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Speaker 4: Problem where a ticket?

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Speaker 5: All right, here we are with that verand new episode

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Speaker 5: of Two Cool Moms. I am Joe Gatto.

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Speaker 4: I am Cameron.

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Speaker 1: No, your name is Duncan.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I'm Steve Byrne, one of our our newest employee producers.

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Speaker 4: Yes is uh is Cameron? And you called him Duncan with.

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Speaker 5: Authority because I feel like that's the only way to

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Speaker 5: guess the name.

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Speaker 4: It's almost like I'll be Dunky.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I like.

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Speaker 5: Saying it very very like strong because you make them second.

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Speaker 1: Guess their own name.

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Speaker 2: He's like, wait.

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Speaker 1: For a moment, he went, is my name Duncan? He

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Speaker 1: could be.

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Speaker 4: Cameron? Can you just stand up and and can we

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Speaker 4: both just say say the name? You think he looks

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Speaker 4: like I did, but you say you think a Duncan.

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Speaker 4: He was behind the monitor. Oh, Okay, you say Duncan

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Speaker 4: I say Ralph? Now he looks like a ral Ralph.

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Speaker 4: What do you think I would say, uh, Conrad Conrad. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: it's like an elevated name. Yeah, well I would.

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Speaker 5: Think, uh, Cameron has has some elevation to it. You

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Speaker 5: go by cam camp, Well, if you go by cam

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Speaker 5: camera two different people, you get that you don't have

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Speaker 5: a nickname because you're Steve or Steven.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not Stee the worst.

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Speaker 5: Stevie's terrible unless your saying nobody wants it. See Stevie, Stevie.

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Speaker 2: Your sweetness it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Y, Joey's Joey's also Joe, Joseph, Joe and Joey.

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Speaker 2: Three different people, three different people.

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Speaker 4: It's like it's me, myself and I pretty different. Right, Okay,

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Speaker 4: so you are a Joe Gatto, Joe.

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Speaker 1: Gatta, but I have all three.

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Speaker 2: I have all three As a Joey, I'm a Joey.

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Speaker 2: And then you grew into a job and I was

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Speaker 2: a Joseph.

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Speaker 4: You'll be a Joseph later in life.

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Speaker 2: Later in life, will be a Joseph.

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Speaker 5: Yes, when I retire and become an accountant, I take

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Speaker 5: up the CPA examine, I become.

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Speaker 4: I've got to ask you something. Hold on, I have

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Speaker 4: to ask you please do because I know you love

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Speaker 4: to read. What is your favorite book?

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Speaker 2: My favorite book of all time?

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Speaker 4: Of all times? What is what is a book? I

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Speaker 4: want to ask you two things. What is a book

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Speaker 4: you want to read? And what is a book that

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Speaker 4: you have read that you love? Because I've for the record,

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Speaker 4: I've said Joe probably a dozen books, right, and you're

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Speaker 4: always like, I don't know why he said this ship,

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Speaker 4: I'm never going.

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Speaker 2: To read it, and you bring him like carry on.

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Speaker 5: It's like you gift the book to me, like, well,

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Speaker 5: I they room, or at least I do the version

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Speaker 5: of it.

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Speaker 2: Both great jokes.

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Speaker 1: When I try to read the Room, it goes direct

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Speaker 1: to DVD.

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Speaker 5: My favorite book, my favorit book, Awakened by James S.

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Speaker 5: Murray And a book I want to read, what's the one.

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Speaker 1: You'll never get out, You'll never touch Christmas?

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Speaker 4: What is it?

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Speaker 2: You Better Watch Out? You Better Watch Out?

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Speaker 1: By Jason Burray and Darren Wearmouth.

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Speaker 2: I'm really excited about this though, You'll never.

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Speaker 1: That's a great title.

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Speaker 2: No, my favorite book growing up was my favorit book

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Speaker 2: growing up. I think it was of mice and men. Really,

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Speaker 2: are you fucking with me?

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Speaker 4: You one book you read there to like, Oh my god,

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Speaker 4: that is a great book.

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Speaker 2: Noll be honest to you. I'm gonna be honest with you.

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Speaker 5: When I started creative writing, I had this thing that

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Speaker 5: got in my head. And I don't know how I'm

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Speaker 5: talking early, like fourteen fifteen years old. I wanted all

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Speaker 5: want all my stories to be my stories. So I

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Speaker 5: stopped reading, which is true, you just stopped reading. I

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Speaker 5: just really didn't read it unless I had to read

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Speaker 5: it for high school. And honestly, I didn't read much

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Speaker 5: of that anyway. My boy Cliff did, and he gave

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Speaker 1: I never read that anyway. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Some kids are like, well, who's cliff?

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Speaker 2: Cliff?

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Speaker 1: Notes were back in the day were very popular media.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I have to ask you, when was the last

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Speaker 4: time you read a book?

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Speaker 2: Honestly?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, a trade book I've written, I've read. I've read

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Speaker 5: some books about photography, so I've read that. The last

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Speaker 5: book I remember, A Gentleman at the Table, is a

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Speaker 5: book I remember reading, and it was when I was

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Speaker 5: developing my gentleman skills of etiquette and being. I had

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Speaker 5: this thing for a while where I didn't think there's

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Speaker 5: enough gentlemen in the world.

