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Speaker 2: Welcome to for the dads. This is a show by

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Speaker 2: a dad, by as soon to be future Yeah, future

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Speaker 2: introducing ourselves. I am the co creator of Busting with

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Speaker 2: a husband and my wife charl charro Compton. Sorry, your

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Speaker 2: I we have two beautiful daughters, Cirulian Bell and Scottie

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Speaker 2: show is Sherman Young. Sherman, would you like to introduce yourself.

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Speaker 3: Hello, My name is Sherman, producer here at Busting with

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Speaker 3: You guys, you brought you in. Jilly Bean shout out,

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Speaker 3: Jilly Bean shout out. Oh yeah. A little bit about me.

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Speaker 3: Jilly Bean or Jill Young in future future. Dad, I

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Speaker 3: Was in Garrett's DMS, everybody's dms. Just busting. Please hire me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you have a bad ass creative mind and you

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Speaker 2: crush it with busting with the boys, You're going to

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Speaker 3: Going into the day was incredible. Jill's a nurse. She

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Speaker 3: a Papa Seal, not if you didn't sleep on the couch.

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Speaker 2: We need to make something where you can put like

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Speaker 3: You're a five star general, That's what I'm saying. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Skip the line, you get a recliner. Hey, let me

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Speaker 1: It's almost like that's how you earn your stripes.

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Speaker 3: say post delivery room, no recliner. The couch was terrible.

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Speaker 3: Slept on the couch. Are you lying to me? Not

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Speaker 1: I can call Jill if I need you slept on

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Speaker 2: We had what did somebody? They said somebody on here. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Sean was like twelve hours is insaaning? You talking about

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Speaker 3: Manny petty while you were in there. We had we

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Speaker 2: rain on me right now. But we had to adapt,

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Speaker 2: We had to improvise. We had to overcome as is parenting.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we had to. We had to just get

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Speaker 3: We'll keep it under an hour. And you know it.

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Speaker 1: But if you're home at two thirty seven, that's fine.

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Speaker 3: Great for the show.

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Speaker 2: Well, we had to make a change, so we're we're

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Speaker 1: I appreciate you doing.

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Speaker 2: Make sure you subscribe, but sometimes you gotta you gotta

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Speaker 2: adapt on the the environment, the elements get to you.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you're gonna want to be at a pool thinking

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Speaker 1: I'm talking to you.

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Speaker 2: Rue, but uh, carry on with a on with your story.

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Speaker 2: I kind of forgot where we were, but I did

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Speaker 2: have a one of the odds, Oh you have?

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Speaker 1: I had what are the odds? I like that, what

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Speaker 1: Because it was so good.

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Speaker 3: It was just what everybody wants, which is what everybody

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Speaker 1: Then you're out great. Everything was if anything, as.

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Speaker 2: A dad, I don't want to tell Charle Housmouth it

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Speaker 3: But truly, I mean for some of these moms and stuff,

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Speaker 1: What everybody everybody hopes for. The delivery you're about to

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Speaker 3: Of course, and Jill, I mean absolutely kills it. My

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Speaker 3: I would just literally what I did.

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Speaker 1: You got over there.

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Speaker 3: I'm in the recliner doing this. I'm going like this

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Speaker 1: This is you and the recliner.

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Speaker 3: Yes, this is me and a recliner with Jill brought

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you what you hat like your survival kid

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Speaker 3: To go because of Jilly be I mean, Jill was

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Speaker 3: like that could even be a great like if Jill

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Jill's survival kit was not so dude, and so

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Speaker 3: No, didn't have coffee the entire time I was there.

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Speaker 3: But the one thing that I forgot to say, dude

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Speaker 3: proud of Jill. Jill was such a gangster dude, like

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Speaker 3: it out, you'll grab her and you just bring her

436
00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:11,760
Speaker 3: to your chest. And on that third push they got

437
00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:15,800
Speaker 3: Scarlet out to her torso. She was holding her umbilical

438
00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:18,879
Speaker 3: cord like Batman doing his you know, little gun. She

439
00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:22,120
Speaker 3: comes out like this and Jill just reached down there

440
00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:24,200
Speaker 3: and grabs Scarlet and brought her to her chest.

441
00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:27,680
Speaker 1: It was unreal, dude, that is incredible.

442
00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:31,119
Speaker 3: I'm looking at my wife like, who are you? Like,

443
00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:32,200
Speaker 3: that's so sick?

444
00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:35,360
Speaker 1: Isn't it wild seeing your wife go through that?

445
00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:39,239
Speaker 3: Yes? And I told her, like beforehand, I don't know

446
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:42,080
Speaker 3: because I don't know childbirth, but I'm like, if there's

447
00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:44,440
Speaker 3: anybody that can do it, it's you. Like, she's such

448
00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:47,879
Speaker 3: a pusher, she's such a grinder she like, Yeah, she

449
00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:50,639
Speaker 3: just has that mentality, but she also has a lot

450
00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 3: of fearfulness and anxiety. Yeah, and beforehand, I was like,

451
00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:57,320
Speaker 3: if anybody's got it, it's you. You're going to destroy this.

452
00:21:57,800 --> 00:21:59,639
Speaker 3: And then to see her go out on the field

453
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:03,439
Speaker 3: and perform like you think she's going to make a

454
00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:06,800
Speaker 3: coach proud, Make a coach proud, dude, and then that

455
00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:10,399
Speaker 3: moment with Scarlet. Man, I can send you some picture,

456
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:12,400
Speaker 3: chef if you want to put it on the episode. Dude,

457
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 3: I'm water works obviously, y'all saw me last week. Dude.

458
00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:19,399
Speaker 3: It was amazing. Yeah.

459
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:22,639
Speaker 2: Man, listen, you just gotta have Jocko Willink in the

460
00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:27,320
Speaker 2: back of your head when something's going wrong. Good, when

461
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:31,040
Speaker 2: you're feeling sleepy you only got two hours of sleep, Good,

462
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:34,320
Speaker 2: get my ass out of bed. When the baby's not

463
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 2: going down and you're on duty.

464
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:36,280
Speaker 3: Good.

465
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 2: You might think, Jill, she she took a little walk.

466
00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:42,359
Speaker 2: Maybe she's going something to take care of herself, right, Yeah,

467
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:44,160
Speaker 2: and you think the kid's gonna go down. Okay, here's

468
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 2: a three hour window that they get to sleep. Maybe

469
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:47,720
Speaker 2: I can close my eyes. They don't go to sleep.

470
00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:48,600
Speaker 2: You don't get your nap.

471
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 1: You gotta think good.

472
00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 3: I'm covered in shit.

473
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:58,719
Speaker 1: Yes, good, shit on me? More good.

474
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 3: Bombing on me. I dare you?

475
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:04,440
Speaker 1: Oh you danger diaper? Oh you shit again?

476
00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 3: I fucking love your enthusiasm. Oh the good. I'll change

477
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:13,200
Speaker 3: your dip. I'll change that shit again. Diaper dress. Kids overflowing.

478
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:16,719
Speaker 2: Good wife's yelling at you because there's a rash now

479
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:18,640
Speaker 2: in the baby's ass because you wiped it so hard

480
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 2: because you were pissed off.

481
00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:24,360
Speaker 1: Good be softer, put the cream on afterwards.

482
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:26,679
Speaker 3: Dogs are pissed off because they're getting less attention, so

483
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:28,640
Speaker 3: they're starting to pee on Steff. So you finally pay

484
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 3: attention to them.

485
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 2: Good kid finally goes down. Dog wakes up. They're making

486
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:36,000
Speaker 2: a lot of loud noise. Wakes the baby up. You

487
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:38,080
Speaker 2: go to chase the dog to give it a little

488
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 2: to give it a little discipline. Dog outruns you, runs outside,

489
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 2: out the front door. Can't get the dog. You gotta

490
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 2: go chase him on the road. You can't find him.

491
00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:51,440
Speaker 3: Good good, you gotta embrace the sum is gonna happen.

492
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:52,639
Speaker 1: I know you got those dogs.

493
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 3: The term's always yelling at me at the front door.

494
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:56,000
Speaker 3: Keep them in, keep them in.

495
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:01,879
Speaker 2: I hope those dogs out run your ass too, and

496
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:07,720
Speaker 2: your piss off. I just and think of me. I'm ready,

497
00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:09,240
Speaker 2: And don't you dare send the text in you can't

498
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:11,320
Speaker 2: show up before the dads, because I'm just gonna say, hey,

499
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:12,639
Speaker 2: oh is this what we prepared for?

500
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:12,920
Speaker 4: No?

501
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:13,400
Speaker 3: Good?

502
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 1: Good, get your punk ass in here.

503
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,640
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be on that bus. Yeah every Monday. Yeah,

504
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 3: I gotta be here for for the dads. Good good.

