because the karma and how though universe works,

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Speaker 2: but the reason that's it's never gonna happen for you

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Speaker 3: You're not hustling. You can't get it there.

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Speaker 2: Because you're so worried about I gotta do this because

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Speaker 2: I gotta show up lex Andre, what the I'm doing.

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Speaker 2: That's what I was about, the saying everything that you

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Speaker 2: are doing, you're doing it just so you can try

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Speaker 2: to prove a point for other people. You're not really

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Speaker 2: You're doing it so you can try to shoot on

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00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:38,679
Speaker 2: people and that shines through and it comes through, so

442
00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:41,800
Speaker 2: nothing will ever come into fruition for you because you

443
00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:42,760
Speaker 2: worried about what the.

444
00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:43,600
Speaker 3: Next person doing.

445
00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:46,760
Speaker 2: So yes, that's one of my signs to feel like,

446
00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:50,399
Speaker 2: you know, somebody is like low key in competition jels

447
00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:52,520
Speaker 2: with you. But another thing is it's like when you

448
00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:55,560
Speaker 2: kind of tell somebody some news that you're excited about

449
00:20:55,840 --> 00:21:00,000
Speaker 2: and they kind of like, dona, yeah, Like even if

450
00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,879
Speaker 2: if it's something little like I think I'm about to

451
00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:04,840
Speaker 2: get these new shoes. I just feel like I want

452
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:07,520
Speaker 2: to do something nice for myself and they're like, I

453
00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:09,600
Speaker 2: mean they all right, they just I mean, why are

454
00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:12,000
Speaker 2: you buying that you don't even get that ship. It's like,

455
00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:18,720
Speaker 2: damn bitch, yeah, you know, why can't buy something nice?

456
00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:21,200
Speaker 2: Why can't you something or just any like kind of announcement,

457
00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:23,359
Speaker 2: like or if they be like, oh, we stole out

458
00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:25,520
Speaker 2: a live show, but it was only it was only

459
00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:29,640
Speaker 2: five people. It's like you get by one hundred people

460
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:33,760
Speaker 2: in the room, hundred people saying what you So whenever

461
00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:36,880
Speaker 2: people aren't doing something, they really don't understand how hard

462
00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:37,520
Speaker 2: it is to.

463
00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:40,120
Speaker 3: Really create like a real loyal fan base.

464
00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:42,720
Speaker 2: So it's crazy to me when people try to downplay

465
00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:45,120
Speaker 2: shit like that, because it's like, like you said, Mitch,

466
00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:47,480
Speaker 2: let me see you get five hundred people in the

467
00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:49,760
Speaker 2: room to come see you people and even and a

468
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 2: lot of the problem is people think that social media

469
00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:59,000
Speaker 2: followers will translate that's God, and then you're, oh, we

470
00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 2: know because in the beginning, when we first started this show,

471
00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:05,080
Speaker 2: I already I think I had like two hundred thousand followers,

472
00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:07,800
Speaker 2: and like, for I don't know, a good eight months,

473
00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:10,880
Speaker 2: probably like five hundred other people, maybe a thousand people.

474
00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:13,160
Speaker 3: Literally we were posting clins and people.

475
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:17,280
Speaker 2: Was like, shut up, show up, that's all we followed me.

476
00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:23,440
Speaker 2: I did not follow you for this saying the big

477
00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:26,720
Speaker 2: words and ship. They're like, bitch, we don't. We didn't

478
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:27,600
Speaker 2: even know you could talk.

479
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:36,159
Speaker 3: No, you know already know exactly what that is.

480
00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,000
Speaker 4: And it's so crazy because a lot of people, again

481
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:40,960
Speaker 4: who aren't doing things.

482
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:43,080
Speaker 3: Outside of social media, don't realize that translation.

483
00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:47,959
Speaker 4: Like, for me, music, I just literally so I've been

484
00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 4: always put out music, but my video that I dropped

485
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:52,399
Speaker 4: like five days ago just hit a million.

486
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 2: This is my fastest music video that hit a million.

487
00:22:57,880 --> 00:22:58,400
Speaker 1: Amazing.

488
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:03,240
Speaker 4: I also put out a song which I personally am

489
00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:05,640
Speaker 4: obsessed with that I feel like, was you know, way

490
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 4: better like eight months ago, and it hasn't even like

491
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:09,919
Speaker 4: come close to them, right.

492
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:11,880
Speaker 2: But it's so crazy because like people don't.

493
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:13,879
Speaker 4: Then again they're like, oh, well it's supposed to hit

494
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,159
Speaker 4: a million, you have almost three million phones now.

495
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:19,280
Speaker 2: But I'm like, hell no. People on Instagram they fell

496
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:22,000
Speaker 2: in love with the pictures. Beautiful.

497
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:24,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, so whenever I'm doing music, they're.

498
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 2: Like, oh, she does music right, so.

499
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:34,160
Speaker 4: Right, that translation is like it's hard, it is. It's

500
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 4: really hard when you get that dedicated fan base. Man,

501
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:41,119
Speaker 4: we worshiped that a lot more like we really appreciated because.

502
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:43,200
Speaker 2: We get it, they don't get it. That's like crazy

503
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:46,200
Speaker 2: when people try to downplay your accomplishments because again, like

504
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:48,920
Speaker 2: which you go do the same thing most people, they

505
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:50,879
Speaker 2: have so much to say. It's so crazy to me

506
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:53,440
Speaker 2: because it's like you and a lot of those people

507
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 2: they want to do similar things, they just don't believe

508
00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:59,159
Speaker 2: in their still and they're afraid to do it, and

509
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,920
Speaker 2: so then they try to project their insecurity like you

510
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:03,600
Speaker 2: would make you feel like, oh, well that's not a

511
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 2: big deal and anybody could do that.

512
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 3: Okay, well why you ain't need it right exactly?

513
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:12,639
Speaker 2: And I hate when people because I hate when people

514
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:14,400
Speaker 2: think that like, oh, I have a lot of followers,

515
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,359
Speaker 2: it's gonna it's gonna work out. I'm like, girl that

516
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 2: it's not because for people to actually go to YouTube

517
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:22,240
Speaker 2: and stay on your video for a listen to what

518
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:23,680
Speaker 2: you have to say, it's.

519
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:26,199
Speaker 3: Hard and then continue to do and continue to do

520
00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:30,560
Speaker 3: it after week week and month after month after month.

521
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:32,440
Speaker 3: And I hate it's in there.

522
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 2: But I honestly feel like women when we look a

523
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:37,720
Speaker 2: certain way, especially being in this industry, they feel like

524
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:39,399
Speaker 2: you're just supposed to be a looker.

525
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:42,360
Speaker 4: We look at you and I try my biggest thing

526
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,639
Speaker 4: is like not reading comments like I've learned, like you know,

527
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 4: the people, yeah, you know, like I've learned, you know,

528
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 4: after I see those comments and once I start scrolling

529
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 4: and the people I don't know.

530
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:53,880
Speaker 3: To get off working on that.

531
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 4: But the other day I read a comment and they

532
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:57,439
Speaker 4: were like, why don't you just go sit down and

533
00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 4: be a beautiful as housewife.

534
00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, beauseu's how what I want to know? If

535
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 2: I could, I could. You don't get that option. You

536
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 2: don't have that option.

537
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:07,639
Speaker 4: But the thing is for me, I don't want to

538
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 4: thank you, that's the thing. And but the thing is

539
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:12,639
Speaker 4: I don't want to sit on my ass and I

540
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:16,159
Speaker 4: don't Nothing is sexier than a woman with hustle. Nothing

541
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 4: is sexier, you know, even up and work.

542
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:20,879
Speaker 2: I don't know.

543
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 4: I feel like, to me, the only people who was mad.

544
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:28,880
Speaker 2: But go ahead, my bad, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead,

545
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 2: the only.

546
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 4: People who were really mad about let me stop before

547
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 4: I d like, it's so cool. Well, the thing is obviously, yes,

548
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:44,359
Speaker 4: like they came from you know, more than the average person.

549
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:46,399
Speaker 4: But the thing is what people fail to realize is

550
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 4: there's a lot of people who come from rich homes

551
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,919
Speaker 4: who are now, don't do ship who are sit on

552
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 4: their ass, who have.

553
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 2: Like nothing for them. This woman became a billionaire. She

554
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:55,920
Speaker 2: didn't do that by.

555
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 3: Sitting on her ass.

556
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 4: And I realize she's also the face of every single

557
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:00,680
Speaker 4: one of her brands. You can't you that by sending

558
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 4: your bed, sucking up every day getting dressed.

559
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 3: You know how, like in front of the camera, the

560
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 3: she just drives.

561
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 2: Who else could bring up all of these supermodles dairy

562
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 2: supermodel and get them to do a fault?

563
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 3: Friend, you speaking exist, thank you?

564
00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:21,879
Speaker 4: But I'm being serious because well that's one thing that

565
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 4: I always say to I hate the way people try

566
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 4: to downplay him Kardashian in the Kardashian family, because I

567
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 4: do feel like like they literally, yeah, she's a boss,

568
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:33,119
Speaker 4: and Chris Jenner is.

569
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 2: To shout out to you, you trying to manage you

570
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:42,720
Speaker 2: like only you got us, but if you want to extend, yeah,

571
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:44,679
Speaker 2: they do behave. But I do commend you for that because,

572
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 2: like I mean, I don't I'm not generalizing anybody, but

573
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 2: like by the way you look, you know, and the

574
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 2: people that you're connected with, most people will just assume

575
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 2: that you just want to be a battye that you

576
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:56,199
Speaker 2: know it's court thought or you know, just go shopping

577
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 2: all day, but you about staff Beach. But I feel like.

578
00:26:59,280 --> 00:26:59,879
Speaker 3: I love that.

579
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 2: But that's the space that we're getting into too, because

580
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 2: let me tell y'all something, I don't care who you date,

581
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:05,879
Speaker 2: who you fucking whatever, these niggas is not coming to

582
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 2: save you. Go work sometimes, That's what I'm saying, get

583
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 2: your check, But it's nothing better than like, I'm not

584
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,959
Speaker 2: gonna lie. We all love gifts, we all love nice things,

585
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 2: but it's nothing better than doing it for yourself.

586
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:21,120
Speaker 3: It's nothing better than like.

587
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 2: How my nigga treat me, I want to treat him right,

588
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:26,640
Speaker 2: You my boo too.

589
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:27,440
Speaker 3: You feel what I'm saying.

590
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 4: I don't want to run your card on getting you

591
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 4: a gift right on my own. And you know what too,

592
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 4: And what I think is so sexy too, is when

593
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 4: my man comes home and he's like, yo, my people

594
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 4: was like they saw your new video that ship.

595
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:51,439
Speaker 2: Coach was like period, I'm not gonna I've had that

596
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 2: moment before, Like when you be out with your dude

597
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 2: and somebody walk up to you.

598
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 4: Like and let me tell you too, my man is

599
00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 4: just as big, especially in the sports, right, Like whenever

600
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:04,160
Speaker 4: people come up to me, like when we're going somewhere

601
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 4: and they're like, oh my god, Jilli, yeah, then no,

602
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 4: but he be sitting there like, yeah, yeah, it's a

603
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 4: beautiful Yeah, because we're coming into that space now too,

604
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 4: especially here in Atlanta and when we go home to Houston,

605
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 4: where like we literally always go places and people be like,

606
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 4: oh my god, I love my minds, And when I

607
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:27,679
Speaker 4: be with my other friends that be like I cannot

608
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:34,160
Speaker 4: believe this. Yeah, but I'm glad that we're talking about

609
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 4: like your man and like being because like I know,

610
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:39,720
Speaker 4: like the guys that we deal with too, Like the

611
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:41,360
Speaker 4: guy I deal with, like people know him.

612
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. So it's like I'm used

613
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 2: to people walking up to him and saying stuff. But

614
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 2: now when we go places, you know, people.

615
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:46,320
Speaker 3: Say stuff to me.

616
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 2: So I do want to talk about like dealing in

617
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 2: a relationship with somebody who's making money and you're making money,

618
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 2: because I feel like the goals of men.

619
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 3: And women do be different.

620
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, So like I feel like when a man earns money,

621
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 2: like I know, you these comings to like dre get

622
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 2: someone like I do too. They be like man, when

623
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 2: I get some money, I'm coming for you. I'm gonna

624
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 2: get you. I'm gonna get you. So I feel like

625
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 2: when men earn money, they goals be to like either

626
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna treat my woman right, I'm gonna give her

627
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 2: the world. I'm gonna I'm gonna go get this type

628
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 2: of girl. And like when I get some money, I'm

629
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,479
Speaker 2: gonna get Jilly, Like that's the type of girl. But

630
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 2: when a woman like our goals to come up, like

631
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 2: we want to be independent, like we want to take

632
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 2: care of ourselves, because that's what we were just talking about,

633
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 2: Like it's so good to take care of ourselves.

634
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 3: So why do y'all think that is? Like why do

635
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 3: y'all think like a man's.

636
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 2: Goal is to get a woman when he gets money,

637
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 2: and a woman's goal is to be independent.

638
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 4: See that's hard because see I'm like, I'm a I'm

639
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 4: a love.

640
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 2: I want my person. I want to get rich together.

641
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 2: I don't want you know, together, But I think so

642
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 2: I think it just also is another stereotype.

643
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're just men always being the bread winners, right

644
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 4: coming into a whole time where women are winning right now,

645
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 4: like we really winning. I don't know get more money

646
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 4: than you feel what I'm saying. But like I think

647
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 4: I'm a little bit on the opposite because like my

648
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 4: thing is like spending all on.

649
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 2: Me, but I'm gonna still make mine to Okay, So

650
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 2: that's get in.

651
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna sit at home and then you know,

652
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 4: while you come home from practice, I'm in the same position.

653
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 3: Right, you know what I'm saying.

654
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 2: So you're like you say, like what drives you is

655
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:23,479
Speaker 2: just to like do what you want to do. Not

656
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 2: only that, but you want to like be able to

657
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 2: provide for your family as well. But personally, what drives

658
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:31,480
Speaker 2: me is the fact that when I was little and

659
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 2: you know, started to realize like visions of my future

660
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 2: at like three four years old, of like what I

661
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:37,800
Speaker 2: wanted to be, it had nothing to do with me.

662
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 4: So like that's my thing. That's why I'm hustling as

663
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 4: hard as I'm hustling. It has nothing to do with financial.

664
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 4: It has nothing to do with like, oh I need

665
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 4: to do this because I want to be No like money, honestly, like,

666
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 4: by the grace of God, is the last thing I'm

667
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 4: concerned about.

668
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 2: I'm trying to fulfill the vision that.

669
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 4: The little three four year old version that we had

670
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 4: and so, like I said that, I wasn't worried by

671
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:00,040
Speaker 4: no man at four years old, you know all, I

672
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 4: didn't even think about it. The stage was my second home, yo,

673
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 4: ass I was.

674
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 2: I was in like nigga. Okay, well I can think

675
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 2: about I'm sorry, I.

676
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 3: Saw that vision earlier. Okay, No, I'm a for real

677
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,080
Speaker 3: real talk that.

678
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 4: Like you know, I'm still that younger me who always

679
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 4: had a vision like music was my only passion.

680
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 2: Social media for me took off. So when I moved

681
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 2: to so backstory real quick. I moved to LA in

682
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 2: twenty fourteen only for music.

683
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 4: This was before social media or any of that, right,

684
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 4: And so when I moved there, social media for me

685
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 4: popped off. I was one of that first group of influences,

686
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 4: like the ones who were straight off vine.

687
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. I literally conquered Instagram right off the rest.

688
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 4: And so with that being said, a whole bunch of

689
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:50,280
Speaker 4: people started following me but didn't know I did music.

690
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 4: And so then I'm like, I started doing music again.

691
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 4: People like, oh, you just started doing music. It's like wait, no,

692
00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 4: I've been doing this, You're like crazy enough. I watched

693
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 4: one of my covers liter on SoundCloud in on YouTube,

694
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 4: it says nine years ago, nine years ago, Like I

695
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 4: literally have been doing this so long story shortly sum

696
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 4: that up. It's crazy that people, you know don't see

697
00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 4: that you've really been doing this. So for me personally,

698
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 4: I'm like, there's no reason that I had this same

699
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 4: vision since I was like three, four or five years old.

700
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 3: I need to make a shit really right. So now

701
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 3: you know, I said, fuck all the social media ship.

702
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 4: I'm getting back to the reason why I moved to

703
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 4: l twenty fourteen. I have that same hunger and drive

704
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 4: again and I'm just grateful that.

705
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 3: It came back.

706
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:31,920
Speaker 2: So how is that you still live in La.

