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Fread shows on high Kala Hi, Jason Brown, 16 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 1: Hikki Bella, I mean is here on the phone and 17 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: the tech she hit us up by time eight five 18 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:04,680 Speaker 1: to five, five, nine, one three, Five biggest stories of 19 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: the day in blogs this hour, the entertainment Reports coming 20 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 1: up to What's in their caves? 21 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 3: Shannon Sharp apologizing to Nicki Minaj, you won't believe the 22 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 3: new cast of the Traders that reality show? 23 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 2: And did he ask for another mistrial? 24 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: Waiting by the phone this morning? Why did somebody get ghosted? 25 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 1: Fifty oney twelve wins sixty eight losses showed this Shelley. 26 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: People are missing the juvenile intro. Hey, I don't know. 27 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 1: We may have to incorporate that into something else. People 28 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 1: are missing their pop it, spin it mounted do it, 29 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 1: you know, whatever, all the different. 30 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 2: Things we can always pop it and spin it. 31 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 1: Wow, people want more popping and spinning. I guess Kiki's 32 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 1: court this morning, bout I'm bum girl. 33 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 2: You need a DNA test? 34 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: Oh wow? Okay, morey okay, let's do headlines. Biggest stories 35 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 1: of the day just a second, Maybe a morality Monday 36 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: on a Monday for once. I don't know. I don't know. 37 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: I'm feeling like doing a morality Monday on a Monday, right, 38 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 1: the biggest stories of the day. This is news but 39 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 1: Fox love in la Errol reporter, a dude named Stu 40 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: Mundell was caught, I guess on the air talking about 41 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: his marriage or lack thereof. This was during the No 42 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 1: King's protest coverage, but instead it's him talking about I 43 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: guess that things aren't going so well at home and 44 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: this was all on TV. Apparently. I hate it when 45 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 1: that happens. It's terrible, hear. 46 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 4: The answer is, yes, you know what, I don't care. 47 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 4: I don't care about my I I am married. I 48 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 4: am I am legally married. I am legally married. That's 49 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 4: not the only way you can really say it. I 50 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 4: am legally married. 51 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 5: But I am not looking at now at all. I 52 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:04,640 Speaker 5: uh just had a bunch of debacles with my personal life. Yes, 53 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 5: it's true. I know it's hard to believe somebody that 54 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 5: doesn't even know what he's talking about in a relationship. 55 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 1: And you know, yeah this is on TV. 56 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 5: But yeah, I got nothing right now, got nothing, got nothing, 57 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 5: not really looking, uh you know, trying to trying to 58 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 5: find myself and be happy. I'm being serious about that. 59 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 1: So I don't know if this is like a stream 60 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 1: and he didn't realize that, like you could watch this. 61 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 5: I want to behold I want to be beholden to 62 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 5: no one. 63 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: At this he's still going I mean sad. 64 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 5: Lonely, of course, But I got cats. 65 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 1: He's got cats, he said cat. Yeah, anyway, So I'm 66 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: thinking this was some kind of stream because if it 67 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 1: were on the actual television, I feel like somebody, a 68 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 1: director or somebody would have been like, Okay, we get 69 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 1: got that, or maybe maybe we just roll with it. 70 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: Maybe we stick with it, you know, so that we 71 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: go viral. I'm not sure. But you know, poor guy, 72 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: he's legally married. Is this stew but he's you know, 73 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 1: I guess things aren't going well legally married. But he's 74 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: not looking in cause you're wondering. I think a lot 75 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 1: of people have been asking. 76 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 2: He wants to be beholden to no one? 77 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: Which I like that. I I I like that too. 78 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:24,720 Speaker 1: So anyway, that's my list of little sound clips today. 79 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 1: I want to be beholden to no one, says helicopter 80 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 1: reporter man. The Oklahoma City Thunder defeated the Indiana Pacers 81 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 1: to tie the NBA Finals at two games apiece, and 82 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 1: in the Stanley Cup Finals, the Panthers run the verge 83 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:38,159 Speaker 1: of a repeat after blowing out the Oilers in game five. 84 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 1: If you were offended by this, and nothing surprises me anymore, 85 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: the level of the very low bar, I think it 86 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 1: takes to offend most people these days. I think we 87 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 1: need to be a little tougher. Like as a society, 88 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:53,160 Speaker 1: I think we need to be a little tougher because 89 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 1: United Airlines passengers were shocked, according to the headline, by 90 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 1: a looting message that greeted them on every inflight video 91 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:04,479 Speaker 1: screen on the plane. When they recently got on a 92 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 1: plane to Chicago, they were greeted with a loud message 93 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 1: that said, welcome aboard flight, Bite me one to Chicago. 94 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 2: WHOA, Now that's silly. 95 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 1: I mean I would laugh first of all, but bite 96 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 1: me one like that hurts your feelings. Really, it could 97 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 1: be so much worse. It could be a dude in 98 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 1: the helicopter trying to cover a protest, but instead of 99 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:33,479 Speaker 1: talking about his personal life. Okay, it was displayed on 100 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:36,359 Speaker 1: every single screen. How the message came to appear remains 101 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 1: a bit of a mystery, although some experts say that 102 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 1: it could be traced to how the inflight entertainment system 103 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 1: is set up. Some systems require a member of the 104 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:46,480 Speaker 1: groundstaff or a flight attendant to manually input the flight 105 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 1: number as well as the destination and origin. Others pulled 106 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 1: the information from the flight information system in the cockpit. 107 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 1: It could be that an engineer was carrying out some 108 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 1: maintenance and was testing it and type that in. I 109 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 1: don't really know. Oh, it was a joke, but apparently 110 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:04,920 Speaker 1: people are very upset and they want, you know, I 111 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:08,719 Speaker 1: don't know, free flights and psychological treatment and you know, 112 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 1: councils are standing by. I have no idea of all 113 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 1: the things that are happening on planes these days. I 114 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 1: feel like that's the least of my concerns. If I 115 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 1: got honest says, you know, bite me, he's going to Chicago, 116 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 1: I'd be like, yeah, exciting. 117 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 2: On planes and on land. 118 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, right. Sure. They've listed the ten American cities with 119 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 1: the worst commutes. However, they're saying that the average commute 120 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:33,719 Speaker 1: time in the US is only twenty six minutes, and 121 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:36,359 Speaker 1: some of these commute times are listing for the longest commutes. 122 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 1: I don't really buy. For example, and let me see 123 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: the twenty twenty three Census Bureau data is how they 124 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:45,360 Speaker 1: came up with this New York City forty minute commute, 125 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:49,279 Speaker 1: Chicago thirty three minute commute. I feel like there are 126 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: people listening now going thirty three right. I wish that's 127 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 1: that one little stretch from where you can go to 128 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 1: Milwaukee to the city. That's where everything's closed and it's 129 00:06:57,920 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 1: reversed and flippant reverse it England. Yeah, like missy Elliott, 130 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 1: I can see it, but I'm nowhere near it. Kind 131 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:07,919 Speaker 1: of thing. That's I think. That's no. Thirty one minutes 132 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 1: in LA thirty one in Philly, thirty in San Francisco, 133 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 1: thirty in Long Beach, thirty in Washington, d C. Thirty 134 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 1: in Boston, thirty in Oakland, twenty eight in Baltimore. If 135 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: you want the shortest commute, moved to Tulsa nineteen minutes, 136 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 1: which a time my favorite place. Nineteen minutes Omaha, twenty, Memphis, twenty, Minneapolis, Columbus, Ohio, 137 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 1: Kansas City, Oklahoma City, two Sun of Milwaukee, all around, 138 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: somewhere between twenty and twenty two minutes. Thirty three minutes 139 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: in Chicago is the average. 