Speaker 1: Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No
Speaker 1: Sinners Podcast with your host now funck that with your
Speaker 1: low glasses Malone. She's still doing its first no because
Speaker 1: you know, like when you be you're gonna get some
Speaker 1: fast food and you don't you shouldn't have to tell
Speaker 1: them like, okay, my should be fresh. But they had
Speaker 1: time to really do that right now, you know. So
Speaker 1: I was like, just happy to be fresh she was.
Speaker 1: She was like, no, it actually just came out, you
Speaker 1: know some they say that. I'm like, all right, she
Speaker 1: was cool. I was all like, oh, this is bum
Speaker 1: It was good. I was happy, and then I said
Speaker 1: you take the first bite and her eyes she was
Speaker 1: smoking some smoked because I got to make sure. That's wait.
Speaker 1: That's why I have to stop smoking at night, because
Speaker 1: I'm ready to just go kill some ship. What I
Speaker 1: did was I went to Trader Joe's and I got
Speaker 1: a lot of healthy snacks that are really like good
Speaker 1: and taste good. Chocolate cover, bananas, chocolate cover. I also
Speaker 1: have this one. It's called no um no dairy or
Speaker 1: ice cream ice creams or ice cream cones and they're
Speaker 1: only like a hun Yes, they taste like real. You
Speaker 1: got some when you smoke weed. You have these munkeys. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you have low calorie munches. You go, so you know,
Speaker 1: if you're gonna do it, do it right. Yeah, because
Speaker 1: I won't get my goats. It will be cereal. Ochre
Speaker 1: chips you have like ochre chips. Really, I like chips,
Speaker 1: but it's like dried out, okra the whole thing. Why
Speaker 1: would you get an ore chip Because it's crunchy and
Speaker 1: it's good. It's better than the corn ship. It's not
Speaker 1: better eating it's ok the planet chips are fired. Yeah,
Speaker 1: those are good. Those are good, right, and then they
Speaker 1: have no like what is it? Sweeper tails and carrots
Speaker 1: and oh yeah, I'm just talking about the mixed mos. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's dehydrated. I'm not eating ore chips and the three
Speaker 1: layer hummas. You put me on that, that three layer hummas,
Speaker 1: I don't like. Hey they got this to Trader Joe's.
Speaker 1: Is my spot for snacks only Shopper Sprouts, see, I
Speaker 1: haven't with Oh we used to go to Sprouts right
Speaker 1: crusty from Yeah, I like sprouts. Sprouts is my store completely. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't have it. I don't really try to get
Speaker 1: creative with meals. I keep it simple. I get seated watermelons,
Speaker 1: I get raw milk, rawhomogenized pasteurized. It's a company calls
Speaker 1: shout out to the company raw Farms. They based on
Speaker 1: Central California, and they actually the only company that has unhomogenized,
Speaker 1: unpasteurized milk. I mean it only lasts about four days,
Speaker 1: five days. But in those four or five days, like
Speaker 1: most people think they have like their lactose intolerant, and
Speaker 1: they're not. They're just the product that they've been drinking
Speaker 1: has been ultra pasteurized. Like in my mind the way
Speaker 1: I see it, I'm not sure this is true. So
Speaker 1: you can't. You can listen to me like just from
Speaker 1: glasses because it helped my life. But like the minerals
Speaker 1: and the envitamins create like a bar code on all
Speaker 1: the natural earth products, right, the combination of them. Um,
Speaker 1: when you pasteurize, you know, liquid, you strip it, especially
Speaker 1: when you ultra pasteuriity, you strip it of all this
Speaker 1: natural minerals and environments you know. Um. When Lewis Passion
Speaker 1: first came up with the idea of pasteurization, it was
Speaker 1: to heat up beer to a place to where he
Speaker 1: got rid of all of these viruses and stuff that
Speaker 1: would make it go bad like in a day, you know,
Speaker 1: I mean all these bad and negative things that can
Speaker 1: make you sick. But over the time people realize it
Speaker 1: was more financially viable if they get rid of all
Speaker 1: of the living vitamins and minerals in there, then me
Speaker 1: the milk colass thirty days, you can get milkshire you're
Speaker 1: looking to go to the grocer store. Milk, don't go
Speaker 1: back for thirty six days because there's nothing living in it.
Speaker 1: In your body processes it, so when you drink it,
Speaker 1: it's stripped of that bar code, that natural bar code,
Speaker 1: so your body don't know what it is, so it
Speaker 1: starts to firm in your body. And milk is one
Speaker 1: of those products where your body produces either I think
Speaker 1: it's lactose or lactate. Your body produces it. To digest
Speaker 1: milk sugar, it needs to produce something as well with it,
Speaker 1: so when it comes together, that's how you digest milk.
Speaker 1: Without those minerals and vitamins, your body don't recognize it
Speaker 1: as milk, so it won't process it, so it's sit
Speaker 1: in your body and firm it. That's why you have gas.
Speaker 1: So I have to buy this twelve dollar half a
Speaker 1: gallon milk. Can't you can't milk it? Amon what? You
Speaker 1: don't even care that it's just a lie. Once again,
Speaker 1: this is just some woman ship. I don't even care.
Speaker 1: That's a lot you can't make. I don't know. It's
Speaker 1: not pus pus. So would you breast feed your baby?
Speaker 1: Plus us? Is it because the animals are sick? No,
Speaker 1: that's that boys, I don't know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: I'm just talking no milk, milk come out your breast
Speaker 1: to when you get pregnant exactly. Don't just be plus.
Speaker 1: But I'm not a cow, and I don't think we
Speaker 1: should be drinking. Sometimes. You gotta stop thinking about what
Speaker 1: you think because you're probably not that smart that this.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying nothing. We're like the only mammals that
Speaker 1: still that drink our own milk, right, Like you know
Speaker 1: what you mean? You mean drink other people? I mean not,
Speaker 1: I mean after a certain age like we still you
Speaker 1: don't even know that's what I mean. Drink other people's milk.
Speaker 1: I mean tigers still eat deers and ship and they
Speaker 1: be thirty. No, that's what I said. Why are we
Speaker 1: drinking babies drinking cow Why do lions still eat cows
Speaker 1: when they're grown? Why they don't just eat lions? But
Speaker 1: they were drinking milk. But the milking, Yeah, that's for
Speaker 1: nourishment for a baby, like a baby cow the size
Speaker 1: of a adult human. We're drinking human milk for no reason.
Speaker 1: Now we're growing up, So why are we still drinking
Speaker 1: cow milk? You know, like water is like the Earth's milk. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like you know, this is like this repetitive cycle of
Speaker 1: all the same ship for y'all start hearing with recipes
Speaker 1: to SEVCA. But y'all just don't start, because this conversation
Speaker 1: gonna get crazy. Y'all gonna get all out of hand
Speaker 1: and be talking crazy. Look, don't I understand In two
Speaker 1: thousand twenty two, y'all they got two boozy for milk
Speaker 1: and tap water. No, I respect that. In two thou two,
Speaker 1: after all this social programming, Yeah, I've turned your back
Speaker 1: on tap water and milk. I haven't turned my back.
Speaker 1: I just never I've never liked milk. Milk is de listens.
Speaker 1: Understand if you don't like it, don't, first off, then
Speaker 1: why would you drink the milk of an Norman? Listen?
