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Speaker 2: Perconne is on the phone today for our first day

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Speaker 2: follow up. She's getting ghosted by a guy named Jake

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Speaker 2: that she really likes. So in a few minutes, we're

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Speaker 2: gonna call him see if you'll tell us why he's

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Speaker 2: ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first,

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Speaker 2: Chris Anne, how long has it been since you heard

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Speaker 2: from Jake.

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Speaker 1: It's been a week since we since he texted me back,

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Speaker 1: since the first date, or like the day after the date,

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Speaker 1: I texted.

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Speaker 3: Him and it's been a week since he responded to me.

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Speaker 2: So what did you say? What did you text him

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Speaker 2: after the date?

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Speaker 1: I just said, like I thanked him for the date,

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Speaker 1: that I had a great time and wanted to set

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Speaker 1: up another date and asked if he wanted to do

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Speaker 1: it again. Then he responded he had fun and that

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Speaker 1: he would let me know.

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Speaker 2: And that was it.

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Speaker 1: He didn't say anything after that, I mean, not a peep.

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Speaker 1: And it was just I mean, it's I know, it's

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Speaker 1: weird because when we had our date, like the week

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Speaker 1: before we had our date, we were talking every day

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Speaker 1: and like you know, the text thing, having some kind

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Speaker 1: of communication every day, and so for him to just

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Speaker 1: go completely silent, like it feels really off and I

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's go back to the date. What did you

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Speaker 2: guys do?

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Speaker 1: We went to a Mexican spot. He sent me to

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Speaker 1: Mexican spot and we caught up. We had Margarita's and

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Speaker 1: eight tacos, and I thought it went amazingly. Our spark

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Speaker 1: was there instantly, and I've always had a thing for Jake,

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Speaker 1: and then like running into him made me feel like

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Speaker 1: this whole thing was meant to be, and like the

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Speaker 1: date went super well. We were laughing the whole time

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Speaker 1: and like talking about all these new restaurants that we

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Speaker 3: In like he felt the same way.

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Speaker 4: Well, I think we have to back up a second.

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Speaker 4: How did you guys meet then? If you've always had

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Speaker 4: a thing for him?

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Speaker 1: Oh, we met probably about five years ago at a

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Speaker 1: at a birth a friend's birthday party. But at the time, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we we were both in relationships at that time, so obviously,

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Speaker 1: like nothing came for it. We kind of just have

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Speaker 1: been friends on and off for the past five years,

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Speaker 1: at and we just kind of got to talking as

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Speaker 1: we're walking around, and we both realized that we weren't

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Speaker 3: So we were both single.

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Speaker 1: We decided that we should go on a date, and

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Speaker 1: he asked if I wanted to go out sometime, and

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Speaker 1: I've said yeah, I'd be interested, and kind of just

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Speaker 2: Wow, I know, I love that. I love that, except

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Speaker 2: for the fact that you might be ghosting me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm nervous that I did something wrong or like

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Speaker 1: said something wrong. But I don't know why you wouldn't

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Speaker 4: So is there anything on the date that may have

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Speaker 4: happened that you think could be why?

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Speaker 1: The only thing I could think of is I called

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Speaker 3: It's just like slaying that.

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Speaker 1: I use. I didn't mean it to be like, you know,

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Speaker 1: friend zoning him or anything, but I don't know. I

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Speaker 3: Of being like whoa like no way, I didn't. I

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Speaker 1: Said that, Like, yeah, that's the only thing I can

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Speaker 3: That might have been a.

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Speaker 1: Little bit off putting and maybe gave him the wrong

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Speaker 2: Would that make you feel weird? If calling you bro?

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Speaker 2: Actually I would be cool. I don't know. It's kind

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Speaker 2: like you wouldn't feel friend zoned. No, I will. But

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Speaker 2: you're also insanely confident. So yeah, that's that's true too. Yeah, okay, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that is like I was just trying to think

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Speaker 3: I know what I did.

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Speaker 2: All right, Yeah, we'll see. We'll play a song, come

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Speaker 2: back and then call him and see Ifiel tell us

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Speaker 2: why is ghosting you? And maybe get to another date. Okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: we'll be her first safe follow up. Next right in

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Speaker 2: the middle of your first date follow up and if

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Speaker 2: you're just joining us, Chrissanne is on the phone and

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Speaker 2: she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jake. So in

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Speaker 2: a second we're going to call him and see if

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Speaker 2: you'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her

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Speaker 2: another date. But first, Chrissanne, why don't you catch everybody

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Speaker 2: up on your situation?

