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Speaker 1: Am I they hole for threatening my family after they

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Speaker 1: opposite energy of what we just got. Yeah, no es

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Speaker 2: This is yeah, We're about to find out if they should.

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Speaker 1: Have defended I twenty two male and my wife twenty

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Speaker 1: one female. Young couple, young married couple. Uh. We have

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Speaker 1: been together since childhood. We've been dating since I was seventeen.

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Speaker 1: Problem is she was met with an accident around the

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Speaker 1: time she was eleven and since then she couldn't walk.

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Speaker 1: We are working on it, but it isn't promising at all.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 1: Uh, So we got married eight months ago. My family,

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Speaker 1: her family, and all of our friends joined us. My

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Speaker 1: family criticized me for marrying so early and being rash.

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Speaker 1: I have two elder brothers and they are two years apart,

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Speaker 1: and one elder sister who is four years older than me.

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Speaker 1: They attended my wedding and I thought they accepted her.

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Speaker 1: But a few days ago we had a family dinner

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Speaker 1: because finally my eldest sister was going to get married.

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Speaker 1: Everything was going to good. We joked around, drake, drank a, danced,

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Speaker 1: et cetera, et cetera.

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Speaker 3: Everything everything's looking great, right, obsessive.

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Speaker 1: Yes, nothing's gonna go wrong, not a thing, not a thing,

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Speaker 3: My wife is sleepy, so I took her upstairs and

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Speaker 1: She can't she can't handle alcohol at all. I came

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Speaker 3: Hmm, no sense is being made. Explain.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was a joke, so I laughed, and

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Speaker 1: she said she was serious. I asked her why. She

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Speaker 1: simply said that she wants me. She wants me to

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Speaker 2: WHOA, Okay, so she's just stableist.

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Speaker 3: That's what just sucks. That's exactly what it sounded like here, Sophia.

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Speaker 3: I was like, what, She's not a burden, she's family.

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Speaker 3: And I told her that and.

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Speaker 1: She said after that, she accepts my she accepts my wife,

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Speaker 3: Mm hmmm.

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Speaker 1: And it's only reasonable that a brother should always be

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Speaker 1: do you want to marry? The brother like, Hey, I

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Speaker 2: I need you to be right next to me.

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Speaker 3: I need you to be right next to me at

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Speaker 3: all times.

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Speaker 2: It's like, and you clearly can't have any sort of wheelchair.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 1: If it was up to Opie's sister, I'd be like,

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Speaker 1: so you're telling me all your family has to literally

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Speaker 2: The only way that the wife can come is if

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, that's that's literally the only way, ma'am. You're

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Speaker 1: That's when my brothers come in. They said that I've

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Speaker 1: done enough for my wife and it's time for me

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's sucks. There's all able to them.

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Speaker 2: It's all of them. Get them, get them, arrest them,

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Speaker 1: I looked at my dad and he just gave me

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Speaker 2: I hate the dad too.

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Speaker 3: Dad, you're an accomplice.

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Speaker 2: You're an accomplice.

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Speaker 1: But my mother joined in as well and told me

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Speaker 1: you know when when she's sitting there next to me

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Speaker 1: I can't keep my eyes if everyone knows that, right,

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Speaker 3: That's that's how.

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Speaker 1: That's how he stares at his wife when she's in

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Speaker 2: Your thought process? It's stupid.

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Speaker 3: What are we actually stupid? Here?

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Speaker 1: I finally lost my cool after hearing all this. I

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Speaker 3: A king, a king amongst.

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Speaker 2: Us, a king, a jake, a jake.

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Speaker 1: I said, I'm leaving. As I was going upstairs to

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Speaker 3: I said, I'm not in the mood right now. Mood

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Speaker 3: All dose all do something, we will all regret. Dude them.

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Speaker 3: That's how to threat freaking. I'll do something we will

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Speaker 2: Another or hardly know her?