Speaker 1: I was happy that they made almond milk, because why
Speaker 1: would you be happy? Because I like the taste of it,
Speaker 1: So I was so you would rather drink a process
Speaker 1: version natural? I don't care what I'd like, I said,
Speaker 1: I never liked the taste of milk. It's not about
Speaker 1: what it was made up, but better for you. I
Speaker 1: thought the almond milk was better for you than the
Speaker 1: cow melk. You can't milk and have the It's like
Speaker 1: it's like they make um, the rice milk, the rice
Speaker 1: milk soaking. Yeah, and then it's the how the fun
Speaker 1: would you drink milk rice? What do you do? Like?
Speaker 1: What is going on? Let justas it's like vegans who
Speaker 1: get vegan burgers? Bro, why would you get a burger
Speaker 1: if you're vegan? Like? Why are you playing games with
Speaker 1: your mom? What is the patty made out of it?
Speaker 1: It could be like, no, it's it's a vegan burger.
Speaker 1: Why would you? Okay? D do agree with you with
Speaker 1: that because I'm not gonna eat when I did when
Speaker 1: I went vegan for those little what not when it
Speaker 1: was my eight months or when I went again, I
Speaker 1: refused to really eat the we tried it for like
Speaker 1: our tacos that was that just couldn't get it impossible.
Speaker 1: I was just like, if I'm not gonna be able
Speaker 1: to eat this ship, I'm just gonna make whatever tastes
Speaker 1: good without it. Like, so that's what I did. So
Speaker 1: I started making like mushroom burgers, yeah, and stuff like that.
Speaker 1: I started. When I make a burger out of a mushroom,
Speaker 1: it's good. It was. It was just why are you using?
Speaker 1: Why are y'all playing with y'all mind? Hey, it's just
Speaker 1: some woman ship woman ship? You know what I realized y'all.
Speaker 1: First off, there's no silings whatever. I don't know how
Speaker 1: y'all do this ship every time? What are you talking about?
Speaker 1: Just give me a fucking headache? Okay, listen, this is
Speaker 1: no ceilings, Gail Glasses, Logan house co holes, Red Red's up.
Speaker 1: I got sired sanity from folsom back once again to
Speaker 1: pretty much just fucking irritate my soul. It's my soul, y'all,
Speaker 1: just serious, milk, right, it's not deep. It's just I
Speaker 1: don't mean it in a negative because y'all just are foolish. Listen, sir,
Speaker 1: you can you can foolish by twelve dollar milk, and
Speaker 1: I'm gonna buy my almond milk. Do you do not
Speaker 1: even care that you can't milk an almond? It's not
Speaker 1: Why would you call it almond milk? I don't know,
Speaker 1: because it's you don't even milky. It looks it's not milky,
Speaker 1: but it looks like milk. So just because it looks
Speaker 1: sperm looks like milk, that bigger milk definitely not what
Speaker 1: else because look like milk when it dries. It's like,
Speaker 1: gu so what y'all call that? Like? Man, milk? Y'all
Speaker 1: just giving names to anything with white substance, like it's milk. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess so sentiment in their little cup with a sentiment. Man.
Speaker 1: All I'm saying is I just don't understand why humans
Speaker 1: play these mind games. Like if you if you're vegan,
Speaker 1: if the goal is to get away from you know,
Speaker 1: like be like like meat products or animal products, why
Speaker 1: would you call something a burger? A burger is a
Speaker 1: meat product, So why would you do that? Like they
Speaker 1: have vegan wings hamburger Man, But it's more than that
Speaker 1: that makes a burger. Burger is not just a bun.
Speaker 1: A bun is a bun you can put everything you
Speaker 1: put everything. Do you understand the first handburg has had
Speaker 1: nothing but just just the meat in the in the
Speaker 1: actual buns. Buns existed before burgers. Now you got why
Speaker 1: why would you like? Why are you why y'all meat? Y'all?
Speaker 1: Are as they have patted out burger. It's made into
Speaker 1: a patty. It's a burger, that's what we're calling it,
Speaker 1: right have like, no fucking nothing, what are you talking about?
Speaker 1: We have nothing? It makes sense, Like it doesn't make sense.
Speaker 1: You can't milk, but you don't like milk? You want
Speaker 1: because I need it for my cereal. So then why
Speaker 1: the fun would you call it a milk when that
Speaker 1: actually is how you get milk. It's fill water and almonds,
Speaker 1: So why you don't call it almond water? Whatever? That
Speaker 1: don't sound a pilling, does it? You know why? Because
Speaker 1: milk is fucking delicious, so you want to call it
Speaker 1: the thing that tastes delicious. Milk is good. But I
Speaker 1: just point like right now, like you call it a
Speaker 1: burger because you know what a burger tastes like. But
Speaker 1: if the whole goal is to get away from you know,
Speaker 1: if the gold is to get away from animal, why
Speaker 1: would you fucking make they have fucking vegan boness wings.
Speaker 1: They do, they do. Why would you do that? Why
Speaker 1: would you disrespect a piece of chicken that way? I'm
Speaker 1: telling you, But this is what But this is what's happening, right,
Speaker 1: this is what's happening with street terms like this is
Speaker 1: what I'll be on what I'll be saying, like niggas
Speaker 1: want to be real niggas and don't want to do
Speaker 1: nothing real like no real nigga. If I take care
Speaker 1: of my kids, that's real nick Year, No, bro, that's
Speaker 1: real father ship. I'm dedicated to my wife. I'm real nigga. No,
Speaker 1: that's real husbandship. I wouldn't had six surgeries today at
Speaker 1: the hospital. That's real doctors. You could be a lot
Speaker 1: of real things. A real nigga is specific, Like milk
Speaker 1: is a milk is not just because it's white. It's
Speaker 1: not just because it's white. It's not just a density.
Speaker 1: Milk is um. It's because it comes from mammals. All
Speaker 1: men is not a mammal. And I get it. I
Speaker 1: get it because you're like, I don't care, I just
Speaker 1: want what I want. I'm just saying, this is why
Speaker 1: the cows women ain't better than cows. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Have you had breast milk? Really, I'm not saying the flavor.
Speaker 1: I don't just drink everything your taste good. I'm saying milk.
Speaker 1: Milk a cow is healthy as big as long. So
Speaker 1: you think cow's milk is good for you? Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: of course it is. I'm sure it is. Why because
Speaker 1: I'm educated on nutrition and not somebody because he's been programmed.
Speaker 1: I mean, if that was the case, I would have
Speaker 1: been deep programmed. Because milk is over Yeah, milk. That
Speaker 1: drink milk commercial was when I was a fifth grade.
Speaker 1: Because milk, it causes mulk. It's in your body and
Speaker 1: you're not I understand what's saying. But did he talking
Speaker 1: about that bad milk? I'll be drinking what's the bad?
Speaker 1: We don't drink ultra pasteurized milk? Oh, because you drink
Speaker 1: the twelve dollars. I drink real milk. Get that, that's
Speaker 1: the real milk. What's been top dollar? Shout out to
Speaker 1: raw forms? Where do you get from sprouts? Sprouts? Raw forms?
Speaker 1: Raw forms? They got a cream, Yeah, they got a
Speaker 1: cheese products. Shout out to raw forms it they follow
Speaker 1: me on the people for me and they got that
Speaker 1: straight on homogenage. Does it tastes better? Yes, really tastes.
