WEBVTT - Conversations About Trips (Baecation)

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<v Speaker 1>Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No

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<v Speaker 1>Sinners Podcast with your host now funck that with your

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<v Speaker 1>low glasses Malone. She's still doing its first no because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like when you be you're gonna get some

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<v Speaker 1>fast food and you don't you shouldn't have to tell

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<v Speaker 1>them like, okay, my should be fresh. But they had

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<v Speaker 1>time to really do that right now, you know. So

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, just happy to be fresh she was.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, no, it actually just came out, you

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<v Speaker 1>know some they say that. I'm like, all right, she

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<v Speaker 1>was cool. I was all like, oh, this is bum

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<v Speaker 1>It was good. I was happy, and then I said

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<v Speaker 1>you take the first bite and her eyes she was

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<v Speaker 1>smoking some smoked because I got to make sure. That's wait.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I have to stop smoking at night, because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready to just go kill some ship. What I

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<v Speaker 1>did was I went to Trader Joe's and I got

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of healthy snacks that are really like good

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<v Speaker 1>and taste good. Chocolate cover, bananas, chocolate cover. I also

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<v Speaker 1>have this one. It's called no um no dairy or

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<v Speaker 1>ice cream ice creams or ice cream cones and they're

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<v Speaker 1>only like a hun Yes, they taste like real. You

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<v Speaker 1>got some when you smoke weed. You have these munkeys. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you have low calorie munches. You go, so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're gonna do it, do it right. Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>I won't get my goats. It will be cereal. Ochre

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<v Speaker 1>chips you have like ochre chips. Really, I like chips,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's like dried out, okra the whole thing. Why

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<v Speaker 1>would you get an ore chip Because it's crunchy and

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<v Speaker 1>it's good. It's better than the corn ship. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>better eating it's ok the planet chips are fired. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>those are good. Those are good, right, and then they

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<v Speaker 1>have no like what is it? Sweeper tails and carrots

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<v Speaker 1>and oh yeah, I'm just talking about the mixed mos. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's dehydrated. I'm not eating ore chips and the three

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<v Speaker 1>layer hummas. You put me on that, that three layer hummas,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like. Hey they got this to Trader Joe's.

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<v Speaker 1>Is my spot for snacks only Shopper Sprouts, see, I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't with Oh we used to go to Sprouts right

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<v Speaker 1>crusty from Yeah, I like sprouts. Sprouts is my store completely. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't have it. I don't really try to get

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<v Speaker 1>creative with meals. I keep it simple. I get seated watermelons,

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<v Speaker 1>I get raw milk, rawhomogenized pasteurized. It's a company calls

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<v Speaker 1>shout out to the company raw Farms. They based on

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<v Speaker 1>Central California, and they actually the only company that has unhomogenized,

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<v Speaker 1>unpasteurized milk. I mean it only lasts about four days,

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<v Speaker 1>five days. But in those four or five days, like

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<v Speaker 1>most people think they have like their lactose intolerant, and

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<v Speaker 1>they're not. They're just the product that they've been drinking

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<v Speaker 1>has been ultra pasteurized. Like in my mind the way

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<v Speaker 1>I see it, I'm not sure this is true. So

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<v Speaker 1>you can't. You can listen to me like just from

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<v Speaker 1>glasses because it helped my life. But like the minerals

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<v Speaker 1>and the envitamins create like a bar code on all

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<v Speaker 1>the natural earth products, right, the combination of them. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>when you pasteurize, you know, liquid, you strip it, especially

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<v Speaker 1>when you ultra pasteuriity, you strip it of all this

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<v Speaker 1>natural minerals and environments you know. Um. When Lewis Passion

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<v Speaker 1>first came up with the idea of pasteurization, it was

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<v Speaker 1>to heat up beer to a place to where he

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<v Speaker 1>got rid of all of these viruses and stuff that

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<v Speaker 1>would make it go bad like in a day, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean all these bad and negative things that can

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<v Speaker 1>make you sick. But over the time people realize it

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<v Speaker 1>was more financially viable if they get rid of all

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<v Speaker 1>of the living vitamins and minerals in there, then me

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<v Speaker 1>the milk colass thirty days, you can get milkshire you're

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<v Speaker 1>looking to go to the grocer store. Milk, don't go

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<v Speaker 1>back for thirty six days because there's nothing living in it.

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<v Speaker 1>In your body processes it, so when you drink it,

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<v Speaker 1>it's stripped of that bar code, that natural bar code,

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<v Speaker 1>so your body don't know what it is, so it

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<v Speaker 1>starts to firm in your body. And milk is one

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<v Speaker 1>of those products where your body produces either I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's lactose or lactate. Your body produces it. To digest

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<v Speaker 1>milk sugar, it needs to produce something as well with it,

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<v Speaker 1>so when it comes together, that's how you digest milk.

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<v Speaker 1>Without those minerals and vitamins, your body don't recognize it

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<v Speaker 1>as milk, so it won't process it, so it's sit

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<v Speaker 1>in your body and firm it. That's why you have gas.

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<v Speaker 1>So I have to buy this twelve dollar half a

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<v Speaker 1>gallon milk. Can't you can't milk it? Amon what? You

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<v Speaker 1>don't even care that it's just a lie. Once again,

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<v Speaker 1>this is just some woman ship. I don't even care.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a lot you can't make. I don't know. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not pus pus. So would you breast feed your baby?

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<v Speaker 1>Plus us? Is it because the animals are sick? No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that boys, I don't know what I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just talking no milk, milk come out your breast

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<v Speaker 1>to when you get pregnant exactly. Don't just be plus.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm not a cow, and I don't think we

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<v Speaker 1>should be drinking. Sometimes. You gotta stop thinking about what

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<v Speaker 1>you think because you're probably not that smart that this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying nothing. We're like the only mammals that

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<v Speaker 1>still that drink our own milk, right, Like you know

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<v Speaker 1>what you mean? You mean drink other people? I mean not,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean after a certain age like we still you

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know that's what I mean. Drink other people's milk.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean tigers still eat deers and ship and they

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<v Speaker 1>be thirty. No, that's what I said. Why are we

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<v Speaker 1>drinking babies drinking cow Why do lions still eat cows

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<v Speaker 1>when they're grown? Why they don't just eat lions? But

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<v Speaker 1>they were drinking milk. But the milking, Yeah, that's for

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<v Speaker 1>nourishment for a baby, like a baby cow the size

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<v Speaker 1>of a adult human. We're drinking human milk for no reason.

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<v Speaker 1>Now we're growing up, So why are we still drinking

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<v Speaker 1>cow milk? You know, like water is like the Earth's milk. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, this is like this repetitive cycle of

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<v Speaker 1>all the same ship for y'all start hearing with recipes

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<v Speaker 1>to SEVCA. But y'all just don't start, because this conversation

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get crazy. Y'all gonna get all out of hand

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<v Speaker 1>and be talking crazy. Look, don't I understand In two

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<v Speaker 1>thousand twenty two, y'all they got two boozy for milk

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<v Speaker 1>and tap water. No, I respect that. In two thou two,

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<v Speaker 1>after all this social programming, Yeah, I've turned your back

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<v Speaker 1>on tap water and milk. I haven't turned my back.

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<v Speaker 1>I just never I've never liked milk. Milk is de listens.

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<v Speaker 1>Understand if you don't like it, don't, first off, then

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<v Speaker 1>why would you drink the milk of an Norman? Listen?

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<v Speaker 1>I was happy that they made almond milk, because why

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<v Speaker 1>would you be happy? Because I like the taste of it,

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<v Speaker 1>So I was so you would rather drink a process

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<v Speaker 1>version natural? I don't care what I'd like, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I never liked the taste of milk. It's not about

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<v Speaker 1>what it was made up, but better for you. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought the almond milk was better for you than the

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<v Speaker 1>cow melk. You can't milk and have the It's like

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<v Speaker 1>it's like they make um, the rice milk, the rice

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<v Speaker 1>milk soaking. Yeah, and then it's the how the fun

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<v Speaker 1>would you drink milk rice? What do you do? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>What is going on? Let justas it's like vegans who

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<v Speaker 1>get vegan burgers? Bro, why would you get a burger

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<v Speaker 1>if you're vegan? Like? Why are you playing games with

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<v Speaker 1>your mom? What is the patty made out of it?

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<v Speaker 1>It could be like, no, it's it's a vegan burger.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you? Okay? D do agree with you with

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<v Speaker 1>that because I'm not gonna eat when I did when

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<v Speaker 1>I went vegan for those little what not when it

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<v Speaker 1>was my eight months or when I went again, I

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<v Speaker 1>refused to really eat the we tried it for like

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<v Speaker 1>our tacos that was that just couldn't get it impossible.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like, if I'm not gonna be able

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<v Speaker 1>to eat this ship, I'm just gonna make whatever tastes

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<v Speaker 1>good without it. Like, so that's what I did. So

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<v Speaker 1>I started making like mushroom burgers, yeah, and stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I started. When I make a burger out of a mushroom,

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<v Speaker 1>it's good. It was. It was just why are you using?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are y'all playing with y'all mind? Hey, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>some woman ship woman ship? You know what I realized y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>First off, there's no silings whatever. I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>y'all do this ship every time? What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>Just give me a fucking headache? Okay, listen, this is

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<v Speaker 1>no ceilings, Gail Glasses, Logan house co holes, Red Red's up.

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<v Speaker 1>I got sired sanity from folsom back once again to

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much just fucking irritate my soul. It's my soul, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>just serious, milk, right, it's not deep. It's just I

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<v Speaker 1>don't mean it in a negative because y'all just are foolish. Listen, sir,

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<v Speaker 1>you can you can foolish by twelve dollar milk, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna buy my almond milk. Do you do not

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<v Speaker 1>even care that you can't milk an almond? It's not

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you call it almond milk? I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's you don't even milky. It looks it's not milky,

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<v Speaker 1>but it looks like milk. So just because it looks

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<v Speaker 1>sperm looks like milk, that bigger milk definitely not what

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<v Speaker 1>else because look like milk when it dries. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>gu so what y'all call that? Like? Man, milk? Y'all

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<v Speaker 1>just giving names to anything with white substance, like it's milk. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess so sentiment in their little cup with a sentiment. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>All I'm saying is I just don't understand why humans

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<v Speaker 1>play these mind games. Like if you if you're vegan,

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<v Speaker 1>if the goal is to get away from you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like be like like meat products or animal products, why

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<v Speaker 1>would you call something a burger? A burger is a

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<v Speaker 1>meat product, So why would you do that? Like they

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<v Speaker 1>have vegan wings hamburger Man, But it's more than that

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<v Speaker 1>that makes a burger. Burger is not just a bun.

