WEBVTT - #187 Do Not Fear Society

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<v Speaker 1>Do not be afraid of society. We raised children up

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<v Speaker 1>in this society for times like this. Hey, everybody, welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the podcast, episode one eighty seven. Glad you're here.

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<v Speaker 1>Happy Monday if you're listening in real time. And we

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<v Speaker 1>do these every single Monday, and I'm so thankful for

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<v Speaker 1>this platform for you guys coming on and watching and

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<v Speaker 1>listening wherever you're coming from. And I want to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you a little update on Bernie, who was our guest

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<v Speaker 1>last episode, who was saying he was going to go

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<v Speaker 1>run this crazy thirty mile altering, crazy man running thing.

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<v Speaker 1>He lived, He survived. Everything's good, He's doing great, and

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<v Speaker 1>he finished that was his goal. So I had some

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<v Speaker 1>people in a meet and greet say, hey, whatever happened

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<v Speaker 1>with Bernie? Is he okay? Yeah, he did great, And

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm here to report all good on the Bernie front.

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<v Speaker 1>And what I do here on this podcast is I

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<v Speaker 1>answer your questions and you email me Granger Smith Podcast

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<v Speaker 1>at gmail dot com, and we walk through these like

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<v Speaker 1>we're just sitting in the cab of a truck and

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<v Speaker 1>you have a question. You say, hey, man, can I

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<v Speaker 1>run something by you? I got a question for you,

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<v Speaker 1>and we talk it out in the podcast form allows

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<v Speaker 1>me to talk slowly and think through it and answer

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<v Speaker 1>like I would if you were sitting with me as

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<v Speaker 1>a friend. Now. The key is I don't have notes

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<v Speaker 1>in front of me, or books or quotes, and in fact,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't even read these questions, so this is the

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<v Speaker 1>first time I hear the question as I react to

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<v Speaker 1>them as you hear them. Okay. Also been talking the

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<v Speaker 1>last few weeks about possibly taking this podcast on the road,

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<v Speaker 1>doing a live recording of the podcast in your city.

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<v Speaker 1>So comment below. If this is a platform that you

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<v Speaker 1>can comment on like YouTube, comment or go to my

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<v Speaker 1>social media. If it's not a platform you comment on

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<v Speaker 1>and go to my latest post on any of the

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<v Speaker 1>social media and just say, hey, man, I would love

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<v Speaker 1>for you to take the podcast to my city, take

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<v Speaker 1>a tour, and then we could have a live audience

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<v Speaker 1>as we record. We could answer questions from the live

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<v Speaker 1>audience in real time, and then have a meet and

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<v Speaker 1>greet and talk to everyone afterward, and then maybe go

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<v Speaker 1>over some stuff in person with you live in your city.

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<v Speaker 1>What I need to know from you, guys is what

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<v Speaker 1>city and what venue. I have no idea. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>doing music for twenty four years touring, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what it looks like to do a podcast tour.

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<v Speaker 1>So you got a venue idea, or at least just

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<v Speaker 1>a city that'll give us a good plan. Or we

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<v Speaker 1>could look at a map of the US and go,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, we need to hit these cities because they're

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<v Speaker 1>within driving distance of these towns, these regions. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>live podcast tour. I think that'd be really cool. And

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<v Speaker 1>then leading up to that will be the book, my

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<v Speaker 1>first book, Like a River, coming out August first. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so excited for that. I'm starting to read the audiobook.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually today, I'm going to start recording that so you

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<v Speaker 1>can get that and the copy of the book, and

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<v Speaker 1>that'll be just a great conversation starter to a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of these questions that we have writer on this podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Enough about me, let's flip the mirror over to you,

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<v Speaker 1>pull out the email here, and I'm going to go

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<v Speaker 1>randomly and see what we find you guys. Ready, first

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<v Speaker 1>question that pops up here says subdecline, how do I

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<v Speaker 1>communicate the want of attention? Hey, Grander, been a fan

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<v Speaker 1>of you and your podcast for a few months now.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been listening to them every night before bed. I'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to stay anonymous. My question to you is this,

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<v Speaker 1>how do I tell my girlfriend that the amount of

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<v Speaker 1>attention she gives me isn't what I'm used to compared

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<v Speaker 1>to the past and what I prefer. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the one making the effort to ask her about

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<v Speaker 1>her and how she's feeling, and overall, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm committing seventy five percent of this relationship effort. Everything

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<v Speaker 1>is fine in person, but I just don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>to bring up this conversation without the fear of upsetting

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<v Speaker 1>her or killing the mood. You've helped me give my

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<v Speaker 1>life to Christ and to trust his process day by day,

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<v Speaker 1>and I am forever thankful. Thank you, God blessed. Okay Anonymous,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for the email, brother, and let's walk through this.

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<v Speaker 1>You are feeling it. You're giving everything you have to

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<v Speaker 1>this relationship. Seventy five percent is what you say to

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<v Speaker 1>this relationship. You're getting hardly anything back. And what you

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<v Speaker 1>mean by that is you want someone to ask you

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<v Speaker 1>about your day and to pour into you and ask

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<v Speaker 1>you how you're feeling and talk. Oh buddy, oh buddy,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hesitant to tell you that. Okay, let me reiterate

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<v Speaker 1>what this podcast is. Okay, this is not therapy, this

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<v Speaker 1>is not counseling. This is not a psychologist or a psychiatrist.

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<v Speaker 1>I am telling you. I'm gonna tell you things to

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<v Speaker 1>all these questions, as a friend would say, Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>there's the difference. I'm not a psychologist. I'm a friend

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<v Speaker 1>of yours. That's two different answers. Okay, a psychologist is

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<v Speaker 1>going to go deep into these feelings and the reason

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<v Speaker 1>she's not giving them, and maybe the underlying ways for

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<v Speaker 1>you to be able to and on and on. But

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<v Speaker 1>as a friend, I'm gonna say this, brother, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think this is the right girl for you, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's the wrong girl. I think the problem is

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<v Speaker 1>this is the wrong girl for you. You could probably

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<v Speaker 1>force this to work. You could probably you know, do

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<v Speaker 1>the square peg in the round hole for a while.

