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Speaker 1: All right, let's crush. Let's crush. Are we already in it?

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Speaker 1: Can we just go? Yeah? Welcome to for the dads.

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Speaker 1: This is a show by a dad, by as soon

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Speaker 1: to be future Yeah, future Dad for the dads. I

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Speaker 1: guess we should start by introducing ourselves before we do.

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Speaker 1: As you guys are watching this, listening to this, consuming this.

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Speaker 1: I know at some point we will have a separate channel,

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Speaker 1: whether that be on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Pods, wherever you

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Speaker 1: get your podcasts, be on the lookout for that. I

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Speaker 1: know you guys are listening to this. I'm Busting with

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Speaker 1: the Boys right now, but if you're showing up to

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Speaker 1: tune in for some good dad talk, make sure you subscribe.

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Speaker 1: That helps support the boys. It's easy for you to do,

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Speaker 1: and we love also leave comments because we will absolutely

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Speaker 1: love hearing your guys' feedback as we go through this

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Speaker 1: first episode. My name is Will Compton. I played Guaranteed

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Speaker 1: nine years in the League, debatably ten. I am the

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Speaker 1: co creator of Busting with the Boys. I am a

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Speaker 1: full time dad. I am a husband and my wife

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Speaker 1: Charle Charro Compton. Sorry, your boy is super nervous for this.

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Speaker 1: This is a project that is very near and dear

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Speaker 1: to both mine and Sherm's heart. It's something that I

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Speaker 1: know we are super excited about. But at the same time,

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Speaker 1: with this being our first episode, we're kind of in

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Speaker 1: a different studio. Lights are off. This being our first one,

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Speaker 1: it's very nerve wrecking. But my wife and I we

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Speaker 1: have two beautiful daughters, Cirulian Bell and Scottie Joe Lee.

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Speaker 1: And with me, who is the producer of the show,

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Speaker 1: he will also be very pivotal for the show is

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Speaker 1: Sherman Young. Sherman, would you like to introduce yourself.

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Speaker 2: Hello, My name is Sherman, producer here at Busting with

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Speaker 2: the Boys. I'll be producing on the show. Talking a

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Speaker 2: little bit with Will. I helped produce on the bus

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Speaker 2: bus with the boys. And it's been like two almost

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Speaker 2: two years now that been with Busting with the Boys.

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Speaker 1: You guys, you brought you in. Jilly Bean, shout out,

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Speaker 2: Bit about me played one year of high school football,

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Speaker 2: arguably two married for a year and some change to

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Speaker 2: my wife Jilly Bean or Jill Young. In future future, Dad,

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Speaker 2: I have a baby on the way, and I have

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Speaker 2: some news on that, so I don't want to like

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Speaker 2: spoil it, but I got some you got some updates.

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Speaker 2: I got some breaking updates, did you guys?

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Speaker 1: Came up from Texas.

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Speaker 2: Came up from Texas from Fort Worth, Alito to be

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Speaker 2: more specific if you're from the DFW area. And yeah,

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Speaker 2: just kind of was sending memes and stuff on Twitter

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Speaker 2: to Will and Taylor and barraging. We have Garrett here too,

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Speaker 2: that's helping us with the cameras. Was in Garrett's DMS,

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Speaker 2: everybody's dms. Just busting. Please hire me. I've been in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you have a bad ass of mine, and you

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Speaker 1: crush it with busting with the boys. You're going to

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Speaker 2: even you were like, Man, Sherman kind of folds the

430
00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:43,480
Speaker 2: root pretty quick, like.

431
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Speaker 1: Dude, Which is so funny that you bring that up,

432
00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:48,399
Speaker 1: because I'm sitting there in my mind like Sherman stopped

433
00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:51,080
Speaker 1: talking to her, like stop engaging. I could tell that

434
00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:53,280
Speaker 1: because whenever we get to a break. Whenever we get

435
00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:55,080
Speaker 1: to a moment of a break, it's gonna be like, hey, sweetheart,

436
00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:57,160
Speaker 1: you know dad has talking like, let's have you, let's

437
00:19:57,200 --> 00:19:59,520
Speaker 1: exercise a little bit of patience. But I'm thinking, surem

438
00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:03,160
Speaker 1: stopp looking over and engaging with her and putting her

439
00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:05,640
Speaker 1: stickers on the little sticker.

440
00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:08,560
Speaker 2: Book sherman, where's elefant go? And I'm like, all right,

441
00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:10,960
Speaker 2: here would be great, and you're you wouldn't move, you

442
00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:12,879
Speaker 2: would just stay locked in, like, once you're do with

443
00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:14,560
Speaker 2: that sticker, come back, let's talk.

444
00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:18,560
Speaker 1: Do you Obviously you don't have one yet. But with Jill,

445
00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:21,080
Speaker 1: what what are you guys expecting?

446
00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:26,159
Speaker 2: Okay, well, can we dive in? We can dive in.

447
00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:27,760
Speaker 2: But I was gonna save it for the what are

448
00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:28,320
Speaker 2: the odds?

449
00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:30,720
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, we can save it. Okay, But I

450
00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:32,639
Speaker 1: was gonna say, I do have a question? Was gonna

451
00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:36,760
Speaker 1: be Yeah, like you and your journey of pregnancy right now,

452
00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:40,360
Speaker 1: obviously hormones are flowing. Your wife works, she works a lot,

453
00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:41,800
Speaker 1: she's in the what does your wife do?

454
00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:42,600
Speaker 4: Uh?

455
00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,040
Speaker 2: She's an r N so she's a registered nurse. Yes,

456
00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:47,960
Speaker 2: works here in Nashville. She's a grinder pediatric.

457
00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:50,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah. So she's a grinder, deals with a lot

458
00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:52,760
Speaker 1: of her own stuff at work. She does having to

459
00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,639
Speaker 1: juggle those hormones. You're you know, you're a spark plug,

460
00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:59,080
Speaker 1: You're a ball life, You're a great energy. Yeah. How's

461
00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:00,879
Speaker 1: it been for you in the in the in the

462
00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:01,880
Speaker 1: pregnancy journey?

463
00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,760
Speaker 2: I okay, So I hear it all the time from

464
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:06,520
Speaker 2: Jill that I get it really easy.