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Speaker 5: So I was like, you know, boy, were growing up

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Speaker 5: not to be gentlemanly. And I was like, I just

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Speaker 5: want to because you know, my dad died at nineteen.

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Speaker 5: He's dead. Thanks for bringing it up. So I was

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Speaker 5: always like trying. I was always like obsessed with, like

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Speaker 5: it's getting pretty deep here, and I'm now I'm thinking

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Speaker 5: about a lot of things, bringing up a lot of emotions.

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Speaker 1: And you're laughing at me.

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Speaker 5: Thank you, no, because I see what you're doing.

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Speaker 4: What you're doing.

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Speaker 2: You set me up.

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Speaker 5: I uh yes, I started reading books like that. I

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Speaker 5: remember A Gentleman at the Table.

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Speaker 4: I remember what did you What did you glean from?

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Speaker 4: Gentlemen at the Table was their one resonant lesson.

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Speaker 5: I actually remember too that I just remember I gifted

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Speaker 5: it to my nephews when they turned eighteen too.

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Speaker 2: I gave it to both my nephews.

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Speaker 4: I did it.

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Speaker 5: It was but it was one of those like short

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Speaker 5: gentleman at the table. I really remember, like to cold

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Speaker 5: people by their name, right, Duncan. And that's why that

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Speaker 5: call people by the name, don't call somebody in the

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Speaker 2: That was like a big thing.

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Speaker 5: You know, you make people feel present, that was a

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Speaker 2: It's always to make people feel like and I think

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Speaker 2: you do this well just naturally.

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Speaker 1: You might have read the book.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, but I think you do that naturally

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Speaker 5: big part of making people feel comfortable in a room,

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Speaker 5: That's the best way to be appreciated in a room.

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Speaker 5: It is that you make people feel like you do

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Speaker 5: that I do. Yeah, well I read a book about it,

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Speaker 5: but no, I do. I do think part of it

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Speaker 2: I do it.

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Speaker 4: I give you a compent, like, yeah, I read the book.

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Speaker 1: That's one of the books I remember reading John Went

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Speaker 2: How long ago? Was it a long time ago?

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Speaker 4: Okay, I haven't a book.

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Speaker 2: I haven't read a book in forever.

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Speaker 4: You don't find pleasure in reading a book.

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Speaker 1: You don't.

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Speaker 4: You don't think I'd love to learn more about that

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Speaker 4: subject or that topic or that.

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Speaker 2: Research I research.

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Speaker 5: I will go on the intranet, Internet, I'll read up

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Speaker 5: on stuff photography. When I was getting my cameras and stuff,

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Speaker 5: I'll read. But as far as reading for pleasure or no,

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Speaker 5: did you read this book about Frank It's called The

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Speaker 5: Art of the Deal. That's did you read the audit

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Speaker 5: the Deal?

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Speaker 4: You know, it's an amazing book.

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Speaker 1: Joe wrote it up.

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Speaker 6: It's a it's a fantastic it's it's they say.

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Speaker 1: You can hear everybody turning off the.

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Speaker 2: Podcast after the Bible.

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Speaker 4: It's the second greatest book ever.

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Speaker 2: That's what I've heard. Read.

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Speaker 1: No, I would all you have to read it just

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Speaker 1: for the joke.

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Speaker 4: Now, No, you know, he just Donald Trump just worked

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Speaker 4: at McDonald's for a day. Yep, and he's writing his

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Speaker 4: next book called The Art of the Mail. There it

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Speaker 4: is okay, but I think that is hilarious that dude

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Speaker 1: That's a wheld we live in right now.

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Speaker 5: We yeah, so, but you read like when you go

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Speaker 5: to uh, now, how do you purchase books? You like,

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Speaker 5: go into a bookstore or you get recommendations from people?

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Speaker 4: Uh you know, Joe, I walk into a bookstore in

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Speaker 4: the book finds me Yeah, No, I don't know. I

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Speaker 4: there's there's topics I like. I like to go to

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Speaker 4: the bookstore. I like to just peruse and then I

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Speaker 4: see a title, I'm like, well, that's interesting in them.

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Speaker 2: Did you read Where is Barry? My book?

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Speaker 7: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Is that your favorite book?

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Speaker 8: Is that?

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Speaker 4: My favorite?

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Speaker 2: My book for forty eight year olds is that it's

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Speaker 2: a picture book.

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Speaker 4: If that was my favorite book, I'd be licking a hot.

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Speaker 1: Pan, right.

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Speaker 4: I mean it's a great book. Though. Yeah, it's a

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Speaker 4: very good book. I think it's a great lesson. My

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Speaker 2: He want you boy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, But I like that there is It's not just

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Speaker 4: I wish my kids were younger because I would read

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Speaker 4: that book. That would be a book because I think

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Speaker 4: My son kills legos, but I get the bricks for him.

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Speaker 2: But those are those two things are very time consuming

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Speaker 4: But you know what it is though, It's that I

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Speaker 4: That is Hilyricus. I said, instead of being on my phone, Like,

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Speaker 4: No, my father kind of wrote here and there, but

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Speaker 5: It's really good way.

