WEBVTT - Forever Hold Your Flatulate

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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<v Speaker 1>and the Black Effect Network Talk Talk Talk.

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<v Speaker 2>We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who

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<v Speaker 2>talks back.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a

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<v Speaker 1>new episode and We Talk Back, a show dedicated to

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<v Speaker 1>you Dreamers. And Chaser's just your co host, AJ Howiday.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up?

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<v Speaker 2>Tam Damn?

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<v Speaker 1>How your foot?

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<v Speaker 2>Girl? Y'all? Please pray for me if you ever laughed

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<v Speaker 2>at any of my jokes on this motherfucker show, I

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<v Speaker 2>need you to lift me up in prayer tonight when

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<v Speaker 2>you hear this show. Please in the name of Jesus,

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<v Speaker 2>Baby girl, been going through it?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's rough out here, I can imagine.

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<v Speaker 2>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>The limbs are important.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes they are. And you know what, first before I

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<v Speaker 2>before I unpack on it? Everybody listening as well as.

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<v Speaker 1>The first can I unpack on you? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>If you if you don't want to be unpacked on this,

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<v Speaker 2>just fast forward a little bit. AJ. How you doing? First?

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<v Speaker 1>Shit, I'm good, bitch. The only thing I'm struggling is

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<v Speaker 1>not to eat.

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<v Speaker 2>That.

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<v Speaker 1>You had two salmon patties already this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I ate a motherfucking thing, because I listen, just getting

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<v Speaker 2>dressed takes forever right now. Taking them cleaning my body

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<v Speaker 2>and putting on clothes just takes forever. So I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you talked to me during our meeting yesterday. You could

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<v Speaker 2>hear it in my voice that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was depleted.

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<v Speaker 2>My spirit was low. So I was like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna go get a massage. I'm gonna take myself

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<v Speaker 2>to a spa and I'm just gonna get me a massage.

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<v Speaker 2>I ain't got no fucking money, but I'm still gonna

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<v Speaker 2>treat myself. Fuckerod. So I went to the spy, had

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<v Speaker 2>a massage, laid by the pool, had here a glass

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<v Speaker 2>of champagne, and I still was like, hmm, I'm still

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<v Speaker 2>not happy. I'm still I'm waiting, like I went to

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<v Speaker 2>the ritz. So I'm sitting by the door, waiting on

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<v Speaker 2>my uber because I can't drive right now. So I'm

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<v Speaker 2>waiting on my uber, sitting on my scooter, and these

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<v Speaker 2>white men come in with their golf clubs. Looks like

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<v Speaker 2>they had just come back from golfing and it's raining,

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<v Speaker 2>and one of them says to me, hey, do you

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<v Speaker 2>guys got coffee in here.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh shit, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Said, I don't mother fucking know.

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<v Speaker 1>How you standing there with a boot? You think I

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<v Speaker 1>work here? Sir?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like he was like, well, I'm sure. He was like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>in my defense, you're standing by the door and you're black.

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<v Speaker 2>So yo, see how I got it confunied.

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<v Speaker 1>I literally just saw a post on Instagram that said, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>what is that? Make it? Make it normal? Let's normalize

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<v Speaker 1>randomly asking random white people if they work here.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna start doing it, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to start doing it, and I'm gonna start

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<v Speaker 1>like locking my door quick when a white person walked past.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just start doing all the ship they do this

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<v Speaker 1>racism right quick, for real, blatant.

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<v Speaker 2>Next the hotel, I'll just gonna walk up to a

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<v Speaker 2>white man, excuse me, do y'all have coffee here?

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<v Speaker 1>I would just leave my bag by what they asked.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I don't mother fucking know a plush

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<v Speaker 1>card by them?

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<v Speaker 2>So all right, Like my attitude was already stink, but

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<v Speaker 2>now my attitude is really stink because I do not

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<v Speaker 2>fucking work here. So then my uber comes right and

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<v Speaker 2>there's a I see this black man sitting inside and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like he gonna get out and help me. I

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<v Speaker 2>hope he get out and help me. If he don't,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not giving him five stars. Right. So he's looking.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, uh, He's like, you need help, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, yes, please, And so he gets he

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<v Speaker 2>opens the door and then he puts two crutches out

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<v Speaker 2>the door, and then he stands up and he's on crutches.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, no, no, it's okay. It's okay. You don't

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<v Speaker 2>have to help me out. See if I can find

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<v Speaker 2>someone to from the inside that can help. He's like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>it's okay. I'm used to it now. And he hops

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<v Speaker 2>around the car and I see he has one leg.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I got one leg, y'all. He was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>used to it. It's fine. Just passed me your scooter.

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<v Speaker 2>Go ahead, get in the car and make yourself comfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>It's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, oh my god, did he have his

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<v Speaker 1>driving leg though? Yeah, he had to drive a leg, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>at least. So he gets in the car. Gratitude is

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<v Speaker 1>y'all grateful? Shit was so fucked up.

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<v Speaker 2>So he gets in the car and he asked me

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<v Speaker 2>what happened to me? And I told him about it,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I was like, what happened to your leg?

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<v Speaker 2>And he said he lost his leg twenty five years

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<v Speaker 2>ago to cancer. And I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so sorry. He was like, you're sorry. I just

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<v Speaker 2>told you I beat twenty cancer twenty five years ago

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<v Speaker 2>and you're telling me you're sorry. You need to be

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<v Speaker 2>happy for me, yeah, man, see, And I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>that's the energy I need to have right now. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, thank you so much for picking me

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<v Speaker 2>up and thank you for this message that I needed

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<v Speaker 2>right now about being grateful and being you know, just

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<v Speaker 2>happy with what I have. So thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 2>So the best part of my massage was the lesson

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<v Speaker 2>I got on the way back to my friend's house

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<v Speaker 2>to see.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that be God all day long? Mm hm, you

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<v Speaker 1>see you feeling some type of way. Yep, it's always worse, right.

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<v Speaker 2>So then when I got up this morning to go

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<v Speaker 2>to work, I was like, you know what, it ain't

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<v Speaker 2>that fucking bad period, because I do this ship with

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<v Speaker 2>a smile on my face. So I say that to

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<v Speaker 2>all of y'all who's sitting there with whatever is the

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<v Speaker 2>equivalent of my foot being broken in your life? Ain't

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<v Speaker 2>that bad baby girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Even if you're broke financially, you're just in between blessings.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not really like broke broke broke as a state

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<v Speaker 1>of mind, right that I'm a whole millionaire out here, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>a millionaire fillionaire and I'm six foot ten, Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>don't run. God damn, we ain't talking about no weekends,

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<v Speaker 1>no nothing. I ain't do shitting nonetheless, for real, what

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<v Speaker 1>did I do this? I probably I stopped at my

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<v Speaker 1>mom's house that saying, went and picked my bicycle up

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<v Speaker 1>because I plan on it. I planned on riding bike.

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<v Speaker 1>And at the time I got the bike, I'm like.

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<v Speaker 2>It's raining. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I took it to the car wash while it was

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<v Speaker 1>on bike rack on the back of the car, and

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<v Speaker 1>I like just washed the car with the bike. The

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<v Speaker 1>bike's so fucking dusty. So I'm like, I really haven't

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<v Speaker 1>ridden my bike in a year, and I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>a new bike. Man, I'm about to start to go

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<v Speaker 1>fund me to get me this damn two thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>Bid I'm not gonna start to go fund me to

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<v Speaker 2>get Listen, y'all, y'all, sister only showed me Uber money.

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<v Speaker 2>Uber like uber and everywhere is eating my pockets alive. Yo,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm about to start driving with my left foot. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>about to try.

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<v Speaker 1>You can drive with the foot?

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<v Speaker 2>Is?

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<v Speaker 1>It?

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<v Speaker 2>Just can't? It's big. This leg feels like a transformer

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<v Speaker 2>with this thing on it. Like, first of all, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>my friend son keep on he keeps on grabbing my

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<v Speaker 2>foot and staring me and my face.

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<v Speaker 1>Like like, what's up with that? Your kids are innocent?

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<v Speaker 2>No, he know what the he doing. He grab it

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<v Speaker 2>and looked me in my eyes intensely.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, he might be a podiatris my ex and son. Ever,

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<v Speaker 1>I met the little boy like one was two and

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<v Speaker 1>one was no one and two when I met them, right, So, now,

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<v Speaker 1>when he turned about two or three years old, he

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<v Speaker 1>loved feet. I got pictures and videos of him just

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<v Speaker 1>randomly walking up on me and rubbing my feet and

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<v Speaker 1>watching TV at the same time, like some real like

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<v Speaker 1>weirdo shit like mom be having you rubbing her feet

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<v Speaker 1>and some shit. So now he got even bigger, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what you want to be when you get older?

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<v Speaker 1>A foot doctor?

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<v Speaker 2>Shit?

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<v Speaker 1>This thing about it turn to fetish fetish? I said,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a pedietrist.

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<v Speaker 2>Baby.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like Okay, I want to be a podiatrist.

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<v Speaker 2>Sweet. That's sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, y'all. Okay, let's get into stupid internet news.

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<v Speaker 1>This week, right before bed news flash, did He got

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<v Speaker 1>arrested by the Feds? Okay, came out probably like nine

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<v Speaker 1>o'clock in the evening. Maybe I saw a video with

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<v Speaker 1>him walking through New York and people like this, how

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<v Speaker 1>you walk through New York and he's talking like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's how you walk with in tient I had that.

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<v Speaker 1>I bet you he didn't know he was going to

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<v Speaker 1>jail that day because apparently they they were supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>arrest him today and they actually did it sooner based

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<v Speaker 1>on whatever evidence or whatever. The fans come for you jah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I heard that this district has a ninety nine

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<v Speaker 1>percent conviction rate.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually when the fans come, they got all the information

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<v Speaker 1>they need. So last week, What's What's the Dawn? From

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<v Speaker 1>Danny Kane? She came out with a lawsuit also against

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<v Speaker 1>did He Richards yep yep, accusing him of abuse, also

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<v Speaker 1>being a witness to Cassie's abuse. She also named other

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<v Speaker 1>people that were involved as well or not involved but

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<v Speaker 1>witnessed what happened to Cassie and other people. So I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, did he I I guess based on the

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that they met A fine found in his home

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<v Speaker 1>when they rated it last year. Was that last year?

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<v Speaker 2>This year they said it was a bunch of baby

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<v Speaker 2>oil in there, Bottles and bottles and bottles of baby oil.

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<v Speaker 1>For real, shut up. He might have stolen shipment. That's

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<v Speaker 1>probably why they after a baby oil. Okay. But CNN

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<v Speaker 1>reports that music mogul Seandtycombs, who has faced a parade

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<v Speaker 1>of sexual assault lawsuits and federal human trafficking probe in

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<v Speaker 1>the last year, has been arrested. The producer attorney tells

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<v Speaker 1>CNN Combs was arrested at Monday night at the Park

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<v Speaker 1>Hyde Hotel in Manhattan and taken into custody by Homeland

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<v Speaker 1>Security investigations. This does say investigations but investigators, okay. A

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<v Speaker 1>source familiar with negotiations for his surrender told CNN the

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<v Speaker 1>charges and details of the case against Combs are unclear,

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<v Speaker 1>so allegedly they're supposed to be releasing the charges this morning,

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<v Speaker 1>so we'll see what they by the time this episode

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<v Speaker 1>comes out. Well know exactly, but the rest was made

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<v Speaker 1>based on an indictment that is expected to be unsealed

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<v Speaker 1>Tuesday morning, According to a statement from Damon Williams, us

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<v Speaker 1>attorney for the Southern District of New your So did

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<v Speaker 1>he in trouble?

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<v Speaker 2>Man in trouble all year last year? He's just having

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<v Speaker 2>a rough go at it, And I mean, what can

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<v Speaker 2>you do? You know you made those choices. Now you

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<v Speaker 2>got suff the consequences that should always catch up with you.

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<v Speaker 1>That'd be my thing. When I look at the comments,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's a lot of times it be a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of black men. Right, we got to make sure our

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<v Speaker 1>porch is clean. There should be no evidence of you

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<v Speaker 1>of any wrongdoing, right, and then I'll support you. But

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<v Speaker 1>if you actually did the things that you're you're being

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<v Speaker 1>accused of, like how do you? Oh, white men do it?

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<v Speaker 1>They don't do this. We already know we're gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>treated worse than them when we in the right or

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<v Speaker 1>in the wrong. So let's just not give them nothing

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<v Speaker 1>to fuck with us about. How about that? You know?

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<v Speaker 2>And when they be like listen, it ain't just what

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<v Speaker 2>they'd be like, free my cousin, little pistol stotom No.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to say yes, because he's been terrorizing the community,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's not act like we don't have bad seeds

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<v Speaker 1>in our community. Most of the people abused in a

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<v Speaker 1>black community are by people they know, not by outside outsiders.

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<v Speaker 1>This cousins, uncles, homeboys, like for real, come on, man,

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<v Speaker 1>like this nigga is he's bought a lot of terrorists, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and he thought he could get get away with it

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<v Speaker 1>because he was because he was getting away hanging out

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<v Speaker 1>with these people who probably engage in the same type

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<v Speaker 1>of activity.

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<v Speaker 2>But you can thought he had enough money to keep

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<v Speaker 2>him above the law exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>And you don't you know because instead of y'all niggas

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<v Speaker 1>want to knock all this shit over and start a

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<v Speaker 1>new y'all just want proximity to whiteness. That's what I feel.

