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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network Talk Talk Talk.

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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who

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Speaker 2: talks back.

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Speaker 1: What's up y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a

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Speaker 1: new episode and We Talk Back, a show dedicated to

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Speaker 1: you Dreamers. And Chaser's just your co host, AJ Howiday.

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Tam Damn?

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Speaker 1: How your foot?

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Speaker 2: Girl? Y'all? Please pray for me if you ever laughed

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Speaker 2: at any of my jokes on this motherfucker show, I

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Speaker 2: need you to lift me up in prayer tonight when

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Speaker 2: you hear this show. Please in the name of Jesus,

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Speaker 2: Baby girl, been going through it?

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's rough out here, I can imagine.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 1: The limbs are important.

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Speaker 2: Yes they are. And you know what, first before I

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Speaker 2: before I unpack on it? Everybody listening as well as.

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Speaker 1: The first can I unpack on you? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: If you if you don't want to be unpacked on this,

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Speaker 2: just fast forward a little bit. AJ. How you doing? First?

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Speaker 1: Shit, I'm good, bitch. The only thing I'm struggling is

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Speaker 1: not to eat.

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Speaker 2: That.

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Speaker 1: You had two salmon patties already this morning.

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Speaker 2: I ate a motherfucking thing, because I listen, just getting

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Speaker 2: dressed takes forever right now. Taking them cleaning my body

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Speaker 2: and putting on clothes just takes forever. So I was like,

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Speaker 2: you talked to me during our meeting yesterday. You could

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Speaker 2: hear it in my voice that.

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Speaker 1: I was depleted.

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Speaker 2: My spirit was low. So I was like, you know what,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go get a massage. I'm gonna take myself

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Speaker 2: to a spa and I'm just gonna get me a massage.

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Speaker 2: I ain't got no fucking money, but I'm still gonna

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Speaker 2: treat myself. Fuckerod. So I went to the spy, had

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Speaker 2: a massage, laid by the pool, had here a glass

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Speaker 2: of champagne, and I still was like, hmm, I'm still

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Speaker 2: not happy. I'm still I'm waiting, like I went to

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Speaker 2: the ritz. So I'm sitting by the door, waiting on

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Speaker 2: my uber because I can't drive right now. So I'm

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Speaker 2: waiting on my uber, sitting on my scooter, and these

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Speaker 2: white men come in with their golf clubs. Looks like

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Speaker 2: they had just come back from golfing and it's raining,

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Speaker 2: and one of them says to me, hey, do you

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Speaker 2: guys got coffee in here.

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Speaker 1: Oh shit, I.

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Speaker 2: Said, I don't mother fucking know.

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Speaker 1: How you standing there with a boot? You think I

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Speaker 1: work here? Sir?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like he was like, well, I'm sure. He was like, well,

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Speaker 2: in my defense, you're standing by the door and you're black.

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Speaker 2: So yo, see how I got it confunied.

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Speaker 1: I literally just saw a post on Instagram that said, uh,

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Speaker 1: what is that? Make it? Make it normal? Let's normalize

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Speaker 1: randomly asking random white people if they work here.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna start doing it, guys.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to start doing it, and I'm gonna start

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Speaker 1: like locking my door quick when a white person walked past.

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Speaker 1: I'm just start doing all the ship they do this

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Speaker 1: racism right quick, for real, blatant.

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Speaker 2: Next the hotel, I'll just gonna walk up to a

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Speaker 2: white man, excuse me, do y'all have coffee here?

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Speaker 1: I would just leave my bag by what they asked.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I don't mother fucking know a plush

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Speaker 1: card by them?

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Speaker 2: So all right, Like my attitude was already stink, but

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Speaker 2: now my attitude is really stink because I do not

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Speaker 2: fucking work here. So then my uber comes right and

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Speaker 2: there's a I see this black man sitting inside and

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Speaker 2: I'm like he gonna get out and help me. I

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Speaker 2: hope he get out and help me. If he don't,

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Speaker 2: I'm not giving him five stars. Right. So he's looking.

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Speaker 2: I was like, uh, He's like, you need help, and

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Speaker 2: I was like, yes, please, And so he gets he

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Speaker 2: opens the door and then he puts two crutches out

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Speaker 2: the door, and then he stands up and he's on crutches.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, it's okay. It's okay. You don't

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Speaker 2: have to help me out. See if I can find

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Speaker 2: someone to from the inside that can help. He's like, no,

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Speaker 2: it's okay. I'm used to it now. And he hops

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Speaker 2: around the car and I see he has one leg.

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Speaker 2: Oh I got one leg, y'all. He was like, I'm

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Speaker 2: used to it. It's fine. Just passed me your scooter.

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Speaker 2: Go ahead, get in the car and make yourself comfortable.

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Speaker 2: It's okay.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, oh my god, did he have his

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Speaker 1: driving leg though? Yeah, he had to drive a leg, yeah,

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Speaker 1: at least. So he gets in the car. Gratitude is

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Speaker 1: y'all grateful? Shit was so fucked up.

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Speaker 2: So he gets in the car and he asked me

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Speaker 2: what happened to me? And I told him about it,

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Speaker 2: and then I was like, what happened to your leg?

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Speaker 2: And he said he lost his leg twenty five years

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Speaker 2: ago to cancer. And I was like, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. He was like, you're sorry. I just

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Speaker 2: told you I beat twenty cancer twenty five years ago

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Speaker 2: and you're telling me you're sorry. You need to be

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Speaker 2: happy for me, yeah, man, see, And I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: that's the energy I need to have right now. Thank you.

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Speaker 2: I was like, thank you so much for picking me

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Speaker 2: up and thank you for this message that I needed

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Speaker 2: right now about being grateful and being you know, just

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Speaker 2: happy with what I have. So thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: So the best part of my massage was the lesson

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Speaker 2: I got on the way back to my friend's house

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Speaker 2: to see.

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Speaker 1: That's that be God all day long? Mm hm, you

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Speaker 1: see you feeling some type of way. Yep, it's always worse, right.

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Speaker 2: So then when I got up this morning to go

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Speaker 2: to work, I was like, you know what, it ain't

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Speaker 2: that fucking bad period, because I do this ship with

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Speaker 2: a smile on my face. So I say that to

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Speaker 2: all of y'all who's sitting there with whatever is the

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Speaker 2: equivalent of my foot being broken in your life? Ain't

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Speaker 2: that bad baby girl.

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Speaker 1: Even if you're broke financially, you're just in between blessings.

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Speaker 1: You're not really like broke broke broke as a state

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Speaker 1: of mind, right that I'm a whole millionaire out here, Okay,

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Speaker 1: a millionaire fillionaire and I'm six foot ten, Okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: don't run. God damn, we ain't talking about no weekends,

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Speaker 1: no nothing. I ain't do shitting nonetheless, for real, what

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Speaker 1: did I do this? I probably I stopped at my

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Speaker 1: mom's house that saying, went and picked my bicycle up

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Speaker 1: because I plan on it. I planned on riding bike.

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Speaker 1: And at the time I got the bike, I'm like.

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Speaker 2: It's raining. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I took it to the car wash while it was

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Speaker 1: on bike rack on the back of the car, and

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Speaker 1: I like just washed the car with the bike. The

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Speaker 1: bike's so fucking dusty. So I'm like, I really haven't

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Speaker 1: ridden my bike in a year, and I don't want

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Speaker 1: a new bike. Man, I'm about to start to go

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Speaker 1: fund me to get me this damn two thousand dollars.

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Speaker 2: Bid I'm not gonna start to go fund me to

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Speaker 2: get Listen, y'all, y'all, sister only showed me Uber money.

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Speaker 2: Uber like uber and everywhere is eating my pockets alive. Yo,

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Speaker 2: I'm about to start driving with my left foot. I'm

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Speaker 2: about to try.

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Speaker 1: You can drive with the foot?

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Speaker 2: Is?

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Speaker 1: It?

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Speaker 2: Just can't? It's big. This leg feels like a transformer

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Speaker 2: with this thing on it. Like, first of all, yeah,

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Speaker 2: my friend son keep on he keeps on grabbing my

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Speaker 2: foot and staring me and my face.

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Speaker 1: Like like, what's up with that? Your kids are innocent?

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Speaker 2: No, he know what the he doing. He grab it

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Speaker 2: and looked me in my eyes intensely.

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Speaker 1: Right, he might be a podiatris my ex and son. Ever,

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Speaker 1: I met the little boy like one was two and

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Speaker 1: when he turned about two or three years old, he

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Speaker 1: watching TV at the same time, like some real like

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Speaker 1: weirdo shit like mom be having you rubbing her feet

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Speaker 1: and some shit. So now he got even bigger, and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what you want to be when you get older?

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Speaker 1: A foot doctor?

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Speaker 2: Shit?

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Speaker 1: This thing about it turn to fetish fetish? I said,

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Speaker 1: it's a pedietrist.

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Speaker 2: Baby.

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Speaker 1: He was like Okay, I want to be a podiatrist.

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Speaker 2: Sweet. That's sweet.

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Speaker 1: All right, y'all. Okay, let's get into stupid internet news.

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Speaker 1: This week, right before bed news flash, did He got

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Speaker 1: arrested by the Feds? Okay, came out probably like nine

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Speaker 1: o'clock in the evening. Maybe I saw a video with

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Speaker 1: him walking through New York and people like this, how

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Speaker 1: you walk through New York and he's talking like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's how you walk with in tient I had that.

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Speaker 1: on whatever evidence or whatever. The fans come for you jah,

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Speaker 1: and I heard that this district has a ninety nine

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Speaker 1: Usually when the fans come, they got all the information

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Speaker 1: they need. So last week, What's What's the Dawn? From

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Speaker 1: Danny Kane? She came out with a lawsuit also against

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Speaker 1: did He Richards yep yep, accusing him of abuse, also

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Speaker 1: being a witness to Cassie's abuse. She also named other

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Speaker 1: people that were involved as well or not involved but

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Speaker 1: witnessed what happened to Cassie and other people. So I

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Speaker 1: don't know, did he I I guess based on the

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Speaker 1: stuff that they met A fine found in his home

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Speaker 1: when they rated it last year. Was that last year?