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Speaker 4: He's like, you fucked it up? Would that upset you?

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Speaker 4: Why would you touch your work of art not yours?

448
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Speaker 4: But he didn't fish.

449
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Speaker 1: He had an unfinished story.

450
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Speaker 2: He's like, listen, you just asked me.

451
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Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, that's pretty awesome.

452
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Speaker 2: It was very cool. Yeah, I got it and you

453
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Speaker 2: finished it.

454
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Speaker 4: And then who'd you so?

455
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Speaker 2: I self published it?

456
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Speaker 1: Well, did you really?

457
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Speaker 2: By?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: It was like it was it only was.

461
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Speaker 4: Like, hold on, were you a ghost writer?

462
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Speaker 2: It was no.

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Speaker 1: My grandfather was because he was dead that he was

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Speaker 1: the ghost writer.

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Speaker 6: He would be the ghost writer, not me, dope, but

466
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Speaker 6: you fucking he's the I'm not the ghost he's a

467
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Speaker 6: ghost writer, Scooby doo.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So all right, I I.

469
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Speaker 1: It was I got, I got to get this year.

470
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Speaker 2: But that was I did put that on myself to

471
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Speaker 2: finish this story.

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Speaker 5: And I thought that was cool. That was a cool experience.

473
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Speaker 5: And I have a couple half written things that I'm

474
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Speaker 5: going to leave to you in my will. I wanted

475
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Speaker 5: to finish my stories.

476
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Speaker 4: Well, should we get into it? This is too with

477
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Speaker 4: your problems, your issues, your queries anything. It could be trivial,

478
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Speaker 4: it could be personal.

479
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Speaker 1: It could be.

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Speaker 5: Where it's you need help, and that's why we're here.

481
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Speaker 5: It's not like it would be like a breakfast cereal

482
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Speaker 5: or no. No, it's not that it's like, oh you

483
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Speaker 5: did you what's the best book you ever read? We

484
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Speaker 5: already covered that. So now we get into the dirt

485
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Speaker 5: as they call it.

486
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Speaker 4: Yeah, you want directions, you want me to lift the hood.

487
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Speaker 4: I go as hard, as harder, as lie as you want.

488
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Speaker 2: So where do we find these queries that people need

489
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Speaker 2: help with?

490
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Speaker 1: Who do who do we.

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Speaker 2: Go to.

492
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Speaker 8: So people can reach us on the emails pod of

493
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Speaker 8: Gmail or on the Instagram to Cool Moms pod. So

494
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Speaker 8: we have one. This one's gonna be directed right at

495
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Speaker 8: Steve coming at us. Direct question from r j M says,

496
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Speaker 8: please help, I'm so hungover.

497
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Speaker 4: Well let's go. Let's go.

498
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Speaker 9: This three hour episode starts now.

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Speaker 4: A very special two Cool Moms. If you're hungover. See,

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Speaker 4: this is the great thing about our job is that

501
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Speaker 4: we can sleep it in. We can just just sit

502
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Speaker 4: in the hotel room all day and nurse it off.

503
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Speaker 4: And that is my favorite.

504
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Speaker 2: Him, I love it.

505
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Speaker 4: But hydrate. You've got to force yourself to drink a

506
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Speaker 4: ton of water. Yeah, you eat something.

507
00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:54,680
Speaker 2: Greasy, Yeah right, they say that, right.

508
00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:57,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's the best. And then just give yourself the

509
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Speaker 4: time to just lay down and nurse it out and go.

510
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Speaker 4: I'll never do that again, knowing a week later you'll

511
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Speaker 4: do it again. Yeah.

512
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Speaker 5: I remember I sat as it hungover once. Particularly you

513
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Speaker 5: came down. We were going to drive the next day,

514
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Speaker 5: and you came down. Your hood was up and like closed,

515
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Speaker 5: and you got.

516
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Speaker 1: In the car and you didn't sit in the car.

517
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Speaker 1: You just opened the door.

518
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Speaker 2: I just fell inside, put your feet and shut it.

519
00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:23,920
Speaker 2: He just laid in the back of me. Mark drove

520
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Speaker 2: to where we were driving.

521
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:27,359
Speaker 4: My body was like Santa's bag, and I think just dropped.

522
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Speaker 2: I think we kept on putting on uh at night?

523
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Speaker 1: What is that one?

524
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Speaker 4: To be right?

525
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Speaker 8: Boot and you're like stop it please?

526
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Speaker 4: But this Yeah, yeah, hangover when it's earned, when it's

527
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Speaker 4: really like well earned, it sucks. But you also kind

528
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Speaker 4: of like, at least I like to where it is

529
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Speaker 4: a badge of honor iron this I did this. This

530
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Speaker 4: is horrible, it's all self inflicted and but wow, but

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Speaker 4: I'll tell you what, I had a wonderful time.

532
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Speaker 2: I wonder we were Hangover comes.

533
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Speaker 8: From I think it's the sugar in the alcohols.

534
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Speaker 2: The sugar hangs over in your body.

535
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Speaker 9: Yeah, like you can't digest it is that.

