1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 1: Best Bits of the Week with Morgan listener Q and A. 2 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:10,960 Speaker 1: All right, Aby, I did say these were kind of hard, 3 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: but I was lying. They're not crazy. 4 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 2: I can't take that right now. 5 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 3: No, no, no, we're good. 6 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 1: We're good. Jason is starting us off. How do we 7 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:23,759 Speaker 1: like to spend New Year's Eve? Oh? 8 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 2: So well, I usually like to go out and do 9 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 2: something fun, like a rooftop you know whatever, and you 10 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 2: can do they have fireworks, Nashville has fireworks on they 11 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:39,559 Speaker 2: do Okay, so not being crazy, no, because I did 12 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 2: that one year, yes before COVID. 13 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, we have the biggest fireworks display in the country. Okay, 14 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: maybe it's also for July, but we have something the 15 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 1: biggest fire work is way at some point in the year. 16 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 2: So rooftop bar. Yes. I either love doing that or 17 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 2: the complete opposite and just staying home and being like 18 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 2: with friends. So if I'm back in Wichita, I'll most 19 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 2: likely do that because all my friends back home and 20 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 2: I'm really close to them and they're all married and stuff, 21 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:04,960 Speaker 2: so we all get together and it's really fun. 22 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 1: So but if you're here, you're gonna be a big 23 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:07,760 Speaker 1: party animal. 24 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 2: Probably, Yeah, do something fun, but it also gets crazy. 25 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 2: So probably not. I don't know if I want to 26 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:15,119 Speaker 2: do downtown because it gets wild. 27 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't think I've actually 28 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: spent New Years You've Downtown ever. I only went to 29 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:22,759 Speaker 1: the New Years You've Bashed with my family one time. Really, 30 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:24,399 Speaker 1: we didn't go to like Broadway. We just went to 31 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 1: the park to do the concert. 32 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:28,839 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. Yeah, So that's why if you were 33 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 2: going to do that, I would definitely just like a rooftop, 34 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 2: you have to probably pay a cover and it's probably 35 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 2: a lot, but yeah, it's better than just being on 36 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 2: the streets. 37 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 1: You're like, you don't be a cover, you're on the street. 38 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:45,399 Speaker 2: I'm just saying I've done both. I usually do the 39 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 2: street because it's cheaper. 40 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 1: The best part is, like, I know what you're talking about, 41 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 1: because like in Broadway, you can celebrate. 42 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 2: On the streetway on the street of Broadway. 43 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 1: It's like if you do a cover, you're gonna be 44 00:01:58,400 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: on the street. 45 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 2: Which is also fun too, But just be prepared to 46 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 2: We have a lot of people like all over. 47 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 1: That is true. That is true. I'm a polar opposite. 48 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 1: I think in my e it's very overrated and I 49 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:13,360 Speaker 1: don't like celebrating it. Really, I haven't let down so 50 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: many years. I think I get so amped up for it, 51 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 1: and like you get sparkly dressed and you get really excited, 52 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 1: and then every time I'm like, dang, was that really 53 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 1: worth it? Because I don't feel like it was. 54 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 2: I'm gonna say, if you don't have a New Year's kiss, 55 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 2: it's not fun like that when I get let down. 56 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: Kabby, thank you, thank you for that. That's been me. 57 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 2: Like my whole life. 58 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 3: I mean, I'm pretty sure that the years I've not 59 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:41,519 Speaker 3: had one, So thanks Dame. 60 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:45,639 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure I've taken shots literally when the ring 61 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 1: comes in. Cool, cool, cool. There was logic behind my 62 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: eyes with that. 63 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that is because you're looking around everybody else. 64 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 2: So that's fair that I've I've done that. 65 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 1: But I will say, like, it's just very often that 66 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:04,640 Speaker 1: you spend so much money, and I'm like, I don't know. 67 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: If I I do love house parties with people I know. 68 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 1: I've been house parties where I don't know a lot 69 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 1: of people also not fun. I like, if it's a 70 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 1: house party of like people I know, and it's like 71 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 1: a good time and you're just all hanging out. I 72 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: would love that, but no, everything else is kind of 73 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: meh to me. 74 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:21,920 Speaker 2: I can see that. 75 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: Apparently it's because I don't GISs anybody. 76 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:29,799 Speaker 2: No you no, because I've been there, and that's when 77 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 2: it's been. My biggest letdown of New Year's Eve is 78 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 2: when I don't know. 79 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 1: You just rejected on me. Cool, and now it's all 80 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: I'm thinking about. Thank you for that. 81 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 2: Let's get how do I dig my way out of this? 82 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: I'm just giving you our time. Do we still hang 83 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 1: with Morgan one in Hillary? 84 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 2: Oh? 85 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 1: My gosh? Yeah, I don't know. 86 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 2: I miss Hillary a lot because I worked with her, 87 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 2: you know when I first started. Yeah, and I miss 88 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 2: her so much. I never I didn't work with Morgan 89 00:03:58,320 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 2: one on the show. 90 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, we've tried to buy Abby to something. She doesn't 91 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 1: show up. 92 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 2: It's true, that is true. 93 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, so we have. Yes, I do hang out with 94 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 1: Morgan and Hillary a lot. This is from Karina. There's 95 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 1: still some of my really good friends and Abby has 96 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: been invited. 97 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 2: I have been invited, But is that friends giving? 98 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:22,840 Speaker 1: Friends giving? Yeah? We did have that. You were on 99 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: a hot date yep, that now everybody knows about. 100 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 2: And I wish I could hang out with him more. 101 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 2: But I love running into them. It's random events. I 102 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 2: do run into Hillary a lot, but I need to 103 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 2: start making a point to hang out more. You're always invited, Abby, 104 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:39,480 Speaker 2: thank you. 105 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 1: Yes, but yeah that was from Karina. Okay, Well we've 106 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: got Daniel who wants to know if Lunchbox is a 107 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 1: normal cool guy when he is not on the microphone. 108 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 1: I'll let you go first. 