Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tory spelling and iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2: I have a question.
Speaker 3: Is it true you don't get to see the show
Speaker 3: edited until it's on?
Speaker 2: Yes, oh my yead.
Speaker 1: I mean they send it to us a few days
Speaker 1: before it goes on, but we have.
Speaker 3: No saying fourteen seasons in yeah, you are the og Teresa,
Speaker 3: you get no saying.
Speaker 1: No, are you kidding me?
Speaker 2: What are your geniuses to start this?
Speaker 1: Oh? Do you remember when the show when Joe called
Speaker 1: me the cunt on the phone with someone and NAPA. Well,
Speaker 1: when I heard about that, I was like, my husband
Speaker 1: did not say that. I'm like, you better not put
Speaker 1: that in there because I saw the episode. I'm like,
Speaker 1: because I used to not watch the show real. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I never watched the show because ever since my family
Speaker 1: came on to me, it was I just couldn't watch it.
Speaker 2: Do you watch it now? You look really?
Speaker 1: I like, thank you. I watch it now because I
Speaker 1: want to see what everyone has to say. Yes, that's it.
Speaker 1: I'm not taking anyone's shit anymore. So I kept my
Speaker 1: mouth shut for a lot of years regarding my family
Speaker 1: that was on the show because of my parents, because
Speaker 1: I wanted to keep the peace, because that's of course,
Speaker 1: that's what makes parents happy, like for there's kids to
Speaker 1: get along, of course. And then after what my brother
Speaker 1: did you know him and his wife? You know, while
Speaker 1: I was getting married, I tried to make it all
Speaker 1: about them. That was it. That was the last show
Speaker 1: that broke the camel's back, and that chapter is solely closed. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and now this season you have to keep watching because
Speaker 1: something else comes out. This has been going on for years.
Speaker 2: Can you give us a hint?
Speaker 1: Yea? And I wish I could, but just got to yes,
Speaker 1: I will promise.
Speaker 3: I can't imagine, like having personally done so much reality TV,
Speaker 3: like not knowing what's gonna be out out there.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I know it's out there with what
Speaker 1: I rund, but what other people are saying.
Speaker 2: Can control the other lanes? Do you feel like any
Speaker 2: of the other Real Housewives. It's such a huge.
Speaker 3: Franchise now, I feel like organically everything started and you're like, oh,
Speaker 3: so and so knows so and so. Sometimes I feel
Speaker 3: like there's casting involved. I feel like on Real Housewives
Speaker 3: of Beverly Hills, And maybe this is because I know
Speaker 3: every single one of them that's ever been on that show.
Speaker 2: I'm like oh they weren't friends.
Speaker 3: Like originally people are like, oh, this person would work
Speaker 3: like you were saying when it started like at the salon,
Speaker 3: and they were.
Speaker 2: Like, oh, you would be great.
Speaker 1: We started like organically friends with Tina and Jacqueline. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was really friends with them.
Speaker 3: That franchise worked so well, Yeah they were all they
Speaker 3: were actually real friends.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I guess what I'm getting at is sometimes I could
Speaker 3: tell like, oh, they brought someone on that wasn't really
Speaker 3: it was like a stunt.
Speaker 1: Well they haveing that, but that's okay, I mean, because
Speaker 1: they want to keep the franchise going. If it works,
Speaker 1: that's a great thing, like if you build a new friendship,
Speaker 1: and if not, if you guys don't get along, that's
Speaker 1: even better for TV.
Speaker 2: Right, that's true.
Speaker 1: We had three Housewives that started on our season and
Speaker 1: then they were only on one season. Sometimes it works
Speaker 1: and sometimes it doesn't.
Speaker 3: And then they just do like a deal, you think,
Speaker 3: for one season. So if it doesn't work, they're just like.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't really know how they handle
Speaker 1: the contracts. But they also I feel like Bravo listens
Speaker 1: to what the fans are saying.
Speaker 3: Not really the fans have asked for me to be
Speaker 3: on the Housewives. I don't mean this is about you,
Speaker 3: not me. But now, but Tea, I'm telling you that
Speaker 3: I don't understand. They don't really listen to the fans.