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<v Speaker 1>But some girls and some guys are just not talkers.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not people that ask about other people's feelings. And

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<v Speaker 1>they don't. It's just not something it's not in their wheelhouse, right,

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<v Speaker 1>It's just not something they do. It's not something they

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<v Speaker 1>get home from work and they go to dinner and

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<v Speaker 1>they just cannot wait to hear all about your day.

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<v Speaker 1>But the good news is some girls are and so

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<v Speaker 1>I believe, I know that there are girls out there

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<v Speaker 1>that would be compatible with you in this but it

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<v Speaker 1>feels like this one's not. Now Whise it's so difficult.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do I say, I hesitate to say, because you

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<v Speaker 1>probably love her, and you probably have a connection, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're in deep on this relationship, and that makes it tough.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes it tough, man. But when you're sitting here

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<v Speaker 1>saying I feel like I'm the one always making the

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<v Speaker 1>effort to ask her about her day and how she's feeling,

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<v Speaker 1>and overall, I feel like I'm committing seven five percent

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<v Speaker 1>of this relationship's effort. I think when you say it

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<v Speaker 1>that way, you're saying, I wish this leopard didn't have spots.

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<v Speaker 1>And my old drummer Mike used to always tell me

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<v Speaker 1>a leopard is always gonna have spots. You can't get

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<v Speaker 1>rid of them. And it's so true, and it's just

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<v Speaker 1>not a bad thing for her. I'm not saying she's

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<v Speaker 1>a bad girl. I'm just saying she's a leopard with

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<v Speaker 1>spots and you can't try to wipe them off. That's

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<v Speaker 1>just who she is, and you're you're asking for things

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<v Speaker 1>that it's very difficult. If you were married, listen to this,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're married for ten years, fifteen years, twenty years,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say, Okay, let's work through this. Let's work

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<v Speaker 1>through this. Let's try to find a way that you're

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<v Speaker 1>compatible with her personality in this way that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>stay together and you become close friends and lovers and spouses.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's not your story. This is just your girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mean to minimize it by saying just your girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you love her, or you wouldn't have emailed me,

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm saying there's a way out now, And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>saying you if you'd go down this path, which you

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<v Speaker 1>can and you might, You're you're you're looking at a

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<v Speaker 1>tough road. It's not gonna get easier. You might have

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<v Speaker 1>some seasons you go through where she's a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>better at asking you about your feelings, but then she's

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<v Speaker 1>going to go back to her leopard spots, because that's

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<v Speaker 1>just who she is, that's her DNA. She's she's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>end up great with a guy that doesn't need to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about his feelings or his day. She's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be more compatible with that guy. Okay, I know this

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<v Speaker 1>is not the advice she wanted. It's probably not what

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted to hear. But as a friend and not

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<v Speaker 1>a psychiatrist and not a marriage counselor because you're not married,

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<v Speaker 1>I say, I think it's I think this is the

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<v Speaker 1>wrong girl for you. Next question, subject Cline says interesting

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<v Speaker 1>says dying while intoxicated. Hey, grangel, my question is if

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<v Speaker 1>you are born again, If you are a born again

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<v Speaker 1>Christian but happen to drink alcohol to the point that

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<v Speaker 1>you're intoxicated, and then something happens and you die, will

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<v Speaker 1>you go to heaven? By the way, love the podcast

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<v Speaker 1>and your music and your YouTube channels. Keep out the

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<v Speaker 1>good work. Evelyn from California. Evelyn, thank you for emailing

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<v Speaker 1>and the answer to your question simple. The answer is yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you will go to heaven. Next question, I'm just kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>What if I did the next No, let me explain

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<v Speaker 1>the answers. Yes, but let me explain it's yes because

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<v Speaker 1>you qualified it with one thing. If you are a

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<v Speaker 1>born again Christian, regardless of the middle part that you write,

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<v Speaker 1>take it all out. Doesn't matter what you say after that.

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<v Speaker 1>When you die will you go to heaven? The answers yes,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter this is crazy, no, no matter what you

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<v Speaker 1>put in the middle. If you were born again, you

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<v Speaker 1>will go to heaven. You're regenerated, you're new creature, You're

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<v Speaker 1>alive in Christ. Here's the catch. When you're a new creature,

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<v Speaker 1>when your new creation, when you are reborn, born again,

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<v Speaker 1>born anew, when you are alive, you're dead to your

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<v Speaker 1>old self. You're dead to your old self and now

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<v Speaker 1>alive a new creature in Christ. You are. You used

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<v Speaker 1>to be a caterpillar, now you're a butterfly. When that

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<v Speaker 1>happens to you, a lot of these things start falling off,

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<v Speaker 1>start shedding off. So the chance of you getting it's

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<v Speaker 1>so intoxicated to the point of death. Then you start saying,

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<v Speaker 1>were you born again? Maybe you weren't born again? Right,

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<v Speaker 1>because if you're a new creature, and it is possible,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's not about what you do. It's never about

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<v Speaker 1>what you do that gets you to heaven. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>about what you do right, it's about what has been

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<v Speaker 1>done for you through Christ. That's the story of Christianity.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what separates it from every other religion. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>about how good you are, How clean your plate is,

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<v Speaker 1>how washed, how whitewashed you are, perfect, and how clean

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<v Speaker 1>you how clean your hands are, how clean your conscious is,

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<v Speaker 1>how little you sin. It's never been. That's never been

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<v Speaker 1>the qualifier for heaven. It never has been. Has nothing

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<v Speaker 1>to do with what you do. It has to do

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<v Speaker 1>with what has been done for you. And when something's

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<v Speaker 1>been done, as in Christ dying on the cross as

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<v Speaker 1>a replacement of your sins, as a substitute for your sins,

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<v Speaker 1>so that you are forgiven, and you repent and you're

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<v Speaker 1>reborn through that, and you turn away from your old life.