109 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:55,039 Speaker 2: Nope, I'm just kidding. That's a hard No. No, I'm 110 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 2: just kidding. I think he's funny and I don't even 111 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:02,039 Speaker 2: know how to describe him, like he just tries to. 112 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 2: He doesn't make sense to me. I don't understand him. 113 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 2: He does this thing now where he's always like anytime 114 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 2: I do anything or say anything, he goes noted like 115 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:14,479 Speaker 2: he's noting it. For like, prep oh he is he If. 116 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:17,360 Speaker 1: He's saying that, I'm just telling you he is. And 117 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 1: it will come back five months, could come back two years. 118 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 1: That crap is happening to me multiple times. I'm like, 119 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 1: where the frick did this come from? 120 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 2: Yes, he's literally he really is like noting it. 121 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, he has a great memory. Unfortunately for all of us. 122 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:38,160 Speaker 2: Do you think he's cool? I still can figure out. 123 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 1: He for me, is like my older brother, and I 124 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:46,160 Speaker 1: treat him as such, so like any of our interactions 125 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:49,919 Speaker 1: are very sibling like, like if I were to have 126 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 1: had a brother, that is how I would have acted 127 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:53,719 Speaker 1: with him. We give each other crap all the time, 128 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:56,600 Speaker 1: and we also have to take crap from each other. 129 00:05:57,560 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 1: And I also get mad at him, Like there are 130 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 1: times when he is too much for me, and I 131 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 1: will tell him, I'm like I've had enough today. Like 132 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:06,799 Speaker 1: sometimes he'll come up to me asking him like not today, 133 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 1: not today. 134 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:08,720 Speaker 2: And he doesn't get offended. 135 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 1: No, he doesn't. He just walks away. He's like, yep, 136 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:15,280 Speaker 1: not gonna touch that. So it's Yeah, he is as 137 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 1: loud and obnoxious as you would think he is, and 138 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 1: he is who he is on the microphone. I mean, 139 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 1: that's not indifferent. But he's also not a horrible person. 140 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 1: He just has very strong opinions about everything. M but 141 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 1: he's not a jerk about him in real life. Yeah, 142 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 1: Like he feels that way, but he won't like, you know, 143 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:40,280 Speaker 1: kill you over the head with it. 144 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, And he doesn't like come out to me like 145 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 2: if I'm sitting at my desk, he's not like, yeah, 146 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:47,719 Speaker 2: you're terrible at singing like he really only does that 147 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 2: on the mic, and then he just kind of we 148 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 2: don't even talk about it. It's not like I go 149 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 2: up to him and I'm like, so did you like that? 150 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 2: Or you know, ask him. 151 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:57,280 Speaker 1: Does he does save insults for the air? 152 00:06:57,400 --> 00:06:57,599 Speaker 2: Yeah? 153 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:00,719 Speaker 1: I have noticed he does, and he does. Mean, he 154 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 1: just saves him to be public. 155 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:07,039 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's been weird, like very nice and I don't 156 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 2: know what's happening. 157 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 1: Oh, something's coming, yeah. 158 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 2: Something that's Yeah. When he's nice, you know something is 159 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 2: on the way. Yeah, He's like, how are you doing today? 160 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 1: Abby? 161 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 2: I'm like what. Like, I'm like He's like, I'm literally 162 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 2: just saying hi. I'm like, no, something is up and 163 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 2: he's like noted. I'm like what, Yes, it's so weird. 164 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 1: So all that to say, he is the same person 165 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:29,240 Speaker 1: you hear on air, and we just I mean, for 166 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 1: me particularly, I treat him like a brother. What he does, 167 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: how he does, he's obnoxious. I still love him. He's 168 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 1: still great to me, but he's also turn sometimes about 169 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 1: other things. Well. 170 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 2: People are always like, why don't you defend yourself like 171 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 2: on air or whatever, And I'm like, because I had 172 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 2: an older brother growing up and so I learned, like 173 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 2: my parents are always like just ignore him because they he 174 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 2: wants to make you mad and he wants you to 175 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 2: react and then he loves it. 176 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so I had to learn you. I will 177 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 1: tell you what the response is when you do that, 178 00:07:57,160 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: because I have not on air, but like we've gotten 179 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 1: into it outside of again, it's like sibling back and forth. 180 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: And when he just keeps coming at me, I'm really 181 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 1: patient until you keep throwing something at me like ten 182 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 1: times over the same thing. I will get to a 183 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 1: point where I'm like, I am gonna punch you in 184 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 1: the face. And he's seen that before and he loves it. 185 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 1: I mean like he'll just keep coming at you, so 186 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 1: it is right to ignore it. But it's also fun 187 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 1: to defeat him, so it is. 188 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, But I'm just like I can't win against him 189 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 2: because he just has never runs out of things to say, 190 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:34,600 Speaker 2: Like he will just always have another angle, you. 191 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 1: Know, and it's a good thing, like he had he 192 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 1: has witty comebacks. I'll give him that. Yes, I will 193 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 1: give him that. 194 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 2: Oh, he is never at a loss for words. I 195 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 2: wish he could give some of that to me because 196 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 2: sometimes i I'm like, yes, especially during karaoke. 197 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:50,439 Speaker 1: He's like the king of that right, we're still holding on. 198 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 1: I'm still yes. Okay, we gotta let that one. 199 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:56,680 Speaker 2: Going in the new year. That's my resolution. Let it go. 200 00:08:57,080 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 1: You have like six ok We're gonna take a quick break. 201 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 1: We have some more questions going on, all right. Listener, 202 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 1: Lauren wants to know if we've ever had any run 203 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:11,199 Speaker 1: ins in Wichita together. 204 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 2: Well, you usually stay on your side. 205 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 1: We're back on the side. I know. Sorry, Abby and 206 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:21,560 Speaker 1: I are on have two different college teams. We're on 207 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:24,440 Speaker 1: two different sides in Wichita. Do you come to the 208 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 1: enemies we are? Yeah? I do come to the east 209 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 1: sometimes for a restaurant, sometimes to see things over there. 