707
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 3: I have a place in La, Okay, So how is

708
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 3: La like being like, you know, a black woman in La?

709
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 2: We yea? I brought the poet. I want to talk.

710
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean because I think La is cool.

711
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 2: How I go to La.

712
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 4: I have a great time, but then I feel like

713
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,479
Speaker 4: I needed in. Yeah, but I always need to come

714
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 4: back to the South. That's like, you know, Friday, I

715
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 4: know you.

716
00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 2: Want a little more because were about to get into it.

717
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 2: I do want to talk about lacause I still think

718
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 2: that I wanted to, like move there. But now I

719
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 2: feel like I would have a place there, but I

720
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 2: could never like pause real quick, do you remember when this

721
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 2: used to be our intro? Yes?

722
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 3: Yes, So a little bad story about our show.

723
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 2: We started off recording in my apartment, so I had

724
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 2: a two bedroom apartment. In the second bedroom, we used

725
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 2: to record and we used to do everything ourselves, like

726
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 2: we had no team. We just used to have my

727
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 2: little getto little sony camera, my math book, and then

728
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 2: we had one little mic what was it like a

729
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 2: little blue yeady mic.

730
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 3: It was about one mind, one BC.

731
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 2: That our friend that lived in my building brought us,

732
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 2: and like we just did everything manually. So this was

733
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 2: like don't you think it would be so cute if

734
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:48,960
Speaker 2: the intro was like us pouring wine? So literally she

735
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 2: sat in front of the camera and she had some

736
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 2: and then and then I had the other. I was like.

737
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 3: Intro for a long ass. It's just so crazy looking

738
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 3: back on this.

739
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 2: She's but anyway, but yes, I do want to talk

740
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:09,919
Speaker 2: about how it is to like navigate in LA because

741
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 2: LA is a different world.

742
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:12,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, La is completely different.

743
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 4: I'm I feel like I'm gonna say, by the grace

744
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:16,399
Speaker 4: of God, a lot on this show, but it's for real,

745
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 4: by the grace of God, I didn't fall in the

746
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 4: swoop that people feel in, you know. I don't know

747
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 4: if it's because I'm thankful for both of my parents.

748
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:25,439
Speaker 3: I come from a two parent home.

749
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:29,200
Speaker 4: My parents have been married for since Jesus was a baby.

750
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 3: Literally, But a.

751
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 4: Lot of people you know who also I personally know

752
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 4: who went to LA it just wasn't for them. I

753
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:39,080
Speaker 4: moved at twenty four in twenty fourteen. I was eighteen

754
00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 4: years old, right out of high school, fresh but I.

755
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 2: Don't like young.

756
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:47,319
Speaker 1: I was.

757
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:48,439
Speaker 2: I was on the pole.

758
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 3: Twenty fourth was when I graduated from college.

759
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:54,839
Speaker 2: I was grown too.

760
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:59,839
Speaker 3: I was like, what, I'm a ninety six baby, Yeah,

761
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:01,800
Speaker 3: cook and grilled.

762
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 2: Cheese and making serious about it. You was really ready

763
00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:11,839
Speaker 2: for coins? Yes, you are righty Okay? So you moved

764
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 2: there in twenty fourteen. You was eighteen.

765
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 4: In twenty fourteen, I was eighteen, and I didn't know

766
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,319
Speaker 4: a single soul y'all. So both of my parents went

767
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:25,279
Speaker 4: to college. So I was the first one in my.

768
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:30,919
Speaker 2: Family to completely you know, not wow and but crazy enough.

769
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 4: Both of my parents said they saw it in me.

770
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:35,879
Speaker 4: They were just like you know my dad. I'll never

771
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 4: forget it was him who said college will always be there,

772
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 4: your youth won't.

773
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 1: Fact.

774
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,240
Speaker 2: I loved that because Annie was not having it. Girl,

775
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 2: my mom ain't nobody about living in that corner, Joe.

776
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 2: I'd be like, mom, knock not not. Yeah, I'm not

777
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 2: She was not. She was not feeling. There was laughing

778
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 2: in it either. That's a beautiful Do you have siblings

779
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 2: you have to one brother? Yeah, And your dad was

780
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 2: like supported again, both of them really supportive. And it's

781
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:09,800
Speaker 2: just that one line that I'll never forget that my

782
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,920
Speaker 2: dad said to really make it all make sense, college

783
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 2: will be there, your youth want, and so you know,

784
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:16,400
Speaker 2: to fast forward.

785
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 3: I moved to l A.

786
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 4: I didn't know a single soul, y'all, like literally didn't

787
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:22,760
Speaker 4: know anybody.

788
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 3: Randomly started mixing, mingling.

789
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:27,239
Speaker 4: I was going to a lot of events and met

790
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 4: some producers who I start working with.

791
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:32,880
Speaker 3: Then I met my whole like team, the Vine people.

792
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 4: Randomly, like I think I was like going to the

793
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:37,840
Speaker 4: grocery store because when I first moved to LA I

794
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 4: moved to North Hollywood. Would never live there again. I'm

795
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 4: in Glendale now, like somewhere way better.

796
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:47,400
Speaker 2: But you know when you don't know, it's like where

797
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:50,400
Speaker 2: everybody first goes, but I didn't. I know nothing about La,

798
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 2: so you know, you know how it's almost like, I mean,

799
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 2: I don't know much, just like that part everyone goes

800
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 2: it wasn't better. Yeah, yes, there we go girl like

801
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 2: the girls walking distance, but I ain't walking. I'm driving

802
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:14,879
Speaker 2: because little Jerry ain't about to come over here at all. No,

803
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:16,279
Speaker 2: but so move there.

804
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:18,879
Speaker 4: Don't know a single song met that group, who I'm

805
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 4: so thankful for, was an amazing group of people. Started

806
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 4: going crazy on social media with them. Fast forward, end up.

807
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,879
Speaker 3: What was the question? Look, I'm like, wait, why why

808
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 3: am I talking about?

809
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:39,320
Speaker 2: Why am we're doing the same? Why am I asking?

810
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 2: Like how you got emerged into the LA scene? Sorry

811
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 2: sorry y'all, but how I got a mention?

812
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:56,640
Speaker 4: So then fast forward kind of finding my team, finding

813
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 4: my maneuver, finding you know, at the end of the day,

814
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 4: my parents like, let me.

815
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 2: Move here, so I'm not to make sure it happened.

816
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:05,359
Speaker 4: That was my mentality, Like at first when I first

817
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 4: moved there, my parents are paying my rent.

818
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:11,360
Speaker 3: Eighteen years old, I don't have no money. My parents

819
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 3: are paying my rent.

820
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 4: But at the same time, you know, when other people

821
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:16,239
Speaker 4: are paying your rent, your parents, like you got a

822
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:17,840
Speaker 4: time limit, you know, they can't.

823
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 2: Keep going, Like yeah, about a year exactly.

824
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 4: And girl, by the grace of God, I said, I

825
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:25,279
Speaker 4: don't even know how many times I'm saying that by now,

826
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 4: but crazy enough, after a year, I remember I was

827
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 4: ready to move because I had a one bedroom apartment

828
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 4: when I first moved there, and I remember I was like,

829
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 4: I want to move.

830
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 1: I was.

831
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 4: I called my mom and I was like, I want

832
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 4: to move. I found this place in Glendale. It's beautiful,

833
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 4: to bedrooms, it's huge, blah blah blah.

834
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:45,799
Speaker 2: She was like, I said, oh no, I got it.

835
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:50,760
Speaker 4: She was like that whole year stacked up, made away

836
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 4: literally at eighteen, so I was nineteen. Since nineteen, I've

837
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:55,760
Speaker 4: been completely financially independent.

838
00:38:57,520 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 3: Because let's talk about.

839
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 2: That, because I know a lot of people probably say

840
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 2: that to you, like, oh, she has rich parents, she

841
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:10,560
Speaker 2: has this and that because people love and it's like,

842
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:12,480
Speaker 2: so you mad because.

843
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 3: Because you didn't have the same.

844
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:16,640
Speaker 2: But the thing is, let me be very very very clear.

845
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:19,280
Speaker 4: The thing is growing up, I got that all the time,

846
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 4: but I don't think people realize that just made me

847
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 4: want to work that much harder because you.

848
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 2: Change, and if anything, I wanted to be better. And

849
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:33,360
Speaker 2: that's also what your parents did. I think that people

850
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:36,640
Speaker 2: be feeling to realize that too, Like your parents accomplishments

851
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:38,000
Speaker 2: are not your accomplishments.

852
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 3: Anybody's accomplisments or not accomplishments, you know.

853
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:41,879
Speaker 2: What I mean.

854
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 3: You want to leave your own.

855
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 2: You want to leave your own legacy. You want to

856
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:48,880
Speaker 2: make your own name for yourself. I don't want to

857
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,880
Speaker 2: be known because my parents are these people, you know

858
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 2: what I mean? Even what women do these days, they

859
00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:58,279
Speaker 2: attach themselves to a man, because I feel like it

860
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 2: was a point in time where like me Andrea were

861
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:03,239
Speaker 2: like dealing with men that were like taking care of

862
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 2: us and doing things, but we were taking that money

863
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 2: and paying off our cards and paying off our loans.

864
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 2: So whenever we finally got you know, y'all know, I'm

865
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 2: gonna say this, a debt free. I was able to invest.

866
00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 2: I didn't go to Gucci, I didn't go to Louis.

867
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 2: I saw investing in my business.

868
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:23,879
Speaker 6: Y'all had like a little horn to haunt, like, yeah,

869
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:33,720
Speaker 6: oh my god, I cannot capitalize on that because people

870
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 6: be like and you know, what girl, I feel like I'm.

871
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:39,760
Speaker 3: In love with this show.

872
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 4: No, I'm so serious, Like off camera, I'm like, I'm

873
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:47,239
Speaker 4: glad we're having this girl. Another topic I know that's

874
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 4: probably not written down, but to capitalize.

875
00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:51,719
Speaker 3: You know what people love to call.

876
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 4: Women who date successful men but who are also successful.

877
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 4: They love that word go diggers? And how am I

878
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:00,759
Speaker 4: let me be real? So let me let me kind

879
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:05,840
Speaker 4: of lay out a little. So my parents came from stuff, thankful,

880
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:09,480
Speaker 4: I made away from myself great. Then you know, I

881
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 4: date somebody who is at the same evolution of life

882
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 4: as I getting to their ship and very very successful.

883
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:21,319
Speaker 4: So I'm a gold digger because and no shade on

884
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:24,319
Speaker 4: Craig at seven eleven, but because I won't sit down

885
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:27,240
Speaker 4: and date Craig at seven eleven, like, tell me why

886
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 4: like that? So I have to beat do that in

887
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:31,959
Speaker 4: order to not be called a gold digger. Right mind,

888
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 4: you been with the same person for three.

889
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:37,839
Speaker 5: And a half years period, so even though it's been

890
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 5: time history still But let.

891
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 2: Say, y'all, everybody always wants to talk about love. People

892
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:46,919
Speaker 2: can really be in love, like y'all are in love,

893
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:49,480
Speaker 2: and it has nothing to do with the money. It's

894
00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:52,839
Speaker 2: just icing on the cake. Yes, everybody wants to talk

895
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:54,360
Speaker 2: about love. Why would y'all act.

896
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:56,839
Speaker 3: Like men with money or women with money or matter

897
00:41:57,280 --> 00:41:57,879
Speaker 3: to serve love?

898
00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 4: You just don't like like you sit back and not

899
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 4: be with anything.

900
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 2: And let me say this too, because that's the reason

901
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 2: that that she gets on my nerves when people try

902
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:09,399
Speaker 2: to pull out the gold digger card because you want

903
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 2: to date people who are affluent to and who are

904
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 2: doing things and making money to. Nothing is wrong with

905
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 2: that if you have your own ship going on. But

906
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, let's keep it one honey.

907
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:20,719
Speaker 2: If I didn't look the way that I love with.

908
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:23,000
Speaker 3: This nigga want to fun with me, let's.

909
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 2: Talk about And you know what today somebody said that

910
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:46,439
Speaker 2: is it's like, yo, I read that ship every day

911
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 2: and it's like, yo, do you realize?

912
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:52,840
Speaker 4: And even before that, people be like, I mean, I

913
00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 4: don't know, like but the all people be like, oh,

914
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:55,400
Speaker 4: she'd be with a.

915
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 2: Person person and it's like, no, I've been with two

916
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 2: public relationships. Just probably it's just exactly I'm doing this.

917
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 3: And the ain't not paying attention to you.

918
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 2: Only difference is your need is broke and you're not

919
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 2: in the spotlight and the podcast because they gonna cancel

920
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 2: and song you know that your life publicly and they

921
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:24,799
Speaker 2: doing the same.

922
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:28,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, and honestly really not that y'all doing a thousand

923
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 4: times worse worse, very clear. But it's so crazy because

924
00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:34,799
Speaker 4: it's just like, so if I'm successful and I want

925
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:38,879
Speaker 4: to date somebody who's like minded, said, why the conversations

926
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 4: are different and the understanding of my life and your

927
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:43,320
Speaker 4: life is completely different.

928
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:47,919
Speaker 2: So why does that now make me that term. Let's

929
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 2: be very clear.

930
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 3: Let's be very clear.

931
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:51,760
Speaker 2: I come from parents who.

932
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:54,760
Speaker 4: Made a beautiful life before having my brother and before

933
00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:55,359
Speaker 4: having us.

934
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 3: So now I'm.

935
00:43:56,000 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 2: Supposed to go and do under you got me, You've

936
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:04,840
Speaker 2: got me. I'm sorry. I've been wanting to say that

937
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,280
Speaker 2: for so long because like I'm a person I don't

938
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 2: say it. Don't here girls.

939
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:11,920
Speaker 3: That's why I'm like, maybe y'all want me this wine.

940
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:15,359
Speaker 2: Time I said, y'all comment on the job and saying

941
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 2: y'all gonna I say, I.

942
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:26,319
Speaker 4: Don't respond to people. I don't do nothing, and I

943
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 4: continue to do my ship. And so this is the

944
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:30,440
Speaker 4: first time that I've actually like spoken about it. But

945
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 4: it's like, of course we see that ship were human

946
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 4: and hard feeling because I've had to get to work

947
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 4: because I definitely used to be the person in the

948
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:39,239
Speaker 4: comments that will clap back.

949
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:40,800
Speaker 2: Now I don't even say that the w people be

950
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 2: saying to us, I.

951
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:44,840
Speaker 4: Just be like, okay, I deleted and want to you

952
00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:46,839
Speaker 4: was I had to get to the point where I

953
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:48,760
Speaker 4: was like, okay, bet my man.

954
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:51,000
Speaker 2: Doesn't looking at that right because I would be like, oh,

955
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:52,359
Speaker 2: this person, I'm going to the.

956
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:55,799
Speaker 4: Girl like you, why are you even? You don't think

957
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 4: I know who you are? You don't think I know

958
00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:00,279
Speaker 4: your mama and daddy by now you exactly. I ain't

959
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:03,400
Speaker 4: worried about that shit's you don't know shit about it.

960
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:05,919
Speaker 2: But I also feel like this, like when you've been

961
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:08,240
Speaker 2: raised a certain way, and even if you haven't, sometimes

962
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:11,919
Speaker 2: people understand the value of a person. And I've talked

963
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:13,719
Speaker 2: about this so much because at the end of the day,

964
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 2: it's a lot of men out there, a lot of

965
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 2: women out there, who have all the money in the world,

966
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 2: but they have no value. So if I be the

967
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:23,239
Speaker 2: man that has millions of dollars or you know, maybe

968
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:25,359
Speaker 2: he's making six figures or whatever the case may be,

969
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 2: if I value a person how much you make has

970
00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 2: nothing to do with that if I really value you.

971
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:34,440
Speaker 2: So when you see two people in love and they

972
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 2: both hustle, they both making money, and it's just like,

973
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:40,240
Speaker 2: why is the first thing on your mind something negative?

974
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:42,239
Speaker 2: And that's what I was talking about earlier. You're never

975
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 2: gonna get your blessings when you're trying to talk down

976
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 2: or talk negative on somebody else. You gotta be a.

977
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:49,560
Speaker 4: Real bald person and be behind a fake page all

978
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 4: the damn time. Because it's never nobody with Avatar with

979
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 4: a real following. It's always zero followers following a thousand people.

980
00:45:58,480 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 4: So it's like, who the fuck are you?

