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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocatesla dot com. Bree is on the phone

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Speaker 1: today for a first date follow up and she's getting

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Speaker 1: ghosted by a dude named Jeff, and so we're about

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Speaker 1: to see if we can get another date and find

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Speaker 1: out why she was ghosted by calling him in a second.

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Speaker 1: But first let's find out about the date. Brie, how

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Speaker 1: long has it been since you heard from Jeff?

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Speaker 2: I have not heard from him in four days for

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Speaker 2: a very long date.

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Speaker 1: When did you last talk to I mean, like, what

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Speaker 1: was your last interaction with him?

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Speaker 2: Like, so it was our date with our last interaction,

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Speaker 2: I've not heard from him since the date, and I'm

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Speaker 2: not sure what happened.

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Speaker 1: Did you reach out to him since?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, I'm starting to look a little bit crazy.

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Speaker 1: So you guys, okay, fair, well, let's talk about the day.

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Speaker 1: How did it go?

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Speaker 2: Okay? So we met on Hinge. He ticks all of

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Speaker 2: my boxes. It was a great first date. So he

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Speaker 2: basically picked everything out. He has his favorite neighborhood spots.

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Speaker 2: So we went to this really really nice Italian restaurant

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Speaker 2: and love of the Italian food was really thoughtful. He

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Speaker 2: asked me before we went what my favorite food was,

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Speaker 2: so we had that in common, which was really cool.

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Speaker 2: And then we went to another little cute spot to

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Speaker 2: get some drinks and there was a tooth box there,

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Speaker 2: which I thought was pretty cool, and he gave me

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Speaker 2: money so I could pick out my favorite songs. I

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Speaker 2: thought it was very thoughtful. Yeah, like just really low key, sweet, sweet,

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Speaker 2: thoughtful date. And we sat next to each other and

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Speaker 2: we sang like my favorite songs and uh like, we

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Speaker 2: accidentally brushed elbows a couple of times. It was like

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Speaker 2: the best date that I've ever been on. So I'm

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Speaker 2: kind of confused. We had a lot in common, like

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Speaker 2: we talked about sunny movies, you like, like our childhood.

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Speaker 2: I was telling him I was interested in self a

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Speaker 2: dancing and he said he was like open to going

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Speaker 2: because I was trying to test the waters because pee,

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Speaker 2: we'd be you know, interested in the mother hang. We

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Speaker 2: both are mediocre cooks. There was just like a lot

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Speaker 2: of commonalities and laughter and just I thought it was

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Speaker 2: good vibes and then I don't know, I thought it

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Speaker 2: was perfect, like yeah, we closed down the bar and

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Speaker 2: then Ki walked me home and then we kissed and

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Speaker 2: I thought it was magic. And then I have not

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Speaker 2: heard from him since, so I don't know. I've been

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Speaker 2: We texted that night and that was fine, but then

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Speaker 2: I tried to keep texting to like, you know, are

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Speaker 2: you going to the salta Cross? We're gonna hang out?

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Speaker 2: How is your day? How is work?

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Speaker 1: Any of that. I've got nothing, any idea of why

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Speaker 1: he's ghost to you at all.

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Speaker 2: My friends have a prediction. Okay, so I talk a lot.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if she's noticed. They think maybe I

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Speaker 2: over did. I was talking about like pillar talk and

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Speaker 2: intimacy and like, I don't know. Maybe they think I

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Speaker 2: just I was too hardcore for flirting. I came, I'm

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Speaker 2: too strong with Hey, let's go salt the dancing. I'm

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Speaker 2: looking too far into it. I don't know. They're thinking

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Speaker 2: I did maybe too much flirting or too much like

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Speaker 2: where are we going with it?

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Speaker 3: The next steps?

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Speaker 2: How do you feel about this or that?

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Speaker 1: Maybe when your elbows brushed? Did you guys have long

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Speaker 1: sleeves on bare elbows?

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Speaker 2: I rolled my sleeves up. He did not.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's why we thought you're a little risky going

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Speaker 1: in bare elbows like that. Skin to skin. Well, we'll

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Speaker 1: see if we can figure it out for you. We'll

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Speaker 1: play a song come back, and then call him and

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Speaker 1: see what tell us why he's ghosting you and hopefully

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Speaker 1: get you another date. Okay, all right, we'll get your

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Speaker 1: first day follow up next. Right in the middle of

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Speaker 1: your first date follow up, if you're just joining us

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Speaker 1: and Bree is on the phone and she's getting ghosted

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Speaker 1: by a dude named Jeff, So we're about to call

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Speaker 1: him and see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting

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Speaker 1: her and maybe get her another date. But before we

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Speaker 1: do that, Brie, why don't you catch everybody up on

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Speaker 1: your situation?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Because name is Jeff met On Hinge, best date

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Speaker 2: of my life, very thoughtful, very kind. Now has been

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Speaker 2: ghosting me for four days. My friends think it's because

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Speaker 2: maybe over shit, Maybe I like came on too strong.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I must have been what it was? All right, Well,

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Speaker 1: are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 2: Yes? Please?

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Speaker 1: All right? Here we go hello him a speak to Jeff. Please, uh,

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Speaker 1: je Jeff, how are you? My name is Jewbel and

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Speaker 1: I host the radio show. It's called the Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 1: Hi Jeff, the whole show's here. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 1: Good. How are you?

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Speaker 3: What do I owe the honor?

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Speaker 1: Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 3: Once or twice?