210 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:34,680 Speaker 1: There's there was for a long time more stuff on 211 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:37,439 Speaker 1: the East side, which SAA on the west side has 212 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 1: gotten a lot more things, especially downtown too, really kind 213 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:44,679 Speaker 1: of like the middle ground. So yes, I stay over 214 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:46,599 Speaker 1: there more now. But it used to be that we 215 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 1: got to East a lot. But you never came to 216 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 1: our side. I know how you feel. It's not bougie 217 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 1: enough pretty every time. 218 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 2: I just want to go back to my side, please. 219 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 1: That is true. But we did have a really funny 220 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 1: thing happened, Yes, the other day. So I get a 221 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 1: text from my mom and she's like, she's getting her 222 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 1: hair done at the hair salon, and she's like, I 223 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 1: am in Dawn's chair. That's a girl who does her 224 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:18,000 Speaker 1: hair getting my hair done. And Abby's mom is in 225 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 1: Jenny's chair. It's another girl at the salon, and Jenny 226 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:23,680 Speaker 1: introduced us. Jenny told me she also used to have 227 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:24,559 Speaker 1: Francy do her hair. 228 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 2: Small world, Oh my gosh, because I had Francy do 229 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 2: my hair when I was a kid. 230 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:31,959 Speaker 1: Yep, and mine too, Like what so? Abby and I 231 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:36,319 Speaker 1: had the same hairstylist our entire lives and our moms 232 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 1: still go to the same hair salon, different stylists now 233 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:41,840 Speaker 1: because the one that they we had had retired and 234 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:43,840 Speaker 1: so the ones that are in there now are the 235 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 1: ones that do their hair. 236 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:46,959 Speaker 2: What is the what are the odds of that? 237 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:51,080 Speaker 1: So wild? And all this time later too, like and 238 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 1: I had messaged Abby like cinema screen child, was like, 239 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 1: how do we never like run into each other? And 240 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 1: there are points she was like, we probably had, we 241 00:10:57,840 --> 00:10:58,839 Speaker 1: just didn't know each other. 242 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:00,599 Speaker 2: Yeah, you were probably like walking out, you held the 243 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 2: door for me for your appointment, I'm walking in. 244 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:05,320 Speaker 1: I really appreciate that. Yeah, you assumed that I had 245 00:11:05,360 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 1: held the door. 246 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 2: I think this probably was a moment in the past, 247 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 2: Like I don't know how we couldn't have it, But 248 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 2: what are the odds this one salon? Like how did 249 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:15,959 Speaker 2: they a lot? Yes? How did they both know Francy 250 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 2: because she's the one that was like the owner of it, 251 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 2: and then I think she sold it to Jenny and yeah, gone, yeah, which, 252 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:24,520 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Like did you get your hair done there? 253 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:25,520 Speaker 2: Like for homecoming and stuff? 254 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, they did, like my hair for both my 255 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 1: older sister's weddings. They did all my upduce for prom 256 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 1: when updus were a thing. And then yeah, I mean 257 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 1: I even still went to them when I was in college, 258 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: Like I'd go back home and get my hair done. 259 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I can't. I can't believe. You don't 260 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 2: go there, now, do you? 261 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 1: No? No, Now, I. 262 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:43,840 Speaker 2: Couldn't hear and you go home? 263 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 1: Yeah you gage I've had roots by my ears. Yeah, 264 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:52,559 Speaker 1: Oh my. 265 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 2: Gosh, it's too wild to me. I couldn't believe it. 266 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 2: I was like, are you kidding me? 267 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 1: Which dot is a small world. So no, we never 268 00:11:57,240 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 1: had any run ins us personally, even we go home 269 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 1: and visit, like we're in like totally different areas of town. 270 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 1: And like I said, Abby doesn't think my area of 271 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 1: town is good enough for her, so we really don't 272 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 1: have any run in. 273 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 2: I do like one restaurant on your side, which one 274 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:13,680 Speaker 2: It's called Barnards. 275 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 1: Barnards is that the big barn. 276 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:19,200 Speaker 2: It used to be, but then it moved. Now it's 277 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 2: closer to May's. 278 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 1: Oh, but it's not in a barn anymore. 279 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:24,200 Speaker 2: No, they sold that. Now it's a car wash. That 280 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:26,320 Speaker 2: makes me sad. But it was a barn. And they 281 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 2: have like the best roast beef sandwiches. And I know 282 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:29,839 Speaker 2: you don't, so you probably don't go there that much. 283 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, I don't think I've ever eaten there. 284 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 2: It's so good. So but I do remember the barn, 285 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 2: you do, Okay, So that's all I got, though, I'll 286 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:38,960 Speaker 2: be going there at Christmas, so I'll be on your side. 287 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 2: I'll let you know on Christmas when I'm home and 288 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:42,559 Speaker 2: get a bruk beef. 289 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 1: Sandwich on Christmas, so. 290 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:49,560 Speaker 3: You wild they're gonna be close. 291 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 2: I met when I'm home for Christmas, I'm gonna make 292 00:12:52,679 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 2: my way over to your side. 293 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 1: Okay, well, maybe we can meet up at the barn you're. 294 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:02,199 Speaker 2: It's spelled like b a r r ds barnards. It's 295 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:05,640 Speaker 2: a weird spelling that is kind of like barnyards, barnyards. 296 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 2: There's that country accident here it goes that roasty sandwich barnards. 297 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:13,680 Speaker 1: Where are some places that you'd love to visit that 298 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:17,080 Speaker 1: you've never been before? From Kansas? Oh? 299 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 2: I thought you were saying. 300 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:21,840 Speaker 3: In Kansas, not in Kansas. 301 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 2: Oh okay, I was Are you saying here anywhere? 302 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:27,559 Speaker 1: What are some places you'd love to visit that you've 303 00:13:27,600 --> 00:13:28,559 Speaker 1: never gotten to go before? 304 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 2: Sorry about that, you were really focused on completely just 305 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:34,520 Speaker 2: messed all of that up. Sorry, Kansas. I thought we 306 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 2: were still on Kansas. 307 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:38,560 Speaker 1: Kansas. I mean, it can be Kansas if you want to. 308 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 2: But her name's kandas like there's anything in Kansas. I've 309 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:44,440 Speaker 2: been to everything I want to see in Kansas. 310 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 1: Let's see the flo Hills are cool? Okay? 311 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:48,960 Speaker 2: You know what? I want to go to a Times 312 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:52,600 Speaker 2: Square again, like back to New York around Christmas. That's 313 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:55,199 Speaker 2: what I want to do. See the Christmas tree. That's 314 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 2: a good one in Rockefeller Center. 