1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:03,400 Speaker 1: From Hollywood. See you. Thank you for listening to us. 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:10,879 Speaker 1: Ryan Air with a Ryan Secret. Regina's on with us 3 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: this warning. Regina, how are you? I'm good. How are 4 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:18,080 Speaker 1: you guys? We're doing super well. Thank you. So what happened? 5 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: You're calling about a breakup? Yeah? I really need some 6 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: advice because I just want to know whether I should 7 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: break up with him or if a few days have 8 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: gone by and it's okay for me just to forget 9 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: about it. So okay, So what happened? You know what 10 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:41,480 Speaker 1: I mean? Like, okay, So we went out for two 11 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: weeks and it was really hot and heavy in the beginning. 12 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 1: I'd say we went out the first week about four times, 13 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 1: probably seven times total. And then I got busy with 14 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: work and I went out of town and then all 15 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 1: of a sudden, I just realized, like I was at 16 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 1: the airport and I just lines that I just can't 17 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:06,680 Speaker 1: there's I can't just it's not happening. There's quite a 18 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:10,400 Speaker 1: bit of an age difference. And I realized, like, you know, 19 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:13,039 Speaker 1: once the uh, you know, once I got into the 20 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 1: real world for a second, out of this cloud, right, 21 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:19,679 Speaker 1: I just realized, I just can't. Um we hadn't defined anything, 22 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: of course, Um, but we haven't spoken in a few days, 23 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 1: and I just don't know if there's anything to end 24 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 1: or if I can just let it die. I think 25 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 1: you got to end it if you want to end it, 26 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:35,759 Speaker 1: not let it just hang. Yeah, absolutely, you know right, 27 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 1: I think I think it's better communicate that kind of thing. 28 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:41,759 Speaker 1: Where is it at right now? You guys texting you're 29 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: just not responding, or he's not responding. He's reaching out 30 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: and you're ignoring. I kind of just got really, you know, 31 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: busy with work, and then I just I haven't talked 32 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: him at all, no texting or anything, and I'm still 33 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 1: offered about it. They never dtr Can we call it? 34 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: Can we can you call him and break up with 35 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: him on the air? Ryan? Yes? Would you do that? 36 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: Are you serious? You want to do that? That would 37 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: be oh god, ye want to do it? Yeah? I'm 38 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: just saying, always do it? But how serious is it? 39 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: Have you guys got gone all the way? Yes? Always 40 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:24,639 Speaker 1: saying that it's not gone all or not? High school? 41 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: Did you go all the way with him or not? No? 42 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 1: No goes anywhere? Yeah, she did, thank you. She understood 43 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 1: the assignment and she thinks she's twice. She says, everyone 44 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 1: understands what I mean when I asked that all the way. 45 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 1: It makes me not want to go anywhere. Yeah, I 46 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 1: don't want to go anywhere. Okay, okay, daddy Joe. Now 47 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 1: you guys, you guys, I'm thirty four, yeah, and he's 48 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: twenty three. And that's that kind of the age difference 49 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: is the extra Like, I don't even know what to 50 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 1: do in this situation like this because I'm not sure 51 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 1: if you were attracted to him. Did you know he 52 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 1: was twenty three when you guys went all the way? 53 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: Oh my god, yeah I did. Then here, okay, we'll 54 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:16,119 Speaker 1: do what's his name? Jason? So why don't we call 55 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:21,360 Speaker 1: him and break up with him? Thank you? Who's doing this? 56 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 1: Are you going to Brian? I'm not involved with him? Okay, wow, 57 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 1: I don't know him yet, all right, so yeah, hang 58 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:32,359 Speaker 1: on one second, Regine, Okay, I mean, have you ever 59 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: had to break up was someone? Well? Not on the radio, man, 60 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 1: there's that. But I feel like she needs to just 61 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 1: have closure. Okay, how long you've been dating Jason? Two weeks? No? 62 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 1: I mean it's really not a break up. It's kind 63 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 1: of just like, right, I mean two weeks, like exactly. 64 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 1: I mean, I just don't even know. You know, these 65 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: young kids these days, is they just who knows if 66 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: he just thinks I'm just a hook up or you know, 67 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 1: well he likes all ther women, you know what I mean. 68 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 1: I just don't know what to do. He's twenty three, 69 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 1: you're thirty four. Yes, okay, uh, I mean that's why 70 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 1: you want to break up. He just be direct. It's 71 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: not working out, but that's why you want to break up. Yeah, 72 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:25,719 Speaker 1: I think so. I don't think this, I can really. 73 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 1: I mean no, it was fun for the two times. 74 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 1: It was fun for the two times. And he is delicious, Okay, 75 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 1: he's a gorgeous guy. He's so charming. Oh my god. Yeah, 76 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:41,039 Speaker 1: no, no no, no, he's amazing. I wouldn't I wouldn't have 77 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 1: gone on the second data if he wasn't absolutely amazing. 78 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 1: So he's amazing and delicious, but you don't want to 79 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 1: be with him. Yeah, this is silly just because of age. Yes, 80 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:54,040 Speaker 1: because I keep doing the math, like when he's thirty, 81 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 1: I'm going to be forty one, you know. I mean 82 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: obviously you can't think like that. Listen, I have no issue, 83 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 1: you know, Like age is just a number we know, Ye, 84 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:09,280 Speaker 1: the number, I know, I know, but you can't think 85 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 1: of it. He's gonna I just keep thinking that he's 86 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 1: gonna want younger check at some point, and I'm just 87 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: gonna get heartbroken. SOB, you are way overthinking a lot 88 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 1: of this. But I have remember line. Jason is his name, 89 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:28,840 Speaker 1: and he's right here. So hellbo Jason. Yes, Hi, it's 90 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest and Regina your girlfriend ish person. Hi, Hi Jason, 91 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 1: So Jason, thank you for green to come on the air. 92 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 1: We're calling you for closure. Okay, we're going to break 93 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 1: up with you, or she's going to break up with you. Regina. 