140 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 6: Yeah, at four am when I'm driving and there's not 141 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 6: another car, Yeah, in the expressway. 142 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 1: But yeah, no, I don't know about it all times. Yeah, 143 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: I don't think so. Visitors, I'm offended by this. This 144 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 1: is extremely hurtful to me, and I'm I need psychological 145 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 1: help in general, but also for this specifically. Visitors at 146 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 1: King's Island amusement park in Mason, Ohio. We're told to 147 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 1: keep their mouths closed on the rock all weekend to 148 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 1: avoid swallowing a cicada, because I guess they're flat around 149 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: so much that if you open your mouth on a ride, 150 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 1: you were going to suck these things. In Ohio has 151 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 1: seen the brood fourteen cicadas hatch a little bit later 152 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 1: this year, and they're everywhere, including this amusement parks. So 153 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 1: visitors have been told to enjoy the rides, but for 154 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 1: the next few weeks should probably keep their mouths closed 155 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 1: well on them. 156 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 2: No, I'm not enjoy no, right, okay? 157 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. And in sad news, guys, Father's Day was the 158 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 1: day that marked the end for a man known as 159 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 1: the Sperminator oh who is fathered one hundred and seventy 160 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:39,680 Speaker 1: six children. He announced his retirement from babymaking on Father's 161 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 1: Day yesterday. The guy's name is Ari Nagel, and he 162 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 1: said that it's time for women to start finding somebody else, 163 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 1: somebody younger to impregnate them. His mission is almost he's 164 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 1: turning fifty in August. I know you were dreaming. I've 165 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 1: been trying to get you and Ari together for some time. 166 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 1: Now and it hasn't worked as scheduling wise, Yeah, but 167 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 1: he said that it's healthier, better to be safe than 168 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 1: sorry for women to find a younger guy to do this. 169 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 1: He's been donating for seventeen years now and he has 170 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 1: one hundred and seventy six children cost a cost of course, 171 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 1: across twenty states, ten countries, and five continents. He has 172 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:16,320 Speaker 1: five more children who were due this year, but he's 173 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 1: done so limited edition. These are these kids are all 174 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 1: numbered and we're done with this at the end of 175 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:21,960 Speaker 1: the year. 176 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 2: Good effort. 177 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 1: His main draw has been that he's never charged a 178 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:28,679 Speaker 1: woman for his donations. What a guy, allowing them to 179 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 1: avoid thousands of dollars in sperm bank costs. He said 180 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 1: that his legacy will never be about fameer money, but 181 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 1: above family. What a guy. What a guy? I know? 182 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 1: And I wonder if he's one of these guys. It's 183 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:43,200 Speaker 1: like it has to be the natural method, you know 184 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, oh, do it if it's a 185 00:09:44,559 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 1: natural you know what I mean? Like, I truly hope 186 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 1: one of these guys. I've seen these guys on Craigslist before. 187 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 1: Oh you were looking Yeah, well, I mean I'm always 188 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 1: looking for new business opportunities. I was looking to say 189 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: what I sounded like an interesting sid hussle. You know, Okay, 190 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:00,319 Speaker 1: I was the one who posted it. But whatever, it 191 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:03,840 Speaker 1: doesn't matter here in National Fudge Day Today, the Entertainment 192 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:08,079 Speaker 1: Report will do it next Callin's Entertainment Report. He's on 193 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 1: the Freas Show. 194 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:12,439 Speaker 3: Kanye West showed up to Ditty's trial Friday morning. You 195 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 3: may have seen video of him wapping up Ditty's Sun 196 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 3: Christian on the way into the courtroom. However, he left 197 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 3: the trial after only ten minutes, even though court officials 198 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 3: open up a whole overflow room just for him to watch. 199 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 3: That's when there's like too many people in the courtroom 200 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 3: and you can see from other areas. As for the 201 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 3: latest with the trial, Ditty's legal team has once again 202 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 3: filed an emergency motion for a mistrial, arguing that prosecutors 203 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 3: unfairly pushed out one of the very few black jurors 204 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 3: by questioning his residency. The motion revolves around Jury number six, 205 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 3: a man whose living situation is shuttling between Jersey and 206 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 3: the Bronx, became a trigger for the prosecution accusing him 207 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:52,680 Speaker 3: of not being truthful. But Ditty's lawyers claim the move 208 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 3: reveals a deeper strategy to reduce. 209 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 2: Diversity on the jury. 210 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 3: The judge is set to decide by the end of 211 00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 3: this week whether to replace that and whether a. 212 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 2: Mistrial is necessary. 213 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:08,720 Speaker 3: Donna Kelsey is the mother of Travis and Jason Kelcey, 214 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 3: and she's also going to be a contestant on the 215 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 3: next season of The Traders, which that I did not 216 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 3: have on my bingo card. The series follows RealD A 217 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 3: TV stars from things like The Real Housewives, Survivor, Love 218 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 3: Island and other reality shows. I think Tom Sandival from 219 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:29,439 Speaker 3: vander Pump was on there. And it's a competition based 220 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 3: sort of mind game. They film at a castle in Scotland, 221 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 3: Alan Cummings as the host. 222 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:35,959 Speaker 2: They won a cash prize. 223 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 3: But I just I don't know, like she seems like 224 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:39,720 Speaker 3: someone who doesn't want to be famous and she's just 225 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 3: like a Midwest mom. 226 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm just very surprised to see her 227 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 2: on the cast. 228 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:46,720 Speaker 3: She will be competing with people like Lisa Rinna Colton 229 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 3: Underwood from The Bachelor, to Orinda Medley from the Housewives. 230 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:53,640 Speaker 3: I'm trying to look at other people other names we know. 231 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 3: Michael Rappaport, randomly Portia Williams from the Real Housewives, Stephen 232 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 3: Colletti from Laguna. Like Donna Kelsey and Stephen Colletti are 233 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 3: competing for a cash prize, Steve. 234 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 1: Was able to get that much time off at Target 235 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 1: it did you still have that pickup truck? I wonder 236 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:13,840 Speaker 1: still driving the pickup truck? 237 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:14,319 Speaker 2: I hope. 238 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 1: So he was like he was like so poor compared 239 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:18,680 Speaker 1: to the rest of them because he, you know, he 240 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 1: just had a pickup truck. He lived like outside of 241 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 1: the gates. He us the. 242 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 2: Hot Oh yeah, so hot. 243 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 3: So you can watch him on the Traders and I 244 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 3: have heard amazing things. I don't watch it, but I'm 245 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 3: gonna start. I think I have to see Donna Kelsey 246 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 3: and Stephen Colletti. 247 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 2: And lastly, Shannon Sharp has. 248 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 3: Apologized to Nicki Minaj after the rapper dissed him on 249 00:12:39,800 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 3: the Low Wayne track Band from n O Remix. 250 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 2: In the song she raps about to copy slides. 251 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 3: All you do is flip flop if I send you 252 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 3: a pickup Shannon, you ain't that sharp. And I think 253 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 3: the line is in response to Shannon saying Nikki who 254 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:55,320 Speaker 3: when a fan asked him to get her on his 255 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:58,439 Speaker 3: podcast on social media, Shannon says he was actually talking 256 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:01,320 Speaker 3: about politician Nicki Hayley when it came to his Nicki 257 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 3: Who comment, and he said that Nicki Minaj has an 258 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:07,320 Speaker 3: open invite to his club Shay Shay podcast or a 259 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 3: private conversation anytime she wants, which makes me laugh. You're 260 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:14,320 Speaker 3: open to a private conversation with me if you want, Nicki. 