536
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Speaker 2: That's where're gonna go with.

537
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Speaker 4: If you're completely it's a it's a confluence of many things,

538
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:33,680
Speaker 4: but you're you're completely dehydrated.

539
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Speaker 8: No, but the term, so where does it come over?

540
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Speaker 8: Where does that turn hangover?

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Speaker 2: Don't google yet?

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Speaker 5: Oh, the hangouts over, The hangs over, but it hangs

543
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Speaker 5: over that that just that does not sound right but

544
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Speaker 5: also sounds correct at the same time.

545
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Speaker 4: It does.

546
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Speaker 5: Yeah, hangover. I think the effects have hungover like you're hungover.

547
00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 5: So you got the effects of the fun times, but

548
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Speaker 5: the fun times are over.

549
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Speaker 2: What do you think hangover comes from?

550
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Speaker 4: Where do I think it comes from? I don't know

551
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Speaker 4: that that that that does? That does not sound right.

552
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Speaker 4: I'll tell you that. I think you just feel like

553
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Speaker 4: you're hung out to dry, hung over the railing, Yeah.

554
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Speaker 9: Hung out to dry, hung out to dry?

555
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Speaker 2: All right, what you got what?

556
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Speaker 9: I didn't look it up?

557
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Speaker 2: Okay, we have a gun.

558
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Speaker 7: Multiple meanings, unfinished business, you're not.

559
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Speaker 2: Miked at all, finish so you got to say what

560
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Speaker 2: she's not.

561
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Speaker 8: Hung Okay, so unfinished business, a movie franchise?

562
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Speaker 9: Wait, where'd you see this? Where is it?

563
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Speaker 4: The whole list? Sorry?

564
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Speaker 8: Oh, I see okay, unfinished business after effects of alcohol down, undesirable. Yeah,

565
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Speaker 8: I think it comes from the eighteen nineties. The earliest

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Speaker 8: known use of the known hangovers in the eighteen nineties,

567
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Speaker 8: in an illustrated monthly magazine recreation. The word hangover is

568
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Speaker 8: a derivat deviation of the words hanging over.

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Speaker 9: I know that.

570
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Speaker 1: This is bad.

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Speaker 9: This is like you know the Google AI is supposed

572
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Speaker 9: to know everything.

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Speaker 2: It says.

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Speaker 9: The hangover is put together from the words hanging over.

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Speaker 1: All right, great, I'm glad we got to the bottom.

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Speaker 4: It's a derive it comes from. I'll do my own

577
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Speaker 4: AI on this. I'll tell you the greatest cure for

578
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Speaker 4: a hangover is getting ahead of it. Alcohol armor, this stuff.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 1: You love that stuff.

581
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Speaker 4: I use it. I swear by it. I bring with

582
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Speaker 4: me to Vegas. You have a little shot ski of

583
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Speaker 4: it before you start. It's like a little fruit shot.

584
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Speaker 4: And then I put two by my toothbrush, so I

585
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Speaker 4: know when I come home, pound these and that's it.

586
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Speaker 4: And I wake up and I don't feel horrible. I

587
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 4: don't feel bad at all. And I'm telling you I

588
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Speaker 4: couldn't recommend highly enough. I think I don't know where

589
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Speaker 4: you can.

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Speaker 5: I remember you dispersing them at a place we were together,

591
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Speaker 5: and you would look like you had like a trench

592
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Speaker 5: coat full of.

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Speaker 4: Yah.

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Speaker 8: They used to have hangover patches when I was in college.

595
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Speaker 8: You get at the gas station. I'm pretty sure I

596
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Speaker 8: have a twitch from that. But uh, you'd put on

597
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Speaker 8: the patch before you would start drinking. And it was

598
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Speaker 8: supposed to like cure the hangover.

599
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Speaker 4: But did it ever? Slightly?

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Speaker 9: Even I just thought it was fun. You know, like

601
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Speaker 9: we all, like the whole crew would put them on together.

602
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Speaker 9: And I don't know if it ever was.

603
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Speaker 8: Boys, let's patch up at the patch.

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Speaker 4: White Castle is probably they're great.

605
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Speaker 2: That's probably.

606
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Speaker 9: I think that's what that should be.

607
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Speaker 2: That that should be the whole end campaign, one hundred percent.

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Speaker 4: They should open from eleven pm to four am, and

609
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Speaker 4: that's it.

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Speaker 2: Hungover Castle, we're here for you.

611
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Speaker 4: We're here to nurse your back to health. Nobody should

612
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Speaker 4: be here.

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Speaker 2: Come hang over at the Castle. You see what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: All right, So I think we answered that for that

615
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:06,920
Speaker 2: fella for sure.

616
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Speaker 8: Dylan hiss us up on the Instagram. Okay, so it's

617
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 8: a kind of a hypothetical, but he needs help. I

618
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,120
Speaker 8: think he's in this situation. You see an attractive girl

619
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Speaker 8: sitting outside their class waiting for it to start. What

620
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Speaker 8: do you say to her?

621
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Speaker 2: Oh, so he's looking. How do you break the ice

622
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Speaker 2: with someone you find his ract?