315 00:13:58,000 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 1: I want to do that when I'm dating somebody. I 316 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 1: want to go with somebody because I feel like that 317 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:03,760 Speaker 1: would be like my because I love Christmas and I 318 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:07,640 Speaker 1: love love and then for them to combine in like 319 00:14:07,679 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 1: New York City and Christmas would be magical. 320 00:14:09,679 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 2: That'd be very romantic. 321 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 1: Oh. 322 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 2: I also want to go to the Biltmore. 323 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:15,600 Speaker 1: That's it. It's you. Is it like? 324 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:18,439 Speaker 2: Wait, Lashville, North Carolina? 325 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 1: There's built more estates? Yes, Okay, yeah, I was saying something. 326 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:24,000 Speaker 2: Else that would be fun around Christmas too. 327 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 1: That would be cool. Any time. 328 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 2: Have you ever been to Dollar There's so many things 329 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 2: I want to do now. 330 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 3: Like you're making a check on your phone and on 331 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 3: the phone Dollywood. 332 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 2: I've never been, have you. 333 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 1: Uh, we didn't go to Dollywood specifically, but we did 334 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 1: go to Gallenburg and I love Gallenburg. Okay, So I 335 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 1: do think it'd be cool and I've heard good things 336 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 1: about it. 337 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 2: Okay, you go. 338 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 1: I don't know if you have any more yelling. It's okay. 339 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 2: I have coffee right now and I'm a little hyped up. 340 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:54,200 Speaker 1: You can yell some more things at me. I just did. 341 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:57,360 Speaker 1: I was just ready in case they were coming to 342 00:14:57,480 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 1: like receive them. 343 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 2: Grand Canyon because I tried to go one time and 344 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 2: we were going through Sedona and there was too much snow. 345 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 2: We couldn't make it through. I was so sad because 346 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 2: we had our whole vacation planned around going to the 347 00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 2: Grand Canyon. 348 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 1: That is a snow bummer. That's also wild. I didn't 349 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 1: I don't know that it snows all that often out there. 350 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:16,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why it was not meant to be. I'm 351 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 2: kind of bummed today. 352 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 1: So definitely that Okay, the Grand Canyon is really cool. 353 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 1: I just visited for the first time this year, which 354 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 1: to the North Rim, which is like the hardest to 355 00:15:26,520 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 1: get to and the furthest let me tell you, is 356 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 1: so far away from everything if you do go to one. 357 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 1: That's why I think a lot of people go to 358 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:35,680 Speaker 1: the South Entrance, which is I think the most popular 359 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 1: one that are like the Northeast entrance or something, but 360 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:42,880 Speaker 1: definitely not the North one. But it was worth every moment. 361 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 1: Now you love it. Yeah, it's like a screensaver, screen saver. 362 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:51,080 Speaker 1: Everything out west looks like screensaver. Honestly. 363 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's my picture perfect. 364 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 1: Yes, that's a good one. I mean I have a 365 00:15:57,240 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 1: lot like there's a lot of I want to visit 366 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 1: every state, and I want to visit every continent. Those 367 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:05,840 Speaker 1: are like my goals. I don't know that I'm ever 368 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 1: going to accomplish going to every country, but the goals 369 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 1: that I hope to accomplish before I die is visiting 370 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 1: every state and every continent. And I mean, I'd love 371 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 1: to travel abroad. I think I'm just this is hard. 372 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 1: I don't really like to leave Remy and Hazel all 373 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 1: that often, at least not for those long stints. And 374 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 1: if I go foreign, I want to go there for 375 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 1: a while, and that's also hard with work. That is Yeah, 376 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 1: Like if I go to Europe, I want to go 377 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:35,040 Speaker 1: back back. I want to see everything along there. I 378 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 1: would fly back and then go back again. I know 379 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 1: sounds very not financially sore of me. 380 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:41,640 Speaker 2: No it doesn't. 381 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 1: So I think I'm kind of waiting on that. Eventually, 382 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 1: I'll probably not so, but I'd love to go to Italy, 383 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 1: love to go to Greece, Australia, go uh scuba diving 384 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 1: in the Great Barrier reef Oh my goings. Yeah, yeah, 385 00:16:56,920 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 1: it's gone. 386 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 2: Oh that's true. I only said something to you completely. 387 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:06,480 Speaker 2: You know, there's the world it's the whole world out there, Abby, 388 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 2: New Zealand. 389 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:18,879 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, oh yeah. On the country you go straight 390 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:25,360 Speaker 1: north and then now I just went back. Okay, we'll 391 00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:27,399 Speaker 1: be back. We're gonna come back. We We're gonna answer 392 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 1: some dating questions for somebody. Okay, okay, this is a 393 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:37,400 Speaker 1: three part question. 394 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 2: What the three parts? 395 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 1: Listen? She's got a lot of questions that she would 396 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 1: like to ask, and since she went to the effort 397 00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:46,679 Speaker 1: of putting three parts in, I think we should ask it. 398 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:47,879 Speaker 2: And I actually really do like that. 399 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:52,600 Speaker 1: This is from Alyssa, and she's based on these questions. 400 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:55,600 Speaker 1: She's clearly also dating right now too, so she wants 401 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:58,280 Speaker 1: to ask them dating questions. How do we feel getting 402 00:17:58,359 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 1: ready for dates? Like when we're the process of getting 403 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:01,960 Speaker 1: ready about to go on a date. 404 00:18:01,880 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 2: Are you kidding me? I have a white cloth in 405 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:05,840 Speaker 2: my hand as I am putting on makeup. 406 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:09,359 Speaker 1: I get nervous. You like, like a first day drink? 407 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 2: Oh my yeah, just to calm my nerves. 408 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 1: Maybe that's why you talk a lot on the dates. 409 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:17,960 Speaker 2: Abby, Yep, yep, so I've learned that. Huh you put 410 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:19,919 Speaker 2: the two I did get I was like, oh, Abby, 411 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 2: that's why you're blurting everything out because you're feeling loose now, 412 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:25,520 Speaker 2: like you don't need to be nervous. 413 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:27,760 Speaker 1: Okay, So with this new guy that you're dating, did 414 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:29,360 Speaker 1: you have a white cloth before the first day? Yes, 415 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:35,160 Speaker 1: I did you learn it you didn't care? 416 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 2: Sure, but I was very aware this time to make 417 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:40,879 Speaker 2: sure I'm not like talking too much. I did like 418 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:44,240 Speaker 2: more like listen and ask questions. Okay, because I am 419 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:44,919 Speaker 2: good at listening. 