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<v Speaker 2>You gotta remember. They will stop you at the door

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<v Speaker 2>and ask you, hey, do you know where the car

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<v Speaker 2>fee is?

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<v Speaker 1>It'll be Diddy and the fucking ritch nigga acts. Diddy

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<v Speaker 1>just jumped out of Lambo.

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<v Speaker 2>Are we gonna talk about this demure shit?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sick of that shit. And I really don't like

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<v Speaker 1>to hear the word because I think it's witchcraft. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a trigger word for something happening.

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<v Speaker 2>People are naming their kids demure, but I mean it

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<v Speaker 2>is kind of like a catchy little name though, right, No,

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<v Speaker 2>that is lem Me Moore.

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<v Speaker 1>You let niggas learn one new word, they run that

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<v Speaker 1>ship in the whole, I mean, being Charleston, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know who taught these niggas discombobulated.

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<v Speaker 2>Dog, that's their favorite shit.

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<v Speaker 1>When I was living in Saint Louis, the words everybody

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<v Speaker 1>called onto there was honore, like you know, just like

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<v Speaker 1>like yes, girl, y'all shut the fuck up. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not here for that nor diabolical.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, I'm just glad people learning new words, so

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<v Speaker 2>just keep it up. Let's get a new one every month.

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<v Speaker 1>It's this lady I Fall. I forgot her Instagram, but

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<v Speaker 1>she gives words daily.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah at Auntie Bev.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I like. I like that And I have to

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<v Speaker 1>apps on my phone because I be trying to do

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<v Speaker 1>other ship than social media.

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<v Speaker 2>So I got you.

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<v Speaker 1>I suggests books and new words.

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<v Speaker 2>Instead of just like getting on your social media and

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<v Speaker 2>finding people to teach you a new word. Re Read, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>read books.

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<v Speaker 1>Read your fucking books, because when I read books, I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely write words down, like that, and I like words,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, like a word like damn

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<v Speaker 1>imna put that in my vocabulary.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what? My one of my new favorite was

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<v Speaker 2>not a new word for me, but one of my

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<v Speaker 2>words that I love in perpetuity. I love it, girl,

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<v Speaker 2>what I love closing out messages in perpetuity because forever

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<v Speaker 2>if we beef it, it's yeah. So I love telling

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<v Speaker 2>in perpetuity.

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<v Speaker 1>Whenever y'all feel out a contract, look for that word.

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<v Speaker 1>They might own your ass in perpetuity, right Aria, Uh

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<v Speaker 1>oh shit, I'm must skip back the ditty.

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<v Speaker 2>Hiy woman, let's talk about that? Should you send me

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<v Speaker 2>over the weekend?

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<v Speaker 1>Girl? Okay? Duvall posted this on the stage, So imagine men, guys, fellas. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>you FaceTime your old lady y'all talking while she's in

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<v Speaker 1>the shower, and the next thing you know, her gay

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<v Speaker 1>homeboy gets in the shower with.

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<v Speaker 2>Her because they're washing and washing itself.

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<v Speaker 1>Because they're allegedly in a rush, right, and so they

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<v Speaker 1>just want to take a quick shower together to get

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<v Speaker 1>dressed and get out the door together, right, And she

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<v Speaker 1>flips on you like you tripping because.

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<v Speaker 2>He flips on her first, like what the fuck going

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<v Speaker 2>on right his man? Like, you're tripping, We're just getting ready. No,

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<v Speaker 2>that is insane. No, first of all, I'm not getting

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<v Speaker 2>showered with none of my friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, what is that show? Ain't even big enough of that?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, it's colding the bag. I'm not getting back there.

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<v Speaker 1>So ain't no way you expect any man to be

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<v Speaker 1>okay with that ship dog, be with your homeboy.

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<v Speaker 2>I do not believe that they not having sex.

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<v Speaker 1>They definitely fucking that. He's definitely pretending to be gay

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<v Speaker 1>so she can have her other nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>Around right exactly. That not that I think about it,

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<v Speaker 2>that is a thing. But I don't think she knew

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<v Speaker 2>he was about to hop in the shower just yet.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know they had to cut them off guard

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<v Speaker 2>because ain't no way you was in there and wanted

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<v Speaker 2>your man to see your naked side nigga in the bag,

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<v Speaker 2>because that's that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Even your naked gay homeboy. Like, if you're a man,

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<v Speaker 1>it's heterosexual. Why would he want to see your gay

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<v Speaker 1>homeboy in a shower with you?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>You? Or was that a test? Was she testing her boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>Right to see you know, trying to join in her

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<v Speaker 2>for a little train.

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<v Speaker 1>What the fuck is the train gonna be on?

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<v Speaker 2>Im about to say, is that a train?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? The train on the boyfriend on the You never know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the humans are wild man.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmmm, speaking of wild humans, Nicki, Nicki, Minaja's mom

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<v Speaker 2>just came out with a lingery.

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<v Speaker 1>Linger lingery liel Carol Mirage. Okay she okay, I tried

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<v Speaker 1>to google and see how old she was. Just listen,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, nobody give a damn about age. And she's

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful older woman. She has to be at least

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<v Speaker 1>fifty five. She couldn't be in her sixties at least, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Nick, at least fifty five.

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<v Speaker 1>Is allegedly, Uh, let's see what this just said.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, let me I just have something to

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<v Speaker 2>say about that. While you look up her age, it's

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of you R and b R and b bitches,

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<v Speaker 2>rap bitches and actresses. And for some reason, I keep

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<v Speaker 2>getting older every year and we keep getting closer in age,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just don't see how the fuck it.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just about to say, she's forty one.

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<v Speaker 2>How how is la lah forty three?

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<v Speaker 1>Bitch?

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<v Speaker 2>Ain't no way, ain't no way, La Lah forty three?

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<v Speaker 1>No La La is supposed to fifty.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah she she's well over forty five at the least.

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<v Speaker 2>Ain't no way me and her that we went to

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<v Speaker 2>high school together, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>Grown up? When I was a little girl, we.

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<v Speaker 1>Were still in high school. Like you was working a

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<v Speaker 1>full time job on TV, befo, you was nineteen on there,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what you want us to believe, eighteen eighteen working

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<v Speaker 1>at MTV.

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<v Speaker 2>Like Big getting Big Chicks.

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<v Speaker 1>Com playing with us, cop playing on my top.

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<v Speaker 2>But listen, I ain't mad at you because I'm doing

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<v Speaker 2>the same shit. Y'all don't know how old I am.

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<v Speaker 1>Shit, you know I be snitching on your ass. I

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<v Speaker 1>know you every cheer, every chanse you because don't lie

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<v Speaker 1>in front of me because I don't know how to lie.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel comfortable telling trace about listen, just mind

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<v Speaker 1>your business. Yeah you're gonna lie. But then when you

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<v Speaker 1>say shit like yeah, I'm as thirty and a forty

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<v Speaker 1>year old bitch, and what.

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<v Speaker 2>Identify as with you identify it?

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<v Speaker 1>I just throwing me under the bus. Look, I told

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<v Speaker 1>one of my old managers, don't how you just throwing

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<v Speaker 1>me under the bus like that? He was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't throw under the bus. I merely pulled your ankle, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>You be pulling my ankle, okay, while you're telling people

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<v Speaker 1>you're young Earth. That's fine, however you feel shit.

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<v Speaker 2>So I can't wait to see what Nicki minaj because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm assuming like this lingerie will be for a woman

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<v Speaker 2>of a certain age or maybe it's all inclusive.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, the price is from sixty five to ninety five dollars,

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<v Speaker 1>so I want to see if any granny peas paying

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<v Speaker 1>that price on them fixed incomes right.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, they're gonna put on the moon move and call

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<v Speaker 2>it a day. That's what the niggas like with your ass,

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<v Speaker 2>just moving free up under the day exactly. You know

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<v Speaker 2>from Walmart for seven.

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<v Speaker 1>It's that girl. What's that girl on Instagram who she'd

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<v Speaker 1>be going viral getting on her husband with the fucking

0:20:47.920 --> 0:20:49.320
<v Speaker 1>move moves on. I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>That booty be wavy shaking all over the place.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I want to talk about this week?

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<v Speaker 1>What bad peeves and annoying habits like within relationships. They

0:21:02.560 --> 0:21:05.560
<v Speaker 1>don't have to just be any intimate relationships, but just

0:21:05.600 --> 0:21:09.399
<v Speaker 1>shit that get on your fucking nerves, bitch, because I

0:21:09.520 --> 0:21:14.600
<v Speaker 1>really be in my head anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, you got more. You got more to me because

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<v Speaker 2>you are actively living it so well.

0:21:18.760 --> 0:21:22.760
<v Speaker 1>It don't necessarily have to be in a relationship, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. It could be just day to

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<v Speaker 1>day shit that you see that people do that get

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<v Speaker 1>on your nerves.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, I got those.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll be right back, y'all. All right, y'all, let's get

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<v Speaker 1>into it. Things that annoy you like in relationship. It

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have to Just like I said, it doesn't have

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<v Speaker 1>to just be in your relationship, just day to day shit,

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<v Speaker 1>even things that you might hide from other people that

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<v Speaker 1>you don't necessarily you know, want people to know about

0:21:56.040 --> 0:21:57.919
<v Speaker 1>that you do like things that you know might be

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<v Speaker 1>a little weird. And yes, cohabitating, cohabitating with a man

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<v Speaker 1>with anybody else is not the easiest thing in life,

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<v Speaker 1>because I think as Americans, like, we just all like

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<v Speaker 1>our own priva, our own privacy. We want to just

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<v Speaker 1>be independent by ourselves, like just struggling for no fucking reason.

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<v Speaker 1>Peer up, bitch, it's a recession anyway. Some of the

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<v Speaker 1>things that annoy me having to cohabitate with a man.

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<v Speaker 1>And I sent Tammy a video just the other day

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<v Speaker 1>because apparently all women have the same experience. It was

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<v Speaker 1>the caption on it. All you saw was like a

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<v Speaker 1>hallway bathroom light on right, and then the caption was

0:22:41.560 --> 0:22:46.280
<v Speaker 1>like your husband up five o'clock in the morning getting

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<v Speaker 1>ready for work and all you hear.

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<v Speaker 2>Is just not in this snorting.

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<v Speaker 1>And the one time Tammy stayed at my house, my

0:22:58.720 --> 0:23:02.199
<v Speaker 1>boyfriend was in the other bed, other bathroom, hacking up,

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<v Speaker 1>And this is every morning. It's not as bad now

0:23:05.200 --> 0:23:08.560
<v Speaker 1>because I think sometimes people have to be consciously made

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<v Speaker 1>aware of the things that they do. They may just

0:23:10.480 --> 0:23:12.719
<v Speaker 1>it might just be normal to them, right, but they

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<v Speaker 1>don't see how it's like kind of disturbing the other people.

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<v Speaker 1>And plus I made that they go to the motherfucking

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<v Speaker 1>doctor because bitch, why you got so much mucus in

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<v Speaker 1>your body?

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<v Speaker 2>I'll check her from the other room. Is he okay? No?

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<v Speaker 1>You said, is that you? And you know I told him,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, Tanty, can hear you hacking up the other

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<v Speaker 1>morning because it literally sounds like the person is in

0:23:35.280 --> 0:23:38.720
<v Speaker 1>the room with you mm hmm. So the thing was

0:23:38.760 --> 0:23:41.680
<v Speaker 1>like this man is doing it and acting like nobody else,

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<v Speaker 1>like they live alone. When you live with somebody else,

0:23:45.320 --> 0:23:48.600
<v Speaker 1>you have to really be consciously aware of the things

0:23:48.600 --> 0:23:49.120
<v Speaker 1>that you But.

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<v Speaker 2>What can you do, How can you make that shit

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<v Speaker 2>sound any cuter?

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<v Speaker 1>Just to the doctor and figure out why you hacking

0:23:54.600 --> 0:23:57.439
<v Speaker 1>up so much mucus. Yeah, so he had gotten some

0:23:57.520 --> 0:23:59.440
<v Speaker 1>like cough medicine and shit and kind of helped cleared

0:23:59.520 --> 0:24:02.040
<v Speaker 1>up the mucas in his chest because he was literally

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get loogie's up every fucking morning. It's like

0:24:04.720 --> 0:24:08.600
<v Speaker 1>laying down, It's like settling in your chest now first

0:24:08.600 --> 0:24:10.520
<v Speaker 1>thing in the morning, like you sneeze in, coughing and

0:24:10.560 --> 0:24:14.760
<v Speaker 1>hacking up that that's definitely signs of some type of

0:24:14.760 --> 0:24:15.320
<v Speaker 1>health issue.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you what might be signs of a

0:24:19.040 --> 0:24:21.080
<v Speaker 2>health issue. They used to get on my nerves when

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<v Speaker 2>my ex boyfriend used to go to the gym and

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<v Speaker 2>he would come back in. I could smell his nuts

0:24:28.359 --> 0:24:34.080
<v Speaker 2>walking through dank. Like why your basketball shorts smell that?

