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Speaker 1: All right, it's always a special treat when we get

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Speaker 1: a check in from one of our Second Date Update couples.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the podcast. It's Brook and Jeffrey, the home

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Speaker 1: of the Second Date Update. And this is one of

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Speaker 1: the favorites of the last year, right, like, yeah, we

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Speaker 1: went back and looked at the comments from when we

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Speaker 1: originally posted this podcast and it was insane.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and all of them are so sweet. Someone said,

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Speaker 2: Jared said, this episode is healing.

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Speaker 1: Someone said this is so wholesoun so awesome. So the

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Speaker 1: way the updates work is we will play the original

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Speaker 1: call with the couple so that you can be caught

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Speaker 1: up with what happened and the adorable wholesome cut. Yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: At the very end of the podcast, we get the

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Speaker 1: couple back on the phone and see what's happened since

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Speaker 1: being on the show.

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Speaker 3: So don't skip ahead too far.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, yeah, or turn it off too.

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Speaker 1: Early, right, you got to stay at the end on

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Speaker 1: this one. It's your update update.

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Speaker 2: Right now, Second Date Update Date.

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Speaker 4: You know the saying it's a tract I don't know

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Speaker 4: if that's really true, at least not in today's call.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean it typically is But why do you.

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Speaker 4: Say because the woman on the phone said that her

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Speaker 4: and her date both have blonde hair, they both enjoy

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Speaker 4: chocolate pudding, and they both have the same mother.

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Speaker 2: How crazy is that?

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Speaker 5: That's gross?

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Speaker 2: I mean, okay, I don't know about the last one.

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Speaker 4: I may I may have slept that in that, but

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Speaker 4: it would be an interesting twist if that turned out

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Speaker 4: to be the case.

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Speaker 5: That's not the word.

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Speaker 1: That's not the word I'd use. Illegal.

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Speaker 4: We draw the line at cousin stuff on this show,

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Speaker 4: But please welcome Justine to the program.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Justine, and.

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Speaker 1: You do realize the same mother makes you siblings, even

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Speaker 1: not cousins.

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Speaker 2: Only by blood brook.

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Speaker 4: So, Justine, you said in your email that you bonded

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Speaker 4: with this guy because you had a lot of similarities.

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Speaker 2: What similarities did you notice?

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Speaker 6: Well, we're both really quiet.

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Speaker 2: I can see that talk softer during this what's his name?

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Speaker 2: By the way, his name is Ken?

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Speaker 1: Okay, how did you meet him?

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Speaker 6: We met it the bank at the bank.

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Speaker 2: Why do you have to go into a bank?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 6: Who does that anymore?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I think it's interesting that two quiet people would meet

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Speaker 2: Who from too?

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Speaker 6: Well? Actually, we were both filling out paperwork side by side,

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Speaker 6: and I asked him to borrow his pen. But I

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Speaker 1: I just was like, just hold your hand out like

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Speaker 6: Yeah, exactly, And that's kind of how it got started.

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Speaker 6: It was pretty sweet.

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Speaker 2: That's kind of cute. You're both cute though. Yeah, so

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Speaker 2: what did you guys do when you went out?

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Speaker 6: We wound up going to this little Mediterranean place, and

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Speaker 6: like we were texting before we went, and we agreed

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Speaker 2: You, cut.

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Speaker 5: For me.

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Speaker 2: But this is adorable?

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Speaker 1: Was it? The whole time he wrote notes?

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Speaker 6: I mean, we talked to the waiter, okay.

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Speaker 4: Okay, but for the rest of the time you two

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Speaker 1: Well no, no, they shared information still, but yeah, but quiet.

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Speaker 2: Quietly in their way. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I bet there's a lot of smiles every time the

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it sounds hot like we wound up laughing the

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Speaker 6: and I was like, I wrote a note and I said, no,

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm not.

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Speaker 2: E didn't say not anymore right, So.

