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Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tory spelling and iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: I have a question.

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Speaker 3: Is it true you don't get to see the show

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Speaker 3: edited until it's on?

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Speaker 2: Yes, oh my yead.

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Speaker 1: I mean they send it to us a few days

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Speaker 1: before it goes on, but we have.

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Speaker 3: No saying fourteen seasons in yeah, you are the og Teresa,

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Speaker 3: you get no saying.

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Speaker 1: No, are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: What are your geniuses to start this?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Do you remember when the show when Joe called

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Speaker 1: me the cunt on the phone with someone and NAPA. Well,

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Speaker 1: when I heard about that, I was like, my husband

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Speaker 1: did not say that. I'm like, you better not put

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Speaker 1: that in there because I saw the episode. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: because I used to not watch the show real. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I never watched the show because ever since my family

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Speaker 1: came on to me, it was I just couldn't watch it.

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Speaker 2: Do you watch it now? You look really?

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Speaker 1: I like, thank you. I watch it now because I

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Speaker 1: want to see what everyone has to say. Yes, that's it.

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Speaker 1: I'm not taking anyone's shit anymore. So I kept my

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Speaker 1: mouth shut for a lot of years regarding my family

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Speaker 1: that was on the show because of my parents, because

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Speaker 1: I wanted to keep the peace, because that's of course,

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Speaker 1: that's what makes parents happy, like for there's kids to

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Speaker 1: get along, of course. And then after what my brother

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Speaker 1: did you know him and his wife? You know, while

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Speaker 1: I was getting married, I tried to make it all

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Speaker 1: about them. That was it. That was the last show

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Speaker 1: that broke the camel's back, and that chapter is solely closed. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and now this season you have to keep watching because

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Speaker 1: something else comes out. This has been going on for years.

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Speaker 2: Can you give us a hint?

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Speaker 1: Yea? And I wish I could, but just got to yes,

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Speaker 1: I will promise.

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Speaker 3: I can't imagine, like having personally done so much reality TV,

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Speaker 3: like not knowing what's gonna be out out there.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I know it's out there with what

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Speaker 1: I rund, but what other people are saying.

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Speaker 2: Can control the other lanes? Do you feel like any

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Speaker 2: of the other Real Housewives. It's such a huge.

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Speaker 3: Franchise now, I feel like organically everything started and you're like, oh,

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Speaker 3: so and so knows so and so. Sometimes I feel

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Speaker 3: like there's casting involved. I feel like on Real Housewives

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Speaker 3: of Beverly Hills, And maybe this is because I know

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Speaker 3: every single one of them that's ever been on that show.

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Speaker 2: I'm like oh they weren't friends.

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Speaker 3: Like originally people are like, oh, this person would work

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Speaker 3: like you were saying when it started like at the salon,

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Speaker 3: and they were.

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Speaker 2: Like, oh, you would be great.

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Speaker 1: We started like organically friends with Tina and Jacqueline. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was really friends with them.

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Speaker 3: That franchise worked so well, Yeah they were all they

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Speaker 3: were actually real friends.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I guess what I'm getting at is sometimes I could

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Speaker 3: tell like, oh, they brought someone on that wasn't really

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Speaker 3: it was like a stunt.

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Speaker 1: Well they haveing that, but that's okay, I mean, because

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Speaker 1: they want to keep the franchise going. If it works,

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Speaker 1: that's a great thing, like if you build a new friendship,

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Speaker 1: and if not, if you guys don't get along, that's

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Speaker 1: even better for TV.

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Speaker 2: Right, that's true.

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Speaker 1: We had three Housewives that started on our season and

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Speaker 1: then they were only on one season. Sometimes it works

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Speaker 3: And then they just do like a deal, you think,

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Speaker 3: for one season. So if it doesn't work, they're just like.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't really know how they handle

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Speaker 1: the contracts. But they also I feel like Bravo listens

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Speaker 1: to what the fans are saying.

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Speaker 3: Not really the fans have asked for me to be

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Speaker 3: on the Housewives. I don't mean this is about you,

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Speaker 3: not me. But now, but Tea, I'm telling you that

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Speaker 3: I don't understand. They don't really listen to the fans.

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Speaker 1: So Andy, come on, let's get toy spelling on please.

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Speaker 1: I think she would be so good, like so good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I feel like Kyle's Austen Teddy Bethany.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what it is about me.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe next time I see him gonna ask.