465
00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:07,439
Speaker 1: She's like, I.

466
00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:12,719
Speaker 2: Give you so much slack. I'm a pretty easy wife.

467
00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:16,280
Speaker 2: Like I'm a pretty easy pregnant wife, I promise you. Uh,

468
00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:18,520
Speaker 2: Like when I'm talking to my girls and I'm hearing

469
00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:21,399
Speaker 2: stories like sureman, you could have it way worse. And

470
00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:23,320
Speaker 2: it's not like I'm running around the house going like

471
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:25,960
Speaker 2: why are you fucking blowing up on me all the time?

472
00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:29,760
Speaker 2: Because she isn't but a really good It just happened

473
00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,480
Speaker 2: to be the weekend before we record this.

474
00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:34,400
Speaker 1: You hit her with I think you got it pretty

475
00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:35,800
Speaker 1: easy too, Like I'm pretty easy going.

476
00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:38,679
Speaker 2: I am pretty Like I am pretty easy. I'm messy

477
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:42,840
Speaker 2: as fuck, but like as far as like a sunshiny

478
00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:46,320
Speaker 2: disposition of life, Like I feel like she's got pretty

479
00:21:46,359 --> 00:21:49,760
Speaker 2: good too. But I'm definitely the lucky one in the relationship.

480
00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:50,480
Speaker 2: Don't get that right.

481
00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:54,240
Speaker 1: Hey, no matter what this podcast, we're gonna vent, We're

482
00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:56,480
Speaker 1: gonna bitchy, but no matter what, we have to, we

483
00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:59,479
Speaker 1: have to got to get that first episode, first episode,

484
00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 1: first episod. But we're always gonna follow it up with hey, sweete.

485
00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 1: You know, baby, baby, if you're listening right now, you

486
00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 1: know I love you. You know I'm the lucky one, you know.

487
00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 1: But this is also I want you to know. This

488
00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:11,639
Speaker 1: is a safe space for dats. This is a safe space.

489
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:14,040
Speaker 1: We're gonna pretend that our wives aren't watching this. Oh,

490
00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:16,399
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do our best, okay, because it is scary

491
00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:18,159
Speaker 1: to think we could be in hot water every week.

492
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,919
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, And I had to have a talk with

493
00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 1: her the other night, like before we're recording this. I

494
00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:27,439
Speaker 1: was like, I have a really good motherfucked story. She's like,

495
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:29,439
Speaker 1: I don't, are you gonna talk? Yeah, You're like, do

496
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:31,360
Speaker 1: you care if I share it? How sweet? I'm gonna

497
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:32,720
Speaker 1: let you know because you're always kind of haveing the

498
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:35,200
Speaker 1: same talk. I'm like, I'm gonna exaggerate some stories a

499
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:37,439
Speaker 1: little bit. Yeah, just no, I'm always gonna find my

500
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:38,520
Speaker 1: way back to your sweetheart.

501
00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:40,920
Speaker 2: We're gonna find our way back. And she knew exactly

502
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:42,560
Speaker 2: what I was talking about too. She was like, you're

503
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,200
Speaker 2: gonna talk about daycare shopping.

504
00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:45,240
Speaker 1: I was like yeah.

505
00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:47,359
Speaker 2: She was like, yeah, you can tell that story.

506
00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:50,199
Speaker 1: That's okay, let's hear it. Okay.

507
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:54,399
Speaker 2: So, uh, we're shopping for daycares. Jill's thirty two weeks

508
00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:57,160
Speaker 2: I believe, or like thirty one going into thirty two

509
00:22:57,200 --> 00:23:02,920
Speaker 2: weeks pregnant, and we're looking at daycares. We're kind of

510
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 2: new to the scene. I've been texting you a little

511
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:05,359
Speaker 2: bit about it.

512
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:09,360
Speaker 1: But world tough, world, dude, ahead of time.

513
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 2: Expensive is fuck, dude. Yes, the best deal that we

514
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:16,520
Speaker 2: have now, like the one that we decided on. It's

515
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:18,879
Speaker 2: twice a week and it's eight hundred dollars a month.

516
00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:21,359
Speaker 1: It's crazy.

517
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 2: But you go in, dude, these daycares. When you walk

518
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:28,720
Speaker 2: into them, it's like a cute zoo. It's like a

519
00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 2: zoo but of just cuteness, dude. And they have them

520
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,160
Speaker 2: like it's almost like they have them fully trained when

521
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 2: you walk in to like look out the classroom window

522
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:39,159
Speaker 2: and be like and way, so you're waving out all

523
00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:41,440
Speaker 2: these like little two something three something year olds and

524
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:43,960
Speaker 2: you're like, oh my god, they're so cute, Like that's

525
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 2: what mine's going to be, Like it's gonna have good

526
00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 2: table manners and YadA YadA. That whole experience was phenomenal.

527
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:54,159
Speaker 2: I love daycare shopping, and I selfishly am not going

528
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 2: to shout out the daycare that we chose because I'm

529
00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:58,639
Speaker 2: on a wait list and I'm trying to get in

530
00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:02,120
Speaker 2: that mug. Yeah yeah, yeah, I'm not gonna yes, yeah, yeah,

531
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,200
Speaker 2: So I'm not gonna name it specifically, but once we're

532
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:08,160
Speaker 2: in there, I will gladly shout them out. But yeah,

533
00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 2: the motherfuck situation was essentially I should have woken up

534
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 2: at six thirty and started getting breakfast going because my

535
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 2: girl just wanted to look pretty. She's wanted to take

536
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,160
Speaker 2: her time in the shower, she wants to pick out

537
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 2: her outfit, she wants to have her makeup all done

538
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:25,639
Speaker 2: so she looks like a really good future mommy, and

539
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 2: she wants her husband to do the same. So it's like,

540
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 2: we are normal humans. You should totally let us have

541
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:33,280
Speaker 2: our kid be in your daycare because we're going to

542
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:38,720
Speaker 2: multiple daycares that day. Slept in like till the last second.

543
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 1: Day that's terms Achilles. Heel right there, that'll he This

544
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:45,240
Speaker 1: dude could have a tornado siren going off in his

545
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 1: room and he won't wake up.