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Speaker 6: It made us laugh. We both laughed a lot. It

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Speaker 6: for worrying. Yeah, okay, he gave me back my dinner

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Speaker 3: Like a challenge to not talk that what almost sounds

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Speaker 3: like it to break it first sounds like a challenge

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like for certain people, like talking is a big struggle,

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Speaker 4: but like this is the perfect date for two people

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Speaker 1: You guys shared the last kiss by just drawing lips

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Speaker 1: on two pieces of paper and puting them together.

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Speaker 6: That's funny, but.

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Speaker 2: No, so tell us after the quiet dinner, how did

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Speaker 6: It didn't And the dinner, which was kind of nice,

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Speaker 6: I pulled out my notebook and said we should do

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Speaker 6: this again sometime, and he wrote yes, but that was

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Speaker 6: like more than two weeks ago. Well that's not true.

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Speaker 6: It's almost two weeks ago.

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Speaker 2: I guess almost two weeks. Okay, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I feel like this guy is going to be a

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Speaker 1: it's just who he is, said a letter in the mail.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's.

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Speaker 1: Like, I don't think I would be worried that he

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Speaker 4: You guys literally do sound like an old married couple

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Speaker 4: with Like you guys go to the bank. You guys

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Speaker 4: write each other notes, enjoy each other's silence, and sit

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Speaker 3: Sounds like you guys just text, though obviously you're not

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Speaker 6: I mean I sent him a text.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that must have been a struggle for you.

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Speaker 6: Though, you guys are making me bless. I can't believe

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Speaker 1: Ok I'm just going to say real quick, I am

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Speaker 1: really impressed that you're doing this, because you are really

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Speaker 6: That's cool, and that's actually the deal is, Like I

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Speaker 2: I don't know if we're good at talking, but we

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Speaker 2: can do a lot of an awkward Tuesday. Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna come back.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna call quiet Ken for you and see if

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Speaker 4: we can silently get him to agree to another date.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna do it right after this. Hold on thank

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Speaker 2: second date update.

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Speaker 1: You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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Speaker 1: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing

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Speaker 1: right after you here part two.

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Speaker 4: We probably just met one of the sweetest people that

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Speaker 2: Her I hope not. Her name is Justine.

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Speaker 4: She is quiet, she's kind sounding, she's got a very

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Speaker 4: no matter what we said.

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Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, that's so rare.

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Speaker 4: If we get this guy Ken on the phone and

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Speaker 3: Her, hang up.

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Speaker 4: I'm just letting you I am treating her like a

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Speaker 4: standing up for her hardcore.

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Speaker 3: Are you fighting them?

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Speaker 1: I don't know if she wants to be a little sister.

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Speaker 2: But no, I'm just saying I'm in her corner.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, got it, got it.

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Speaker 4: And I mean it already sounds like her heart is

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Speaker 4: he is not jumping to get on another date.

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Speaker 1: With her, honestly, like, he can't have a multitude of

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Speaker 2: This is a guy who barely talks. Okay, this is

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Speaker 2: her future husband that you're talking. I don't it in

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying he's not out there being a player,

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Speaker 1: you know, like he's got out running game because he

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Speaker 4: It's not like he's just just Justine.

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Speaker 2: Do you want to defend your man.

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Speaker 1: That she knows what I mean?

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Speaker 5: Right? Maybe?

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Speaker 6: Though?

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Speaker 3: Okay, how did you just walk into a library and

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Speaker 2: It's possible. I mean, he could be like a silent Casanova.

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Speaker 3: Book Mark so.

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Speaker 1: Many hot singles at the library.

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Speaker 2: All Right, just stay quiet, Justine.

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Speaker 4: I know you're not gonna have any trouble with that,

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Speaker 4: but we're gonna call him and talk to you.

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Speaker 3: I'm worried what she tries to pipe in, we're not

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Speaker 2: We'll call you in time. We'll make it obvious.

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Speaker 6: Okay, thank you.

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Speaker 2: All right, hold on, here we go.

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Speaker 6: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hey, is this ken?

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Speaker 7: Uh? Yeah? Speaking?