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Speaker 2: He says, it doesn't make sense, he doesn't understand the link.

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Speaker 1: And you're friends with everyone, right he did.

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Speaker 3: Ask me that at the time. Okay, this is a

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Speaker 3: few years back, and I was like, I know every

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Speaker 2: I have a history. I could tell you my different

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Speaker 2: relationship with every single one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I would put a good word in for you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, thank you. I don't know, I'd be eating alive whatever.

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Speaker 3: Maybe maybe it's not.

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Speaker 1: The original Beverly Hills girl. Yeah no, you are Beverly Hello,

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Speaker 1: hello Red Feather see that Clover City. Yeah yeah, you're

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Speaker 1: a true Beverly Hills girl. So but you know, never

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Speaker 1: say never.

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Speaker 2: I never say never.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, I mean I do for certain things, but

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Speaker 1: I mean this situation never. Yeah, I mean you live here,

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Speaker 1: so I think it totally fits. You would fit the part.

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Speaker 1: Speaking of which, never say never. I know everyone tells

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Speaker 1: me like, be with yourself right now, like you just

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Speaker 1: gotta have an eighteen year marriage, Like I don't want.

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Speaker 2: To be with myself.

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Speaker 1: So how old were you when you get married? I

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Speaker 1: was thirty two. Oh so I was twenty seven when

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Speaker 1: I got married.

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Speaker 2: I'm not a virgin when I got married.

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Speaker 1: Now, you did you have have many boyfriends before your husband.

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Speaker 3: I was married once before my husband, okay for one year.

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Speaker 3: And he was a really nice guy. He was a

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Speaker 3: writer and an actor, and he had written a play

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Speaker 3: like from a really great family. I really fell in

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Speaker 3: a big family. And how did you guys meet? We

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Speaker 3: met doing the play that he wrote, and then I

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Speaker 3: was his co star. I don't know anything else. I've

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Speaker 3: only dated co stars because it's my world. I know

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Speaker 3: this sounds weird. It's different, but that's you know, that's

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Speaker 3: what you were around. Yeah, since I was yeah a kid.

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Speaker 3: I think my first boyfriend in high school, like wasn't

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Speaker 3: But from then on, everybody was in the business. And

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Speaker 3: it's just like, I don't know any dicks.

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Speaker 1: You live in Beverly Hills. Hello, that's why, so you're

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Speaker 1: around it, I guess.

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Speaker 3: So it'd be nice to meet someone that has nothing

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Speaker 1: Okay, you need to get on dating apps Rayah, Yeah, Rayah.

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Speaker 1: I heard Rayah has great.

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Speaker 2: It's really hard to get on now, No.

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Speaker 1: But hello, you'll get on. Yeah, you could get on,

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Speaker 1: but then everyone knows you're on. But I don't think

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Speaker 1: Raya is like that. But so much you're single. I

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Speaker 1: met my husband one see that really? Yeah, I heard

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Speaker 1: dating apps are really good because it's hard to meet

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Speaker 2: Like, you don't about Grinder?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: What why did you say?

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Speaker 1: No? What's Oh?

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Speaker 2: Wait, stop it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh Tinder. She doesn't know these dating apps. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: So, speaking of which, the thing we can't talk about

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Speaker 3: that we did together that you guys are all going

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Speaker 3: to be very excited about. You did see like a

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Speaker 3: naughty side of me come out. Yes, So it's hard

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Speaker 1: It's kind of turned me on a little it. I

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Speaker 3: Because I was like conditioned my whole life that I

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Speaker 3: was supposed to be the good girl.

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Speaker 1: I swear that's how my parents raised me, and that's

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Speaker 1: how I was. Like. I never rebelled. I always listened.

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Speaker 1: I never tried anything new because I was like scared

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Speaker 1: because my father said, if you tried drugs and the

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Speaker 1: I will kill you. That's what's just saying to me.

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Speaker 1: I'm like okay, And I was, you know, and my

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Speaker 1: he's like, you better never do anything to embarrass me, Like,

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Speaker 2: It's a good one too.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and and you know what, and I'm like I'm

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Speaker 1: about that too with my children, Like that's why even

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I didn't understand, Like why did

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Speaker 1: like I was, you know, it was a hard pill

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Speaker 1: I feel like I had, like I had to go

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Speaker 1: through that Joe and I got ripped apart in order

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Speaker 1: for me to meet my soulmate, which is Louie. And

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Speaker 1: he really is my soulmate. He really really is. Like listen,

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Speaker 1: Joe was a great husband, great father, But like what

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Speaker 1: I feel about Louis is so different than what I

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Speaker 1: felt with Joe. Like I really feel like Louise my soulmate.