0:24:34.359 --> 0:24:37.000
<v Speaker 1>They don't wash them. They don't wash them. They'll wear

0:24:37.040 --> 0:24:39.240
<v Speaker 1>them several times before they wash them. So the crotch

0:24:39.320 --> 0:24:45.080
<v Speaker 1>area of the Jean Mars basketball shorts smell like death death.

0:24:48.280 --> 0:24:50.480
<v Speaker 2>I'd be like, that don't make no sense right there.

0:24:50.600 --> 0:24:53.440
<v Speaker 2>That's used to take them off in the garage. Don't

0:24:53.440 --> 0:24:57.360
<v Speaker 2>come in the house with that shit. That shit stinks disgusting.

0:24:58.240 --> 0:24:59.879
<v Speaker 2>You just got them air dry and put them back

0:25:00.240 --> 0:25:01.359
<v Speaker 2>and reignite the funk.

0:25:01.520 --> 0:25:03.560
<v Speaker 1>Yes, or they just still have him in his bag

0:25:03.640 --> 0:25:05.400
<v Speaker 1>and they pull them out at the gym and put

0:25:05.440 --> 0:25:09.679
<v Speaker 1>them on. They just keep him in. I saw. I

0:25:09.680 --> 0:25:12.560
<v Speaker 1>think this was like PBS or something, But they literally

0:25:12.600 --> 0:25:16.000
<v Speaker 1>did like a bacteria test of a pair of men's jeans,

0:25:16.320 --> 0:25:20.639
<v Speaker 1>and it was so much bacteria in the crotch area

0:25:20.720 --> 0:25:22.959
<v Speaker 1>because they don't often.

0:25:23.400 --> 0:25:26.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, now, how you expect me to want to put

0:25:26.200 --> 0:25:28.720
<v Speaker 2>something that could make that smell in my mouth? I

0:25:28.760 --> 0:25:29.200
<v Speaker 2>don't know.

0:25:30.000 --> 0:25:31.600
<v Speaker 1>I guess they might think to see any thing about

0:25:31.600 --> 0:25:32.480
<v Speaker 1>some of these cuccies.

0:25:32.520 --> 0:25:37.440
<v Speaker 2>I he all right, y'all, don't tell the wife. Is

0:25:37.800 --> 0:25:42.280
<v Speaker 2>this one of the things I'll be doing sometimes when

0:25:42.320 --> 0:25:45.359
<v Speaker 2>I when I sit down there, I just smell the

0:25:45.400 --> 0:25:46.200
<v Speaker 2>crotch in my pats.

0:25:51.359 --> 0:25:53.240
<v Speaker 1>I just feel like, are you even human if you

0:25:53.280 --> 0:25:56.280
<v Speaker 1>don't smell yourself like you should be the first person.

0:25:56.359 --> 0:25:58.639
<v Speaker 1>Let's that's how I know, Like this is who Gucci be.

0:25:58.760 --> 0:26:04.040
<v Speaker 1>Stink like just habitual stink couchies. Y'all just disrespectful because

0:26:04.080 --> 0:26:08.240
<v Speaker 1>you smell like Kuchie before anybody else. Everything on your

0:26:08.240 --> 0:26:09.720
<v Speaker 1>body is right under your nose.

0:26:10.760 --> 0:26:13.760
<v Speaker 2>Cut it out. You know that right today?

0:26:14.080 --> 0:26:16.879
<v Speaker 1>Yes, you knew you was giving him some Stinkkuchie. He

0:26:16.960 --> 0:26:18.880
<v Speaker 1>might have had to unpack it a little bit once

0:26:18.920 --> 0:26:22.520
<v Speaker 1>he got up in there. And the little fuman because

0:26:22.560 --> 0:26:26.080
<v Speaker 1>I've heard Niggins say that like they didn't know. I'm like,

0:26:26.119 --> 0:26:28.680
<v Speaker 1>why'd you so fuck? I didn't know what stink until

0:26:28.680 --> 0:26:30.960
<v Speaker 1>we got going, right.

0:26:31.119 --> 0:26:35.119
<v Speaker 2>It's not that not that balance off just a little

0:26:35.119 --> 0:26:41.600
<v Speaker 2>bit more now that pH is, she might not if

0:26:41.680 --> 0:26:44.119
<v Speaker 2>he if he didn't smell until later, she maybe have

0:26:44.280 --> 0:26:45.040
<v Speaker 2>not known neither.

0:26:45.760 --> 0:26:48.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't think because other people don't do those smell itself.

0:26:49.720 --> 0:26:50.720
<v Speaker 2>I definitely be like.

0:26:53.480 --> 0:26:55.920
<v Speaker 1>Gucci, you never swiped the crack of your ass a

0:26:55.960 --> 0:27:01.600
<v Speaker 1>little bit. I put the ordering back there.

0:27:01.760 --> 0:27:04.399
<v Speaker 2>Actually, Oh your buddy.

0:27:04.440 --> 0:27:07.200
<v Speaker 1>And between my breasts these titties, big man, and listen.

0:27:07.040 --> 0:27:09.120
<v Speaker 2>I can't. I don't have no titties for the girl.

0:27:09.160 --> 0:27:11.040
<v Speaker 2>These titties touch you're sweat.

0:27:11.200 --> 0:27:13.720
<v Speaker 1>They be sweat, and if nothing else in my body

0:27:13.760 --> 0:27:17.959
<v Speaker 1>be musty, these titties, these titties, and my nigga likes

0:27:17.960 --> 0:27:20.639
<v Speaker 1>smelling them, I be so embarrassed. I'm like dog, you

0:27:20.880 --> 0:27:26.320
<v Speaker 1>always be violating me like as an individual, Like there,

0:27:26.480 --> 0:27:28.719
<v Speaker 1>you're still an individual in a relationship, right, so you

0:27:28.760 --> 0:27:32.040
<v Speaker 1>want some things to still be personal a little bit.

0:27:32.080 --> 0:27:33.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't need you to know everything about me.

0:27:34.080 --> 0:27:34.880
<v Speaker 2>I watch a.

0:27:34.840 --> 0:27:38.280
<v Speaker 1>Lot because I know these titties could get out of control.

0:27:38.680 --> 0:27:40.920
<v Speaker 1>But he likes to catch me as soon as I

0:27:41.040 --> 0:27:42.600
<v Speaker 1>come in the house, as soon as I come from

0:27:42.640 --> 0:27:44.080
<v Speaker 1>the gym and shit, so he could smell me.

0:27:44.560 --> 0:27:46.959
<v Speaker 2>You let him see you without your wig? Yes, like

0:27:47.440 --> 0:27:51.800
<v Speaker 2>a choice. Some women do not let their man see

0:27:51.840 --> 0:27:53.840
<v Speaker 2>them without their weave or wig ever.

0:27:54.720 --> 0:27:57.320
<v Speaker 1>Ever, Yeah, I got a homeboy who like his bitch

0:27:57.400 --> 0:28:00.560
<v Speaker 1>literally makes him leave the house or like just she

0:28:00.720 --> 0:28:03.159
<v Speaker 1>just sneakingly like goes and get her hair done like

0:28:03.280 --> 0:28:06.119
<v Speaker 1>he never sees her, take her weave out, take the

0:28:06.160 --> 0:28:08.240
<v Speaker 1>wig off, like you got to it. When you're living

0:28:08.320 --> 0:28:10.560
<v Speaker 1>with somebody, ain't nowhere around it. I'd be around here

0:28:10.600 --> 0:28:12.919
<v Speaker 1>looking like Celia. If I can't be ugly at the house,

0:28:13.520 --> 0:28:18.359
<v Speaker 1>where can I be ugly?

0:28:18.880 --> 0:28:21.320
<v Speaker 2>Really? Dating? This is me, This is me and all

0:28:21.359 --> 0:28:22.159
<v Speaker 2>my essences, and he.

0:28:22.240 --> 0:28:24.879
<v Speaker 1>Be loving it. So that makes me more confident about

0:28:24.920 --> 0:28:30.160
<v Speaker 1>looking ugly at the house. Right, my nigga like it.

0:28:29.400 --> 0:28:31.560
<v Speaker 2>Right, and that's all that matter. And there are women

0:28:31.600 --> 0:28:34.360
<v Speaker 2>who won't let one of my clients that her man

0:28:34.400 --> 0:28:39.440
<v Speaker 2>don't even know her hair ain't hers.

0:28:37.600 --> 0:28:41.480
<v Speaker 1>Shame, so he don't touch it. I guess it's already

0:28:41.480 --> 0:28:43.760
<v Speaker 1>a rule that you don't touch black women's hair. So

0:28:44.480 --> 0:28:46.120
<v Speaker 1>nigga just keep his hands to itself.

0:28:46.680 --> 0:28:50.600
<v Speaker 2>Mm, he do not know. But she put that curly

0:28:50.640 --> 0:28:53.360
<v Speaker 2>hair and it bleeds with her real hair, real nice wow.

0:28:55.640 --> 0:28:59.000
<v Speaker 1>And I think I think that black men in particular,

0:28:59.080 --> 0:29:03.040
<v Speaker 1>they really love like that curly loose hair. We probably

0:29:03.080 --> 0:29:07.480
<v Speaker 1>have our men if all black women had curly hair.

0:29:08.040 --> 0:29:09.800
<v Speaker 1>Men love here. They like to be able to put

0:29:09.800 --> 0:29:12.479
<v Speaker 1>their hands in it. And they can't stand that they

0:29:12.520 --> 0:29:15.200
<v Speaker 1>can't touch our hair right like they want to give

0:29:15.240 --> 0:29:18.160
<v Speaker 1>you a passionate movie kiss and put their fingers.

0:29:17.880 --> 0:29:22.000
<v Speaker 2>Hand on your nape and then you're gonna fall run

0:29:22.040 --> 0:29:23.640
<v Speaker 2>into these corn rows.

0:29:23.400 --> 0:29:27.080
<v Speaker 1>Corn rolls, combs, bands of shit going on.

0:29:28.400 --> 0:29:32.520
<v Speaker 2>It's a paper wrapped around a ponytail. Got this black

0:29:32.560 --> 0:29:34.600
<v Speaker 2>paper crunching on your goddamn here.

0:29:35.200 --> 0:29:38.320
<v Speaker 1>And the comb none came unraveled with the stitching like

0:29:38.360 --> 0:29:40.880
<v Speaker 1>that shit mighty in the finger. All type of shit

0:29:41.000 --> 0:29:43.240
<v Speaker 1>be going on in the back of these wigs and.

0:29:43.280 --> 0:29:48.800
<v Speaker 2>We yeah, sorry, sorry fellas.

0:29:48.480 --> 0:29:51.000
<v Speaker 1>So living with somebody. Also, I can't stand people who

0:29:51.160 --> 0:29:53.800
<v Speaker 1>just be leaving lights on excessively. And I can't stand

0:29:53.840 --> 0:29:57.680
<v Speaker 1>like people running water excessively. Whenever I leave my water

0:29:57.760 --> 0:30:01.480
<v Speaker 1>running or times I hear water, I just always think about,

0:30:01.840 --> 0:30:03.840
<v Speaker 1>like if I'm brushing my teeth and I like, I'm

0:30:03.880 --> 0:30:05.960
<v Speaker 1>just leaving the water run, immediately turn it off because

0:30:05.960 --> 0:30:08.560
<v Speaker 1>I consciously think about, like the people who don't have

0:30:08.640 --> 0:30:12.200
<v Speaker 1>running water so here, I am just being wasteful in it,

0:30:13.160 --> 0:30:14.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, So I always make sure I turn the

0:30:14.920 --> 0:30:17.280
<v Speaker 1>water off. I don't turn the shower on until I'm

0:30:17.320 --> 0:30:21.000
<v Speaker 1>about to get in. This motherfucker had a shower just running.

0:30:20.960 --> 0:30:22.200
<v Speaker 2>Running where you at?

0:30:22.360 --> 0:30:24.080
<v Speaker 1>Why are you in in this shower yet? And you

0:30:24.160 --> 0:30:26.760
<v Speaker 1>never understood that living in the house with your single

0:30:26.800 --> 0:30:28.960
<v Speaker 1>mama who had to pay all the goddamn bills until

0:30:29.040 --> 0:30:31.560
<v Speaker 1>you get that water building the mail as an adult,

0:30:32.000 --> 0:30:37.160
<v Speaker 1>I get that light building my home. No, I don't

0:30:37.160 --> 0:30:40.000
<v Speaker 1>think it's satty, it's wasteful, Like why why are you

0:30:40.080 --> 0:30:42.640
<v Speaker 1>just there's gonna be a day where here in America

0:30:43.000 --> 0:30:45.880
<v Speaker 1>right We're gonna be without lights for a long time.

0:30:47.280 --> 0:30:50.320
<v Speaker 1>Don't speak that girl, it's gonna happen, like, motherfucker exactly,

0:30:50.360 --> 0:30:52.720
<v Speaker 1>like she's gonna be She's sweet forever over here. We

0:30:52.840 --> 0:30:57.479
<v Speaker 1>gonna experience some ship we experience we never knew, so

0:30:57.640 --> 0:31:00.560
<v Speaker 1>dis prepared like that's how I mentally prepare for those things.

0:31:00.600 --> 0:31:03.840
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't even like artificial light for real, I

0:31:03.960 --> 0:31:07.080
<v Speaker 1>like sunlight. So first thing in the morning, I opened

0:31:07.120 --> 0:31:09.960
<v Speaker 1>all the windows. I don't really turn lights on like that.

