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<v Speaker 1>second Dato date the girl on the phone to do

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update today spent her first date in

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<v Speaker 1>my own personal hell oh chuck e cheese. No worse

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<v Speaker 1>than that for me. Really, They spend an afternoon together

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<v Speaker 1>at Target. I love Target, or you'd know you do.

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<v Speaker 1>But as a guy who've had many girlfriends who like

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<v Speaker 1>to wake him up Sunday morning when he's hungover and go,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go to Target and walk around for a while,

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<v Speaker 1>it hurts me to my core to have to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about this. Her name is Lucia. She's on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>right now, and apparently, yeah, for her first date, her

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<v Speaker 1>and this guy went to Target. Lucia, how you doing,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good? How are you? Oh? My god? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>like go on your date and then come back with

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<v Speaker 1>the best curtains and that candle that you didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>that you needed when you love No, that's not what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why it takes seventeen hours to go there have

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<v Speaker 1>such good stuff, Lucia. How does one go on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date to Target? Anyway? Well, in my situation, the

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<v Speaker 1>guy's name is Terence. I met him at a work

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<v Speaker 1>function and he asked me out and I said yes.

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<v Speaker 1>So I waited a few days and hit him up

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<v Speaker 1>and said, Hey, I'm going to Target. Do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to come? And he said he yes. That's impressive because

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<v Speaker 1>you would side. We ever like, ah, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>super busy today. Maybe we go to dinner or something sometime. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, you know, dinner, you know, pressure, It

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<v Speaker 1>comes to dinner and it's like then you gotta think

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<v Speaker 1>what are you going to talk about? And he's the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing. Well, how was the date at Target? I

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<v Speaker 1>thought the date went really really well. We had a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of fun. We looked at quote and then I

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<v Speaker 1>suggested that we go to the movies, which was next door. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you turned it into like a legit date. You didn't

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<v Speaker 1>just go shopping for a half hour. You guys did

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<v Speaker 1>the movie too. Well, that's what I do. I invite

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<v Speaker 1>a guy to Target. If I like him enough, then

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we'll continue after a Target, go see a movie.

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<v Speaker 1>You said, this is what I do. Does that mean

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<v Speaker 1>you take all of your dates to Target? Yes? Really?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, well, I've never heard of anybody taking a

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<v Speaker 1>date to Target. Ever. Well, when you're dating someone, you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to find out what you have in common, and

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<v Speaker 1>when you go to a restaurant it takes about hour.

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<v Speaker 1>It takes much longer. So if you go to Target,

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<v Speaker 1>you can figure that out and like sixteen minutes. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess yeah, you could tell what kind of stuff they

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<v Speaker 1>want to see, where they want to shop, what kind

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<v Speaker 1>of clothes they like. You all that. That's what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling you. I think it's awesome. If someone doesn't like Target,

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<v Speaker 1>then you know right away it's not going to work.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, there's a lot of opportunity for good

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<v Speaker 1>conversation starters, right exactly. You see things that spark your interest.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey do you have this? And you out I'll say, oh, funny,

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<v Speaker 1>sorry I burnt something on using that iron, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean people some people meet at Starbucks to see

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<v Speaker 1>if the conversation is over coffee, you just like to

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<v Speaker 1>do it over Massimo or whatever. So did you guys

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<v Speaker 1>end him going to the movie. No, he said that

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<v Speaker 1>he had to go because he didn't have any time. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>so he wasn't feeling it then, Well I believed him,

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<v Speaker 1>But then when I hit him up a few days later,

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<v Speaker 1>he never responded. So he hasn't said anything to you

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<v Speaker 1>since your Target experience. No, did he seem bored or

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<v Speaker 1>did he seem fully engaged in having fun? I know

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<v Speaker 1>when we got to the DVD section, we had a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of laughs there. I don't know, I'm talking about

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<v Speaker 1>all the different kinds of movies you've seen. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was a good date. Do you think he

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was a date or he was just hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out with his new friend to Target? Well, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing. He asked me out, so I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like he knew it was a date. Yeah. Did he

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<v Speaker 1>ask you out to go somewhere and then you just

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<v Speaker 1>texted him and we're like, I'm about to go to

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<v Speaker 1>Target in an hour. You want to join me? Yes? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because that doesn't because if I were him, I'd be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't really want to date me. She just sort

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<v Speaker 1>of wants to be friends or something. But then he

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<v Speaker 1>could still say yes to the movie at the end, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, not necessarily, because I might think, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>is this my buddy, and now she wants to go

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<v Speaker 1>see a movie and we're gonna sit there and share popcorn,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe not even share popcorn. So you think that he

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<v Speaker 1>thinks that I just want to be friends. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. What possibility is that could be one