261 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:17,679 Speaker 2: But yeah, so that's your news. 262 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 3: By the way, if you missed any part of our show, 263 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 3: to take the Freend Show on demand and said, this 264 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 3: is a preset on our free iHeartRadio app. 265 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 1: All right, we have time morality Monday on a Monday 266 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 1: for once, which we still might do Morality Monday on 267 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:31,439 Speaker 1: a Thursday. It just depends. It really depends on my mood, 268 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 1: you know, completely entirely. Oh by the way, my take. 269 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:37,920 Speaker 1: No one asked, But I just want to say on 270 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 1: the record, while I'm thinking about you're speaking of you know, 271 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 1: court cases and Diddy. By the end of the day, 272 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:45,679 Speaker 1: Karen Reid innocent, That's what I say. That's way, that's 273 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:47,880 Speaker 1: what I believe. I believe by the end of today 274 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 1: she is found innocent, not guilty. How could this take 275 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:54,839 Speaker 1: any longer than that. They went. They gave it to 276 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 1: the jury on Friday afternoon. We should be done by today. 277 00:13:57,679 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 2: Oh they're deliberate. 278 00:13:58,720 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 1: Now, they're deliberating right now. Yeah, this is done. This 279 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:02,240 Speaker 1: is she didn't do it. 280 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 2: She did not do it. Girl, but she didn't do it. 281 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:08,720 Speaker 1: I don't see it, and I'm watching TikTok and people 282 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 1: are like, she absolutely did it. I'm like, did we 283 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 1: watch the same trial, Like there's I don't understand, Like there, 284 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:18,680 Speaker 1: I don't there's not one piece of it. There's not 285 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 1: I don't know there. I mean, I can't even go 286 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 1: through it all. But there's nothing. It doesn't add up. 287 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 1: I don't think she did it. 288 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 3: It also just even like let's say she did, which 289 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 3: I don't believe she did. It's just not a fair trial. 290 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 3: It's not a fair collection of evidence. It's not a 291 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 3: fair situation. Unfortunately, they messed it up from the beginning. 292 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, if a crime happens in my house and I 293 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 1: sell the house, burn the house down, replace everything inside 294 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 1: that my dog, rip the floors out, get rid of 295 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:48,840 Speaker 1: my dog, move to a different city, you know, different 296 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 1: if you know whatever, like detonate the house. If I 297 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 1: do all that, and then I'm like, I don't know, 298 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 1: I don't know what happened. Why would I do all that? 299 00:14:57,320 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 1: If I if I really don't know what happened, I 300 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 1: had nothing to do with it, Why would I do 301 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:00,880 Speaker 1: all that? 302 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 7: Now? 303 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 2: What was the reason? 304 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 1: That's what I mean anyway, So morality Monday number one. 305 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 1: I think by the end of the day, and if 306 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 1: it takes it, if it takes much longer than I'm 307 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 1: worried it's bad because that means they're all sitting around 308 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 1: really going over this stuff one by one, item by item. 309 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 1: But I don't know. I was a little surprised they 310 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 1: didn't just go in there for an hour and be 311 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 1: like because in the last one I think it was 312 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 1: I think it was like everybody but maybe one person 313 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 1: thought that she was innocent, right. 314 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:26,480 Speaker 3: And you'd hate to be the person who like, Okay, 315 00:15:26,520 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 3: I either got to change my opinion, you know what 316 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 3: I mean, because we're all exhausted, right see, you know 317 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 3: you don't want to. 318 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 2: I mean, like that scares me. 319 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:37,040 Speaker 1: Would hate you. You know, they've been this has taken 320 00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 1: so long, and then there's you know, and you got 321 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:41,600 Speaker 1: to stand up for what you believe, right, I mean, 322 00:15:41,640 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 1: it is someone's life we're talking about here. So if 323 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:45,840 Speaker 1: you believe that, if you somehow believe she did it 324 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 1: and or is it that she didn't do it, and 325 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: everyone else believes she did it, and you're the reason 326 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 1: that something you know does or doesn't happen, you can't 327 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 1: just say I want to go home, so whatever. Okay, fine, 328 00:15:57,160 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 1: but I think that happens. Sometimes we're like other jurors, like, 329 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 1: you know, upset because I would look everyone else that 330 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:06,440 Speaker 1: grew what did you watch? It would be like me 331 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 1: if I was in the jury room and someone's like, yeah, 332 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 1: she did it? Are you were you watching Netflix or 333 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 1: something during this thing? Because like everything I saw it 334 00:16:14,440 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 1: is there's no possible way. Okay. So here's our morality Monday. 335 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 1: And this is from our friends that reddit. Am I 336 00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 1: the a whole eight five five five nine one one 337 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 1: oh three five you can call it. Text the same number. 338 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 1: My wife, who's twenty nine and I, he's a thirty 339 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:29,160 Speaker 1: one year old male, have a three year old son. 340 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 1: I think some people can relate to this. I worked 341 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 1: ten to twelve hour days as a contractor while she 342 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 1: stays home. Lately, she's been ventcing online into friends, saying 343 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 1: that she feels like a single mom because I'm never around. 344 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:44,600 Speaker 1: This is from the perspective of the I'm the guy 345 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 1: who works all the time. I get this, she's overwhelmed. 346 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 1: I am too, but I'm working my butt off to 347 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 1: keep us afloat. The other night, I heard her refer 348 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 1: to herself as a solo parent during a zoom call 349 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 1: with her mom. After she hung up, I told her 350 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 1: that I didn't appreciate that. I'm not partying, I'm not 351 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 1: neglecting our family. I'm working. She said I'm being defensive 352 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:07,639 Speaker 1: and that she feels like a single mom because she 353 00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 1: handles everything alone at home. Now I feel guilty. I 354 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:14,119 Speaker 1: don't want to invalidate her, but I also feel like 355 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:17,080 Speaker 1: she's ignoring everything I do. Am I the a hole 356 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:21,400 Speaker 1: for calling her out? I mean, she's not a single mom. No, 357 00:17:22,240 --> 00:17:24,919 Speaker 1: And if it requires ten to twelve hours a day 358 00:17:24,920 --> 00:17:27,919 Speaker 1: of this man working to provide their lifestyle, then it 359 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:31,679 Speaker 1: sounds like they're both doing jobs right. He's doing his 360 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:33,960 Speaker 1: job to make money. She's doing her job, which is 361 00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 1: a job to raise the kids. But I hear this 362 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 1: argument sometimes when one person's at home and the other 363 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:42,400 Speaker 1: person's at work, and that's a decision that was made 364 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 1: within the relationship that this is how we're going to 365 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 1: do this. And I hear this sometimes like oh, it 366 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 1: must be nice, and I think that you can. I 367 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't think one side always sees the 368 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 1: other side, you know, because it's like my buddies that 369 00:17:54,800 --> 00:17:57,200 Speaker 1: travel a live pilot buddies. Right, they're gone for you know, 370 00:17:57,280 --> 00:17:59,199 Speaker 1: a week at a time. They've always been this for 371 00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:01,479 Speaker 1: thirty years, right, It's been this way forever, and then 372 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 1: they come back and it's like, it must have been 373 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 1: nice to be in you know, Dubai for a week. 374 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:07,719 Speaker 1: Must have been nice. I was out here making lunches 375 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:09,600 Speaker 1: and driving a soccer practice and it's like, well, first 376 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:14,159 Speaker 1: of all, you know, maybe maybe it was nice in 377 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:16,720 Speaker 1: some regards, but in other regards, like this is my life. 378 00:18:17,080 --> 00:18:21,399 Speaker 1: I got. I got aluminum, platinum, diamond, gold. You know, 379 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:25,760 Speaker 1: I'm the biggest badass status at Hilton because I don't 380 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 1: sleep in my house. Like anytime you see somebody who'd 381 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 1: like when they check in, someone hands them a bottle 382 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:33,960 Speaker 1: of champagne and like kisses their feet. At first, I'm like, well, 383 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:35,680 Speaker 1: they're going to get a really nice room. And then 384 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:37,359 Speaker 1: I'm like, in order to get that, they don't ever 385 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 1: get to go home, right right, So, so my buddies 386 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:41,760 Speaker 1: I talk about this all the time. He's like, you know, 387 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:43,520 Speaker 1: I would much try to be here with my family. 