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All thanks to Live Nation, 11 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 1: The Fread Show is on. It's stay or Go all 12 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: right sidey, Good morning, Amy? How are you? 13 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 2: Good morning? I'm good. How are you doing to? 14 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: All right? Welcome to the program? What's going on? I 15 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:46,240 Speaker 1: see you? Like how I pretend like I don't know 16 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 1: what's going on? Like I do know what's planned because 17 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:50,239 Speaker 1: I've read your email, so I do know. But every 18 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 1: time I'm like, tell me what's going on with your boyfriend? 19 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: What's going on with your boyfriend? Explained? 20 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just I need some advice because we we 21 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 2: decided that we're going to move in together pretty recently, 22 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:09,039 Speaker 2: and so like we've been looking at apartments and trying to. 23 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 1: Figure out by the way, you don't have to like, 24 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:17,600 Speaker 1: you know, two two dwelling relationships or two dwelling relationship. 25 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 1: A two dwelling relationship is fine. I don't know, I 26 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: had like a miner, like my brain shorted out, but 27 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:26,760 Speaker 1: like a two house relationship is chef's kids. But anyway, 28 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: not for you. So you guys are to move in together, 29 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 1: all right. 30 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 2: It might come to that, but you know, well, at 31 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 2: this point, we're trying to be together in an apartment 32 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 2: and the problem is we're we're trying to figure out 33 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 2: what we're bringing to our new place, like furniture wise, 34 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 2: and like what to get rid of and stuff. And 35 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 2: during these discussions, if you will, I have seen like 36 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 2: a side of my boyfriend that I did not know 37 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 2: was there, and I don't really like. 38 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 1: Like what what are you talking about? Like what happened? 39 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 2: Well, he wants me to get rid of all my 40 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 2: stuff that you know that I have that I used 41 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 2: when I was with my ex, like like my bed 42 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 2: we're talking like my bed frame, my my mattress, like 43 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 2: my my bookshelf, and like my shower. I mean, it's 44 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 2: getting a little crazy, Like we're talking about my shower 45 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 2: curtain and my spoons that I use when he was there, 46 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 2: and like like. 47 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 1: He was talking about my TV and stuff for TV? 48 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 1: What did TV do? The TV didn't do anything right? Well, 49 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 1: I watch TV. Maybe maybe we start anew with a 50 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: new mattress, you know, like maybe if we're moving in 51 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 1: together and we're combining things, like you know, maybe we 52 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: maybe we do a different mattress, so the new sheets too. 53 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,519 Speaker 1: Then maybe we do new sheets. You know, we're moving 54 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: into the show. Why don't we start fresh with but 55 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: like a TV, a spoon? I know, like what if 56 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 1: you go to the same restaurants that you mean your 57 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 1: ex probably use that. Maybe use this spoon in the 58 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: place or a Sultan pepper shaker. Better burn the place down, 59 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:09,959 Speaker 1: you don't, God forbid? I mean, so what do you 60 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: say to him? This is crazy? Like we're not I'm 61 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: not throwing away absolutely everything that he the legs ever touched, 62 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 1: because I'm sure he's had an X too exactly. 63 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:22,679 Speaker 2: And also like he's used all this stuff, you know 64 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 2: what I mean, Like he watches these TVs, uses those spoons, 65 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 2: and like right, what's the deal now He's just like 66 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 2: it's crazy. And he's talking about like you know, bad 67 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 2: bad juju in the apartment and like like dude, and 68 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 2: he just like has no sense that this you know, 69 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 2: this stuff costs money, Like I don't have that kind 70 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 2: of money. 71 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:46,280 Speaker 1: Is he offering to buy all this stuff? 72 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 2: Is he? 73 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 1: Oh, he's not, because that'd be another thing if he's like, look, 74 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: I want to replace everything, like I want to start 75 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 1: with a new bed, new sheet, new towels. Let's just 76 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 1: le new place, new stuff, Like, let's just I'll buy it, right, yeah, 77 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 1: go for it. Fine. 78 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 2: No, he didn't offer to pay for anything, and I 79 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 2: just think it's so stupid and it's just like messing 80 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 2: me up. I'm like, I don't like this side of you. 81 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 1: Ew Now, which of his things are we burning? Because 82 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 1: you know, I'm sure someone touched his stuff, so I 83 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 1: assume you know, the couch. So basically, you guys are 84 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 1: starting with nothing, right because we're going to donate everything 85 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:26,160 Speaker 1: because right, because he can't possibly bring anything into his 86 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 1: home right into this place, right from his house exactly. 