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Speaker 1: Uh? Yeah, So I went on a date with guy Jake,

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Speaker 1: who I've known for five years that we were in

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Speaker 1: on a date. We had a great date at a

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Speaker 1: Mexican restaurant, a lot of laughing taco with Margarita, had

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Speaker 1: a great time. And then when I followed up with

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Speaker 1: second date, he didn't really, he said, he didn't let

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Speaker 1: me know. The only thing I can possibly think of

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Speaker 1: that might have gone wrong is that I said bro

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Speaker 1: a lot. I called him bro, and maybe you thought

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Speaker 2: Or off by that. We'll see. Okay, are you ready

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Speaker 2: for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, here we go. Hi, I'm I aspeaking

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Speaker 2: to Jake. Please.

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Speaker 3: This is Jake.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Jake, what's up?

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Speaker 1: Man?

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Speaker 2: How are you? My name is Jeubel and I'm calling

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Speaker 2: from a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show shows

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Speaker 2: here Jake. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. How are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing good. You have a good voice for radio.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is my radio voice. My other voice is weird.

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Speaker 2: You should hear it right, really clear. Yeah. Have you

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Speaker 2: ever listened to the show before.

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure I have. I think I recognize you

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Speaker 2: Well, we do a segment on the show it's called

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Speaker 2: the first Date follow Up. That's where if you go

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Speaker 2: on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them,

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Speaker 2: they can email us to get you on the phone

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Speaker 2: and ask why you're ghosting them. So, we got an

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Speaker 2: email about you from somebody.

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Speaker 3: I think I have an idea who that would be.

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Speaker 3: I didn't involve christ Anne.

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Speaker 2: Yes, So are you intentionally ghosting her?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, all cards on the table, it's not

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Speaker 3: She's not like bad or anything like that. I'm not gonna,

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Speaker 3: you know, throw shade at her. But here's the thing, like, uh,

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Speaker 3: the date. But Christanne lives with her ex. Oh yeah

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Speaker 3: she I don't know if she told you that part.

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Speaker 3: She currently went their ex power to take her home

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Speaker 3: because apparently he's also like jealous even though he's her ex,

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Speaker 3: you know, And now there's an X and like a

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Speaker 3: I don't know, it feels like it's a game or

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Speaker 4: If you knew that before the date, Let's just say

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Speaker 3: No, because you're living with somebody you dated. And I

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Speaker 3: It's just like there's like a lot of stuff, stuff

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Speaker 3: Like he didn't want me to drop her off? Did she?

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Speaker 4: I get where Jake is coming from though, because you

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Speaker 4: So maybe maybe we just got to find out like

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Speaker 3: That was the issue, Like, the issue is that she

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Speaker 3: but then you know, there's just like a lot of

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Speaker 3: about like another guy who gets jealous, and it's just

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Speaker 2: I get that. Yeah that makes sense, Jake. Why don't

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Speaker 2: you just talk to her about it? She's on the

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Speaker 3: Oh is she on the phone right now?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: She is?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 3: Did she hear everything?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 3: Well yeah that was the issue, and it was kind

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Speaker 3: of and I don't think it's like a small issue, honestly.

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Speaker 3: It just was like a lot for me to you know,

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Speaker 3: learn really fast, and it just it we're on my end.

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Speaker 3: It's really it just complicates things unnecessarily.

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Speaker 1: Well, I wish you'd just said something rather than just

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Speaker 3: I mean, like I get that it's.

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Speaker 1: A weird living with him, but it's totally just out

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Speaker 1: of a need to save money. Like we're friends, we're

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Speaker 3: Know that it's not forever. What is forever?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 3: Like, how like months years?

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Speaker 3: I mean, so two things, Like one, I really think

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I'm interested in you. I feel like we had a

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Speaker 3: I mean, a couple of months isn't that bad because

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I get that. I mean, I'll move my

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Speaker 1: I just I really really had a great time with you,

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Speaker 2: Wow. Willing to move for you? Yeahs would you like

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Speaker 2: to go on another day with chris Anne. We'll pay

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Christiana, I'm kind of blown away that you would

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Speaker 2: To like fight her boyfriend or expert friends.

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Speaker 3: Avoid that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely. Well, congratulations, Christanne, you got another date.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: You do have to live with your parents now, but

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Speaker 2: you did get another date. Hey, man, you're saving money

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Speaker 1: My parents are great.

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