WEBVTT - Doin’ Too Much w/ Tasha K 0:00:28.360 --> 0:00:44.120 He laugh. If you watch Coffee Time too, Baby, you 0:00:44.159 --> 0:00:46.519 know the name Flame, my role also known as my 0:00:46.600 --> 0:00:49.159 role Flame. Come in with last and come in with 0:00:49.280 --> 0:00:51.600 Jim love lounds. Baby, you better catch it when you 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:55.160 can't drop a knowledge from Fatherhood of Politics shouting now 0:00:55.280 --> 0:00:58.400 comics just paying homede. What's up? Tip? Yeah? You know 0:00:58.520 --> 0:01:01.040 she raped shot towns on speaking to the ground. And 0:01:01.120 --> 0:01:04.120 second we're gonna last kind of the kicking and at 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:06.160 the end we leave it, which is a lift dispirit. 0:01:06.240 --> 0:01:08.200 You think you want to revisit, tell your first take 0:01:08.200 --> 0:01:10.399 a list at Jill. Folks say it's lift, Oh folks 0:01:10.440 --> 0:01:14.360 that we dig it. Hain't no kids do what you don't. 0:01:14.440 --> 0:01:17.360 No fish do what you do. I can't, no fish 0:01:17.440 --> 0:01:41.800 do what I do, No fish. I am your host, 0:01:41.920 --> 0:01:44.760 Flaming Bro along with my partner Lauren Hogan and my 0:01:44.880 --> 0:01:46.880 other partner Nick Smith. News. Who's gonna come to be 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:49.240 joining us? By us, by your zoom in a second. 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:53.760 Today it's a very special day because it's hot. First 0:01:53.800 --> 0:01:57.560 of all, I celebrated a second graduation today. My my 0:01:57.680 --> 0:02:00.520 fourteen year old graduating if grade today. She's going high school. 0:02:01.080 --> 0:02:02.840 Want ago, I can't go to the one tomorrow. I 0:02:02.960 --> 0:02:06.040 get y'all that dirt lady. She's talking plenty ship too. Uh. 0:02:06.680 --> 0:02:10.320 And we have our very first in studio guests since 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:13.519 we have started laughing learned November the fourteenth attist to 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:18.480 show What Show thirty one very because of coronavirus. We 0:02:18.560 --> 0:02:21.919 have the one be very infamous and very famous and 0:02:22.240 --> 0:02:33.040 very ready for y'all today. Honey, it's today, Transerena Howards 0:02:34.320 --> 0:02:41.399 trans Arena. That was like, I'm taking my name absolutely, 0:02:41.600 --> 0:02:44.000 my husband leave, I'm taking my name take everything. I'm 0:02:44.080 --> 0:02:47.840 leaving my Let me tell you, I'm so happy to 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:49.840 have you here talking to the studio because we did 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:51.720 an interview a couple of weeks ago. It was very good. 0:02:51.760 --> 0:02:54.200 We got a lot of traction. It showed a great 0:02:54.280 --> 0:02:56.200 side of you that people were not expecting. I thought 0:02:56.200 --> 0:02:58.200 we was gonna get on there, cut up in clowning. 0:02:58.400 --> 0:02:59.880 We need to do that though, and we might do 0:03:00.040 --> 0:03:08.360 that today. How Lauren, My week was good. Can't really complain, 0:03:08.440 --> 0:03:10.320 you know, travels picking up again. I gotta go to 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:14.760 Atlanta this week. Yeah, I'm coming to again. Oh I 0:03:14.880 --> 0:03:19.200 have a hotel. But thank you are you offering that's 0:03:19.200 --> 0:03:23.240 good to thank your makeup flesh. Thanks, so with yours. 