1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:06,559 Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:18,279 Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle. 4 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:20,639 Speaker 1: What's up? What's up? I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for 5 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 1: being here with us? What suck? Change? Change? Okay? When 6 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: are we getting our music? I want my theme music? 7 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 1: I want I want to do a rap Robin. You 8 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:35,560 Speaker 1: won't let me live? Let me wrap? Okay? We need 9 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 1: you won't let me be great? 10 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 2: Reasonably shady down, reasonably shady down, shady. 11 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 1: Reason to find a producer. We have to find a 12 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 1: producer put together a beat. First, Are you gonna write it? 13 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:50,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna. 14 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 2: I'm gonna co write. I want somebody get started with 15 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 2: the writing and then I'll tweak it. Okay, yeah, is 16 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 2: that co writing? 17 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: Sure? Okay? But are you gonna Are you gonna also 18 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: wrap too? Okay? Great? Okay, great, great? Great? All right? Yes? 19 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 1: Do we want to put out a yes? A call? Yes? 20 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 1: Who is going to? I mean I don't want to 21 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: have to call jay Z like I I will if 22 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 1: you want me to want to call that no or 23 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:17,039 Speaker 1: for Rell leave them alone? I will if I have 24 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: to agree. But let's just table them, So we're gonna 25 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:22,399 Speaker 1: put it out there. We need it. We need a 26 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: really good DJ. Okay and a writer songwriter, songwriter, no, 27 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:33,039 Speaker 1: not DJ, songwriter, producer, that's what we need. Get us, 28 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: Get us right, get us right. We've only been asking 29 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: this for four seasons. Okay, yeah, all right, Yeah, so 30 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:42,040 Speaker 1: we would really like to make a reasonably shady rap. Yes, 31 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 1: So whoever can help us, let us know, let us 32 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 1: I know you're out there. 33 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 2: Yes, and we'll even give them credit as opposed to 34 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 2: pay them. 35 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 1: Okay, fine, we'll pay you to. Okay, So I have 36 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 1: I have a shaddy moment. Please let me let me 37 00:01:57,680 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 1: get into it. Please share. 38 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:14,080 Speaker 2: So the shady shadesters out there are gas stations. So 39 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:19,640 Speaker 2: I now have an electric vehicle. Oh yes, Gazelle is 40 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 2: now green. Okay, not green with envy. I'm just going green. Yes, 41 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 2: I am now helping the environment. 42 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 1: How long have you had it? Five minutes? Oh? Okay, okay, 43 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: five minutes. 44 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 2: But I've gotten the thing installed in my house, the charger, 45 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 2: the charger installed. 46 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 1: And I drive past gas stations and I'm like, suck it, suckers. Yes, 47 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:46,839 Speaker 1: I'm not going back right, Like the whole the fact 48 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: that I've been going to gas stations for forty long time. 49 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 1: Is really crazy. It's crazy, I know, I have. I 50 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 1: been doing this every time I go. I'm like, I 51 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 1: should have an electric car. And we got Corey an 52 00:02:56,600 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: electric car, yes recently, yeah, and he loves it. So oh. 53 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:03,360 Speaker 2: I want to preface by saying, my electric car is 54 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 2: not a Tesla. Write anything elon musk, Yes, neither's coores. 55 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 1: We don't do the musk. Yeah yeah, but yeah no, 56 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:15,080 Speaker 1: I feel you on that. Yes, especially like on hot 57 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 1: well hot days, cold days, rainy days, any day, dark nights. 58 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 1: You know, just yes, that's really that is such a 59 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,080 Speaker 1: beautiful lecture. But for people who have electric cars and 60 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:28,680 Speaker 1: don't have a charger, yeah, that's the worst. Oh, because 61 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 1: they got to go to like a charger station. But 62 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: there I feel like the charger stations are everywhere. Yeah, 63 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: but they have to sit there for like twenty minutes 64 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: but to charge their car. 65 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, but is that a long time? I mean, 66 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 2: these the ones that are out there, from what I hear, are. 67 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 1: Very fast, yes, but so fast as twenty minutes because like, okay, 68 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 1: your charger at home, how long does it take to 69 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: fully charge like overnight or eight you know, I would. 70 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: I don't know that yet, okay, yeah, but probably so 71 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: the charger stations are are if you get a rapid charger, yeah, 72 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 1: I could probably like do a full charge maybe for 73 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 1: like twenty minutes. And someone correct me if I'm wrong, 74 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 1: because I don't. You know, I'm not well versed in 75 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: the electric cars. But the if you wrap it, if 76 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 1: you do a rapid charge on your car consistently, you're 77 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:19,720 Speaker 1: gonna ruin the battery. Oh really? Yeah? Yeah, oh wow. 78 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: They don't tell me that. So I only did they 79 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 1: tell you not to charge it past eighty percent? No, 80 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 1: they talk it don't domn they talked. 81 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 2: They gave it to me on one hundred and they 82 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 2: told me, yeah, charge it on up. 83 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: Oh gosh. Okay, so just just do a little research, okay, 84 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: just read about you know, how to maintain it. Yes, 85 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:43,160 Speaker 1: maintain They say to not let it drop below twenty 86 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 1: and to not charge it past eighty. Okay, so what 87 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 1: they like for the longevity of the battery. 88 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:50,159 Speaker 2: Okay, what they did tell me was if I'm not 89 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:53,039 Speaker 2: using the car for like a week, unplug it, like 90 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 2: don't keep it just like straight charged, like definitely unplug it. 91 00:04:57,440 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 2: And Okay, so if I if I go to those 92 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:01,720 Speaker 2: rapid places, how much does it cost? 93 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: I don't really know. I don't know either. I don't know. 94 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 1: But they gave me a thousand dollar credit. Oh really, Yes, 95 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 1: I said, y'all love me, right, So I should have 96 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 1: done this a lot of time ago. But but yeah, no, 97 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 1: So if you if you have an electric vehicle and 98 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 1: you don't have a charger at home, it's not like 99 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 1: the greatest. But if you have a charger at home, yes, 100 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:23,840 Speaker 1: it's I mean it's great. You just pluging it. So, 101 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 1: now that Corey has an electric vehicle, he parks his 102 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 1: car in my garage all the time. Like my car, 103 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:33,919 Speaker 1: I'm I in the garage, parker. We only have space 104 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 1: for one car. But you have a door garage, cage, 105 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 1: car garage. Yes, yes, but what it's in there, shoot, 106 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:44,920 Speaker 1: a lot of stuff, racks, shoes on it. Let's clean 107 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:48,720 Speaker 1: that up, basketballs, a basketball shooting machine. Oh, it's too 108 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 1: much in there, yes, trash can Okay, it's fine. Okay. 109 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 1: The point is, now that the charger is in the 110 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 1: garage and Corey has an electric vehicle, he's always parking 111 00:05:59,880 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 1: his car in my garage in my So I'm my 112 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 1: car is sitting outside getting hot in the rained on 113 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, no, no, So maybe you can 114 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:13,280 Speaker 1: get a longer extension. I know, that's what I need 115 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 1: to figure that out. Yeah, they probably sell those. 116 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 2: Yes, I put him outside, right, Yeah, he's got to go, 117 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 2: he's got. 118 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 1: To coat, he's gotta go. And I'm sitting a woman 119 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:22,600 Speaker 1: of the house. 120 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:25,279 Speaker 2: Yes you are, Yeah, you are the queen right, Yes, 121 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 2: you have the Queen of the Dixon Mansion. 122 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 1: Gotta go. Yes, anyway, you have a shady moment. It's just, 123 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 1: you know, I just think as all adults know, like 124 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: it's always something, yes, always something, never fails. So now, okay, 125 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:49,719 Speaker 1: so my dryer vent where the vent goes outside of 126 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 1: the house over like you know the you know, once 127 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 1: when we first started moving in the vent that goes 128 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:58,599 Speaker 1: outside of the house, birds started making a nest in 129 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 1: the vent. Love right, So then we had my handyman, Kevin, 130 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 1: come and put a cage around the vent so that 131 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:08,280 Speaker 1: the birds can't make a nest in the vent. Okay, 132 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 1: So then, I don't know, six months ago, my dryer's 133 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 1: not drying right, and you know, we look outside and 134 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 1: these damn birds still made a nest in the vent 135 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 1: like in the dryer van. I don't know, like I 136 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: don't did they eat up the No, they didn't eat 137 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 1: the cage. They just I guess would just kind of 138 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 1: you know, I don't squeeze through and make their nest. 139 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 1: Because like my stuff wasn't drying. Like people put stuff 140 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 1: in the dryer on high, like we have to put 141 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 1: it on high, run it for an hour, two hours whatever, 142 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 1: and it still was like damp whatever. So Kevin came 143 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 1: cleaned out the nest once again. Now my dryer is 144 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 1: not drying. These birds have our back like they're back 145 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 1: building nests. I don't know does it and so where 146 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: does it let out the side of my house beside okay, 147 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 1: like over the garage, huh. And they just keep building 148 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 1: a nest. So now my clothes are not drying, and 149 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: my dryer it's just like one thing after that. It 150 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: don't stop, it doesn't stop. It's non stop. But these 151 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 1: damn birds are so freaking shady. 