546
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:49,920
Speaker 2: Jill is literally going like this right now, She's She's like,

547
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:54,880
Speaker 2: thank you will She allegedly allegedly shook me like she's

548
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:56,639
Speaker 2: trying to get me up. But I gave her the

549
00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 2: once I was awake, I was looking at my phone

550
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:02,639
Speaker 2: and I gave her the honey, hey, just one second,

551
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 2: I'm watching this last thing, and I promise you I

552
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:05,680
Speaker 2: have my outfit picked out.

553
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:06,160
Speaker 1: We're all good.

554
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,879
Speaker 2: We weren't all good. We were late headed out of

555
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:13,399
Speaker 2: the house. And for any guy out there that has kids,

556
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 2: any dads right now or future dads with a pregnant wife,

557
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:19,399
Speaker 2: you cannot miss breakfast because that stomach starts hurtin And

558
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:22,479
Speaker 2: she just turned into the angriest mama bear she has

559
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:26,440
Speaker 2: ever been. And I got a tongue lashing on the

560
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 2: way to the daycares about I'm not responsible and just

561
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 2: like the you always do this, hers is you never

562
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:37,159
Speaker 2: do that.

563
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:41,440
Speaker 1: So she was saying, it's always the permanent words always, never, never.

564
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:45,119
Speaker 1: She said, you have done nothing in the preparation of

565
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 1: our daughter. On the way too, on the way to

566
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:53,640
Speaker 1: the daycare, which in my head, that is not true.

567
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 1: Did it sting?

568
00:25:55,400 --> 00:26:00,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's stung, But I swallowed it because I've learned, like, you.

569
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:02,920
Speaker 1: Gotta take listen, this is your mental load. It's starting

570
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 1: to stack up. You gotta take this. You gotta take

571
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:07,159
Speaker 1: the hits, and I'm taking the You're in the A

572
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:07,919
Speaker 1: gap right now.

573
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:11,119
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, dude, I'm like death gripping the wheel and

574
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 2: I'm driving down was it for forty? G The head's west,

575
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 2: I'm heading down four forty west and I'm just locked

576
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:22,920
Speaker 2: in here and she's I'm getting it so bad, and

577
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 2: I'm like, I just I gotta let her have her

578
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:27,159
Speaker 2: moment and get this out. But I did make the

579
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 2: mistake of I said hey, honey, and she sobbed, and

580
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,440
Speaker 2: I go, I want you to know I'm listening to

581
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:36,520
Speaker 2: you right now, and I think about eighty five percent

582
00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 2: of what you're saying are really good points. But you

583
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:41,919
Speaker 2: don't have to yell at me right now. We can

584
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 2: just talk. And she that sparked it a bit more,

585
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 2: which I you know, it's just hilarious.

586
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:51,399
Speaker 1: IM thinking, Hey, it's a nice little yes, it's a

587
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 1: nice little point of trying to defuse it.

588
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 2: But we we get to the we get to the

589
00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 2: parking lot.

590
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:01,399
Speaker 1: And trying to figure out, oh, I thought that was

591
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,200
Speaker 1: pretty good for you on game. I thought yeah. I

592
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 1: was like, oh shit, he gotta put me on some games.

593
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:08,440
Speaker 2: You put me on game, so I'll take that's a compliment.

594
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:11,399
Speaker 2: But we get to the parking lot and long story short,

595
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 2: she's wiping her makeup plans, her makeup off, and we

596
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 2: did a really good job of acting like we have

597
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 2: We have never fought a day in our lives, and

598
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 2: we're the happiest couple ever, and look at our little

599
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:25,640
Speaker 2: bundle of joy that's coming. And I had a great line.

600
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 2: She loves scary movies. She loves some movie theaters. So

601
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 2: we had talked obviously. After the daycare, we worked things

602
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:36,760
Speaker 2: out and she apologized. But at the movies, when she

603
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 2: was all happy with their popcorn, I said, hey, I

604
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:43,119
Speaker 2: do just want to apologize. I am a really bad husband.

605
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 2: I don't think I've done anything to prepare for Scarlet.

606
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 2: And she picked up some popcorn and tossed it at me,

607
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 2: and she was like, if that's my only blow up

608
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 2: on you as a pregnant woman, like, consider yourself lucky.

609
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 2: I was like, all right, I'll take it.

610
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we're all good. Out of the fire.

611
00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:58,120
Speaker 2: We're out of the fire.

612
00:27:58,359 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 1: You got out of the fire.

613
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, we can segue to crack a cold one.

614
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's talk about it. Let's talk about a positive

615
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 1: Let's talk talk about something that we would crack a

616
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:12,439
Speaker 1: cold one too. Mine is going to be pizza Friday.

617
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 1: I think having a weekly ritual with the fam is

618
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 1: uh is important. It's something that we started early because

619
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 1: in in the world the world moves fast. Man. You

620
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:26,920
Speaker 1: talk to any dad, you talk to anybody the generation

621
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:31,400
Speaker 1: before you, the consensus is always the phrase. It goes

622
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:34,159
Speaker 1: by fast. Enjoy it. Yeah, And I think for me,

623
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 1: in a world where everything moves fast, with appointments, work meetings,

624
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 1: phone calls, again, marriage, you're trying to juggle a lot

625
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 1: of the chaos going on, Pizza Friday is something that

626
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 1: that we've leaned on to where hey, this is where

627
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 1: we kind of show up as a family, you know,

628
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 1: I know it Like dads in our minds at times,

629
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 1: we think we have to show up for something big

630
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 1: to matter, whether we're fixed something, whether we're providing, whether

631
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 1: we're saving the day, and you begin to realize that

632
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 1: parenthood and being intentional is about like showing up in

633
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:12,520
Speaker 1: those small consistencies. Yeah, and pizza Friday is one of

634
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 1: those for us because I know, growing up, for me,

635
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 1: a lot of my fondest memories are being in the

636
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 1: backyard for barbecues. My dad loved throwing throwing meat on

637
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 1: the grill, my mom loved making sides, we loved having

638
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 1: friends over, and I just vividly have those are some

639
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 1: of my best memories. And it's something that I remember

640
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:32,800
Speaker 1: anytime that I'm grilling or at a grill out or

641
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 1: a cookout, whatever the case is. It's like, subconsciously in

642
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:40,280
Speaker 1: my mind, I'm always I'm always thinking back to when

643
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 1: we had these family barbecues because we would have them

644
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Speaker 1: often at least, like you know, when it's summertime, you're

645
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 1: having them a couple times a month, and Alder brothers

646
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 1: are out there, right yeah yeah yeah yeah. And so

647
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 1: for us, like for Pizza Fridays, I always take Roue.