0:03:24.000 --> 0:03:27.440 We were talking about my makeup to shout her out. 0:03:27.919 --> 0:03:31.799 I think it's makeup me passion, makeup me passion. She's 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:34.480 out of l A, she's Nigeria. She's absolutely gorgeous and 0:03:34.560 --> 0:03:37.240 she did a great job. Color sal dark skin women, 0:03:37.280 --> 0:03:41.960 that's all. And your foundation is perfect, flawless. You know 0:03:42.120 --> 0:03:44.000 sometimes you see a darker girl and she got the 0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:48.640 call me ghost face, like a ghost face, be all dark. 0:03:48.680 --> 0:03:51.200 And then she put the hands up like I'll be 0:03:52.160 --> 0:03:54.160 because you know they're African, they'd be like that. Maybe 0:03:54.680 --> 0:03:57.560 it's really it's really all they have available over there, 0:03:58.000 --> 0:04:00.200 so they give the light of foundation. Is you what 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:02.440 I'm saying? They haven't, you know. I'm like, Rihanna, please 0:04:02.600 --> 0:04:07.040 put your put finty beauty in Molly please. Yes, we 0:04:07.120 --> 0:04:08.880 need some doctors. That's what I got on my face. 0:04:08.960 --> 0:04:11.440 I'm talking about, like they face like your color and 0:04:11.560 --> 0:04:19.960 my body. You know the Rihanna, you need a dumb ship. 0:04:20.040 --> 0:04:21.520 They din't going out the ones to day because I'm 0:04:21.520 --> 0:04:26.560 about to. But I'm trying to get my help stick 0:04:26.720 --> 0:04:33.279 like you know he should. We look good, ebt baby. 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:38.800 But this was a great week. I'm so glad you now, 0:04:38.839 --> 0:04:42.440 why are you doing in California vacation? I came to 0:04:42.520 --> 0:04:47.120 get funked up. Oh that's a beautiful thing. Listen. I 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:50.640 cut it off yesterday at six pm the dispensaries. We 0:04:50.760 --> 0:04:54.800 had the party bus with the custom me gooes in 0:04:54.920 --> 0:05:00.280 front of the dispensary. Y'all do on that. But man, 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:09.200 listen what happened. It was camera what Mr Howard Howard 0:05:09.560 --> 0:05:15.520 wife was on her best behavior, you know his wife ship. 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:24.960 Everybody Latasha in public, Tasha K trans Arena, trans arena. 0:05:25.080 --> 0:05:28.840 You know what it means if I transfer transgender, trans 0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:35.279 transpor transfo trans trans communication. Everybody was called be transformer 0:05:35.320 --> 0:05:37.760 coming up because my name is Latasha trans Arena. How 0:05:38.040 --> 0:05:40.400 they called me transformer, Howard the duck, and I'd be 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:43.680 like Howard that where did that come from? My last 0:05:43.760 --> 0:05:48.040 name was Howard Dairy. Yeah, so I was just like 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:52.000 always talking good. But my grandmother named me trans arena 0:05:52.080 --> 0:05:59.920 because it means the transfer of joy, not like my transferna. Absolutely, 0:06:00.279 --> 0:06:03.280 I'm gonna transfer to your ass alright, but we ain't 0:06:03.320 --> 0:06:06.480 gonna be joy. Well it will be eventually, but it 0:06:06.640 --> 0:06:12.160 starts all painful. I love it, so yeah, that's that's 0:06:12.200 --> 0:06:13.920 where I got the name. Well, I am so bad 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:16.480 to have you. We haven't introduce you to our partner, Lauren. Yes, 0:06:17.960 --> 0:06:20.080 he better be suited and booty today because I gave 0:06:20.080 --> 0:06:23.200 you a pass last week. Listen. I like the casual 0:06:23.320 --> 0:06:28.680 look we had last Monday. I brought some rose for flame. 0:06:29.360 --> 0:06:35.280 She she we ain't drinking. I'll drinking. I'm drinking. Drink 0:06:35.360 --> 0:06:39.080 some Can you move your mic a little bit closer? Okay? Alright, 0:06:39.120 --> 0:06:42.360 got it right? Here is hey? Nick? How are you 0:06:43.240 --> 0:06:45.440 still well? Hey? You know what? But you gave me 0:06:45.480 --> 0:06:47.239 a pass last week. You know I had to step 0:06:47.240 --> 0:06:53.920 it up for Tasha, So you know that that bear 0:06:54.040 --> 0:06:58.360 and ship. You know what I like? How do you know? 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:01.560 What's your name? I'm Nick. I am part of the 0:07:01.640 --> 0:07:04.760 team Lauren and I try to do our best. You're 0:07:04.800 --> 0:07:13.320 Mary Nick. I'm working on it though, we're working on it, ladies. 