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Speaker 1: Right now, it's time to ask Riddlo the ready love

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Speaker 1: officer and Junior.

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Speaker 2: Here we go. This is from Cam in Chicago.

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Speaker 1: Cam right to have younger brothers, and one of them

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Speaker 1: has four children, and he's only thirty years old. He

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Speaker 1: refuses to marry the mom of his kids, and it

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Speaker 1: reflects negatively on our family. How do we talk some

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Speaker 1: sentience to him? He's the only single one of our siblings.

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Speaker 3: And everybody, every favery family got one of in what

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Speaker 3: is you? This is yours? Every family got one? You

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Speaker 3: got one?

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Speaker 4: Folk kid. You're looking Nick cann ain't brother, What is

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Speaker 4: you talking about?

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Speaker 2: A win is a win?

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Speaker 4: Win, win is a win.

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Speaker 3: You can be sitting over here with ten twelve nick

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Speaker 3: niece's and nephews and you complain about this, Poe, You're

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Speaker 3: doing pretty good, to be honest, the ads are pretty decent.

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Speaker 3: Will be a worse situation, so suck it up. We

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Speaker 3: all go through this. We all got some relatives that

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Speaker 3: we'd be like, that's all right, that's family. It's family.

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Speaker 3: You can't get rid of it. It is what it is.

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Speaker 1: But she wants him to get married though, marry the

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Speaker 1: mother of the children.

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Speaker 4: And about a man ladies. And I don't about it

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Speaker 4: like him like.

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Speaker 2: That, but you can make yeah call up.

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Speaker 3: We're talking about these family members now, we're talking about

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Speaker 3: these members that. Yes, yes, it's some people making babies

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Speaker 3: that don't love.

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Speaker 4: The bad people do better.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's just one mom. He doesn't have a lot

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Speaker 1: of baby mamas. It's just one mom and they have

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Speaker 1: four children.

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Speaker 4: There you go. They just like to do it together.

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Speaker 3: They don't really want to beat them.

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Speaker 4: What you got. I got a feeling member just like that,

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Speaker 4: I got a feel member tongue. I got a cousin.

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Speaker 5: Every time we show with Thanksgiving, she's pregnant. She's never

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Speaker 5: been up on the table. She's always pushed back every

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Speaker 5: time to see her telling gets out there. She is

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Speaker 5: never up on the table. She's always sitting far back

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Speaker 5: behind the table. She always reached it by her turkey.

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Speaker 2: I see it could be rocking.

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Speaker 5: So she always puts imber. I know it have to

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Speaker 5: be about at least four Thanksgivings in a row. She

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Speaker 5: had a baby, she was pregnant.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: So here the question though, are the babies at your house?

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Speaker 2: They don't get to come to your house, so don't

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Speaker 2: worry about it.

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Speaker 4: That's true, that's true.

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Speaker 1: Okay, wow, to do better he needs Yeah, of course,

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Speaker 1: get some birth control.

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Speaker 2: If you're not gonna marry or come on now, y'all.

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Speaker 4: I'm with you on the control now. Now, I'm with

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Speaker 4: you when you're bright.

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Speaker 2: Always over and over come on now.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I'm with you with Paul Green.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 4: I ain't nothing wrong with Paul Green.

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Speaker 1: I'm with you with But you know, some younger people

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Speaker 1: do not believe in marriage. They just don't. They don't,

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Speaker 1: you know, in today's society, they just do not do better.

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Speaker 2: Black families, we gotta do better.

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Speaker 3: If I was not married, I can assure y'all, I

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Speaker 4: I'd be gone by now.

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Speaker 2: I'd be gone, all right.

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Speaker 4: Moving on to need No Freedom Lord.

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Speaker 2: Moving on to Brian and Little Rock.

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Speaker 1: Brian writes, I waited a while for a first date

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Speaker 1: with a female that I met online. She admitted that

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Speaker 1: she had a boyfriend when we first started talking, So

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Speaker 1: that's why we couldn't meet up. Is this a red flag?

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Speaker 1: Why was she on a dating site if she had

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Speaker 3: You know, it happens, all right, she's checking her options,

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Speaker 4: Apparently the boyfriend ain't all of that.

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Speaker 3: If she's on the site checking you out and checking

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Speaker 3: out other people, and now who wants to connect it?