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Speaker 1: And it's like, look, I had, you know, I had

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Speaker 2: So you're saying there's hope for me.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I'm saying there's definitely home for you. Yes. So

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Speaker 1: and look I meet Joe and I were together like

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Speaker 1: nineteen years.

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Speaker 2: Nineteen years.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we had no choice. We got like ripped the part.

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Speaker 1: He got deported. I don't know if you know the story.

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Speaker 1: I do. So he got deported to Italy and then

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Speaker 1: from Italy then he lived there for a little bit,

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Speaker 1: but then there was like no work there. So then

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Speaker 1: now he lives in the.

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Speaker 2: Bahamas and the girls can go there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and they see him all the time, yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: whenever they have break from school. And him and I

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Speaker 1: get along great, you know, but everything's on me, like

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Speaker 1: I take care of everything. I do it all. Soon

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Speaker 1: he says he's gonna start helping it. I can't wait

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Speaker 1: to see you when I'm like, you know, but like,

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Speaker 1: you know, thank God, I'm grateful that, you know, listen,

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Speaker 1: I'm able to do it. And I thank God every day.

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Speaker 2: And how did the girls respond to Louis at first?

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Speaker 1: You know, they were of course when they first met him,

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Speaker 2: Yes? I have obsessed. Yes, So this is like a

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Speaker 3: I never give up and I try any and every psychic.

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Speaker 3: But when I was five, this palm reader she told

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Speaker 2: There's still time there is. I don't want to be

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Speaker 1: Why not?

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Speaker 1: I love smart people.

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Speaker 1: My husband's so smart. Like you know, I always say them,

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Speaker 3: But maybe if I moved to New Jersey, who can

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Speaker 1: I've nerved been, so come and move by me. We'll

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Speaker 3: When I go see a psychic, they're like, I, you know,

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Speaker 3: So as soon as they say that, and they always

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Speaker 3: So the one you did that said you were going

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Speaker 2: I gave the name.

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Speaker 1: Tell you she knew who I was because I met her.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm going to talk to Carol, yes, and then

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Speaker 3: And the producer and me never stop. So I feel

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Speaker 1: I would love that. Yeah, Okay. I love bringing people

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna put my intentas up for you and

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Speaker 2: It's because you have an energy and a warmth and.

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Speaker 1: That's why I attract people that have the same energy

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Speaker 1: But I have to thank my parents for that. I really,

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Speaker 2: You don't know my life.

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Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, have you ever been there?

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Speaker 1: something's meant to be like, you can't stop it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and then some people are like, oh he knew, like

442
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Speaker 1: he knew you.

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Speaker 3: Like no one can just be happy, like craziest things

444
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Speaker 3: like it must have been this and he's.

445
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Speaker 1: Never been to the Jersey Shore. That was his first time,

446
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Speaker 1: and he asked his secretary. He's like at the time,

447
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Speaker 1: he's like, where do you think I should go? And

448
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Speaker 1: he usually travels like you know, it goes to Europe

449
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Speaker 1: a lot, you know, with his kids. It always he

450
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Speaker 1: travels all over. But that summer, his secretary say, want

451
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Speaker 1: to try the Jersey Shore, you know, And he took

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Speaker 1: his son with his girlfriend and a few of his

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Speaker 1: friends and that's and then that's when we met.

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Speaker 3: What if he hadn't gone, what if you hadn't decided

455
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Speaker 3: to exercise that day?

456
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Speaker 1: It was I was hungover from the night before I

457
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Speaker 1: went out. It was cloudy out. I always go walking,

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Speaker 1: like first thing in the morning, like that day it

459
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Speaker 1: was cloudy. So my girlfriend they called me at eleven thirty,

460
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Speaker 1: They're like, let's go walk, and I'm like, I'm like,

461
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Speaker 1: fuck that, I'm not going walking now. It's eleven thirty,

462
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Speaker 1: you know how hot it's outside. And they pushed me.

