WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: A Quiet Place

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<v Speaker 1>All right, it's always a special treat when we get

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<v Speaker 1>a check in from one of our Second Date Update couples.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the podcast. It's Brook and Jeffrey, the home

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<v Speaker 1>of the Second Date Update. And this is one of

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<v Speaker 1>the favorites of the last year, right, like, yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>went back and looked at the comments from when we

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<v Speaker 1>originally posted this podcast and it was insane.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and all of them are so sweet. Someone said,

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<v Speaker 2>Jared said, this episode is healing.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone said this is so wholesoun so awesome. So the

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<v Speaker 1>way the updates work is we will play the original

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<v Speaker 1>call with the couple so that you can be caught

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<v Speaker 1>up with what happened and the adorable wholesome cut. Yes, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>At the very end of the podcast, we get the

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<v Speaker 1>couple back on the phone and see what's happened since

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<v Speaker 1>being on the show.

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<v Speaker 3>So don't skip ahead too far.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, yeah, or turn it off too.

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<v Speaker 1>Early, right, you got to stay at the end on

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<v Speaker 1>this one. It's your update update.

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<v Speaker 2>Right now, Second Date Update Date.

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<v Speaker 4>You know the saying it's a tract I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>if that's really true, at least not in today's call.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I mean it typically is But why do you.

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<v Speaker 4>Say because the woman on the phone said that her

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<v Speaker 4>and her date both have blonde hair, they both enjoy

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<v Speaker 4>chocolate pudding, and they both have the same mother.

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<v Speaker 2>How crazy is that?

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<v Speaker 5>That's gross?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, okay, I don't know about the last one.

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<v Speaker 4>I may I may have slept that in that, but

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<v Speaker 4>it would be an interesting twist if that turned out

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<v Speaker 4>to be the case.

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<v Speaker 5>That's not the word.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not the word I'd use. Illegal.

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<v Speaker 4>We draw the line at cousin stuff on this show,

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<v Speaker 4>But please welcome Justine to the program.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, Justine, and.

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<v Speaker 1>You do realize the same mother makes you siblings, even

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<v Speaker 1>not cousins.

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<v Speaker 2>Only by blood brook.

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<v Speaker 4>So, Justine, you said in your email that you bonded

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<v Speaker 4>with this guy because you had a lot of similarities.

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<v Speaker 2>What similarities did you notice?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, we're both really quiet.

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<v Speaker 2>I can see that talk softer during this what's his name?

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, his name is Ken?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, how did you meet him?

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<v Speaker 6>We met it the bank at the bank.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do you have to go into a bank?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 6>Who does that anymore?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's interesting that two quiet people would meet

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<v Speaker 1>in person like.

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<v Speaker 2>Who from too?

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<v Speaker 6>Well? Actually, we were both filling out paperwork side by side,

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<v Speaker 6>and I asked him to borrow his pen. But I

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<v Speaker 6>didn't even like say words.

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<v Speaker 1>I just was like, just hold your hand out like

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<v Speaker 1>you pointed with a nice smile.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, exactly, And that's kind of how it got started.

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<v Speaker 6>It was pretty sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>That's kind of cute. You're both cute though. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 2>what did you guys do when you went out?

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<v Speaker 6>We wound up going to this little Mediterranean place, and

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<v Speaker 6>like we were texting before we went, and we agreed

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<v Speaker 6>to each bring notebooks, so we just wrote each other

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<v Speaker 6>notes at dinner. Very fun for.

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<v Speaker 2>You, cut.

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<v Speaker 5>For me.

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<v Speaker 2>But this is adorable?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it? The whole time he wrote notes?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, we talked to the waiter, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, but for the rest of the time you two

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<v Speaker 4>tried to stay quiet and just enjoy and soak up

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<v Speaker 4>each other's silence.

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<v Speaker 1>Well no, no, they shared information still, but yeah, but quiet.

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<v Speaker 2>Quietly in their way. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I bet there's a lot of smiles every time the

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<v Speaker 3>note passed back, though.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it sounds hot like we wound up laughing the

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<v Speaker 6>whole time, Like we really enjoyed each other's company, which

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<v Speaker 6>is kind of awesome. But there was a mistake The

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<v Speaker 6>waiter brought out only one meal at first, and it

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<v Speaker 6>was what I had ordered it, but they put it

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<v Speaker 6>down in front of Ken, and so he started eating

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<v Speaker 6>and I was like, I wrote a note and I said, no,

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<v Speaker 6>that's mine, and here are back mine?

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<v Speaker 4>What?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 2>E didn't say not anymore right, So.

