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Speaker 3: It's Tuesday, July twenty third, High Kaitlin Hi, Jason, Hi,

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Speaker 3: So basically, Dad showed up on the date unexpectedly, picking

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Speaker 3: up some takeout food, and he kind of made his

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Speaker 3: way into the date a little bit. He's a creep

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Speaker 3: a lot, actually, but we agreed. He agreed to come

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Speaker 3: on the show and talk with us all about it,

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Speaker 3: so we'll see what his side of the story is.

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Speaker 3: The next hour, the Entertainment Report is coming up trending

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Speaker 4: What are you working on, Kaalin?

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Speaker 6: We are talking in in sync reunion and fake marvel leaks.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Oh no, mm they sneaky. Oh no, it's true.

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Speaker 4: I know. I read about the soup. I know what

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Speaker 7: He's immorm I know what I'm talking all right, Okay, okay, superheroes.

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Speaker 3: You know you got to prepare for the I gotta

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Speaker 3: know what's going on in the world, all right. Okay,

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Speaker 3: So I've been on and on and off dating apps.

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Speaker 3: You guys, uh, only Kaitlin is the only one I know.

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Speaker 3: You were a little bit, weren't you.

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Speaker 4: I got married on dating app? Oh? Yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 4: What was it called My cheesemo dot com or what

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Speaker 4: was it? Oh my god, doing right, that's my next

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Speaker 4: life che dot com. I gotta be the dude.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was a Hispanic leading Oh cheeseas Okay,

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Speaker 3: I wasn't that far off.

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Speaker 4: Jesus cheesebo dot com. It's very similar. Find my Firefighter

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Speaker 4: dot com.

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Speaker 3: Find my hispanicclairefighter dot com. That's where Paulina went. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: PAULINAE decided the life she wanted. There's a website devoted

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Speaker 3: to it. Anything you want. She tried, Uh, farmers Only.

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Speaker 3: I didn't work too well. It did kind of work, though.

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Speaker 3: You you're just gonna have to go to like Kansas

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Speaker 3: and Iowa stuff to go on these days.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I had the photo shoot.

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Speaker 3: Everything was ready we do. I remember you've been listening

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Speaker 3: for a while. We had a whole farmer photo shoot

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Speaker 3: and she was on Farmers Only.

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Speaker 4: I aways want me to do though, Yeah, and.

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Speaker 3: Then you were on Harley Davidson Riders dot com, dating

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I wanted a biker I didn't have. Can we

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Speaker 4: put up a.

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Speaker 3: Little for like a little photo gallery and some of

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Speaker 3: these different photo shoots from the past that Paulina has done.

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Speaker 3: There was the biker and we didn't even ask you

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Speaker 3: to do that. That one was just on your own. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you decided to do a leather clad biker.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, photoshoot of yourself, create a director of myself.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, in a Harley Davidson ninety you eight, though, I did,

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Speaker 7: I ate that was just because, right, that was just

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Speaker 8: Okay, you were just missing the motorcyclist, yeah, miss everything.

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Speaker 3: And then there was a farmer photo shoot for farmers

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Speaker 4: Made you do. Oh yeah, my overalls.

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Speaker 3: Then there was a I think we abould say, ah,

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Speaker 3: my ovaries. I thought I say that, but but then

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Speaker 3: men did respond. They were it was a favorable response

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Speaker 4: You just didn't wind up meeting any of them. No, No,

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Speaker 4: I was a little little scared.

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Speaker 7: I didn't want to go in the middle of nowhere,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm okay, I'll get on that and you pick

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Speaker 4: him up truck. We weren ready for that, I pick

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Speaker 4: up truck. Remember when we sent you on a blind

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Speaker 4: date too, Yeah, yeah, I sent me on a blind day.

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Speaker 6: Well, we went also a different supervisor date.

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Speaker 3: What was that.

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Speaker 4: I forgot what that was.

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Speaker 9: It was.

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Speaker 4: It was on the radio. Oh you guys, really we

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Speaker 4: were trying, We were really trying, and all it took

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Speaker 4: was to go to uh, I want to marry Hispanic

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Speaker 3: It's all you had to do and you found him.

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Speaker 3: So Kaylin's been on there, Kiki, you never you've never

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Speaker 3: done it. No, do you feel like you're missing out

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Speaker 4: Yes? When I get born.

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Speaker 10: When I get born, I'm like, you know what, I

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Speaker 10: should see what's out there. But I told you what.

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Speaker 10: My biggest fear is one of y'all gonna pop up

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Speaker 5: See each other.

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Speaker 9: Ya.

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Speaker 3: But I saw Caitlin on the dating app. I see

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Speaker 3: people I know, I've seen co workers.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to I don't want to see one.

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Speaker 4: What does it matter. Everyone knows you're doing it. Well,

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Speaker 4: I have a man.

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Speaker 5: So you're still a relationship.

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Speaker 11: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: No, For some reason, I thought you you were on

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Speaker 9: You know.

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Speaker 3: God it okay, So you're worried about seeing you because

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Speaker 4: Oh well that's yeah, I know that happens. No, I

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Speaker 10: To see what's out there, what's going on on those apps?

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Speaker 4: You talk about them all the time. It just seems

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Speaker 4: so like thrilling. You know, why don't you want a profile?

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Speaker 4: Why did you make a profile? Then let's see what happens.

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Speaker 4: But then what But then.

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Speaker 10: What if our co workers see me, or like somebody

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Speaker 4: Or for the show?

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Speaker 3: You say, what the rest of us say when we're

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Speaker 3: doing things for real, but we're what we want to

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Speaker 3: make it look like we're lying.

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Speaker 4: Right, Oh, it's a bit, it's a bit. We're just

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Speaker 4: doing it for a bed. You know what if you.

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Speaker 10: See big tim on there, babe, you see what I'm saying,

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Speaker 10: it's gonna get very mixed.

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Speaker 4: The other thing is set.

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Speaker 3: You set the location right, so like set your location

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, but well here's my thing.

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Speaker 3: And I know a married couple actually did this once,

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Speaker 3: I don't think, but they were saying, well, I think

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Speaker 3: I would get more matches on the dating apps, and

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Speaker 3: then other person's like, I think I would get more

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Speaker 3: matches on the dating apps, and I agree. So they're

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Speaker 3: they're together. I think they were. Maybe they were not

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Speaker 3: the most matches. Well, if the girl got the most matches,

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Speaker 3: because I think guys are just ravenous. I mean, I

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Speaker 3: but you know, like if men choose the women or

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Speaker 3: you can both choose each other, I don't know. But anyway,

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Speaker 3: that's a dangerous game. I don't like the game. Like, fine,

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Speaker 3: you can get more matches in me, it's fine. I

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Speaker 3: in me. I bring this up, though, because they asked

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Speaker 3: is hard to disagree with. It's very triggering to people.

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Speaker 3: I've noticed because after not long chatting with someone you

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Speaker 3: don't know you. I don't know if these pictures are

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Speaker 3: And so I've asked for Instagram, you know, the Instagram handle,

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Speaker 3: that's itchier, that's weird, or what I'm like, Well, so

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Speaker 3: So I can't see your Instagram, but I can like

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Speaker 3: you know, it doesn't make sense. But number one, the

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Speaker 3: number one most turn off, aable offense on dating apps

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Speaker 3: as far as messages are concerned, is to ask to

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Speaker 3: send pictures. Now I'm assuming that also includes nudes. Like

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Speaker 3: if you're like, send nudes, but I mean, come on,

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Speaker 3: you got to warm them up a little bit. You know,

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Speaker 3: they get the nudes. You know, you got to say like, Hi,

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Speaker 3: to meet you. You know you're a good looking guy? Yes,

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Speaker 3: and then can I have any And it's like the

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Speaker 4: That's a lie.

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Speaker 3: I've never sent a nude in my life, like I've

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Speaker 3: been trying for years and no, I know a fourth message. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's because you. That's the first thing you text me

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Speaker 3: every single day. Every morning I wake up, like today,

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Speaker 3: wake up, Jason Brown, send a nude? And I'm like, guys,

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Speaker 3: nudes today. Yeah, And I'm like everybody knows it's supposed

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Speaker 3: to be. He's supposed to go, Hi, good morning, You're

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Speaker 3: good looking. Can I have a nude? And the thing is,

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Speaker 3: I'm already, you know, going to be naked within minutes

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Speaker 3: of because I'm waking up, I have to take a shower,

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Speaker 3: So I mean it would be convenient for me to

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Speaker 3: take one day.

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Speaker 5: I guys, got a time to write four messages.

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Speaker 4: I'll try tomorrow, right exactly. Let me know how that goes,

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Speaker 4: let me know how it thinks.

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Speaker 3: So send pigs is the number one thing you're not

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Speaker 3: supposed to send on on dating apps as a message.

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Speaker 3: The egg plant emoji would be number two.

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Speaker 5: Unless it's grinder this is there a whole difference that

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Speaker 5: rules Grinder.

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Speaker 3: This is all stuff you're not supposed to message people

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Speaker 3: I mean three bullet points, yours are mine? What's up?

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Speaker 10: You're ready to party?

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Speaker 3: So all you really want to know is how many

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Speaker 3: After Secret Service Director Kimberly Cheetah Libilies.

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Speaker 4: How you Say your Name?

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Speaker 3: Testified before the House Oversight Committee for more than four

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Speaker 3: hours and they want her to resign after the whole

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Speaker 3: Trump thing, oh, the assassination attempt, and they were terrible.

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Speaker 3: I mean, the thing about these, you know, Senate and

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Speaker 3: Congress hearings and whatever else is I feel like it's

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Speaker 3: hard to know how much passion there really is for

447
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Speaker 3: the topic at hand, because all these people are trying

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Speaker 3: to do is get their their moment. They're trying to

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Speaker 3: say the thing in the five minutes they get that's

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Speaker 3: going to land them on the nightly news or land

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Speaker 3: them on TikTok or land them viral.

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Speaker 4: So it's like, are you really this mad?

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Speaker 3: Or are you just did you just come up with

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Speaker 3: something that you thought would get you, you know, more

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Speaker 3: coverage for yourself.

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Speaker 4: I mean, and people she be mad about this.

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Speaker 3: This is not right. What happened is weird. There's a

458
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Speaker 3: lot of questions. I don't really care what here we

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Speaker 3: go with the tax Oh honestly, like, I really don't

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Speaker 3: care what side of the aisle you're on. That shouldn't

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Speaker 3: have happened like that. So what happened? Why did it happen?

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Speaker 3: Why are you still in the job.

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Speaker 4: She doesn't. They want her to resign. She won't resign.

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Speaker 3: It's like you know, but then they just remember when

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Speaker 3: we were doing this whole thing with Ticketmaster in Congress

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Speaker 3: or senator whatever in these hearings, and like you clearly

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Speaker 3: these guys were having their aids right Taylor swift lyrics

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Speaker 3: into their little speeches, and it was like, all right, guys,

469
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Speaker 3: we got it. Like you want to wind up on TikTok,

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Speaker 3: we understand. I'm not sure if this helps anybody or anything,

471
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Speaker 3: but they basically just told this woman how much she

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Speaker 3: sucked for four and a half hours, and like as

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Speaker 3: soon as you think you're done, then it's the next

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Speaker 3: person's turn. And each person is like their own independent

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Speaker 3: you know, presenter. So it's like, right, exactly, like we

476
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Speaker 3: already covered this. I suck at my job. Okay, I

477
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Speaker 3: suck at my job. We got it. I don't know,

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Speaker 3: right f other four and a half hours I get

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Speaker 3: to hear like you know, honestly, I would have resigned

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Speaker 3: like fifteen minutes into that thing. I would have been like,

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Speaker 3: so way, MANE, let me ask you a question. If

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Speaker 3: I tell you, if I just walk out, if I

483
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Speaker 3: quit right now and leave, does this end? Does this

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Speaker 3: mean we don't have to do this anymore? Like if

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Speaker 3: I just go get a job at Arby's. Yes, do

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Speaker 3: I no longer have to get roasted by you babel Is.

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Speaker 3: If the answer is yes, then my answer is yes,

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Speaker 3: and I'm gone. What else do I hear for you guys?

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Speaker 4: Today?

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Speaker 3: Lebron James will be the male flag bearer for Team

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Speaker 3: USA at the Olympics, which will have its opening ceremony

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Speaker 3: Friday in Paris. A female flag bearer is expected to

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Speaker 3: be named later this week. Now, this is interesting to note.

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Speaker 3: Lebron is the first men's basketball player to be named

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Speaker 3: Team USA is flag bearer. So not Kobe, not Michael,

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Speaker 3: but Lebron. And this isn't like just for the team

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Speaker 3: for the basketball team, this is flag bearer for the

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Speaker 3: entire United States Olympic team. He was voted into this role,

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Speaker 3: so you know, I guess he's more likable than I thought.

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Speaker 3: But then again, for some people like you, much younger

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Speaker 3: generation for the most part, going to the Olympics, right,

502
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Speaker 3: like a lot of athletes are much younger. He is

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Speaker 3: the Michael Jordan of that era, so of course they

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Speaker 3: would name him like one of the oldest guys there, right, right.

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Speaker 4: But they're also talking about this.

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Speaker 3: Yesterday I saw a whole thing about how Michael and

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Speaker 3: Kobe didn't care if anyone liked them. They didn't care

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Speaker 3: if they were the flag beer, they didn't care. It

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Speaker 3: was like they just went to play and cared about

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Speaker 3: to pat and win. They didn't care about any of

511
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Speaker 3: this other stuff. And so that's why it's maybe they

512
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Speaker 3: weren't all that friendly to everybody, or they weren't you know, political,

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Speaker 3: they weren't whatever. And Lebron seems to be a likable

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Speaker 3: guy to a lot of people.

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Speaker 8: So at the same time, there's there was other Olympias,

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Speaker 8: Like there's Olympians that are more deserving at the time.

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Speaker 8: You know, I'm saying, like there's guys that this is

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Speaker 8: this is this is it for them, you know what

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Speaker 8: I'm saying, Like Lebron has the.

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Speaker 4: Inbur right right, that's true.

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Speaker 9: You know.

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Speaker 8: Then there's like guys that just run track every four years.

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Speaker 3: Just yeah, there's this there's not a lot of fame

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Speaker 3: and not a lot of money, and.

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Speaker 4: You know, right, yeah, I get that. That makes a

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Speaker 4: lot of sense.

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Speaker 3: And let's answer the age old question, does money buy happiness?

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Speaker 3: Do you guys think money buys happiness?

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Speaker 4: Truly? Absolutely?

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Speaker 3: Do you think if you have more money, that you're

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Speaker 3: more likely to be happy.

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Speaker 4: No, I'll let you know when I get there. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I can't.

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Speaker 3: Answer that question honestly, But I mean I would like

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Speaker 3: to believe you. Yes, Yes, I would like to believes Yes.

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Speaker 3: It's got to make life easier. It's got to make

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Speaker 3: life easier.

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Speaker 4: It gives you options, I think, right, right, That doesn't.

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Speaker 3: Mean your relationships are going to be good, that your

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Speaker 3: parents will love you more or less, or that your

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Speaker 3: kids will love you or what. It doesn't mean any

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Speaker 3: of that, But I mean, at least you don't your

543
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Speaker 3: kids could hate you and you could be poor, right,

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Speaker 3: I mean, you could hate your dad and also hate

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Speaker 3: your job and not necessarily have enough money to buy bread,

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Speaker 3: and then that's a sad story.

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Speaker 4: That's a bad thing.

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Speaker 3: But at least if you hate your dad but you

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Speaker 3: can buy bread, you're eating a sandwich while hating your dad.

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Speaker 6: I mean, it makes you comfortable. I don't think it

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Speaker 6: makes you happy. I mean, there's so many other factors happiness.

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Speaker 4: For sure.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, stress may be eliminated, but I mean I've heard

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Speaker 6: so many people get famous and say I still look

555
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Speaker 6: in the mirror, I still have the same issues.

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Speaker 4: It didn't fix anything, you know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I use what little money I do get paid

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Speaker 3: around here to get therapy and then the therapy really

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Speaker 3: helps me survive.

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Speaker 4: So that's good. Well that ends. Yeah and.

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Speaker 3: Whiskey Yeah, those two things, yeah, right and women, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: except no, except not that I gave that it for lent.

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Speaker 3: So does money by happiness? The answer is actually yes,

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Speaker 3: that used to be no. And there used to be

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Speaker 3: like a plateau or like a uh they call it

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Speaker 3: a plateau.

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Speaker 4: Actually I get to it.

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Speaker 3: But there used to be a number to which if

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Speaker 3: you made more than this number, then you weren't exponentially happy,

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Speaker 3: happy or relative to the amount of wealth above this number.

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Speaker 3: So like you see what I'm saying. So I'll tell

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Speaker 3: you what it is in a minute. But it used

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Speaker 3: to be like if you made I'll make it up

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Speaker 3: fifty thousand dollars a year, that if you made one

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Speaker 3: hundred thousand, you weren't doubly happy. But up until that

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Speaker 3: fifty thousand dollars point, you were happier each increment until

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Speaker 3: you got there.

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Speaker 4: But then not like if you.

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Speaker 3: Went from fifty to two hundred, then you weren't like

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Speaker 3: four times happier.

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Speaker 4: I would be, but that's just me.

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Speaker 3: According to new research at UPenn the Wharton School, there

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Speaker 3: is no happiness plateau, or point at which more money

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Speaker 3: is no longer associated with greater happiness. So they asked

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Speaker 3: thirty three thousand people, which is I mean, this is

586
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Speaker 3: a good survey, unlike most surveys we talk about here,

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Speaker 3: where they asked four people and got their answers between

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Speaker 3: the ages of eighteen and sixty five with annual incomes

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Speaker 3: of at least ten thousand dollars. They found that the

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Speaker 3: so called happiness gap between affluent and middle income participants,

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Speaker 3: those with an average annual income of between seventy and

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Speaker 3: eighty thousand dollars, was larger than that between middle and

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Speaker 3: low income subjects. Not only that, but the scientists busted

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Speaker 3: long held assumption that once people attain enough money to

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Speaker 3: be comfortable, their happiness flatlines. Instead, millionaires and billionaires were

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Speaker 3: found to be substantially and statistically significantly happier than people

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Speaker 3: earning over five hundred thousand dollars a year. So also,

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Speaker 3: the seventy five thousand dollars happiness plateau is also not

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Speaker 3: true anymore.

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Speaker 4: So that was the number I was referring to.

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Speaker 3: That you get to seventy five grand and then your

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Speaker 3: happiness doesn't go up relative to the amount of money

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Speaker 3: that beyond seventy five thousand dollars.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I mean, I think that would make

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Speaker 4: me happy to have.

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Speaker 3: I think one hundred and fifty would make me happier

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Speaker 3: than seventy five, and I think three hundred would make

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Speaker 3: me a lot happier than that, And I think a

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Speaker 3: million would make me really, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I guess not the health what Yeah, I mean, no,

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Speaker 3: I'm really like thinking about this because you canon's right.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you're like, if you have I don't know,

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Speaker 3: a depression, or if your health isn't good, which are

614
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Speaker 3: a million factors that have nothing to do with money,

615
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Speaker 3: of course, a million factors that have nothing that you

616
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Speaker 3: can't buy your way out of.

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Speaker 4: Of course, that being.

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Speaker 3: Said, if I got some bad stuff going on, but

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Speaker 3: I got a couple of fly honeys in my roles with.