981
00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:03,319
Speaker 2: If it is even I mean, or even if it

982
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 2: is somebody who doesn't have no followers whatever. A lot

983
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 2: of the time when you click on people pages and

984
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 2: they be talking about you, a lot of the time

985
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 2: they be people who be trying to do the same

986
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:14,840
Speaker 2: ship that you doing became successful. Edit, Like, we were

987
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 2: getting so many negative comments when we first got signed

988
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:19,440
Speaker 2: with eighty five and stuff, and like they used to

989
00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 2: always repost our videos and stuff on the channel. People

990
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:25,040
Speaker 2: used to always be like, why did y'all sign these

991
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:25,760
Speaker 2: stupid bitches?

992
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:28,280
Speaker 4: Why did y'all sign these whores and then you click

993
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:31,320
Speaker 4: on their page and there's somebody be doing a podcast

994
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 4: since eleven and got five. You know, I had three, period,

995
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 4: And if it's somebody who'll been doing the podcast, it's

996
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 4: twenty eleven and don't got no fucking followers and still

997
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:47,760
Speaker 4: trying to push that ship.

998
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:51,319
Speaker 2: Out, push this shit out, I will say, because like a.

999
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 3: Lot at the end of the day, I feel like

1000
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:58,759
Speaker 3: everybody has I think, just realized the reference.

1001
00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 2: He did, you know what, like you to push that

1002
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:07,799
Speaker 2: ship out for teen years and nobody is listening. So

1003
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:09,960
Speaker 2: you mad at me because you like, well, damn how

1004
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 2: these beach just get that opportunity and I couldn't get eat.

1005
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:14,759
Speaker 2: And I will say, I do feel like because you're

1006
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:17,279
Speaker 2: not that good and and I say, like, I love

1007
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 2: the fact that you're saying by the grace of God,

1008
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:22,800
Speaker 2: because honestly, I feel like your energy like you're grateful

1009
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 2: for way you are, Like I'm grateful like a lot

1010
00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 2: of people are in their position. They feel like I

1011
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 2: are supposed to be here right, And I feel like

1012
00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:30,160
Speaker 2: that's why me Andrea. A lot of people look at

1013
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 2: our relationship. They like to question us, they like to

1014
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 2: feel like we're not real friends at the end the day.

1015
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 2: Me Andrea talk on the phone every day. Sometimes we'll

1016
00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 2: call each other seven o'clock in the morning.

1017
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:41,680
Speaker 3: We won't be on the phone till noon. Nobody knows that.

1018
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, And we always talk about like sister, like we

1019
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:47,200
Speaker 2: really did this, like we are together and no matter what,

1020
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:49,319
Speaker 2: no matter what happens, I don't care if this shit

1021
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 2: falls off the edge. I still got you and you

1022
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:53,080
Speaker 2: still got me. And see, you know what.

1023
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 3: Type of space it's just.

1024
00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:59,279
Speaker 2: It is important. But also what I'm saying though, like

1025
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 2: for you, like your man may be that person for you,

1026
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 2: like you know what, it don't matter what happens. I

1027
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:06,719
Speaker 2: got you and we got each other. So that's what

1028
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 2: I'm saying. So a lot of people, y'all don't know

1029
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 2: what goes on behind closed doors, So stop saying and

1030
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:14,759
Speaker 2: stop being on these comments like you only hear for

1031
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:17,399
Speaker 2: that you don't know what goes on behind closed doors

1032
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:18,399
Speaker 2: and what we've been through.

1033
00:48:18,480 --> 00:48:20,319
Speaker 4: And it's so funny because I did an interview the

1034
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 4: other day. I wanted to say, like two weeks ago,

1035
00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:23,840
Speaker 4: and the interview and the first thing they said was

1036
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:26,000
Speaker 4: like you know, oh you everyone knows that you're in

1037
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:28,120
Speaker 4: this relationship, but you don't post because I don't need to.

1038
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:32,440
Speaker 4: That's not Why're like, oh, you can scroll down and

1039
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 4: you literally won't find I'm like, but you just said

1040
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:37,960
Speaker 4: everyone knows, right, because that's not what like, that's why.

1041
00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 4: And I think it's so crazy because even this is

1042
00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 4: way too much, like even talking about I don't even

1043
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 4: bring up the situation right right, I'm almost like, oh

1044
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:48,839
Speaker 4: my gosh, like this is the most I've even talked

1045
00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:51,040
Speaker 4: about it. But I feel comfortable because the thing is,

1046
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:54,239
Speaker 4: it's just like how you said, people I don't know.

1047
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 4: It's like I don't need to post about that. That's

1048
00:48:56,560 --> 00:49:00,279
Speaker 4: not why I'm in it exactly. That's literally and you

1049
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,880
Speaker 4: don't need that. You don't need to explien It's like

1050
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:05,920
Speaker 4: you don't know, Like, man, the ship that I've been through,

1051
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 4: I can't tell you nothing. I think that's why I

1052
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 4: also too, it's the grace of God, because it's like, no,

1053
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 4: I'm still here standing tintoes down. We still here standing

1054
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:15,560
Speaker 4: in Tinto's down toes down, and you know what, I'm

1055
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 4: not gonna stop. I'm gonna have to be y'all gonna

1056
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 4: have to take my vocal cords out, y'all gonna have

1057
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 4: to take every connection away from me before I stop.

1058
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:24,759
Speaker 2: I believe that's not.

1059
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:26,640
Speaker 3: I can't wait to find a man be like that

1060
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 3: like nigga.

1061
00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:29,800
Speaker 2: I will. I will rip these vocal cords out like you.

1062
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:32,759
Speaker 2: The funny thing about me is I don't really be

1063
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 2: liking it like niggas, just like it's like a lie

1064
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:39,000
Speaker 2: for me to really like, like, what can we talk

1065
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:43,879
Speaker 2: about pre but when I do? Girl, she was cut

1066
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 2: cut throat, very cut throat when I but when I like,

1067
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:54,320
Speaker 2: when she likes somebody, she's giving, you're giving very Uh

1068
00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:55,399
Speaker 2: what is it?

1069
00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:59,880
Speaker 3: What's the word like? Pre jilly? Like yeah, pre jilly?

1070
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 2: When I like somebody like my men, my men? Yeah?

1071
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:08,840
Speaker 2: Why has it's kept y'all? Dreas are definitely my me

1072
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 2: and my me and my man as big because I

1073
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:16,319
Speaker 2: feel like my man, my me and my maiden. But

1074
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 2: I don't know no one nigga. I'll be down for

1075
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 2: my nigga earlier.

1076
00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:30,200
Speaker 4: That's why I told you I'm pop holding down because

1077
00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:32,360
Speaker 4: ain't nobody going to ever be able to fill my

1078
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 4: shoes ever. And it's just like you know how when

1079
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:38,319
Speaker 4: it's like a certain thing it's like, no, I don't

1080
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 4: care what that's got a.

1081
00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:45,160
Speaker 2: Period girl, And that's so we're talking like dating in

1082
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:49,200
Speaker 2: the industry is hard. It's hard, and that's why we're

1083
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:51,520
Speaker 2: about to get into the bill.

1084
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:55,160
Speaker 1: I don't have.

1085
00:50:56,960 --> 00:50:59,799
Speaker 3: No, I'm sorry, I'm so thankful, I'm out here.

1086
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:04,960
Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm so great. Maybe no, I don't even think

1087
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 2: that I love we want to talk about having a

1088
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 2: sex life in the industry because honestly, I'm not gonna

1089
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:14,239
Speaker 2: lie like we're not.

1090
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:16,880
Speaker 3: We haven't even scratched the service on what we're about

1091
00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 3: to do.

1092
00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 2: You know, you are very much further than us, so

1093
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 2: I know it's a little harder for you.

1094
00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 3: We have and I think that we all have that grind.

1095
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:25,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm nowhere where I want.

1096
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 4: To be, and I appreciate you for saying that, recognizing that,

1097
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:30,640
Speaker 4: But no, I'm like for me, I'm still like, god

1098
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:31,160
Speaker 4: damn it.

1099
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:40,920
Speaker 2: What a pole pole one time right into like times

1100
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:47,279
Speaker 2: one time. But you want to talk crazy having a

1101
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:50,560
Speaker 2: sex life and that in like the industry the ender time.

1102
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 2: I don't care what you do, rap, sing, podcast, a poet,

1103
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 2: anything creative, anything creative where you're around a bunch of

1104
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:00,839
Speaker 2: people in people know you.

1105
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:03,960
Speaker 3: Dating now is different.

1106
00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 2: It's hard. Like I had seen a post on Instagram

1107
00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:09,600
Speaker 2: the other day that said, like, you gotta be careful

1108
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 2: date in these niggas now because now you're trying to

1109
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 2: sneak pictures of me to post on your fencelo ohay.

1110
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:18,320
Speaker 2: The boy who bought me my chanelle, he was and

1111
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 2: he posted us on his fences and then he posted

1112
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 2: me whenever he bought me that chanel. If you want

1113
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:27,280
Speaker 2: to embarrass yourself, go head. We was at the club. Girl,

1114
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:31,560
Speaker 2: when we was at the club, he was definitely like

1115
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:32,719
Speaker 2: and he was.

1116
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 3: Like, and I was like, why is he?

1117
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 2: I asked?

1118
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 3: He said, why is he recording that? She said, Girl,

1119
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 3: he got a fence?

1120
00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:43,200
Speaker 2: Stood, why are you recording me? So weird? And I

1121
00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:45,759
Speaker 2: will say this honestly, I feel like, and I hate

1122
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:48,719
Speaker 2: to say this, as women, it sucks because a man

1123
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:51,719
Speaker 2: can walk into a room full of business people and

1124
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:54,000
Speaker 2: he's fucked sixty women in that room.

1125
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:54,920
Speaker 3: But it doesn't matter.

1126
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:57,759
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter if I, as a woman, walk into

1127
00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:03,960
Speaker 2: a room with two that I thought, Oh, look this

1128
00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 2: whole what's you here for? Who you fucking? You know

1129
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. And even more so, let's be real.

1130
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 4: Let's let's take it down a notch and say you

1131
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:16,000
Speaker 4: ain't fucked none of them, or to just even earn

1132
00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:16,759
Speaker 4: their respect.

1133
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:19,319
Speaker 2: It's so crazy because now I like, you know, not

1134
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:22,200
Speaker 2: even now as women. How we were kind of speaking

1135
00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:25,200
Speaker 2: before this podcast to even you can't reach out to

1136
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:26,400
Speaker 2: niggas because you want a feature.

1137
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 4: I was just telling her that I have literally on

1138
00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 4: all my singles, I've been dropping music since twenty fourteen.

1139
00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:34,680
Speaker 4: I've never had a feature, never had a feature, right,

1140
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:37,279
Speaker 4: And it's so crazy because now the team that I'm

1141
00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:40,560
Speaker 4: working with, this EP that I'm doing I just put

1142
00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:42,520
Speaker 4: out four days ago, is like the biggest project of

1143
00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:44,840
Speaker 4: my life. Streams going crazy. They're like, you know, we

1144
00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:46,360
Speaker 4: want to get somebody on the remix of one of

1145
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:48,640
Speaker 4: these songs. I'm like, well, y'all do that, because what

1146
00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:50,920
Speaker 4: I won't do is sliding some niggas DM Because the

1147
00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:53,799
Speaker 4: crazy thing is, even if you mind, you all these

1148
00:53:53,880 --> 00:53:55,520
Speaker 4: niggas be in the dms, let's be let's.

1149
00:53:55,360 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 2: Be very very mean. All I would be doing.

1150
00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:04,040
Speaker 4: Is responding, right, but not even responding to that. I

1151
00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:06,279
Speaker 4: would just be like, yo, like you know what's up?

1152
00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:09,240
Speaker 4: I want to work and you can't do that because

1153
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:11,680
Speaker 4: guess what, you have to be worried about their next

1154
00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:14,640
Speaker 4: song such and such some slit in my DM and

1155
00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:16,080
Speaker 4: like not even taking the try.

1156
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:19,080
Speaker 2: To about to go see on the p M.

1157
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 4: Come on, right, that's what they right, that's what no nigga,

1158
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:24,400
Speaker 4: I just wanted to collab.

1159
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:30,160
Speaker 2: But I was like, right, I know, I got to

1160
00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:37,239
Speaker 2: Cuban fifty girls, but it was corny. But it's like

1161
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 2: something from years ago. But like she was trying to

1162
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:41,840
Speaker 2: get in a video with him, which I understand, Like

1163
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:43,399
Speaker 2: we all used to want to be a little video girl,

1164
00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 2: Like why did he screenshotting? Now? Like him and fifty

1165
00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:48,759
Speaker 2: has something going on, but it goes. But that's why

1166
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:51,560
Speaker 2: I said, honestly, got to be careful. Guys talked to

1167
00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:53,640
Speaker 2: us like we honestly be like, hey, hit up, Ryan,

1168
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:54,520
Speaker 2: It's not that we're trying to.

1169
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:55,719
Speaker 3: Be hot, but you.

1170
00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:00,400
Speaker 4: I'm saying, like I literally am like, Okay, this is

1171
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:03,720
Speaker 4: what you know my team thinks needs to happen next. Okay, managery,

1172
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:05,440
Speaker 4: you need to help this person. To help that, y'all

1173
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:07,000
Speaker 4: got to because let me tell you what happens.

1174
00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:08,200
Speaker 3: Let me tell you what happens.

1175
00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:09,520
Speaker 2: They'd be like, oh, I want to do this. I

1176
00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:10,239
Speaker 2: want to do on it.

1177
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, can you talk to Ryan. W R's like, oh.

1178
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can get at with me. But now realize

1179
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 2: business is going on. Well that but now what what juicything?

1180
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:29,799
Speaker 2: That's what it be. But when you realize this real

1181
00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 2: business going on over here, Nigga's gonna be having the

1182
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 2: same time. I don't know that.

1183
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:36,280
Speaker 3: You say, oh, text me and it's Ryan.

1184
00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:40,520
Speaker 2: Are you doing Literally, I don't want to talk to Ryan.

1185
00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 2: I don't want to Yeah, that's true. But yes, navigating

1186
00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:49,359
Speaker 2: in the industry and trying today is very hard. Like

1187
00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:55,920
Speaker 2: I'm so glad you are very very very very very blessed. Yeah,

1188
00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 2: because it's definitely hard out here like you and I

1189
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 2: feel like, pim see, she got it. PI gotta let

1190
00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:08,399
Speaker 2: me tell you something. Let me tell you something, Jilly.

1191
00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 2: You have surprised me today. Is a a poor girl

1192
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 2: with she is part of the poor come you know.

1193
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:22,840
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm so tired of people like just not

1194
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:24,080
Speaker 2: knowing like you know.

1195
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:27,960
Speaker 3: But that's what what I told you before you came in.

1196
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:30,800
Speaker 2: I said, I said, this is your opportunity to show

1197
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:36,160
Speaker 2: like who you are yourself and I hey a little happy.

1198
00:56:39,680 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 2: I'm on here. I'm like I should shut up a

1199
00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 2: little man around here talking, But don't be thinking every

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1201
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Speaker 3: calle And let me tell y'all something.

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1239
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Speaker 2: Now we're gonna get into the bout about bowl boubou bo.

1240
00:59:02,040 --> 00:59:04,320
Speaker 2: Y'all know when I talk about music, I get very passionate,

1241
00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:06,360
Speaker 2: I get very serious.

1242
00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:08,680
Speaker 3: Okay, So let's talk about Alex Eisley.

1243
00:59:08,840 --> 00:59:10,480
Speaker 2: Who's that exactly?

1244
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:11,479
Speaker 3: And that's why.

1245
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:15,840
Speaker 2: So it's Ronald. Yeah, what's the what's his brother name?

1246
00:59:16,160 --> 00:59:26,240
Speaker 2: Her dad? He's a legend, yes, But anyway, so.

1247
00:59:26,400 --> 00:59:30,440
Speaker 3: Alex Eisley, don't nobody know his name? Oh look, I'm

1248
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:32,240
Speaker 3: trying to type. I said, it's the damn Shane.

1249
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:41,520
Speaker 2: What's his name? Anyways, Alex Eisley's dad isn't the brothers.

1250
00:59:41,760 --> 00:59:46,480
Speaker 2: Her uncle is Ronald Eisley. So she comes from legends.

1251
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:49,080
Speaker 2: So one thing that I do like about her, let

1252
00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:52,720
Speaker 2: me say this is because she's never marketed herself as, Oh,

1253
00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:56,200
Speaker 2: I'm Ronald Isisley's meats like. She's never done that because

1254
00:59:56,200 --> 01:00:00,680
Speaker 2: sometime Ernie Ernie shout out to big Ernie Ernie. I'm sorry,

1255
01:00:00,720 --> 01:00:07,360
Speaker 2: it's just it's the shorter name, Ernie. Stop playing exactly.