388 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 1: I would much try to be here on my terms. 389 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:48,440 Speaker 1: But I'm here because the boss needs to be here. 390 00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:50,120 Speaker 1: And if the boss calls me right now, it says 391 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:52,200 Speaker 1: we're leaving, we're leaving, which means I'm not at the bar. 392 00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 1: You know, I'm not partying, I'm not on a I'm 393 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 1: not riding a camel you know, or whatever. Like this 394 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:00,680 Speaker 1: is not my vacation. This is work, and I don't 395 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 1: get to choose when or where or how or any 396 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,240 Speaker 1: of it. And so yeah, I guess i'd get to 397 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:07,919 Speaker 1: sleep in a hotel bed and sleep in sometimes and 398 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 1: eat room service. But at the same time, maybe I 399 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:12,320 Speaker 1: would rather be driving to soccer practice. And then on 400 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 1: the flip side, you know, you've got the people going, 401 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:18,719 Speaker 1: you know, on the side of the person who's doing 402 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:20,320 Speaker 1: all that, it's like, well, maybe i'd like the night 403 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:23,240 Speaker 1: out sometimes or the night away, or maybe i'd like 404 00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:26,760 Speaker 1: the exposure to adults. Yes, you know, I'd like to 405 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 1: be able to go to I would like to go 406 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 1: to work for eight ten hours a day. And you know, 407 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 1: I know people who in this case hits the man 408 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 1: who goes to work and the wife keeps a part 409 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:39,719 Speaker 1: time job, and it actually costs them money for her 410 00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:41,399 Speaker 1: to go to work as a flight attendant. I've used 411 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 1: this example before. But they do it anyway because like 412 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:46,679 Speaker 1: for him to stay home, he makes three times what 413 00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:49,080 Speaker 1: she does as a pilot, So for her to go 414 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:51,800 Speaker 1: to work costs money, But they do it anyway because 415 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:54,439 Speaker 1: for her, it's like, this is my independence, this is 416 00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:56,880 Speaker 1: my job, this is part of my identity. I want 417 00:19:56,880 --> 00:19:58,159 Speaker 1: to go on a trip, I want to hang out 418 00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 1: with adults. I want to make a little bit of mone. 419 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 1: He's cool for that, right, Yeah. But I just I 420 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:07,680 Speaker 1: think that this sort of argument fundamentally is based on 421 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:10,840 Speaker 1: one side not seeing the other, or one side wanting 422 00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:12,960 Speaker 1: some elements that the others. I think everybody wants a 423 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:14,960 Speaker 1: little bit of the other thing. But I'm just curious 424 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,200 Speaker 1: for those of you who deal with this. If one 425 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:20,240 Speaker 1: person is primarily raising kids and one person's primarily working, 426 00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 1: do you really think you could say that? Is that 427 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:25,440 Speaker 1: a fair thing to say out loud? Because it makes 428 00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 1: it solo parent kind of implies that the other parent 429 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:31,880 Speaker 1: isn't involved or doesn't care. It's like dead beat. It's 430 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:34,640 Speaker 1: giving dead beat, it is, but it's the exact opposite. 431 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:37,119 Speaker 3: Also, like, if you feel that way, it's it's not 432 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:39,520 Speaker 3: the time to get it out on a zoom call 433 00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:41,959 Speaker 3: when it can just be overheard by your partner. And 434 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,040 Speaker 3: what's sad is I think it takes both people to 435 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:46,280 Speaker 3: make the raising the children work. 436 00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:48,960 Speaker 2: It does, you know, And comparison is the thief of joy. 437 00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 1: So yeah, I just I And if I heard if 438 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 1: this is me and I heard my wife saying this 439 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 1: to her mom, that's even worse because you're telling your 440 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 1: mom that I'm basically about Dad's true. You know, I 441 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 1: don't like to el is it l or ally? 442 00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 7: This l. 443 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 1: How you doing? So this scenario in here, it's like 444 00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 1: you've got the dad working twelve hours a day. In 445 00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:12,679 Speaker 1: this case, you've got the mom at home and the 446 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:15,280 Speaker 1: mom feels like she's a single parent, and the dad's like, hey, 447 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 1: at first he was upset. Now he feels guilty. But 448 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:20,080 Speaker 1: I don't necessarily think that's a fair thing to say 449 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 1: about him, not. 450 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 8: At all as a. 451 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:24,520 Speaker 2: Truly solo parent. 452 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:29,640 Speaker 9: This just makes me so angry. I'm actually shaking because 453 00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 9: she's still like, she's not has to work, she's not 454 00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:37,200 Speaker 9: worried about the bills herself. She's getting support in some way, 455 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:39,440 Speaker 9: shape or form, even though he might not be present. 456 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:43,160 Speaker 9: So it's just it's just not something that you can 457 00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:45,320 Speaker 9: just say like that, because she's just not even realizing 458 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:48,159 Speaker 9: the impact she's getting from having that man in her life. 459 00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:50,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that would trigger me too, because what 460 00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:52,879 Speaker 1: about the people who are in fact solo parents and 461 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:55,639 Speaker 1: it all falls on them. They have to somehow figure 462 00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:57,280 Speaker 1: out a way to pay for the you know, pay 463 00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:59,119 Speaker 1: pay the bills and the mortgage and the rents and 464 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 1: the food and care yet soccer practice and figure out 465 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 1: the logistics of the rest of that. I mean, And 466 00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 1: I'm not minimizing one or the other, but for you, 467 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:08,639 Speaker 1: you have to figure out both. 468 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:12,399 Speaker 9: Yeah, and not to minimize it either, because she still 469 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:14,400 Speaker 9: has to step up in ways that maybe she didn't 470 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:17,119 Speaker 9: anticipate when they originally decided to have a child. But 471 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 9: I mean, I remember when I just had a three 472 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:21,240 Speaker 9: month old and I couldn't even just go to the bathroom. 473 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:23,880 Speaker 9: I couldn't just go down the street and get a coffee, 474 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 9: like there's just so much you don't realize that actually 475 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 9: happens when you are a truly solo parent. 476 00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:30,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, thank you so much. 477 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:33,399 Speaker 8: He's definitely the a hole in this one. 478 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:37,359 Speaker 1: Okay, A fair enough. I'll let her know. Thanks anyway, guys, 479 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,919 Speaker 1: love your show. Thank you, love you too. Yeah. 480 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 10: I mean it's a good point that you've made though, too, 481 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 10: where it's like you look at one side, look at 482 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:45,160 Speaker 10: the other side right like you got it better. 483 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:46,200 Speaker 2: I know you got it better, but. 484 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 10: I think it's also like for my personal experience, from 485 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:50,640 Speaker 10: my experience, I feel like I'm looking at it that 486 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,080 Speaker 10: what does his husband do when he comes home? Is 487 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 10: he playing video games? Is he disassociating from his family. 