505
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 2: By the way, I was thinking of, uh, I was

506
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:31,000
Speaker 2: thinking of maybe a couple some squad names out there

507
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 2: of the listeners or the listeners and like all of us, Okay,

508
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 2: there's a couple that's kind of you know, you got

509
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 2: a pop a Team six. Hey, how about just going

510
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 2: off the brotherhood the fatherhood and you just get like

511
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 2: you know, you know the hats how it says the

512
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 2: lou and it's upside down. Yeah, we just get like

513
00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 2: fatherhood and it's upside down. And that's how you know

514
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 2: you're like part of the fire.

515
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:05,639
Speaker 3: Okay. I like that one a lot. Papa Team six

516
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:06,880
Speaker 3: is strong.

517
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,679
Speaker 2: Papa Team six to where you can just refer to

518
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 2: yourself like, oh, that's a Papa Seal. That's a Papa Seal.

519
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,199
Speaker 2: That's somebody who sent Seman Team six down there and

520
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:19,679
Speaker 2: got the job done. Now he's a Papa Seal and.

521
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 3: His heart's black as hell.

522
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can tell he's been through some some military tours.

523
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:28,399
Speaker 2: And what I mean by military tours is he's been

524
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:30,960
Speaker 2: on some road trips. He's been on some vacations without

525
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:34,359
Speaker 2: any childcare. You can see it in his eyes. So

526
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:36,919
Speaker 2: just a couple of thoughts. Those are a couple thoughts.

527
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,640
Speaker 3: I love both of those. I love the fatherhood hat

528
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 3: upside down. The Our merch team was on the phone

529
00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 3: with me last week and they were pitching some upside

530
00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:49,919
Speaker 3: down stuff too, Like they're one to go heavy into it,

531
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 3: so I think it's badass.

532
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 2: Maybe we let the listeners aside, Maybe we let some

533
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 2: comments decide. Oh yeah, if you have an opinion on

534
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 2: whether we should call this this audience, this group of dads,

535
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 2: his community, the fatherhood, or Papa Team.

536
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:05,960
Speaker 1: Six with it.

537
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:10,120
Speaker 3: I kind of like by Papa Team before.

538
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 2: Coming into this. I loved I love the fatherhood. Hey,

539
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:15,879
Speaker 2: he's part of the fatherhood. There's like a hierarchy.

540
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 3: We can you're you're a real sick. Yeah. Yeah, he's

541
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:23,640
Speaker 3: part of the father, But I don't know if he's

542
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 3: Poppa Team six.

543
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Papa Team six because there's some play on

544
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:29,359
Speaker 2: stuff there with Papa Team six. Again, it's like, hey,

545
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 2: that's a Papa Seal. How do you know he's a

546
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 2: Papa Seal because he's sent in seeming Team six.

547
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 3: You gotta you gotta check his stats. He came out man, Yeah, yeah, yeah.

548
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:39,840
Speaker 3: If he's going around telling people he's Popping Team six,

549
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 3: he's probably not Poppa Team six. Yeah. Those are the

550
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:45,239
Speaker 3: guys that stick out there at the bar. Let us

551
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 3: know in the comments. Sure, do you want to say

552
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 3: what happened? I would love to say what happened? I

553
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 3: owe an apology to Will Compton.

554
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:59,880
Speaker 2: And for people listening and watching A big deal did

555
00:26:59,920 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 2: you go down? Like a huge deal, A deal where

556
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 2: it's like I don't know how to react right now

557
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 2: because we still have to record our show and we

558
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 2: have to bring the juice and I have to bring

559
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:13,880
Speaker 2: the juice and we have to be optimistic. Yes, dude,

560
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 2: because you're you're my mate, dude, Yeah, you're my.

561
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:20,719
Speaker 1: Teammate. In the squadron.

562
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 3: I'm in the foxhol with you. You're in the foxhole

563
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 3: with me, quite literally. And you said, and to.

564
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 2: Be in the foxhole with somebody, Yep, you got to

565
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 2: know that the guy you're in the foxhole with has

566
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:36,399
Speaker 2: your back, has every angle covered, if that's their role.

567
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 2: And I I patch you on the back and you

568
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:44,680
Speaker 2: shit in my hand.

569
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe you patted me on the back a little

570
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 3: too much, but I haven't.

571
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 1: We did the.

572
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 2: Performance reviews last week, I know, and that went well.

573
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 2: We talked about details, and we talked about structure.

574
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:02,120
Speaker 3: And we talked about my weakest point, the fine details

575
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 3: and having it written down, having it written down. But

576
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:09,120
Speaker 3: this was something that doesn't need to be written down.

577
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 3: This is something that does not need to be written down.

578
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 3: It's right up there with breathing in the production world,

579
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 3: I would say, or drinking enough water.

580
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:21,160
Speaker 2: Papa Team six, Moms, Dads, Seeming Team six, Sea Team

581
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 2: six need to know as they're listening to this, I'm

582
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 2: very frustrated. Yeah, I need to talk about my feelings.

583
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 3: It makes me angry.

584
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 2: I think this is health fyel alone when you do

585
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 2: behaviors like that.

586
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, tell them well, first off. Would love

587
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 3: to create a safe space for Will to continue to

588
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:46,840
Speaker 3: get this off his chest, because I feel like that's

589
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 3: the best way to deal with it, to dive right in.

590
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 3: I forgot to hit the record button on both audio

591
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 3: and video.

592
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 2: We were recording for how long Chef Chef has a

593
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 2: mic By the way, Chef who was the leader of

594
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:04,960
Speaker 2: Semen Team six at the moment, he has a mic

595
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 2: now being able to chime in so you don't have

596
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 2: to hear him from far away.

597
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 1: We were going about forty five minutes, a great job

598
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:12,840
Speaker 1: of keeping it under an hour.

599
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 3: We were just about to keep it under an hour.

600
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 3: It was potentially maybe the first time ever we were

601
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 3: on the lesson. The episode was almost done. Will was

602
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 3: getting into his lesson and I look over at the

603
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 3: audio and the video and I see no red light

604
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 3: like I do now to where it's rolling.

605
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 2: We recorded for forty five minutes, and it was so

606
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 2: much fun and it was going so well, and sure

607
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 2: him stands up and he's like grinning at Chef, like

608
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 2: pointing down at the little what's that called zoom recording?

609
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 2: Little zoom recorder. I look over a shoar, I'm like,

610
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:56,520
Speaker 2: what's up? And He's like, I didn't hit record, So

611
00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 2: I'm like, so we didn't get anything that we just

612
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,200
Speaker 2: forty five minutes nothing.

613
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 3: Nothing chalked up to the wind. He's like, I'm so sorry.

614
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:08,840
Speaker 1: Well, Dad, I just.

615
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:14,719
Speaker 4: If I can add it was dead silent for maybe

616
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 4: five minutes.

617
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, no one spoke.

618
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 3: That's a long time around here too, because we got

619
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 3: a lot of talkers, especially in this room because it's

620
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 3: Friday right now, it's feats a Friday. Addys are supposed

621
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 3: to be up watching all this ship that he's down

622
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 3: in the shop. This is the safe space.

623
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 2: This is this is the space that it's like, get

624
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 2: to go have some fun, get to go.

625
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 3: Have some fun with my boy, with your boy that

626
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 3: light you down. I'm the one that's I get.

627
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 2: We get, we play video games, but don't get to

628
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 2: see all week you're you're you're a.

629
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 1: Bright light in the shop.

630
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 3: Yeah. And I just came in. I ship in your

631
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 3: hand quite literally, and I'm stuck because I'm like, I

632
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 3: have to accept this and over it as fast as

633
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 3: possible because we still have to record for the dads.

634
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, sh'll have that fun. Yes, we said. We still

635
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 2: have to tell people to subscribe. We still have to

636
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:11,680
Speaker 2: read reread all the Greek comments we loved in the

637
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 2: comments section about Papa Team six because Papa Team six.

638
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 3: Is growing and we gotta tell the same story again.

639
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 3: But that's okay because they're they're really good stories and

640
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 3: I would love to hear it again and just say

641
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 3: shout out, this is not getting points from will you

642
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 3: have recovered very well? You ten minutes ago is a

643
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 3: different you right now? You were you've recovered? How hints?

644
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 3: How do you feel on a scale of one to ten?

645
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 2: I don't know, dude, you look like a feeling what

646
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 2: way like we're talking like good mood?

647
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 3: Well now just able to go because you look like

648
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 3: a seven, like a high seven right now? Good? I

649
00:31:55,240 --> 00:32:01,440
Speaker 3: believe it. Hey, he didn't hit record. Good the guy

650
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 3: that you put a ton of trust in to make

651
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 3: sure everything operates any family good? Good? Oh Hey, Papa

652
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 3: Sherman who said he was gonna show up at eight

653
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 3: thirty and get with Chef to go over details and

654
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 3: structure and line out a process of the show so

655
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 3: there's no mishaps. Shirm didn't show up at eight thirty.