Speaker 1: So it's not like, um think like that, like that
Speaker 1: curvy curvy you know, I don't know what, but it's
Speaker 1: just really it's just really like taste. It tastes like
Speaker 1: when I was drinking it, like non fat or like
Speaker 1: one percent. I don't want anybody funking my milk. If
Speaker 1: you take a fact, that means you funk with my
Speaker 1: I don't want nothing as much as I can. I
Speaker 1: don't want anything process. That's why I don't funk with
Speaker 1: most vegan things. Who would process this much ship to
Speaker 1: make it taste like fucking hamburger. You know much you
Speaker 1: got to go through to make a piece of Colie
Speaker 1: flower tastes like a buffalo wing. That's why a lot
Speaker 1: of vegans still be likely. They'd be big, Yeah, because
Speaker 1: version you gonna eat a ton of potatoes, right, it
Speaker 1: really do a cart They do eat a lot of
Speaker 1: card out of to because they're trying. It's not necessarily
Speaker 1: healthier in the sense of weight gain. It's it's it's
Speaker 1: supposed to be because you would be like slim. That's
Speaker 1: if you ate vegetables for a year, I feel like
Speaker 1: I'm getting pale. Yes, you are, because meat is responsible
Speaker 1: for your colors. Proteins. Beings are definitely the greatest thing
Speaker 1: in the world. They are most underrated food of all
Speaker 1: the foods. But but the point I'm saying to you
Speaker 1: as women, y'all just don't care specifically about anything, Like
Speaker 1: you don't have any care for like the reality. It's
Speaker 1: like whatever the fantasy is, deliver it. And it made
Speaker 1: me want to talk to you about something. I sent
Speaker 1: you all the post on Instagram and it was about
Speaker 1: what is the infatuation with somebody taking your ass somewhere?
Speaker 1: What's the infatuation with this flying somewhere? Like I see
Speaker 1: so many girls be like I just to fly me
Speaker 1: to another country and so we have sex on the balcony.
Speaker 1: You're talking about being fluid out? Yes, what is that about? Um?
Speaker 1: I mean it's about like I want to go away
Speaker 1: and I had to pay for it. I don't want
Speaker 1: to go on a vacation. I don't want to not
Speaker 1: have to pay for it. Well, that's you what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Who I mean what women want to do that we
Speaker 1: want to go? We want to go. Now, I'm not
Speaker 1: about to fire with everybody. I'm not taking no no
Speaker 1: no trips. But what is it about trips? It's fun
Speaker 1: travel that much. So I got to my basic places
Speaker 1: to see people. I know, it's fun. It's fine. I
Speaker 1: dated a guy that we he I was gone a
Speaker 1: lot where I was, I was gone a lot and
Speaker 1: it was just, um, it was nice. You know, he's
Speaker 1: sent an our service for me, go to airport, get
Speaker 1: picked up in car service. It was it was nice. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, they got the little sign waiting
Speaker 1: for me, like yeah, yeah, it's romantic. It was nice,
Speaker 1: like he cares. I wouldn't say it was romantic because
Speaker 1: he wasn't that type of like no guy, Like, is
Speaker 1: it fair to say he just pretty much paid for it?
Speaker 1: Why did you? Because because I'm been wondering how do
Speaker 1: women feel sometimes like when you have a guy that
Speaker 1: pretty much stow money at you, do you feel bought
Speaker 1: and paid for? What was it like that? It was
Speaker 1: just that he lived. He lived on the East Coast
Speaker 1: and he travel for work, and so I would just
Speaker 1: travel to where he was. It wasn't like we were
Speaker 1: taking trips like that. So it was like I would
Speaker 1: travel to he was that we would do dinner and
Speaker 1: go hang out and do all that like on like
Speaker 1: that off time in between. So my cousin. My cousin
Speaker 1: brought up a situation where sure, I guess you YEA
Speaker 1: wasn't dating y'all was sucking. We were dating a year?
Speaker 1: What flying you back and forth and not getting no pussy.
Speaker 1: You're a damn lie. No not fly you know, work
Speaker 1: for no years straight and didn't tackle. You know, before
Speaker 1: we started flying, Shore had six or seven before we
Speaker 1: before I started fighting, we were already like we were dating.
Speaker 1: I was already sleeping together. Yeah, it already happened. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So then you be came in person flying down to sleep.
Speaker 1: That sound worse than I wanted to sund You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Do you be thinking to let you
Speaker 1: say it out loud? Then you think about like damn,
Speaker 1: but it's not. But it's not sucked up. It's not
Speaker 1: sometimes because it's true you're saying, no, it's not suck
Speaker 1: up because sometimes people mean wall that. She won't call
Speaker 1: it a ship because it's not quite that. It was
Speaker 1: a special type of relationship. So what I'm saying is, so, look,
Speaker 1: so my cousin was getting at me right, shout out
Speaker 1: to my cousin the cad right. She was getting at
Speaker 1: me and she was saying, we were talking on the
Speaker 1: phone actually the last time we did the podcast, and
Speaker 1: I was driving home and she was telling me the
Speaker 1: story about this girl, and she was like, the dude
Speaker 1: flew her out of town, I think, to Miami. She
Speaker 1: flew to Miami and she got there and kind of
Speaker 1: didn't want to sleep with the dude. So he's like, man,
Speaker 1: I'm not paying for your ticket home. You gotta get
Speaker 1: your own ticket home. And she was so frustrated, and
Speaker 1: I was like, why are you frustrated? She like, just
Speaker 1: because somebody fly you somewhere don't mean you suppose to
Speaker 1: getting no pussy. I'm like, that's exactly what it means.
Speaker 1: I'm not going on the trip. I'm not gonna have
Speaker 1: sex with so why do what about you? So if
Speaker 1: a guy said, let me fly you to New York,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna fly you to Paris, are you gonna feel honestly, honestly,
Speaker 1: you're gonna feel like I got to give him some
Speaker 1: pussy if I take this flight. We don't even have
Speaker 1: to be pussy. They feel like you you you know,
Speaker 1: you're gonna put yourself in that situation, and if you
Speaker 1: don't want to, why would you go? Right? Yeah? What
Speaker 1: about you? D Yeah, I feel like I'm not going.
Speaker 1: I want to knock this guy then, So help me understand.
Speaker 1: Why do some girls not realize that, like what am
Speaker 1: I missing? That makes them say, well, you know what,
Speaker 1: he wants to fly me here because of he wants
Speaker 1: to get to know me, and I'm like, you drink
Speaker 1: they lying today? So here's my thing? When that should happen?
Speaker 1: If you if you weren't clear about what it was
Speaker 1: before you left, you shouldn't have went like, I'm laid
Speaker 1: on the table? What's what's this about? Where were we going? Oh?
Speaker 1: For real? This is how long? Like? What what's I need?
Speaker 1: The whole tender plant? And I'm gonna tell you if
Speaker 1: I'm if I'm going, if I'm with it, or whatever
Speaker 1: the case may be. For her situation, if she didn't
Speaker 1: feel that way, she should have been like, you know what, No,
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not feeling I don't feel comfortable, you know,
Speaker 1: flying out to take advantage of that fun trip. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she wanted to have fun trip, but she didn't want to,
Speaker 1: you know, do that. But that to me, she didn't
Speaker 1: like him. To me, she didn't like him, So why
Speaker 1: the funk would you take advantage of someone him? Exactly?