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:16.400 I'm working on it. So, yes, Nick, you got a 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:22.040 new chair today too. What's up with that again? Fact? Okay, Natasha? 0:07:22.200 --> 0:07:24.520 Fact okay? I like it's the new stuff. I'm seeing 0:07:24.600 --> 0:07:27.240 a green screen did invent you know, steamed and everything else? 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:30.160 It looks very professional, And then I feel like you 0:07:30.240 --> 0:07:35.160 know you're an iron the curtain, Fatasha. Okay, Okay, the 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:42.240 new outfit is from she and Okay, listen, I want 0:07:42.240 --> 0:07:44.080 to make sure we go ahead and get things going. Batasha. 0:07:44.120 --> 0:07:46.400 I just want to extend once again a great welcome 0:07:46.440 --> 0:07:49.880 to you. I thought the moment you had with playing 0:07:49.960 --> 0:07:53.160 last last month was just fantastic. It was just a 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:55.360 great interview. So we are super excited to have you 0:07:55.440 --> 0:07:57.240 joining us today. So thank you. I am honored to 0:07:57.320 --> 0:08:00.520 be in the presence of a legend a mother. Let you, 0:08:03.520 --> 0:08:05.560 thank you, Thank you so much. Nick. Okay, I can 0:08:05.600 --> 0:08:11.120 see my face on your head. That's good. You can 0:08:11.160 --> 0:08:18.520 see it there and see it. Well, let's officially jump 0:08:18.560 --> 0:08:22.480 into the show. Let's just started. So, miss Tasha k 0:08:22.800 --> 0:08:25.480 you had a very interesting interview a couple of weeks 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:29.320 ago with Miss Angela's Stanton's daughter. We got to talk 0:08:29.360 --> 0:08:34.000 about it. You got to talk about it. So surprising enough, 0:08:34.040 --> 0:08:35.959 go ahead, go around, No, no, no, get into it. No, 0:08:36.120 --> 0:08:38.920 I'm just surprising enough. I don't funk with Angela like that. 0:08:39.920 --> 0:08:42.960 But when I saw Angela on that trash as platform, 0:08:43.720 --> 0:08:50.719 no shade look like, when I saw I was just 0:08:50.880 --> 0:08:55.160 like I I felt her as a mother. You understand now, 0:08:55.360 --> 0:08:58.520 nor do I condone disrespect, but people have to understand 0:08:58.559 --> 0:09:01.480 when you're a mother and you have teenage kids, they 0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:04.880 try they take you to another space. And I think 0:09:04.960 --> 0:09:08.760 there wasn't grace for her in that situation, and people 0:09:09.520 --> 0:09:11.559 it's hard for people to understand like this is a 0:09:11.720 --> 0:09:13.959 this is a person she's been raising, this is the 0:09:14.080 --> 0:09:17.880 person that she loves. And so I understand j B 0:09:18.000 --> 0:09:21.200 and JB wants to be JB's and that is okay, 0:09:21.360 --> 0:09:23.559 like that is your god given right. But I just 0:09:23.720 --> 0:09:26.920 think when it comes time to a mom being able 0:09:27.000 --> 0:09:29.920 to transition with you, because that is a transition process, 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:31.960 I think there should have been just a little bit 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:34.560 more grace. And I mean, her criminal record has nothing 0:09:34.600 --> 0:09:36.520 to do with her being a mom, because we've seen 0:09:36.679 --> 0:09:40.559 like correction facilities now are allowing the mothers with their 0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:43.920 babies in prison, So that means nothing, okay, because you're 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:46.240 still a mom. But I I and that's why I 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:48.839 wanted to talk to The reason I asked JBS to 0:09:48.920 --> 0:09:51.480 come on is because I wanted to see if I 0:09:52.120 --> 0:09:55.920 could offer that you know that I guess that idea 0:09:56.640 --> 0:10:00.360 for her to just give your mom just a little 0:10:00.400 --> 0:10:04.080 time just a little time. You see what I'm saying. 