656
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 3: What's under the show up?

657
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 1: I don't know what time he showed up.

658
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 3: It was like nine to ten.

659
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 1: Guess what, Your boy doesn't show up good.

660
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 3: Instead, he sends you a picture of a raccoon in

661
00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 3: a cage on his.

662
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 2: Roof, saying victory, good good. He's trying his weasel way

663
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:40,959
Speaker 2: out of why he wasn't. I texted Shurm back when

664
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 2: he sent me that. I was like, great creative way

665
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 2: of letting me know that you're not here at the

666
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 2: shop by the time you said you'd be at the shop.

667
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 3: True worst part of that is I didn't even know

668
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 3: what time it was, to which I replied to your text. Fuck, yeah,

669
00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 3: vibes are up, man, Vibes are still up.

670
00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:02,000
Speaker 1: Vibes are still up.

671
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 3: God. Do you want to get into comments?

672
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's read some comments. There's a lot of dads.

673
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 2: A lot of dads are out there wondering how to navigate.

674
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 2: It's a slippery slope, especially when you get mid season.

675
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 2: Your team starts catching some momentum, or they're bad, or

676
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 2: you're in a bad mood because your team lost, yes,

677
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 2: and they feel like the wife. He should be empathizing

678
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 2: with where you're at mentally. You can't watch the kids.

679
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 2: My boys just lost right now. How can you not

680
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 2: see how much how serious I take this fantasy football drafts.

681
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 2: That's one that sneaks up on me that I need

682
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 2: to have to do a better job of.

683
00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 3: That's coming up, dude, Yeah, that's coming up. I think

684
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 3: the number one, the god tier tip or dad hack,

685
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 3: whatever you want to call it. Yeah, it's just the communication,

686
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 3: pre communication communication, dude, sweetheart, we know you hate football season,

687
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 3: and maybe she's like this is if your girl doesn't

688
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 3: like football season. That's what I was gonna say, even.

689
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 2: If they kind of like it, Like my wife's bought

690
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 2: into football, but I always jabb her like she's not

691
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 2: a real football fan, Like she went to Maryland, Like

692
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 2: Maryland's not that good at football.

693
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:15,759
Speaker 3: I can see why she's to his little brother.

694
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 1: She cheered at Washington.

695
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 3: But I'm always like, hey, Washington on, why aren't we

696
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 3: me and you just watching this game every snap, every player?

697
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 3: You're not a real fan. And then you're like, brow,

698
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:26,279
Speaker 3: she knows it, you know, she always first, she knows

699
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 3: the rules, she knows some.

700
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 1: Players, blah blah blah. But I'm always jabbing her about it.

701
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 3: So even if your wife is kind of on board

702
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:35,080
Speaker 3: with football, you know the difference between a die hard

703
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:37,239
Speaker 3: and then just a casual or they're not a fan

704
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 3: at all.

705
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 1: But even the casuals is for casuals.

706
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:42,240
Speaker 2: And even not a fan that get annoyed about football,

707
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 2: you still want to anchor the emotion with sweetheart. We

708
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:49,719
Speaker 2: both know you hate football season. Then they no, No,

709
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:54,400
Speaker 2: I don't hate football season. Just please please let me finish.

710
00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 3: I want to talk with you now.

711
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 2: Because we both know how much I love the Nebraska

712
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:09,319
Speaker 2: Cornhuskers and they are going to be some every Saturday.

713
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 2: They're going to play at a slot of time. I

714
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:14,359
Speaker 2: don't know everyone, but each week when I figure out

715
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 2: when they're playing, I would love to have my undivided

716
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:21,279
Speaker 2: attention beyond that game. Maybe you're a sicko and you

717
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:23,279
Speaker 2: want to watch a lot of the games. You have

718
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 2: to do a good job of being like, here's what

719
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 2: I would love my season to look like. Yep, I

720
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 2: know that's not going to happen, and I would love

721
00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 2: your input on how we can execute to balance football season.

722
00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 3: With life. With what we're doing.

723
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, with what we're doing. Because I enjoy what

724
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 2: I enjoy watching the game. I could watch them all day,

725
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 2: all day if I had the opportunity to. But I

726
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:54,280
Speaker 2: know that I need to carry the load I need.

727
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,440
Speaker 2: I know that I need to be present, and I

728
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:00,080
Speaker 2: just want to figure out a great middle ground that

729
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:03,320
Speaker 2: we can align on as we go into the season.

730
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:05,799
Speaker 2: Because I got a draft coming up next week. I

731
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 2: want to be there. I kind of want to tell

732
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 2: them the time. I'm kind of scared to commit to

733
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 2: a time with them because part of me scared to

734
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:15,719
Speaker 2: allow this draft to sneak up on us. And then

735
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 2: I'm throwing the draft that you hey, the boys were

736
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 2: drafted in an hour, and then we're both in a

737
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,240
Speaker 2: little bit of a tiff and I'm thinking, I can't

738
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 2: I'm drafting right now. I want to knock it out

739
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 2: of the way now. I want to knock it out

740
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:26,360
Speaker 2: of the way early.

741
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 3: How can we align on a structure throughout the year,

742
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 3: a structure that doesn't have to be so you know,

743
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:35,840
Speaker 3: dialed into the t I know there's going to be

744
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 3: moving obstacles, yes, and moving targets throughout the year. We'll

745
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:39,919
Speaker 3: handle those.

746
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:41,719
Speaker 2: But as long as we're lying, as long as you

747
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:44,080
Speaker 2: know where my love in my heart is with you

748
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,239
Speaker 2: with the games, I think we can figure something out.

749
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:52,480
Speaker 3: Well then you just sold me. Yeah, Well, said, I

750
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:55,319
Speaker 3: think that's your baseline again. Yeah, you got to have

751
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 3: a starting baseline, dude, because you can't commit to what

752
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 3: you want your scheduled to be. Out of the gate,

753
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 3: you're getting in some hot water. You're already waking, You're

754
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 3: already awakening the defense inside of your wife.

755
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 2: You want to set up your success by first anchoring

756
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 2: the emotion of we both know you hate football, or

757
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:22,320
Speaker 2: we both know that you hate how much I love football.

758
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 2: Give them a chance to step in and say that's

759
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:27,640
Speaker 2: not true, because it's a balance, right.

760
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 3: It probably has a lot to do with your just

761
00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:29,800
Speaker 3: trying to watch.

762
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 2: All these games and you're not there's zero intention going

763
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:34,759
Speaker 2: on around the house, and you're waiting until the day

764
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 2: of and then you guys are in a reactive state

765
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,319
Speaker 2: of emotion. No, you're handling it by having a little

766
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 2: fun anchoring the top we both know you hate that

767
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 2: I love football, and then you lay out how can

768
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:46,719
Speaker 2: we align on what this year can look like? Because

769
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:49,600
Speaker 2: here's what's important to me outside of you guys being

770
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 2: priorready number one, my draft coming up with the boys,

771
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 2: watching my favorite college football team on Saturdays, ye watching

772
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:02,359
Speaker 2: my favorite NFL team on Sunday Prime time, Prime Time.

773
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 2: We got Thursday night football, we got Sunday night football,

774
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:07,319
Speaker 2: we got Monday night football. I know that sounds like

775
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 2: a lot right now, sweetheart, But I know that if

776
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 2: we just take it, if we just go one by

777
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 2: one here and figure out what a solution can be,

778
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:17,280
Speaker 2: I know we can knock this out.

779
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 3: Of the park and pick pick your golden game, pick

780
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 3: that one game that you really want to see, whatever

781
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 3: you want to watch. And for your example of like

782
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:31,359
Speaker 3: the Nebraska Cornhuskers are playing around the same time as

783
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:34,279
Speaker 3: Christie's gender reveal party, that you'll have to go to.

784
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:38,359
Speaker 3: You and Christy is Charles's best friend in the world,

785
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 3: So set that expectation of I'm not gonna make that

786
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 3: you think I'm joking. No, no, I don't think you're joking.

787
00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 1: Chow out through a birthday party for me.

788
00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:56,279
Speaker 2: Last year was it was Illinois at Nebraska, but we

789
00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:58,880
Speaker 2: lost in overtime. But chow out through a birthday party

790
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 2: for me all my birthday to where we had a dinner.

791
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 3: We had about eight people come to this dinner please,

792
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 3: And I needed tooto.

793
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 1: I'll send them the photo.

794
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 2: And I needed the restaurant that you're going to that

795
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:12,720
Speaker 2: you're wanting to. I don't think it was a surprise,

796
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 2: but the whatever restaurant it is, they better have a TV.