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Speaker 13: Me just for the night, you'll like the fly honeys

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Speaker 13: in the morning, you know, like I'm the fly but

622
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Speaker 13: that's like and meaningless, and you're like, I hate myself.

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Speaker 3: You know, later I'll feel that way but at least

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Speaker 3: I have at least, hey, it's better than not ever

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Speaker 3: having those moments of glory, right, I mean, yeah, there's

626
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Speaker 3: a price to be paid for the moments of glory,

627
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Speaker 3: but at least I've got them.

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Speaker 4: You have those.

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Speaker 6: You're going on a trip this weekend, best friends. That's

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Speaker 6: a moment of glory.

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Speaker 3: But if I may double the money would be a lot.

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Speaker 3: We wouldn't be going. We would be going somewhere else. Instead,

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Speaker 3: we're going to Carbondale, Illinois. But it's gonna be wonderful.

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Speaker 11: It is.

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Speaker 4: A streakhouse.

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Speaker 3: They got a lake, they got boats, they got this

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Speaker 3: is guys. They got maybe honey, Yes, we'll get to this.

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Speaker 3: But I did I chose. I mean this, I was

639
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Speaker 3: thoughtful about this vacation. I'm taking you guys on on

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Speaker 3: the nearly private airline.

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Speaker 4: I mean, come on, come on, guys. So we get

642
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Speaker 4: a stipend for the casino, the spot. It's how much

643
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Speaker 4: money is in your bank account, that's right, right, So

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Speaker 4: I'll just be like, just charge it to uh Fred's room.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and guess what, it's the Rose not under my

646
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Speaker 3: illegal nag anymore. I changed the legal man. It's under

647
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Speaker 3: Harry it's under knees nuts. So how do you spell that?

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Speaker 4: How many? Easy? Hey? The entertainer reporting two minutes.

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Speaker 1: Fred Show's entertainer report is on the Fresh Show.

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Speaker 6: Lots of celebs hit the carpet last night for the

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Speaker 6: premiere of Deadpool and Wolverine. Obviously, Ryan Reynolds, Hugh Jackman,

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Speaker 6: and Blake Lively were there, but all eyes were on Peggy,

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Speaker 6: a pug mix in full costume, who also I guess

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Speaker 6: has a role in the movie. Okay, she was literally

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Speaker 6: in a costume and adorable Gigi Hadid. Avril Levine of

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Speaker 6: all people, Comedian Matt Rife, Jimmy Fallon, and Al ro

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Speaker 6: Roker also there. Speaking of the movie, Marvel planted fake

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Speaker 6: leaks to protect all of the cameos in the movie.

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Speaker 6: Now executive producer Wendy Jacobson said there may or may

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Speaker 6: not have been some misdirections in order to protect the secrecy.

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Speaker 6: She did say that any cameos showing up have a

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Speaker 6: crucial story purpose or a beginning, middle, and end as

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Speaker 6: a character arc. Now director Sean Levy told Entertainment Weekly

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Speaker 6: earlier this month that yes, there are a lot of cameos,

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Speaker 6: but he stressed that the team it didn't want any

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Speaker 6: of the cameos or characters to be the story of

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Speaker 6: the movie, but they are peppered throughout obviously. Do we

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Speaker 6: think Rufio Taylor Swift is the biggest name being thrown around?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I think she's She's the biggest name being thrown

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Speaker 8: around there. And then Blake Lively is also supposed to

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Speaker 8: be Lady Deadpool. That's a rumor that his wife is

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Speaker 8: is a character in the movie as well. But this

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Speaker 8: is supposed to bring out like so many characters from

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Speaker 8: so many different movies, and it's like multi versus, so

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Speaker 8: this person could be playing another person. So it's gonna

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Speaker 8: be crazy. And I'm going to need to take a

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Speaker 8: break from our vacation this weekend to go see this movie.

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Speaker 8: So I need to find a movie theater down in Stopperdale.

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Speaker 4: I can't. I have to see it. Stop before it

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Speaker 4: gets spoiled on social media.

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Speaker 3: Minute whoa whoah you we have a whole itinerary of

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Speaker 3: amazing things planned and you're gonna leave to go watch

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Speaker 3: a movie.

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Speaker 4: Yes, you can't wait till Sunday?

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Speaker 8: No no no no, no, no no no no no.

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Speaker 4: Like, what are we doing Friday night, like I need.

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Speaker 3: We're doing whatever we're doing, this is a big I

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Speaker 3: planned a nice vacation for you people, all right, and

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Speaker 3: this guy's already talking about going to movie theater. Yeah

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Speaker 3: all right, fine, I got more stakes for the rest

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Speaker 3: of us.

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Speaker 5: It's a vacation.

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Speaker 4: What does that mean? But you can do what you want,

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Speaker 4: not really paid. So we know it's it's down are

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Speaker 4: down there, you know what I'm saying, are down there.

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Speaker 4: But I have located two strip clubs.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I mean we you know how I feel about that.

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Speaker 3: I think you can tell a lot about a city

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Speaker 3: by the adult establishment that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I liked. I agree.

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Speaker 3: You know, some people like to go to like the

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Speaker 3: Chamber of Commerce, you know, that's to go to the

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Speaker 3: tourism office and yeah, you know, maybe take a nice

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Speaker 3: food tour or something, a nice tuk tuk tuk. You

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Speaker 3: ever heard of a took like one of those things

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Speaker 3: you ride around. The guy with the bike and and

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Speaker 3: you sit in the back. Oh yeah, drives you around

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Speaker 3: and goes.

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Speaker 4: Hey, you know, hey, I think that's something. I think.

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Speaker 4: I think a tuck tuck is something different in your world.

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Speaker 4: We love a drag. Maybe they have that down there too.

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Speaker 4: I'm not sure, but yeah, you got you gotta go.

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Speaker 4: You got to go to the Gentleman's Club. I know.

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Speaker 4: You can. You tell a lot about a place.

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Speaker 3: You can see the people watching, you can see you

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Speaker 3: know who is who's in the community.

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Speaker 4: Jason Umberman to a woman's You never to do that.

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Speaker 4: Guys are there, I'll be at the movie. Yeah, the

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Speaker 4: strip club? Why not? I am a married man. That's

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Speaker 4: only people in the strip club. We're gonna be the

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Speaker 4: only single people there. I have to respect my wife. Oh,

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Speaker 4: I love her.

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Speaker 8: You know I'm already leaving her with two children.

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Speaker 4: That's true, chicken. Don't imagine you know what.

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Speaker 3: That's one less child than she's used to having, So

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Speaker 3: she's excited. She called me and asked if we could

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Speaker 3: make it longer. She would rather have an infant and

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Speaker 3: a four year old. Yeah, and you watching Deadpool movies

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Speaker 3: and Carbondale, Illinois.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna wrap this up because we're having some familial issues.

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Speaker 4: We're to check out online today.

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Speaker 6: The new trailer for the next season of Emily in Paris.

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Speaker 6: And you guys, the cardboard beds are back. If you know,

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Speaker 6: you know Fred show radio dot Com.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I'm that that parent who plans the

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Speaker 3: family vacation and then all the kids are on their

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Speaker 3: devices the whole time and don't want to talk to me.

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Speaker 6: That's why I'm taking funds.

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Speaker 4: Wow, I'm putting them in. Kiki just decided she can't go.

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Speaker 4: I'm a husband.

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Speaker 8: Going to find the dates on the dating app down

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Speaker 8: and down there. I need you to their phone.

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Speaker 4: Let me start purposes. Look at you can have.

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Speaker 3: All of a sudden, she's like, I want to go

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Speaker 3: to a Deadpool movie. They have the internet there the

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Speaker 3: dead movie. Can't you go when you get back as

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Speaker 3: soon as we land, can't you drive over to the

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Speaker 3: old movie theater and check it out?

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Speaker 8: But this, no, I can't because this is the time

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Speaker 8: that I will have to go see this movie, and

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Speaker 8: I do not want it spoiled on social media because

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Speaker 8: it will happen within the first weekend.

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Speaker 4: But this is work. Yeah, yeah, I.

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Speaker 3: Mean as much as I'm joking about taking you on vacation,

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Speaker 3: which I am, this is a campaign that we're doing

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Speaker 3: for the show. It asked us to go down there

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Speaker 3: so we can tell everybody how easy it is to

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Speaker 3: get down there. For the folks who listen to us

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Speaker 3: in the Chicagoland area and maybe you know kids.

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Speaker 4: That go to Siu or whatever.

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Speaker 3: And they got this airline that takes you right down there,

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Speaker 3: boom boom. Land so simple, you know. And then they

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Speaker 3: got and then they got other stuff down there now too.

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Speaker 3: They got the casinos in lake, They got the Lake

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Speaker 3: of Egypt. Rufio, the Lake of Egypt. How amazing. If

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Speaker 3: I told you I was taking you to the Lake

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Speaker 3: of Egypt, what if I you know what? That's That's

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Speaker 3: all I'm gonna say from now on is like, I'm

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Speaker 3: just gonna know I'm because you know, I would be

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Speaker 3: taking lots of people down there, and I'm just gonna

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Speaker 3: be going. You know what, girl, this weekend, we're going

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Speaker 3: to Lake at Egypt. Be like, where is that? It

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Speaker 3: sounds like it should be somewhere really fancy. Nope, forty

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Speaker 3: five minutes away on contour airline. Boom, and here we

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Speaker 3: are at the Lake of Egypt. You know what, We're

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Speaker 3: gonna see Rufeo. We're gonna see Rufeo when there's food.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna see rufo if there's a golf club involved.

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Speaker 3: Otherwise We're not. He's just gonna do whatever he wants. No,

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Speaker 3: I will be there for everything. I just need three hours.

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Speaker 3: That's that's wild. That is that that's a new one.

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Speaker 4: Jason.

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Speaker 3: Do you have any requests of things that you want

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Speaker 3: to do it? Because because you, of course, per usual,

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Speaker 3: you wind up being the dead mother here and you're

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Speaker 3: organizing this whole thing. It was my trip in my idea. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you're doing all the work, which is this is usually

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Speaker 3: how this goes. Do you know what we're doing? We

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Speaker 3: have any idea? Oh, we don't have any idea. We're

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Speaker 3: going in two days, but we don't have any idea.

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Speaker 3: We put our requests then, so we'll see boy. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 3: all right, let's come back and do blogs next guys,

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Speaker 3: we have a follow up from yesterday's Waiting by the

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Speaker 3: Phone as well. If you missed it, you can hear

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Speaker 3: search for the Fred Show on demand. But they go

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Speaker 3: on a date and the guy his father shows up

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Speaker 3: to get take out and then injects himself in the

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Speaker 3: he's a weirdo, and we think he might be too,

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Speaker 3: and we're gonna find out if he is next hour

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Speaker 3: on The Fred Show, after Say or Go and before

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Speaker 3: we give you of money. It's a blogs next Stay

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Speaker 3: or Go debates the relationship drama, the waiting by the

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Speaker 3: phone follow up from yesterday, Creepy Dad'll be on. I

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Speaker 3: shouldn't say that about him yet. We don't know yet.

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Speaker 3: Maybe he has a perfectly good explanation. I already called

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Speaker 3: him creepy Dad. I doubt it. I bet he's creepy Dad.

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Speaker 3: But we're gonna find out. Five hundred bucks was showed

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Speaker 2: Morning Everybody, Tuesday, July twenty third, The Fred Show's Not Hi, Kaitlin, Hi.

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Speaker 3: Waiting by the phone from yesterday with the creepy Dad.

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Speaker 3: We got the creepy Dad on the show in about

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Speaker 3: ten minutes. After a Stay Ago Well debate the relationship drama,

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Speaker 3: Good news stories This hour the entertainment reports coming up

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Speaker 3: to what's an.

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Speaker 6: Well, you know how people do outfit details for different

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Speaker 6: things they're doing, you know, online, like here's what I'm

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Speaker 6: wearing to.

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Speaker 4: Go do this, Here's what I'm wearing to go to

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Speaker 4: do that.

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Speaker 6: Well, you won't believe what someone did outfit details for

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Speaker 6: perhaps one of the most disrespectful things I've ever seen.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, Yeah, okay, they talk about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they excited talk about tell

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Speaker 1: me about it. These are the radio blogs on the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show.

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Speaker 3: All right, like running in our diaries, except we say

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Speaker 3: them aloud. We call them blogs. Klin, Yes, I go,

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Speaker 3: dear blog.

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Speaker 6: So my stress level right now is currently about a

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Speaker 6: twenty seven out of ten for something that should be

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Speaker 6: extremely fun. Okay, and Rivio, you missed part of this

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Speaker 6: while you were out. Okay, but and I've spoke about

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Speaker 6: it before, you know that I want a trip through work, yes,

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Speaker 6: which was amazing, so grateful I was able to pick

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Speaker 6: where I'm going. It's always been my dream to go

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Speaker 6: to Greece. Now at the time I want it, I

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Speaker 6: didn't know who I was going to take. I newly someone,

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Speaker 6: and I was like, this is a little much. But

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Speaker 6: I waited a few months and asked him.

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Speaker 4: What'd he liked to come with me because he's now

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Speaker 4: my boyfriend. Okay. It was wow. Okay, but since then

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Speaker 4: I've been.

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Speaker 6: Real stress because we've had a passport.

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Speaker 4: Debacle for him.

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Speaker 6: Okay, So I have a passport that works, he does

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Speaker 6: not currently.

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Speaker 4: Okay. So about six weeks ago he submitted for a renewal.

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Speaker 6: And if you've had a passport in the past, you

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Speaker 6: cannot just apply for a new one. You have to

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Speaker 6: get a renewal, and you have to know where you're

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Speaker 6: either your old passport has to be reported stolen or

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Speaker 6: you have to.

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Speaker 4: Have the numbers from it. Okay. So we had that

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Speaker 4: and got a renewal. He was in the system.

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Speaker 6: Well, one of our listeners came in Clutch when we

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Speaker 6: didn't receive it in the timeframe that we were supposed to,

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Speaker 6: and she said this happened to my husband. We called

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Speaker 6: and he was never in the system, so they didn't

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Speaker 6: even have a record of him applying for it. We

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Speaker 6: called and found out same thing for my boyfriend. There's

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Speaker 6: no record of him. I'm applying, So again we're less

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Speaker 6: than thirty days out. We do not have a passport, okay,

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Speaker 6: and I am going. I don't know if he is going.

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Speaker 4: Why don't you get it same day though?

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Speaker 3: Like if you go in, if you can get the appointment,

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Speaker 3: can't you get it same day and then you're all good.

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Speaker 4: So here's where we are at.

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Speaker 6: We are lucky enough to live in a city with

875
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 6: a passport office, which is clutch because you hear of

876
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 6: people having to drive it.

877
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 4: Did you have to drive somewhere? I had to drive

878
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 4: to the city to oh, yeah down sound right?

879
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:26,840
Speaker 8: Because when my grandma passed away in the Philippines, I

880
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:27,680
Speaker 8: had to get a passport.

881
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:29,360
Speaker 4: I didn't have one and I was going to the

882
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 4: Philippines like the next day, right, okay. So I was

883
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:34,280
Speaker 4: told within thirty days we could do that. I felt

884
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:36,720
Speaker 4: nervous about it, but a little comfy about it. He calls.

885
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 6: It turns out it's within fourteen days that you need

886
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,759
Speaker 6: to get an appointment and go. So he won't have

887
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 6: a passport until we're fourteen days out.

888
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:46,960
Speaker 4: Hopefully he can get an appointment.

889
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 6: I know those are hard to get, but I mean,

890
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 6: my heart's beating just talking about it, because like I

891
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 6: can't tell where never mind, you know, I plan this

892
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 6: whole trip, but I can't go, and I.

893
00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 4: Don't I'm not, like, I don't want to go to

894
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:01,800
Speaker 4: Greece alone. So it's gonna be fine.

895
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:04,240
Speaker 3: It'll be fine. You got it's a two week window,

896
00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 3: you'll be good. What that's plenty of time time?

897
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 4: Why are you guys so casual about that?

898
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 3: Well, first of all, you better get it done. But

899
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:14,440
Speaker 3: second of always, you know you got your two week window.

900
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 3: It'll be fine.

901
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:16,720
Speaker 4: Are we sure he can get an appointment?

902
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 3: I feel like this happened that people just happen to

903
00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:21,680
Speaker 3: people like you'll be fine, and don't you have to

904
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 3: prove that you're within a certain period of time to

905
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:27,239
Speaker 3: get the appointment. So like it's not like there's anybody

906
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 3: can just show up and oh, yeah, me too, Like,

907
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:32,880
Speaker 3: you know, he's got a valid argument for trying to

908
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 3: get this thing expedited.

909
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 4: It's gotta be fine.

910
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:41,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, I do have a passport, he can take mine.

911
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:45,040
Speaker 6: You're going you're gonna get your back waxing again, and

912
00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 6: we're going to go.

913
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:51,400
Speaker 3: Well, the back waxing appointment is what I'm most worried about.

914
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 3: Can we get Jason in We might want to have

915
00:39:55,080 --> 00:40:00,480
Speaker 3: a backup back waxing appointments in case he's gonna be five.

916
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:02,439
Speaker 2: Miss.

917
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:07,320
Speaker 3: Someone said, you're right, your local congressman, your local congressman

918
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 3: want help you get a passport? I say, you just

919
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 3: hit up Kamala Harris and be like you on my vote,

920
00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:12,960
Speaker 3: You on my vote, Kamala.

921
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:15,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, my man and I need to get to Greece.

922
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 1: Frend show is on. It's Stay or Go.

923
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Speaker 3: Darcy is here. Good morning, Darcy. How you doing?

924
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 16: Good morning?

925
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 4: I'm doing okay, Darcy. Welcome to the program, Stair Go.

926
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 3: So a little relationship advice, little little group therapy happening

927
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 3: right now? What's going on with this guy? This is

928
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:36,759
Speaker 3: your husband of fifteen years. You're calling us about something

929
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:38,920
Speaker 3: real like this isn't for real. We're not messing around

930
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 3: with some six month relationship. This is fifteen years. You've

931
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:42,359
Speaker 3: been married to this man.

932
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 4: Well, not only have we.

933
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,720
Speaker 11: Been married for fifteen years, but we were together seven

934
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 11: years before we got married, and they always told me,

935
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:52,719
Speaker 11: marry your best friend, marry your best friend, so I did.

936
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 4: Twenty two years. You've been together, right, I does some

937
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 4: quick mats in just two years at the top of

938
00:40:58,040 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 4: the dome. Yeah, no, I am, I am, I'm good.

939
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 16: The problem is not that I don't love him.

940
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 4: I do.

941
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:07,680
Speaker 11: The problem is is that I don't want to be

942
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 11: intimate with him, Like I don't want to have sex

943
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:13,960
Speaker 11: with him, and I have it for a really long time,

944
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 11: and I try to push those feelings down because, like

945
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 11: you just said, it's been twenty two years that we

946
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 11: have been together. And people say you go through phases

947
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 11: and the spark comes and it goes, but it went

948
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:26,800
Speaker 11: a long time ago and it has not come back,

949
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 11: and like we'll get intimate sometimes, but it's more of

950
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:34,400
Speaker 11: like obligation than it is anything else.

951
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 16: And I feel terrible about it.

