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Speaker 2: The beebe.

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Speaker 3: Hey Cheeky's, I hope you're having a wonderful and blessed day.

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Speaker 3: Congratulations on your engagement. My question for you today is

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Speaker 3: why do friendship breakups hurt so much? She can go, girl.

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Speaker 3: I met this girl back in twenty eighteen. She actually

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Speaker 1: Thanks for your advice, girl, Bye Nielli. I totally get it.

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