488 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,240 Speaker 10: I know that the ten to twelve hour shifts are long, 489 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,080 Speaker 10: and they're lengthy and hard. I feel like they can 490 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:04,200 Speaker 10: at least come home right, play with the kids, make dinner, 491 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:06,720 Speaker 10: like help out, because I think then that would take 492 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 10: less off of the mom who is home all day 493 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 10: with the kids. 494 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean? 495 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 1: But let me Okay, So there's a question. I don't 496 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:14,520 Speaker 1: know the answer. I'm asking like an open ended question, 497 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:17,200 Speaker 1: but is it fair for someone who worked ten hours 498 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:19,360 Speaker 1: a day to then come home and take an hour 499 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:22,480 Speaker 1: to decompress. Yeah, because because what I think. I think 500 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:26,119 Speaker 1: sometimes it's it's like, yeah, you, yes, you were at 501 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 1: home with the kids all day, But then am I 502 00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 1: expected And I don't know the answer, but am I 503 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:32,679 Speaker 1: expected to just after my ten hour day walk in 504 00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:35,320 Speaker 1: and then just take over the parenting role and then 505 00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:37,919 Speaker 1: you get a break? I don't know the answer to that, 506 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 1: But like I think, sometimes there's not a respect for 507 00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:42,160 Speaker 1: what the other one's doing. It's like I just went 508 00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:44,600 Speaker 1: to work. I just sat in traffic for an hour. Yeah, 509 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:46,960 Speaker 1: I just had spit up on me all day and 510 00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:50,600 Speaker 1: watched Miss Rachel for the thirty seven times me, you 511 00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 1: know what I mean. So it's like, I don't know, 512 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 1: I've heard that one before where that guy comes home 513 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:56,720 Speaker 1: he sorted he wants to go to bed. And it's 514 00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:58,280 Speaker 1: not that I don't know that he's a bad guy 515 00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:01,200 Speaker 1: or a bad girl or whatever, but like you're only 516 00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:02,399 Speaker 1: capable of so much. 517 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 10: Yeah, communicate, I think at a community with a partner, 518 00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 10: how are you feeling this moment ry. I just walked 519 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:08,439 Speaker 10: in the house, like, give me, you know, thirty minutes 520 00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:09,280 Speaker 10: and then I think just. 521 00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:10,639 Speaker 2: You got to work it out. It's hard, but you 522 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 2: got to balance it someway. 523 00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:16,679 Speaker 1: Melissa. Yeah, good morning, day, Melissa, good morning, Welcome. What 524 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:18,399 Speaker 1: do you think so? 525 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:21,160 Speaker 7: I think the dad here is definitely not the a hole. 526 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 7: She just needs to reorganize her thinking to be able 527 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 7: to include him or incorporate him with more parental responsibilities. 528 00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:33,480 Speaker 7: Like you said, they're both performing a job here. His 529 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 7: is the financial income, the financial stability, the security there. 530 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,439 Speaker 7: She is providing the parenting here, whether she wants it 531 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 7: or not. If that's something that she kind of and 532 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 7: formally agreed to that that's just the way it is. 533 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:52,280 Speaker 7: If she's not reporting somewhere to go to and provide 534 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 7: the same way he does, then she's not the solo 535 00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:58,280 Speaker 7: parent here. She's just they're just providing different job aspects 536 00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 7: of the family, the being at home, that being the 537 00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 7: parent like the absent or the present parent. She's just 538 00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:10,160 Speaker 7: the main go to right now for him physically, but 539 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 7: the dad is definitely there to provide for them. 540 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, Melissa, thank you, have a good day, absolutely, because 541 00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes people would switch roles even like 542 00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 1: I know, I'll tell you what you think. It's so 543 00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:23,320 Speaker 1: great you know, doing this and the other you think 544 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 1: it's so great, you know, going to work and dealing 545 00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:28,600 Speaker 1: with these idiots, Like how about I stay home and 546 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:30,320 Speaker 1: I'll take care of my kids, because you know, I 547 00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,159 Speaker 1: think the other thing that's sort of negated here is 548 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 1: like maybe he loves I'm sure he loves his kids too, 549 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 1: and I'm sure he would rather be at soccer practice 550 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:39,880 Speaker 1: or being the coach, or going to the games, or 551 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:42,399 Speaker 1: or feeding the kids or whatever. I'm sure there's bonding 552 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:45,240 Speaker 1: time that he's missing, right, So it probably has moments 553 00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:47,200 Speaker 1: where it's like, Okay, cool kids crying, I got to 554 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:48,679 Speaker 1: go to work by you deal with it. But then 555 00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:50,320 Speaker 1: I'm sure it also has moments where it's like, man, 556 00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:52,880 Speaker 1: I can't believe I'm missing that. But if he were there, 557 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,080 Speaker 1: then who's making the money to pay the bills? In 558 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 1: this case, you know you can you could flip it 559 00:25:57,800 --> 00:25:59,199 Speaker 1: and it could be the other way around. It's like 560 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:04,920 Speaker 1: the grass is always I feel like Ashley hi O 561 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 1: in this scenario, if you're just tuning in, there's a 562 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:15,240 Speaker 1: woman and this is from the male perspective, but he 563 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:18,199 Speaker 1: heard his wife saying that she is a solo parent 564 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 1: because he works ten to twelve hours a day and 565 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:23,439 Speaker 1: she's telling people this, like her mom and friends, and 566 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,159 Speaker 1: he's offended, and then he sort of vacillates on Well, 567 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,320 Speaker 1: so I feel bad for saying something to her or not, 568 00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:30,280 Speaker 1: But this is the agreement that we came up with. 569 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:33,359 Speaker 1: I work in a traditional setting. I pay the bills 570 00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:35,359 Speaker 1: and you take care of the kids. That doesn't make 571 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:37,359 Speaker 1: you a solo parent. What do you think? 572 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:42,720 Speaker 11: No, she is absolutely wrong saying that she's a solo parent. 573 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:44,480 Speaker 1: I think is just really hurtful. 574 00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:46,560 Speaker 2: I have a two year old. 575 00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 11: And a baby on the way in three weeks, and 576 00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:53,920 Speaker 11: my husband has a traveling job and his travel is sporadic. 577 00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 11: He can up and go and I only have a 578 00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 11: week or a couple of weeks notice, and sometimes he's gone, 579 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 11: you know what seems like half a month, and sometimes 580 00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:03,560 Speaker 11: it's less. 581 00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:04,879 Speaker 7: By no means am. 582 00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 11: I a solo parent at all. It is very hard, 583 00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 11: especially with two small kids. But we had a conversation, 584 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:17,200 Speaker 11: and I knew his work before we made these decisions, 585 00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:22,640 Speaker 11: and we have to continue to have conversations about, hey, 586 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:26,280 Speaker 11: is do we need to make a change, And I 587 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:27,880 Speaker 11: know job changes and things like that. 588 00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:29,480 Speaker 2: They're not easy at all. 589 00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:33,960 Speaker 11: But is it do I need to go part time? 590 00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:36,280 Speaker 11: Do we want does he want to be home or 591 00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,479 Speaker 11: do we need to make a change there or do 592 00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 11: we need to make a lifestyle change, you know with 593 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:45,440 Speaker 11: you know home or otherwise, And those are big changes 594 00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 11: and really tough decisions. But if it's bothering her that much, 595 00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:55,119 Speaker 11: it's definitely a conversation. Because she's not a solo parent 596 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:55,600 Speaker 11: at all. 597 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:56,800 Speaker 2: I will say that. 598 00:27:56,800 --> 00:28:00,560 Speaker 11: Like, oh I'm I'm I'm solo this week. My husband's 599 00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:03,120 Speaker 11: gone and we have a village that helps me out. 600 00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 11: So it's just you got to talk about options. There 601 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:10,040 Speaker 11: was ways to work things out. I'm with her, it's 602 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:15,080 Speaker 11: not easy, especially with two kids. Yeah, being super pregnant, 603 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,880 Speaker 11: but by no means in my solo mom. And that's 604 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 11: really hurtful to say about her husband. 605 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:27,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you for sharing. Congratulations by the way on 606 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,480 Speaker 1: the new one. In a couple of weeks making more 607 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:34,480 Speaker 1: listeners we got to get you know, My understanding is 608 00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:36,200 Speaker 1: as soon as that baby's boy, is it boy or 609 00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 1: girl girl? This time apparently Jessica listener number eleven is 610 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:45,320 Speaker 1: moving to like microneese or something, and like in the jungle, 611 00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 1: there's no I don't know if there's a jungle there, 612 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:48,600 Speaker 1: but I'm understanding it's some form of jungle and there's 613 00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 1: no internet, so we lost her, so the baby just 614 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:52,680 Speaker 1: so we'll never be more than thirteen. So don't even 615 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 1: try and get greedy. 616 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,120 Speaker 7: Okay, Okay, you're gonna start. 617 00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,200 Speaker 12: We'll let you guys start the whole Matt leave. 618 00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 1: I like it. Thank you, have a good Ashley. 