648
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: She gets in the car with Dad. We order from

649
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 1: our favorite spot, and I will shout out the local

650
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: the local spot, Home Team Pizza. We put it in

651
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 1: an order for Home Team pizza. I take rue. It's

652
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 1: kind of our time to spend together to where we go.

653
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 1: We go inside, she talks to everybody. We get the pizza,

654
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,960
Speaker 1: we bring it home. I live rou carry the little

655
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 1: whether it's a little bag of buckeyes, shout out hate

656
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: you guys got shot out the buckeye, whether it's the

657
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 1: little bag of buckeyes or the small box of like

658
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:27,479
Speaker 1: their little breadstick bites, O real, carry the small one

659
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,160
Speaker 1: in and every time she walks in the door, Mama,

660
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 1: we're home. It's pizza Friday, and we enjoy whatever the

661
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 1: movie it is. So it's like, what when my kids

662
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: get older, you know, they won't always remember the toys

663
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 1: or the lectures that their old man gave them, because

664
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Speaker 1: I'll probably be giving probably be giving a lot of lectures.

665
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 1: But I want them to remember the times that they

666
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 1: spent together as a family to where my daughter's got

667
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 1: it in the car with dad. They drove to go

668
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 1: pick up pizza, and we brought home the smell of

669
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 1: pizza and we shared laugh, whether it's tears, whatever it was,

670
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 1: we enjoyed a movie together as a family. And that's

671
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 1: how we show up each week as a family. We're

672
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: not always consistent where we hit it every Friday, but

673
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 1: every Friday that we're home, any Friday that we might

674
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 1: be on the road together at a vacation together, pizza

675
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 1: Fridays is a staple for like a weekly ritual for

676
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: the family. So that's kind of my crack of cold

677
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 1: one too. That's kind of like my one of the

678
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 1: staples in our family.

679
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 2: It feels consistent as hell, like seeing it on social

680
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 2: media just as a like third party outside of it,

681
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 2: it seems like y'all are doing that every Friday. And

682
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 2: I love the idea of like traditions to you if

683
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 2: y'all kind of creating traditions and you'll know too.

684
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 1: It's like consistency and routine is big for kids knowing

685
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 1: like hey, guess what today is? And you know, it

686
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 1: might be Monday and it's gymnastics day or Wednesday and

687
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:54,040
Speaker 1: it's swim day for Rue, But anytime you're just like, hey,

688
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: guess what day it is, she's just always like pizza Friday.

689
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, no, that's after two more sleeps, but

690
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 1: they know when it's Friday, it is pizza Friday. Yeah,

691
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: So that's my uh crack cole one that's my crack

692
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 1: of cold one.

693
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 2: I actually I wasn't going to do a crack a

694
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 2: cold one, but I do have a crack a cold

695
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 2: one for you.

696
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so you don't have one. You don't have

697
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 1: one the first episode, you don't have one this week

698
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: I didn't.

699
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 2: Well, I like had one that I was kind of finagle,

700
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 2: but to go off of, I'll crack a cold one

701
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 2: to you because you did an incredible job. You were

702
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,640
Speaker 2: charo uh with Rue when we were over to film

703
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 2: that trailer of when Ree wanted to teach me and

704
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:44,080
Speaker 2: how she tells the world good morning, and that might

705
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:47,200
Speaker 2: have been a top five cutest thing I've ever seen

706
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:50,200
Speaker 2: in my life of her picking up a footstool, moving

707
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 2: it to the window, throwing open the curtains like a

708
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 2: Disney character, and she's just a good morning world, so

709
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 2: loud and so confident, and I love that. Charlie was like,

710
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 2: we haven't done that in a minute, yeah with real

711
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 2: or maybe you said that, I can't remember, but yeah,

712
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:09,960
Speaker 2: you did it enough to where it's.

713
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:11,880
Speaker 1: In there, like Yeah, it's like when they're little and

714
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 1: they're starting to figure things out and you're trying to

715
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 1: like keep them in a routine of how mourning works.

716
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: Like we'll have the sound machine and when she wakes up,

717
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:20,280
Speaker 1: we'll turn it to the birds chirping, just to like

718
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 1: get her psyche in the mindset of like, hey, we're

719
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: we're doing the morning routine. So you pick her up

720
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 1: out of the crib when she couldn't walk, and you'd

721
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 1: just be like high world and do all these things.

722
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: So that way they know that you're starting to like

723
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 1: you're starting to like manufacture this hard wiring of how

724
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:36,720
Speaker 1: each day works. But yeah, it had been a minute

725
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:39,320
Speaker 1: since i'd seen her do the whole good Morning world,

726
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 1: but I knew she wanted to show you her room. Dude,

727
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:43,960
Speaker 1: that was unreal. She's wanting to give you an entire

728
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 1: tour of the house. It is. Hey, sweet, we got

729
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 1: a film, we got a film trail. If you're gonna

730
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 1: be a part of this, we'll give you a role. Yeah,

731
00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 1: we gave her the director role. Yeah yeah, yeah, oh

732
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 1: say action. Then you gotta stay quiet because she's wanting

733
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 1: to play the whole time. She wants to playhide and seek.

734
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 1: You guys are there. She thinks everybody's there for her.

735
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Speaker 2: She loved heyt out Uncle Brad by the way Upogs,

736
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 2: we didn't shot you out before? That was the Dad

737
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 2: and the launch trailer. One of Will's good friends but

738
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:10,319
Speaker 2: shot out Uncle Brad. Do you want to let him

739
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 2: know what crack? A cold one is brought to us.