0:31:10.000 --> 0:31:12.680
<v Speaker 1>I woke up this morning and the fucking lamp was stolen. Like,

0:31:13.080 --> 0:31:14.160
<v Speaker 1>turn the lights off.

0:31:15.680 --> 0:31:18.280
<v Speaker 2>Stop wasting it. Yeah, I agree with that. Don't waste

0:31:18.520 --> 0:31:21.560
<v Speaker 2>especially the water. Why are you just letting that water run?

0:31:22.880 --> 0:31:24.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't understand it. And then when I'm ready to

0:31:24.960 --> 0:31:26.720
<v Speaker 1>take a shower, ain't no damn hot water left.

0:31:26.760 --> 0:31:30.400
<v Speaker 2>The water left because that petty.

0:31:31.040 --> 0:31:32.640
<v Speaker 1>No, that's a pet peeve of mine.

0:31:33.760 --> 0:31:34.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm here for that.

0:31:34.640 --> 0:31:37.680
<v Speaker 1>Messiness is a pet peeve of mine. And See, there's

0:31:37.680 --> 0:31:41.520
<v Speaker 1>a difference between being messy and nasty and dirty, because

0:31:41.560 --> 0:31:45.600
<v Speaker 1>I could be messy myself leaving ship places, you know,

0:31:45.720 --> 0:31:47.760
<v Speaker 1>especially like if I'm getting ready to go out somewhere,

0:31:48.240 --> 0:31:50.520
<v Speaker 1>like I dread getting back home and got to put

0:31:50.520 --> 0:31:52.000
<v Speaker 1>all this shit up in the bathroom.

0:31:52.280 --> 0:31:56.880
<v Speaker 2>The makeup. Mm hmmm, h yeah.

0:31:56.200 --> 0:31:59.160
<v Speaker 1>I know that that I might be being petty with

0:31:59.160 --> 0:32:01.240
<v Speaker 1>the messy stuff because I could be messing myself. But

0:32:01.280 --> 0:32:04.360
<v Speaker 1>then I don't like other people's mess me neither.

0:32:04.800 --> 0:32:08.240
<v Speaker 2>That's the thing. I remember one time my friend she

0:32:08.440 --> 0:32:10.680
<v Speaker 2>was eating some food on my couch, which I don't mind,

0:32:10.680 --> 0:32:12.400
<v Speaker 2>you can sit on my couch and eat, but she

0:32:12.480 --> 0:32:15.320
<v Speaker 2>put my decorative pillow in her lap and use it

0:32:15.360 --> 0:32:19.320
<v Speaker 2>as a tray for her greasy ass whatever. I don't

0:32:19.320 --> 0:32:21.080
<v Speaker 2>even know if the box was greasy, but in my

0:32:21.160 --> 0:32:22.920
<v Speaker 2>head they had grease, all right.

0:32:23.360 --> 0:32:27.840
<v Speaker 1>I was like, does that to a whole street? Who

0:32:27.880 --> 0:32:28.240
<v Speaker 1>does that?

0:32:28.680 --> 0:32:30.800
<v Speaker 2>Like? Why are you using my pillow as a tray, bitch?

0:32:32.200 --> 0:32:33.880
<v Speaker 2>Put it in your lap or go to the table.

0:32:34.600 --> 0:32:37.640
<v Speaker 1>Now. One thing, now, however somebody treats her space is

0:32:37.680 --> 0:32:40.880
<v Speaker 1>how I'll probably tend to treat it. I'm not nasty, though,

0:32:40.920 --> 0:32:42.840
<v Speaker 1>so I'm really not about to be at nobody's house

0:32:42.880 --> 0:32:45.240
<v Speaker 1>that's nasty. But if I happen to be at a

0:32:45.360 --> 0:32:47.680
<v Speaker 1>nasty house, I'm still not gonna like throw trash on

0:32:47.760 --> 0:32:49.840
<v Speaker 1>the floor because they do. You know, I'm gonna be

0:32:49.840 --> 0:32:51.320
<v Speaker 1>trying to get the fuck up, But there as quick

0:32:51.320 --> 0:32:54.040
<v Speaker 1>as possible, but you know, generally, I try to treat

0:32:54.080 --> 0:32:56.880
<v Speaker 1>people's spaces how they treat it. So I would never

0:32:56.920 --> 0:32:59.640
<v Speaker 1>come to somebody's house that's like clean and just do

0:32:59.680 --> 0:33:00.920
<v Speaker 1>it the fuck I want to do in there.

0:33:02.240 --> 0:33:07.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but people will. But some people just subconsciously don't

0:33:07.160 --> 0:33:09.000
<v Speaker 2>realize that they're even doing it.

0:33:09.080 --> 0:33:11.479
<v Speaker 1>Is their upbringing, you know what I'm saying, Like, you

0:33:11.560 --> 0:33:13.560
<v Speaker 1>go to some people's house and check out that goddamn

0:33:13.600 --> 0:33:17.080
<v Speaker 1>bathroom like dog whenn't lie SIMMI clean as toilets molding there.

0:33:17.600 --> 0:33:20.600
<v Speaker 2>Right, it's black and it I gotta put my couchie

0:33:20.640 --> 0:33:25.920
<v Speaker 2>near it. Mm hmm. Okay. Another thing that I've been doing, y'all.

0:33:27.800 --> 0:33:31.320
<v Speaker 2>Don't tell nobody this. When I'm all right, it's kind

0:33:31.320 --> 0:33:35.000
<v Speaker 2>of gross. But when I'm on our period and I

0:33:35.040 --> 0:33:37.560
<v Speaker 2>have on a pad, sometimes I put like a little

0:33:37.560 --> 0:33:42.760
<v Speaker 2>bit of tissue between the pad and me because something

0:33:42.800 --> 0:33:44.320
<v Speaker 2>need to catch that before.

0:33:46.840 --> 0:33:49.320
<v Speaker 1>Just walk around with snails Like. I don't think men,

0:33:49.440 --> 0:33:52.400
<v Speaker 1>like somebody might think that's nasty, but I really think

0:33:52.440 --> 0:33:55.120
<v Speaker 1>that women probably do that more often than we.

0:33:55.320 --> 0:34:00.520
<v Speaker 2>I admitted it out loud, y'all. I do that sometimes

0:34:00.560 --> 0:34:02.080
<v Speaker 2>I've put a little a little.

0:34:01.960 --> 0:34:04.520
<v Speaker 1>Piece, yeah, because you just be walking around and you

0:34:04.640 --> 0:34:06.120
<v Speaker 1>just feel a snail drop.

0:34:08.239 --> 0:34:11.440
<v Speaker 2>It's it's so miserable.

0:34:14.080 --> 0:34:17.000
<v Speaker 1>I do need to make something that gets closer.

0:34:16.640 --> 0:34:21.399
<v Speaker 2>Closer, closer, yeah, to your vagina, like the men who

0:34:21.400 --> 0:34:24.520
<v Speaker 2>make the ship. We gave you tampons, bitch, put one

0:34:24.600 --> 0:34:27.040
<v Speaker 2>up there, but that's too close. I don't want it

0:34:27.080 --> 0:34:29.239
<v Speaker 2>in me. I just want it closer to me, So.

0:34:29.200 --> 0:34:31.680
<v Speaker 1>We don't want free fluing. So even when using like

0:34:31.719 --> 0:34:34.680
<v Speaker 1>those cups, because I use like the soft disc for

0:34:34.760 --> 0:34:37.960
<v Speaker 1>a while, but it's man, it's just tough to get

0:34:37.960 --> 0:34:41.800
<v Speaker 1>a position properly to where it's like especially heavy D yeah.

0:34:41.680 --> 0:34:44.279
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's catching all of it. And then also it's

0:34:44.360 --> 0:34:48.839
<v Speaker 2>just fucking disgusting to put that girl about hit the floor.

0:34:50.120 --> 0:34:55.640
<v Speaker 1>It's a crime scene dripping all everywhere too, like I care.

0:34:56.120 --> 0:34:57.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I can't do that. I did it for a

0:34:58.000 --> 0:35:00.879
<v Speaker 2>while and I just difficult, but I can't do it.

0:35:01.480 --> 0:35:04.880
<v Speaker 1>My period lasted a shorter time also. I realized that

0:35:04.920 --> 0:35:06.719
<v Speaker 1>because I had been using tampons for years, and then

0:35:06.760 --> 0:35:09.680
<v Speaker 1>when I finally stopped using tampons and just like using

0:35:09.719 --> 0:35:12.000
<v Speaker 1>paths and I started with the soft cups, like, my

0:35:12.120 --> 0:35:15.440
<v Speaker 1>period was much shorter because you litting everything free just

0:35:15.560 --> 0:35:20.600
<v Speaker 1>free flow, yeah, and less cramping all that shit. So

0:35:20.719 --> 0:35:21.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:35:22.080 --> 0:35:24.840
<v Speaker 2>Then I got some I got some pads that I

0:35:24.960 --> 0:35:27.200
<v Speaker 2>like because I'm trying to like be more conscious of

0:35:27.239 --> 0:35:29.280
<v Speaker 2>what I'm put next to my body and my body

0:35:29.280 --> 0:35:33.000
<v Speaker 2>and those things. So I got uh pads from what's

0:35:33.040 --> 0:35:34.959
<v Speaker 2>that name of that brand that just came out that's

0:35:35.000 --> 0:35:37.560
<v Speaker 2>not the body was honey pot. I bought some of

0:35:37.560 --> 0:35:41.680
<v Speaker 2>those pads something about cooling on it, right, and I

0:35:41.719 --> 0:35:44.439
<v Speaker 2>ain't think of it. And I put that pad on, bitch,

0:35:44.840 --> 0:35:49.400
<v Speaker 2>like I put vixed vapor. I was like, oh my god.

0:35:49.320 --> 0:35:55.960
<v Speaker 1>It's like the expeariment in there, I said, distance. I

0:35:56.120 --> 0:35:57.960
<v Speaker 1>like that actually, and you know, you get used to

0:35:58.040 --> 0:36:01.399
<v Speaker 1>it after a while. It doesn't like, it doesn't really

0:36:01.400 --> 0:36:03.400
<v Speaker 1>feel that crazy like the cooling sensation.

0:36:03.840 --> 0:36:06.120
<v Speaker 2>I ain't trying to put I'm cool.

0:36:07.600 --> 0:36:08.479
<v Speaker 1>I like it, man.

0:36:09.200 --> 0:36:11.680
<v Speaker 2>Somebody my friend, she's like, she liked it. That's why

0:36:11.719 --> 0:36:15.239
<v Speaker 2>she recommended to me get the cooling ones. No, y'all,

0:36:15.239 --> 0:36:18.080
<v Speaker 2>pussy's hot, y'all, pussy too hot, that's the problem.

0:36:18.360 --> 0:36:21.799
<v Speaker 1>Got that cereal pussy over there? What's it supposed to

0:36:21.800 --> 0:36:22.240
<v Speaker 1>be hot?

0:36:22.760 --> 0:36:25.160
<v Speaker 2>That's too high? Because I don't need that shit.

0:36:25.239 --> 0:36:25.399
<v Speaker 1>Her.

0:36:25.520 --> 0:36:29.520
<v Speaker 2>I ain't like it all right, Sorry, I went off

0:36:29.560 --> 0:36:30.160
<v Speaker 2>on the tangent.

0:36:30.600 --> 0:36:32.680
<v Speaker 1>You know what else I don't like. I don't like

0:36:32.760 --> 0:36:35.799
<v Speaker 1>when somebody when it and I feel like so. I

0:36:35.840 --> 0:36:38.480
<v Speaker 1>had an ex whenever he needed me to do something

0:36:38.520 --> 0:36:41.360
<v Speaker 1>for him, he would like either text, call, or like

0:36:41.400 --> 0:36:43.879
<v Speaker 1>if we face the face, it was always I need

0:36:43.920 --> 0:36:48.279
<v Speaker 1>you to such and such and such. You don't need

0:36:48.280 --> 0:36:52.520
<v Speaker 1>me to do ship now you don't ask me properly. Hey, babe,

0:36:52.600 --> 0:36:56.239
<v Speaker 1>can you such and such? Is it okay? Are you

0:36:56.280 --> 0:36:58.960
<v Speaker 1>able to do like something? Like? You have to properly

0:36:59.120 --> 0:37:02.239
<v Speaker 1>ask me to do otherwise I feel like, who the

0:37:02.360 --> 0:37:09.920
<v Speaker 1>fuck are you talking to? Like you don't need to

0:37:10.160 --> 0:37:10.680
<v Speaker 1>do anything.

0:37:11.760 --> 0:37:14.799
<v Speaker 2>I'm like that too, though I can admit that I

0:37:14.840 --> 0:37:19.120
<v Speaker 2>have been conscious. I've been actively reminding myself to say

0:37:19.200 --> 0:37:21.799
<v Speaker 2>please at the end of any command that I've made

0:37:21.840 --> 0:37:24.719
<v Speaker 2>to someone, because it comes off like a command, but

0:37:24.800 --> 0:37:27.960
<v Speaker 2>once you say please, it comes off as a request,

0:37:28.239 --> 0:37:31.239
<v Speaker 2>you know. So I'd be like, get that thing over

0:37:31.280 --> 0:37:34.600
<v Speaker 2>there for me, please, I throw that please on the

0:37:34.719 --> 0:37:37.080
<v Speaker 2>end real quick, because that is annoying.

