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Speaker 1: We ain't got no guests to We ain't got no

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Speaker 1: guess what. I was about to hit the hole? Do

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what dance I used to do? A mean,

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Speaker 1: But you know, okay, I think of hill I know,

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Speaker 2: The hill toe was like a dance right in the

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Speaker 1: The chicken head was a cool ass. You know what

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Speaker 1: And then bow Wow brought it bed. What the Harlem shake?

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Speaker 1: The Harlem sha was before bow Wow? I've never seen

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Speaker 1: you know, the New York is gonna be like dead

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Speaker 1: was the song called tone with it? You don't remember that.

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Speaker 1: Y'all can never say Kanya was a one hit wonder.

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Speaker 2: First of all, that's a compliment because some people don't

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Speaker 1: And I wasn't being shady.

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Speaker 2: You just laughs, You're the one being I was being shady.

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Speaker 1: She ain't to do an episode of the Queen's Court

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Speaker 1: that song. What's your other Kaya song? Those three are

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Speaker 1: It was like, motherfucker respect me e c TV we

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Speaker 2: That lady, because you made the you created the energy

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Speaker 1: She was about to get on our ass when she

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Speaker 1: see this episode. No, it's not because because her flowers.

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Speaker 2: We are but you can't talking about trying to be

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Speaker 2: It was definitely giving chicken head. It was definitely giving

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Speaker 2: That's how I know about the song Nellie Lula Tics

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Speaker 1: Hey hey, what that hook gonna be? Oh, don't beat man,

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Speaker 2: That's all them niggas be having in black toenails that ship.

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Speaker 1: I don't run, so we know you don't you complaining

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Speaker 2: We never been to Qike on a river.

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Speaker 2: I'm not about to play with Tavi what shes saying.

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Speaker 1: They drinking taylor Port. Taylor Port Junkie is a bop.

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Speaker 1: First of all, taylor Port is good. That's what I

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Speaker 1: I'm thiek, but honestly, I have found my love for

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Speaker 1: You know, life is good. Where is my plate? I

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Speaker 2: And mind y'all, I live Nick's door to licks Hey neighbor.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I have one thing I want to say

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Speaker 1: Think about it. This man was like, I'm gonna go

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Speaker 1: wife is cool, but they try to make an excuse

434
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Speaker 1: for it for whatever reason. It was just very weird.

435
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:23,520
Speaker 1: Like when I look back at all the rom coms,

436
00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:28,040
Speaker 1: they the plot be weird. Think about never being kissed? Right.

437
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,879
Speaker 1: Drew Barrymore was a journalist. She pretended to be a

438
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:34,960
Speaker 1: high school student, right, Her and the teacher start flirting

439
00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 1: and develop a relationship. He falls for her, she falls

440
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Speaker 1: for him. Then she's like, I have to tell you

441
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:45,199
Speaker 1: the truth. I'm of age, and he's like, no, no,

442
00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:51,359
Speaker 1: you're not my student. You lied, You're a little weird.

443
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:55,880
Speaker 1: I've never been kissed. It's the most horrible rom com ever?

444
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 1: Is Harry Trump a rom com?

445
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Speaker 3: Rom com?

446
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:02,160
Speaker 2: A little fucked up to He was about to marry

447
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:06,240
Speaker 2: that lady it and then he got back with his eggs.

448
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:09,119
Speaker 1: He got back on his trust with kids.

449
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:12,399
Speaker 2: After them kids terrorized her, They terrorized their lady.

450
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Speaker 1: She deserves to get married you right, because it was

451
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 1: they did. She really wasn't that bad, No she was,

452
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:22,400
Speaker 1: though she wasn't. She was bad, though she was bad,

453
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Speaker 1: but they made her seem worse.

454
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:25,920
Speaker 2: Well, she was pretty bad, and I think the kids

455
00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:28,680
Speaker 2: reacting they assimilated.

456
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:32,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, come on with the words. They did, and they

457
00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:33,600
Speaker 1: definitely did her dirty.

458
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Speaker 2: But you know, she wasn't really the greatest. She wasn't

459
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Speaker 2: the greatest so far. But you know, y'all know, I

460
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 2: love me some and went way back to England.

461
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Speaker 1: Good, what would you why would you go to England, bitch,

462
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:52,119
Speaker 1: like you serious for your parents to get back together.

463
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Speaker 1: It's not that serious.

464
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Speaker 2: If my daddy lived in England, I probably would have

465
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Speaker 2: tried to pull my little one.

466
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Speaker 1: To another one. Tyler Perry, I love. Why did I

467
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 1: married too? No? No, no, no no. Confessions of a Marriage Counselor.

468
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:08,239
Speaker 1: She was unhappy in her marriage. That is not what

469
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Speaker 1: the movie was Calledpations Confessions of a Marriage. It was

470
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Speaker 1: Temptations Confessions of a Marriage Counselor. That's the whole name

471
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Speaker 1: of it is. Yes, yes, that's one of my literally

472
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Speaker 1: favorite movies. Why is because you know why? Because Tyler

473
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Speaker 1: Perry is so diabolical? How dare this is why? Let

474
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Speaker 1: me tell you why to show favorite movie. I'm gonna

475
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Speaker 1: tell you why Tyler Perry. She was not happy in

476
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Speaker 1: her marriage. She was bored. The dick wasn't good. She

477
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Speaker 1: was in a so she you know, this man comes along,

478
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Speaker 1: he got a little money. He's showing her different side

479
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Speaker 1: of life. She just wanted to have a little fun.

480
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Speaker 1: He's like, oh, bitch, you want to have fun, will

481
00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 1: you get an uncurable STD because because I wanted a

482
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:55,120
Speaker 1: little outside dick. But juvenole said that outside dick keeps

483
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:59,639
Speaker 1: them dick Tyler. Perry took that personal. He knew something

484
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Speaker 1: before Juvenile wrote the plot to Temptation. Oh, Juvenile wrote

485
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Speaker 1: the plot to that movie. He need to be getting residuals.

486
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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, though, because like I can't get a

487
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 1: little outside dick. Like damn, he was doing coke, beating

488
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:22,200
Speaker 1: her ass. All she wanted to do was fly on

489
00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 1: the PJ ain't getting a little dick. She was gonna

490
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:26,719
Speaker 1: come back home. Yeah, she got a little molded. Then

491
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Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Why you gotta do all that

492
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Speaker 1: the wrong? Well, I don't think that was a wrong com.

493
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Speaker 1: That was not a wrong was a drama. But I laugh.

494
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Speaker 1: All the Perry movies is dramas.

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Speaker 2: Then it's not rom com because I can't think of

496
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Speaker 2: one that think of one that ended happy.

497
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Speaker 1: Ashtray bitch. They did not end happy. They found out

498
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Speaker 1: who was doing it. It was Felicia Raschard's carri One

499
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Speaker 1: movie that ended happy. All of them, Oh my god,

500
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Speaker 1: all of them. They all end happy to me, because

501
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 1: you know what, I look on the bright side of things.

502
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 1: You can't lose with taller Perry. But the thing you can't,

503
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Speaker 1: and that's fair.

504
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 2: But the end, at the end of the day, it

505
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 2: be real life situations. And that's the thing. It don't

506
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:14,679
Speaker 2: have to end happy because it'd be real shit. They

507
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 2: be happening to people.

508
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,200
Speaker 1: Well, what's temptation? I think that's what it be.

509
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 2: Reminded people like, damn, I can't even gonna have a

510
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:21,159
Speaker 2: good time for this thing.

511
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,360
Speaker 1: I might get that packed. But that's how saying. Men

512
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 1: gonna have a little outside all the time and they

513
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 1: and they get to come home and do whatever. That's

514
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 1: how the wrong comes be. A man will cheat or something,

515
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 1: or he find a new like the wedding planner. He

516
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 1: cheated and he fell in love with this amazing woman

517
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 1: and they rolled off in the sun. Temptation And a

518
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Speaker 1: woman cheats and she gets an uncurable at STD and

519
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Speaker 1: she is lonely going to the pharmacy to get her

520
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:51,679
Speaker 1: STD mets from her ex husband who's happily married.

521
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Speaker 2: You need to stop calling that at STD. That is

522
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Speaker 2: a mute and immune deficiency.

523
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Speaker 1: STD's It was sexually transmitted, was it. It's also trains

524
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 1: a lot of other ways. But she got it growl

525
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:08,880
Speaker 1: from sucking that mean dick, from sucking that outside dick,

526
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Speaker 1: and that kept that whole sick you. You. Let's move on. Please,

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Speaker 1: So I want you to introduce it properly because I

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Speaker 1: having a conversation, and basically we want to talk about

554
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Speaker 1: being in relationships or in a marriage. We can't talk

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Speaker 1: about marriage specifically, but obviously you want to get married.

556
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Speaker 1: I would like to get married one day. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: going into a marriage, do you believe you should always

558
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Speaker 1: move as a collective in every single decision that you make,

559
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Speaker 1: or do you need to you know, so praise your

560
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Speaker 1: partner and be okay with your partner being an individual

561
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Speaker 1: and having a life outside of you.

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Speaker 2: Well, praising anybody, I'm only praising the Lord.

563
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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't think that I'm gonna praise, well, not praise,

565
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Speaker 2: but I encourage them. Well, I feel like you should

566
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Speaker 2: be doing that either way, but I don't. That wasn't

567
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Speaker 2: the context of the conversation. The context of the conversation

568
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Speaker 2: was not like you moving, like you and your partner

569
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Speaker 2: only moving together or going places together and not having

570
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Speaker 2: a life outside of each other. It was more so

571
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Speaker 2: like people failed to realize that when you decide to

572
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Speaker 2: get into a relationship or a marriage, you no longer

573
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 2: can move as an individual. Literally every decision you make

574
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Speaker 2: affix the collective to fix the partnership. And so people

575
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Speaker 2: who want to still make decisions solely based off of

576
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Speaker 2: what they want to do and how they feel just

577
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Speaker 2: them theirselves. Maybe you're not equipped for marriage, or maybe

578
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Speaker 2: you're not a person who wants to be married, because

579
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Speaker 2: when you get married to someone, you have to always

580
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Speaker 2: consider this other person's feeling. Yep, you have to always

581
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Speaker 2: consider their ideologies, you have to always consider their perspectives

582
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Speaker 2: no matter what. It's no longer solely about you and

583
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Speaker 2: my personal beliefs. Is like, at the end of the day,

584
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Speaker 2: it's okay to be a person that's selfish. I actually

585
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Speaker 2: seen Whoopy Goldberg not that long ago. She had did

586
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Speaker 2: an interview and she basically was talking about the reason

587
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Speaker 2: why she does not believe that she's meant for marriage,

588
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Speaker 2: because she said she's fundamentally a selfish person and she

589
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Speaker 2: just she feels like she gives so much of herself

590
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Speaker 2: to other people because she has a child, she has

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Speaker 2: a grandchild, she has a great grandchild. She has all

592
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Speaker 2: these people in her life that she feels like she

593
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Speaker 2: gives so much of herself too. When it comes down

594
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Speaker 2: to a world mean, sick partnership, sometimes she just wants

595
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Speaker 2: to hid and ring.

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Speaker 1: That's what she was calling me. She wouldn't say that,

597
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Speaker 1: she whoop be said and run crazy.

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Speaker 2: And then the interviewer asked her, does this still happen

599
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Speaker 2: and she said absolutely, whoop whoop bee. I fuck with

600
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Speaker 2: it though, but so yeah, So she was saying she

601
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Speaker 2: doesn't care to be married because she feels like she's

602
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Speaker 2: fundamentally a selfish person and she just does not have

603
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Speaker 2: the capacity to give that.

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Speaker 1: To a partner.

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Speaker 2: And I appreciate people like that because I would rather

606
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Speaker 2: you be honest and say you don't have the capacity

607
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Speaker 2: to give that to somebody, then to try to be

608
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Speaker 2: in a relationship and lie to yourself, because I think

609
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Speaker 2: this day and age, people want to be married and

610
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Speaker 2: want to be in committed relationships because society or tradition

611
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Speaker 2: has told them that that's what you're supposed to do,

612
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Speaker 2: when in reality, you know you ain't built for that

613
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Speaker 2: you know, that's not what you want. And so that

614
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 2: was like the context of the conversation because it was

615
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Speaker 2: actually with my men, and like he was basically saying,

616
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Speaker 2: he feels like the problem with modern women is that

617
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Speaker 2: we feel like we can be in a relationship and

618
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Speaker 2: still have an independent ideology and move like we're so

619
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Speaker 2: independent and like we're not in a relationship.

620
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Speaker 1: And how do you feel about that? Because I know

621
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Speaker 1: you said something about like you your view was like

622
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Speaker 1: I still want to be an individual, Like.

623
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Speaker 2: Yeah, because I feel well, no, because I feel like

624
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Speaker 2: it's possible to be an individual, Like you should still

625
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Speaker 2: be an individual in your relationship, but realistically speaking, you

626
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Speaker 2: can't be married and think you could just do you.

627
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Speaker 1: Right, I do feel that way, right.

628
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Speaker 2: So that's that's why you have to really ask yourself

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Speaker 2: when it boils down to it, do I really want

630
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Speaker 2: to be married? Because when you decide you want to

631
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Speaker 2: be married, I don't unless you're in an open marriage,

632
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Speaker 2: which a lot of people are. So I mean that's

633
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Speaker 2: the thing too, But personally I don't want to be

634
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Speaker 2: in an open mirror, right.

635
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Speaker 1: So I think for me, like whenever we were talking

636
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Speaker 1: about this, I think that a lot of people think

637
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Speaker 1: that like we have to move as a collective. There's

638
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Speaker 1: no more just you and I. It's always it's always us.

639
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Speaker 1: When I move, you move just like that ending period.

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Speaker 1: And then there's people who think, you know, there's a US,

641
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Speaker 1: but there's also you and there's also I. And that's

642
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Speaker 1: where I'm at with it because I feel like both

643
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 1: of y'all are right on both sides, because I feel

644
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Speaker 1: like I'm still gonna have my individual life. I'm gonna

645
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Speaker 1: still want to go on vacations with my friends, or

646
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna still wanna do the things that I enjoy.

647
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Speaker 1: A loan sometimes I might want to go just do

648
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Speaker 1: things on my own. Or I'm gonna make a decision

649
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 1: that is, you know, good for me, but I'm never

650
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 1: gonna make a decision that's going to harm us. And

651
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 1: that's where the other side comes in. Once you get

652
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 1: into a marriage and a partnership, the decisions I make

653
00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 1: will always benefit us. And I said, I looked at

654
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 1: it as far as out or relationship with our business,

655
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 1: because I do believe a business is just like a marriage.

656
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 1: So I can trust that you were gonna go out

657
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 1: there and represent yourself as dre and the cole properly.

658
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 1: But you're not, and you're never gonna do anything that's

659
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 1: gonna embarrass the brand of us as a whole. You

660
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. So there's a way that you

661
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:22,040
Speaker 1: can still be an individual but represent your partner in

662
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 1: a good light. So I think you can still be

663
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 1: an individual and have your own individual things going on

664
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 1: and decisions that represent your partner in the correct way.

665
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 2: I agree, But then I also kind of like feel

666
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 2: like if you're a partnership, no decisions should be being

667
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:43,399
Speaker 2: made without the other person being okay, weitty like, I'm

668
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,760
Speaker 2: not gonna just make a decision and help my husband

669
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:48,240
Speaker 2: be okay, weitty, I'm not gonna just make a decision

670
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 2: and help you as my business partner is okay, weitty like.

671
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 2: When it comes to the collexive of the business, well,

672
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:57,320
Speaker 2: I like, I'm gonna be like les, even if it

673
00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:00,040
Speaker 2: might seem like it to other people, because I'm the

674
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 2: one calling the shids. I've already had a conversation with you, though,

675
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 2: and you approve it.

676
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 1: I said, that makes it. It does, It makes perfect sense.

677
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:09,359
Speaker 1: But I'm saying in the sense of it like this,

678
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:14,400
Speaker 1: Let's say I'm somewhere where I cannot be reached and

679
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 1: you can't reach me for like two or three hours. Right,

680
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:21,320
Speaker 1: I'm doing something, maybe I'm getting some kind of surgery, anything,

681
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:25,160
Speaker 1: and surgery they know they can't reach you. Well, I'm saying,

682
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 1: but you can't reach me, and somebody calls you with

683
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 1: an opportunity and to offer, and it's got a decision

684
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:33,720
Speaker 1: has to be made, right then you know what I'm saying.

685
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 1: I trust that you were gonna make the best decision

686
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 1: if you can't consult me at the time. That's what

687
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 1: trust is in a business, in a relationship. So if

688
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 1: anything happens, that's what I'll be thinking of. I think

689
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:47,280
Speaker 1: of the most extreme cases because guess what, life be happening,

690
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,439
Speaker 1: and the most extreme cases do happen. So I can

691
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:53,840
Speaker 1: trust if my husband or my business partner is in

692
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 1: a situation where they have to make a decision and

693
00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 1: I'm not around to say, hey, Lex is this okay?

694
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,360
Speaker 1: Can I do this? You're gonna make the right decision

695
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 1: that benefits you and benefits us, because that's I know

696
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:08,279
Speaker 1: my partner. Yeah, I know my partner, I know you.

697
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: I agree, I agree.