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Speaker 1: Nice, I always love to just taking any word of

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Speaker 1: just saying that. It always makes it fine. That's great,

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Speaker 1: it's great, hibiscus.

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Speaker 3: I hardly know her. Oh wait, oh I see anything over?

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Speaker 2: Oh I actually saw one. I was study abroad. We

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Speaker 3: Now, that's good. Oh, our side tangents. So I grabbed

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Speaker 1: I said I got an uh, I said, I got

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Speaker 3: She bought it.

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Speaker 1: But my family kept saying that I was in the

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Speaker 1: for the way I reacted?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: Stand up for your wife. She's cool. Your family sucks.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Sophia, When people do something wrong, are there are

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Speaker 3: Wrong? Oh, there are consequences.

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Speaker 2: This is a PSA. There's something wrong and there are consequences.

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Speaker 3: That's right.

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Speaker 2: You wouldn't steal a car, no.

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Speaker 3: So I steal someone's joy. Decency and dude, this family,

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Speaker 3: I just just want to slap. I just want to sleep.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm sorry, but I'm not sorry. But we

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Speaker 3: Okay, how relevant?

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Speaker 1: Op He says, don't call my father a coward? Whoa

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Speaker 1: WHOA little called your father a coward. Apparently somebody called

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Speaker 2: I I, okay, well, I'm not gonna call your father

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Speaker 3: That's it. But but but.

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Speaker 2: Actions speak louder than no words.

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Speaker 3: Ooh. Another singer, another line.

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Speaker 1: I'm not his only child, he has kid, he has

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Speaker 3: He literally didn't.

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Speaker 2: He didn't defend you. You were in the situation, and

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Speaker 3: I'm very confused.

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Speaker 2: He's like, no, I would. I do not doubt that

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Speaker 2: my father wouldn't come to bat for me if we

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Speaker 2: were in this situation that exactly happened, that happened already,

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Speaker 2: and he didn't come to bat for me.

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Speaker 1: Mistle Gooma says, I don't, I don't, I do not

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Speaker 1: even doubt for a moment that he wouldn't defend me,

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Speaker 1: did he? Though he didn't literally exactly what we just said.

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Speaker 1: Uh says that that's where I was going to just

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Speaker 1: then Annie Shaw says, if he won't stand up for

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Speaker 1: stand up for you if it escalates when relationships could

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Speaker 1: be broken. This was the time to take your side,

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Speaker 1: not be neutral. Neutral is another word for.

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Speaker 3: Enabling. Ub enabler caught there. He is officer, you kid

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Speaker 3: of the er strikes again.

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Speaker 1: The enabler strikes again, and they said that he would

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Speaker 3: He enabled just like he always does.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean here's the question off of this one interaction.

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Speaker 1: low contact, low contact?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think locon because it's like, Okay, this was

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Speaker 3: Dog. Agreed, agreed, agreed.

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Speaker 2: Because this is ugregious.

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Speaker 3: Wow, Sophia, I think I think you need to slow

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Speaker 3: down a little bit. I can't. Not all of us

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Speaker 2: My husband is not invited to my brother's.

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Speaker 3: Wedding thorough a wedding, and don't invite him to it.

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Speaker 2: To write them so Anonymous eight ten, twenty twenty two says,

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Speaker 2: my thirty three male brother thirty male is getting married

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Speaker 2: this song. The invitations have been sent out, and even

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Speaker 2: though I'm married, my husband is not invited. Oh oh,

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Speaker 2: I see homophobia. Ah, I forgot the title of they

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Speaker 2: me too. Yeah, that's the story. In December, all have

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Speaker 2: been married to him for five years and together with

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Speaker 2: but they all have been afforded a plus one, as

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Speaker 2: My brother tried to tell me there's no room on

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Speaker 2: the guest list. I'm extremely hurt and disappointed that he's

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Speaker 2: my parents, and my grandparents say that he is right.