152 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 2: It's so and you know, you can't touch the nests 153 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 2: because they the birds will. 154 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 1: Tell they'll they'll attack me and then they'll also like 155 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 1: abandon the babies right. 156 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 2: Yes, they'll leave the babies and then and you you 157 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 2: will get attacked. I told you about when I got attacked. No, yes, 158 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 2: I was little. I learned my lesson very young. I 159 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 2: was like probably like eight nine. I was climbing a tree. 160 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 2: So I was climbing tree, climbing tree age, is that. 161 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:40,199 Speaker 1: Eight or nine? Yeah? Sure, okay. 162 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 2: So I get to where I was going on the 163 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:46,800 Speaker 2: tree and I see a nest. I got all excited, 164 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 2: so I went to go reach to touch. I didn't 165 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 2: even get my hand close to touch, and out of nowhere 166 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 2: a bird slammed into my face and knocked me out 167 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 2: the tree. Oh wow, I'm sprawled out on the ground 168 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:04,199 Speaker 2: and I was like. 169 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: Like, I'm screaming. 170 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 2: And then but then I realized I think. I went 171 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:07,720 Speaker 2: and told my mom, and my mom was like, who 172 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:10,839 Speaker 2: told you? Who told you was okay to even try 173 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 2: to touch an egg? 174 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 1: Like that's I could see a kid being curious. Of course, 175 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 1: of course, my mother said, have you learned your lesson? 176 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 1: I said, yes, absolutely, I ain't doing that again. But 177 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 1: I remember, like it was yesterday that bird came. Never again, 178 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 1: never again. And then you could tell everyone, don't do it, 179 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 1: don't do it ever do it? Okay? So this was 180 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 1: this was somebody posted this. Actually I know this person. 181 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 2: When you are full of love, it confuses people who 182 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 2: are full of shit. 183 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 1: Where you meet someone and you're like, are you really 184 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 1: that nice? Why are you that? How can you be 185 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: this nice? Like? Yes, it just really confuses people who 186 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:51,720 Speaker 1: are full of shit, and we all know people that 187 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 1: are full of shit, full of Okay, so this number two, 188 00:09:56,120 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 1: how long can your sign? These are? This is uh 189 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 1: zodiac signs, and it talks about how long a zodiac 190 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 1: sign can hold a grudge. Oh okay, okay, so what 191 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 1: is what do you think? Aries is pretty long? Like forever? 192 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 1: They give you just twenty four hours? What I know? 193 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 1: Hold a gros? Okay, I don't agree. 194 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 2: I don't agree with that either. Yeah, my virgos it 195 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 2: says a couple of months. Okay, that's about right, A 196 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 2: couple of months and add two years today, right, okay, yeah, 197 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:28,960 Speaker 2: a couple of months plus two years. 198 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. 199 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 2: The people that that get off, Oh, tauruses is and 200 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 2: you're kind of a Taurus a bit no, no, well, 201 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 2: tauruses it says until they die. 202 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:43,560 Speaker 1: Okay, but that makes sense that oh am, I like 203 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 1: a tour. I don't know. I don't know what my 204 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 1: other I always forget, like like aries and then something 205 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 1: rising something I think, yeah, anywhere I might have that. 206 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 2: So libras is like point zero two seconds unless you 207 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 2: really don't that's what it's that. 208 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:04,679 Speaker 1: So I think that I don't know. These are so random. 209 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 1: I don't I don't agree. I know, I don't. I 210 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:12,320 Speaker 1: don't stay like pent up mad for a long time, right, 211 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 1: But I'm like never going to forget, like what if 212 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 1: I whatever my issue was and how it made me feel, 213 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 1: and those thoughts that that person or those how that 214 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:25,600 Speaker 1: person made me feel or whatever however that situation made feel. Oh, 215 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 1: I'm never forgetting and I'm never like letting it go. 216 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:29,719 Speaker 1: You're never letting it go. I don't want to say 217 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 1: let it go, but yeah, I don't want to say 218 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: like I'm never letting it go, but I'm I'm not. 219 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna dwell on it. I'm not going 220 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 1: to live in it, but I'm also not going to 221 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 1: be like like past it or over it. 222 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm I'm I'm I can let it go, but 223 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 2: I'm never gonna forget. 224 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, how you how you act at a fool. 225 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:55,079 Speaker 2: Okay, so time of the creator. This was interesting he 226 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:55,679 Speaker 2: he says this. 227 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:57,079 Speaker 1: He was talking on a podcast. 228 00:11:57,160 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, And he said on a podcast that that 229 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:07,720 Speaker 2: we give a lot of people who have who aren't 230 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 2: smart the platform for a podcast, and. 231 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:19,199 Speaker 1: He wants them he wants it to stop. Okay. So 232 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:21,720 Speaker 1: he's just for the clear. He said this on a 233 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 1: podcast that people who have podcasts who are not smart 234 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 1: earth stop having a podcast. Okay, Tyler's creator, he should 235 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 1: have thought about that. Did you feel sensitive about that? 236 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:35,200 Speaker 1: I did, because I'm like, what of all? First of all, sir, 237 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 1: you said this as your on he says that we're 238 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 1: giving people too many people platforms that should not have 239 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:41,679 Speaker 1: a platform. 240 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 2: But says who, that's what I said, according to who? 241 00:12:45,679 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 2: According to Tyler, So. 242 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 1: Anyone can have a podcast. Now, it's whether people listen 243 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 1: to them. Yes, it's you know, and if people choose 244 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:54,200 Speaker 1: to listen to who they want to choose to, then 245 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:56,719 Speaker 1: let them listen, let them live. But I think that 246 00:12:56,920 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 1: the problem comes in when people play clips from podcasts 247 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 1: and then like put them on Instagram or on social 248 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:09,800 Speaker 1: media and then let that kind of be like, oh, 249 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:12,320 Speaker 1: these people are speaking for the world. No they're just 250 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 1: speaking for themselves, you know, they're just And so I 251 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 1: think when people see clips of podcasts that they're not 252 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 1: familiar with, and that's when they're like, well, who is 253 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 1: this person and have something to say, Well, don't worry 254 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 1: about it. They weren't talking to you. They weren't talking 255 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:28,320 Speaker 1: to their audience. They weren't talking to you. 256 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:31,320 Speaker 2: Yes, and Tyler, if you had a podcast, then you 257 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 2: have a platform. And would you want people talking about 258 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:35,840 Speaker 2: your platform coming for your platform? 259 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:37,080 Speaker 1: Right, No, you would not. 260 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:40,520 Speaker 2: And unless your name is Baraka Michelle, you don't speak 261 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 2: for me, right period. 262 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 1: Right? All right, we got some letters. All right, let's sing. 263 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 1: Oh okay, so this is a good topic. So following 264 00:13:56,160 --> 00:14:00,720 Speaker 1: up on one of our something talked about a couple 265 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:04,440 Speaker 1: weeks ago about the potwashing. Oh yes, this is from Alexa, 266 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:06,719 Speaker 1: she says, hiches out and Robin, I've only just been 267 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:10,199 Speaker 1: Potomac this past spring, but it hits so good. I've 268 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:15,600 Speaker 1: joined the Congregation of the Church of Reasonably Shady Welcome Alexa, 269 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 1: better late than ever. I ami in here every week 270 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 1: like I can't miss it, or the church ladies will 271 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 1: drag me through the mud. Not the church ladies anyway 272 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 1: as a white person. I guessed when I realized that 273 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 1: not only do I instinctually rent the pot, pan, etc. 274 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 1: Whenever I get it out, but other people don't. Okay, 275 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 1: white lady, what's her name? Alexa? Okay, white Alexa? Yes, 276 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 1: who knows what kind of dust or hair or grease 277 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:49,800 Speaker 1: or God knows what other dirt in the world could 278 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 1: have could sneak in there. Yes, maybe I'm being dramatic, 279 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:56,160 Speaker 1: but I don't give a f I will never use 280 00:14:56,200 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 1: a dry pan un christ Like, what does this have 281 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 1: to do with Jesus? She said? I think it would 282 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:06,480 Speaker 1: be funny and interesting for you guys to explore the 283 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 1: different things communities think are normal and others don't. But 284 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 1: learning some of them disrupts my peace. Not taking your 285 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:17,680 Speaker 1: shoes off in the house is crazy work. I have 286 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 1: two sisters and I have never even let them sit 287 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 1: on my bed, even as a kid. Sometimes I feel 288 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 1: shady for that, but I don't know where you've been. 289 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 1: If I can have my own bed, be my safe, clean, 290 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 1: ethical sanctuary. Yeah, what do I have in this world? 