0:10:04.320 --> 0:10:07.360 I hate, honey when I tell you, I watched that interview, 0:10:07.920 --> 0:10:10.160 and as a trans woman, I used to be Jab's 0:10:10.240 --> 0:10:11.880 let me just start right there. I used to be 0:10:12.080 --> 0:10:15.000 nineteen years old and I was I wasn't doing trains 0:10:15.040 --> 0:10:18.520 like she was dressing up. But I really started at twenty. 0:10:19.040 --> 0:10:21.199 My issue and I got a lot of issues with 0:10:21.280 --> 0:10:24.439 Angela Stanton. I think that, first of all, I think 0:10:24.480 --> 0:10:26.439 she's sharp. Let me just let me be very. I 0:10:26.480 --> 0:10:30.280 think she's extract deptionally sharp. I think she's very informed 0:10:30.320 --> 0:10:33.079 on some things. But as soon as she realizes that 0:10:33.240 --> 0:10:36.319 the love for her child supersedes what her child has, 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:39.160 the love or the hate for what her child has become, 0:10:39.720 --> 0:10:41.559 she's going to be a better person. And I'm with you, 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:45.079 it's going to take time. My issue with Jabs was 0:10:45.480 --> 0:10:48.480 the disrespect didn't only show from her mom. When you 0:10:48.600 --> 0:10:51.480 were interviewing her. She picked up her phone and was 0:10:51.559 --> 0:10:54.120 reading her messages as if she wasn't even sitting in 0:10:54.200 --> 0:10:57.880 the room. Understand, the respect starts young and it carries 0:10:58.000 --> 0:11:01.319 over to older. I thought that was quite disrespectful. Because 0:11:01.360 --> 0:11:03.520 we're interviewed. Why am I gonna sit here, you asking 0:11:03.559 --> 0:11:05.079 me questions. I'm looking at my phone, like I'm not 0:11:05.120 --> 0:11:07.840 even addressing Well, she was reading the comments and she didn't. 0:11:07.880 --> 0:11:11.439 I didn't even know when she went off. I was 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:14.480 shocked because I was like, well, who's homophobic? But the 0:11:14.679 --> 0:11:16.719 entire time she was reading the comments, and I'm like, 0:11:17.000 --> 0:11:20.000 but but she was in an interview with you, So 0:11:20.280 --> 0:11:23.559 that was that was disrespectful to me. Secondly, me and 0:11:23.640 --> 0:11:26.360 my mom have don't have the greatest relationship. But I'm 0:11:26.360 --> 0:11:29.040 not going to publicly blast my mom. Even though we 0:11:29.120 --> 0:11:31.400 didn't have the internet back then, we didn't have social media. 0:11:31.800 --> 0:11:33.880 But I'm not gonna get on here and m f 0:11:34.000 --> 0:11:36.599 and bitch my mom and calor I d is the 0:11:36.679 --> 0:11:38.800 greatest thing ever invened. When you don't get along with 0:11:38.880 --> 0:11:40.839 your parents, but all you got to do is not 0:11:40.960 --> 0:11:44.520 answer the goddamn phone or not respond to the text, 0:11:44.600 --> 0:11:46.800 take to read or deliver it off your text messages. 0:11:46.960 --> 0:11:48.760 They never know when you got it. I thought she 0:11:48.880 --> 0:11:51.440 was quite disrespected and for all the information, and it's 0:11:51.600 --> 0:11:53.719 it's in challligent that she spoke to you at the 0:11:53.920 --> 0:11:55.760 end of the interview when she talks up into all 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:57.800 you bitches out there that's Hey, I'm gonna cut my 0:11:57.840 --> 0:12:00.560 dig off of y'all. Sud. What you did was took 0:12:00.679 --> 0:12:02.920 all the fame and the glory away from what you 0:12:03.040 --> 0:12:05.880 had just put out and made it look foolish. This 0:12:06.040 --> 0:12:08.520 is coming from an old training to a young training. 0:12:08.840 --> 0:12:10.959 It was ridiculous. I thought she was ridiculous. Do I 0:12:11.000 --> 0:12:14.640 agree with the mother Absolutely, not her political stance or 0:12:14.679 --> 0:12:16.319 how she loves her child. And like I said, I 0:12:16.480 --> 0:12:19.199 don't really everybody knows that I don't funk with Angela. 0:12:19.240 --> 0:12:20.839 Me and Angela love had a lot of back and 0:12:20.920 --> 0:12:25.120 forth public spats, you know what I'm saying, Mother, and 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:27.280 I extended that grace and so for me it was 0:12:27.360 --> 0:12:29.560 more like and I wish it could have been more intimate. 