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<v Speaker 1>You turn away from your sins, and you believe, and

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<v Speaker 1>you accept Jesus as your lord and savior. Maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't Eve say I don't even like that word accept.

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<v Speaker 1>You know I don't. That's just an old That's like

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<v Speaker 1>an old Billy Graham saying I don't even like that

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<v Speaker 1>word accept. When you believe and surrender, I like that

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<v Speaker 1>word a lot better. You surrender to Jesus as your lord,

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<v Speaker 1>you're born again. And those two things are two parallel

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<v Speaker 1>lines that intersect only in Heaven. Those two things your

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<v Speaker 1>responsibility to respond and believe and Jesus ransoming you as

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<v Speaker 1>an adopted son. All that has nothing to do with

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<v Speaker 1>you getting intoxicated. But the thing is that as a reflection,

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<v Speaker 1>as a response to the new creature that you are,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna start hating this idea of being intoxicated. You're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna start hating the old sin. It's not gonna go

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<v Speaker 1>completely away, but you're gonna hate it and you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be wrestling with it and you're gonna be fighting against it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what a new creature does in Christ. That's that's

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<v Speaker 1>a really good sign that you're reborn. Is if you

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<v Speaker 1>start hating the old things that you used to do,

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<v Speaker 1>and even when you still do them, and you will occasionally,

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<v Speaker 1>you still go back into that old life, that old sin,

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<v Speaker 1>and you repeat some things that you used to do,

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<v Speaker 1>and when you do it, you hate it, and so

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<v Speaker 1>you wrestle and you fight against it in that constant battle.

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<v Speaker 1>That that is a good sign. That is that's a

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<v Speaker 1>good sign that you're battling you're killing sin. Right. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's a very complicated way of saying, yes, you go

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<v Speaker 1>to heaven if you die intoxicated. Yeah, I was hit

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<v Speaker 1>another one. Oh I loved I love doing these guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I really do sub decline In the next one says

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<v Speaker 1>demonic attacks in spiritual warfare and grand your My name

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<v Speaker 1>is James some twenty one from Michigan. Long time listening

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<v Speaker 1>to the podcast. It has helped me through so many

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<v Speaker 1>hard times. God bless you. I have recently gotten more

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<v Speaker 1>serious about my relationship with Christ and have been battling

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<v Speaker 1>against lust and alcohol. Along with this, I believe that

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<v Speaker 1>I have been under attack from the devil. I've had

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<v Speaker 1>nights where I wake up with figures at the foot

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<v Speaker 1>of my bed, nightmares, constant anxiety, and just recently I

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<v Speaker 1>picked up my phone to watch a video and I

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<v Speaker 1>received in the middle of the night. And when I

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<v Speaker 1>picked up my phone and I put it to my ear,

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<v Speaker 1>and I heard sell your soul, followed by hissing and screaming,

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<v Speaker 1>and I felt dozens of hands grabbing me and pulling

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<v Speaker 1>me downward. I cried out to Jesus and I felt

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<v Speaker 1>him pull me back up. Praise Him for that. But

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<v Speaker 1>now I'm always scared to sleep, for I know that

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<v Speaker 1>I most likely will be attacked again. What can I do?

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<v Speaker 1>God Bless James? All right, my brother, let's discuss let's

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<v Speaker 1>talk about this, me and you driving down the truck,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, driving down the road in the truck, wind

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<v Speaker 1>is down, and this is what you bring up to me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I sad. I'm gonna Start's start with the basics.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's say first, let's look at what happened, considering that

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<v Speaker 1>you're being sincere about all of this. Right there at

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<v Speaker 1>the end, it says you cried out to Jesus and

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<v Speaker 1>he pulled you back up. Good, right, okay, good. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a great acknowledgment, and that's a great understanding of what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>You got your answer, right. You don't need me to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you that you got your answer. And here's the

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<v Speaker 1>bad part next line. But now I'm always scared to

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<v Speaker 1>go to sleep, for I know it may most likely

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<v Speaker 1>be I may likely be attacked again. What can I do?

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<v Speaker 1>You see how you just a circular argument? You just did.

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<v Speaker 1>This is what you said. Let me repeat just so

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<v Speaker 1>everyone that listens to this podcast knows. When I read

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<v Speaker 1>these emails so many times, I see the answer to

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<v Speaker 1>your question in your own email, in your own words,

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't have to do anything but take this

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<v Speaker 1>mirror and turn it back to you. So you see yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me repeat these lines. All this stuff happened to you,

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<v Speaker 1>these hands pulling you downward. Right, you say this. I

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<v Speaker 1>cried out to Jesus and he pulled me back up.

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<v Speaker 1>But now I'm scared and I don't know what can

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<v Speaker 1>I do. You just answered, what can you do? Cry

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<v Speaker 1>out to Jesus. That's what you did, and it worked.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's a psychology behind it. I told you I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>a psychiatrist, but let me give you Let me change that.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me give you the theology behind that. Jesus is victorious,

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<v Speaker 1>God Lord of host is victorious. He is victorious over

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<v Speaker 1>all satanic activity, all demonic activity. He wins in the end.

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<v Speaker 1>We have the book and we could read the last

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<v Speaker 1>chapter and we know he wins. Stay on the winning side.

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<v Speaker 1>When you know you're on the winning side, when you

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<v Speaker 1>trust in Christ, when you cry out to him like that,

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<v Speaker 1>then you don't have to worry about going to sleep,

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<v Speaker 1>because you're sleeping with the General of the army. He

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<v Speaker 1>has got you. He's not only the general of the army,

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<v Speaker 1>but he is the victor of the war. And you

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<v Speaker 1>already know it. He won the war. So you're sleeping

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<v Speaker 1>with him now. When you go to bed, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>worry about this. I wouldn't worry. I would not worry

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<v Speaker 1>after reading your story, I wouldn't worry. But what can

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<v Speaker 1>you do in the meantime?