952
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:38,600
Speaker 11: But every time I try to bring it up with

953
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 11: other people, they always say, oh, the dating world is

954
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 11: so hard and the grass isn't always greener and you

955
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 11: have your best friend, Like what more could you want? Well,

956
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:48,799
Speaker 11: I want to be with someone who I want like that.

957
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 3: Why would you say things have subsided romantically intimately? Like

958
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:57,279
Speaker 3: can you can you pinpoint why you're not interested? Like

959
00:41:57,640 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 3: I mean, are you guys still getting along or are

960
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 3: you still can comunicating?

961
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 4: Well?

962
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 3: Has there been any kind of infidelity? I mean, is

963
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 3: there some sort of dysfunction? I mean, I'm just trying

964
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:08,359
Speaker 3: to get to the bike. Or is it simply you've

965
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:12,399
Speaker 3: just grown out of wanting to be intimate with him

966
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:14,360
Speaker 3: and you just feel like you're married to your friend.

967
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:16,960
Speaker 16: I feel like I'm married to my friend, and I

968
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:20,279
Speaker 16: don't know that I ever grew out of it. I

969
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 16: think geek down. I've always known it's always been like that.

970
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 11: But I listen to everybody else who said, this is

971
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 11: your best friend, and he is like, there's nobody else

972
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 11: I want to spend time with other than him.

973
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:35,399
Speaker 16: But when it gets down to that bedroom, it's it's

974
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:37,400
Speaker 16: like I'm laying there with my brother and I'm like,

975
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 16: I don't want to do this.

976
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:40,839
Speaker 3: There's nobody else that does he wants to spend time

977
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:43,840
Speaker 3: with except for maybe somebody to have sex with her

978
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:46,839
Speaker 3: other than that, but other than that, this guy, this

979
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 3: guy's everything this so you can, okay, could you? And

980
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to like if it be proactive here?

981
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 3: I mean, is there anything like what if he tried

982
00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:58,840
Speaker 3: to be romantic? Like is there anything that he can do?

983
00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 3: I mean, is it really just dead like you're just

984
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 3: not interested? Or is there Is it a matter of effort?

985
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 3: Is it a matter of seduction? Is it a matter

986
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 3: of you know, he's not romantic with you anymore. It

987
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:12,560
Speaker 3: doesn't take you on dates like you know what I mean? Like,

988
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:15,840
Speaker 3: is there anything going on that he could adjust to

989
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:17,680
Speaker 3: maybe make this more attractive to you again?

990
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:19,240
Speaker 4: Maybe?

991
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 11: But I think even if he tried, it would just

992
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 11: give me the ick. I think we're at that point

993
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 11: to even if he tried to seduce me, I don't

994
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 11: know if he is the person I want seducing me.

995
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:32,840
Speaker 11: And I know that that sounds so terrible. I know

996
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:35,280
Speaker 11: it sounds so awful, but it's just how I feel.

997
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 3: Have you discussed this with him? I mean, have you

998
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 3: guys communicated about this? Does he feel the same way she.

999
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:42,879
Speaker 11: Does not feel the same way. He feels the same

1000
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:44,799
Speaker 11: way everybody else does. That we're just going through a

1001
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 11: rough patch, and you know, we just need to talk more.

1002
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 16: And I feel like all we do is talk about it,

1003
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 16: which I'd rather do than the alternative.

1004
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 4: I'll talk to you forever.

1005
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 11: I just feel like we're talking in a circle and

1006
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 11: I don't know if it will ever come back to

1007
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:02,440
Speaker 11: me feeling that way towards him, like I love him,

1008
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 11: And I always heard people say that's not always thought

1009
00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 11: it was such a lie. I just don't know that

1010
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:08,000
Speaker 11: I'm in love with him, but if there is something

1011
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 11: that he could do, I would try it because nothing

1012
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:13,919
Speaker 11: would break my heart more than to break his heart.

1013
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:16,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, because if he's still really into it and wants

1014
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 3: to do it and you don't, then this isn't a

1015
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,319
Speaker 3: situation where I think you could go and present some

1016
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 3: sort of counter solution, like, you know, you can't go

1017
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 3: to a guy who still wants to be with you

1018
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 3: and you don't and be like, hey, how about if

1019
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 3: we open up this marriage or something. Because I've heard

1020
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 3: of situations that people have been married for a very

1021
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:36,800
Speaker 3: long time, maybe they have kids, maybe they are established

1022
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:39,839
Speaker 3: in their lives, and they care about each other, they

1023
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 3: love each other, the intimacy just isn't there, but they

1024
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 3: don't want to blow up their whole lives. So they

1025
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:47,239
Speaker 3: both decide, hey, look, you know, you can go off

1026
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:48,960
Speaker 3: and do something, just don't let me find out about it,

1027
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:50,359
Speaker 3: or we can go off, or we're going to open

1028
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:54,800
Speaker 3: up this relationship or whatever. But both parties are okay

1029
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 3: with that, or at least appear to be in this case.

1030
00:44:57,560 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 3: I feel like if you went to him and said, hey,

1031
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:00,759
Speaker 3: can we open up this relationship. He'd be, you know,

1032
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:02,919
Speaker 3: highly insulted and hurt.

1033
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:05,879
Speaker 11: I think so too, But a part of me thinks

1034
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 11: that sounds like a really good idea, because if I

1035
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 11: could go somewhere else and have that aspect of.

1036
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 16: His relationship, she still have this back at home.

1037
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 4: I'm like, what a great idea. I'm serious.

1038
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:18,880
Speaker 3: It's a real thing. This is a real thing. She's

1039
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:21,160
Speaker 3: not saying he's a bad guy. She's not saying that

1040
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:22,880
Speaker 3: she doesn't love him. She's not saying she doesn't care

1041
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:24,799
Speaker 3: about him. She's not even saying she doesn't like spending

1042
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 3: time with him. What she's saying is, for whatever reason,

1043
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 3: the intimacy has expired. She doesn't believe she can fix it.

1044
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 3: And so what does she do? Does she blow up

1045
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:37,400
Speaker 3: the entire relationship and lose her best friend over sex?

1046
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:40,120
Speaker 3: Does she say forget it? I guess I'll just be celibate.

1047
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:44,279
Speaker 3: Does she cheat? She does she ask for an open relationship?

1048
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 4: You know?

1049
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:47,279
Speaker 3: Again, I mean think about what her options are. How

1050
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:49,760
Speaker 3: I thought about therapy. People were asking about therapy.

1051
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:52,479
Speaker 16: Yeah, we've thought about therapy and going.

1052
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:54,520
Speaker 11: I just think that we're looking at this situation from

1053
00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 11: two different viewpoints, and I don't think he's looking at

1054
00:45:57,640 --> 00:45:58,880
Speaker 11: it as we need therapy.

1055
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 16: I think he's looking at it as.

1056
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 11: We can work this out at home. And I'm perfectly

1057
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 11: fine going to therapy. My concern with therapy is saying

1058
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 11: something like you just suggested of an open marriage, and

1059
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:10,360
Speaker 11: then we just opened up a whole other can of worms,

1060
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:13,720
Speaker 11: and I'm nervous about that. We have talked about therapy,

1061
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 11: we have not actively.

1062
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 4: Gone you know what he needs?

1063
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 3: He needs that stuff I see advertised on TikTok all

1064
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 3: the time, that gum that makes it like super hard,

1065
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 3: you know what I mean.

1066
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:24,560
Speaker 4: Like that there's a gum. I forget what it's called,

1067
00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:25,920
Speaker 4: like blue cheo or something.

1068
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 3: It's all, oh ye, yeah, I see it advertising on

1069
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:29,359
Speaker 3: TikTok all the time.

1070
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:29,879
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1071
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:31,879
Speaker 3: It's like, does your man have the blue Cheo. It's

1072
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:33,880
Speaker 3: like because maybe if he comes home and he's just

1073
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:37,360
Speaker 3: like maybe maybe what it's going to take is a

1074
00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 3: little passion on his point the blue che Well, maybe

1075
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,640
Speaker 3: he's targeting men because he wouldn't say blue cheo.

1076
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 6: I mean, I would get get this.

1077
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 3: I don't need it yet, I'm sure I will, but

1078
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 3: I've considered ordering it just to see what the hell.

1079
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 4: Happened, Yeah, an experiment.

1080
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:54,920
Speaker 3: I've thought about getting Viagrad too, just to see what happened,

1081
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:56,360
Speaker 3: just to see what I mean again, There's going to

1082
00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:57,840
Speaker 3: come a time where I'm going to need that stuff.

1083
00:46:57,840 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 3: I don't yet, but I'm afraid my heart would explode it.

1084
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 3: I'm afraid I'm just getting greedy. Yeh, that's what I mean.

1085
00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 3: Like it's already working fine. It doesn't need to work

1086
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 3: finer than fine. But I'm curious. You know, my mind

1087
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 3: wants to know what the hell is blue shoe stuff?

1088
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:12,880
Speaker 3: But it's not even that Darcy, because I asked you

1089
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 3: if there was some kind of dysfunction and you said no, No.

1090
00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 11: I feel like if he came home with that problem,

1091
00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 11: that feels like a hymn problem right now, because that

1092
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 11: isn't the problem of him being able to perform.

1093
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 16: What the problem is is that I don't want.

1094
00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:27,319
Speaker 4: To come to the show. Wouldn't you almost rather that, though?

1095
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:30,120
Speaker 3: Wouldn't you almost rather that you really wanted the guy

1096
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:32,840
Speaker 3: and everything was there, he just he just needed to

1097
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:35,840
Speaker 3: work through some kind of a physiological issue. Wouldn't that

1098
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:36,320
Speaker 3: be better?

1099
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 4: You know?

1100
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 3: If it's like I know, that's also uncomfortable but at

1101
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:41,480
Speaker 3: least a desire is there, and you guys can go

1102
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:43,480
Speaker 3: together and work it out and figure out whatever the

1103
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 3: health matter is or whatever help he needs or you

1104
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 3: need or whatever. But in this case, this dude could

1105
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 3: be coming in ready to go all the time. He

1106
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 3: could be blue chewing it up right now, and it

1107
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:53,919
Speaker 3: wouldn't matter because you don't want it.

1108
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:57,360
Speaker 11: No, And I would even be more comfortable right now

1109
00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:59,880
Speaker 11: if there's been infidelity and we could work it.

1110
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 16: Yea, this feels like I am the problem.

1111
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:06,320
Speaker 11: This feels like I am ruining my marriage because of

1112
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 11: the way that I feel, and I can't change the

1113
00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 11: way that I feel. But if he came to me

1114
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 11: and said that he cheated, I could say, well, let's

1115
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 11: work on that. This doesn't feel like we can work

1116
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 11: on it. I mean, I don't know if other people

1117
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 11: that have been married as long or together with someone

1118
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 11: for twenty two years have ever been to this situation.

1119
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:24,759
Speaker 11: But everyone I seem to talk to just says you

1120
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:27,080
Speaker 11: just have to work through it. And it doesn't feel

1121
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:28,759
Speaker 11: like something I want to work through because life's a

1122
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 11: little too short to be this unhappy.

1123
00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think that she's using the word and you

1124
00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 7: are you're saying that that's my best friend. That's my

1125
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:37,759
Speaker 7: best friend, right, So I think you're taking a lot

1126
00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 7: of this blame on yourself. You're like, I'd rather him

1127
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 7: cheat and do that, and it's like, I wouldn't even

1128
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:44,480
Speaker 7: go that far. I just think that you have lost

1129
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 7: that spark for him. But I think that's okay.

1130
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 4: Sad. I know it's sad.

1131
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:50,400
Speaker 7: It's very upsetting, right, it's her husband for twenty two years.

1132
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 7: But if this is a really your best friend that

1133
00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:53,399
Speaker 7: you keep calling, you know, this is my best friend,

1134
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:54,799
Speaker 7: this is the worst and I care about I think

1135
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 7: it's best to go your separate ways so that maybe

1136
00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 7: you can still remain friends.

1137
00:48:58,640 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 4: You can still remain that.

1138
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 3: Let's face it, if he cheats, then she has an opening.

1139
00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 3: If he cheats, then she can dump him. If he cheats,

1140
00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:07,319
Speaker 3: then she could go, well, I know, well why don't

1141
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 3: you just keep doing that?

1142
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:08,680
Speaker 4: And I'll do this.

1143
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:12,040
Speaker 3: I mean, it's nice, no offense, Darcy, but him him

1144
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:15,360
Speaker 3: doing something anything other than you addressing the issue is

1145
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 3: kind of just a cop out. It's kind of just

1146
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 3: a workaround, right, I mean, because ultimately none of that's

1147
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 3: going to feel You're not really going to be happy

1148
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:23,680
Speaker 3: if he cheats because you say you still love him

1149
00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:24,879
Speaker 3: and you care about him.

1150
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:27,959
Speaker 11: I do, but then I would feel like his needs

1151
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 11: of being met. That's the problem with that is and

1152
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 11: I you know, he is my best friend. I don't

1153
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:35,839
Speaker 11: think our friendship or this relationship would survive me coming

1154
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 11: to him and telling him I'm just not attracted you anymore,

1155
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 11: because I don't know how I would take that emotionally

1156
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 11: my ego if you came to me and said, I

1157
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:45,440
Speaker 11: don't want to be intimate with you, I mean, the

1158
00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:46,799
Speaker 11: only one you should want to.

1159
00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 4: Be intimate with, and you're telling me that.

1160
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:49,960
Speaker 16: Like, I love him so much.

1161
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:51,520
Speaker 4: That's why I'm not telling him.

1162
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:51,839
Speaker 15: All of it.

1163
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:52,200
Speaker 4: Darcy.

1164
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 3: A lot of people are like, are pointing to like,

1165
00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 3: maybe you should go get your hormone check, to this

1166
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:57,759
Speaker 3: and that, and I have to ask, I mean, do

1167
00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 3: you have the desire otherwise not with him, or do

1168
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:02,359
Speaker 3: you have no desire at all?

1169
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 4: Just just to check that box.

1170
00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:06,120
Speaker 16: No, that's an interesting question.

1171
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:08,240
Speaker 11: There are people that I see that I find attractive

1172
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 11: and I fantasize about that. I don't act on it

1173
00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 11: because I am married, so I think that desire.

1174
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:14,240
Speaker 4: Is still there.

1175
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:16,920
Speaker 3: So this is not a matter of like you know,

1176
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:19,440
Speaker 3: I don't know you're taking medicine that it has reduced

1177
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:21,840
Speaker 3: your libido or because that's also an issue, where like

1178
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 3: there really isn't a problem. There's just you know, as

1179
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:27,759
Speaker 3: far as the connections concerned, there's just something going on

1180
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 3: where you're you have less drive than you once said.

1181
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:31,799
Speaker 3: Let me take some phone calls on this, because we're

1182
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:34,359
Speaker 3: a bunch of morons and we're just talking. Maybe other

1183
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:36,720
Speaker 3: people have have been through this and can offer something,

1184
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 3: but yeah, it kind of sounds like you're gonna have

1185
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:41,759
Speaker 3: to have a really tough conversation and you're gonna have

1186
00:50:41,800 --> 00:50:43,320
Speaker 3: to just be really honest.

1187
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 4: And maybe me, I don't know. I don't know how you.

1188
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:47,799
Speaker 4: I really don't know how you fix it. But fair

1189
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 4: right for the both of them. And I don't know

1190
00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 4: one who thinks that.

1191
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:52,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, but here's a guy who sounds like he still

1192
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:54,560
Speaker 3: wants it. She just doesn't want it. That's going to

1193
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:57,280
Speaker 3: be devastating to hear it is I'm leaving.

1194
00:50:57,160 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 4: Someone over sex though, I mean after that, I don't know,

1195
00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:03,399
Speaker 4: the grass ain't always greener on the other side.

1196
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:05,600
Speaker 8: You can't have your cake like that's true, But do

1197
00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 8: you want a little single, like, yes, you're gonna have

1198
00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:09,439
Speaker 8: a lot of sex, but you're gonna be You could

1199
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 8: not be in a relationship for the longest time.

1200
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:12,439
Speaker 4: You could be lonely for the rest of your life.

1201
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:13,839
Speaker 3: I got a whole list of things you can say

1202
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:15,279
Speaker 3: to people on dating apps to if you need it,

1203
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:21,959
Speaker 3: like yourself out aw anyway, let me take some phone calls, Darcy,

1204
00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 3: have the radio one. I wish you the best. This

1205
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 3: is tough, this is complicated. I don't know the right

1206
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 3: because because Ruvio is right. I mean, do you want

1207
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:32,719
Speaker 3: to live a sexless, celibate life with your best friend? No,

1208
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:35,359
Speaker 3: But if you lose this guy who's this, you know,

1209
00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:38,759
Speaker 3: this paramount relationship in your life so that you could

1210
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:40,320
Speaker 3: go out and have a bunch of you know, average

1211
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:42,280
Speaker 3: of disappointing physical connections, then.

1212
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 4: Then I don't know, is that better? Not sure?

1213
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 3: It probably feels like it now, but it may not

1214
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 3: be in the long run. Thank you, Darcy, good luck.

1215
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:51,879
Speaker 4: I got an Amazon for you girl.

1216
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:56,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, for a little So you're suggesting Kiki has

1217
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 3: some and then yes, she.

1218
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:00,239
Speaker 10: Might just need to spice it up, get her out

1219
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:06,239
Speaker 10: some some adult toys. Maybe that she can try out.

1220
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:09,040
Speaker 10: I mean, I feel like she has not tried everything yet.

1221
00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 10: She's just like I don't want it, but like, try

1222
00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:14,080
Speaker 10: some things first before you leave your husband. In best friend,

1223
00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:15,799
Speaker 10: I feel so bad for him all these years, Like

1224
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 10: I feel so bad for the husband, like he's I

1225
00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:19,880
Speaker 10: feel like he's done nothing wrong.

1226
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:22,239
Speaker 4: No, he doesn't want this either though. I mean, you

1227
00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:23,480
Speaker 4: know you can't fight those.

1228
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 8: But it's not like he's not like it's not like

1229
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:27,000
Speaker 8: he's bad in bed or he's not.

1230
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 4: He doesn't want you. He wants to have sex with

1231
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 4: his wife. Yeah, but she does.

1232
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 3: Want to have sort of outgrown him in some ways.

1233
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:36,840
Speaker 3: And I feel like there's always more in these situations.

1234
00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:39,279
Speaker 3: There's always more going on. There's something else here that

1235
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:42,239
Speaker 3: we probably don't I don't know. But I've also never

1236
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:44,359
Speaker 3: been with somebody for twenty two years, so I don't

1237
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:46,400
Speaker 3: know what it's. I mean, honestly, I don't know that

1238
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 3: I know I would even have any sort of basis

1239
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:51,279
Speaker 3: for comparison to be the same person for that period

1240
00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:55,319
Speaker 3: of time. Hey Christina, good morning. Hey what do you

1241
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:57,040
Speaker 3: think stay or go? So, just to recap here, this

1242
00:52:57,080 --> 00:53:00,000
Speaker 3: woman's been with this man married for like seventeen years,

1243
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:02,759
Speaker 3: is together for twenty two or something, and she just

1244
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 3: doesn't want to sleep with him anymore, loves him, considers

1245
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:08,920
Speaker 3: him her best friend, doesn't really have the desire to

1246
00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 3: be with him anymore. She still has those desires, just

1247
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:13,640
Speaker 3: not with him. He wants to be with her, and

1248
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 3: she's not sure what to do. What do you think?