Speaker 1: She did not like him, and she but a free
Speaker 1: trip of to do what because the nigga that you
Speaker 1: don't like is with you. Maybe she thinks she's gonna
Speaker 1: see some other niggas or I think a lot of
Speaker 1: people travel, honestly to take pictures for Instagram, So it
Speaker 1: ain't really about necessarily going to do anything. I think
Speaker 1: most people that go out of town and go do
Speaker 1: something don't really go. Like most people. When I would
Speaker 1: go travel all these states and do this stuff, people
Speaker 1: want to go to the club, and I'm like, bro,
Speaker 1: there's a club in l A. But they really just
Speaker 1: want to see the people in Florida, which is weird,
Speaker 1: like the club a club or people like seeing people
Speaker 1: and meeting people they don't like, to be honest. So
Speaker 1: maybe that person could have took that flight thinking to
Speaker 1: themselves like hey, um, she's gonna be somebody. No, like
Speaker 1: she could have been like, Okay, I'm gonna just take
Speaker 1: pictures and look popping on my Instagram, or I could
Speaker 1: be somebody else. I don't know, why would you fly
Speaker 1: to another town on somebody else that's dying and not
Speaker 1: think to yourself that probably means this person. And let
Speaker 1: me tell you something. First of all, you shouldn't be
Speaker 1: cardinal rule. You shouldn't be going nowhere with nobody nowhere
Speaker 1: if you can't afford to get your Mamma taught me
Speaker 1: that any situation dinner, it don't matter because you never
Speaker 1: know person gonna flip on you. You You might get into
Speaker 1: it arguing with this food. This some food might do
Speaker 1: some ship. You might need to get a f out
Speaker 1: of there. You better know, you better be able to
Speaker 1: uber yourself do whatever you know. For me when I
Speaker 1: started dating, when I when I was dating, I would
Speaker 1: meet that person at the restaurant or wherever we're going
Speaker 1: or whatever, like I did not like I had to
Speaker 1: really get to know you before you really could be
Speaker 1: in my personal space or whatever. And I would even
Speaker 1: like going to their personal face until I felt comfortable.
Speaker 1: But that's just I've been. You know, the guy can
Speaker 1: see it, for God said come over, and then that
Speaker 1: could be misinterpreted. Right, but let's go to Miami. You're
Speaker 1: fucking in Miami, right. You ever had a guy fly
Speaker 1: you somewherehere's the father that you have had a guy
Speaker 1: fly you, not you had him, but he flew you
Speaker 1: flown out, not not not the Negro place, but I
Speaker 1: flew I but flown out the furthest was you got
Speaker 1: a guy flight as you make it, and y'all and
Speaker 1: you for sure like this guy. You had to be
Speaker 1: putting out. Yes, okay, you haven't rather got to fly
Speaker 1: you out yet? What was the furthest? Tampa? Tample? As
Speaker 1: far as the motherfucker me, that's definitely three thousand mile
Speaker 1: wasn't exotic enough for you know, I had a great time.
Speaker 1: What did you do in Tample? We went to like
Speaker 1: a comedy place of places. That's not bad? All right?
Speaker 1: What about you, Red? I'm sure you're asked whoon out?
Speaker 1: He's just flying everywhere. I know. I don't say your
Speaker 1: boy my list out there. I'm just trying to get
Speaker 1: a much better grasp on how people's mind works. Honestly,
Speaker 1: this is gonna sound crazy, and I know you're gonna
Speaker 1: deflect because it's what you'll do for women. I respect it,
Speaker 1: but I think it most women couldn't take pictures and
Speaker 1: show other people where they went. They wouldn't go. Why
Speaker 1: would they like, what's the social curse? Like? Why would
Speaker 1: somebody tell it ain't about everybody? Why would somebody I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tell you why. I've been a lot of places
Speaker 1: that I haven't posted or did on my little, my
Speaker 1: little sneaky trips. Ain't seeing none of that. I don't
Speaker 1: need to see a picture of me somewhere. You but
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna know where that why you didn't tell
Speaker 1: me you were going. So this is just the moment
Speaker 1: of truth that y'all gonna lie about. But I'm asking
Speaker 1: anybody so it is. But so right now, you see
Speaker 1: all of these girls taking trips to these places. You
Speaker 1: never see a guy what you know? It's the guy there, right?
Speaker 1: So that guy? That guy. Has that guy ever flown
Speaker 1: you out? Of course? Oh yeah, I don't win. Let
Speaker 1: me stop go to your mind when that guy flies
Speaker 1: you somewhere. Now, when I'm saying that guy, I'm not
Speaker 1: talking about that guy that could be married. That's like,
Speaker 1: this is these all morals. I'll talk about that guy
Speaker 1: where you like, I don't want nobody to know. I
Speaker 1: wouldn't show this guy to nobody else, but I funk
Speaker 1: with it because he cool. That guy. Yeah, but no, Yeah,
Speaker 1: did you post pictures by yourself? Did you do the routine?
Speaker 1: Don't lie? Yes? Why would you do that? He still did?
Speaker 1: He pictures too? Let me, Yes, he didn't want to
Speaker 1: show you. He didn't he didn't post me. Well, why
Speaker 1: would we post each other? Weren't together? So I was
Speaker 1: gonna post him, but you know, so you wouldn't post
Speaker 1: nobody that you're sleeping with, even though you'll travel to
Speaker 1: another state because you're not together. Are you serious? Why
Speaker 1: post him what? You're not together? We're not together? Like
Speaker 1: because you out of state posting stuff, it's still still Instagram, right,
Speaker 1: and they're going or wherever? What did doing? It's just
Speaker 1: a vacation that can we leave some stuff private? You
Speaker 1: ever had that guy? Why are you somewhere that that
Speaker 1: guy that you was like? I could not put this
Speaker 1: nick on my Instagram know never in life, I only
Speaker 1: had one person fly one guy. I was gonna let
Speaker 1: fly me somewhere. And then my friend called me and
Speaker 1: I hadn't talked to her in a minute. She was like,
Speaker 1: I had this nightmare fly somewhere or something really good,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I called him back and I
Speaker 1: canceled and I could hear in his voice he was upset.
Speaker 1: And then I was like, is everything and he was like, yes, whatever,
Speaker 1: suck me up right? But I was a what was
Speaker 1: the reason Bridge? You didn't want to show the guy?
Speaker 1: Besides you just wasn't in a relationship. Was he older? No?
Speaker 1: I wasn't older. Well one of the one of the
Speaker 1: guys was older. How much older? Don't lie? Not that
Speaker 1: much older. I don't do too old. I got to
Speaker 1: still be able to get up and do what I
Speaker 1: need you to do. So you can't be there? Do
Speaker 1: you need them to do whatever I need them to
Speaker 1: do at that time? What can't they get up and
Speaker 1: do it? With age? Can they not get up? Do what?
Speaker 1: I don't know? But if you I don't date over.
Speaker 1: I don't date over fifty. I don't date it. I
Speaker 1: just don't Something about this don't feel right. But I no,
Speaker 1: But it's not that. It's just I just think that
Speaker 1: there's a field somewhere. I just don't know what I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm not feeling. I promise you I'm not lying it. Um.
Speaker 1: I think it was honestly because I just you didn't
Speaker 1: want nobody to know he was waiting. What would you
Speaker 1: say it wasn't. It wasn't that. It was because I
Speaker 1: was trying to pursue somebody. Somebody else was pursuing somebody
Speaker 1: else at the time, which I wasn't together. But you
Speaker 1: kind of liked him. No, I never liked him like
Speaker 1: that that was pursuing you. Oh yeah, the guy that
Speaker 1: was not the guy that took the trip. Yeah. Not.