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<v Speaker 2>What can you do?

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<v Speaker 1>What can you do in the daytime? I would feast

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<v Speaker 1>on the word of God. Did you know that the

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<v Speaker 1>word of God is very addicting. It's meant to be

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<v Speaker 1>that way. Read through the Psalms. Read through Psalm one

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen and you start seeing how the psalmist David is

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<v Speaker 1>addicted to the word of God. Oh, your word is

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<v Speaker 1>like honey to my lips. Honey too much, it's sweeter

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<v Speaker 1>the nectar, right, is addicting. And you need to read

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<v Speaker 1>this word. It is living and breathing and alive and abiding. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this word that I'm talking about is the Bible. You

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<v Speaker 1>take that word and you open it up and you go,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to Matthew one victorious today. I'm victorious over

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<v Speaker 1>all demonic activity in my life. Why because I've got

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<v Speaker 1>I've got the general, I've got the victor. And here

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<v Speaker 1>it is, here's his word, living, breathing, alive. This word

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<v Speaker 1>is Christ John One. It says in the beginning was

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<v Speaker 1>the Word, and the word was with God, and the

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<v Speaker 1>word was God. When you read that word, when you

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<v Speaker 1>feast on it, you are literally feasting on the Lord.

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<v Speaker 1>So you take that book and you take Matthew one

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<v Speaker 1>one or any other place you want to start. Maybe John,

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<v Speaker 1>we just said that. Start there, Start John one. You

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<v Speaker 1>open that up and you go, Lord, I'm reading your

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<v Speaker 1>victorious word. Pour this word all over me. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>taste the sweetness of it, Let me feast on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me eat it up, because it is my life

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<v Speaker 1>sweeter than honey. I love this word. And if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't totally believe that, make that your prayer. God. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me see. Let me hunger for this, Let me taste that.

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<v Speaker 1>The Lord is good. And when you start tasting and

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<v Speaker 1>you start feasting, and you get rid of all that

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<v Speaker 1>other fast food that's just filling you up with junk,

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<v Speaker 1>so that you're not as hungry for the Word, the living, breathing,

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<v Speaker 1>abiding word. When you feast on that in that way,

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<v Speaker 1>you ain't got to worry about going to sleep. Brother,

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's get back to the podcast here. Going

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<v Speaker 1>to your questions, you email me Grangersmith podcast at gmail

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<v Speaker 1>dot com. It's super simple. I check these and they

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<v Speaker 1>go to a special folder Grangersmith Podcast at gmail dot com,

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<v Speaker 1>and I go through these and you could talk about

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<v Speaker 1>any subject you want to. Okay, we're gonna read them

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<v Speaker 1>randomly without me haveing ever seen them before. Okay, first one,

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<v Speaker 1>let's see subject line is question for podcast about giving. Hey, grangerd,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for all you do. Have a question about financial

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<v Speaker 1>giving and would love your perspective from someone who is

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<v Speaker 1>well off. My husband and I are very fortunate to

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<v Speaker 1>have good jobs. We are Christians who work very hard

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<v Speaker 1>and try to be generous with our money, with still

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<v Speaker 1>having enough left to save and provide for our family.

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<v Speaker 1>Hope this doesn't sound like boasting. I'm just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>give some context I've been reading in the Bible about

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus stating it is harder for the rich to make

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<v Speaker 1>it to Heaven than the poor because they give out

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<v Speaker 1>their extra So I am wondering what is your take

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<v Speaker 1>on this and recommendation to those who want to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that they're on the right path with giving and

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<v Speaker 1>helping others financially. I love the direction of your life

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<v Speaker 1>and can't wait to see your farewell tour in Fowlerville,

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<v Speaker 1>Michigan this summer. Emily. Hey, Emily thank you for the email,

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<v Speaker 1>thoughtful email you have here. And you know, this is

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<v Speaker 1>one of these questions that I get sometimes when sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>I read it and I think, just the thought, just

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<v Speaker 1>the thought that just the fact that you're reading into this,

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<v Speaker 1>you're digging into the subject like this, gives me an

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<v Speaker 1>indication that you're going to be okay because you're processing

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<v Speaker 1>this kind of stuff. Because if you're not processing it,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're not thinking about it, if you're not always

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<v Speaker 1>listen here it is, if you're not always trying to

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<v Speaker 1>bounce your lifestyle off of the Bible and make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that it's coming right back to you, making sure that

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<v Speaker 1>everything you're doing is biblical in every biblical way, and

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<v Speaker 1>then wrestling with it and wondering and hoping and praying

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<v Speaker 1>and digging back into the Word again and then reflecting

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<v Speaker 1>it back on your life and going, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>about this. This is weird right here, because sometimes we

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<v Speaker 1>get sanctified in certain areas that other people don't. That

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<v Speaker 1>is so important to understand, y'all. What do I mean

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<v Speaker 1>by that? It means it means that you could be

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<v Speaker 1>doing something that is not a sin to someone else,

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<v Speaker 1>but it becomes a sin to you, because it becomes

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<v Speaker 1>a form of idolatry, that it's not an idology, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not an idol to someone else. Here's my point. I

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<v Speaker 1>noticed a few years ago that I was starting to

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<v Speaker 1>care a little bit too much for college football in

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<v Speaker 1>a way that it was affecting my Saturday morning wake

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<v Speaker 1>up on Saturday morning, and I would get a little anxious,

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<v Speaker 1>like my heart would start beating. I start watching college

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<v Speaker 1>game Day and start thinking about the Aggies and thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about whoever they had, and then they would play, and

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<v Speaker 1>that would go two different directions for the rest of

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<v Speaker 1>the day. Either one direction I'm like on cloud nine

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<v Speaker 1>and super happy, or I would be really mad or

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<v Speaker 1>sad or upset or frustrated or mildly I'm gonna use

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<v Speaker 1>this word lightly depressed. But I realized that my emotions

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<v Speaker 1>were being affected by the Aggies in a way that

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<v Speaker 1>it was dictating happiness and sadness. And as I started

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<v Speaker 1>wrestling with that, I realized, I'm being sanctified in a

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<v Speaker 1>way that I need to drop this idol. I need

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<v Speaker 1>to get away from college football until I could until

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<v Speaker 1>I have learned to manage it in a in a

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<v Speaker 1>responsible way. And I remember my tour manager Chris was

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<v Speaker 1>like he was hearing me talk about that, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, wait, worry. So you tell me college football

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<v Speaker 1>is a sin. You tell me watching the Longhorns is

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<v Speaker 1>a sin. And I'm like, no, no, I'm not. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I mean that some things can become idols

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<v Speaker 1>for certain people, to become a sin and not for others.