698
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:14,360
Speaker 2: Again, I just think the conversation was just more along

699
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:18,839
Speaker 2: the context of like you can't expect to be a

700
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:22,840
Speaker 2: married person and still move like it's just you in

701
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 2: the world. And I agree with that, Like I think

702
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 2: for the most part, like that's an extreme situation, Like

703
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 2: sometimes you could talk about extremes. If we're going into extremes,

704
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:35,920
Speaker 2: that's an extreme. If you in surgery and I have

705
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:38,239
Speaker 2: to make a decision, well obviously I'm going to make

706
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 2: the decision. But for the most part, we talk about

707
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 2: just everyday life. You can't make decisions like you're still

708
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:47,239
Speaker 2: a single person or it's just you that you have

709
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,400
Speaker 2: to think about when you are in a partnership. Yeah,

710
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 2: and I think a lot of people, which was the

711
00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:56,400
Speaker 2: point that my partner was saying, he feels like a

712
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 2: lot of people still feel like they can get in

713
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:02,959
Speaker 2: a relationship and move like you are single and move

714
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,280
Speaker 2: like you don't have the other person to think about.

715
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,880
Speaker 2: You cannot do that, And I do feel that way.

716
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 2: I feel like you should still be an individual, Like, no,

717
00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:12,440
Speaker 2: you don't want to be with nobody who controlling you,

718
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:15,359
Speaker 2: telling you what the fuck you can do when you

719
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 2: could be somewhere, when you can't be somewhere. This is

720
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 2: how you should dress. This, how you should mould yourself.

721
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 2: This is how you should act in public. No, it's

722
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 2: not nothing like that. But at the end of the day,

723
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:27,840
Speaker 2: you have to consult with another person once you decide

724
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:28,520
Speaker 2: to get married.

725
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,959
Speaker 1: That's just what it is. Yeah, I think it's more

726
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 1: so of like when I say being an individual, it's

727
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 1: like it's to me, I'm not married, but I'm obviously

728
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 1: in a relationship, So I don't think it's like necessary

729
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 1: like marriage is different. So yeah, we do have to

730
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 1: consult different things, cause bigger decisions are being made. But

731
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:50,120
Speaker 1: it's like when me and my man, there's certain things

732
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:52,440
Speaker 1: that going on. Of course I'm going to tell him,

733
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 1: but a lot of times men and women they want

734
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 1: you to ask. And I'm not saying that's what your

735
00:37:58,280 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 1: partner was saying, but a lot of times that why

736
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 1: my nigga ask me to ask him nothing? Yeah, that's

737
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:03,800
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I think a lot of times and relationships,

738
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 1: they'd be like, oh, well, my girl needs to ask

739
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:07,359
Speaker 1: me if she can do this, or my nigga needs

740
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:08,920
Speaker 1: to ask me. I don't think none of that.

741
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 2: Well, that's controlling, and that's to me, that's controlling.

742
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:12,879
Speaker 1: I feel like.

743
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,840
Speaker 2: If anything, he I just I feel like you know

744
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:22,680
Speaker 2: what's on limits and off limits for your partner. I

745
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 2: think that if somebody is telling you what to do

746
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,399
Speaker 2: all the time, you have to abide by certain rules.

747
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 1: That's a little controlling.

748
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 2: But I think as a person in a relationship, and

749
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 2: if you really know your partner, you know what makes

750
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:38,879
Speaker 2: your partner comfortable and what may I'm uncomfortable, So you.

751
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 1: Know what to do.

752
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 2: You kind of know what to do and know what

753
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 2: not to do, and if something is too much for you,

754
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 2: you can opt to not be in that relationship.

755
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:48,800
Speaker 1: And it's crazy because it's not about even to me personally,

756
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 1: it's not even about knowing what to do. I'm just

757
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 1: that's stuff like that doesn't even cross my mind, like

758
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 1: making him mad or something that would pop him off

759
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 1: or make him feel some type of way. Stuff like

760
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 1: that isn't even coop. I never make him mad as

761
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:06,720
Speaker 1: far as anything that I say or post or anywhere

762
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:09,960
Speaker 1: that I go, because I'm just not trying my nigga

763
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:11,960
Speaker 1: like that because out of the respect or look, my man.

764
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 1: He get mad when I say my nigga, my man

765
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:16,239
Speaker 1: like that because out of the respect. So I think

766
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 1: even when you're in a relationship, your mind frame changes

767
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 1: cause you're you're not even going there with the things

768
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,359
Speaker 1: that you know would be like, I don't move like that.

769
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 1: When you're in a relationship, you shouldn't even move like

770
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:30,759
Speaker 1: you're single anymore. But for the people that like to

771
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 1: you know what, I want to get up and I

772
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 1: want to go to have coffee, and then I want

773
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 1: to go run. Then I want to go shopping. But

774
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 1: I want to do all this by myself and I

775
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 1: don't want to check in. There are people that can

776
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 1: function and relationships like that. Y'all need to find each other.

777
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 1: And the people who like to communicate and let their

778
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:49,879
Speaker 1: partner know where they're at at all times, they need

779
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 1: to be together. I think a lot of times with

780
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 1: the relationships, we need to realize that we gotta do

781
00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:57,359
Speaker 1: what works for us and for you. So, if you're

782
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 1: a person, you want to be an individual, be with

783
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:02,760
Speaker 1: somebody who's a with being an individual, But you can't

784
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:05,719
Speaker 1: go as an individual wanting to be with somebody who

785
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 1: was like we have to work as a unit, because

786
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 1: that's not gonna work. Yeah, I think you just have

787
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:11,880
Speaker 1: to do what works for you.

788
00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:16,359
Speaker 2: However, though, I think that there's so many different types

789
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:20,680
Speaker 2: of marriages. But when we're talking about like committee marriage,

790
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 2: traditional marriage, I do feel like you have to move

791
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:25,760
Speaker 2: as a collectief because there's plenty of people that's married

792
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 2: like again, and they're in open marriages, and like different

793
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 2: shit works for people who in open marriages a little bit,

794
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 2: the rules a little different shit. But I think that

795
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 2: if you want like a committee traditional marriage, I agree,

796
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:47,480
Speaker 2: it has to be like decisions for the collectives. The collectives,

797
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:51,240
Speaker 2: and I just I don't know it's somebody who moves

798
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 2: how I want to move marriage.

799
00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:55,800
Speaker 1: The thought of marriage.

800
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 2: It takes a lot of work for me because it's

801
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 2: a lot of have to consider another person's feelings and

802
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:09,280
Speaker 2: another person's thoughts and their ideologies and how they'll perceive

803
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 2: certain things. So I think I have to always put

804
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:15,440
Speaker 2: a lot of extra care into that once I get married,

805
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 2: because I just moved to the beat of my own drum,

806
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:21,839
Speaker 2: and it's that doesn't work for a marriage. That's why

807
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:23,799
Speaker 2: I feel like I could say the things that I

808
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:26,839
Speaker 2: say because I know I traditionally have not moved like

809
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 2: someone who wants to be in a marriage. But as

810
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:33,279
Speaker 2: I get older, I try to in my relationships like

811
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:35,400
Speaker 2: I try to emulate that the growth.

812
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 1: Because you have to. I mean, you have to be

813
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:38,399
Speaker 1: real with yourself about what you want.

814
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 2: You can't want certain things and then you can't want

815
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:43,000
Speaker 2: to go left and move right.

816
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:45,879
Speaker 1: That was a bar.

817
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 2: I mean, for real, you can't say you want one

818
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:49,839
Speaker 2: thing and then you move in a whole different way.

819
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:53,640
Speaker 2: But unfortunately, in our generation, everybody people think they can

820
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:57,920
Speaker 2: have everything when in reality, like everything they have. Well,

821
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:01,320
Speaker 2: you you can't have everything.

822
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 1: You have to make choicy.

823
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course you can't have everything. That's like a

824
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:09,840
Speaker 2: fairy tale princess mentality. You ain't gonna get everything.

825
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: Y'all better stop watching from You have to decide what

826
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:16,640
Speaker 1: you want. That's our problem. We will move accordingly. Watching

827
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 1: Beauty in the Bees the Cinderella Bitch is not.

828
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:21,880
Speaker 2: That I mean, it's not that's not real life. It

829
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 2: ain't no nigga coming saved and they white.

830
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:26,120
Speaker 1: But that's another topic.

831
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 2: Well, well we only had that one.

832
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:34,239
Speaker 1: Okay, So now it's time to get into the.

833
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 2: Bed the big bow about bow bow.

834
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 1: Okay, So today we're going to talk about sexual innuendows.

835
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 1: Like do y'all like when people say, like a sexual

836
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 1: joke to try to like easy whin or like test

837
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:58,200
Speaker 1: the water. So we're gonna read some sexual in the windows.

838
00:42:57,640 --> 00:42:58,200
Speaker 2: In you all.

839
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 1: That's kicking my sexual innuendos to see like would this

840
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:08,319
Speaker 1: work on you or would it not? You know? Like

841
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 1: an example would be like somebody be like, oh my gosh,

842
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 1: this is so hard, and they'd be like, that's what

843
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:19,800
Speaker 1: she said. Would that work on you? No? No, okay,

844
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 1: so re one. I want a bone. That's just straightforward.

845
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 1: See that was acting like adult. That's straightforward. If a

846
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 1: nigga said you want a bone, I'm be like, oh

847
00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:36,799
Speaker 1: my god, that's not you know what I'm saying.

848
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 2: A pearl nickolace will look really nice on you.

849
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:40,880
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I would be like what you

850
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 1: mean by that? If somebody said, I'll be like what

851
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 1: you mean? I would come. You would buy me one.

852
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 1: After you buy one, you can do the other one.

853
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:53,960
Speaker 1: I like, I kind of like that. I kind of

854
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:55,759
Speaker 1: like that one a little bit. I ain't gonna lie.

855
00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:58,240
Speaker 1: That might work on me. What about I love saucy

856
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:02,239
Speaker 1: because I do love sauce. Each Ryan loves sausage too.

857
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 1: Whoever Ryan when he's a glizzy God he's a glazee gobbler.

858
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 1: So somebody was like, I love sausage, and he would

859
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:11,839
Speaker 1: be like, that's what she said. I would probably laugh

860
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:14,800
Speaker 1: at that if somebody said I love sausage, that's funny

861
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 1: to me. That's that's a little funny to me. Okay, okay, okay.

862
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 1: We were only riding for maybe five seconds before we

863
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 1: were desperate to get off. I felt that one I

864
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 1: do not like riding.

865
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:31,400
Speaker 2: And what situation though, would somebody just say that to me?

866
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 1: Though, Oh, it's a roller coaster. They got a roller coaster.

867
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,359
Speaker 1: I see that. So maybe if you're in like a

868
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:39,400
Speaker 1: bus or something, maybe you get on the bus like

869
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 1: we was on, not even a bus or sprinter. Maybe

870
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:45,839
Speaker 1: the driver driving crazy. Like we were only riding for

871
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,080
Speaker 1: five seconds and I was so desperate to get off

872
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:53,319
Speaker 1: sometimes and then and somebody be like, hmm, that's what

873
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:57,759
Speaker 1: she said, dick to be it's double on tundra. You

874
00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 1: gotta come on out, use your freaky ass. We banging off.

875
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 1: We were banging all nights. You see. I used to

876
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 1: play what's that what's that game called? What's the game called?

877
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:13,280
Speaker 1: When you play the drums and the guitar guitar rock band,

878
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 1: guitar Hero. We were banging all night. I used to

879
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 1: bang off of Beyonce We be all Night, But she

880
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 1: was being a free frog beyond Hey. It was some

881
00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 1: sexual inuos in that song. Low key not low key.

882
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:37,279
Speaker 1: I've never been Yeah, she's never been low key about

883
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 1: her horniness. He was a little horny in his songs.

884
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 1: It was both a little horny.

885
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:47,840
Speaker 2: I sling Clint Eastwood, you can't handle these curves.

886
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:51,319
Speaker 1: We did not need to know that anatomy about his

887
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:58,640
Speaker 1: I wouldn't maden. Okay, in an instance, she was dripping wet,

888
00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:02,960
Speaker 1: That's what he said, because like what if I push

889
00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 1: you in the pool in an instant you were dripping wet.

890
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 1: But I could also be talking about that porson. You

891
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 1: feel me? Do you feel me or not? No? No, okay, okay,

892
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:21,719
Speaker 1: this is a good one. I tried everything, but he

893
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:26,759
Speaker 1: just kept slipping out. Period. What I'm trying to pay

894
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 1: out is in what instances?

895
00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 2: Okay, what did you say these things?

896
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: I tried everything, but he just kept slipping out. Like

897
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:37,960
Speaker 1: if you got your baby in your hands and you

898
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:40,320
Speaker 1: just awed them up and he kept he's a baby

899
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:44,080
Speaker 1: too slippery. You kept dropping the baby because he got

900
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 1: too much baby all on him. You have a grease

901
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:50,239
Speaker 1: stuff a baby too. My I greasedtuff a baby, That's

902
00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:51,840
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I doe greased up my nephew. I

903
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 1: couldn't keep that slippery motherfucker in my hand. Or I

904
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 1: could be talking about that porson now this one. I

905
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:01,560
Speaker 1: done said this before. I want you to I was

906
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:04,800
Speaker 1: expecting maybe four inches, but he gave me more like twelve.

907
00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:12,360
Speaker 1: I've said that before. When you go to subway, sometimes

908
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 1: they hook you up. I used to go to subway.

909
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:16,799
Speaker 1: There was a subway by my house in Houston. I

910
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 1: swear to god, I used to go there so much.

911
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:20,919
Speaker 1: I was like, damn. I thought he was only gonna

912
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:26,319
Speaker 1: give me six, but he gave me the whole motherfucker. Hey,

913
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:31,960
Speaker 1: you put extra meat on there. You feel me? So

914
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:35,440
Speaker 1: if I said I thought it's six inch, but he

915
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 1: gave me that foot long, you can be like, oh,

916
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:43,360
Speaker 1: what you mean by that? I could be talking about sandwich,

917
00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 1: or I could be talking about hard dick. Go on,

918
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:58,279
Speaker 1: Oh with your fast. He tried everything, but he just

919
00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:02,880
Speaker 1: couldn't get in that. Oh that's a good one, because

920
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:06,960
Speaker 1: that's like that could be so many different things tight

921
00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:16,759
Speaker 1: because that could be bad. Why did them, oh like

922
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 1: this to be putting vinegar in a pussy they need

923
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 1: and they used to just be having a thing hanging up?

924
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:25,440
Speaker 1: Oh my god. But yeah, he tried so hard he

925
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:27,719
Speaker 1: couldn't get in. That could mean he knocking on your dough.

926
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:31,280
Speaker 1: You wasn't letting him come back in your life. Somebody

927
00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:33,600
Speaker 1: could have been trying to break in your tesla, your

928
00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:35,839
Speaker 1: brand new tesla. They couldn't get in at all.

929
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 2: He was trying to break in, breaking that pussay, he

930
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:40,799
Speaker 2: couldn't get in there.

931
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:43,160
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. These are some good double on time.

932
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:45,120
Speaker 1: If somebody said this stuff to me, I would kind

933
00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 1: of be impressed.

934
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:54,520
Speaker 2: I'm sure he's tired. He's spend all day on his knees. Now, now,

935
00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 2: what's your thoughts on that?

936
00:48:56,080 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: Because sometimes when you leave church, Sometimes when you leave

937
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:03,880
Speaker 1: church and the word was so good, you know they

938
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 1: got the little things where you can actually pull pull

939
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:09,640
Speaker 1: it out, so you can, that's what I'm saying. You

940
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:12,759
Speaker 1: put your knees on the cushion, so sometimes they don't

941
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:15,440
Speaker 1: get up from there, and when you see him, you

942
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 1: be like, man, I know he's tired. He been on

943
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:19,880
Speaker 1: his knees. He was on his knees the whole time.

944
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 1: He was on his knees all day.

945
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:25,040
Speaker 2: Then Paul Wall say that on the song she being

946
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 2: on the knees, But trust me, she ain't get him.

947
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 2: Pray Hello, Why do I know.

948
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:42,000
Speaker 1: In the depths of my mind about you? You know

949
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:44,360
Speaker 1: all the lyrics? I do you know all the lyrics?

950
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 1: I got one more? Okay, one more, and we're gonna

951
00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:50,240
Speaker 1: move on. One more? Is it? Come on? Making good?

952
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 1: Because I actually can think of some things I can

953
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:57,360
Speaker 1: say these. Okay, okay, okay. Did you try blowing? That's

954
00:49:57,400 --> 00:50:00,479
Speaker 1: a good one. That's a good one. It's too hot?

955
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 1: The food too hot? Did you try blowing? Or you

956
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:07,359
Speaker 1: got something in your eye? I got some in my eye?

957
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 1: Did you try blowing? Or this cock is hard? Let

958
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:22,280
Speaker 1: me blow your eye? I'm not not again.

959
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:31,239
Speaker 2: Squeeze when I'm coming in?

960
00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 1: Too many? Oh so far, I'm coming. I thought we

961
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 1: were so playing a game. Oh my god. Okay, that's

962
00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:43,919
Speaker 1: before we move on. Can I ask you a question,

963
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:46,399
Speaker 1: because now that you said, what's the fastest you made

964
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:51,240
Speaker 1: a man come before? M hmm, what's the fastest? Probably

965
00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:54,439
Speaker 1: like five minutes five. No, I know you got less

966
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:56,560
Speaker 1: time than that probably thought.