420 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 1: I do like you're a great listener. Yeah. 421 00:18:47,119 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 2: I would rather listen almost than talk about myself. So, yeah, 422 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:52,199 Speaker 2: I was silly, man. 423 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 1: They're just making it come out of you. 424 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:56,399 Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I know I've gotten a lot better than 425 00:18:56,440 --> 00:18:58,200 Speaker 2: how I used to be, but I mean I still 426 00:18:58,240 --> 00:19:00,640 Speaker 2: get nervous for you. 427 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 1: Know, I did used to also be similar, and I 428 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:04,719 Speaker 1: still get butterflies, like I'll get a little like like 429 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 1: it excited butterflies, like is this going to be somebody 430 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:11,679 Speaker 1: that's important to me? But somebody said something and now 431 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:13,159 Speaker 1: I don't know where I saw it and where it 432 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:15,680 Speaker 1: came from. But now that I've heard it, I can't 433 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 1: ever look at dates differently. They said, stop thinking about 434 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 1: how they feel about you. How do you feel about them? 435 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:26,640 Speaker 1: That's what matters. It's not do they like me, it's 436 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 1: do I like them? And that changed my whole perspective 437 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:32,959 Speaker 1: of dating instead of it being like, I'm so nervous. 438 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:35,040 Speaker 1: I have to be the perfect person and they they 439 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:36,920 Speaker 1: got to like me the way and I gotta sit 440 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 1: tall and not act in the way that I am. 441 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, I need to go on these 442 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:42,840 Speaker 1: days and be the person that I am, because if 443 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:46,159 Speaker 1: I'm trying to be somebody that I'm not, then all 444 00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:48,440 Speaker 1: it's going to end up in is disaster for both 445 00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 1: of us. So if I don't like them and they 446 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:55,360 Speaker 1: don't like me, then it's not supposed to work out. 447 00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:57,600 Speaker 1: But if they do, for all the quirks that I 448 00:19:57,640 --> 00:19:59,880 Speaker 1: have and all they I mean literally this first day 449 00:19:59,880 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 1: that I just went on with a guy, I ended 450 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 1: up sitting the whole time like cross legged, and about 451 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:07,280 Speaker 1: an hour and a half of a date, he was like, 452 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 1: you've been sitting cross legged the whole time. I was like, yeah, oh, 453 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:11,520 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, It's just like natural for me, and he 454 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:14,199 Speaker 1: was like, no, I love it, it's great. And I 455 00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:18,200 Speaker 1: just like, I was so into being myself that I 456 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:20,280 Speaker 1: couldn't even like turn it off if I wanted to. 457 00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 2: That's awesome. 458 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:24,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, so that that quote kind of changed the way 459 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 1: I just see things now. 460 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 2: M Well, I also learned to start doing first dates 461 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:31,960 Speaker 2: coffee dates. I just feel like it's a lot less 462 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:34,200 Speaker 2: pressure and I'm not having a white claw in the afternoon. 463 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 2: You know, I'm going to get coffee. That's so, and 464 00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 2: then you don't have to get all like dressed up. 465 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:40,360 Speaker 2: I feel like when you go on an evening date, 466 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:42,000 Speaker 2: you feel like, if you're going to dinner, you want 467 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,280 Speaker 2: to get all dressed up and do your hair and everything. 468 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:47,399 Speaker 2: And when I was doing first dates, I would go 469 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 2: like from work, so I would just have my work 470 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:51,639 Speaker 2: outfit on. You know, I wasn't all dressed up, and 471 00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:53,639 Speaker 2: it was just more casual and it was a lot 472 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 2: less pressure. 473 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:56,920 Speaker 1: So yeah, that's good. Less pressure is always good. 474 00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 2: M Yeah, whatever you can find. It's just like the 475 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:03,200 Speaker 2: most casual, chill situation that you're comfortable in. I feel 476 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 2: like that like makes for the best first date situation 477 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:09,719 Speaker 2: and you should shouldn't be nervous. It's really when you 478 00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 2: think about it, I was putting so much pressure on 479 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:16,159 Speaker 2: a first date. It's the one hour conversation and you 480 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 2: know it's. 481 00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 1: Or for you four hours? 482 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but when I went through the little phase 483 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:25,200 Speaker 2: where I was doing only an hour, Hey, there's. 484 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:27,440 Speaker 1: No shape from me, okay, because like I have long dates. 485 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:29,119 Speaker 1: It's all it's all matter. There's some dates I've been 486 00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:30,719 Speaker 1: on it and thirty minutes I'm like, I gotta get 487 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:32,440 Speaker 1: out of here. There's some dates I've been on it's 488 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:34,400 Speaker 1: like four or five hours because it's a great conversation. 489 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:35,359 Speaker 1: I'm having a good time. 490 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 2: Exactly, Why would you It doesn't make sense if you're 491 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:41,200 Speaker 2: not Why would you leave? You're already both there. Why 492 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:42,800 Speaker 2: would you be like, oh wait, I gotta cut this 493 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:45,119 Speaker 2: off in an hour. We'll beat again next week for 494 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:47,119 Speaker 2: another hour at a time. Yeah, when you could just 495 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:48,480 Speaker 2: do four. 496 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:54,359 Speaker 1: Five, six hours, seven, keep going? Okay, speaking of that, 497 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:56,880 Speaker 1: are we going at keeping conversations going on a date? 498 00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 1: You know. I don't know if this is a good 499 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 1: tip or not, but I have really leaned into because 500 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 1: it helps me in two scenarios. I treat them almost 501 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:10,680 Speaker 1: as interviews on the first day, where I am gathering 502 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:14,119 Speaker 1: a whole lot of information about this person and a 503 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:17,439 Speaker 1: lot of not a lot of like deal breakers, but 504 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,199 Speaker 1: a lot of things that are important for me to 505 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:22,960 Speaker 1: know very quickly, like who they are as a person, 506 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:25,000 Speaker 1: how they treat people, how are they treating the server. 507 00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:28,080 Speaker 1: Just a lot of interactions that happen, and so I 508 00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 1: treat it as I'm gathering a lot of information. So 509 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 1: I'll typically ask a lot of questions and I turn 510 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 1: the tables off of me. But it also allows me 511 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:36,520 Speaker 1: to see are they able to turn the tables back 512 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:38,640 Speaker 1: on me? Are they able to see that they're talking 513 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 1: about themselves a lot? Are they able to want to 514 00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 1: be engaged in a conversation that both of us are 515 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:47,040 Speaker 1: able to talk in. So I kind of treat it 516 00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:49,320 Speaker 1: going into it like an interview and then it turns. 