87 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 2: So I'm just like, ew, I don't I don't even. 88 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,720 Speaker 1: Love But he's not suggesting that, right, He's not saying that, 89 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 1: like that's what we're saying. But he's not. He's saying, 90 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:40,720 Speaker 1: your stuff has got to go, but his stuff is. 91 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm the sullied person and he's perfectly clean your steam. 92 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 1: Now I don't like him. I don't like it at all. 93 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:51,160 Speaker 1: I agree with a lot of the people texting off 94 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:53,160 Speaker 1: the bat. This is a control thing. It is a 95 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 1: control thing, among other things. Okay, and somehow everything you 96 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 1: did was nasty, which maybe it was, but like, but 97 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: the it has to be switched out. You're saying, I'm 98 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 1: fine with that. I'm fine with that. But would you 99 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 1: require that? I'm not sure I would require it. But 100 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:09,720 Speaker 1: if I if I needed that, I would come to 101 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:12,280 Speaker 1: the table with I'm gonna buy it. Yeah, just like, 102 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 1: how about a new bed? Like, how about we just 103 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:18,040 Speaker 1: start new with a new bed today? Place right, it's 104 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 1: a new house, we're moving in together. Let's start, let's 105 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:23,839 Speaker 1: let's hit reset on a couple of different items here. 106 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 1: And I don't need to get into the detail why 107 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:27,039 Speaker 1: you know why. 108 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:30,159 Speaker 3: I did though, Like when my husband and I moved 109 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 3: in together, I wanted him to bring his bed. 110 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 1: Is that bad? I feel so like it came out 111 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 1: in that bed for months before you moved in together, right, 112 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 1: I mean not really because it was at his parents' house. 113 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:42,840 Speaker 3: He came from his parents house into our townhouse, so 114 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 3: he didn't take women there there. 115 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 1: I mean, like, well, why did you want this bed then? 116 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:49,360 Speaker 1: If you had never been in it? Like I could 117 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 1: see its comfortable, but I ever said on girl that 118 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 1: I was like I want that bed. All right, well 119 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 1: let me see. I'm gonna say some phone calls on 120 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: this and see what people have to say and we'll 121 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 1: go from there. But I don't know. I mean, if 122 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: you both are in on this, and if you don't 123 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 1: have the money, then if it's his idea and he's 124 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 1: paying for it, then maybe some stuff, but I don't 125 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:09,799 Speaker 1: know it, like everything from your place can't come because 126 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 1: you're nasty. But he, I guess he's fine, and why 127 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 1: and I'll be obsessed with your ex like why is 128 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 1: he so obsessed on the X? Like that would bother me? 129 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys are making this clear. 130 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 1: This is crazy. Yeah, yeah it is Amy. Thank you, 131 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 1: have a good day. Thank you as you called eight 132 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: five five five one three five. I mean, how have 133 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 1: you dealt with this when because you guys have all 134 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:35,279 Speaker 1: moved in with people. I've never moved in with anybody, 135 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 1: so I don't I guess, I don't know. I assume though, 136 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 1: that most of us don't have unlimited funds where we're 137 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:43,720 Speaker 1: just buying new furniture every time we move, So I 138 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 1: would assume that there's some overlap, right, Like the spoons 139 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 1: come into the new place and the spoons have been 140 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 1: used by other people. Yeah. 141 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 2: I don't waste my time thinking about stuff that is 142 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 2: like an hurt, you know, like who cares? Just move on. 143 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, I had an issue when Timothy moved in. I 144 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 4: had just taken off the pictures off the wall from 145 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 4: my ex and just put them in a closet. And 146 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 4: then one day he found the pictures and still in 147 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 4: the frame. He was like, girl, are you playing back up? 148 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 1: I'm like no, I was just making space. I think 149 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 1: it's weird that you left the nail and the hook 150 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 1: up just in case, Just in case. 151 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 4: Act right, I just changed out the photos. 