1249
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:20,400
Speaker 17: I just think that sex is something that you know,

1250
00:53:20,560 --> 00:53:24,760
Speaker 17: every human being needs in their life. So to hold

1251
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:28,640
Speaker 17: it back from somebody I think is worse. So I

1252
00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:31,280
Speaker 17: think that she should go, but you know she should

1253
00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 17: go in a way where she talks to him about it.

1254
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:40,360
Speaker 17: I mean they are best friends, they do have a connection, and.

1255
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:40,319
Speaker 4: And what or she can give it you broke up

1256
00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:41,480
Speaker 4: in just a second or what?

1257
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:44,359
Speaker 17: Sorry, Like, who's to say they're not going to be

1258
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 17: remain best friends. She could talk to him about it,

1259
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:50,239
Speaker 17: but I really feel like she needs to go or

1260
00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:53,680
Speaker 17: give him the option to have an open marriage. Yeah,

1261
00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:55,640
Speaker 17: because he just can't take that awash from somebody.

1262
00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:57,200
Speaker 15: It's like he's being punished.

1263
00:53:57,440 --> 00:53:59,560
Speaker 3: But it's just that's just not that symbol, Like it's

1264
00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:01,400
Speaker 3: not that same to say, because like there's someone like me,

1265
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 3: for example, that would never work for me, Like, if

1266
00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 3: you came to me and said, I love you, but

1267
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 3: I don't want to be with you anymore, how about

1268
00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:09,640
Speaker 3: I sleep with other men and stay with you, I'd

1269
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 3: be devastating. That's the end, you know, So, I mean,

1270
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:14,680
Speaker 3: it's not just that symbols. Just let's just say by

1271
00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:16,719
Speaker 3: other folks in like, I don't know. I think I

1272
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:18,840
Speaker 3: would either be in or out on that one. I

1273
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:21,239
Speaker 3: don't know that I could just be with someone who's like,

1274
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:23,400
Speaker 3: I love you, but I really don't want you to

1275
00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 3: like get anywhere near me sexually like that would have

1276
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:29,319
Speaker 3: but other men can. I don't know. Christina, thank you,

1277
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 3: have a good day. Glad you called. And that battle

1278
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:35,239
Speaker 3: that's just me. I mean, I trust me. Go on,

1279
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:38,160
Speaker 3: speaking of dating apps, go on these dating apps, ethical ethic,

1280
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:41,480
Speaker 3: this is I'm using air quotes ethical, non monogamy all

1281
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:44,640
Speaker 3: over the place, all over the place. People, And yeah,

1282
00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:47,040
Speaker 3: I'm in a relationship, but I want and it's and

1283
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:49,080
Speaker 3: it's all out there. But I want to sleep with

1284
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:51,800
Speaker 3: other people too. It's very common and if it works

1285
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 3: for you, that's great.

1286
00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:55,880
Speaker 6: I just I don't know, right and do we always

1287
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:59,239
Speaker 6: have it all every single part of a relationship, all

1288
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:01,239
Speaker 6: the time for the end tyrity, you know what I mean?

1289
00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 4: Like, is it always you have every part of it?

1290
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 5: No?

1291
00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 4: I feel I feel like that's an unfair expectation. Hey, Dawn,

1292
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:11,319
Speaker 4: good morning, Welcome, good morning. So how are y'all? Hey?

1293
00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 4: What do you think? Great? Thanks for asking? Uh, what

1294
00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 4: do you think?

1295
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:18,160
Speaker 14: I think she should stay? And I feel like when

1296
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:21,359
Speaker 14: she's saying she just keeps herpetting, like best friend, best friend,

1297
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 14: I love them and stuff like that. It just sounds

1298
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:26,520
Speaker 14: like things are routine and comfortable. And I'm presuming, and

1299
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:28,359
Speaker 14: I may have missed this at the very beginning. I'm

1300
00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:31,080
Speaker 14: presuming that they were pretty sparky at the beginning of

1301
00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:33,759
Speaker 14: the relationship. That's why they got into relationship and got

1302
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:36,040
Speaker 14: married and stuff like that. And I think, and it

1303
00:55:36,120 --> 00:55:38,160
Speaker 14: sounds really cliche, but it just sounds like the spark

1304
00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:40,439
Speaker 14: is the spark is missing. I'm not gonna say it's gone,

1305
00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:44,040
Speaker 14: but it's missing. And maybe maybe they if they talk,

1306
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:47,399
Speaker 14: maybe he has to do a little digging and figure out,

1307
00:55:47,920 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 14: you know what, what's something new that or something that

1308
00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:52,560
Speaker 14: used to work? You know, what's something new that I

1309
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 14: can do that They really knocked her off her heels,

1310
00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:56,520
Speaker 14: you know, and and rest her up.

1311
00:55:56,760 --> 00:55:58,479
Speaker 4: I don't see, but I don't think it would matter.

1312
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:01,400
Speaker 3: It doesn't this do come in, you know, wrapped in

1313
00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:04,080
Speaker 3: latex and you know, all oiled up. But I don't

1314
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:06,520
Speaker 3: know that it wouldn't matter. I didn't sound like she

1315
00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:10,480
Speaker 3: would care. It's a bad spot to be in where

1316
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:11,360
Speaker 3: there's nothing you can do.

1317
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:12,719
Speaker 4: All the blue two in the world is not going

1318
00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:14,200
Speaker 4: to solve this problem.

1319
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 14: But maybe maybe they're just because it's so routine and comfortable,

1320
00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:19,960
Speaker 14: maybe not thinking outside of the box like that. I mean,

1321
00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:22,319
Speaker 14: like he said, maybe maybe you gotta go find a

1322
00:56:22,360 --> 00:56:26,120
Speaker 14: toy or something, or I don't know, maybe the latext thing,

1323
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:28,640
Speaker 14: or maybe maybe it's just a nice long day like

1324
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:31,319
Speaker 14: in a lazy river somewhere in a picnic and just

1325
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:37,319
Speaker 14: I mean, you know what I mean, if you're if

1326
00:56:37,320 --> 00:56:39,839
Speaker 14: you're like, don't, I don't know their lifestyle. So maybe

1327
00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:42,319
Speaker 14: they're just constantly until it with kids and work and

1328
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:44,560
Speaker 14: whatever and really stressed out until if they just have

1329
00:56:44,600 --> 00:56:48,359
Speaker 14: a really lazy, calm day and can just I don't know,

1330
00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:50,880
Speaker 14: threw out different things.

1331
00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:53,640
Speaker 4: I hear you figure something out. Thank you.

1332
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:55,280
Speaker 14: That's a little bit more comfortable.

1333
00:56:55,840 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 4: Well, thank you, Thank you.

1334
00:56:57,200 --> 00:56:59,879
Speaker 3: John appreciate you have a great day, so I may

1335
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:03,160
Speaker 3: It's gonna be a painful conversation. So before she torpedoes

1336
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:05,600
Speaker 3: the whole damn thing, she may as well get a

1337
00:57:05,600 --> 00:57:09,200
Speaker 3: sex therapist involved or somebody you know, and have that conversation.

1338
00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:11,239
Speaker 3: You may as well go for it. You may as

1339
00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:13,600
Speaker 3: well lay it all out there, because it's gonna go

1340
00:57:13,600 --> 00:57:15,680
Speaker 3: one or two ways. Either he's gonna I don't know,

1341
00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 3: I guess you could go a number of ways. He's

1342
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 3: gonna be super hurt and offended and there's no coming back.

1343
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:23,040
Speaker 3: He's gonna say, well, what if we try a bunch

1344
00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:24,760
Speaker 3: of stuff? And then she'll go, well, I may as well,

1345
00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:27,080
Speaker 3: or they're gonna break up. I guess he's gonna go

1346
00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:30,520
Speaker 3: I feel the same way. Maybe I'm not sure, but

1347
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:33,120
Speaker 3: let's have Creepy Dad on next. Shall we Creepy Dad

1348
00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:36,640
Speaker 3: from Waiting by the phone yesterday? He kind of crashed

1349
00:57:36,640 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 3: a date, made it weird, but did he Let's see

1350
00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 3: what he has to say all three on the show

1351
00:57:42,360 --> 00:57:43,800
Speaker 3: next after post Bellonadi in two.

1352
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 4: Minutes, It's the French show Good morning, So waiting a

1353
00:57:46,680 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 4: out the phone?

1354
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:50,960
Speaker 3: Yesterday we had Ian and Nina on and if you

1355
00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:54,680
Speaker 3: remember Ian met Nina on the dating apps.

1356
00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:59,240
Speaker 4: They went on a date, and Ian did admit that.

1357
00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:02,280
Speaker 3: His father's should rowed up to get carry out at

1358
00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 3: the restaurant they happened to be at, and and Nina

1359
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:06,360
Speaker 3: was kind enough to sort of say, oh, hey, nice

1360
00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:07,600
Speaker 3: to me. She you want to have a drink with us?

1361
00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:08,920
Speaker 3: Like why he was waiting for his food, like kind

1362
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:11,520
Speaker 3: of incorporate him. End of the date, you know what

1363
00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:14,120
Speaker 3: I mean? I mean, what are you supposed to do? Like, yeah,

1364
00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:19,560
Speaker 3: blow off the dad. He's kind of a weird chance

1365
00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:21,479
Speaker 3: event that that would happen. But anyway, so we hadn't

1366
00:58:21,480 --> 00:58:23,280
Speaker 3: need an Ian on and they're back. Good morning guys,

1367
00:58:24,040 --> 00:58:27,360
Speaker 3: running And so what we wanted to know is because

1368
00:58:28,360 --> 00:58:31,680
Speaker 3: Ian says it's not possible. All wow, I should tell

1369
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:33,240
Speaker 3: you the second part in case you didn't hear it.

1370
00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:35,680
Speaker 3: When we did talk to Nina yesterday, she said that

1371
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:40,959
Speaker 3: dominic Ian's dad was flirtatious with her, touched her leg,

1372
00:58:41,600 --> 00:58:42,560
Speaker 3: was flirting with her.

1373
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:45,800
Speaker 4: Well, he was in the bathroom while.

1374
00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:49,600
Speaker 3: While Ian was away. And Ian his response, your response,

1375
00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:51,160
Speaker 3: Ian and that want to make sure I'm getting all

1376
00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:53,680
Speaker 3: this right. And Nina too was that there's no way

1377
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:55,800
Speaker 3: he could have done this because he's married to your

1378
00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 3: mom and he.

1379
00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 4: Would never That's what I'm saying.

1380
00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:02,560
Speaker 3: Okay, And Nina, you you still contend that he absolutely did.

1381
00:59:02,920 --> 00:59:06,720
Speaker 15: Yes, I mean absolutely, Like there's a difference between being

1382
00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:09,880
Speaker 15: friendly and putting your hand on someone's sigh and calling

1383
00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:10,560
Speaker 15: them beautiful.

1384
00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:12,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would agree, okay.

1385
00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:14,480
Speaker 3: And so we said yesterday, well let's see if we

1386
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:16,480
Speaker 3: can get the dad on the phone. His name is

1387
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:19,720
Speaker 3: dominic Let's see what happens with that. And so you

1388
00:59:19,800 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 3: texted your dad and we got him. And so, ladies

1389
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:24,880
Speaker 3: and gentlemen, I'd like you to meet dominic Ian's dad.

1390
00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:28,520
Speaker 3: Good morning, dominic Good, good morning Fred? Oh it was it?

1391
00:59:28,560 --> 00:59:31,320
Speaker 3: Good morning Fred? What is it like like a radio?

1392
00:59:31,880 --> 00:59:33,920
Speaker 3: Did you have a did you do radio? Or summer

1393
00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:37,000
Speaker 3: stock or like the community theater or like what? Good

1394
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:37,840
Speaker 3: morning everybody?

1395
00:59:38,240 --> 00:59:40,600
Speaker 12: Well, if you think I should, we can talk about that.

1396
00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:42,120
Speaker 4: But no, I don't. I don't know.

1397
00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:46,200
Speaker 3: But okay, so you heard the explanation here. Ian and

1398
00:59:46,280 --> 00:59:48,480
Speaker 3: Nina went out. I guess you ran into Ian and

1399
00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:52,960
Speaker 3: Nina at the restaurant. Nina says you flirted with her

1400
00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:54,400
Speaker 3: and it made her uncomfortable.

1401
00:59:55,560 --> 00:59:58,680
Speaker 4: I think this is being blown out of all proportion.

1402
00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:01,880
Speaker 12: I think to say I was hitting on her, that's

1403
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 12: that's an exaggeration.

1404
01:00:03,440 --> 01:00:05,520
Speaker 3: You were not hitting on Nina. That and you're you're

1405
01:00:05,520 --> 01:00:08,280
Speaker 3: a married man, you're married to Ian's mom. You're saying

1406
01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:10,440
Speaker 3: that Nina made the whole thing up. You did not

1407
01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:14,680
Speaker 3: touch her leg. I touch I touched her leg.

1408
01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:18,720
Speaker 12: Look, any any man would be helpless around a woman

1409
01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:19,760
Speaker 12: that beautiful.

1410
01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:22,520
Speaker 4: You know, it's just hardly flirting.

1411
01:00:22,600 --> 01:00:25,280
Speaker 3: You're married, dude, you don't get to be helpless around

1412
01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:28,680
Speaker 3: other women. You're married. You're married, and plus that's your

1413
01:00:28,800 --> 01:00:29,880
Speaker 3: that's your son's date.

1414
01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:33,400
Speaker 12: I didn't think there was anything to it. It was just,

1415
01:00:33,520 --> 01:00:36,160
Speaker 12: like I said, it's harmless flirting. You know, it just

1416
01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:39,200
Speaker 12: happens all the time. It's not not a big I

1417
01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:42,200
Speaker 12: didn't think it would turn into a whole situation.

1418
01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:46,440
Speaker 3: Okay, so Ian, he's he's not denying it. He flirted

1419
01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:49,760
Speaker 3: with your date because he was helpless. Very beautiful, she's

1420
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:50,440
Speaker 3: very beautiful.

1421
01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 4: You hear that. Okay, how did you keep your hands

1422
01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:56,439
Speaker 4: off of her? You know, like, how could you? I think,

1423
01:00:56,480 --> 01:00:58,520
Speaker 4: first off, I want to say sorry to Nina, and

1424
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:03,240
Speaker 4: you know, Dad, I it's just so weird. Man that

1425
01:01:04,880 --> 01:01:07,800
Speaker 4: that's not cool. Man, my god, say sorry to all

1426
01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:08,880
Speaker 4: of us. This is weird.

1427
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:12,240
Speaker 3: No, first of all, thank you Ian for apologizing to Nina.

1428
01:01:12,280 --> 01:01:14,000
Speaker 3: That was a nice thing to do because it turned

1429
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:16,320
Speaker 3: out that Nina, I'm sorry Nina.

1430
01:01:16,360 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 16: I said, yeah, thank you, Like that was very nice.

1431
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:21,400
Speaker 4: I mean, we all believed her. We all knew that

1432
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:22,280
Speaker 4: she wasn't crazy.

1433
01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 3: The only person here who didn't really believe her, Ian

1434
01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:26,280
Speaker 3: was you that you apologized.

1435
01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:28,440
Speaker 4: Uh, he's my dad.

1436
01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:29,360
Speaker 14: I don't think he's doing it.

1437
01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:30,439
Speaker 4: Well.

1438
01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:33,800
Speaker 3: How does it make you feel about your day? Because yeah,

1439
01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:38,040
Speaker 3: I mean he's married to your mom. Friends friendly. I mean,

1440
01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:40,800
Speaker 3: there's but don't we know at a certain point in

1441
01:01:40,840 --> 01:01:45,160
Speaker 3: our lives the difference between lecherous and friendly, like creepy

1442
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:48,640
Speaker 3: and being nice, cordial and being like if he.

1443
01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:51,600
Speaker 4: Was helpless though fried by her beauty. I mean, I mean,

1444
01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:53,240
Speaker 4: come on, that's.

1445
01:01:56,280 --> 01:01:58,560
Speaker 10: I can't I tell John his man was a creepy

1446
01:01:59,280 --> 01:02:02,040
Speaker 10: putting a hand somebody else's leg, like come on there.

1447
01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:06,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it's not appropriate. So it's not like I

1448
01:02:06,360 --> 01:02:07,600
Speaker 4: was massaging her knee.

1449
01:02:07,600 --> 01:02:09,440
Speaker 12: I mean maybe I'm from a different time, but it

1450
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:12,080
Speaker 12: was just a very casual you know.

1451
01:02:12,320 --> 01:02:15,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's called assault. Yeah, you're not supposed to

1452
01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:18,080
Speaker 3: do that either unless somebody wants you to. So, but

1453
01:02:18,200 --> 01:02:20,680
Speaker 3: here's my question, though, Nina, like does this change anything,

1454
01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:23,320
Speaker 3: because you know it sounds like Ian's kind of shocked.

1455
01:02:23,680 --> 01:02:25,800
Speaker 3: He didn't realize his dad was capable of this or

1456
01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:28,360
Speaker 3: would do it or did do it, and and and

1457
01:02:28,440 --> 01:02:31,000
Speaker 3: he kind of is admitting that he did. So I

1458
01:02:31,040 --> 01:02:32,680
Speaker 3: don't know, do you want nothing to do with Ian

1459
01:02:32,800 --> 01:02:35,120
Speaker 3: because his dad's weird? Or do you do you now

1460
01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:37,560
Speaker 3: look at Ian differently because he's he's figuring out that

1461
01:02:37,680 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 3: his dad is weird.

1462
01:02:39,960 --> 01:02:43,160
Speaker 15: I mean, like again, like Ian's great, but like just

1463
01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:46,480
Speaker 15: to imagine, like I don't know, at Thanksgiving.

1464
01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:48,280
Speaker 4: Or nothing, you've seen this movie before? You don't, you

1465
01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:50,600
Speaker 4: don't want any part of it? He accidentally walks it,

1466
01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:53,200
Speaker 4: you change it? Yeah, I've seen I've seen this one.

1467
01:02:53,360 --> 01:02:58,560
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, so no, so no no second date I

1468
01:02:58,560 --> 01:02:59,960
Speaker 3: because we'll pay for it if you want to get

1469
01:03:00,280 --> 01:03:02,920
Speaker 3: Ian another chance, and we'll ask the father. We'll get

1470
01:03:02,920 --> 01:03:05,280
Speaker 3: a restraining order, a protective order against him so he

1471
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:05,800
Speaker 3: can't come.

1472
01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:08,919
Speaker 4: I'm so sorry to Ian, Like.

1473
01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:12,919
Speaker 3: But no, all right, Ian, I'm sorry, man, I don't

1474
01:03:12,920 --> 01:03:14,600
Speaker 3: know how you know how you deal with this.

1475
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:19,120
Speaker 4: So you need to have a conversation. Yeah, that's that's

1476
01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:19,880
Speaker 4: that's yeah.

1477
01:03:19,920 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 17: My mom I had to be in that conversation too.

1478
01:03:21,720 --> 01:03:23,680
Speaker 4: I think she needs to be and a lawyer.

1479
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:27,480
Speaker 3: Well, I mean maybe Thanksgiving dinner, a couple of glasses

1480
01:03:27,520 --> 01:03:30,280
Speaker 3: of wine and everybody will see things a little bit differently.

1481
01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:31,000
Speaker 17: Yeah.