740
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741
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742
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755
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756
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 2: You know, I like that idea, especially if our sponsors

757
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Speaker 2: aren't attached to the segments just yet, that we go

758
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Speaker 2: ahead and knock out the next sponsor. But you had

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760
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761
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Speaker 1: Yeah, whether you'd like it earlier in the show. Middle

762
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763
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786
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Speaker 1: for the dads out there listening right now, or even

787
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:32,719
Speaker 1: the moms that might be tuning in. They just want

788
00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:36,440
Speaker 1: to put their their their hubby on game, dude. Honestly,

789
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 1: a little brew hal ad read, a little lovey dovey adred.

790
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:44,720
Speaker 1: I don't think there's anything more for the dads. Yeah, truly,

791
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: I'm with you. I'm with you.

792
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:46,440
Speaker 4: I know.

793
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 1: We got a little product recommendation, Yeah, little survival kit action.

794
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 1: What guy's in the survival kit?

795
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 2: We got dad hacks, We got dad hacks, we got

796
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:59,400
Speaker 2: survival kit. We do just time wise. I don't know

797
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 2: if we want to skip over those and tell the

798
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 2: audience a little bit about the call in features, because

799
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:08,360
Speaker 2: I feel like that's gonna maybe we they have to

800
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 2: come in next week to see how Survival Kit and

801
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 2: Dad Hacks works.

802
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 1: Yes, So for the dads out there listening right now,

803
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:16,359
Speaker 1: for everybody watching the show, the way that we're gonna

804
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 1: involve you guys is we have a hotline number. It

805
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 1: is six oh one the Dads, six oh one the Dads.

806
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 1: You will call in. You will leave a voicemail, and

807
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 1: it can be about something you crack, a cold one too,

808
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 1: maybe a big dad loss, maybe a time you got

809
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 1: motherfucked by your daughter, by your son, by your wife,

810
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 1: or maybe you were motherfucking yourself and you're feeling in

811
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 1: the dumps and you need to get it something off

812
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:42,840
Speaker 1: your chest. You can remain anonymous if view like, you

813
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:44,719
Speaker 1: don't have to say your name. You can just call in.

814
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:47,319
Speaker 1: We would love to play a voicemail each and every

815
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 1: week for the dads out there wanting to vent about something,

816
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 1: having a recommendation. Maybe you have a dad hack, Maybe

817
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 1: you have something that you can put in the Survival

818
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:57,440
Speaker 1: Kit for dads that dads might need to know that

819
00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:59,360
Speaker 1: a lot out there might not know. And now you

820
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 1: have a platform, you have an audience to where you

821
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,479
Speaker 1: can put dads on game, whatever it is. And again,

822
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 1: it could be a quote, a lesson you've learned. It

823
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 1: doesn't matter.

824
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 2: You can remain anonymous.

825
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 1: Yes, it doesn't matter. You are a dad. You're trying

826
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 1: to be here for the dads. You're trying to be

827
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 1: here for the community in whatever way you want it

828
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:17,279
Speaker 1: to be positive negative, putting us on game whatever that is.

829
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,480
Speaker 1: That is your voicemail, That is your phone call. I

830
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 1: do think it would be smart to do an email

831
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 1: one too, to where people can write it up. And

832
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 1: even with the call, it's not zoom, you're not you're

833
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 1: not showing your face, you're not doing any of that.

834
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:32,800
Speaker 1: You're calling into the hotline six to oh one the

835
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:34,960
Speaker 1: Dad's and you're leaving a voicemail.

836
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:38,279
Speaker 2: Will what would you say if I told you even

837
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:41,839
Speaker 2: though that number got connected three days ago, three days ago,

838
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:43,280
Speaker 2: we have our first voicemail.

839
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:47,359
Speaker 1: Oh, we have one. We have one.

840
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 2: Would you want to answer it?

841
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 1: Sure? Go ahead and play it all right, we'll play

842
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:51,439
Speaker 1: it live.

843
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 2: I'll play it into the mic, and then we'll let

844
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:56,239
Speaker 2: you take it from there.

845
00:38:56,719 --> 00:39:00,880
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, Compton, this is this is a Hunter,

846
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 3: big time fan of the show, so stoked to see

847
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 3: what you do it for the dads. Just a question,

848
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:11,319
Speaker 3: just a question from me. If your best friend ever

849
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 3: called you and asked you to play Santa Claus so

850
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 3: his kid could keep the beauty and the magic of

851
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 3: Christmas in their heart and keep their little childhood dreams alive,

852
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 3: tell me how would you handle that conversation and what

853
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 3: would be your best stand of impression? Once again, big fan, huge,

854
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 3: massive fan, your ten Yeah.

855
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 1: Alr bye.

856
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:36,280
Speaker 2: I don't know if you caught that at the beginning,

857
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:37,399
Speaker 2: that was that was Hunter?

858
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:39,799
Speaker 1: Oh Hunter, that was Hunter. That was all the time

859
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:42,719
Speaker 1: fan of the show. Yeah, close, close and dear friend

860
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 1: of the show.

861
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, and what he knew about year ten. So I'm

862
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 2: guessing he's probably a to your wine.

863
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 1: It seems like he's very aware. So this man Hunter,

864
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 1: you know, what was this question? Again? How would I

865
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 1: handle being Santa Claus on the phone to his to

866
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:56,240
Speaker 1: his kids.

867
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:58,440
Speaker 2: If Hunter was to call you because his kids are

868
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 2: I don't know if I believe in Santae anymore. Well,

869
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:04,840
Speaker 2: let me call up Sannah right now. And you're the

870
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,480
Speaker 2: person that he called, how would you handle.

871
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 1: That, Sanna being real?

872
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 2: No?

873
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 1: No, how would how would you.

874
00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:14,359
Speaker 2: Handle role playing Sanna? If you need, I don't mind

875
00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 2: being Hunter's kid and we can just we can run

876
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 2: through it right now.

877
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 1: What's your name, Billy? Billy?

878
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:24,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, Sanna.

879
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 1: Hey, Billy, I'm hearing you're having some questions about myself

880
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:38,280
Speaker 1: being real. Oh quiet down back there, Rudolph, I'm talking

881
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 1: to Billy. I'm talking to Billy right now. Hey, my

882
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:43,280
Speaker 1: little elves, can you get Billy's gifts?

883
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 2: Ready?

884
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:45,480
Speaker 1: I know Christmas is coming up. I just have a

885
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:47,600
Speaker 1: couple of questions that I got to answer with them.