623
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Speaker 8: It's an icebreaker, But it's also a school setting, so

624
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Speaker 8: maybe you have some common ground.

625
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Speaker 5: What's the latest book you read? It writes itself. I mean,

626
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Speaker 5: that's easy. It's so hard not to be creepy. It's

627
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Speaker 5: so hard, Like I what do you say, first of all,

628
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 5: don't sit there and watch somebody.

629
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Speaker 2: What are you doing?

630
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Speaker 5: Like hopefully she'll look at you and you'll be staring

631
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Speaker 5: at her wide eyed.

632
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Speaker 3: Uh.

633
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's tough. That's always comes off. There's a creep factor.

634
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Speaker 5: The one on one approach always feels a little odd

635
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Speaker 5: to me when I'm a way more comfortable in there's

636
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Speaker 5: a group of people.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, going into a ground, I don't mind. I don't

638
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Speaker 2: mind one.

639
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Speaker 5: When I say a group of people, I don't mind

640
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Speaker 5: infiltrating a group of people.

641
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Speaker 2: I don't have to be with a group.

642
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Speaker 5: But when it's one on one, that's always felt a

643
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Speaker 5: little bit harder for me.

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Speaker 4: The social setting, yeah, dictates a lot like it's eat

645
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Speaker 4: If you're in a bar, well, yeah, it's easy to

646
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 4: talk to somebody. If you're in a coffee shop, yeah,

647
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Speaker 4: kind of creep. Grocery stores, like you do get away

648
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Speaker 4: from me.

649
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Speaker 2: I'm trying to.

650
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Speaker 4: It's like, I don't know, that's a that's a tough

651
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Speaker 4: one to pull unless you're in the class. But look,

652
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Speaker 4: if you're on campus with her, you're going to see

653
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Speaker 4: her at some point hopefully.

654
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Speaker 2: Well, this guy's clearly clearly following up.

655
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Speaker 4: You make me drool?

656
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Speaker 1: Do you want me to walk into your house? I

657
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Speaker 1: know how to get there, Ratio.

658
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Speaker 2: What are you doing here?

659
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Speaker 4: I know it's in your fridge?

660
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would.

661
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Speaker 5: Say, I would say the easiest thing is to find

662
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Speaker 5: the common ground. Right, you're both at the university or whatever,

663
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Speaker 5: will make it school base, just to break the ice

664
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Speaker 5: and say hello, we'll talk about something.

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Speaker 2: How do you get to this hall? Or you know?

666
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Speaker 5: How did you hear a doctor furbin shirts? Like he's

667
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Speaker 5: is he a good psychology teacher?

668
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 2: Like she doesn't know about furbon shirts?

669
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Speaker 5: He just asked him, like listen, I'm taking thinking about

670
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Speaker 5: taking you know, intro to psychology with furbon shirts?

671
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Speaker 2: Have you ever taken with doctor Burber shirts? He's like,

672
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 2: I never heard doctor Furber shirtz. And you can be like, yeah,

673
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Speaker 2: I heard Ferber shirts.

674
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 1: Kill her.

675
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 4: There you go.

676
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 2: You're already having a conversation, right.

677
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 1: That was that worked pretty well?

678
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 9: I think that's pretty good.

679
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 2: I want to follow I want.

680
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 5: To follow up from this person who I want Dylan,

681
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 5: Dylan looking look at me. I want you to go, well, say, hey,

682
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 5: do you have to take doctor furberschurtz for psychology?

683
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 2: And I want to know if it worked.

684
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 4: Say that name. If it doesn't get a laugh. Yeah,

685
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 4: it's so blatantly made up.

686
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 2: It's hilarious.

687
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 4: Fourbon shirts.

688
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 2: Like what you're taking fur shirts.

689
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 4: But imagine this, Imagine you go up to to a

690
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 4: girl and go you the classic doctor furban shurt. She's like,

691
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 4: that doesn't even sound like a real name. It's like,

692
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 4: it's not I listened to a podcasts and I was

693
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 4: curious how to maybe break the ice talking to you,

694
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 4: and Joe Gatto from Practical Jokers wrote me back and

695
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 4: said in the podcast, go up and say this.

696
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 2: That that's that's that's a nice breaker there it is.

697
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Speaker 2: You're welcome back to But yeah, I want to see.

698
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Speaker 4: That ferbon shirts, doctor F shirts, p h D.

699
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Speaker 1: Spell fourbon shirts, ferbon shirts.

700
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Speaker 4: Yeah F E R B E N B I N

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Speaker 4: s H I R.

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Speaker 2: T Z close so close.

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Speaker 10: Oh the next one, buddy, Okay, all right, next question,

704
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 10: I love making you laugh.

705
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm sorry.

706
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 4: Good, don't try to drink you're gonna choke out, all right, sorry, good.

707
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 2: All right.

708
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 9: The next question comes from boson.

709
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 1: That we's got the guineas.

710
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 9: Okay, the next question.

711
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 2: I was trying to keep us on track.

712
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 1: Here and I'm sorry.

713
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 8: I'm sorry, guys, seriously. The next question comes from both Boso.

714
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 7: No, I saw you?

715
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 2: You saw me?