291 00:15:33,680 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 1: What do you have? You got nothing? Right? Yes, I 292 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 1: love the podcast and your natural chemistry. It's refreshing in 293 00:15:40,120 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 1: this world of fakes and freaks. Ooh, I mean she's 294 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 1: lexing it to shady. So you know what's funny, We 295 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 1: didn't start so in my house she has to take 296 00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 1: a shoes off. But when I think about like my 297 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 1: childhood and growing up, no one ever made anybody take 298 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:58,840 Speaker 1: their shoes off, like in my family. So I just 299 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:02,640 Speaker 1: like my grandmother, my aunt, my parents, my friend's house 300 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 1: is like nowhere that I ever went did anyone make 301 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 1: people take their shoes off? And we didn't even really 302 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 1: start making people take their shoes off. They didn't take 303 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 1: their shoes off at our first house. I think maybe 304 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 1: not until I don't know, it's like weird, it came 305 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:20,600 Speaker 1: out of nowhere, So yeah, I don't even know. That's 306 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 1: not like really, I would say the taking the shoes 307 00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:26,200 Speaker 1: off in the house was always a cultural thing in 308 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 1: like the Asian Oh yes, culture, of course. That was 309 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 1: the only people that I knew that you take your 310 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 1: shoes off. The shoes are maybe at the front door 311 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 1: or somewhere, and I always thought that was strange, and 312 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 1: then one day it's like, no, it actually makes total sense. No, 313 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 1: it makes so much sense, And there's so much stuff 314 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 1: on our shoes, right. 315 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 2: So I remember I went to co visit my girlfriend 316 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 2: in New York, so I was this was post college 317 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 2: and she had a teeny little apartment and she was like, 318 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 2: can you take your shoes off before you come in? 319 00:16:56,520 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 2: And I was like, absolutely, but because New York is 320 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:04,960 Speaker 2: so just disgusting. But I think I continued it on 321 00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:08,320 Speaker 2: after that because because that made sense to me. But 322 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 2: what we are universally not gonna do is walk outside 323 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 2: without our shoes. 324 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 1: So it's so crazy that you say that because my neighbors, 325 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 1: one of my neighbors, yes, routinely are outside without shoes on. 326 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 1: Of course they are the entire family, yes, and even grandma, Yes, 327 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:32,360 Speaker 1: entire family, And the bottom of their feet are as 328 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 1: black as my shirt. And it's disgusting. It is so. 329 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:39,679 Speaker 1: And then so then you walking around with these dirty 330 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:42,239 Speaker 1: ass feet, and then you go in your house so 331 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:44,919 Speaker 1: you can see the dirt that you're bringing from the 332 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:47,120 Speaker 1: bottom of your foot into your house into your house, 333 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 1: and you cool with it, and then you probably jump 334 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 1: in the band and go to sleep. Right, I just 335 00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:55,119 Speaker 1: got the ebgb's. So people like, if y'all listen, and 336 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:57,239 Speaker 1: y'all routinely do not take your shoes off in your 337 00:17:57,240 --> 00:18:00,639 Speaker 1: house or you walk outside barefoot. Just think about all 338 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 1: this stuff, the nasty stuff, stuff that's on the ground. 339 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:06,040 Speaker 1: Yes that you know. Okay, if you're just in your 340 00:18:06,119 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 1: driveway or whatever, your cars, your vehicles are bringing in, yes, 341 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:18,920 Speaker 1: ship shit, bird, ship, deer, ship whatever, like running. I mean, 342 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 1: so crazy, but but it is funny. It's not like 343 00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:25,400 Speaker 1: a I don't know, is this a I can't say 344 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:26,919 Speaker 1: taking your shoes off in the house is like a 345 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 1: black white Asian thing, Like it should be an everybody thing. 346 00:18:29,880 --> 00:18:30,920 Speaker 1: That should be everybody thing. 347 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:33,639 Speaker 2: But we know the people that are outside with no 348 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 2: shoes on, that's cultural. 349 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:39,360 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna call y'all out, but they Robbins Naples, Yeah, okay, 350 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:41,400 Speaker 1: because I don't. I don't even rob it's the only 351 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:46,119 Speaker 1: black person on the street. Okay, I have I have 352 00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:49,399 Speaker 1: house slippers, yes, Like I don't even walk in my 353 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 1: house barefoot. So that and that was something that my 354 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:55,400 Speaker 1: parents passed down to me, Like we don't walk around 355 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 1: barefoot in the house. So it's like, how do you 356 00:18:57,040 --> 00:19:00,119 Speaker 1: walk around barefoot outside? Right? That's yeah, And I go, 357 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 1: I know I learned my lesson. I was in Ocean 358 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:08,360 Speaker 1: City Maryland at the beach, okay, and walking around barefoot. 359 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:11,119 Speaker 1: And I came home that next week, I have a 360 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:15,399 Speaker 1: wart on the bottom of up But yep, what's so 361 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:18,639 Speaker 1: like is a wart like hard kind of okay, like 362 00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:20,800 Speaker 1: it gets hard, it's like, you know, it's you know, 363 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:23,359 Speaker 1: it's it's nasty. I can't I can't really remember did 364 00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:25,280 Speaker 1: it did it hurt? Did it itch? But there's a 365 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:26,919 Speaker 1: wart on the bottom of my foot And I had 366 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:28,679 Speaker 1: to go to the pediatrist and they literally had to 367 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:31,520 Speaker 1: like cut it out. Oh god, yeah, yeah, So you 368 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:33,200 Speaker 1: learned your lesson. So I learned my That's when I 369 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:36,439 Speaker 1: learned my lesson about walking around barefoot anywhere. So if 370 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 1: I'm at the pool the beach, I will always have 371 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:41,879 Speaker 1: some type of slipper on, especially like if there's wet 372 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:45,159 Speaker 1: like water on the ground. Yeah, no, I'm wearing my 373 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:46,960 Speaker 1: slippers all the way to the edge of the pool 374 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 1: and then I'm getting in. They you know, well, they say, 375 00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:51,040 Speaker 1: like in New Orleans, like especially when it's like Mighty 376 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:54,480 Speaker 1: Gras and the French quarters like stuff on the ground, 377 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:57,800 Speaker 1: like water on the ground or just like little puddles 378 00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 1: and stuff. They say they've made. 379 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:03,560 Speaker 2: An announcement, do not wear flip flops, do not wear 380 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:07,040 Speaker 2: open tool shoes in the streets of New Orleans friends 381 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:10,720 Speaker 2: during Mani Gron. So if they try and tell y'all something. Also, 382 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:13,439 Speaker 2: by the way, did we talk about don't plug your 383 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:17,480 Speaker 2: phone up, don't charge your phone at in the airport? No, 384 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:24,400 Speaker 2: TSA said, it's there's malware. There's all kinds of hackers 385 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:27,120 Speaker 2: and stuff, all kinds of hackers that have already put 386 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:32,800 Speaker 2: put like their instruments or whatever in these sockets. So 387 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:36,719 Speaker 2: when you plug up because you're traveling to these strange 388 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:41,280 Speaker 2: destinations for all of your basketballs, don't be plug up 389 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:44,200 Speaker 2: your phone in the airport to take a portable charger. 390 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:44,680 Speaker 1: What. 391 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm dead serious, TSA. They made the announcement. 392 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:52,920 Speaker 1: That's crazy. No, but but that's so easy for them 393 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:56,880 Speaker 1: to do. But that's so easy for the hackers in fact, 394 00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:59,199 Speaker 1: so it's not so they're not saying don't use the 395 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:00,479 Speaker 1: the Wi Fi at the airport. 396 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:03,399 Speaker 2: Are you sure it's what the electrical it's the charger, 397 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:06,359 Speaker 2: it's the plugs. What it's the plugs and probably the 398 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:06,960 Speaker 2: WiFi too. 399 00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:10,439 Speaker 1: I wouldn't I wouldn't look hook up to that WiFi no, 400 00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:13,720 Speaker 1: oh no, that's crazy. Yes anyway, okay, so wait a minute, 401 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:20,160 Speaker 1: we don't we have a special guest. Oh yeah, hold on, okay, guys, 402 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:24,800 Speaker 1: our least favorite person, yes, or he's back again our 403 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 1: favorite by the way, the least favorite person that we 404 00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:30,359 Speaker 1: don't talk about. So are Kanye and his and this girl? 405 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 1: Are they together? On that? They look like they're together? 406 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 1: Now they look like they're together. I thought that they 407 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:37,560 Speaker 1: was getting a divorce. Yeah, but she's now wearing skimpy 408 00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:42,439 Speaker 1: clothes again and wigs to wigs and skippy clothes. Yeah. 409 00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 1: I just need fit to stop. Yeah, okay, all right, 410 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:50,120 Speaker 1: oh oh okay. So our favorite non favorite reasonably shady listener. 411 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:54,080 Speaker 2: His name is called Dick Hurts. For those of you 412 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:56,520 Speaker 2: all that don't know, he's been with us for some time. 413 00:21:56,960 --> 00:22:01,080 Speaker 2: Welcome back, Yeah, welcome back, and heed himself Dick Hurts 414 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:03,679 Speaker 2: because I think his Dick Hurts. No, there was a 415 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:05,440 Speaker 2: reason why he named himself Dick Hurts. 