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Speaker 2: This year they said it was a bunch of baby

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Speaker 2: oil in there, Bottles and bottles and bottles of baby oil.

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Speaker 1: For real, shut up. He might have stolen shipment. That's

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Speaker 1: probably why they after a baby oil. Okay. But CNN

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Speaker 1: reports that music mogul Seandtycombs, who has faced a parade

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Speaker 1: of sexual assault lawsuits and federal human trafficking probe in

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Speaker 1: the last year, has been arrested. The producer attorney tells

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Speaker 1: CNN Combs was arrested at Monday night at the Park

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Speaker 1: Hyde Hotel in Manhattan and taken into custody by Homeland

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Speaker 1: Security investigations. This does say investigations but investigators, okay. A

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Speaker 1: source familiar with negotiations for his surrender told CNN the

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Speaker 1: charges and details of the case against Combs are unclear,

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Speaker 1: so allegedly they're supposed to be releasing the charges this morning,

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Speaker 1: so we'll see what they by the time this episode

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Speaker 1: comes out. Well know exactly, but the rest was made

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Speaker 1: based on an indictment that is expected to be unsealed

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Speaker 1: Tuesday morning, According to a statement from Damon Williams, us

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Speaker 1: attorney for the Southern District of New your So did

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Speaker 1: he in trouble?

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Speaker 2: Man in trouble all year last year? He's just having

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Speaker 2: a rough go at it, And I mean, what can

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Speaker 2: you do? You know you made those choices. Now you

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Speaker 2: got suff the consequences that should always catch up with you.

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Speaker 1: That'd be my thing. When I look at the comments,

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Speaker 1: and it's a lot of times it be a lot

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Speaker 1: of black men. Right, we got to make sure our

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Speaker 2: Dog, that's their favorite shit.

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Speaker 1: When I was living in Saint Louis, the words everybody

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Speaker 1: It's this lady I Fall. I forgot her Instagram, but

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah at Auntie Bev.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I like. I like that And I have to

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Speaker 2: So I got you.

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Speaker 1: I suggests books and new words.

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Speaker 2: Instead of just like getting on your social media and

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Speaker 2: finding people to teach you a new word. Re Read, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Read your fucking books, because when I read books, I

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Speaker 1: definitely write words down, like that, and I like words,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like a word like damn

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Speaker 2: You know what? My one of my new favorite was

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Speaker 2: if we beef it, it's yeah. So I love telling

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Speaker 1: Whenever y'all feel out a contract, look for that word.

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Speaker 1: They might own your ass in perpetuity, right Aria, Uh

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Speaker 2: Hiy woman, let's talk about that? Should you send me

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Speaker 1: Girl? Okay? Duvall posted this on the stage, So imagine men, guys, fellas. Right,

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Speaker 1: you FaceTime your old lady y'all talking while she's in

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Speaker 1: Because they're allegedly in a rush, right, and so they

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Speaker 2: He flips on her first, like what the fuck going

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Speaker 2: on right his man? Like, you're tripping, We're just getting ready. No,

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Speaker 2: that is insane. No, first of all, I'm not getting

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Speaker 2: showered with none of my friends.

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Speaker 1: Hey, what is that show? Ain't even big enough of that?

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, it's colding the bag. I'm not getting back there.

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Speaker 1: So ain't no way you expect any man to be

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Speaker 1: okay with that ship dog, be with your homeboy.

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Speaker 2: I do not believe that they not having sex.

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Speaker 1: They definitely fucking that. He's definitely pretending to be gay

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Speaker 2: Around right exactly. That not that I think about it,

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Speaker 2: that is a thing. But I don't think she knew

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Speaker 2: I don't know they had to cut them off guard

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Speaker 2: because that's that's.

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Speaker 1: Even your naked gay homeboy. Like, if you're a man,

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Speaker 1: it's heterosexual. Why would he want to see your gay

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: You? Or was that a test? Was she testing her boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: Right to see you know, trying to join in her

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Speaker 1: What the fuck is the train gonna be on?

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Speaker 2: Im about to say, is that a train?

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Speaker 1: Oh? The train on the boyfriend on the You never know,

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Speaker 1: you know, the humans are wild man.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, speaking of wild humans, Nicki, Nicki, Minaja's mom

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Speaker 1: Linger lingery liel Carol Mirage. Okay she okay, I tried

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Speaker 1: to google and see how old she was. Just listen,

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Speaker 1: fifty five. She couldn't be in her sixties at least, right.

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Speaker 2: Nick, at least fifty five.

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Speaker 2: You know what, let me I just have something to

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Speaker 2: a lot of you R and b R and b bitches,

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Speaker 2: rap bitches and actresses. And for some reason, I keep

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Speaker 2: and I just don't see how the fuck it.

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Speaker 1: I was just about to say, she's forty one.

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Speaker 2: How how is la lah forty three?

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Speaker 2: Ain't no way, ain't no way, La Lah forty three?

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Speaker 1: No La La is supposed to fifty.

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Speaker 2: Yeah she she's well over forty five at the least.

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Speaker 2: Ain't no way me and her that we went to

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: Grown up? When I was a little girl, we.

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Speaker 1: Were still in high school. Like you was working a

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Speaker 1: that's what you want us to believe, eighteen eighteen working

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Speaker 2: Like Big getting Big Chicks.

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Speaker 1: Com playing with us, cop playing on my top.

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Speaker 2: But listen, I ain't mad at you because I'm doing

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Speaker 1: Shit, you know I be snitching on your ass. I

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Speaker 1: know you every cheer, every chanse you because don't lie

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Speaker 1: I don't feel comfortable telling trace about listen, just mind

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Speaker 1: your business. Yeah you're gonna lie. But then when you

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Speaker 2: Identify as with you identify it?

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Speaker 1: I just throwing me under the bus. Look, I told

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Speaker 1: You be pulling my ankle, okay, while you're telling people

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Speaker 2: So I can't wait to see what Nicki minaj because

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Speaker 2: I'm assuming like this lingerie will be for a woman

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Speaker 1: Well, the price is from sixty five to ninety five dollars,

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Speaker 2: Listen, they're gonna put on the moon move and call

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Speaker 2: it a day. That's what the niggas like with your ass,

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Speaker 2: just moving free up under the day exactly. You know

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Speaker 1: It's that girl. What's that girl on Instagram who she'd

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Speaker 2: That booty be wavy shaking all over the place.

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Speaker 1: You know what I want to talk about this week?

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Speaker 1: What bad peeves and annoying habits like within relationships. They

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Speaker 1: don't have to just be any intimate relationships, but just

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Speaker 1: shit that get on your fucking nerves, bitch, because I

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Speaker 2: Right, you got more. You got more to me because

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Speaker 1: It don't necessarily have to be in a relationship, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It could be just day to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I got those.

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Speaker 1: We'll be right back, y'all. All right, y'all, let's get

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Speaker 1: into it. Things that annoy you like in relationship. It

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Speaker 1: even things that you might hide from other people that

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Speaker 1: because I think as Americans, like, we just all like

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Speaker 1: Peer up, bitch, it's a recession anyway. Some of the

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Speaker 1: And I sent Tammy a video just the other day

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Speaker 2: Is just not in this snorting.

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Speaker 1: And the one time Tammy stayed at my house, my

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Speaker 1: And this is every morning. It's not as bad now

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Speaker 1: because I think sometimes people have to be consciously made

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Speaker 1: And plus I made that they go to the motherfucking

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Speaker 1: You said, is that you? And you know I told him,

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Speaker 1: morning because it literally sounds like the person is in

438
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:38,720
Speaker 1: the room with you mm hmm. So the thing was

439
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:41,680
Speaker 1: like this man is doing it and acting like nobody else,

440
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 1: like they live alone. When you live with somebody else,

441
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 1: you have to really be consciously aware of the things

442
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:49,120
Speaker 1: that you But.

443
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 2: What can you do, How can you make that shit

444
00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:51,680
Speaker 2: sound any cuter?

445
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 1: Just to the doctor and figure out why you hacking

446
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,439
Speaker 1: up so much mucus. Yeah, so he had gotten some

447
00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 1: like cough medicine and shit and kind of helped cleared

448
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:02,040
Speaker 1: up the mucas in his chest because he was literally

449
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:04,240
Speaker 1: trying to get loogie's up every fucking morning. It's like

450
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 1: laying down, It's like settling in your chest now first

451
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 1: thing in the morning, like you sneeze in, coughing and

452
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 1: hacking up that that's definitely signs of some type of

453
00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 1: health issue.

454
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,000
Speaker 2: Let me tell you what might be signs of a

455
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 2: health issue. They used to get on my nerves when

456
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:24,439
Speaker 2: my ex boyfriend used to go to the gym and

457
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:28,200
Speaker 2: he would come back in. I could smell his nuts

458
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 2: walking through dank. Like why your basketball shorts smell that?

459
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 1: They don't wash them. They don't wash them. They'll wear

460
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:39,240
Speaker 1: them several times before they wash them. So the crotch

461
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 1: area of the Jean Mars basketball shorts smell like death death.

462
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 2: I'd be like, that don't make no sense right there.

463
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,440
Speaker 2: That's used to take them off in the garage. Don't

464
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:57,360
Speaker 2: come in the house with that shit. That shit stinks disgusting.

465
00:24:58,240 --> 00:24:59,879
Speaker 2: You just got them air dry and put them back

466
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:01,359
Speaker 2: and reignite the funk.