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Speaker 1: We do a segment on the show it's called the

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Speaker 1: first Date follow up. So that's where if you go

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Speaker 1: out on a date with somebody and end up ghosting them,

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Speaker 1: that person can have us get you on the phone

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Speaker 1: to ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an

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Speaker 1: email about you, sucka. You need to be very nice coaching,

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Speaker 1: but we got an email about you.

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Speaker 3: I think I sho where this is going?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: About about Kaylen No, I'm sorry, her name is Breus.

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Speaker 1: You're busy, Jeff, never mind that? Okay, and I heard it,

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Speaker 1: but okay.

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Speaker 3: So I'm going to give you a short answer. Relied

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Speaker 3: to me. He's a liar about what about her age?

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Speaker 3: I mean she was. I liked her. I liked her

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Speaker 4: So I went and you know, I did the the

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Speaker 4: proverbial scouting technique where you going on you know, social

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Speaker 4: app that she was thirty three.

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Speaker 3: I'm thirty years old. Turns out she's thirty eight? What

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Speaker 3: and yeah, yeah, kind of like comes with me for

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Speaker 4: I was like, well, we had a lot in common,

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Speaker 4: we shared a lot of stuff, we had it. I

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Speaker 4: had a great day. I thought we had a good time.

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Speaker 4: But I just don't do well with liars. How do

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Speaker 4: you know she was lying about her age?

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Speaker 3: Well her because her birthday on her on her social

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Speaker 1: Okay, and then you asked her her real birthday or

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Speaker 1: something like how'd you find out the real birthday? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: It shows on apps like how old they are on

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 1: But then so she said she's hany.

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Speaker 3: It said she was very great.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so it said she was. But then you saw

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Speaker 1: her birthdate on what.

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Speaker 3: On her social media? On her face?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Oh okay, So you didn't ask her about that.

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Speaker 4: Well, I didn't really need to ask her anything. I mean,

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Speaker 4: she already lied to me. She's gonna lie to me again.

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Speaker 3: What do you ask? You don't suppose to have a

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Speaker 3: cool woman her age? Right?

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Speaker 1: I mean, maybe it's like an accident. Maybe it was

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Speaker 1: like a typo. All of a sudden, you put in

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Speaker 1: I just feel like, does it matter how old she is? Though? Like,

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Speaker 1: does is that really what bothers you?

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Speaker 4: No, don't get it twisted. It's not about her age, okay,

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Speaker 4: It's about the fact that she was. She wasn't a forecoming.

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Speaker 4: It's about I've had my own pass experience that some

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Speaker 4: So it's it's just kind of a deal breaker for me,

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Speaker 1: So we spiral a little bit. That makes sense. Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: thanks for telling us, Jeff, I appreciate that.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Also, Bri is on the phone. She's been listening to

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Speaker 3: Oh oh, okay.

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Speaker 1: Three.

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Speaker 2: Jess. Yet the age on hinge is not correct. However,

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Speaker 2: you would not have met me if I didn't fudge

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Speaker 2: the number a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Oh, so you know you did.

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Speaker 2: Okay, there's so many it's not people normally don't bump

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Speaker 1: I think it's safe to assume that anytime you go

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Speaker 2: He should have asked me. You didn't even ask me.

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Speaker 2: You just assumed that I'm like a big wire because

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean, honestly, that should have been one of

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Speaker 3: Me know that by the way, you know, maybe it

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Speaker 4: A shock to me had I heard it from your

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Speaker 2: Okay, I understand that my intention was never to not

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Speaker 4: So have you lied to me about anything else? Is

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Speaker 4: there anything else you want to come clean about?

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Speaker 2: Or No, that's that's it. I don't know why I

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Speaker 4: So, you know, we were listening there at the jukebox

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Speaker 4: and you play all these songs, is I mean Flowers

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Speaker 4: you know by Miley?

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Speaker 3: Is that not your favorite song is that? Are you

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Speaker 2: No, that is my favorite song. You saw me sing

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Speaker 2: to it loudly. That is definitely my favorite song.

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Speaker 4: I mean, do you did you like the food that

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Speaker 4: we had? Did you like my neighborhood spot there? Or

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Speaker 4: did you lie about that?

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Speaker 2: I hate food. I just enjoyed the food. It was great.

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Speaker 1: I think Jeff has some trust issues, and that's okay.

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Speaker 2: I'm not a liar. I'm not a bad person. I'm

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Speaker 2: not like trying to trick you. Nobody after thirty five,

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Speaker 2: like there's a cutoff on hinge. I don't know why.

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Speaker 2: So the pool small for dating options. So I just

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Speaker 2: made my net a little wider than I wouldn't have

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Speaker 2: met you otherwise. I really don't think it's a big deal.

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Speaker 2: I'm not lying about all sorts of weird things like

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Speaker 2: pasta and music.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: I was planning on telling you and then I just

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Speaker 2: got caught up. That's all.

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Speaker 1: Jeff, would you like to go on another date with Brie?

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for it, give it a chance and griller

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Speaker 1: in person. Right, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 4: Would love to go on another date with Bree, and

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Speaker 4: I would love to, you know, come clean about whatever

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Speaker 4: we need to come clean about.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, Brea, congratulations, you got another date.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna be questioned every movie you make, but hey,

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Speaker 1: more power to you.

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Speaker 2: Yep, I will be asking you who Caitlin is.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's right. I forgot about that.

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Speaker 3: You know what, it's trewe. I believe you.

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Speaker 1: Oh she had that in her back pocket.

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Speaker 2: Jubile's first day follow up