416 00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 1: Yes. Remember the original question was about when you get 417 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 1: a vsectomy something. Yeah, so he wrote in in responsible 418 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:19,320 Speaker 1: Yes he's affectionately calling him and then we just like, 419 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:21,600 Speaker 1: after reading a few of his letters, we've determined that 420 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:24,560 Speaker 1: Dick Hurts is Kevin hearttheart. 421 00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 2: Yes, Dick Hurts akaa Kevin Hart. Okay, so he says, 422 00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 2: dear ladies and all caps, I'm back once again. 423 00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:37,760 Speaker 1: Bitches. Did you miss me? Question mark? Question mark? Yes? 424 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:42,080 Speaker 1: We miss act? Did we we missed him? Because he 425 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 1: always comes for me. I know? 426 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:47,040 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, So he says, where do I start 427 00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 2: with my frustration for you? Damns? I don't want to 428 00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:55,960 Speaker 2: be called a damn James. Dames, Dames, Okay, you're right, damns. Okay, 429 00:22:56,240 --> 00:23:00,880 Speaker 2: Let's begin with episode one. I'm so frustrated with Jaselle's 430 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:05,560 Speaker 2: lack of knowledge on everything. See I don't even want 431 00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 2: to read this because this is just comedy, right the 432 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 2: nerve of her to think it was Coco Jones who 433 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:14,959 Speaker 2: won the French Open. Let's start there, and then the 434 00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 2: conversation goes to self driving cars. Jaselle asked if Tesla's 435 00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:22,880 Speaker 2: can drive can self drive? What planet has Giselle been 436 00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:29,200 Speaker 2: on where she has missed years? Years, news reports, articles, 437 00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 2: conversations about Tesla's crashing while self driving, people sitting in 438 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:36,840 Speaker 2: becks in the back seats of Tesla's and getting arrested 439 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 2: due to no one in the driver's seat and much more, 440 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:45,440 Speaker 2: but not only that question mark. I'm sure Jizelle has 441 00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 2: been to Las Vegas and or California in the last 442 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:54,479 Speaker 2: five years where there are actual waym vehicles self driving 443 00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:58,160 Speaker 2: with no one at all in the cars on public roads. Yes, 444 00:23:58,240 --> 00:24:00,240 Speaker 2: I have, and we've talked about that on the post 445 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,239 Speaker 2: I've talked about I was in San Francisco and they 446 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:03,920 Speaker 2: were all over the place, right and I wasn't getting 447 00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 2: in any Dick Hurts, listen to all the podcasts, not 448 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 2: just the ones that make you make me mad. 449 00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:15,480 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, here we go, and to that. 450 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:19,120 Speaker 2: It's not just Tesla's and way Moods, but Cadillacs, Ford's, 451 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:24,360 Speaker 2: General Motors, Porsche all have some form of self driving technology. 452 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 1: Gazelle, really, okay, my car can park itself, but all 453 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 1: of like self driving, something like self parking. Like Ford 454 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:36,640 Speaker 1: has a self driving car. 455 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:38,880 Speaker 2: They probably don't because Dick Hurts thinks that he knows 456 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:40,879 Speaker 2: everything and he does it. And by the way, Porsche 457 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:42,919 Speaker 2: has a self driving they don't. By the way, my 458 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:45,359 Speaker 2: new car that I got it does the three sixty. 459 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:49,200 Speaker 2: What do you mean, like if you're parked one way, 460 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:51,359 Speaker 2: you can hit a button and it'll turn all the 461 00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,680 Speaker 2: way I've done. 462 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:58,920 Speaker 1: Before it was crazy, like back up and nope, it'll 463 00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 1: just spind your ho straight around all right. So, Dick Kurtz, 464 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 1: do you have that? No, you don't. 465 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:07,320 Speaker 2: I need to see that and have okay. And they've 466 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 2: had it for years okay. And Tesla is weeks away 467 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:14,440 Speaker 2: from having their robot robot I guess it's robotaxi service, 468 00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 2: so driverless Tesla's will act as ubers lifts, but with 469 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,000 Speaker 2: no human driver at all in the car. 470 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,800 Speaker 1: And like sss, I don't like that at all. And 471 00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,520 Speaker 1: I'm not doing this why I don't know? And then 472 00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:29,200 Speaker 1: why are we eliminating jobs for people? Why let them 473 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:30,160 Speaker 1: have their job? Right? 474 00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:32,919 Speaker 2: Okay, So it says Giselle, I'm gonna need you to 475 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:37,560 Speaker 2: date real men who are aware of technology, cars, science, 476 00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:42,760 Speaker 2: and not these apparent losers you have been dating. Also 477 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:47,199 Speaker 2: suggestions less money spent on weave and makeup, and a 478 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 2: bit more on blueberry purchases. 479 00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 1: Love you do you take? Okay? You know you do 480 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:57,520 Speaker 1: need to eat a lot of blueberries for them to 481 00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:01,600 Speaker 1: actually like work work. It's like a handful. Okay. First 482 00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:03,280 Speaker 1: of all, Dick, you don't know who I date. Okay, 483 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 1: I'm not dating you, and you don't know whether or 484 00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:09,240 Speaker 1: not bad they're real or they're losers. Okay. Oh he 485 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:12,399 Speaker 1: got something for you, Robin, he said. And Robin, you 486 00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:15,160 Speaker 1: are not immune to getting some of this too. Boo. 487 00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 1: You stated that a neighbor of yours is a doctor 488 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:19,280 Speaker 1: and has a Tesla. 489 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:22,840 Speaker 2: The neighbor told you that she sleeps while her tesla 490 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:25,400 Speaker 2: drives her home. She said that this is a lie. 491 00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:28,479 Speaker 1: No, I'm not lying. I didn't make it up. 492 00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:32,280 Speaker 2: Maybe she's lying, he said, why, question Mark, Because Tesla's 493 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 2: and Ford General motors have a car camera that monitors 494 00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:36,840 Speaker 2: your eyes. 495 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 1: Okay, really, okay, I don't believe that. So all right, Dick. 496 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:46,200 Speaker 1: So these vehicles have they monitor the eyes, but yet 497 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,520 Speaker 1: people have been pulled over for being in the back 498 00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:53,359 Speaker 1: seat while the car was driving itself. So no, no, 499 00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:56,040 Speaker 1: like they don't have anything monitoring your eyeballs. I mean 500 00:26:56,080 --> 00:27:00,120 Speaker 1: they could, but I'm just saying, maybe this is a 501 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:03,000 Speaker 1: newer technology and maybe when my driver told me that 502 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 1: she was sleeping while her Tesla drove her home, maybe 503 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:10,400 Speaker 1: it was like years before this technology where it monitors 504 00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,639 Speaker 1: the eyes. Because I'm saying, Dick, if you say that 505 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:16,159 Speaker 1: people have been pulled over and arrested or whatever for 506 00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 1: sitting in the back seat while their car's driving them. So, 507 00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:24,120 Speaker 1: how is that possible? How is that possible? Dick, Dick, 508 00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 1: get your fact straight. 509 00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:27,919 Speaker 2: Then he goes on to say, if you close for 510 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:31,640 Speaker 2: longer than a blink or so warning lights, they alert 511 00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:36,199 Speaker 2: you that if you do not immediately take control of 512 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 2: the steering wheel and apply turning effort, then the car 513 00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:43,359 Speaker 2: will soon put on its flashes and pull over and 514 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:45,920 Speaker 2: stop at the nearest safe place to do so, Dick. 515 00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:49,240 Speaker 1: This a lie. This is a lot that might be true, 516 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:53,040 Speaker 1: but that might be more recent. They probably they probably 517 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,800 Speaker 1: put out these self driving cars, didn't think things through, 518 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:59,119 Speaker 1: didn't think people will be going to sleep, and then realize, okay, 519 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:00,560 Speaker 1: we need to add feature. 520 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 2: This is definitely Kevin Hart, because this is some foolishness. 521 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 2: Then he goes on to say, and no, putting on 522 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:12,000 Speaker 2: sunglasses will not defeat this technology. If you are wearing sunglasses, 523 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:15,639 Speaker 2: the camera sees this and will simply require you to 524 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:19,520 Speaker 2: do steering inputs every thirty seconds or so. 525 00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:22,560 Speaker 1: Sounds like Dick has a tesla, and yes, Dick's mad 526 00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,280 Speaker 1: because he can't sleep. Yes, in his tesla and his 527 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,680 Speaker 1: and his Dick no longer hurts. He has a hard on. 528 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:30,440 Speaker 1: He has a hard on for his tesla. Then he says, 529 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 1: love you both, your pal, Dick Hurts, our pal. Okay, Dick, 530 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:37,360 Speaker 1: let's be clear, we're not friends. We're not friends, will 531 00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,920 Speaker 1: never be friends. Okay, because you came for me and 532 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:43,960 Speaker 1: you came a rival. Okay, anybody, but Dick, I have 533 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 1: a question. If you were to run into us one day, yeah, 534 00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:52,920 Speaker 1: would I get food like Lebron, Yeah, we will just 535 00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:55,640 Speaker 1: all get booed. But will you introduce yourself? Yes? 536 00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:58,760 Speaker 2: And will you tell us are your real name? Because 537 00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:01,040 Speaker 2: it's not Dick Hurts, right, tell us your real name. 538 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 2: And as a matter of fact, the next time I 539 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:04,720 Speaker 2: have a show or something, I'm gonna need for you 540 00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 2: to pull up and let me know who you are 541 00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 2: so we can take a picture. Yes, okay, Next letter, 542 00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:16,640 Speaker 2: this one. Okay, we did get some hate mail, not 543 00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:18,640 Speaker 2: hate mail, but okay. 544 00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:20,760 Speaker 1: Because that, because Dick Hurts, was just some hate, We're 545 00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,080 Speaker 1: gonna get more. Well, this was in response to something 546 00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:26,960 Speaker 1: we expected to have a little hate from. Okay, Alex says, 547 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:35,040 Speaker 1: listen here, y'all, stinky asses, might not need new Mariah Carey, 548 00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:42,160 Speaker 1: but I do. Mariah can Mariah slander aside. I love 549 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 1: the podcast. 