0:12:29.640 --> 0:12:32.400 It was actually supposed to be an intimate interview in 0:12:32.520 --> 0:12:35.800 the wine cellar, but of course, uh, she was coming 0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:37.800 from a gig and so we just kind of had 0:12:37.840 --> 0:12:39.719 to rope it in there and get it done so 0:12:39.800 --> 0:12:42.760 and that that's why it was so last minute. But um, 0:12:43.080 --> 0:12:45.920 and why it was you remember when you interviewed me 0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:47.880 and you told me that you knew a young trans girl. 0:12:48.000 --> 0:12:49.880 You wanted to ask her questions, but you didn't feel 0:12:49.920 --> 0:12:51.839 like you was in the space to do it. That 0:12:52.040 --> 0:12:54.520 was the space that you provided for her. She made 0:12:54.559 --> 0:12:56.920 it something else. See what I'm saying. We're always on 0:12:57.040 --> 0:12:59.040 the defense because our laves are so tough, and it 0:12:59.120 --> 0:13:01.480 starts at home. That was very living proof of what 0:13:01.600 --> 0:13:04.520 I told you about because all she was on the defense. 0:13:04.559 --> 0:13:07.120 She's on the defense with everybody because it started at 0:13:07.160 --> 0:13:10.200 her home with a mom. That's why we on a defense. 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:12.040 But if you get us into a safe space and 0:13:12.120 --> 0:13:14.600 make me feel comfortable and safe talking to you, I'm 0:13:14.640 --> 0:13:16.760 pretty much an open book. And most trainers women are 0:13:16.840 --> 0:13:19.280 were willing to tell our story to somebody we know 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:21.679 love and trust. But if I'm on the defense, then 0:13:21.720 --> 0:13:23.760 you come at me salways, Oh, I'm gonna straighten your 0:13:23.800 --> 0:13:25.840 ass up, because that's what we are used to doing. 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:28.439 And I think in this space too. I'm not a 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:34.959 parent by any means, but absolutely not, absolutely not. But 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:38.319 I think my main thing was I don't care how 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:40.400 bad a relationship is with the parent. I don't think 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:43.280 you should ever publicly bash your parents. You talked about 0:13:43.320 --> 0:13:45.520 this even when the whole Kirk Franklin and his son 0:13:45.600 --> 0:13:48.599 situation happened. It's just certain family business should just be 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:51.839 kept private. You shouldn't be publicizing that because if you're 0:13:51.840 --> 0:13:53.719 publicizing the hurt, how are you actually going to do 0:13:53.800 --> 0:13:56.599 the work at home to really repair the relationship. And 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:59.360 when you start disrespecting your parents, that becomes the focus 0:13:59.400 --> 0:14:01.360 on what you're saying, becomes almost like a mute point. 0:14:01.440 --> 0:14:03.120 And I feel like that's what happened with j BIS 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:05.640 at that point because you're I was looking at well, 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:07.520 why are you bashing your mama like this? I understand 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:09.880 she may be as wrong as all get out, absolutely 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:12.720 wholeheartedly agree with that, but that's that's still your mom. 0:14:12.800 --> 0:14:14.720 You're here because of her, you know what I mean? 0:14:14.800 --> 0:14:16.719 So there should there should still be some level of 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:19.520 respect at least from you as the child in the situation. 