94 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 1: Regina is breaking up with you. Yeah, yeah, I mean 95 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 1: I kind of assumed it's been a it's been a 96 00:05:57,640 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 1: while since I've heard from her, so I figured she's 97 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 1: ghost to me. But I think you're delicious and amazing. 98 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:09,239 Speaker 1: But she does not like the age difference. I mean, 99 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 1: that's understandable. I guess you could have just told me. 100 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:17,160 Speaker 1: But here we are pretty flattering being on the radio. 101 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 1: It's the most elaborate breakup I've ever been involved in. 102 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 1: So me too. Thank Is there anything you want to say? Regina? 103 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: I just want to tell him that. I just want 104 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 1: to tell you, Dason, that you're absolutely gorgeous and wonderful 105 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 1: and I really enjoyed the time you spent together. I 106 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 1: just think that the age difference is a bit. Yeah, 107 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 1: it's eleven years different, so I want to make sure 108 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: that you know, did you go off and find a 109 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 1: girl you're on age? All right? Well, okay, our work 110 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 1: is done, Jason. Thank you for taking a call in. 111 00:06:54,560 --> 00:07:00,839 Speaker 1: Good luck, Regina. Yeah, you're welcome, Thanks Regina, Thank you. Bye. 112 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 1: I was never good at breakups, dealing with them, are 113 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 1: talking about them? Bugs? They hook up again? I mean, 114 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 1: you don't call someone delicious, yeah, drunken? Nice? She's gonna 115 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 1: text them all right, Natalie, thanks for hanging on the 116 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 1: line there for a minute. Sorry about that. Just luck 117 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 1: going on this morning? How are you? I'm so good? 118 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:26,120 Speaker 1: How are you so good? So what can we do 119 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 1: for you? Yeah? I just moved to La So since 120 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 1: y'all have lived here, I was just curious on tits 121 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 1: for meeting genuine people, making friends things like that. Now 122 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 1: where did you from? Where did you move? I just 123 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 1: moved from Nashville. Oh cool, my sister lives there. Oh 124 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 1: no way. Yeah, where we're partum. I was downtown Nashville, 125 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 1: so like the Germantown area, if you're familiar, I am 126 00:07:57,120 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 1: all right. So welcome to Southern California. Welcome to Los Angeles, 127 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 1: and you want to know where to meet genuine people everywhere? 128 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 1: Everywhere they're in genuine people in the city. This stereotype 129 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: that people are inauthentic or whatever you have heard about 130 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 1: them doesn't exist citywide. There may be some pockets of 131 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 1: narcissism and some pockets of inauthentic or disingenuous, but that 132 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 1: is not what Los Angeles is. What have you heard 133 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 1: about the people here and where have you going to 134 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 1: meet them? So I just missed here three weeks ago, 135 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:36,440 Speaker 1: and everybody's been super nice, So I know that stigma 136 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 1: doesn't exist, and it's been great for networkings. But in 137 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 1: terms of like meeting friends, I've tried workout classes, meditation groups. 138 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 1: I'm just putting myself out there talking to people, but 139 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 1: it seems like some people want to stay in their 140 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 1: own lane. I'm gonna tell that's true. I get that, 141 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:57,439 Speaker 1: but I'm gonna tell you. I'm gonna tell you where 142 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 1: the nicest people go. Okay, the farmers markets, Oh my gosh, 143 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 1: I was thinking that. Okay, so look up online the 144 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 1: different there's a farmer's market every day somewhere. Look at 145 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 1: the different farmers markets. I'm telling you, the kindest people 146 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:19,200 Speaker 1: are at the farmers markets. I have found that, year 147 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 1: after year after year. There's just something about and when 148 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 1: you're there in a morning, whether it's a weekend or 149 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:28,440 Speaker 1: a weekday and you're looking for something, it's just there's 150 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 1: a there's just a kindness at the farmers markets of 151 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: Los Angeles. Is it because they eat healthy and healthy 152 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: people are just happy? Maybe I don't I don't know, 153 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:41,440 Speaker 1: and maybe I don't know what it is, but it's 154 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 1: true and it's happened every time. I say to myself, 155 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:49,320 Speaker 1: this is where good people are. Yeah, I mean, I 156 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 1: got a farmer's market. So what about your coworkers? Because 157 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 1: when I first moved here, I was so young and 158 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 1: all my coworkers were the same age as me, and 159 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: then we just all started hanging out together the Announce. 160 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 1: To this day, they're all some of my best friends. 161 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:06,800 Speaker 1: I am actually out here working on a passion project. 162 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 1: So I left my corporate job. So it's me, which 163 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 1: I know makes it more difficult. You got to get 164 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 1: out there then. Okay, yeah, let's start with this is 165 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 1: bite size. You can do it. You can look it up. 166 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 1: You can start now and keep us posted and welcome 167 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:24,679 Speaker 1: to southern California. You're gonna love it. Yeah, I think 168 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:29,120 Speaker 1: there's market. All right, you take care, Nelly, bye bye? 169 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:31,679 Speaker 1: What's his name? Isn't there like a bumble friends? App? Yeah? 170 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:34,959 Speaker 1: Bumble bff. Oh yeah, didn't ask you all about that? Yes, 171 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 1: it was just because now it was just researching. So 172 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:40,680 Speaker 1: a prominent relationship expert says this is the key to 173 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 1: a long, happy, healthy relationship. But you need to do 174 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 1: it together every day. And that's kiss for six seconds. 175 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 1: Oh okay. Daily six second kiss will increase emotional and 176 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 1: physical intimacy and release a bonding hormone. So here's how 177 00:10:55,760 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 1: long six seconds is? One? Two's a long kiss. I 178 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 1: like it? Button the negative moaning, I could do longer. Okay, great, 179 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 1: good for you day. Someone out there feels better because 180 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:22,959 Speaker 1: you exist. FM headlines with Tanya radding well. Former President 181 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:25,720 Speaker 1: Donald Trump will be arraigned today in New York criminal 182 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:29,320 Speaker 1: Court after a grand jury voted to indict him last week. 183 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 1: The former president is in New York and expected to 184 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 1: turn himself in sometime today. 