550 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:47,240 Speaker 2: Okay, wait, is he going to talk about her new song? 551 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,720 Speaker 1: So I want to talk about it? Okay. Finally, like 552 00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:53,960 Speaker 1: really listen to it. Okay. It sounds nothing like her, 553 00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:54,920 Speaker 1: not one thing. Now. 554 00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:57,600 Speaker 2: It doesn't even sound remotely like even a little bit 555 00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:59,680 Speaker 2: like Maria carry who sang the song. 556 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,640 Speaker 1: Oh No, I'm listening to this song and I'm like huh. 557 00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:05,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, maybe she has a guest artist on it. 558 00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:09,040 Speaker 1: So I'm like waiting for Mariah to come. And the 559 00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:11,760 Speaker 1: whole song is like the same person singing I think 560 00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 1: sounds nothing like that. There's like a rapper on it 561 00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,560 Speaker 1: with her? Is it? Why c up someone? I can't remember? 562 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:19,959 Speaker 1: So the whole song is like just this weird like 563 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:24,520 Speaker 1: stranger singing this song. I had to google the song. 564 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:28,240 Speaker 1: I typed in Mariah Carey type dangerous and see if 565 00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:31,560 Speaker 1: it was like featuring yes song. So I don't know. 566 00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:37,760 Speaker 1: Rihanna Mooney long says Coco Jones, like somebody and its 567 00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:43,720 Speaker 1: golf right and it's not. It's Mariah Carey. Yeah, yeah, 568 00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:46,280 Speaker 1: she should have left, just leave that for someone else. 569 00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,400 Speaker 1: It did not sound like her whatsoever. Now, if you're 570 00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:51,160 Speaker 1: a Mariah Carey fan, you know that's the truth. And 571 00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 1: if you're a Mariah Carey fan, and you have been 572 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,520 Speaker 1: for what we're going on three decades, probably a Mariah 573 00:30:56,560 --> 00:31:00,280 Speaker 1: Carey you should be offended by the fact that she as. 574 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:02,760 Speaker 2: A song that sounds nothing like her. Not because we're 575 00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:07,280 Speaker 2: all waiting for like we're waiting for that we don't. 576 00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:08,920 Speaker 1: Get there, but not even that, it's just the voice 577 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,840 Speaker 1: itself does not sound like Mariah like I could not 578 00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:15,040 Speaker 1: make it sound like Mariah Like. I was like, so, 579 00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 1: y'all can stand by that if you want to, but 580 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:25,600 Speaker 1: we're not standing by that. Yeah, okay, So somebody wants 581 00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 1: to know is this reasonable or is this shady? Okay? 582 00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,760 Speaker 2: John Reid says I had a birthday a few years 583 00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:35,960 Speaker 2: ago and my friend said, let's go for drinks. I 584 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:39,160 Speaker 2: asked if it's okay for me to order another drink? Now, 585 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 2: mind you, I only had one drink, and they said, 586 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 2: go ahead, because we're not paying for it. 587 00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:55,400 Speaker 1: Who's paying for it? John Reid? Okay, okay? Is it 588 00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:59,080 Speaker 1: reason's a shady for someone to invite you out let 589 00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,520 Speaker 1: alone on your birth birthday and make you pay for 590 00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 1: your own drinks. Shady. I was like, that is the 591 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:12,800 Speaker 1: definition of shady. Hell with not even one drink. So 592 00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:16,560 Speaker 1: he was being respectful. Yes, I was saying, hey, can 593 00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:18,720 Speaker 1: I get another drink? Okay, can I get another drink? 594 00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 1: And they're like, we ain't paying for your drink in 595 00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:26,320 Speaker 1: the first place, so drink up, buddy. It was the tap. 596 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:31,920 Speaker 1: I can't even owe yours. I can't even imagine like 597 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:35,280 Speaker 1: saying that to somebody that's let alone. I wonder if 598 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,840 Speaker 1: they knew it was his birthday. They probably didn't, don't. No, 599 00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:40,600 Speaker 1: it's said they took him out for drinks for his birthday. 600 00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:41,920 Speaker 1: I had a birthday a few years ago and my 601 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:45,280 Speaker 1: friends said, oh, let's go for drinks, so they knew 602 00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:51,280 Speaker 1: it was his birthday. Damn wow, I'll start doing that. Yeah, 603 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,080 Speaker 1: I have no friends left. I mean, that's your standard. 604 00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:56,200 Speaker 1: If you're taking somebody off of their birthday, you pay right. 605 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:59,600 Speaker 1: Otherwise don't take them. Yeah, please don't. And it's not 606 00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:02,120 Speaker 1: wait until the next day, right, And it's not like 607 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 1: the pleasure at the bar you want to join me, 608 00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,320 Speaker 1: and it's not like the pleasure of the company is 609 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:10,120 Speaker 1: the payment, like no, no, no, like I'm gonna pay 610 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:13,240 Speaker 1: for your drinks. Yeah, that's shady. Don't ever do that, 611 00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,880 Speaker 1: you know, to your friends, if you invite them out 612 00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:20,000 Speaker 1: on their birthday to celebrate their birthday, then they should 613 00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:23,120 Speaker 1: be treated kay and even I mean okay, one too? 614 00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,479 Speaker 1: How many? How many? A right? So if you invited 615 00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:29,360 Speaker 1: me out for drinks, made you want and I'm gonna 616 00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 1: try to get you drunk and I'm taking them back, yes, six, yes, yeah, okay, 617 00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna help you even further. So I had an 618 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:39,000 Speaker 1: event recently, yeah, and I had a five thousand dollars 619 00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:43,440 Speaker 1: minimum on the bar, which I felt like it was 620 00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,920 Speaker 1: a lot. Yeah, right, because it's not to make people 621 00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:46,320 Speaker 1: at the party. 622 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:49,040 Speaker 2: It's like this is this is I'm good. I'm probably 623 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:51,680 Speaker 2: not gonna make the minimum. So I've kind of made 624 00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:53,680 Speaker 2: an announcement like I have a five thousand dollars minimum 625 00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:55,920 Speaker 2: on this bar because I don't think I'm gonna make it. 626 00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:57,400 Speaker 2: And you know, at the end, I'm just like I've 627 00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:58,880 Speaker 2: got to pay this money, so y'all might. 628 00:33:58,760 --> 00:33:59,719 Speaker 1: As well have toube. 629 00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,040 Speaker 2: So I said, look top shelf, only like y'all, y'll 630 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,960 Speaker 2: kill it. Seven thousand dollars later. 631 00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:12,799 Speaker 1: Oh no, these fools went bananas on the bar. I 632 00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:16,200 Speaker 1: couldn't believe it. I was blown away, Like I was 633 00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:19,120 Speaker 1: just like, are you effing kidding me? Let's say less, 634 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:23,360 Speaker 1: say less, so Robin, to answer your question, Yeah, I 635 00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:25,480 Speaker 1: might cut you off because you can drink, but you know, 636 00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:27,279 Speaker 1: I don't drink like that anymore though. I know, but 637 00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:29,120 Speaker 1: I think you got it in you. You got it 638 00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 1: in you. Yeah, yeah, I think if you're falling out, 639 00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:36,399 Speaker 1: which I've seen, I'm gonna cut you off, not because 640 00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:37,759 Speaker 1: I don't want to pay for your drinks, but because 641 00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,840 Speaker 1: you've had enough, right, yes, right, but just in general, 642 00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:43,359 Speaker 1: like I don't know, I am thinking like, Okay, if 643 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,120 Speaker 1: I took someone out for the birthday and they're just 644 00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:46,920 Speaker 1: like slamming them back, I don't know. I guess I'm like, 645 00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:48,719 Speaker 1: it's your birthday, I'm gonna let you have it. Yeah, 646 00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:50,480 Speaker 1: go for it. Going forward, we having. 647 00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,560 Speaker 2: A good time, yes, yes, yes, And it's your job 648 00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:53,800 Speaker 2: to be the responsible person. 649 00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, not only pay, but get the person home exactly right. 650 00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:58,839 Speaker 1: And then if that person drove, then okay, we're gonna 651 00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:03,040 Speaker 1: let's let's figure out some alternate Yeah, transportations like yeah, sure, 652 00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:06,879 Speaker 1: you get ubered. Let your friends have a blast. Yes, 653 00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,000 Speaker 1: that is that's what you do. That's crazy. And if 654 00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:11,879 Speaker 1: you can't afford it, then don't offer. Right, Yeah, yeah, 655 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:14,840 Speaker 1: that's great. Oh I have an update. Yeah. So remember 656 00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,879 Speaker 1: we talked a couple episodes about like products that we 657 00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:22,120 Speaker 1: like purchased that you know we're either good or bad 658 00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,439 Speaker 1: or we whatever. And I was talking about the dice 659 00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:26,880 Speaker 1: in air wrap that I spent like, yeah, five hundred 660 00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:28,520 Speaker 1: dollars on and I don't use it. 661 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:30,120 Speaker 2: Now, Wait a minute, was this the one that you 662 00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:31,560 Speaker 2: put your hair around it? 663 00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:35,120 Speaker 1: It's like it like sucks your hair up and twists it. Okay, 664 00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:35,680 Speaker 1: because I. 665 00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,120 Speaker 2: Saw Cardi b has something, oh really got like a 666 00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:39,920 Speaker 2: she's got something like that. 667 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:42,560 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, go ahead. So I talked about the podcast. 