886
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 2: Daddy's talking to the elves.

887
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, Sanna, I was just wondering. Uh, my

888
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 5: friends at school in the lunch room, they're all picking

889
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 5: on me. They're all telling me that you're not real

890
00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:00,800
Speaker 5: and that I'm just a dumb kid for believing in you.

891
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:04,200
Speaker 1: Why would they say such a thing, Billy, you're talking.

892
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 1: You're talking to old Santa Claus right now. I know

893
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 1: you're excited for Christmas. What would you like for Christmas? Billy?

894
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 2: I love an Xbox.

895
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:15,319
Speaker 1: Here's what I would Billy. Listen to me closely. Here's

896
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:17,319
Speaker 1: what I'll tell You're gonna go back to that cafeteria.

897
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 1: You're gonna go back to that lunch room on your

898
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:21,879
Speaker 1: next day of school, and you're gonna tell your friends

899
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 1: you spoke to Santa Claus on the phone. Yeah, you

900
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:26,720
Speaker 1: ask for an Xbox, and if you get an Xbox

901
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 1: on Christmas, you're gonna tell them that that's their belief

902
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:31,799
Speaker 1: on what they're gonna get for their toy. You're gonna

903
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 1: show them. You're gonna prove to them that Santa is

904
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:35,359
Speaker 1: reel because you are going to get what you want

905
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 1: and can you do another thing for me, Billy anything Santa.

906
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:40,759
Speaker 1: Ask them what they would like for Christmas as well,

907
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 1: and also mark down their address marked mark down their

908
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,799
Speaker 1: address and what their parents' name might be on where

909
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 1: they could possibly receive this secret gift. But don't tell them,

910
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 1: don't tell them that Santa Claus is telling you this,

911
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:55,800
Speaker 1: and then we will prove to them together that Santa

912
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 1: Claus is real.

913
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:04,680
Speaker 2: That's well done. That's well done. That was a great dude,

914
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 2: proving it by also getting their parents involved, because their

915
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 2: parents are gonna be like, who the hell is this from?

916
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:12,439
Speaker 2: And it's gonna come and you were gonna see yeah,

917
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:13,320
Speaker 2: say it is from Santa.

918
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:20,919
Speaker 1: So spoiler alert, Hunter is Taylor and Taylor. A few

919
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:23,880
Speaker 1: years back when I did not have kids, he needed

920
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:29,320
Speaker 1: me to talk to Win because Winn was having a

921
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:33,400
Speaker 1: bed issue and they were trying to solve it by

922
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 1: her talking to Santa and then keeping the keeping the

923
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 1: life of Christmas alive and maybe helping her work on

924
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:42,640
Speaker 1: wetting the bed. And I wet the bed on the phone.

925
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 1: I was in the middle of a whole Foods and

926
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: I was show, you know, you're doing all these different

927
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 1: things at once, so you can't like be intentional and

928
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:51,680
Speaker 1: focus on what he actually needed from me. Yeah, And

929
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 1: so I handled it all wrong. I told her that

930
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: if she she didn't stop, if she didn't stop winning

931
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: the bed, she might I get any presents. You had

932
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 1: to kind of rush her out there. And then he

933
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 1: called me. He said, what was that, dude, I don't know.

934
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 1: I don't know. I panicked. I thought, you want to

935
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 1: understop wining the bed. I'm trying to motivate her by hey,

936
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 1: you're gonna get Christmas president you don't start went to bed.

937
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:20,319
Speaker 4: Tell me about the wedding the bed part. He just said,

938
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:22,879
Speaker 4: you didn't you didn't do a Santa voice at all.

939
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:27,800
Speaker 4: You answered it as well and just went yeah, hey.

940
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:37,359
Speaker 1: Oh, I went yeah, this is Santa Claus b. Thank

941
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 1: you Hunter for calling in. Thank you Hunter for calling in.

942
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:41,719
Speaker 1: But that is kind of the idea of what we

943
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 1: want to do with the voicemails every week. So again,

944
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:47,040
Speaker 1: call into the hotline six oh one. The Dad's We're

945
00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 1: gonna wrap this up here soon. We got some little

946
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 1: product recommendation for your survival kit. Myself. I'll keep it short,

947
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:54,839
Speaker 1: I'll keep it tight, I'll keep it right. Yeah. Yeah.

948
00:43:55,440 --> 00:44:00,399
Speaker 1: A go to for myself is every evening we down

949
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 1: at the dinner table and I have The Daily Dad

950
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 1: sitting there by. Ryan Holliday, awesome guy to look into

951
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 1: for the Daily Dad newsletter. He's got a book called

952
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:09,839
Speaker 1: The Daily Dad where it gives you like three hundred

953
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 1: and sixty five days of different lessons in the book

954
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 1: that you'll like learn and it's based on through stoicism.

955
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:17,839
Speaker 1: Big fan of stoicism. But the Daily Dad I would

956
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,440
Speaker 1: recommend for your survival kit. And I would also recommend

957
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 1: the book twelve Hours in twelve weeks or twelve hours

958
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 1: by twelve weeks. I know I've tweeted about it before,

959
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 1: but parents kind of like getting into the thick of like, hey,

960
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 1: what's a book I can read. If your dad out

961
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 1: there trying to figure out something you could do to

962
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:35,680
Speaker 1: support the wife, I strongly recommend twelve hours and twelve weeks.

963
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:38,920
Speaker 1: It's like a sleep training book that is not overly aggressive.

964
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,319
Speaker 1: It's the way the child can like adapt to your

965
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:44,799
Speaker 1: life versus you adapting to everything and catering everything around them.

966
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:46,880
Speaker 1: It's got a lot of practical ways for you to

967
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 1: get them sleep trained by twelve weeks. I want to say,

968
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 1: Rue it took her about sixteen seventeen weeks, and Scotty

969
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:55,480
Speaker 1: was like twelve weeks, maybe even eleven. And it was

970
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 1: all based around the teachings and everything inside of this book.