517 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:51,520 Speaker 1: But it's not like an interview where I'm like, tell 518 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:54,200 Speaker 1: me your mom's maiden name, where were you born in? 519 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:57,439 Speaker 1: What hospital? The wrong? Like, No, it's more it's just 520 00:22:57,440 --> 00:23:00,960 Speaker 1: like a it's a very casual interview, but it's an 521 00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:03,639 Speaker 1: interview nonetheless, because you have to retain a lot of 522 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,719 Speaker 1: that information and you have to pay very close attention 523 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:08,159 Speaker 1: to what they're saying. First dates really do tell you 524 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 1: a lot about somebody. 525 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:10,080 Speaker 2: M they do. 526 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:14,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, So that's kind of how I treat like conversations 527 00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,399 Speaker 1: on a first date and as it goes on they 528 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:19,199 Speaker 1: get more and more casual and sometimes more serious. But 529 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:21,640 Speaker 1: it's just kind of how I go into a first date. 530 00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:24,120 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Well, I think like with mine, the first 531 00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 2: date with the guy I was talking to and why 532 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:28,760 Speaker 2: or that I'm dating now is why it lasted so long. 533 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:31,320 Speaker 2: It's because the conversation was so easy. I think he's 534 00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 2: really good at conversation and we're just good at like 535 00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:35,679 Speaker 2: bouncing back at each other because I have been on 536 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:37,760 Speaker 2: dates and you're just like it's like pulling teeth trying 537 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:40,679 Speaker 2: to get anything out of them, you know, or you 538 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 2: just feel like you're asking every single question. It's just 539 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 2: like how was work today? And they're just kind of like, well, good, 540 00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:48,280 Speaker 2: not too bad? What about you? And it's just it's 541 00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:50,320 Speaker 2: just questions. It's like, no, we need to be it 542 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:51,960 Speaker 2: needs to be more exciting. Like I'm like, so, who's 543 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:54,199 Speaker 2: your sports team? Like who? And they're just like I 544 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:57,200 Speaker 2: don't really care, and I'm like, okay, we're not getting anywhere. 545 00:23:57,280 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 1: You know. It's just, hey, you have to be opinionated 546 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 1: about things. Yes, it doesn't mean you have to be 547 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:06,119 Speaker 1: like a controversial opinion person, but having an opinion about 548 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,440 Speaker 1: things is a good thing and. 549 00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 2: Show who you are. 550 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:12,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, it's good to like things, it's good to 551 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:15,640 Speaker 1: dislike things. It means you're human. So yeah, I don't. 552 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,480 Speaker 2: I don't like the nonchalant I know like and I 553 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:21,360 Speaker 2: feel like that shows you a lot. If the conversation 554 00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:23,840 Speaker 2: is really hard on the first date, like you gotta think, 555 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:26,680 Speaker 2: is it even gonna get I mean, but they're probably nervous. 556 00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:29,679 Speaker 2: You're both nervous, so it's not gonna be completely just 557 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 2: like perfect. 558 00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 1: But it should it should flow if it's just comfortable. Yes, 559 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:36,359 Speaker 1: I went on a first date with a guy. This 560 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:40,960 Speaker 1: is this is funny. I'm pretty sure I talked about 561 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:43,199 Speaker 1: food the entire day because he would not talk about anything, 562 00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:45,120 Speaker 1: like I just kept talking about different places I loved 563 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 1: in town because he wouldn't. He he was not offering 564 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:50,120 Speaker 1: anything to the conversation. And that was like the one 565 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:53,119 Speaker 1: thing we connected on. And so I'm pretty sure this 566 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:54,800 Speaker 1: guy thought that all I did was eat, like that's 567 00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:58,119 Speaker 1: how I lived my life, because I mean I loved there. 568 00:24:58,160 --> 00:24:59,600 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not going out on the secondate 569 00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:01,400 Speaker 1: and he off there and we never talked to each 570 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:04,720 Speaker 1: other again. It was fine. But like I just was like, 571 00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:08,760 Speaker 1: I don't think he realized that that was the only 572 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 1: thing he gave me to grasp onto. And so he's 573 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:17,760 Speaker 1: sitting there like, dang, the girl really good and I'm like, 574 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:21,280 Speaker 1: oh my god, this guy doesn't talk about anything right, 575 00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 1: because it's so funny. 576 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:26,919 Speaker 2: You want to talk about something you're comfortable with or 577 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:28,800 Speaker 2: like your hobbies and stuff, but it's like, Okay, we 578 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:31,200 Speaker 2: want to go move on to something else now, right, 579 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 2: and you've just been stuck on food. 580 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:37,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah, there are two solid tips. Maybe that's 581 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,480 Speaker 1: those help with conversation going on a date. 582 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 2: Or was I to treat it right because I think 583 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,280 Speaker 2: it is hard? And another thing I want to ask you, like, 584 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:47,400 Speaker 2: because I've talked to some like I have a guy 585 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:49,440 Speaker 2: friend that always helps me like dating advice. You know. 586 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 2: He always just kind of tells me because it's good 587 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:52,680 Speaker 2: to bounce off of your guy friends too. 588 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 1: Is that lunchbox that right? 589 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:57,720 Speaker 2: It is not lunch absolutely Now, I think he would 590 00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:00,240 Speaker 2: give good advice, though I haven't tested that though, because 591 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:01,560 Speaker 2: I know what he's gonna use with the. 592 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 1: He's not he is the extreme of the advice. But yes, 593 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 1: he does have some good dating advice, not that suff 594 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:07,919 Speaker 1: that he talks about on ar but yes. 595 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 2: H yeah. So I was asking him and he was like, oh, 596 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:12,879 Speaker 2: you need to be asking like deep questions on the 597 00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:16,400 Speaker 2: first date, like you know, where do you see yourself 598 00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 2: in ten years? And like what is the most I 599 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:22,119 Speaker 2: don't I'm not good at examples. But they were not 600 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:25,920 Speaker 2: just like easy conversation back and forth, like they wanted 601 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,920 Speaker 2: like very philosophical things. And I was like, I feel 602 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:30,399 Speaker 2: like that's a little heavy for the first day, do 603 00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:31,320 Speaker 2: you or. 604 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:34,600 Speaker 1: Like, yeah, yeah, that's very heavy. Here's here's how I 605 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,560 Speaker 1: have seen mine going. I don't know that I follow 606 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,280 Speaker 1: the pattern every time, but the first date is always casual. 