467
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 1: Yes, or they just still have him in his bag

468
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:05,400
Speaker 1: and they pull them out at the gym and put

469
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:09,679
Speaker 1: them on. They just keep him in. I saw. I

470
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 1: think this was like PBS or something, But they literally

471
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 1: did like a bacteria test of a pair of men's jeans,

472
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:20,639
Speaker 1: and it was so much bacteria in the crotch area

473
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:22,959
Speaker 1: because they don't often.

474
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, now, how you expect me to want to put

475
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,720
Speaker 2: something that could make that smell in my mouth? I

476
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 2: don't know.

477
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 1: I guess they might think to see any thing about

478
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 1: some of these cuccies.

479
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 2: I he all right, y'all, don't tell the wife. Is

480
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 2: this one of the things I'll be doing sometimes when

481
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,359
Speaker 2: I when I sit down there, I just smell the

482
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:46,200
Speaker 2: crotch in my pats.

483
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 1: I just feel like, are you even human if you

484
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 1: don't smell yourself like you should be the first person.

485
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,639
Speaker 1: Let's that's how I know, Like this is who Gucci be.

486
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 1: Stink like just habitual stink couchies. Y'all just disrespectful because

487
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:08,240
Speaker 1: you smell like Kuchie before anybody else. Everything on your

488
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 1: body is right under your nose.

489
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 2: Cut it out. You know that right today?

490
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:16,879
Speaker 1: Yes, you knew you was giving him some Stinkkuchie. He

491
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:18,880
Speaker 1: might have had to unpack it a little bit once

492
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 1: he got up in there. And the little fuman because

493
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 1: I've heard Niggins say that like they didn't know. I'm like,

494
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 1: why'd you so fuck? I didn't know what stink until

495
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 1: we got going, right.

496
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:35,119
Speaker 2: It's not that not that balance off just a little

497
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 2: bit more now that pH is, she might not if

498
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:44,119
Speaker 2: he if he didn't smell until later, she maybe have

499
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 2: not known neither.

500
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:48,560
Speaker 1: I don't think because other people don't do those smell itself.

501
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 2: I definitely be like.

502
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,920
Speaker 1: Gucci, you never swiped the crack of your ass a

503
00:26:55,960 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 1: little bit. I put the ordering back there.

504
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:04,399
Speaker 2: Actually, Oh your buddy.

505
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 1: And between my breasts these titties, big man, and listen.

506
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:09,120
Speaker 2: I can't. I don't have no titties for the girl.

507
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 2: These titties touch you're sweat.

508
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 1: They be sweat, and if nothing else in my body

509
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:17,959
Speaker 1: be musty, these titties, these titties, and my nigga likes

510
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,639
Speaker 1: smelling them, I be so embarrassed. I'm like dog, you

511
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 1: always be violating me like as an individual, Like there,

512
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:28,719
Speaker 1: you're still an individual in a relationship, right, so you

513
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 1: want some things to still be personal a little bit.

514
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 1: I don't need you to know everything about me.

515
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:34,880
Speaker 2: I watch a.

516
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 1: Lot because I know these titties could get out of control.

517
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:40,920
Speaker 1: But he likes to catch me as soon as I

518
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:42,600
Speaker 1: come in the house, as soon as I come from

519
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 1: the gym and shit, so he could smell me.

520
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:46,959
Speaker 2: You let him see you without your wig? Yes, like

521
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:51,800
Speaker 2: a choice. Some women do not let their man see

522
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 2: them without their weave or wig ever.

523
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 1: Ever, Yeah, I got a homeboy who like his bitch

524
00:27:57,400 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 1: literally makes him leave the house or like just she

525
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,159
Speaker 1: just sneakingly like goes and get her hair done like

526
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:06,119
Speaker 1: he never sees her, take her weave out, take the

527
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 1: wig off, like you got to it. When you're living

528
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 1: with somebody, ain't nowhere around it. I'd be around here

529
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:12,919
Speaker 1: looking like Celia. If I can't be ugly at the house,

530
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 1: where can I be ugly?

531
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 2: Really? Dating? This is me, This is me and all

532
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:22,159
Speaker 2: my essences, and he.

533
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,879
Speaker 1: Be loving it. So that makes me more confident about

534
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:30,160
Speaker 1: looking ugly at the house. Right, my nigga like it.

535
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 2: Right, and that's all that matter. And there are women

536
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:34,360
Speaker 2: who won't let one of my clients that her man

537
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 2: don't even know her hair ain't hers.

538
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 1: Shame, so he don't touch it. I guess it's already

539
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 1: a rule that you don't touch black women's hair. So

540
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:46,120
Speaker 1: nigga just keep his hands to itself.

541
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 2: Mm, he do not know. But she put that curly

542
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 2: hair and it bleeds with her real hair, real nice wow.

543
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 1: And I think I think that black men in particular,

544
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 1: they really love like that curly loose hair. We probably

545
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 1: have our men if all black women had curly hair.

546
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 1: Men love here. They like to be able to put

547
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,479
Speaker 1: their hands in it. And they can't stand that they

548
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 1: can't touch our hair right like they want to give

549
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 1: you a passionate movie kiss and put their fingers.

550
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 2: Hand on your nape and then you're gonna fall run

551
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 2: into these corn rows.

552
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 1: Corn rolls, combs, bands of shit going on.

553
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 2: It's a paper wrapped around a ponytail. Got this black

554
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 2: paper crunching on your goddamn here.

555
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 1: And the comb none came unraveled with the stitching like

556
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 1: that shit mighty in the finger. All type of shit

557
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: be going on in the back of these wigs and.

558
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:48,800
Speaker 2: We yeah, sorry, sorry fellas.

559
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 1: So living with somebody. Also, I can't stand people who

560
00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 1: just be leaving lights on excessively. And I can't stand

561
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 1: like people running water excessively. Whenever I leave my water

562
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 1: running or times I hear water, I just always think about,

563
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 1: like if I'm brushing my teeth and I like, I'm

564
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 1: just leaving the water run, immediately turn it off because

565
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 1: I consciously think about, like the people who don't have

566
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: running water so here, I am just being wasteful in it,

567
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 1: you know, So I always make sure I turn the

568
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 1: water off. I don't turn the shower on until I'm

569
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 1: about to get in. This motherfucker had a shower just running.

570
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 2: Running where you at?

571
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 1: Why are you in in this shower yet? And you

572
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 1: never understood that living in the house with your single

573
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:28,960
Speaker 1: mama who had to pay all the goddamn bills until

574
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 1: you get that water building the mail as an adult,

575
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 1: I get that light building my home. No, I don't

576
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:40,000
Speaker 1: think it's satty, it's wasteful, Like why why are you

577
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 1: just there's gonna be a day where here in America

578
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,880
Speaker 1: right We're gonna be without lights for a long time.

579
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 1: Don't speak that girl, it's gonna happen, like, motherfucker exactly,

580
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 1: like she's gonna be She's sweet forever over here. We

581
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:57,479
Speaker 1: gonna experience some ship we experience we never knew, so

582
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 1: dis prepared like that's how I mentally prepare for those things.

583
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 1: Like I don't even like artificial light for real, I

584
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 1: like sunlight. So first thing in the morning, I opened

585
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 1: all the windows. I don't really turn lights on like that.

586
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 1: I woke up this morning and the fucking lamp was stolen. Like,

587
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 1: turn the lights off.

588
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 2: Stop wasting it. Yeah, I agree with that. Don't waste

589
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 2: especially the water. Why are you just letting that water run?

590
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 1: I don't understand it. And then when I'm ready to

591
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:26,720
Speaker 1: take a shower, ain't no damn hot water left.

592
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 2: The water left because that petty.

593
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 1: No, that's a pet peeve of mine.

594
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:34,480
Speaker 2: I'm here for that.

595
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: Messiness is a pet peeve of mine. And See, there's

596
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 1: a difference between being messy and nasty and dirty, because

597
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 1: I could be messy myself leaving ship places, you know,

598
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 1: especially like if I'm getting ready to go out somewhere,

599
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 1: like I dread getting back home and got to put

600
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 1: all this shit up in the bathroom.

601
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 2: The makeup. Mm hmmm, h yeah.

602
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 1: I know that that I might be being petty with

603
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,240
Speaker 1: the messy stuff because I could be messing myself. But

604
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 1: then I don't like other people's mess me neither.

605
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 2: That's the thing. I remember one time my friend she

606
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 2: was eating some food on my couch, which I don't mind,

607
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 2: you can sit on my couch and eat, but she

608
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 2: put my decorative pillow in her lap and use it

609
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 2: as a tray for her greasy ass whatever. I don't

610
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 2: even know if the box was greasy, but in my

611
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 2: head they had grease, all right.

612
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 1: I was like, does that to a whole street? Who

613
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: does that?

614
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 2: Like? Why are you using my pillow as a tray, bitch?

615
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 2: Put it in your lap or go to the table.

616
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 1: Now. One thing, now, however somebody treats her space is

617
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 1: how I'll probably tend to treat it. I'm not nasty, though,

618
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 1: so I'm really not about to be at nobody's house

619
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 1: that's nasty. But if I happen to be at a

620
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 1: nasty house, I'm still not gonna like throw trash on

621
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 1: the floor because they do. You know, I'm gonna be

622
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 1: trying to get the fuck up, But there as quick

623
00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 1: as possible, but you know, generally, I try to treat

624
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 1: people's spaces how they treat it. So I would never

625
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 1: come to somebody's house that's like clean and just do

626
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 1: it the fuck I want to do in there.

627
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but people will. But some people just subconsciously don't

628
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 2: realize that they're even doing it.

629
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:11,479
Speaker 1: Is their upbringing, you know what I'm saying, Like, you

630
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 1: go to some people's house and check out that goddamn

631
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 1: bathroom like dog whenn't lie SIMMI clean as toilets molding there.