0:37:37.920 --> 0:37:40.319
<v Speaker 1>So that it actually built up from working in a

0:37:40.360 --> 0:37:43.920
<v Speaker 1>corporate setting right and having a deal with different vendors

0:37:43.960 --> 0:37:47.160
<v Speaker 1>and white people. They be real passive aggressive, right, and

0:37:47.160 --> 0:37:51.799
<v Speaker 1>they be having these micro aggressions that they try to

0:37:52.000 --> 0:37:53.960
<v Speaker 1>take out on you whenever they fucking can. And I

0:37:54.000 --> 0:37:58.520
<v Speaker 1>remember a couple people who worked for the account I

0:37:58.600 --> 0:38:01.879
<v Speaker 1>was on. They would sending email else like that, Hey,

0:38:01.920 --> 0:38:03.640
<v Speaker 1>I need you to such and such and such. I'm

0:38:03.680 --> 0:38:06.440
<v Speaker 1>a grown person, and though we are a vendor for

0:38:06.560 --> 0:38:09.239
<v Speaker 1>your company, I make more money than you. Who the

0:38:09.280 --> 0:38:11.600
<v Speaker 1>fuck are you talking to? If you need me to

0:38:11.640 --> 0:38:13.600
<v Speaker 1>do anything? If I need you to do anything, there's

0:38:13.640 --> 0:38:16.719
<v Speaker 1>a way. There's email etiquette. So I knew that was

0:38:16.760 --> 0:38:21.600
<v Speaker 1>their way of trying to belittle me. Basically, I need

0:38:21.640 --> 0:38:23.120
<v Speaker 1>you to such and such, And that's how I feel

0:38:23.120 --> 0:38:25.200
<v Speaker 1>in a relationship when a man asked me, I need

0:38:25.239 --> 0:38:27.680
<v Speaker 1>you to such a I'm not your secretary. There's a

0:38:27.719 --> 0:38:30.000
<v Speaker 1>way to ask another grown person to do something for you,

0:38:30.640 --> 0:38:32.919
<v Speaker 1>because I'm not required to do any of the things

0:38:32.920 --> 0:38:38.280
<v Speaker 1>you're asking, So you have to ask nicely. So please, Yeah,

0:38:38.960 --> 0:38:40.000
<v Speaker 1>they don't want to say please.

0:38:40.880 --> 0:38:45.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't like when someone texts me what I'm saying

0:38:45.480 --> 0:38:46.160
<v Speaker 2>I love her.

0:38:47.560 --> 0:38:49.839
<v Speaker 1>I don't, I mean, I just I do. And then

0:38:49.880 --> 0:38:52.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, sometimes I try to consciously be aware of

0:38:52.200 --> 0:38:54.840
<v Speaker 1>that too, like, Hey, it is first thing, first message,

0:38:55.200 --> 0:38:57.359
<v Speaker 1>but you ain't the first person I talked to this morning.

0:38:57.360 --> 0:39:01.520
<v Speaker 1>So I'm just I know. We don't like that cause

0:39:01.520 --> 0:39:08.360
<v Speaker 1>you respond back good morning, bitch, and that's her patty,

0:39:08.800 --> 0:39:09.520
<v Speaker 1>good morning.

0:39:09.920 --> 0:39:12.399
<v Speaker 2>I will not answer nothing the fuck you asked me

0:39:12.600 --> 0:39:16.120
<v Speaker 2>good morning? Because did I sleep with you last night?

0:39:16.200 --> 0:39:16.480
<v Speaker 1>Bitch?

0:39:20.160 --> 0:39:24.440
<v Speaker 2>Niggas are oh niggas do that so much too? Wy

0:39:24.560 --> 0:39:26.160
<v Speaker 2>D don't wy d me?

0:39:26.600 --> 0:39:27.200
<v Speaker 1>And that's it?

0:39:28.200 --> 0:39:31.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and that's it. Uh uh you won't get no response.

0:39:31.719 --> 0:39:33.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't like somebody telling me good night and I

0:39:33.520 --> 0:39:37.560
<v Speaker 1>ain't talk to you all day? What? Why the fuck

0:39:37.600 --> 0:39:40.200
<v Speaker 1>are you text me at ten am good night? And

0:39:40.280 --> 0:39:41.840
<v Speaker 1>we hadn't spoken all day?

0:39:42.560 --> 0:39:42.840
<v Speaker 2>That's what?

0:39:42.960 --> 0:39:45.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, at ten o'clock at night? Yeah, okay, and you

0:39:45.760 --> 0:39:48.480
<v Speaker 1>haven't talked to me today? Why are you texting me

0:39:48.480 --> 0:39:48.879
<v Speaker 1>good night?

0:39:50.320 --> 0:39:50.920
<v Speaker 2>Bye? Bitch?

0:39:51.080 --> 0:39:54.240
<v Speaker 1>You a hope? Because what.

0:39:55.560 --> 0:39:57.640
<v Speaker 2>This? How I know I'm Auntie because when I get

0:39:57.640 --> 0:40:02.160
<v Speaker 2>a w y D text, I said a double WWJD.

0:40:03.040 --> 0:40:03.520
<v Speaker 1>Stupid?

0:40:04.040 --> 0:40:06.879
<v Speaker 2>What would Jesus do? Ignore you like he been doing.

0:40:08.760 --> 0:40:13.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't like overly clingy like I want you to

0:40:13.360 --> 0:40:16.200
<v Speaker 1>like me, but I only want you to like me

0:40:16.239 --> 0:40:19.200
<v Speaker 1>as much as I want you to like me, don't

0:40:19.280 --> 0:40:22.320
<v Speaker 1>like me too much? Get some of my fucking nerves,

0:40:22.440 --> 0:40:23.680
<v Speaker 1>Like why you like me that much?

0:40:24.480 --> 0:40:26.480
<v Speaker 2>Too soon? Like, don't ask me to move in with

0:40:26.560 --> 0:40:28.160
<v Speaker 2>you on the first date. That's too much.

0:40:28.280 --> 0:40:31.960
<v Speaker 1>Somebody's done that before. Yes, somebody's asked to move in

0:40:32.000 --> 0:40:33.719
<v Speaker 1>with me. I guess I just look like a lick.

0:40:33.920 --> 0:40:39.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure. Anytime a nigga asks me for money,

0:40:39.320 --> 0:40:41.000
<v Speaker 1>i'd be like, dog, do I look like a trick?

0:40:41.320 --> 0:40:44.440
<v Speaker 1>I literally ask niggas for money, Like why did you?

0:40:44.719 --> 0:40:46.680
<v Speaker 1>Why are you asking me for anything? And I gave

0:40:46.719 --> 0:40:49.759
<v Speaker 1>you a discount on this pussy. I require you to

0:40:49.800 --> 0:40:51.520
<v Speaker 1>do nothing because I want to fuck on you. But

0:40:51.600 --> 0:40:53.920
<v Speaker 1>if you want to fuck me, it's like you gotta

0:40:53.960 --> 0:41:01.560
<v Speaker 1>compensate me. How are you asking me for money that's correct?

0:41:02.600 --> 0:41:04.759
<v Speaker 1>Or to move into my house? I had a dude

0:41:04.800 --> 0:41:06.919
<v Speaker 1>like really, like stop talking to me because he said

0:41:06.960 --> 0:41:09.560
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't there for him when he needed me. I

0:41:09.600 --> 0:41:13.319
<v Speaker 1>had literally just met this nigga and he had like

0:41:13.360 --> 0:41:15.160
<v Speaker 1>a lot of life going on. He was not a

0:41:15.160 --> 0:41:17.160
<v Speaker 1>bum at all. He just had a lot of shit,

0:41:17.280 --> 0:41:20.520
<v Speaker 1>like personal shit going on, and his lease was coming

0:41:20.520 --> 0:41:21.920
<v Speaker 1>to an end. He really didn't want to get into

0:41:21.960 --> 0:41:24.759
<v Speaker 1>another lease before buying a house, and he asked to

0:41:24.880 --> 0:41:29.799
<v Speaker 1>move in with me. Now, you know, like i'd be

0:41:29.880 --> 0:41:32.160
<v Speaker 1>doing too much sometimes when I'm fucking sing, because I

0:41:32.200 --> 0:41:34.120
<v Speaker 1>just knew I had like other shit going on, so

0:41:34.200 --> 0:41:36.280
<v Speaker 1>like that means I have to be in a relationship

0:41:36.320 --> 0:41:38.600
<v Speaker 1>with this person if he moves in my house, because

0:41:38.680 --> 0:41:41.319
<v Speaker 1>how I'm gonna talk to these other niggas. So I

0:41:41.480 --> 0:41:43.440
<v Speaker 1>just you know, it was like, nah, like I'm not

0:41:43.480 --> 0:41:46.759
<v Speaker 1>comfortable with that, but I did still want to continue

0:41:46.800 --> 0:41:49.000
<v Speaker 1>a relationship with him. You just can't live with me,

0:41:50.480 --> 0:41:50.759
<v Speaker 1>and he.

0:41:50.760 --> 0:41:54.279
<v Speaker 2>Stopped talking to me, and he stopped talking to you. Yeah,

0:41:54.360 --> 0:41:58.560
<v Speaker 2>I don't like if I'm seeing a man and we

0:41:58.719 --> 0:42:01.400
<v Speaker 2>decided to get intimate and they don't want to use

0:42:01.400 --> 0:42:01.840
<v Speaker 2>a condom.

0:42:02.800 --> 0:42:04.759
<v Speaker 1>I had a nigga and not want to have sex

0:42:04.800 --> 0:42:08.240
<v Speaker 1>with me. And this was actually a friend. Likewise, yes,

0:42:08.400 --> 0:42:10.600
<v Speaker 1>he did not want to fuck me because I told

0:42:10.680 --> 0:42:12.600
<v Speaker 1>him he had to put a condom on, and you

0:42:12.640 --> 0:42:16.400
<v Speaker 1>know what he said, I know what the he said,

0:42:16.480 --> 0:42:19.280
<v Speaker 1>I know what the bitches I be fucking be doing.

0:42:20.520 --> 0:42:22.200
<v Speaker 1>How you know what, nigga?

0:42:22.840 --> 0:42:24.440
<v Speaker 2>First of all, how you know and how do you

0:42:24.480 --> 0:42:28.640
<v Speaker 2>think that's gonna turn me on? All these bitches wroth

0:42:29.080 --> 0:42:33.080
<v Speaker 2>you trust that you trust so much, Well, well in

0:42:33.120 --> 0:42:41.480
<v Speaker 2>that case, here goes this wrow pussy exactly exactly mm hmmm.

0:42:42.239 --> 0:42:44.279
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, like, we just never had sex.

0:42:44.320 --> 0:42:46.200
<v Speaker 1>That's still my friend though he's married and stuff now.

0:42:46.200 --> 0:42:49.440
<v Speaker 1>But what nigga, we was young as hell, Like.

0:42:49.520 --> 0:42:52.840
<v Speaker 2>I know what the bitches that I fucking be doing.

0:42:53.200 --> 0:42:57.480
<v Speaker 1>Right, boy, if you literally turn this pussy down, I

0:42:57.920 --> 0:43:00.759
<v Speaker 1>just think that his dick. That's how much he just

0:43:00.920 --> 0:43:03.799
<v Speaker 1>didn't use condoms, Like the dick wasn't working without it.

0:43:04.520 --> 0:43:07.560
<v Speaker 2>Right, I can't feel nothing. You ain't gonna feel nothing,

0:43:09.760 --> 0:43:13.799
<v Speaker 2>gonna feel nothing, not today but the inside of them

0:43:13.840 --> 0:43:19.560
<v Speaker 2>dirty jeans with all that bacteria.

0:43:20.120 --> 0:43:24.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't like double standards. I know they exist, but

0:43:24.400 --> 0:43:27.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't be liking like to have to argue with

0:43:27.719 --> 0:43:31.400
<v Speaker 1>a nigga about some double standard ship on either side.

0:43:31.600 --> 0:43:33.640
<v Speaker 1>Like this was an ongoing argument where somebody used to

0:43:33.640 --> 0:43:42.040
<v Speaker 1>talk to like when black men go with somebody outside

0:43:42.080 --> 0:43:44.560
<v Speaker 1>they race, versus like when black women do it. So

0:43:44.640 --> 0:43:48.160
<v Speaker 1>my argument was always black women hardly date outside their race.

0:43:48.200 --> 0:43:50.719
<v Speaker 1>What the fuck are you talking about? All black women

0:43:50.760 --> 0:43:52.560
<v Speaker 1>be dating white men for a come up? I'm like,

0:43:52.640 --> 0:43:55.680
<v Speaker 1>that's a fucking lie. Black men literally do that for

0:43:55.719 --> 0:43:56.400
<v Speaker 1>a come up.

0:43:57.600 --> 0:43:59.480
<v Speaker 2>Well, I think they both do it.

0:44:00.280 --> 0:44:02.760
<v Speaker 1>I think the black women that date white men usually

0:44:02.760 --> 0:44:05.680
<v Speaker 1>got their life together. They're usually like a type of

0:44:05.680 --> 0:44:13.440
<v Speaker 1>a certain type of black women. Right leave out No,

0:44:13.520 --> 0:44:16.400
<v Speaker 1>but those women be having a whole life together, you

0:44:16.440 --> 0:44:18.920
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, Like they're not really dependent on

0:44:19.000 --> 0:44:21.880
<v Speaker 1>that white man. Did you see I forgot these people?