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Speaker 3: Maybe go out on Yes, she's dating those, she probably

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Speaker 3: wants to go out. And you don't know what kind

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Speaker 3: how these relationships are set up. So she could be

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Speaker 3: doing anything. You know, he could be doing anything. That's

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Speaker 3: just how it is right now. That's just the way

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Speaker 3: in as far as relationships are concern So you know, oh,

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Speaker 3: do take a stab at it going on and see

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Speaker 3: what it's all about. You know, y'all might connect. And

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Speaker 3: then you answer a little deep and said, can tell

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Speaker 3: me about this boyfriend because this don't make sense. Why

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Speaker 3: are you on a dating site with you and you

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Speaker 4: Make me understand that is this a red flag?

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Speaker 2: Junior like he wants to know why?

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Speaker 4: Ask questions if we winning?

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Speaker 2: Why is another wind?

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Speaker 4: And she on the date with you?

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Speaker 2: Shut food. It's clearly the boyfriend ain't good. She with you?

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Speaker 2: And then you waited a while.

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Speaker 4: I waited a while for a first date.

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Speaker 2: Well, now you got it.

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Speaker 4: Be quiet.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk your self back to single.

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Speaker 4: You quit run in your mouth. You're gonna be by

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Speaker 4: yourself again. And you be and Lil Rock God Lee,

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Speaker 4: just win.

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Speaker 2: Be grateful, be grateful man, all right?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on to a mirror in Fort Lauderdale, a mirror rights.

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend moved in with me, and he is in

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Speaker 1: heaven because I buy the best snacks and fresh fruit,

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Speaker 1: and I do weekly meal prep for us. He pays

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Speaker 1: most of the bills, but since he moved in, I

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Speaker 1: spend more on groceries.

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Speaker 2: Should he buy the food?

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Speaker 4: Yes, because we can't feed his big behind. Yes. Yes.

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Speaker 3: I like the fact that you got the meal preput.

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Speaker 3: Did you sound like y'all eating healthy? I like that point.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, he got a picture in a little more

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Speaker 3: and if he, if he man up, he'll just say,

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Speaker 3: you know what, baby, I got the I got the food.

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Speaker 3: That's if that's what needs to happen. I'm all about

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Speaker 3: whatever it takes for the lady to be happy.

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Speaker 4: That's all.

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Speaker 3: Like that, whatever it takes for the lady to be happy.

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Speaker 3: So all she if she come to me and say,

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Speaker 3: look all I'm gonna do is this capabill? Okay, then

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Speaker 3: we're just gonna listen. We're gonna cut We're gonna cut

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Speaker 3: that down seventy eight at night. Though, you're not gonna

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Speaker 3: lose your mind with this. Though he can choose.

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Speaker 1: He pays much of the bill, so he must be Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he must be a decent guy.

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to put a lock on that thermostat because

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Speaker 3: she's out of control at this house.

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Speaker 2: You put a lock on it, you're gonna lose a finger.

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you, I'm out here walking around sleeping in jackets.

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Speaker 2: This don't make no sense, honey, y'all.

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Speaker 4: Like my husband.

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Speaker 1: And I'm always called junior. So should he buy the food?

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Speaker 1: He pays most of the bills, But should he buy

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Speaker 1: the food? That's what she wants to know, Mira.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, eating like Thomson's big behind, got the best foods

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Speaker 5: and snacks.

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Speaker 4: She's time looking over.

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Speaker 5: There and seeing chip corns on his shirt. That's what

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Speaker 5: it needs. He just laid up, sees aboudy with lais chips,

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Speaker 5: just just just eating, just just just orange peels, all

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Speaker 5: of them everything. Yeah, he should buy food.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, but he already pays most of the

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Speaker 2: bills though, so but yeah, but he's doing most of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, last one, guys. Trishina Tristina and south

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Speaker 1: Haven writes, my husband scrolls through social media all day

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Speaker 1: and then he spreads his conspiracy theories on the family

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Speaker 1: group chat. His information is either wrong or outdated, so

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Speaker 1: we just laugh at him. How do I get him

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Speaker 1: to stop spreading misinformation?

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Speaker 2: That's all she wants.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how you're going to do that.

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Speaker 3: There are some people that are adicted to social media,

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Speaker 3: and they are addicted to making sure that they that

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Speaker 3: they they like this, don't like that, make a comment.

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Speaker 3: It's some people that can't wake up or go to

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Speaker 4: So how you what I said? Called?

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Speaker 1: I was just thinking about, you know, the stuff you

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Speaker 1: send us on our group chat.

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Speaker 3: I was just that ain't on social media. You don't

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Speaker 3: put me in this when they're talking to the rhythm.

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Speaker 1: All right, she got you there, she got you there, nephew,

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Speaker 1: she got you.

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Speaker 4: What about on zoom? Looking at me? Crazy?

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Speaker 3: Right now?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 2: From experience, you're listening hard Morning show