Speaker 1: I said you didn't like him, but you knew he
Speaker 1: wasn't the guy. This guy who was pursuing you was
Speaker 1: a lot closer to the guy. But this guy was
Speaker 1: kind of doing the things that you wanted to pursue
Speaker 1: guy to do, and you couldn't miss the opportunity to
Speaker 1: those words, I wasn't even the opportunity was just well ship,
Speaker 1: he asked, and I was like, cool, let's go. Where
Speaker 1: was this? No, no, don't tell me where, because it
Speaker 1: was it was? It was, it was, It wasn't I
Speaker 1: needed a passport? Okay, okay, all right? Real, So why
Speaker 1: would you not at that time, back in those days
Speaker 1: post the guy? You fill me? I'm like, why would
Speaker 1: you not post the guy? Because I know you did.
Speaker 1: Why am I not posting a guy? Why would you
Speaker 1: not post a guy like Why are you doing the
Speaker 1: solo post when you know you're here with somebody else? Well,
Speaker 1: I never I haven't done that. I haven't like went somewhere,
Speaker 1: been with somebody post and not posted like them. I
Speaker 1: just didn't post. Know the guy, the guy that I dated,
Speaker 1: that I traveled or whatever. I don't even I would post.
Speaker 1: Yeah I did post, I was and I was posting.
Speaker 1: Now I think about it because he doesn't have social media,
Speaker 1: he's not like a social media guy. Why you didn't post?
Speaker 1: That's even better because there nobody could figure out who
Speaker 1: he was. I just I just didn't post them. They
Speaker 1: would never posted a guy and I just don't think
Speaker 1: you should. Just we were official. But what difference you
Speaker 1: would make if it wasn't official, if y'are just having
Speaker 1: a great time? I mean, but we were, like we
Speaker 1: were Just what is that about it? Just because once
Speaker 1: you post something with someone and they know, like say,
Speaker 1: it's not like they know the friendship or it's worked
Speaker 1: related or whatever. They're gonna or just be like, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: they're together, there this that it just becomes like, how's
Speaker 1: that going to hurt? It makes a difference because you
Speaker 1: might be dating you gotta go back and delete all
Speaker 1: the pictures if you just dating somebody, Could somebody really
Speaker 1: be upset if you're not in a mutual thing. No,
Speaker 1: they can't be upset, but they will. They shouldn't be,
Speaker 1: but they will. That's crazy to be handicapped to somebody,
Speaker 1: To be committed to somebody that you're not in a
Speaker 1: committed relationship with. Everybody crazy committed because it's like you're
Speaker 1: committed to not upsetting them, like you don't want them
Speaker 1: to know you did this. Did you at least tell
Speaker 1: then think he wouldn't care about. Did you tell the
Speaker 1: dude that with that that that was pursuing you, that
Speaker 1: she was going out of town? Yeah, but you didn't
Speaker 1: say he's going with this guy. I didn't tell who
Speaker 1: the guy was. I just said I was going to listen,
Speaker 1: you're about to tell a lot. I'm not about to
Speaker 1: tell a lot. What once you say this, and I'm
Speaker 1: not lying, I promise a very very honest when it
Speaker 1: comes to ship like that, because I just am. I
Speaker 1: don't give it. Like if we're not together and I'm
Speaker 1: we have an open conversation and you tell me what
Speaker 1: it is that you're looking for, and I'll tell you
Speaker 1: what I'm looking for. We're not on the same page
Speaker 1: and I ain't gonna sun with you anyway, but if
Speaker 1: we do decide to deal with each other whatever like that,
Speaker 1: I am going to be honest about, especially if I'm
Speaker 1: just dating. If I'm dating you, because if I'm talking
Speaker 1: to you every day and then I say, oh, I'm
Speaker 1: going out of town, oh for real, the first thing
Speaker 1: is gonna come out that person out. It's not even
Speaker 1: if they're gonna say, oh, for where are you going,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say where I'm going, you know whatever? And
Speaker 1: who are you going with? And I'm gonna tell him
Speaker 1: if you don't ask, and I probably won't say ship,
Speaker 1: but if he asked, I'm gonna tell him I don't like. Hey,
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying that when I when I had
Speaker 1: went to the Jamaica trip, I did have to tell
Speaker 1: the other dude that I was going on to the
Speaker 1: Jamaica you should not go with him and go with
Speaker 1: me somewhere. Where are we going? Oh you don't, you
Speaker 1: don't know, have nowhere to go. I'm going to Jamaica. Sometimes,
Speaker 1: just things like that, But that's what stamp No was it?
Speaker 1: Did you post him? Did you post him, didn't you post? For? Yeah?
Speaker 1: The first some things when I got drunk on Snapchat
Speaker 1: and I deleted a picture and they never posted him
Speaker 1: on my story on Instagram post the post from the
Speaker 1: post is what you get? You here? Not? But because
Speaker 1: I have the picture, I have a picture. I sent it.
Speaker 1: At least you're probably know that, probably screenshot at it
Speaker 1: or something crazy shit. No, you know who sent it.
Speaker 1: You're talking about when we went to the fucking pool
Speaker 1: first birthday? Have y'all ever got flown out together? We
Speaker 1: got it was a surprise to her. The guy that
Speaker 1: she was talking about for her birthday surprised her with
Speaker 1: mele me so I could be with her for her birthday. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but she didn't know. It was funny because I almost
Speaker 1: slipped a few times. I'm not good with that. Airport
Speaker 1: said airport, I could be with you. You gonna have
Speaker 1: so much fun, And she was like, I know, I
Speaker 1: was my dirty third. I dropped her off and I
Speaker 1: went to the other terminal. And then when I got
Speaker 1: to the to the hotel because I was like running
Speaker 1: late and I was trying to get dressed, he like,
Speaker 1: get the door. I'm like, oh my god, what get
Speaker 1: the door to open the door, and she's like, hey,
Speaker 1: I like and we got lit that day and didn't
Speaker 1: make it to nothing. You got so lit. He used
Speaker 1: to do that on purpose, like he would just like, Okay,
Speaker 1: here's money, here's whatever, drink like and just I feel
Speaker 1: like because I was wasn't like a really I didn't drink,
Speaker 1: so I would get to up and then I wouldn't
Speaker 1: be able to go out or go with to be
Speaker 1: knocked out. I went to the room and passed out.
Speaker 1: That's ridiculous, because he like, you take forever to get dressed.
Speaker 1: You gonna make me late, We keep me late, blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. So yeah, very smart strategy. So he would
Speaker 1: have the driver to be like, okay, well she's ready,
Speaker 1: just take her, bring her, take her wherever. Like it
Speaker 1: was an interesting situation. I see that all the time,
Speaker 1: and I just always think about it, like like the prompt,
Speaker 1: Like I'm just thinking about the thousands of dollars you
Speaker 1: were spaying to sleep with somebody on the back, and
Speaker 1: like I've did this before. It is not what I
Speaker 1: don't even think it's about that. But honestly, it could
Speaker 1: just be that you just want that spend time with
Speaker 1: that person and then you know, you know, you know
Speaker 1: that type of stuff is gonna happen. So just that's
Speaker 1: just like a little bit of it cherry on the top,
Speaker 1: what's thery on the top, A little bit of something
Speaker 1: on the back. And I'm just saying, No, I don't
Speaker 1: know you said for him last places. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I've done all of this before. I just
Speaker 1: didn't understand why I was like, and so you expected
Speaker 1: to have sex with them? No, I just that's gonna
Speaker 1: give me some pussy. I don't have to think about it. Huh.
Speaker 1: All right, See what I'm saying that you already know
Speaker 1: what time it is, so we should know what time
Speaker 1: it is. But there's there's men that you like that
Speaker 1: I've talked to her that I've dated, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know what, I can go somewhere with him, and
Speaker 1: I think he's not gonna I tried, or if I
Speaker 1: think I never had to try nothing. I was always
Speaker 1: to pray. I never had to like try to get
Speaker 1: no girl to try to like give me no pussy.