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<v Speaker 1>So as you feel with your question, with your with

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<v Speaker 1>your finances and your giving, and you're reading the word,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're you're you're attending church and you're you're plugged

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<v Speaker 1>into your community, and you're you're living with your palms up,

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<v Speaker 1>hands open, no closed fist, and you say, God, it

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<v Speaker 1>is all yours. Everything I have is yours. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>be the steward of it. Let me be able to

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<v Speaker 1>pour into others with the gifts that you've given me

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<v Speaker 1>and anything I have, every penny, every every piece of

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<v Speaker 1>food on my plate is from you. So let me

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<v Speaker 1>steward that. Don't let me hold back anything, don't let

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<v Speaker 1>me be selfish, don't let anything be from self intentions. Right, So,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're living that way, then that's when you could

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<v Speaker 1>better see the sanctification. As things start coming off and

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<v Speaker 1>you go. You know what, I feel weird about getting

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<v Speaker 1>those shoes. I feel weird about getting a new car

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<v Speaker 1>like that doesn't feel right. I feel strange about taking

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<v Speaker 1>this family vacation this year. None of the things I

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<v Speaker 1>just said, getting shoes, getting a car, taking a vacation,

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<v Speaker 1>none of those are sin. But it could be for

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<v Speaker 1>you if you're living and breathing in the word and

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<v Speaker 1>you're feasting on it and you realize, oh, the Lord

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<v Speaker 1>is sanctifying me here. The Lord's sanctifying me on this

0:27:43.400 --> 0:27:46.639
<v Speaker 1>jewelry that I've been shopping for on Amazon that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't need. I'm not telling you not to get jewelry.

0:27:49.760 --> 0:27:54.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, listen, listen to how you specifically are being sanctified.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a general answer to begin the conversation that I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's a great question you're asking and that you're

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<v Speaker 1>asking it. But what I want to go to next

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<v Speaker 1>in your question is I want to make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>you are plugged in to a good local church, a

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<v Speaker 1>church that's not too big, a church, that there's enough

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<v Speaker 1>pastors in your church, even if it's just one, to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to shepherd the flock personally and appropriately and responsibly.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you have two thousand members in your church.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you don't, but if you do, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>need about two hundred and fifty pastors or more right,

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<v Speaker 1>not really, not really, I'm exaggerating, but you need to

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<v Speaker 1>have enough pastors and elders or whatever your church is

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<v Speaker 1>run by that could responsibly lead the flock. These shepherds

0:28:50.000 --> 0:28:53.479
<v Speaker 1>need to be You don't. I'm just rambling all you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want too many sheep for the one shepherd that

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<v Speaker 1>he can't be able to tend to the flock in

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<v Speaker 1>the personal needs. So I want you to be plugged

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<v Speaker 1>into a church like that, Emily, so that you could

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<v Speaker 1>walk through this question with your elders or your pastor

0:29:11.480 --> 0:29:17.080
<v Speaker 1>or other church members. So you could say, Pastor, we

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<v Speaker 1>we just you know, my husband just got a bonus

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<v Speaker 1>at work and we are kind of deliberating on what

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<v Speaker 1>to do with this with this bonus, the pastor looks

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<v Speaker 1>at it from an outside perspective with a biblical foundation,

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<v Speaker 1>so that you aren't being self deceived with your own money,

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<v Speaker 1>so that you avoid this situation of hoarding our feeling

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<v Speaker 1>prideful or feeling greed as you hoard in money, and

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time that you're not irresponsible and giving

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<v Speaker 1>it all out, so then you have you have nothing

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<v Speaker 1>to pay the bills next month with. You could make

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<v Speaker 1>that same mistake and be homeless as well. Bible does

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<v Speaker 1>not call us to be homeless. So I think a

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<v Speaker 1>pastor leading you through this stuff helps you to stay

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<v Speaker 1>out of it is. You're not stuck in the vacuum.

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<v Speaker 1>So he could say, I would take twenty percent, put

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<v Speaker 1>it here, ten percent, put it here, take a couple

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<v Speaker 1>hundred dollars, and you guys go enjoy a nice steak

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<v Speaker 1>dinner so you could relax away from the kids a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. He might say something like that. In a

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<v Speaker 1>situation that you might have felt guilty to take that

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<v Speaker 1>steak dinner, the pastor says, I feel like you'd be

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<v Speaker 1>good stewards to yourselves by going out and enjoying a

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<v Speaker 1>nice meal away from the kids. I think that's a

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<v Speaker 1>great idea to have someone else be able to pour

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<v Speaker 1>into you that way, and that's what a pastor is

0:30:42.720 --> 0:30:46.920
<v Speaker 1>supposed to do. So it's so important to be plugged

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<v Speaker 1>into a body of believers around you, and you could say, hey, everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>we're trying to be the best stewards of the wealth

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<v Speaker 1>that God has blessed us with. How do we do this?

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<v Speaker 1>It's really interesting that someone at that very moment might say,

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<v Speaker 1>I've got a cousin that's going on a mission trip

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<v Speaker 1>in Uganda and they're needing some funding, and you go

0:31:10.840 --> 0:31:13.440
<v Speaker 1>there it is the Lord's now put that on my heart.