967
00:50:56,600 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 2: But I'm just trying to be fair like because I

968
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 2: can think of one specific situation and yeah, it was

969
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:07,160
Speaker 2: it was listing vibe and he was saying he was sorry.

970
00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:11,320
Speaker 1: Okay, but I mean even when like, I feel like sometimes.

971
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:12,920
Speaker 2: I like, sometimes they could just be excited.

972
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:14,800
Speaker 1: Well, I think sometimes so you might just want a

973
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 1: quick quickie, pussy, be good, whatever you got going on.

974
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:23,880
Speaker 1: My my personal record is a minute thirty because I knew,

975
00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:26,239
Speaker 1: I knew. I don't know.

976
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm probably close to that though. It's

977
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:30,799
Speaker 2: definitely listing by for sure.

978
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:34,799
Speaker 1: I know it is. I've seen that couchie, I've seen it.

979
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:38,680
Speaker 2: It's yeah, I've had some situations where it was very

980
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 2: quick work.

981
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:46,440
Speaker 1: How do you all work? Broad work not ball works?

982
00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:48,160
Speaker 2: Make your situation works?

983
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:52,239
Speaker 1: Do you want to talk about the show that we watched? Yeah,

984
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:53,799
Speaker 1: we can talk about it. Let's talk about it. We

985
00:51:53,840 --> 00:52:06,319
Speaker 1: got some time. Let's cheers better bom Mmm, y'all used

986
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:08,359
Speaker 1: to listen to that in high school. Baby, y'all love

987
00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:14,880
Speaker 1: solo episodes. We can have a ball bedroom. Okay, so

988
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:17,240
Speaker 1: y'all know we haven't done a movie. Or show breakdown

989
00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 1: in a very very, very very long time. That what

990
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:28,280
Speaker 1: was that mango topic? Oh passion topic? Got said the tie.

991
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:36,560
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Speaker 1: By y'all? All right, y'all. This is our next segment

1010
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 1: this week. Y'all know we always have to do an

1011
00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:35,440
Speaker 1: item of the week and we have a special guest today.

1012
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 1: So one thing about us, y'all know, me Andrea do

1013
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:41,759
Speaker 1: not play about our hair. Y'all always asking us, you know,

1014
00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:44,719
Speaker 1: who does our hair? Where we get our hair from? Well,

1015
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:47,960
Speaker 1: we finna put y'all on tea for real. We have

1016
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:55,360
Speaker 1: trees from Crowns of Love, like anning us for having

1017
00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:58,680
Speaker 1: me week, Yes, LUs to be here, thank you for

1018
00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:01,400
Speaker 1: sharing your platform of course course.

1019
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:04,959
Speaker 2: And I actually wanted to say to this hair because

1020
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:07,360
Speaker 2: people have been asking me so much. I've been tagging

1021
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:10,000
Speaker 2: it and most of my pictures, everybody's been like, oh

1022
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 2: my god, where do you get your hair for your

1023
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 2: boho braids? And I'm like, I got it from Crowns Love,

1024
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:18,640
Speaker 2: raw Indian hair, and I died one of the bundles.

1025
00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 2: So I don't know if y'all can see like the

1026
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:22,720
Speaker 2: blonde throughout, but I died one.

1027
00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:25,760
Speaker 1: Of the bundles and the texture did not change. Yeah,

1028
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 1: so that's a benefit.

1029
00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:30,319
Speaker 2: Hele and everything, and he's still like wavy like the

1030
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 2: rest of the hair is still kept the same texture.

1031
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:35,680
Speaker 2: It's still easy to manage and everything, So yes, I

1032
00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:36,160
Speaker 2: love it.

1033
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:39,120
Speaker 1: That's the benefit of Indian hair. A lot of vendors

1034
00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:42,320
Speaker 1: right now are selling processed hair, so as you can see,

1035
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 1: when we get this hair, every bundle is completely different

1036
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 1: coming from an individual person, so it's unprocessed raw. So

1037
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:55,520
Speaker 1: I started wearing Indian hair I would say maybe nine

1038
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:57,960
Speaker 1: or ten years ago, and I just cannot wear anything

1039
00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:01,400
Speaker 1: else because it's the only thing that like last. So

1040
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 1: with this, unless you dyet and bleach it blonde and

1041
00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:07,760
Speaker 1: just dry it out, the texture is never going to change.

1042
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 1: So you really can have this hair of lifetime honestly,

1043
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:14,160
Speaker 1: but I would say realistically it can last up to

1044
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:16,400
Speaker 1: a year a year and a half. Yeah, it's crazy

1045
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:18,839
Speaker 1: to me because I think that's where things got confusing

1046
00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 1: for the consumer because they started having like Malaysian curly Chinese,

1047
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:32,080
Speaker 1: which is all for sea curl sea curls. But I'm

1048
00:55:32,120 --> 00:55:36,640
Speaker 1: saying it was so many different Like branding and marketing

1049
00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:39,879
Speaker 1: is Indian hair because they're the only ones that are

1050
00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:43,040
Speaker 1: really donating their hair because it's a part of their religion. Right,

1051
00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:46,759
Speaker 1: so all hair is Indian hair, So no all one

1052
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:49,799
Speaker 1: hundred human hair that you're getting is going to be

1053
00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:53,400
Speaker 1: coming from Indias. Then you have hair from China that

1054
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:57,760
Speaker 1: is more manufactured and blended and things of that nature.

1055
00:55:57,800 --> 00:55:59,920
Speaker 1: But the technology is so great now that they do

1056
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 1: have high quality hair that you know can almost mimic this,

1057
00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:08,319
Speaker 1: but it's still just nothing the same, no, No, So

1058
00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:12,239
Speaker 1: Crowns of Love we're a nonprofit organization. Our mission is

1059
00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 1: to support women that have lost their hair due to

1060
00:56:15,640 --> 00:56:19,719
Speaker 1: cancer and alopecia. So me selling hair is really just

1061
00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:21,960
Speaker 1: more of an initiative for us to be able to

1062
00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 1: donate more wigs. So I've been in the hair business

1063
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:27,839
Speaker 1: my whole life, but I've always kind of run from

1064
00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:30,879
Speaker 1: it because it wasn't enough passion for me, it wasn't

1065
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 1: enough purpose. A friend of mine was filming for a

1066
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:37,799
Speaker 1: show and her mother was diagnosed with breast cancer, so

1067
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:40,840
Speaker 1: she called me to make a wig, and during that process,

1068
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:43,200
Speaker 1: I was immediately inspired. I was like, if ever I'm

1069
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:44,880
Speaker 1: going to be in the hair business, let it be

1070
00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:48,120
Speaker 1: for women who don't have hair and they really need it.

1071
00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:50,600
Speaker 1: So it just gave it a lot of passion and

1072
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:53,879
Speaker 1: purpose for me. So we launched the organization a few

1073
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:57,800
Speaker 1: years ago. We've donated close to two hundred human hair

1074
00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:03,120
Speaker 1: bigs since we started. Yeah, and so our wait list

1075
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:07,120
Speaker 1: continues to grow. And with us being a nonprofit, we

1076
00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:10,040
Speaker 1: haven't been making money, so a lot of the times

1077
00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:13,240
Speaker 1: we're donating out of pocket or we've had like small

1078
00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:16,640
Speaker 1: fundraising events that have brought in a little bit of money.

1079
00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 1: So this was an initiative for us to, like I said,

1080
00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:22,920
Speaker 1: be able to bring the community in. Girls are buying

1081
00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:26,720
Speaker 1: hair anyway, yeah, so why not buy it from someone

1082
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 1: who is doing good work, you know?

1083
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:31,720
Speaker 2: So could you elaborate a little bit more on if

1084
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:34,760
Speaker 2: they buy their bundles from Crowns of Love, like where

1085
00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:35,760
Speaker 2: the money will be going.

1086
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 1: Yes, So we launched two initiatives. One is a Crown

1087
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:43,240
Speaker 1: Exchange program that will allow you to donate your old

1088
00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:46,520
Speaker 1: hair and old wigs to us will have it professionally

1089
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 1: cleaned and style and donate it. That way, even if

1090
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 1: we don't have money, we can still show up at

1091
00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:55,280
Speaker 1: health these So this is one of our initiatives. And

1092
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:58,440
Speaker 1: then our second initiative is because I know hair, and

1093
00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:01,120
Speaker 1: now I've been in the business for along, I can

1094
00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:03,720
Speaker 1: always sell hair. So I said, Okay, if I'm gonna

1095
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:07,800
Speaker 1: sell hair, let me create a Bogo program, So we're

1096
00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 1: putting a twist on it. Usually it's buy one, get one.

1097
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 1: Ours is buy one, give one. So when you buy

1098
00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:18,360
Speaker 1: hair from us, which when you post it the other day,

1099
00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:22,800
Speaker 1: we got an ordery and by the way, period I know,

1100
00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:30,080
Speaker 1: I was like okay, yeah, ye, So that order, that

1101
00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 1: money that we make from that will help us to

1102
00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:35,520
Speaker 1: be able to get the wigs that we have already

1103
00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:37,920
Speaker 1: style because we have to pay a stylist to do

1104
00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:40,520
Speaker 1: this type of stuff. Or if we don't have wigs

1105
00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:43,800
Speaker 1: in stock, then we can purchase a wig for a cancer. Okay.

1106
00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:47,280
Speaker 1: So that's the whole mission of the buy one, Give one. Okay.

1107
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:50,080
Speaker 1: I love that because you know it's crazy. I think

1108
00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:53,000
Speaker 1: a lot of times, as black women, our crown is

1109
00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:56,920
Speaker 1: like our hair is. It is everything so important to us.

1110
00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:59,320
Speaker 1: And I think one thing about our platform, and I

1111
00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:00,960
Speaker 1: think that's the one of the things that we get

1112
00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:04,120
Speaker 1: questioned about the most, between our makeup and our hair.

1113
00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 1: We always get questions about our hair. And I think

1114
00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:11,080
Speaker 1: for me, I mean Drea's like this as well, But

1115
00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:13,919
Speaker 1: I think I've always been that person like I want

1116
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 1: to give back as much as I can if I

1117
00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:19,160
Speaker 1: can use my platform to do something good because I

1118
00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 1: always feel like when I was struggling, I wish I

1119
00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:23,720
Speaker 1: had somebody that would have reached out to me or

1120
00:59:23,760 --> 00:59:27,760
Speaker 1: gave me a hand, especially something like this. So the

1121
00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:30,120
Speaker 1: fact of the matter is, like you said, y'all are

1122
00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:31,720
Speaker 1: buying hair anyway.

1123
00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:34,200
Speaker 2: So why not bite but be giving back to a

1124
00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:34,600
Speaker 2: good car.

1125
00:59:34,720 --> 00:59:38,120
Speaker 1: But not only that, you're gonna get great, the best hair,

1126
00:59:38,280 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 1: the best on the mark hair that you can get. Agreed,

1127
00:59:41,440 --> 00:59:43,600
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. We have gotten a lot of

1128
00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:46,080
Speaker 1: hair like send to us, smelt to us. We don't

1129
00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:48,200
Speaker 1: even know half the time where it's coming from. And

1130
00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:49,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what, let me try this out.

1131
00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:52,000
Speaker 1: I've tried out so many people hair and I'm like, oh,

1132
00:59:52,040 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 1: I'm a shout them all the show. But I don't

1133
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:55,960
Speaker 1: say nothing because I don't like the hair. I have

1134
00:59:56,040 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 1: worn this hair before you gave me a weig a

1135
00:59:58,000 --> 01:00:03,560
Speaker 1: long time ago. Yes, I no. I literally see the

1136
01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:05,360
Speaker 1: comments like dre where you got your hair from?

1137
01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:08,760
Speaker 2: And I literally, you guys have this hair in right now.

1138
01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:11,919
Speaker 2: Y'are so many commons you went.

1139
01:00:11,840 --> 01:00:14,160
Speaker 1: To Turks in that hair you was in the ocean,

1140
01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:16,800
Speaker 1: and that hair, same hair I had in Turks. Like

1141
01:00:17,040 --> 01:00:19,080
Speaker 1: I went to Miami with this hair, I've been to

1142
01:00:19,240 --> 01:00:25,400
Speaker 1: LA with this okay, right, and it still looks great.

1143
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:29,080
Speaker 2: It still looks refreshed, it still is like as you

1144
01:00:29,080 --> 01:00:34,200
Speaker 2: can see, ain't go free looking hair is gliding through

1145
01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:36,000
Speaker 2: the hair like it's amazing.

1146
01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:38,000
Speaker 1: I love it. So I want you to talk a

1147
01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:39,800
Speaker 1: little bit because you said you made a wig. So

1148
01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:42,200
Speaker 1: you you do hair? Are you made?

1149
01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:42,600
Speaker 2: Like?

1150
01:00:42,680 --> 01:00:42,760
Speaker 4: So?

1151
01:00:43,040 --> 01:00:46,000
Speaker 1: I started doing hair when I was My grandmother always

1152
01:00:46,000 --> 01:00:48,520
Speaker 1: says when I'm like three years old, So when I

1153
01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:52,240
Speaker 1: was kid, I've always been attracted to him. So yeah,

1154
01:00:52,320 --> 01:00:56,120
Speaker 1: growing up, I started braiding. I started doing just everybody's hair.

1155
01:00:56,160 --> 01:00:59,320
Speaker 1: I opened my first salon at twenty two. I started

1156
01:00:59,360 --> 01:01:03,640
Speaker 1: selling hair Indian hair actually at twenty two, right when

1157
01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:06,920
Speaker 1: it kind of became hot. I feel like when people started,

1158
01:01:07,040 --> 01:01:11,440
Speaker 1: you know, wanting to have virsion hair. So yeah, I've

1159
01:01:11,480 --> 01:01:13,560
Speaker 1: always been in the space. So it's just something that

1160
01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:17,760
Speaker 1: I can do with my eyes closed, like it's just eyeball. Yeah,

1161
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:20,439
Speaker 1: And I'm a stickler, like if I'm gonna wear hair,

1162
01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:23,520
Speaker 1: it has to be the top quality or else, like

1163
01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 1: you know, And so the good thing about Indian hair

1164
01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:28,919
Speaker 1: too is it matches with our hair so well, and

1165
01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:31,360
Speaker 1: like you can see, there's so many different textures, so

1166
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:34,720
Speaker 1: it blends with our hair and then we have a

1167
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:37,640
Speaker 1: little bit of variety for all different textures as well. Okay,

1168
01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:39,920
Speaker 1: so yeah, talk about the different kinds of hair that

1169
01:01:40,040 --> 01:01:44,360
Speaker 1: will be available. So when you're getting raw hair, it

1170
01:01:44,440 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 1: really only comes into textures. Like you said, there's no

1171
01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:54,120
Speaker 1: like Texas curly, Jerry curl right Eurasian, Like what is

1172
01:01:54,200 --> 01:02:02,200
Speaker 1: that even mean? Like, don't even give me so ours

1173
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:05,919
Speaker 1: is very simple. It's either wavy or it's curly. Those

1174
01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:09,280
Speaker 1: are just the two textures. Now you will see a

1175
01:02:09,280 --> 01:02:11,600
Speaker 1: lot of different textures, Like some of it looks more

1176
01:02:11,720 --> 01:02:13,840
Speaker 1: on the straighter side, but once you wet it up,

1177
01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:17,000
Speaker 1: it's gonna have a wave too. So yeah, so those

1178
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:20,960
Speaker 1: are the two textures that it comes in. But so

1179
01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:22,960
Speaker 1: the way we're gonna have it on our website too

1180
01:02:23,040 --> 01:02:25,800
Speaker 1: is if you have a preference, you can say, like

1181
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:28,320
Speaker 1: I want wavy hair, but more on the straight side

1182
01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:31,640
Speaker 1: because and even like you see, some of them is brown,

1183
01:02:31,720 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 1: some of them are darker, we don't really have control

1184
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 1: over that. Where it's virgin's virgin hair. And if I'm

1185
01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:50,240
Speaker 1: the store r hair, I'm gonna do my best to

1186
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:53,080
Speaker 1: make sure that I put together a set that will

1187
01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:56,400
Speaker 1: blend cohesively. But for the most part, it's raw hair,

1188
01:02:56,920 --> 01:03:00,160
Speaker 1: you know, So okay, and so when you go on

1189
01:03:00,160 --> 01:03:01,840
Speaker 1: the website and you already you don't have to do

1190
01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:05,680
Speaker 1: anything special to do the bogo so automatically when they purchased,

1191
01:03:06,280 --> 01:03:09,160
Speaker 1: the other portion of the proceeds are going to a

1192
01:03:09,240 --> 01:03:12,440
Speaker 1: cancer patient directly, okay, so tell us where they can

1193
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:14,560
Speaker 1: find the hair ray and all that get stuff. So

1194
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:19,200
Speaker 1: our website is www dot Crownsolove dot org, which you

1195
01:03:19,200 --> 01:03:21,760
Speaker 1: will also be able to see the work that we've done.