716
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 4: Low nose just to close. I'm like, I'm not gonna

717
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 4: do it a right, sorry, go ahead, I'm ready.

718
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 2: I love you.

719
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 9: Hey, asks.

720
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 4: Us real.

721
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,560
Speaker 9: The next question comes from Bozo.

722
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 4: Okay, this is else, thanks for joining us. We'll see

723
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 4: you next week.

724
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 1: Get through it?

725
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 4: Okay?

726
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 2: What advice?

727
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 5: It was an email?

728
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:40,719
Speaker 9: What advice do you have? What advice do you have

729
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 9: for someone who struggles?

730
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 1: We're getting a question out.

731
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 9: Struggles with maintaining interesting and flowing.

732
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 8: Conversations with people, especially strangers.

733
00:32:58,240 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 1: So how do you?

734
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 2: How do you? You got the how do you?

735
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 9: How do you do you?

736
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:06,960
Speaker 4: Are you having a stroke?

737
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 9: I just think it's so funny.

738
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 8: Okay, what advice do you have for someone struggles with

739
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 8: maintaining interesting, flowing, flowing conversations?

740
00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 1: Why you got mad at us about?

741
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 9: It's like what I'm mad of myself? I got it?

742
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 8: Okay, what advice do you have for someone who struggles?

743
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 6: He's concentrating, you won't even look up.

744
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:41,200
Speaker 2: He's so mad.

745
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 9: I'm digging my hands. I got it.

746
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 8: Maintaining interesting and flowing conversations with people, especially strangers.

747
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:57,440
Speaker 5: This is clearly not the podcast as that question because

748
00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 5: we can't even get the question out.

749
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 4: This is mark.

750
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 1: I would say to me.

751
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:08,280
Speaker 5: So the question from Boso on you maintain and flow

752
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 5: conversation naturally with strange strangers.

753
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 2: Got it? Okay? So first of all, don't go by Boo.

754
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 2: Talking to strangers is never never a hard thing for me.

755
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 11: Introduce yourself as Duncan Duncan. Yes, Dunk Duncan fourbon shirts. Uh,

756
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:38,360
Speaker 11: I think doctor Duncan fourbon shirts, PhD his emails, Boso.

757
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 4: Please don't call me doctor Duncan herbon shirts.

758
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 5: It's I never prop talking to strangers. I will say

759
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:55,839
Speaker 5: they're the easiest people to talk to because you don't

760
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:56,800
Speaker 5: know anything about them.

761
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 2: So there's a delicate.

762
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:03,479
Speaker 5: Balance between it turning into an interview right right, because

763
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 5: you don't know anything about them, So I think you

764
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 5: need to try to find common ground to talk about.

765
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 5: So it's it's an ebb and a flow of kind

766
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:10,840
Speaker 5: of like oh, blah blah blah, what do you went

767
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 5: to with? You know, these kinds of things, but then

768
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 5: revealing a little bit of yourself and not just always

769
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 5: interviewing a person that's the biggest pitfall for me when

770
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:19,400
Speaker 5: talking to strangers.

771
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 2: It turns into an interview with people. Yeah, you can't

772
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 2: do that.

773
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:24,240
Speaker 5: You have to reveal a little bit more of yourself

774
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 5: because then it's just like when you just asked them

775
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 5: the question, they didn't want to ask the same question

776
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 5: back to you.

777
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 2: Right, you want to reveal a little bit about yourself.

778
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:35,240
Speaker 4: I think, yeah, I think I give myself three questions. Okay,

779
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 4: I'm like, where you're from, what do you do? Boom?

780
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 4: And if you don't get anything back, it's like all right, yeah, yeah,

781
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 4: that Oh that's interesting.

782
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:46,920
Speaker 2: You have perspective. When a stranger's talking to you, you

783
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 2: got to feel.

784
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 4: Like they're or anybody or then.

785
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:51,400
Speaker 2: You enjoy talking to strangers.

786
00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:54,719
Speaker 5: No, you don't, right, No, I don't like talking to

787
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 5: which you day again it's it's mark sure.

788
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 8: No.

789
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 4: When I'm on a plane, like for I think.

790
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 2: Plane conversation is the worst.

791
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 4: I literally get on I get the book out. Yeah,

792
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:12,239
Speaker 4: I got the earbuds in. I couldn't. I couldn't get

793
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 4: you read.

794
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 5: Oh god, But I don't want to have a I like,

795
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 5: is there anybody worse on earth than trust? To strike

796
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 5: up a conversation on a trans atlantic flight with you.

797
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 5: It's the worst when people try to talk to you

798
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:28,759
Speaker 5: on the plane. Yeah, at least everybody knows. Nobody wants

799
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:30,680
Speaker 5: to talk to hibody on a plane. Nobody, you know.

800
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 5: And the entry points are always so weird, like what

801
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 5: you're reading, read the tell you can see the title what.

802
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 2: I'm reading on the book? Yeah, on the page.

803
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 4: You staring at it the whole time. The worst is

804
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:43,400
Speaker 4: when you I always have a window seat, of course,

805
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 4: and you know you hear uh ladies and gentlemen. If

806
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 4: you look out the left side of the window, you

807
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 4: can see Manhattan and then just like you get two

808
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 4: heads coming in here, and then the phones and everything, and.