Speaker 1: It was like, this is what she was coming for
Speaker 1: in the first place. But yeah, I'm like, like I did.
Speaker 1: I never went to go getting. That's pretty much all
Speaker 1: of the sort. I mean, I guess him, I had girls,
Speaker 1: job across I had girls. I don't wanted that joke
Speaker 1: across state lines and times, oh wow, drove to I
Speaker 1: don't even fly all the time, trove. But it's been
Speaker 1: interest of life. That's why I can tell you said
Speaker 1: saying what I what I wanted to be, we have
Speaker 1: ruined that. I have ruined it. Man. It is because
Speaker 1: for whatever, however good it feels what I'm saying, it's like,
Speaker 1: um no, it's just like the joy is stolen out
Speaker 1: of it. Like I thought it was special and it's
Speaker 1: just not. But if you if you keep telling yourself
Speaker 1: that it's not special, I mean, it's like saying it's
Speaker 1: it's oxygen. It's actually just oxygen. Tell yourself that it's special.
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not a woman. I can't lie to myself.
Speaker 1: And true, my sex life is tremendous as always, but
Speaker 1: I don't think I think the value of it is
Speaker 1: not what I wanted it to be in general. Well,
Speaker 1: that's because you keep thinking sex life versus like love
Speaker 1: or stuff like that, Like fucking it's different. Fucking somebody
Speaker 1: is just sucking somebody and you thought, like I told
Speaker 1: you this's earlier, right when I was explaining to you,
Speaker 1: when me and sex was here, and I was saying
Speaker 1: to you like pussy was only special because you thought
Speaker 1: you were special when you got it. Once you realize
Speaker 1: that women don't, they just have horrible taste and they
Speaker 1: will pretty much fuck anybody. Forgive me. That just sounds harsh,
Speaker 1: but it's true. Y'all definitely are because everybody's getting pussy,
Speaker 1: well from some some other pussy, not specifically seeing you,
Speaker 1: not you three per se. But I'm sure you guys
Speaker 1: have that guy that y'all wish you didn't sunk, so
Speaker 1: that guy too. Right. So what I'm saying is so
Speaker 1: once you take only because they were turned out to
Speaker 1: be it was always asked. You just ignored it because
Speaker 1: you just liked them. But the point I'm saying is
Speaker 1: when you really look at it, right, it's like whatever
Speaker 1: I thought sex was special because I thought having sex
Speaker 1: was like special because I was somebody she was giving
Speaker 1: it to. It wasn't really like mines. It was just
Speaker 1: my turn and tell me something that you really like love,
Speaker 1: that's just your turn. You don't love door knobs. Sex
Speaker 1: is special with the person you beget to them, then
Speaker 1: that's not sex. That's the point that becomes intimacy. It's
Speaker 1: not sex sex. Sex is very specific, but it gets
Speaker 1: there what I'm saying, it's not about the person. Like
Speaker 1: the thing that makes sex special with that person is
Speaker 1: because of everything else outside of sex. Then the sex
Speaker 1: is better. Then it's different. Right you You kind of
Speaker 1: claiming something that's yours. But when you really think about, like,
Speaker 1: like I was telling you the reason why he was
Speaker 1: asking me why me and cheating? I'm like, the reason
Speaker 1: men cheating is the same reason they get pussy when
Speaker 1: they're single. It's the same reason for us. It makes
Speaker 1: us feel special. It makes us feel accomplished. Some woman
Speaker 1: thinks that you're special enough to give you some pussy.
Speaker 1: You feel like, damn, I must be special. She give
Speaker 1: me some because they're angry because you're mad with your girl. No,
Speaker 1: that don't even hurt her. She's not gonna know. I mean,
Speaker 1: she ain't making you feel good. Why do you need
Speaker 1: somebody else to make you feel good? Know? One person
Speaker 1: make you your good happiness itself having to do with
Speaker 1: the next motherfucker. So because you're cheating because it's something
Speaker 1: wrong with you. That's why you funk women in the
Speaker 1: first place, because something right with you, wrong with you.
Speaker 1: Celebration of life, it's a celebration life. But I'm saying
Speaker 1: most likely yeah, yeah, Broyal chicken, barbecue chicken kebabe. But
Speaker 1: what I'm saying to you is it's like, let me,
Speaker 1: let me try to clarify as much as I can
Speaker 1: and thought, um like when you first when you first
Speaker 1: started hearing about sex, right as you're growing up, you
Speaker 1: becoming a teenager, right, so they start before they even
Speaker 1: come in teenager, But when you become a teenager, it's
Speaker 1: special because first you hear how good it makes you feel.
Speaker 1: Then you get into a space to where you believe
Speaker 1: the more women want to sleep with you, it's your value,
Speaker 1: Like I'm valuable because that's why she want to sleep
Speaker 1: with me. I must be special. So that's how you
Speaker 1: grow up living your life. You know, your twenties, you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: she holds me tonight, some little much. But that's the point.
Speaker 1: So right, I don't know what it's like for those guys,
Speaker 1: So no problem that on both guys. I'll be around.
Speaker 1: That's not their problem. So I don't know if it's
Speaker 1: like I remember, I stayed downtown and people was intent
Speaker 1: of course bombs. So that's my point. So everybody, so
Speaker 1: everybody getting pussy, right, So what it is is so
Speaker 1: you really feel valuable when some woman gives you her body,
Speaker 1: because we, as much as y'all don't understand the value
Speaker 1: of your body, we do y'all feel valued when you
Speaker 1: get it the first time, Yes, because that is the
Speaker 1: moment that she chold that you are worthy of sharing
Speaker 1: this precious other times. Right, I can make good, probably
Speaker 1: got a better chance of work it. But yes, it's
Speaker 1: just messed up you. I mean, the value of it
Speaker 1: is that. So you sleep with girls because it makes
Speaker 1: you feel like they create a false sense of value,
Speaker 1: like you really got you special, like she giving you play,
Speaker 1: like she giving you pussy. But so that's why I nigga,
Speaker 1: she too, because something about their life they're feeling unaccomplished
Speaker 1: or they want to feel more accomplished as a man.
Speaker 1: So when somebody getting pussy, they think they something. It's
Speaker 1: ego and you need to put that ship damn. But
Speaker 1: you can't put down the one thing that if we
Speaker 1: put our ego down, we be you would be a
Speaker 1: woman waiting for the right one. Masculinity makes you a man.
Speaker 1: That's my point. Masculinity. Think about the sense historical times.
Speaker 1: That's just how it is. You can't separate the man
Speaker 1: from the Masculinity is the protection and conquest, conquering things,
Speaker 1: not women, though, I men are something to be conquered.
Speaker 1: But there's a point where it's like, Okay, I'm done
Speaker 1: with this because I've grown up and become, like they say,
Speaker 1: a man. So you find other things to conquer besides women.
Speaker 1: It's never like you never meet a woman that makes
Speaker 1: you feel like you don't want to sleep with no
Speaker 1: other woman. That's just not how I go. You always
Speaker 1: want to look at another woman like me. I don't
Speaker 1: care which car you got, you know, just the last
Speaker 1: car I wanted life. I mean, you want other cars.
Speaker 1: So is you have to find more things to conquer
Speaker 1: outside of women. But women has been the thing you
Speaker 1: was talked to conquered as long as you good men.