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<v Speaker 6>It made us laugh. We both laughed a lot. It

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<v Speaker 6>was really fun. Did you get food? I worried, Thanks

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<v Speaker 6>for worrying. Yeah, okay, he gave me back my dinner

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<v Speaker 6>and then his showed up.

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<v Speaker 3>Like a challenge to not talk that what almost sounds

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<v Speaker 3>like it to break it first sounds like a challenge

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<v Speaker 3>to them would be to talk.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like for certain people, like talking is a big struggle,

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<v Speaker 4>but like this is the perfect date for two people

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<v Speaker 4>that are kind of shy and introverted.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys shared the last kiss by just drawing lips

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<v Speaker 1>on two pieces of paper and puting them together.

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<v Speaker 6>That's funny, but.

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<v Speaker 2>No, so tell us after the quiet dinner, how did

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<v Speaker 2>the date end?

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<v Speaker 6>It didn't And the dinner, which was kind of nice,

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<v Speaker 6>really got ice cream and we were people watching and

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<v Speaker 6>I pulled out my notebook and said we should do

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<v Speaker 6>this again sometime, and he wrote yes, but that was

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<v Speaker 6>like more than two weeks ago. Well that's not true.

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<v Speaker 6>It's almost two weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess almost two weeks. Okay, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like this guy is going to be a

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<v Speaker 1>slow mover just from the vibe he's given. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just who he is, said a letter in the mail.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, I don't think I would be worried that he

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<v Speaker 1>hadn't contacted you in two weeks.

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<v Speaker 4>You guys literally do sound like an old married couple

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<v Speaker 4>with Like you guys go to the bank. You guys

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<v Speaker 4>write each other notes, enjoy each other's silence, and sit

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<v Speaker 4>on a park bench eating ice cream together.

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<v Speaker 3>Sounds like you guys just text, though obviously you're not

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<v Speaker 3>on the phone a lot.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I sent him a text.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that must have been a struggle for you.

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<v Speaker 6>Though, you guys are making me bless. I can't believe

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<v Speaker 6>how hard my cheeks are burning.

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<v Speaker 1>Ok I'm just going to say real quick, I am

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<v Speaker 1>really impressed that you're doing this, because you are really

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<v Speaker 1>putting yourself in a place that isn't a comfortable zone

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<v Speaker 1>for you.

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<v Speaker 6>That's cool, and that's actually the deal is, Like I

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<v Speaker 6>feel like, I need your help because it's so awkward

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<v Speaker 6>to call him, and you guys are so good at

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<v Speaker 6>the talking.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if we're good at talking, but we

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<v Speaker 2>can do a lot of an awkward Tuesday. Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're gonna come back.

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<v Speaker 4>We're gonna call quiet Ken for you and see if

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<v Speaker 4>we can silently get him to agree to another date.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna do it right after this. Hold on thank

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<v Speaker 2>second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing

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<v Speaker 1>right after you here part two.

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<v Speaker 4>We probably just met one of the sweetest people that

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<v Speaker 4>we've ever had on this show before.

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<v Speaker 2>Her I hope not. Her name is Justine.

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<v Speaker 4>She is quiet, she's kind sounding, she's got a very

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<v Speaker 4>genuine laugh. It made us all feel good about ourselves

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<v Speaker 4>no matter what we said.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, honestly, that's so rare.

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<v Speaker 4>If we get this guy Ken on the phone and

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<v Speaker 4>he says something rude or disrespectful about.

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<v Speaker 3>Her, hang up.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just letting you I am treating her like a

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<v Speaker 4>little sister to our show, and I'm going to be

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<v Speaker 4>standing up for her hardcore.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you fighting them?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if she wants to be a little sister.

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<v Speaker 2>But no, I'm just saying I'm in her corner.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, got it, got it.

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<v Speaker 4>And I mean it already sounds like her heart is

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<v Speaker 4>breaking because who goes on a silent date and has

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<v Speaker 4>a great time Justine and this guy Apparently the only

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<v Speaker 4>communication that was had the entire time was to be

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<v Speaker 4>a handwritten note. So we need to figure out how

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<v Speaker 4>to get him on the line and figure out why

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<v Speaker 4>he is not jumping to get on another date.

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<v Speaker 1>With her, honestly, like, he can't have a multitude of

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<v Speaker 1>options here.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a guy who barely talks. Okay, this is

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<v Speaker 2>her future husband that you're talking. I don't it in

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<v Speaker 2>a midway.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying he's not out there being a player,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like he's got out running game because he

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<v Speaker 1>can't pass notes to just any hot lady that walks by.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not like he's just just Justine.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want to defend your man.

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<v Speaker 1>That she knows what I mean?

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<v Speaker 5>Right? Maybe?

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<v Speaker 6>Though?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, how did you just walk into a library and

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<v Speaker 3>rise up everyone in silence?