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Dwayne will return as Maui Debi, God 193 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 1: of the Wind and see on air with Ryan Seacrest. 194 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 1: Melanie's on the phone, Good morning, Melanie. How are you doing. 195 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:20,320 Speaker 1: I'm doing well. How are you doing doing well as well? 196 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 1: So you're calling about a friend getting married next summer. 197 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 1: What's happening? Yeah, So she's getting married next summer, and 198 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 1: she asked me to be one of her bride'smaids. But 199 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 1: I'm on the front because I cannot stand her fiance. 200 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:37,560 Speaker 1: He's so full of himself and he's super toxic, and 201 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 1: I honestly just feel like she could do so much better. 202 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:43,400 Speaker 1: I don't want me to get married to him, So 203 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 1: I feel weird being in her wedding party if I'm 204 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:49,080 Speaker 1: not actually happy that they're getting married. So I just 205 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:52,440 Speaker 1: want to know. I don't know if I have good advice, 206 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:55,760 Speaker 1: but I'll tell you what I think about, and that 207 00:12:55,960 --> 00:13:00,160 Speaker 1: is how toxic. When you say toxic to you me, 208 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 1: like abusive, toxic, emotional? Yeah, I would say emotionally abusive. 209 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 1: And do you know for fact, I've yeah, I've been 210 00:13:11,960 --> 00:13:17,320 Speaker 1: at firsthand. I've experienced it myself. But have you made 211 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:22,319 Speaker 1: your feelings known? Yes? I have. So this is tough. 212 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:24,600 Speaker 1: But then I think you've done your part. Now you 213 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 1: need to continue to be a good friend and be 214 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 1: in the wedding party. I think so too, Yeah, because 215 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 1: it's now no longer about you, right If you said 216 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 1: you don't want, you don't want, you don't want, well, 217 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 1: it's you've been an honest, good friend and telling her 218 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 1: your view. And I think she's the one that's gonna 219 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:48,120 Speaker 1: have to wake up to him every single day. There 220 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: there's somebody that I know in our in you know 221 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 1: that we attended their wedding and it was kind of 222 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 1: the same scenario, like not everybody loved the husband and 223 00:13:57,400 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 1: you just have to stay out because like looking back now, 224 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 1: they're still married, they got kids, they're happy. They there's 225 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 1: clearly no issue that we see. But also, that's what 226 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:07,440 Speaker 1: friends are for. Even if it doesn't work out and 227 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 1: they do end up getting there or whatever, your friends 228 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:11,960 Speaker 1: are always there. They pick you up, even if they 229 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 1: hated your partner, Like, that's what friends are for. True. 230 00:14:16,240 --> 00:14:19,280 Speaker 1: Would it be fake of me to go even though 231 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 1: I'm not in support of them? No? I think you've 232 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 1: got to support your friend. Yeah, you said your peace 233 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 1: about how you feel, and you can't. I don't think 234 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:32,080 Speaker 1: you do much more If you don't go, that's the 235 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 1: end of the friendship. I also think it's a little 236 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 1: selfish to not go a little bit. You're making it 237 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 1: about you when you're not. Her friend needs you there, 238 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 1: right So yeah, well, and if that's what you want 239 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 1: to hear. But that's our unexpert feedback, I guess I'll 240 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 1: just suck it up. Okay. I wouldn't say that too 241 00:14:54,560 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 1: or either. Thank you for calling, but I get it. 242 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 1: Thank you guys, good bye. All right, let's get to 243 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 1: the second date update right now. This is Pierce. That's 244 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 1: a good name. Mhmm. You don't hear it often. I 245 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 1: don't know if I've ever said it. I don't know 246 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 1: if I've ever said it. You have Pierce Brauns. Yeah, yeah, right, 247 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:24,080 Speaker 1: but I mean I don't say his name often, right, 248 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 1: that's true. Let's grab Pierce here. Hey Pierce, how are 249 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 1: you man? I'm good? How are you? I am doing well. 250 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:33,520 Speaker 1: So we are coming to help you out with the 251 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 1: second date update here. So you got set up by 252 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 1: a mutual friend and you went out with a woman 253 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 1: in Santa Monica. You guys you hit it off. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 254 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 1: we hit it off. You know, we met at a 255 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 1: bar briefly and then like one of our mutual friends, 256 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 1: like you said, it was like you guys should date, 257 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 1: and so so we did did They connected us? And 258 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 1: then we went out. Um we we we went rollerblading 259 00:15:55,360 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 1: in Santa Monica. We you know, we were talking about 260 00:15:57,320 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 1: it and we were both like rollerblading. Um. But it 261 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 1: was cool because we were both a little rusty. Yeah. 262 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:06,680 Speaker 1: Um yeah, so you know we got a chance to 263 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 1: like to support each other and be kind of flirty 264 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:11,520 Speaker 1: and fun about it and and lots of laughs as 265 00:16:11,560 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 1: we like fell over and stuff you know. Um, and 266 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 1: then uh, we we were we bladed for a little bit. 267 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:20,880 Speaker 1: We wouldn't got drinks, you know, but now she's not responding. 268 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:25,320 Speaker 1: Oh nothing, huh uh, it's really weird. What did you 269 00:16:25,320 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 1: wear on the date? Obviously my shortest of short shorts 270 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:31,600 Speaker 1: because if you've gotta roll with you got a really 271 00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 1: good shorts. Yeah, I was curious. I mean, you know, 272 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 1: like some athletic shorts in a in a T shirt 273 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:40,520 Speaker 1: and stuff. Um, and you know, my hair is a 274 00:16:40,560 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 1: little a little longer now, so I had it back 275 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 1: with you know, a head band on. But ohad detail. 276 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 1: All right, listen, we are going to put you on 277 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 1: hold and see if we can call what's her name. 278 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 1: Her name's Maddie, So we can call Maddie and find 279 00:16:57,520 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 1: out why she's blown you off? Really right, yeah, hopefully 280 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:05,399 Speaker 1: fingers crossed. So we have Pierce here in the midst 281 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:08,479 Speaker 1: of a second date update. He was set up by 282 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 1: a friend she whatt with Maddie. They went out, had 283 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 1: a good date, but now she's not really responsive. So 284 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:18,119 Speaker 1: can you think of, Pierce, can you think of what 285 00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 1: might have gone wrong? You know what, I've been racking 286 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:24,200 Speaker 1: my brain and I've got I've got no ideas, you know, 287 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:28,640 Speaker 1: no no weird, no weird politic, no talk, no strange 288 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:32,119 Speaker 1: ex drama, nothing, um I got, I got no ideas 289 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:35,479 Speaker 1: what could have gone wrong? All right, hold on one second. 