Speaker 1: I'm trying really hard to be calm and not just
Speaker 1: take this information. It's it's a lot. Yes, it's true.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you from a man's perspective. I'm telling you
Speaker 1: because I talked to men personally. I asked them, what
Speaker 1: do they really think I will force it out of them.
Speaker 1: Doesn't make it right because they think that's like saying,
Speaker 1: is it right if a line eats a gazelle? It's
Speaker 1: just nature. It's not right at room. You just can't
Speaker 1: be mad that somebody don't see you and be like, oh,
Speaker 1: life ends. This is every You should not entertain the
Speaker 1: thought of someone else. Of course you have to, don't
Speaker 1: think about it. Right. So my man is sitting next
Speaker 1: to me just imagining himself fully having sex with somebody else.
Speaker 1: What does that body really? Your heart? It's in your heart?
Speaker 1: What this fucking got to do with a terrible Wait, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm done. What this fucking have to do with art? Done?
Speaker 1: Right now? You really thought got something to do with
Speaker 1: each other? It should? Okay, So every LA's person you
Speaker 1: ever slept, what you've been in love with? Yeah, you're
Speaker 1: not telling the truth. You're lying on kind of disab
Speaker 1: This is kind of my lashes. That's that's what funk.
Speaker 1: I was doing it for. That's what I was doing
Speaker 1: it to fall in love. I was doing it to
Speaker 1: to experience love. That's not love, obviously, It never was,
Speaker 1: and I understand. I'm sorry that I wasn't around to
Speaker 1: teach you early on life like to be like look,
Speaker 1: because yeah, if you exactly, And I'm giving it to
Speaker 1: you now when you are resenting it, like I'm telling
Speaker 1: you something, Cristy, and I'm telling you how we see it.
Speaker 1: You can just tell me how they think. And with
Speaker 1: knowing that, I can move based all that because I
Speaker 1: don't agree that it's right. It's not, but I'm saying
Speaker 1: nature is nature, why it is nature? The reality is
Speaker 1: I can see a guy looks good with chiseled all that,
Speaker 1: and I'd be like, oh, you know, he was good,
Speaker 1: But I'm not about to be like whip his dick out.
Speaker 1: Why do you think you and literally we have a
Speaker 1: completely separate chromosome count, like different chromosome excess, and that's
Speaker 1: why why would you feel like we are this name
Speaker 1: at all? You just think we just signed because we
Speaker 1: just got y'all start off as a pussy, then y'all grow,
Speaker 1: y'all at that point that grow. The hormones that forced
Speaker 1: that growth makes us different because you didn't have that hormone.
Speaker 1: But the basis the same. So then the basis is
Speaker 1: in the wound, So the basis separate right in the womb.
Speaker 1: So therefore our whole journey separate completely different. If your
Speaker 1: DNA is still yeah, but it's not the DNA that's driving.
Speaker 1: Is the dick is driving the car. It shows stupid.
Speaker 1: It's not the thoughts. You don't show you you I've
Speaker 1: never said to myself, let me not think about sucking her.
Speaker 1: You have it. You have to master mind, mastering your mind.
Speaker 1: What is wrong with the thoughts because they can manifest,
Speaker 1: because thoughts are so powerful, and they give off these
Speaker 1: invisible colors and current, and it makes just because you
Speaker 1: think it has to happen eventually, keep on fantasizing you're
Speaker 1: gonna end up sucking somebody, certain people that don't mean
Speaker 1: I'm ever gonna You never know. You might not get
Speaker 1: them how you wanted them at first, but it might
Speaker 1: come a time I'm not going to get him because
Speaker 1: I don't want just because it's a thought. It's a thought.
Speaker 1: It's cool to have thoughts. Fleeing thoughts. Keep it moving.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you have that. Are you okay with um?
Speaker 1: Your girl having thoughts of sucking another I'm sure she does.
Speaker 1: I mean she could tell me a lie. I'm We
Speaker 1: don't think like that, goddamn lie. We do not think
Speaker 1: the moment I want to suck somebody else, I'm leaving,
Speaker 1: I'm not with the person that I was with. I
Speaker 1: don't want. That's just a lie to that. I'm not
Speaker 1: saying that, man, it's sexy. If you say that's sexy,
Speaker 1: that's a thought of sex. I'm not saying if you know,
Speaker 1: it's a sex appeal of another person using the key
Speaker 1: word sexy. Sexy's having sex with the person that you're dating,
Speaker 1: you're dealing with, talking to on a regular basis. We
Speaker 1: don't see a man or like, we don't be with
Speaker 1: hard dude, and we'll see another guy and just be
Speaker 1: like no, but you can tell later wrong. You might
Speaker 1: talk to a bread later on and be like, girl,
Speaker 1: I saw this nigga today. Well let me say something though,
Speaker 1: I will take that back to see when I went
Speaker 1: to us see the wool tanging nas at the New
Speaker 1: York State of Mind concert. Nas could get it right,
Speaker 1: somebody's over your limit, over my limit. But guess what
Speaker 1: he could get. So your limit ain't your limit? When
Speaker 1: that nasty nuts. So the wealth, So the wealth got
Speaker 1: you breaking your rooms. The thing got your breaking your
Speaker 1: right and he got me breaking the roof. So he
Speaker 1: looks good enough to where you're breaking the route. Listen,
Speaker 1: I just say the whole. You just presented the whole.
Speaker 1: You just presented the whole thing. You really just said, Okay,
Speaker 1: let me take thee I just said, then let me
Speaker 1: take that back. Because I did feel a little something
Speaker 1: in my heart when he came outside with the red
Speaker 1: jumpsuit and I was like, oh he was like. I
Speaker 1: was like, but can you admit you built up this
Speaker 1: fantasy around nas and then when you seen him, it
Speaker 1: was like my dreams could be coming true. I was like, damn,
Speaker 1: if only I could have had a backstage pass to
Speaker 1: this concert, I would have definitely because I always loved
Speaker 1: me some na, So this was like I had never
Speaker 1: seen him, and this is the point. This is the point.
Speaker 1: See y'all feel like you're not like y'all, but y'all
Speaker 1: are exactly like us. I guess it got to be
Speaker 1: the right one, is what I'm saying, Because see I didn't,
Speaker 1: but we normally don't. Normally we don't. But the reality
Speaker 1: is all this stuff is untrue. You never met somebody
Speaker 1: you always have thoughts. Thoughts are just thoughts, don't you
Speaker 1: don't try to materialize him. That's the keys, just thoughts.
Speaker 1: She's just the wine. He's having thought to somebody. So
Speaker 1: what that means You're gonna think of a lot of
Speaker 1: things I just shouldn't care about. It's not caring. You
Speaker 1: just can't overcare. You can't over dramatically what you're thinking
Speaker 1: about thoughts. If you you would never message, I don't
Speaker 1: even think I would want to you. You would never
Speaker 1: y'all would y'all would get so far away from me.
Speaker 1: And if y'all saw our thoughts, Yeah, y'all would get
Speaker 1: so far away from me. And if you like, I'll
Speaker 1: be seeing yours when you make certain faces, you'll be
Speaker 1: looking done ever hurt my? She think I've always aggravated
Speaker 1: like way left. I don't think I can ever look
Speaker 1: at you and figure out what you're thinking, because you
Speaker 1: should be like nobody could ever really figure out what
Speaker 1: I'm thinking because it's not one specific thing. I'm thinking
Speaker 1: of multiple things, right. But what I don't do is
Speaker 1: take of expectations. That's the key for me is I
Speaker 1: don't have expectations. If my whole life I had, and
Speaker 1: the more I've got away from having them, everything has
Speaker 1: worked out better. Now that's not to say I don't
Speaker 1: have a standard, but I don't have expectations for me
Speaker 1: Like God could bless me a thousand different ways. I
Speaker 1: can't be mad that I didn't get it the way
Speaker 1: I won't. You can't want to win the way you
Speaker 1: want to win. When it comes to God, you gotta
Speaker 1: win the way you're gonna get you a w and
Speaker 1: that work out better for me. But what I'm saying
Speaker 1: to you is it's it's like, that's not a realistic expectation,
Speaker 1: and a lot of things I'll say is built on fantasy,
Speaker 1: even with this trip conversation. But let's take it to
Speaker 1: something simple as I want to feel like the only girl.