632
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 2: Right, it's black and it I gotta put my couchie

633
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 2: near it. Mm hmm. Okay. Another thing that I've been doing, y'all.

634
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 2: Don't tell nobody this. When I'm all right, it's kind

635
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 2: of gross. But when I'm on our period and I

636
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 2: have on a pad, sometimes I put like a little

637
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 2: bit of tissue between the pad and me because something

638
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 2: need to catch that before.

639
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 1: Just walk around with snails Like. I don't think men,

640
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 1: like somebody might think that's nasty, but I really think

641
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 1: that women probably do that more often than we.

642
00:33:55,320 --> 00:34:00,520
Speaker 2: I admitted it out loud, y'all. I do that sometimes

643
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 2: I've put a little a little.

644
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 1: Piece, yeah, because you just be walking around and you

645
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:06,120
Speaker 1: just feel a snail drop.

646
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:11,440
Speaker 2: It's it's so miserable.

647
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 1: I do need to make something that gets closer.

648
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:21,399
Speaker 2: Closer, closer, yeah, to your vagina, like the men who

649
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 2: make the ship. We gave you tampons, bitch, put one

650
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 2: up there, but that's too close. I don't want it

651
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,239
Speaker 2: in me. I just want it closer to me, So.

652
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 1: We don't want free fluing. So even when using like

653
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 1: those cups, because I use like the soft disc for

654
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 1: a while, but it's man, it's just tough to get

655
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:41,800
Speaker 1: a position properly to where it's like especially heavy D yeah.

656
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:44,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's catching all of it. And then also it's

657
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:48,839
Speaker 2: just fucking disgusting to put that girl about hit the floor.

658
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 1: It's a crime scene dripping all everywhere too, like I care.

659
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't do that. I did it for a

660
00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:00,879
Speaker 2: while and I just difficult, but I can't do it.

661
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 1: My period lasted a shorter time also. I realized that

662
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 1: because I had been using tampons for years, and then

663
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:09,680
Speaker 1: when I finally stopped using tampons and just like using

664
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: paths and I started with the soft cups, like, my

665
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:15,440
Speaker 1: period was much shorter because you litting everything free just

666
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 1: free flow, yeah, and less cramping all that shit. So

667
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 1: I don't know.

668
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:24,840
Speaker 2: Then I got some I got some pads that I

669
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 2: like because I'm trying to like be more conscious of

670
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:29,280
Speaker 2: what I'm put next to my body and my body

671
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 2: and those things. So I got uh pads from what's

672
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:34,959
Speaker 2: that name of that brand that just came out that's

673
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:37,560
Speaker 2: not the body was honey pot. I bought some of

674
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 2: those pads something about cooling on it, right, and I

675
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:44,439
Speaker 2: ain't think of it. And I put that pad on, bitch,

676
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 2: like I put vixed vapor. I was like, oh my god.

677
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 1: It's like the expeariment in there, I said, distance. I

678
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 1: like that actually, and you know, you get used to

679
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:01,399
Speaker 1: it after a while. It doesn't like, it doesn't really

680
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:03,400
Speaker 1: feel that crazy like the cooling sensation.

681
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 2: I ain't trying to put I'm cool.

682
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:08,479
Speaker 1: I like it, man.

683
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 2: Somebody my friend, she's like, she liked it. That's why

684
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 2: she recommended to me get the cooling ones. No, y'all,

685
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 2: pussy's hot, y'all, pussy too hot, that's the problem.

686
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:21,799
Speaker 1: Got that cereal pussy over there? What's it supposed to

687
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:22,240
Speaker 1: be hot?

688
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 2: That's too high? Because I don't need that shit.

689
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:25,399
Speaker 1: Her.

690
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 2: I ain't like it all right, Sorry, I went off

691
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 2: on the tangent.

692
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 1: You know what else I don't like. I don't like

693
00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:35,799
Speaker 1: when somebody when it and I feel like so. I

694
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 1: had an ex whenever he needed me to do something

695
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:41,360
Speaker 1: for him, he would like either text, call, or like

696
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:43,879
Speaker 1: if we face the face, it was always I need

697
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:48,279
Speaker 1: you to such and such and such. You don't need

698
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 1: me to do ship now you don't ask me properly. Hey, babe,

699
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 1: can you such and such? Is it okay? Are you

700
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 1: able to do like something? Like? You have to properly

701
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 1: ask me to do otherwise I feel like, who the

702
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 1: fuck are you talking to? Like you don't need to

703
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 1: do anything.

704
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:14,799
Speaker 2: I'm like that too, though I can admit that I

705
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 2: have been conscious. I've been actively reminding myself to say

706
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 2: please at the end of any command that I've made

707
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:24,719
Speaker 2: to someone, because it comes off like a command, but

708
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 2: once you say please, it comes off as a request,

709
00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 2: you know. So I'd be like, get that thing over

710
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 2: there for me, please, I throw that please on the

711
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 2: end real quick, because that is annoying.

712
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 1: So that it actually built up from working in a

713
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:43,920
Speaker 1: corporate setting right and having a deal with different vendors

714
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 1: and white people. They be real passive aggressive, right, and

715
00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:51,799
Speaker 1: they be having these micro aggressions that they try to

716
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 1: take out on you whenever they fucking can. And I

717
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 1: remember a couple people who worked for the account I

718
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:01,879
Speaker 1: was on. They would sending email else like that, Hey,

719
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 1: I need you to such and such and such. I'm

720
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 1: a grown person, and though we are a vendor for

721
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 1: your company, I make more money than you. Who the

722
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,600
Speaker 1: fuck are you talking to? If you need me to

723
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 1: do anything? If I need you to do anything, there's

724
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:16,719
Speaker 1: a way. There's email etiquette. So I knew that was

725
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 1: their way of trying to belittle me. Basically, I need

726
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 1: you to such and such, And that's how I feel

727
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 1: in a relationship when a man asked me, I need

728
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:27,680
Speaker 1: you to such a I'm not your secretary. There's a

729
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 1: way to ask another grown person to do something for you,

730
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:32,919
Speaker 1: because I'm not required to do any of the things

731
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:38,280
Speaker 1: you're asking, So you have to ask nicely. So please, Yeah,

732
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 1: they don't want to say please.

733
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 2: I don't like when someone texts me what I'm saying

734
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 2: I love her.

735
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:49,839
Speaker 1: I don't, I mean, I just I do. And then

736
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes I try to consciously be aware of

737
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:54,840
Speaker 1: that too, like, Hey, it is first thing, first message,

738
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:57,359
Speaker 1: but you ain't the first person I talked to this morning.

739
00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 1: So I'm just I know. We don't like that cause

740
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:08,360
Speaker 1: you respond back good morning, bitch, and that's her patty,

741
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 1: good morning.

742
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:12,399
Speaker 2: I will not answer nothing the fuck you asked me

743
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 2: good morning? Because did I sleep with you last night?

744
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 1: Bitch?

745
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 2: Niggas are oh niggas do that so much too? Wy

746
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 2: D don't wy d me?

747
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 1: And that's it?

748
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's it. Uh uh you won't get no response.

749
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 1: I don't like somebody telling me good night and I

750
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 1: ain't talk to you all day? What? Why the fuck

751
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 1: are you text me at ten am good night? And

752
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:41,840
Speaker 1: we hadn't spoken all day?

753
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:42,840
Speaker 2: That's what?

754
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, at ten o'clock at night? Yeah, okay, and you

755
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 1: haven't talked to me today? Why are you texting me

756
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:48,879
Speaker 1: good night?

757
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:50,920
Speaker 2: Bye? Bitch?

758
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:54,240
Speaker 1: You a hope? Because what.

759
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 2: This? How I know I'm Auntie because when I get

760
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:02,160
Speaker 2: a w y D text, I said a double WWJD.

761
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:03,520
Speaker 1: Stupid?

762
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:06,879
Speaker 2: What would Jesus do? Ignore you like he been doing.

763
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 1: I don't like overly clingy like I want you to

764
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:16,200
Speaker 1: like me, but I only want you to like me

765
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 1: as much as I want you to like me, don't

766
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:22,320
Speaker 1: like me too much? Get some of my fucking nerves,

767
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:23,680
Speaker 1: Like why you like me that much?

768
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:26,480
Speaker 2: Too soon? Like, don't ask me to move in with

769
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 2: you on the first date. That's too much.

770
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 1: Somebody's done that before. Yes, somebody's asked to move in

771
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:33,719
Speaker 1: with me. I guess I just look like a lick.

772
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 1: I'm not sure. Anytime a nigga asks me for money,

773
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 1: i'd be like, dog, do I look like a trick?

774
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 1: I literally ask niggas for money, Like why did you?

775
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 1: Why are you asking me for anything? And I gave

776
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:49,759
Speaker 1: you a discount on this pussy. I require you to

777
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: do nothing because I want to fuck on you. But

778
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:53,920
Speaker 1: if you want to fuck me, it's like you gotta

779
00:40:53,960 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: compensate me. How are you asking me for money that's correct?

780
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:04,759
Speaker 1: Or to move into my house? I had a dude

781
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:06,919
Speaker 1: like really, like stop talking to me because he said

782
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 1: I wasn't there for him when he needed me. I

783
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:13,319
Speaker 1: had literally just met this nigga and he had like

784
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 1: a lot of life going on. He was not a

785
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 1: bum at all. He just had a lot of shit,

786
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 1: like personal shit going on, and his lease was coming

787
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 1: to an end. He really didn't want to get into

788
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 1: another lease before buying a house, and he asked to

789
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:29,799
Speaker 1: move in with me. Now, you know, like i'd be

790
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: doing too much sometimes when I'm fucking sing, because I

791
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 1: just knew I had like other shit going on, so

792
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:36,280
Speaker 1: like that means I have to be in a relationship

793
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:38,600
Speaker 1: with this person if he moves in my house, because

794
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:41,319
Speaker 1: how I'm gonna talk to these other niggas. So I

795
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:43,440
Speaker 1: just you know, it was like, nah, like I'm not

796
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:46,759
Speaker 1: comfortable with that, but I did still want to continue

797
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:49,000
Speaker 1: a relationship with him. You just can't live with me,

798
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 1: and he.