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Speaker 2: I can't they can?

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Speaker 7: Good morning can, good morning.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: You're probably hearing a lot of voices right now, and

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Speaker 4: that's because you're on the radio with Brooke and Jeffrey

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Speaker 4: in the morning.

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Speaker 7: Why what what? Sorry?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 6: Who?

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Speaker 7: You call them?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? We don't want to overwhelm you, but we're doing

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Speaker 4: a segment here. It's called second Date Update, and one

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Speaker 4: of our listeners asked us to reach out to you

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Speaker 4: because you went on an awesome date with her the

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Speaker 4: other day.

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Speaker 1: Well she thought it was awesome.

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Speaker 4: She'd yeah, we all thought it was awesome too, because

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Speaker 4: we heard a little bit about it.

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Speaker 2: We're talking about Justine.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, huh huh yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think you guys went out almost two weeks ago.

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Speaker 4: That is correct, Okay, okay, I mean she told us

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Speaker 4: about the day that you two hung out, and it

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Speaker 4: sounded pretty unique, at least for us, because we do

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Speaker 4: a lot of these calls. We haven't heard a lot

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Speaker 4: of dates where two people go out and stay quiet

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Speaker 1: You okay, I don't know, Maybes at work or something.

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Speaker 2: He's nervous. He going up right now. There is a

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Speaker 3: In a library. The librarians.

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Speaker 2: Okay, hey, Ken.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, So look, it sounds like you're busy right now.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we don't want to like take up too much

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Speaker 4: of your time. But bottom line is, Justine says she

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Speaker 4: had a great time. The question is she's not getting

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Speaker 4: and she's kind of disappointed by that.

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Speaker 7: I am, I kind of I don't want to hang

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Speaker 6: What, oh, buddy?

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Speaker 5: Why?

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Speaker 7: I mean, we were passing notes, right, we were talking

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Speaker 1: I mean, it would be a lot to write, because yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: Is hard when there's a lull in conversation to force

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Speaker 3: a question. Yeah, the first couple are okay, but by

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Speaker 1: So you shouldn't feel bad. That happens on all first dates.

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Speaker 7: I like, I get that. You guys don't understand. I

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Speaker 4: Oh you ran out of things to like reveal about

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Speaker 2: That should be impossible.

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Speaker 7: Bro books, movies, interests, foods.

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Speaker 1: But there's more.

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Speaker 2: People than what you lie.

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Speaker 1: And I mean, I don't think you're giving yourself credit.

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Speaker 7: I think you're giving me too much.

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Speaker 2: I've got to be middle. You might surprise.

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Speaker 4: I can understand you feel a little bit nervous and intimidated,

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Speaker 4: But what are you worried about? Like, what's the harm

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Speaker 7: I am I'm worried she's gonna find out I'm not

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Speaker 7: just quiet like she is and boring.

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Speaker 2: Boring. That just broke my little heart. You're not boring

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Speaker 2: when you do another date. That's what you talk about.

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Speaker 2: The whole date is the activity, like a new topic.

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Speaker 2: You know, just what happened in the last Yeah, exactly you.

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Speaker 3: I'm just always going to replay their Yea.

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Speaker 4: You are just the calm in a world full of chaos.

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Speaker 4: We need people like you. You balance out all us idiots.

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Speaker 4: And it doesn't matter if you think that you're boring

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Speaker 4: or you're not enough. Somebody that believes that your plenty

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Speaker 2: This is pretty bold, Justine, are you there?

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Speaker 7: I'm here, you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: Right now?

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Speaker 6: She's been listening.

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Speaker 2: He's about to have a heart attack.

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Speaker 7: Justine, I am so sorry.

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Speaker 6: I can't because it was my idea. I was too

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Speaker 6: nervous to call you, and I called somebody who could,

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Speaker 6: and these sweet people have I didn't. We didn't mean

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Speaker 6: to scare you.

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Speaker 2: Sweet in this room.

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Speaker 6: It feels like maybe it backfired.