0:14:19.600 --> 0:14:21.280 That was my question. If you have one of your 0:14:21.360 --> 0:14:25.040 children turn your because you have two kids fourteen into yeah, 0:14:25.480 --> 0:14:32.920 somebody took a break at doing somebody at how is 0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:35.920 newter right now? I think that some of you wouldn't 0:14:35.920 --> 0:14:45.720 stop blaming me and can't get pregnant. How would you 0:14:45.920 --> 0:14:48.080 how would you in take one of your children they 0:14:48.120 --> 0:14:49.680 came to you at a certain age to say that 0:14:49.760 --> 0:14:53.080 they identify as transgender. UM to me, it wouldn't be 0:14:53.080 --> 0:14:55.720 a problem because you are so friendly with your fruit 0:14:55.760 --> 0:14:59.280 flap fla, And he would definitely be an issue for 0:14:59.760 --> 0:15:04.160 the dad. Yeah, because um, he's you know the way 0:15:04.240 --> 0:15:08.440 he was raised. You know African They're they're still oppressing, Uh, 0:15:08.560 --> 0:15:11.280 the LGBTQ and Molly. They have to hide it and 0:15:11.320 --> 0:15:13.280 if they get caught. There's a video. He just said 0:15:13.320 --> 0:15:16.440 me the other day, Um, they're arresting them, they're beating them, 0:15:16.600 --> 0:15:19.640 They're they're killing them. So he was raised like that 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:25.720 is not um healthy, acceptable, and so to him it 0:15:25.760 --> 0:15:28.160 would be in the family it would be a big issue. 0:15:28.240 --> 0:15:32.520 But for me, my child has my love going because 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:35.960 I first that child, Like I love my daughter for 0:15:36.040 --> 0:15:38.120 who she is. Like she said something the other day. 0:15:38.280 --> 0:15:40.560 I was commenting on an outfit that she had on, 0:15:41.040 --> 0:15:44.120 and I'm all about presentation. You know, kids sometimes don't 0:15:44.200 --> 0:15:46.160 understand that. And then she goes, well, what are you 0:15:46.240 --> 0:15:48.640 trying to say that I look that I look gay? 0:15:48.680 --> 0:15:51.160 And I'm like, what is what does that have to do. 0:15:51.280 --> 0:15:55.160 I've seen gay women look beautiful and then I've seen 0:15:55.240 --> 0:15:58.960 some gay women look funked up. I think I like 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:04.880 some of them. I said, I understand you're on TikTok, 0:16:05.040 --> 0:16:07.520 and they're gas lighting it as like, but you need 0:16:07.600 --> 0:16:10.520 to calm down, Like I I, you know, mommy has 0:16:10.680 --> 0:16:14.560 a lot of gay friends, are lesbian, bisexual, trans, It 0:16:14.640 --> 0:16:17.720 doesn't matter. But that has nothing to do with your sexuality, 0:16:17.840 --> 0:16:20.720 just because I'm telling you that you're representing yourself in 0:16:20.760 --> 0:16:23.360 a very wrong way right now. So and I think 0:16:23.400 --> 0:16:25.880 that's another thing, like you know j D's and you 0:16:25.960 --> 0:16:28.400 know her mom, Angela, Angela doesn't like the way that 0:16:28.520 --> 0:16:31.720 her daughter, a trans daughter, is representing herself to working 0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:33.880 and stuff on the internet. First of all, any parent 0:16:34.680 --> 0:16:38.360 doesn't like any of their children on the internet shaking 0:16:38.400 --> 0:16:40.680 their ass. I don't think it has anything to do 0:16:40.880 --> 0:16:42.840 with jb is being trans. It's like if it was 0:16:42.920 --> 0:16:45.400 the daughter, it would be a problem, but you know, 0:16:46.080 --> 0:16:51.040 she's roping everything into one and it's not like it's 0:16:51.080 --> 0:16:52.480 your right to do what you wanna do. But I 0:16:52.560 --> 0:16:55.440 just felt like the respect wasn't there. And I get it. 0:16:55.760 --> 0:16:59.760 Angela is a hothead. At the same time, that's shr mom, 0:16:59.880 --> 0:17:03.880 you you are. Jabs is a hothead because of her mom. 0:17:07.000 --> 0:17:11.000 It is called the Frankenstein effect. We create monster because 0:17:11.119 --> 0:17:13.600 let's go back to the Frankenstein story. Frankenstein was never 0:17:13.680 --> 0:17:16.639 the monster. Frankenstein created the monster, and then he did 0:17:16.720 --> 0:17:18.800 not want to face the monster that he created. That 0:17:19.280 --> 0:17:21.800 is what Angela has done. She has created this monster 0:17:22.119 --> 0:17:23.800 and that she don't want to deal with this monster 0:17:23.880 --> 0:17:26.000 that she created. And that's all that is. And I'm 0:17:26.040 --> 0:17:28.320 hoping that they can find a heavy place the sad parties. 