619 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 7: Thank you. 620 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:01,960 Speaker 13: Yeah. 621 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:03,640 Speaker 1: We keep adding cities and we only have the same 622 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:07,920 Speaker 1: number of listeners. Hey, Linda, good morning. Where are you 623 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:10,400 Speaker 1: Hi doing great? Thanks for calling, Thanks for listening. So 624 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you the final say here. And someone 625 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,680 Speaker 1: brought up military families too, by the way, which I 626 00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,400 Speaker 1: mean there's one. It's like, have people gone for you know, 627 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:21,600 Speaker 1: Shelley's husband gone for two three months at a time, 628 00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:24,560 Speaker 1: longer years at a time, sometimes depending on what's going on. 629 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:26,960 Speaker 1: And does that make that person any any less of 630 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:29,600 Speaker 1: a parent? I would I would argue, No, they're they're 631 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 1: they're doing what they gotta do. What do you think, right, Well, 632 00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:34,160 Speaker 1: I think. 633 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:37,120 Speaker 14: The hardest part of this, this whole argument, is that 634 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 14: the role of motherhood is always somehow less stressful than 635 00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:48,080 Speaker 14: going to work for twelve hours My ex husband was 636 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:51,840 Speaker 14: an air traffic bro one of the most stressful jobs 637 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:54,640 Speaker 14: in the world, as you might know. And you know, 638 00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:56,720 Speaker 14: I'm at home with two kids under two, and all 639 00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:58,760 Speaker 14: i want to do is take a shower. That's all 640 00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:01,040 Speaker 14: I want to do is take a sh and so, 641 00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:03,360 Speaker 14: you know, he comes home from work and yeah, he 642 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:06,480 Speaker 14: wants to unwind, and yeah, you know, he's not really 643 00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:08,960 Speaker 14: interested in two screaming, you know, two year olds. 644 00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,960 Speaker 2: But at the same time, I need you. 645 00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:15,720 Speaker 14: To acknowledge that my job is as important as yours 646 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:18,720 Speaker 14: and I just need to take a shower. And so 647 00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:22,920 Speaker 14: there was always that, there was always that argument of 648 00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:25,480 Speaker 14: whose job is more important, and they both are. 649 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 1: They both are important. 650 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:30,880 Speaker 14: But for me, I felt that as a mother, a 651 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 14: stay at home mother, my job was made less important 652 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 14: because of the importance of his job in the world. 653 00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 14: And so I was just like, you know, can I 654 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,080 Speaker 14: have five minutes him He's like, well, you know, I've 655 00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:45,040 Speaker 14: been busy all day and you know, my brain I 656 00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:48,200 Speaker 14: can't even think. And I'm like I understand that, and 657 00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:50,440 Speaker 14: he's like, well, you've been home all day, you know, 658 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:54,280 Speaker 14: if that's a vacation. So I think in the world 659 00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:58,040 Speaker 14: in general, we need to give mothers credit for how 660 00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:01,360 Speaker 14: hard it is to be a mom full time, and 661 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:04,080 Speaker 14: it is just as important, and it is just as 662 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:06,200 Speaker 14: taxing at times, especially. 663 00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:06,520 Speaker 2: With two under two. 664 00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:09,440 Speaker 1: I agree, I agree, but you know I hate in 665 00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,400 Speaker 1: his defense, he's been dealing with you know, screaming pilots 666 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:15,040 Speaker 1: all day that are just the same as babies. It's 667 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:15,520 Speaker 1: the same. 668 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 14: Audible hair. 669 00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 1: Yeah right, Well, thanks for having us on the radio 670 00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:21,640 Speaker 1: on the iHeart app Live at any time. Search for 671 00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:23,920 Speaker 1: the Fred Show on demand. Where were the rumors coming 672 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 1: from that she was getting married this weekend? Where did 673 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,200 Speaker 1: that come from? I've seen that. 674 00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:31,440 Speaker 2: I got a little too excited. 675 00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:34,680 Speaker 1: I was seeing like late last week that supposedly was 676 00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:38,600 Speaker 1: happening this weekend in Napa or something. That was what 677 00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:41,240 Speaker 1: I heard. That's crazy swift. 678 00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:44,200 Speaker 6: They've been in a lot of weddings recently, but I 679 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 6: didn't see that wild Well. 680 00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:48,240 Speaker 1: I saw that a few different places, and then I 681 00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:49,840 Speaker 1: was like, well, I didn't get a call to go 682 00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:53,760 Speaker 1: to Napa, So there's no way. I definitely there's no 683 00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:55,479 Speaker 1: way that she would get married and not invite me. 684 00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:59,320 Speaker 1: We go way back. Yeah, So yeah. 685 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:03,800 Speaker 2: His pal may have revealed a secret marriage plan. 686 00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:08,880 Speaker 1: Pal not as pal. You ain't no, no, this is just. 687 00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:11,880 Speaker 3: The wedding thing that we saw that they were already married. 688 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,960 Speaker 3: There are rumors, but yeah, I don't. I don't see 689 00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:16,040 Speaker 3: anything about Napa. 690 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:19,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was that's what my people were telling me. 691 00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:23,280 Speaker 1: Just prepare for Napa, your pal, prepare my pals. They 692 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:24,840 Speaker 1: were just like, you know, do you have your NAPA 693 00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:28,840 Speaker 1: clothes ready? And clothes it sort of looks like if 694 00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 1: you were going to a cloquet a croquete match. For me, 695 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:35,120 Speaker 1: it would be like some nice uh chinos, you know, 696 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 1: button maybe a nice sweater over my you know what 697 00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:42,640 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, linen, That's what I mean. A nice 698 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 1: linen suit, you know, flowy, Yeah, right exactly. That that 699 00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,080 Speaker 1: was going to be the fit for the wedding of 700 00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:52,200 Speaker 1: the century that I maybe I did go to. Maybe 701 00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:55,440 Speaker 1: they are married. Maybe I'm just playing dumb. 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He appeared by 719 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,880 Speaker 1: live video, which I did post a picture of this 720 00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:01,400 Speaker 1: the video board, and this is how it would have 721 00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:03,680 Speaker 1: been at the game, but they didn't bother to make 722 00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:05,880 Speaker 1: any changes. So above him it was him on a 723 00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:09,319 Speaker 1: video board. Right above him is Caesar Sports Book, and 724 00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:12,719 Speaker 1: then to the right is Binny's beverage depot. Is there 725 00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:17,560 Speaker 1: anything more catholic than that gambling and booze and the Pope? No, 726 00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's truly encapsulated. The pope is 727 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:21,240 Speaker 1: sponsored by Binny's. 728 00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:24,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's gonna say, run me my brandy, all right. 729 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,680 Speaker 1: If I'm the pope, I'm like, hey, I'm an influencer 730 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:29,720 Speaker 1: and I am not. You need to make a donation 731 00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:35,240 Speaker 1: or something to the archdiocese or whatever it is. Yeah, 732 00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:39,000 Speaker 1: but it happened over the weekend, and he thanked US 733 00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:42,239 Speaker 1: Catholics for their prayers, urged kindness towards migrants, and as 734 00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:46,120 Speaker 1: listeners to build bridges not walls. The bilingual event open 735 00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:50,880 Speaker 1: with US and Peruvian anthems, followed by a mass in 736 00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:54,719 Speaker 1: a baseball stadium and then celebrated by a cardinal and 737 00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:57,439 Speaker 1: then Pope Leo, and he promised to visit very soon. 738 00:34:57,640 --> 00:34:59,719 Speaker 1: And then he closed by blessing the city and it's 739 00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:04,359 Speaker 1: base team. So I guess only the socks on it's 740 00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:09,040 Speaker 1: singular baseball team. I guess right. Hey, look here, Pope Leo, 741 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:14,040 Speaker 1: we got too, how about both of them? But no, no, no, no, 742 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:16,880 Speaker 1: that's an unfair advantage. No, I don't know why the 743 00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:20,440 Speaker 1: Sox record hasn't just skyrocketed. Let's say this hasn't improved. 744 00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:24,479 Speaker 1: There saying he'll not look him good. In fact, thirty 745 00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:26,560 Speaker 1: thousand people. I think if you added up, that's as 746 00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:28,520 Speaker 1: many people have gone to the game so far total 747 00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,239 Speaker 1: this year. For the last Sea Pope Leo put more 748 00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:34,120 Speaker 1: people in the stands than the Socks did at Socks Field. 