799
00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:54,279
Speaker 2: Stopped talking to me, and he stopped talking to you. Yeah,

800
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 2: I don't like if I'm seeing a man and we

801
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:01,400
Speaker 2: decided to get intimate and they don't want to use

802
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:01,840
Speaker 2: a condom.

803
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 1: I had a nigga and not want to have sex

804
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:08,240
Speaker 1: with me. And this was actually a friend. Likewise, yes,

805
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 1: he did not want to fuck me because I told

806
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 1: him he had to put a condom on, and you

807
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 1: know what he said, I know what the he said,

808
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:19,280
Speaker 1: I know what the bitches I be fucking be doing.

809
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 1: How you know what, nigga?

810
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:24,440
Speaker 2: First of all, how you know and how do you

811
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 2: think that's gonna turn me on? All these bitches wroth

812
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 2: you trust that you trust so much, Well, well in

813
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 2: that case, here goes this wrow pussy exactly exactly mm hmmm.

814
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 1: And I was like, like, we just never had sex.

815
00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 1: That's still my friend though he's married and stuff now.

816
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 1: But what nigga, we was young as hell, Like.

817
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:52,840
Speaker 2: I know what the bitches that I fucking be doing.

818
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 1: Right, boy, if you literally turn this pussy down, I

819
00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:00,759
Speaker 1: just think that his dick. That's how much he just

820
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:03,799
Speaker 1: didn't use condoms, Like the dick wasn't working without it.

821
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 2: Right, I can't feel nothing. You ain't gonna feel nothing,

822
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 2: gonna feel nothing, not today but the inside of them

823
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 2: dirty jeans with all that bacteria.

824
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 1: I don't like double standards. I know they exist, but

825
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 1: I don't be liking like to have to argue with

826
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:31,400
Speaker 1: a nigga about some double standard ship on either side.

827
00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 1: Like this was an ongoing argument where somebody used to

828
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 1: talk to like when black men go with somebody outside

829
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 1: they race, versus like when black women do it. So

830
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:48,160
Speaker 1: my argument was always black women hardly date outside their race.

831
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,719
Speaker 1: What the fuck are you talking about? All black women

832
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 1: be dating white men for a come up? I'm like,

833
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 1: that's a fucking lie. Black men literally do that for

834
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 1: a come up.

835
00:43:57,600 --> 00:43:59,480
Speaker 2: Well, I think they both do it.

836
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:02,760
Speaker 1: I think the black women that date white men usually

837
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 1: got their life together. They're usually like a type of

838
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 1: a certain type of black women. Right leave out No,

839
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:16,400
Speaker 1: but those women be having a whole life together, you

840
00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:18,920
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like they're not really dependent on

841
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:21,880
Speaker 1: that white man. Did you see I forgot these people?

842
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 1: It's Instagram, not Instagram, TikTok people. White girl, black woman,

843
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:29,719
Speaker 1: white guy. And she was just acting like her white man,

844
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 1: white savor just had this whole life for her, right

845
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:36,240
Speaker 1: oh yeah, And then it turned out she exposed them. Yeah,

846
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 1: like she had been taking care of him. Basically she

847
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 1: bought her own range rover all this shit. So white

848
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 1: daddies don't always had no money.

849
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 2: White women be going through the same shit that we

850
00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 2: go through. Not even just got one, you just got

851
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:51,759
Speaker 2: no one to talk to her. She's like, yeah, she

852
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 2: might not call him her baby daddy, but that's what

853
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 2: he is.

854
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 1: Yes, not even white women. So the girl who I

855
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:02,800
Speaker 1: bought the cat from, she's iran mm hm bitch, same

856
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 1: shit because the day I picked the cat up, like

857
00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 1: we had like a whole like conversation. Yeah, like I

858
00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:11,279
Speaker 1: was there for like two hours show we don't have

859
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: cry and everything. But she was like, I don't know

860
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:16,919
Speaker 1: why I'm telling you these things. I haven't even told

861
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:19,920
Speaker 1: my best friend. I'm like, girl, because I'm like a

862
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:24,919
Speaker 1: whole Like, yeah, you could talk to me. So I'm

863
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 1: like yeah, Like people really think and even with the

864
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: community and how caddy women are period, people think that's

865
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: something associated with Black women. No, this is a woman thing.

866
00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 1: And the things that women go through with men is

867
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 1: not exclusive to Black men either, like men from women,

868
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:44,480
Speaker 1: all races is going through it. What they niggas, what

869
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 1: they missed the niggas okay because men are men.

870
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:51,000
Speaker 2: Let me say this, I love a devil standard that's

871
00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 2: in my favor, like what you could be one like

872
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 2: paying for shit period.

873
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 1: These nigga's tired of the girl. They tired of that

874
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 1: double sta.

875
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:07,839
Speaker 2: Come to me talking about fifty fifty. That ship will

876
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 2: dry my pussy.

877
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:14,480
Speaker 1: I told you I saw because of that ship.

878
00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:17,800
Speaker 2: I don't mind helping, but don't ever suggest fifty fifty

879
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,879
Speaker 2: with me because why I'm here with you, don't say

880
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:24,759
Speaker 2: with my whole girl, she is funny.

881
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:27,839
Speaker 1: Period, and we're gonna we're gonna actually treat each other.

882
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:28,400
Speaker 1: How about that?

883
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 2: Right? Exactly?

884
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 1: Girl? I stopped talking to that dude because he basically

885
00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 1: told me, I ain't going my pocketbook on a date

886
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:38,320
Speaker 1: you invited me on. Why the fuck am I touching

887
00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 1: my bag? That bill is not my business.

888
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 2: Don't got nothing to do with it. You don't have

889
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 2: a ship to do with you in this establishment.

890
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:50,759
Speaker 1: I walked out this motherfucker, not even not even just

891
00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 1: pay my ship, Like if you didn't have the money,

892
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:54,239
Speaker 1: I still wasn't gonna pay for your ship, because why

893
00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:55,800
Speaker 1: are you inviting people out and you don't have the

894
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:58,520
Speaker 1: means to pay for the bill and that.

895
00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 2: But that doesn't mean by any means that we would

896
00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:05,080
Speaker 2: never buy our men anything or help out or contribute.

897
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:08,600
Speaker 2: But just don't be looking at me to have half,

898
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:13,799
Speaker 2: because that's dumb. The type of men that I typically like,

899
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 2: are you very ambitious and what they require for me

900
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 2: isn't necessarily monetary other things. But if it ever came

901
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 2: down to it, you don't helped me save so much.

902
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 2: You broke if something happened, I got us now, period,

903
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:39,400
Speaker 2: you know, yeah, anything else that you can think of,

904
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:41,799
Speaker 2: what's one thing that you do that you don't be

905
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 2: wanting people to know you do.

906
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 1: Oh, I got We talked about this during another episode,

907
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 1: the toilet shit. Remember I was telling you that, And

908
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 1: what else do I do?

909
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:56,200
Speaker 2: What's the toilet shit? Oh?

910
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 1: Like you're a toilet tissue to wipe the toilet.

911
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 2: Oh that you are already wipe it, right, that's not

912
00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:03,600
Speaker 2: a comment.

913
00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:07,440
Speaker 1: Oh but you know so now because I am consciously

914
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 1: aware of that. Right when I take tissue off the roll,

915
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:13,239
Speaker 1: I take two sets. So one set is the whpe

916
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:15,240
Speaker 1: mye cuchie. The other set is to wipe the toilet

917
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:18,439
Speaker 1: and flush everything. Because like when you're just doing shit,

918
00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:21,920
Speaker 1: moving fast, like you're not consciously thinking about really what

919
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 1: it is. You're just adding your fucking micro organisms to

920
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:26,120
Speaker 1: this nasty ass fucking toilet.

921
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 2: But if you're sitting on that toilet, you need to

922
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:31,879
Speaker 2: get slapped if you if you're a type of person

923
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:34,560
Speaker 2: who's gonna sit on a public toilet, at least wrap it.

924
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:38,600
Speaker 2: Wrap some tissue around that motherfucker so it's a layer.

925
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 2: Don't just be sitting in your neaked ass on that

926
00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 2: public toilet.

927
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 1: I'm getting physically sick if I got to take a

928
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:47,399
Speaker 1: shit in public, like I might, I might, I might,

929
00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:49,840
Speaker 1: like really hold it until I feel sick, until I

930
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:50,520
Speaker 1: get to the house.

931
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:56,480
Speaker 2: Man, because I took a international flight. It was nothing

932
00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:59,799
Speaker 2: I could do. I had to bro that was the

933
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 2: I was miserable trying to put his big ass in

934
00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:07,880
Speaker 2: that little because in there, No, it was so sad.

935
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 1: Bump up and hit your ass.

936
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:16,759
Speaker 2: Oh I got, I got corona, I know.

937
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:21,279
Speaker 1: I remember one time my whole bike told me he

938
00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:23,320
Speaker 1: was flushing the toilet and the water popped up and

939
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 1: hit his lip. Oh my god, I would have died

940
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:36,439
Speaker 1: right there. You don't get a bum bump, Oh my god,

941
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 1: water hit your o lips?

942
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 2: Next level, though, from the public toilet.

943
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 1: From the public toilets alive. Yes, scary. I'm telling you,

944
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 1: the public toilets is scary as fucking me.

945
00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 2: Oh what they gotta do? Anytime I'm at a drive through,

946
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:55,279
Speaker 2: I don't give a funk who on the phone If

947
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 2: it stopped my time to order, I'm a hold on

948
00:49:58,080 --> 00:49:59,960
Speaker 2: one second, and I'm ana mute that phone so they

949
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:01,879
Speaker 2: I can't hear my order, because that's none of your

950
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:03,239
Speaker 2: fucking business.