1256
01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:10,480
Speaker 2: So I want to say this about Alex Eisley. She's

1257
01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:13,600
Speaker 2: so fucking talented, her voice is so soothing. She just

1258
01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:16,240
Speaker 2: dropped a new project called Marigold. First of all the

1259
01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:18,560
Speaker 2: album the EP. You can listen to it from start

1260
01:00:18,760 --> 01:00:21,880
Speaker 2: to finish, no skips, and I listened to it the

1261
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 2: other day and I was so moved because when people

1262
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:29,040
Speaker 2: get into their lyrics and they really talk about things

1263
01:00:29,080 --> 01:00:31,680
Speaker 2: that they're going through and you can relate to that,

1264
01:00:31,680 --> 01:00:34,480
Speaker 2: that's a different type of feeling. So she has a

1265
01:00:34,480 --> 01:00:39,560
Speaker 2: song called under the Moon and she's just talking about

1266
01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:42,280
Speaker 2: how she's just waiting under the moon for this nigga,

1267
01:00:42,440 --> 01:00:45,760
Speaker 2: like she's trying to force her feelings down, but.

1268
01:00:45,680 --> 01:00:47,040
Speaker 3: They're hard to hide.

1269
01:00:47,920 --> 01:00:50,680
Speaker 2: We all know that feeling of like dating somebody and

1270
01:00:50,720 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 2: you're trying to get into them and you want to

1271
01:00:53,120 --> 01:00:56,200
Speaker 2: go far, but you can't, and you're just waiting under

1272
01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:57,040
Speaker 2: the moon for them to.

1273
01:00:57,040 --> 01:00:59,000
Speaker 3: Like get on the same page as you.

1274
01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 2: Alex Eisley, I don't know if it's her pin game

1275
01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:03,120
Speaker 2: somebody else's ping game.

1276
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:05,560
Speaker 3: Your pin games strong, Your team is strong.

1277
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:09,720
Speaker 2: The EP is absolutely amazing, And I really want us

1278
01:01:09,720 --> 01:01:12,040
Speaker 2: to stop sleeping on her, and I want us to

1279
01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:14,240
Speaker 2: stop looking at her like, oh, this is Ronald Eisley's

1280
01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:15,360
Speaker 2: niece or Ernie's daughter.

1281
01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:17,960
Speaker 3: The girl is a talent forced to be record with.

1282
01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:19,800
Speaker 2: This is the I think the second or third time

1283
01:01:19,840 --> 01:01:22,880
Speaker 2: I've had her as my bop of the week. And honestly,

1284
01:01:23,240 --> 01:01:27,400
Speaker 2: give artists time to drop music, y'all. Artists will drop

1285
01:01:27,400 --> 01:01:29,560
Speaker 2: a song, y'all be three months later, y'all, like, where's

1286
01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:32,360
Speaker 2: the next stop doing that? Let these people create. They

1287
01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:37,600
Speaker 2: are creatives. They're not like talk show hosts that come

1288
01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:40,240
Speaker 2: out with shows every week. This is different. You have

1289
01:01:40,360 --> 01:01:42,960
Speaker 2: to go through things, you have to feel things. And

1290
01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:44,840
Speaker 2: that's why I'm glad like Summer Walker had waited a

1291
01:01:44,840 --> 01:01:47,560
Speaker 2: long time to drop her second project. Like, give people

1292
01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:49,480
Speaker 2: time to create. I know you can feel that, like

1293
01:01:50,040 --> 01:01:52,080
Speaker 2: you have to. You have to create. You need time.

1294
01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:55,600
Speaker 2: So Alex Eisley's project is called Mary Gold and my

1295
01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:57,480
Speaker 2: favorite song is under the Sun.

1296
01:01:58,160 --> 01:02:02,920
Speaker 3: So yeah, you know, something ghetto.

1297
01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:08,080
Speaker 2: On another note, because that was beautiful. That was a

1298
01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:13,600
Speaker 2: beautiful synopsis. Word of the week. You want me to

1299
01:02:13,640 --> 01:02:16,200
Speaker 2: have that our listeners, we wanted us to have a well,

1300
01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:17,560
Speaker 2: we wanted me to have a word of the week

1301
01:02:17,640 --> 01:02:18,040
Speaker 2: so bad.

1302
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 3: So that's my word of the week. Okay, So.

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01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:26,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, my bop of the week is City Girls and

1304
01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:31,960
Speaker 2: Video four Topnight. I love a song. J T eight

1305
01:02:32,840 --> 01:02:33,800
Speaker 2: Young Miami ate too.

1306
01:02:33,920 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 3: They both ate That's what I love about them.

1307
01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:38,720
Speaker 2: They both be eating because we really do want to

1308
01:02:38,760 --> 01:02:44,080
Speaker 2: talk about young Miami because I'm not to get my

1309
01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 2: stacks off. That's how she she be talking. She talking

1310
01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:50,000
Speaker 2: this ship. She really do.

1311
01:02:50,160 --> 01:02:51,280
Speaker 3: I love this fucking song.

1312
01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 2: It's so fucking good. And like I said, summer coming up,

1313
01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:57,520
Speaker 2: the girls about to be outside. They dropping. We love

1314
01:02:57,600 --> 01:02:59,400
Speaker 2: some quartables, we love some good lyrics.

1315
01:02:59,440 --> 01:02:59,960
Speaker 3: They dropped.

1316
01:03:00,160 --> 01:03:01,800
Speaker 2: Even if you're in the house, we still love them.

1317
01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:02,240
Speaker 2: We love that.

1318
01:03:04,080 --> 01:03:08,640
Speaker 3: Man, but still but still you anything bitch in the world,

1319
01:03:08,680 --> 01:03:11,160
Speaker 3: look like this a word?

1320
01:03:12,040 --> 01:03:16,080
Speaker 2: Okay, So then I got this other Bob two Nick

1321
01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:19,360
Speaker 2: and Nick and Riggs by push your tea jay Z and.

1322
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:21,400
Speaker 3: Okay, I've just listened to that last night.

1323
01:03:21,720 --> 01:03:26,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, just like jay Z got Yeah, so just push

1324
01:03:26,840 --> 01:03:27,360
Speaker 4: his husband.

1325
01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:34,200
Speaker 2: So it's pushed j Z and for real legends, legends job.

1326
01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:39,560
Speaker 2: It's just dropping like last night. Yeah, like my phone

1327
01:03:39,600 --> 01:03:45,640
Speaker 2: been drunk, like just drop. Y'all know I'm a jay

1328
01:03:45,720 --> 01:03:47,680
Speaker 2: Z stand like jay Z is my favorite rapper.

1329
01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:49,760
Speaker 3: I love j Z, so I.

1330
01:03:49,680 --> 01:03:52,120
Speaker 2: Love jay Z. I listen to it one. I got

1331
01:03:52,200 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 2: to write it again to listen to it for real,

1332
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:54,640
Speaker 2: for real.

1333
01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 7: I don't even know they had a new song, just

1334
01:03:58,920 --> 01:04:02,960
Speaker 7: okaying about Yeah, she be on Thanks, I'd be in

1335
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:06,120
Speaker 7: my car Apple play so much.

1336
01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:07,960
Speaker 2: You were listening to this past week? My e P

1337
01:04:08,280 --> 01:04:11,480
Speaker 2: period here, let's talk about it. Let's talk so's what vibe?

1338
01:04:11,520 --> 01:04:12,040
Speaker 2: Is it given?

1339
01:04:12,800 --> 01:04:13,280
Speaker 3: Y'all got it?

1340
01:04:13,280 --> 01:04:17,560
Speaker 4: Okay, it's ten minutes song. So it's four songs, ten minutes.

1341
01:04:17,760 --> 01:04:22,440
Speaker 4: Listened to it. It's called copy and paste type in

1342
01:04:22,520 --> 01:04:23,840
Speaker 4: Jilly coffy girls.

1343
01:04:23,640 --> 01:04:26,240
Speaker 3: Definitely be copy and paste and poor mind sow do

1344
01:04:26,320 --> 01:04:27,000
Speaker 3: you explain that?

1345
01:04:27,040 --> 01:04:31,600
Speaker 4: You so you see it's called copy and paste. It's

1346
01:04:31,680 --> 01:04:35,040
Speaker 4: ten minutes, so just listen to it. No skips okay,

1347
01:04:35,320 --> 01:04:39,400
Speaker 4: you know you love no skips and it gives you everything.

1348
01:04:39,800 --> 01:04:44,600
Speaker 4: Let's see right here, right, and then I got bat service,

1349
01:04:44,680 --> 01:04:45,080
Speaker 4: I got bad.

1350
01:04:45,120 --> 01:04:46,000
Speaker 2: This is my service.

1351
01:04:46,440 --> 01:04:49,680
Speaker 4: Let's see look I got this, we got we got

1352
01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:54,160
Speaker 4: weird service. Yeah, it's okay, just typing Joe called copy

1353
01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:55,880
Speaker 4: and pa Jilly copy and paste.

1354
01:04:56,040 --> 01:04:58,880
Speaker 2: Okay, So what's your favorite song off your EP? Yeah?

1355
01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:03,840
Speaker 4: Whenever, Oh you to do probably like Sorr. Yeah, she

1356
01:05:03,920 --> 01:05:07,800
Speaker 4: got it. Just happened Jilly copy and do the EP. Yeah,

1357
01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:16,120
Speaker 4: it's four songs, ten minutes. Real Number two is the

1358
01:05:16,120 --> 01:05:19,800
Speaker 4: fan favorite throwback everybody is like obsessed with Throwback number

1359
01:05:19,840 --> 01:05:23,520
Speaker 4: three or excuse me, yeah, number three, Like that is

1360
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:25,480
Speaker 4: the song that I just did a video to like that,

1361
01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:27,880
Speaker 4: and that's the song that just hit a million views.

1362
01:05:28,080 --> 01:05:31,400
Speaker 4: All right, yeah, But so basically, just to give it

1363
01:05:31,440 --> 01:05:33,960
Speaker 4: a short synopsis, it gives you a.

1364
01:05:41,640 --> 01:05:42,800
Speaker 2: Short synopsis.

1365
01:05:43,160 --> 01:05:45,440
Speaker 4: It gives you R and B, it gives you pop,

1366
01:05:45,520 --> 01:05:47,600
Speaker 4: it gives you hip hop. Okay, so it gives you

1367
01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:51,080
Speaker 4: all three of those, like it literally gives you Flex

1368
01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:52,920
Speaker 4: is my real like you know who money man is,

1369
01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:56,520
Speaker 4: Alex is my real money.

1370
01:05:57,640 --> 01:05:58,680
Speaker 3: That's the fourth one on the EP.

1371
01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:02,720
Speaker 4: Gives you real like I'm talking to my shop when

1372
01:06:04,160 --> 01:06:06,680
Speaker 4: the first and second song, Ready and Throwback are very

1373
01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:11,959
Speaker 4: like R and B, like, no, listen to it start

1374
01:06:12,000 --> 01:06:12,640
Speaker 4: to finish.

1375
01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:16,560
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I had to ski no skill.

1376
01:06:16,800 --> 01:06:17,840
Speaker 3: Yeah okay, I love that.

1377
01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:18,840
Speaker 2: No skill, love that.

1378
01:06:18,920 --> 01:06:21,560
Speaker 4: But with this project, it's a real like it's it's new,

1379
01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 4: it's it's the different side of me.

1380
01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:25,240
Speaker 3: It is the twenty six year.

1381
01:06:25,160 --> 01:06:27,560
Speaker 4: Old version of me for the first time and just

1382
01:06:27,640 --> 01:06:30,400
Speaker 4: really kind of like I'm very like my private life

1383
01:06:30,440 --> 01:06:32,600
Speaker 4: is very private, which is also like how we said earlier,

1384
01:06:32,600 --> 01:06:34,160
Speaker 4: I don't post stuff because it's like, no, it's my

1385
01:06:34,160 --> 01:06:34,680
Speaker 4: private life.

1386
01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:37,360
Speaker 3: It's real, real, right.

1387
01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:42,240
Speaker 4: So this is like, you know, still showcasing without you know,

1388
01:06:42,360 --> 01:06:43,720
Speaker 4: being too personable.

1389
01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 2: I'm getting there. I have a lot of people tell me, like,

1390
01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:47,920
Speaker 2: you know, be personal I'm still like hold on now,

1391
01:06:47,920 --> 01:06:50,240
Speaker 2: one step at the time. People tell me that, but no,

1392
01:06:50,280 --> 01:06:52,200
Speaker 2: but I feel like it works because you don't want

1393
01:06:52,200 --> 01:06:54,960
Speaker 2: to give people too much to interesting. Like that's why

1394
01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:56,600
Speaker 2: I feel like the balance on the show because bitch,

1395
01:06:56,640 --> 01:06:58,520
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you what I ate this morning, how

1396
01:06:58,560 --> 01:07:01,320
Speaker 2: I birth. I ain't going to anything, you know what

1397
01:07:01,320 --> 01:07:07,280
Speaker 2: I take. But she was not the balance because I'm okay,

1398
01:07:07,840 --> 01:07:12,000
Speaker 2: I like would my business and I was like, let

1399
01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:15,280
Speaker 2: me tell you what I did this mom, but what

1400
01:07:15,360 --> 01:07:17,600
Speaker 2: I am? But I'm saying like it works because you're

1401
01:07:17,600 --> 01:07:19,880
Speaker 2: like people are so interested in you and then they

1402
01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:21,440
Speaker 2: feel like they might get a little tea.

1403
01:07:21,360 --> 01:07:23,400
Speaker 3: With your music, but they're not getting all of that,

1404
01:07:23,920 --> 01:07:24,200
Speaker 3: you know what.

1405
01:07:24,200 --> 01:07:25,560
Speaker 2: I'm saying, So it works.

1406
01:07:25,720 --> 01:07:29,040
Speaker 4: I listen to Skips has been like the fan favorite.

1407
01:07:29,080 --> 01:07:31,520
Speaker 4: People are begging for that video. Okay, so but that's

1408
01:07:31,560 --> 01:07:35,040
Speaker 4: like I said, once again, I'm ready, yes, no, seriously

1409
01:07:35,120 --> 01:07:36,920
Speaker 4: listen to it, and off came like hit me up

1410
01:07:36,960 --> 01:07:39,160
Speaker 4: like tell me later, like your real thoughts.

1411
01:07:39,200 --> 01:07:44,439
Speaker 2: But okay, that's been remember what you were talking about.

1412
01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:49,760
Speaker 2: Friends don't want to see you win. So don't want

1413
01:07:49,760 --> 01:07:51,840
Speaker 2: to see you win. When I get down with me

1414
01:07:51,920 --> 01:07:56,200
Speaker 2: and Jilly, when me and Jilly get this grammy, don't

1415
01:07:56,200 --> 01:07:56,680
Speaker 2: be mad.

1416
01:07:57,000 --> 01:07:59,240
Speaker 3: Don't be mad about it because with Jilly gonna standing.

1417
01:07:59,040 --> 01:08:04,040
Speaker 2: Up like yeah that round, yeah singing.

1418
01:08:05,080 --> 01:08:10,640
Speaker 4: Okay, So Jillian Nie copy and paste EP funny enough,

1419
01:08:10,720 --> 01:08:13,200
Speaker 4: no joke with music. That's why I'm trying to like

1420
01:08:13,240 --> 01:08:15,000
Speaker 4: transfer everything.

1421
01:08:15,280 --> 01:08:16,960
Speaker 3: I don't have any of a niece on any of

1422
01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 3: my music. Big big Jilly on these niggas playing shout out.

1423
01:08:23,760 --> 01:08:31,559
Speaker 2: On my t be like chat up the budget because

1424
01:08:31,640 --> 01:08:40,880
Speaker 2: we ain't gonna way. So yeah, Jilly.

1425
01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:43,080
Speaker 3: Copy and paste. Make sure y'all go get that.

1426
01:08:43,800 --> 01:08:46,000
Speaker 2: So now we're gonna get into our favorite segment of

1427
01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:48,599
Speaker 2: the week. Look, we are passing hour. I knew this

1428
01:08:48,600 --> 01:08:55,599
Speaker 2: is gonna happen again. This is crazy so much, but yeah,

1429
01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:58,720
Speaker 2: so I have to actually remember that we're actually like

1430
01:08:59,000 --> 01:09:05,200
Speaker 2: not just to lie like crazy, but you know, mentally,

1431
01:09:05,240 --> 01:09:11,200
Speaker 2: I'm always like Stilly. I told yeah, warn the girl ship.

1432
01:09:11,600 --> 01:09:14,880
Speaker 3: Hold on, what's up y'all?