0:44:21.920 --> 0:44:25.960
<v Speaker 1>It's Instagram, not Instagram, TikTok people. White girl, black woman,

0:44:26.400 --> 0:44:29.719
<v Speaker 1>white guy. And she was just acting like her white man,

0:44:29.800 --> 0:44:32.080
<v Speaker 1>white savor just had this whole life for her, right

0:44:32.680 --> 0:44:36.240
<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, And then it turned out she exposed them. Yeah,

0:44:36.280 --> 0:44:38.279
<v Speaker 1>like she had been taking care of him. Basically she

0:44:38.320 --> 0:44:41.480
<v Speaker 1>bought her own range rover all this shit. So white

0:44:41.560 --> 0:44:42.960
<v Speaker 1>daddies don't always had no money.

0:44:43.560 --> 0:44:45.560
<v Speaker 2>White women be going through the same shit that we

0:44:45.600 --> 0:44:48.600
<v Speaker 2>go through. Not even just got one, you just got

0:44:48.640 --> 0:44:51.759
<v Speaker 2>no one to talk to her. She's like, yeah, she

0:44:51.840 --> 0:44:53.960
<v Speaker 2>might not call him her baby daddy, but that's what

0:44:54.040 --> 0:44:54.480
<v Speaker 2>he is.

0:44:54.719 --> 0:44:58.200
<v Speaker 1>Yes, not even white women. So the girl who I

0:44:58.239 --> 0:45:02.800
<v Speaker 1>bought the cat from, she's iran mm hm bitch, same

0:45:03.200 --> 0:45:06.160
<v Speaker 1>shit because the day I picked the cat up, like

0:45:06.239 --> 0:45:09.600
<v Speaker 1>we had like a whole like conversation. Yeah, like I

0:45:09.640 --> 0:45:11.279
<v Speaker 1>was there for like two hours show we don't have

0:45:11.320 --> 0:45:14.560
<v Speaker 1>cry and everything. But she was like, I don't know

0:45:14.600 --> 0:45:16.919
<v Speaker 1>why I'm telling you these things. I haven't even told

0:45:16.960 --> 0:45:19.920
<v Speaker 1>my best friend. I'm like, girl, because I'm like a

0:45:19.920 --> 0:45:24.919
<v Speaker 1>whole Like, yeah, you could talk to me. So I'm

0:45:24.960 --> 0:45:27.000
<v Speaker 1>like yeah, Like people really think and even with the

0:45:27.000 --> 0:45:29.680
<v Speaker 1>community and how caddy women are period, people think that's

0:45:29.680 --> 0:45:33.480
<v Speaker 1>something associated with Black women. No, this is a woman thing.

0:45:33.840 --> 0:45:36.400
<v Speaker 1>And the things that women go through with men is

0:45:36.440 --> 0:45:40.200
<v Speaker 1>not exclusive to Black men either, like men from women,

0:45:40.480 --> 0:45:44.480
<v Speaker 1>all races is going through it. What they niggas, what

0:45:44.560 --> 0:45:47.160
<v Speaker 1>they missed the niggas okay because men are men.

0:45:48.400 --> 0:45:51.000
<v Speaker 2>Let me say this, I love a devil standard that's

0:45:51.040 --> 0:45:54.719
<v Speaker 2>in my favor, like what you could be one like

0:45:55.360 --> 0:45:57.680
<v Speaker 2>paying for shit period.

0:46:01.480 --> 0:46:03.600
<v Speaker 1>These nigga's tired of the girl. They tired of that

0:46:03.640 --> 0:46:04.120
<v Speaker 1>double sta.

0:46:05.080 --> 0:46:07.839
<v Speaker 2>Come to me talking about fifty fifty. That ship will

0:46:08.000 --> 0:46:11.200
<v Speaker 2>dry my pussy.

0:46:11.960 --> 0:46:14.480
<v Speaker 1>I told you I saw because of that ship.

0:46:15.160 --> 0:46:17.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't mind helping, but don't ever suggest fifty fifty

0:46:17.880 --> 0:46:20.879
<v Speaker 2>with me because why I'm here with you, don't say

0:46:20.920 --> 0:46:24.759
<v Speaker 2>with my whole girl, she is funny.

0:46:24.480 --> 0:46:27.839
<v Speaker 1>Period, and we're gonna we're gonna actually treat each other.

0:46:27.960 --> 0:46:28.400
<v Speaker 1>How about that?

0:46:28.760 --> 0:46:29.880
<v Speaker 2>Right? Exactly?

0:46:30.719 --> 0:46:33.040
<v Speaker 1>Girl? I stopped talking to that dude because he basically

0:46:33.040 --> 0:46:35.200
<v Speaker 1>told me, I ain't going my pocketbook on a date

0:46:35.840 --> 0:46:38.320
<v Speaker 1>you invited me on. Why the fuck am I touching

0:46:38.360 --> 0:46:41.560
<v Speaker 1>my bag? That bill is not my business.

0:46:42.680 --> 0:46:44.000
<v Speaker 2>Don't got nothing to do with it. You don't have

0:46:44.040 --> 0:46:46.200
<v Speaker 2>a ship to do with you in this establishment.

0:46:48.120 --> 0:46:50.759
<v Speaker 1>I walked out this motherfucker, not even not even just

0:46:50.840 --> 0:46:52.600
<v Speaker 1>pay my ship, Like if you didn't have the money,

0:46:52.640 --> 0:46:54.239
<v Speaker 1>I still wasn't gonna pay for your ship, because why

0:46:54.239 --> 0:46:55.800
<v Speaker 1>are you inviting people out and you don't have the

0:46:55.880 --> 0:46:58.520
<v Speaker 1>means to pay for the bill and that.

0:46:58.680 --> 0:47:02.000
<v Speaker 2>But that doesn't mean by any means that we would

0:47:02.000 --> 0:47:05.080
<v Speaker 2>never buy our men anything or help out or contribute.

0:47:06.040 --> 0:47:08.600
<v Speaker 2>But just don't be looking at me to have half,

0:47:09.280 --> 0:47:13.799
<v Speaker 2>because that's dumb. The type of men that I typically like,

0:47:14.719 --> 0:47:18.520
<v Speaker 2>are you very ambitious and what they require for me

0:47:18.840 --> 0:47:24.719
<v Speaker 2>isn't necessarily monetary other things. But if it ever came

0:47:24.760 --> 0:47:28.000
<v Speaker 2>down to it, you don't helped me save so much.

0:47:28.920 --> 0:47:32.200
<v Speaker 2>You broke if something happened, I got us now, period,

0:47:32.280 --> 0:47:39.400
<v Speaker 2>you know, yeah, anything else that you can think of,

0:47:39.520 --> 0:47:41.799
<v Speaker 2>what's one thing that you do that you don't be

0:47:41.840 --> 0:47:42.920
<v Speaker 2>wanting people to know you do.

0:47:43.640 --> 0:47:46.960
<v Speaker 1>Oh, I got We talked about this during another episode,

0:47:47.239 --> 0:47:50.040
<v Speaker 1>the toilet shit. Remember I was telling you that, And

0:47:50.920 --> 0:47:51.960
<v Speaker 1>what else do I do?

0:47:53.120 --> 0:47:56.200
<v Speaker 2>What's the toilet shit? Oh?

0:47:56.280 --> 0:47:58.640
<v Speaker 1>Like you're a toilet tissue to wipe the toilet.

0:47:59.400 --> 0:48:03.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh that you are already wipe it, right, that's not

0:48:03.120 --> 0:48:03.600
<v Speaker 2>a comment.

0:48:03.640 --> 0:48:07.440
<v Speaker 1>Oh but you know so now because I am consciously

0:48:07.480 --> 0:48:10.560
<v Speaker 1>aware of that. Right when I take tissue off the roll,

0:48:10.680 --> 0:48:13.239
<v Speaker 1>I take two sets. So one set is the whpe

0:48:13.239 --> 0:48:15.240
<v Speaker 1>mye cuchie. The other set is to wipe the toilet

0:48:15.239 --> 0:48:18.439
<v Speaker 1>and flush everything. Because like when you're just doing shit,

0:48:18.600 --> 0:48:21.920
<v Speaker 1>moving fast, like you're not consciously thinking about really what

0:48:22.040 --> 0:48:24.640
<v Speaker 1>it is. You're just adding your fucking micro organisms to

0:48:24.680 --> 0:48:26.120
<v Speaker 1>this nasty ass fucking toilet.

0:48:26.960 --> 0:48:29.480
<v Speaker 2>But if you're sitting on that toilet, you need to

0:48:29.520 --> 0:48:31.879
<v Speaker 2>get slapped if you if you're a type of person

0:48:31.880 --> 0:48:34.560
<v Speaker 2>who's gonna sit on a public toilet, at least wrap it.

0:48:35.440 --> 0:48:38.600
<v Speaker 2>Wrap some tissue around that motherfucker so it's a layer.

0:48:39.200 --> 0:48:41.120
<v Speaker 2>Don't just be sitting in your neaked ass on that

0:48:41.560 --> 0:48:42.200
<v Speaker 2>public toilet.

0:48:42.239 --> 0:48:44.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting physically sick if I got to take a

0:48:44.200 --> 0:48:47.399
<v Speaker 1>shit in public, like I might, I might, I might,

0:48:47.560 --> 0:48:49.840
<v Speaker 1>like really hold it until I feel sick, until I

0:48:49.880 --> 0:48:50.520
<v Speaker 1>get to the house.

0:48:50.560 --> 0:48:56.480
<v Speaker 2>Man, because I took a international flight. It was nothing

0:48:56.600 --> 0:48:59.799
<v Speaker 2>I could do. I had to bro that was the

0:49:00.000 --> 0:49:02.000
<v Speaker 2>I was miserable trying to put his big ass in

0:49:02.080 --> 0:49:07.880
<v Speaker 2>that little because in there, No, it was so sad.

0:49:09.000 --> 0:49:10.480
<v Speaker 1>Bump up and hit your ass.

0:49:10.760 --> 0:49:16.759
<v Speaker 2>Oh I got, I got corona, I know.

0:49:19.520 --> 0:49:21.279
<v Speaker 1>I remember one time my whole bike told me he

0:49:21.320 --> 0:49:23.320
<v Speaker 1>was flushing the toilet and the water popped up and

0:49:23.360 --> 0:49:27.080
<v Speaker 1>hit his lip. Oh my god, I would have died

0:49:27.160 --> 0:49:36.439
<v Speaker 1>right there. You don't get a bum bump, Oh my god,

0:49:36.600 --> 0:49:37.680
<v Speaker 1>water hit your o lips?

0:49:37.719 --> 0:49:40.600
<v Speaker 2>Next level, though, from the public toilet.

0:49:40.239 --> 0:49:47.160
<v Speaker 1>From the public toilets alive. Yes, scary. I'm telling you,

0:49:47.200 --> 0:49:49.120
<v Speaker 1>the public toilets is scary as fucking me.

0:49:50.360 --> 0:49:53.279
<v Speaker 2>Oh what they gotta do? Anytime I'm at a drive through,

0:49:53.320 --> 0:49:55.279
<v Speaker 2>I don't give a funk who on the phone If

0:49:55.360 --> 0:49:58.080
<v Speaker 2>it stopped my time to order, I'm a hold on

0:49:58.080 --> 0:49:59.960
<v Speaker 2>one second, and I'm ana mute that phone so they

0:50:00.000 --> 0:50:01.879
<v Speaker 2>I can't hear my order, because that's none of your

0:50:02.000 --> 0:50:03.239
<v Speaker 2>fucking business.

0:50:04.600 --> 0:50:06.879
<v Speaker 1>I realized my cousin was doing that shit, and she's

0:50:06.880 --> 0:50:09.880
<v Speaker 1>skinny as helles. I don't know why, but she told me,

0:50:11.200 --> 0:50:14.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm having a whole conversation with you, right, and

0:50:14.120 --> 0:50:16.160
<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, like you're not responding to what

0:50:16.200 --> 0:50:18.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. So I'm like, damn, did I hang up?

0:50:18.680 --> 0:50:21.759
<v Speaker 1>What happened? And she abruptly abruptly comes back, was like, oh,

0:50:21.800 --> 0:50:22.640
<v Speaker 1>I muted the phone.

0:50:23.800 --> 0:50:25.879
<v Speaker 2>So she goes on she.

0:50:25.840 --> 0:50:28.160
<v Speaker 1>Doesn't order this food from wherever? She pulled that back,

0:50:28.200 --> 0:50:30.840
<v Speaker 1>and I talked shit so bad about McDonald's. The bitch

0:50:30.880 --> 0:50:33.160
<v Speaker 1>didn't want to tell me like it was McDonald's that

0:50:33.200 --> 0:50:33.840
<v Speaker 1>she was ordering.

0:50:35.160 --> 0:50:38.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeap, cause you'll be mixed shaming bitches.

0:50:39.360 --> 0:50:41.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't really try a small fucker, see ay McDonalds.

0:50:41.480 --> 0:50:43.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be like honest with y'all because I feel like,

0:50:43.680 --> 0:50:46.200
<v Speaker 1>like if the zombie apocalypse happened, like y'all first, y'all

0:50:46.239 --> 0:50:50.759
<v Speaker 1>gonna turn first eating that kangaroo meat for McDonald's.