290 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 1: We have Maddie on the other line. Is be very 291 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:42,199 Speaker 1: quiet while we talked to her. Okay, okay, all right, 292 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:47,000 Speaker 1: here we go. Hell about Maddie. Hi, Hey, Maddie, how 293 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 1: are you good? How are you super good? Thank you 294 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:51,920 Speaker 1: for agreeing to come on the air with us. We're 295 00:17:51,920 --> 00:17:54,119 Speaker 1: calling you about a guy named Pierce. Does that ring 296 00:17:54,119 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 1: a bell? Yes? You guys went on a date. Uh yeah, 297 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:05,080 Speaker 1: we went on a date in Santa Monica. And how 298 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:12,399 Speaker 1: was the date? Um, it was good, but but but 299 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:15,360 Speaker 1: it wasn't good in a good sense of good. It 300 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:20,680 Speaker 1: was just good. The date itself was like fine. Afterwards 301 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:23,800 Speaker 1: it was, you know, a little weird, but like that's fine. 302 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 1: Why was it weird after what happened? I'm sorry, I'm 303 00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:28,679 Speaker 1: not just like now used to like talking about my 304 00:18:28,680 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 1: personal stuff on there. You're doing great? Okay? So okay, 305 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:39,959 Speaker 1: So we like went out roller bleeding and um uh 306 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 1: like that was really fun and we were chatting and 307 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:44,639 Speaker 1: it was like fun too. And then so afterward he 308 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 1: went and got some drinks and um, we were talking 309 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 1: about like I think I was teasing him about something 310 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 1: like dumb he said before when we were chatting beforehand, 311 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:59,720 Speaker 1: and um uh, he like he didn't believe it, like 312 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:01,360 Speaker 1: that he said the dumb thing that I said he'd said, 313 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 1: and like, you know, it was like fun flirty teasing, 314 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 1: right or it wasn't mean or anything, right, But so 315 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 1: he pulled up his phone to like check on our 316 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:12,120 Speaker 1: text conversation, um, which like, okay, it's fine whatever. Um. 317 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 1: But when I saw when he like showed me his 318 00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 1: text conversation, I saw that like for my profile picture, 319 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:21,199 Speaker 1: he had like gone on my Instagram and screenshot at 320 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:23,479 Speaker 1: a photo or something to save as my contact and 321 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:28,600 Speaker 1: it's just it worded me out. Wait what well he 322 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:30,560 Speaker 1: like he didn't even follow me yet, you know what 323 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 1: I mean, Like, oh, so he already had a contact 324 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:36,359 Speaker 1: picture for you in his phone. Yeah, and it was 325 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 1: like a picture from my Instagram and from like like 326 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:42,159 Speaker 1: a while back, right, Like it wasn't like even the 327 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:44,399 Speaker 1: first picture there. It was like he'd like done a 328 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:47,199 Speaker 1: deep dive on me or something like he picked he 329 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:48,639 Speaker 1: picked the one that he liked best and made it 330 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 1: your contact A little bit. I do this with my friends, 331 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 1: were sure but like we'd never we hadn't like exchanged Instagrams. 332 00:19:57,520 --> 00:20:00,760 Speaker 1: We'd never like you know, like I mean mine's not 333 00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:03,480 Speaker 1: even like under my full I mean I guess like 334 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 1: my name's in there. But so he likes felt like 335 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 1: he didn't like know my yews and he had like 336 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:09,359 Speaker 1: find it and then scroll back through all these pictures 337 00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:11,120 Speaker 1: and like he hadn't mentioned any of this, He hadn't 338 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 1: brought up anything, and like you know, I mean whatever, 339 00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:16,840 Speaker 1: like I've googled someone before a date before, like I 340 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:19,680 Speaker 1: get it, but like to do that deep a dive 341 00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:22,280 Speaker 1: and then like save up, I don't know. He just 342 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 1: like had a picture of me on his phone and 343 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:26,000 Speaker 1: we hadn't even met yet. It kind of well, so 344 00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 1: made kicked out. I have to tell you that Pierce 345 00:20:28,920 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 1: is on the phone here with us. He's on the 346 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 1: other line. Wait what Pierce, God, Yeah, I can I 347 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 1: can actually explain to you. Yeah, please explain that hey first, hey, 348 00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:48,240 Speaker 1: oh second, or I didn't do that on Instagram deep 349 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:51,200 Speaker 1: dive on you. Um, that's the picture that came over 350 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 1: with Emily from Emily which you shared your contact with me, 351 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:56,480 Speaker 1: Like that's the picture that she has saved with us. 352 00:20:56,480 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 1: So when she shared it with me, it does. Yeah, 353 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:05,680 Speaker 1: oh that makes so much sense. Oh my god, I'm 354 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:13,639 Speaker 1: so embarrassed. I'm so sorry. Yeah, like, like, don't be sorry. 355 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:15,200 Speaker 1: I I wish you would have. I wish you would 356 00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:16,399 Speaker 1: have just said something to me in the boat with 357 00:21:16,440 --> 00:21:19,639 Speaker 1: that have bothered you. I'm I'm sorry. I mean I 358 00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:21,960 Speaker 1: should I should have. I just I don't remember, like 359 00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:25,160 Speaker 1: I don't I have Like I was one dating apps, 360 00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:28,400 Speaker 1: you know before we like this, before I Emily introduced us, 361 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 1: and like I'd had some bad experiences with guys being creepy, 362 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:33,800 Speaker 1: and I think I just shut down. I'm so sorry, 363 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:39,560 Speaker 1: I sid yeah, totally totally. I totally get that. And 364 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, and I completely understand why how it. I'm 365 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:48,040 Speaker 1: so sorry. Don't feel stupid, Like, don't feel stupid. Oh 366 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:51,280 Speaker 1: but like, you know, if if you wanted, we could 367 00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:54,200 Speaker 1: go out again and I could take a new picture 368 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:59,480 Speaker 1: of you for your contact photos. I do no, I 369 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:03,240 Speaker 1: I was love that. Yea. Oh my gosh. This is 370 00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:05,639 Speaker 1: like when an embarrassing moment turns out to be a 371 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 1: good thing. This is a good thing. This is a 372 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:10,320 Speaker 1: good thing. I'm so happy for you that, like all right, 373 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:15,320 Speaker 1: washing and smiling. Okay, great Mattie, Pierce, Pierce, Maddie, time 374 00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 1: for another date. Thanks guys, all right, our job is done. Yeah, 375 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:26,040 Speaker 1: thank you Pierce Maddie. Bye. I think that went well. 376 00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:30,840 Speaker 1: Misunderstanding it happens, yeah, I mean, and she was creeped 377 00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 1: out by you know, other situations in the past, dating apps, etc. 378 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:38,400 Speaker 1: They have to change that feature though, you share if 379 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:43,960 Speaker 1: I share, Michael says, Babe. So I was like, well, yeah, 380 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:48,760 Speaker 1: so there is a new trend happening at weddings and 381 00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:52,040 Speaker 1: it's called live paintings, isn't it. You know about live painting. 