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<v Speaker 1>A bun is a bun you can put everything you

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<v Speaker 1>put everything. Do you understand the first handburg has had

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<v Speaker 1>nothing but just just the meat in the in the

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<v Speaker 1>actual buns. Buns existed before burgers. Now you got why

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<v Speaker 1>why would you like? Why are you why y'all meat? Y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>Are as they have patted out burger. It's made into

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<v Speaker 1>a patty. It's a burger, that's what we're calling it,

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<v Speaker 1>right have like, no fucking nothing, what are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>We have nothing? It makes sense, Like it doesn't make sense.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't milk, but you don't like milk? You want

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<v Speaker 1>because I need it for my cereal. So then why

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<v Speaker 1>the fun would you call it a milk when that

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<v Speaker 1>actually is how you get milk. It's fill water and almonds,

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<v Speaker 1>So why you don't call it almond water? Whatever? That

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<v Speaker 1>don't sound a pilling, does it? You know why? Because

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<v Speaker 1>milk is fucking delicious, so you want to call it

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<v Speaker 1>the thing that tastes delicious. Milk is good. But I

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<v Speaker 1>just point like right now, like you call it a

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<v Speaker 1>burger because you know what a burger tastes like. But

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<v Speaker 1>if the whole goal is to get away from you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if the gold is to get away from animal, why

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<v Speaker 1>would you fucking make they have fucking vegan boness wings.

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<v Speaker 1>They do, they do. Why would you do that? Why

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<v Speaker 1>would you disrespect a piece of chicken that way? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling you, But this is what But this is what's happening, right,

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<v Speaker 1>this is what's happening with street terms like this is

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<v Speaker 1>what I'll be on what I'll be saying, like niggas

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<v Speaker 1>want to be real niggas and don't want to do

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<v Speaker 1>nothing real like no real nigga. If I take care

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<v Speaker 1>of my kids, that's real nick Year, No, bro, that's

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<v Speaker 1>real father ship. I'm dedicated to my wife. I'm real nigga. No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's real husbandship. I wouldn't had six surgeries today at

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<v Speaker 1>the hospital. That's real doctors. You could be a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of real things. A real nigga is specific, Like milk

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<v Speaker 1>is a milk is not just because it's white. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not just because it's white. It's not just a density.

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<v Speaker 1>Milk is um. It's because it comes from mammals. All

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<v Speaker 1>men is not a mammal. And I get it. I

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<v Speaker 1>get it because you're like, I don't care, I just

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<v Speaker 1>want what I want. I'm just saying, this is why

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<v Speaker 1>the cows women ain't better than cows. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you had breast milk? Really, I'm not saying the flavor.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't just drink everything your taste good. I'm saying milk.

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<v Speaker 1>Milk a cow is healthy as big as long. So

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<v Speaker 1>you think cow's milk is good for you? Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>of course it is. I'm sure it is. Why because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm educated on nutrition and not somebody because he's been programmed.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if that was the case, I would have

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<v Speaker 1>been deep programmed. Because milk is over Yeah, milk. That

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<v Speaker 1>drink milk commercial was when I was a fifth grade.

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<v Speaker 1>Because milk, it causes mulk. It's in your body and

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<v Speaker 1>you're not I understand what's saying. But did he talking

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<v Speaker 1>about that bad milk? I'll be drinking what's the bad?

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<v Speaker 1>We don't drink ultra pasteurized milk? Oh, because you drink

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<v Speaker 1>the twelve dollars. I drink real milk. Get that, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the real milk. What's been top dollar? Shout out to

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<v Speaker 1>raw forms? Where do you get from sprouts? Sprouts? Raw forms?

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<v Speaker 1>Raw forms? They got a cream, Yeah, they got a

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<v Speaker 1>cheese products. Shout out to raw forms it they follow

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<v Speaker 1>me on the people for me and they got that

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<v Speaker 1>straight on homogenage. Does it tastes better? Yes, really tastes.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's not like, um think like that, like that

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<v Speaker 1>curvy curvy you know, I don't know what, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>just really it's just really like taste. It tastes like

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<v Speaker 1>when I was drinking it, like non fat or like

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<v Speaker 1>one percent. I don't want anybody funking my milk. If

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<v Speaker 1>you take a fact, that means you funk with my

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want nothing as much as I can. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want anything process. That's why I don't funk with

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<v Speaker 1>most vegan things. Who would process this much ship to

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<v Speaker 1>make it taste like fucking hamburger. You know much you

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<v Speaker 1>got to go through to make a piece of Colie

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<v Speaker 1>flower tastes like a buffalo wing. That's why a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of vegans still be likely. They'd be big, Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>version you gonna eat a ton of potatoes, right, it

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<v Speaker 1>really do a cart They do eat a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>card out of to because they're trying. It's not necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>healthier in the sense of weight gain. It's it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be because you would be like slim. That's

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<v Speaker 1>if you ate vegetables for a year, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting pale. Yes, you are, because meat is responsible

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<v Speaker 1>for your colors. Proteins. Beings are definitely the greatest thing

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<v Speaker 1>in the world. They are most underrated food of all

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<v Speaker 1>the foods. But but the point I'm saying to you

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<v Speaker 1>as women, y'all just don't care specifically about anything, Like

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have any care for like the reality. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like whatever the fantasy is, deliver it. And it made

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<v Speaker 1>me want to talk to you about something. I sent

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<v Speaker 1>you all the post on Instagram and it was about

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<v Speaker 1>what is the infatuation with somebody taking your ass somewhere?

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<v Speaker 1>What's the infatuation with this flying somewhere? Like I see

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<v Speaker 1>so many girls be like I just to fly me

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<v Speaker 1>to another country and so we have sex on the balcony.

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<v Speaker 1>You're talking about being fluid out? Yes, what is that about? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's about like I want to go away

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<v Speaker 1>and I had to pay for it. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a vacation. I don't want to not

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<v Speaker 1>have to pay for it. Well, that's you what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Who I mean what women want to do that we

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<v Speaker 1>want to go? We want to go. Now, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>about to fire with everybody. I'm not taking no no

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<v Speaker 1>no trips. But what is it about trips? It's fun

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<v Speaker 1>travel that much. So I got to my basic places

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<v Speaker 1>to see people. I know, it's fun. It's fine. I

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<v Speaker 1>dated a guy that we he I was gone a

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<v Speaker 1>lot where I was, I was gone a lot and

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<v Speaker 1>it was just, um, it was nice. You know, he's

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<v Speaker 1>sent an our service for me, go to airport, get

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<v Speaker 1>picked up in car service. It was it was nice. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, they got the little sign waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for me, like yeah, yeah, it's romantic. It was nice,

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<v Speaker 1>like he cares. I wouldn't say it was romantic because

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't that type of like no guy, Like, is

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<v Speaker 1>it fair to say he just pretty much paid for it?

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<v Speaker 1>Why did you? Because because I'm been wondering how do

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<v Speaker 1>women feel sometimes like when you have a guy that

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much stow money at you, do you feel bought

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<v Speaker 1>and paid for? What was it like that? It was

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<v Speaker 1>just that he lived. He lived on the East Coast

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<v Speaker 1>and he travel for work, and so I would just

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<v Speaker 1>travel to where he was. It wasn't like we were

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<v Speaker 1>taking trips like that. So it was like I would

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<v Speaker 1>travel to he was that we would do dinner and

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<v Speaker 1>go hang out and do all that like on like

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<v Speaker 1>that off time in between. So my cousin. My cousin

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<v Speaker 1>brought up a situation where sure, I guess you YEA

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't dating y'all was sucking. We were dating a year?

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<v Speaker 1>What flying you back and forth and not getting no pussy.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a damn lie. No not fly you know, work

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<v Speaker 1>for no years straight and didn't tackle. You know, before

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<v Speaker 1>we started flying, Shore had six or seven before we

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<v Speaker 1>before I started fighting, we were already like we were dating.

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<v Speaker 1>I was already sleeping together. Yeah, it already happened. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So then you be came in person flying down to sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>That sound worse than I wanted to sund You know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. Do you be thinking to let you

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<v Speaker 1>say it out loud? Then you think about like damn,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's not. But it's not sucked up. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes because it's true you're saying, no, it's not suck

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<v Speaker 1>up because sometimes people mean wall that. She won't call

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<v Speaker 1>it a ship because it's not quite that. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a special type of relationship. So what I'm saying is, so, look,

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<v Speaker 1>so my cousin was getting at me right, shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to my cousin the cad right. She was getting at

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<v Speaker 1>me and she was saying, we were talking on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone actually the last time we did the podcast, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was driving home and she was telling me the

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<v Speaker 1>story about this girl, and she was like, the dude

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<v Speaker 1>flew her out of town, I think, to Miami. She

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<v Speaker 1>flew to Miami and she got there and kind of

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to sleep with the dude. So he's like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not paying for your ticket home. You gotta get

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<v Speaker 1>your own ticket home. And she was so frustrated, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, why are you frustrated? She like, just

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<v Speaker 1>because somebody fly you somewhere don't mean you suppose to

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<v Speaker 1>getting no pussy. I'm like, that's exactly what it means.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going on the trip. I'm not gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>sex with so why do what about you? So if

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<v Speaker 1>a guy said, let me fly you to New York,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna fly you to Paris, are you gonna feel honestly, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna feel like I got to give him some

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<v Speaker 1>pussy if I take this flight. We don't even have

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<v Speaker 1>to be pussy. They feel like you you you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna put yourself in that situation, and if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to, why would you go? Right? Yeah? What

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<v Speaker 1>about you? D Yeah, I feel like I'm not going.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to knock this guy then, So help me understand.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do some girls not realize that, like what am

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<v Speaker 1>I missing? That makes them say, well, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to fly me here because of he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to get to know me, and I'm like, you drink

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<v Speaker 1>they lying today? So here's my thing? When that should happen?

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<v Speaker 1>If you if you weren't clear about what it was

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<v Speaker 1>before you left, you shouldn't have went like, I'm laid

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<v Speaker 1>on the table? What's what's this about? Where were we going? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>For real? This is how long? Like? What what's I need?

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<v Speaker 1>The whole tender plant? And I'm gonna tell you if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm if I'm going, if I'm with it, or whatever

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<v Speaker 1>the case may be. For her situation, if she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>feel that way, she should have been like, you know what, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not I'm not feeling I don't feel comfortable, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>flying out to take advantage of that fun trip. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted to have fun trip, but she didn't want to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, do that. But that to me, she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>like him. To me, she didn't like him, So why

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<v Speaker 1>the funk would you take advantage of someone him? Exactly?