668 00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:45,879 Speaker 1: So someone Anna from Vegas reached out to me, was like, hey, Rob, 669 00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:49,439 Speaker 1: and I'll buy your dicing from you. No way, Anna 670 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,000 Speaker 1: bought the dice in not shifted to her. Wait wait 671 00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:55,080 Speaker 1: she hasn't wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait, 672 00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:57,560 Speaker 1: oh my god, what else can I sell? I gotta look, 673 00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:00,960 Speaker 1: I got a bunch of shit I can sell, y'all. Okay, 674 00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:06,400 Speaker 1: So did you give it to her like these shoes. 675 00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:08,600 Speaker 1: I never heard doing that on the podcasts. This is 676 00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:12,080 Speaker 1: not a flea market, mab like once once a podcast. Okay, okay, 677 00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:15,240 Speaker 1: the product of the day, reasonably shady is not turned 678 00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:19,600 Speaker 1: into a flea market. For the record, However, I'm intrigued. Okay, 679 00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:21,759 Speaker 1: So did you sell it to her at cost? Did 680 00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,359 Speaker 1: you sell it to her half off? So apparently I said, 681 00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:26,759 Speaker 1: I think I said on the podcast. I was like, 682 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,880 Speaker 1: I'll sell it to you half off half what I paid. Okay, 683 00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:33,279 Speaker 1: So she's so I sold it. So I paid five 684 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:36,279 Speaker 1: hundred dollars for it, okay, So I sold it to 685 00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:39,160 Speaker 1: her for two fifty and then I added fifteen dollars 686 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:42,759 Speaker 1: for shipping. Oh wow. Now when I went to the 687 00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:45,040 Speaker 1: UPS store, I didn't have a so I have like 688 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:48,719 Speaker 1: a ups count account business account, but I didn't have 689 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:51,480 Speaker 1: a box big enough to ship it, so I had 690 00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:53,840 Speaker 1: to go to the UPS store. So I just was like, okay, 691 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:56,440 Speaker 1: can y'all like pack this up and let me know 692 00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:59,000 Speaker 1: how much it will cost to ship it? So they 693 00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,160 Speaker 1: like put it on the scale, put her address in, 694 00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:03,480 Speaker 1: and they were like, oh, it's it's going to be 695 00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:05,879 Speaker 1: forty one dollars to ship? Did you charge her forty 696 00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:08,560 Speaker 1: one dollars? Oh? I charged I charged her fifteen dollars. 697 00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:12,359 Speaker 1: I charged this was so I charged her thinking yes, 698 00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:14,239 Speaker 1: ahead of time. I'm like, okay, oh okay, it's gonna 699 00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 1: cost me like fifteen dollars a ship, right, So I 700 00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:19,640 Speaker 1: had already charged her. I had already charged her, right, 701 00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:21,640 Speaker 1: and she'd already paid. So I'm at the place trying 702 00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:23,160 Speaker 1: to ship the stuff and E sapt forty one dollars. 703 00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:24,680 Speaker 1: I was like what I said? And then what about 704 00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:26,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, so what about the box? And like packing 705 00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:29,840 Speaker 1: it up? Like, oh, that'll be fifteen dollars damn. So 706 00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:33,000 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, hell no. So I just got 707 00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,839 Speaker 1: the box and I went back home and I went 708 00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:39,360 Speaker 1: to my computer and I logged into my business account. Yeah, 709 00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,040 Speaker 1: and it was and it charged and it was cost 710 00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:46,080 Speaker 1: me eleven dollars to ship? How much was it before? 711 00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:50,000 Speaker 1: Forty one? Forty one at the UPS store? So what's 712 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:53,400 Speaker 1: what's UPS is running a racket. It's just when you 713 00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:55,440 Speaker 1: have a UPS account like a business account, and I 714 00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:58,000 Speaker 1: have the business account because i'd tell my embellished hat. 715 00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:02,560 Speaker 1: So you get discounts as a retailer as a business. 716 00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:05,640 Speaker 1: So I just shipped it like from in Bellish. Did 717 00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:07,920 Speaker 1: she get it yet? She she got it, Yeah, she 718 00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:11,360 Speaker 1: got it. But I can't believe forty one dollars to ship. Okay, 719 00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:13,800 Speaker 1: so you also need to put your peloton on Peloton. 720 00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:18,960 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, anyone want a Peloton? Anyone want a Peloton? 721 00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:22,000 Speaker 1: How much? I'll give you a good price on that. 722 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:27,840 Speaker 1: All right? What do pelotons cost these dates? This is 723 00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:30,560 Speaker 1: like a two thousand dollar thing. How much Peloton's got? 724 00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:32,439 Speaker 1: How much do they cost? I mean, are people even 725 00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:33,840 Speaker 1: buying pelotons anymore? 726 00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,680 Speaker 2: I know, I think people do because people, you know, 727 00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:38,640 Speaker 2: some people like them. 728 00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:42,400 Speaker 1: They like the whole Yeah, the ass you know, all 729 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:44,879 Speaker 1: of it, the classes, and I do still. So even 730 00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:49,880 Speaker 1: though I don't use my Peloton bike, the Peloton app itself, 731 00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:52,160 Speaker 1: which I pay, I might pay them like forty dollars 732 00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:54,879 Speaker 1: a month. They have a lot of classes on there 733 00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:58,680 Speaker 1: that's not just for the bike, like strength training, yoga 734 00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:02,720 Speaker 1: and stretch and all this type of stuff. So that alone, 735 00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:04,359 Speaker 1: even if you don't have the bike, you could get 736 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:06,920 Speaker 1: on that app. Okay, So let me let me tell 737 00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:08,719 Speaker 1: you how much how much of pelotons called how much 738 00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:13,000 Speaker 1: a Peloton is brand spanking new Peloton bike by new 739 00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:17,360 Speaker 1: fourteen forty five, fourteen hundred dollars. Okay, so you would 740 00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:21,080 Speaker 1: is that right? I think so? Yeah, so you would pay? 741 00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:25,120 Speaker 1: Or they're selling refurbished ones for eleven forty five. This 742 00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:27,239 Speaker 1: is on the Peloton website. Okay, so I'm thinking seven 743 00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:30,920 Speaker 1: to fifty a thousand. I don't know. I mean, I've 744 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:33,520 Speaker 1: had it for a long it's probably not the What 745 00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:37,600 Speaker 1: version do I have? You know? Okay? Sound yeah? Five 746 00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:40,760 Speaker 1: hundred five negotiating for the people. 747 00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:45,040 Speaker 2: Okay, this is serious going on. We used to be 748 00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:47,760 Speaker 2: shady has gone to the ships. 749 00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:51,120 Speaker 1: That's so funny. Okay, five hunch for the Peloton. Okay, 750 00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:55,200 Speaker 1: here we go. Another letter. This is from Oh she said, 751 00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:58,080 Speaker 1: don't please don't share my name? Okay, okay, So hey Carol, 752 00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:00,640 Speaker 1: all right, dear Giselle and Robin. I mean, huge fan 753 00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:03,080 Speaker 1: of RHP and the podcast. I listen faithfully on my 754 00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:06,759 Speaker 1: drive to work every Monday. I'm writing because I'm in 755 00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:11,040 Speaker 1: a crossroads with a friend and considering ending the friendship. Oh. 756 00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:15,279 Speaker 1: For background, we became fast friends years ago through our 757 00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:18,719 Speaker 1: then boyfriends who are now our fiances, and she will 758 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:23,120 Speaker 1: possibly be included in my bridal party. Over the past 759 00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:25,919 Speaker 1: couple of years, I've noticed that after we hang out, 760 00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:31,600 Speaker 1: it's not a fun, warm exchange. I often leave thinking, wow, 761 00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:35,719 Speaker 1: are me? Are we more like frenemies? So some examples, 762 00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:40,120 Speaker 1: if something big happens in my life, she never celebrates it. 763 00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:43,319 Speaker 1: I could post on IG's stories and she'll view it 764 00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:48,719 Speaker 1: and not say anything. Also, anytime we're together, she makes 765 00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:52,759 Speaker 1: a point to mention how she doesn't really need friends, 766 00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:57,200 Speaker 1: and then she always has shady comments, leaving me on 767 00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:01,360 Speaker 1: guard constantly. It's becoming less and less enjoyable to be 768 00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,640 Speaker 1: around her. And as I listen to you all each 769 00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:06,800 Speaker 1: week and hear the genuine relationships you have, I find 770 00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:13,520 Speaker 1: myself questioning the authenticity of my own friends circle my questions. 771 00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:16,719 Speaker 1: Am I being too sensitive? How do you know when 772 00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:19,960 Speaker 1: someone is truly your friend? And how do you know 773 00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:24,640 Speaker 1: when it's time to end a friendship? All? Right? 774 00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:27,920 Speaker 2: I think that a part of this could be the 775 00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:31,400 Speaker 2: girlfriend is going through something right, and so she's not 776 00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:33,680 Speaker 2: capable of being happy for you because she's going through 777 00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:36,520 Speaker 2: her own stuff. And sometimes as a girlfriend we just 778 00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:37,360 Speaker 2: need to recognize it. 779 00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:41,279 Speaker 1: Just bear with it, right, Yeah? I think, Okay, so 780 00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:44,319 Speaker 1: in this case, I'm trying to like read through it again. 781 00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:48,360 Speaker 1: I wouldn't take anything personal. No, you know, this could 782 00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:50,960 Speaker 1: just be she going through Selectazelle says she's going through 783 00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:55,000 Speaker 1: something or she's gone through something and maybe her like 784 00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:58,440 Speaker 1: things have just changed and how she kind of relates 785 00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:01,960 Speaker 1: to the world and to people around her. But I say, 786 00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:06,400 Speaker 1: if you don't enjoy being around her, if you're around 787 00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:09,759 Speaker 1: her and you're finding that it's not fun, it's less 788 00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:13,560 Speaker 1: enjoyable that you know she's being shady all the time 789 00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:16,239 Speaker 1: and you feel like you're on guard, then you might 790 00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:18,799 Speaker 1: want to just pull back for yourself. Yes, pull back, 791 00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:21,920 Speaker 1: And I don't think that requires a conversation or a 792 00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:27,759 Speaker 1: come to Jesus moment, you know, unless you really feel 793 00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:29,960 Speaker 1: strongly about her as a friend. Yeah. Like so if 794 00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:32,040 Speaker 1: you really feel strongly about her and you don't want 795 00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,359 Speaker 1: to lose her friendship, then it's worth a conversation. Yea. 796 00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:36,839 Speaker 1: So how do you know when someone is truly your friend? 