382 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:54,359 Speaker 1: I think it's getting a lot more popularity now, but 383 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 1: I've seen it like years. It's years back, even at 384 00:22:57,600 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 1: some of my friend's weddings. But yes, a live painter, 385 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,280 Speaker 1: essentially you can do a few different scenes, like your 386 00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:06,159 Speaker 1: first dance or the ceremony. So they usually will be 387 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 1: at the very back end of the church or wherever 388 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:12,400 Speaker 1: you're getting married, and you know, ceremony roughly can run 389 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:14,840 Speaker 1: anywhere from like twenty minutes to an hour. It's like 390 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 1: a Catholic wedding or something. And so they sit there 391 00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:20,240 Speaker 1: and they paint what the altar looks like. They paint 392 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 1: you and your husband, or you and your wife, and 393 00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:25,439 Speaker 1: if you have bridesmaids or groomsmen, all of them are 394 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,640 Speaker 1: painted as well. Usually it's not as detailed to where 395 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 1: like you see like faces, but it's more like a 396 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:35,720 Speaker 1: like vibe abstract abstract. Yeah, but it still looks beautiful. 397 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 1: It's it's I've seen these are so beautiful. Well let 398 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:42,760 Speaker 1: me actually we have Alicia, Hail, Alicia, good morning. How 399 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 1: are you? I'm good? How are you doing? We I'm 400 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:52,520 Speaker 1: intrigued now, I so a live wedding painter? Is what 401 00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:56,440 Speaker 1: you do? How do you? How do you paint? Is 402 00:23:56,480 --> 00:24:00,880 Speaker 1: it it's fast the process? Now, yes, yes, it's it's 403 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:04,600 Speaker 1: very fast. Um, it's really high pressure. It's an adrenaline 404 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 1: rush rush. But it's so much fun to come to 405 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:10,719 Speaker 1: a wedding with a blank canvas and by the end 406 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:13,439 Speaker 1: of the night half a finish painting. And where do 407 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 1: you position yourself to get whatever you're painting? So it 408 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 1: depends on what moment I'm painting. If I'm painting a 409 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:24,000 Speaker 1: moment from the ceremony, I'll usually be behind the last 410 00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 1: row seats, or if it's the first dance, I'll be 411 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:28,720 Speaker 1: in the reception hall with a good view of the 412 00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:33,119 Speaker 1: first dance. I mean that sounds awesome. Yeah. Do you 413 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:35,920 Speaker 1: start with like the background first and then you fill 414 00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:38,160 Speaker 1: in the people because you could kind of get ahead 415 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,359 Speaker 1: start with that or now, Yes, I do. I usually 416 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 1: come a few hours early so I can start prepping 417 00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:47,600 Speaker 1: the backgrounds and then as the guests start to come, I'm, 418 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 1: you know, finishing up the background, and then I'll start 419 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:56,280 Speaker 1: to add in the people. Do you do this for birthdays? 420 00:24:56,320 --> 00:25:00,439 Speaker 1: All kinds of events, mostly wedding way into the idea. 421 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:02,879 Speaker 1: I think it sounds really awesome. It could be really 422 00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 1: cute for Flora or even for Georgia. Right, you have 423 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:11,399 Speaker 1: birthday parties for Georgia. I don't have parties, but sorry, 424 00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:16,000 Speaker 1: Alicia were talking about my dog? Would you like Toddy? 425 00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:20,520 Speaker 1: Is this something you like? I think doing it? Yeah? Yeah? 426 00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 1: And what were you doing before live wedding painting? Um? Well, 427 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:29,200 Speaker 1: I've I've been painting my whole life, and I've worked 428 00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:33,719 Speaker 1: in the film and television industry as well, so um, 429 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:35,800 Speaker 1: it's just been in the last few years that I 430 00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 1: started doing the wedding and event painting. Well, I'm blown away. 431 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:42,040 Speaker 1: You can check her out, Alicia Anne with any art 432 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 1: on Instagram. It's pretty magical, especially if someone's planning a 433 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:49,720 Speaker 1: wedding right now. Thank you for coming on. Yeah, of course, 434 00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:54,119 Speaker 1: thanks for having me. Okay, bye bye. Huh. Have you 435 00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 1: ever seen those fast painters that paint all this kind 436 00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 1: of stuff that it comes together the last second. Oh yeah, 437 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,399 Speaker 1: the Charger game a few weeks ago, and it was 438 00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 1: he was upside down and then like to music and 439 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,720 Speaker 1: then they spent around, Yes, there it is. It was like, yeah, 440 00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:10,760 Speaker 1: it was an American bald eagle. What do you think? 441 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:12,639 Speaker 1: But you didn't know that to the last because he 442 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,760 Speaker 1: was painting it upside down. It was really cool. Matt's 443 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 1: my man hanging on here at one eight hundred five 444 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:19,919 Speaker 1: to one to two seven. Matt, Hello, good morning. How 445 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:25,400 Speaker 1: are you Matt? Hey? Right good? How are you super solid? So, Matt, 446 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:30,440 Speaker 1: you're calling because your fiance needs something? Yeah, so thanks 447 00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 1: forty Nicole. I kind of just need a sanity check here. 448 00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:35,960 Speaker 1: So late last year I proposed to my girlfriend or 449 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:41,399 Speaker 1: three years Yeah, yeah, thank you. So we recently started 450 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:44,480 Speaker 1: to play in the wedding for next spring, and she 451 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 1: told me last weekend that she really wants her ex 452 00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:52,240 Speaker 1: boyfriend to officiate the wedding, which I'm sorry. Why Okay, 453 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:55,000 Speaker 1: So there's some factors here, but obviously it's not my 454 00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:57,879 Speaker 1: first choice. There are high school sweethearts. But one factor 455 00:26:57,920 --> 00:27:01,120 Speaker 1: to consider is that he's sleep come out as gay, 456 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:05,159 Speaker 1: and is dating a man, So I think that changes 457 