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<v Speaker 1>She did not like him, and she but a free

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<v Speaker 1>trip of to do what because the nigga that you

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<v Speaker 1>don't like is with you. Maybe she thinks she's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>see some other niggas or I think a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people travel, honestly to take pictures for Instagram, So it

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<v Speaker 1>ain't really about necessarily going to do anything. I think

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<v Speaker 1>most people that go out of town and go do

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<v Speaker 1>something don't really go. Like most people. When I would

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<v Speaker 1>go travel all these states and do this stuff, people

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<v Speaker 1>want to go to the club, and I'm like, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a club in l A. But they really just

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<v Speaker 1>want to see the people in Florida, which is weird,

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<v Speaker 1>like the club a club or people like seeing people

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<v Speaker 1>and meeting people they don't like, to be honest. So

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that person could have took that flight thinking to

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<v Speaker 1>themselves like hey, um, she's gonna be somebody. No, like

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<v Speaker 1>she could have been like, Okay, I'm gonna just take

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<v Speaker 1>pictures and look popping on my Instagram, or I could

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<v Speaker 1>be somebody else. I don't know, why would you fly

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<v Speaker 1>to another town on somebody else that's dying and not

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<v Speaker 1>think to yourself that probably means this person. And let

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<v Speaker 1>me tell you something. First of all, you shouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>cardinal rule. You shouldn't be going nowhere with nobody nowhere

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<v Speaker 1>if you can't afford to get your Mamma taught me

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<v Speaker 1>that any situation dinner, it don't matter because you never

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<v Speaker 1>know person gonna flip on you. You You might get into

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<v Speaker 1>it arguing with this food. This some food might do

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<v Speaker 1>some ship. You might need to get a f out

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<v Speaker 1>of there. You better know, you better be able to

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<v Speaker 1>uber yourself do whatever you know. For me when I

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<v Speaker 1>started dating, when I when I was dating, I would

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<v Speaker 1>meet that person at the restaurant or wherever we're going

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever, like I did not like I had to

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<v Speaker 1>really get to know you before you really could be

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<v Speaker 1>in my personal space or whatever. And I would even

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<v Speaker 1>like going to their personal face until I felt comfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's just I've been. You know, the guy can

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<v Speaker 1>see it, for God said come over, and then that

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<v Speaker 1>could be misinterpreted. Right, but let's go to Miami. You're

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<v Speaker 1>fucking in Miami, right. You ever had a guy fly

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<v Speaker 1>you somewherehere's the father that you have had a guy

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<v Speaker 1>fly you, not you had him, but he flew you

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<v Speaker 1>flown out, not not not the Negro place, but I

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<v Speaker 1>flew I but flown out the furthest was you got

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<v Speaker 1>a guy flight as you make it, and y'all and

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<v Speaker 1>you for sure like this guy. You had to be

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<v Speaker 1>putting out. Yes, okay, you haven't rather got to fly

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<v Speaker 1>you out yet? What was the furthest? Tampa? Tample? As

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<v Speaker 1>far as the motherfucker me, that's definitely three thousand mile

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't exotic enough for you know, I had a great time.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you do in Tample? We went to like

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<v Speaker 1>a comedy place of places. That's not bad? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>What about you, Red? I'm sure you're asked whoon out?

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<v Speaker 1>He's just flying everywhere. I know. I don't say your

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<v Speaker 1>boy my list out there. I'm just trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>a much better grasp on how people's mind works. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>this is gonna sound crazy, and I know you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>deflect because it's what you'll do for women. I respect it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think it most women couldn't take pictures and

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<v Speaker 1>show other people where they went. They wouldn't go. Why

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<v Speaker 1>would they like, what's the social curse? Like? Why would

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<v Speaker 1>somebody tell it ain't about everybody? Why would somebody I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna tell you why. I've been a lot of places

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<v Speaker 1>that I haven't posted or did on my little, my

0:24:58.359 --> 0:25:01.640
<v Speaker 1>little sneaky trips. Ain't seeing none of that. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>need to see a picture of me somewhere. You but

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<v Speaker 1>you ain't gonna know where that why you didn't tell

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<v Speaker 1>me you were going. So this is just the moment

0:25:13.920 --> 0:25:15.880
<v Speaker 1>of truth that y'all gonna lie about. But I'm asking

0:25:15.880 --> 0:25:21.840
<v Speaker 1>anybody so it is. But so right now, you see

0:25:21.840 --> 0:25:24.760
<v Speaker 1>all of these girls taking trips to these places. You

0:25:24.960 --> 0:25:27.880
<v Speaker 1>never see a guy what you know? It's the guy there, right?

0:25:28.160 --> 0:25:31.119
<v Speaker 1>So that guy? That guy. Has that guy ever flown

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<v Speaker 1>you out? Of course? Oh yeah, I don't win. Let

0:25:39.400 --> 0:25:44.960
<v Speaker 1>me stop go to your mind when that guy flies

0:25:45.000 --> 0:25:46.639
<v Speaker 1>you somewhere. Now, when I'm saying that guy, I'm not

0:25:46.680 --> 0:25:49.239
<v Speaker 1>talking about that guy that could be married. That's like,

0:25:49.280 --> 0:25:51.880
<v Speaker 1>this is these all morals. I'll talk about that guy

0:25:51.920 --> 0:25:54.439
<v Speaker 1>where you like, I don't want nobody to know. I

0:25:54.440 --> 0:25:57.440
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't show this guy to nobody else, but I funk

0:25:57.480 --> 0:26:04.600
<v Speaker 1>with it because he cool. That guy. Yeah, but no, Yeah,

0:26:04.960 --> 0:26:07.480
<v Speaker 1>did you post pictures by yourself? Did you do the routine?

0:26:07.880 --> 0:26:13.160
<v Speaker 1>Don't lie? Yes? Why would you do that? He still did?

0:26:14.440 --> 0:26:18.639
<v Speaker 1>He pictures too? Let me, Yes, he didn't want to

0:26:18.640 --> 0:26:20.920
<v Speaker 1>show you. He didn't he didn't post me. Well, why

0:26:20.920 --> 0:26:23.080
<v Speaker 1>would we post each other? Weren't together? So I was

0:26:23.160 --> 0:26:26.359
<v Speaker 1>gonna post him, but you know, so you wouldn't post

0:26:26.359 --> 0:26:28.720
<v Speaker 1>nobody that you're sleeping with, even though you'll travel to

0:26:28.760 --> 0:26:31.600
<v Speaker 1>another state because you're not together. Are you serious? Why

0:26:32.320 --> 0:26:35.520
<v Speaker 1>post him what? You're not together? We're not together? Like

0:26:36.119 --> 0:26:39.800
<v Speaker 1>because you out of state posting stuff, it's still still Instagram, right,

0:26:39.800 --> 0:26:43.840
<v Speaker 1>and they're going or wherever? What did doing? It's just

0:26:43.880 --> 0:26:50.440
<v Speaker 1>a vacation that can we leave some stuff private? You

0:26:50.560 --> 0:26:53.480
<v Speaker 1>ever had that guy? Why are you somewhere that that

0:26:53.520 --> 0:26:56.080
<v Speaker 1>guy that you was like? I could not put this

0:26:56.160 --> 0:27:01.560
<v Speaker 1>nick on my Instagram know never in life, I only

0:27:01.560 --> 0:27:05.000
<v Speaker 1>had one person fly one guy. I was gonna let

0:27:05.040 --> 0:27:07.119
<v Speaker 1>fly me somewhere. And then my friend called me and

0:27:07.119 --> 0:27:08.679
<v Speaker 1>I hadn't talked to her in a minute. She was like,

0:27:08.680 --> 0:27:13.600
<v Speaker 1>I had this nightmare fly somewhere or something really good,

0:27:13.760 --> 0:27:15.800
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I called him back and I

0:27:15.880 --> 0:27:18.560
<v Speaker 1>canceled and I could hear in his voice he was upset.

0:27:18.840 --> 0:27:21.760
<v Speaker 1>And then I was like, is everything and he was like, yes, whatever,

0:27:23.560 --> 0:27:29.359
<v Speaker 1>suck me up right? But I was a what was

0:27:29.400 --> 0:27:31.480
<v Speaker 1>the reason Bridge? You didn't want to show the guy?

0:27:31.680 --> 0:27:37.399
<v Speaker 1>Besides you just wasn't in a relationship. Was he older? No?

0:27:37.520 --> 0:27:40.119
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't older. Well one of the one of the

0:27:40.160 --> 0:27:42.919
<v Speaker 1>guys was older. How much older? Don't lie? Not that

0:27:43.000 --> 0:27:44.960
<v Speaker 1>much older. I don't do too old. I got to

0:27:45.000 --> 0:27:46.359
<v Speaker 1>still be able to get up and do what I

0:27:46.440 --> 0:27:48.000
<v Speaker 1>need you to do. So you can't be there? Do

0:27:48.040 --> 0:27:49.920
<v Speaker 1>you need them to do whatever I need them to

0:27:49.960 --> 0:27:51.840
<v Speaker 1>do at that time? What can't they get up and

0:27:51.840 --> 0:27:53.600
<v Speaker 1>do it? With age? Can they not get up? Do what?

0:27:54.119 --> 0:27:56.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't know? But if you I don't date over.

0:27:58.720 --> 0:28:02.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't date over fifty. I don't date it. I

0:28:02.800 --> 0:28:10.120
<v Speaker 1>just don't Something about this don't feel right. But I no,

0:28:10.160 --> 0:28:11.879
<v Speaker 1>But it's not that. It's just I just think that

0:28:11.920 --> 0:28:13.680
<v Speaker 1>there's a field somewhere. I just don't know what I'm not.

0:28:14.119 --> 0:28:16.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm not feeling. I promise you I'm not lying it. Um.

0:28:16.920 --> 0:28:21.160
<v Speaker 1>I think it was honestly because I just you didn't

0:28:21.200 --> 0:28:23.679
<v Speaker 1>want nobody to know he was waiting. What would you

0:28:23.720 --> 0:28:28.320
<v Speaker 1>say it wasn't. It wasn't that. It was because I

0:28:28.520 --> 0:28:32.600
<v Speaker 1>was trying to pursue somebody. Somebody else was pursuing somebody

0:28:32.600 --> 0:28:34.600
<v Speaker 1>else at the time, which I wasn't together. But you

0:28:34.680 --> 0:28:37.439
<v Speaker 1>kind of liked him. No, I never liked him like

0:28:37.480 --> 0:28:39.840
<v Speaker 1>that that was pursuing you. Oh yeah, the guy that

0:28:39.880 --> 0:28:43.720
<v Speaker 1>was not the guy that took the trip. Yeah. Not.

0:28:43.720 --> 0:28:45.440
<v Speaker 1>I said you didn't like him, but you knew he

0:28:45.480 --> 0:28:47.680
<v Speaker 1>wasn't the guy. This guy who was pursuing you was

0:28:47.680 --> 0:28:49.920
<v Speaker 1>a lot closer to the guy. But this guy was

0:28:50.000 --> 0:28:52.640
<v Speaker 1>kind of doing the things that you wanted to pursue

0:28:52.640 --> 0:28:54.640
<v Speaker 1>guy to do, and you couldn't miss the opportunity to

0:28:54.680 --> 0:28:57.280
<v Speaker 1>those words, I wasn't even the opportunity was just well ship,

0:28:57.360 --> 0:28:59.440
<v Speaker 1>he asked, and I was like, cool, let's go. Where

0:28:59.480 --> 0:29:04.760
<v Speaker 1>was this? No, no, don't tell me where, because it

0:29:04.200 --> 0:29:08.560
<v Speaker 1>was it was? It was, it was, It wasn't I

0:29:08.600 --> 0:29:15.760
<v Speaker 1>needed a passport? Okay, okay, all right? Real, So why

0:29:15.800 --> 0:29:18.400
<v Speaker 1>would you not at that time, back in those days

0:29:19.160 --> 0:29:23.760
<v Speaker 1>post the guy? You fill me? I'm like, why would

0:29:23.760 --> 0:29:25.280
<v Speaker 1>you not post the guy? Because I know you did.

