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Speaker 1: But as a guy who've had many girlfriends who like

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Speaker 1: That's why it takes seventeen hours to go there have

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Speaker 1: such good stuff, Lucia. How does one go on a

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Speaker 1: first date to Target? Anyway? Well, in my situation, the

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Speaker 1: whole thing. Well, how was the date at Target? I

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Speaker 1: you take all of your dates to Target? Yes? Really?

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Speaker 1: I mean, well, I've never heard of anybody taking a

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Speaker 1: conversation starters, right exactly. You see things that spark your interest.

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Speaker 1: has changed. No longer is it dinner. You should take

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Speaker 1: your first date to a department store. That's right. You

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Speaker 1: the Morning. Sorry, from what Brooke and Jewil in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand why are you calling me? I'm calling

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Speaker 1: second Date Update. You recently went on a date with

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Speaker 1: a girl named Lucia. Okay, Well, Lucia emailed us and

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Speaker 1: something wrong on your date. Well, I mean you call

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Speaker 1: That's the thing. Would you like me if I bought

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Speaker 1: I would really appreciate that. Maybe you should. You and

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Speaker 1: I shared stories with you, see sharing? I shared and

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Speaker 1: they don't have an issue because you probably never hear

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Speaker 1: from them again. No, they're just different. You're cheap and

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Speaker 1: good No, No, I don't think she's a nut job.

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Speaker 1: I'm what I'm This is what happens. This is what

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Speaker 1: I genuinely thought he was a nice guy. Okay, Natalie,

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Speaker 1: I was wrong. Yeah. Not only that, but you're the

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Speaker 1: I mean that's kind of the general rule. Right. Well, No,

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Speaker 1: Target exactly, so I'm completely innocent in all this. I

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Speaker 1: mean it was the first date he should have paid, ye, Lucia, Lucia,

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Speaker 1: you're exactly right, and I'm sorry that he's overreacting about that.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, you're welcome, and I'm sorry she's going to

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Speaker 1: take you seriously. She should take me seriously, Lucia reacting. Yes,

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Speaker 1: he is right, Lucia, but would you like to go

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Speaker 1: completely justified, Lucia. Okay, thank you, you're welcome. Well, I

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Speaker 1: I mean for participating. I wouldn't mind to gift cards.

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Speaker 1: second day. Well, this has been very stressful. It has

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Speaker 1: been Lucia. No, Lucia, you're right. This has been stressful

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Speaker 1: the whole thing. I'm sorry, Terence, but you were he was,

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Speaker 1: So you know what, I'm gonna put you on hold

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Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna get you a bunch of gift cards. Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're welcome. Hang on the phone, Okay, Okay, love you guys. Dude,

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Speaker 1: you are not taking things better. That girl is nothing.

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Speaker 1: I just want to do more second date updates with her.

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Speaker 1: I know we're going to get more broken Jubil in

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Speaker 1: the morning,