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:06,880 Speaker 1: things a little. But I feel like it's a little 458 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,879 Speaker 1: weird to have an ex up there with us. But 459 00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 1: is he a reverend or why would he officiate? You 460 00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 1: don't have to be. He's going to get a certificate. Yeah, 461 00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,240 Speaker 1: you get ordained. But that's what I'm saying. Out of 462 00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:22,600 Speaker 1: everybody in your lives, why him? Are they still? Is 463 00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:26,240 Speaker 1: he still a part of your lives? He's great, he's 464 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:29,440 Speaker 1: a friend, he's around. Yeah, I think he's I think 465 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:32,560 Speaker 1: he's he's important to us. But of the one hundred 466 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:35,400 Speaker 1: and fifty people that were inviting, maybe I prefer that 467 00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:38,400 Speaker 1: she asked someone who didn't sleep with her and didn't 468 00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 1: dat her inst So this is gonna be easy for me, Matt, Yeah, same, 469 00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 1: you might find it surprising for me. I mean, I'm 470 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 1: all for one being friends with their exes, but not 471 00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:51,440 Speaker 1: officiating the wedding. I'll tell you why you're uncomfortable. One 472 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:55,360 Speaker 1: that's not good too. People are gonna be talking about it, Yeah, 473 00:27:56,359 --> 00:28:01,119 Speaker 1: talking Remember when how about that? Why now he's officiating 474 00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:04,680 Speaker 1: away from the ear moment, from everything, you're there for 475 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:09,680 Speaker 1: the answers. No, yeah, I love that point when it 476 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:14,600 Speaker 1: comes to weddings. I have great points. You do so fascinating. 477 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:17,119 Speaker 1: So Matt, there's this is zero fly this is no 478 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:20,040 Speaker 1: flies on. But wait, wait, wait, wait, she's obviously putting 479 00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:22,439 Speaker 1: her foot down, like you've expressed to her already that 480 00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:25,680 Speaker 1: you don't want it. But she's pushing back, right right, 481 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:29,159 Speaker 1: So she's pushing back, and I mean, I think I 482 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:31,280 Speaker 1: think she knows that I don't. I mean, she knows 483 00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,320 Speaker 1: I don't want it, But I think she's told him 484 00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:36,080 Speaker 1: as well, like she's saying things to him. I'm sure 485 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:37,880 Speaker 1: behind me back about it. Like the other day she said, 486 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:41,040 Speaker 1: I'm being such a scorpio. If she'll say, you're back 487 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:43,320 Speaker 1: this is not something you should marry, well, I don't 488 00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:45,360 Speaker 1: have to go that far, but I'm going as far 489 00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 1: as I want to go. This too far. It's if 490 00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 1: someone's talking about in your back, about you leading up 491 00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:55,320 Speaker 1: to the marriage, about the wedding, it's not it's not great. 492 00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:58,440 Speaker 1: Sometimes you lean on your friends to vent about your 493 00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,600 Speaker 1: significant other. Maybe that's what this is where there's smoke. 494 00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:06,479 Speaker 1: I worry going in. Well, I don't want to pull 495 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:08,720 Speaker 1: up the whole relationship over this. She's great, I love it. 496 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:12,680 Speaker 1: Then she needs to also understand where you're coming from. Yeah, 497 00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:15,640 Speaker 1: do you need us to call her? No, we're not calling. 498 00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 1: We're not getting involved in this one. Okay, not this one? 499 00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,560 Speaker 1: All right, Matt, good luck. I appreciate hearing this out. 500 00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:23,040 Speaker 1: You take care of I hope you can figure it 501 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:27,000 Speaker 1: all out. Thanks so much. I will bro later. That's 502 00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:29,320 Speaker 1: just not everyone will be not paying attention and just 503 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:32,800 Speaker 1: gossiping right there in the pews. Maybe not everyone knows 504 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 1: the backstory. How do you say? Pews and the pews? 505 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 1: You know you go to church in the pis? Yeah, 506 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,240 Speaker 1: I don't know. You also, like a wedding that's forty 507 00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:49,760 Speaker 1: minutes is long? Forty minutes? I know ours was fifteen minutes. Max. 508 00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:52,160 Speaker 1: It was like, we're here, I love you, I do. 509 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 1: That's party bryceon Nikki did it right? They were like, 510 00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:57,840 Speaker 1: all right, you're gonna arrive Champain before the ceremony, ceremony, 511 00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:02,200 Speaker 1: ten minutes, and then reception. It was awesome. Yeah. All 512 00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:04,520 Speaker 1: my friends said that our ceremony was the best because 513 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:06,080 Speaker 1: it was so short. Yeah, it was pretty good. What 514 00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:09,440 Speaker 1: does that say about your friends that they don't want 515 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:13,360 Speaker 1: to set through a long ceremony exactly right, which is 516 00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:16,760 Speaker 1: what we should all be doing. I don't argue with 517 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:18,600 Speaker 1: you on that. I argue with you on the amount 518 00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:20,480 Speaker 1: of people that are there. Like you literally just want 519 00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:25,160 Speaker 1: your the person you're marrying. I was like, that's both ways, 520 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:31,960 Speaker 1: party hardy. We need all the people more than marrier, 521 00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:36,360 Speaker 1: I break the glass all the things. What do you 522 00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:39,360 Speaker 1: mean both ways? Which ways? Like there's a part of 523 00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,520 Speaker 1: me recently that's been thinking, oh my gosh, how fun 524 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 1: or to be to just like Elope and do a fun, cute, 525 00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:48,000 Speaker 1: quick thing and not have to plan a hole like faster. Yeah. 526 00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:49,480 Speaker 1: But then the other part of me is like, I 527 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:53,120 Speaker 1: feel like I want a huge shindig, lots of people, 528 00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 1: lots of party. You need lots of people. Think about 529 00:30:55,280 --> 00:31:00,280 Speaker 1: all your friends are going to feel left out? Yeah, 530 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:05,600 Speaker 1: think about it. Right now, we know you're eloping who 531 00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 1: you We don't assume I'm eloping. Yeah you are. I 532 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:13,600 Speaker 1: think you will. That's assuming I'm ever getting married. Oh well, 533 00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:17,000 Speaker 1: when you do again, that's assume I'm ever getting married. 534 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 1: I don't feel I have to have marriage like you do. Guys. 535 00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 1: All right, let's not get into upsetting people. So Mica here, okay, Mica, 536 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 1: good morning. How are you doing good to yourself? Good morning? 