0:17:28.560 --> 0:17:31.000 If they make up in five ten years, the Internet 0:17:31.080 --> 0:17:33.440 will never go away and it will always be there. 0:17:33.520 --> 0:17:34.919 That you called your mother out of her name. I'm 0:17:34.960 --> 0:17:36.359 gonna be honest with you. I've never shared this with 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:38.520 anybody my mom. I mean, they know that my mom 0:17:38.600 --> 0:17:40.359 and I have had like our ups and downs and 0:17:40.400 --> 0:17:43.200 stuff like that. But my mom called the Steve Wilko 0:17:43.359 --> 0:17:48.480 Show on me. She got pissed ship a couple of 0:17:48.480 --> 0:17:49.960 weeks ago. She was just like, I'm going to win it. 0:17:50.000 --> 0:17:51.560 Will you to tell all your business? I was like, 0:17:51.760 --> 0:17:56.680 please go do whatever you gotta go, do whatever you 0:17:56.760 --> 0:17:58.680 gotta do. But she thinks that's the way like to 0:17:59.000 --> 0:18:01.760 hurt me. Because when I don't want to disresct because 0:18:01.760 --> 0:18:04.480 I would never disrespect her, I just don't answer the phone. 0:18:05.640 --> 0:18:07.680 My thing is like I will never I will I 0:18:07.760 --> 0:18:11.280 will never ever fix my mouth to disrespect my mom. 0:18:11.359 --> 0:18:13.680 So if I can't say anything respectful to you, I 0:18:13.720 --> 0:18:17.640 would just rather so, but she will take you there, 0:18:18.560 --> 0:18:20.840 so she will. She will begin to say ship. And 0:18:20.920 --> 0:18:24.480 then you know, my mom knows me, she knows exactly 0:18:24.560 --> 0:18:26.639 what to do to get me out of my character. 0:18:27.640 --> 0:18:29.320 So I just don't you know what I'm saying, So 0:18:29.359 --> 0:18:31.320 I just take breaks from her. But she was just like, 0:18:31.440 --> 0:18:35.200 they know the people called me, and I said, respectfully, 0:18:35.960 --> 0:18:37.840 don't you fucking call me no more? And if I 0:18:37.920 --> 0:18:39.840 was gonna sit with anybody, you don't know, if it's 0:18:39.840 --> 0:18:42.320 to my white people, how the funk you're gonna fix 0:18:42.359 --> 0:18:45.600 a black issues? You see what I'm saying. You're really 0:18:45.680 --> 0:18:51.120 right about that. I don't that last week black bitch 0:18:51.200 --> 0:19:01.360 called whatever of thought a bunch of ship and then 0:19:01.400 --> 0:19:05.080 she tip out O work like that because we just 0:19:05.320 --> 0:19:10.440 foster the facility to well, what does that mean? We 0:19:10.640 --> 0:19:15.720 create a safe space conversation while you're here, you're going 0:19:15.840 --> 0:19:18.040 to talk now what you do outside of here? That 0:19:18.160 --> 0:19:22.359 ain't none of my motherfucker. That's nick. Did you watch 0:19:22.400 --> 0:19:26.119 the interview with Tasha and Jamie's I did in need 0:19:26.160 --> 0:19:28.680 and I think what my takeaway was because it's not. 0:19:29.240 --> 0:19:31.560 Neither of them are people to whom I'd be attracted 0:19:31.600 --> 0:19:34.920 to actually watch you do anything right. So my my, my, 0:19:35.200 --> 0:19:37.639 my fandom is with you because I do like the 0:19:37.680 --> 0:19:40.440 fact that you find a way to still elevate a conversation, 0:19:40.560 --> 0:19:43.240 because if it weren't for your platform, I don't know 0:19:43.440 --> 0:19:45.639 that I would have been engaged in what was happening 0:19:45.720 --> 0:19:47.840 with them, because I do think they have a very 0:19:47.920 --> 0:19:52.480 specific audience. I think that they tend to attract an 0:19:52.600 --> 0:19:54.560 element that is attracted to what it is that they 0:19:54.640 --> 0:19:56.680 bring to the table. Whereas you, on the other hand, 0:19:56.720 --> 0:19:58.560 I think that you've created, to say space through all 0:19:58.560 --> 0:20:01.399 of your interviews where you continue to offer people to 0:20:02.080 --> 0:20:05.000 air their voice and you keep it elevating. I think 0:20:05.040 --> 0:20:07.560 that my question for you is less about them, because 0:20:07.640 --> 0:20:09.600 I think they were only a moment and all the 0:20:09.680 --> 