951
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:06,879
Speaker 1: I realized my cousin was doing that shit, and she's

952
00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 1: skinny as helles. I don't know why, but she told me,

953
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 1: I'm I'm having a whole conversation with you, right, and

954
00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, like you're not responding to what

955
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So I'm like, damn, did I hang up?

956
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:21,759
Speaker 1: What happened? And she abruptly abruptly comes back, was like, oh,

957
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 1: I muted the phone.

958
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:25,879
Speaker 2: So she goes on she.

959
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 1: Doesn't order this food from wherever? She pulled that back,

960
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:30,840
Speaker 1: and I talked shit so bad about McDonald's. The bitch

961
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 1: didn't want to tell me like it was McDonald's that

962
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 1: she was ordering.

963
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:38,400
Speaker 2: Yeap, cause you'll be mixed shaming bitches.

964
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 1: I don't really try a small fucker, see ay McDonalds.

965
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like honest with y'all because I feel like,

966
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:46,200
Speaker 1: like if the zombie apocalypse happened, like y'all first, y'all

967
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 1: gonna turn first eating that kangaroo meat for McDonald's.

968
00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 2: Listen, man, And sometimes I'm like, I don't really eat.

969
00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 2: I tried to. Everybody was like raving about the fileo

970
00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 2: fish and I just never had that. So I went

971
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:03,239
Speaker 2: and got one the other day. Mid y'all hype that

972
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:08,080
Speaker 2: sandwich up so bad McDonald's. Yeah, burger king big fish

973
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 2: used to be the ship.

974
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:14,800
Speaker 1: Okay, it used to be. Yeah, it used to be big.

975
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 1: Now it was a little ass squhere. I like. I

976
00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:19,360
Speaker 1: like fish sandwiches though, so I do be buying like

977
00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:23,920
Speaker 1: the frozen cod from the grocery store and making fish sandwiches.

978
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 1: I use to have Wainian bred girl make my own

979
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:32,080
Speaker 1: totter sauce loaded with lettuce and tomato. Them sandwiches be busting.

980
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 2: Man, that that uh fileto fish was mid grade? I

981
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:40,920
Speaker 2: was disappointed. What I go If I do go through McDonald's,

982
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:44,240
Speaker 2: I typically just get a large fried and a sugar

983
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:47,000
Speaker 2: free French vanilla iced coffee. That's it. Those are my

984
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:50,960
Speaker 2: go tos. That's all I want them. Fries still a hit.

985
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 2: I don't even fries.

986
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:53,279
Speaker 1: Is it for me?

987
00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 2: Man?

988
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 1: The waffle fries are busting Chick fil A fries? You

989
00:51:57,000 --> 00:51:58,440
Speaker 1: know the Chick fil A by my house?

990
00:51:59,320 --> 00:51:59,799
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm.

991
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 1: I have been going there getting cups of ice every day.

992
00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:04,319
Speaker 1: That's all I get from Chicken filing. If I don't

993
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 1: get a cup of ice, it'd be like a small

994
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:08,520
Speaker 1: fry or a cookie. If I would want to give

995
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 1: them some money for the day, to get the cup

996
00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:12,440
Speaker 1: of ice. But all I really want from them is

997
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:14,080
Speaker 1: the cup of ice. Girl, Why now they got a

998
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:15,839
Speaker 1: whole policy where you got to buy something to get

999
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:17,319
Speaker 1: the cup of ice. I was like, why don't y'all

1000
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:19,040
Speaker 1: just putting the system in charge? Ninety nine cents for

1001
00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:21,759
Speaker 1: the fucking ice right now? I gotta come there and

1002
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:24,720
Speaker 1: I gotta buy because I cook so good.

1003
00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:27,520
Speaker 2: Girl, you need an iron peel.

1004
00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:30,400
Speaker 1: I does not have a little iron. I just eat

1005
00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:35,920
Speaker 1: a whole meals. It's literally drinking water. Yeah that's all

1006
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:38,920
Speaker 1: it's not. But it's eating the water. But I like it.

1007
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 2: We sound like two babyds. We's not like two baby's

1008
00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:45,600
Speaker 2: right now, how many y'all do that? Turn down the value,

1009
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:48,200
Speaker 2: cut off your phone, mute when you go through the

1010
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:52,280
Speaker 2: draft room because you don't need to know what size

1011
00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 2: I got, bitch.

1012
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:58,239
Speaker 1: You can't get it super size. Unnecessary criticism. Now, I

1013
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:01,439
Speaker 1: know I could be real critical, but I came from

1014
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:08,480
Speaker 1: a real like criticizer. My damn mama, Like, I think

1015
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 1: I don't like people who just are overly critical of

1016
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:20,960
Speaker 1: every and anything people do. It's kind of annoying to me. Yeah, Like,

1017
00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:22,840
Speaker 1: shut the fuck up, like it's okay. To shut the

1018
00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:24,239
Speaker 1: fuck up sometimes, you know.

1019
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:26,279
Speaker 2: Cause you ain't got a judge, jury or having the

1020
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 2: heir for nobody, so just relax.

1021
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:32,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, like shut the So that's one of my pet

1022
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:40,000
Speaker 1: peeves as well. Did I say this already? Laziness like

1023
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 1: with personal shit like personal care and stuff like that,

1024
00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:45,320
Speaker 1: Like I know some people and I guess it's probably

1025
00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:47,319
Speaker 1: gonna go back to people houses at that point. Like

1026
00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:49,319
Speaker 1: I know some real fly people and they house a

1027
00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 1: fucking mess.

1028
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 2: Like bitch.

1029
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:53,480
Speaker 1: I used to be telling somebody I love so much,

1030
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 1: how it's gonna put their fucking bathroom on Facebook so

1031
00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:02,280
Speaker 1: people could see you ain't a babbage how you're living,

1032
00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 1: because how you're really living.

1033
00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:07,840
Speaker 2: Like sometimes I be thinking, then people be depressed or something,

1034
00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:11,359
Speaker 2: because ain't no way you're just living in this feel

1035
00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 2: comfortably like you got to be something going on in

1036
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:16,600
Speaker 2: your mental well that's how they don't feel though.

1037
00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:20,319
Speaker 1: So whenever I have cluttered, I'm literally feeling like that

1038
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 1: in my mind. That's why I told you I got

1039
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:23,680
Speaker 1: to go clear that storage out because that story is

1040
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 1: literally living rent free in my mind, you know, like

1041
00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 1: having to deal with the mess that's in there and

1042
00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:31,839
Speaker 1: getting rid of all those things that I really don't need.

1043
00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:33,960
Speaker 1: But there are a few things there that I need.

1044
00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:36,880
Speaker 1: But that's how my brain feels until I get it cleared.

1045
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, all my shit in storage right now, and I'm

1046
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:46,160
Speaker 2: living like a minimalist, and I'm realizing, like I could

1047
00:54:46,239 --> 00:54:48,880
Speaker 2: really leave all that shit in there and survived. I

1048
00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:49,960
Speaker 2: don't need sh.

1049
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:52,120
Speaker 1: That's how I'm feeling about that stuff. But I have

1050
00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:54,200
Speaker 1: a trunk in there with a lot of personal things.

1051
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want that storage to end up in an

1052
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:58,879
Speaker 1: auction situation, so I don't just want to leave it. Plus,

1053
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 1: I got, like I got sit in there, I can

1054
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:03,239
Speaker 1: at least sell or give away to people who really

1055
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:07,479
Speaker 1: need it. Like, so I plan one, I want my ship.

1056
00:55:08,120 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: I plan on like my king size bed in there

1057
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:12,359
Speaker 1: like the other one. Like, I plan on selling that ship,

1058
00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:14,160
Speaker 1: or I might just give it away to somebody whoever

1059
00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:19,959
Speaker 1: can come pick that big ton size bed up Dining said, listen,

1060
00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 1: if you're in Columbia and you listen to this, this

1061
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:25,719
Speaker 1: this show, y'all meet me at that storage unit this Saturday.

1062
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:31,120
Speaker 1: Uh what it is when it's Saturday the twenty eighth.

1063
00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:33,239
Speaker 1: If you need some French and shit kitchen shit that

1064
00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:34,279
Speaker 1: type of stuff.

1065
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:36,319
Speaker 2: DM her so she can know, so you can know

1066
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:36,879
Speaker 2: West Store.

1067
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, message me, because I got a whole bunch

1068
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:42,799
Speaker 1: of shit. So I got that thought bad. Remember the

1069
00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:46,000
Speaker 1: thought band. The toftest bed that bad was seventeen hundred dollars.

1070
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 1: I don't understand how anybody was ever calling it a

1071
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:51,640
Speaker 1: thought bed. But anyway, anyway, I have a story all

1072
00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:54,640
Speaker 1: the whole be steady knocking.

1073
00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:57,200
Speaker 2: Or a version of it.

1074
00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 1: Yep, if you need a bed dying, let me know.

1075
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:02,879
Speaker 1: Got a leather chair in there.

1076
00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:05,919
Speaker 2: I just realized, I just come on here and say

1077
00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:10,920
Speaker 2: whatever that I'll be putting the.

1078
00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:15,440
Speaker 1: Coolie little balls, little dingleberry balls rolled up in there.

1079
00:56:18,040 --> 00:56:19,200
Speaker 2: So what y'all do it too?

1080
00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:22,840
Speaker 1: Talking loud? I talk loud.

1081
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:24,879
Speaker 2: I'm about to say the nerve of you.

1082
00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:28,840
Speaker 1: But I'm really quiet though, Like okay, if me and

1083
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:30,760
Speaker 1: if it's just me and this cat in this house,

1084
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:35,319
Speaker 1: like it's quiet. I barely be having TVs on, I

1085
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:38,200
Speaker 1: barely have the radio. Like I literally I be quiet.