Speaker 1: So Andy, come on, let's get toy spelling on please.
Speaker 1: I think she would be so good, like so good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I feel like Kyle's Austen Teddy Bethany.
Speaker 2: I don't know what it is about me.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe next time I see him gonna ask.
Speaker 2: He says, it doesn't make sense, he doesn't understand the link.
Speaker 1: And you're friends with everyone, right he did.
Speaker 3: Ask me that at the time. Okay, this is a
Speaker 3: few years back, and I was like, I know every
Speaker 3: single one of them on there.
Speaker 2: I have a history. I could tell you my different
Speaker 2: relationship with every single one.
Speaker 1: Okay, so I would put a good word in for you.
Speaker 3: Okay, thank you. I don't know, I'd be eating alive whatever.
Speaker 3: Maybe maybe it's not.
Speaker 1: The original Beverly Hills girl. Yeah no, you are Beverly Hello,
Speaker 1: hello Red Feather see that Clover City. Yeah yeah, you're
Speaker 1: a true Beverly Hills girl. So but you know, never
Speaker 1: say never.
Speaker 2: I never say never.
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, I mean I do for certain things, but
Speaker 1: I mean this situation never. Yeah, I mean you live here,
Speaker 1: so I think it totally fits. You would fit the part.
Speaker 1: Speaking of which, never say never. I know everyone tells
Speaker 1: me like, be with yourself right now, like you just
Speaker 1: gotta have an eighteen year marriage, Like I don't want.
Speaker 2: To be with myself.
Speaker 1: So how old were you when you get married? I
Speaker 1: was thirty two. Oh so I was twenty seven when
Speaker 1: I got married.
Speaker 2: I'm not a virgin when I got married.
Speaker 1: Now, you did you have have many boyfriends before your husband.
Speaker 3: I was married once before my husband, okay for one year.
Speaker 3: And he was a really nice guy. He was a
Speaker 3: writer and an actor, and he had written a play
Speaker 3: and I was cast in the play. And he was
Speaker 3: like from a really great family. I really fell in
Speaker 3: love with this family. And they lived on the East
Speaker 3: Coast and outside of Boston, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: this is very different from my life. And he had
Speaker 3: a big family. And how did you guys meet? We
Speaker 3: met doing the play that he wrote, and then I
Speaker 3: was his co star. I don't know anything else. I've
Speaker 3: only dated co stars because it's my world. I know
Speaker 3: this sounds weird. It's different, but that's you know, that's
Speaker 3: what you were around. Yeah, since I was yeah a kid.
Speaker 3: I think my first boyfriend in high school, like wasn't
Speaker 3: an actor and we met through friends in high school.
Speaker 3: But from then on, everybody was in the business. And
Speaker 3: it's just like, I don't know any dicks.
Speaker 1: You live in Beverly Hills. Hello, that's why, so you're
Speaker 1: around it, I guess.
Speaker 3: So it'd be nice to meet someone that has nothing
Speaker 3: to do with the business.
Speaker 1: Okay, you need to get on dating apps Rayah, Yeah, Rayah.
Speaker 1: I heard Rayah has great.
Speaker 2: It's really hard to get on now, No.
Speaker 1: But hello, you'll get on. Yeah, you could get on,
Speaker 1: but then everyone knows you're on. But I don't think
Speaker 1: Raya is like that. But so much you're single. I
Speaker 1: met my husband one see that really? Yeah, I heard
Speaker 1: dating apps are really good because it's hard to meet
Speaker 1: people nowadays.
Speaker 2: Like, you don't about Grinder?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: What why did you say?
Speaker 1: No? What's Oh?
Speaker 2: Wait, stop it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh Tinder. She doesn't know these dating apps. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't know these dating apps. He's been out of
Speaker 1: it for a little bit.
Speaker 3: So, speaking of which, the thing we can't talk about
Speaker 3: that we did together that you guys are all going
Speaker 3: to be very excited about. You did see like a
Speaker 3: naughty side of me come out. Yes, So it's hard
Speaker 3: because I was.