797
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:18,440
Speaker 2: And if we're going to do a private room, they

798
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:20,319
Speaker 2: better have a TV that can be in that room.

799
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:24,280
Speaker 2: Because I am watching the Nebraska Cornhuskers play on Friday

800
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 2: night and the entire dinner party, everybody's having a great time,

801
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 2: and I'm just glued to the TV, and I set

802
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:34,399
Speaker 2: the expectation with everybody, the guys, I'm not going to

803
00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:40,359
Speaker 2: be mingling at dinner because I have to watch Nebraska play.

804
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 3: They wield it up like on one of those like, uh,

805
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 3: their teacher, No, I saw the picture.

806
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: It was diicy for a minute.

807
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:50,279
Speaker 3: They wielded some TV and I'm likee, we're gonna be

808
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 3: able to get the game on it. It looked like

809
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:57,840
Speaker 3: the ones back in school. Yeah, there's sub rolls in

810
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 3: movie day. Yes, Fortunately we got it, but if not,

811
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 3: I would have been just on my on my phone,

812
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 3: just on YouTube TV.

813
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:08,279
Speaker 1: Dude. I brought up the tailgate and the tick thing.

814
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. There was an older boy who

815
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 3: bullied hold On and I saw hold On.

816
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, Rue was part of the crew that he bullied,

817
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:32,239
Speaker 2: and I'll you know, the boy's lucky that I didn't

818
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 2: see the part on Rue. I saw the part where

819
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 2: he took the glasses off of like Rue's best friend.

820
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 2: He was like going around and kind of like grabbing

821
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 2: and shaking. There's like three of them shakes each one

822
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 2: of them runs around.

823
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:46,000
Speaker 1: I just hear, hey.

824
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:47,279
Speaker 2: Stop, and I kind of like, I kind of like

825
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:49,759
Speaker 2: look down the hill. He runs over.

826
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 3: Did I say the girl's name?

827
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:56,359
Speaker 2: No, you did not, Okay, If I did, make sure

828
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 2: to bleep that out, yeah, and then goes back to

829
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:02,399
Speaker 2: the girl Rue's friend and I once I hear hey stop,

830
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:04,200
Speaker 2: and I kind of look back, and the boy runs

831
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 2: by again and like grabs her glasses and she's like stop,

832
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:11,080
Speaker 2: and Ru's just kind of like standing there all shy.

833
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:19,080
Speaker 2: Kid ends up say stop, and I was like hey,

834
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:21,200
Speaker 2: And the kid ends up like running up the hill.

835
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:23,760
Speaker 3: I think he sells a glass. I'm like, hey, buddy,

836
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:24,840
Speaker 3: he didn't have the glass.

837
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 2: He keeps running. The kids start crying a little bit,

838
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 2: so I go over to them. You know, the parents

839
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:34,319
Speaker 2: were all over. We're like calming him down and everything else.

840
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 2: What happened blah blah blah and dude, I'm just boiling

841
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 2: as like, did that shit just happen? I'm thinking, this

842
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 2: is why we're going to do Brazilian jiu jitsu. There's

843
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 2: nothing that breaks your heart more than seeing bullying happen

844
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:56,840
Speaker 2: with the little kids, because you know, they're just kids.

845
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 2: And this kid was old enough to know what he

846
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 2: was doing. And at the kid, the boy at his

847
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 2: age was old enough to know.

848
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:03,799
Speaker 1: What he was doing.

849
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 3: We were talking like seven or eighth Yeah, oh.

850
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:07,319
Speaker 1: Wow, I think so.

851
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:10,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, he was old, he was taller, Yeah, he was older.

852
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 2: And Ruth started like the other two kids they're crying.

853
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 2: Rue's not crying yet, and I'm walking over and I

854
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 2: look at Rue and I'm just like I just kind

855
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:22,919
Speaker 2: of like shake my head no, like don't you know, hey,

856
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,239
Speaker 2: it's okay. You don't need to start crying because the

857
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:28,880
Speaker 2: others are crying. I kind of like shake my head no, and.

858
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 3: You okay.

859
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,360
Speaker 2: And as I do that, and she starts like, you know,

860
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 2: winsing up, and she starts crying, and so I pick

861
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 2: her up and everything. I didn't at that moment, I

862
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:42,640
Speaker 2: didn't know that he had shaken or bullied Roue. So

863
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 2: I was kind of pissed for the other kid, the

864
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 2: one that I saw the glasses come off of, and

865
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 2: I'm quiet, I'm low key trying to figure out who

866
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 2: the kid, Like, where the kid is he like runs up,

867
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:57,279
Speaker 2: he's like playing somewhere else, or like see who the

868
00:42:57,360 --> 00:43:00,360
Speaker 2: parents might be. Not to go say nothing. There's just

869
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 2: a there's a multitude of conversations going on in my head. Yeah,

870
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 2: like what would I have done had that been rude?

871
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:08,840
Speaker 2: That I saw him do that too? Because you know,

872
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 2: not that I would have done anything, but you're also thinking,

873
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 2: like I don't know what I would do. Yeah, because

874
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:19,440
Speaker 2: I started to like go towards the kid as he's

875
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:21,319
Speaker 2: running away, when I was like, hey buddy, because I

876
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:23,400
Speaker 2: thought he still had the glasses, why don't you give

877
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 2: her glasses back to her?

878
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 3: Or like I again, I don't know. There's too many

879
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 3: things that go on my head.

880
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, that fires you up as a parent in the moment,

881
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 2: we end up believing because there's like a melt down

882
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 2: and everything else. We've been here a while, Like let's

883
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:41,320
Speaker 2: get the kids home, Scottie, she's she's in her Uh,

884
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:43,400
Speaker 2: we can't like let her out because she's in like

885
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 2: her she's in.

886
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:46,200
Speaker 3: Her shroller and there's a gravel and everything else that

887
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:46,839
Speaker 3: we're kind of on.

888
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:49,800
Speaker 2: We go home and we get a text that it

889
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 2: happened again with the kid, and then something kind of

890
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 2: goes down with the kid and the parent got awkward

891
00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:57,319
Speaker 2: and weird and they kind of leave.

892
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 1: But maybe the kid's going, maybe.

893
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 2: The it's projecting, who knows, who knows, But anyway, a

894
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:07,800
Speaker 2: bully I got. I witnessed a bully moment that it

895
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 2: was kind of part of and I did not know.

896
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 2: It kind of had me not worked up, but it

897
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:14,840
Speaker 2: had me thinking about it like the rest of the evening.

898
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 3: Those are truly like the two things that I think

899
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 3: like guys almost fantasize about is either like a home

900
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:25,719
Speaker 3: intruder and what they would do, or if somebody was

901
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:29,359
Speaker 3: bullying their kid. Yeah, I'd love to see somebody come

902
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:30,720
Speaker 3: into my house.

903
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:34,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I love Sure, if the kids mean to you,

904
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 2: that doesn't give you permission to be mean back to

905
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:39,319
Speaker 2: him and to where my line of thinking is like

906
00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 2: I'll go with that for now, but everything's a little circumstantial.

907
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:48,880
Speaker 3: I'm like, once Brazilian jiu jitsu and once we're in

908
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 3: the a guy, Yeah, we don't know what's gonna happen, right, Like, yeah,

909
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:53,520
Speaker 3: if the.

910
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:55,239
Speaker 2: Kids mean to you, doesn't give you the right to

911
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 2: be mean back. But we got to figure out a

912
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 2: way to where you're not going to allow somebody to

913
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 2: be mean to you. Yeah, And I don't know what

914
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 2: that is. Again, I'm very new. I'm learning at this stuff.

915
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:07,839
Speaker 2: It's like it's one of those things where I'm very

916
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:10,960
Speaker 2: slow to speak because I don't have my thoughts in

917
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 2: order and how I feel about it, or what should

918
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,799
Speaker 2: actually be done or how I should be teaching through

919
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 2: those things, because I didn't really tell Rue a whole lot,

920
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 2: just making sure she's like okay and everything else. But

921
00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 2: I'm sitting there like trying to figure out, yeah, like

922
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 2: what if this does happen?

923
00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:26,919
Speaker 3: What if I'm not there? What if this? What if that?

924
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 2: How do I need to be coaching or teaching this

925
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 2: or give her confidence to you know, be a certain way.

926
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:39,239
Speaker 2: But yeah, witnessed the first bully that.

927
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 3: Gets me rawed up, that gets me rawed up.

928
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 2: And fantasies of just sideline tackle drill on this kid,

929
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:51,279
Speaker 2: oh oh, just a great angle gronks running across the

930
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:56,040
Speaker 2: border of the woods that they were playing in just Boa.

931
00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:00,880
Speaker 3: It truly envisioned you chasing down gronk to the sideline,

932
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 3: beating them to the sideline.