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<v Speaker 1>of the reasons why he's not calling you back. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I made it clear on my text messages that I'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out with him again, so I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really know how that would be the case. Okay, And

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<v Speaker 1>he said nothing back to you at all. Nothing. How

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<v Speaker 1>many times have you try to get a hold of him?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I don't want to, you know, stock him

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<v Speaker 1>and scare him off, but I mean a few times. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, call him and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. All right, Okay, thank you, hang

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<v Speaker 1>on looking jubil in the morning. We are actually learning

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<v Speaker 1>something from today's second date update, and that's that dating

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<v Speaker 1>has changed. No longer is it dinner. You should take

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<v Speaker 1>your first date to a department store. That's right. You

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<v Speaker 1>just walk around a place like Target, and you take

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<v Speaker 1>him over to the home furnishing sections and go, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>look some Martha Stewart collection towels, what do you think

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<v Speaker 1>about those? And then you see if they have similar interests.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what Lucia did on her first date, and apparently

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<v Speaker 1>that's what she's been doing for a lot of her

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<v Speaker 1>first dates. When a guy wants to go out with her,

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<v Speaker 1>she'll hit him up and be like, Hey, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to Target. They want to come with me? And if

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<v Speaker 1>they seem like they have a lot in common and

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<v Speaker 1>they like the same things at Target, then she'll be like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go to the movies or something after and continue

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<v Speaker 1>the date. If not, then she just splits and goes like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that guy's a jerk. And her most recent target date

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<v Speaker 1>is a guy named Terrence that she met at a

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<v Speaker 1>work function. They went and hung out at Target. She

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<v Speaker 1>really liked it. She invited him to the movies after

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<v Speaker 1>he said, oh, I gotta go, and he hasn't talked

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<v Speaker 1>to her ever since. All right, Lucia, are you ready

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<v Speaker 1>to call him and see why he's not getting back

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<v Speaker 1>to you. I'm ready, Lucia. Can I ask you what's

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<v Speaker 1>your success rate with the target test? Well, that's how

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<v Speaker 1>I met my last boyfriend. Okay, all right, Well I'm

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<v Speaker 1>about to dial Terrence's phone number. See if we get

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<v Speaker 1>him on the phone and find out why he's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back. Okay, okay, here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Terrence please? Terrence? Hey, Terrence? How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Sorry, from what Brooke and Jewil in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a radio show. Okay, okay, how are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand why are you calling me? I'm calling

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<v Speaker 1>you because you recently went out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners and they're wondering why you're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling them back. So you're doing a show about it. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a segment we do on our show called the

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<v Speaker 1>second Date Update. You recently went on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>a girl named Lucia. Okay, Well, Lucia emailed us and

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<v Speaker 1>told us about your little Target experience, and she says

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<v Speaker 1>that she's asked you out a few times after that,

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<v Speaker 1>and you just aren't responding to herself. She's wondering if

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't want to see her again, or she did

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<v Speaker 1>something wrong on your date. Well, I mean you call

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<v Speaker 1>a date like walking around Target and like shopping, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just like getting stop by the way I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>point out. I told her how weird it sounds to

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<v Speaker 1>take somebody on a date to Target. Yeah, but if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't like a person, why are you going to

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<v Speaker 1>agree to go hang out with him at Target? Like

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<v Speaker 1>you liked her at the beginning of this, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean yeah, and she's like cool and she's really cute,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, which is like, I mean, I'm like a

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<v Speaker 1>really simple dude. I'm you know, I'm down to hang

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<v Speaker 1>out at Target. I just didn't really know what school was,

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<v Speaker 1>what the deal was. You know. We're like walking, she's

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<v Speaker 1>like shopping, you know, like she got like a towel

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<v Speaker 1>set and toothpaste and like toilet paper, you know, just

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<v Speaker 1>like she's like shopping, right, Okay, and I got like

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<v Speaker 1>some Twizzlers because I love Twizzlers and they have them there,

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<v Speaker 1>which is great. They have everything totally. But we're like

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<v Speaker 1>in the checkout line, right, and I'm like behind her

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<v Speaker 1>and she's running all her stuff and it comes out

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<v Speaker 1>to like ninety six dollars. The checkout person who like

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<v Speaker 1>tells her the total, and she turns and looks at

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<v Speaker 1>me and she says, are you gonna get this? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>She had you buy her stuff at Target? You know

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<v Speaker 1>what to do? What did you do? I paid for it?