1433
01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:17,479
Speaker 2: Show girl XP and each sugarl dry and the call,

1434
01:09:17,600 --> 01:09:20,320
Speaker 2: and we are here to save y'all money, make y'all

1435
01:09:20,360 --> 01:09:24,559
Speaker 2: money per usual. We are gonna tell y'all about Get Upside. Yes,

1436
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Speaker 2: because inflation is crazy right now. Gas is high, groceries

1437
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Speaker 2: is high, everything is high. Can't even get no milk.

1438
01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:33,160
Speaker 3: Cain't even get no milk, and you need the milk,

1439
01:09:33,200 --> 01:09:33,920
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying.

1440
01:09:33,960 --> 01:09:37,800
Speaker 2: So Get Upside is a cash back rewards program. So

1441
01:09:37,840 --> 01:09:40,599
Speaker 2: to get started, you're gonna download the Get Upside app

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01:09:41,080 --> 01:09:43,800
Speaker 2: in the App Store or Google Play. You're gonna use

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Speaker 2: the promo code poor Minds, and you're gonna get five

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01:09:46,280 --> 01:09:49,559
Speaker 2: dollars off top when you spend ten dollars or more.

1445
01:09:49,600 --> 01:09:52,040
Speaker 2: So basically, when you spend money, you gonna get money back.

1446
01:09:52,080 --> 01:09:54,120
Speaker 2: And we love Look, I got three dollars and I

1447
01:09:54,160 --> 01:09:56,920
Speaker 2: got two dollars back. Yes, And in comparison to a

1448
01:09:56,920 --> 01:09:59,519
Speaker 2: lot of credit card and loyalty reward programs, you can

1449
01:09:59,560 --> 01:10:00,800
Speaker 2: get three times cash back.

1450
01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:01,639
Speaker 3: Will Get Upside.

1451
01:10:01,760 --> 01:10:03,599
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I feel like that's the main thing why

1452
01:10:03,680 --> 01:10:05,960
Speaker 2: people have credit cards is because of the perks. But

1453
01:10:05,960 --> 01:10:08,599
Speaker 2: with Get Upsides, you're getting more perks than what these

1454
01:10:08,640 --> 01:10:11,559
Speaker 2: credit cards gonna give you. So you're gonna download the

1455
01:10:11,640 --> 01:10:15,479
Speaker 2: free get Upside app and use promo code poor minds

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01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:18,280
Speaker 2: to get five dollars or more cash back on your

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Speaker 2: first purchase of ten dollars or more.

1458
01:10:21,000 --> 01:10:23,519
Speaker 3: That's five dollars or more cash back on.

1459
01:10:23,479 --> 01:10:26,559
Speaker 2: Your first purchase of ten dollars or more using the

1460
01:10:26,600 --> 01:10:30,519
Speaker 2: code poor minds Get Upside, save your coin.

1461
01:10:32,880 --> 01:10:35,080
Speaker 3: Don't forget, it's our favorite segment.

1462
01:10:35,280 --> 01:10:37,280
Speaker 2: So y'all know, if y'all have any questions, you can

1463
01:10:37,320 --> 01:10:40,240
Speaker 2: send them to ask poor minds at gmail dot com.

1464
01:10:40,240 --> 01:10:42,200
Speaker 2: That's a s K p o U R in my

1465
01:10:42,320 --> 01:10:45,840
Speaker 2: nds at gmail dot com. Send you questions in send

1466
01:10:45,880 --> 01:10:47,840
Speaker 2: you testimonials. You know, we want to know if we

1467
01:10:47,960 --> 01:10:50,120
Speaker 2: helped you or if we fucked your lifelup.

1468
01:10:50,120 --> 01:10:52,800
Speaker 3: Because remember remember somebody told us.

1469
01:10:52,680 --> 01:10:54,280
Speaker 2: A few weeks ago we booked the life.

1470
01:10:55,720 --> 01:11:02,360
Speaker 3: Wait give you. We had a rich nigga told her

1471
01:11:02,360 --> 01:11:03,840
Speaker 3: to have a kid for him.

1472
01:11:03,880 --> 01:11:06,200
Speaker 2: We told her don't do it because he didn't like

1473
01:11:06,280 --> 01:11:07,479
Speaker 2: because he didn't fuck with her like that.

1474
01:11:07,600 --> 01:11:08,320
Speaker 3: She didn't have the kid.

1475
01:11:08,439 --> 01:11:09,920
Speaker 2: She saw another girl had a kid and she was

1476
01:11:09,920 --> 01:11:13,360
Speaker 2: living lavish. But I'm like, girl, she.

1477
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:17,320
Speaker 3: Really came for y'all. Yeah, she was like, I should

1478
01:11:17,320 --> 01:11:18,000
Speaker 3: have had the baby.

1479
01:11:18,160 --> 01:11:19,960
Speaker 2: Okay, you dumb bitch if you want to, and I

1480
01:11:20,000 --> 01:11:21,960
Speaker 2: follow her and I told her to bitch, well, why

1481
01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:23,000
Speaker 2: would you even listen to us?

1482
01:11:23,040 --> 01:11:26,559
Speaker 3: We ain't got no man or no kids, Like, why

1483
01:11:26,560 --> 01:11:27,519
Speaker 3: would you listening to us?

1484
01:11:27,880 --> 01:11:32,360
Speaker 4: And two people forget that Instagram is a whole nother world.

1485
01:11:32,160 --> 01:11:34,800
Speaker 2: And not only that he might really fuck with her. Yeah,

1486
01:11:35,280 --> 01:11:39,240
Speaker 2: different again, you don't know what's behind the closed door.

1487
01:11:39,720 --> 01:11:42,719
Speaker 2: All right, let's hear the question one. Go ahead, okay,

1488
01:11:42,840 --> 01:11:45,960
Speaker 2: question number one. Let me turn it so you can see. Hey, ladies,

1489
01:11:46,040 --> 01:11:48,080
Speaker 2: I've been in a relationship for three years and it's

1490
01:11:48,120 --> 01:11:50,800
Speaker 2: going well. The other day, my cousin, who was having

1491
01:11:50,840 --> 01:11:53,479
Speaker 2: marital problems, had booked the trip to Vegas for her

1492
01:11:53,560 --> 01:11:55,719
Speaker 2: and her husband, but they've been fighting a lot lately,

1493
01:11:56,080 --> 01:11:58,559
Speaker 2: so he told her to cancel the trip. She already

1494
01:11:58,600 --> 01:12:01,000
Speaker 2: paid for it, and she said that she's not canceling

1495
01:12:01,080 --> 01:12:03,320
Speaker 2: because she needs a vacation. So she asked me to

1496
01:12:03,400 --> 01:12:05,040
Speaker 2: go in his place and we can make it a

1497
01:12:05,120 --> 01:12:08,479
Speaker 2: girls s trip instead. I was like, hell, yeah, mind you,

1498
01:12:08,600 --> 01:12:10,200
Speaker 2: the trip is paid for it and the only thing

1499
01:12:10,280 --> 01:12:11,880
Speaker 2: she said I have to pay for is the name

1500
01:12:12,040 --> 01:12:14,479
Speaker 2: change on the plane ticket, And of course spending money.

1501
01:12:15,320 --> 01:12:18,120
Speaker 2: I told my guy, and his response is if you

1502
01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:21,240
Speaker 2: if you go, you're going to be single when you

1503
01:12:21,320 --> 01:12:21,880
Speaker 2: come back.

1504
01:12:21,840 --> 01:12:23,439
Speaker 3: Okay, birl.

1505
01:12:23,880 --> 01:12:26,439
Speaker 2: It pissed me off, but I calmly asked him why,

1506
01:12:26,520 --> 01:12:28,920
Speaker 2: and his response was when we went to their house

1507
01:12:29,000 --> 01:12:32,120
Speaker 2: and the men were talking to her, husband told him

1508
01:12:32,240 --> 01:12:34,560
Speaker 2: that they was that they swing sometimes and he just

1509
01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:37,360
Speaker 2: don't trust her. I understand why he feels like that,

1510
01:12:37,479 --> 01:12:39,479
Speaker 2: but I'm a grown ass woman and what they do

1511
01:12:39,640 --> 01:12:41,960
Speaker 2: is their prerogative. I don't judge, but it made me

1512
01:12:42,040 --> 01:12:44,120
Speaker 2: feel some type of way because I feel he should

1513
01:12:44,120 --> 01:12:44,519
Speaker 2: trust me.

1514
01:12:44,720 --> 01:12:45,320
Speaker 3: What should I do?

1515
01:12:45,760 --> 01:12:49,240
Speaker 2: Do you eat, Kacha? What they got to do with?

1516
01:12:49,360 --> 01:12:51,960
Speaker 2: Because I'm saying, like, if they're swinging, they're adding another

1517
01:12:52,000 --> 01:12:54,240
Speaker 2: woman or adding another man. You don't want no other digger.

1518
01:12:54,280 --> 01:12:57,000
Speaker 2: You don't eat coucha, then you're not gonna swing. And honestly,

1519
01:12:57,040 --> 01:12:58,920
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to be funny y'all. This y'all friend,

1520
01:12:59,200 --> 01:13:01,720
Speaker 2: I don't want to see it. I'd be like, I'm

1521
01:13:01,720 --> 01:13:04,040
Speaker 2: not even I don't I would never have a three sowe, Drea,

1522
01:13:04,400 --> 01:13:06,320
Speaker 2: no offense, you already beautiful girl.

1523
01:13:06,960 --> 01:13:07,400
Speaker 1: Exactly.

1524
01:13:12,200 --> 01:13:13,920
Speaker 2: We have to endoun so we can get wrong here

1525
01:13:14,160 --> 01:13:20,120
Speaker 2: beautiful girl, beautiful couch too, But do I want to

1526
01:13:20,240 --> 01:13:21,840
Speaker 2: necessarily eat her booty hole?

1527
01:13:22,120 --> 01:13:24,640
Speaker 3: No, that's my friend.

1528
01:13:26,280 --> 01:13:28,960
Speaker 2: Friends. So I feel like, if anything, he should understand

1529
01:13:29,000 --> 01:13:31,680
Speaker 2: that you are not sexually attracted to your friend. You

1530
01:13:31,760 --> 01:13:32,479
Speaker 2: know what it is though.

1531
01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:36,840
Speaker 3: What it is is I'm not kidding. Oh God, go

1532
01:13:37,120 --> 01:13:40,760
Speaker 3: ahead and say no, because I want to know what

1533
01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:41,200
Speaker 3: it is.

1534
01:13:42,400 --> 01:13:42,559
Speaker 2: Men.

1535
01:13:43,320 --> 01:13:47,719
Speaker 4: Boys trips, boys exactly, baby are nothing but whole trips.

1536
01:13:49,680 --> 01:13:51,439
Speaker 2: I ain't speak down the whole time.

1537
01:13:51,520 --> 01:13:53,560
Speaker 4: And now I'm like, now you got to raise the

1538
01:13:53,600 --> 01:13:57,080
Speaker 4: my gup right boys strips as when it goes down.

1539
01:13:57,080 --> 01:13:59,400
Speaker 4: I don't believe in boys trips. I will say this loud,

1540
01:13:59,400 --> 01:14:03,000
Speaker 4: and I will say this proud one time. Boys trips

1541
01:14:03,040 --> 01:14:08,920
Speaker 4: are a no going boys trips is you're not really

1542
01:14:09,040 --> 01:14:11,800
Speaker 4: going with your niggas and y'all staying in the Airbnb

1543
01:14:11,920 --> 01:14:12,720
Speaker 4: for five days and.

1544
01:14:14,760 --> 01:14:16,760
Speaker 2: It's not happening because I ain't staying in the air

1545
01:14:16,840 --> 01:14:18,160
Speaker 2: bb my bitches.

1546
01:14:18,680 --> 01:14:19,160
Speaker 1: Crazy thing.

1547
01:14:19,320 --> 01:14:21,720
Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no no no. See that's where

1548
01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 2: God damn it.

1549
01:14:24,479 --> 01:14:29,320
Speaker 3: I will go on, No, bitch, just like.

1550
01:14:34,600 --> 01:14:39,760
Speaker 2: Your point of we all like where the tickets bring

1551
01:14:39,800 --> 01:14:41,720
Speaker 2: this up? Maybe I see I told you this is

1552
01:14:41,760 --> 01:14:44,200
Speaker 2: what it was I'm like, no, I can't.

1553
01:14:46,439 --> 01:14:49,320
Speaker 4: I can go on a girls trip with my girls

1554
01:14:49,760 --> 01:14:53,479
Speaker 4: for four or five days and not even looking a nigga.

1555
01:14:53,479 --> 01:14:53,960
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna.

1556
01:14:54,400 --> 01:14:57,320
Speaker 3: I did not the same, It really is not.

1557
01:14:57,560 --> 01:14:59,479
Speaker 2: I went on the girl trip after our last live

1558
01:14:59,520 --> 01:15:01,599
Speaker 2: show to s celebrate our live show, the first live

1559
01:15:01,640 --> 01:15:04,080
Speaker 2: show in Nashville, and me and Killer we had a

1560
01:15:04,160 --> 01:15:05,720
Speaker 2: great time and it was just me and her. We

1561
01:15:05,840 --> 01:15:08,960
Speaker 2: did it was just us. It was just us. It

1562
01:15:09,160 --> 01:15:11,840
Speaker 2: was just Chico. What do I know what Chicago, I

1563
01:15:11,920 --> 01:15:12,200
Speaker 2: don't know.

1564
01:15:15,160 --> 01:15:18,800
Speaker 3: You do be watching him gang documentaries and she might

1565
01:15:18,880 --> 01:15:22,439
Speaker 3: have had a nigga from the and but no, it

1566
01:15:22,560 --> 01:15:24,600
Speaker 3: was a girls trip. But I will say women, but

1567
01:15:24,680 --> 01:15:26,479
Speaker 3: we know how to party together, like.

1568
01:15:26,680 --> 01:15:29,240
Speaker 2: We can go out right now, have a good time

1569
01:15:29,280 --> 01:15:33,200
Speaker 2: and just have not even think about like man like

1570
01:15:33,479 --> 01:15:36,519
Speaker 2: because it's personally like I could even go even further

1571
01:15:36,560 --> 01:15:37,960
Speaker 2: than just go out right now. I can go on

1572
01:15:38,080 --> 01:15:38,400
Speaker 2: the trip.

1573
01:15:39,560 --> 01:15:42,840
Speaker 4: And I'm not trying to get down right right your life. No,

1574
01:15:43,680 --> 01:15:47,120
Speaker 4: But men, there's there's no way because there I want this.

1575
01:15:47,560 --> 01:15:50,519
Speaker 2: There's no way you can tell me six seven of

1576
01:15:50,640 --> 01:15:53,080
Speaker 2: you and your niggas gonna go out of town and

1577
01:15:53,200 --> 01:15:55,080
Speaker 2: y'all just gonna be sitting in the airbnb.

1578
01:15:55,400 --> 01:15:56,200
Speaker 3: You can go to the club.

1579
01:15:56,280 --> 01:15:59,519
Speaker 2: Cool, okay, whatever, but go do it excursions and then

1580
01:15:59,560 --> 01:16:03,639
Speaker 2: be coming home about ball. Because niggas love some out

1581
01:16:03,640 --> 01:16:06,519
Speaker 2: of times. They love because they feel like they got

1582
01:16:06,640 --> 01:16:08,280
Speaker 2: to see you when you especially give.

1583
01:16:08,160 --> 01:16:10,960
Speaker 3: You out the country. I'm telling you.

1584
01:16:16,000 --> 01:16:19,519
Speaker 4: That's why to answer like this question, that's why men

1585
01:16:19,760 --> 01:16:21,800
Speaker 4: have that same like whenever you say, oh, you're going

1586
01:16:21,880 --> 01:16:23,880
Speaker 4: with the girls, blah blah blah, that's why they Oh,

1587
01:16:23,920 --> 01:16:25,080
Speaker 4: if you come back, you're gonna be single.

1588
01:16:25,240 --> 01:16:27,720
Speaker 3: No, it's because what y'all do now you put on me,

1589
01:16:27,920 --> 01:16:31,360
Speaker 3: so she should turned the tables can be like, and

1590
01:16:31,479 --> 01:16:33,720
Speaker 3: I think you should still go because the thing is,

1591
01:16:33,960 --> 01:16:35,040
Speaker 3: let's be very very and I.

1592
01:16:37,040 --> 01:16:38,960
Speaker 4: Mean because the thing is, it's just like you're gonna

1593
01:16:38,960 --> 01:16:41,599
Speaker 4: live your Yeah, you're gonna live your life.

1594
01:16:41,640 --> 01:16:45,160
Speaker 3: And I've never If you've never before, I see where

1595
01:16:45,160 --> 01:16:45,519
Speaker 3: you're coming.