0:29:25.320 --> 0:29:27.360
<v Speaker 1>Why am I not posting a guy? Why would you

0:29:27.440 --> 0:29:29.120
<v Speaker 1>not post a guy like Why are you doing the

0:29:29.200 --> 0:29:32.240
<v Speaker 1>solo post when you know you're here with somebody else? Well,

0:29:32.280 --> 0:29:35.880
<v Speaker 1>I never I haven't done that. I haven't like went somewhere,

0:29:36.000 --> 0:29:39.840
<v Speaker 1>been with somebody post and not posted like them. I

0:29:39.920 --> 0:29:46.280
<v Speaker 1>just didn't post. Know the guy, the guy that I dated,

0:29:46.360 --> 0:29:50.720
<v Speaker 1>that I traveled or whatever. I don't even I would post.

0:29:50.800 --> 0:29:53.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah I did post, I was and I was posting.

0:29:53.760 --> 0:29:56.920
<v Speaker 1>Now I think about it because he doesn't have social media,

0:29:57.080 --> 0:29:59.600
<v Speaker 1>he's not like a social media guy. Why you didn't post?

0:29:59.720 --> 0:30:01.640
<v Speaker 1>That's even better because there nobody could figure out who

0:30:01.680 --> 0:30:10.160
<v Speaker 1>he was. I just I just didn't post them. They

0:30:10.200 --> 0:30:12.880
<v Speaker 1>would never posted a guy and I just don't think

0:30:12.880 --> 0:30:17.080
<v Speaker 1>you should. Just we were official. But what difference you

0:30:17.080 --> 0:30:18.920
<v Speaker 1>would make if it wasn't official, if y'are just having

0:30:18.960 --> 0:30:21.600
<v Speaker 1>a great time? I mean, but we were, like we

0:30:21.600 --> 0:30:27.000
<v Speaker 1>were Just what is that about it? Just because once

0:30:27.040 --> 0:30:30.480
<v Speaker 1>you post something with someone and they know, like say,

0:30:30.560 --> 0:30:34.320
<v Speaker 1>it's not like they know the friendship or it's worked

0:30:34.320 --> 0:30:38.080
<v Speaker 1>related or whatever. They're gonna or just be like, oh yeah,

0:30:38.120 --> 0:30:42.520
<v Speaker 1>they're together, there this that it just becomes like, how's

0:30:42.560 --> 0:30:44.960
<v Speaker 1>that going to hurt? It makes a difference because you

0:30:45.040 --> 0:30:48.920
<v Speaker 1>might be dating you gotta go back and delete all

0:30:48.920 --> 0:30:54.280
<v Speaker 1>the pictures if you just dating somebody, Could somebody really

0:30:54.280 --> 0:30:56.200
<v Speaker 1>be upset if you're not in a mutual thing. No,

0:30:56.360 --> 0:30:59.440
<v Speaker 1>they can't be upset, but they will. They shouldn't be,

0:30:59.480 --> 0:31:02.520
<v Speaker 1>but they will. That's crazy to be handicapped to somebody,

0:31:02.600 --> 0:31:04.240
<v Speaker 1>To be committed to somebody that you're not in a

0:31:04.280 --> 0:31:09.080
<v Speaker 1>committed relationship with. Everybody crazy committed because it's like you're

0:31:09.120 --> 0:31:11.280
<v Speaker 1>committed to not upsetting them, like you don't want them

0:31:11.280 --> 0:31:13.960
<v Speaker 1>to know you did this. Did you at least tell

0:31:14.000 --> 0:31:18.560
<v Speaker 1>then think he wouldn't care about. Did you tell the

0:31:18.640 --> 0:31:21.280
<v Speaker 1>dude that with that that that was pursuing you, that

0:31:21.360 --> 0:31:24.440
<v Speaker 1>she was going out of town? Yeah, but you didn't

0:31:24.400 --> 0:31:29.120
<v Speaker 1>say he's going with this guy. I didn't tell who

0:31:29.200 --> 0:31:32.040
<v Speaker 1>the guy was. I just said I was going to listen,

0:31:32.640 --> 0:31:34.480
<v Speaker 1>you're about to tell a lot. I'm not about to

0:31:34.520 --> 0:31:40.120
<v Speaker 1>tell a lot. What once you say this, and I'm

0:31:40.160 --> 0:31:46.240
<v Speaker 1>not lying, I promise a very very honest when it

0:31:46.320 --> 0:31:50.640
<v Speaker 1>comes to ship like that, because I just am. I

0:31:50.680 --> 0:31:54.760
<v Speaker 1>don't give it. Like if we're not together and I'm

0:31:54.800 --> 0:31:57.720
<v Speaker 1>we have an open conversation and you tell me what

0:31:57.760 --> 0:31:59.320
<v Speaker 1>it is that you're looking for, and I'll tell you

0:31:59.320 --> 0:32:01.360
<v Speaker 1>what I'm looking for. We're not on the same page

0:32:01.400 --> 0:32:03.360
<v Speaker 1>and I ain't gonna sun with you anyway, but if

0:32:03.400 --> 0:32:05.800
<v Speaker 1>we do decide to deal with each other whatever like that,

0:32:05.880 --> 0:32:08.480
<v Speaker 1>I am going to be honest about, especially if I'm

0:32:08.520 --> 0:32:11.200
<v Speaker 1>just dating. If I'm dating you, because if I'm talking

0:32:11.240 --> 0:32:12.720
<v Speaker 1>to you every day and then I say, oh, I'm

0:32:12.720 --> 0:32:14.479
<v Speaker 1>going out of town, oh for real, the first thing

0:32:14.560 --> 0:32:16.280
<v Speaker 1>is gonna come out that person out. It's not even

0:32:16.320 --> 0:32:17.880
<v Speaker 1>if they're gonna say, oh, for where are you going,

0:32:19.120 --> 0:32:22.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say where I'm going, you know whatever? And

0:32:22.840 --> 0:32:24.560
<v Speaker 1>who are you going with? And I'm gonna tell him

0:32:24.600 --> 0:32:26.360
<v Speaker 1>if you don't ask, and I probably won't say ship,

0:32:26.400 --> 0:32:33.240
<v Speaker 1>but if he asked, I'm gonna tell him I don't like. Hey,

0:32:33.360 --> 0:32:37.600
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying that when I when I had

0:32:37.600 --> 0:32:39.760
<v Speaker 1>went to the Jamaica trip, I did have to tell

0:32:39.920 --> 0:32:42.200
<v Speaker 1>the other dude that I was going on to the

0:32:42.280 --> 0:32:45.400
<v Speaker 1>Jamaica you should not go with him and go with

0:32:45.480 --> 0:32:48.680
<v Speaker 1>me somewhere. Where are we going? Oh you don't, you

0:32:48.680 --> 0:32:54.040
<v Speaker 1>don't know, have nowhere to go. I'm going to Jamaica. Sometimes,

0:32:54.040 --> 0:32:59.160
<v Speaker 1>just things like that, But that's what stamp No was it?

0:32:59.240 --> 0:33:06.240
<v Speaker 1>Did you post him? Did you post him, didn't you post? For? Yeah?

0:33:06.480 --> 0:33:10.640
<v Speaker 1>The first some things when I got drunk on Snapchat

0:33:10.760 --> 0:33:13.720
<v Speaker 1>and I deleted a picture and they never posted him

0:33:13.800 --> 0:33:19.840
<v Speaker 1>on my story on Instagram post the post from the

0:33:20.280 --> 0:33:24.720
<v Speaker 1>post is what you get? You here? Not? But because

0:33:24.720 --> 0:33:26.760
<v Speaker 1>I have the picture, I have a picture. I sent it.

0:33:27.240 --> 0:33:30.640
<v Speaker 1>At least you're probably know that, probably screenshot at it

0:33:30.720 --> 0:33:34.080
<v Speaker 1>or something crazy shit. No, you know who sent it.

0:33:34.600 --> 0:33:36.960
<v Speaker 1>You're talking about when we went to the fucking pool

0:33:37.240 --> 0:33:41.720
<v Speaker 1>first birthday? Have y'all ever got flown out together? We

0:33:41.800 --> 0:33:44.640
<v Speaker 1>got it was a surprise to her. The guy that

0:33:44.760 --> 0:33:48.920
<v Speaker 1>she was talking about for her birthday surprised her with

0:33:49.120 --> 0:33:53.360
<v Speaker 1>mele me so I could be with her for her birthday. Yeah,

0:33:53.440 --> 0:33:55.240
<v Speaker 1>but she didn't know. It was funny because I almost

0:33:55.600 --> 0:33:58.200
<v Speaker 1>slipped a few times. I'm not good with that. Airport

0:33:58.720 --> 0:34:01.400
<v Speaker 1>said airport, I could be with you. You gonna have

0:34:01.480 --> 0:34:04.080
<v Speaker 1>so much fun, And she was like, I know, I

0:34:04.120 --> 0:34:06.240
<v Speaker 1>was my dirty third. I dropped her off and I

0:34:06.280 --> 0:34:09.040
<v Speaker 1>went to the other terminal. And then when I got

0:34:09.040 --> 0:34:11.760
<v Speaker 1>to the to the hotel because I was like running

0:34:11.840 --> 0:34:14.319
<v Speaker 1>late and I was trying to get dressed, he like,

0:34:14.400 --> 0:34:16.839
<v Speaker 1>get the door. I'm like, oh my god, what get

0:34:16.880 --> 0:34:20.440
<v Speaker 1>the door to open the door, and she's like, hey,

0:34:20.520 --> 0:34:23.719
<v Speaker 1>I like and we got lit that day and didn't

0:34:23.760 --> 0:34:28.279
<v Speaker 1>make it to nothing. You got so lit. He used

0:34:28.280 --> 0:34:32.760
<v Speaker 1>to do that on purpose, like he would just like, Okay,

0:34:32.800 --> 0:34:38.280
<v Speaker 1>here's money, here's whatever, drink like and just I feel

0:34:38.320 --> 0:34:41.600
<v Speaker 1>like because I was wasn't like a really I didn't drink,

0:34:42.040 --> 0:34:44.080
<v Speaker 1>so I would get to up and then I wouldn't

0:34:44.920 --> 0:34:50.560
<v Speaker 1>be able to go out or go with to be

0:34:50.640 --> 0:34:53.000
<v Speaker 1>knocked out. I went to the room and passed out.

0:34:53.360 --> 0:34:56.560
<v Speaker 1>That's ridiculous, because he like, you take forever to get dressed.