971
00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:02,360
Speaker 1: Twelve hours in twelve weeks. But those would be my

972
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:06,960
Speaker 1: survival kit recommendations for dads out there thinking about something

973
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 1: could do, like even for yourself, like trending toward having

974
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 1: your first child, or maybe your first one didn't go

975
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:14,279
Speaker 1: well and you might be looking for something in your

976
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 1: second one, or you might maybe in the thick of

977
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 1: it now and you can dive in. Yeah, but those

978
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 1: would be my survival kit product recommendations. Again, the first

979
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 1: book is just The Daily Dad, Daily Dead. Yeah, and

980
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 1: then the next segment being a dad Hack. I would

981
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 1: say plan your solo time. You realize, like you were

982
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:36,800
Speaker 1: already you juggling this around in your mind, like you know,

983
00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 1: life being kind of over, not like not over, but

984
00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:42,320
Speaker 1: there's gonna be a lot going on to where the

985
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:44,880
Speaker 1: life as you know it will no longer be. You

986
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:47,680
Speaker 1: won't have the freedom and the free time and everything

987
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:49,840
Speaker 1: that you kind of have. You even don't realize it.

988
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 1: When the baby comes home, then you start realizing all

989
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:54,600
Speaker 1: these different things that mom might know and understand, and

990
00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:56,879
Speaker 1: you're just trying to figure out where do you fit

991
00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 1: in the whole puzzle. Yeah, I would say planning your

992
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 1: solo time because you're gonna be spread then through work,

993
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:04,839
Speaker 1: you're gonna be spread then through being at home being

994
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:08,800
Speaker 1: supportive to where you kind of like lose time for yourself.

995
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:10,920
Speaker 1: So planning your solo time, whether it's a workout an

996
00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 1: hour a day, whether it's the time you want to

997
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:16,400
Speaker 1: pull out the you know, the lifeline of taking a

998
00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 1: deuce at the right time, or reading a book, whatever

999
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:20,839
Speaker 1: your solo time looks like, you need to make sure

1000
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: to start planning for it, because a lot of things

1001
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:25,239
Speaker 1: change when you do have kids, and if you're out

1002
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:27,840
Speaker 1: there trying to think of ways that you might be missing.

1003
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:31,640
Speaker 1: How to feed yourself is plan out, schedule out your

1004
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:32,239
Speaker 1: solo time.

1005
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:37,800
Speaker 2: I love that very quickly. I'll segue into one. I

1006
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:40,400
Speaker 2: need to get that daily dad. I'm gonna give myself

1007
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:43,880
Speaker 2: a homework assignment. Okay, of getting daily dads. Starting to

1008
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 2: read into that, because our next segment is what are

1009
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 2: the odds? Shout out fan duel with what are the odds?

1010
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:56,840
Speaker 2: We'll just be talking about anything that's crazy coincidence that

1011
00:46:56,920 --> 00:47:00,279
Speaker 2: happened with the kids. Maybe they puked and they missed

1012
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 2: every single thing except for that one really nice thing

1013
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 2: in your living room.

1014
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 1: That's the.

1015
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:12,400
Speaker 2: The segment. But what are the odds? Is Scarlet is

1016
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 2: potentially going to be a freedom baby, pending that Jill

1017
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:20,439
Speaker 2: is going to get induced on July third.

1018
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:24,479
Speaker 1: Explain that what's a freedom baby.

1019
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 2: A freedom baby is a baby that would be born

1020
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:34,800
Speaker 2: on July fourth, the fourth of July Independence Day. Got so, Scarlette,

1021
00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 2: that's all right, but Scarlet potentially being a freedom baby.

1022
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 2: Jill called me today. They said, baby Scarlet is looking healthy.

1023
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:45,919
Speaker 2: She had a stress test and a screening today. They said,

1024
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 2: we want to induce you at thirty eight weeks and

1025
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:53,320
Speaker 2: that will be the week of July first, and we

1026
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:55,800
Speaker 2: want to aim for July third, so she will be

1027
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:57,480
Speaker 2: born on the fourth of July.

1028
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 1: Ooh, our little firecracker. Dude, I'm hype for you, man.

1029
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 1: We're the world's gonna change. Oh, but I'm hype for you, bro. Yeah.

1030
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 2: My life is over as as I know it, as

1031
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 2: you know.

1032
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:14,480
Speaker 1: It right now as a somebody who gets to kind

1033
00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:18,719
Speaker 1: of operate selfishly with your wife. Yeah, life's over life.

1034
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:19,920
Speaker 1: That life's behind you.

1035
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:22,080
Speaker 2: That's the spodcast.

1036
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:24,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's why. Yeah, that's why you have

1037
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 1: a safe space now. Yes, sweetheart, we love you, chili Bean,

1038
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 1: we love you.

1039
00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 2: Hey, I'm glad that you said that at the beginning,

1040
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:32,480
Speaker 2: because that did that took the pressure off. I was like,

1041
00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 2: I do need to act like you know, no one's listening.

1042
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:38,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're just talking. We're just talking. This is this

1043
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:41,920
Speaker 1: is a conversation just for the dads. Only dads are listening.

1044
00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:43,760
Speaker 1: Only dads are listening.

1045
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 2: You thinks you could be charged with if you're just

1046
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:48,840
Speaker 2: talking about Yeah, yeah, we're just talking about it.

1047
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 1: We're standing around the garage events. Okay. So to wrap

1048
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:59,239
Speaker 1: it up, yes, to wrap it up quote lesson or

1049
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:02,400
Speaker 1: mantra in a phrase, because you're going to be a

1050
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:05,280
Speaker 1: girl dad as well. So this is more tailored towards

1051
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 1: the girl dad's out there. And one that you hear

1052
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,480
Speaker 1: a phrase that you love and you don't quite understand it.

1053
00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:14,759
Speaker 1: And it's not like a moment that happens, but it's

1054
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:17,839
Speaker 1: like moments in fatherhood that you begin to realize how

1055
00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 1: important this is. But my lesson that's going to stem

1056
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:25,200
Speaker 1: from this quote Will's lesson of the week lesson of

1057
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 1: the week is that and I have a little write

1058
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:32,759
Speaker 1: up about this, is that you are your daughter's first love.

1059
00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:37,120
Speaker 1: And it's not something where you're trying to be romantic.

1060
00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 1: It's about being the first role model of what love

1061
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:43,680
Speaker 1: looks like. You're the first man to hold her, You're

1062
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 1: the first one to make her laugh on a hard day.