Speaker 1: It's kind of turned me on a little it. I
Speaker 1: was like, wow, that's hot.
Speaker 3: Because I was like conditioned my whole life that I
Speaker 3: was supposed to be the good girl.
Speaker 1: I swear that's how my parents raised me, and that's
Speaker 1: how I was. Like. I never rebelled. I always listened.
Speaker 1: I never tried anything new because I was like scared
Speaker 1: because my father said, if you tried drugs and the
Speaker 1: drugs don't kill you and you end up in the hospital,
Speaker 1: I will kill you. That's what's just saying to me.
Speaker 1: I'm like okay, And I was, you know, and my
Speaker 1: parents are old school, like they're very into respect and
Speaker 1: being proud and walking with their head a pie. So
Speaker 1: he's like, you better never do anything to embarrass me, Like,
Speaker 1: you know, my parents are all about that.
Speaker 2: It's a good one too.
Speaker 1: Yes, and and you know what, and I'm like I'm
Speaker 1: about that too with my children, Like that's why even
Speaker 1: you know, even though I went through these legal issues,
Speaker 1: like anybody out there listening, like I walk with my
Speaker 1: head up pie, because I know I'm not a criminal.
Speaker 1: I know there's no criminal intent, Like, you know, I
Speaker 1: signed papers that my husband told me to say, and
Speaker 1: you know, because my signature was on those papers, obviously
Speaker 1: they were able to do what they had to do.
Speaker 1: And I was like, I didn't understand, Like why did
Speaker 1: I have to go through this? So I'm like, really God,
Speaker 1: like I was, you know, it was a hard pill
Speaker 1: to swallow, but like I did it with my head
Speaker 1: up pie because I'm like, there's a reason why I
Speaker 1: have to go through this. I didn't understand it at
Speaker 1: the time, right, but toy, now I understand it because
Speaker 1: I feel like I had, like I had to go
Speaker 1: through that Joe and I got ripped apart in order
Speaker 1: for me to meet my soulmate, which is Louie. And
Speaker 1: he really is my soulmate. He really really is. Like listen,
Speaker 1: Joe was a great husband, great father, But like what
Speaker 1: I feel about Louis is so different than what I
Speaker 1: felt with Joe. Like I really feel like Louise my soulmate.
Speaker 1: And it's like, look, I had, you know, I had
Speaker 1: to wait till forty eight to meet the love of
Speaker 1: my life.
Speaker 2: So you're saying there's hope for me.
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm saying there's definitely home for you. Yes. So
Speaker 1: and look I meet Joe and I were together like
Speaker 1: nineteen years.
Speaker 2: Nineteen years.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we had no choice. We got like ripped the part.
Speaker 1: He got deported. I don't know if you know the story.
Speaker 1: I do. So he got deported to Italy and then
Speaker 1: from Italy then he lived there for a little bit,
Speaker 1: but then there was like no work there. So then
Speaker 1: now he lives in the.
Speaker 2: Bahamas and the girls can go there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and they see him all the time, yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: whenever they have break from school. And him and I
Speaker 1: get along great, you know, but everything's on me, like
Speaker 1: I take care of everything. I do it all. Soon
Speaker 1: he says he's gonna start helping it. I can't wait
Speaker 1: to see you when I'm like, you know, but like,
Speaker 1: you know, thank God, I'm grateful that, you know, listen,
Speaker 1: I'm able to do it. And I thank God every day.
Speaker 2: And how did the girls respond to Louis at first?
Speaker 1: You know, they were of course when they first met him,
Speaker 1: they were like, oh, you know, Louis Knight went very
Speaker 1: very slow. We didn't rush into anything, like we weren't
Speaker 1: sleeping at each other's houses, Like I never slept at
Speaker 1: his house because he had a son that lived with him.
Speaker 1: He didn't sleep at my house. I had four daughters,
Speaker 1: Like that was a no now And yeah, we took
Speaker 1: it really really so we didn't sleep together until we
Speaker 1: bought our house together.