1482
01:03:31,040 --> 01:03:34,120
Speaker 4: Like I said, you know, my day, this was not

1483
01:03:34,200 --> 01:03:36,040
Speaker 4: a big deal. You know, I was just trying to

1484
01:03:36,040 --> 01:03:36,480
Speaker 4: be nice.

1485
01:03:36,600 --> 01:03:39,000
Speaker 15: I think you know it's.

1486
01:03:38,400 --> 01:03:40,800
Speaker 4: A harmless it was a harmless interaction.

1487
01:03:40,840 --> 01:03:45,080
Speaker 3: Oh, I see back in your day. Yeah, yeah, okay,

1488
01:03:45,160 --> 01:03:47,280
Speaker 3: So this is a generational thing, that is what you're saying,

1489
01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:49,320
Speaker 3: dominic like, because when you were younger, you can just

1490
01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:52,800
Speaker 3: touch anybody's girlfriend It's okay, But now it's weird you

1491
01:03:52,840 --> 01:03:53,400
Speaker 3: can't do that.

1492
01:03:53,960 --> 01:03:56,960
Speaker 12: I don't even if we know if we call that touching,

1493
01:03:57,120 --> 01:04:00,520
Speaker 12: just just gently putting your hand on it, young lady,

1494
01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:02,680
Speaker 12: I mean, is that honestly?

1495
01:04:02,840 --> 01:04:05,640
Speaker 3: Oh, Mecca, that made me feel uncomfortable just hear you,

1496
01:04:05,880 --> 01:04:08,800
Speaker 3: like right now, my skin is crawling hearing you talk.

1497
01:04:08,880 --> 01:04:10,720
Speaker 4: So we're gonna be We're gonna be done now. But

1498
01:04:10,800 --> 01:04:13,120
Speaker 4: maybe it is. Maybe it is a generational thing.

1499
01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:15,680
Speaker 3: I don't think I think it's a I think I

1500
01:04:15,760 --> 01:04:18,400
Speaker 3: think we everyone knows what it is. But and I'm

1501
01:04:18,440 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 3: sorry that you find out this way, Nina. Thank you

1502
01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:22,040
Speaker 3: for your patience and for your time, and I'm sorry

1503
01:04:22,040 --> 01:04:22,720
Speaker 3: it didn't work out.

1504
01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:24,040
Speaker 4: Good luck to all of you. Okay.

1505
01:04:25,360 --> 01:04:28,120
Speaker 1: Calon's entertainment report is on the Fresh Show.

1506
01:04:28,320 --> 01:04:31,200
Speaker 4: You Well, all I have to say is, well, it

1507
01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:33,280
Speaker 4: is right, all right. Let me try to get in

1508
01:04:33,280 --> 01:04:35,120
Speaker 4: the game for my job, my line now.

1509
01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:38,560
Speaker 6: Chris Brown, Live Nation and two others are facing a

1510
01:04:38,640 --> 01:04:41,800
Speaker 6: lawsuit filed by four dudes for fifty million after he

1511
01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 6: allegedly organized some sort of assault against them. Chris is

1512
01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:48,560
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1513
01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:51,240
Speaker 6: on July twentieth, and after the show let out the

1514
01:04:51,280 --> 01:04:55,040
Speaker 6: four dudes that they were invited backstage escorted there along

1515
01:04:55,040 --> 01:04:58,080
Speaker 6: with forty women for a post concert hang. According to

1516
01:04:58,080 --> 01:05:00,520
Speaker 6: the suit, one of them congratulated Chris a good show

1517
01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:03,160
Speaker 6: when a member of his entourage shouted loudly, don't you

1518
01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:06,240
Speaker 6: remember you two were beefing, and Chris claimed that he

1519
01:05:06,280 --> 01:05:08,920
Speaker 6: did remember and verbally ordered his crew to beat this

1520
01:05:08,960 --> 01:05:11,520
Speaker 6: guy up. This man says he was surrounded by seven

1521
01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:13,600
Speaker 6: to ten guys who punched and kicked him for more

1522
01:05:13,640 --> 01:05:15,800
Speaker 6: than ten minutes, even through a chair at his head.

1523
01:05:15,840 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 6: All four men so they suffered severe injuries and had

1524
01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:22,000
Speaker 6: to undergo various medical treatments. Their lawyer says at least

1525
01:05:22,040 --> 01:05:23,400
Speaker 6: one of them is still in the hospital.

1526
01:05:23,440 --> 01:05:24,080
Speaker 4: In addition to.

1527
01:05:24,040 --> 01:05:28,920
Speaker 6: The fifty mil, the plaintiffs have also requested a restraining

1528
01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:32,800
Speaker 6: order against Chris and two members of his crew. Former

1529
01:05:32,880 --> 01:05:36,120
Speaker 6: Bachelor contestant Anna Redman has been catching a lot of

1530
01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:40,240
Speaker 6: heat online ever since she shared her clothing itinerary during

1531
01:05:40,240 --> 01:05:44,720
Speaker 6: a family trip to Auschwitz, a former concentration camp in

1532
01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:47,920
Speaker 6: Poland where a ton of people died during the Holocaust.

1533
01:05:48,200 --> 01:05:50,440
Speaker 6: So she posted on her Instagram story that she was

1534
01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:53,800
Speaker 6: going to the now Museum wearing a black dress and

1535
01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:57,000
Speaker 6: white sandals along with the captain. The best packing hack

1536
01:05:57,200 --> 01:05:59,959
Speaker 6: is somebody going to match my freak, which is not great.

1537
01:06:00,960 --> 01:06:04,160
Speaker 6: From there obviously came the backlash, which included threats against

1538
01:06:04,160 --> 01:06:07,040
Speaker 6: her life. Anna says she understands now why she got that.

1539
01:06:07,080 --> 01:06:10,360
Speaker 6: In hindsight, she deleted the post apologize. She did say,

1540
01:06:10,400 --> 01:06:12,720
Speaker 6: in the midst of all the hate, some people from

1541
01:06:12,760 --> 01:06:15,600
Speaker 6: the Jewish community did applaud her for being proud about

1542
01:06:15,600 --> 01:06:17,160
Speaker 6: her visit and wearing respectable.

1543
01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:17,720
Speaker 4: It's higher.

1544
01:06:18,080 --> 01:06:20,480
Speaker 6: I do think her post was dumb and disrespectful, But

1545
01:06:20,560 --> 01:06:22,720
Speaker 6: I don't think the best way to teach someone something

1546
01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:25,480
Speaker 6: is to give them death threats. I think maybe you

1547
01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:28,560
Speaker 6: could message someone and educate them on why that may

1548
01:06:28,600 --> 01:06:29,919
Speaker 6: have come off insensitive.

1549
01:06:31,240 --> 01:06:31,840
Speaker 4: No, you should.

1550
01:06:32,080 --> 01:06:34,680
Speaker 3: You should just go at people, scream at them, tell

1551
01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:37,600
Speaker 3: them they're horrible. Right, I'm just curious if she used

1552
01:06:37,600 --> 01:06:40,600
Speaker 3: packing cubes or not. I'm worried she's packing cubes. I'll

1553
01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:42,320
Speaker 3: send you her posts. How many pair of underwear did

1554
01:06:42,320 --> 01:06:45,160
Speaker 3: she bring? Because women tend to overpack underwear. In my opinion,

1555
01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:48,280
Speaker 3: she probably wrote way too much. Yes, probably listen how

1556
01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 3: much underwear? How much underwear is enough for that setting?

1557
01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:51,800
Speaker 4: You know what I mean? Right?

1558
01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:59,000
Speaker 3: Are there certain topics where we just know, like when

1559
01:06:59,360 --> 01:07:02,520
Speaker 3: when we're saying this thing that we don't mix in

1560
01:07:02,680 --> 01:07:06,200
Speaker 3: any sort of like opportunity to be an influencer, but

1561
01:07:06,560 --> 01:07:09,200
Speaker 3: literally like do we not correct, Like there's just certain

1562
01:07:09,200 --> 01:07:13,080
Speaker 3: stuff like a concentration camp would be.

1563
01:07:13,080 --> 01:07:14,520
Speaker 4: One of them. Yeah, we don't need to mix those

1564
01:07:14,520 --> 01:07:16,120
Speaker 4: two world. Yeah, we don't need to be like match,

1565
01:07:16,280 --> 01:07:18,640
Speaker 4: I mean, should wear like a more breathable material or like,

1566
01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:21,240
Speaker 4: come on, yeah, it was all better.

1567
01:07:21,560 --> 01:07:24,040
Speaker 6: It was dumb and she but but I don't think

1568
01:07:24,080 --> 01:07:27,240
Speaker 6: we're bettering anyone in this world by just you know,

1569
01:07:27,280 --> 01:07:27,840
Speaker 6: matching them.

1570
01:07:28,240 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 3: That's what we do when we disagree with somebody, or

1571
01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:32,000
Speaker 3: we're hurt or we're offended, we just we wish death

1572
01:07:32,080 --> 01:07:34,280
Speaker 3: upon them. That's what we and that solves all the problems.

1573
01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:37,560
Speaker 3: And when someone's wrong and you back them in a corner,

1574
01:07:37,880 --> 01:07:40,480
Speaker 3: it certainly doesn't make them any more aggressive. I think

1575
01:07:40,520 --> 01:07:42,720
Speaker 3: she kind of conceded, But I don't know why people

1576
01:07:42,720 --> 01:07:44,360
Speaker 3: don't realize that, Like, when you have a difference of

1577
01:07:44,360 --> 01:07:46,400
Speaker 3: opinion with somebody, if you first of all, you're probably

1578
01:07:46,400 --> 01:07:48,720
Speaker 3: never going to change their mind. You probably are never

1579
01:07:48,760 --> 01:07:50,920
Speaker 3: going to get someone with whom you have a fundamental

1580
01:07:50,920 --> 01:07:53,640
Speaker 3: disagreement to at the end of the conversation, especially if

1581
01:07:53,640 --> 01:07:55,400
Speaker 3: you're screaming at them, go you.

1582
01:07:55,360 --> 01:07:57,600
Speaker 4: Know what, You're right. I think you're onto something right,

1583
01:07:58,720 --> 01:08:00,600
Speaker 4: So I agree with you. Let's try to teach people.

1584
01:08:00,680 --> 01:08:02,040
Speaker 3: That's what we do. We just take it to the

1585
01:08:02,040 --> 01:08:04,160
Speaker 3: extreme everything. But this was really.

1586
01:08:04,040 --> 01:08:06,800
Speaker 4: Dumb outfit deeps to a concentration count you guys.

1587
01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:09,880
Speaker 3: Is particularly triggering for a lot of people for obvious reasons.

1588
01:08:10,200 --> 01:08:12,320
Speaker 4: No, especially right now, Yes, and really quick.

1589
01:08:12,360 --> 01:08:14,640
Speaker 6: Post Malone and Luke Holmbs are set to drop a

1590
01:08:14,640 --> 01:08:16,280
Speaker 6: new collab on Friday called Guy.

1591
01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:16,599
Speaker 10: For that.

1592
01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:18,919
Speaker 4: They posted a snippet It sounds amazing.

1593
01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:22,280
Speaker 6: Posty's country stuff does sound amazing, so and I know

1594
01:08:22,360 --> 01:08:24,800
Speaker 6: Luke is your guy, so we will be patiently waiting.

1595
01:08:24,840 --> 01:08:26,479
Speaker 6: We can listen to it when we are on a

1596
01:08:26,479 --> 01:08:31,640
Speaker 6: little vacation this weekend. If we're gonna have fun, damn it.

1597
01:08:31,880 --> 01:08:33,719
Speaker 6: If you want to catch up with the show on Instagram,

1598
01:08:33,760 --> 01:08:35,960
Speaker 6: you can Fred Show Radio and The Fred Show TikTok.

1599
01:08:36,840 --> 01:08:39,120
Speaker 3: But people are texting. It doesn't really matter where I

1600
01:08:39,160 --> 01:08:41,320
Speaker 3: take you, guys. I think people are more interested to

1601
01:08:41,360 --> 01:08:44,880
Speaker 3: see how a weekend get away with this show away

1602
01:08:44,880 --> 01:08:47,920
Speaker 3: from home goes because you've never really done it. Like

1603
01:08:47,920 --> 01:08:49,599
Speaker 3: I said, we did go to Paulina's wedding.

1604
01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:52,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, but that was, like I mean, an occasion, this

1605
01:08:52,320 --> 01:08:52,719
Speaker 4: is fun.

1606
01:08:53,000 --> 01:08:56,360
Speaker 3: That was an occasion. It certainly was the occasion being

1607
01:08:56,720 --> 01:08:58,200
Speaker 3: you know, your beautiful wedding.

1608
01:08:58,000 --> 01:09:02,040
Speaker 7: Yeah, my marriage yeah yeah, the open matrimony. No, I'm

1609
01:09:02,080 --> 01:09:04,160
Speaker 7: saying this is gonna be like different, a different element

1610
01:09:04,280 --> 01:09:06,439
Speaker 7: for all you can drink now, I can drink now,

1611
01:09:06,600 --> 01:09:08,480
Speaker 7: I'll see the beautiful sights of Carbondale.

1612
01:09:08,760 --> 01:09:12,720
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, I mean it's fantastic, it really No. Lake

1613
01:09:12,800 --> 01:09:16,920
Speaker 3: of Egypt is where we're going to this fancier link

1614
01:09:16,960 --> 01:09:20,080
Speaker 3: of Egypt on a PJ. On a PJ it's an airline,

1615
01:09:20,080 --> 01:09:21,519
Speaker 3: then anyone can buy a ticket on. But it just

1616
01:09:21,640 --> 01:09:23,080
Speaker 3: happens we might be the only ones who bought the

1617
01:09:23,080 --> 01:09:25,559
Speaker 3: tickets on it, so it's private to us. If we're

1618
01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:27,519
Speaker 3: the only ones who bought tickets to go down there

1619
01:09:27,560 --> 01:09:31,599
Speaker 3: this particular weekend, then it's private to us. Right, Yeah,

1620
01:09:31,600 --> 01:09:33,720
Speaker 3: we're gonna play games. Oh fun fact they're letting me

1621
01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:35,680
Speaker 3: fly the plane too. I don't know if I talk

1622
01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:37,439
Speaker 3: to you all about that. Yeah, I get to fly.

1623
01:09:37,400 --> 01:09:41,000
Speaker 4: A plane long right, I think it's like four hours.

1624
01:09:44,760 --> 01:09:46,800
Speaker 4: It will be there three and a half hours before all.

1625
01:09:46,680 --> 01:09:49,719
Speaker 1: The even more Fread show next.

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01:09:52,800 --> 01:09:55,519
Speaker 4: Good morning, everybody, thanks for waking up with us. We're

1627
01:09:55,520 --> 01:09:57,360
Speaker 4: so glad you're here on the radio, on the iHeart

1628
01:09:57,360 --> 01:09:59,400
Speaker 4: app live or anytime search for a Freads show on

1629
01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:02,479
Speaker 4: demand show Beeve Shelley if you want to take her

1630
01:10:02,520 --> 01:10:04,360
Speaker 4: on in the show down. Five hundred bucks is the prize.

1631
01:10:04,360 --> 01:10:07,200
Speaker 3: We're playing right now eight five, five, five, nine, one

1632
01:10:07,760 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 3: three five her record nine fourteen and sixty five straight

1633
01:10:12,320 --> 01:10:14,439
Speaker 3: wins for show this. Shelley some ties in there too,

1634
01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:16,240
Speaker 3: but you could win that money if you can beat

1635
01:10:16,240 --> 01:10:19,639
Speaker 3: her in five pop culture questions. We'll play next. Hi, Caitlin, Hey,

1636
01:10:19,800 --> 01:10:20,960
Speaker 3: Jason Sire? Who for y'all?

1637
01:10:20,960 --> 01:10:21,160
Speaker 15: Hello?

1638
01:10:21,200 --> 01:10:24,680
Speaker 3: Hello, Paul good morning? Uh waiting by the phone from

1639
01:10:24,680 --> 01:10:26,519
Speaker 3: the vault. We'll get to that in just a second.

1640
01:10:26,520 --> 01:10:28,640
Speaker 3: Why did somebody get ghost to trending stories? This is

1641
01:10:28,680 --> 01:10:32,360
Speaker 3: our headlines that start your Tuesday. Fun fact is coming

1642
01:10:32,439 --> 01:10:34,600
Speaker 3: up today as well, and the entertainment reports in there.

1643
01:10:34,640 --> 01:10:35,360
Speaker 4: See what are you working on?

1644
01:10:35,439 --> 01:10:37,920
Speaker 6: K Well, we were talking about horses off the air,

1645
01:10:38,120 --> 01:10:40,680
Speaker 6: and speaking of horses, did you guys see what King

1646
01:10:40,760 --> 01:10:43,439
Speaker 6: Charles Horst did to someone posting for a photo?

1647
01:10:43,640 --> 01:10:46,599
Speaker 4: No? No, right, I'll tell you no. Did you see it?

1648
01:10:46,840 --> 01:10:46,960
Speaker 15: All?

1649
01:10:47,040 --> 01:10:47,200
Speaker 9: Right?

1650
01:10:47,280 --> 01:10:47,479
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1651
01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:52,000
Speaker 3: So during the break, Paulina asked me I did. She says, hey,

1652
01:10:52,040 --> 01:10:55,240
Speaker 3: do you know where Sierra Vista, Arizona is? Because I'm

1653
01:10:55,240 --> 01:10:58,720
Speaker 3: from Arizona. I said, I know where Sierra Vista is?

1654
01:10:59,200 --> 01:11:01,040
Speaker 3: And then you looking at it on a map, it's

1655
01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:02,200
Speaker 3: your Bisbee Arizona.

1656
01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:02,720
Speaker 4: Where that is?

1657
01:11:03,040 --> 01:11:06,240
Speaker 3: Sure home stadium, and she said, can you take me

1658
01:11:06,280 --> 01:11:10,880
Speaker 3: there so I can adopt a horse. Now, this is

1659
01:11:10,920 --> 01:11:13,200
Speaker 3: a woman who just made a human, Yes I did,

1660
01:11:14,000 --> 01:11:17,200
Speaker 3: and it has two dogs. Why that she rehomed to

1661
01:11:17,280 --> 01:11:19,680
Speaker 3: her mother, who her mother then re home to someone else.

1662
01:11:19,760 --> 01:11:22,400
Speaker 4: Yes, the family friend, very nice home everything. So she

1663
01:11:22,400 --> 01:11:23,400
Speaker 4: loves better than all of us.

1664
01:11:23,560 --> 01:11:26,479
Speaker 3: But we probably don't need anything.

1665
01:11:26,479 --> 01:11:29,000
Speaker 4: I think we're good. We think we're done. Yeah, we've

1666
01:11:29,000 --> 01:11:29,559
Speaker 4: had a lot.

1667
01:11:29,439 --> 01:11:32,000
Speaker 3: Of evolutions of Paulina over the years, you know, a

1668
01:11:32,000 --> 01:11:33,559
Speaker 3: lot of evolutions, a lot.

1669
01:11:33,960 --> 01:11:35,040
Speaker 4: This is what we can skip.

1670
01:11:35,479 --> 01:11:37,479
Speaker 3: I think we should probably, I think we should focus

1671
01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:40,439
Speaker 3: on raising the human. I don't know that we need

1672
01:11:40,479 --> 01:11:42,240
Speaker 3: to add horse to the yet.