0:20:12.000 work that you've done. But how do you prepare when 0:20:12.040 --> 0:20:14.000 you are preparing for interviews and people that you have 0:20:14.080 --> 0:20:16.600 on your show, when you are prepared for your next guest, 0:20:16.680 --> 0:20:19.600 like you prepared for Claim or anyone proceeding Flaim, how 0:20:19.640 --> 0:20:22.800 do you prepare for your guests who attend your show. Well, 0:20:22.960 --> 0:20:25.920 I hate to say this, but I don't. I like 0:20:26.080 --> 0:20:28.000 to get to know people as they are. I don't 0:20:28.040 --> 0:20:30.520 want to have a preconceived notion going into any of 0:20:30.600 --> 0:20:33.639 my interviews. Now, of course, I do have an interview 0:20:33.680 --> 0:20:36.280 coming up with calling, um, I don't want to have 0:20:36.400 --> 0:20:40.240 a preconceived Yes, I don't want to. I'm not gonna 0:20:40.280 --> 0:20:42.159 go in with a preconceived but I have done some 0:20:42.280 --> 0:20:45.840 work because I'm not a basketball fan and so and 0:20:45.920 --> 0:20:48.920 everything that I found out giving his basketball career. I'm 0:20:48.960 --> 0:20:51.600 not a sports fan at all. So just like that, no, 0:20:51.840 --> 0:20:53.639 you know, and I heard people, you know, saying that, like, 0:20:53.840 --> 0:20:55.440 how is she going to conduct this interview and she 0:20:55.480 --> 0:20:58.399 doesn't know sports? Well, we're not here talking about sports. 0:20:58.440 --> 0:21:01.320 We're gonna touch on that briefly. But I mean, Kwamie 0:21:01.320 --> 0:21:03.840 Brown has really made a statement coming up. You know 0:21:03.840 --> 0:21:05.760 what I'm saying. And he's been going back and forth 0:21:05.880 --> 0:21:11.520 with your partner, you know what I'm saying, Yeah, you 0:21:11.560 --> 0:21:14.000 know what I'm saying. And so that's that right there. 0:21:14.040 --> 0:21:15.880 It's like and and everybody was like, well, you gotta 0:21:15.920 --> 0:21:18.600 you gotta go to Tasha k and so you know, uh, 0:21:18.880 --> 0:21:21.879 Star Terrain set that up and and made the introduction 0:21:21.960 --> 0:21:23.840 and said you know, if you're gonna sit down with anybody, 0:21:24.160 --> 0:21:26.120 it's gotta be Tasha, because for me, I'm not gonna 0:21:26.200 --> 0:21:27.720 judge him coming in. I'm gonna let you lay it 0:21:27.720 --> 0:21:29.399 out there, and I'm gonna ask you some questions that 0:21:29.480 --> 0:21:32.840 people are maybe too politically afraid to ask. You know 0:21:32.840 --> 0:21:35.240 what I'm saying, and that I think that's where you know, 0:21:36.119 --> 0:21:39.800 that's what makes my show so so different, is that 0:21:39.920 --> 0:21:42.520 I'm not afraid to ask the question and I don't 0:21:42.560 --> 0:21:44.639 offend you when I'm asking it because I'm not asking 0:21:44.720 --> 0:21:47.400 it from a place of malice. You know, I completely 0:21:47.480 --> 0:21:49.000 grab I don't think that you've ever moved in the 0:21:49.080 --> 0:21:50.680 space of shock, and I think that that's one of 0:21:50.720 --> 0:22:00.320 the reasons why we find Whendy is my bit. Listen, 0:22:00.520 --> 0:22:03.000 Howard Stern, that's living. If he was black, he was 0:22:03.080 --> 0:22:06.120 my nigger. You know what I'm saying, Um, Charlotte Magne, 0:22:06.160 --> 0:22:08.240 I'm a fan of him, like people don't understand. And 0:22:08.320 --> 0:22:09.840 I want to say this too while I'm here, because 0:22:09.840 --> 0:22:12.440 I know he's your partner. I hate how much he 0:22:12.640 --> 0:22:16.320 switched up his style because of the controversy. Charlemagne would 0:22:16.320 --> 0:22:18.560 say whatever the funk was on his mind, that's what 0:22:18.760 --> 0:22:21.840 made him who he was. And because of that controversy 0:22:21.960 --> 0:22:24.440 with Jessica Reid, you know what I'm saying, he's taking 0:22:24.480 --> 0:22:26.680 a stance back because a lot of that stuff was 0:22:26.760 --> 0:22:30.120 brought up like well, if he said this for entertainment purposes, 0:22:30.400 --> 0:22:33.440 then he is this way, and it's like, no, you 0:22:33.520 --> 0:22:36.680 know what I'm saying. That situation was what it was. 0:22:37.040 --> 0:22:38.800 But as far as who he is, like, I just 0:22:39.000 --> 0:22:41.440