1086
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:50,520
Speaker 1: I promise i'd be in the house like smoking, having

1087
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:53,920
Speaker 1: a good old loudass time by myself. No, I be quiet.

1088
00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 1: So like the minute this nigga come in the house,

1089
00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:58,239
Speaker 1: is just like it's just sensation.

1090
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:01,960
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. I seen over stimulation.

1091
00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:04,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I seen a post on TikTok and I might

1092
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:06,120
Speaker 1: have said this before, but it's said, no matter how

1093
00:57:06,200 --> 00:57:09,440
Speaker 1: much you love a man, you know you could be

1094
00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:12,239
Speaker 1: madly in love with them. It's just something about it

1095
00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:13,360
Speaker 1: when they're not home.

1096
00:57:13,800 --> 00:57:15,080
Speaker 2: That feels so good.

1097
00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 1: It's just something about like, I love you so much,

1098
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 1: but nigga, when you ain't here, I be feeling like

1099
00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:27,840
Speaker 1: a weight lift off me. That's good.

1100
00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:30,000
Speaker 2: Then, you know what, it's so nice. That's one thing

1101
00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:33,160
Speaker 2: I will say it's good about having military men is

1102
00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:35,040
Speaker 2: when I mean it's not I mean it's not nice,

1103
00:57:35,080 --> 00:57:40,040
Speaker 2: but it is when they go deploy, like oh you're

1104
00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:44,600
Speaker 2: gone for a while. Yeah, last free and last Yes,

1105
00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:47,320
Speaker 2: I remember I used to live next door. This is

1106
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:49,560
Speaker 2: when I was living on the military base, and I

1107
00:57:49,680 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 2: used to live next door to this woman. Well she

1108
00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 2: wasn't right next door, but close by. And she used

1109
00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:58,160
Speaker 2: to wear like laun jean skirts and white socks with

1110
00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 2: her kids and black girls all right, and T shirts

1111
00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:03,200
Speaker 2: with a loan, you know the type. She got a

1112
00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:07,720
Speaker 2: long skirt with a T shirt. Okay, so very homely. Baby.

1113
00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:11,400
Speaker 2: Her husband deployed. I don't know that woman turned into

1114
00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 2: somebody totally different when that nigga was gone. She had

1115
00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:17,760
Speaker 2: hip hop music blaring out the window, had on different

1116
00:58:17,840 --> 00:58:18,600
Speaker 2: kind of clothes.

1117
00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:24,200
Speaker 1: I'm like oking a sergeant major, right, and that was

1118
00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:27,000
Speaker 1: that free at last moment. Yeah, man, I don't know

1119
00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:27,600
Speaker 1: what it is.

1120
00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1121
00:58:29,680 --> 00:58:32,640
Speaker 1: Do men have like a chaos energy or something like

1122
00:58:32,680 --> 00:58:34,720
Speaker 1: it's something with it, you know what I'm saying. I

1123
00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:37,000
Speaker 1: can see like they bad, but it's something with their energy.

1124
00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:41,080
Speaker 2: It's just I just think it's like something about having

1125
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 2: separation that's just good for one's individual needs, you know,

1126
00:58:47,600 --> 00:58:51,040
Speaker 2: just being away from each other. That's a little wel Yeah,

1127
00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:55,920
Speaker 2: peace of mind as an individual. See, that's what I'm

1128
00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 2: scared of. I don't know, Like I know that my

1129
00:58:58,640 --> 00:59:02,760
Speaker 2: next relationship might have might need to be a little unconventional,

1130
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:05,600
Speaker 2: Like he needs to have a job that travel. I

1131
00:59:05,640 --> 00:59:07,800
Speaker 2: need to have a job that like we can't be

1132
00:59:07,920 --> 00:59:08,200
Speaker 2: up on.

1133
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 1: They like when this nigga leave the house, I don't

1134
00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:15,400
Speaker 1: call him like he'll just randomly FaceTime me. I just

1135
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:18,520
Speaker 1: want to see what you're doing. Why, Like I'm gonna

1136
00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 1: see you later. We lived together, you know what I'm saying,

1137
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:23,760
Speaker 1: I'll be on the phone where my homegirl's way more

1138
00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:26,600
Speaker 1: than him, Like, but and I don't call him, like

1139
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:28,960
Speaker 1: I don't be checking for him nothing because I know

1140
00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:30,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna see you. It's just different.

1141
00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:35,680
Speaker 2: It's just don't you miss the times when there were

1142
00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:39,720
Speaker 2: no cell phones and y'all left for the day individually

1143
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:43,320
Speaker 2: and didn't communicate until it was time to come back together.

1144
00:59:43,440 --> 00:59:43,960
Speaker 2: You couldn't.

1145
00:59:44,040 --> 00:59:46,160
Speaker 1: We wasn't unless you got wrong enough to have these

1146
00:59:46,200 --> 00:59:48,880
Speaker 1: relationships and we didn't have cell phones. I feel like, well,

1147
00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:49,840
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying.

1148
00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:52,479
Speaker 2: No, yeah, I'm saying we weren't old enough for that shit.

1149
00:59:52,560 --> 00:59:55,760
Speaker 2: But I missed those times.

1150
00:59:56,840 --> 00:59:59,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like you're not expected to be available.

1151
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:05,160
Speaker 2: Yeah all day. Yeah, somebody access FaceTime? Why you need

1152
01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:09,800
Speaker 2: a FaceTime? I'm a big facetimer, But like you know,

1153
01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:12,760
Speaker 2: it's just such an invasion of privacy, Like people expect

1154
01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:14,800
Speaker 2: you to look at like, ain't nothing worse than you

1155
01:00:14,840 --> 01:00:18,840
Speaker 2: being on FaceTime with a nigga that they've seen you

1156
01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:20,840
Speaker 2: in the bed. But then they be like, hey, this

1157
01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:23,880
Speaker 2: is my mama, you laying down in your pajamas with

1158
01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 2: your head scarf.

1159
01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:27,480
Speaker 1: All that's not how I want you to introduce he exactly,

1160
01:00:30,800 --> 01:00:33,960
Speaker 1: But niggas don't be thinking dog.

1161
01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:37,760
Speaker 2: Hi, ma'am in my bonnet and I just smoke some weed,

1162
01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:42,280
Speaker 2: eyes all over, Like, what's wrong with you? She gonna

1163
01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:44,480
Speaker 2: walk her into my bedroom right now? So why would

1164
01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:46,040
Speaker 2: you turn that phone around like that.

1165
01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:48,040
Speaker 1: Look, here's one thing, and we're gonna wrap this up

1166
01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:49,760
Speaker 1: in a minute. But this, here's one thing that I

1167
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:55,480
Speaker 1: don't mind. But I know annoys people. Uh, interjection and conversation,

1168
01:00:55,720 --> 01:01:01,000
Speaker 1: interrupting people. I don't mind this day long, okay, because

1169
01:01:01,040 --> 01:01:02,960
Speaker 1: I don't believe that you can converse, you can have

1170
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:06,040
Speaker 1: a conversation without interjection. It's just impossible because caau at

1171
01:01:06,080 --> 01:01:09,720
Speaker 1: that point, it's not a conversation. Bitch. You obviously on

1172
01:01:09,760 --> 01:01:12,520
Speaker 1: a podium and I'm out in an audience and I'm

1173
01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:13,320
Speaker 1: just listening to you.

1174
01:01:13,360 --> 01:01:16,000
Speaker 2: Just gotta take you, just gotta take turns. It is hard,

1175
01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:20,560
Speaker 2: especially when you're the conversation that has some passion involved. Uh,

1176
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 2: it is hard to wait your turn. But you never

1177
01:01:25,120 --> 01:01:27,360
Speaker 2: get to really hear each other if you're both yelling

1178
01:01:27,360 --> 01:01:28,080
Speaker 2: at the same time.

1179
01:01:28,200 --> 01:01:31,320
Speaker 1: Usually when I interject is when somebody is saying something

1180
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:34,320
Speaker 1: that wasn't that isn't what I said. You see what

1181
01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:36,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying, So let me I'm interjecting to give you

1182
01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 1: some clarity and then you can continue on. Because if

1183
01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 1: I let you speak for five minutes, I don't even

1184
01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:44,240
Speaker 1: remember the beginning and the end. I don't remember none

1185
01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:48,280
Speaker 1: of the mashed potatoes in the middle. So you have

1186
01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:51,280
Speaker 1: to allow people to interject in conversation. I don't think

1187
01:01:51,320 --> 01:01:58,400
Speaker 1: that anybody. Last week I had some pretty some pretty

1188
01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:03,560
Speaker 1: exhausting conversations with people, A couple of people that I

1189
01:02:03,640 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 1: love and one I don't even care to talk to

1190
01:02:06,360 --> 01:02:08,840
Speaker 1: no more. Like that's that really was it. And it

1191
01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:11,560
Speaker 1: wasn't even a verbal conversation initially. It was just on

1192
01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:14,080
Speaker 1: It was text messaging initially, and I'm like, what the

1193
01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:17,000
Speaker 1: fuck is happening? When I have to start saying what

1194
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:23,120
Speaker 1: the fuck is happening? Or what the fuck? Like too

1195
01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:24,920
Speaker 1: many talk I'm not talking about.

1196
01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:26,680
Speaker 2: Two years ago. You used to say that with me

1197
01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:29,760
Speaker 2: all the time, the fuck is happening?

1198
01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:33,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, because because now I'm when I start feeling confused, right,

1199
01:02:33,880 --> 01:02:37,800
Speaker 1: that's when I I got to get away. Because I'm

1200
01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:40,040
Speaker 1: not a confused person. I have a pretty sound mind.