1673
01:11:42,360 --> 01:11:44,240
Speaker 7: Okay, well, I want to get it more so from

1674
01:11:44,240 --> 01:11:46,439
Speaker 7: my mom because I feel like it's a piece of

1675
01:11:46,520 --> 01:11:49,120
Speaker 7: home for her that she never got to experience here

1676
01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:49,719
Speaker 7: in America.

1677
01:11:49,960 --> 01:11:52,120
Speaker 4: Do you know what I mean? Well, maybe she should

1678
01:11:52,120 --> 01:11:53,840
Speaker 4: pick her own horse. Then she could pick her own horse.

1679
01:11:54,120 --> 01:11:56,040
Speaker 7: Well, she'll probably tell me no for all of this,

1680
01:11:56,360 --> 01:11:58,320
Speaker 7: all of this does not sound appeelings to her. Okay,

1681
01:11:58,360 --> 01:12:00,559
Speaker 7: she didn't want a horse, No, I think she that

1682
01:12:00,600 --> 01:12:02,879
Speaker 7: life so she could notes.

1683
01:12:02,960 --> 01:12:04,400
Speaker 3: There are a lot of different things you can do

1684
01:12:04,439 --> 01:12:07,120
Speaker 3: that are sweet for people, but just because they're sweet

1685
01:12:07,160 --> 01:12:09,719
Speaker 3: as a gesture doesn't mean you're actually doing something nice.

1686
01:12:09,880 --> 01:12:12,679
Speaker 3: Giving someone a horse who doesn't want a horse strikes

1687
01:12:12,720 --> 01:12:15,920
Speaker 3: me is not nice actually, Like the sentiment is sweet,

1688
01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:19,679
Speaker 3: Like if you gave me a horse because you thought

1689
01:12:19,720 --> 01:12:21,600
Speaker 3: I would like a horse, huh, I would say that

1690
01:12:21,720 --> 01:12:23,599
Speaker 3: was very sweet that you were thinking of me. But

1691
01:12:23,640 --> 01:12:27,800
Speaker 3: now I own a seven hundred pound animal and needs

1692
01:12:27,880 --> 01:12:31,240
Speaker 3: to live somewhere and then like healthcare, So basically, you

1693
01:12:31,320 --> 01:12:34,680
Speaker 3: just gave me a human. You just gave me a

1694
01:12:34,960 --> 01:12:37,320
Speaker 3: large living creature.

1695
01:12:37,640 --> 01:12:39,800
Speaker 7: Yes, she's used to horses, though this is gonna be

1696
01:12:39,800 --> 01:12:41,720
Speaker 7: like her first rodeo shown up with them.

1697
01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:44,360
Speaker 4: She doesn't want one. Well we don't know that.

1698
01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:46,800
Speaker 7: Maybe we should ask her and then well, then Jason

1699
01:12:46,840 --> 01:12:48,439
Speaker 7: set up, I can put it in his backyard.

1700
01:12:48,640 --> 01:12:53,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's stables, give it. Hey mm hmm, you don't

1701
01:12:53,200 --> 01:12:56,519
Speaker 4: so it kind of works maybe or not.

1702
01:12:57,120 --> 01:13:00,160
Speaker 1: You have what it takes to battle show biz, Shelley, and.

1703
01:13:01,000 --> 01:13:03,559
Speaker 4: You're an extremely sweet, talkful person, but let's skip the

1704
01:13:03,640 --> 01:13:05,200
Speaker 4: whole horse step. Just skip that.

1705
01:13:05,360 --> 01:13:06,920
Speaker 3: And this is like, well, will you fly me down there?

1706
01:13:06,920 --> 01:13:08,080
Speaker 3: And then can we get the horse? I'm like, I

1707
01:13:08,120 --> 01:13:10,360
Speaker 3: don't know. I know, I don't know how you're going

1708
01:13:10,400 --> 01:13:11,559
Speaker 3: to get said horse, but I really do.

1709
01:13:11,680 --> 01:13:13,360
Speaker 4: I can't help you. Yeah, I got to figure out

1710
01:13:13,360 --> 01:13:15,960
Speaker 4: logistics first. I don't fly a seven forty seven. Like.

1711
01:13:15,960 --> 01:13:19,280
Speaker 3: This is not a cargo operation. We're not loading Kail's

1712
01:13:19,280 --> 01:13:21,000
Speaker 3: been on air, Fred, We're not loading a horse.

1713
01:13:20,840 --> 01:13:22,280
Speaker 4: Up on that thing. I mean, I'll sit in the

1714
01:13:22,280 --> 01:13:23,280
Speaker 4: back with it like I always do.

1715
01:13:23,400 --> 01:13:25,439
Speaker 3: We've almost had a horse on there, a two hundred

1716
01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:27,680
Speaker 3: pounds master up. But that's not Oh yeah, I mean

1717
01:13:27,680 --> 01:13:31,720
Speaker 3: as a small, small pony. Oh yeah, but you mean

1718
01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:32,559
Speaker 3: yeah he did.

1719
01:13:33,160 --> 01:13:37,240
Speaker 8: He did start there some equestrian lessons or something like that.

1720
01:13:37,560 --> 01:13:39,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, how about we rent a horse? Yeah?

1721
01:13:39,439 --> 01:13:41,760
Speaker 3: How about we lease a horse? How about we just

1722
01:13:41,960 --> 01:13:44,040
Speaker 3: use a horse by the hour? How about that? Okay,

1723
01:13:44,320 --> 01:13:47,040
Speaker 3: I think it's a great place to start. Yeah, we'll see.

1724
01:13:48,640 --> 01:13:51,200
Speaker 3: We'll see about the renting part, but it starts adopting

1725
01:13:51,240 --> 01:13:51,920
Speaker 3: and acquiring.

1726
01:13:52,000 --> 01:13:54,040
Speaker 4: No, that's done. What we're doing that? Hey, Lex?

1727
01:13:54,080 --> 01:14:00,400
Speaker 3: How you don't by the way, Alex hilex you doing?

1728
01:14:02,520 --> 01:14:02,680
Speaker 18: Hey?

1729
01:14:02,760 --> 01:14:04,640
Speaker 4: Lex? I know we just met, but I took the

1730
01:14:04,680 --> 01:14:05,840
Speaker 4: liberty of getting you a horse.

1731
01:14:08,000 --> 01:14:08,880
Speaker 14: Where do I pick it up?

1732
01:14:09,120 --> 01:14:10,680
Speaker 3: What do you think are you excited. I mean, it's

1733
01:14:10,680 --> 01:14:11,800
Speaker 3: a really thoughtful gift I.

1734
01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:12,080
Speaker 4: Got for you.

1735
01:14:13,000 --> 01:14:14,120
Speaker 14: Yeah, where do I pick it up?

1736
01:14:14,160 --> 01:14:17,960
Speaker 4: Said? Is Sierra Visa, Arizona, actually, which is a short

1737
01:14:17,960 --> 01:14:19,080
Speaker 4: fourteen hundred miles from me.

1738
01:14:19,640 --> 01:14:21,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's in the air by the way. Driving

1739
01:14:21,520 --> 01:14:24,680
Speaker 3: it will take way longer. You'll need a trailer and

1740
01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:29,040
Speaker 3: a stable man. Hey, and attack, You'll need a You'll

1741
01:14:29,040 --> 01:14:31,759
Speaker 3: need basically an a vet.

1742
01:14:31,800 --> 01:14:33,280
Speaker 4: You'll need a lot of stuff. But anyway, I got

1743
01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:35,280
Speaker 4: you a horse. Look at her name is Dandy Lyon.

1744
01:14:35,800 --> 01:14:40,400
Speaker 18: Oh that is a that's a full ass horse. That's

1745
01:14:40,400 --> 01:14:43,000
Speaker 18: a full ass of horse. Oh God, that is not

1746
01:14:43,160 --> 01:14:47,439
Speaker 18: a racehorse. Lex, Lex, I can't, I can't.

1747
01:14:48,760 --> 01:14:49,000
Speaker 4: Lex.

1748
01:14:49,080 --> 01:14:51,040
Speaker 3: I am a ring leader of a circus, is what

1749
01:14:51,080 --> 01:14:54,160
Speaker 3: I am. There's no doubt about it. Tell us about

1750
01:14:54,200 --> 01:14:57,439
Speaker 3: you though, Oh, I said.

1751
01:14:57,240 --> 01:14:59,280
Speaker 15: I'm a mom with you now, I'm a stay at

1752
01:14:59,280 --> 01:15:01,599
Speaker 15: home mom. Oh, and I listen to you guys every

1753
01:15:01,600 --> 01:15:02,040
Speaker 15: single days.

1754
01:15:02,080 --> 01:15:02,919
Speaker 14: I'm super excited.

1755
01:15:03,160 --> 01:15:06,040
Speaker 3: Well, thank you, thank you. Now, I guess you what

1756
01:15:06,080 --> 01:15:07,479
Speaker 3: do you do? What's putting on in the background? There

1757
01:15:07,640 --> 01:15:08,759
Speaker 3: are you buying lottery tickets?

1758
01:15:08,760 --> 01:15:09,800
Speaker 4: What are you doing? What's going on?

1759
01:15:11,439 --> 01:15:13,040
Speaker 14: No, I'm in my car getting ready to go back

1760
01:15:13,040 --> 01:15:13,799
Speaker 14: to school shopping.

1761
01:15:13,960 --> 01:15:16,599
Speaker 4: Oh okay, good, all right, it's that time again.

1762
01:15:16,800 --> 01:15:19,639
Speaker 3: Thank you for listening every day all the time, even

1763
01:15:19,640 --> 01:15:21,320
Speaker 3: when maybe you're not driving the kids to school and

1764
01:15:21,320 --> 01:15:23,280
Speaker 3: stuff like that, because I gotta be honest with you.

1765
01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:25,040
Speaker 3: We had a few people who must have been driving

1766
01:15:25,080 --> 01:15:27,360
Speaker 3: kids to school and then they stopped. And now the

1767
01:15:27,400 --> 01:15:29,360
Speaker 3: managers here think we're a bunch of idiots and like

1768
01:15:29,439 --> 01:15:31,679
Speaker 3: we're you know, in tenth place or something, and we're dumb,

1769
01:15:31,720 --> 01:15:33,599
Speaker 3: and now we're doing all these stupid meetings and they

1770
01:15:33,640 --> 01:15:35,600
Speaker 3: have no faith in us, which is just basically that

1771
01:15:36,160 --> 01:15:37,720
Speaker 3: this is out. This is what they do around here,

1772
01:15:37,840 --> 01:15:41,559
Speaker 3: just total freaking out. It's total freak out mode, a

1773
01:15:41,560 --> 01:15:43,760
Speaker 3: bunch of idiots. And then like in two weeks we're

1774
01:15:43,760 --> 01:15:46,519
Speaker 3: going to be back number one again. And like but

1775
01:15:46,600 --> 01:15:49,240
Speaker 3: because of you though, because you're still there, that's why,

1776
01:15:49,320 --> 01:15:51,720
Speaker 3: because you haven't given up on us, you haven't taken

1777
01:15:51,760 --> 01:15:53,040
Speaker 3: a vacation from this show.

1778
01:15:53,439 --> 01:15:54,920
Speaker 4: But my god, these people they.

1779
01:15:54,800 --> 01:15:57,960
Speaker 3: Just run around like like they're with their heads on fire,

1780
01:15:58,040 --> 01:16:01,720
Speaker 3: like it's just it's just crazy. Like it's calm down, Lex,

1781
01:16:01,760 --> 01:16:03,160
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. Tell him to calm down.

1782
01:16:03,280 --> 01:16:05,000
Speaker 3: Tell my bosses to calm down, would you?

1783
01:16:06,640 --> 01:16:08,960
Speaker 14: I will calm down, guys. I'm one of the thirteen.

1784
01:16:09,360 --> 01:16:10,880
Speaker 4: Thank you, thank you.

1785
01:16:10,920 --> 01:16:13,160
Speaker 3: They're all going to come back eventually. I mean some

1786
01:16:13,200 --> 01:16:15,200
Speaker 3: of the they need a break. Okay, let them go

1787
01:16:15,280 --> 01:16:16,080
Speaker 3: to Sierra Vista.

1788
01:16:16,160 --> 01:16:18,720
Speaker 4: Look at a horse corse d Yeah, they're just yeah,

1789
01:16:18,760 --> 01:16:19,840
Speaker 4: they're just on a horse ride.

1790
01:16:19,880 --> 01:16:24,080
Speaker 3: It's fine. Jesus show Shelley, I swear man. All right,

1791
01:16:24,240 --> 01:16:26,120
Speaker 3: let's play the game, shall we. Five hundred bucks is

1792
01:16:26,160 --> 01:16:29,160
Speaker 3: the prize. Yeah, nine, fourteen and sixty Shelley's record five straight.

1793
01:16:29,200 --> 01:16:33,160
Speaker 3: Good luck guys. Okay, I think Shelley already left black

1794
01:16:33,240 --> 01:16:35,679
Speaker 3: here we go. I think she's not coming back. She's

1795
01:16:35,760 --> 01:16:39,040
Speaker 3: riding a horse. She's gone. Hobby's going to come home

1796
01:16:39,080 --> 01:16:41,639
Speaker 3: to a whole damn farm. Somebody texted, yeah he is.

1797
01:16:41,800 --> 01:16:44,360
Speaker 3: He is like mother like daughter. He really is.

1798
01:16:44,640 --> 01:16:44,880
Speaker 4: Yes.

1799
01:16:45,000 --> 01:16:46,760
Speaker 3: It's like everything's a good idea and then you get

1800
01:16:46,760 --> 01:16:47,760
Speaker 3: it and then you're like, I don't know what to

1801
01:16:47,760 --> 01:16:48,080
Speaker 3: do with this.

1802
01:16:49,320 --> 01:16:51,320
Speaker 4: I just want the horse. We'll start there. Let's not

1803
01:16:51,920 --> 01:16:53,719
Speaker 4: big question number one? Lex you ready?

1804
01:16:55,120 --> 01:16:55,360
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1805
01:16:55,479 --> 01:16:59,479
Speaker 3: Bellahadied is reportedly preparing to sue this German athletic apparel

1806
01:16:59,560 --> 01:17:04,160
Speaker 3: brand after an ad she was featured in received backlash.

1807
01:17:05,080 --> 01:17:07,960
Speaker 3: Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitch' daughter took out a newspaper

1808
01:17:07,960 --> 01:17:10,320
Speaker 3: ad to announced she's dropping Pitt from her last name.

1809
01:17:10,479 --> 01:17:12,320
Speaker 4: What is her name? First name?

1810
01:17:14,960 --> 01:17:15,240
Speaker 10: Three?

1811
01:17:16,439 --> 01:17:26,240
Speaker 19: Two guys, Yeah, Lady Wilson recovered like pro after she

1812
01:17:26,400 --> 01:17:30,919
Speaker 19: split her pants at the Faster Horses music festival, No,

1813
01:17:30,920 --> 01:17:33,200
Speaker 19: No Horses over the weekend.

1814
01:17:33,240 --> 01:17:38,120
Speaker 4: Which popular Western TV drama is Laney in Yellowstone?

1815
01:17:38,360 --> 01:17:40,720
Speaker 3: Lebron James was selected as Team USA's flag bearer for

1816
01:17:40,760 --> 01:17:42,080
Speaker 3: the twenty twenty four Olympics.

1817
01:17:42,280 --> 01:17:44,479
Speaker 4: Where are the Summer Olympics being held?

1818
01:17:46,280 --> 01:17:48,800
Speaker 3: And which actor known for playing Harry Potter celebrates his

1819
01:17:48,840 --> 01:17:52,160
Speaker 3: thirty fifth birthday today?

1820
01:17:53,120 --> 01:17:59,080
Speaker 4: Three? Oh, come on? Two one Daniel Radlush. I don't

1821
01:17:59,080 --> 01:18:00,000
Speaker 4: think what do you think.

1822
01:18:01,800 --> 01:18:02,000
Speaker 18: It was?

1823
01:18:02,040 --> 01:18:05,160
Speaker 3: After the buzzer? Unfortunately that's a four. Though, that's a four.

1824
01:18:05,240 --> 01:18:08,080
Speaker 3: That's an excellent score. Let's see how this goes. We're

1825
01:18:08,120 --> 01:18:12,679
Speaker 3: bringing Shelley back four and nearly a five like so close?

1826
01:18:13,520 --> 01:18:14,160
Speaker 3: Are you ready?

1827
01:18:14,600 --> 01:18:14,880
Speaker 14: Yes?

1828
01:18:15,280 --> 01:18:18,639
Speaker 3: A Bella Hadid is reportedly preparing to sue this German

1829
01:18:18,720 --> 01:18:21,680
Speaker 3: athletic apparel brand after an ad she was featured in

1830
01:18:21,760 --> 01:18:25,840
Speaker 3: received backlash. Adidas, that's right, Angelina Julian brad Pitt's daughter

1831
01:18:25,920 --> 01:18:28,040
Speaker 3: took out a newspaper ad to announced she's dropping pit

1832
01:18:28,200 --> 01:18:29,040
Speaker 3: from her last name.

1833
01:18:29,240 --> 01:18:32,080
Speaker 4: What is her name? Shiloh?

1834
01:18:32,160 --> 01:18:34,479
Speaker 3: Lanny Wilson recovered like a pro after she split her

1835
01:18:34,520 --> 01:18:37,360
Speaker 3: pants at the Faster Horses music festival over the weekend.

1836
01:18:37,600 --> 01:18:40,000
Speaker 3: Which popular Western TV drama is Lanny in.

1837
01:18:43,320 --> 01:18:49,080
Speaker 4: Three? Two? I don't know one? How many popular Western

1838
01:18:49,160 --> 01:18:56,360
Speaker 4: TV drama? And then Paulina is going to buy a horse?

1839
01:18:58,920 --> 01:19:03,320
Speaker 4: You know what? That's a reality show that I was drama?

1840
01:19:03,560 --> 01:19:06,799
Speaker 4: It produced by me friend. Yeah, I'm got to country Western.

1841
01:19:07,160 --> 01:19:09,400
Speaker 4: Ryan Seacrest can sucket. I got a better idea. It's

1842
01:19:09,439 --> 01:19:15,800
Speaker 4: Paulina buys a horse on her Yeah, honestly, I'm going

1843
01:19:15,880 --> 01:19:18,439
Speaker 4: to invest in that project. I'm green lighting that project

1844
01:19:18,479 --> 01:19:18,760
Speaker 4: right now.

1845
01:19:18,800 --> 01:19:19,200
Speaker 1: There you go.

1846
01:19:20,000 --> 01:19:22,760
Speaker 3: Lebron James was selected as Team USA's flag bearer for

1847
01:19:22,800 --> 01:19:25,200
Speaker 3: the twenty twenty four Olympics. Where are the Summer Olympics

1848
01:19:25,200 --> 01:19:27,840
Speaker 3: being held Paris? And which actor you're known for playing?

1849
01:19:27,880 --> 01:19:30,520
Speaker 3: Harry Potter celebrates his thirty fifth birthday.

1850
01:19:30,120 --> 01:19:32,280
Speaker 4: Today, Janiel Radcliffe, that's a four.