0:34:57.480 --> 0:34:59.359
<v Speaker 1>You gonna make me late, We keep me late, blah

0:34:59.360 --> 0:35:02.919
<v Speaker 1>blah blah. So yeah, very smart strategy. So he would

0:35:02.920 --> 0:35:05.360
<v Speaker 1>have the driver to be like, okay, well she's ready,

0:35:05.640 --> 0:35:10.200
<v Speaker 1>just take her, bring her, take her wherever. Like it

0:35:10.280 --> 0:35:15.239
<v Speaker 1>was an interesting situation. I see that all the time,

0:35:15.280 --> 0:35:19.640
<v Speaker 1>and I just always think about it, like like the prompt,

0:35:19.680 --> 0:35:22.000
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm just thinking about the thousands of dollars you

0:35:22.040 --> 0:35:23.840
<v Speaker 1>were spaying to sleep with somebody on the back, and

0:35:24.000 --> 0:35:26.759
<v Speaker 1>like I've did this before. It is not what I

0:35:26.760 --> 0:35:29.120
<v Speaker 1>don't even think it's about that. But honestly, it could

0:35:29.160 --> 0:35:32.000
<v Speaker 1>just be that you just want that spend time with

0:35:32.040 --> 0:35:34.480
<v Speaker 1>that person and then you know, you know, you know

0:35:34.520 --> 0:35:38.000
<v Speaker 1>that type of stuff is gonna happen. So just that's

0:35:38.000 --> 0:35:40.600
<v Speaker 1>just like a little bit of it cherry on the top,

0:35:41.040 --> 0:35:42.959
<v Speaker 1>what's thery on the top, A little bit of something

0:35:42.960 --> 0:35:48.160
<v Speaker 1>on the back. And I'm just saying, No, I don't

0:35:48.160 --> 0:35:51.440
<v Speaker 1>know you said for him last places. You know what

0:35:51.440 --> 0:35:53.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, I've done all of this before. I just

0:35:54.000 --> 0:35:58.400
<v Speaker 1>didn't understand why I was like, and so you expected

0:35:58.440 --> 0:36:00.399
<v Speaker 1>to have sex with them? No, I just that's gonna

0:36:00.400 --> 0:36:03.000
<v Speaker 1>give me some pussy. I don't have to think about it. Huh.

0:36:03.280 --> 0:36:07.080
<v Speaker 1>All right, See what I'm saying that you already know

0:36:07.160 --> 0:36:08.919
<v Speaker 1>what time it is, so we should know what time

0:36:08.920 --> 0:36:13.400
<v Speaker 1>it is. But there's there's men that you like that

0:36:13.480 --> 0:36:16.799
<v Speaker 1>I've talked to her that I've dated, and I'm like,

0:36:16.880 --> 0:36:18.960
<v Speaker 1>you know what, I can go somewhere with him, and

0:36:19.000 --> 0:36:22.400
<v Speaker 1>I think he's not gonna I tried, or if I

0:36:22.920 --> 0:36:26.160
<v Speaker 1>think I never had to try nothing. I was always

0:36:26.160 --> 0:36:29.399
<v Speaker 1>to pray. I never had to like try to get

0:36:29.440 --> 0:36:31.040
<v Speaker 1>no girl to try to like give me no pussy.

0:36:31.040 --> 0:36:32.840
<v Speaker 1>It was like, this is what she was coming for

0:36:32.920 --> 0:36:37.960
<v Speaker 1>in the first place. But yeah, I'm like, like I did.

0:36:38.160 --> 0:36:43.839
<v Speaker 1>I never went to go getting. That's pretty much all

0:36:43.840 --> 0:36:47.200
<v Speaker 1>of the sort. I mean, I guess him, I had girls,

0:36:47.239 --> 0:36:49.279
<v Speaker 1>job across I had girls. I don't wanted that joke

0:36:49.320 --> 0:36:54.200
<v Speaker 1>across state lines and times, oh wow, drove to I

0:36:54.200 --> 0:36:57.239
<v Speaker 1>don't even fly all the time, trove. But it's been

0:36:57.320 --> 0:36:59.960
<v Speaker 1>interest of life. That's why I can tell you said

0:37:00.080 --> 0:37:03.319
<v Speaker 1>saying what I what I wanted to be, we have

0:37:03.440 --> 0:37:08.480
<v Speaker 1>ruined that. I have ruined it. Man. It is because

0:37:08.560 --> 0:37:11.920
<v Speaker 1>for whatever, however good it feels what I'm saying, it's like,

0:37:12.120 --> 0:37:16.440
<v Speaker 1>um no, it's just like the joy is stolen out

0:37:16.480 --> 0:37:18.200
<v Speaker 1>of it. Like I thought it was special and it's

0:37:18.239 --> 0:37:21.280
<v Speaker 1>just not. But if you if you keep telling yourself

0:37:21.320 --> 0:37:25.839
<v Speaker 1>that it's not special, I mean, it's like saying it's

0:37:25.920 --> 0:37:30.800
<v Speaker 1>it's oxygen. It's actually just oxygen. Tell yourself that it's special.

0:37:30.960 --> 0:37:33.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm not. I'm not a woman. I can't lie to myself.

0:37:33.320 --> 0:37:37.400
<v Speaker 1>And true, my sex life is tremendous as always, but

0:37:37.520 --> 0:37:39.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I think the value of it is

0:37:39.560 --> 0:37:43.480
<v Speaker 1>not what I wanted it to be in general. Well,

0:37:43.480 --> 0:37:46.480
<v Speaker 1>that's because you keep thinking sex life versus like love

0:37:46.760 --> 0:37:50.440
<v Speaker 1>or stuff like that, Like fucking it's different. Fucking somebody

0:37:50.480 --> 0:37:53.480
<v Speaker 1>is just sucking somebody and you thought, like I told

0:37:53.520 --> 0:37:55.120
<v Speaker 1>you this's earlier, right when I was explaining to you,

0:37:55.120 --> 0:37:56.600
<v Speaker 1>when me and sex was here, and I was saying

0:37:56.640 --> 0:38:00.560
<v Speaker 1>to you like pussy was only special because you thought

0:38:00.600 --> 0:38:02.880
<v Speaker 1>you were special when you got it. Once you realize

0:38:02.920 --> 0:38:05.160
<v Speaker 1>that women don't, they just have horrible taste and they

0:38:05.200 --> 0:38:08.560
<v Speaker 1>will pretty much fuck anybody. Forgive me. That just sounds harsh,

0:38:08.600 --> 0:38:13.120
<v Speaker 1>but it's true. Y'all definitely are because everybody's getting pussy,

0:38:13.239 --> 0:38:16.600
<v Speaker 1>well from some some other pussy, not specifically seeing you,

0:38:17.400 --> 0:38:20.520
<v Speaker 1>not you three per se. But I'm sure you guys

0:38:20.520 --> 0:38:22.239
<v Speaker 1>have that guy that y'all wish you didn't sunk, so

0:38:22.480 --> 0:38:25.520
<v Speaker 1>that guy too. Right. So what I'm saying is so

0:38:25.640 --> 0:38:28.319
<v Speaker 1>once you take only because they were turned out to

0:38:28.400 --> 0:38:31.919
<v Speaker 1>be it was always asked. You just ignored it because

0:38:31.960 --> 0:38:34.960
<v Speaker 1>you just liked them. But the point I'm saying is

0:38:35.560 --> 0:38:38.400
<v Speaker 1>when you really look at it, right, it's like whatever

0:38:38.480 --> 0:38:41.040
<v Speaker 1>I thought sex was special because I thought having sex

0:38:41.160 --> 0:38:43.480
<v Speaker 1>was like special because I was somebody she was giving

0:38:43.480 --> 0:38:46.799
<v Speaker 1>it to. It wasn't really like mines. It was just

0:38:46.880 --> 0:38:50.080
<v Speaker 1>my turn and tell me something that you really like love,

0:38:50.160 --> 0:38:56.960
<v Speaker 1>that's just your turn. You don't love door knobs. Sex

0:38:57.200 --> 0:39:01.839
<v Speaker 1>is special with the person you beget to them, then

0:39:01.880 --> 0:39:06.600
<v Speaker 1>that's not sex. That's the point that becomes intimacy. It's

0:39:06.600 --> 0:39:11.600
<v Speaker 1>not sex sex. Sex is very specific, but it gets

0:39:11.640 --> 0:39:15.600
<v Speaker 1>there what I'm saying, it's not about the person. Like

0:39:15.680 --> 0:39:18.000
<v Speaker 1>the thing that makes sex special with that person is

0:39:18.040 --> 0:39:21.319
<v Speaker 1>because of everything else outside of sex. Then the sex

0:39:21.440 --> 0:39:24.480
<v Speaker 1>is better. Then it's different. Right you You kind of

0:39:24.520 --> 0:39:28.279
<v Speaker 1>claiming something that's yours. But when you really think about, like,

0:39:28.280 --> 0:39:29.719
<v Speaker 1>like I was telling you the reason why he was

0:39:29.719 --> 0:39:32.040
<v Speaker 1>asking me why me and cheating? I'm like, the reason

0:39:32.120 --> 0:39:33.839
<v Speaker 1>men cheating is the same reason they get pussy when

0:39:33.840 --> 0:39:36.640
<v Speaker 1>they're single. It's the same reason for us. It makes

0:39:36.719 --> 0:39:39.640
<v Speaker 1>us feel special. It makes us feel accomplished. Some woman

0:39:39.880 --> 0:39:42.000
<v Speaker 1>thinks that you're special enough to give you some pussy.

0:39:42.440 --> 0:39:45.200
<v Speaker 1>You feel like, damn, I must be special. She give

0:39:45.200 --> 0:39:48.680
<v Speaker 1>me some because they're angry because you're mad with your girl. No,

0:39:50.239 --> 0:39:53.480
<v Speaker 1>that don't even hurt her. She's not gonna know. I mean,

0:39:53.560 --> 0:39:55.399
<v Speaker 1>she ain't making you feel good. Why do you need

0:39:55.440 --> 0:39:59.600
<v Speaker 1>somebody else to make you feel good? Know? One person

0:39:59.640 --> 0:40:02.680
<v Speaker 1>make you your good happiness itself having to do with

0:40:02.800 --> 0:40:06.200
<v Speaker 1>the next motherfucker. So because you're cheating because it's something

0:40:06.239 --> 0:40:09.080
<v Speaker 1>wrong with you. That's why you funk women in the

0:40:09.080 --> 0:40:12.720
<v Speaker 1>first place, because something right with you, wrong with you.

0:40:13.400 --> 0:40:18.759
<v Speaker 1>Celebration of life, it's a celebration life. But I'm saying

0:40:19.719 --> 0:40:28.680
<v Speaker 1>most likely yeah, yeah, Broyal chicken, barbecue chicken kebabe. But

0:40:28.719 --> 0:40:31.920
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying to you is it's like, let me,

0:40:32.000 --> 0:40:34.040
<v Speaker 1>let me try to clarify as much as I can

0:40:34.080 --> 0:40:36.880
<v Speaker 1>and thought, um like when you first when you first

0:40:36.880 --> 0:40:38.880
<v Speaker 1>started hearing about sex, right as you're growing up, you

0:40:38.960 --> 0:40:41.319
<v Speaker 1>becoming a teenager, right, so they start before they even

0:40:41.320 --> 0:40:44.000
<v Speaker 1>come in teenager, But when you become a teenager, it's

0:40:44.040 --> 0:40:46.800
<v Speaker 1>special because first you hear how good it makes you feel.