463
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Speaker 1: I didn't want to go walking at eleven thirty, so

464
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Speaker 1: they're like, let's go get your ass up, let's go

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Speaker 1: walk in And that's another thing I want to tell

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Speaker 1: you sometimes, like when you don't want to do something

467
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Speaker 1: like that's when you meet your person. So it's like

468
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Speaker 1: I didn't even want to go walk in that day

469
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Speaker 1: and my friends pushed me, and then that's when I

470
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Speaker 1: met look my husband.

471
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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I don't even want my person.

472
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Speaker 3: I just want your body like I want I want

473
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Speaker 3: Oh my god, well, oh my gosh.

474
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Speaker 2: That this is crazy.

475
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Speaker 3: If any of those things had just been off a

476
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Speaker 3: slight bit, it wouldn't have happened, which is like Sliding Doors.

477
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Speaker 3: Sorry I always referenced Gwyneth Paltrow movie. She must think

478
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Speaker 3: I'm obsessed with her. But have you ever seen the

479
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Speaker 3: movie Sliding Doors with Gwyneth Paltrow?

480
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Speaker 1: Oh?

481
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that movie.

482
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Speaker 3: So it like shows two things like one day, like

483
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Speaker 3: she misses the train and it's like what would have

484
00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:40,200
Speaker 3: happened if she got on that train? But what happens

485
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Speaker 3: when she if she had missed it? And like by

486
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Speaker 3: five right second? But you see what I mean, Like

487
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Speaker 3: I throw off the whole thing, right, I think I've.

488
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Speaker 1: Heard about them. I want to watch it. What's meant

489
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Speaker 1: to be? I feel like it's supposed to be, Like

490
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Speaker 1: I don't same thing with my parents. You know, that

491
00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:56,960
Speaker 1: was a hard pelt to swallow too. Then passing away.

492
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Speaker 1: Do you believe when it's your time at your time

493
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Speaker 1: or you feel like you can stop your time?

494
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Speaker 3: No, I feel like it's your time, right, I don't know,

495
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Speaker 3: but I still live in fear, like I won't get

496
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Speaker 3: on the plane. Sometimes I'm like, oh, nol that like yeah,

497
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Speaker 3: for instance, I don't know.

498
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Speaker 1: I hear like tragic stories like why you know exactly

499
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Speaker 1: why this person had to die that way. I feel

500
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Speaker 1: like we all have the way we're supposed to die

501
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Speaker 1: in life, and it's like we all have our time,

502
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Speaker 1: so yeah, just like whatever's supposed to be is going

503
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Speaker 1: to be. Yeah, and like we just need to get

504
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Speaker 1: up every day, live our best life, be happy, be positive,

505
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Speaker 1: push forward, and you know, do it with the smile

506
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Speaker 1: on our face. Definitely do it, especially because we have

507
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Speaker 1: you have five kids that are looking at you, and

508
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Speaker 1: you always want to do it with a smile on

509
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Speaker 1: your face. Because that's what I did, no matter what

510
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Speaker 1: I was going through, I always did it with a

511
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Speaker 1: smile on my face because I knew I had four

512
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Speaker 1: little ones that were looking at mommy. Yeah, and I

513
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Speaker 1: didn't you know, because I said, if I showed them

514
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Speaker 1: that I'm breaking down and crying and I don't know

515
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Speaker 1: how to handle things, then that's how they're going to be.

516
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Speaker 1: So I was, you know, like I need to be powerful,

517
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Speaker 1: I need to be you know, stand strong and show

518
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Speaker 1: and show my daughters what I'm all about. And so

519
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Speaker 1: they could do the same thing. And that's and that's

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Speaker 1: what they do.

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Speaker 2: I love that.

522
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Speaker 3: Oh my god, this is so nice. Wait can we

523
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Speaker 3: end on a funny moment? Can we go back to

524
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Speaker 3: when that day when I turned you on?

525
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Speaker 2: Yeah?

526
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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go back to.

527
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Speaker 2: That, am. What was the sound it was like?

528
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you know how I flipped tables? Well

529
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Speaker 1: you yeah, you hit that table really hard. Yeah, yeah,

530
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Speaker 1: that was I was like, whoa, that was hot.

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Speaker 2: Donna Martin turning over a new leaf. Yeah, like a

532
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Speaker 2: new table, new leaf.

533
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Speaker 1: We both like tables. Did you like doing it on

534
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Speaker 1: a table?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I could