1851
01:19:32,360 --> 01:19:37,320
Speaker 3: That's a time and Lex you gotta come back tomorrow, okay, okay,

1852
01:19:37,360 --> 01:19:39,240
Speaker 3: so good and you may have earned yourself some extra

1853
01:19:39,320 --> 01:19:41,920
Speaker 3: money to five fifty to prize tomorrow. So stay right there,

1854
01:19:42,080 --> 01:19:45,800
Speaker 3: have an amazing day. Don't buy a horse, you stay

1855
01:19:45,880 --> 01:19:47,920
Speaker 3: right there. She's got one that's a Ford she's driving

1856
01:19:48,200 --> 01:19:49,160
Speaker 3: because I know that noise?

1857
01:19:49,479 --> 01:19:50,080
Speaker 4: Is that what that is?

1858
01:19:50,160 --> 01:19:50,360
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1859
01:19:50,439 --> 01:19:51,080
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1860
01:19:51,160 --> 01:19:54,880
Speaker 3: Maybe a Mustanger, say yeah, that's the only horse you need,

1861
01:19:54,920 --> 01:19:57,800
Speaker 3: Paulina is maybe a nice moustay and not the electric one.

1862
01:19:59,240 --> 01:20:01,679
Speaker 3: That's another one. Then we've done that week. How many

1863
01:20:01,720 --> 01:20:07,080
Speaker 3: phases have we been through? Electric car? Harley Davidson Farmer's

1864
01:20:07,160 --> 01:20:11,800
Speaker 3: only dog owner? Horse owner? Mom?

1865
01:20:12,760 --> 01:20:14,840
Speaker 4: Why? I mean, let's there's a few. What's not trade

1866
01:20:14,840 --> 01:20:15,280
Speaker 4: in on those?

1867
01:20:15,439 --> 01:20:15,639
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1868
01:20:15,800 --> 01:20:20,280
Speaker 4: I am, I'm everything to everyone, that's right? Something like that? Yeah,

1869
01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:21,479
Speaker 4: all right?

1870
01:20:21,560 --> 01:20:24,479
Speaker 3: Waiting by the phone from the vault. He's two minutes

1871
01:20:24,479 --> 01:20:26,120
Speaker 3: away after metro boom and Fred shows up.

1872
01:20:28,800 --> 01:20:32,720
Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the

1873
01:20:32,840 --> 01:20:33,400
Speaker 1: Fred Show.

1874
01:20:33,560 --> 01:20:37,679
Speaker 3: Hey, Leslie, good morning, Hi, good morning, welcome to the program.

1875
01:20:37,720 --> 01:20:39,960
Speaker 3: Here we are doing waiting by the phone with you,

1876
01:20:40,120 --> 01:20:41,840
Speaker 3: miss Leslie. What's going on with this guy?

1877
01:20:41,880 --> 01:20:42,160
Speaker 4: Tim?

1878
01:20:42,439 --> 01:20:44,519
Speaker 3: We got to know the background, how you met, about

1879
01:20:44,520 --> 01:20:46,800
Speaker 3: any dates that you've been on, and then you know

1880
01:20:46,880 --> 01:20:47,519
Speaker 3: kind of what's.

1881
01:20:47,320 --> 01:20:49,800
Speaker 15: Going on now, Yeah, I mean I wish I knew

1882
01:20:49,840 --> 01:20:53,160
Speaker 15: what was going on. Well, we met on we met

1883
01:20:53,200 --> 01:20:55,120
Speaker 15: on one of the apps, you know, the usual that's

1884
01:20:55,120 --> 01:20:56,080
Speaker 15: how you meet people.

1885
01:20:55,840 --> 01:20:58,559
Speaker 4: Nowadays, and that's right here he went.

1886
01:20:58,960 --> 01:21:03,880
Speaker 15: Right, Yeah. We went to two really nice dinners. I mean,

1887
01:21:03,920 --> 01:21:06,840
Speaker 15: I thought he was very handsome and nice, and I

1888
01:21:06,920 --> 01:21:09,479
Speaker 15: was really excited for our third date because I feel

1889
01:21:09,479 --> 01:21:11,880
Speaker 15: like the third date you really get to know the

1890
01:21:11,920 --> 01:21:15,160
Speaker 15: other person. You know, you're still showing off, but it's

1891
01:21:15,200 --> 01:21:18,040
Speaker 15: not like it's a little bit more in depth.

1892
01:21:18,200 --> 01:21:20,200
Speaker 3: I guess, Well, for some people, the third date is

1893
01:21:20,280 --> 01:21:22,360
Speaker 3: like the boom boom date. You know, for some people

1894
01:21:22,600 --> 01:21:24,040
Speaker 3: they look at it that way.

1895
01:21:24,120 --> 01:21:26,439
Speaker 15: Well maybe you know, I guess it depends that the

1896
01:21:26,520 --> 01:21:27,439
Speaker 15: night takes you that way.

1897
01:21:27,479 --> 01:21:29,120
Speaker 16: But I'm definitely not.

1898
01:21:29,080 --> 01:21:32,000
Speaker 15: Opposed to it. But anyway, so that never gave through,

1899
01:21:32,280 --> 01:21:37,520
Speaker 15: So never had a third date. Unfortunately, he just stopped

1900
01:21:38,080 --> 01:21:41,120
Speaker 15: reaching out after our second date, and I have no

1901
01:21:41,240 --> 01:21:41,960
Speaker 15: idea why.

1902
01:21:42,320 --> 01:21:45,080
Speaker 3: Okay, so you look back on these dates, you thought

1903
01:21:45,120 --> 01:21:47,080
Speaker 3: everything was normal, you had a great time, you liked

1904
01:21:47,120 --> 01:21:50,559
Speaker 3: this guy, you were certain there would be a third date,

1905
01:21:50,720 --> 01:21:53,360
Speaker 3: and then and now nothing. Have you reached out to

1906
01:21:53,439 --> 01:21:55,360
Speaker 3: him or were you like, look, this guy's got to

1907
01:21:55,400 --> 01:21:57,160
Speaker 3: call me, he's got to text me and ask me out.

1908
01:21:57,320 --> 01:21:59,840
Speaker 15: No, I did reach out. I texted. I didn't call it,

1909
01:21:59,840 --> 01:22:02,760
Speaker 15: but I texted and I was like, hey, haven't heard

1910
01:22:02,760 --> 01:22:05,479
Speaker 15: from you. I was wondering if you want to go

1911
01:22:05,520 --> 01:22:06,960
Speaker 15: on a on another date?

1912
01:22:07,000 --> 01:22:08,599
Speaker 4: And I never heard anything and nothing.

1913
01:22:08,600 --> 01:22:11,080
Speaker 3: He ghosted you there, Okay, all right, so definitely ghosting.

1914
01:22:11,200 --> 01:22:13,920
Speaker 4: So yeah, I don't know. This possible, something's going on.

1915
01:22:13,960 --> 01:22:14,439
Speaker 4: Who knows?

1916
01:22:14,479 --> 01:22:16,599
Speaker 3: Things are weird these days. Let's call this guy out,

1917
01:22:16,960 --> 01:22:22,920
Speaker 3: is it Big Tim? Let's call Tim. Well, you don't know.

1918
01:22:23,320 --> 01:22:25,160
Speaker 3: If you don't know, you don't know, but we're gonna go.

1919
01:22:25,479 --> 01:22:26,240
Speaker 3: We're gonna call Tim.

1920
01:22:26,280 --> 01:22:27,320
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, let's make this call.

1921
01:22:27,479 --> 01:22:30,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're gonna see if we're gonna see his kiky's boyfriend,

1922
01:22:30,479 --> 01:22:34,639
Speaker 3: Big Tim. That would explain everything. But how unlucky would

1923
01:22:34,640 --> 01:22:34,840
Speaker 3: that be?

1924
01:22:34,960 --> 01:22:36,639
Speaker 4: Man's single? Single?

1925
01:22:37,240 --> 01:22:40,639
Speaker 10: He is but not he be not be answering his son.

1926
01:22:42,920 --> 01:22:46,280
Speaker 4: We'll see and we'll ask some questions.

1927
01:22:46,960 --> 01:22:49,960
Speaker 3: A little spicy in that response, and uh, and let's

1928
01:22:49,960 --> 01:22:51,280
Speaker 3: see we can figure out what's up and hopefully we

1929
01:22:51,320 --> 01:22:52,880
Speaker 3: can set you guys up on another date that we

1930
01:22:52,920 --> 01:22:55,880
Speaker 3: pay for. Okay, thank you, We're gonna find out what's

1931
01:22:55,920 --> 01:22:57,640
Speaker 3: going on. Part two of waiting at the phone you

1932
01:22:57,640 --> 01:22:59,479
Speaker 3: don't want to miss. It's two minutes away after a

1933
01:22:59,520 --> 01:23:09,240
Speaker 3: hose yere Red shows on the French Show is on,

1934
01:23:09,280 --> 01:23:11,400
Speaker 3: by the way, Hoshier at our. iHeart radio Music Festival

1935
01:23:11,400 --> 01:23:15,920
Speaker 3: free trips if you listen to us long and hard. Hey, Leslie, Hi,

1936
01:23:16,280 --> 01:23:19,080
Speaker 3: welcome back. Let's call Tim. You guys met on a

1937
01:23:19,160 --> 01:23:21,000
Speaker 3: dating app. You went on two dates. You thought the

1938
01:23:21,080 --> 01:23:24,040
Speaker 3: days went great. You're right there, Oka, you make some

1939
01:23:24,080 --> 01:23:24,600
Speaker 3: noises about you.

1940
01:23:25,080 --> 01:23:27,599
Speaker 15: I'm just like, I'm nervous. I'm nervous because I don't

1941
01:23:27,840 --> 01:23:29,240
Speaker 15: I genuinely have no idea.

1942
01:23:30,120 --> 01:23:33,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm filling the people in here in case

1943
01:23:33,040 --> 01:23:34,519
Speaker 3: they missed it. But like you went on two days,

1944
01:23:34,560 --> 01:23:36,920
Speaker 3: you thought there'd be a third. You reached out. He's

1945
01:23:36,960 --> 01:23:40,280
Speaker 3: not responding, definitely ghosted. You want to know why? Yeah,

1946
01:23:40,360 --> 01:23:43,280
Speaker 3: all right, let's call him now. Good luck, Leslie, good luck?

1947
01:23:50,840 --> 01:23:50,920
Speaker 9: Hi?

1948
01:23:51,080 --> 01:23:56,160
Speaker 4: Is this Tim? Hey? Tim?

1949
01:23:58,920 --> 01:24:00,920
Speaker 3: I'm sorry to bother you. She's like, why does this

1950
01:24:01,200 --> 01:24:03,599
Speaker 3: people call living at me till my name is Fred.

1951
01:24:03,600 --> 01:24:05,120
Speaker 3: I'm calling for the Fred Show and I'm sorry to

1952
01:24:05,160 --> 01:24:06,280
Speaker 3: bother it, but I have to tell you that we

1953
01:24:06,320 --> 01:24:08,280
Speaker 3: are on the radio right now, and I would need

1954
01:24:08,320 --> 01:24:10,120
Speaker 3: your permission to continue with the calls that Okay, if

1955
01:24:10,120 --> 01:24:10,880
Speaker 3: we talk for a little bit.

1956
01:24:12,280 --> 01:24:14,960
Speaker 4: Okay, I know it's a little.

1957
01:24:14,800 --> 01:24:17,599
Speaker 3: Bit strange, but we're calling on behalf of a woman

1958
01:24:17,800 --> 01:24:19,320
Speaker 3: who meant you on a dating app. I guess you

1959
01:24:19,320 --> 01:24:21,160
Speaker 3: guys went on a couple of dates. Her name is Leslie.

1960
01:24:22,880 --> 01:24:27,200
Speaker 3: Uh yeah, okay, Well, Leslie reached out to us and

1961
01:24:27,439 --> 01:24:29,800
Speaker 3: told us that she enjoyed meeting you and felt like

1962
01:24:29,840 --> 01:24:32,479
Speaker 3: the dates that you went on went well, and she

1963
01:24:32,560 --> 01:24:35,320
Speaker 3: was hoping to see you again, but says that you

1964
01:24:35,360 --> 01:24:38,479
Speaker 3: haven't responded to her or called her or initiated a

1965
01:24:38,479 --> 01:24:40,559
Speaker 3: third date, and she's kind of wondering why you're ghosting.

1966
01:24:41,800 --> 01:24:45,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just didn't really think it was a match.

1967
01:24:45,920 --> 01:24:48,240
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, you did go on two dates, so and

1968
01:24:48,520 --> 01:24:51,320
Speaker 3: she felt differently, So why why do you feel that way?

1969
01:24:52,400 --> 01:24:54,799
Speaker 17: I mean, it's just, you know, one of those those things,

1970
01:24:54,880 --> 01:24:55,120
Speaker 17: you know.

1971
01:24:55,479 --> 01:24:57,960
Speaker 15: He's just like, you know, I mean.

1972
01:24:57,960 --> 01:25:01,240
Speaker 3: I don't know nothing, I don't So I mean, would

1973
01:25:01,280 --> 01:25:03,080
Speaker 3: you mind like sort of indulging us here with a

1974
01:25:03,080 --> 01:25:06,120
Speaker 3: little bit like why do you think that's the case,

1975
01:25:06,120 --> 01:25:07,960
Speaker 3: because we're just going to tell her and then she'll

1976
01:25:08,040 --> 01:25:09,800
Speaker 3: understand why, but or maybe she won't, but at least

1977
01:25:09,840 --> 01:25:11,800
Speaker 3: she'll have answers why why wasn't it a match?

1978
01:25:12,720 --> 01:25:14,920
Speaker 4: All right? I mean if you guys really want to know,

1979
01:25:15,479 --> 01:25:16,360
Speaker 4: we really want to know.

1980
01:25:18,240 --> 01:25:23,280
Speaker 1: Honestly, she was just like like way dressed, like way

1981
01:25:23,320 --> 01:25:25,799
Speaker 1: too sexy on all these dates.

1982
01:25:26,040 --> 01:25:29,920
Speaker 3: Like I'm personally complaining about that. Yeah, I'm always telling

1983
01:25:29,920 --> 01:25:31,640
Speaker 3: the people, like what is the deal? Why are we

1984
01:25:31,680 --> 01:25:36,599
Speaker 3: not wearing tracksuits on dates? So what I'm always saying

1985
01:25:36,640 --> 01:25:38,200
Speaker 3: this to the people. What what?

1986
01:25:38,000 --> 01:25:38,040
Speaker 15: What?

1987
01:25:38,200 --> 01:25:40,799
Speaker 4: What was she wearing that was too sexy? Like please explain?

1988
01:25:41,439 --> 01:25:43,640
Speaker 4: I mean like the first date or boobe were just

1989
01:25:43,680 --> 01:25:46,920
Speaker 4: like all out and second or ass was like literally

1990
01:25:47,160 --> 01:25:49,639
Speaker 4: in a god dress, Like.

1991
01:25:51,200 --> 01:25:54,000
Speaker 3: She sounds terrible. Don't go out with her again, go

1992
01:25:54,040 --> 01:25:58,400
Speaker 3: out with her because she's going out with me. But anyway, okay,

1993
01:25:58,400 --> 01:26:00,880
Speaker 3: so so so too much skin. You thought the outfit

1994
01:26:01,000 --> 01:26:03,599
Speaker 3: was a little a little too risque for your taste.

1995
01:26:04,320 --> 01:26:08,519
Speaker 4: It's like everybody's staring, so it's like it's not you know,

1996
01:26:08,800 --> 01:26:12,240
Speaker 4: but not in like a you know, I don't know,

1997
01:26:12,360 --> 01:26:13,719
Speaker 4: I'm just not into that count.

1998
01:26:13,720 --> 01:26:15,519
Speaker 3: So you're a little bit more modest, and you felt

1999
01:26:15,560 --> 01:26:17,080
Speaker 3: like she was a little bit more out there a

2000
01:26:17,080 --> 01:26:18,439
Speaker 3: little flashier.

2001
01:26:19,760 --> 01:26:20,000
Speaker 15: Something.

2002
01:26:20,439 --> 01:26:23,800
Speaker 3: I'm Sorrylie, Leslie's here. I forgot to mention that I'm

2003
01:26:23,800 --> 01:26:25,920
Speaker 3: sorry about that. Tim I for some reason, it just

2004
01:26:25,920 --> 01:26:30,240
Speaker 3: slips my mind. Leslie don't. Yeah, yeah, please by all means, I.

2005
01:26:30,160 --> 01:26:32,920
Speaker 15: Just feel like I can wear whatever I want. So

2006
01:26:33,040 --> 01:26:37,200
Speaker 15: like I'm a little confused, Like we live in a

2007
01:26:37,240 --> 01:26:41,960
Speaker 15: society where that's like, actually, okay, so I'm just confused.

2008
01:26:42,080 --> 01:26:45,080
Speaker 4: I guess. No, I totally agree with you. You can

2009
01:26:45,200 --> 01:26:46,360
Speaker 4: absolutely where everyone.

2010
01:26:46,400 --> 01:26:47,920
Speaker 17: It's just not going to be with me.

2011
01:26:48,320 --> 01:26:50,639
Speaker 3: I mean that is true that he has a right

2012
01:26:50,680 --> 01:26:52,439
Speaker 3: as suppose to what he's attracted to or when he

2013
01:26:52,479 --> 01:26:55,559
Speaker 3: thinks is appropriate, and you don't have to align on that.

2014
01:26:55,680 --> 01:26:56,240
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't.

2015
01:26:56,840 --> 01:26:58,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think what you did was wrong. I

2016
01:26:58,920 --> 01:27:01,679
Speaker 3: don't necessarily think every man would feel the same way.

2017
01:27:01,960 --> 01:27:04,680
Speaker 3: I think some guys would be at that, and he's not.

2018
01:27:04,840 --> 01:27:08,479
Speaker 15: I guess I totally get that. But like, next time

2019
01:27:08,600 --> 01:27:10,680
Speaker 15: I reached out, it'd be one thing if I just

2020
01:27:10,760 --> 01:27:12,439
Speaker 15: let it go. But I've reached out to you. The

2021
01:27:12,600 --> 01:27:17,040
Speaker 15: least you could have done was respond with this, because

2022
01:27:17,080 --> 01:27:18,719
Speaker 15: like you just ghosted, and.

2023
01:27:18,640 --> 01:27:21,120
Speaker 4: We're adults, so you may not like the way I.

2024
01:27:21,120 --> 01:27:24,840
Speaker 15: Dress, but you can just respond and say I'm not interested,

2025
01:27:25,000 --> 01:27:28,080
Speaker 15: or even straight up say I don't like the way

2026
01:27:28,120 --> 01:27:28,519
Speaker 15: you dress.

2027
01:27:29,280 --> 01:27:32,720
Speaker 3: Therefore, Leslie, did he say to you I don't like

2028
01:27:32,760 --> 01:27:34,800
Speaker 3: the way you dress? What would that have resulted in

2029
01:27:35,280 --> 01:27:37,519
Speaker 3: you not going out again? And you're not changing? But

2030
01:27:37,560 --> 01:27:38,360
Speaker 3: you would have been mad?

2031
01:27:39,040 --> 01:27:42,000
Speaker 15: No, if he didn't ghost, if he just said, hey,

2032
01:27:42,120 --> 01:27:44,960
Speaker 15: I'm not interested, I would have been Okay.

2033
01:27:45,280 --> 01:27:46,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not going to fight it.