537 00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:35,719 Speaker 1: All right, So you were calling it about something we 538 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:39,280 Speaker 1: were talking with Tanya about. Yes, she was actually talking 539 00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,719 Speaker 1: about her fertility, going through fertility, and I just wanted to, 540 00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:45,680 Speaker 1: you know, share my experience because I currently am going 541 00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:54,240 Speaker 1: through you know, fertility treatment and tell us what's happening. Well, um, 542 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:59,440 Speaker 1: I just did my first round of i UM and 543 00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:04,680 Speaker 1: it is you know, it's something that it's heartbreaking when 544 00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:09,720 Speaker 1: you're like you're not able to conceive naturally. So, you know, 545 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:11,959 Speaker 1: I just wanted to wish her all the you know, 546 00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:15,479 Speaker 1: the well wishes and send lots of baby dust because 547 00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 1: you know, I understand how she feels, and we're all 548 00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:20,200 Speaker 1: into the we're all in this together, we're all women 549 00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:24,600 Speaker 1: and Tony just Sysney was not here during this conversation, 550 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,240 Speaker 1: but just to bring everybody up to speed in case 551 00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 1: they missed it. Yeah, well, I'm not like planning for 552 00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 1: a baby right now or anything, but I think you know, 553 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,520 Speaker 1: once you turn thirty, everybody says you should freeze your eggs, 554 00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:36,160 Speaker 1: and so it's kind of sick of everybody telling me 555 00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:38,640 Speaker 1: to freeze my eggs. And I've never had anything checked 556 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:41,720 Speaker 1: out before, so I'm just in the process of checking 557 00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:47,480 Speaker 1: out the situation to see what's going on. I agreed, 558 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:49,560 Speaker 1: you know, it is hard. Once they said you get 559 00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:53,000 Speaker 1: past that age of you know, thirty five, everything changes, 560 00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:56,760 Speaker 1: and I totally agree. I'm not thirty five. I'm thirty four, 561 00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:59,880 Speaker 1: but you know I'm having protoity issues to this day. 562 00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:05,080 Speaker 1: So well, listen. It is something that Tanya was telling 563 00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:07,320 Speaker 1: me about when you were out, Systane. And of course 564 00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:12,840 Speaker 1: we've gone through, uh from real difficult times with your situation, Systane. 565 00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:17,040 Speaker 1: But now she's got three beautiful kids, and I think, well, Mike, 566 00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:22,320 Speaker 1: what is next for you? Um, hopefully with this first 567 00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,120 Speaker 1: round of IUI, I have some success. If not, I 568 00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:28,080 Speaker 1: have two more to go of IUI, and then it's 569 00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:32,920 Speaker 1: not the doctors refirm me over to IBS, which is expensive. Yeah. Well, 570 00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:35,600 Speaker 1: sending you all the positive vibes you got this. Try 571 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,880 Speaker 1: not to stress about it, go through the process, and 572 00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 1: just take it one day at a time. I'm definitely 573 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:45,240 Speaker 1: going to take that in. I appreciate it. Well, you 574 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,120 Speaker 1: do you take care of Mike. Thank you very much 575 00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:50,320 Speaker 1: for being comfortable enough to call us and talk about it. Yeah, 576 00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:53,719 Speaker 1: you're welcome and thank you. Guys. Got it. You take 577 00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:58,720 Speaker 1: good care. Bye bye you too, bye bye. Yeah. It's 578 00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's taking one day at a time. 579 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 1: I guess it is the best advice, but it's got 580 00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:07,440 Speaker 1: to be frustrating. Yeah, I know people that struggle through it, 581 00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:10,279 Speaker 1: and I count my blessings every day, you know. But 582 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:12,520 Speaker 1: just to give a little bit of light to the situation, 583 00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:15,799 Speaker 1: I'm thirty seven years old and I had to day 584 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:17,680 Speaker 1: at thirty seven, you know. So it's like, just because 585 00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:19,480 Speaker 1: of an age doesn't mean that your eggs are gone 586 00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:22,960 Speaker 1: or you know, a wash. So it's like, so, don't 587 00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:26,919 Speaker 1: let your age discourage you having a baby later in life. 588 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:31,520 Speaker 1: Let me grab Chantel chantel is on the phone, Chantel, 589 00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:37,000 Speaker 1: good morning, Hi. How are you high strung, tightly wound? 590 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:45,319 Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good. So I started dating this 591 00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:47,880 Speaker 1: new guy and it's been a few months and you know, 592 00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:51,920 Speaker 1: things are growing. They were going pretty great. Um, he 593 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:55,120 Speaker 1: started opening up to me and he said that this 594 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:59,000 Speaker 1: has been the best relationship of his life because he's 595 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:03,720 Speaker 1: finally not eating someone for superficial reasons. And at first 596 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:06,960 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, that's really sweet. You know I 597 00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:14,120 Speaker 1: could do sweet, but the moment and also what I'm 598 00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:19,080 Speaker 1: like kind of insulted? Are you not attractive? I mean 599 00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:21,080 Speaker 1: I think I'm hot. No, I'm not asking you, I'm 600 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:24,480 Speaker 1: saying is that Yeah? Yeah? Does he not think I'm hot? 601 00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:26,719 Speaker 1: Where X is hotter than me? Or we like we 602 00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:28,799 Speaker 1: looked at that like one of those things people see 603 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:31,160 Speaker 1: two things in you know, it's like Tandy andy or 604 00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:33,520 Speaker 1: whatever that thing was, or if you see the cat, 605 00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:35,640 Speaker 1: you see the woman, you see the cat, you see 606 00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:39,640 Speaker 1: So I thought that she was like, well, wait, why 607 00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:44,719 Speaker 1: were you in your character picking superficial qualities and where 608 00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:48,480 Speaker 1: you saw it as? What am I not a superficial quality? 609 00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:50,560 Speaker 1: That's what I thought too. Yeah. I saw a different 610 00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:58,160 Speaker 1: pictures like please true, Should I tell him I'm offended 611 00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:01,319 Speaker 1: or such a well have you seen these exes I 612 00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:03,640 Speaker 1: want to do? You know, they look like no matter, 613 00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:09,359 Speaker 1: don't are you offended? Kind of like I'm a little insultive. Yeah, 614 00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:13,040 Speaker 1: I get that, what does he mean? Not for supid? 