749 00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,680 Speaker 1: A chance to shoot your shot for Sabrina Carpenter. Got 750 00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:39,720 Speaker 1: that this week will hook you up? That's on Wednesday, 751 00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:43,520 Speaker 1: isn't it to see Sabrina Carpenter in Nashville, Caigo tickets 752 00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:47,200 Speaker 1: this week on the program Summer Smash tickets and then 753 00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:51,000 Speaker 1: of course talkback for tickets, which ud one of you 754 00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:53,440 Speaker 1: guys do this on Friday since I wasn't here, No. 755 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:57,640 Speaker 6: Yes, yes, yes, sorry not today's but yeah, okay, I 756 00:35:58,000 --> 00:35:59,840 Speaker 6: didn't know who got to see this word? 757 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:03,560 Speaker 1: Oh this is today? Yeah, well this is Monday. I 758 00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:05,160 Speaker 1: don't I don't know. I don't know what day i'm. 759 00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:06,799 Speaker 1: I don't know where I am what day it is. 760 00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 1: But we'll give you a keyword of seven fifty five 761 00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:11,120 Speaker 1: and then i'll give you I was just wondering if 762 00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:13,839 Speaker 1: this one is tomorrow? This this one, because you've been 763 00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,040 Speaker 1: trying to get cute with them, trying to get me 764 00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:18,040 Speaker 1: to say crazy stuff. But that's not that crazy of 765 00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:18,359 Speaker 1: a work. 766 00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:20,759 Speaker 6: No, I'm not doing them all crazy. I like, you know, 767 00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:23,960 Speaker 6: slip them in. There's a good miss. Sure you're always 768 00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:28,240 Speaker 6: trying to do that. Yeah, true, Yeah, so it happened. 769 00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:33,279 Speaker 1: We'll give you a keyword. Relax. Yeah, please, I'll give 770 00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:36,160 Speaker 1: you a keyword at seven to fifty five to get 771 00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:37,839 Speaker 1: hooked up and all you have to do is leave. 772 00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,880 Speaker 1: Is a talkback on the on the talkback mic on 773 00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:41,920 Speaker 1: the iHeartRadio, but. 774 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:45,279 Speaker 2: The beatleshirt on today, Yes, beetles. Do you know the 775 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:46,320 Speaker 2: members of Oh. 776 00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 1: Sorry, all right? Yeah? Who am I looking at there? 777 00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:54,440 Speaker 1: Fred's show is on winning everybody mondays you have sixteenth 778 00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:56,799 Speaker 1: It's a Fred show. Klet's here high good morning, Hi 779 00:36:56,920 --> 00:37:00,799 Speaker 1: Jason Brown. Hi, Hi Kiki. That means here on the 780 00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,239 Speaker 1: phone and the text anytime you can reach out eight 781 00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:07,040 Speaker 1: five to five five nine one three five. Select portions 782 00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:10,600 Speaker 1: of the broadcast on YouTube now. Yes, Kiki is a 783 00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:12,400 Speaker 1: director and she's taking it very seriously. 784 00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:15,800 Speaker 2: I'm not playing around. We're live right now. In the camera. 785 00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:19,399 Speaker 1: Hi, I need to remember that thing's there? Yes, yeah, 786 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:21,440 Speaker 1: I'm over here looking at my phone, picking my nose, 787 00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:23,200 Speaker 1: plugging my nose hairs. 788 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:25,239 Speaker 10: You bet that guy from earlier, the one who talked 789 00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:26,680 Speaker 10: about but I'm not. 790 00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:30,360 Speaker 1: We're gonna find out this the microphone? Yeah right, I didn't. 791 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:34,840 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. On all the socials as well. Search for 792 00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:36,279 Speaker 1: the Fred Show. If you take a second to and 793 00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:39,160 Speaker 1: give us a follow, smash that like button gang yeah 794 00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:42,400 Speaker 1: yes and uh TikTok you two? What else do I mean? 795 00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:42,600 Speaker 15: Oh? 796 00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,239 Speaker 1: In the iHeart app of course, Search for the Fred 797 00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:46,279 Speaker 1: Show on to man make us a preset. Blogs are 798 00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:48,560 Speaker 1: audio journalist in just a second waiting by the phone. 799 00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:51,399 Speaker 1: Why did somebody get ghosted? We'll do that this hour 800 00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:55,239 Speaker 1: Shelby Shelley eight point fifty is the prize eight game 801 00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:58,200 Speaker 1: win streak over one thousand wins sixty eight losses. You 802 00:37:58,200 --> 00:37:59,440 Speaker 1: can win that money if you can beat her in 803 00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:02,080 Speaker 1: five question and the entertainer reports coming up? What are 804 00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:02,440 Speaker 1: you working on? 805 00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:06,640 Speaker 3: K Boston University responds to Alex Cooper's claims that her 806 00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:10,000 Speaker 3: soccer coach sexually harassed her. Also, I don't know if 807 00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:13,759 Speaker 3: y'all follow Justin Bieber, but he was crashing out yesterday 808 00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:16,239 Speaker 3: like in a way that was even crazy for him. 809 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:17,520 Speaker 2: So we got to talk about it. 810 00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:20,239 Speaker 1: Wow, and we're commercial free for the next forty five minutes. 811 00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:21,200 Speaker 1: You don't have to go anywhere. 812 00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:27,000 Speaker 15: Yeah, they talk better than these are the radio blogs 813 00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:29,520 Speaker 15: on the Fred Show are writing in our diaries, except 814 00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:30,359 Speaker 15: we say them a loud. 815 00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:31,320 Speaker 1: We call them blogs. 816 00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:34,640 Speaker 2: Klin yes go dear blog. 817 00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:39,160 Speaker 3: So I have heard rumblings that there are people like 818 00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:40,040 Speaker 3: this who exist. 819 00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:42,440 Speaker 2: I have heard rumors, but I had. 820 00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:44,880 Speaker 3: Not come face to face with one of these people 821 00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:51,399 Speaker 3: that zillow every single place, that they go every house. 822 00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:53,960 Speaker 1: Every all to look up the value. 823 00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:56,000 Speaker 2: I guess to just like look up the house. 824 00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:58,839 Speaker 3: I don't know what these Zillow people are after. I'm 825 00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:03,040 Speaker 3: assuming to look up the you. But it turns out 826 00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:08,200 Speaker 3: that I lie with a Zilo person. Okay, I lie 827 00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:10,720 Speaker 3: next to a Zilo person. I live with a Zilo person. 828 00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:14,719 Speaker 3: And the other day in the marital bed, well, I 829 00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:17,520 Speaker 3: don't know about marital but yeah, in our little tiny 830 00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:18,000 Speaker 3: queen bed. 831 00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:19,920 Speaker 2: We need a king so bad. But that's another story. 832 00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:24,560 Speaker 1: So god that'd be I would go into just to 833 00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:25,480 Speaker 1: acquire one. 834 00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:27,080 Speaker 3: I know, and I'm like doing the split so our 835 00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,440 Speaker 3: dog can like be in there too, Like it's really not. 836 00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:32,880 Speaker 1: I might need two king beds, one for each of us. 837 00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:36,080 Speaker 3: Holler at me if you have mattresses and want to 838 00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:36,640 Speaker 3: work together. 839 00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:42,359 Speaker 1: Mattresses holler at me and just give me one of them. 840 00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:44,440 Speaker 3: I didn't want to say a specific storm, you know, 841 00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:48,440 Speaker 3: because I'm equal opportunity. The dms are on fire now 842 00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,800 Speaker 3: that I said. If you have mattresses, holler at me. Anyways, 843 00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:52,640 Speaker 3: you need a deal that I had with mattress firm 844 00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:53,319 Speaker 3: back in the day. 845 00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:55,440 Speaker 2: I do. I remember that deal. I was so jealous. 846 00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:58,960 Speaker 3: Seen thousand dollars bed. What doesn't it like cool and 847 00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:00,960 Speaker 3: like give you happy ending and all that stuff. 848 00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:03,920 Speaker 1: Well I'm the one who gives myself the happy ending. 849 00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:05,520 Speaker 1: But yeah, no, it cools me down afterwards. 850 00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:08,720 Speaker 3: So in the hospital bed like I want to be able. 851 00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:10,879 Speaker 1: To I have that too. I have that. I never 852 00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:13,160 Speaker 1: use it, but I have that too. No because anyway, 853 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:15,960 Speaker 1: different story. But the guy that owned mattress firm or whatever, 854 00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:18,440 Speaker 1: like the big wig was like, you have to have 855 00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:19,840 Speaker 1: I'll tell the story in a minute. But going to 856 00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:22,920 Speaker 1: Lamborghinia be so anyway, So you lay next to a guy, yeah, 857 00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:24,440 Speaker 1: who is a Zillow. It's a Zillow. 858 00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:27,000 Speaker 3: Yes, And he admitted to me the other day that 859 00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:31,319 Speaker 3: he looked up my family home on Zillo and I 860 00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:33,520 Speaker 3: was like, what the hell you creep, Why are. 861 00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:37,440 Speaker 1: You doing how much money he's married into so secure 862 00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:40,200 Speaker 1: the bag right now, he's like, what's coming my way? 863 00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:42,040 Speaker 3: And we don't have a house to where you'd see 864 00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:44,680 Speaker 3: it and be like, you know, we have a wonderful home. 865 00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:47,319 Speaker 2: My parents provided for me. But like he so now. 866 00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:48,759 Speaker 2: He did have a good counterclaim. 