2034
01:27:46,320 --> 01:27:48,680
Speaker 15: I'm not going to try and convince someone to like

2035
01:27:48,760 --> 01:27:54,040
Speaker 15: me or find me attractive. But ghosting someone there's no closure, Like,

2036
01:27:54,200 --> 01:27:55,840
Speaker 15: I don't know how you If I don't know how

2037
01:27:55,880 --> 01:27:58,400
Speaker 15: you feel, why would I not continue to reach out

2038
01:27:58,400 --> 01:27:58,720
Speaker 15: to you.

2039
01:27:59,120 --> 01:28:00,640
Speaker 3: I mean, I know a lot of people about this,

2040
01:28:00,680 --> 01:28:02,120
Speaker 3: but like, I don't know, I would have a very

2041
01:28:02,120 --> 01:28:04,800
Speaker 3: difficult time reaching out to you and telling you I

2042
01:28:04,840 --> 01:28:06,720
Speaker 3: wasn't interested because of the way you dressed. Like I

2043
01:28:06,800 --> 01:28:08,599
Speaker 3: think I would probably reach out.

2044
01:28:08,479 --> 01:28:11,840
Speaker 15: To him, though, like I'm finally with the one, I'm

2045
01:28:11,840 --> 01:28:13,080
Speaker 15: not saying right to him.

2046
01:28:13,240 --> 01:28:14,680
Speaker 3: I just don't think it's for me to have to

2047
01:28:14,720 --> 01:28:16,680
Speaker 3: tell you. I don't think it's even appropriate for me

2048
01:28:16,760 --> 01:28:20,960
Speaker 3: to even project onto you how you should act. If

2049
01:28:21,000 --> 01:28:23,160
Speaker 3: it's not for me, it's just not for me, So

2050
01:28:23,200 --> 01:28:25,559
Speaker 3: I'm not defending him. Yes, in a perfect world war

2051
01:28:25,600 --> 01:28:27,920
Speaker 3: all grown ups and we communicate. But I don't know

2052
01:28:27,960 --> 01:28:30,439
Speaker 3: if the reason that I was uncomfortable going out with

2053
01:28:30,479 --> 01:28:33,400
Speaker 3: you again was because of your attire. I'm not sure

2054
01:28:33,439 --> 01:28:36,080
Speaker 3: if I have the balls to text you and say

2055
01:28:36,280 --> 01:28:38,439
Speaker 3: your attire turns me off, I think I would just

2056
01:28:38,479 --> 01:28:41,360
Speaker 3: fade away, because what's where's the win there? Your feelings

2057
01:28:41,400 --> 01:28:43,200
Speaker 3: are going to be heard, you're not going to change,

2058
01:28:43,200 --> 01:28:46,160
Speaker 3: and you shouldn't change, and we're still not going to go.

2059
01:28:46,320 --> 01:28:48,559
Speaker 15: He doesn't have to tell me why you're.

2060
01:28:50,560 --> 01:28:51,720
Speaker 4: Interesting. That's it.

2061
01:28:52,160 --> 01:28:55,000
Speaker 15: Yeah, you can generically say like, hey, I.

2062
01:28:54,960 --> 01:28:56,639
Speaker 4: Just don't work out, that's it.

2063
01:28:57,120 --> 01:28:59,679
Speaker 15: I'm not going to ask questions. I'm going to say, Okay,

2064
01:28:59,760 --> 01:29:02,400
Speaker 15: thank you for the response. I appreciate your candor.

2065
01:29:02,600 --> 01:29:04,760
Speaker 4: I have a hot take. I don't, Yeah, what's the

2066
01:29:04,760 --> 01:29:05,160
Speaker 4: hot takes?

2067
01:29:05,200 --> 01:29:06,640
Speaker 7: The hot take if someone once told me this and

2068
01:29:06,680 --> 01:29:09,559
Speaker 7: it's actually really true, Like no response is a response,

2069
01:29:09,680 --> 01:29:11,080
Speaker 7: so like getting ghosted.

2070
01:29:10,840 --> 01:29:13,400
Speaker 4: Like I've been ghosted. I hate it, but at least I.

2071
01:29:13,439 --> 01:29:15,439
Speaker 7: Know like where we stand, Like okay, no response is

2072
01:29:15,439 --> 01:29:17,080
Speaker 7: a response, like you have no interest in me?

2073
01:29:17,400 --> 01:29:17,679
Speaker 4: Done?

2074
01:29:17,720 --> 01:29:19,880
Speaker 7: Like that is a form of closure. Too, not a

2075
01:29:19,920 --> 01:29:22,280
Speaker 7: hot take, maybe just my own take. Yes, it's not great.

2076
01:29:22,360 --> 01:29:22,880
Speaker 7: I agree that.

2077
01:29:22,920 --> 01:29:24,760
Speaker 4: I would also say, I mean i've been ghosted.

2078
01:29:26,000 --> 01:29:30,439
Speaker 15: Like yeah, no response is a response if something negative occurred,

2079
01:29:31,080 --> 01:29:33,439
Speaker 15: But like, we had a good time. So I would

2080
01:29:33,520 --> 01:29:35,920
Speaker 15: hope that even if you don't like the way I dress,

2081
01:29:36,000 --> 01:29:39,080
Speaker 15: you have enough respect for me or for women in general,

2082
01:29:39,920 --> 01:29:43,000
Speaker 15: just to say, hey, I'm not interested, because when you don't,

2083
01:29:43,920 --> 01:29:45,320
Speaker 15: you don't have to like the way I dress. My

2084
01:29:45,320 --> 01:29:50,400
Speaker 15: shirts are score, my skirts are short, and my tops

2085
01:29:50,400 --> 01:29:52,599
Speaker 15: are low. But that's the way I dress. You don't

2086
01:29:52,600 --> 01:29:55,920
Speaker 15: have to like it, but you that doesn't mean that

2087
01:29:55,960 --> 01:29:58,640
Speaker 15: I'm not a human being with feelings.

2088
01:29:58,640 --> 01:30:00,559
Speaker 4: So you can just sayunderstood, I.

2089
01:30:00,560 --> 01:30:04,040
Speaker 15: Don't see this going anywhere, and I'll move on. I'm

2090
01:30:04,080 --> 01:30:07,400
Speaker 15: now I'm moved on because of this conversation. But we

2091
01:30:07,439 --> 01:30:10,040
Speaker 15: could have avoided this by you just sending a simple text.

2092
01:30:10,040 --> 01:30:10,400
Speaker 4: There you go.

2093
01:30:10,479 --> 01:30:11,920
Speaker 15: You didn't even have to get on the phone with me.

2094
01:30:12,040 --> 01:30:15,120
Speaker 4: All right, Well, there you have it, Tim, I mean,

2095
01:30:15,600 --> 01:30:20,120
Speaker 4: you know, I like he's so I think we got it. No,

2096
01:30:20,240 --> 01:30:23,840
Speaker 4: he's probably heard it. No, I And it's nice, Tim,

2097
01:30:23,960 --> 01:30:26,280
Speaker 4: it's good. So something to think about. And uh, yeah,

2098
01:30:26,280 --> 01:30:28,040
Speaker 4: I feel like there's a little after school special kind

2099
01:30:28,080 --> 01:30:30,160
Speaker 4: of kind of vibe going here. But Tim, something to

2100
01:30:30,200 --> 01:30:34,439
Speaker 4: think about and maybe we end this amicably, maybe right.

2101
01:30:34,680 --> 01:30:37,240
Speaker 15: Yeah, I know I'm fine, Like I don't. I'm not

2102
01:30:37,439 --> 01:30:38,280
Speaker 15: upset or anything.

2103
01:30:38,400 --> 01:30:42,280
Speaker 4: I I just wish I U Yeah, no, A good

2104
01:30:42,439 --> 01:30:45,599
Speaker 4: definitely for a woman who doesn't want any mystery.

2105
01:30:45,800 --> 01:30:46,920
Speaker 5: It's definitely no mystery.

2106
01:30:47,080 --> 01:30:49,600
Speaker 4: Which she looks like naked? Damn, you'll never know.

2107
01:30:49,680 --> 01:30:49,800
Speaker 7: Bro.

2108
01:30:49,960 --> 01:30:51,080
Speaker 15: Yeah, I look really good.

2109
01:30:51,120 --> 01:30:52,160
Speaker 4: I show up my Bobby.

2110
01:30:52,200 --> 01:30:53,000
Speaker 15: I'm young and I'm.

2111
01:30:52,920 --> 01:30:57,679
Speaker 4: Hard, you know, I don't know. I don't. I feel

2112
01:30:57,680 --> 01:30:58,640
Speaker 4: like I get it talking to you.

2113
01:31:00,160 --> 01:31:02,599
Speaker 15: For each other, because like I like the way I dress.

2114
01:31:03,000 --> 01:31:04,800
Speaker 4: Hey, I want to know. I want to know, Tim,

2115
01:31:04,840 --> 01:31:07,400
Speaker 4: what what what kind of woman you're looking for? Like

2116
01:31:07,560 --> 01:31:08,400
Speaker 4: drink like a.

2117
01:31:08,439 --> 01:31:10,439
Speaker 3: Nice mom jean an a turtleneck? I mean, what are we?

2118
01:31:10,520 --> 01:31:12,599
Speaker 3: What are we talking about here? Like a cheek goes unfit?

2119
01:31:12,720 --> 01:31:14,760
Speaker 4: Like what are we? And Taylor lost? What are we?

2120
01:31:14,840 --> 01:31:15,639
Speaker 4: What are we doing here?

2121
01:31:16,800 --> 01:31:19,040
Speaker 17: I don't need to go that far of the other extreme,

2122
01:31:19,160 --> 01:31:20,519
Speaker 17: just somewhere in the middle of the road.

2123
01:31:20,760 --> 01:31:23,439
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, hey, well look to each here's are

2124
01:31:23,479 --> 01:31:25,600
Speaker 3: her own guys. I'm sorry talking to work out, but

2125
01:31:25,600 --> 01:31:27,800
Speaker 3: thank you both for your time and for your transparency.

2126
01:31:27,840 --> 01:31:29,920
Speaker 4: I wish you both the best. You got it.

2127
01:31:29,960 --> 01:31:30,320
Speaker 12: Thank you.

2128
01:31:30,640 --> 01:31:33,839
Speaker 4: The Entertainer Report, trending stories, headlines to start your Tuesday

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Speaker 4: and fun fact all next Fread show back get two minutes.

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Speaker 1: Caitlin's Entertainer Report is on the Fread show.

2131
01:31:40,520 --> 01:31:43,479
Speaker 6: A female tourist in the UK is likely regretting one

2132
01:31:43,520 --> 01:31:45,720
Speaker 6: stop on our tour of London as she held a

2133
01:31:45,840 --> 01:31:48,519
Speaker 6: issue with one of King Charles guard horses.

2134
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Speaker 4: And you need to.

2135
01:31:49,600 --> 01:31:51,880
Speaker 6: Watch the video, but this woman barely has time to

2136
01:31:51,920 --> 01:31:54,559
Speaker 6: pose for a photo with the horse when it takes

2137
01:31:54,640 --> 01:31:57,160
Speaker 6: a big bite out of her arms. She runs away,

2138
01:31:57,240 --> 01:31:59,920
Speaker 6: starts screaming, falls to the ground. It's not funny, but

2139
01:32:00,080 --> 01:32:00,599
Speaker 6: it is funny.

2140
01:32:00,760 --> 01:32:02,360
Speaker 4: Is just the horse that Pauline is trying to adopt,

2141
01:32:02,640 --> 01:32:04,600
Speaker 4: hopefully not because.

2142
01:32:04,360 --> 01:32:07,080
Speaker 6: It took a big old chunk well, I mean a

2143
01:32:07,160 --> 01:32:10,120
Speaker 6: bite and it's tafe for showing now. While it sucks

2144
01:32:10,120 --> 01:32:12,120
Speaker 6: that she got hurt, she was warned about the risk

2145
01:32:12,160 --> 01:32:14,040
Speaker 6: of injury. Even in the video you can see a

2146
01:32:14,040 --> 01:32:17,040
Speaker 6: sign that says beware horses may kick or bite.

2147
01:32:17,479 --> 01:32:19,839
Speaker 4: But I guess she won't forget her trip to London.

2148
01:32:20,439 --> 01:32:22,600
Speaker 6: Were to check out online Today the trailer for the

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Speaker 6: new season of Emily in Paris and the Cardboard Beds

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Speaker 6: are back. If you know you know Fredshire Radio dot

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Speaker 6: com fingernails.

2152
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Speaker 4: The fun Fact today is about fingernails. All right, we'll

2153
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Speaker 4: do it next.

2154
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Speaker 1: More Fread Show. Next The Fread Show is on Fread's

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Speaker 1: Fun Fact.

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Speaker 9: Fred so much, guys, did you know?

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Speaker 1: Did you know?

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Speaker 3: The longest fingernails ever record belong to Lee Redmond and

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Speaker 3: they reached over twenty eight.

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Speaker 4: Feet Now, who was wiping his butt? It's a woman,

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Speaker 4: I think her, but her bud. I have a lot

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Speaker 4: of questions. Yes, yeah, that's a that's a very good

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Speaker 4: you have an invested in a day. My goodness, you

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Speaker 4: need more than a bidet. I mean, twenty eight feet long.

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Speaker 4: These fingernails nasty and they like curl.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 4: All I can think of is I guess like when

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Speaker 4: you die, your fingernails keep growing. Oh so like that's

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Speaker 4: what it looks like. You know. That's why I want

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Speaker 4: to be turned into a tree with fingernails, A tree

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Speaker 4: with long.

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Speaker 6: Finger nails made it and then made into a no

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Speaker 6: no fingernails like grandmother Willow.

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Speaker 4: And you guys can come talk to me. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 4: I think I'll be a tree before you.

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Speaker 1: More Pread Show Next, The Fresh Show is on.

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Speaker 3: Good Morning Everyone, Tuesday, July twenty third, The Free The

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Speaker 3: Show is not Hi Caitlin, Jase, sincere Rofio, Hello, Hi Paulina,

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Speaker 3: hikek Morning Showy Shelley. We'll get to blogs in just

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Speaker 3: a second. The Entertainer Report after that. What are you

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Speaker 3: working on?

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Speaker 4: Kaitlin? An influencer made a very very big and bad mistake. Okay,

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Speaker 4: it's not great. Well yeah I heard about this one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah one good? No, not good at all, not the

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Speaker 4: right o OTD no outpadets for this.

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Speaker 3: But I'm still curious how she fact Yeah I howould

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Speaker 3: get all that stuff in one bet?

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Speaker 4: What kind of bag was it? But right, you know,

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Speaker 4: outfit changes which she taking her temperature into consideration. I'm

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Speaker 4: not worried about a lot of this stuff. We don't

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Speaker 4: always need out padus No, no, no, we don't.

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Speaker 3: Tomorrow on the show New Waiting by the Phone Game

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Speaker 3: Show Wednesday, Kik Karaoke and more, a tiebreaker would show

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Speaker 3: Bi Shelley, So have us on tomorrow.

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Speaker 4: On the radio on the iHeart Yeah they talk better

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Speaker 4: than they.

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Speaker 3: These are the radio blogs on the French running in

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Speaker 3: our diaries, except we say them aloud.

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Speaker 4: We call them blogs. We got kind of a joint one.

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Speaker 4: Are you uh? Are you leading this one? Rufiel?

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Speaker 13: Uh?

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Speaker 4: Sure, because I've only heard about this sort of secondhand.

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Speaker 3: So I need to I need, I need, I need

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Speaker 3: to get caught up. This involves our weekend getaway that

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Speaker 3: we're taking as a show. It does, okay, go ahead,

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Speaker 3: please thank you dear blog. So, as you guys know,

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Speaker 3: we're taking this trip this weekend. And we all asked

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Speaker 3: what what do we do?

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Speaker 4: What are we doing?

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Speaker 8: And then Jason Brown, who's kind of even charge of

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Speaker 8: this whole thing, is like, oh, there's an option to golf.

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Speaker 4: Do you want a golf roofiel?

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Speaker 8: And I was like, oh, yeah, I think I can

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Speaker 8: make time to golf, and and I was like should

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Speaker 8: I bring my clubs? Are the clubs the rent? And

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Speaker 8: then Fred was like, oh, I think you just bring

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Speaker 8: your clubs. It's just a carry on, you know what

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Speaker 8: I'm saying whatever, like it's a check bag. And then

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Speaker 8: Paulina chimes in and says, hey, can I join you

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Speaker 8: to golf? And I said, I don't know, why not?

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Speaker 8: What is this not a PGA event.

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Speaker 4: This is not this is not the time to take

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Speaker 4: the time.

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Speaker 3: Was when would be the time when you're playing TV,

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Speaker 3: when you're when you're playing pebble beaches.

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Speaker 4: At the time. You you never going to play golf

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Speaker 4: on a golf course. Is that's not how you do?

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Speaker 4: Like you gotta he's going to play golf on a

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Speaker 4: golf course. It's not how you golf? Okay, the time

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Speaker 4: if not for the first time. No, I've done haunting trails,

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Speaker 4: I've done it all that mini golf.

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Speaker 3: So you basically you want you need to focus on

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Speaker 3: your game and you want you don't want to have

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Speaker 3: to like coach anybody or helpful.

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Speaker 4: Yeah right, I'm not going to sit there and be

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Speaker 4: like this is how you hit the ball, this is

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Speaker 4: this is where you got to do.

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Speaker 8: This is all right, let's let's drive. Let's take the

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Speaker 8: card five feet because that's where you hit it. You know,

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Speaker 8: that's not that's not that's not my thing. So you

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Speaker 8: would rather go out there by yourself? Yes, then take

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Speaker 8: her and coach her and exact time, right, Like what sir? Surprising?

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Speaker 8: You're such a nurturing guy. I would have figured you'd

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Speaker 8: be all about I will be happy to give Pauline

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Speaker 8: the lessons starting at a driving range where that's all

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Speaker 8: we're doing.

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Speaker 4: Is it's so sweet, like she wants to wake up

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Speaker 4: early and spend time with you. When else are you

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Speaker 4: guys gonna get that alone time? She could come with,

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Speaker 4: she could sit in the cart and just and just

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Speaker 4: cruise with me. But don't you dare pick up a club?

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 7: His reaction yesterday was like, you know when you're little

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Speaker 7: and your parents make you take your little sibling with,

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Speaker 7: you have to come.

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Speaker 4: That's literally what we had.

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Speaker 3: We were like, you got to take Paulina with your golfing, right,

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Speaker 3: I mean I have to go if you want to come,

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Speaker 3: more than change your heart.

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Speaker 4: It was so sad to watch. She was like, can

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Speaker 4: I come? And he's absolutely not. He's saying that because

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Speaker 4: because he knows you probably will say no, oh I'm going.

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Speaker 4: I'm okay. Well, I always wanted to golf. I always

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Speaker 4: just like you've always wanted to own a horse. Right,

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Speaker 4: this is this is the same thing. She's serious. I

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Speaker 4: am very serious. Outfits. I'll bring you a nice coffee,

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Speaker 4: I'll drive the cart. No no, no, you're not driving

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Speaker 4: in any car. I was gonna say, I'm getting charged

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Speaker 4: by this cart ending in the lake. I'm seeing you drive.

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Speaker 4: That's that's where I draw the line. Okay, you can

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Speaker 4: go golf and you can't drive anything. Oh my god,

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Speaker 4: I prefer you just keep the golfing. You can play

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Speaker 4: a golf club. I'll drive the car.