1596
01:16:47,040 --> 01:16:49,800
Speaker 4: If I've never done anything to like, you know, like

1597
01:16:50,240 --> 01:16:53,320
Speaker 4: disrupt your trust on me, but you have, then that's

1598
01:16:53,439 --> 01:16:55,720
Speaker 4: your issue with So I'm gonna go on this.

1599
01:16:55,760 --> 01:16:58,519
Speaker 3: Girl's trip to Vegas and I'm gonna go have fun.

1600
01:16:59,280 --> 01:17:01,519
Speaker 4: But if you if I come back and I'm single,

1601
01:17:01,560 --> 01:17:03,280
Speaker 4: and just so fucking be it because the thing is

1602
01:17:03,520 --> 01:17:05,920
Speaker 4: just like that's issues that you have to work on yourself.

1603
01:17:08,000 --> 01:17:10,799
Speaker 2: Agree. I walk up, like, look, I'm going to Vegas

1604
01:17:10,880 --> 01:17:12,439
Speaker 2: and you better be here when I get back. In

1605
01:17:12,600 --> 01:17:15,680
Speaker 2: the story, so I said, don't listen to when she

1606
01:17:15,720 --> 01:17:17,720
Speaker 2: could make she go like.

1607
01:17:22,800 --> 01:17:25,960
Speaker 4: I say, don't take nobody's advice with your own, Like

1608
01:17:26,240 --> 01:17:28,559
Speaker 4: that's what because I don't take nobody's God damn, that's

1609
01:17:28,560 --> 01:17:28,840
Speaker 4: the girl.

1610
01:17:28,920 --> 01:17:32,720
Speaker 2: That's what I be saying, Why y'all we need you know?

1611
01:17:32,880 --> 01:17:37,240
Speaker 2: But that's also like, why like you for your advice?

1612
01:17:37,400 --> 01:17:37,920
Speaker 2: My advice?

1613
01:17:38,720 --> 01:17:40,880
Speaker 4: I listened, no joke, I swear, I don't ask any

1614
01:17:40,880 --> 01:17:42,840
Speaker 4: of my friends for advice. I listen to my mom, who's,

1615
01:17:42,880 --> 01:17:44,639
Speaker 4: like I said, been married and Jesus the baby.

1616
01:17:45,280 --> 01:17:45,719
Speaker 3: I listened.

1617
01:17:46,080 --> 01:17:48,479
Speaker 4: That's the only person I go to advice. And it's like,

1618
01:17:48,560 --> 01:17:50,320
Speaker 4: you know, it's like still my mama. But no, that's

1619
01:17:51,240 --> 01:17:55,639
Speaker 4: like that don't friends and I don't tell my friends don't.

1620
01:17:56,880 --> 01:18:00,160
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna. I'm about to see the no.

1621
01:18:02,040 --> 01:18:05,200
Speaker 4: But I just like, I really like, I don't. Yeah,

1622
01:18:05,280 --> 01:18:08,200
Speaker 4: I mean, but it's a and when I say telling nothing, no,

1623
01:18:08,320 --> 01:18:08,599
Speaker 4: I don't.

1624
01:18:08,920 --> 01:18:12,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, But I'm about to say, well, but I would

1625
01:18:12,880 --> 01:18:14,599
Speaker 2: say this is. It's a little different for us because

1626
01:18:14,640 --> 01:18:17,559
Speaker 2: we're in business together. So if I tell if I tell.

1627
01:18:17,520 --> 01:18:21,720
Speaker 4: Something that, no, but I think she means that relationship. Yeah, No,

1628
01:18:21,840 --> 01:18:23,880
Speaker 4: I don't like with her relation Yeah no, don't get

1629
01:18:23,920 --> 01:18:25,479
Speaker 4: me wrong. Now, my friends gonna be like, fuck you bitch,

1630
01:18:25,640 --> 01:18:27,360
Speaker 4: Like no, I don't mean, I don't say anything. But

1631
01:18:27,439 --> 01:18:29,599
Speaker 4: like as far as like relationship, I'm not gonna take

1632
01:18:29,640 --> 01:18:31,760
Speaker 4: a relationship advice for somebody who's been with their dude.

1633
01:18:31,840 --> 01:18:33,519
Speaker 4: Like I've been with mine for three so they've been

1634
01:18:33,640 --> 01:18:36,080
Speaker 4: there for four. My mom's been with my dad's for

1635
01:18:36,200 --> 01:18:38,200
Speaker 4: like thirty five years old. You feel what I'm saying.

1636
01:18:38,560 --> 01:18:40,120
Speaker 4: So I'm not taking their.

1637
01:18:40,040 --> 01:18:42,280
Speaker 3: Advice, right, I'm just not because you don't know, because

1638
01:18:42,320 --> 01:18:42,639
Speaker 3: you don't.

1639
01:18:42,720 --> 01:18:44,679
Speaker 2: You don't you tell me because the thing is, ship

1640
01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:48,080
Speaker 2: is going to happen, right, and like I'm not the

1641
01:18:48,200 --> 01:18:51,680
Speaker 2: person who the second something happens, you get up and

1642
01:18:51,720 --> 01:18:52,280
Speaker 2: you run out.

1643
01:18:52,520 --> 01:18:55,400
Speaker 3: I'm just not see, I'm a runner. I'm a track stall.

1644
01:18:55,520 --> 01:18:57,800
Speaker 3: See I'm not like I am a track stall.

1645
01:18:59,040 --> 01:19:00,200
Speaker 2: Like literally.

1646
01:19:01,880 --> 01:19:03,000
Speaker 3: No, but I'm not a runner.

1647
01:19:03,280 --> 01:19:09,280
Speaker 2: I'm no. It depends yeah, like yeah, like stuff like

1648
01:19:09,439 --> 01:19:14,200
Speaker 2: stuff don't get yeah, certain stuff, but I believe that

1649
01:19:14,320 --> 01:19:19,320
Speaker 2: people like fuck up. Yeah, yeah, and I listened to it.

1650
01:19:19,439 --> 01:19:21,960
Speaker 2: I'm the same way as you in that aspect because

1651
01:19:22,080 --> 01:19:24,320
Speaker 2: I listened to a lot of like relationship advice from

1652
01:19:24,360 --> 01:19:26,960
Speaker 2: my mom too, because her and my dad were married

1653
01:19:27,080 --> 01:19:28,000
Speaker 2: for year.

1654
01:19:28,920 --> 01:19:30,080
Speaker 3: Yeah before my dad passed away.

1655
01:19:30,080 --> 01:19:33,160
Speaker 2: He passed away in twenty twenty, so before he passed away,

1656
01:19:33,160 --> 01:19:35,040
Speaker 2: they were in a relationship for a long time.

1657
01:19:36,240 --> 01:19:39,439
Speaker 3: Thank you, I appreciate you.

1658
01:19:39,560 --> 01:19:41,599
Speaker 2: He right there, he right?

1659
01:19:41,680 --> 01:19:42,920
Speaker 3: The wow is this new?

1660
01:19:43,400 --> 01:19:43,639
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1661
01:19:44,880 --> 01:19:48,479
Speaker 3: Remember'd so?

1662
01:19:48,720 --> 01:19:51,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, girls, so like they were married for a really

1663
01:19:51,240 --> 01:19:52,920
Speaker 4: really long time. So I grew up in the two

1664
01:19:53,000 --> 01:19:54,439
Speaker 4: parent household my whole life too.

1665
01:19:55,080 --> 01:19:57,680
Speaker 2: And yeah, I've been listening to my mama because it's like,

1666
01:19:57,920 --> 01:19:59,120
Speaker 2: who else don't give me some advice?

1667
01:19:59,160 --> 01:20:00,720
Speaker 3: Is that you literally head on me?

1668
01:20:00,760 --> 01:20:04,439
Speaker 4: And that's why, guess what, that's why I'm still with

1669
01:20:04,560 --> 01:20:10,960
Speaker 4: mine and go forever be with mine, period. So I nowhere, bitch,

1670
01:20:10,960 --> 01:20:12,600
Speaker 4: I ain't going. If you want me to start, you

1671
01:20:12,760 --> 01:20:13,920
Speaker 4: gotta physically kill me.

1672
01:20:14,080 --> 01:20:17,559
Speaker 2: Exactly if you want me to singable, and bitch, I'm

1673
01:20:17,560 --> 01:20:20,160
Speaker 2: gonna kill you over mine. And now we got the

1674
01:20:20,600 --> 01:20:21,960
Speaker 2: what's it called the proof?

1675
01:20:22,920 --> 01:20:23,960
Speaker 1: We got the evidence.

1676
01:20:24,200 --> 01:20:27,920
Speaker 2: I'm all right, so it happened. They're gonna put us ouf.

1677
01:20:27,920 --> 01:20:30,720
Speaker 2: They're gonna be like, isn't this you though, And no,

1678
01:20:30,880 --> 01:20:33,160
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say, that's not the star looking for us

1679
01:20:33,160 --> 01:20:35,800
Speaker 2: because they gonna think we the accept If you want

1680
01:20:35,880 --> 01:20:37,880
Speaker 2: me to sing at your wedding, can I go on.

1681
01:20:38,640 --> 01:20:44,200
Speaker 3: My word, we're you know Mariah here. If her budgets

1682
01:20:44,200 --> 01:20:45,120
Speaker 3: too high, I got you.

1683
01:20:45,240 --> 01:20:46,000
Speaker 2: I'm doing for free.

1684
01:20:46,120 --> 01:20:48,760
Speaker 3: No, I got you, I got you. We're gonna need

1685
01:20:48,840 --> 01:20:49,840
Speaker 3: something to say, Yeah, just.

1686
01:20:49,920 --> 01:20:51,760
Speaker 2: Give me five hours and the beef jerky. I'm in

1687
01:20:51,800 --> 01:20:54,360
Speaker 2: there about the plane ticket because it's gonna be destination

1688
01:20:55,000 --> 01:20:59,400
Speaker 2: stay can and there we go, and we gotta do

1689
01:20:59,520 --> 01:21:00,160
Speaker 2: y'all gotta.

1690
01:21:00,200 --> 01:21:03,880
Speaker 3: Y'all gotta podcast the wedding like y'all gotta be like, yeah, officiate.

1691
01:21:07,040 --> 01:21:07,599
Speaker 5: We only.

1692
01:21:10,680 --> 01:21:15,639
Speaker 2: We only want questions to dam a real quick funny thing.

1693
01:21:16,000 --> 01:21:18,840
Speaker 2: We have a we have a pack where she can

1694
01:21:18,920 --> 01:21:20,960
Speaker 2: sing at my reception because she wants to sing at

1695
01:21:21,000 --> 01:21:23,160
Speaker 2: the wedding. Your jokes, she can't sing. No, she can

1696
01:21:23,200 --> 01:21:28,360
Speaker 2: sing at the reception. Most people gonna be at the end,

1697
01:21:29,520 --> 01:21:33,720
Speaker 2: at the end, at the end, and most people know

1698
01:21:36,120 --> 01:21:47,719
Speaker 2: she wants to sing at the wedding. But I'm like, calm,

1699
01:21:48,000 --> 01:22:03,800
Speaker 2: you look at my own this is crazy, Jill Jilly Man.

1700
01:22:05,240 --> 01:22:07,760
Speaker 1: No, two, okay.

1701
01:22:07,880 --> 01:22:13,040
Speaker 2: Question. Let my girlfriend is a teacher slash coach at

1702
01:22:13,080 --> 01:22:15,280
Speaker 2: her school, and she's been really busy lately, to the

1703
01:22:15,320 --> 01:22:18,720
Speaker 2: point where it's stressing her out. She's too exhausted during

1704
01:22:18,760 --> 01:22:21,559
Speaker 2: the week and the weekends are just filled with chores

1705
01:22:21,640 --> 01:22:24,960
Speaker 2: and errands. We're not as intimate, maybe like once a week,

1706
01:22:25,000 --> 01:22:27,160
Speaker 2: because most days she's just too tired.

1707
01:22:27,439 --> 01:22:30,280
Speaker 3: I'm just wondering if there's anything I can do to help.

1708
01:22:30,560 --> 01:22:33,639
Speaker 2: And yes I have asked, but she's always saying it's okay,

1709
01:22:33,880 --> 01:22:36,320
Speaker 2: or maybe she doesn't need anything. I always feel like

1710
01:22:36,439 --> 01:22:39,040
Speaker 2: sex relaxes me after a long day, but maybe women

1711
01:22:39,120 --> 01:22:42,360
Speaker 2: see it differently. Also, have you considered putting the Bop

1712
01:22:42,439 --> 01:22:44,720
Speaker 2: at the end of the show to kind of close out?

1713
01:22:44,800 --> 01:22:47,640
Speaker 2: Because sometimes I like to cue the song right at

1714
01:22:47,680 --> 01:22:51,960
Speaker 2: the show after the show? Also, have you considered joining

1715
01:22:52,080 --> 01:22:55,639
Speaker 2: a podcast company like Black Effects or maybe strike out

1716
01:22:56,240 --> 01:22:59,400
Speaker 2: on your own with eighty five South. First of all,

1717
01:22:59,439 --> 01:23:03,599
Speaker 2: I ain't leave. I don't know what. Okay, we love

1718
01:23:03,720 --> 01:23:10,160
Speaker 2: it now, but no, I do feel like sometimes certain

1719
01:23:10,240 --> 01:23:12,679
Speaker 2: women it's hard for them to say I need help.

1720
01:23:13,040 --> 01:23:15,679
Speaker 2: So even though you're asking her and she's not saying anything.

1721
01:23:16,320 --> 01:23:18,240
Speaker 2: Know her pattern of what she does when she get

1722
01:23:18,280 --> 01:23:20,680
Speaker 2: off work, so you can already have it done if

1723
01:23:20,720 --> 01:23:23,120
Speaker 2: she comes in and she's like washing dishes or she

1724
01:23:23,240 --> 01:23:26,519
Speaker 2: starts cooking, start cooking before then, or bring her food,

1725
01:23:26,680 --> 01:23:29,599
Speaker 2: or already have everything clean. So you need to pay

1726
01:23:29,640 --> 01:23:31,400
Speaker 2: a little bit more attention to detail.

1727
01:23:31,640 --> 01:23:33,160
Speaker 3: Oh no, I come from where.

1728
01:23:33,080 --> 01:23:33,479
Speaker 2: No matter what.

1729
01:23:33,600 --> 01:23:35,759
Speaker 3: You gotta bend that ship over, no matter what, because.

1730
01:23:37,600 --> 01:23:40,160
Speaker 2: He's gonna go somewhere else. So I don't care.

1731
01:23:40,160 --> 01:23:43,320
Speaker 4: I'm tired, and I'll go ahead and thank you. Hey,

1732
01:23:43,479 --> 01:23:45,200
Speaker 4: seven days a weekend, I don't want to. I'm gonna

1733
01:23:45,200 --> 01:23:47,880
Speaker 4: bust that thing open, shower.

1734
01:23:47,960 --> 01:23:48,519
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

1735
01:23:50,880 --> 01:23:53,960
Speaker 4: I got drained because men want exactly like women like.

1736
01:23:54,080 --> 01:23:55,920
Speaker 4: That's another thing, back to what we said women not

1737
01:23:56,000 --> 01:23:56,800
Speaker 4: gonna always want it.

1738
01:23:56,840 --> 01:23:58,559
Speaker 2: I don't always want it. I'm ready to go home

1739
01:23:58,640 --> 01:24:03,120
Speaker 2: and just puddle right ship. Okay, they ain't gonna last

1740
01:24:03,160 --> 01:24:10,839
Speaker 2: time anyway, Squeeze the girl, look.

1741
01:24:13,080 --> 01:24:20,680
Speaker 3: To give me wine, and I have day and I

1742
01:24:20,800 --> 01:24:21,479
Speaker 3: don't want to funk.

1743
01:24:21,600 --> 01:24:23,920
Speaker 2: I'm not right.

1744
01:24:24,120 --> 01:24:26,400
Speaker 3: But all the time you don't want to be into

1745
01:24:26,479 --> 01:24:30,960
Speaker 3: me with your Yeah you're and then you got nothing to.

1746
01:24:31,120 --> 01:24:33,880
Speaker 2: Scream up because yeah, like come on now, but like

1747
01:24:34,080 --> 01:24:38,479
Speaker 2: but I do feel like dude though, and it's like,

1748
01:24:38,560 --> 01:24:40,920
Speaker 2: so is it that suck? Like there's been like I said,

1749
01:24:40,960 --> 01:24:43,160
Speaker 2: like there's times where you physically just want to go

1750
01:24:43,760 --> 01:24:46,080
Speaker 2: to sleep, but it's already if it's been like two days,

1751
01:24:46,560 --> 01:24:49,120
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna have to suck it up. And I

1752
01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:53,400
Speaker 2: actually used to have this down. I used to have

1753
01:24:53,439 --> 01:24:55,200
Speaker 2: a joke with my ex because then he would be like,

1754
01:24:55,240 --> 01:24:58,519
Speaker 2: it's time o'clock in because he knew I didn't want

1755
01:24:58,520 --> 01:25:00,639
Speaker 2: to do I even want to suck that. I didn't

1756
01:25:00,640 --> 01:25:05,360
Speaker 2: want to call.

1757
01:25:07,560 --> 01:25:09,320
Speaker 3: But I do feel, like he said, he wants to

1758
01:25:09,439 --> 01:25:12,080
Speaker 3: help her. It's stressing her out. So I think you

1759
01:25:12,160 --> 01:25:14,400
Speaker 3: need to pay this stressing you. I know, she said,

1760
01:25:14,439 --> 01:25:15,479
Speaker 3: he said her work.

1761
01:25:15,360 --> 01:25:16,200
Speaker 1: Is stressing her out.

1762
01:25:16,320 --> 01:25:18,920
Speaker 2: So she's a cold. She's a teacher, So I think

1763
01:25:18,960 --> 01:25:21,360
Speaker 2: you need to pay attention to her patterns. And even

1764
01:25:21,400 --> 01:25:24,040
Speaker 2: though she's saying that she doesn't want help, help her

1765
01:25:24,600 --> 01:25:26,639
Speaker 2: find out what she needs help with, like, pay attention

1766
01:25:26,760 --> 01:25:27,400
Speaker 2: and just do it.

1767
01:25:27,760 --> 01:25:29,000
Speaker 3: Stop asking her and just.

1768
01:25:29,040 --> 01:25:29,559
Speaker 2: Get it done.

1769
01:25:30,080 --> 01:25:32,760
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, go ahead, Drea.

1770
01:25:33,200 --> 01:25:36,120
Speaker 2: All right, Hi ladies, I'm one of your male listeners

1771
01:25:36,160 --> 01:25:38,920
Speaker 2: from Massachusetts. I've been listening to each one of your

1772
01:25:39,000 --> 01:25:42,720
Speaker 2: weekly episodes for approximately four years every Friday morning in

1773
01:25:42,840 --> 01:25:44,200
Speaker 2: my home gym when I'm.

1774
01:25:44,080 --> 01:25:45,160
Speaker 3: Exercising before work.

1775
01:25:45,760 --> 01:25:48,000
Speaker 2: I really enjoy your content and have really learned how

1776
01:25:48,040 --> 01:25:52,240
Speaker 2: to become a BDB from YouTube period. My fiance moved

1777
01:25:52,280 --> 01:25:54,639
Speaker 2: in with me a year ago, and it's constantly seeing

1778
01:25:54,720 --> 01:25:55,839
Speaker 2: me listen to your content.

1779
01:25:56,200 --> 01:25:59,599
Speaker 3: I legitimately am always laughing at lex P's coming.

1780
01:26:00,240 --> 01:26:02,240
Speaker 2: My fiancee thinks I have a krush on lex P

1781
01:26:02,360 --> 01:26:04,599
Speaker 2: and wants me to stop listening, stop watching your show,

1782
01:26:05,479 --> 01:26:08,479
Speaker 2: or she will cancel our writing schedule next month. I

1783
01:26:08,560 --> 01:26:10,679
Speaker 2: don't want to lose my future wife, but I also

1784
01:26:10,760 --> 01:26:13,519
Speaker 2: don't want to give up my favorite podcast. What do

1785
01:26:13,680 --> 01:26:16,240
Speaker 2: I do? On a more serious note, I want to

1786
01:26:16,280 --> 01:26:18,040
Speaker 2: bring her to one of your live shows so that

1787
01:26:18,160 --> 01:26:20,680
Speaker 2: she can see why I like y'all so much. When

1788
01:26:20,720 --> 01:26:21,840
Speaker 2: are you coming to the East Coast?

1789
01:26:21,920 --> 01:26:25,280
Speaker 3: She need to be a fan first of all, understand,

1790
01:26:25,560 --> 01:26:26,439
Speaker 3: I mean my thing is.

1791
01:26:26,560 --> 01:26:30,439
Speaker 2: Okay, even like okay, I don't think you have a

1792
01:26:30,520 --> 01:26:33,160
Speaker 2: crush on Legs. You just lex is really funny, like

1793
01:26:33,280 --> 01:26:35,240
Speaker 2: she really is, Like she's one of the funniest people,

1794
01:26:35,240 --> 01:26:39,360
Speaker 2: like everything. No, I'm just like no, no, but I

1795
01:26:39,479 --> 01:26:41,320
Speaker 2: only said that it makes her feel better because she

1796
01:26:41,360 --> 01:26:44,439
Speaker 2: sees the like. But damn, how we just messed it

1797
01:26:44,520 --> 01:26:44,880
Speaker 2: all up.

1798
01:26:45,160 --> 01:26:47,400
Speaker 3: I always think he might have he might have a

1799
01:26:47,479 --> 01:26:48,160
Speaker 3: crush on Legs.

1800
01:26:48,160 --> 01:26:50,080
Speaker 2: Okay, whatever, say he does have a c on Lis,

1801
01:26:50,720 --> 01:26:52,639
Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, what's the likelihood

1802
01:26:52,680 --> 01:26:53,479
Speaker 2: that they gonna be together?

1803
01:26:54,080 --> 01:26:57,040
Speaker 3: Lex don't want show nigga. I'm telling you there right now, so.

1804
01:26:57,680 --> 01:27:04,400
Speaker 2: I do not, especially if you don't. No, no, no,

1805
01:27:04,680 --> 01:27:06,720
Speaker 2: But it's not about me not wanting him. I don't

1806
01:27:06,800 --> 01:27:10,360
Speaker 2: want a married man. You're married or you're engaged, and

1807
01:27:10,439 --> 01:27:12,960
Speaker 2: that's what I mean. Yeah, I don't want to engage man,

1808
01:27:13,080 --> 01:27:15,120
Speaker 2: first of all, and second of all, I'm here to entertain,

1809
01:27:15,280 --> 01:27:17,960
Speaker 2: Like girl, you can like this is fun for me

1810
01:27:19,640 --> 01:27:22,000
Speaker 2: the manda because you know what, Like he's learned how

1811
01:27:22,040 --> 01:27:23,519
Speaker 2: to be it. I taught him how to be a

1812
01:27:23,600 --> 01:27:25,280
Speaker 2: bad beating step up. You know what I'm saying, Like,

1813
01:27:25,320 --> 01:27:27,200
Speaker 2: I'm making your relationship pou.

1814
01:27:28,040 --> 01:27:29,680
Speaker 1: We can be friends, girl.

1815
01:27:29,920 --> 01:27:32,080
Speaker 2: I can long keep seeing subliminal see him like. One

1816
01:27:32,080 --> 01:27:34,800
Speaker 2: thing I will say, I will never get involved with

1817
01:27:34,960 --> 01:27:38,439
Speaker 2: like listeners in their personal lives because honestly, I had

1818
01:27:38,479 --> 01:27:41,920
Speaker 2: a friend that did that before she got weird. So

1819
01:27:42,200 --> 01:27:45,720
Speaker 2: I feel like, as a normal human, we all have

1820
01:27:45,920 --> 01:27:49,280
Speaker 2: like celebrity crushes. Like my my homeboy, one of my

1821
01:27:49,320 --> 01:27:51,800
Speaker 2: best friends is absolutely in love with you. He gonna

1822
01:27:51,800 --> 01:27:53,880
Speaker 2: be like, really he's in like when when you see

1823
01:27:53,920 --> 01:27:56,519
Speaker 2: this episode, he gonna have a harder scene, but at

1824
01:27:56,560 --> 01:27:59,360
Speaker 2: the same time, like he doesn't have a chance with you.

1825
01:27:59,640 --> 01:28:02,439
Speaker 2: We all know that. But that's story real quick. My

1826
01:28:02,560 --> 01:28:06,040
Speaker 2: brother's roommate in college literally had me as his screensaver

1827
01:28:06,160 --> 01:28:06,840
Speaker 2: for the longest. Mind you.

1828
01:28:06,960 --> 01:28:08,639
Speaker 3: My brother was like, this was the first time.

1829
01:28:08,720 --> 01:28:10,360
Speaker 4: He was like, because see all his life, he's been

1830
01:28:10,400 --> 01:28:12,960
Speaker 4: Jillie's brother. He was like, I was in college, no

1831
01:28:13,040 --> 01:28:14,720
Speaker 4: one new, so I didn't want to say anything. And

1832
01:28:15,000 --> 01:28:16,559
Speaker 4: he was like the whole time, well the whole time.

1833
01:28:16,600 --> 01:28:18,800
Speaker 4: His roommate didn't even put two and two together. Wow,

1834
01:28:19,080 --> 01:28:21,240
Speaker 4: So he was like had me as his screensavers the

1835
01:28:21,280 --> 01:28:23,559
Speaker 4: whole time, and my brother never said anything.

1836
01:28:23,600 --> 01:28:25,360
Speaker 3: So one time, my brother and I were on FaceTime

1837
01:28:25,600 --> 01:28:26,560
Speaker 3: and his roommate.

1838
01:28:26,320 --> 01:28:29,280
Speaker 2: Was like, ah, fuck fucking lie.

1839
01:28:30,160 --> 01:28:33,880
Speaker 3: He was like, it's been like nine months you didn't

1840
01:28:33,920 --> 01:28:36,840
Speaker 3: see her. That's great.

1841
01:28:36,960 --> 01:28:39,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I do feel like there's a reason that

1842
01:28:39,600 --> 01:28:42,000
Speaker 2: she's insecure, and it has nothing to do with me.

1843
01:28:42,840 --> 01:28:45,360
Speaker 2: So you need to have a conversation with your fiance

1844
01:28:45,520 --> 01:28:48,519
Speaker 2: and figure out why she's feeling this way, because if

1845
01:28:48,600 --> 01:28:50,400
Speaker 2: she's watching this, girl, I am no threat to you.

1846
01:28:50,479 --> 01:28:52,679
Speaker 2: I got my own situation that I'm trying.

1847
01:28:52,520 --> 01:28:52,920
Speaker 3: To work out.

1848
01:28:53,000 --> 01:28:55,040
Speaker 2: I am in my man, my man mold right now,

1849
01:28:55,680 --> 01:28:58,479
Speaker 2: and I really am like I'm really trying to be

1850
01:28:58,600 --> 01:29:01,639
Speaker 2: a girlfriend right now. Like honestly, I don't talk about

1851
01:29:01,680 --> 01:29:03,160
Speaker 2: it on the show. I said I wasn't gonna drop

1852
01:29:03,240 --> 01:29:05,519
Speaker 2: his name, and I'm trying to do things different. Like, girl,

1853
01:29:05,840 --> 01:29:08,920
Speaker 2: your man is safe. He just enjoys us. We're entertained.

1854
01:29:09,000 --> 01:29:11,639
Speaker 2: This is a good time, So show her this girl,

1855
01:29:11,680 --> 01:29:14,639
Speaker 2: don't worry about me. I ain't sucking this dick. Yeah

1856
01:29:14,920 --> 01:29:17,080
Speaker 2: I suck a lot of dicks, but no, he right.

1857
01:29:17,280 --> 01:29:19,200
Speaker 3: I just feel like, you know, you have to get

1858
01:29:19,280 --> 01:29:21,920
Speaker 3: that together. You have to just say you're trying to

1859
01:29:21,960 --> 01:29:22,559
Speaker 3: be a girlfriend.

1860
01:29:23,040 --> 01:29:27,120
Speaker 2: Say that. I mean, you know, I'm fa sick. If

1861
01:29:27,160 --> 01:29:30,040
Speaker 2: you date a forty six year old, you know knows

1862
01:29:30,080 --> 01:29:31,719
Speaker 2: something not forty All.

1863
01:29:31,680 --> 01:29:37,960
Speaker 3: Right, You're call me am, There's no way black really

1864
01:29:38,040 --> 01:29:38,519
Speaker 3: don't cry?

1865
01:29:39,040 --> 01:29:40,920
Speaker 2: Whoa thank you?

1866
01:29:41,040 --> 01:29:41,320
Speaker 1: Jilly?

1867
01:29:42,360 --> 01:29:46,080
Speaker 2: No, I that called me all because I'm I'm giving.

1868
01:29:46,479 --> 01:29:54,920
Speaker 2: I know, Jillie, Oh bitch, I told you she'd be lying.

1869
01:29:54,960 --> 01:29:58,800
Speaker 2: Why do you believe that she? This bit is thirty two?

1870
01:29:59,720 --> 01:30:04,280
Speaker 2: I'm oh, man, oh do you believe you really was

1871
01:30:04,439 --> 01:30:05,960
Speaker 2: believing Oscar?

1872
01:30:06,479 --> 01:30:06,519
Speaker 5: No?

1873
01:30:06,760 --> 01:30:14,720
Speaker 2: Really, I'm really oh my right again the name of

1874
01:30:14,800 --> 01:30:15,320
Speaker 2: the episode.

1875
01:30:16,960 --> 01:30:20,479
Speaker 3: Yo, what, I'm sorry, I'm so mad, I'm sorry.

1876
01:30:20,840 --> 01:30:25,479
Speaker 2: Thirty two, She's alright, I'm still old man, forty six

1877
01:30:25,760 --> 01:30:27,960
Speaker 2: versus thirty two. I mean I'm almost dull.

1878
01:30:28,640 --> 01:30:30,759
Speaker 3: Goodness, what's the next question?

1879
01:30:32,160 --> 01:30:37,800
Speaker 2: Question for it? Go ahead, and Drea, I just ready's ready?

1880
01:30:37,840 --> 01:30:38,400
Speaker 3: Can I read one?

1881
01:30:38,520 --> 01:30:38,720
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1882
01:30:38,720 --> 01:30:41,040
Speaker 3: I'm ready, go ahead, Jillie, because you let tomorrow.

1883
01:30:43,000 --> 01:30:44,880
Speaker 4: Me and my best friend met my freshman year of

1884
01:30:44,960 --> 01:30:47,519
Speaker 4: college and have been going strong since. We both had

1885
01:30:47,560 --> 01:30:49,960
Speaker 4: some shitty jobs after graduating, and for some time she

1886
01:30:50,080 --> 01:30:53,200
Speaker 4: was doing better than me. However, I recently got a promotion,

1887
01:30:53,320 --> 01:30:56,679
Speaker 4: and although I'm nowhere near bawling, I'm now making twenty

1888
01:30:56,800 --> 01:30:59,760
Speaker 4: to twenty five thousand dollars more than her, whereas before

1889
01:30:59,800 --> 01:31:01,240
Speaker 4: I was making like fifteen.

1890
01:31:00,920 --> 01:31:02,000
Speaker 3: Thousand dollars less than her.

1891
01:31:02,479 --> 01:31:05,120
Speaker 4: Since I can now afford to have semi nice things,

1892
01:31:05,439 --> 01:31:09,040
Speaker 4: I've been spending with more ease than before, and learning

1893
01:31:09,080 --> 01:31:11,760
Speaker 4: into some of my bougie tendencies. I noticed that she

1894
01:31:11,920 --> 01:31:15,240
Speaker 4: makes little slick comments about my purchases, what you were

1895
01:31:15,320 --> 01:31:15,719
Speaker 4: just saying?

1896
01:31:16,040 --> 01:31:21,920
Speaker 2: Crazy? And more mentions that she's broke ooh look, okay,

1897
01:31:22,000 --> 01:31:25,680
Speaker 2: continue she's even more. She's even become more relax with

1898
01:31:25,800 --> 01:31:28,599
Speaker 2: paying me back money, and that's never been an issue.

1899
01:31:28,840 --> 01:31:32,479
Speaker 2: She's also acted very entitled when I've bought her gifts recently,

1900
01:31:32,920 --> 01:31:34,800
Speaker 2: like when I sent her flowers just to show my

1901
01:31:34,920 --> 01:31:37,400
Speaker 2: love as a friend and she didn't even mention that

1902
01:31:37,600 --> 01:31:40,400
Speaker 2: she got them until I did, and then didn't proceed

1903
01:31:40,520 --> 01:31:41,080
Speaker 2: to say thank you.

1904
01:31:41,840 --> 01:31:45,240
Speaker 4: I didn't act like this was excuse me. I didn't

1905
01:31:45,280 --> 01:31:48,599
Speaker 4: act like this when I was the severely broke friend.