1196
01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:23,880
Speaker 1: You'll be able to see the women that we've been

1197
01:03:23,920 --> 01:03:27,080
Speaker 1: able to impact over the past few years, which is

1198
01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:31,440
Speaker 1: my pride and joy. I actually just came from leaving

1199
01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:33,680
Speaker 1: one of my cancer patients. She just rung the bell.

1200
01:03:33,760 --> 01:03:37,680
Speaker 1: Today was her last round and chemo, which was and

1201
01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:40,880
Speaker 1: she she's just a queen. Like I've been working with her.

1202
01:03:41,600 --> 01:03:43,600
Speaker 1: I filmed something with her. I didn't even know, like

1203
01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:45,920
Speaker 1: you can't even tell she was sick or going through anything.

1204
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:50,360
Speaker 1: She just held it down like yeah, I'm like, you

1205
01:03:50,400 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 1: are a queen. Yeah, you have my highest respect. So yeah,

1206
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:55,880
Speaker 1: so you can see the work that we do. Like

1207
01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:58,040
Speaker 1: I said, we have the other initiative too. If you

1208
01:03:58,040 --> 01:04:00,120
Speaker 1: don't want to buy hair, if you have old wi,

1209
01:04:00,680 --> 01:04:02,680
Speaker 1: you can donate them to us. And then we're also

1210
01:04:02,880 --> 01:04:06,480
Speaker 1: just accepting donations. Maybe you're a guy and you want

1211
01:04:06,480 --> 01:04:09,160
Speaker 1: to support our calls, you can just donate directly on

1212
01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:13,280
Speaker 1: our website as well. So if anybody is a actual

1213
01:04:13,680 --> 01:04:16,040
Speaker 1: cancer patient, is there any way that they can reach

1214
01:04:16,080 --> 01:04:18,920
Speaker 1: out to you? Yeah, so on our website as well,

1215
01:04:19,040 --> 01:04:22,240
Speaker 1: there's a button that says apply, which they'll be able

1216
01:04:22,280 --> 01:04:25,439
Speaker 1: to tell us their story, send us photos. And that's

1217
01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:28,280
Speaker 1: the other thing too. So with our organization, there are

1218
01:04:28,320 --> 01:04:31,760
Speaker 1: other organizations that give wigs to cancer patients, and I

1219
01:04:31,800 --> 01:04:34,520
Speaker 1: think what makes ours unique and is why we've had

1220
01:04:34,600 --> 01:04:37,600
Speaker 1: a lot of good traction, which we've not done any

1221
01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:42,160
Speaker 1: marketing whatsoever since we launched, but women have been able

1222
01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:45,560
Speaker 1: to donate or sorry, they've been able to send photos

1223
01:04:45,560 --> 01:04:47,400
Speaker 1: to us of what their hair looked like prior to

1224
01:04:47,520 --> 01:04:50,240
Speaker 1: hair loss, and then we have a week manufactured that

1225
01:04:50,280 --> 01:04:52,440
Speaker 1: looked just like that. Oh my god. So we're not

1226
01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:57,080
Speaker 1: necessarily just donating anything to them, we're restoring what you lost.

1227
01:04:57,920 --> 01:05:01,120
Speaker 1: So yeah, so once when I I've launched or when

1228
01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:06,480
Speaker 1: I donated our first wig, she posted on a Facebook

1229
01:05:06,480 --> 01:05:09,080
Speaker 1: support group with a side by side and then the

1230
01:05:09,120 --> 01:05:11,320
Speaker 1: next day we woke up and we have fifty wig

1231
01:05:11,400 --> 01:05:15,200
Speaker 1: requests from women all over the US. Wow. So yeah,

1232
01:05:15,240 --> 01:05:17,600
Speaker 1: So I think it's like, like I said, we're the consumers.

1233
01:05:17,600 --> 01:05:20,320
Speaker 1: We're buying hair anyway, so it's like, why not support

1234
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 1: and because like I said, that Eurasian silk get straight? Anyway?

1235
01:05:27,480 --> 01:05:27,880
Speaker 3: What is.

1236
01:05:29,640 --> 01:05:29,920
Speaker 1: Right?

1237
01:05:30,120 --> 01:05:30,320
Speaker 2: You know?

1238
01:05:32,360 --> 01:05:33,440
Speaker 1: What is it?

1239
01:05:33,520 --> 01:05:36,480
Speaker 2: So like, donate your money, give your money to a

1240
01:05:36,520 --> 01:05:38,640
Speaker 2: good cost. We want to look good either way.

1241
01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:41,440
Speaker 1: Right, so you look good and you're gonna help somebody

1242
01:05:41,440 --> 01:05:45,439
Speaker 1: else look good. That's our mission too, so our right now,

1243
01:05:45,480 --> 01:05:47,960
Speaker 1: we have our twenty twenty four campaign which is called

1244
01:05:48,040 --> 01:05:51,000
Speaker 1: Spread the Love, and it's an invite for the community

1245
01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 1: to join the in. You know, whether you're buying hair,

1246
01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:56,760
Speaker 1: whether you have old hair, or whether you just tell

1247
01:05:56,760 --> 01:06:00,560
Speaker 1: a friend about our organization. Whenever we're all pitching and together,

1248
01:06:00,920 --> 01:06:03,640
Speaker 1: we're showing up for these women that really need our support.

1249
01:06:03,880 --> 01:06:08,840
Speaker 1: So Breath the Love, shop Crowns of Love hair, and

1250
01:06:08,880 --> 01:06:12,080
Speaker 1: when you shop our hair, you're directly impacting a cancer patient.

1251
01:06:12,720 --> 01:06:14,520
Speaker 1: So thank you guys so much.

1252
01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:17,840
Speaker 2: For we love you and this is amazing hair by

1253
01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:21,520
Speaker 2: the way, like no, lie, So it's crowns of Love

1254
01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 2: dot org.

1255
01:06:22,560 --> 01:06:25,320
Speaker 1: Yes, the rounds of Love dot org. Everything is felt

1256
01:06:25,360 --> 01:06:33,680
Speaker 1: properly too, you know, Yes, crowns of Love dot org. Yes,

1257
01:06:33,880 --> 01:06:36,880
Speaker 1: crowns of Love dot org. Make sure y'all go order,

1258
01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:41,360
Speaker 1: y'all some virgin hair. It's summertime. Virgin Indian hair. Virgin

1259
01:06:41,440 --> 01:06:43,880
Speaker 1: Indian hair. Y'all can swim with it all that. Yes,

1260
01:06:44,760 --> 01:06:48,280
Speaker 1: thank you so much, Yes, thank you guys. Y'all know,

1261
01:06:48,320 --> 01:06:50,000
Speaker 1: we haven't done the movie our show break Down in

1262
01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:51,720
Speaker 1: a very long time, so we had to talk about

1263
01:06:51,760 --> 01:06:53,880
Speaker 1: this show. We watched it, We loved it. Everybody has

1264
01:06:53,880 --> 01:06:56,080
Speaker 1: been talking about it because honestly, it's one of the

1265
01:06:56,080 --> 01:06:57,960
Speaker 1: craziest shows I've seen in a long time. And it

1266
01:06:58,000 --> 01:07:02,480
Speaker 1: took me on a roller coaster ride. What was that accident?

1267
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:06,640
Speaker 1: That is what she sounded like. She was Irish, right,

1268
01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:12,600
Speaker 1: she was Scottish. Scottish. Oh my god, I thought you

1269
01:07:12,640 --> 01:07:16,800
Speaker 1: would only sound like a Southern Oh my god. That

1270
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:27,120
Speaker 1: really shocked me. Surprise, surprise, surprise, surprise, surprise. Okay, anyways,

1271
01:07:27,400 --> 01:07:29,520
Speaker 1: so baby Rein. There is a show on Netflix. If

1272
01:07:29,520 --> 01:07:31,640
Speaker 1: you haven't watched it, please to now because we're about

1273
01:07:31,640 --> 01:07:34,200
Speaker 1: to spoil everything for you. Okay, So, if y'all ever

1274
01:07:34,280 --> 01:07:37,760
Speaker 1: need somebody Scottish in a movie, if you ever need

1275
01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:42,760
Speaker 1: a Scottish black girl with a fat ass, yeah, it.

1276
01:07:42,800 --> 01:07:45,120
Speaker 2: Might be a village of them. Why you playing, I'm

1277
01:07:45,120 --> 01:07:47,720
Speaker 2: not playing. I was giving your resume running around in

1278
01:07:48,240 --> 01:07:48,880
Speaker 2: with pipes.

1279
01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:53,440
Speaker 1: Can you say something else in Scottish accent in a

1280
01:07:53,440 --> 01:07:59,920
Speaker 1: Scottish accent into Scottish accent that wasn't bad? I'm not bad,

1281
01:08:01,520 --> 01:08:10,560
Speaker 1: I'm actually I'm actually not at it. Okay, Okay, that

1282
01:08:11,680 --> 01:08:18,720
Speaker 1: more sounded like okay, okay. So Baby Reindeer is a

1283
01:08:18,760 --> 01:08:23,520
Speaker 1: show about a woman who shows up at a bartender's

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01:08:23,600 --> 01:08:26,040
Speaker 1: bar and he was being nice to her. Now, as

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01:08:26,040 --> 01:08:29,800
Speaker 1: a bartender, seeing that first scene of their interaction, I understood,

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01:08:30,280 --> 01:08:32,120
Speaker 1: you know, like, it's not a big deal. It's just

1287
01:08:32,120 --> 01:08:33,800
Speaker 1: a coke. It's just like coke. I'll give it to

1288
01:08:33,880 --> 01:08:40,800
Speaker 1: you for free. Talking about you, it's just coke. What

1289
01:08:40,880 --> 01:08:42,840
Speaker 1: you mean by that, now, bitch like me? I really

1290
01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:48,400
Speaker 1: need to know what you mean. But just okay, dying coked.

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01:08:48,439 --> 01:08:50,960
Speaker 1: So basically, she shows up to his bar, he's really

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01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:53,599
Speaker 1: nice to her, he shows her attention He's talking to her,

1293
01:08:53,680 --> 01:08:55,760
Speaker 1: as most bartenders do. That's how you make your money.

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01:08:55,800 --> 01:08:58,479
Speaker 1: You have conversation, and she just ends up long story

1295
01:08:58,479 --> 01:09:03,520
Speaker 1: shorts stalking this mean, yeah, I mean sending him text messages, emails.

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01:09:03,800 --> 01:09:07,000
Speaker 1: What's crazy about it is throughout the series you have

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01:09:07,040 --> 01:09:10,000
Speaker 1: to realize she never had his phone number until towards

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01:09:10,000 --> 01:09:10,320
Speaker 1: the end.

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01:09:10,400 --> 01:09:12,519
Speaker 2: Well, she wasn't sending him six messages. She was just

1300
01:09:12,520 --> 01:09:13,599
Speaker 2: sending him emails.

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01:09:13,680 --> 01:09:16,559
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Yeah, sending him emails, showing up to his

1302
01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:22,439
Speaker 1: job every fucking day. So let me know how you feel.

1303
01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:26,160
Speaker 1: What's your review on everything and how you felt about

1304
01:09:26,280 --> 01:09:28,920
Speaker 1: Baby Rain did well? First of all, what you think

1305
01:09:28,920 --> 01:09:31,400
Speaker 1: car sign was, because I know what it was. Her

1306
01:09:31,600 --> 01:09:38,400
Speaker 1: sign was giving. You know, I'm not really into signs

1307
01:09:38,479 --> 01:09:42,639
Speaker 1: like that, but if I had to guess, I would

1308
01:09:42,640 --> 01:09:47,479
Speaker 1: probably say, like a Sagittarius. Why because Sagittarius is weird.

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01:09:48,720 --> 01:09:51,760
Speaker 2: No, I think she was because she was lying. That

1310
01:09:51,880 --> 01:09:56,600
Speaker 2: bitch was lying her. Yeah, she was lying. If you

1311
01:09:56,840 --> 01:10:03,040
Speaker 2: a motherfucking top lawyer of the government and you have

1312
01:10:03,280 --> 01:10:07,800
Speaker 2: all of these prestigious, high profile clients, bitch, how are

1313
01:10:07,800 --> 01:10:11,559
Speaker 2: you able to spend eight hours, seven hours a day

1314
01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:13,479
Speaker 2: at the bar with baby.

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01:10:14,760 --> 01:10:18,920
Speaker 1: Like when you say that, and my some ain't right

1316
01:10:19,040 --> 01:10:19,679
Speaker 1: in the water.

1317
01:10:20,360 --> 01:10:22,400
Speaker 2: She was lying and he knew it because he said

1318
01:10:22,479 --> 01:10:25,000
Speaker 2: he was like, I'm just like all this time you

1319
01:10:25,080 --> 01:10:28,280
Speaker 2: spend here, all of these stories that you have, but

1320
01:10:28,320 --> 01:10:30,960
Speaker 2: you never busy. If you are in high demand the

1321
01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:33,800
Speaker 2: way you say you are, why you never busy. So

1322
01:10:34,000 --> 01:10:36,439
Speaker 2: he knew something was off. But the thing about him,

1323
01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:39,400
Speaker 2: let's get into the real. Let's get into the real.

1324
01:10:39,479 --> 01:10:42,200
Speaker 2: His ass was a fucking weirdo too. Hello and he

1325
01:10:42,520 --> 01:10:44,800
Speaker 2: give me let me see what sign do I think

1326
01:10:44,840 --> 01:10:50,439
Speaker 2: he is? If anything, he probably will say just series Okay.

1327
01:10:50,520 --> 01:10:53,719
Speaker 1: I can see that he liked the attention. Yeah, he

1328
01:10:54,360 --> 01:10:56,639
Speaker 1: was looking for her at times to come to the bar.

1329
01:10:57,200 --> 01:10:57,840
Speaker 1: Didn't they fuck?

1330
01:10:58,400 --> 01:11:00,600
Speaker 2: No, they did not fuck. I think that was a

1331
01:11:00,680 --> 01:11:04,160
Speaker 2: feed me of his imagination. So he was like masturbating.

1332
01:11:04,400 --> 01:11:08,160
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, hed, And I think that the part of

1333
01:11:08,280 --> 01:11:10,760
Speaker 2: the part of the show when they like it looked

1334
01:11:10,760 --> 01:11:12,760
Speaker 2: like they was fucking. I think he was imagining that.

1335
01:11:13,040 --> 01:11:14,519
Speaker 2: I don't think they actually Okay.

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01:11:14,920 --> 01:11:17,720
Speaker 1: But to me, my thing is this, if anybody gives

1337
01:11:17,760 --> 01:11:20,479
Speaker 1: me weird vibes or anything, you guys to go, you

1338
01:11:20,600 --> 01:11:24,200
Speaker 1: have to report that, report everything. And I think especially

1339
01:11:24,200 --> 01:11:28,439
Speaker 1: when the part came back, she attacked him and attacked her,

1340
01:11:28,720 --> 01:11:29,799
Speaker 1: the girl he was dating.

1341
01:11:29,840 --> 01:11:33,120
Speaker 2: Well, he attacked the girl that he was, the girl

1342
01:11:33,160 --> 01:11:35,160
Speaker 2: he used to day. Yeah, she threw her coke in

1343
01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:35,679
Speaker 2: her face.

1344
01:11:35,880 --> 01:11:37,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was just like all this stuff was

1345
01:11:37,800 --> 01:11:39,639
Speaker 1: going on and you never reported anything.

1346
01:11:39,680 --> 01:11:43,439
Speaker 2: That's about you house because she was very pussy to

1347
01:11:43,479 --> 01:11:46,519
Speaker 2: attack me with a coke. I would be her ass

1348
01:11:46,560 --> 01:11:48,519
Speaker 2: because we should be throwing o coke in my face?

1349
01:11:48,640 --> 01:11:50,559
Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? And then like when the

1350
01:11:50,640 --> 01:11:52,880
Speaker 1: relationship part, like when he was with the girl, they

1351
01:11:52,880 --> 01:11:55,599
Speaker 1: were in bed, they weren't having sex and all that stuff.

1352
01:11:55,800 --> 01:11:57,800
Speaker 1: And on him with dating trans. Yeah, when he was

1353
01:11:57,840 --> 01:12:00,200
Speaker 1: dating the trans woman, it was like they weren't having

1354
01:12:00,240 --> 01:12:02,560
Speaker 1: sex and he was going through these emotions where he

1355
01:12:02,560 --> 01:12:04,599
Speaker 1: didn't know he was gay if he was straight, witch,

1356
01:12:04,800 --> 01:12:07,080
Speaker 1: I understand that, go through all that stuff, but don't

1357
01:12:07,160 --> 01:12:09,200
Speaker 1: drag somebody else with your bullshit.

1358
01:12:09,280 --> 01:12:11,679
Speaker 2: But you got to give a little more context of

1359
01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:15,479
Speaker 2: the story. So basically, like he was a comedian, he

1360
01:12:15,600 --> 01:12:19,360
Speaker 2: will aspiring comedian because like nobody knew who he was.

1361
01:12:19,320 --> 01:12:20,640
Speaker 1: But he was trying to be a comedian.

1362
01:12:21,200 --> 01:12:25,680
Speaker 2: And he lived in London, right, and he was in

1363
01:12:25,680 --> 01:12:28,400
Speaker 2: a relationship and at one point he was living with

1364
01:12:28,520 --> 01:12:32,080
Speaker 2: his girlfriend and the girlfriend's mother. Him and the girl

1365
01:12:32,160 --> 01:12:35,479
Speaker 2: broke up, she moved out, and he was still staying

1366
01:12:35,479 --> 01:12:36,559
Speaker 2: with the girlfriend's mother.