Speaker 2: Have you bought our house together?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: What if the second sucked? Like, then you're in an assets.
Speaker 1: Well I tried the goods before we bought the house together. Yes, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: I'm all about that, because you should definitely try the
Speaker 1: goods before signing the deal. Yes, I think that's a must,
Speaker 1: like definitely, definitely, definitely because the sex needs to be good,
Speaker 1: and boy is it good? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Okay, so wait, I'm trying to gauge, like how long
Speaker 3: are you supposed to wait? Like this is all new
Speaker 3: territory for me.
Speaker 1: All right, So I get what you're trying to say
Speaker 1: that you think you're never going to find love because
Speaker 1: you have five kids. You know what my ex used
Speaker 1: to tell me, because I don't know if he was
Speaker 1: just saying it because he didn't want me to find
Speaker 1: someone new. He used to say, no one's ever gonna
Speaker 1: want you with four kids. He used to say that
Speaker 1: to me, And you know what, I used to believe
Speaker 1: it because I was like, yeah, I mean I have
Speaker 1: four kids. I'm like, who's really gonna want me with
Speaker 1: four kids? But you know what, when the right person
Speaker 1: comes along, Yeah, they're gonna accept you with open arms.
Speaker 1: And that's how Louis was. And Louis treats my daughters
Speaker 1: like they're his own. I mean, that's what makes me
Speaker 1: love him even more, like that's just the person he is.
Speaker 1: And I have to say, like, it was just beautiful
Speaker 1: how the kids and Louis mesh together. It was I mean,
Speaker 1: have I'm really lucky because it happened so beautiful together.
Speaker 1: Like I love his sons, he loves my daughters. He
Speaker 1: has one son, two sons, two sons. How old are
Speaker 1: they twenty two and twenty okay? And his oldest son
Speaker 1: has autism. Okay, we see Nicholas's all the son's Nicholas.
Speaker 1: We see him every other weekend or you know, if
Speaker 1: Louie is away from work, then when he comes home,
Speaker 1: we get him. But little Louis lives with us. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and he loves having sisters, and yeah, that's a beautiful
Speaker 1: blended family.
Speaker 3: And that's a great example, and I feel like that
Speaker 3: doesn't always exist. That's like the optimal thing you hope
Speaker 3: for that when you have kids. And do you think
Speaker 3: it would have been harder if you met a partner
Speaker 3: that didn't have kids?
Speaker 2: Oh, but that worked? Who knows?
Speaker 1: I mean, listen, there's I just met someone. You know,
Speaker 1: she was engaged to this guy and he has he
Speaker 1: had no kids, and she's like, he loves my kids
Speaker 1: like they're his own. I was just like, I love that, Like,
Speaker 1: and I said, are you guys going to have a kid?
Speaker 1: She's like, probably because she was younger. She was like
Speaker 1: in her thirties. And but you see what I mean.
Speaker 1: So you do find people out there, you know, men
Speaker 1: out there that will love your kids like they're you know,
Speaker 1: his does happen, So don't give up. And I'm all
Speaker 1: into psychics. Are you into psychic?
Speaker 2: Yes? I have obsessed. Yes, So this is like a
Speaker 2: khle having psychics.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I have. I mean nay. They told me
Speaker 1: I was meeting Lois when we're down giving a phone. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and after you talk to them, when you tell me
Speaker 1: what they say.
Speaker 3: I never give up and I try any and every psychic.
Speaker 3: Literally when I was five years old. I mean your
Speaker 3: East coast, but west coast we have Santa Monica Pier.
Speaker 3: When I was little, they have like you know, the
Speaker 3: Arcade games and you know, it's like a carnival and
Speaker 3: they have restaurants and they But there was a psychic
Speaker 3: there and my mom let me go in and I
Speaker 3: came out hysterical because she had read my palm and
Speaker 3: she told me I was.
Speaker 1: Five, Wait, I remember, uh huh.
Speaker 2: Life.
Speaker 1: There's certainly I remember in life for certain things.