809
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:02,760
Speaker 2: Do you let little kids look out the window?

810
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:07,279
Speaker 4: Kids? Kids carp watch right, but baby cries. It's like,

811
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 4: what are you gonna do?

812
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:08,360
Speaker 2: I get it.

813
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 5: I had a full blown adult asked me to you know,

814
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 5: I just want to look out the window.

815
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, they've never seen Manhattan.

816
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 5: And then we flew We're way past Manhattan and they're

817
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 5: still with the head at the window there and I'm like,

818
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 5: what are you what are you looking at? You are

819
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 5: you stuck or you're comfortable, Like, what was it? He's

820
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:26,280
Speaker 5: just plasted to the window as like almost to the landing.

821
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:27,760
Speaker 5: And I literally had.

822
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 2: To go all right, that's enough, and I was like, Mark,

823
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 2: move over.

824
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 4: It's called karma. Karma all the times you do stuff

825
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 4: like that to people.

826
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:38,239
Speaker 2: You're right, comes back to get you.

827
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 1: Oh you missed a great pratfall.

828
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:44,800
Speaker 2: This weekend, there was a wet floor sign on a carpet.

829
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 5: Right because we were going through at airport Norfolk, Virginia.

830
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 2: Will walk through the airport.

831
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:53,920
Speaker 5: It was a wet a wet floor cone in Norfolk,

832
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 5: Virginia on the carpet.

833
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 1: On the carpet it was carpet.

834
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 2: I said, wet you know what Cones said, wet floor.

835
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 2: Took it out. Cone told them all back. But there

836
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:03,799
Speaker 2: was people around me, And I know what I did

837
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 2: on this because no, because it was carpet.

838
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 5: I just kept rolling and I had my backpack on,

839
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 5: so my backpack made me go up and I go.

840
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:17,799
Speaker 2: And I rolled like four or five times. I just

841
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:18,760
Speaker 2: kept rolling.

842
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:21,359
Speaker 1: So do you ever videotape these things?

843
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 2: No, I didn't know.

844
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 8: This one happened very quickly and he got up, he goes.

845
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:27,399
Speaker 8: I broke my glasses with it for.

846
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 4: A laugh, just for you.

847
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, my glass in my pocket. I broke them, but

848
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 2: it was fun.

849
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:33,759
Speaker 4: The best was that that airport with that businessman.

850
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,240
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, when you basically stole his luggage.

851
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:39,399
Speaker 4: He stole his luggage, rolled out and then like threw

852
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 4: it and he's he's still his hand was still out

853
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:44,000
Speaker 4: from the carry.

854
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 1: On, Like what the hell?

855
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 2: Yeah? I thought you.

856
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:48,880
Speaker 1: I did all right.

857
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 2: I think we answered the socially awkward no.

858
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 8: Yeah, and we have time for one more. Give us

859
00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 8: one more, Mark, Okay, Matthew asked, got a divorce or

860
00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 8: got divorced a year ago?

861
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:01,240
Speaker 9: Been a fun year, doing a lot of things each.

862
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 4: All between the lines there, Matthew got you mat kicking

863
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:05,360
Speaker 4: a few tires.

864
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:09,359
Speaker 8: I like, but I feel like I have not done

865
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:11,879
Speaker 8: a big something. If I do pull the trigger and

866
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 8: move just for fun or do something else big in

867
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 8: my life. I'm thirty three, and I'm not like those

868
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:19,920
Speaker 8: twenty year old dues where I can just say f it.

869
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 8: He's looking for I guess what he's trying to say

870
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 8: is he's looking to do something big.

871
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 9: In his new post divorced life.

872
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 8: Any suggestions I don't say, I wouldn't say move that

873
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 8: seems pretty big.

874
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:34,320
Speaker 5: Move seems to move seems more like you're gonna uproot

875
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 5: your life. Yeah, take a trip, take a trip. When

876
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:40,799
Speaker 5: I went through my separation, I went to Alaska and

877
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:43,799
Speaker 5: I felt I want to do something I've never done,

878
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 5: So I went to I went to Alaska. Yeah, and

879
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 5: I thought that was pretty cool, just to go and

880
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:49,840
Speaker 5: clear your mind and whatnot. I think getting out of

881
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 5: your environment helps train your thoughts. But to uproot yourself,

882
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:55,920
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm gonna just say one other things to

883
00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:59,560
Speaker 5: retract there to suggest should I move? Makes you feel

884
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:00,359
Speaker 5: like you want to move?

885
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:01,200
Speaker 1: Right?

886
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:01,560
Speaker 4: Like?

887
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:02,400
Speaker 1: Why I would that?

888
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 5: I never thought that. Probably doesn't have kids too. If

889
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:06,560
Speaker 5: you're saying that, you know, it does sound like it

890
00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 5: doesn't sound like you're right. Yeah, but I feel like

891
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:11,320
Speaker 5: a move is like you leave everything behind. If you

892
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 5: want a true fresh start, that might be what you're

893
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:17,400
Speaker 5: you're looking to do. I mean, maybe skydive, do something

894
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 5: that's out outside your nature.