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Speaker 2: That is, there is no room, what that I can't

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Speaker 2: force my husband on the guest list, and that I'm

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Speaker 2: wrong to be upset.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I can watch me.

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Speaker 2: They never they've never outright shown that they're against my husband.

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Speaker 2: But now I know better. Before now, he was always

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Speaker 2: included in family events. It really hurts. And update a

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Speaker 2: little baby update. People who said in the comments that

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Speaker 2: it was because of the bride are right. I tried

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Speaker 2: talking to my brother about this, and he said his

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Speaker 2: fiance and her family don't believe in gay marriage, so

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Speaker 2: that's why they didn't invite him. My husband and told

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Speaker 2: everyone that I'm straight. I'm not going to the wedding.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for the support.

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Speaker 1: You know what I would say, you might not believe

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Speaker 1: in gay marriage. I don't believe in marriage, oh or straight?

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Speaker 3: You know what we're going. We're scorched earth. Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't believe in it. You're telling me you're marrying

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Speaker 3: Which it sounds like is exactly what Opie did. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, and Opie says, I have told him I'm staying

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Speaker 1: That is the whale watching like they're in tuxedos.

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Speaker 2: So they're saying, maybe even stay at the hotel, wander

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Speaker 3: Pick up time, like like spend time in shirts.

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Speaker 2: I said in my post, my family says I'm wrong

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Speaker 1: Frankly, they didn't even deserve your attempt of revenge. I'm

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Speaker 3: Have fun, sucking at life and not being fun.

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Speaker 2: Don't waste your energy. If they're not gonna support you

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Speaker 2: that I tried to make your brother's wedding about you,

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Speaker 1: I think Op brought up an interesting point which I

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Speaker 1: don't often think about in these which is like, there

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Speaker 1: might be aspects when people like it's a pretty clear

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Speaker 1: cutcase of like okay, let me just move on, these

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Speaker 3: But I ultimately know my family. I'm better off. Yeah

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Speaker 1: I'm better off this way, And it's like, yeah, maybe

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Speaker 2: Maybe you can never I mean like they're your family,

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Speaker 2: you can never just it's very hard to just move

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Speaker 1: In the long run, and you should not have to

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Speaker 2: Now comments driver picks the Tune says, I'm sorry your

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Speaker 2: family is allowing and participating in this behavior. It sucks

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Speaker 2: to miss them, even when it's for the best. Sending

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Speaker 2: loves and love and hugs and empress Ray says, I'm

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Speaker 2: Continue to cherish each other all so sweet and that

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Speaker 1: That is am I the ahle for going out to

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Speaker 1: the dishes. All I know is, uh, maybe you can

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Speaker 1: as you always hashtag eat out the rich. WHOA, That's

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Speaker 1: all I'm saying. That's all I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Shout out.

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Speaker 1: This comes from cardiologist at least four or four who says,

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Speaker 1: both my husband and I work full time. I work

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Speaker 1: real estate and he works at a shipyard. We both

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Speaker 1: and an.

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Speaker 3: Eight month old.

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Speaker 1: Wow, what a range my husband has every weekend off

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Speaker 1: I do not. I implicated a chore system from the

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Speaker 2: He watched cleaning tutorials.

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Speaker 1: Do that learn how to learn how to scrub a

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Speaker 1: I couldn't I couldn't give f all about anything else

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Speaker 1: because the rest of the house generally isn't dirty dirty,

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Speaker 1: order to cook, and have lashed out in some not

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Speaker 1: I've canceled family trips ground groundation. I have no idea

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Speaker 1: As I said, my husband has weekends off, so he

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Speaker 1: ever I heard one, that one, it's that they said, yes, maam,

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Speaker 2: No, no, no.

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Speaker 1: I also noted that only a load of laundry had

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Speaker 2: And now it smells mildewy.

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Speaker 1: the couch watching YouTube. Don't do that unless it's our

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Speaker 3: Baby in her walker like a coward.