933
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:06,400
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I'm like not even going to say I'm

934
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 2: over here like pinching my my fingers and stuff and

935
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 2: moving my hands around because I'm like, I know this

936
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:14,840
Speaker 2: is a murky waters to be to be speaking on.

937
00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:21,759
Speaker 3: But who is the father? Hey, listen to my podcast.

938
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:24,640
Speaker 3: I can promise you that, oh this your boy.

939
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:27,319
Speaker 1: I just mocked on the sideline.

940
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:32,480
Speaker 3: Wait did say something?

941
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:33,760
Speaker 1: I become the bully?

942
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 3: Just an awful example for the kids. I'm gonna have

943
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:42,680
Speaker 3: a little dude e through it too. Oh good deal.

944
00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:45,000
Speaker 3: Daddy wants to come say something. Meet me in the ring,

945
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 3: circle around children, turn on the headlights, pull the cars up.

946
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 3: This is how you want to dial man.

947
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

948
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:05,800
Speaker 3: The dad just has no idea like what had happened.

949
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 3: He's just one of those like Patagonia bests with like

950
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 3: a coffee. Just chill, dude, Yeah.

951
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:13,439
Speaker 4: Yes, what's going on? Well, Susie finds out his son

952
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 4: as being a little ship. Heead He's like the poor kid.

953
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:18,399
Speaker 4: You almost you're almost like, hey, you know, praying to God.

954
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:20,800
Speaker 4: The kid's gonna be alive. I don't know if you

955
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:23,120
Speaker 4: guys ever seen that, Like you had a buddy who

956
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 4: rightfully so the parent's mad and they're going home and

957
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 4: you're like shit.

958
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:30,480
Speaker 2: Like a lot of times too, it's like again with

959
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:33,359
Speaker 2: being a young boy, like with the kid. They're kids,

960
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 2: and if I'm the parent were roused to bully, I

961
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 2: would want to be told because I would be pissed

962
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 2: at Rue.

963
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:43,919
Speaker 3: Will is definitely one of the dads that like if

964
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 3: I was, you know, like a friend of Ru's and

965
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 3: I'm like hanging out with them and stuff, like, I

966
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 3: would be on extra good behavior because Will is the

967
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 3: dad that's there, like I playing Little League or like

968
00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:58,880
Speaker 3: being around other dads at that age, there were certain

969
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:03,120
Speaker 3: dads that you're like, oh, just scared of that just

970
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 3: give off that vibe of like do not set off

971
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:08,360
Speaker 3: mister blah blah blah. Not because they were a psychlist

972
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 3: said I'm gonna be a fun you are, but there

973
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 3: will be respect. There will be dude. I'm just telling you, like,

974
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:16,840
Speaker 3: guys are gonna when they start coming to the age

975
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,960
Speaker 3: and like just knowing you and knowing your personality type,

976
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:22,319
Speaker 3: knowing maybe you played in the NFL for a little bit.

977
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:26,240
Speaker 3: They're gonna be like, don't don't mess around with willye

978
00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:27,759
Speaker 3: c Yeah, that's a good thing.

979
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:30,719
Speaker 2: I feel like that's the that's my mom and me too.

980
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:34,360
Speaker 2: My mom she didn't play no ship, dude, she didn't

981
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:37,320
Speaker 2: play no ship. If we were acting up in school,

982
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:40,680
Speaker 2: we were known as like hyper kids. Uh, Cannon will

983
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:44,359
Speaker 2: Over is a little too hyper, but uh, my mom

984
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:47,880
Speaker 2: did not mess around. She wanted she wanted a real

985
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:51,080
Speaker 2: feedback for how her boys are being because if we

986
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 2: were messing around in class, if we weren't, you know,

987
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:57,880
Speaker 2: progress reports, if we weren't dialed in like she wanted

988
00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:00,160
Speaker 2: to know, not to blame it on anybody else other

989
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 2: than that than the tanner ass at home and not

990
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:04,279
Speaker 2: necessarily come from my mom. That'd be the old man,

991
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:05,719
Speaker 2: but it'd be a verbal lash. Ye know.

992
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, because she didn't mess around, that's good. That's a

993
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:11,759
Speaker 3: good thing. Yeah, that's a good thing.

994
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,760
Speaker 2: Because part of me sitting there and I'm like, stuff,

995
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 2: kid's fault's not the parent's fault. Maybe it could be

996
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 2: the parent's fault because the kids like whatever he's doing.

997
00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:23,879
Speaker 2: But I'm sure the parents would be upset their kid.

998
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:26,600
Speaker 2: Is it was doing X, Y and Z, so don't

999
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:28,799
Speaker 2: get mad at the parents. Like again, there's so many

1000
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:30,920
Speaker 2: things going on in your head. That was going on

1001
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:31,439
Speaker 2: in my head.

1002
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:35,360
Speaker 3: So I had a I had a crazy packed weekend.

1003
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:39,120
Speaker 3: It was really really good. Yeah you had you had

1004
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:43,719
Speaker 3: Scarlet on by yourself on Saturday. Yeah, on Saturday, which

1005
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:46,160
Speaker 3: is gonna be That's gonna be the new norm with

1006
00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 3: Jill's work schedule. I'm gonna have solo Scarlet Saturdays. So

1007
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:52,240
Speaker 3: it could just be a new thing on the show,

1008
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:56,439
Speaker 3: which is nice. I'm loving it. I wanted to mix

1009
00:49:56,520 --> 00:50:00,880
Speaker 3: it up. Uh. I got an invite to these stars

1010
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 3: Predators to Game Go Stars. Uh, they caught the dub.

1011
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:09,319
Speaker 3: I went with Cooper Comstock that's here in the shop

1012
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 3: v A plus.

1013
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:12,880
Speaker 1: I saw that too.

1014
00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:16,239
Speaker 3: You gotta you know, you know, you guys can always

1015
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:18,839
Speaker 3: hit us up if you need some help getting tickets,

1016
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 3: because I saw you like in the notes, Oh if

1017
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:27,400
Speaker 3: we need help getting tickets. No, No, You're saying like, hey.

1018
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:28,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I saw the video.

1019
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:29,160
Speaker 3: You know.

1020
00:50:29,239 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 1: I had a smile on my face. Here you do

1021
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:31,920
Speaker 1: this and then you.

1022
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:34,239
Speaker 2: Whip it around and I'm like, oh shit, we're in

1023
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:36,560
Speaker 2: the bleeds.

1024
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 1: The high up operate this way.

1025
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 3: I do. Like, I'm not trying to defend those seats

1026
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 3: like we bought them because they're cheap. But I love

1027
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 3: in hockey the Bleeds that are on the like you're

1028
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:53,040
Speaker 3: behind the goal, you're behind the net. I love those

1029
00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:55,880
Speaker 3: seats because you can truly see the offense develop.

1030
00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 1: So look, if you don't want to bang on the

1031
00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:00,480
Speaker 1: glass and be in the I.

1032
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:07,720
Speaker 3: Mean, hey, you don't like those seats some glass, Yeah,

1033
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:09,480
Speaker 3: I'll fully take you up on that.

1034
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:12,439
Speaker 2: I'm just let just letting you know, just for future sake,

1035
00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:14,160
Speaker 2: what if you go to a ball game, Just think

1036
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 2: I wonder if the boys have any type of connection

1037
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:17,520
Speaker 2: where we could get some seats.

1038
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:20,520
Speaker 3: Hey, that's a that's the type of ticket that's going

1039
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 3: to keep you in somebody's pocket. Keep you in somebody's pocket. Uh,

1040
00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:30,759
Speaker 3: that's a that's Pete six fraternity right there. That is

1041
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:34,719
Speaker 3: that is Yeah, I know that you would you know

1042
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 3: that was a joke to keep you in somebody's pocket. Yeah,

1043
00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:42,359
Speaker 3: I would not think that Will would do Yeah I know, okay, okay,

1044
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:48,000
Speaker 3: but we were in the Bleeds. Dude, Scarlett just absolutely

1045
00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 3: enjoyed the hockey game. We could pull up that video Will.

1046
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:54,480
Speaker 3: I'm telling you the entire time, she's literally like this

1047
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:59,360
Speaker 3: fired out, oh fully glued to the ice where I

1048
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:01,879
Speaker 3: just had her in my lap like watching the game

1049
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:05,800
Speaker 3: and I'm holding her arms and she did not cry once.

1050
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 3: It was impeccable. So I'm sure that you're sitting there

1051
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:13,480
Speaker 3: wondering why does Sherman have this under his dad losses

1052
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:14,800
Speaker 3: this whole.

1053
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:17,319
Speaker 2: I didn't know we were all in the category of well,

1054
00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:22,080
Speaker 2: I'm just we you're wondering why I failed?