895
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right, what is the face? You know?

896
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:25,839
Speaker 4: It's like maybe I'll just uproot my life and and

897
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:28,319
Speaker 4: like go to a new city and find a new

898
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 4: job and meet new friends or else.

899
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 2: Sky dive. I it's gonna be one of those two.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so I mean the big there's levels too big,

901
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Speaker 5: I mean, but there's also repercussions to your thought, right

902
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 5: you gotta be if you de start to move, you're

903
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 5: leaving everybody and everything behind because it didn't work out

904
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Speaker 5: with your one person.

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Speaker 2: That seems like that seems like, uh, you're running from something, Yeah,

906
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Speaker 2: but it is.

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Speaker 4: It is also kind of I don't know. I I

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Speaker 4: do like having lived in New York City, having lived

909
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Speaker 4: in Los Angeles, have lived in Chicago, having living now

910
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Speaker 4: in Nashville, Like every time was a new set of obstacles,

911
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Speaker 4: And I think you just keep chiseling your identity and

912
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Speaker 4: you get closer to who you are, what you'll accept,

913
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Speaker 4: what you're driving towards making new goals.

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Speaker 2: But you always had a partner in those moves. Well

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Speaker 2: how many times did you move twice?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 10: La?

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Speaker 5: I know La is where you met La than Nashville.

919
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:26,800
Speaker 5: That was the only two places you guys lived.

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Speaker 2: Together, Chicago or Chicago.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, yeah, but you know yourself, I think it's

922
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Speaker 4: a little different. Yeah, but to go from college in

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Speaker 4: Ohio to go to New York City and live there,

924
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 4: that's pretty big. And then go from New York City

925
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Speaker 4: to Los Angeles. I mean those are two completely different worlds.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, but.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think there's I don't know. It depends what

928
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Speaker 4: it is, you know, I'd have to know more obviously.

929
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Speaker 2: What do you think is in.

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Speaker 5: Between uproot and move and skydive? Like what do you

931
00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 5: think because sky dive is one like isn' an adventure thing?

932
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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 2: You do do that? Right, that's something completely.

934
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Speaker 5: But like what would be something that's not as big

935
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Speaker 5: as like moving and uprooting and doing everything, but bigger

936
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Speaker 5: than just like go for a skydive?

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Speaker 2: What would be like get a new job if you

938
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Speaker 2: don't like your job, or make a career change in

939
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Speaker 2: the same city.

940
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Speaker 4: Changing your sexual identity haircut.

941
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:22,239
Speaker 2: Same difference, right, you could do that too. Talk about

942
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:22,800
Speaker 2: a haircut?

943
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Speaker 4: Do we say it at the same time? You can

944
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 4: transition from a new woman you're like haircut.

945
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Speaker 2: To the term two different terms?

946
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know. I mean I don't think. Look

947
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:36,280
Speaker 4: why go extreme?

948
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Speaker 2: Yeah? Start a small inch away there. You can always

949
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Speaker 2: level up.

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Speaker 5: Always level You could level up, like you could start here,

951
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 5: But do you do something big and move and like

952
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:46,279
Speaker 5: what am I doing?

953
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Speaker 2: You can regret it instantly? I would also just say

954
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Speaker 2: take a breath, take a beat.

955
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Speaker 5: A year is not that long. The year is not

956
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Speaker 5: that long. Might feel like it's not that long at all.

957
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 5: In the big scheme of things, you're just settling into

958
00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 5: this new skin of being, you know, getting out of

959
00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:02,360
Speaker 5: the town, tearing it up. Yeah, you got you gotta

960
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Speaker 5: You're going through your phases. So I would say take

961
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 5: a beat before you do it.

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Speaker 4: Take I like the idea of like a solo Tripps great. Yeah,

963
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 4: like you went to Alaska, go to a solo trip

964
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 4: and say, Okay, I'm gonna blow it out. You go

965
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:16,239
Speaker 4: to New Orleans, you go to Vegas, I'm gonna go

966
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Speaker 4: take it easy, go to someplace like Utah Cowboys and yeah,

967
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Speaker 4: just get some hiking in. Find those classes where you

968
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Speaker 4: can go like rock climbing with a group of different people.

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Speaker 2: Dive, right, I tell you I want Does skuy go skydive?

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Speaker 2: Have you have you sky never sky dove? It's been

971
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Speaker 2: got me twice. Once. My mother said you can't think,

972
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Speaker 2: well I'm alive, then we all know she's dead.

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Speaker 5: Thanks for bringing it up. When she died, my my

974
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Speaker 5: wife said, you can't skydive. So now I got away

975
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Speaker 5: for my wife to die. Then my daughter would be like,

976
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Speaker 5: you can't do all.

977
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Speaker 2: I'm alive. It'll be done.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, They're gonna be my.

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Speaker 4: Chapters of a book and then go skydiving.

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Speaker 2: And that's all the time.

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Speaker 5: Well, thank you so much for joining us. We are

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Speaker 5: the two cool moms. We love you guys, yes, and

983
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Speaker 4: Just skuydi sky dot Yeah, but we're also on tour.

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Speaker 4: You can keep up with us. Yes, all my tour

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