1906
01:31:49,000 --> 01:31:51,720
Speaker 4: How do I address this because it's making me uncomfortable

1907
01:31:51,760 --> 01:31:54,439
Speaker 4: without making her uncomfortable because I don't give a fuck

1908
01:31:54,760 --> 01:31:58,240
Speaker 4: if she don't got it. But don't be pressing me

1909
01:31:58,560 --> 01:32:01,120
Speaker 4: and acting like I'm missing money bags.

1910
01:32:01,080 --> 01:32:04,479
Speaker 2: Because this is my thing. I was.

1911
01:32:06,560 --> 01:32:09,280
Speaker 3: Because at the end of the day, because I'm making

1912
01:32:09,360 --> 01:32:10,479
Speaker 3: money and I'm your friend.

1913
01:32:10,760 --> 01:32:12,680
Speaker 2: Like if you ever get in a buying like if

1914
01:32:12,720 --> 01:32:15,320
Speaker 2: you really be in a buying eight and you need something,

1915
01:32:15,720 --> 01:32:19,479
Speaker 2: and I will yeah, I'll help you out like I'll

1916
01:32:19,479 --> 01:32:21,720
Speaker 2: help you out if I got it, but don't be

1917
01:32:21,920 --> 01:32:27,439
Speaker 2: just expecting because I'm your friend, and but let's talk

1918
01:32:27,439 --> 01:32:30,960
Speaker 2: about it. It's really because it's lowly some jealousy going

1919
01:32:31,040 --> 01:32:34,160
Speaker 2: on because you've always been less than her, so when

1920
01:32:34,240 --> 01:32:36,439
Speaker 2: now that you're up and you're doing better than her,

1921
01:32:36,600 --> 01:32:39,120
Speaker 2: it's a hate. People want to see you win as

1922
01:32:39,160 --> 01:32:42,519
Speaker 2: long as you aren't winning above them, and so you

1923
01:32:42,640 --> 01:32:44,840
Speaker 2: need to really, honestly, I feel like this when somebody

1924
01:32:44,880 --> 01:32:47,120
Speaker 2: starts acting like that, reevaluate your friendship.

1925
01:32:47,479 --> 01:32:49,640
Speaker 3: I had to do that recently, and I don't have

1926
01:32:49,760 --> 01:32:50,360
Speaker 3: a big family.

1927
01:32:50,479 --> 01:32:52,759
Speaker 2: I don't. I've always said that it's really just my sister,

1928
01:32:53,280 --> 01:32:56,360
Speaker 2: my mom, and me and my uncle. So I feel

1929
01:32:56,479 --> 01:32:59,840
Speaker 2: like when somebody that's a close friend to me does

1930
01:32:59,920 --> 01:33:02,320
Speaker 2: me wrong, you show me your true colors, and I'm

1931
01:33:02,400 --> 01:33:05,000
Speaker 2: out because I've had people that I was literally on

1932
01:33:05,160 --> 01:33:07,760
Speaker 2: their back, like the ship that I have not only

1933
01:33:08,000 --> 01:33:10,160
Speaker 2: just like not I don't want to say done to Drea,

1934
01:33:10,200 --> 01:33:12,439
Speaker 2: but the ship that we went through, it was a lot.

1935
01:33:13,240 --> 01:33:16,439
Speaker 2: It was a lot on her and we went through

1936
01:33:16,439 --> 01:33:17,960
Speaker 2: a work pression. It was a lot on her, but

1937
01:33:18,080 --> 01:33:20,320
Speaker 2: she still was like my friend and there wasn't nothing

1938
01:33:20,360 --> 01:33:22,760
Speaker 2: about anything. It was just about, bitch, we're gonna get

1939
01:33:22,840 --> 01:33:25,479
Speaker 2: through this. So the fact of the matter is when

1940
01:33:25,520 --> 01:33:27,560
Speaker 2: I started winning and I started coming up and I

1941
01:33:27,640 --> 01:33:30,519
Speaker 2: started like getting money from different sources and getting on

1942
01:33:30,560 --> 01:33:33,280
Speaker 2: my feet, she was like, yes, bitch, exactly. So when

1943
01:33:33,320 --> 01:33:36,400
Speaker 2: I seen the exactly so when I seen other people,

1944
01:33:37,000 --> 01:33:40,200
Speaker 2: when I seen other people being like, oh god, oh god,

1945
01:33:40,280 --> 01:33:42,240
Speaker 2: it was like, why are you mad? Like you haven't

1946
01:33:42,280 --> 01:33:46,160
Speaker 2: seen how hard down I've been, so reevaluate your friendship.

1947
01:33:46,320 --> 01:33:46,960
Speaker 2: That's how I feel.

1948
01:33:47,000 --> 01:33:48,120
Speaker 3: That's some weirdo activity.

1949
01:33:48,160 --> 01:33:50,679
Speaker 4: It's weirdo activity because she should be the one sending

1950
01:33:50,720 --> 01:33:52,040
Speaker 4: you flowers like that's my bitch.

1951
01:33:53,320 --> 01:33:55,280
Speaker 2: Let's keep one up and each other. Let's keep like

1952
01:33:55,400 --> 01:33:56,599
Speaker 2: building exactly.

1953
01:33:56,800 --> 01:33:59,560
Speaker 3: The only person you should be in competition with is yourself.

1954
01:34:00,240 --> 01:34:00,400
Speaker 5: Yea.

1955
01:34:00,840 --> 01:34:03,599
Speaker 2: I just think that's strange because again, don't be thinking

1956
01:34:03,800 --> 01:34:06,519
Speaker 2: my money is our money now, because it ain't. My

1957
01:34:06,640 --> 01:34:07,400
Speaker 2: money is my money?

1958
01:34:07,439 --> 01:34:10,960
Speaker 3: You still back my money. It's five dollars at the decision.

1959
01:34:11,000 --> 01:34:11,439
Speaker 2: Don't mean.

1960
01:34:12,960 --> 01:34:16,240
Speaker 3: No, I really contracts when they borrow fifty dollars on

1961
01:34:16,360 --> 01:34:16,880
Speaker 3: an aping.

1962
01:34:18,160 --> 01:34:20,760
Speaker 2: I want my money. I don't care if you owe

1963
01:34:20,800 --> 01:34:21,519
Speaker 2: me three dollars.

1964
01:34:23,000 --> 01:34:25,120
Speaker 3: I completely agree, Like, I want my money.

1965
01:34:25,160 --> 01:34:26,760
Speaker 4: I don't care, and that's the biggest thing that makes

1966
01:34:26,800 --> 01:34:31,240
Speaker 4: me so many people be like people be thinking, this

1967
01:34:31,360 --> 01:34:32,280
Speaker 4: is my lunch yesterday.

1968
01:34:32,439 --> 01:34:34,920
Speaker 2: Can give me that ship right back exactly. That's what

1969
01:34:35,439 --> 01:34:37,360
Speaker 2: I can ask me for stuff and not expect the

1970
01:34:37,360 --> 01:34:43,800
Speaker 2: bag is my sister. Yeah, that's my mom. Hell, I

1971
01:34:43,960 --> 01:34:47,240
Speaker 2: see your checks being like, you don't need my ship.

1972
01:34:47,560 --> 01:34:52,479
Speaker 2: You don't need nothing from me? What about you? It's

1973
01:34:52,520 --> 01:34:56,200
Speaker 2: like it's tied up. She don't need what about when

1974
01:34:56,720 --> 01:35:03,000
Speaker 2: you want me? See how people do you?

1975
01:35:03,320 --> 01:35:03,519
Speaker 6: Girl?

1976
01:35:05,920 --> 01:35:09,280
Speaker 2: We even now? Hell, I've been told too many knock

1977
01:35:09,320 --> 01:35:12,160
Speaker 2: knock jokes that hey, you don't got you out of

1978
01:35:12,240 --> 01:35:17,519
Speaker 2: did Okay? So before we end out the show, Jilly,

1979
01:35:17,600 --> 01:35:20,599
Speaker 2: let them know where they can find you, like drop everything,

1980
01:35:20,800 --> 01:35:23,400
Speaker 2: drop girls, they gonna with you.

1981
01:35:23,680 --> 01:35:26,320
Speaker 4: My girls come with me, not for real though. You

1982
01:35:26,400 --> 01:35:28,840
Speaker 4: can find me on everything. All my social media handles

1983
01:35:28,880 --> 01:35:31,200
Speaker 4: are Jilly and these j I L L Y A

1984
01:35:31,439 --> 01:35:33,599
Speaker 4: N A I S. My website is I am Jilly

1985
01:35:33,680 --> 01:35:36,879
Speaker 4: dot com. Super easy. You can find everything on my website,

1986
01:35:36,920 --> 01:35:39,320
Speaker 4: I am Jilly dot com and then my new EP

1987
01:35:39,439 --> 01:35:42,120
Speaker 4: that just dropped copy and paste, go find that. It's

1988
01:35:42,200 --> 01:35:44,479
Speaker 4: on Spotify, it's on Apple Music, it's on title, it's

1989
01:35:44,560 --> 01:35:47,240
Speaker 4: on iTunes, it's on anything that got a streaming platform.

1990
01:35:47,280 --> 01:35:47,760
Speaker 3: It's there.

1991
01:35:47,960 --> 01:35:51,200
Speaker 4: It's be there, B Square, don't be hopping on the

1992
01:35:51,240 --> 01:35:54,040
Speaker 4: bandwagon years later from now, hop on right the fuck now,

1993
01:35:54,080 --> 01:35:56,639
Speaker 4: because I'm on the band I'm riding and I'm telling

1994
01:35:56,720 --> 01:35:58,640
Speaker 4: y'all y'all better, y'all better be on their ass. Go

1995
01:35:58,760 --> 01:36:05,280
Speaker 4: listen a minute, no skips, I got it. Okay, So

1996
01:36:05,360 --> 01:36:06,840
Speaker 4: there you go, and then you can go listen to

1997
01:36:06,880 --> 01:36:09,839
Speaker 4: whatever else you're gonna listen to anything else after ten minutes,

1998
01:36:09,880 --> 01:36:13,200
Speaker 4: all the way through four songs, But thank you so.

1999
01:36:13,360 --> 01:36:22,360
Speaker 2: Much for coming through, having have much fun down before

2000
01:36:22,360 --> 01:36:24,680
Speaker 2: you watch it. You know, we like to in the

2001
01:36:25,400 --> 01:36:27,400
Speaker 2: show with a good song. So we want to do

2002
01:36:27,520 --> 01:36:30,560
Speaker 2: something that's like give me trio because I knew we

2003
01:36:30,720 --> 01:36:38,439
Speaker 2: was gonna be giving a group. Okay, you want to

2004
01:36:38,520 --> 01:36:40,240
Speaker 2: do the intro and then I'm gonna start the verse.

2005
01:36:41,000 --> 01:36:45,960
Speaker 3: Do this, okay, Kelly, can you handle this? Michelle? Can

2006
01:36:46,080 --> 01:36:50,320
Speaker 3: you handle this? Can you handle this? I don't think

2007
01:36:50,439 --> 01:36:51,240
Speaker 3: they can handle this.

2008
01:36:52,200 --> 01:37:00,599
Speaker 2: Hand mood looking Fly Bad Chick, Chicken Side, DJ Gem

2009
01:37:00,840 --> 01:37:05,280
Speaker 2: Night Spot Me, sam Thing a bag bar and come

2010
01:37:05,320 --> 01:37:08,720
Speaker 2: from Baby and don't fun and dance with me. Can

2011
01:37:08,880 --> 01:37:13,720
Speaker 2: you handle I don't think I don't know. Dance with me?

2012
01:37:15,360 --> 01:37:15,920
Speaker 2: Got me?

2013
01:37:17,240 --> 01:37:17,439
Speaker 5: You know?

2014
01:37:17,720 --> 01:37:21,360
Speaker 2: Dance with me tonight? Raise my lips, capen like what

2015
01:37:21,479 --> 01:37:24,400
Speaker 2: you see? More proof you can handle me? By the

2016
01:37:24,479 --> 01:37:26,720
Speaker 2: list I got you shut up scared of me? Let

2017
01:37:26,720 --> 01:37:31,280
Speaker 2: me think by the south take back word. I don't

2018
01:37:31,320 --> 01:37:44,040
Speaker 2: figure bor delicious. Go ahead read I don't figure read

2019
01:37:44,560 --> 01:37:47,600
Speaker 2: this because my body too bor delicious for you.

2020
01:37:47,760 --> 01:37:48,040
Speaker 5: Bang.

2021
01:37:48,800 --> 01:37:55,760
Speaker 8: Don't hit the Michelle, Oh you shall? I shake my

2022
01:37:57,040 --> 01:37:59,800
Speaker 8: move your body up and now make your.

2023
01:38:00,040 --> 01:38:02,880
Speaker 2: When you touch the ground. I can't help my one

2024
01:38:03,080 --> 01:38:03,519
Speaker 2: a while.

2025
01:38:03,720 --> 01:38:06,240
Speaker 3: The vibe is too bib relationous for your back.

2026
01:38:07,800 --> 01:38:10,519
Speaker 2: Where's the where's the the part?

2027
01:38:13,479 --> 01:38:15,719
Speaker 3: Every kid? When I with my hips?

2028
01:38:15,840 --> 01:38:22,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm that I have cut the rub some jazz

2029
01:38:23,320 --> 01:38:30,679
Speaker 2: say from jazz. Not know these words jazz. I'm trying

2030
01:38:30,720 --> 01:38:35,559
Speaker 2: to scatch some jazz rug while you scatched some jazz period.

2031
01:38:35,880 --> 01:38:36,760
Speaker 3: What does that even mean?

2032
01:38:36,960 --> 01:38:40,000
Speaker 2: That's the four to four to six year olds. I'm

2033
01:38:40,040 --> 01:38:42,000
Speaker 2: cutting the rug while I sketched some jazz.

2034
01:38:43,040 --> 01:38:48,519
Speaker 3: By but.

2035
01:38:50,960 --> 01:38:59,960
Speaker 2: Bow byll read where you at? He was singing the

2036
01:39:00,080 --> 01:39:06,920
Speaker 2: building stop playing with song boot delicious. He's an anthem

2037
01:39:07,080 --> 01:39:09,519
Speaker 2: and shout out to Stevie Nicks because it was a

2038
01:39:09,800 --> 01:39:12,840
Speaker 2: sample from the original song and she used to no no.

2039
01:39:13,880 --> 01:39:17,320
Speaker 2: I never knew she was about to say Stevie j No,

2040
01:39:17,560 --> 01:39:24,160
Speaker 2: Stevie Nicks. Actually that's lyrics. Honestly, that's what I'm about

2041
01:39:24,160 --> 01:39:26,640
Speaker 2: to say to a nigga. When I'm about to say

2042
01:39:26,680 --> 01:39:29,519
Speaker 2: that to a nigga, my body to Booty Delicious, about

2043
01:39:29,520 --> 01:39:38,920
Speaker 2: to cut a rug, scutch some jazz like exactly, I'm

2044
01:39:38,920 --> 01:39:41,599
Speaker 2: about to cut a rug while I scattered some money back,

2045
01:39:42,840 --> 01:39:45,639
Speaker 2: maybe to update it. I don't like the work because

2046
01:39:45,680 --> 01:39:52,680
Speaker 2: when I think about up, absolutely not something that was

2047
01:39:52,680 --> 01:39:57,280
Speaker 2: swimming in my mind. Yeah, we talked about this on

2048
01:39:57,320 --> 01:40:00,760
Speaker 2: the show before calling. When people be or boobo and

2049
01:40:00,800 --> 01:40:03,439
Speaker 2: on people, it's called play. All right, thank y'all so

2050
01:40:03,680 --> 01:40:07,600
Speaker 2: much for tuning in. We will see y'all next. We

2051
01:40:07,800 --> 01:40:12,160
Speaker 2: wait in the building. You know what the going on?

2052
01:40:12,640 --> 01:40:14,600
Speaker 3: Nope, see y'all got me. I don't even say that

2053
01:40:14,680 --> 01:40:14,840
Speaker 3: you know.

2054
01:40:16,680 --> 01:40:17,000
Speaker 2: Going on?

2055
01:40:19,520 --> 01:40:20,080
Speaker 3: You already know.

2056
01:40:20,439 --> 01:40:22,439
Speaker 2: Thank you guys for having me.

2057
01:40:24,320 --> 01:40:26,920
Speaker 3: Arriving of sexual gratification from fantasy.

2058
01:40:29,080 --> 01:40:33,479
Speaker 2: Follow me, bye, y'all. I don't want to forgive them

2059
01:40:33,520 --> 01:40:39,519
Speaker 2: the definition y'all having a disgusting I'm disgusting? Are we done.

2060
01:40:40,280 --> 01:40:41,760
Speaker 2: This is good good