607 00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 1: What are our generic interests? Where do we line up 608 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:46,600 Speaker 1: on things on just generically life like working out? Do 609 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:49,439 Speaker 1: we both like travel? Like I'm a nerd? Are you 610 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:53,600 Speaker 1: a nerd? Like? Very generic conversation, surface level topics. Second 611 00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:56,240 Speaker 1: date is when I see some of that more deep 612 00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:59,520 Speaker 1: conversations start to happen. You don't necessarily intend for it, though, 613 00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:02,359 Speaker 1: like you don't ever want to pressure a deep conversation 614 00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 1: m like if there is a natural fit for that, 615 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:07,840 Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, we're talking about this I'd really 616 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 1: love to know, like how do you feel about kids? 617 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,880 Speaker 1: But those are like if it's feeling that way. By 618 00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 1: the third date, though, is when I'm addressing my non negotiables, 619 00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:23,840 Speaker 1: like they have to love animals. If they don't, there 620 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,879 Speaker 1: is no point in us continuing this. Where do we 621 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:30,280 Speaker 1: stand on politics? Are we similar? Are we not? Where 622 00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:32,720 Speaker 1: do we stand on having a family? Those things are 623 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:35,000 Speaker 1: very important by the third date, because by the third 624 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,399 Speaker 1: date you do know a decent amount about this person, 625 00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:40,000 Speaker 1: and that can realm It kind of depends on how 626 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:42,960 Speaker 1: you you go about dating, but I think it falls 627 00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,199 Speaker 1: somewhere between the third and the fifth date. But you 628 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,480 Speaker 1: don't want to get so deep into something with somebody 629 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:50,240 Speaker 1: who is very clearly not ever going to fit a 630 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:51,520 Speaker 1: non negotiable you have. 631 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:53,720 Speaker 2: Mm hmm, yeah, that's very true. Like you you're not 632 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,159 Speaker 2: on the same page, Like Fay. 633 00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 1: Why I date a guy for a month and find out, 634 00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:59,719 Speaker 1: oh we don't vibe in that way? That will be 635 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:01,720 Speaker 1: that it suck for both of us. We vibe in 636 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:03,680 Speaker 1: every other way, But there's a non negotiable that's there. 637 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 1: Why would I stick around for all of that? Why 638 00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:11,119 Speaker 1: would he? So those are kind of the realms that 639 00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:14,920 Speaker 1: I follow in m like and the deep conversation continues 640 00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:17,040 Speaker 1: on right, Like those continue to happen, but I don't 641 00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:18,480 Speaker 1: feel like they ever happen on the first date. 642 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,040 Speaker 2: No, But what you said is like it's spot on 643 00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,359 Speaker 2: about just waiting for it to happen, Like don't just 644 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 2: out of nowhere, I mean, because that'll probably freak them out, 645 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 2: you know, just being like you want kids, Yeah, stuff 646 00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 2: like that, like just let it free flow. 647 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like all because I'm talking about are very like 648 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 1: naturally fitting into the conversation as we talk about things, 649 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 1: But at no point time on a first date would 650 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:39,160 Speaker 1: ever be like where do you see yourself in five years? 651 00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:39,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? 652 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:43,120 Speaker 1: Just I do drop hints though I have noticed about myself, 653 00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:46,000 Speaker 1: Like I'll be like like when we talk about Travel'll 654 00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:47,680 Speaker 1: be like, oh yeah, like if I do ever get married, 655 00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:49,800 Speaker 1: I really want to go to a honeymoon in Africa. 656 00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 1: Like I do drop hints of what I'm looking for, 657 00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 1: But I'm not coming out and being like if you 658 00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,080 Speaker 1: and I get married, which we're going to, because like 659 00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:02,160 Speaker 1: I want marriage, this is where we're going. That's not 660 00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:04,320 Speaker 1: it's just like dropping hints to be like how does 661 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,640 Speaker 1: he respond? Does he seem like, is does it scare 662 00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:08,840 Speaker 1: him off? Because then he's not into that. So you 663 00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:11,680 Speaker 1: can have a way of doing that on first dates. 664 00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:14,520 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, like it's subtle. Make it just subtle, but. 665 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:18,200 Speaker 1: Not like come out right, because then you're crazy. Everything 666 00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:21,560 Speaker 1: is tactical if you think about men, and this could 667 00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:23,719 Speaker 1: be the same for guys. I know they have ways 668 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:27,080 Speaker 1: that they handle us, right. I don't have another word 669 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:30,040 Speaker 1: to use there, but like men are very tactical, and 670 00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:34,760 Speaker 1: so I just use those tactics against them. You know, 671 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:36,400 Speaker 1: a dated, a lot of guys figured it out. 672 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,960 Speaker 2: So I like your a little structure there the first, second, 673 00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,440 Speaker 2: third date. I think that's a good little guideline. Kind 674 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:43,320 Speaker 2: of a little structure. 675 00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,400 Speaker 1: Okay. And then the third part of this is if 676 00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:48,680 Speaker 1: it's a hinge date, when is it okay to go 677 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:52,880 Speaker 1: over to their place? D I mean just to like 678 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:56,200 Speaker 1: hang out have a date. I mean like I have 679 00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 1: for second dates. I feel like the first day is 680 00:29:59,880 --> 00:30:01,840 Speaker 1: no as never you never on a first dame. You 681 00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:04,680 Speaker 1: need to make sure they're not psycho or like gonna 682 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,600 Speaker 1: kill you. I mean genuinely like that. I'm saying that 683 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 1: laughing because through you need to make sure they're a 684 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 1: normal person. But maybe, I mean, I think it depends 685 00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:15,720 Speaker 1: how you feel after the first day, if you feel 686 00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:18,360 Speaker 1: comfortable with them, if you don't feel threatened, if you 687 00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:22,600 Speaker 1: feel like they're very aware of how you feel and 688 00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 1: your security and they're making sure you feel safe, then 689 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,840 Speaker 1: I think it's kind of just up to that m hm. 690 00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 1: And so that's why sometimes I've said, like, second date 691 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:35,720 Speaker 1: is fine, but I mean tends to happen more often 692 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:39,040 Speaker 1: like fourth, fifth, I would say. 693 00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:42,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say that, I would say, whatever you 694 00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:45,240 Speaker 2: feel comfortable with, but also make it very clear to 695 00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:47,560 Speaker 2: them if you do not feel like if you don't 696 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,000 Speaker 2: think it's too if you think it is too soon 697 00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 2: to get physical with them, Like I would make that 698 00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:54,960 Speaker 2: clear because a lot of guys think that when you're 699 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:58,520 Speaker 2: inviting them over, then something's gonna happen. Like that's happened 700 00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:00,680 Speaker 2: to