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<v Speaker 1>How much money do you need? He needs forty seven

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<v Speaker 1>hundred dollars, and you go, okay, I'm living open handed,

0:31:19.760 --> 0:31:22.760
<v Speaker 1>open palmed. Here's a check for forty seven hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really interesting how the Lord works through those that

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of faithfulness. It's a good question. Sorry for

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<v Speaker 1>the long answer, but thanks for asking it. Next question

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<v Speaker 1>subject cliente says hil excuse me, homeschool or public school.

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<v Speaker 1>Subdecline says homeschool or public school. My husband and I

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<v Speaker 1>are becoming increasingly more concerned with the state of our

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<v Speaker 1>public schools. We are God fearing people. The indoctrination of

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<v Speaker 1>our children is real and it's happening. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>the Lord has placed homeschooling on my heart. The homeschooling

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<v Speaker 1>world is evolving and growing. My husband has asked God

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<v Speaker 1>to reveal his will to us in this regard what

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<v Speaker 1>are your thoughts? Colby from Alabama? Thanks Colby, I appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>you listening and writing in shout out to beautiful Alabama.

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<v Speaker 1>And let's walk through your question here. What I want

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure Colby. I want to make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>in Kobe's a girl, I want to make sure you're

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<v Speaker 1>not living in fear of man or society. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>I want to make that distinction. I don't think there's

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<v Speaker 1>anything wrong with what you're saying, as long as when

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<v Speaker 1>you say we're God fearing people, the indoctrination of our

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<v Speaker 1>children is real, as long as you don't mean we

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<v Speaker 1>believe in God and we believe that we believe that

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<v Speaker 1>we are now fearful that man is going to change

0:32:56.320 --> 0:32:59.200
<v Speaker 1>our kids and turn them away from God. So there's

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<v Speaker 1>a there's a there that you have to live partly

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<v Speaker 1>by saying God is sovereign, God is providential. He has

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<v Speaker 1>put us in this community, he has he has the

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<v Speaker 1>whole world in his hands, like the song says, and

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<v Speaker 1>and the indoctrination doesn't happen to my kids because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>bringing them up in the Lord. And so instead of helicoptering,

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<v Speaker 1>instead of protecting them from the world, you are preparing

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<v Speaker 1>them for the world. How you deal with that is

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<v Speaker 1>up to you and your own household. You have to play.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to understand the dynamics of your family and

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<v Speaker 1>your kids. I don't know that. You have to understand

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<v Speaker 1>the dynamic of your your local public school. You have

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<v Speaker 1>to understand the dynamic of your wife and you and

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<v Speaker 1>your excuse me, your husband, and your ability to be

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<v Speaker 1>teachers in your own home and to be stewards of

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<v Speaker 1>the curriculum that you're that you need to teach. So

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<v Speaker 1>these are things that you have to wrestle with that.

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<v Speaker 1>There's too many questions that I don't know from one

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<v Speaker 1>message here. As long as you know that the end

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<v Speaker 1>goal is not protecting from the world, but preparing for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever gets that done, how do you prepare them from

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<v Speaker 1>the world, That's really important because I just can't say broadly, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, everyone should homeschool. Can't say that because I

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<v Speaker 1>think in a lot of situations public school is going

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<v Speaker 1>to be the best bet to prepare them for the world.

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<v Speaker 1>And a lot of people don't have the means for homeschooling,

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<v Speaker 1>or they don't have the money or the space or

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<v Speaker 1>the ability because they also work full time jobs. So

0:34:51.719 --> 0:34:56.920
<v Speaker 1>that's just you can't. I can't say it to everyone. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that being said, the next part of your question is,

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<v Speaker 1>my husband has asked God to reveal his will to us. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>his will is revealed through the renewal of our minds.

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<v Speaker 1>We know that the Bible, it's very clear that to

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<v Speaker 1>understand God's will for us happens through the renewal of

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<v Speaker 1>our minds as we study God's word, as we fellowship

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<v Speaker 1>with other brothers and sisters, as we are under sound

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<v Speaker 1>teaching from our local pastor that has prepared a message

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<v Speaker 1>every week from us and then continues to walk as

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<v Speaker 1>the shepherd for us throughout the week. This is I

0:35:40.000 --> 0:35:43.600
<v Speaker 1>give you this advice, and I live this advice myself

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<v Speaker 1>as well. Okay, all everything I'm saying, I'm living myself.

0:35:47.400 --> 0:35:49.520
<v Speaker 1>So this is not something I'm putting on you. I

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<v Speaker 1>need to follow this myself as well. But we understand

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<v Speaker 1>that God and his will for us revealed doesn't happen,

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<v Speaker 1>can But it doesn't happen through a dream revelation or

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<v Speaker 1>a wild writing in the sky. Okay, it happens through long,

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<v Speaker 1>long games of slow, patient reading and studying and serving

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<v Speaker 1>and self denying, and as that happens every day, our

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<v Speaker 1>minds are renewed, and then we could we could have

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<v Speaker 1>a better sense for what He needs for us. Part

0:36:30.760 --> 0:36:33.600
<v Speaker 1>of it, you could say, right here through this podcast,

0:36:33.640 --> 0:36:37.400
<v Speaker 1>God uses human agency to enact his will and to

0:36:37.480 --> 0:36:40.319
<v Speaker 1>speak to us. So part of it could be what

0:36:40.360 --> 0:36:43.040
<v Speaker 1>you're hearing right now through this podcast. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>the most important thing to take away is there is

0:36:45.080 --> 0:36:49.200
<v Speaker 1>no right or wrong answer. Do not be afraid of society.

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<v Speaker 1>We raised children up in this society for times like this.