0:50:50.400 --> 0:50:54.000
<v Speaker 2>Listen, man, And sometimes I'm like, I don't really eat.

0:50:54.560 --> 0:50:57.040
<v Speaker 2>I tried to. Everybody was like raving about the fileo

0:50:57.080 --> 0:50:59.560
<v Speaker 2>fish and I just never had that. So I went

0:50:59.600 --> 0:51:03.239
<v Speaker 2>and got one the other day. Mid y'all hype that

0:51:03.360 --> 0:51:08.080
<v Speaker 2>sandwich up so bad McDonald's. Yeah, burger king big fish

0:51:08.160 --> 0:51:09.120
<v Speaker 2>used to be the ship.

0:51:09.760 --> 0:51:14.800
<v Speaker 1>Okay, it used to be. Yeah, it used to be big.

0:51:14.960 --> 0:51:17.120
<v Speaker 1>Now it was a little ass squhere. I like. I

0:51:17.200 --> 0:51:19.360
<v Speaker 1>like fish sandwiches though, so I do be buying like

0:51:19.400 --> 0:51:23.920
<v Speaker 1>the frozen cod from the grocery store and making fish sandwiches.

0:51:23.960 --> 0:51:26.040
<v Speaker 1>I use to have Wainian bred girl make my own

0:51:26.520 --> 0:51:32.080
<v Speaker 1>totter sauce loaded with lettuce and tomato. Them sandwiches be busting.

0:51:33.680 --> 0:51:37.080
<v Speaker 2>Man, that that uh fileto fish was mid grade? I

0:51:37.160 --> 0:51:40.920
<v Speaker 2>was disappointed. What I go If I do go through McDonald's,

0:51:40.960 --> 0:51:44.240
<v Speaker 2>I typically just get a large fried and a sugar

0:51:44.239 --> 0:51:47.000
<v Speaker 2>free French vanilla iced coffee. That's it. Those are my

0:51:47.120 --> 0:51:50.960
<v Speaker 2>go tos. That's all I want them. Fries still a hit.

0:51:51.080 --> 0:51:52.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't even fries.

0:51:52.760 --> 0:51:53.279
<v Speaker 1>Is it for me?

0:51:53.360 --> 0:51:53.560
<v Speaker 2>Man?

0:51:54.480 --> 0:51:56.960
<v Speaker 1>The waffle fries are busting Chick fil A fries? You

0:51:57.000 --> 0:51:58.440
<v Speaker 1>know the Chick fil A by my house?

0:51:59.320 --> 0:51:59.799
<v Speaker 2>Mm hmmm.

0:52:00.360 --> 0:52:02.640
<v Speaker 1>I have been going there getting cups of ice every day.

0:52:02.680 --> 0:52:04.319
<v Speaker 1>That's all I get from Chicken filing. If I don't

0:52:04.320 --> 0:52:06.080
<v Speaker 1>get a cup of ice, it'd be like a small

0:52:06.120 --> 0:52:08.520
<v Speaker 1>fry or a cookie. If I would want to give

0:52:08.520 --> 0:52:10.600
<v Speaker 1>them some money for the day, to get the cup

0:52:10.600 --> 0:52:12.440
<v Speaker 1>of ice. But all I really want from them is

0:52:12.440 --> 0:52:14.080
<v Speaker 1>the cup of ice. Girl, Why now they got a

0:52:14.080 --> 0:52:15.839
<v Speaker 1>whole policy where you got to buy something to get

0:52:15.840 --> 0:52:17.319
<v Speaker 1>the cup of ice. I was like, why don't y'all

0:52:17.320 --> 0:52:19.040
<v Speaker 1>just putting the system in charge? Ninety nine cents for

0:52:19.080 --> 0:52:21.759
<v Speaker 1>the fucking ice right now? I gotta come there and

0:52:21.800 --> 0:52:24.720
<v Speaker 1>I gotta buy because I cook so good.

0:52:25.920 --> 0:52:27.520
<v Speaker 2>Girl, you need an iron peel.

0:52:27.560 --> 0:52:30.400
<v Speaker 1>I does not have a little iron. I just eat

0:52:30.440 --> 0:52:35.920
<v Speaker 1>a whole meals. It's literally drinking water. Yeah that's all

0:52:36.040 --> 0:52:38.920
<v Speaker 1>it's not. But it's eating the water. But I like it.

0:52:39.080 --> 0:52:42.120
<v Speaker 2>We sound like two babyds. We's not like two baby's

0:52:42.200 --> 0:52:45.600
<v Speaker 2>right now, how many y'all do that? Turn down the value,

0:52:45.719 --> 0:52:48.200
<v Speaker 2>cut off your phone, mute when you go through the

0:52:48.280 --> 0:52:52.280
<v Speaker 2>draft room because you don't need to know what size

0:52:52.320 --> 0:52:53.160
<v Speaker 2>I got, bitch.

0:52:53.120 --> 0:52:58.239
<v Speaker 1>You can't get it super size. Unnecessary criticism. Now, I

0:52:58.280 --> 0:53:01.439
<v Speaker 1>know I could be real critical, but I came from

0:53:01.440 --> 0:53:08.480
<v Speaker 1>a real like criticizer. My damn mama, Like, I think

0:53:09.160 --> 0:53:13.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't like people who just are overly critical of

0:53:13.280 --> 0:53:20.960
<v Speaker 1>every and anything people do. It's kind of annoying to me. Yeah, Like,

0:53:21.040 --> 0:53:22.840
<v Speaker 1>shut the fuck up, like it's okay. To shut the

0:53:22.840 --> 0:53:24.239
<v Speaker 1>fuck up sometimes, you know.

0:53:24.400 --> 0:53:26.279
<v Speaker 2>Cause you ain't got a judge, jury or having the

0:53:26.360 --> 0:53:28.160
<v Speaker 2>heir for nobody, so just relax.

0:53:28.360 --> 0:53:32.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like shut the So that's one of my pet

0:53:32.280 --> 0:53:40.000
<v Speaker 1>peeves as well. Did I say this already? Laziness like

0:53:40.040 --> 0:53:42.719
<v Speaker 1>with personal shit like personal care and stuff like that,

0:53:42.760 --> 0:53:45.320
<v Speaker 1>Like I know some people and I guess it's probably

0:53:45.360 --> 0:53:47.319
<v Speaker 1>gonna go back to people houses at that point. Like

0:53:47.360 --> 0:53:49.319
<v Speaker 1>I know some real fly people and they house a

0:53:49.320 --> 0:53:49.960
<v Speaker 1>fucking mess.

0:53:50.000 --> 0:53:50.520
<v Speaker 2>Like bitch.

0:53:51.200 --> 0:53:53.480
<v Speaker 1>I used to be telling somebody I love so much,

0:53:53.520 --> 0:53:58.040
<v Speaker 1>how it's gonna put their fucking bathroom on Facebook so

0:53:58.120 --> 0:54:02.280
<v Speaker 1>people could see you ain't a babbage how you're living,

0:54:02.800 --> 0:54:04.160
<v Speaker 1>because how you're really living.

0:54:04.719 --> 0:54:07.840
<v Speaker 2>Like sometimes I be thinking, then people be depressed or something,

0:54:07.880 --> 0:54:11.359
<v Speaker 2>because ain't no way you're just living in this feel

0:54:11.480 --> 0:54:14.200
<v Speaker 2>comfortably like you got to be something going on in

0:54:14.239 --> 0:54:16.600
<v Speaker 2>your mental well that's how they don't feel though.

0:54:16.640 --> 0:54:20.319
<v Speaker 1>So whenever I have cluttered, I'm literally feeling like that

0:54:20.360 --> 0:54:21.680
<v Speaker 1>in my mind. That's why I told you I got

0:54:21.719 --> 0:54:23.680
<v Speaker 1>to go clear that storage out because that story is

0:54:23.760 --> 0:54:27.040
<v Speaker 1>literally living rent free in my mind, you know, like

0:54:27.160 --> 0:54:29.640
<v Speaker 1>having to deal with the mess that's in there and

0:54:29.680 --> 0:54:31.839
<v Speaker 1>getting rid of all those things that I really don't need.

0:54:31.920 --> 0:54:33.960
<v Speaker 1>But there are a few things there that I need.

0:54:34.239 --> 0:54:36.880
<v Speaker 1>But that's how my brain feels until I get it cleared.

0:54:38.160 --> 0:54:41.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all my shit in storage right now, and I'm

0:54:41.719 --> 0:54:46.160
<v Speaker 2>living like a minimalist, and I'm realizing, like I could

0:54:46.239 --> 0:54:48.880
<v Speaker 2>really leave all that shit in there and survived. I

0:54:48.880 --> 0:54:49.960
<v Speaker 2>don't need sh.

0:54:50.520 --> 0:54:52.120
<v Speaker 1>That's how I'm feeling about that stuff. But I have

0:54:52.160 --> 0:54:54.200
<v Speaker 1>a trunk in there with a lot of personal things.

0:54:54.200 --> 0:54:55.920
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't want that storage to end up in an

0:54:55.920 --> 0:54:58.879
<v Speaker 1>auction situation, so I don't just want to leave it. Plus,

0:54:58.920 --> 0:55:00.560
<v Speaker 1>I got, like I got sit in there, I can

0:55:00.640 --> 0:55:03.239
<v Speaker 1>at least sell or give away to people who really

0:55:03.280 --> 0:55:07.479
<v Speaker 1>need it. Like, so I plan one, I want my ship.

0:55:08.120 --> 0:55:10.040
<v Speaker 1>I plan on like my king size bed in there

0:55:10.080 --> 0:55:12.359
<v Speaker 1>like the other one. Like, I plan on selling that ship,

0:55:12.480 --> 0:55:14.160
<v Speaker 1>or I might just give it away to somebody whoever

0:55:14.200 --> 0:55:19.959
<v Speaker 1>can come pick that big ton size bed up Dining said, listen,

0:55:20.040 --> 0:55:22.080
<v Speaker 1>if you're in Columbia and you listen to this, this

0:55:22.080 --> 0:55:25.719
<v Speaker 1>this show, y'all meet me at that storage unit this Saturday.

0:55:26.239 --> 0:55:31.120
<v Speaker 1>Uh what it is when it's Saturday the twenty eighth.

0:55:31.120 --> 0:55:33.239
<v Speaker 1>If you need some French and shit kitchen shit that

0:55:33.360 --> 0:55:34.279
<v Speaker 1>type of stuff.

0:55:34.239 --> 0:55:36.319
<v Speaker 2>DM her so she can know, so you can know

0:55:36.400 --> 0:55:36.879
<v Speaker 2>West Store.

0:55:36.960 --> 0:55:40.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, message me, because I got a whole bunch

0:55:40.000 --> 0:55:42.799
<v Speaker 1>of shit. So I got that thought bad. Remember the

0:55:42.840 --> 0:55:46.000
<v Speaker 1>thought band. The toftest bed that bad was seventeen hundred dollars.

0:55:46.000 --> 0:55:48.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't understand how anybody was ever calling it a

0:55:48.080 --> 0:55:51.640
<v Speaker 1>thought bed. But anyway, anyway, I have a story all

0:55:51.719 --> 0:55:54.640
<v Speaker 1>the whole be steady knocking.

0:55:56.200 --> 0:55:57.200
<v Speaker 2>Or a version of it.

0:55:57.840 --> 0:56:01.200
<v Speaker 1>Yep, if you need a bed dying, let me know.

0:56:01.640 --> 0:56:02.879
<v Speaker 1>Got a leather chair in there.

0:56:03.960 --> 0:56:05.919
<v Speaker 2>I just realized, I just come on here and say

0:56:05.920 --> 0:56:10.920
<v Speaker 2>whatever that I'll be putting the.

0:56:12.239 --> 0:56:15.440
<v Speaker 1>Coolie little balls, little dingleberry balls rolled up in there.

0:56:18.040 --> 0:56:19.200
<v Speaker 2>So what y'all do it too?

0:56:20.040 --> 0:56:22.840
<v Speaker 1>Talking loud? I talk loud.

0:56:23.360 --> 0:56:24.879
<v Speaker 2>I'm about to say the nerve of you.

0:56:25.400 --> 0:56:28.840
<v Speaker 1>But I'm really quiet though, Like okay, if me and

0:56:28.920 --> 0:56:30.760
<v Speaker 1>if it's just me and this cat in this house,

0:56:31.719 --> 0:56:35.319
<v Speaker 1>like it's quiet. I barely be having TVs on, I

0:56:35.360 --> 0:56:38.200
<v Speaker 1>barely have the radio. Like I literally I be quiet.

0:56:38.320 --> 0:56:50.520
<v Speaker 1>I promise i'd be in the house like smoking, having

0:56:50.560 --> 0:56:53.920
<v Speaker 1>a good old loudass time by myself. No, I be quiet.

0:56:54.160 --> 0:56:56.000
<v Speaker 1>So like the minute this nigga come in the house,

0:56:56.120 --> 0:56:58.239
<v Speaker 1>is just like it's just sensation.

0:56:59.120 --> 0:57:01.960
<v Speaker 2>Mm hmmm. I seen over stimulation.