0:40:47.320 --> 0:40:49.280
<v Speaker 1>Then you get into a space to where you believe

0:40:49.760 --> 0:40:52.400
<v Speaker 1>the more women want to sleep with you, it's your value,

0:40:52.560 --> 0:40:54.560
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm valuable because that's why she want to sleep

0:40:54.600 --> 0:40:57.080
<v Speaker 1>with me. I must be special. So that's how you

0:40:57.120 --> 0:40:59.640
<v Speaker 1>grow up living your life. You know, your twenties, you're like, oh,

0:40:59.719 --> 0:41:05.360
<v Speaker 1>she holds me tonight, some little much. But that's the point.

0:41:05.400 --> 0:41:14.440
<v Speaker 1>So right, I don't know what it's like for those guys,

0:41:10.960 --> 0:41:18.240
<v Speaker 1>So no problem that on both guys. I'll be around.

0:41:19.000 --> 0:41:21.960
<v Speaker 1>That's not their problem. So I don't know if it's

0:41:22.080 --> 0:41:25.000
<v Speaker 1>like I remember, I stayed downtown and people was intent

0:41:26.520 --> 0:41:30.719
<v Speaker 1>of course bombs. So that's my point. So everybody, so

0:41:30.800 --> 0:41:34.000
<v Speaker 1>everybody getting pussy, right, So what it is is so

0:41:34.120 --> 0:41:38.000
<v Speaker 1>you really feel valuable when some woman gives you her body,

0:41:38.040 --> 0:41:42.080
<v Speaker 1>because we, as much as y'all don't understand the value

0:41:42.080 --> 0:41:47.600
<v Speaker 1>of your body, we do y'all feel valued when you

0:41:47.680 --> 0:41:50.360
<v Speaker 1>get it the first time, Yes, because that is the

0:41:50.440 --> 0:41:53.160
<v Speaker 1>moment that she chold that you are worthy of sharing

0:41:53.200 --> 0:42:08.640
<v Speaker 1>this precious other times. Right, I can make good, probably

0:42:08.640 --> 0:42:11.200
<v Speaker 1>got a better chance of work it. But yes, it's

0:42:11.239 --> 0:42:13.520
<v Speaker 1>just messed up you. I mean, the value of it

0:42:13.560 --> 0:42:16.279
<v Speaker 1>is that. So you sleep with girls because it makes

0:42:16.280 --> 0:42:19.040
<v Speaker 1>you feel like they create a false sense of value,

0:42:19.120 --> 0:42:22.479
<v Speaker 1>like you really got you special, like she giving you play,

0:42:22.560 --> 0:42:25.040
<v Speaker 1>like she giving you pussy. But so that's why I nigga,

0:42:25.120 --> 0:42:28.880
<v Speaker 1>she too, because something about their life they're feeling unaccomplished

0:42:29.120 --> 0:42:31.439
<v Speaker 1>or they want to feel more accomplished as a man.

0:42:31.920 --> 0:42:34.560
<v Speaker 1>So when somebody getting pussy, they think they something. It's

0:42:34.600 --> 0:42:37.960
<v Speaker 1>ego and you need to put that ship damn. But

0:42:38.040 --> 0:42:39.920
<v Speaker 1>you can't put down the one thing that if we

0:42:39.920 --> 0:42:43.200
<v Speaker 1>put our ego down, we be you would be a

0:42:43.280 --> 0:42:49.439
<v Speaker 1>woman waiting for the right one. Masculinity makes you a man.

0:42:49.960 --> 0:42:55.320
<v Speaker 1>That's my point. Masculinity. Think about the sense historical times.

0:42:55.840 --> 0:42:58.600
<v Speaker 1>That's just how it is. You can't separate the man

0:42:58.600 --> 0:43:09.720
<v Speaker 1>from the Masculinity is the protection and conquest, conquering things,

0:43:10.080 --> 0:43:12.920
<v Speaker 1>not women, though, I men are something to be conquered.

0:43:12.960 --> 0:43:15.000
<v Speaker 1>But there's a point where it's like, Okay, I'm done

0:43:15.040 --> 0:43:18.960
<v Speaker 1>with this because I've grown up and become, like they say,

0:43:19.000 --> 0:43:22.000
<v Speaker 1>a man. So you find other things to conquer besides women.

0:43:22.840 --> 0:43:25.040
<v Speaker 1>It's never like you never meet a woman that makes

0:43:25.080 --> 0:43:26.520
<v Speaker 1>you feel like you don't want to sleep with no

0:43:26.640 --> 0:43:29.520
<v Speaker 1>other woman. That's just not how I go. You always

0:43:29.560 --> 0:43:31.319
<v Speaker 1>want to look at another woman like me. I don't

0:43:31.320 --> 0:43:32.959
<v Speaker 1>care which car you got, you know, just the last

0:43:32.960 --> 0:43:35.840
<v Speaker 1>car I wanted life. I mean, you want other cars.

0:43:35.840 --> 0:43:38.760
<v Speaker 1>So is you have to find more things to conquer

0:43:39.000 --> 0:43:41.440
<v Speaker 1>outside of women. But women has been the thing you

0:43:41.560 --> 0:43:43.200
<v Speaker 1>was talked to conquered as long as you good men.

0:43:43.280 --> 0:43:46.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying really hard to be calm and not just

0:43:46.520 --> 0:43:49.160
<v Speaker 1>take this information. It's it's a lot. Yes, it's true.

0:43:49.480 --> 0:43:52.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you from a man's perspective. I'm telling you

0:43:52.280 --> 0:43:55.319
<v Speaker 1>because I talked to men personally. I asked them, what

0:43:55.360 --> 0:43:57.440
<v Speaker 1>do they really think I will force it out of them.

0:43:57.480 --> 0:44:00.640
<v Speaker 1>Doesn't make it right because they think that's like saying,

0:44:00.680 --> 0:44:02.440
<v Speaker 1>is it right if a line eats a gazelle? It's

0:44:02.480 --> 0:44:06.279
<v Speaker 1>just nature. It's not right at room. You just can't

0:44:06.280 --> 0:44:08.200
<v Speaker 1>be mad that somebody don't see you and be like, oh,

0:44:08.360 --> 0:44:11.160
<v Speaker 1>life ends. This is every You should not entertain the

0:44:11.200 --> 0:44:13.919
<v Speaker 1>thought of someone else. Of course you have to, don't

0:44:13.960 --> 0:44:21.560
<v Speaker 1>think about it. Right. So my man is sitting next

0:44:21.600 --> 0:44:25.439
<v Speaker 1>to me just imagining himself fully having sex with somebody else.

0:44:25.480 --> 0:44:30.560
<v Speaker 1>What does that body really? Your heart? It's in your heart?

0:44:30.680 --> 0:44:33.400
<v Speaker 1>What this fucking got to do with a terrible Wait, okay,

0:44:33.440 --> 0:44:37.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm done. What this fucking have to do with art? Done?

0:44:37.520 --> 0:44:40.520
<v Speaker 1>Right now? You really thought got something to do with

0:44:40.560 --> 0:44:44.239
<v Speaker 1>each other? It should? Okay, So every LA's person you

0:44:44.360 --> 0:44:49.200
<v Speaker 1>ever slept, what you've been in love with? Yeah, you're

0:44:49.200 --> 0:44:52.680
<v Speaker 1>not telling the truth. You're lying on kind of disab

0:44:54.600 --> 0:45:00.319
<v Speaker 1>This is kind of my lashes. That's that's what funk.

0:45:00.360 --> 0:45:03.040
<v Speaker 1>I was doing it for. That's what I was doing

0:45:03.040 --> 0:45:05.960
<v Speaker 1>it to fall in love. I was doing it to

0:45:06.440 --> 0:45:12.080
<v Speaker 1>to experience love. That's not love, obviously, It never was,

0:45:12.960 --> 0:45:15.120
<v Speaker 1>and I understand. I'm sorry that I wasn't around to

0:45:15.120 --> 0:45:18.080
<v Speaker 1>teach you early on life like to be like look,

0:45:18.400 --> 0:45:26.120
<v Speaker 1>because yeah, if you exactly, And I'm giving it to

0:45:26.200 --> 0:45:28.319
<v Speaker 1>you now when you are resenting it, like I'm telling

0:45:28.360 --> 0:45:30.400
<v Speaker 1>you something, Cristy, and I'm telling you how we see it.

0:45:30.480 --> 0:45:32.440
<v Speaker 1>You can just tell me how they think. And with

0:45:32.680 --> 0:45:35.040
<v Speaker 1>knowing that, I can move based all that because I

0:45:35.040 --> 0:45:37.759
<v Speaker 1>don't agree that it's right. It's not, but I'm saying

0:45:37.880 --> 0:45:41.800
<v Speaker 1>nature is nature, why it is nature? The reality is

0:45:41.960 --> 0:45:44.600
<v Speaker 1>I can see a guy looks good with chiseled all that,

0:45:44.800 --> 0:45:46.399
<v Speaker 1>and I'd be like, oh, you know, he was good,

0:45:46.440 --> 0:45:49.000
<v Speaker 1>But I'm not about to be like whip his dick out.

0:45:52.200 --> 0:45:54.560
<v Speaker 1>Why do you think you and literally we have a

0:45:54.640 --> 0:45:58.719
<v Speaker 1>completely separate chromosome count, like different chromosome excess, and that's

0:45:58.719 --> 0:46:00.520
<v Speaker 1>why why would you feel like we are this name

0:46:00.560 --> 0:46:02.840
<v Speaker 1>at all? You just think we just signed because we

0:46:02.920 --> 0:46:06.799
<v Speaker 1>just got y'all start off as a pussy, then y'all grow,

0:46:06.920 --> 0:46:12.840
<v Speaker 1>y'all at that point that grow. The hormones that forced

0:46:12.920 --> 0:46:16.040
<v Speaker 1>that growth makes us different because you didn't have that hormone.

0:46:16.120 --> 0:46:21.160
<v Speaker 1>But the basis the same. So then the basis is

0:46:21.200 --> 0:46:23.680
<v Speaker 1>in the wound, So the basis separate right in the womb.

0:46:24.160 --> 0:46:28.520
<v Speaker 1>So therefore our whole journey separate completely different. If your

0:46:28.600 --> 0:46:32.920
<v Speaker 1>DNA is still yeah, but it's not the DNA that's driving.

0:46:33.040 --> 0:46:36.200
<v Speaker 1>Is the dick is driving the car. It shows stupid.

0:46:37.520 --> 0:46:39.480
<v Speaker 1>It's not the thoughts. You don't show you you I've

0:46:39.480 --> 0:46:41.920
<v Speaker 1>never said to myself, let me not think about sucking her.