797 00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:42,960 Speaker 1: That's friends come in all different forms. Yeah, you have. 798 00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:45,399 Speaker 2: I feel like it's a feeling, like you know, when 799 00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:47,800 Speaker 2: somebody support you and they're genuine, right. 800 00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:50,160 Speaker 1: You have friends that are like the ones you can 801 00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:53,000 Speaker 1: just call to chit chat. You have ones that you 802 00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:54,920 Speaker 1: can call when you like really need something. You have 803 00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:58,600 Speaker 1: friends that you just hang out with. So it really depends. 804 00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:02,400 Speaker 1: It's like you can you can't expect one friend to 805 00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:05,960 Speaker 1: be like to check all the boxes, right. If they do, 806 00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:09,720 Speaker 1: then that's great, that's wonderful. But just because someone doesn't 807 00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,680 Speaker 1: check all of the boxes or that doesn't mean that 808 00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:15,560 Speaker 1: they can't be a friend totally. I think for you, 809 00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:20,359 Speaker 1: it's just you gotta go with your gut in your 810 00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:24,080 Speaker 1: heart and how she makes you feel. And if you 811 00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:26,880 Speaker 1: feel like she's not happy for you, she's not supportive, 812 00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:30,600 Speaker 1: you don't enjoy being around her, then yeah, I think 813 00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:32,920 Speaker 1: you should probably scale the friendship back and just know 814 00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:35,440 Speaker 1: that you can't really expect much from her. 815 00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:39,080 Speaker 2: And I think sometimes stuff plays out like you just 816 00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:40,960 Speaker 2: gotta let it play out. She's either going to show 817 00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:42,799 Speaker 2: up as a friend or she's not, and you will 818 00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:46,160 Speaker 2: know and then you cut her off, yeah, cause like 819 00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:47,160 Speaker 2: you don't. 820 00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:48,560 Speaker 1: You don't have to show me. 821 00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:51,680 Speaker 2: Over and over again you don't really like me, yeah, 822 00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:53,000 Speaker 2: and you just gotta show me like once. 823 00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, But like just out said, she also could be 824 00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:59,040 Speaker 1: dealing with just she did her own stuff, her own issues, 825 00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:01,799 Speaker 1: her own time constraints, her own whatever it might be, 826 00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:02,800 Speaker 1: you know, her own. 827 00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:08,399 Speaker 2: Stress relationship she could be going through. Yeah, so so. 828 00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:09,719 Speaker 1: I don't know. I say, like, don't throw her in 829 00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:13,160 Speaker 1: the trash if it's like nothing on fast, put her 830 00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:15,120 Speaker 1: in there. Put her in the refrigerator, not the freezer. 831 00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:18,239 Speaker 1: Yeah okay, okay, because when somebody's in the freezer, they 832 00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:20,960 Speaker 1: ain't never getting now they frozen. But put her in 833 00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:23,680 Speaker 1: their freezer. Yeah, you can go back in write with her, 834 00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:27,719 Speaker 1: yeah yea yeah, but manage your expectations. Yes, all right, 835 00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:30,600 Speaker 1: this is our last one. Yeah, okay, So this here 836 00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:35,399 Speaker 1: is from Ty Shane Hi Ty Shane tie tie ty 837 00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:39,880 Speaker 1: Shane Shane Okay Shane to Shane, Okay to Shane or 838 00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:42,360 Speaker 1: tie Shane hijaz Ellen Robin. I really need some advice. 839 00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:44,800 Speaker 1: I have a friend I've known since like eighth ninth grade. 840 00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:48,120 Speaker 1: We got closer after high school. After high school, not 841 00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:50,960 Speaker 1: in a romantic way. So she has these friends that 842 00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:54,520 Speaker 1: are full fledged right wing, if you know what I mean. 843 00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:57,560 Speaker 1: They say the N word, they write it on her 844 00:44:57,640 --> 00:45:00,640 Speaker 1: hands as a joke. They have rebel fled hanging in 845 00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:03,239 Speaker 1: their bedrooms. I've told her it's not right and we 846 00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:05,040 Speaker 1: just live in a place where these people get away 847 00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:08,160 Speaker 1: with it. But instead she teaches her friend's three year 848 00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:11,160 Speaker 1: old white child to say exactly what you think and 849 00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:13,879 Speaker 1: wanted me to think it's funny. What. I really don't 850 00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,040 Speaker 1: know what I should do. What I've definitely been a 851 00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:20,320 Speaker 1: little harsh about because her father, who's from this twenty 852 00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:23,520 Speaker 1: thousand population town, says they're okay, and I just don't 853 00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:26,680 Speaker 1: think it's right. Now, if y'all could right back or 854 00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:28,279 Speaker 1: put it in the show and I could send it 855 00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:31,160 Speaker 1: to her, and she hears from too strong black, Wow, 856 00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:34,120 Speaker 1: we gotta tell you what to do with the racists, 857 00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:37,640 Speaker 1: Like we are not the racist police. Okay, you should 858 00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:40,880 Speaker 1: know what to do with the racist right. Okay, so listen, 859 00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:45,680 Speaker 1: this is a foolishness. Listen. If they see no problem 860 00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:49,600 Speaker 1: with saying the N word or teaching it to kids, 861 00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:52,120 Speaker 1: or having the rebel flags or being around that, then 862 00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:53,640 Speaker 1: like you. 863 00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:56,640 Speaker 2: Really shouldn't even have to ask us, Yes, the right 864 00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:58,879 Speaker 2: is on the wall. Yeah, so and if you don't 865 00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:02,120 Speaker 2: say anything, then you can owning it. So I suggest 866 00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:04,279 Speaker 2: that you put your big girl panties on or big boy, 867 00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:06,160 Speaker 2: panties on. Hot if it's a man or woman, put 868 00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:07,759 Speaker 2: your panties on and go handle it. 869 00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:10,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, because don't make us handle it. Yeah. I 870 00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:14,560 Speaker 1: mean honestly, I would just just pull back. Yeah, pull back, No, 871 00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:17,759 Speaker 1: not pull back. Let them know that that shit is wrong. Well, 872 00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:19,560 Speaker 1: but they don't seem to think it they I mean, 873 00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:26,440 Speaker 1: it seems like she's had I've definitely been a little 874 00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:30,200 Speaker 1: harsh about it. Shane har Shane is they're okay when 875 00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:32,560 Speaker 1: you feel something, say something. I feel like she has. Yeah. 876 00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:35,120 Speaker 1: I told her it's not right. Okay, well we take 877 00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:37,279 Speaker 1: it down. Yeah, and stop saying the N word. So 878 00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,440 Speaker 1: you live in a place where people get away with 879 00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:44,239 Speaker 1: this type of nonsense thoughts, process or behavior or mentality, 880 00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:48,919 Speaker 1: and it's not right. And if they I just don't 881 00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:50,880 Speaker 1: want that for you. I don't want you to subject 882 00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:53,600 Speaker 1: yourself to that. I think you should pull back from 883 00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:57,160 Speaker 1: that because if they don't think it's right today, they're 884 00:46:57,160 --> 00:47:00,440 Speaker 1: not gonna think they're They're they're going to continue to think. Yes, 885 00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:02,560 Speaker 1: if they think it's right today, they're going to continue 886 00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:05,439 Speaker 1: to think that it's right tomorrow and forever and ever 887 00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:07,960 Speaker 1: and ever. And with this new regime. 888 00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:10,719 Speaker 2: I think we should all speak out about things that 889 00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:13,960 Speaker 2: we know are not right and are not fair. 890 00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:17,719 Speaker 1: And maybe because of the administration and Donald Trump and 891 00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:21,080 Speaker 1: what's been going on, maybe they feel like it's okay. 892 00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:25,439 Speaker 2: Yes, they feel really bold out here. They're really loud 893 00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:30,160 Speaker 2: and proud, and it's wrong. So whoever you are, ty Shane, 894 00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:33,279 Speaker 2: get into it and report back, report back to us 895 00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:34,320 Speaker 2: that you told it's racist. 896 00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:37,720 Speaker 1: To cut it out. Yeah, yeah, no, no, it's not okay. 897 00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:40,960 Speaker 1: If someone I remember, shoot, I think I don't know 898 00:47:40,960 --> 00:47:43,319 Speaker 1: if I shared this. I was on a cruise one 899 00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:47,840 Speaker 1: and only cruise, yeah, first and last, with two of 900 00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:51,399 Speaker 1: my girlfriends. We were young. We were like maybe still 901 00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:54,680 Speaker 1: in college or just out of college. And you know, 902 00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:57,640 Speaker 1: I'm light skinned black women, and they're they're fair skin 903 00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:00,839 Speaker 1: but they they're not as you know, you look at him, 904 00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:04,520 Speaker 1: you know that they're black women, at least from our perspective. 905 00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:07,359 Speaker 1: So we started like hanging out with this white guy 906 00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:10,040 Speaker 1: and he played. He was like a golfer. He was young. 907 00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:12,760 Speaker 1: We were just hanging out with him, and out of nowhere, 908 00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:15,719 Speaker 1: he just says the N word. What and we all like, 909 00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:19,400 Speaker 1: excuse you? We all looked at each other. With confusion 910 00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:22,880 Speaker 1: because we were like, he doesn't realize that we are 911 00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:26,480 Speaker 1: black women. Apparently not, and we instantly were like, oh, 912 00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:30,960 Speaker 1: got's to go, like, oh no, yes, we will not 913 00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:32,960 Speaker 1: be hanging out with you anymore. We will not be 914 00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:33,640 Speaker 1: talking to you. 915 00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:37,040 Speaker 2: Yeahah no no no, Like I said, when you see something, 916 00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,160 Speaker 2: say something like absolutely not, We're not doing it. 917 00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:41,640 Speaker 1: And I think we said to him like we do 918 00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:43,600 Speaker 1: you do you know that we're black? Like what he said, 919 00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:46,560 Speaker 1: and he was like, it's so caught off, like he 920 00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:48,719 Speaker 1: had no idea we were black. I'm like, what did 921 00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:50,839 Speaker 1: I understand? Okay, you didn't know what I was. But 922 00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:53,520 Speaker 1: my friends, I was like, what did you think they were? Maybe? 