Speaker 1: I want him to make me feel like the only
Speaker 1: girl in the world. Think about how retarded that is
Speaker 1: when there's literally billions of girls. That's just like a
Speaker 1: horrible thought. And sometimes you don't ever sense yourself standard. Yes,
Speaker 1: why would you want to feel like something that's virtually impossible?
Speaker 1: That's like a nigg of like I want you to
Speaker 1: make me feel like the biggest dick in the world.
Speaker 1: You know, that's a lie, bro, and if y'all try
Speaker 1: to honor that ship is just dumb. You got two
Speaker 1: people trying to play into a make believe ship versus
Speaker 1: just a make believe thing versus just being happy with
Speaker 1: who you are and what you are. The motherfucker that
Speaker 1: I'm with is more than great enough for me, right,
Speaker 1: motherfucking now. I don't need this motherfucker to be nobody else.
Speaker 1: What that motherfuck is is perfect. That on mean, it's
Speaker 1: not what I thought it should be. Once I lost
Speaker 1: what I thought it should be and realized God won't
Speaker 1: give me what it is. This is gonna work out.
Speaker 1: That's what you gotta do. You can't be like, oh, well,
Speaker 1: I wanted to be this way because it'll make me
Speaker 1: feel what Like, yes, that's how you saying. And no,
Speaker 1: y're not the type of motherfucker's that y'all don't think
Speaker 1: of other people. That just a lie. You just don't
Speaker 1: act on it. And sometimes y'all still do me and
Speaker 1: do it. I'm just giving it to you and and
Speaker 1: any man that's listened to this podcast. The reality is
Speaker 1: you have to figure that the main reason you see
Speaker 1: with women, it's a sense of accomplishment. The same reason
Speaker 1: you do it while you're married, the same reason why
Speaker 1: you do a single. It's just a sense of accomplishment.
Speaker 1: So you have to find other things to accomplish that
Speaker 1: you're passionate about, simple as that. Once you do that,
Speaker 1: you got a chance to not cheat. Without it, it's
Speaker 1: a it's a crime of opportunity. The relationships are complicated,
Speaker 1: they're not. They're really simple. If you wake up every
Speaker 1: day and try to make the next person you wear
Speaker 1: life better, that's the whole goal of it. If they
Speaker 1: don't see you trying, it's not about what they say,
Speaker 1: it's about what you're doing. You could never waste your
Speaker 1: time if that's what you want to do. If I
Speaker 1: go out to the free throw cord to shoot a
Speaker 1: hundred free throughs, I mean that's what I want to do.
Speaker 1: It non't matter how many I make a miss. The
Speaker 1: whole goal was shooting the free throughs. So when you're
Speaker 1: going to love somebody, the whole goal gotta be loving somebody.
Speaker 1: It can't just be I want to love them because
Speaker 1: I want them to and it's not because that's what
Speaker 1: hurt your finners. You want somebody to love you, so
Speaker 1: you feel like if I give them love. They're gonna
Speaker 1: get me love back. That's the point of relationship. That's
Speaker 1: actually not the point. Everything about life is giving, especially
Speaker 1: for women. But you're no, you're not. You're the givers.
Speaker 1: You're the giver of life. You're the giver of everything,
Speaker 1: giver of the nutrition and nourishment, uh, every last part
Speaker 1: of giver. But somehow y'all got lost in this weird
Speaker 1: world where y'all really think that y'all the receivers. And
Speaker 1: that's why nobody because vain is made and the penis,
Speaker 1: you take penis, you receive penis, so you can actually
Speaker 1: give life. That's the only thing. He can't do nothing
Speaker 1: else for the baby for nine months. That nigga can
Speaker 1: only do ship for you. He can't do nothing for
Speaker 1: the babby for nine months. He gave you two seconds
Speaker 1: to give you nine months of this ship, and he
Speaker 1: can't do nothing till it's time the motherfucker came out,
Speaker 1: until you delivered, until you put it out the oven.
Speaker 1: He can he can talk to the stomach, and yeah,
Speaker 1: that's all you know. That makes a difference. I think
Speaker 1: that's again again to believe that it's it's an idea
Speaker 1: of science, but that ain't really what it is that
Speaker 1: my fun don't know you mother fucker might be to
Speaker 1: recognize your voice. I think this nigga has talked to
Speaker 1: me now in the belly. But at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, it won't never be the connection with the mother.
Speaker 1: It's gonna take him a while. I had that connection
Speaker 1: with their father because this motherfucker' and feed them the
Speaker 1: whole time. So I think the point I'm saying to
Speaker 1: you is when you really really think about it, the
Speaker 1: point of relationship is if you're doing it right, it's
Speaker 1: about giving. If you're worried about receiving, you're gonna always
Speaker 1: feel like you wasted time because you didn't get what
Speaker 1: you was looking for. But if you focus on what
Speaker 1: it's about, which is giving somebody something, giving what you
Speaker 1: want to give, as long as you give you what
Speaker 1: they said they were. If you expect anything in the world,
Speaker 1: you're gonna come up short from anybody, especially anything with consistency.
Speaker 1: Your kids gonna let you down, your parents gonna let
Speaker 1: you down, everybody gonna let you down with aspectations. So
Speaker 1: if you're not in a relationship to give it your all,
Speaker 1: if you're in the relationship to get give it, get
Speaker 1: something you're in the wrong. I mean, you better focus
Speaker 1: on what you're supposed to get. But if you a
Speaker 1: real relationship is when you focus on giving somebody. Every
Speaker 1: day you're supposed to make the next person, trying to
Speaker 1: make the next person life easier. That's the whole goal.
Speaker 1: Every day you wake up and focused on that. It's
Speaker 1: hard to figure out another bit. It's gonna be tough.
Speaker 1: I don't have a lot of time and not do
Speaker 1: a thousand things. That's the trick. But I ain't nobody
Speaker 1: flying you nowhere if you ain't sucking, so you ain't
Speaker 1: got no business. Let nobody fly you nowhere. I ain't
Speaker 1: goin't nowhere. I'm not even thinking of you like that.
Speaker 1: First of all. My thing is this, I'm gonna tell you,
Speaker 1: I don't want to even have like a vacation with
Speaker 1: somebody that I don't even want to now. Back then, yeah,
Speaker 1: but now I would prefer to be with the person
Speaker 1: I'm with and enjoying it because when you're out on
Speaker 1: a trip and stuff like that, you're not really feeling
Speaker 1: that person anyway. It's just like you're there, they're there,
Speaker 1: and it's just not really that ship is off. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean you want to take pictures, experience this with
Speaker 1: somebody that exact for the ground. You're gonna look popping
Speaker 1: people me in the comments, girl, you could always post
Speaker 1: that throwback Thursday, Take me Back, Take me Back? Baby.
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Speaker 1: the USA and produced by my homeboy A King for
Speaker 1: the Black Effect Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Yeah.