0:46:42.880 --> 0:46:47.200
<v Speaker 1>You have it. You have to master mind, mastering your mind.

0:46:47.360 --> 0:46:50.120
<v Speaker 1>What is wrong with the thoughts because they can manifest,

0:46:50.120 --> 0:46:52.759
<v Speaker 1>because thoughts are so powerful, and they give off these

0:46:52.800 --> 0:46:57.840
<v Speaker 1>invisible colors and current, and it makes just because you

0:46:57.960 --> 0:47:01.400
<v Speaker 1>think it has to happen eventually, keep on fantasizing you're

0:47:01.440 --> 0:47:05.839
<v Speaker 1>gonna end up sucking somebody, certain people that don't mean

0:47:05.880 --> 0:47:08.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm ever gonna You never know. You might not get

0:47:08.200 --> 0:47:10.400
<v Speaker 1>them how you wanted them at first, but it might

0:47:10.440 --> 0:47:12.399
<v Speaker 1>come a time I'm not going to get him because

0:47:12.400 --> 0:47:14.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't want just because it's a thought. It's a thought.

0:47:14.560 --> 0:47:17.320
<v Speaker 1>It's cool to have thoughts. Fleeing thoughts. Keep it moving.

0:47:17.400 --> 0:47:20.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna let you have that. Are you okay with um?

0:47:20.239 --> 0:47:23.120
<v Speaker 1>Your girl having thoughts of sucking another I'm sure she does.

0:47:23.640 --> 0:47:26.279
<v Speaker 1>I mean she could tell me a lie. I'm We

0:47:26.320 --> 0:47:30.839
<v Speaker 1>don't think like that, goddamn lie. We do not think

0:47:30.880 --> 0:47:33.560
<v Speaker 1>the moment I want to suck somebody else, I'm leaving,

0:47:33.719 --> 0:47:36.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm not with the person that I was with. I

0:47:36.080 --> 0:47:39.160
<v Speaker 1>don't want. That's just a lie to that. I'm not

0:47:39.239 --> 0:47:41.880
<v Speaker 1>saying that, man, it's sexy. If you say that's sexy,

0:47:41.880 --> 0:47:45.200
<v Speaker 1>that's a thought of sex. I'm not saying if you know,

0:47:45.280 --> 0:47:47.719
<v Speaker 1>it's a sex appeal of another person using the key

0:47:47.760 --> 0:47:54.920
<v Speaker 1>word sexy. Sexy's having sex with the person that you're dating,

0:47:55.000 --> 0:47:57.719
<v Speaker 1>you're dealing with, talking to on a regular basis. We

0:47:57.760 --> 0:48:00.480
<v Speaker 1>don't see a man or like, we don't be with

0:48:00.600 --> 0:48:02.920
<v Speaker 1>hard dude, and we'll see another guy and just be

0:48:03.040 --> 0:48:05.960
<v Speaker 1>like no, but you can tell later wrong. You might

0:48:05.960 --> 0:48:07.560
<v Speaker 1>talk to a bread later on and be like, girl,

0:48:07.600 --> 0:48:10.239
<v Speaker 1>I saw this nigga today. Well let me say something though,

0:48:10.280 --> 0:48:12.120
<v Speaker 1>I will take that back to see when I went

0:48:12.200 --> 0:48:15.200
<v Speaker 1>to us see the wool tanging nas at the New

0:48:15.239 --> 0:48:22.520
<v Speaker 1>York State of Mind concert. Nas could get it right,

0:48:22.960 --> 0:48:27.640
<v Speaker 1>somebody's over your limit, over my limit. But guess what

0:48:27.680 --> 0:48:30.680
<v Speaker 1>he could get. So your limit ain't your limit? When

0:48:35.440 --> 0:48:39.680
<v Speaker 1>that nasty nuts. So the wealth, So the wealth got

0:48:39.680 --> 0:48:42.719
<v Speaker 1>you breaking your rooms. The thing got your breaking your

0:48:42.920 --> 0:48:45.719
<v Speaker 1>right and he got me breaking the roof. So he

0:48:45.800 --> 0:48:48.000
<v Speaker 1>looks good enough to where you're breaking the route. Listen,

0:48:48.320 --> 0:48:50.760
<v Speaker 1>I just say the whole. You just presented the whole.

0:48:51.400 --> 0:48:54.320
<v Speaker 1>You just presented the whole thing. You really just said, Okay,

0:48:54.360 --> 0:48:57.520
<v Speaker 1>let me take thee I just said, then let me

0:48:57.560 --> 0:48:59.880
<v Speaker 1>take that back. Because I did feel a little something

0:49:00.200 --> 0:49:03.160
<v Speaker 1>in my heart when he came outside with the red

0:49:03.280 --> 0:49:05.920
<v Speaker 1>jumpsuit and I was like, oh he was like. I

0:49:06.000 --> 0:49:08.680
<v Speaker 1>was like, but can you admit you built up this

0:49:08.840 --> 0:49:12.160
<v Speaker 1>fantasy around nas and then when you seen him, it

0:49:12.280 --> 0:49:16.240
<v Speaker 1>was like my dreams could be coming true. I was like, damn,

0:49:16.239 --> 0:49:19.239
<v Speaker 1>if only I could have had a backstage pass to

0:49:19.320 --> 0:49:26.840
<v Speaker 1>this concert, I would have definitely because I always loved

0:49:26.880 --> 0:49:29.640
<v Speaker 1>me some na, So this was like I had never

0:49:29.640 --> 0:49:31.879
<v Speaker 1>seen him, and this is the point. This is the point.

0:49:31.920 --> 0:49:34.040
<v Speaker 1>See y'all feel like you're not like y'all, but y'all

0:49:34.120 --> 0:49:37.600
<v Speaker 1>are exactly like us. I guess it got to be

0:49:37.680 --> 0:49:39.719
<v Speaker 1>the right one, is what I'm saying, Because see I didn't,

0:49:40.840 --> 0:49:45.560
<v Speaker 1>but we normally don't. Normally we don't. But the reality

0:49:45.719 --> 0:49:49.520
<v Speaker 1>is all this stuff is untrue. You never met somebody

0:49:49.560 --> 0:49:52.319
<v Speaker 1>you always have thoughts. Thoughts are just thoughts, don't you

0:49:52.320 --> 0:49:55.720
<v Speaker 1>don't try to materialize him. That's the keys, just thoughts.

0:49:56.480 --> 0:49:58.960
<v Speaker 1>She's just the wine. He's having thought to somebody. So

0:49:59.080 --> 0:50:01.840
<v Speaker 1>what that means You're gonna think of a lot of

0:50:01.880 --> 0:50:05.520
<v Speaker 1>things I just shouldn't care about. It's not caring. You

0:50:05.560 --> 0:50:10.319
<v Speaker 1>just can't overcare. You can't over dramatically what you're thinking

0:50:10.320 --> 0:50:20.399
<v Speaker 1>about thoughts. If you you would never message, I don't

0:50:20.400 --> 0:50:23.120
<v Speaker 1>even think I would want to you. You would never

0:50:23.640 --> 0:50:25.800
<v Speaker 1>y'all would y'all would get so far away from me.

0:50:25.840 --> 0:50:28.839
<v Speaker 1>And if y'all saw our thoughts, Yeah, y'all would get

0:50:28.880 --> 0:50:31.640
<v Speaker 1>so far away from me. And if you like, I'll

0:50:31.680 --> 0:50:34.640
<v Speaker 1>be seeing yours when you make certain faces, you'll be

0:50:34.719 --> 0:50:39.120
<v Speaker 1>looking done ever hurt my? She think I've always aggravated

0:50:41.040 --> 0:50:43.680
<v Speaker 1>like way left. I don't think I can ever look

0:50:43.680 --> 0:50:45.600
<v Speaker 1>at you and figure out what you're thinking, because you

0:50:45.680 --> 0:50:47.799
<v Speaker 1>should be like nobody could ever really figure out what

0:50:47.800 --> 0:50:50.919
<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking because it's not one specific thing. I'm thinking

0:50:50.920 --> 0:50:52.920
<v Speaker 1>of multiple things, right. But what I don't do is

0:50:52.960 --> 0:50:56.319
<v Speaker 1>take of expectations. That's the key for me is I

0:50:56.320 --> 0:51:00.080
<v Speaker 1>don't have expectations. If my whole life I had, and

0:51:00.360 --> 0:51:02.839
<v Speaker 1>the more I've got away from having them, everything has

0:51:02.840 --> 0:51:04.879
<v Speaker 1>worked out better. Now that's not to say I don't

0:51:04.920 --> 0:51:07.680
<v Speaker 1>have a standard, but I don't have expectations for me

0:51:07.800 --> 0:51:10.080
<v Speaker 1>Like God could bless me a thousand different ways. I

0:51:10.120 --> 0:51:11.520
<v Speaker 1>can't be mad that I didn't get it the way

0:51:11.560 --> 0:51:14.080
<v Speaker 1>I won't. You can't want to win the way you

0:51:14.080 --> 0:51:15.640
<v Speaker 1>want to win. When it comes to God, you gotta

0:51:15.680 --> 0:51:17.840
<v Speaker 1>win the way you're gonna get you a w and

0:51:17.880 --> 0:51:20.200
<v Speaker 1>that work out better for me. But what I'm saying

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<v Speaker 1>to you is it's it's like, that's not a realistic expectation,

0:51:25.160 --> 0:51:27.320
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of things I'll say is built on fantasy,

0:51:27.360 --> 0:51:30.360
<v Speaker 1>even with this trip conversation. But let's take it to

0:51:30.760 --> 0:51:32.799
<v Speaker 1>something simple as I want to feel like the only girl.

0:51:32.840 --> 0:51:34.160
<v Speaker 1>I want him to make me feel like the only

0:51:34.160 --> 0:51:36.160
<v Speaker 1>girl in the world. Think about how retarded that is

0:51:36.480 --> 0:51:39.080
<v Speaker 1>when there's literally billions of girls. That's just like a

0:51:39.120 --> 0:51:42.839
<v Speaker 1>horrible thought. And sometimes you don't ever sense yourself standard. Yes,

0:51:42.880 --> 0:51:45.879
<v Speaker 1>why would you want to feel like something that's virtually impossible?

0:51:46.600 --> 0:51:47.880
<v Speaker 1>That's like a nigg of like I want you to

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<v Speaker 1>make me feel like the biggest dick in the world.

0:51:49.600 --> 0:51:51.839
<v Speaker 1>You know, that's a lie, bro, and if y'all try

0:51:51.880 --> 0:51:54.239
<v Speaker 1>to honor that ship is just dumb. You got two

0:51:54.239 --> 0:51:56.680
<v Speaker 1>people trying to play into a make believe ship versus

0:51:57.120 --> 0:52:00.840
<v Speaker 1>just a make believe thing versus just being happy with

0:52:00.960 --> 0:52:03.759
<v Speaker 1>who you are and what you are. The motherfucker that

0:52:03.800 --> 0:52:06.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm with is more than great enough for me, right,

0:52:06.480 --> 0:52:10.360
<v Speaker 1>motherfucking now. I don't need this motherfucker to be nobody else.