Speaker 2: Of course, things that happened. Yeah, I'm like, I don't
Speaker 2: remember that. I blocked that out.
Speaker 3: But when I was five, this palm reader she told
Speaker 3: me I was going to marry a lawyer. And I
Speaker 3: came out hysterical, and I was like, no, I'm going
Speaker 3: to marry an actor, because I was right, you know,
Speaker 3: that's all I knew, you know. And I was thinking
Speaker 3: all the handsome like leading men on all my dads.
Speaker 1: And I guess she was strong, right.
Speaker 2: I mean, if I had married a lawyer, so.
Speaker 3: That's I had no financial problems, I would have no Yeah,
Speaker 3: that would have worked out.
Speaker 2: There's still time there is. I don't want to be
Speaker 2: with a lawyer.
Speaker 1: Why not?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I love smart people.
Speaker 2: I love smart people too. I find like, like I
Speaker 2: love I think.
Speaker 1: My husband's so smart. Like you know, I always say them,
Speaker 1: I'm like, I love how smart you are? Yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: why wouldn't you want to be with a lawyer? I
Speaker 1: love that.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm still here and hearing him fight in the courtroom
Speaker 1: or whatever. I think that's a turn on.
Speaker 3: But maybe if I moved to New Jersey, who can
Speaker 3: I go out with their.
Speaker 1: Being in New Jersey? Yeah, you would find a Jersey boy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, imagine me with a Jersey boy.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I've nerved been, so come and move by me. We'll
Speaker 1: see what happens. Yeah. I really wanted to talk to
Speaker 1: my psychic. I had two of them that told me
Speaker 1: it was meaning.
Speaker 2: LOWI this is the clue to me.
Speaker 3: When I go see a psychic, they're like, I, you know,
Speaker 3: I don't watch TV, I don't do it. And I
Speaker 3: was like, Okay, well you just said that, so why
Speaker 3: are you telling me that. I wasn't even thinking that.
Speaker 3: So as soon as they say that, and they always
Speaker 3: bring up my dad, who's past obviously, and oh there's
Speaker 3: been issues in.
Speaker 2: The past with a female figure.
Speaker 3: Oh they were the press that you know, half of
Speaker 3: it made up about, you know, issues like my mom and.
Speaker 1: I could say your name is Tory, but you don't
Speaker 1: have to say your last name. And they do it
Speaker 1: over the phone. But if they say okay, sometimes they
Speaker 1: want to do FaceTime, but you could say I don't
Speaker 1: want to do FaceTime. You can just do it over
Speaker 1: the phone.
Speaker 3: So the one you did that said you were going
Speaker 3: to meet Louis.
Speaker 2: I gave the name.
Speaker 1: Tell you she knew who I was because I met her.
Speaker 1: I met my effect through Kim Day. She has a
Speaker 1: podcast also, so I met her through her and her
Speaker 1: name's Carol, So I will give you her number. You know,
Speaker 1: she knew who I was, but she has that talent.
Speaker 1: You know, she told me what she saw.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm going to talk to Carol, yes, and then
Speaker 3: I'm going to tell you what she says.
Speaker 1: Okay, I have a few of them, so I'll give
Speaker 1: you a few of their numbers.
Speaker 3: And the producer and me never stop. So I feel
Speaker 3: like this could be a show. You could be a matchmaker.
Speaker 1: I would love that. Yeah, Okay. I love bringing people
Speaker 1: together because I'm all about the love love love. I
Speaker 1: love like I feel like when you're happy for other people,
Speaker 1: happiness comes to you. I really loved see other people happy.
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna put my intentas up for you and
Speaker 1: I want the best for you.
Speaker 2: You're a good human. You really are.
Speaker 3: Like you've been through a lot of stuff and I
Speaker 3: know you know, people always say like, oh, you know.
Speaker 2: Poor you. You have a lavish lifestyle.
Speaker 3: And you're rich and you're famous and like, but it's
Speaker 3: all personal and subjective to what you have going on.
Speaker 3: But I feel like good finds good and.
Speaker 2: I love that you're always positive.