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<v Speaker 1>We need good kids to be raised in this society,

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<v Speaker 1>and we shouldn't shy away from it. We should build

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<v Speaker 1>them up up from our own homes and send them

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<v Speaker 1>out prepared with armor on. They go out into the world,

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<v Speaker 1>and we don't care what the world brings. Nothing in

0:37:06.960 --> 0:37:10.240
<v Speaker 1>the world surprises us, nothing catches us off off guard

0:37:10.440 --> 0:37:13.600
<v Speaker 1>because we have prepared them, we have armed them. So

0:37:13.719 --> 0:37:16.719
<v Speaker 1>go out because you're made for a time like this, right.

0:37:16.760 --> 0:37:19.440
<v Speaker 1>That's that's how we view our children going into the world,

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<v Speaker 1>instead of.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm scared of I'm scared of society because they are

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<v Speaker 2>indoctrinating us. They are forcing their ideas on our children,

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<v Speaker 2>and their whole plan is to make our children conformed

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<v Speaker 2>to their ideas, and so we want to shield them

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<v Speaker 2>from that and keep them in our own homes. Make

0:37:41.840 --> 0:37:44.520
<v Speaker 2>sure I'm not saying homeschooling is bad. I'm saying in

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of cases, it's actually really good. But make

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<v Speaker 2>sure that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not your motivation, because that motivation is driven by

0:37:52.760 --> 0:37:59.600
<v Speaker 1>what fear. Stop being on defense and go on offense.

0:37:59.640 --> 0:38:03.520
<v Speaker 1>As a parent, we stay on offense. Don't go in this,

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<v Speaker 1>don't go in this cave where we're defending against the

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<v Speaker 1>crazy ideas of twenty twenty three. The indoctrination of our children.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, hold their ears, hold their eyes. No, we

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<v Speaker 1>prepare them and then we go out with their weapons

0:38:16.040 --> 0:38:18.920
<v Speaker 1>on offense. Does that make sense? Please don't take that

0:38:18.960 --> 0:38:21.480
<v Speaker 1>literal when I said weapons. You know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a great question, and I hope I was faithful

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<v Speaker 1>in walking through that with you. Next question, here got

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<v Speaker 1>another one coming up. Oh man, that's so funny. Ironically,

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<v Speaker 1>the next question, subject client says, what is God's purpose

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<v Speaker 1>for me? A grand dr. I'm sixteen years old, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>finishing my junior year in high school. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what I want to do. After I graduate high school.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really have interest in college at this point,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't have something specifically that I would love

0:38:55.160 --> 0:38:57.920
<v Speaker 1>to do as a career. I want to fulfill God's

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<v Speaker 1>purpose for me in life. Do you have any advice

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<v Speaker 1>on how to find what God has for me to

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<v Speaker 1>do in this life? Is there anything wrong with working

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<v Speaker 1>at a non career business instead of getting a career

0:39:09.760 --> 0:39:13.759
<v Speaker 1>at college or going to further schooling. Thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>doing this podcast. It's so enjoyable and encouraging to listen to.

0:39:16.920 --> 0:39:20.520
<v Speaker 1>I love your music too. Yee Okay, And you don't

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<v Speaker 1>say Joel is your name? You don't say anonymous. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say Joel, thanks for emailing sixteen years old. I

0:39:27.200 --> 0:39:30.320
<v Speaker 1>love it when sixteen year old listens to this podcast.

0:39:30.960 --> 0:39:35.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm extremely encouraged by that. So it feeling is mutual. Joel.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me talk about this a little bit. The first thing,

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<v Speaker 1>those of you all that have heard this a long time,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll know that I'm probably gonna lead with this. First things. First,

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<v Speaker 1>be sixteen. You're worrying about adult problems, and I don't

0:39:53.719 --> 0:39:56.279
<v Speaker 1>want you to worry. I want you to think about them,

0:39:56.760 --> 0:39:58.680
<v Speaker 1>but I don't want you to worry about them. I

0:39:58.680 --> 0:40:01.280
<v Speaker 1>don't want you to stress over them. Because you're sixteen.

0:40:01.840 --> 0:40:04.120
<v Speaker 1>It's cool to have a plan. It's cool to say, yeah,

0:40:04.120 --> 0:40:06.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of thinking about this and this and this.

0:40:06.880 --> 0:40:09.680
<v Speaker 1>But as soon as you start saying I'm really worried

0:40:09.680 --> 0:40:14.680
<v Speaker 1>about this, there's a problem. Because you're sixteen, and really

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<v Speaker 1>the most important thing you could do right now is

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<v Speaker 1>get good grades. And that's so cliche to say, but

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<v Speaker 1>getting good grades prepares you for all of the above,

0:40:23.960 --> 0:40:27.840
<v Speaker 1>prepares you for all of the answers. Every scenario is

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<v Speaker 1>well equipped when you have good grades going through high school. Okay,

0:40:34.600 --> 0:40:36.640
<v Speaker 1>you're finishing your junior year, so these are things that

0:40:36.800 --> 0:40:38.960
<v Speaker 1>you know. As you get to be a senior, it

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<v Speaker 1>becomes more and more important. So get good grades and

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<v Speaker 1>then I'm gonna kind of touch on the God's purpose

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<v Speaker 1>that don't get hung up on that. We get hung

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<v Speaker 1>up on this God's purpose thing, or as in the

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<v Speaker 1>last email, said God's will, trying to discern God's will

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<v Speaker 1>for me, trying to find out my purpose. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what you're purposes, Joel. Your purpose is at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the Book of Matthew, go forth making disciples of

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<v Speaker 1>all nations. Teaching them to obey. That's your purpose. It's

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<v Speaker 1>all as believers. If you are a Christian, that's your purpose,

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<v Speaker 1>going into all nations preaching the Word, teaching them to

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<v Speaker 1>be disciples and to obey Jesus. That's what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>That's your purpose, and there's many ways of accomplishing that

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<v Speaker 1>through all kinds of different jobs and vocations. Next, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to say this so that you don't get hung

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<v Speaker 1>up on that God's purpose thing. Don't do that. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>get hung up on as if God is going to

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<v Speaker 1>speak to you through the clouds and giving you a

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<v Speaker 1>big announcement that you're doing this Now, it's a slow thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You're slowly churning that, butter buddy. I just said that,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't I. You're slowly churning that, butter buddy. So don't

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<v Speaker 1>be looking for big revelation, be looking for small steps.