923 00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:56,279 Speaker 1: I don't know. It was very weird, but as soon 924 00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:58,640 Speaker 1: as he said the N word, we were out peace. 925 00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:02,400 Speaker 1: Do not ever speak to us again ever. Yeah, okay, 926 00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:05,319 Speaker 1: this is really really the Oh is this John Reid again? Yeah? 927 00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:10,360 Speaker 2: Okay, we have a picture of John Reid, so it 928 00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:12,440 Speaker 2: says Gazelle, you are right, I do need to be 929 00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:14,040 Speaker 2: more specific with my questions. 930 00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:14,200 Speaker 1: Oh. 931 00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:16,760 Speaker 2: I told him to be specific. Okay, So I was wondering. 932 00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:21,040 Speaker 2: Lately the question has been which sex, Oh, which sex? 933 00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:23,680 Speaker 2: And the city character are you which one do you 934 00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:26,520 Speaker 2: guys think you are? By the way, here's a pick 935 00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:29,160 Speaker 2: of me and my pride attire. Okay, so can we 936 00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:32,960 Speaker 2: show him? No, that is for us, that's for us. 937 00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:35,120 Speaker 1: Okay. He has on a miriajh carry. We'll show the back. 938 00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:37,920 Speaker 2: He has on a Mariah Carey in the front of 939 00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:40,200 Speaker 2: his shirt, so clearly this is a Mariah Carey fan. 940 00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:42,960 Speaker 1: And this is I think John is the one that 941 00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:45,960 Speaker 1: asked who was our gay icon? Yes? Right? Is that? 942 00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:49,040 Speaker 1: I think so? And we were like and then Mariah 943 00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:51,280 Speaker 1: Carey was his gay icon and realized, huh, I don't. 944 00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:53,360 Speaker 2: Get it right because because it was something like the 945 00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:55,480 Speaker 2: person has to be gay. But okay, yes, anyway, and 946 00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:57,640 Speaker 2: this is this is actually a cute little shirt on 947 00:49:57,680 --> 00:50:02,200 Speaker 2: the back and it says, shade never looks so good, 948 00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:09,120 Speaker 2: shade never looks so good, Shade never made anybody less gay. Yes, yes, yes, yes, 949 00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:11,560 Speaker 2: but I like the I like the I like it anyway. 950 00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:13,919 Speaker 1: So, okay, have we ever talked about who we are 951 00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:16,160 Speaker 1: on Sex and the City? No, because you know it's 952 00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:18,600 Speaker 1: so funny. I was gonna even talk about Sex and 953 00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:20,799 Speaker 1: the City with you. Yeah, because I saw like they 954 00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:23,840 Speaker 1: have a new season out they do. I've seen like 955 00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:25,759 Speaker 1: one or two episodes, okay, And I was gonna tell 956 00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:29,760 Speaker 1: you I've never watched Sex in the City. What no 957 00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:36,239 Speaker 1: friendship is now over? I watched the first movie. I 958 00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:37,640 Speaker 1: don't know why I went to the movie. So I 959 00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:39,680 Speaker 1: went to the first movie. Okay, But I did not 960 00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:42,600 Speaker 1: watch Sex and the City. What were you doing as 961 00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:44,759 Speaker 1: we were all doing it? We were all watching We're 962 00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:48,399 Speaker 1: all carry Bradshaw Miranda think I was Samantha. I think 963 00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:51,080 Speaker 1: I was watching like twenty four, like something where people 964 00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:53,719 Speaker 1: go blown up. We watched that too, But you Sex 965 00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:57,719 Speaker 1: and the City. I never watched it never. Okay, So 966 00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:01,239 Speaker 1: I'm familiar, okay, yes, new all right, let me I'm 967 00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:04,799 Speaker 1: familiar with the characters. Samantha is Carrie Bradshaw. No, Samantha 968 00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:07,520 Speaker 1: is the other one. And she's Samantha is like always 969 00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:11,920 Speaker 1: having sex? Oh like this, yes, Kim, And so Carrie 970 00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:18,160 Speaker 1: Carrie is s J Yes, and Cynthia Dixon is Nixon. 971 00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:24,759 Speaker 1: Nixon is Miranda Miranda, and it's Charlotte. Charlotte is something. Yes, 972 00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:27,919 Speaker 1: So who would you be? I don't think I'm any 973 00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:32,640 Speaker 1: of them. I would give you, Okay. I don't watch 974 00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:37,240 Speaker 1: enough to know, but I think I would give. 975 00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:45,960 Speaker 2: You Miranda only because she's very organized and she's you know, 976 00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:47,840 Speaker 2: she's I don't want to say she's a businesswoman, but 977 00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:50,680 Speaker 2: she's like I would give you old Miranda, not ran 978 00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:55,160 Speaker 2: New Miranda's gay. Yes, so I would give you old Miranda. 979 00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:58,480 Speaker 2: And she had this like love affair with Steve, and 980 00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:00,839 Speaker 2: you know that could kind of you and Wan because 981 00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:02,400 Speaker 2: they were together then they broke up and then they 982 00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:05,279 Speaker 2: got back together. So that's maybe you and wandash Yeah. 983 00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:07,160 Speaker 2: I can't even say yes or no because I don't 984 00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:07,600 Speaker 2: know about it. 985 00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:08,440 Speaker 1: So love Hotel. 986 00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:09,960 Speaker 2: They would ask us all the time because it was 987 00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:14,480 Speaker 2: four of us, so I, of course Samantha would be Luyne. 988 00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:16,280 Speaker 1: Not of course love you Luyne. 989 00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:20,640 Speaker 2: But yeah, Carrie was kind of up for grabs, but 990 00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:24,320 Speaker 2: we gave Carrie to Ashley and. 991 00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:32,319 Speaker 1: Samantha, not Samantha Charlotte. I felt like I was the 992 00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:34,919 Speaker 1: Charlotte of the group because she had the sense, she had, 993 00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:40,360 Speaker 1: the the practicality, she had, the you know, she's she 994 00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:42,560 Speaker 1: believed in love, but like wasn't going to play for 995 00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:46,839 Speaker 1: the foolishness. But you know that was we couldn't really 996 00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:49,280 Speaker 1: figure out between me and Shannon, and then there's Miranda. 997 00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:52,600 Speaker 1: So yeah, you you you'd be a mix up of 998 00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:53,200 Speaker 1: several people. 999 00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:56,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not, it's not. It's not straight across the board. 1000 00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:58,279 Speaker 2: So I don't know John Reid, I don't know. 1001 00:52:58,320 --> 00:53:00,359 Speaker 1: We don't. I don't know why. I never really got 1002 00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:02,319 Speaker 1: into it. I never watched it, never got into it. 1003 00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:09,080 Speaker 1: It's your homework, eh, I'm good, it's so good. Really, yes, Okay, 1004 00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:14,799 Speaker 1: Robin is not a real person. I am everyone I know. 1005 00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:17,439 Speaker 1: It was like so that okay, what everyone watched? Sex 1006 00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:21,160 Speaker 1: and the City Game of Throne? Yesh, what's wrong with you? 1007 00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:23,720 Speaker 1: I don't know. You just don't like whatever. I didn't. Okay, 1008 00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:28,520 Speaker 1: let's go through another Friends. Did you watch Friends? Yes? Nope, nope. Never. 1009 00:53:28,719 --> 00:53:30,760 Speaker 1: I can understand that because a lot of people were like, Okay, 1010 00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:33,040 Speaker 1: I'm not I can't get into it. Okay, I feel 1011 00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:36,799 Speaker 1: like a lot of people watch Seinfeldt. Yes nope, what nope? 1012 00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:41,040 Speaker 1: Oh we're done. No, this relationship is over. No I'm kidding, 1013 00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:46,160 Speaker 1: but like, but sein felt is like iconic? Yeah no, wow, 1014 00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:48,560 Speaker 1: So you don't like the soup Nazi you don't know 1015 00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:52,200 Speaker 1: what that is? Nope? Wow, this is who y'all come 1016 00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:54,160 Speaker 1: from Robed in the comments, I don't know what's okay? 1017 00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:57,080 Speaker 1: Is there something wrong with me? Yeah? So you you 1018 00:53:57,760 --> 00:54:02,840 Speaker 1: was this wand dictating what y'all were watching? No, did you? 1019 00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,560 Speaker 1: Y'all always watch stuff together? We will watch stuff together. 1020 00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:07,520 Speaker 1: But I'm just I mean, I'm trying to rememberhen these 1021 00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:09,760 Speaker 1: shows are on, Like, especially if he was in the NBA, 1022 00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:12,920 Speaker 1: they traveled a lot, so I definitely had time to 1023 00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:15,000 Speaker 1: watch to watch what I wanted to watch. Okay, well 1024 00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:16,959 Speaker 1: a lot to go back. Don't they have this summer? 1025 00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:19,160 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean I could watch a lot of stuff. Yeah, 1026 00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:23,360 Speaker 1: or where's everything now? I mean on Netflix? Just be 1027 00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:24,120 Speaker 1: streaming somewhere. 1028 00:54:24,160 --> 00:54:27,120 Speaker 2: Listen, listen, get into it. Maybe not Seinfeld, but like 1029 00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:29,720 Speaker 2: do a little sex in the city. You'll like, not 1030 00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:32,239 Speaker 2: not the first, second or third season, maybe like get 1031 00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:33,040 Speaker 2: in like fourth season. 1032 00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:34,520 Speaker 1: Oh really yeah, okay, totally. 1033 00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:37,279 Speaker 2: Oh gosh, don't ever forget to live your life. That 1034 00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:40,080 Speaker 2: is an episode reasonable or Shady, and y'all tell Robin 1035 00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:40,960 Speaker 2: to get into. 1036 00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:43,800 Speaker 1: It or both. Bye bye. 1037 00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:55,760 Speaker 2: Reasonably Shady is a production of the Black Effect podcast Network. 1038 00:54:56,040 --> 00:54:59,840 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeart Radio, visit the iHeartRadio app 1039 00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:03,040 Speaker 1: Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen to your favorite shows, 1040 00:55:03,360 --> 00:55:06,359 Speaker 1: and you can connect with us on social media at 1041 00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:15,839 Speaker 1: Robin Dixon, Ten, Giselle Bryant, and reasonably Shady