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Speaker 1: Step first, learn to walk, then step up and clean

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Speaker 1: some gosh darn dishes.

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Speaker 3: All right, come in.

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Speaker 1: So I put the groceries on the table, packed a

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Speaker 1: I'm going to Applebee's. Hell yeah, and I left. I'm

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Speaker 1: twenty minutes later, he calls and says, I'll wash the dishes.

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Speaker 3: Story. I was super tired today.

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Speaker 2: I don't care.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why he's e or, but here we

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Speaker 1: are super I told him that's zero excuse at all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, zero zero.

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Speaker 3: There's three older kids. We can get to work a

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Speaker 2: Children, teaching them all that they don't have to do anything.

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Speaker 1: What happened to a united front, sir, unite that front?

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, At least, delegate, delegate, if anything,

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Speaker 1: you could be at least if you were a delegating

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Speaker 1: hypocute instead of you still could have sat on the

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Speaker 1: ultimately what your wife asked for.

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Speaker 3: Literally literally literally literally.

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Speaker 2: Literally could have done that.

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Speaker 3: Done it it.

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Speaker 1: Uh, it's pure Oh wait, there's three older kids who

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Speaker 1: his kids to complete anything either. It's pure laziness. At

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Speaker 1: this point, he said, oh no, I'm sorry, I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to work on it. Can you just come home. I

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Speaker 1: don't know how to make this.

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Speaker 3: Dish too freaking bad.

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Speaker 1: It's a pretty difficult it's a pretty difficult dish. But

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Speaker 1: go is free. Last time I checked my god, I

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Speaker 1: love a p okay.

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Speaker 3: Opie's going. Op is sounding off, right freaking done, sound

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Speaker 3: off sis.

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Speaker 1: I told him, no, I'm sitting my butted Applebee's and

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Speaker 1: will be enjoying my steak and shrimps with the baby

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Speaker 1: in peace, and that him and the older kids can

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Speaker 1: fend for themselves because apology or not, I'm not letting

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Speaker 1: him off the hook here. To be honest, quite frankly,

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Speaker 1: do we let the baby off the hook here?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: No, the baby said nothing. Listen if you don't say,

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Speaker 1: I don't care. If you can't speak words.

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Speaker 2: Learn, if you learn, learn how to talk and speak up.

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Speaker 3: Learn.

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Speaker 2: Denographic question of this is do you is? Do you

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Speaker 2: stand up for your partner?

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Speaker 3: Wow? The first question? Can you stand? Second question? Can't

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Speaker 3: you stand up? Oh? Goodness gracious.

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Speaker 1: He had me on speakerphone, so him and all the

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Speaker 1: kids laid right into me asking me to please grab

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Speaker 1: them something from Applebee's. It's all their favorite restaurants. I

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Speaker 1: don't care, I said, absolute, I said apple slutely, not

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Speaker 1: get him with the puns. I said, absolutely not and

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Speaker 1: hung up the phone. Click when when I return home?

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Speaker 2: Not home?

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Speaker 1: When I return home, the groceries had been put away,

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Speaker 1: and apparently they had grilled cheese and cereal for dinner.

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Speaker 2: Literally, Bro, Dad, you're a disappointment.

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Speaker 3: Dude, Dad's looking He was already looking bad.

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Speaker 2: How do you not know? I just if you're a parent,

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Speaker 2: you need to know. I don't. I don't. You don't

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Speaker 2: have to be a five star restaurant chef. No, you

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Speaker 2: gotta know how to cook basic meal.

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Speaker 3: Make make like like eggs.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you have to be able to cook beyond eggs.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. If you're a parent, you need to be

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Speaker 2: able to cook.

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Speaker 1: Beyond eggs like you can throw throw some like asparagus

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Speaker 1: on a paint.

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Speaker 2: Most foods are incredibly.

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Speaker 3: Easy to cook, truly facts.

