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Speaker 1: All right, This is from Gabby on Steve HARVEFM. Gabby says,

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Speaker 1: I'm the maid of honor in my best friend's wedding,

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Speaker 1: and she's turned into someone I barely recognize. She's demanding

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Speaker 1: we spend thousands on multiple events, requiring specific hair extensions

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Speaker 1: that cost a fortune, and she threw a fit when

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Speaker 1: I suggested scaling back the bachelorette party to fit everyone's budget.

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Speaker 1: I've already spent over three thousand dollars and there are

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Speaker 1: still six months to go. Should I speak up and

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Speaker 1: risk ruining our friendship? Or do I just keep draining

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Speaker 1: my savings to keep the peace.

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Speaker 2: Wow, well, ain't nobody doing that. I'm not draining my

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Speaker 2: savings to keep the peace.

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Speaker 1: That's out of the question.

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Speaker 3: Yes, for starters, I'm gonna be the one with the

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Speaker 3: short hair because I'm not buying another.

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Speaker 2: By another bad hair. All these hands buy.

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Speaker 3: No more bad and we won't cut down on all

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Speaker 3: these trips coming to this damn a bachel read party.

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Speaker 3: And why is the bride throwing the damn bachelarebat party.

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Speaker 3: We're supposed to be the girl throwing it, since she

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Speaker 3: got her hand in every aspect of bride or shower,

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Speaker 3: she throwing the dinner, she in charge everything, and y'all

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Speaker 3: breaking it and just you know what you ought to do.

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Speaker 2: Here's a suggestion.

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Speaker 3: But I don't know how women are in this regard,

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Speaker 3: so I'm surely and Carly have to guide me on

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Speaker 3: this way. I think she should say, since, can I

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Speaker 3: talk to you? I'm just gonna bring this to you

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Speaker 3: because a lot of the girls are feeling this way

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Speaker 3: and I feel the same way. Look, we love you,

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Speaker 3: this is the day of your dreams, and we are

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Speaker 3: nothing here but to support you. But this is costing

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Speaker 3: us money that we really don't have.

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Speaker 2: I like it to see it so far.

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Speaker 3: And we've already spent three thousand dollars and we got

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Speaker 3: six months to go, and I'm into my savings.

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Speaker 2: I can't afford all of this.

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Speaker 3: Still want to do everything, becauld we just make it

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Speaker 3: more reasonable what we can afford it, and we're exhausting

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Speaker 3: our money. We won't even be able to afford to

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Speaker 3: do what we want to do. Okay, you know, it's

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Speaker 3: just some simple stuff I want to do. I just

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Speaker 3: want to like, you know, I want to be I

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Speaker 3: want to buy rose shreds, kiss me, you know, you know,

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Speaker 3: I got a little I want. I saw a protein

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Speaker 3: powder the other day. I thought, you know, I'm just trying,

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Speaker 3: you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, I think you're doing it.

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Speaker 2: That's really it. What do you think?

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Speaker 3: Because I really I want to tell the girl something

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Speaker 3: and we want to be there.

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Speaker 2: Or you could get all the girls to come and

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Speaker 2: sit and have their gold session. Yeah, and because girl,

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Speaker 2: we're gonna be here for you.

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Speaker 3: So so she that way, she had to find the

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Speaker 3: whole bridal party.

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Speaker 2: And she ain't got no more friends. She'll been making

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Speaker 2: all them friends.

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Speaker 1: By she doesn't have any more friends.

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Speaker 3: I'm not being the damn win right now. I'm not

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Speaker 3: buying no more damn badshad. I'm not going to do this.

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Speaker 1: No, three thousand dollars is way too much to spend.

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Speaker 1: Come on, yeah you're for someone else, yes, big day?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Yeah all right, I like that's your we This is

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Speaker 1: from Myron on Facebook. He says, my downstairs neighbors smoke

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Speaker 1: constantly on their balcony and it all comes straight into

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Speaker 1: our apartment. We've tried talking to them politely. We've bought

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Speaker 1: air purifiers, even offers to split the cost of an

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Speaker 1: air filter for their balcony, but they just laugh it off.

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Speaker 1: Our lease doesn't allow smoking, but management says they can't

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Speaker 1: do anything since it's outside. My pregnant wife is miserable

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Speaker 1: and we can't afford to break our lease. What options

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Speaker 1: do we have left? That's from myras.

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Speaker 2: That's all, well, we just had our option.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: It's always ye ain't sitting I'm talking about.

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Speaker 3: They can't do nothing. I tell you, my pregnant wife

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Speaker 3: is miserable. Secondhand smoke is dangerous. Man. Yeah, now I

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Speaker 3: don't know what smoke they talking about. It they talking

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Speaker 3: about cigarettes or all we My is coming in our

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Speaker 3: house and my wife struggling. Yeah, smoke again.

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Speaker 1: They're laughing. They're laughing at what.

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Speaker 2: We got to get back. We smoke again, all right?

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Speaker 1: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have

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Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this.

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