1367
01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:37,120
Speaker 1: Yep.

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01:12:37,280 --> 01:12:39,640
Speaker 2: So the whole time, he's still trying to be a

1369
01:12:39,640 --> 01:12:41,960
Speaker 2: comedian and he's working at a bar. So he's working

1370
01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:44,360
Speaker 2: at the bar, and while he's working at the bar,

1371
01:12:44,880 --> 01:12:46,360
Speaker 2: the lady Martha.

1372
01:12:46,280 --> 01:12:47,599
Speaker 1: Martha starts talking.

1373
01:12:47,680 --> 01:12:51,120
Speaker 2: He starts coming in every day, and then somehow she

1374
01:12:51,160 --> 01:12:52,800
Speaker 2: got his email because I think it was on his

1375
01:12:52,920 --> 01:12:56,519
Speaker 2: like bio or on his website something like that, she

1376
01:12:56,560 --> 01:12:59,360
Speaker 2: got his email. She started emailing him every day. So

1377
01:12:59,680 --> 01:13:04,040
Speaker 2: he's liking the attention because he's very insecure. So he's like, oh, well,

1378
01:13:04,439 --> 01:13:06,960
Speaker 2: like she's she a little weird because he's saying it

1379
01:13:07,000 --> 01:13:09,240
Speaker 2: in the beginning of the series, like I could tell

1380
01:13:09,240 --> 01:13:10,839
Speaker 2: she was a little weird, But I like the attention,

1381
01:13:10,960 --> 01:13:13,800
Speaker 2: so I'm like, cool, all right, I could fuck with it, though,

1382
01:13:13,800 --> 01:13:17,040
Speaker 2: because she's giving me what I need breaking down, So he.

1383
01:13:17,120 --> 01:13:18,000
Speaker 1: Fucking with her.

1384
01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:21,800
Speaker 2: One day she comes to the bar and she's making

1385
01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:26,760
Speaker 2: all of these sexual innuendos and he's like, well, I

1386
01:13:26,760 --> 01:13:28,880
Speaker 2: don't really think we could date, but we could be

1387
01:13:28,960 --> 01:13:33,800
Speaker 2: friends and so they end up hanging out. Yeah, they

1388
01:13:33,880 --> 01:13:36,040
Speaker 2: end up hanging out. They go to a little diner,

1389
01:13:36,280 --> 01:13:39,080
Speaker 2: have a little lunch, some light little bites, you know,

1390
01:13:39,240 --> 01:13:43,760
Speaker 2: mental crazy, and then he walks her home, but then

1391
01:13:43,800 --> 01:13:46,720
Speaker 2: he follows her and then he forgets to put his

1392
01:13:46,800 --> 01:13:51,400
Speaker 2: phone on Sally and so when she's emailing him, she

1393
01:13:51,560 --> 01:13:54,040
Speaker 2: hears the notification, so then she knew he was outside

1394
01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:54,559
Speaker 2: the window.

1395
01:13:54,680 --> 01:13:58,200
Speaker 1: So she was like, oh, he loves She was like,

1396
01:13:59,520 --> 01:14:00,519
Speaker 1: I got this nigga.

1397
01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:04,080
Speaker 2: So that's when I feel like shit really started going

1398
01:14:04,120 --> 01:14:07,599
Speaker 2: down here. So she was talking him. Then they started

1399
01:14:07,600 --> 01:14:12,360
Speaker 2: following each other on Facebook. She's like literally coming into

1400
01:14:12,640 --> 01:14:15,240
Speaker 2: commenting under all of his posts, all of his posts,

1401
01:14:15,240 --> 01:14:18,679
Speaker 2: all of his posts, and then like what else happened?

1402
01:14:18,720 --> 01:14:21,519
Speaker 2: So then they ended up kind of still hanging out.

1403
01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:24,160
Speaker 2: He basically he thought she was weird the whole time.

1404
01:14:24,280 --> 01:14:26,280
Speaker 2: Never reported her to the police. Should have been reported

1405
01:14:26,320 --> 01:14:27,080
Speaker 2: these likes, right, but.

1406
01:14:27,160 --> 01:14:30,519
Speaker 1: Because she was giving her attention because she was a thread,

1407
01:14:31,040 --> 01:14:34,560
Speaker 1: but he liked it. She started coming to his comedy.

1408
01:14:34,200 --> 01:14:38,280
Speaker 2: Shows, started like liking herself a part of the show.

1409
01:14:38,600 --> 01:14:40,760
Speaker 2: And then I feel like he liked it because it

1410
01:14:40,800 --> 01:14:43,400
Speaker 2: would get him laughs. Because outside of that, he wasn't

1411
01:14:43,439 --> 01:14:44,920
Speaker 2: getting a laughs, like nobody was laughing it.

1412
01:14:45,000 --> 01:14:47,960
Speaker 1: Nobody was laughing and the show, he said that because

1413
01:14:48,280 --> 01:14:50,599
Speaker 1: Martha would laugh and it would make other peril.

1414
01:14:50,920 --> 01:14:54,160
Speaker 2: She had like this infectious laugh yep, you know. And

1415
01:14:54,240 --> 01:14:58,400
Speaker 2: so I think he really liked the situation. So he

1416
01:14:58,439 --> 01:15:01,920
Speaker 2: started dating the trans girl. He went on a trans website.

1417
01:15:02,280 --> 01:15:05,160
Speaker 2: He lied said that his occupation was something that it

1418
01:15:05,320 --> 01:15:07,519
Speaker 2: wasn't lied about his name everything. So this girl is

1419
01:15:07,560 --> 01:15:10,599
Speaker 2: thinking that he's a who different man. He starts dating her,

1420
01:15:10,880 --> 01:15:13,479
Speaker 2: but he's low key embarrassed about his sexuality because he

1421
01:15:13,520 --> 01:15:18,000
Speaker 2: had got raped by man by man that's in the industry,

1422
01:15:18,960 --> 01:15:21,000
Speaker 2: and he didn't want to tell nobody about it. So

1423
01:15:21,040 --> 01:15:25,040
Speaker 2: he was confused about his feelings about his sexuality. So

1424
01:15:25,080 --> 01:15:27,800
Speaker 2: he download started dating a trans girl, but then he

1425
01:15:27,840 --> 01:15:31,280
Speaker 2: didn't want to be out with her. And so then

1426
01:15:31,400 --> 01:15:35,240
Speaker 2: one day Martha, because she's stalking him, finds them together.

1427
01:15:36,479 --> 01:15:41,439
Speaker 1: Bringing this down real good bet that how up beat

1428
01:15:41,520 --> 01:15:42,800
Speaker 1: beat beat beat that.

1429
01:15:42,840 --> 01:15:46,040
Speaker 2: How a pull her hair up, pulled her hair out, everything,

1430
01:15:46,640 --> 01:15:49,000
Speaker 2: it was real bad and saw him and the girl

1431
01:15:49,000 --> 01:15:50,000
Speaker 2: broke up and then she.

1432
01:15:50,000 --> 01:15:52,000
Speaker 1: Said what if she said, She was like, oh, you

1433
01:15:52,080 --> 01:15:54,880
Speaker 1: look like a mom, That's what she said to her,

1434
01:15:54,880 --> 01:15:56,680
Speaker 1: it was real. He didn't say you look like a mom,

1435
01:15:56,880 --> 01:15:59,960
Speaker 1: and it was so nasty and sorrow because she really didn't,

1436
01:16:00,360 --> 01:16:03,800
Speaker 1: I don't know, look in real life. But I don't

1437
01:16:03,840 --> 01:16:06,480
Speaker 1: know if he added that in there for the storyline,

1438
01:16:06,479 --> 01:16:08,240
Speaker 1: but if she really said that, that's one.

1439
01:16:08,200 --> 01:16:10,479
Speaker 2: Well, first of all, I think that's a very offensive

1440
01:16:10,520 --> 01:16:13,040
Speaker 2: thing to say to somebody that's transumble one, and then

1441
01:16:13,080 --> 01:16:15,360
Speaker 2: the lady ended up saying that later on in the

1442
01:16:15,400 --> 01:16:17,479
Speaker 2: show The Trans Woman. She said, like, do you know

1443
01:16:17,520 --> 01:16:19,880
Speaker 2: how that makes me feel? Or somebody to tell me

1444
01:16:19,920 --> 01:16:23,200
Speaker 2: that I'm like a man, because obviously, as a trans woman,

1445
01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:25,719
Speaker 2: I don't want to look like a men.

1446
01:16:25,760 --> 01:16:27,799
Speaker 1: Right, And he didn't protect her in that moment.

1447
01:16:27,920 --> 01:16:30,479
Speaker 2: He did think that's what because he because he was

1448
01:16:30,520 --> 01:16:34,519
Speaker 2: also protecting Martha because he low he had feelings for her,

1449
01:16:34,760 --> 01:16:38,240
Speaker 2: which gets into later down the line. He starts talking

1450
01:16:38,280 --> 01:16:40,840
Speaker 2: about how he started having these weird fantasies and shit

1451
01:16:40,880 --> 01:16:43,600
Speaker 2: about Martha and was like beating off to her pictures.

1452
01:16:43,960 --> 01:16:46,800
Speaker 2: He was not physically attracted to her or anything like that,

1453
01:16:46,880 --> 01:16:50,080
Speaker 2: but then he started masturbating to her pictures and he

1454
01:16:50,200 --> 01:16:52,960
Speaker 2: had this weird connection with her because again she was

1455
01:16:53,000 --> 01:16:56,400
Speaker 2: pouring into him mmmm and telling him all of these

1456
01:16:56,439 --> 01:16:58,519
Speaker 2: things about hisself that he did not see in himself,

1457
01:16:58,560 --> 01:17:00,720
Speaker 2: Like he was like, I don't see myself as attractive,

1458
01:17:01,000 --> 01:17:04,360
Speaker 2: I don't see myself as worthy. And she's funny or funny,

1459
01:17:04,360 --> 01:17:06,439
Speaker 2: are any of these things? And she sees me as

1460
01:17:06,520 --> 01:17:09,040
Speaker 2: all of these things. So it's like, instead of reporting

1461
01:17:09,040 --> 01:17:12,439
Speaker 2: her to the police like he should have, he did not.

1462
01:17:12,880 --> 01:17:15,160
Speaker 2: And then one day, so then she starts stalking a

1463
01:17:15,240 --> 01:17:18,519
Speaker 2: nigga right after she called him with the trans lady

1464
01:17:19,240 --> 01:17:23,160
Speaker 2: starts stalking a nigga sitting outside of his house at

1465
01:17:23,160 --> 01:17:23,759
Speaker 2: the bus stop.

1466
01:17:24,560 --> 01:17:25,439
Speaker 1: You can tell it good.

1467
01:17:25,439 --> 01:17:28,000
Speaker 2: I'm making like sitting outside of his house every day

1468
01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:30,120
Speaker 2: at the motherfucking bus stop. She's just sitting there. So

1469
01:17:30,200 --> 01:17:33,080
Speaker 2: they gets to a point where she damn near called hypothermia.

1470
01:17:33,400 --> 01:17:36,040
Speaker 1: What's that? What's that when you start freezing the deck?

1471
01:17:36,760 --> 01:17:39,560
Speaker 2: And so he had to rescue so she had to

1472
01:17:39,680 --> 01:17:42,439
Speaker 2: rescue he, I mean now she he had to go

1473
01:17:42,560 --> 01:17:46,759
Speaker 2: rescue her from the bus stop, took her home, and

1474
01:17:47,560 --> 01:17:49,759
Speaker 2: he was basically explaining to her like we are nothing,

1475
01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:52,320
Speaker 2: we will never be nothing. But I know you really

1476
01:17:52,320 --> 01:17:54,680
Speaker 2: believe this is real. So he tries to break up

1477
01:17:54,720 --> 01:17:57,040
Speaker 2: with her. In a way that felt real to her,

1478
01:17:57,479 --> 01:18:01,720
Speaker 2: and then he felt like she accepted it, but no,

1479
01:18:02,680 --> 01:18:05,760
Speaker 2: she denied, and it still just ended up being more

1480
01:18:05,840 --> 01:18:07,920
Speaker 2: drama with her, and then she ended up coming to

1481
01:18:07,920 --> 01:18:11,679
Speaker 2: the bar. She started harassing him, telling people how much

1482
01:18:11,680 --> 01:18:13,840
Speaker 2: of an ancient nigga he is, how he likes anal

1483
01:18:13,880 --> 01:18:15,800
Speaker 2: sticks and all of this stuff, because one of his

1484
01:18:15,920 --> 01:18:19,880
Speaker 2: friends ended up seeing a text mess is trying to

1485
01:18:19,880 --> 01:18:22,599
Speaker 2: be fun email my bad, trying to be funny, saying

1486
01:18:22,600 --> 01:18:23,519
Speaker 2: that he wanted to.

1487
01:18:23,439 --> 01:18:24,680
Speaker 1: Do hang her curtains.

1488
01:18:25,040 --> 01:18:29,280
Speaker 2: Well, no, he literally said he wanted to do hang

1489
01:18:29,360 --> 01:18:33,920
Speaker 2: her curtains. Was the thing though, and so yeah, so

1490
01:18:34,080 --> 01:18:37,599
Speaker 2: he ends up. Uh, she ends up telling the guy

1491
01:18:37,800 --> 01:18:40,240
Speaker 2: how he likes anal sticks, and it's like going off

1492
01:18:40,280 --> 01:18:42,840
Speaker 2: some other guy at the bar going off about it.

1493
01:18:43,040 --> 01:18:50,360
Speaker 2: She gets so raging fucking mad, She gets so raging

1494
01:18:50,560 --> 01:18:52,040
Speaker 2: fucking mad that she.

1495
01:18:52,000 --> 01:18:52,840
Speaker 1: Picks up her coat.

1496
01:18:52,920 --> 01:18:55,200
Speaker 2: Because, mind you, every time she would come to the bar,

1497
01:18:55,479 --> 01:18:56,800
Speaker 2: she would order a coke.

1498
01:18:57,000 --> 01:18:57,679
Speaker 1: Never drunk.

1499
01:18:58,040 --> 01:19:01,000
Speaker 2: Never well, she didn't dream at all, she didn't earn

1500
01:19:01,040 --> 01:19:04,000
Speaker 2: alcohol at all. But to make it even more weird,

1501
01:19:04,280 --> 01:19:06,559
Speaker 2: she would always order a dye coke and whenever drink

1502
01:19:06,600 --> 01:19:11,280
Speaker 2: the coke. So she picks up the drink, hits him

1503
01:19:11,360 --> 01:19:14,240
Speaker 2: in the head with you because he all no, he

1504
01:19:14,280 --> 01:19:17,200
Speaker 2: starts bringing up how she had all of these allegations, which,

1505
01:19:17,280 --> 01:19:19,760
Speaker 2: mind you, he knew about the fact that she had

1506
01:19:19,800 --> 01:19:22,679
Speaker 2: went to prison for like four years, three years, four

1507
01:19:22,760 --> 01:19:24,479
Speaker 2: years whatever from stalking other people.

1508
01:19:24,520 --> 01:19:26,920
Speaker 1: He knew all of our history. And he was still

1509
01:19:27,040 --> 01:19:27,680
Speaker 1: entertaining her.

1510
01:19:27,720 --> 01:19:31,120
Speaker 2: He was still entertaining her, still being around her personally,

1511
01:19:31,200 --> 01:19:36,040
Speaker 2: with no security, no type of intervening, nobody intervening anything

1512
01:19:36,120 --> 01:19:39,439
Speaker 2: like that. So she picks up the glass, hits this

1513
01:19:39,520 --> 01:19:41,439
Speaker 2: nigga in the head with the glass, start trying to

1514
01:19:41,479 --> 01:19:42,679
Speaker 2: godge his eyes out.

1515
01:19:42,920 --> 01:19:46,479
Speaker 1: She did. It's getting good, keep going and it was crazy.

1516
01:19:46,520 --> 01:19:48,599
Speaker 2: And so then the two guys that on the bar

1517
01:19:48,960 --> 01:19:53,000
Speaker 2: drag her out, and she's still harassing him. Then she's

1518
01:19:53,040 --> 01:19:54,920
Speaker 2: at this point, she harassing his family.

1519
01:19:55,840 --> 01:19:57,120
Speaker 1: She was blowing up her.

1520
01:19:59,600 --> 01:20:02,960
Speaker 2: So she harassed in the family and she and she

1521
01:20:03,120 --> 01:20:05,559
Speaker 2: is just getting crazy. So then long story short, Okay,

1522
01:20:06,320 --> 01:20:11,439
Speaker 2: he ends up finally pressing charges against her and she

1523
01:20:11,600 --> 01:20:14,759
Speaker 2: ends up going to jail. Yep, And that was pretty

1524
01:20:14,800 --> 01:20:15,000
Speaker 2: much it.

1525
01:20:15,160 --> 01:20:17,760
Speaker 1: She ends up going to jail. But then I didn't understand.