1055
00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:28,239
Speaker 3: How did Sherman screw this one up? Cooper Comstock and

1056
00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 3: I want to get his thoughts on this for a

1057
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 3: social clip because I would love to hear him candidly

1058
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:37,320
Speaker 3: when I'm not around, his thoughts on what happened. But

1059
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:40,400
Speaker 3: he is a diehard Stars fan, like a true sicko.

1060
00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:43,920
Speaker 3: This whole thing was his idea. I was with him

1061
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:47,400
Speaker 3: and his girlfriend shout out his girlfriend, Addie, She's incredible,

1062
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:52,000
Speaker 3: was helping watch Scarlet. They came to the house early

1063
00:52:52,040 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 3: because they knew I had to feed Scarlett at one

1064
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:57,759
Speaker 3: in the games. At two thirty, I pretty much had

1065
00:52:57,880 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 3: everything together, but I couldn't find her headphones. So then

1066
00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:05,200
Speaker 3: Coop's helping me on the changing table watching Scarlet. I'm

1067
00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:08,160
Speaker 3: digging through the headphones, like looking for him Jills at work.

1068
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:10,359
Speaker 3: She finally tells me where they are, because she knows

1069
00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:13,359
Speaker 3: where they are. I didn't amy at the texter. Yeah,

1070
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:16,920
Speaker 3: I texted me shy little te I hated that that right,

1071
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:20,400
Speaker 3: there's a quick go. Yeah, that's a quick al get that.

1072
00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 3: You never want to be the dad that's like, hey,

1073
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 3: where's this at? I do it all lie, but anytime

1074
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 3: I do it, it like pains me.

1075
00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:26,799
Speaker 1: I'm like fuck.

1076
00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:29,560
Speaker 3: And Coop's like, hey, you we don't need to rush.

1077
00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 3: It's all good games at two thirty, it's all good.

1078
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 3: It's one fifteen. Like where you say, I know Cooper?

1079
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:37,560
Speaker 3: I like, I don't want to miss discuss. That's a

1080
00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:40,560
Speaker 3: good teammate right there. That's a good teammate staying poised

1081
00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:43,640
Speaker 3: in the pocket. Great teammate. Tell me not to stress.

1082
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:46,880
Speaker 3: ADDIE's like playing with the dogs. She's being so sweet

1083
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:49,759
Speaker 3: with Scarlet. They both were really good with Scarlet being

1084
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:53,360
Speaker 3: so sweet. We get out the door. We're driving. We

1085
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 3: got the Lullaby remakes playlists. I have to put you on.

1086
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 3: It's called Rockabye baby, have you heard it? It's just

1087
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:05,439
Speaker 3: it's all stay on course. It's stay on course, down course,

1088
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:09,919
Speaker 3: Rock a Bye Baby playlist is bumping. We're in the car,

1089
00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 3: vibes are so high. We get to the parking garage.

1090
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 3: We're about to be ten minutes early for this game.

1091
00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:24,040
Speaker 3: I forgot the diaper bag. I forgot the diaper bag

1092
00:54:24,200 --> 00:54:31,480
Speaker 3: with the headphones, the blanket, the diapers, the bottle, the formula,

1093
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:34,640
Speaker 3: the extra the extra change of clothes in case she

1094
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 3: shits herself. Everything that is vital to this day being successful,

1095
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 3: left it at the house. Get on stuff hub to

1096
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:48,799
Speaker 3: then transfer the tickets to Kupinati so they don't have

1097
00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:52,960
Speaker 3: to live in my shame, in my own personal health

1098
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 3: that I've created for myself. Can't transfer the tickets. We

1099
00:54:56,760 --> 00:55:02,959
Speaker 3: gotta all walk in together and the you're a real

1100
00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:08,319
Speaker 3: piece of shit. Can I tell you the look of

1101
00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:12,960
Speaker 3: forgiveness on Coop's face. That's when I knew, like you

1102
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 3: really are a good friend.

1103
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 1: He was the entire time.

1104
00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:20,480
Speaker 3: You don't you don't even worry about it. It's all good.

1105
00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:23,360
Speaker 3: What the game goes into extra periods, Hey, free hockey.

1106
00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:25,480
Speaker 3: We'll get to watch three periods if it goes into

1107
00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 3: ot This is this game could go into ot both

1108
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:31,520
Speaker 3: these teams are good. Just sitting there trying to make

1109
00:55:31,520 --> 00:55:34,760
Speaker 3: me feel so good, I'm literally death gripping the steering

1110
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:40,399
Speaker 3: wheel out of embarrassment. And then, of course, because we're

1111
00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:44,480
Speaker 3: in the car going there, back there, Now, Scarlet's getting fussy,

1112
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:46,720
Speaker 3: so now you know the cries are starting to happen.

1113
00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:50,600
Speaker 3: I'm just like, now the cries are really they're touching you,

1114
00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:54,439
Speaker 3: ad I'm just spiraling in the driver's seat.

1115
00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:56,239
Speaker 2: This is where you just staring at the road and

1116
00:55:56,239 --> 00:55:59,560
Speaker 2: you hear nothing. The crying's happening, but the cry starts

1117
00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 2: fading because like a dog whistle noise coming in your

1118
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:04,800
Speaker 2: ear as you watch as you're looking.

1119
00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 3: At the room. Truly, bro the amount of forgiveness that

1120
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:14,759
Speaker 3: Coop showed me in that moment, how chilly was about everything.

1121
00:56:15,239 --> 00:56:18,480
Speaker 3: We still ended up we did make great time and

1122
00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:21,000
Speaker 3: we got there right at the end of the first period.

1123
00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:23,840
Speaker 3: So did we miss a period of hockey, yes, but

1124
00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:26,319
Speaker 3: we got to watch two more periods of hockey. The

1125
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 3: Stars ended up coming back with four minutes left in

1126
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:34,240
Speaker 3: the third and one. It was a great time. Uh,

1127
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:37,600
Speaker 3: but godly, dude, I have never felt like such a bum.

1128
00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 3: I guess who's always gonna double check for the bag?

1129
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:46,959
Speaker 3: Now always you I say that? Do you say good?

1130
00:56:48,080 --> 00:56:51,319
Speaker 3: So many times? And there there's some more on here.

1131
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:54,960
Speaker 3: Dog ran away in the front yard. Good went to

1132
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:57,239
Speaker 3: go get him. As I'm coming back carrying him, hold

1133
00:56:57,320 --> 00:56:58,839
Speaker 3: him going what are you doing? What are you doing?

1134
00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 3: Stepped in his poop? Good?

1135
00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:00,919
Speaker 1: Good?

1136
00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:04,280
Speaker 3: Good threw those shoes away. Good because I was so pissed.

1137
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:07,279
Speaker 3: I just threw him. Do you want to clean him?

1138
00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:10,400
Speaker 3: And porch Pirates stole my dinner on Uh what was

1139
00:57:10,400 --> 00:57:12,560
Speaker 3: that Sunday? When I text you? Good? Yeah, you did

1140
00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:14,680
Speaker 3: text me. You're like, hey, what was that number? Yeah,

1141
00:57:14,719 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 3: we've yeah, we'll keep it tight. Yeah, we'll keep it tight.

1142
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:19,320
Speaker 2: But we'll keep it tight. We don't know the enemy,

1143
00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 2: which enemies are out there listening?

1144
00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:23,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, but uh, and I know this is

1145
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 3: a a kid show. But just a huge fuck you

1146
00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 3: to porch Pirates. Just wanted to say that. Just apparently

1147
00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 3: he had his entire meal dropped off within a minute,

1148
00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:37,440
Speaker 3: three minutes of my meal being dropped off. Porch Pirates

1149
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:44,440
Speaker 3: have to well, God gets simply safe, simply safe. Got

1150
00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:46,000
Speaker 3: to get it simply safe.

1151
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:49,800
Speaker 2: Hey, that's a tough beat over the weekend, the forgetting

1152
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:53,320
Speaker 2: the diaper bag, especially when you're rocking solo and you're like,

1153
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:56,120
Speaker 2: I'm the guy, like, ain't nobody coming.

1154
00:57:55,960 --> 00:57:58,720
Speaker 3: To save me? Dylan Reillo goes down, it's this is

1155
00:57:58,800 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 3: this is TJ Latif And I could have come back

1156
00:58:03,160 --> 00:58:06,480
Speaker 3: to the office with that story just coming at me

1157
00:58:06,520 --> 00:58:08,600
Speaker 3: from all angles, like Coop could have come back and

1158
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:11,000
Speaker 3: just told everybody about what a fucking botmom I was,

1159
00:58:11,080 --> 00:58:13,760
Speaker 3: and instead I have everybody coming up to me going, dude,

1160
00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:14,960
Speaker 3: Coop said, you were killing it.