Speaker 3: I feel like that light inside doesn't dim and I
Speaker 3: feel like that about you, Like you've always had that
Speaker 3: beautiful light. Like people are drawn to you, and it's
Speaker 3: not because of who you are.
Speaker 2: It's because you have an energy and a warmth and.
Speaker 1: That's why I attract people that have the same energy
Speaker 1: as me.
Speaker 2: But it's great, I attract assholes. But so I don't
Speaker 2: know what my problem is.
Speaker 1: But I have to thank my parents for that. I really,
Speaker 1: because I did ask my parents to send me a
Speaker 1: great guy. I really did, Torri. Really. Three weeks before
Speaker 1: I met Louie, I was walking on the Jersey Shore
Speaker 1: on Babe Boulevard, and I looked up in the sky
Speaker 1: because I lost both my parents, and I started spelling
Speaker 1: my guts to my parents. I'm like, Mom, bah bah,
Speaker 1: I'm like, send me a guy that's everything you've ever
Speaker 1: wanted for me and more. Then I was telling them
Speaker 1: everything like that. My mom used to tell me the
Speaker 1: kind of guy she wanted me to be with, and
Speaker 1: I swear tory. Three weeks later, I'm that same street,
Speaker 1: Babe Boulevard, that's where I met Louie.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, walking.
Speaker 1: By, like walking by. I was just walking with my
Speaker 1: two girlfriends, walking like exercising, and he was leaving his
Speaker 1: shore house that he's never been to the Jersey short
Speaker 1: that was his first time no going to the Jersey Shore.
Speaker 1: And he was leaving early. He was leaving a day
Speaker 1: before because it was cloudy owl so he was just
Speaker 1: wanted to get out of there. And he was packing
Speaker 1: up his car and I'm walking by, and I was
Speaker 1: pointing at his car because I just got I just
Speaker 1: had gotten rid of my white range Rower with black rims,
Speaker 1: so I'm pointing at his car. I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: that guy has my car. So as I'm pointing. He
Speaker 1: thought I waved, so yeah, and then that and then
Speaker 1: my girlfriend's like my married girlfriend, I was with married
Speaker 1: girlfriend a single girlfriend. And then my married girlfriend's like,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna go talk to him. So she
Speaker 1: ran and across the street. Well, like you know, and
Speaker 1: I don't know if you've ever been to Jersey and
Speaker 1: you haven't been to the Jersey Shore. In the middle
Speaker 1: there's grass.
Speaker 2: You don't know my life.
Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, have you ever been there?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: Okay, So in the middle, like you know, there's two
Speaker 1: roads and then the middle there's grass. So she started
Speaker 1: crossing the street. He started crossing the street, and they
Speaker 1: were talking. Like then I said to my other girlfriend,
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, we can't leave them alone. Let's go
Speaker 1: say hi. So we went over and I'm like, hi,
Speaker 1: I'm trees. So we all introduced ourselves and that and
Speaker 1: then you know, and then rest is history.
Speaker 2: That's amazing.
Speaker 1: So that's how we met walking. Yeah. See, so when
Speaker 1: something's meant to be like, you can't stop it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then some people are like, oh he knew, like
Speaker 1: he knew you.
Speaker 3: Like no one can just be happy, like craziest things
Speaker 3: like it must have been this and he's.
Speaker 1: Never been to the Jersey Shore. That was his first time,
Speaker 1: and he asked his secretary. He's like at the time,
Speaker 1: he's like, where do you think I should go? And
Speaker 1: he usually travels like you know, it goes to Europe
Speaker 1: a lot, you know, with his kids. It always he
Speaker 1: travels all over. But that summer, his secretary say, want
Speaker 1: to try the Jersey Shore, you know, And he took
Speaker 1: his son with his girlfriend and a few of his
Speaker 1: friends and that's and then that's when we met.
Speaker 3: What if he hadn't gone, what if you hadn't decided
Speaker 3: to exercise that day?
Speaker 1: It was I was hungover from the night before I
Speaker 1: went out. It was cloudy out. I always go walking,
Speaker 1: like first thing in the morning, like that day it
Speaker 1: was cloudy. So my girlfriend they called me at eleven thirty,
Speaker 1: They're like, let's go walk, and I'm like, I'm like,
Speaker 1: fuck that, I'm not going walking now. It's eleven thirty,
Speaker 1: you know how hot it's outside. And they pushed me.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to go walking at eleven thirty, so
Speaker 1: they're like, let's go get your ass up, let's go
Speaker 1: walk in And that's another thing I want to tell
Speaker 1: you sometimes, like when you don't want to do something
Speaker 1: like that's when you meet your person. So it's like
Speaker 1: I didn't even want to go walk in that day
Speaker 1: and my friends pushed me, and then that's when I
Speaker 1: met look my husband.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I don't even want my person.
Speaker 3: I just want your body like I want I want
Speaker 3: Oh my god, well, oh my gosh.
Speaker 2: That this is crazy.
Speaker 3: If any of those things had just been off a
Speaker 3: slight bit, it wouldn't have happened, which is like Sliding Doors.
Speaker 3: Sorry I always referenced Gwyneth Paltrow movie. She must think
Speaker 3: I'm obsessed with her. But have you ever seen the
Speaker 3: movie Sliding Doors with Gwyneth Paltrow?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that movie.
Speaker 3: So it like shows two things like one day, like
Speaker 3: she misses the train and it's like what would have
Speaker 3: happened if she got on that train? But what happens
Speaker 3: when she if she had missed it? And like by
Speaker 3: five right second? But you see what I mean, Like
Speaker 3: I throw off the whole thing, right, I think I've.
Speaker 1: Heard about them. I want to watch it. What's meant
Speaker 1: to be? I feel like it's supposed to be, Like
Speaker 1: I don't same thing with my parents. You know, that
Speaker 1: was a hard pelt to swallow too. Then passing away.
Speaker 1: Do you believe when it's your time at your time
Speaker 1: or you feel like you can stop your time?
Speaker 3: No, I feel like it's your time, right, I don't know,
Speaker 3: but I still live in fear, like I won't get
Speaker 3: on the plane. Sometimes I'm like, oh, nol that like yeah,
Speaker 3: for instance, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I hear like tragic stories like why you know exactly
Speaker 1: why this person had to die that way. I feel
Speaker 1: like we all have the way we're supposed to die
Speaker 1: in life, and it's like we all have our time,
Speaker 1: so yeah, just like whatever's supposed to be is going
Speaker 1: to be. Yeah, and like we just need to get
Speaker 1: up every day, live our best life, be happy, be positive,
Speaker 1: push forward, and you know, do it with the smile
Speaker 1: on our face. Definitely do it, especially because we have
Speaker 1: you have five kids that are looking at you, and
Speaker 1: you always want to do it with a smile on
Speaker 1: your face. Because that's what I did, no matter what
Speaker 1: I was going through, I always did it with a
Speaker 1: smile on my face because I knew I had four
Speaker 1: little ones that were looking at mommy. Yeah, and I
Speaker 1: didn't you know, because I said, if I showed them
Speaker 1: that I'm breaking down and crying and I don't know
Speaker 1: how to handle things, then that's how they're going to be.
Speaker 1: So I was, you know, like I need to be powerful,
Speaker 1: I need to be you know, stand strong and show
Speaker 1: and show my daughters what I'm all about. And so
Speaker 1: they could do the same thing. And that's and that's
Speaker 1: what they do.
Speaker 2: I love that.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, this is so nice. Wait can we
Speaker 3: end on a funny moment? Can we go back to
Speaker 3: when that day when I turned you on?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go back to.
Speaker 2: That, am. What was the sound it was like?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you know how I flipped tables? Well
Speaker 1: you yeah, you hit that table really hard. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that was I was like, whoa, that was hot.
Speaker 2: Donna Martin turning over a new leaf. Yeah, like a
Speaker 2: new table, new leaf.
Speaker 1: We both like tables. Did you like doing it on
Speaker 1: a table?
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I could