1526
01:20:17,360 --> 01:20:19,400
Speaker 2: The ending part when he went back to the house

1527
01:20:19,439 --> 01:20:22,000
Speaker 2: of the guy who raped him.

1528
01:20:22,280 --> 01:20:26,240
Speaker 1: I think closure, but you didn't get no closure because

1529
01:20:26,240 --> 01:20:28,640
Speaker 1: he didn't even apologize. And that's what that's what he

1530
01:20:28,720 --> 01:20:31,560
Speaker 1: was trying to say, like I still didn't get that apology.

1531
01:20:31,920 --> 01:20:33,679
Speaker 1: But what I think is weird is kind of because

1532
01:20:33,680 --> 01:20:37,639
Speaker 1: he kind of hinted that whenever Martha went to jail,

1533
01:20:37,680 --> 01:20:40,479
Speaker 1: he was kind of missing her, like he was kind

1534
01:20:40,479 --> 01:20:42,680
Speaker 1: of missing everything that was going on. And this is

1535
01:20:42,720 --> 01:20:46,240
Speaker 1: why I say all the time, a lot of people

1536
01:20:46,400 --> 01:20:49,599
Speaker 1: liked drama. Oh and then we can't forget too.

1537
01:20:50,439 --> 01:20:53,479
Speaker 2: Then he found out later once he went to his

1538
01:20:53,520 --> 01:20:55,680
Speaker 2: parents because he had did this video he did he

1539
01:20:55,720 --> 01:20:58,800
Speaker 2: had a comedy show and it went viral everywhere, and

1540
01:20:58,960 --> 01:21:03,880
Speaker 2: he was doing a comedy show, and then in the

1541
01:21:03,880 --> 01:21:05,839
Speaker 2: middle of a comedy show, he had a mental breakdown

1542
01:21:06,160 --> 01:21:08,840
Speaker 2: and he started basically saying about talking about all the

1543
01:21:08,880 --> 01:21:11,200
Speaker 2: things that happened to him over the past five years,

1544
01:21:11,240 --> 01:21:14,880
Speaker 2: like how he got raped, how Martha was stalking.

1545
01:21:14,520 --> 01:21:18,080
Speaker 1: Him, all of this stuff, and it went viral and

1546
01:21:18,160 --> 01:21:19,360
Speaker 1: everybody was loving him.

1547
01:21:19,479 --> 01:21:22,599
Speaker 2: It literally changed his whole career trajectory or whatever.

1548
01:21:23,040 --> 01:21:26,559
Speaker 1: And then he ended up.

1549
01:21:26,720 --> 01:21:29,600
Speaker 2: Going to his parents' house because Martha was threatening to

1550
01:21:29,640 --> 01:21:31,920
Speaker 2: send the video to his parents. So he went to

1551
01:21:31,960 --> 01:21:33,760
Speaker 2: his parents' house so that he could tell them about it,

1552
01:21:33,800 --> 01:21:35,720
Speaker 2: and then he found out his daddy had got raped too.

1553
01:21:36,840 --> 01:21:38,479
Speaker 1: But you know what, I was upset to find out

1554
01:21:38,479 --> 01:21:42,520
Speaker 1: by a Catholic priest back in the day. Did you say,

1555
01:21:43,240 --> 01:21:44,280
Speaker 1: I did you? But that ain't happen?

1556
01:21:44,320 --> 01:21:47,599
Speaker 2: Okay, alright, check I was black Catholic, But I mean,

1557
01:21:47,640 --> 01:21:48,240
Speaker 2: no shade.

1558
01:21:48,320 --> 01:21:50,240
Speaker 1: But you know, I'm not gonna lie though. What upset

1559
01:21:50,320 --> 01:21:52,559
Speaker 1: me was to find out because you know, this is

1560
01:21:52,600 --> 01:21:54,320
Speaker 1: based on a true story. But you know, the viral

1561
01:21:54,400 --> 01:21:57,439
Speaker 1: video part never happened. Apparently, that part of the story

1562
01:21:57,479 --> 01:21:59,760
Speaker 1: never happened, and that was the most one of the

1563
01:21:59,800 --> 01:22:02,880
Speaker 1: most exciting parts about the story to me. But I

1564
01:22:02,960 --> 01:22:06,320
Speaker 1: say all this to say, attention is a disease and

1565
01:22:06,360 --> 01:22:08,160
Speaker 1: it's a hell of a drug. So what did you

1566
01:22:08,200 --> 01:22:11,679
Speaker 1: think about the show as a whole? I thought the show.

1567
01:22:11,840 --> 01:22:13,760
Speaker 2: I think interview with the lady appears more.

1568
01:22:13,800 --> 01:22:15,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what I thought about it. All

1569
01:22:15,800 --> 01:22:18,439
Speaker 1: in all, all of this could have been avoided with

1570
01:22:19,439 --> 01:22:22,880
Speaker 1: this man not wanting that attention. Attention is a drug.

1571
01:22:23,000 --> 01:22:26,040
Speaker 1: Attention is a disease, literally, and he fell victim to

1572
01:22:26,120 --> 01:22:27,760
Speaker 1: that all of that shit could have been nyphing, but

1573
01:22:27,920 --> 01:22:31,000
Speaker 1: I ain't. Never as a bartender. As soon as somebody

1574
01:22:31,040 --> 01:22:33,519
Speaker 1: gave me weird vibes, I'm telling the security and you're

1575
01:22:33,600 --> 01:22:35,920
Speaker 1: fucking out of here. I agree, But I feel like

1576
01:22:36,040 --> 01:22:40,759
Speaker 1: that's what this is, how it happens with men versus women,

1577
01:22:40,840 --> 01:22:44,439
Speaker 1: and how the perception of reality is totally different. As

1578
01:22:44,479 --> 01:22:47,200
Speaker 1: a woman, our red flags will raise up, you know

1579
01:22:47,240 --> 01:22:50,320
Speaker 1: what I'm saying in a situation like that. Yes, he

1580
01:22:50,479 --> 01:22:53,160
Speaker 1: was harmed, he was hurt, but in most situations a

1581
01:22:53,240 --> 01:22:56,320
Speaker 1: woman would have been murdered. Let's be honest. You know

1582
01:22:56,360 --> 01:23:00,000
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. We see it all the time. I mean,

1583
01:23:00,040 --> 01:23:02,080
Speaker 1: because he was in a few situations where she could

1584
01:23:02,080 --> 01:23:05,000
Speaker 1: have murdered him and she didn't. But what I'm saying

1585
01:23:05,120 --> 01:23:07,920
Speaker 1: is the male ego is a little different from a

1586
01:23:07,920 --> 01:23:10,120
Speaker 1: woman's ego because at the end of the day, she

1587
01:23:10,320 --> 01:23:14,559
Speaker 1: wanted him. And I speak from experience of being in

1588
01:23:14,680 --> 01:23:19,479
Speaker 1: weird situations with customers, the male ego is like, if

1589
01:23:19,520 --> 01:23:22,320
Speaker 1: I can't have you, nobody's gonna have you. You know

1590
01:23:22,320 --> 01:23:24,800
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And that's how it is. Martha wanted

1591
01:23:24,840 --> 01:23:26,479
Speaker 1: him alive because she wanted that to be her man

1592
01:23:27,439 --> 01:23:28,800
Speaker 1: at the end of the day. You know what I'm saying,

1593
01:23:28,800 --> 01:23:30,679
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that women don't do weird things.

1594
01:23:30,720 --> 01:23:38,280
Speaker 2: But she wanted to play the reindeer game, brainer game.

1595
01:23:39,000 --> 01:23:42,840
Speaker 1: But I will say I think they've dug up her

1596
01:23:42,920 --> 01:23:46,240
Speaker 1: old tweets. They dug up her old tweets, y'all. They

1597
01:23:46,280 --> 01:23:49,799
Speaker 1: found her tweeting him in twenty fourteen. This is real.

1598
01:23:50,280 --> 01:23:52,559
Speaker 1: They found her Twitter, bro y'all know Twitter. They found

1599
01:23:52,600 --> 01:23:55,880
Speaker 1: out everything. They dug up her old tweets. The interview

1600
01:23:56,000 --> 01:23:59,080
Speaker 1: she did with Pierce Morgan shows that this lady is

1601
01:23:59,120 --> 01:24:02,280
Speaker 1: not stable. It's not well. She's not well. But this

1602
01:24:02,360 --> 01:24:04,640
Speaker 1: is the thing, why is she free? She needs to

1603
01:24:04,640 --> 01:24:07,200
Speaker 1: be in a home. What she was in jail, that's

1604
01:24:07,200 --> 01:24:09,479
Speaker 1: not enough. She doesn't need jail. She needs rehab, she

1605
01:24:09,520 --> 01:24:13,439
Speaker 1: needs help, she needs counseling, she needs therapy. The fact

1606
01:24:13,439 --> 01:24:15,479
Speaker 1: that this lady is I'm telling you, this lady is

1607
01:24:15,520 --> 01:24:19,840
Speaker 1: stalking somebody right now as we speak. Season two is

1608
01:24:19,880 --> 01:24:24,040
Speaker 1: being written right now because she's mad at him. The

1609
01:24:24,160 --> 01:24:27,880
Speaker 1: Netflix thing drop she been going off on her Facebook. Yeah,

1610
01:24:27,880 --> 01:24:30,719
Speaker 1: I see me. Season two Finna come next year, watch

1611
01:24:30,720 --> 01:24:32,960
Speaker 1: and it's gonna be everything that's happening right now. His

1612
01:24:33,120 --> 01:24:36,200
Speaker 1: season two is about to be all my Netflix special

1613
01:24:36,280 --> 01:24:37,760
Speaker 1: dropped and she was.

1614
01:24:37,760 --> 01:24:40,080
Speaker 2: Mad too about the movie. She said, I'm a very

1615
01:24:40,120 --> 01:24:53,479
Speaker 2: attractive Okay, I'm a verity attractive woman. She said that,

1616
01:24:53,680 --> 01:24:57,160
Speaker 2: I know, do you think she's attractive? Tread likely she

1617
01:24:57,240 --> 01:24:58,840
Speaker 2: gonna be stalking you next.

1618
01:24:59,160 --> 01:25:03,920
Speaker 1: I think attractive is relative. I think it's a good answer. Yeah.

1619
01:25:04,080 --> 01:25:07,800
Speaker 2: I think that it's person by person based with some

1620
01:25:08,160 --> 01:25:11,479
Speaker 2: body finds attractive, another person may not, right, And I'm

1621
01:25:11,479 --> 01:25:11,880
Speaker 2: gonna just.

1622
01:25:11,920 --> 01:25:12,519
Speaker 1: Leave it at that.

1623
01:25:12,760 --> 01:25:16,120
Speaker 2: But she said that she was attractive and the woman

1624
01:25:16,240 --> 01:25:21,600
Speaker 2: that portrayed her was not. However, twin, I think I

1625
01:25:21,640 --> 01:25:25,920
Speaker 2: don't twin. I think the woman that portrayed her is actually.

1626
01:25:25,520 --> 01:25:27,599
Speaker 1: A really cute lady in real life.

1627
01:25:27,760 --> 01:25:31,040
Speaker 2: I think they made her look old for the role

1628
01:25:31,200 --> 01:25:32,760
Speaker 2: because that's what they do in the role.

1629
01:25:33,040 --> 01:25:35,400
Speaker 1: Oh, so you think that she should be grateful.

1630
01:25:36,640 --> 01:25:39,719
Speaker 2: I think normally that's the case in most movie roles,

1631
01:25:39,800 --> 01:25:42,760
Speaker 2: Like they always tell somebody way more attractive playing the

1632
01:25:42,800 --> 01:25:45,080
Speaker 2: person in the person that it actually look like.

1633
01:25:45,000 --> 01:25:45,719
Speaker 1: In real life.

1634
01:25:46,080 --> 01:25:49,240
Speaker 2: I think the lady who played her in real life

1635
01:25:49,400 --> 01:25:53,439
Speaker 2: she actually is. She looks way more younger, way more vibrant.

1636
01:25:53,840 --> 01:25:57,240
Speaker 2: All of these things because she's a younger woman. Okay,

1637
01:25:57,680 --> 01:26:00,799
Speaker 2: the girl is younger like she she's probably in her thirties.

1638
01:26:01,160 --> 01:26:03,599
Speaker 2: They made her look old for the role, like they

1639
01:26:03,720 --> 01:26:04,719
Speaker 2: yell old her teeth.

1640
01:26:05,320 --> 01:26:07,440
Speaker 1: They made her hair like gray.

1641
01:26:07,200 --> 01:26:09,479
Speaker 2: Streaks and it and stuff so she could look older,

1642
01:26:10,000 --> 01:26:13,080
Speaker 2: and the clothes very frumpy.

1643
01:26:13,040 --> 01:26:18,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was giving you who her? Oh that's you

1644
01:26:18,840 --> 01:26:23,519
Speaker 1: said me, you probably gonna see these baby, she's finna

1645
01:26:23,520 --> 01:26:25,040
Speaker 1: come for you. Do you think do you think? Do

1646
01:26:25,080 --> 01:26:29,160
Speaker 1: you really think people be seeing attack her ass? One

1647
01:26:29,240 --> 01:26:38,560
Speaker 1: good time? She on your ass? That's what the draa

1648
01:26:41,600 --> 01:26:47,360
Speaker 1: what I didn't want to say, the words I can't

1649
01:26:47,400 --> 01:26:48,880
Speaker 1: do this? Make your song?

1650
01:26:48,960 --> 01:26:49,120
Speaker 2: Bro?

1651
01:26:49,520 --> 01:26:58,120
Speaker 1: That what you say again? Okay, so let's you'll let

1652
01:26:58,200 --> 01:27:00,439
Speaker 1: us know if y'all watch baby rein there. Let us

1653
01:27:01,439 --> 01:27:10,960
Speaker 1: got to say it right. Oh that sounded Deutsch people, No,

1654
01:27:11,120 --> 01:27:18,040
Speaker 1: that's no, that's German. Oh we're getting canceled, never doing

1655
01:27:18,080 --> 01:27:20,639
Speaker 1: a German joy, not going to Germany.

1656
01:27:21,360 --> 01:27:24,120
Speaker 2: I don't want to go there nowhere, No, you don't

1657
01:27:24,120 --> 01:27:25,760
Speaker 2: where I do want to go. I do want to

1658
01:27:25,760 --> 01:27:27,920
Speaker 2: go to Germany. I don't want to go to Russia.

1659
01:27:29,040 --> 01:27:31,439
Speaker 2: I'd like a little would go to Russia.

1660
01:27:32,040 --> 01:27:32,840
Speaker 1: I like the snow.

1661
01:27:33,680 --> 01:27:35,840
Speaker 2: M It's snow everywhere else though, too.

1662
01:27:36,479 --> 01:27:38,559
Speaker 1: All Right, so let us know what you think about

1663
01:27:38,600 --> 01:27:42,519
Speaker 1: Baby Reindeer. If y'all watched it, it was a great show.

1664
01:27:42,680 --> 01:27:47,000
Speaker 1: I had a grand time. So now it's time to

1665
01:27:47,640 --> 01:27:55,720
Speaker 1: provoking the bop the bow Bow Bow bow. Okay, So

1666
01:27:56,040 --> 01:27:58,880
Speaker 1: my bop of the week this week is missing It

1667
01:27:58,960 --> 01:28:03,840
Speaker 1: by Anaya, Missing Egg, Missing It? Did I sound like

1668
01:28:03,880 --> 01:28:08,360
Speaker 1: I said missing it? Who is missing it? It's called

1669
01:28:08,520 --> 01:28:12,040
Speaker 1: missing It by and Naya. I'm sorry, y'all done took

1670
01:28:12,040 --> 01:28:16,000
Speaker 1: two shots, so I'm a little so. Yeah, honestly, I

1671
01:28:16,000 --> 01:28:20,080
Speaker 1: think Anaya is from Houston. I know she's based in Houston.

1672
01:28:20,120 --> 01:28:22,280
Speaker 1: And one thing I love about her she's a girl

1673
01:28:22,320 --> 01:28:25,000
Speaker 1: that be telling the stories. You know what I'm talking about?

1674
01:28:25,200 --> 01:28:27,240
Speaker 1: Any La me? Yeah, she'd be like I met the

1675
01:28:27,240 --> 01:28:30,200
Speaker 1: snick at the ball. He was a motherfucking story. He

1676
01:28:30,280 --> 01:28:32,439
Speaker 1: took me to his car and I said, how fall.

1677
01:28:32,840 --> 01:28:36,240
Speaker 1: That's how she know she'd be telling a story. No,

1678
01:28:36,439 --> 01:28:42,000
Speaker 1: she always tells a story. I love her. Yes, she's

1679
01:28:42,040 --> 01:28:45,439
Speaker 1: so beautiful and she can sing like she's so talented.

1680
01:28:45,479 --> 01:28:48,759
Speaker 1: But I love her storytelling. I love that she's bringing

1681
01:28:48,840 --> 01:28:51,280
Speaker 1: storytelling to R and B. So she has a song

1682
01:28:51,320 --> 01:28:54,000
Speaker 1: called Missing It, and it's so good, Like you know,

1683
01:28:54,120 --> 01:28:57,080
Speaker 1: it's basically just telling a story about how she misses

1684
01:28:57,120 --> 01:28:59,679
Speaker 1: this man. You know, she misses his vibe, she misses

1685
01:28:59,680 --> 01:29:03,080
Speaker 1: everything about him. So one thing I have always roote

1686
01:29:03,080 --> 01:29:04,759
Speaker 1: it for her. I've stood in the back in condege.