1161
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:17,080
Speaker 2: That's a good story right there, because you didn't just

1162
00:58:17,120 --> 00:58:19,680
Speaker 2: throw a pick six like you ran around the pocket

1163
00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:21,520
Speaker 2: a little bit and threw it across your body to

1164
00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:23,560
Speaker 2: the other side of the field like a muffin, and

1165
00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:25,280
Speaker 2: somebody jumped and pick it off and took to the house.

1166
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:28,360
Speaker 2: Everybody's watching like it before. Before he picked it off,

1167
00:58:28,400 --> 00:58:29,040
Speaker 2: I hit him with the.

1168
00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 3: To the sideline. I was letting him know, yeah, like,

1169
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:37,440
Speaker 3: oh kids, kind of got it. That says a lot

1170
00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:41,080
Speaker 3: about the character of Cooper Comstock. Yes it does. There's

1171
00:58:41,120 --> 00:58:42,080
Speaker 3: another instance yesterday.

1172
00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:44,040
Speaker 4: I'm not going to name who it was, but this

1173
00:58:44,080 --> 00:58:47,680
Speaker 4: person backed out on an event with Coop.

1174
00:58:48,120 --> 00:58:49,960
Speaker 3: Coop wasn't going to say anything. Backed out on an

1175
00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:50,760
Speaker 3: event with Coop.

1176
00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:53,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, it wasn't his fault, but he and then he

1177
00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:55,280
Speaker 4: publicly told the office and all you hear Coop say

1178
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:56,640
Speaker 4: is I wasn't going to say anything.

1179
00:58:57,440 --> 00:58:59,200
Speaker 5: I was just gonna let it, let it all out,

1180
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 5: because that's the guy is Goop's a foxhole guy. He

1181
00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:05,040
Speaker 5: is a foxhold guys. It's big ups to him too

1182
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:07,680
Speaker 5: because he doesn't he's not a parent. He does have kids,

1183
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 5: so you could get a magnitude a range of reaction there.

1184
00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:16,600
Speaker 3: Yes, and is so good with kids, so good with Scarlet.

1185
00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:19,160
Speaker 3: I need to see what he's like with little scott Zilla.

1186
00:59:19,320 --> 00:59:23,360
Speaker 3: Oh dude, he would kill He loves babies and he's

1187
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 3: really good with them. He's like holding Scarlet as I would, dude.

1188
00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:30,720
Speaker 3: Coop was so on it. Hey, any St sixers at home,

1189
00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:34,000
Speaker 3: when you go hang out with your PT six friend

1190
00:59:34,440 --> 00:59:38,120
Speaker 3: that's got a kid, be a Cooper Comstock when I'm

1191
00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 3: going to go change my little girl's diaper, which that

1192
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 3: went awesome? Like that was great. At the game, Hey Striman,

1193
00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:47,760
Speaker 3: what do you want to eat? What do you want

1194
00:59:47,760 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 3: to drink? We'll go get food for you. I come

1195
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:54,320
Speaker 3: back with freshly changed Scarlet, he's got my food. He's like, hey,

1196
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:55,919
Speaker 3: let me hold Scarlet while you eat.

1197
00:59:56,160 --> 01:00:00,240
Speaker 2: I'm like, that's a that's bro right there, Bro, that's

1198
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 2: an ST six.

1199
01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:03,440
Speaker 3: That's a that's an ST six. Or you can be

1200
01:00:03,520 --> 01:00:07,920
Speaker 3: proud of chef. It's life is starting to feel like

1201
01:00:08,360 --> 01:00:14,520
Speaker 3: this revolving door somewhat to me. Yeah, and not in

1202
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:18,120
Speaker 3: a like bad way at all, but like I need

1203
01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:21,840
Speaker 3: to embrace just the grind. Yeah, I need to start

1204
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:24,680
Speaker 3: to embrace it more. I know, we like jokingly say

1205
01:00:24,880 --> 01:00:28,840
Speaker 3: good on this podcast, which I can say that to

1206
01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:31,520
Speaker 3: like stepping in dog poop and stuff like that's funny,

1207
01:00:31,680 --> 01:00:35,120
Speaker 3: you know, But like truly those moments of like why

1208
01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:37,880
Speaker 3: the hell am I sitting there on a Saturday that morning,

1209
01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:41,400
Speaker 3: being like there's literally nothing that I want to do

1210
01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:44,640
Speaker 3: less than go to the Stars game, Like why do

1211
01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:46,560
Speaker 3: I feel like that? That just kind of bumps me out.

1212
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:48,960
Speaker 3: I'm trying to like challenge myself to be like I

1213
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:50,840
Speaker 3: gotta like roll with the punches.

1214
01:00:51,080 --> 01:00:52,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I gotta.

1215
01:00:52,040 --> 01:00:54,200
Speaker 3: Roll with the punch. I gotta go live life.

1216
01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:56,080
Speaker 6: Something that I know I've said to you and I

1217
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:57,760
Speaker 6: probably said on the show, and it's something I have

1218
01:00:57,800 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 6: to like say in my head so many times, but like,

1219
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 6: and it is, it's such like a mental thing more

1220
01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:05,440
Speaker 6: but you have you don't have to you get to like, yeah.

1221
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:06,960
Speaker 3: I'm always like, oh dude, I have to do all

1222
01:01:07,000 --> 01:01:07,360
Speaker 3: this stuff.

1223
01:01:07,360 --> 01:01:08,880
Speaker 6: When I get home, it's like no, no, no, Like I

1224
01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:10,880
Speaker 6: live in a house that I really love with a

1225
01:01:10,880 --> 01:01:13,160
Speaker 6: woman that I really love, and I get to do

1226
01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:14,920
Speaker 6: all these things and I have to say it so

1227
01:01:14,960 --> 01:01:16,920
Speaker 6: many times that I get out of this like, oh

1228
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:18,320
Speaker 6: we got to we have to go on this hike.

1229
01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:20,880
Speaker 6: It sucks, but yeah, we get to go on this hike,

1230
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:22,720
Speaker 6: And like, how cool is it that she's that close

1231
01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:26,920
Speaker 6: to her grandparents ruin Scott. That shift of mentality is huge.

1232
01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:34,400
Speaker 6: So that's yes, and nail on the head, that's where

1233
01:01:34,400 --> 01:01:36,880
Speaker 6: I need to be. That's truly where I need to be.

1234
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:39,760
Speaker 6: I'm being dead serious, dude, because.

1235
01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:43,960
Speaker 3: This family right here, this day, this community, this family

1236
01:01:44,040 --> 01:01:46,960
Speaker 3: vibes right now. But I don't know how to.

1237
01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:51,520
Speaker 2: I don't know how to stop the rushing attack to

1238
01:01:51,600 --> 01:01:55,000
Speaker 2: the Christmas tree. Scotty's the same way Scotty damn near

1239
01:01:55,200 --> 01:01:58,560
Speaker 2: she did. She broke Ruth's first ornament. It's kind of

1240
01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:01,919
Speaker 2: cracked all over, so it's very sensitive. It will fall apart.

1241
01:02:02,040 --> 01:02:03,960
Speaker 2: We do have it back on the tree. It's hanging

1242
01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:06,120
Speaker 2: on for dear life right now, but if it goes

1243
01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:08,919
Speaker 2: down again, it's over with. I don't know what to do.

1244
01:02:09,640 --> 01:02:13,400
Speaker 2: I don't know what to do. Help me, help me.

1245
01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:18,960
Speaker 3: I don't know how to stop my child from grabbing

1246
01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:21,280
Speaker 3: the ornaments on the Christmas tree. I have this off,

1247
01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:26,240
Speaker 3: I have this off. How high can she reach? I

1248
01:02:26,240 --> 01:02:29,720
Speaker 3: mean shit, but she can probably reach.

1249
01:02:29,600 --> 01:02:29,760
Speaker 4: Like.

1250
01:02:31,200 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 2: And that's about three feet off the lower part of

1251
01:02:34,720 --> 01:02:35,840
Speaker 2: the tree, you know what I mean? Like, I know

1252
01:02:35,880 --> 01:02:38,400
Speaker 2: you can get the ornaments up higher. But she's still

1253
01:02:38,480 --> 01:02:40,680
Speaker 2: grabbing at this stuff on the tree. And you just

1254
01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:45,200
Speaker 2: gotta see Scottie, gentle, gentle, and you're kind of approaching

1255
01:02:45,280 --> 01:02:45,920
Speaker 2: them slowly.

1256
01:02:46,560 --> 01:02:54,280
Speaker 3: Go ahead, surem okay, really quicks off target has indestructible ornaments.

1257
01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:59,000
Speaker 3: Buy the baby its own tree that it can fuck

1258
01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:02,000
Speaker 3: up and put the in destructible ornaments on it and

1259
01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:03,280
Speaker 3: just let them have it.