152 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 1: Well, I'm not trying to be gross here, but like, 153 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 1: there are memories and there are other things that other 154 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 1: people are aware of and have on both sides. This 155 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 1: isn't a one sided deal that have been shared that 156 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 1: you can't undo. You're worried about a bed if you're 157 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 1: that worried about other people and what they don't we 158 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: were tap dancing and get rid of new mouth time 159 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 1: we knew. Yeah, so there's that. Why do I bother? 160 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 1: I don't even know? There are certain things that you 161 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 1: can't unuse, and so like that's really red, you know, 162 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: sorry about that, Salt Lake City. But anyway, Emily, how 163 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 1: you doing, Emily? Good morning? 164 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 5: Hey Fred? 165 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 1: Emily. Uh so the dog this woman? Yeah, get rid 166 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 1: of the dog. Your dog and the X have been together. 167 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: I'm sure thet the dog. So the dog's gotta go. 168 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 3: Oay, that's just going out my dog. But so I 169 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:28,120 Speaker 3: first this is she should go, but at a minimum, 170 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 3: she should pay for half and he should pay for half. 171 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 3: And this is why I don't think he should pay 172 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 3: for everything, because if they break up, he's gonna say 173 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 3: I paid for it, it's all my stuff, and then 174 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 3: she is gonna have absolutely nothing. 175 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 1: Yeah that's another thing. Yeah, I've heard of this happening 176 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 1: before too, where it's like I'll buy all new stuff 177 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 1: for the new place and then and then they break 178 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 1: up and it's like, but I had to give all 179 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 1: my stuff away or donate it or throw it away. 180 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 1: And now I have no stuff because you said that 181 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 1: you were buying the news. So so yeah, she needs 182 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:58,719 Speaker 1: to have are you either. If he's gonna do that, 183 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 1: then he needs to be like, if we break up, 184 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 1: then I'll buy you all new stuff since I'm making 185 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:04,839 Speaker 1: you throw it away. That's an excellent point. He is 186 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: she gonna have to say that. 187 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 3: I mean, I still think you should go regardless, but like, 188 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 3: at a minimum, do not give away all of your stuff. 189 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a very good point, Emily. Thank you, have 190 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:16,319 Speaker 1: a good day. 191 00:09:17,200 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 3: Thank you. 192 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're gonna do that, if it's like if 193 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 1: I I'm buying all new stuff for our new place, 194 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:23,319 Speaker 1: that's fine, I'll get rid of all my stuff, I 195 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:26,440 Speaker 1: guess since we're upgrading. And also you get a vote 196 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 1: in what we buy too. Absolutely, And then if we're 197 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:31,679 Speaker 1: gonna do that and we're getting all new stuff and 198 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 1: you're paying for it, then if we break up within 199 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 1: the next I don't know, three years, then you're gonna 200 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 1: have to buy me new stuff because I got rid 201 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 1: of all mine. Hell, move in with this man, Hey, David, 202 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 1: how you doing good? 203 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 3: How about you? 204 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 1: Fred? Doing all right? 205 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 2: Man? 206 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 1: So you're you're here for the new bed. At least 207 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:46,719 Speaker 1: get a new bed. 208 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 5: We gotta get a new bed. I mean they think 209 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:51,720 Speaker 5: about have a nice discent love making. 210 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:57,840 Speaker 1: I mean sleeping in the bed. That is an activity 211 00:09:57,880 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 1: that occurs. 212 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 5: He was there too though, you know, accidentally passing gas 213 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 5: on the bed. 214 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:06,719 Speaker 1: You know sometimes that happens that night he's going to 215 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: be rolling around on that. It's going to happen again. 216 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: You're saying that if I sleep at a woman's house, 217 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 1: I'm sleeping in her exis flatulence still? I mean, wow, 218 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:20,559 Speaker 1: well I already have issues, and now you're just contributing 219 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 1: to it. But now we don't need to add things. 