0:57:02.160 --> 0:57:04.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I seen a post on TikTok and I might

0:57:04.200 --> 0:57:06.120
<v Speaker 1>have said this before, but it's said, no matter how

0:57:06.200 --> 0:57:09.440
<v Speaker 1>much you love a man, you know you could be

0:57:09.520 --> 0:57:12.239
<v Speaker 1>madly in love with them. It's just something about it

0:57:12.280 --> 0:57:13.360
<v Speaker 1>when they're not home.

0:57:13.800 --> 0:57:15.080
<v Speaker 2>That feels so good.

0:57:19.320 --> 0:57:22.560
<v Speaker 1>It's just something about like, I love you so much,

0:57:22.600 --> 0:57:25.240
<v Speaker 1>but nigga, when you ain't here, I be feeling like

0:57:25.280 --> 0:57:27.840
<v Speaker 1>a weight lift off me. That's good.

0:57:27.920 --> 0:57:30.000
<v Speaker 2>Then, you know what, it's so nice. That's one thing

0:57:30.040 --> 0:57:33.160
<v Speaker 2>I will say it's good about having military men is

0:57:33.160 --> 0:57:35.040
<v Speaker 2>when I mean it's not I mean it's not nice,

0:57:35.080 --> 0:57:40.040
<v Speaker 2>but it is when they go deploy, like oh you're

0:57:40.080 --> 0:57:44.600
<v Speaker 2>gone for a while. Yeah, last free and last Yes,

0:57:44.840 --> 0:57:47.320
<v Speaker 2>I remember I used to live next door. This is

0:57:47.360 --> 0:57:49.560
<v Speaker 2>when I was living on the military base, and I

0:57:49.680 --> 0:57:52.600
<v Speaker 2>used to live next door to this woman. Well she

0:57:52.640 --> 0:57:54.800
<v Speaker 2>wasn't right next door, but close by. And she used

0:57:54.840 --> 0:57:58.160
<v Speaker 2>to wear like laun jean skirts and white socks with

0:57:58.240 --> 0:58:01.520
<v Speaker 2>her kids and black girls all right, and T shirts

0:58:01.520 --> 0:58:03.200
<v Speaker 2>with a loan, you know the type. She got a

0:58:03.240 --> 0:58:07.720
<v Speaker 2>long skirt with a T shirt. Okay, so very homely. Baby.

0:58:07.760 --> 0:58:11.400
<v Speaker 2>Her husband deployed. I don't know that woman turned into

0:58:11.480 --> 0:58:14.480
<v Speaker 2>somebody totally different when that nigga was gone. She had

0:58:14.560 --> 0:58:17.760
<v Speaker 2>hip hop music blaring out the window, had on different

0:58:17.840 --> 0:58:18.600
<v Speaker 2>kind of clothes.

0:58:18.680 --> 0:58:24.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm like oking a sergeant major, right, and that was

0:58:24.240 --> 0:58:27.000
<v Speaker 1>that free at last moment. Yeah, man, I don't know

0:58:27.040 --> 0:58:27.600
<v Speaker 1>what it is.

0:58:28.440 --> 0:58:28.880
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:58:29.680 --> 0:58:32.640
<v Speaker 1>Do men have like a chaos energy or something like

0:58:32.680 --> 0:58:34.720
<v Speaker 1>it's something with it, you know what I'm saying. I

0:58:34.720 --> 0:58:37.000
<v Speaker 1>can see like they bad, but it's something with their energy.

0:58:37.200 --> 0:58:41.080
<v Speaker 2>It's just I just think it's like something about having

0:58:41.760 --> 0:58:46.720
<v Speaker 2>separation that's just good for one's individual needs, you know,

0:58:47.600 --> 0:58:51.040
<v Speaker 2>just being away from each other. That's a little wel Yeah,

0:58:51.800 --> 0:58:55.920
<v Speaker 2>peace of mind as an individual. See, that's what I'm

0:58:55.920 --> 0:58:58.560
<v Speaker 2>scared of. I don't know, Like I know that my

0:58:58.640 --> 0:59:02.760
<v Speaker 2>next relationship might have might need to be a little unconventional,

0:59:03.680 --> 0:59:05.600
<v Speaker 2>Like he needs to have a job that travel. I

0:59:05.640 --> 0:59:07.800
<v Speaker 2>need to have a job that like we can't be

0:59:07.920 --> 0:59:08.200
<v Speaker 2>up on.

0:59:10.160 --> 0:59:12.680
<v Speaker 1>They like when this nigga leave the house, I don't

0:59:12.680 --> 0:59:15.400
<v Speaker 1>call him like he'll just randomly FaceTime me. I just

0:59:15.440 --> 0:59:18.520
<v Speaker 1>want to see what you're doing. Why, Like I'm gonna

0:59:18.520 --> 0:59:21.240
<v Speaker 1>see you later. We lived together, you know what I'm saying,

0:59:21.320 --> 0:59:23.760
<v Speaker 1>I'll be on the phone where my homegirl's way more

0:59:23.800 --> 0:59:26.600
<v Speaker 1>than him, Like, but and I don't call him, like

0:59:26.600 --> 0:59:28.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't be checking for him nothing because I know

0:59:28.960 --> 0:59:30.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna see you. It's just different.

0:59:30.560 --> 0:59:35.680
<v Speaker 2>It's just don't you miss the times when there were

0:59:35.720 --> 0:59:39.720
<v Speaker 2>no cell phones and y'all left for the day individually

0:59:40.080 --> 0:59:43.320
<v Speaker 2>and didn't communicate until it was time to come back together.

0:59:43.440 --> 0:59:43.960
<v Speaker 2>You couldn't.

0:59:44.040 --> 0:59:46.160
<v Speaker 1>We wasn't unless you got wrong enough to have these

0:59:46.200 --> 0:59:48.880
<v Speaker 1>relationships and we didn't have cell phones. I feel like, well,

0:59:49.000 --> 0:59:49.840
<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>No, yeah, I'm saying we weren't old enough for that shit.

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<v Speaker 2>But I missed those times.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like you're not expected to be available.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah all day. Yeah, somebody access FaceTime? Why you need

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<v Speaker 2>a FaceTime? I'm a big facetimer, But like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just such an invasion of privacy, Like people expect

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<v Speaker 2>you to look at like, ain't nothing worse than you

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<v Speaker 2>being on FaceTime with a nigga that they've seen you

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<v Speaker 2>in the bed. But then they be like, hey, this

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<v Speaker 2>is my mama, you laying down in your pajamas with

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<v Speaker 2>your head scarf.

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<v Speaker 1>All that's not how I want you to introduce he exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>But niggas don't be thinking dog.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, ma'am in my bonnet and I just smoke some weed,

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<v Speaker 2>eyes all over, Like, what's wrong with you? She gonna

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<v Speaker 2>walk her into my bedroom right now? So why would

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<v Speaker 2>you turn that phone around like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, here's one thing, and we're gonna wrap this up

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<v Speaker 1>in a minute. But this, here's one thing that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't mind. But I know annoys people. Uh, interjection and conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>interrupting people. I don't mind this day long, okay, because

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<v Speaker 1>I don't believe that you can converse, you can have

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation without interjection. It's just impossible because caau at

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<v Speaker 1>that point, it's not a conversation. Bitch. You obviously on

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<v Speaker 1>a podium and I'm out in an audience and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just listening to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Just gotta take you, just gotta take turns. It is hard,

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<v Speaker 2>especially when you're the conversation that has some passion involved. Uh,

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<v Speaker 2>it is hard to wait your turn. But you never

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<v Speaker 2>get to really hear each other if you're both yelling

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<v Speaker 2>at the same time.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually when I interject is when somebody is saying something

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<v Speaker 1>that wasn't that isn't what I said. You see what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, So let me I'm interjecting to give you

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<v Speaker 1>some clarity and then you can continue on. Because if

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<v Speaker 1>I let you speak for five minutes, I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>remember the beginning and the end. I don't remember none

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<v Speaker 1>of the mashed potatoes in the middle. So you have

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<v Speaker 1>to allow people to interject in conversation. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that anybody. Last week I had some pretty some pretty

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<v Speaker 1>exhausting conversations with people, A couple of people that I

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<v Speaker 1>love and one I don't even care to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>no more. Like that's that really was it. And it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't even a verbal conversation initially. It was just on

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<v Speaker 1>It was text messaging initially, and I'm like, what the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck is happening? When I have to start saying what

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck is happening? Or what the fuck? Like too

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<v Speaker 1>many talk I'm not talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>Two years ago. You used to say that with me

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<v Speaker 2>all the time, the fuck is happening?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because because now I'm when I start feeling confused, right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's when I I got to get away. Because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not a confused person. I have a pretty sound mind.

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<v Speaker 1>So if things are happening where I'm feeling like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not really confused. I'm really trying to figure out, like

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<v Speaker 1>what the fuck is like, what's up with our energy?

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<v Speaker 1>That's really what I'm trying to figure out. I'm never

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<v Speaker 1>really confused. But if I start feeling like mentally, like

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<v Speaker 1>some mental anguish, I retreat.

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<v Speaker 2>But I say that to I say this to, I

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<v Speaker 2>say that to say this. We're in a good place now,

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<v Speaker 2>so maybe you and that person can.

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<v Speaker 1>You I'm tired of arguing with women about anything, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like for fucking what, yeah, bitch, And so I'm at

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<v Speaker 1>the point where, like you could just talk. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>got nothing to say. That's where I'm at. And just

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't have anything to say doesn't mean you're right.

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<v Speaker 1>It actually means you're I'm fucking nuts. If I don't

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<v Speaker 1>got nothing to say, bitch, I already checked out on

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<v Speaker 1>your ass. Bitch, you got it, you got it.

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<v Speaker 2>So, uh, we gotta get up out of here. I

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<v Speaker 2>gotta cutch a flight.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't got no cart.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm casing a flight down the street because I ain't

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<v Speaker 2>got no car.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, y'all, we want to hear some of the

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<v Speaker 1>things y'all can stand. We want to hear some of

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<v Speaker 1>your pet peeves. Shit to just really just irks your nerves,

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<v Speaker 1>get on your damn nerves and your relationships, your friends,

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<v Speaker 1>all the things people eating with their mouth open, like

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<v Speaker 1>we want to know, So y'all hit us up. Let

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<v Speaker 1>us know some of your pet peeves. Oh I missed

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<v Speaker 1>the biggest one bitch that we talked about before this. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>the farning, the fucking farning.

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<v Speaker 2>I hate when you put an internet whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, I'm geechee. Okay. It's a governing language, and this

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<v Speaker 1>is how we say it's okay you okay with pomp.

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<v Speaker 2>That also smells really okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't fucking poop round me, dog. I don't give a

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<v Speaker 1>damn how long we've been together. I'm not just farting

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<v Speaker 1>in front of my man. I'm not just letting out

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<v Speaker 1>all these type of flatching lists in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation with you while we're talking, and I'm just like, like,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, man, if I far, it's a mistake and

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<v Speaker 1>I was unconscious, I was sleep if I let out

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<v Speaker 1>of farn, okay, but niggas be far in and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sick of it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't I won't farre either, not not in front

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<v Speaker 2>of a What depends on how long we've been together, honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>because I definitely farted in front of him.

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<v Speaker 1>But was it an accident or you just really pushed

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<v Speaker 1>out of front.

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<v Speaker 2>It was never on purpose, but it happened, and I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't feel like hugely embarrassed by it. At some point

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<v Speaker 2>it was like, hey, I'm a human, get over it.

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<v Speaker 2>But there was a time where I would be like,

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't shit, I wouldn't farre, I wouldn't do anything

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<v Speaker 2>while he was around, like, please go to the store

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<v Speaker 2>and give me some ice cream right now, Please go

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<v Speaker 2>to the front, please.

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<v Speaker 1>Ice cream, bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>So I could just like just go ship.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mind faring, but I don't I know when

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<v Speaker 1>you accidentally far and when you and when you pushing

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<v Speaker 1>one out. I'm not pushing out far in front of

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<v Speaker 1>a man. You're wiles.

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<v Speaker 2>I used to listen. It was in college. This guy

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<v Speaker 2>he was so fine. He recently passed away, and me

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<v Speaker 2>and him we used to kick it. May he rest

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<v Speaker 2>in peace. He used the Dutch o in me and

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<v Speaker 2>you can get pink guy. They used to piss me

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<v Speaker 2>off so bad. He far under the blanket and then

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<v Speaker 2>hold me under there, and he thought it was the

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<v Speaker 2>funniest thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, that is disgusting and faring on the bed

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<v Speaker 1>is wild, Like why are you pulling into this fabric.

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<v Speaker 2>And then holding me under here with your stink ass firk.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so mean, Like the farnt is gonna be stuck

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<v Speaker 1>in the mattress. Okay, that's why your mattress so heavy,

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<v Speaker 1>because you got about one hundred eleven trillion farns from

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<v Speaker 1>different niggas in it.

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<v Speaker 2>And then your genes. That's why your gens got the bacteria.

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<v Speaker 2>I go keep going back to you saying that.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a bunch of shit under the microscope, just

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<v Speaker 1>crawling around. Like anyway, who are your fucking fat flatulens? Y'all?

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<v Speaker 2>A tam, y'all. Don't tell nobody about that tissue ship

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, follow me on Instagram official tail band. I remember,

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<v Speaker 2>speak now and.

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<v Speaker 1>my man, hold them until you blow up.

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