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<v Speaker 2>It's possible. I mean, he could be like a silent Casanova.

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<v Speaker 3>Book Mark so.

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<v Speaker 1>Many hot singles at the library.

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<v Speaker 2>All Right, just stay quiet, Justine.

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<v Speaker 4>I know you're not gonna have any trouble with that,

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<v Speaker 4>but we're gonna call him and talk to you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm worried what she tries to pipe in, we're not

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<v Speaker 3>gonna hear.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll call you in time. We'll make it obvious.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, hold on, here we go.

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<v Speaker 6>Hello.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, is this ken?

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<v Speaker 7>Uh? Yeah? Speaking?

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<v Speaker 2>I can't they can?

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<v Speaker 7>Good morning can, good morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>You're probably hearing a lot of voices right now, and

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<v Speaker 4>that's because you're on the radio with Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 4>in the morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Why what what? Sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>What?

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<v Speaker 6>Who?

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<v Speaker 7>You call them?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? We don't want to overwhelm you, but we're doing

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<v Speaker 4>a segment here. It's called second Date Update, and one

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<v Speaker 4>of our listeners asked us to reach out to you

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<v Speaker 4>because you went on an awesome date with her the

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<v Speaker 4>other day.

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<v Speaker 1>Well she thought it was awesome.

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<v Speaker 4>She'd yeah, we all thought it was awesome too, because

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<v Speaker 4>we heard a little bit about it.

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<v Speaker 2>We're talking about Justine.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, huh huh yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you guys went out almost two weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 4>That is correct, Okay, okay, I mean she told us

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<v Speaker 4>about the day that you two hung out, and it

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<v Speaker 4>sounded pretty unique, at least for us, because we do

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of these calls. We haven't heard a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of dates where two people go out and stay quiet

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<v Speaker 4>and actually enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 7>I I'm so sorry, just one second.

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<v Speaker 1>You okay, I don't know, Maybes at work or something.

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<v Speaker 2>He's nervous. He going up right now. There is a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of talking.

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<v Speaker 3>In a library. The librarians.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, hey, Ken.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, So look, it sounds like you're busy right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we don't want to like take up too much

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<v Speaker 4>of your time. But bottom line is, Justine says she

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<v Speaker 4>had a great time. The question is she's not getting

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<v Speaker 4>any signals back that you wanted to hang out again,

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<v Speaker 4>and she's kind of disappointed by that.

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<v Speaker 7>I am, I kind of I don't want to hang

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<v Speaker 7>out again.

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<v Speaker 6>What, oh, buddy?

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<v Speaker 5>Why?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, we were passing notes, right, we were talking

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<v Speaker 7>about ourselves, and I started running out of things to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it would be a lot to write, because yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it.

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<v Speaker 3>Is hard when there's a lull in conversation to force

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<v Speaker 3>a question. Yeah, the first couple are okay, but by

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<v Speaker 3>the third or fourth you're like.

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<v Speaker 1>So you shouldn't feel bad. That happens on all first dates.

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<v Speaker 7>I like, I get that. You guys don't understand. I

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<v Speaker 7>literally told everything about myself.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh you ran out of things to like reveal about

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<v Speaker 4>on the on the first date.

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<v Speaker 2>That should be impossible.

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<v Speaker 7>Bro books, movies, interests, foods.

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<v Speaker 1>But there's more.

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<v Speaker 2>People than what you lie.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean, I don't think you're giving yourself credit.

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<v Speaker 7>I think you're giving me too much.

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<v Speaker 2>I've got to be middle. You might surprise.

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<v Speaker 4>I can understand you feel a little bit nervous and intimidated,

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<v Speaker 4>But what are you worried about? Like, what's the harm

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<v Speaker 4>in seeing her again?

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<v Speaker 7>I am I'm worried she's gonna find out I'm not

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<v Speaker 7>just quiet like she is and boring.

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<v Speaker 2>Boring. That just broke my little heart. You're not boring

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<v Speaker 2>when you do another date. That's what you talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>The whole date is the activity, like a new topic.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, just what happened in the last Yeah, exactly you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just always going to replay their Yea.

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<v Speaker 4>You are just the calm in a world full of chaos.

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<v Speaker 4>We need people like you. You balance out all us idiots.

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<v Speaker 4>And it doesn't matter if you think that you're boring

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<v Speaker 4>or you're not enough. Somebody that believes that your plenty

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<v Speaker 4>is Justine, and don't just trust me. She's on the

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<v Speaker 4>other line right now waiting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 2>This is pretty bold, Justine, are you there?

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<v Speaker 7>I'm here, you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 1>Right now?

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<v Speaker 6>She's been listening.