1687
01:29:04,920 --> 01:29:05,080
Speaker 3: You know.

1688
01:29:05,120 --> 01:29:07,680
Speaker 1: I like to watch people and see what they gonna do,

1689
01:29:07,920 --> 01:29:10,240
Speaker 1: and she has been doing her big one for years.

1690
01:29:10,280 --> 01:29:12,680
Speaker 1: So shout out to Anaya Missing It. I would love

1691
01:29:12,680 --> 01:29:14,080
Speaker 1: to have her on the show. So if you see this,

1692
01:29:14,280 --> 01:29:17,240
Speaker 1: come on the show girl. So yeah, Missing It, Anaya,

1693
01:29:17,400 --> 01:29:19,160
Speaker 1: that's my bop of the week. What you got real?

1694
01:29:19,320 --> 01:29:27,040
Speaker 1: Minus Boa. When Stefani sample it did a little something

1695
01:29:27,080 --> 01:29:29,160
Speaker 1: for me. I don't know.

1696
01:29:29,240 --> 01:29:33,320
Speaker 2: It's something about Gwen and the Houston people because I

1697
01:29:33,400 --> 01:29:37,799
Speaker 2: sent you there the other day Instagram, because I followed

1698
01:29:37,840 --> 01:29:40,879
Speaker 2: these pages on Instagram y'all where it's like nostalgic videos

1699
01:29:40,960 --> 01:29:45,160
Speaker 2: or whatever from like the nineties, early two thousands, and

1700
01:29:45,200 --> 01:29:49,439
Speaker 2: it was a video of Gwen, Stefani and Slim Thug

1701
01:29:49,520 --> 01:29:53,160
Speaker 2: and it was this song works so hard we get

1702
01:29:54,479 --> 01:29:55,080
Speaker 2: and I think.

1703
01:29:55,040 --> 01:29:56,639
Speaker 1: Always come up slim Thug.

1704
01:29:57,280 --> 01:29:59,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how he gonna come on the trade everyth

1705
01:30:00,120 --> 01:30:04,640
Speaker 2: I had that slim Thug with one that song, and

1706
01:30:04,680 --> 01:30:07,759
Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, stop playing with some bugs, Slimp.

1707
01:30:07,880 --> 01:30:11,240
Speaker 2: Why has it's kept slim Thug has collaborated with all

1708
01:30:11,280 --> 01:30:16,840
Speaker 2: your faves, yes, all your face Beyonce for real, Like

1709
01:30:17,120 --> 01:30:20,080
Speaker 2: you really need to stop playing on his top A legend,

1710
01:30:20,240 --> 01:30:26,000
Speaker 2: alligiend alligion in these htown streets. So facts, the Gwen

1711
01:30:26,040 --> 01:30:27,240
Speaker 2: Stefanie simple.

1712
01:30:27,240 --> 01:30:29,920
Speaker 1: Apes eight down. I love Meg. You know when we

1713
01:30:30,040 --> 01:30:32,400
Speaker 1: thought we love Meg anyway? Yeah, Meg has a good ear.

1714
01:30:32,439 --> 01:30:35,840
Speaker 1: I think that she is showing her versatility. Everybody's been

1715
01:30:35,840 --> 01:30:37,559
Speaker 1: mad at her. They're like, oh Meg, I want to twork,

1716
01:30:37,560 --> 01:30:39,360
Speaker 1: I want to dance. We know Meg is gonna kill

1717
01:30:39,360 --> 01:30:42,479
Speaker 1: it with the twerk music. It's coming. Give her some time,

1718
01:30:42,720 --> 01:30:43,679
Speaker 1: y'all gonna let her.

1719
01:30:43,560 --> 01:30:47,360
Speaker 2: Get in her creative battatives, be creative.

1720
01:30:47,640 --> 01:30:49,920
Speaker 1: Yes, And I love it the whole anime thing she's

1721
01:30:49,960 --> 01:30:54,400
Speaker 1: going through. What go ahead? No, I was just saying, like,

1722
01:30:54,640 --> 01:30:58,800
Speaker 1: I love the visuals and how she's kept it specific

1723
01:30:58,840 --> 01:31:03,200
Speaker 1: with the snake. I'm all today you is moving like

1724
01:31:03,240 --> 01:31:14,880
Speaker 1: a snake. No, ma'am, sorry, no, ma'am. Damn not a

1725
01:31:15,000 --> 01:31:16,920
Speaker 1: fucking forgot what I was about to say. I think

1726
01:31:16,960 --> 01:31:20,240
Speaker 1: I was I hate you.

1727
01:31:20,920 --> 01:31:26,160
Speaker 2: I was about to say something of importance about what

1728
01:31:26,200 --> 01:31:28,680
Speaker 2: did you say? You said something before you said, move

1729
01:31:28,720 --> 01:31:29,519
Speaker 2: your abody like a sak.

1730
01:31:29,680 --> 01:31:33,479
Speaker 1: I didn't say that. I said she's a creative and

1731
01:31:33,560 --> 01:31:35,519
Speaker 1: she's in her back. Oh, that's what I was about

1732
01:31:35,560 --> 01:31:36,000
Speaker 1: to say.

1733
01:31:36,240 --> 01:31:38,960
Speaker 2: The thing about being creatives, you have to let creatives

1734
01:31:39,000 --> 01:31:43,800
Speaker 2: be creatives. You told me this. This is the thing

1735
01:31:43,800 --> 01:31:47,160
Speaker 2: about me, lex Be. When she be online, she be

1736
01:31:47,160 --> 01:31:52,120
Speaker 2: reading the comments. I don't be reading it. She means

1737
01:31:52,160 --> 01:31:53,920
Speaker 2: telling me though, what y'all be saying.

1738
01:31:54,640 --> 01:32:04,160
Speaker 5: And somebody, oh, yes, somebody has said, oh y'allby I

1739
01:32:04,200 --> 01:32:06,400
Speaker 5: can't watch poor Minds no more because y'all only be

1740
01:32:06,439 --> 01:32:07,240
Speaker 5: talking about y'all.

1741
01:32:07,720 --> 01:32:07,960
Speaker 1: Bitch.

1742
01:32:08,000 --> 01:32:11,960
Speaker 2: What the fuck else are we supposed to talk about?

1743
01:32:12,800 --> 01:32:14,600
Speaker 1: I thought she was about to say, it's the profound,

1744
01:32:14,880 --> 01:32:19,479
Speaker 1: mission is profound, it's my show. It's lex p show.

1745
01:32:22,360 --> 01:32:27,400
Speaker 1: That's not. Her last name is p. But go ahead,

1746
01:32:27,479 --> 01:32:29,040
Speaker 1: keep going with your heart, because I do have something

1747
01:32:29,040 --> 01:32:30,639
Speaker 1: I want to add on before we move on. Who

1748
01:32:30,760 --> 01:32:32,679
Speaker 1: the fuck else are we supposed to talk about?

1749
01:32:32,720 --> 01:32:36,479
Speaker 2: The show has always been the foundation has always been

1750
01:32:37,000 --> 01:32:39,280
Speaker 2: lex p Andre and the call. That's what we talk about,

1751
01:32:39,320 --> 01:32:42,040
Speaker 2: Like we talk about us. We talk about our experiences.

1752
01:32:42,280 --> 01:32:44,680
Speaker 2: We talk about the sheet that we be going through

1753
01:32:44,680 --> 01:32:50,800
Speaker 2: with niggas, our relationships, dating, living in Atlanta, food, all

1754
01:32:50,800 --> 01:32:51,519
Speaker 2: this shit things.

1755
01:32:51,560 --> 01:32:56,800
Speaker 1: We love Mark the baby Reindier. Like we we.

1756
01:32:56,960 --> 01:33:00,280
Speaker 2: Talk about ship we've experienced how we because even when

1757
01:33:00,280 --> 01:33:02,360
Speaker 2: we talk about baby rein here, that's how I.

1758
01:33:06,040 --> 01:33:08,360
Speaker 1: But I will say this, I think solid thing is

1759
01:33:08,560 --> 01:33:10,360
Speaker 1: I try to give people a break because a lot

1760
01:33:10,360 --> 01:33:13,080
Speaker 1: of we are still growing as they need to give

1761
01:33:13,160 --> 01:33:13,759
Speaker 1: us a break.

1762
01:33:14,000 --> 01:33:15,640
Speaker 2: You don't need to get them house a break, they

1763
01:33:15,680 --> 01:33:16,679
Speaker 2: need to give us a break.

1764
01:33:16,800 --> 01:33:18,840
Speaker 1: Well, I say that because a lot of people are

1765
01:33:18,840 --> 01:33:21,599
Speaker 1: tuned in for the first time. Now, this specific person

1766
01:33:21,720 --> 01:33:24,439
Speaker 1: wasn't tuned in for the first time. So it's like,

1767
01:33:24,960 --> 01:33:26,960
Speaker 1: y'all know, this platform was built off of just me

1768
01:33:27,040 --> 01:33:30,200
Speaker 1: Andrea being friends and just going through life. Now we've

1769
01:33:30,280 --> 01:33:34,000
Speaker 1: added things to, you know, grow the show and grow

1770
01:33:34,040 --> 01:33:36,400
Speaker 1: the platform. We know y'all love solo episodes. That's why

1771
01:33:36,439 --> 01:33:39,080
Speaker 1: we still give them to y'all. But y'all gotta realize

1772
01:33:39,160 --> 01:33:41,400
Speaker 1: a lot of these people here are new. They're not

1773
01:33:41,439 --> 01:33:43,519
Speaker 1: here from the beginning, so they don't know. So of

1774
01:33:43,520 --> 01:33:45,760
Speaker 1: course we talk about ourselves a lot because that was

1775
01:33:45,800 --> 01:33:48,599
Speaker 1: the whole purpose of the show to experience the things

1776
01:33:48,640 --> 01:33:50,559
Speaker 1: that we go through as women.

1777
01:33:50,640 --> 01:33:53,599
Speaker 2: And I'm always talk about myself a lot because y'all

1778
01:33:53,640 --> 01:33:57,280
Speaker 2: love me, we know, and I love lick.

1779
01:33:57,200 --> 01:33:58,840
Speaker 1: Fie she do.

1780
01:33:59,840 --> 01:34:02,800
Speaker 2: We don't always talk about it, Like what if you

1781
01:34:02,840 --> 01:34:05,040
Speaker 2: want to tone into people that don't talk about themselves.

1782
01:34:05,040 --> 01:34:08,799
Speaker 1: It is plenty of podcasts.

1783
01:34:09,439 --> 01:34:14,840
Speaker 2: About true true crime, or they talk about political political stuff.

1784
01:34:14,880 --> 01:34:20,160
Speaker 2: They talk about movies, they talk about reality TV, they

1785
01:34:20,200 --> 01:34:22,880
Speaker 2: talk about everything, they talk about plants.

1786
01:34:25,000 --> 01:34:28,040
Speaker 1: They do. I don't think I've seen nothing, but I've

1787
01:34:28,040 --> 01:34:33,080
Speaker 1: seen it. You're bro. You have not seen a podcast

1788
01:34:33,120 --> 01:34:35,840
Speaker 1: talking about plans. Okay, how much you want to be it?

1789
01:34:35,880 --> 01:34:37,599
Speaker 1: I pulled one of I know you're pull one up

1790
01:34:37,680 --> 01:34:39,439
Speaker 1: with Google. You didn't see it.

1791
01:34:39,680 --> 01:34:40,320
Speaker 2: I did see it.

1792
01:34:40,439 --> 01:34:45,400
Speaker 1: You don't know what's on my algorithms I want you

1793
01:34:45,439 --> 01:34:49,479
Speaker 1: don't even keep playing alone. I don't that.

1794
01:34:49,600 --> 01:34:51,840
Speaker 2: Lets y'all know how long legs save into my house

1795
01:34:51,880 --> 01:34:52,800
Speaker 2: because I have a plan.

1796
01:34:53,040 --> 01:34:56,120
Speaker 1: But you're talking alive for five months? You told me

1797
01:34:56,280 --> 01:34:58,240
Speaker 1: lex can you I need you to teach me how

1798
01:34:58,280 --> 01:35:00,800
Speaker 1: to keep this alive? Yeah, how long ago did I

1799
01:35:00,840 --> 01:35:04,760
Speaker 1: say that? Longer than five months? Exactly? So you thought

1800
01:35:04,800 --> 01:35:13,320
Speaker 1: you ate that. Okay, Okay, let's move on horticulture. We're

1801
01:35:15,080 --> 01:35:17,280
Speaker 1: so we're gonna get into our favorite segment of the

1802
01:35:17,320 --> 01:35:20,439
Speaker 1: week looked up. It's all right, though, I got you,

1803
01:35:20,560 --> 01:35:23,000
Speaker 1: I got you. Okay, So we got crags upping in

1804
01:35:23,040 --> 01:35:24,160
Speaker 1: for Tyron.

1805
01:35:26,560 --> 01:35:31,639
Speaker 2: One thing about me, thank you my vocabulary, so poor your.

1806
01:35:31,520 --> 01:35:33,639
Speaker 1: Heart out segment of the week. Make sure you email

1807
01:35:33,720 --> 01:35:36,880
Speaker 1: us at ask four Minds at gmail dot com. If

1808
01:35:36,880 --> 01:35:39,160
Speaker 1: you're a Patreon remember you get to skip the line,

1809
01:35:39,240 --> 01:35:42,200
Speaker 1: of course and make sure y'all just email us, ask

1810
01:35:42,280 --> 01:35:44,720
Speaker 1: us your questions and we will answer them. Okay, I

1811
01:35:44,760 --> 01:35:50,160
Speaker 1: have question one today, all right. So it says, Hey Lexandreia,

1812
01:35:50,520 --> 01:35:58,160
Speaker 1: love y'all for life. Okay, I have a story to tell,

1813
01:35:58,160 --> 01:35:59,280
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna tell it. I'll tell it on

1814
01:35:59,320 --> 01:36:05,040
Speaker 1: Patreon live light. But okay, hey Lexentrail, love y'all for life.

1815
01:36:05,080 --> 01:36:06,680
Speaker 1: So right now, I feel like I'm going through a

1816
01:36:06,720 --> 01:36:10,120
Speaker 1: phase in my life where nothing ever satisfied satisfies me

1817
01:36:10,200 --> 01:36:13,480
Speaker 1: like it used to. I enjoy the simple things always,

1818
01:36:13,560 --> 01:36:16,479
Speaker 1: but realize they don't make me as happy anymore. Yes,

1819
01:36:16,600 --> 01:36:18,840
Speaker 1: I do know how to make myself happy and find

1820
01:36:18,920 --> 01:36:23,240
Speaker 1: joy within myself. This could be a sexual window, but

1821
01:36:23,720 --> 01:36:28,040
Speaker 1: that's another topic. Twenty sil I'm twenty six years old

1822
01:36:28,120 --> 01:36:31,160
Speaker 1: and still trying to figure myself out day by day.

1823
01:36:31,439 --> 01:36:34,120
Speaker 1: Along with that, I'm going with my life day by

1824
01:36:34,200 --> 01:36:37,400
Speaker 1: day at this point too. Overall, I'm asking should I

1825
01:36:37,439 --> 01:36:39,760
Speaker 1: still date while going through this phase or should I

1826
01:36:39,880 --> 01:36:43,120
Speaker 1: take time to be by myself? I ask because sometimes

1827
01:36:43,160 --> 01:36:45,240
Speaker 1: I feel bad if I'm not putting that much effort

1828
01:36:45,280 --> 01:36:48,360
Speaker 1: into dating people. Sometimes I feel like I'm talking to

1829
01:36:48,400 --> 01:36:51,240
Speaker 1: them just to feel something. Please let me know your

1830
01:36:51,240 --> 01:36:54,559
Speaker 1: thoughts and opinions, which.

1831
01:36:54,320 --> 01:36:58,240
Speaker 2: I think you should always spend time focusing on you. Hello,

1832
01:36:58,560 --> 01:37:01,200
Speaker 2: there's nothing wrong with that. I think that's the problem

1833
01:37:01,200 --> 01:37:04,519
Speaker 2: that most people have, is like not spending enough time

1834
01:37:04,600 --> 01:37:07,559
Speaker 2: alone and getting to know yourself. Like it's so much

1835
01:37:08,160 --> 01:37:11,479
Speaker 2: value in getting to know you, because when you get

1836
01:37:11,479 --> 01:37:13,800
Speaker 2: to know you and become the person that you need

1837
01:37:13,880 --> 01:37:16,160
Speaker 2: to be, then you could be a better partner. Come on,

1838
01:37:16,280 --> 01:37:18,559
Speaker 2: get in a relationship, come on, then you could better

1839
01:37:18,600 --> 01:37:21,880
Speaker 2: serve other people, whether it's a partner, where the is

1840
01:37:22,080 --> 01:37:25,000
Speaker 2: your child, whether it's.

1841
01:37:25,160 --> 01:37:27,439
Speaker 1: A familiar relationship like with your parent.