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Speaker 1: Even you know, I'll give it up to them, like

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Speaker 1: a like those like frozen lasagnas in and heat heat up,

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Speaker 1: heat up, green beans or something.

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Speaker 2: You're telling me you can't make pasta.

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Speaker 3: I'm just a mess.

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Speaker 2: The only thing you can cook is is toast posts.

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Speaker 3: Ed gees. Jeez, it does that's really burnt?

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Speaker 2: It too.

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Speaker 1: An important part of a ballance, diet, cheese, toast and cereal.

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Speaker 3: I love it. They're getting their grains in Sofia. Can

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Speaker 3: you really be mad at them getting their grains in?

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Speaker 1: Give them carbs them carbs, carbs are present. Oh my goodness, gracious,

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Speaker 1: my husband and kids are still pissed at me.

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Speaker 3: I told them this is how.

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Speaker 1: It will be every single time they don't do chores

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Speaker 1: from now on.

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Speaker 2: Good am I they a whole No, that's a no no.

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Speaker 3: No. I think you like you kind of give them.

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Speaker 2: You told me so many times.

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Speaker 3: I think the I don't think you have to do this.

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Speaker 1: If if there's anything even in that sort of kind

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Speaker 1: of arena you could say, just give the children one

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Speaker 1: final warning of like, if you don't do it, you're

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Speaker 1: going to be uh, I'm gonna go to your I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna go eat by myself, me and the baby.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna have to clean everything.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna have to make your own food, and every

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Speaker 1: single time after.

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Speaker 3: That you'll have to do that. But I don't think

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Speaker 3: she needed to do that. No.

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Speaker 2: I think she had already grounded them, she had done

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Speaker 2: all of the other punishments. She's like, Okay, you know

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Speaker 2: what make your own food, and honestly, he could have

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Speaker 2: ordered something.

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Speaker 1: Literally, come on, oh, Yogi says he couldn't even do

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Speaker 1: breakfast for dinner dad as a Juju's apartment truly even

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Speaker 1: even honestly, like again, some bacon egg pancake, like that's

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Speaker 1: that's at least better than grilled cheese cereal.

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Speaker 2: Had I had a family like a friend. When I

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Speaker 2: was at look at only friend's place. I think I

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Speaker 2: stayed the night or no, I was, I was sleeping

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Speaker 2: over and they were like breakfast for dinner and I

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Speaker 2: had never had that, and this was like somewhat recently.

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Speaker 3: Breakfast for dinner is literally the most fire thing ever.

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Speaker 2: I've never done that.

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Speaker 3: Christian does that every day because he wakes up.

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Speaker 1: This guy, he wakes up and he says, should I

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Speaker 1: make It's it's like eleven o'clock in the morning, and

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Speaker 1: he's like, should I make hot dogs or breakfast?

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Speaker 3: What do you say? I said hot dogs? Made himself

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Speaker 3: hot dogs at eleven o'clock in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Well, okay, to be fair, eleven o'clock is only one

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Speaker 2: hour away from lunch.

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Speaker 3: It's still morning.

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Speaker 1: I am honestly in the camp with Riley that when

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Speaker 1: I wake up.

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Speaker 3: I want to eat breakfast foods first.

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Speaker 2: See I go buy whatever I'm closest to. If I'm close.

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Speaker 2: If I haven't eaten and it's closer to lunch, then

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Speaker 2: I will just eat lunch.

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Speaker 1: I'm not like hungry for I'm hungry for food. My

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Speaker 1: I have this like yearning. Although now at this point,

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Speaker 1: I have stopped eating so many foods. I eat chocolate, granola,

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Speaker 1: and salmon.

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Speaker 2: I need to pick up I haven't had. I haven't

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Speaker 2: picked up groceries, like legitimately in a hot minute, because

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Speaker 2: we've been traveling and then you know, just a lot

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Speaker 2: has been going on. So I haven't had groceries. It's true,

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Speaker 2: and I don't have anything to eat for breakfast. Guys,

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