615 00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:17,960 Speaker 1: I think he's trying to say something heartfelt, complimentary. I 616 00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:20,680 Speaker 1: think he doesn't understand what he's saying in a way. 617 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:22,600 Speaker 1: I don't think he meant to say it in a 618 00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,800 Speaker 1: way that you or Tania might have seen it. I 619 00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:27,080 Speaker 1: actually think he was trying to say a good thing, like, 620 00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:30,880 Speaker 1: you're down to earth, you're not Superhi. He sees a 621 00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:38,320 Speaker 1: future with you. Oh, initially, but then you start creating 622 00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:41,600 Speaker 1: your own narrative in your head. Yeah, maybe when you 623 00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:45,879 Speaker 1: have something I've been told before. Hey, you know, look, 624 00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:49,200 Speaker 1: I usually like intellectual guys. It's refreshing to meet a 625 00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,879 Speaker 1: guy like you. No one said that to you. I'm 626 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:58,839 Speaker 1: being serious cerebral cerebral. Yeah, like analytically cerebral. And then 627 00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:01,200 Speaker 1: they're like followed up by it's so refreshing to hang 628 00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:04,439 Speaker 1: out with you, and I'm like, yeah, I think yeah, 629 00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:10,480 Speaker 1: but it's not meant to be. Okay. So he said 630 00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:15,600 Speaker 1: there's a new trend how to meet people online. But 631 00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:18,319 Speaker 1: it's not through a dating app. No, it's not at all. 632 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:21,560 Speaker 1: But we always are talking about dating apps. No, so 633 00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:27,160 Speaker 1: imagine finding love online with a customer service rep. I'm 634 00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:30,480 Speaker 1: fascinated by customer service reps. Yeah, I mean too it's 635 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,879 Speaker 1: an interesting line of work, and most of them can 636 00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:35,480 Speaker 1: work from home. Now sometimes you hear like their babies 637 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:38,920 Speaker 1: in the background and their dogs barking. It could be 638 00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:41,480 Speaker 1: a tough job too, because people many times are calling 639 00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:44,640 Speaker 1: with complaints, of course, and that's exactly what happened to 640 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:49,320 Speaker 1: this guy named Jonah. His purchase from Target came damaged, 641 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:52,160 Speaker 1: and so he contacted the customer service online. You know, 642 00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 1: they have the little boxes there you can chat with them, 643 00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:57,280 Speaker 1: and so that's what it was. And so he's starting 644 00:37:57,320 --> 00:37:59,960 Speaker 1: to talk to this service rep named Pablo, and then 645 00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,879 Speaker 1: after they like figured everything out with his thing, they 646 00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:06,799 Speaker 1: just continued the conversation, then exchanged Instagram handles and went 647 00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:10,680 Speaker 1: on an online video date and now they're making it 648 00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:12,799 Speaker 1: in real life, and like et cetera, et cetera. The 649 00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:16,440 Speaker 1: rest is history. So I wonder what it was that 650 00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:19,480 Speaker 1: struck him, Like, what was it that he was so 651 00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:23,240 Speaker 1: interested in too, or they were so interesting to pursue personally. 652 00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:25,719 Speaker 1: I think maybe that he was just so nice because 653 00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:27,880 Speaker 1: you keep posted the conversation on TikTok and this is 654 00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:30,000 Speaker 1: how I found this because they went viral and it 655 00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:31,680 Speaker 1: was just the way that they were going back and forth, 656 00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:33,759 Speaker 1: like you're so nice, You're so nice. You really made 657 00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:35,440 Speaker 1: my day, you made me happy today, Like it was 658 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:39,080 Speaker 1: a lot of back and never. I know, we saw 659 00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:40,480 Speaker 1: this is how it was going to happen for me. 660 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:46,359 Speaker 1: What were you calling the cable company, called the phone company? No, 661 00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:48,520 Speaker 1: I just thought like I felt, I felt as though 662 00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:50,160 Speaker 1: it was going to happen to me just kind of 663 00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:53,239 Speaker 1: in my day to day interactions with people. But you 664 00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:56,040 Speaker 1: still met someone online Like, yeah, true, but a dating 665 00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:59,080 Speaker 1: app is more like I'm doing this intentionally to date, 666 00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:04,800 Speaker 1: I think, Sam, huh, And is that like okay? For 667 00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:10,399 Speaker 1: the customer service I was thinking that too, engage in flirtation. Yeah, 668 00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:12,800 Speaker 1: and now there needs to be some sort of professionalism. 669 00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:16,600 Speaker 1: I know what you're saying. I'm sure targets recording those calls, right, 670 00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:18,480 Speaker 1: but now that it's gone viral, I'm sure they know 671 00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:21,319 Speaker 1: what's happening. But this isn't just happening with you know, 672 00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,480 Speaker 1: customer service reps. It's happening on if you do like 673 00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:30,160 Speaker 1: video games, you meet people through their Venmo people because 674 00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:32,640 Speaker 1: the people post their things and it's public and if 675 00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:34,879 Speaker 1: someone writes something funny, you could literally just go onto 676 00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:38,000 Speaker 1: their account and be like, hey, that was funny. Obviously 677 00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:42,439 Speaker 1: start chats high risk. You know, I just thought i'd 678 00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:45,239 Speaker 1: meet somebody in the line at the grocery store, still 679 00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:49,960 Speaker 1: can and how would that scenario go. I think it 680 00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:53,520 Speaker 1: would be like I don't know, or actually like in 681 00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:56,399 Speaker 1: the produce section. I thought maybe at the salad bar. 682 00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 1: Like yeah, in the day when I would go to 683 00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:00,320 Speaker 1: salad bar every night and get rot tissrie chicken salad 684 00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:02,360 Speaker 1: for my dinner. Though somebody's gonna be in, like on 685 00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:05,279 Speaker 1: the same schedule, in the same bind. That's what's going 686 00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:09,200 Speaker 1: to go in and get it. Yeah, well what would 687 00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:12,160 Speaker 1: have been missole foods. But it didn't have. But those 688 00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:13,879 Speaker 1: scenarios you do play the mount in your head sometimes, 689 00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,080 Speaker 1: or you're on a vacation with I also thought sometimes 690 00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:17,480 Speaker 1: when I go on vacation my family and I was 691 00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:21,680 Speaker 1: growing up, i'd meet somebody on spring break too with 692 00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:23,759 Speaker 1: their parents and you'd hit it off. Yeah, like on 693 00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:25,200 Speaker 1: a cruise. I could see you meeting somebody on a 694 00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:34,520 Speaker 1: cruise that's like a romantic comedy, yeah, or thriller thriller 695 00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:46,480 Speaker 1: yas friends, family and tubbs. We are done today, Uh, 696 00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:49,239 Speaker 1: let's get what you've been very quiet over there, Engineer 697 00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:54,160 Speaker 1: Jeffrey Tubbs. Well, I mean, if you need to need 698 00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:56,680 Speaker 1: me to say something, No, no, I don't. We're done 699 00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:59,080 Speaker 1: for today, but to morrow we're got a full show 700 00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:01,480 Speaker 1: to sounds good. Anything else not for now? All right, 701 00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:03,080 Speaker 1: we're good for now. I think one of us spoke 702 00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:05,399 Speaker 1: when spoken two types of situations, or when not having 703 00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:08,000 Speaker 1: in front depends if he's having his omelet or not. 704 00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:11,560 Speaker 1: On air with Ryan Seacrest