1063
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 1: You're the first one to show her that love doesn't

1064
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:52,400
Speaker 1: have to be hurt or earn or beg to be kept.

1065
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:55,640
Speaker 1: And that's a huge responsibility. It's a lot of pressure,

1066
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:58,319
Speaker 1: but it's also a gift because how you treat her

1067
00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:00,759
Speaker 1: how you treat her mom, and how you show up

1068
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 1: when it's inconvenient or hard. She's watching, not just now,

1069
00:50:05,080 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 1: but forever. She's learning what does it mean to be protected?

1070
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 1: What does it look like when someone listens to me?

1071
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Speaker 1: And am I worth someone's time even when they're tired?

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Speaker 1: Because you are laying down the emotional hardwiring that she

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Speaker 1: will lean on for years. And that's not the pressure

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Speaker 1: the girl that's out there, but to empower you. Because

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Speaker 1: when you kiss her on the forehead, or you let

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Speaker 1: her put bows in your hair, or you say I

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Speaker 1: love you for no reason, you're teaching her this is

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Speaker 1: how love should feel. Did you write that? Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: put the pin the paper a little bit. I had

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Speaker 1: a little bit of help. Damn, a couple articles on it.

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Speaker 1: I'm reading. I'm in the middle of reading the book

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Speaker 1: Strong Father's Strong Daughters. And there's a part in the

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Speaker 1: book where the author she talks about this and so,

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Speaker 1: and it's a it's yeah, it's I think it's great.

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Speaker 1: I Uh.

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Speaker 2: One, that gets me fucking juiced because I have a

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00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:10,879
Speaker 2: little girl myself coming. Yeah, And two, maybe we didn't

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00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:14,280
Speaker 2: touch on it enough at the top. I want everybody

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Speaker 2: to know I'm scared shitless to have a daughter, yeah, buddy,

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Speaker 2: But yes, I have the most incredible wife in the world.

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Speaker 2: She was raised by a single mother, and Jill's the

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Speaker 2: most incredible woman in the world. Her, my mother in law,

1093
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:33,960
Speaker 2: is incredible to all herself. But I see the relationship

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00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:37,279
Speaker 2: that Jill already has with my dad, her father in law,

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Speaker 2: and how special that relationship is to her. And uh,

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00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:47,960
Speaker 2: it's a it's a really tall order. It's a really

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00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:51,879
Speaker 2: tall order. And I'm really lucky. And uh, dude, I'm

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00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:55,600
Speaker 2: fucking stoked to be here, to have met you and

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00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:59,239
Speaker 2: Taylor and to really learn from you guys and have

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Speaker 2: this like opportunity to prep myself because I I feel

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00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:09,120
Speaker 2: so much more like mentally ready. But that message was incredible, dude.

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm fighting back to yours pretty hard.

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Speaker 1: But uh so a good being weird you're always fighting

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00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:15,799
Speaker 1: him back there at the end. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm I'm so juiced by that. I almost

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00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 2: want to ride down and have it printed off and

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00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 2: that can live on the set. I can't believe you

1108
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 2: wrote that, dude, that that was like run through a

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00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:26,960
Speaker 2: brick wall stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's you. I mean you, you you know the

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Speaker 1: history a little bit any way that I had with

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Speaker 1: uh with my mom. Yeah, and it's like the same

1113
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:40,080
Speaker 1: thing on the other side, it is like you're the

1114
00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:43,839
Speaker 1: same being a boy for a mom. So it does.

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00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:48,279
Speaker 1: It hits, It hits at a deep level. But hey,

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Speaker 1: they this is an awesome this is an awesome episode.

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Speaker 1: This is an awesome first episode. I gotta get out

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Speaker 1: of this. I gotta get out of this right now.

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Speaker 1: One thing that we were gonna do is I would

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Speaker 1: love for the end credit scene to be gender reveals,

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Speaker 1: positive dad moments. We're going to show a little something

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Speaker 1: here for the credits with our own with our own videos,

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Speaker 1: but what we would like to see is fans, whether

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Speaker 1: you guys are dming us or showing us or tagging

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Speaker 1: us in videos that we can use on your behalf

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Speaker 1: to put in the end credits. We'd love to roll

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Speaker 1: kind of a highlight reel of of gender reviews and

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Speaker 1: positive dad moments and just embrace the badass dads who

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Speaker 1: are out there.

1130
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Speaker 2: Send them in, Send them in.

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00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:24,840
Speaker 1: But thank you for tuning into this first episode. I

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Speaker 1: know we'd love to sit around the forty minute mark.

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Speaker 1: I want to say we're getting close to what gee,

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Speaker 1: maybe an hour. Yeah, yeah, yeah, maybe an hour. So

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Speaker 1: we'll watch the tape. We'll watch it tape and reel

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Speaker 1: it in. Believe comments, subscribe, support the boys again. We

1137
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Speaker 1: will be standing up a new channel soon, so be

1138
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Speaker 1: on the lookout for that. But thank you for showing up.

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Speaker 1: This is what are you waaring? Oh dad? Is we

1140
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Speaker 1: got hats BWTB dot com. We got sick dad merch.

1141
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 1: I know a lot of our logos and themes which

1142
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Speaker 1: was done by people none other than myself, but it's

1143
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Speaker 1: based around wolves, and I remember asking the question, do

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Speaker 1: you realize how much I love that this is themed

1145
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:02,320
Speaker 1: around wolves? Because I am obsessed with wolves being the protector,

1146
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:05,040
Speaker 1: you know, the pac mentality and everything else. But we

1147
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Speaker 1: have some sick merch. It's on the site BWTB dot com.

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Speaker 1: There's a bunch of shirts, hats, everything that you're not

1149
00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:13,279
Speaker 1: seeing here on the set right now. But go check

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Speaker 1: that out bwtv dot com.

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Speaker 2: Your artist friend's name, Brandon Owen. Finally Bowen painted back.

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Speaker 1: I painted this back here.

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Speaker 2: Wonderful sign back there and Brandon, we love it so much, dude,

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much. Huge shout out to Brandon.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we love you. Thanks for tuning in. This is

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Speaker 1: for the dads.