220 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 1: You know, a lot of a lot of love making 221 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 1: with David here. So we're burning down the house. Then 222 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 1: we gotta we got to get rid of the shower. 223 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:38,560 Speaker 1: I mean coming up the book show about the TV, 224 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 1: the bookshell, what the books? 225 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:40,319 Speaker 2: Just do? 226 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 5: Okay? 227 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:43,839 Speaker 1: Good because I have a bookshelf. That's a good shower. 228 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:51,839 Speaker 1: I don't know whe if somebody had love making, I 229 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 1: think we need to get rid of it. A lot 230 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 1: of love making going on, damd, thank you man? Okay, 231 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 1: you know what see colp that man? Yeah, she yes, 232 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: the bed is fine. But like if we're getting rid 233 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 1: of furniture because it was in the same place as 234 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 1: an X th and we got them, we got an issue, 235 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 1: then like you need to get over that. Sadly. There 236 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 1: are things that just you know, will not be forgotten. 237 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 1: Your cat, your cat might have seen what I mean, 238 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 1: I heard that dog marking. We get the dog probably 239 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 1: needs to be rehome now because you know he wants pet. 240 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 1: The dome, Yeah, I don't. This is crazy. They play 241 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:33,640 Speaker 1: one song and then then we'll make the announcement and no, no, 242 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 1: it wasn't ruined. No, it was not. If some of 243 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 1: you or some of you are like, well, I know, 244 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: I know what happened, I'm like, but you don't know 245 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:42,839 Speaker 1: what you don't know what it is, because that's not 246 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 1: what it is, you know, close with no cigar Ellen. 247 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:49,719 Speaker 5: How you doing l I'm doing great. I think I'm 248 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:52,680 Speaker 5: bouncing a lot off of the previous caller. I had 249 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:55,560 Speaker 5: a boy fromd for six years. His stuff was better. 250 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:57,839 Speaker 5: I moved in with him, got rid of all my 251 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 5: stuff as poor as it was, you know, but it 252 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 5: was mine, And then like six months later he's like, 253 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 5: you know, I just don't see what's getting married. And 254 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 5: it was during that snowstorm you know where the lakeshore 255 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 5: drives and everything. I look for an apartment, didn't have 256 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 5: any stuff, and I had so much PPSD. I married 257 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 5: a lovely man, but I kept my stuff in the 258 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:22,319 Speaker 5: basement for so long. He's like, we're forever, honey, and 259 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:23,199 Speaker 5: I was like, you don't know. 260 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 1: You don't know what I went through. That's why I 261 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 1: didn't get rid of my stuff. I feel the same way. 262 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 1: I don't like not having stuff. 263 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, I gotta have Yeah, I did finally, you know, 264 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 5: we paid for it together and it was very healthy. 265 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:39,439 Speaker 5: And but this guy has issues. He's not healthy. She 266 00:12:39,600 --> 00:12:42,720 Speaker 5: needs to wait, like, if not break up, wait until 267 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:45,559 Speaker 5: he's a little bit more relaxed and healthy in his 268 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 5: own self confidence about their relationship. 269 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 1: Right, that's look at it. So you're you're conditioned. You know, 270 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 1: you had to hang on to all your stuff because 271 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:56,560 Speaker 1: you were afraid. Listen, this is it creates a complex 272 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 1: in people. Man, we don't need a boyfriend, h We 273 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 1: don't need all this all right now, thank you, have 274 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 1: a good day. 275 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:02,440 Speaker 5: Thank you, all right. 276 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 1: One more than I'm just gonna make I'm just gonna 277 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 1: tell you. What's up, hey, Candacey. My opinion, Yeah, tell 278 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 1: me your opinion. My opinion is it. So I moved 279 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:15,640 Speaker 1: in with my fiance. I didn't make him get rid 280 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 1: of anything until now we're getting married. So everything on 281 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:22,320 Speaker 1: the wedding registry is like new because I want our 282 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:25,719 Speaker 1: stuff that stuff from his past. Yep, that's fine. I 283 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 1: like that. No, I mean yeah, I think that all 284 00:13:28,400 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 1: makes sense. Make other people pay for it, right, you're 285 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 1: starting new so so new stuff and whatever. But like 286 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:35,679 Speaker 1: this whole thing where it's get rid of all your stuff. 287 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 1: My stuff's okay, but get rid of all your stuff. 288 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:40,439 Speaker 1: I don't like him. It's just there's a lot of 289 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:43,319 Speaker 1: layers of issues there. Thank you, Candace, have a good day.