1260
01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:09,720
Speaker 2: Now, hang on these indestructible ornaments. Can you still take

1261
01:03:09,720 --> 01:03:10,520
Speaker 2: them off the tree?

1262
01:03:11,160 --> 01:03:13,920
Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, that's what I'm saying. What's wrong with that?

1263
01:03:14,040 --> 01:03:15,240
Speaker 3: Just ornaments all over the floor.

1264
01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:17,520
Speaker 1: That's okay. Still got to hang them back on the tree.

1265
01:03:18,240 --> 01:03:19,360
Speaker 3: Are trying to it's still good.

1266
01:03:19,400 --> 01:03:21,720
Speaker 2: That's what parents are trying to figure out here is

1267
01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:23,760
Speaker 2: when the baby gets close to the tree and they

1268
01:03:23,840 --> 01:03:25,400
Speaker 2: got a hold of an ornament, and you don't just

1269
01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:30,080
Speaker 2: want to snap, hey stop sometimes I'll do that, Scott Scotty, no,

1270
01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:33,360
Speaker 2: no no, And you almost you're approaching them like they're

1271
01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:38,160
Speaker 2: like they have a gun on them. Yeah, like Scotty, easy, gentle,

1272
01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:41,120
Speaker 2: and you slowly start walking towards them, gentle.

1273
01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:45,200
Speaker 1: They start smiling a little bit easy.

1274
01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:45,240
Speaker 3: She starts.

1275
01:03:46,360 --> 01:03:48,200
Speaker 2: And then you grab them and just remove them from

1276
01:03:48,200 --> 01:03:50,520
Speaker 2: the situation. And then you just hope you're sitting there

1277
01:03:50,520 --> 01:03:53,200
Speaker 2: playing your basketball in them guard them so they don't

1278
01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:55,120
Speaker 2: get to the tree. And I just kind of guide her.

1279
01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 2: Go over there, go over there, Look at that over there,

1280
01:03:58,360 --> 01:03:59,040
Speaker 2: Go get the ball.

1281
01:03:59,280 --> 01:04:01,960
Speaker 3: And that's where the fake tree, the fake small tree

1282
01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:04,480
Speaker 3: comes in. Look at that little thing, go fuck that

1283
01:04:04,560 --> 01:04:05,000
Speaker 3: thing up.

1284
01:04:05,800 --> 01:04:08,000
Speaker 1: Okay, I see what you're saying to me.

1285
01:04:08,080 --> 01:04:10,080
Speaker 3: No matter what, they're still ripping off, Like if you

1286
01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:13,080
Speaker 3: get the indestructible ornaments, like yeah, it sucks with the that.

1287
01:04:13,120 --> 01:04:14,240
Speaker 1: Ruse ornaments broken.

1288
01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:16,520
Speaker 2: But no matter what, she's ripping off ornaments from the thing, Like,

1289
01:04:16,520 --> 01:04:18,280
Speaker 2: I still gotta I get on my hands and knees.

1290
01:04:18,280 --> 01:04:19,919
Speaker 2: You gotta put the little hook back in the thing,

1291
01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:22,000
Speaker 2: and then you put the ornament back on the tree.

1292
01:04:22,040 --> 01:04:25,920
Speaker 3: Well that's okay. So here's what I would do to

1293
01:04:26,280 --> 01:04:29,240
Speaker 3: explain it really quick. I would put a fence, like

1294
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:33,960
Speaker 3: a dog type gate around real, real Christmas tree with

1295
01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:40,800
Speaker 3: breakable ornaments to distract child. Buy fifteen dollars tree that's

1296
01:04:40,800 --> 01:04:43,480
Speaker 3: only like two feet tall, put a bunch of indestructible

1297
01:04:43,600 --> 01:04:46,680
Speaker 3: ornaments on it, and then that's what they're fucking up

1298
01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:49,760
Speaker 3: all the time. Does that make sense? Yeah?

1299
01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:54,240
Speaker 2: I want to get a gait a cage of some sort.

1300
01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:56,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, and just put Scottie in it.

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01:04:58,720 --> 01:05:01,479
Speaker 2: Like every time she gets in involved in something, she's

1302
01:05:01,520 --> 01:05:04,560
Speaker 2: climbing up on rue stepstool. Now, Like I'll look over

1303
01:05:04,600 --> 01:05:06,120
Speaker 2: and I just hear your little head popping up from

1304
01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:08,240
Speaker 2: the island and I'm like, God, Scotty, how'd you get

1305
01:05:08,240 --> 01:05:08,520
Speaker 2: over there?

1306
01:05:08,560 --> 01:05:12,400
Speaker 3: I've told you you can't climb this. She gets around everything.

1307
01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:16,360
Speaker 3: She she clears out every cabinet that has stuff in it. Yeah,

1308
01:05:16,400 --> 01:05:19,200
Speaker 3: this is every day, and I tell your every time, sweetheart.

1309
01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:21,160
Speaker 3: This is why I want to get a cage for

1310
01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:22,600
Speaker 3: get a little play pin.

1311
01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:25,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, she needs to be like Uggah during the sec

1312
01:05:25,080 --> 01:05:27,000
Speaker 2: JPI chip game to where that's she's just sitting in

1313
01:05:27,040 --> 01:05:27,480
Speaker 2: a kennel.

1314
01:05:28,840 --> 01:05:29,600
Speaker 1: You can't come.

1315
01:05:29,400 --> 01:05:36,080
Speaker 3: Out, is Scott Zillo? She is Ugah? Yeah, Dane shev.

1316
01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:39,040
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. Please? What was your thoughts on it?

1317
01:05:39,560 --> 01:05:42,640
Speaker 4: This might be a bad idea, okay, but as a kid,

1318
01:05:42,720 --> 01:05:45,120
Speaker 4: my parents under our tree we had in a little

1319
01:05:45,600 --> 01:05:48,520
Speaker 4: root off the Reindeer electronic train. It's a train that

1320
01:05:48,640 --> 01:05:51,120
Speaker 4: just goes around the tree. And maybe it's a little

1321
01:05:51,120 --> 01:05:53,040
Speaker 4: bit of a smoke and mirrors thing that they're seeing,

1322
01:05:53,040 --> 01:05:55,440
Speaker 4: like an actual moving train come around and she doesn't

1323
01:05:55,480 --> 01:05:57,120
Speaker 4: want to do They might because for me and my

1324
01:05:57,160 --> 01:05:59,360
Speaker 4: little brother that was never an issue. I don't know

1325
01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:01,360
Speaker 4: if it's because we would turn on the train and

1326
01:06:01,400 --> 01:06:02,520
Speaker 4: watch it go around the tree.

1327
01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:05,960
Speaker 3: You're probably just scared of the trains. No, I don't

1328
01:06:05,960 --> 01:06:07,680
Speaker 3: think so. I think you were a pussy. Your probably

1329
01:06:09,320 --> 01:06:11,600
Speaker 3: you know it was like I'm not gonna get rain

1330
01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:12,400
Speaker 3: over by the train.

1331
01:06:12,480 --> 01:06:15,080
Speaker 1: My number one shows was Thomas the Tank Engine.

1332
01:06:15,600 --> 01:06:17,440
Speaker 3: I think you're get you were scared.

1333
01:06:17,480 --> 01:06:19,600
Speaker 1: I think I think you.

1334
01:06:19,680 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 3: As a one year old you was a pussy Chef,

1335
01:06:25,160 --> 01:06:30,200
Speaker 3: Mama duck you in how many how many bedtime cases

1336
01:06:30,240 --> 01:06:32,440
Speaker 3: did you get? Chef, I come to you with a solution.

1337
01:06:33,440 --> 01:06:35,520
Speaker 3: Your teeth.

1338
01:06:38,400 --> 01:06:41,520
Speaker 1: Lama Lama Red Pajama was that favorite book, Chef.

1339
01:06:43,440 --> 01:06:51,800
Speaker 3: No, well, Chef, because if Scotty saw on the train,

1340
01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:54,800
Speaker 3: that train's getting sucked up. Okay, I was about to

1341
01:06:54,960 --> 01:06:55,720
Speaker 3: maybe it's the train.

1342
01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:58,240
Speaker 4: You buy the train knowing that train's going to be

1343
01:06:58,240 --> 01:07:01,240
Speaker 4: a sacrificial lamb, and then you all all the ornaments

1344
01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:04,600
Speaker 4: that are breakable. You don't want those stay above halfway

1345
01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:05,480
Speaker 4: up the tree line.

1346
01:07:05,800 --> 01:07:08,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, then I'll look over and Scott's will be at

1347
01:07:08,200 --> 01:07:09,520
Speaker 2: the top of the tree, turning down the star.

1348
01:07:10,160 --> 01:07:12,440
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, you might be a shot line.

1349
01:07:12,920 --> 01:07:15,760
Speaker 1: You look up there, Scotty's up there. What those thing