1842
01:37:27,560 --> 01:37:30,360
Speaker 2: Because sometimes, let's be real, people don't talk about this,

1843
01:37:30,439 --> 01:37:33,120
Speaker 2: which we probably gonna make this a topic. Tis you

1844
01:37:33,120 --> 01:37:37,800
Speaker 2: got a mother, your mother, or your fault father, your father.

1845
01:37:37,920 --> 01:37:44,600
Speaker 1: Okay, I feel like this the mistake I made a

1846
01:37:44,600 --> 01:37:48,040
Speaker 1: lot when I was feeling lonely and nothing was satisfying me,

1847
01:37:48,240 --> 01:37:52,080
Speaker 1: or I would jump into a situation and what happened

1848
01:37:52,160 --> 01:37:54,200
Speaker 1: was I would get in a situation with somebody and

1849
01:37:54,240 --> 01:37:56,640
Speaker 1: I would pour out what was going on with me

1850
01:37:56,760 --> 01:37:59,439
Speaker 1: personally onto them. So I was ended up in these

1851
01:37:59,520 --> 01:38:03,840
Speaker 1: toxic friendships, these toxic relationships. I was angry all the time.

1852
01:38:03,840 --> 01:38:06,840
Speaker 1: I was mad because I needed to heal myself. So

1853
01:38:06,960 --> 01:38:09,080
Speaker 1: until you heal yourself and do the work, you're never

1854
01:38:09,120 --> 01:38:11,400
Speaker 1: gonna be happy. Nothing is ever going to satisfy you.

1855
01:38:11,680 --> 01:38:14,120
Speaker 1: So you need to get to the core of the problem.

1856
01:38:14,600 --> 01:38:17,160
Speaker 1: Life is a blessing. Every day I wake up is

1857
01:38:17,280 --> 01:38:19,040
Speaker 1: a good day. Even when I was going through the

1858
01:38:19,080 --> 01:38:22,200
Speaker 1: worst in my life, I was struggling, yes, but I

1859
01:38:22,320 --> 01:38:24,720
Speaker 1: was always grateful because you know what, even when I

1860
01:38:24,720 --> 01:38:27,200
Speaker 1: worked at European Wax Center, I was grateful I had

1861
01:38:27,200 --> 01:38:27,599
Speaker 1: a job.

1862
01:38:27,680 --> 01:38:27,840
Speaker 2: Bro.

1863
01:38:28,400 --> 01:38:31,160
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, it could always be worse.

1864
01:38:31,479 --> 01:38:33,439
Speaker 1: So I think you need to figure out what is

1865
01:38:33,479 --> 01:38:36,800
Speaker 1: the issue that's going on with you. Because to be

1866
01:38:36,880 --> 01:38:38,760
Speaker 1: a good friend, to be a good sister, to be

1867
01:38:38,800 --> 01:38:41,160
Speaker 1: a good mother, to be a good partner, you have

1868
01:38:41,280 --> 01:38:43,519
Speaker 1: to be able to pour into someone essentially, you know,

1869
01:38:44,120 --> 01:38:47,000
Speaker 1: And I think you cannot pour into somebody until your

1870
01:38:47,040 --> 01:38:49,640
Speaker 1: cup is full within yourself. So I think you need

1871
01:38:49,680 --> 01:38:52,639
Speaker 1: to fix whatever you have going on and find out

1872
01:38:53,120 --> 01:38:56,360
Speaker 1: the problem that you got fe I mean, are you

1873
01:38:56,400 --> 01:38:58,200
Speaker 1: know that's that therapy? Okay?

1874
01:38:58,360 --> 01:39:01,960
Speaker 2: Question number two, Hey, y'all, I've had a longtime friend

1875
01:39:02,000 --> 01:39:04,640
Speaker 2: who's starting to get on my nerves. It's starting to

1876
01:39:04,640 --> 01:39:06,680
Speaker 2: seem like she was all for me when I was

1877
01:39:06,720 --> 01:39:09,360
Speaker 2: down bed. Once thing started to get good for me,

1878
01:39:09,439 --> 01:39:11,160
Speaker 2: it seemed like she wasn't happy for me and the

1879
01:39:11,200 --> 01:39:14,800
Speaker 2: friendship change. She is thrown shade twice trying to see

1880
01:39:14,880 --> 01:39:17,280
Speaker 2: way I don't know for sure if my son's father

1881
01:39:17,439 --> 01:39:19,799
Speaker 2: is his father, like I don't know who I fused.

1882
01:39:20,360 --> 01:39:22,080
Speaker 2: I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt

1883
01:39:22,160 --> 01:39:24,479
Speaker 2: with that, but it seems like everything I tell her

1884
01:39:24,520 --> 01:39:26,840
Speaker 2: she find a way to be shady with and bring

1885
01:39:26,880 --> 01:39:29,439
Speaker 2: it back up. I even have to run things by

1886
01:39:29,479 --> 01:39:31,840
Speaker 2: my other friends to see if I'm not tripping this

1887
01:39:32,040 --> 01:39:35,080
Speaker 2: is myself because audings are starting to be awkward. I

1888
01:39:35,080 --> 01:39:37,719
Speaker 2: don't know if she's just slow and say the darned

1889
01:39:37,720 --> 01:39:40,240
Speaker 2: isse things or if you're really a fake, shady bitch

1890
01:39:40,560 --> 01:39:43,360
Speaker 2: and I don't want to share too much information. I'm

1891
01:39:43,400 --> 01:39:45,680
Speaker 2: only torn because I don't want my intuition to be

1892
01:39:45,760 --> 01:39:47,599
Speaker 2: true and never would have done this to her. So

1893
01:39:47,640 --> 01:39:49,879
Speaker 2: my question is with y'all try to salvage the friendship

1894
01:39:49,960 --> 01:39:51,560
Speaker 2: or leave the friendship behind.

1895
01:39:52,360 --> 01:39:56,320
Speaker 1: So my advice is this, because I can only speak

1896
01:39:56,320 --> 01:39:58,680
Speaker 1: from experience, I think there's been situations where I've been

1897
01:39:58,680 --> 01:40:01,040
Speaker 1: on the show in real life for dress being like

1898
01:40:01,200 --> 01:40:03,160
Speaker 1: lex I don't like when you do this, and one

1899
01:40:03,160 --> 01:40:06,040
Speaker 1: thing about me, I'm a lot of things, but one

1900
01:40:06,040 --> 01:40:07,880
Speaker 1: thing I don't like to do is make anybody feel

1901
01:40:07,960 --> 01:40:10,720
Speaker 1: uncomfortable or that I'm being weird. So if you tell

1902
01:40:10,720 --> 01:40:13,160
Speaker 1: me I'm doing something that you don't like, I'm gonna

1903
01:40:13,160 --> 01:40:16,000
Speaker 1: correct it. And I'm gonna and even if I don't

1904
01:40:16,040 --> 01:40:19,240
Speaker 1: correct it immediately, I unless you know, Hey, I'm trying friend. Hey,

1905
01:40:19,320 --> 01:40:21,920
Speaker 1: I'm sorry I brought you, brought it to my attention,

1906
01:40:22,080 --> 01:40:25,160
Speaker 1: and I'm changing period. Not gonna do that no more.

1907
01:40:25,439 --> 01:40:27,320
Speaker 1: So I think that you need to bring this up

1908
01:40:27,360 --> 01:40:29,800
Speaker 1: to her and see the effort that she makes to

1909
01:40:29,840 --> 01:40:31,880
Speaker 1: try to change, because when you care about someone it's

1910
01:40:31,880 --> 01:40:35,800
Speaker 1: all about compromise and making things work. So if you

1911
01:40:35,840 --> 01:40:38,160
Speaker 1: feel like she means shady, you need to tell her, Hey, friend,

1912
01:40:38,200 --> 01:40:40,280
Speaker 1: I don't like when you do this. It's not funny

1913
01:40:40,280 --> 01:40:40,479
Speaker 1: to me.

1914
01:40:44,520 --> 01:40:47,920
Speaker 2: Well, I feel like you could definitely have a conversation

1915
01:40:48,000 --> 01:40:49,760
Speaker 2: with her and let her know. But at the end

1916
01:40:49,800 --> 01:40:51,599
Speaker 2: of the day, sometimes I feel like people be doing

1917
01:40:51,640 --> 01:40:56,519
Speaker 2: what they be doing. They yeah, they know what the

1918
01:40:56,520 --> 01:40:59,599
Speaker 2: fun going on because I ain far and they being shady.

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Speaker 2: Intcause like shit with your baby daddy, That's all I

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Speaker 2: was about to say.

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Speaker 1: That's a little far. Yeah, that's a little that's a

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Speaker 1: little weird.

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Speaker 2: I think people be knowing and you can choose to

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Speaker 2: give people chances. Like I always say, life is about

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Speaker 2: your decisions.

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Speaker 1: That's literally all life in.

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Speaker 2: Everybody has a different life based off of their decision

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Speaker 2: making process and what they have chosen to make decisions on.

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Speaker 2: Give people more chances or whatever the case may be.

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Speaker 2: So if you love her enough and you want to

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Speaker 2: give her another chance, cool personally, though sometimes I'll be

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Speaker 2: believing with people. It's also okay to like grow out

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Speaker 2: the relationships and grow out of friendships. Sometimes she just

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Speaker 2: don't serve you no more. If you feel like somebody

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Speaker 2: being real shady to you all the time. They probably

1936
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Speaker 2: is with me and leck situation. That's fear what she said.

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Speaker 2: But we was also way younger. Yeah, and no kid

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Speaker 2: was involved. For bitch was questioning me about my baby

1939
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Speaker 2: daddy beach. She was done, yeah, done, little weird, it's

1940
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Speaker 2: done for you.

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Speaker 1: And I also think that, like you were saying, it's

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Speaker 1: okay to outgrow people as well, because I feel like too,

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Speaker 1: like sometimes the things that you used to can handle

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Speaker 1: you can't handle anymore. Like it probably was okay that

1945
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Speaker 1: you took the shade or whatever, But I feel like

1946
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Speaker 1: you're always supposed to be changing and evolving. I'm never

1947
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Speaker 1: the same person I was six months ago. Six months ago,

1948
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Speaker 1: how I looked at the gym even today, it's not

1949
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Speaker 1: the same six months ago. My views on relationships and

1950
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Speaker 1: men was totally different. Yeah, my I've gotten closer to God.

1951
01:42:30,400 --> 01:42:35,200
Speaker 1: Like everything, it should always be changing. So sometimes you

1952
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Speaker 1: lose certain things in that six months. Sometimes you don't.

1953
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Speaker 1: Maybe you went through your little six month's face and

1954
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Speaker 1: she's something that needs to go, So I think you

1955
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Speaker 1: need to talk to her about it. If you don't

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Speaker 1: like the answer you hear you gotta shad that dead weight.

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Speaker 2: And that's great advice because sometimes I don't even feel

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Speaker 2: like you want to talk to people about she just like.

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Speaker 1: I chunk up the deuce for the softening or no,

1960
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Speaker 1: both of them. M all right, know about the Muse

1961
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Speaker 1: beauty and all that good stuff.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So y'all can always shop at Musbauty collection dot com.

1963
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Speaker 2: Get your lip glosses, your lip liners, your Matt Liqual lipsticks.

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Speaker 2: I have on right now, I have on the chestnut

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Speaker 2: lip liner. I have on the new lip plumper that

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Speaker 2: I'm coming out with, which is not a vaut A.

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Speaker 1: Boy so spicy. It is my love and I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: gonna give you that plump. Let me say this. I

1969
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Speaker 1: am a lip plumper girl. I wear it all the time,

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Speaker 1: and I'm a two faced girl. I love the two

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Speaker 1: face plumper because I'm like, oh, I don't know if

1972
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Speaker 1: you can make something spicier than that, y'all. I put

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Speaker 1: this on, I was.

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Speaker 2: Like, I mean, it's gonna single, it's gonna give you.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna give that plump. It is gonna make you

1976
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Speaker 1: very plump. Pump, plump, plump, plump, plump, plump. It up.

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Speaker 1: You should ask them to re record that for you.

1978
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Speaker 2: I probably will, Hey, Joe. So yeah, so it's very plumping.

1979
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Speaker 2: And then I also have on the honey dip At

1980
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Speaker 2: liquid lipstick and then I put the plumper on top.

1981
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Speaker 2: But you can also get the Sagni fic Wiglaze until

1982
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Speaker 2: I come out with the plumper it that's what I

1983
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Speaker 2: have on and then I also have my ebook and

1984
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Speaker 2: I have my vendors list out right now, so you

1985
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Speaker 2: can also get those on MS collection, dot com and

1986
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Speaker 2: lix and I are also coming out with the ebook.

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Speaker 1: Really, so, I mean, I feel like by the time

1988
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Speaker 1: this episode d was, hopefully it'll be out. Maybe if

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Speaker 1: it's not, I don't know. We haven't announced it officially yet,

1990
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Speaker 1: but I mean we we ain't ever gonna hoie it.

1991
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Speaker 1: One thing about us. When we do something, we want

1992
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Speaker 1: to do it right. So we do have an ebook

1993
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Speaker 1: coming out about how to start a podcast with This

1994
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Speaker 1: is the number one question we get. It's a successful

1995
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Speaker 1: podcast because it's no blueprints of this shit, but we

1996
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Speaker 1: can tell you exactly what we did, how exactly we

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Speaker 1: started making money. And you know, I don't want no,

1998
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Speaker 1: I never wanted to do an ebook that was like,

1999
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Speaker 1: what did I just read? This didn't help me?

2000
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Speaker 2: No, we wanted to be informative to help people. And

2001
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Speaker 2: then on top of that, it's like, exactly what we did.

2002
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Speaker 1: If you want to start a podcast, this book is

2003
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Speaker 1: going to be your Holy Girl, I'm gonna just say

2004
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Speaker 1: it's very When I had to read it back, I said,

2005
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Speaker 1: and for those of y'all that don't like to read,

2006
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Speaker 1: we're gonna do an e course too. I can't read,

2007
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Speaker 1: but she gonna do it for y'all. I'm just playing, okay,

2008
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Speaker 1: all right, So make sure y'all sign up for Patreon.

2009
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Speaker 1: Go to patreon dot com, backslash poor Minds go to

2010
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Speaker 1: buy poor mindes dot com. We got some more raptees

2011
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Speaker 1: on there, we got Drea's on there, we got mine

2012
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Speaker 1: on there, all that good stuff, and we have a

2013
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Speaker 1: bunch of special announcements coming soon. So we'll see y'all

2014
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Speaker 1: next week, y'all.

2015
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Speaker 4: I got this jones for me in my bone, took

2016
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Speaker 4: up with my soul.

2017
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Speaker 1: I couldn't breathe.

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Speaker 4: If he ever said get on my knees to they

2019
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Speaker 4: bloody red. See ill don't know if you get just

2020
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Speaker 4: don't know. He's like the light of some of my cigarettes.

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Speaker 4: I never knew another human I have the power to

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Speaker 4: take over mine.

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Speaker 3: So baby payment payment baby pay baby.

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Speaker 1: Baby baby baby baby baby. When you hit my name,

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Speaker 1: got me.

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Speaker 3: Say baying payment, pay and payment baby bam and payment

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Speaker 3: baby baby baby.

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Speaker 4: See y'all can never fill alone with you and my life.

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Speaker 4: Everything I own for you shame miss and rides my thought.

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Speaker 4: Looking in your eyes, I know why the.

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Speaker 1: Case since make my lips quiver. And when you're touch

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Speaker 1: me my whole body see how another lie? The lie?

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Speaker 1: How would it take over mine?

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Speaker 3: So baby, pay and pay and payment payment baby baby

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Speaker 3: baby baby baby baby.

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 3: When I hang your name, got me saying baby baby

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Speaker 3: baby baby baby, Oh wow.

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Speaker 2: Whoa.

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Speaker 4: Baby baby baby baby baby baby. I can't see my

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Speaker 4: words living here on Guy's ain't eards.

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01:47:24,400 --> 01:47:27,800
Speaker 1: You don't know what you're done to me. I never

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Speaker 1: thought I need you.

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01:47:28,800 --> 01:47:31,960
Speaker 2: Des believe it's kind of sick how I'm.

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01:47:31,800 --> 01:47:35,400
Speaker 1: Stuck on you, But I don't care because I'm needing

2046
01:47:35,439 --> 01:47:39,559
Speaker 1: you and how I feel will remain the same. Cuse

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Speaker 1: my baby.

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Speaker 4: And when the world's st to stress me out, so

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01:47:44,240 --> 01:47:47,080
Speaker 4: you it's say you what without a doubt you're the

2050
01:47:47,200 --> 01:47:50,040
Speaker 4: one who keeps me saying, and I can't complain.

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01:47:51,560 --> 01:47:53,520
Speaker 1: You real leave my pain. They ain't seem.

2052
01:47:53,280 --> 01:48:06,439
Speaker 4: Strained seeing my brain. Oh lie lie, no baby.

2053
01:48:07,400 --> 01:48:08,679
Speaker 1: I'm gonna break it down real quick.

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Speaker 3: Okay you ready, baby baby baby baby, baby, baby, baby,

2055
01:48:19,800 --> 01:48:21,560
Speaker 3: baby baby baby.

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Speaker 1: Oh baby, baby baby baby baby. Want to have a

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Speaker 1: three so much you make it a okay bye, Get

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Speaker 1: your ass off that God will he