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Speaker 7: No, no, not at all. I'm really glad to move

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Speaker 6: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: I feel like if we wouldn't have gotten involved, they

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Speaker 1: Us.

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Speaker 2: We may are amazing contacted us.

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Speaker 4: Look, I understand that you're really nervous ken about talking

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Speaker 4: to her and coming across a certain way. I think

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Speaker 4: I think the next date that you go on like

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Speaker 4: you're just in the wrong venue. Do something that's loud,

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Speaker 2: About rather than just sitting quietly together.

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Speaker 6: Comedy show would be so fun.

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Speaker 1: It would be fun. Would that be fun for you?

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Speaker 5: Ken?

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Speaker 7: That sounds like it would happen.

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Speaker 2: Okay, comedy does happen?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, see what she's so funny.

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Speaker 4: Look, the whole goal of this is to set you

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Speaker 4: we would pay for it. So justine, now that you

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Speaker 4: know how he feels, you still want to go out

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, did you hear that?

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Speaker 1: Like that's got to feel good?

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Speaker 3: Right? Did you hang up?

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Speaker 7: Hello?

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Speaker 6: Ken?

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Speaker 7: I'm sorry I dropped my phone. Sounds it sounds creepy.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 4: We will send you guys out on another day and

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Speaker 4: we're gonna pay for it.

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Speaker 7: Okay, awesome, Thank you so much.

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Speaker 6: I'm so grateful you guys.

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Speaker 3: Okay, it just makes me want to go to the

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Speaker 2: Cat, Cat cat cat. Okay, see it feels good.

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Speaker 7: That's a little terrifying.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So we should have whisked away for out of

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Speaker 4: my bad Yeah.

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Speaker 2: An, We're just gonna hang.

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Speaker 7: Out freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: Maybe one of the sweetest second date calls that we've

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Speaker 4: ever done.

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Speaker 2: On the show.

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Speaker 1: I have been dying.

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Speaker 4: All of our listeners have been asking for months to

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Speaker 4: get an update on this, and now we've got him back.

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Speaker 2: Welcome Ken and Justine back to the show. How's it going, guys?

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Speaker 8: Justine isn't here right now.

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Speaker 7: It's just Ken.

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Speaker 2: Wait it said that you guys were both going to

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Speaker 2: be on the call.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, well, we had dinner with her parents last night

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Speaker 8: and she's feeling a little.

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Speaker 7: Overexposed too much social Yeah, feeling up to the social

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Speaker 2: Wait, does that mean you guys are still together?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's been going great.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, Where is she?

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Speaker 7: So, she's on the other side of the door. She's

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Speaker 2: So okay, you guys are like in the same apartment.

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Speaker 2: She's in a different room your apartment together?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Okay?

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Speaker 5: Are you happy?

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Speaker 7: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Is she happy?

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Speaker 8: Actually?

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Speaker 5: No, I can ask Hey, honey, people on the radio

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Speaker 5: want to know if we're happy, not one, if the

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Speaker 5: relationship is going well, not twice?

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Speaker 6: If you have no.

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Speaker 4: Wait, that was one?

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Speaker 2: I heard one?

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Speaker 6: Okay, only one?

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Speaker 5: Knock?

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Speaker 6: You think things are going right?

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Speaker 2: All right, Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so things are moving forward and you guys' relationship clearly.

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Speaker 8: Well, I mean they're moving plates. I mean we haven't

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Speaker 8: like you're not you're not asking if we've done.

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Speaker 1: That, right, No, no, no, no, physically do what you

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Speaker 2: All right, okay, but.

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Speaker 4: We'll give you some space. I know we've already taken

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Speaker 4: keep us updated on yours and Justine's blossoming relationship.

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Speaker 1: Okay, smiling ear to ear for both of you.

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Speaker 2: And I don't mean in the physical way, just the

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Speaker 1: Keep us out like tag us in some videos. Just kidding.

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Speaker 1: That was a joke.

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Speaker 8: That was a joke, all right, Brooke and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 8: the Morning,