0:52:11.400 --> 0:52:13.839
<v Speaker 1>What that motherfuck is is perfect. That on mean, it's

0:52:13.840 --> 0:52:16.239
<v Speaker 1>not what I thought it should be. Once I lost

0:52:16.280 --> 0:52:18.759
<v Speaker 1>what I thought it should be and realized God won't

0:52:18.800 --> 0:52:20.839
<v Speaker 1>give me what it is. This is gonna work out.

0:52:21.960 --> 0:52:23.879
<v Speaker 1>That's what you gotta do. You can't be like, oh, well,

0:52:23.880 --> 0:52:25.759
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to be this way because it'll make me

0:52:25.840 --> 0:52:31.560
<v Speaker 1>feel what Like, yes, that's how you saying. And no,

0:52:31.840 --> 0:52:34.040
<v Speaker 1>y're not the type of motherfucker's that y'all don't think

0:52:34.040 --> 0:52:36.799
<v Speaker 1>of other people. That just a lie. You just don't

0:52:36.840 --> 0:52:40.000
<v Speaker 1>act on it. And sometimes y'all still do me and

0:52:40.120 --> 0:52:42.719
<v Speaker 1>do it. I'm just giving it to you and and

0:52:42.800 --> 0:52:45.480
<v Speaker 1>any man that's listened to this podcast. The reality is

0:52:46.400 --> 0:52:48.560
<v Speaker 1>you have to figure that the main reason you see

0:52:48.600 --> 0:52:50.839
<v Speaker 1>with women, it's a sense of accomplishment. The same reason

0:52:50.840 --> 0:52:52.279
<v Speaker 1>you do it while you're married, the same reason why

0:52:52.320 --> 0:52:55.000
<v Speaker 1>you do a single. It's just a sense of accomplishment.

0:52:55.040 --> 0:52:57.520
<v Speaker 1>So you have to find other things to accomplish that

0:52:57.640 --> 0:53:01.120
<v Speaker 1>you're passionate about, simple as that. Once you do that,

0:53:01.239 --> 0:53:03.839
<v Speaker 1>you got a chance to not cheat. Without it, it's

0:53:03.840 --> 0:53:10.600
<v Speaker 1>a it's a crime of opportunity. The relationships are complicated,

0:53:10.920 --> 0:53:13.680
<v Speaker 1>they're not. They're really simple. If you wake up every

0:53:13.760 --> 0:53:15.399
<v Speaker 1>day and try to make the next person you wear

0:53:15.480 --> 0:53:19.640
<v Speaker 1>life better, that's the whole goal of it. If they

0:53:19.640 --> 0:53:22.480
<v Speaker 1>don't see you trying, it's not about what they say,

0:53:22.520 --> 0:53:26.239
<v Speaker 1>it's about what you're doing. You could never waste your

0:53:26.239 --> 0:53:29.880
<v Speaker 1>time if that's what you want to do. If I

0:53:30.000 --> 0:53:31.640
<v Speaker 1>go out to the free throw cord to shoot a

0:53:31.680 --> 0:53:34.279
<v Speaker 1>hundred free throughs, I mean that's what I want to do.

0:53:34.320 --> 0:53:36.560
<v Speaker 1>It non't matter how many I make a miss. The

0:53:36.640 --> 0:53:39.520
<v Speaker 1>whole goal was shooting the free throughs. So when you're

0:53:39.520 --> 0:53:42.200
<v Speaker 1>going to love somebody, the whole goal gotta be loving somebody.

0:53:42.200 --> 0:53:44.200
<v Speaker 1>It can't just be I want to love them because

0:53:44.200 --> 0:53:47.360
<v Speaker 1>I want them to and it's not because that's what

0:53:47.440 --> 0:53:49.480
<v Speaker 1>hurt your finners. You want somebody to love you, so

0:53:49.560 --> 0:53:51.120
<v Speaker 1>you feel like if I give them love. They're gonna

0:53:51.160 --> 0:53:53.839
<v Speaker 1>get me love back. That's the point of relationship. That's

0:53:53.960 --> 0:53:58.520
<v Speaker 1>actually not the point. Everything about life is giving, especially

0:53:58.520 --> 0:54:03.120
<v Speaker 1>for women. But you're no, you're not. You're the givers.

0:54:03.120 --> 0:54:05.400
<v Speaker 1>You're the giver of life. You're the giver of everything,

0:54:05.800 --> 0:54:09.759
<v Speaker 1>giver of the nutrition and nourishment, uh, every last part

0:54:09.760 --> 0:54:11.879
<v Speaker 1>of giver. But somehow y'all got lost in this weird

0:54:11.920 --> 0:54:14.200
<v Speaker 1>world where y'all really think that y'all the receivers. And

0:54:14.200 --> 0:54:17.440
<v Speaker 1>that's why nobody because vain is made and the penis,

0:54:17.760 --> 0:54:20.520
<v Speaker 1>you take penis, you receive penis, so you can actually

0:54:20.520 --> 0:54:26.680
<v Speaker 1>give life. That's the only thing. He can't do nothing

0:54:26.680 --> 0:54:30.560
<v Speaker 1>else for the baby for nine months. That nigga can

0:54:30.560 --> 0:54:32.600
<v Speaker 1>only do ship for you. He can't do nothing for

0:54:32.600 --> 0:54:35.320
<v Speaker 1>the babby for nine months. He gave you two seconds

0:54:35.360 --> 0:54:37.560
<v Speaker 1>to give you nine months of this ship, and he

0:54:37.640 --> 0:54:40.480
<v Speaker 1>can't do nothing till it's time the motherfucker came out,

0:54:40.640 --> 0:54:43.280
<v Speaker 1>until you delivered, until you put it out the oven.

0:54:43.560 --> 0:54:46.160
<v Speaker 1>He can he can talk to the stomach, and yeah,

0:54:46.200 --> 0:54:49.520
<v Speaker 1>that's all you know. That makes a difference. I think

0:54:49.800 --> 0:54:53.120
<v Speaker 1>that's again again to believe that it's it's an idea

0:54:53.160 --> 0:54:54.920
<v Speaker 1>of science, but that ain't really what it is that

0:54:55.000 --> 0:54:57.759
<v Speaker 1>my fun don't know you mother fucker might be to

0:54:57.800 --> 0:54:59.719
<v Speaker 1>recognize your voice. I think this nigga has talked to

0:54:59.760 --> 0:55:01.360
<v Speaker 1>me now in the belly. But at the end of

0:55:01.360 --> 0:55:03.680
<v Speaker 1>the day, it won't never be the connection with the mother.

0:55:04.320 --> 0:55:05.920
<v Speaker 1>It's gonna take him a while. I had that connection

0:55:06.000 --> 0:55:08.239
<v Speaker 1>with their father because this motherfucker' and feed them the

0:55:08.239 --> 0:55:12.000
<v Speaker 1>whole time. So I think the point I'm saying to

0:55:12.040 --> 0:55:14.920
<v Speaker 1>you is when you really really think about it, the

0:55:15.000 --> 0:55:17.480
<v Speaker 1>point of relationship is if you're doing it right, it's

0:55:17.520 --> 0:55:20.360
<v Speaker 1>about giving. If you're worried about receiving, you're gonna always

0:55:20.360 --> 0:55:22.880
<v Speaker 1>feel like you wasted time because you didn't get what

0:55:22.920 --> 0:55:25.400
<v Speaker 1>you was looking for. But if you focus on what

0:55:25.440 --> 0:55:28.000
<v Speaker 1>it's about, which is giving somebody something, giving what you

0:55:28.040 --> 0:55:30.919
<v Speaker 1>want to give, as long as you give you what

0:55:30.960 --> 0:55:35.120
<v Speaker 1>they said they were. If you expect anything in the world,

0:55:35.520 --> 0:55:39.279
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna come up short from anybody, especially anything with consistency.

0:55:40.080 --> 0:55:43.080
<v Speaker 1>Your kids gonna let you down, your parents gonna let

0:55:43.080 --> 0:55:49.000
<v Speaker 1>you down, everybody gonna let you down with aspectations. So

0:55:49.080 --> 0:55:50.960
<v Speaker 1>if you're not in a relationship to give it your all,

0:55:51.280 --> 0:55:53.319
<v Speaker 1>if you're in the relationship to get give it, get

0:55:53.360 --> 0:55:56.080
<v Speaker 1>something you're in the wrong. I mean, you better focus

0:55:56.080 --> 0:55:57.719
<v Speaker 1>on what you're supposed to get. But if you a

0:55:57.760 --> 0:56:00.840
<v Speaker 1>real relationship is when you focus on giving somebody. Every

0:56:00.920 --> 0:56:03.360
<v Speaker 1>day you're supposed to make the next person, trying to

0:56:03.360 --> 0:56:05.759
<v Speaker 1>make the next person life easier. That's the whole goal.

0:56:06.600 --> 0:56:08.279
<v Speaker 1>Every day you wake up and focused on that. It's

0:56:08.280 --> 0:56:10.359
<v Speaker 1>hard to figure out another bit. It's gonna be tough.

0:56:10.680 --> 0:56:12.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't have a lot of time and not do

0:56:12.040 --> 0:56:17.040
<v Speaker 1>a thousand things. That's the trick. But I ain't nobody

0:56:17.040 --> 0:56:20.439
<v Speaker 1>flying you nowhere if you ain't sucking, so you ain't

0:56:20.440 --> 0:56:23.160
<v Speaker 1>got no business. Let nobody fly you nowhere. I ain't

0:56:23.160 --> 0:56:27.000
<v Speaker 1>goin't nowhere. I'm not even thinking of you like that.

0:56:27.120 --> 0:56:29.680
<v Speaker 1>First of all. My thing is this, I'm gonna tell you,

0:56:30.400 --> 0:56:32.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to even have like a vacation with

0:56:33.000 --> 0:56:36.360
<v Speaker 1>somebody that I don't even want to now. Back then, yeah,

0:56:36.440 --> 0:56:39.400
<v Speaker 1>but now I would prefer to be with the person

0:56:39.440 --> 0:56:41.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm with and enjoying it because when you're out on

0:56:41.960 --> 0:56:43.600
<v Speaker 1>a trip and stuff like that, you're not really feeling

0:56:43.640 --> 0:56:46.479
<v Speaker 1>that person anyway. It's just like you're there, they're there,

0:56:46.640 --> 0:56:53.000
<v Speaker 1>and it's just not really that ship is off. Yeah,

0:56:53.040 --> 0:56:58.719
<v Speaker 1>I mean you want to take pictures, experience this with

0:56:58.760 --> 0:57:05.640
<v Speaker 1>somebody that exact for the ground. You're gonna look popping

0:57:05.680 --> 0:57:07.839
<v Speaker 1>people me in the comments, girl, you could always post

0:57:07.880 --> 0:57:15.960
<v Speaker 1>that throwback Thursday, Take me Back, Take me Back? Baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Good looking out for tuning into the No Sellers Podcast.

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