1201
01:02:40,080 --> 01:02:42,439
Speaker 1: So if things are happening where I'm feeling like I'm

1202
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:45,240
Speaker 1: not really confused. I'm really trying to figure out, like

1203
01:02:45,280 --> 01:02:48,200
Speaker 1: what the fuck is like, what's up with our energy?

1204
01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:49,960
Speaker 1: That's really what I'm trying to figure out. I'm never

1205
01:02:50,000 --> 01:02:54,120
Speaker 1: really confused. But if I start feeling like mentally, like

1206
01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:56,000
Speaker 1: some mental anguish, I retreat.

1207
01:02:56,680 --> 01:02:59,160
Speaker 2: But I say that to I say this to, I

1208
01:02:59,160 --> 01:03:02,400
Speaker 2: say that to say this. We're in a good place now,

1209
01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:06,680
Speaker 2: so maybe you and that person can.

1210
01:03:06,240 --> 01:03:12,320
Speaker 1: You I'm tired of arguing with women about anything, okay,

1211
01:03:13,200 --> 01:03:18,000
Speaker 1: like for fucking what, yeah, bitch, And so I'm at

1212
01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:21,959
Speaker 1: the point where, like you could just talk. I don't

1213
01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:25,480
Speaker 1: got nothing to say. That's where I'm at. And just

1214
01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:27,680
Speaker 1: because I don't have anything to say doesn't mean you're right.

1215
01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:32,360
Speaker 1: It actually means you're I'm fucking nuts. If I don't

1216
01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:34,960
Speaker 1: got nothing to say, bitch, I already checked out on

1217
01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:38,080
Speaker 1: your ass. Bitch, you got it, you got it.

1218
01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:41,240
Speaker 2: So, uh, we gotta get up out of here. I

1219
01:03:41,240 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 2: gotta cutch a flight.

1220
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:44,600
Speaker 1: I ain't got no cart.

1221
01:03:45,320 --> 01:03:47,919
Speaker 2: I'm casing a flight down the street because I ain't

1222
01:03:47,920 --> 01:03:48,480
Speaker 2: got no car.

1223
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:51,680
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, we want to hear some of the

1224
01:03:51,680 --> 01:03:54,200
Speaker 1: things y'all can stand. We want to hear some of

1225
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:57,920
Speaker 1: your pet peeves. Shit to just really just irks your nerves,

1226
01:03:57,960 --> 01:04:00,680
Speaker 1: get on your damn nerves and your relationships, your friends,

1227
01:04:01,080 --> 01:04:02,880
Speaker 1: all the things people eating with their mouth open, like

1228
01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:05,280
Speaker 1: we want to know, So y'all hit us up. Let

1229
01:04:05,320 --> 01:04:08,080
Speaker 1: us know some of your pet peeves. Oh I missed

1230
01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 1: the biggest one bitch that we talked about before this. Uh,

1231
01:04:12,040 --> 01:04:14,880
Speaker 1: the farning, the fucking farning.

1232
01:04:16,800 --> 01:04:18,840
Speaker 2: I hate when you put an internet whatever.

1233
01:04:20,200 --> 01:04:23,000
Speaker 1: Listen, I'm geechee. Okay. It's a governing language, and this

1234
01:04:23,040 --> 01:04:28,160
Speaker 1: is how we say it's okay you okay with pomp.

1235
01:04:28,920 --> 01:04:30,400
Speaker 2: That also smells really okay.

1236
01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:33,280
Speaker 1: Don't fucking poop round me, dog. I don't give a

1237
01:04:33,360 --> 01:04:35,640
Speaker 1: damn how long we've been together. I'm not just farting

1238
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:38,400
Speaker 1: in front of my man. I'm not just letting out

1239
01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:40,320
Speaker 1: all these type of flatching lists in the middle of

1240
01:04:40,360 --> 01:04:44,680
Speaker 1: a conversation with you while we're talking, and I'm just like, like,

1241
01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:47,360
Speaker 1: come on, man, if I far, it's a mistake and

1242
01:04:47,440 --> 01:04:50,680
Speaker 1: I was unconscious, I was sleep if I let out

1243
01:04:50,720 --> 01:04:55,640
Speaker 1: of farn, okay, but niggas be far in and I'm

1244
01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:56,280
Speaker 1: sick of it.

1245
01:04:56,840 --> 01:04:59,560
Speaker 2: I don't I won't farre either, not not in front

1246
01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:02,600
Speaker 2: of a What depends on how long we've been together, honestly,

1247
01:05:03,440 --> 01:05:06,120
Speaker 2: because I definitely farted in front of him.

1248
01:05:06,320 --> 01:05:08,760
Speaker 1: But was it an accident or you just really pushed

1249
01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:09,920
Speaker 1: out of front.

1250
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:14,080
Speaker 2: It was never on purpose, but it happened, and I

1251
01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:17,600
Speaker 2: didn't feel like hugely embarrassed by it. At some point

1252
01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:20,600
Speaker 2: it was like, hey, I'm a human, get over it.

1253
01:05:21,040 --> 01:05:22,840
Speaker 2: But there was a time where I would be like,

1254
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:26,480
Speaker 2: I wouldn't shit, I wouldn't farre, I wouldn't do anything

1255
01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:28,440
Speaker 2: while he was around, like, please go to the store

1256
01:05:28,480 --> 01:05:29,880
Speaker 2: and give me some ice cream right now, Please go

1257
01:05:29,920 --> 01:05:31,280
Speaker 2: to the front, please.

1258
01:05:32,680 --> 01:05:33,439
Speaker 1: Ice cream, bitch.

1259
01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:35,880
Speaker 2: So I could just like just go ship.

1260
01:05:38,760 --> 01:05:40,960
Speaker 1: I don't mind faring, but I don't I know when

1261
01:05:41,000 --> 01:05:43,960
Speaker 1: you accidentally far and when you and when you pushing

1262
01:05:44,040 --> 01:05:47,520
Speaker 1: one out. I'm not pushing out far in front of

1263
01:05:47,560 --> 01:05:48,720
Speaker 1: a man. You're wiles.

1264
01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:51,480
Speaker 2: I used to listen. It was in college. This guy

1265
01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:54,120
Speaker 2: he was so fine. He recently passed away, and me

1266
01:05:54,160 --> 01:05:57,880
Speaker 2: and him we used to kick it. May he rest

1267
01:05:57,920 --> 01:06:00,400
Speaker 2: in peace. He used the Dutch o in me and

1268
01:06:00,680 --> 01:06:03,720
Speaker 2: you can get pink guy. They used to piss me

1269
01:06:03,760 --> 01:06:06,400
Speaker 2: off so bad. He far under the blanket and then

1270
01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:08,040
Speaker 2: hold me under there, and he thought it was the

1271
01:06:08,080 --> 01:06:08,640
Speaker 2: funniest thing.

1272
01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:11,640
Speaker 1: Oh man, that is disgusting and faring on the bed

1273
01:06:11,760 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 1: is wild, Like why are you pulling into this fabric.

1274
01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:19,520
Speaker 2: And then holding me under here with your stink ass firk.

1275
01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:22,200
Speaker 1: It's so mean, Like the farnt is gonna be stuck

1276
01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:25,120
Speaker 1: in the mattress. Okay, that's why your mattress so heavy,

1277
01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:28,720
Speaker 1: because you got about one hundred eleven trillion farns from

1278
01:06:28,760 --> 01:06:29,680
Speaker 1: different niggas in it.

1279
01:06:30,240 --> 01:06:33,640
Speaker 2: And then your genes. That's why your gens got the bacteria.

1280
01:06:33,880 --> 01:06:39,440
Speaker 2: I go keep going back to you saying that.

1281
01:06:38,520 --> 01:06:40,440
Speaker 1: It was a bunch of shit under the microscope, just

1282
01:06:40,480 --> 01:06:47,600
Speaker 1: crawling around. Like anyway, who are your fucking fat flatulens? Y'all?

1283
01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:53,080
Speaker 1: If you enjoyed this nasty episode, y'all tune in every

1284
01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 1: Thursday in the Black Effect. iHeart radio Apple. Way the

1285
01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:58,480
Speaker 1: fuck you get your podcasts at this your co host

1286
01:06:58,560 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 1: aj Holiday, It's point oh on instagrams, kick.

1287
01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 2: A tam, y'all. Don't tell nobody about that tissue ship

1288
01:07:05,640 --> 01:07:09,880
Speaker 2: I told y'all about. That's just between us. Okay, Oh, hold.

1289
01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:12,080
Speaker 1: On before you before we take it out, y'all, listen,

1290
01:07:12,640 --> 01:07:17,040
Speaker 1: you gotta resubscribe or redownload the podcast. Right, So they

1291
01:07:17,080 --> 01:07:21,480
Speaker 1: did something last year with Apple. Remember, and you have

1292
01:07:21,560 --> 01:07:24,800
Speaker 1: to make sure you're subscribed to wherever you listen to

1293
01:07:24,800 --> 01:07:28,400
Speaker 1: your podcasts. All right, Apple, Google, whatever, make sure you

1294
01:07:28,480 --> 01:07:32,400
Speaker 1: are subscribed and you have it selected to download our

1295
01:07:32,400 --> 01:07:34,520
Speaker 1: apples episodes every Thursday or else.

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Speaker 2: Check us out on YouTube. We do be putting that

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Speaker 2: ship out there, y'all. We do, believe it or not,

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Speaker 2: there are videos of us. Y'all want to see some

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Speaker 2: of this shit happening. It's a word for y'all to see.

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Speaker 2: We've talked back TV on YouTube. Hey, all right, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Shit if you if you like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, follow me on Instagram official tail band. I remember,

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Speaker 2: speak now and.

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Speaker 1: Never hold your flatulence. Actually hold them shit, if you

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Speaker 1: my man, hold them until you blow up.

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Speaker 2: Man. Bye, y'all.

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