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<v Speaker 2>He's about to have a heart attack.

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<v Speaker 7>Justine, I am so sorry.

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<v Speaker 6>I can't because it was my idea. I was too

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<v Speaker 6>nervous to call you, and I called somebody who could,

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<v Speaker 6>and these sweet people have I didn't. We didn't mean

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<v Speaker 6>to scare you.

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<v Speaker 2>Sweet in this room.

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<v Speaker 6>It feels like maybe it backfired.

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<v Speaker 7>No, no, not at all. I'm really glad to move

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<v Speaker 7>from you.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like if we wouldn't have gotten involved, they

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<v Speaker 3>would have never talked to each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Us.

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<v Speaker 2>We may are amazing contacted us.

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<v Speaker 4>Look, I understand that you're really nervous ken about talking

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<v Speaker 4>to her and coming across a certain way. I think

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<v Speaker 4>the pressure of being in a quiet setting is a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>I think the next date that you go on like

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<v Speaker 4>you're just in the wrong venue. Do something that's loud,

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<v Speaker 4>go to a sporting event, like go to a comedy

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<v Speaker 4>show where there's other stuff to point at and talk.

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<v Speaker 2>About rather than just sitting quietly together.

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<v Speaker 6>Comedy show would be so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>It would be fun. Would that be fun for you?

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<v Speaker 5>Ken?

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<v Speaker 7>That sounds like it would happen.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, comedy does happen?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, see what she's so funny.

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<v Speaker 4>Look, the whole goal of this is to set you

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<v Speaker 4>guys up on another date and lock that down, and

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<v Speaker 4>we would pay for it. So justine, now that you

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<v Speaker 4>know how he feels, you still want to go out

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<v Speaker 4>with him again very much?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, did you hear that?

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's got to feel good?

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<v Speaker 3>Right? Did you hang up?

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<v Speaker 7>Hello?

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<v Speaker 6>Ken?

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<v Speaker 7>I'm sorry I dropped my phone. Sounds it sounds creepy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>We will send you guys out on another day and

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<v Speaker 4>we're gonna pay for it.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, awesome, Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm so grateful you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it just makes me want to go to the

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<v Speaker 3>other room and shout cat.

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<v Speaker 2>Cat, Cat cat cat. Okay, see it feels good.

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<v Speaker 7>That's a little terrifying.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So we should have whisked away for out of

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<v Speaker 4>my bad Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>An, We're just gonna hang.

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<v Speaker 7>Out freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe one of the sweetest second date calls that we've

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<v Speaker 4>ever done.

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<v Speaker 2>On the show.

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<v Speaker 1>I have been dying.

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<v Speaker 4>All of our listeners have been asking for months to

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<v Speaker 4>get an update on this, and now we've got him back.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome Ken and Justine back to the show. How's it going, guys?

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<v Speaker 8>Justine isn't here right now.

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<v Speaker 7>It's just Ken.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait it said that you guys were both going to

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<v Speaker 2>be on the call.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, well, we had dinner with her parents last night

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<v Speaker 8>and she's feeling a little.

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<v Speaker 7>Overexposed too much social Yeah, feeling up to the social

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<v Speaker 7>element right now. She is here though.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, does that mean you guys are still together?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it's been going great.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, Where is she?

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<v Speaker 7>So, she's on the other side of the door. She's

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<v Speaker 7>that's a little weird, in another room.

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<v Speaker 2>So okay, you guys are like in the same apartment.

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<v Speaker 2>She's in a different room your apartment together?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Are you happy?

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<v Speaker 7>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>Is she happy?

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<v Speaker 8>Actually?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I can ask Hey, honey, people on the radio

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<v Speaker 5>want to know if we're happy, not one, if the

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<v Speaker 5>relationship is going well, not twice?

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<v Speaker 6>If you have no.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, that was one?

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<v Speaker 2>I heard one?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, only one?

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<v Speaker 5>Knock?

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<v Speaker 6>You think things are going right?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so things are moving forward and you guys' relationship clearly.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, I mean they're moving plates. I mean we haven't

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<v Speaker 8>like you're not you're not asking if we've done.

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<v Speaker 1>That, right, No, no, no, no, physically do what you

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<v Speaker 1>need to do in your own time, a man.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, okay, but.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll give you some space. I know we've already taken

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<v Speaker 4>up probably way too much of your time. But hey, man,

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<v Speaker 4>keep us updated on yours and Justine's blossoming relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, smiling ear to ear for both of you.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't mean in the physical way, just the

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<v Speaker 2>rest of the way.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep us out like tag us in some videos. Just kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>That was a joke.

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<v Speaker 8>That was a joke, all right, Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 8>the Morning,