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<v Speaker 1>They're in the right direction. The next thing I want

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<v Speaker 1>to say is the end of your email says should I.

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<v Speaker 1>Basically you're saying should I go to college or go

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<v Speaker 1>straight into a business, or should I pursue further schooling.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to say it this way. If you get

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<v Speaker 1>to that crossroads at the end of your senior year

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<v Speaker 1>and you still have the same question should I go

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<v Speaker 1>into work or should I go into school? If you

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<v Speaker 1>still are there and nothing's clear to you yet, which

0:42:37.360 --> 0:42:39.440
<v Speaker 1>it might not be, It's okay, I didn't have a

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<v Speaker 1>clear picture when I was your age at all. When

0:42:41.760 --> 0:42:45.960
<v Speaker 1>I was sixteen, I was an idiot. So if you

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<v Speaker 1>still have that question at that point, it's always better

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<v Speaker 1>to equip with as many tools as you possibly can

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<v Speaker 1>before you go out into the world. And a tool

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<v Speaker 1>comes from learning some kind of trade or further schooling

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<v Speaker 1>for a some kind of degree, So you're either padding

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<v Speaker 1>your resume with a degree or you're gaining another tool

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<v Speaker 1>for your belt through a tech, some kind of tech.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just the that's just the better way to do it. Always,

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<v Speaker 1>instead of going, okay, I'm at a crossroads, which way

0:43:21.480 --> 0:43:23.920
<v Speaker 1>should I go? The way that you should always go

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<v Speaker 1>if you're there and you still don't know, is equip

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<v Speaker 1>equip yourself with tools. Now, you could do that while

0:43:31.239 --> 0:43:33.600
<v Speaker 1>you're still working. You want to still work and either

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<v Speaker 1>go to night's school or work, or go to school

0:43:36.400 --> 0:43:41.120
<v Speaker 1>in the day and work nights. But equip yourself with

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<v Speaker 1>some kind of trade will just just matter so much

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<v Speaker 1>down the road, it will matter to you in ways

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<v Speaker 1>that you can't possibly understand. Personal example, I went to

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<v Speaker 1>I went to Texas A and M. And I left

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<v Speaker 1>after two years to go write songs for EMI Publishing

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<v Speaker 1>in Nashville. But then I was at a crossroads about

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<v Speaker 1>twenty two years old, thinking I want to go play music.

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<v Speaker 1>All I want to do is play music. That's all

0:44:12.040 --> 0:44:13.759
<v Speaker 1>I want to do. It's all I cared about. It's

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<v Speaker 1>all I thought about was playing music, touring with a band,

0:44:17.040 --> 0:44:22.240
<v Speaker 1>and I was romanticized about that. But I knew probably

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<v Speaker 1>the best move is to finish that degree that I

0:44:24.480 --> 0:44:26.879
<v Speaker 1>started at Texas A and M. So I went back

0:44:26.960 --> 0:44:29.320
<v Speaker 1>to college station, lived with my uncle, slept on his couch,

0:44:29.400 --> 0:44:33.480
<v Speaker 1>uncle Johnny, and worked at different places and worked for

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<v Speaker 1>him in construction, worked as a painter, worked as a

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<v Speaker 1>lawn guy, and hosted some open mic nights. As I

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<v Speaker 1>was playing music and was able to finish up school

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<v Speaker 1>and I got a history degree because I loved history.

0:44:47.960 --> 0:44:50.560
<v Speaker 1>But I didn't know how much that was going to

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<v Speaker 1>mean to me until literally twenty years later. I was

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<v Speaker 1>called out of music and into industry, and guess what

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<v Speaker 1>I was able to go into seminary and pursue a

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<v Speaker 1>graduate degree on top of the bachelor's degree. I got

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<v Speaker 1>to Texas A and M. And if I hadn't done

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<v Speaker 1>that when I was twenty two, if I hadn't thought

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<v Speaker 1>about going back, then I would be in a different

0:45:17.200 --> 0:45:20.239
<v Speaker 1>situation where I wouldn't be able to go seek that

0:45:20.320 --> 0:45:25.560
<v Speaker 1>master's degree in seminary. And so my point is it's

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<v Speaker 1>better now to equip when you don't have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of responsibility and a bunch of kids running around and

0:45:30.440 --> 0:45:33.040
<v Speaker 1>a wife and bills to pay, it's better to go

0:45:33.120 --> 0:45:36.600
<v Speaker 1>grab as many things as you are interested in. And

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<v Speaker 1>that could just be a general studies degree at at

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<v Speaker 1>a junior college or some kind of tech school. If

0:45:44.040 --> 0:45:48.879
<v Speaker 1>you're into something that's techie, do that. I've heard Dave

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<v Speaker 1>Ramsey say, You're like a caveman in a cave, and

0:45:51.960 --> 0:45:55.520
<v Speaker 1>you want to gather as many tools in your cave

0:45:55.560 --> 0:45:56.920
<v Speaker 1>as you can sol when you go out of the

0:45:56.960 --> 0:46:00.680
<v Speaker 1>cave to make your kill, which is in business or

0:46:00.840 --> 0:46:03.880
<v Speaker 1>life or career, you want to have the right tools

0:46:03.960 --> 0:46:07.320
<v Speaker 1>to make the kill. And so your tools are something

0:46:07.360 --> 0:46:12.319
<v Speaker 1>you could get right now. Joel, don't forget the first

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<v Speaker 1>part of this question. Just be sixteen. Don't dig too deep,

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<v Speaker 1>just make plans responsibly, but also enjoy being sixteen. That's

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<v Speaker 1>all we got today, guys, love y'all so much, See

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<v Speaker 1>you next Monday. Thanks for joining me on the Granger

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