me, that's fair, you know. And one time one 701 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,240 Speaker 2: guy called me a tease because I invited him over 702 00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:05,320 Speaker 2: but I didn't want to do anything, and I was like, 703 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,560 Speaker 2: this is literally our third date, Like I think that 704 00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 2: that is soon to me, and I like I'm not 705 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:12,880 Speaker 2: ready to get physical then, but he got mad and 706 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:16,320 Speaker 2: he like stormed out because I would not, And I 707 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 2: was like, I guess I didn't make it clear, you know. 708 00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,600 Speaker 2: I guess he just thought that I was inviting him over, 709 00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:24,000 Speaker 2: that we were gonna look up, so I would just 710 00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 2: That's what I've learned. Yeah, in the PA, if you 711 00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:28,400 Speaker 2: could be like, you know, I want to watch a movie, 712 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,000 Speaker 2: but I just don't feel like getting comfortable just I 713 00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:32,720 Speaker 2: mean getting intimate with you, just so you know. 714 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I think that's a great pro tip because 715 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:39,440 Speaker 1: I think I also think it's important that people are 716 00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:43,720 Speaker 1: able to whether it's guy or girl, respect boundaries. Yeah, 717 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:47,600 Speaker 1: And clearly that man did not care crap about your boundaries, 718 00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:50,600 Speaker 1: not at all. So you're also learning that about them, 719 00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:52,360 Speaker 1: like can they respect that? Are they okay with it? 720 00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:55,239 Speaker 1: Do they cause a big deal about it? So it 721 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,080 Speaker 1: does help in that scenario too. M M. 722 00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:00,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. I have learned definitely to like set boundaries, and 723 00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 2: like in the past, I have not been treated that 724 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:04,800 Speaker 2: well with guys. You know, they they have not treated 725 00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,400 Speaker 2: me with respect, They've talked down to me. And so 726 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:09,200 Speaker 2: like the current guy I'm dating, I think it was 727 00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:11,480 Speaker 2: like the second date, I was like, look like, I 728 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,040 Speaker 2: know what I deserve and I know what I'm worth 729 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:14,960 Speaker 2: and if you cannot do that, if you can't be 730 00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,160 Speaker 2: that for me, this is not going to work. Like 731 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:18,040 Speaker 2: I just said that. 732 00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:18,720 Speaker 1: I'm so proud. 733 00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 2: I know and I never do that. But I was like, 734 00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:23,640 Speaker 2: I have to change my ways and let them know 735 00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:27,120 Speaker 2: because I have never communicated that that I deserve respect 736 00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,520 Speaker 2: and I know I do. Yeah, you do, And like 737 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:31,719 Speaker 2: he took that and was like, Okay, then I'm going 738 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:33,960 Speaker 2: to give you what you deserve. He wasn't scared of that, 739 00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:35,680 Speaker 2: and I think the wrong guy is going to be 740 00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 2: scared of that. 741 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:39,719 Speaker 1: The wrong person is always going to be afraid of 742 00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:42,160 Speaker 1: your boundaries. They're always going to be afraid of the 743 00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:44,880 Speaker 1: things that you have as non negotiables. The right person 744 00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 1: is going to work through things with you, or going 745 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:48,960 Speaker 1: to be willing to work through things. 746 00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:52,960 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, so yeah, I've I'm learning a lot and 747 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:55,440 Speaker 2: trying to be abroad that you get to golf that 748 00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:56,040 Speaker 2: thank you. 749 00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:59,400 Speaker 1: I know, I think I'm very proud of you. I'm 750 00:32:59,440 --> 00:32:59,880 Speaker 1: very proud. 751 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:02,160 Speaker 2: Thanks. So yeah, don't be scared to voice yeah, but 752 00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 2: you believe in and what you need in your boundaries, 753 00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 2: because the right person will respect them and follow them. 754 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,480 Speaker 1: I love that it's a good place for us to end. 755 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:13,400 Speaker 1: I look at you, a little wise owl. 756 00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:15,160 Speaker 2: Look at me. I can finally give good advice that 757 00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:16,280 Speaker 2: I'm actually doing too. 758 00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:19,760 Speaker 1: Hey, that is the life lesson of all that can 759 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:23,360 Speaker 1: you take? I can't. Okay, Abby, thanks for joining me. 760 00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:24,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you. 761 00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,360 Speaker 1: Tell people where they can find you on social media. 762 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,600 Speaker 2: On Instagram, I'm Abby Lee Anderson l E I g H. 763 00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:32,200 Speaker 2: And then on Twitter or is it X now? I 764 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:33,040 Speaker 2: guess what is it? 765 00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:33,760 Speaker 1: I don't know. 766 00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:36,320 Speaker 2: I'm singing, Abby, never letting it go. 767 00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,880 Speaker 1: There you are, I'm at web Girl Morgan on all 768 00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:44,120 Speaker 1: the Things and uh the show at Bobby Bone Show. 769 00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:46,240 Speaker 1: We got a lot of fun content from radiothon up 770 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:50,160 Speaker 1: and our driving tests that happen, our twelve days of 771 00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:52,600 Speaker 1: Bobby Bone Show Christmas, just good videos. So go check 772 00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:53,200 Speaker 1: all those out. 773 00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:58,680 Speaker 2: Okay, and Happy New Year. Dang twenty still weird? 774 00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:00,920 Speaker 1: It really does like Okay, So go watch all the 775 00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:03,320 Speaker 1: twenty twenty three content before we all focus on twenty 776 00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:05,560 Speaker 1: twenty four because it's about to happen. Now. Bell is 777 00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:11,040 Speaker 1: ringing in just several hours, but it's coming. 778 00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:12,920 Speaker 2: Okay, It's gonna be our best year yet. 779 00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:15,960 Speaker 1: Our best year yet. Yes, it is abby and it's 780 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 1: gonna be all of y'all's best year yet. Thank you, guys, 781 00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:21,080 Speaker 1: like a million times over for an amazing year for 782 00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,360 Speaker 1: twenty twenty three. For the show. We love all of 783 00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:25,920 Speaker 1: you guys. You guys are amazing. We appreciate what you 784 00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:26,359 Speaker 1: do for us. 785 00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:26,960 Speaker 2: I know we do. 786 00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:29,360 Speaker 1: Just thank you. We couldn't do it without you. 787 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:30,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, love ya. 788 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:34,160 Speaker 1: Okay bye everybody, Happy Happy New Year. 789 00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:37,080 Speaker 2: That's the best bits of the week with Morgan. 790 00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:38,240 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. 791 00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,720 Speaker 3: Be sure to check out the other two parts this weekend. 792 00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:44,040 Speaker 1: Go follow the show on all social platforms. 793 00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:44,960 Speaker 2: Show and followed 794 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:47,640 Speaker 1: Web Girl Morgan to submit your listener questions for next 795 00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:48,440 Speaker 1: week's episode.