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<v Speaker 1>You paid for her stuff at Target? I mean, well

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I was like what, I didn't know if

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<v Speaker 1>we were on a date. I didn't like I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she's gonna give me cash, you know, like she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have any or like paying, like say, I'll write

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<v Speaker 1>you a check or i'll pay Like what when she

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<v Speaker 1>first Okay, so when she turned to you and said

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<v Speaker 1>are you going to pay for this? What was your

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<v Speaker 1>first reaction to her? Because I would have laughed and

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<v Speaker 1>been like no, I just like we're in line, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like they're the people behind us. So I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of just panicked and I gave the checkout lady my

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<v Speaker 1>card and she didn't offer to reimburse you at any point,

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<v Speaker 1>like I forgot my credit card, I'll pay you back

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<v Speaker 1>later type of situation. I don't even know if she

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<v Speaker 1>said thank you really, So you feel like she used

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<v Speaker 1>you to buy her groceries or something. I don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>like she used me. She totally used honestly, Like if

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<v Speaker 1>that's how she is, it was a pretty cheap lesson,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. I'm glad that I learned

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<v Speaker 1>it at the start. Yeah, she says, she really likes you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the thing. Would you like me if I bought

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<v Speaker 1>you your grocery? Yeah, I guess you're right. I would.

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<v Speaker 1>I would really appreciate that. Maybe you should. You and

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<v Speaker 1>I should hang out sometimes. Is you like doing that

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<v Speaker 1>for people? Jarens So I also need to let you

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<v Speaker 1>know that Lucia is actually on the other line listening

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<v Speaker 1>to this conversation. No way, yes, yes I am. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so confused. What's going on right now? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>understand anything. What are you confused about? You made me

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<v Speaker 1>buy your groceries? Well, I thought we were on a

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<v Speaker 1>date and you were a gentleman, and everybody knows on

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<v Speaker 1>a first date, the gentleman pays. Are you they pay, Lucia?

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<v Speaker 1>They don't normally pay for your groceries at Target? Yes

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<v Speaker 1>they do. That's how I found my last boyfriend, and

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<v Speaker 1>other guys don't seem to have a problem. It just

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you're using men to just pay for your lifet. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a first date. He should have paid, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he would have paid the same amount for dinner. We

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<v Speaker 1>just got towld and stuff. But that's the thing on

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<v Speaker 1>a date, like you both do something together, like you

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<v Speaker 1>and you both have is we did? And this is

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<v Speaker 1>different because I'm just buying yourself. Didn't we spend time

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<v Speaker 1>together like that was part of the date. We had

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<v Speaker 1>fun together. We spent time. That's what you do. And

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<v Speaker 1>I shared stories with you, see sharing? I shared and

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<v Speaker 1>the guy pays on a first date? Are you joking

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<v Speaker 1>with this right now? Look? I have taken plenty of

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<v Speaker 1>guys to target and they don't seem to have an issue. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't have an issue because you probably never hear

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<v Speaker 1>from them again. No, they're just different. You're cheap and

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<v Speaker 1>they're not. I mean, this is what I'm up a

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<v Speaker 1>good No, No, I don't think she's a nut job.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm what I'm This is what happens. This is what

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<v Speaker 1>has worked for me in the past. And I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>I genuinely thought he was a nice guy. Okay, Natalie,

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<v Speaker 1>I was wrong. Yeah. Not only that, but you're the

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<v Speaker 1>one that asked him out. So even if you guys

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<v Speaker 1>were going to dinner, you should have been the one paid.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's kind of the general rule. Right. Well, No,

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<v Speaker 1>technically he asked me out on the first date, okay, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and then happened to be going to Target, and you

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<v Speaker 1>made that date Target, and you thought he should have

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<v Speaker 1>been a gentleman and paid for your first date at

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<v Speaker 1>Target exactly, so I'm completely innocent in all this. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it was the first date he should have paid, ye, Lucia, Lucia,

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<v Speaker 1>you're exactly right, and I'm sorry that he's overreacting about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, you're welcome, and I'm sorry she's going to

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<v Speaker 1>take you seriously. She should take me seriously, Lucia reacting. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>he is right, Lucia, but would you like to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him again? Though? We'll pay for a second

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<v Speaker 1>date wherever you want to go Walmart. Even before I

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<v Speaker 1>would have said yes, but not now. Really no, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not interested in going out with someone who doesn't know

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<v Speaker 1>proper etiquette for our first seat. And I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>completely justified, Lucia. Okay, thank you, you're welcome. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go out with him, but you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean for participating. I wouldn't mind to gift cards.

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<v Speaker 1>You want the dinner even though you're not getting a

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<v Speaker 1>second day. Well, this has been very stressful. It has

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<v Speaker 1>been Lucia. No, Lucia, you're right. This has been stressful

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<v Speaker 1>for you, and he was kind of a jerk about

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing. I'm sorry, Terence, but you were he was,

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<v Speaker 1>So you know what, I'm gonna put you on hold

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'm gonna get you a bunch of gift cards. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're welcome. Hang on the phone, Okay, Okay, love you guys. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>you are not taking things better. That girl is nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to do more second date updates with her.

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<v Speaker 1>I know we're going to get more broken Jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning,