WEBVTT - Miss New Jersey...with Teresa Giudice (Part 2)

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<v Speaker 1>Misspelling with Tory spelling and iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a question.

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<v Speaker 3>Is it true you don't get to see the show

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<v Speaker 3>edited until it's on?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, oh my yead.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean they send it to us a few days

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<v Speaker 1>before it goes on, but we have.

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<v Speaker 3>No saying fourteen seasons in yeah, you are the og Teresa,

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<v Speaker 3>you get no saying.

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<v Speaker 1>No, are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 2>What are your geniuses to start this?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? Do you remember when the show when Joe called

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<v Speaker 1>me the cunt on the phone with someone and NAPA. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>when I heard about that, I was like, my husband

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<v Speaker 1>did not say that. I'm like, you better not put

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<v Speaker 1>that in there because I saw the episode. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>because I used to not watch the show real. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I never watched the show because ever since my family

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<v Speaker 1>came on to me, it was I just couldn't watch it.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you watch it now? You look really?

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<v Speaker 1>I like, thank you. I watch it now because I

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<v Speaker 1>want to see what everyone has to say. Yes, that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not taking anyone's shit anymore. So I kept my

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<v Speaker 1>mouth shut for a lot of years regarding my family

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<v Speaker 1>that was on the show because of my parents, because

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to keep the peace, because that's of course,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what makes parents happy, like for there's kids to

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<v Speaker 1>get along, of course. And then after what my brother

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<v Speaker 1>did you know him and his wife? You know, while

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<v Speaker 1>I was getting married, I tried to make it all

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<v Speaker 1>about them. That was it. That was the last show

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<v Speaker 1>that broke the camel's back, and that chapter is solely closed. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and now this season you have to keep watching because

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<v Speaker 1>something else comes out. This has been going on for years.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you give us a hint?

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<v Speaker 1>Yea? And I wish I could, but just got to yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I will promise.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't imagine, like having personally done so much reality TV,

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<v Speaker 3>like not knowing what's gonna be out out there.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, I know it's out there with what

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<v Speaker 1>I rund, but what other people are saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Can control the other lanes? Do you feel like any

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<v Speaker 2>of the other Real Housewives. It's such a huge.

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<v Speaker 3>Franchise now, I feel like organically everything started and you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>so and so knows so and so. Sometimes I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like there's casting involved. I feel like on Real Housewives

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<v Speaker 3>of Beverly Hills, And maybe this is because I know

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<v Speaker 3>every single one of them that's ever been on that show.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like oh they weren't friends.

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<v Speaker 3>Like originally people are like, oh, this person would work

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<v Speaker 3>like you were saying when it started like at the salon,

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<v Speaker 3>and they were.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, oh, you would be great.

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<v Speaker 1>We started like organically friends with Tina and Jacqueline. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was really friends with them.

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<v Speaker 3>That franchise worked so well, Yeah they were all they

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<v Speaker 3>were actually real friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess what I'm getting at is sometimes I could

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<v Speaker 3>tell like, oh, they brought someone on that wasn't really

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<v Speaker 3>it was like a stunt.

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<v Speaker 1>Well they haveing that, but that's okay, I mean, because

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<v Speaker 1>they want to keep the franchise going. If it works,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a great thing, like if you build a new friendship,

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<v Speaker 1>and if not, if you guys don't get along, that's

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<v Speaker 1>even better for TV.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>We had three Housewives that started on our season and

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<v Speaker 1>then they were only on one season. Sometimes it works

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<v Speaker 1>and sometimes it doesn't.

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<v Speaker 3>And then they just do like a deal, you think,

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<v Speaker 3>for one season. So if it doesn't work, they're just like.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I don't really know how they handle

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<v Speaker 1>the contracts. But they also I feel like Bravo listens

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<v Speaker 1>to what the fans are saying.

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<v Speaker 3>Not really the fans have asked for me to be

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<v Speaker 3>on the Housewives. I don't mean this is about you,

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<v Speaker 3>not me. But now, but Tea, I'm telling you that

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<v Speaker 3>I don't understand. They don't really listen to the fans.

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<v Speaker 1>So Andy, come on, let's get toy spelling on please.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she would be so good, like so good.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, I feel like Kyle's Austen Teddy Bethany.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what it is about me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Maybe next time I see him gonna ask.

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<v Speaker 2>He says, it doesn't make sense, he doesn't understand the link.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're friends with everyone, right he did.

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<v Speaker 3>Ask me that at the time. Okay, this is a

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<v Speaker 3>few years back, and I was like, I know every

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<v Speaker 3>single one of them on there.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a history. I could tell you my different

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<v Speaker 2>relationship with every single one.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so I would put a good word in for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, thank you. I don't know, I'd be eating alive whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe maybe it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>The original Beverly Hills girl. Yeah no, you are Beverly Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>hello Red Feather see that Clover City. Yeah yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 1>a true Beverly Hills girl. So but you know, never

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<v Speaker 1>say never.

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<v Speaker 2>I never say never.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, right, I mean I do for certain things, but

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<v Speaker 1>I mean this situation never. Yeah, I mean you live here,

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<v Speaker 1>so I think it totally fits. You would fit the part.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of which, never say never. I know everyone tells

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<v Speaker 1>me like, be with yourself right now, like you just

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<v Speaker 1>gotta have an eighteen year marriage, Like I don't want.

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<v Speaker 2>To be with myself.

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<v Speaker 1>So how old were you when you get married? I

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<v Speaker 1>was thirty two. Oh so I was twenty seven when

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<v Speaker 1>I got married.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not a virgin when I got married.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, you did you have have many boyfriends before your husband.

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<v Speaker 3>I was married once before my husband, okay for one year.

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<v Speaker 3>And he was a really nice guy. He was a

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<v Speaker 3>writer and an actor, and he had written a play

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<v Speaker 3>and I was cast in the play. And he was

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<v Speaker 3>like from a really great family. I really fell in

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<v Speaker 3>love with this family. And they lived on the East

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<v Speaker 3>Coast and outside of Boston, and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>this is very different from my life. And he had

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<v Speaker 3>a big family. And how did you guys meet? We

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<v Speaker 3>met doing the play that he wrote, and then I

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<v Speaker 3>was his co star. I don't know anything else. I've

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<v Speaker 3>only dated co stars because it's my world. I know

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<v Speaker 3>this sounds weird. It's different, but that's you know, that's

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<v Speaker 3>what you were around. Yeah, since I was yeah a kid.

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<v Speaker 3>I think my first boyfriend in high school, like wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>an actor and we met through friends in high school.

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<v Speaker 3>But from then on, everybody was in the business. And

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<v Speaker 3>it's just like, I don't know any dicks.

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<v Speaker 1>You live in Beverly Hills. Hello, that's why, so you're

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<v Speaker 1>around it, I guess.

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<v Speaker 3>So it'd be nice to meet someone that has nothing

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<v Speaker 3>to do with the business.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you need to get on dating apps Rayah, Yeah, Rayah.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard Rayah has great.

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<v Speaker 2>It's really hard to get on now, No.

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<v Speaker 1>But hello, you'll get on. Yeah, you could get on,

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<v Speaker 1>but then everyone knows you're on. But I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>Raya is like that. But so much you're single. I

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<v Speaker 1>met my husband one see that really? Yeah, I heard

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<v Speaker 1>dating apps are really good because it's hard to meet

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<v Speaker 1>people nowadays.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, you don't about Grinder?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>What why did you say?

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<v Speaker 1>No? What's Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, stop it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh Tinder. She doesn't know these dating apps. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know these dating apps. He's been out of

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<v Speaker 1>it for a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>So, speaking of which, the thing we can't talk about

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<v Speaker 3>that we did together that you guys are all going

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<v Speaker 3>to be very excited about. You did see like a

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<v Speaker 3>naughty side of me come out. Yes, So it's hard

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<v Speaker 3>because I was.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of turned me on a little it. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, wow, that's hot.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I was like conditioned my whole life that I

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<v Speaker 3>was supposed to be the good girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I swear that's how my parents raised me, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>how I was. Like. I never rebelled. I always listened.

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<v Speaker 1>I never tried anything new because I was like scared

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<v Speaker 1>because my father said, if you tried drugs and the

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<v Speaker 1>drugs don't kill you and you end up in the hospital,

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<v Speaker 1>I will kill you. That's what's just saying to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like okay, And I was, you know, and my

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<v Speaker 1>parents are old school, like they're very into respect and

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<v Speaker 1>being proud and walking with their head a pie. So

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, you better never do anything to embarrass me, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, my parents are all about that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a good one too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and and you know what, and I'm like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>about that too with my children, Like that's why even

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<v Speaker 1>you know, even though I went through these legal issues,

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<v Speaker 1>like anybody out there listening, like I walk with my

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<v Speaker 1>head up pie, because I know I'm not a criminal.

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<v Speaker 1>I know there's no criminal intent, Like, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>signed papers that my husband told me to say, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because my signature was on those papers, obviously

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<v Speaker 1>they were able to do what they had to do.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, I didn't understand, Like why did

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<v Speaker 1>I have to go through this? So I'm like, really God,

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<v Speaker 1>like I was, you know, it was a hard pill

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<v Speaker 1>to swallow, but like I did it with my head

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<v Speaker 1>up pie because I'm like, there's a reason why I

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<v Speaker 1>have to go through this. I didn't understand it at

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<v Speaker 1>the time, right, but toy, now I understand it because

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I had, like I had to go

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<v Speaker 1>through that Joe and I got ripped apart in order

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<v Speaker 1>for me to meet my soulmate, which is Louie. And

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<v Speaker 1>he really is my soulmate. He really really is. Like listen,

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<v Speaker 1>Joe was a great husband, great father, But like what

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<v Speaker 1>I feel about Louis is so different than what I

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<v Speaker 1>felt with Joe. Like I really feel like Louise my soulmate.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like, look, I had, you know, I had

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<v Speaker 1>to wait till forty eight to meet the love of

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<v Speaker 1>my life.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're saying there's hope for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I'm saying there's definitely home for you. Yes. So

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<v Speaker 1>and look I meet Joe and I were together like

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen years.

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<v Speaker 2>Nineteen years.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we had no choice. We got like ripped the part.

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<v Speaker 1>He got deported. I don't know if you know the story.

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<v Speaker 1>I do. So he got deported to Italy and then

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<v Speaker 1>from Italy then he lived there for a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>but then there was like no work there. So then

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<v Speaker 1>now he lives in the.

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<v Speaker 2>Bahamas and the girls can go there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and they see him all the time, yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>whenever they have break from school. And him and I

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<v Speaker 1>get along great, you know, but everything's on me, like

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<v Speaker 1>I take care of everything. I do it all. Soon

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<v Speaker 1>he says he's gonna start helping it. I can't wait

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<v Speaker 1>to see you when I'm like, you know, but like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, thank God, I'm grateful that, you know, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm able to do it. And I thank God every day.

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<v Speaker 2>And how did the girls respond to Louis at first?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, they were of course when they first met him,

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<v Speaker 1>they were like, oh, you know, Louis Knight went very

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<v Speaker 1>very slow. We didn't rush into anything, like we weren't

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<v Speaker 1>sleeping at each other's houses, Like I never slept at

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<v Speaker 1>his house because he had a son that lived with him.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't sleep at my house. I had four daughters,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that was a no now And yeah, we took

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<v Speaker 1>it really really so we didn't sleep together until we

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<v Speaker 1>bought our house together.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you bought our house together?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>What if the second sucked? Like, then you're in an assets.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I tried the goods before we bought the house together. Yes, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all about that, because you should definitely try the

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<v Speaker 1>goods before signing the deal. Yes, I think that's a must,

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<v Speaker 1>like definitely, definitely, definitely because the sex needs to be good,

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<v Speaker 1>and boy is it good? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so wait, I'm trying to gauge, like how long

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<v Speaker 3>are you supposed to wait? Like this is all new

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<v Speaker 3>territory for me.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So I get what you're trying to say

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<v Speaker 1>that you think you're never going to find love because

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<v Speaker 1>you have five kids. You know what my ex used

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<v Speaker 1>to tell me, because I don't know if he was

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<v Speaker 1>just saying it because he didn't want me to find

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<v Speaker 1>someone new. He used to say, no one's ever gonna

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<v Speaker 1>want you with four kids. He used to say that

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<v Speaker 1>to me, And you know what, I used to believe

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<v Speaker 1>it because I was like, yeah, I mean I have

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<v Speaker 1>four kids. I'm like, who's really gonna want me with

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<v Speaker 1>four kids? But you know what, when the right person

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<v Speaker 1>comes along, Yeah, they're gonna accept you with open arms.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's how Louis was. And Louis treats my daughters

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<v Speaker 1>like they're his own. I mean, that's what makes me

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<v Speaker 1>love him even more, like that's just the person he is.

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<v Speaker 1>And I have to say, like, it was just beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>how the kids and Louis mesh together. It was I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>have I'm really lucky because it happened so beautiful together.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I love his sons, he loves my daughters. He

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<v Speaker 1>has one son, two sons, two sons. How old are

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<v Speaker 1>they twenty two and twenty okay? And his oldest son

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<v Speaker 1>has autism. Okay, we see Nicholas's all the son's Nicholas.

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<v Speaker 1>We see him every other weekend or you know, if

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<v Speaker 1>Louie is away from work, then when he comes home,

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<v Speaker 1>we get him. But little Louis lives with us. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and he loves having sisters, and yeah, that's a beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>blended family.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's a great example, and I feel like that

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't always exist. That's like the optimal thing you hope

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<v Speaker 3>for that when you have kids. And do you think

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<v Speaker 3>it would have been harder if you met a partner

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<v Speaker 3>that didn't have kids?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, but that worked? Who knows?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, listen, there's I just met someone. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>she was engaged to this guy and he has he

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<v Speaker 1>had no kids, and she's like, he loves my kids

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<v Speaker 1>like they're his own. I was just like, I love that, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, are you guys going to have a kid?

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, probably because she was younger. She was like

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<v Speaker 1>in her thirties. And but you see what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>So you do find people out there, you know, men

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<v Speaker 1>out there that will love your kids like they're you know,

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<v Speaker 1>his does happen, So don't give up. And I'm all

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<v Speaker 1>into psychics. Are you into psychic?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes? I have obsessed. Yes, So this is like a

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<v Speaker 2>khle having psychics.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, I have. I mean nay. They told me

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<v Speaker 1>I was meeting Lois when we're down giving a phone. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and after you talk to them, when you tell me

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<v Speaker 1>what they say.

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<v Speaker 3>I never give up and I try any and every psychic.

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<v Speaker 3>Literally when I was five years old. I mean your

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<v Speaker 3>East coast, but west coast we have Santa Monica Pier.

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<v Speaker 3>When I was little, they have like you know, the

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<v Speaker 3>Arcade games and you know, it's like a carnival and

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<v Speaker 3>they have restaurants and they But there was a psychic

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<v Speaker 3>there and my mom let me go in and I

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<v Speaker 3>came out hysterical because she had read my palm and

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<v Speaker 3>she told me I was.

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<v Speaker 1>Five, Wait, I remember, uh huh.

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<v Speaker 2>Life.

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<v Speaker 1>There's certainly I remember in life for certain things.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, things that happened. Yeah, I'm like, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>remember that. I blocked that out.

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<v Speaker 3>But when I was five, this palm reader she told

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<v Speaker 3>me I was going to marry a lawyer. And I

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<v Speaker 3>came out hysterical, and I was like, no, I'm going

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<v Speaker 3>to marry an actor, because I was right, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>that's all I knew, you know. And I was thinking

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<v Speaker 3>all the handsome like leading men on all my dads.

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<v Speaker 1>And I guess she was strong, right.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, if I had married a lawyer, so.

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<v Speaker 3>That's I had no financial problems, I would have no Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that would have worked out.

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<v Speaker 2>There's still time there is. I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 2>with a lawyer.

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<v Speaker 1>Why not?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I love smart people.

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<v Speaker 2>I love smart people too. I find like, like I

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<v Speaker 2>love I think.

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<v Speaker 1>My husband's so smart. Like you know, I always say them,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I love how smart you are? Yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>why wouldn't you want to be with a lawyer? I

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<v Speaker 1>love that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still here and hearing him fight in the courtroom

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. I think that's a turn on.

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<v Speaker 3>But maybe if I moved to New Jersey, who can

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<v Speaker 3>I go out with their.

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<v Speaker 1>Being in New Jersey? Yeah, you would find a Jersey boy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, imagine me with a Jersey boy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I've nerved been, so come and move by me. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>see what happens. Yeah. I really wanted to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>my psychic. I had two of them that told me

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<v Speaker 1>it was meaning.

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<v Speaker 2>LOWI this is the clue to me.

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<v Speaker 3>When I go see a psychic, they're like, I, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't watch TV, I don't do it. And I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, Okay, well you just said that, so why

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<v Speaker 3>are you telling me that. I wasn't even thinking that.

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<v Speaker 3>So as soon as they say that, and they always

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<v Speaker 3>bring up my dad, who's past obviously, and oh there's

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<v Speaker 3>been issues in.

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<v Speaker 2>The past with a female figure.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh they were the press that you know, half of

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<v Speaker 3>it made up about, you know, issues like my mom and.

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<v Speaker 1>I could say your name is Tory, but you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to say your last name. And they do it

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<v Speaker 1>over the phone. But if they say okay, sometimes they

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<v Speaker 1>want to do FaceTime, but you could say I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to do FaceTime. You can just do it over

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<v Speaker 1>the phone.

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<v Speaker 3>So the one you did that said you were going

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<v Speaker 3>to meet Louis.

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<v Speaker 2>I gave the name.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell you she knew who I was because I met her.

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<v Speaker 1>I met my effect through Kim Day. She has a

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<v Speaker 1>podcast also, so I met her through her and her

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<v Speaker 1>name's Carol, So I will give you her number. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>she knew who I was, but she has that talent.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she told me what she saw.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I'm going to talk to Carol, yes, and then

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to tell you what she says.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I have a few of them, so I'll give

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<v Speaker 1>you a few of their numbers.

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<v Speaker 3>And the producer and me never stop. So I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like this could be a show. You could be a matchmaker.

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<v Speaker 1>I would love that. Yeah, Okay. I love bringing people

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<v Speaker 1>together because I'm all about the love love love. I

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<v Speaker 1>love like I feel like when you're happy for other people,

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<v Speaker 1>happiness comes to you. I really loved see other people happy.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm gonna put my intentas up for you and

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<v Speaker 1>I want the best for you.

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<v Speaker 2>You're a good human. You really are.

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<v Speaker 3>Like you've been through a lot of stuff and I

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<v Speaker 3>know you know, people always say like, oh, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Poor you. You have a lavish lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 3>And you're rich and you're famous and like, but it's

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<v Speaker 3>all personal and subjective to what you have going on.

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<v Speaker 3>But I feel like good finds good and.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that you're always positive.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like that light inside doesn't dim and I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like that about you, Like you've always had that

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<v Speaker 3>beautiful light. Like people are drawn to you, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>not because of who you are.

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<v Speaker 2>It's because you have an energy and a warmth and.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I attract people that have the same energy

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<v Speaker 1>as me.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's great, I attract assholes. But so I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know what my problem is.

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<v Speaker 1>But I have to thank my parents for that. I really,

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<v Speaker 1>because I did ask my parents to send me a

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<v Speaker 1>great guy. I really did, Torri. Really. Three weeks before

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<v Speaker 1>I met Louie, I was walking on the Jersey Shore

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<v Speaker 1>on Babe Boulevard, and I looked up in the sky

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<v Speaker 1>because I lost both my parents, and I started spelling

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<v Speaker 1>my guts to my parents. I'm like, Mom, bah bah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, send me a guy that's everything you've ever

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<v Speaker 1>wanted for me and more. Then I was telling them

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<v Speaker 1>everything like that. My mom used to tell me the

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<v Speaker 1>kind of guy she wanted me to be with, and

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<v Speaker 1>I swear tory. Three weeks later, I'm that same street,

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<v Speaker 1>Babe Boulevard, that's where I met Louie.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, walking.

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<v Speaker 1>By, like walking by. I was just walking with my

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<v Speaker 1>two girlfriends, walking like exercising, and he was leaving his

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<v Speaker 1>shore house that he's never been to the Jersey short

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<v Speaker 1>that was his first time no going to the Jersey Shore.

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<v Speaker 1>And he was leaving early. He was leaving a day

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<v Speaker 1>before because it was cloudy owl so he was just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to get out of there. And he was packing

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<v Speaker 1>up his car and I'm walking by, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>pointing at his car because I just got I just

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<v Speaker 1>had gotten rid of my white range Rower with black rims,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm pointing at his car. I'm like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>that guy has my car. So as I'm pointing. He

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<v Speaker 1>thought I waved, so yeah, and then that and then

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<v Speaker 1>my girlfriend's like my married girlfriend, I was with married

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriend a single girlfriend. And then my married girlfriend's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna I'm gonna go talk to him. So she

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<v Speaker 1>ran and across the street. Well, like you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you've ever been to Jersey and

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't been to the Jersey Shore. In the middle

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<v Speaker 1>there's grass.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't know my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, sorry, have you ever been there?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So in the middle, like you know, there's two

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<v Speaker 1>roads and then the middle there's grass. So she started

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<v Speaker 1>crossing the street. He started crossing the street, and they

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<v Speaker 1>were talking. Like then I said to my other girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, well, we can't leave them alone. Let's go

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<v Speaker 1>say hi. So we went over and I'm like, hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trees. So we all introduced ourselves and that and

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<v Speaker 1>then you know, and then rest is history.

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<v Speaker 2>That's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's how we met walking. Yeah. See, so when

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<v Speaker 1>something's meant to be like, you can't stop it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then some people are like, oh he knew, like

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<v Speaker 1>he knew you.

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<v Speaker 3>Like no one can just be happy, like craziest things

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<v Speaker 3>like it must have been this and he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Never been to the Jersey Shore. That was his first time,

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<v Speaker 1>and he asked his secretary. He's like at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, where do you think I should go? And

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<v Speaker 1>he usually travels like you know, it goes to Europe

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, you know, with his kids. It always he

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<v Speaker 1>travels all over. But that summer, his secretary say, want

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<v Speaker 1>to try the Jersey Shore, you know, And he took

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<v Speaker 1>his son with his girlfriend and a few of his

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<v Speaker 1>friends and that's and then that's when we met.

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<v Speaker 3>What if he hadn't gone, what if you hadn't decided

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<v Speaker 3>to exercise that day?

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<v Speaker 1>It was I was hungover from the night before I

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<v Speaker 1>went out. It was cloudy out. I always go walking,

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<v Speaker 1>like first thing in the morning, like that day it

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<v Speaker 1>was cloudy. So my girlfriend they called me at eleven thirty,

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, let's go walk, and I'm like, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>fuck that, I'm not going walking now. It's eleven thirty,

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<v Speaker 1>you know how hot it's outside. And they pushed me.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to go walking at eleven thirty, so

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, let's go get your ass up, let's go

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<v Speaker 1>walk in And that's another thing I want to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you sometimes, like when you don't want to do something

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<v Speaker 1>like that's when you meet your person. So it's like

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even want to go walk in that day

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<v Speaker 1>and my friends pushed me, and then that's when I

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<v Speaker 1>met look my husband.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, I don't even want my person.

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<v Speaker 3>I just want your body like I want I want

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, well, oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 2>That this is crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>If any of those things had just been off a

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<v Speaker 3>slight bit, it wouldn't have happened, which is like Sliding Doors.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry I always referenced Gwyneth Paltrow movie. She must think

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<v Speaker 3>I'm obsessed with her. But have you ever seen the

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<v Speaker 3>movie Sliding Doors with Gwyneth Paltrow?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I love that movie.

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<v Speaker 3>So it like shows two things like one day, like

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<v Speaker 3>she misses the train and it's like what would have

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<v Speaker 3>happened if she got on that train? But what happens

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<v Speaker 3>when she if she had missed it? And like by

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<v Speaker 3>five right second? But you see what I mean, Like

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<v Speaker 3>I throw off the whole thing, right, I think I've.

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<v Speaker 1>Heard about them. I want to watch it. What's meant

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<v Speaker 1>to be? I feel like it's supposed to be, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't same thing with my parents. You know, that

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<v Speaker 1>was a hard pelt to swallow too. Then passing away.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you believe when it's your time at your time

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<v Speaker 1>or you feel like you can stop your time?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I feel like it's your time, right, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>but I still live in fear, like I won't get

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<v Speaker 3>on the plane. Sometimes I'm like, oh, nol that like yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>for instance, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I hear like tragic stories like why you know exactly

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<v Speaker 1>why this person had to die that way. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like we all have the way we're supposed to die

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<v Speaker 1>in life, and it's like we all have our time,

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, just like whatever's supposed to be is going

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<v Speaker 1>to be. Yeah, and like we just need to get

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<v Speaker 1>up every day, live our best life, be happy, be positive,

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<v Speaker 1>push forward, and you know, do it with the smile

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<v Speaker 1>on our face. Definitely do it, especially because we have

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<v Speaker 1>you have five kids that are looking at you, and

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<v Speaker 1>you always want to do it with a smile on

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<v Speaker 1>your face. Because that's what I did, no matter what

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<v Speaker 1>I was going through, I always did it with a

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<v Speaker 1>smile on my face because I knew I had four

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<v Speaker 1>little ones that were looking at mommy. Yeah, and I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't you know, because I said, if I showed them

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm breaking down and crying and I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how to handle things, then that's how they're going to be.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was, you know, like I need to be powerful,

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<v Speaker 1>I need to be you know, stand strong and show

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<v Speaker 1>and show my daughters what I'm all about. And so

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<v Speaker 1>they could do the same thing. And that's and that's

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<v Speaker 1>what they do.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, this is so nice. Wait can we

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<v Speaker 3>end on a funny moment? Can we go back to

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<v Speaker 3>when that day when I turned you on?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let's go back to.

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<v Speaker 2>That, am. What was the sound it was like?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean you know how I flipped tables? Well

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<v Speaker 1>you yeah, you hit that table really hard. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was I was like, whoa, that was hot.

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<v Speaker 2>Donna Martin turning over a new leaf. Yeah, like a

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<v Speaker 2>new table, new leaf.

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<v Speaker 1>We both like tables. Did you like doing it on

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<v Speaker 1>a table?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I guess I could