867 00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:51,600 Speaker 3: He said that when I showed him around, we were 868 00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:53,600 Speaker 3: all talking about how much work that they had done 869 00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:55,360 Speaker 3: to the house. It was built in nineteen twenties, my 870 00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:57,680 Speaker 3: parents did a ton of renovations, and he claims he 871 00:40:57,719 --> 00:41:00,359 Speaker 3: wanted to see what it looked like before all the work. 872 00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:01,560 Speaker 2: Days that I don't know. 873 00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:04,040 Speaker 3: I don't know, but I'm like it was like he's 874 00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:05,880 Speaker 3: getting off something off his chest, and I'm like, I 875 00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:08,960 Speaker 3: don't understand these Zillow people. I forget that it's there, 876 00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:11,239 Speaker 3: but I do know that people will literally after they 877 00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,279 Speaker 3: leave a place, go to a place or you're not 878 00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:13,960 Speaker 3: in your head. 879 00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:14,560 Speaker 2: Kiki, are you? 880 00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,440 Speaker 16: I'm not famous for this, Okay, I think it's weird, 881 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:20,640 Speaker 16: but I feel like everybody is a Zillo person. So 882 00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:22,640 Speaker 16: if you ask me for my address, I will give 883 00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:24,320 Speaker 16: you a fake address or the station. 884 00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:25,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not doing it. 885 00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:25,919 Speaker 1: Oh, yeah. 886 00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:26,160 Speaker 16: Yeah. 887 00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:27,560 Speaker 2: I feel like everybody who was. 888 00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:29,680 Speaker 1: Asking for your address to me. If I ask for 889 00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:33,080 Speaker 1: your address, you and give me a fake radio station, 890 00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:36,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna come up. Okay, I'll be there and then 891 00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:38,680 Speaker 1: I'll walk. Wait a minute, Wait one second. 892 00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:42,360 Speaker 2: She doesn't want us over. It makes me so sad. 893 00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:46,680 Speaker 1: Give me her address. This is the radio station, she said. 894 00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:47,040 Speaker 2: I don't. 895 00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,839 Speaker 16: I will give them your address before I give you 896 00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:50,520 Speaker 16: my address. 897 00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:51,520 Speaker 2: Because people do. 898 00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,040 Speaker 16: This, they want to look you up, and they're so weird. 899 00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,200 Speaker 16: That's why I don't even like, don't need to me 900 00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:57,440 Speaker 16: how to spell my first name. 901 00:41:57,520 --> 00:41:58,200 Speaker 2: You're weird, bro. 902 00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:00,759 Speaker 16: Why are you making people up trying to see what 903 00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:03,240 Speaker 16: their money is and you're looking at their neighbors' houses 904 00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:07,680 Speaker 16: like it's just a lie. I beware of Zillow people. Yeah, no, 905 00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:08,360 Speaker 16: I know people. 906 00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:11,839 Speaker 1: Do you guys ever, do you ever go look at 907 00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:14,400 Speaker 1: real estate listings in your in your own neighborhood? Like 908 00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:17,000 Speaker 1: I know people in my building who go to the 909 00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:20,279 Speaker 1: open houses in the building not because they want to 910 00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,359 Speaker 1: buy another unit, but because they just want to see 911 00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:24,719 Speaker 1: how other people are living. They want to see how 912 00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:26,920 Speaker 1: other people like decorated, and they want to see how 913 00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:28,799 Speaker 1: other people's units look and they want to see, like 914 00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:31,120 Speaker 1: they want to size up how they're doing compared to 915 00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:31,720 Speaker 1: their neighbors. 916 00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:34,840 Speaker 3: So I'm like a medieval zillower is It's that's what 917 00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,240 Speaker 3: I call when you just look in people's windows. 918 00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,960 Speaker 1: So I can see it was talking. Actually, you can 919 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:40,759 Speaker 1: go to jail for that. 920 00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:43,640 Speaker 2: I love looking at people's windows. I live across a building. 921 00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:46,120 Speaker 2: I love it. I am a creep. 922 00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:47,880 Speaker 3: I told you guys about the lady who eats a 923 00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:50,080 Speaker 3: lot of oranges at the same time every day. 924 00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:53,720 Speaker 2: So but yeah, I'm not as creepy as I thought 925 00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:54,160 Speaker 2: I was. 926 00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:56,600 Speaker 3: And so my boyfriend's a creep and I'm glad he 927 00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:57,520 Speaker 3: got that off his chest. 928 00:42:57,560 --> 00:42:59,719 Speaker 1: But we should probably talk about that at some point. 929 00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:03,239 Speaker 1: Like the unlikely resources that are available to us on 930 00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:05,600 Speaker 1: the internet for finding out a lot of information, like 931 00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:11,799 Speaker 1: people's venmo Venmo is a wealth of information. It is 932 00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:15,480 Speaker 1: a wow wealth of information. Oh my godness, Like, wait 933 00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:17,160 Speaker 1: a minute, I didn't even know you guys still knew 934 00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:19,360 Speaker 1: each other. You said you haven't seen that person in 935 00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:22,920 Speaker 1: a long time, but you just paid them for eggplant. 936 00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:27,080 Speaker 2: I found an excess baby mama inks to Venmo. 937 00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:28,600 Speaker 3: I wanted to see what she looked like and I 938 00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:30,480 Speaker 3: couldn't find it on any of his socials and I 939 00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:33,080 Speaker 3: found her on Venmo and I was like, oh. 940 00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:33,279 Speaker 10: That's what she was. 941 00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:35,680 Speaker 1: Like, I told you I dated a girl who I 942 00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:37,800 Speaker 1: paid for everything in the relationship. I paid for everything, 943 00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:39,920 Speaker 1: and not like her, you know, bills or whatever, but 944 00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:41,840 Speaker 1: like every time we'd go out, I'd paid whatever. And 945 00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:44,239 Speaker 1: then I see her. I didn't even mean to see it. 946 00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:46,479 Speaker 1: I was on my own Venmo, and it like, gives 947 00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:49,319 Speaker 1: you a little history, and this she's dating someone new, 948 00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:52,880 Speaker 1: and all it is is splitting stuff. It's it's you know, 949 00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:56,520 Speaker 1: half of dinner, half of hard, half of lunch, half 950 00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:59,120 Speaker 1: of vacation, half of it. And I'm going, wait and 951 00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:00,520 Speaker 1: cause she put it right. And the thing, I guess 952 00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:02,520 Speaker 1: maybe I don't know if she realized everybody can see that. 953 00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:06,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, he must got it going on, because she 954 00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:07,680 Speaker 1: went I half nothing. 955 00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:12,080 Speaker 6: That's too much, not too much to very quiet friend, right, 956 00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:14,120 Speaker 6: don't give anyone any ideas about who needs to pay 957 00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:14,319 Speaker 6: for what. 958 00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:19,200 Speaker 1: Oh sorry, I apologize, Jason, Yes, yeah, that's true. I 959 00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:21,960 Speaker 1: think the only time I've looked up a Zillo was 960 00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:24,919 Speaker 1: I looked at my original childhood home because I wanted 961 00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:27,439 Speaker 1: to see pictures of the inside. I don't. My mom 962 00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:29,760 Speaker 1: was very upset at how much it's worth now, because 963 00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:31,680 Speaker 1: of course we sold it, you know, twenty years ago 964 00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:34,000 Speaker 1: or something, moved into it thirty years ago, and moved 965 00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:35,960 Speaker 1: into it the house that I wound up growing up 966 00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:38,719 Speaker 1: that I wound up growing up in, but the very 967 00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:41,600 Speaker 1: first house we lived in together as a family. I 968 00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:43,640 Speaker 1: wanted to see what if they've like knock walls down 969 00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:46,360 Speaker 1: and stuff, because I assume they have, but it's my 970 00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:48,480 Speaker 1: mom wanted to, you know, you know how this stuff goes, 971 00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:51,000 Speaker 1: Like in nineteen eighty one, they paid like twelve dollars 972 00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:54,080 Speaker 1: for it, and now it's worth forty eight million. You know, 973 00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:56,879 Speaker 1: it's like, h should have kept that thing right. 974 00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:59,520 Speaker 3: That's how I uncovered this little gem. I uncovered it. 975 00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:01,680 Speaker 3: I was like, they've done so much work. I wonder 976 00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:03,600 Speaker 3: how much it's worth now. And he was like, oh, 977 00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:07,040 Speaker 3: I can tell you. He like, oh my god. 978 00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:11,760 Speaker 1: I I also don't trust all those values either. Sometimes 979 00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:13,799 Speaker 1: I'm like, wow, you got it like that, and it's 980 00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:14,680 Speaker 1: not really true. 981 00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:15,759 Speaker 2: We don't got it like that. 982 00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:18,920 Speaker 1: But that's an excellent creeping tool. Venmo is a good 983 00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:23,320 Speaker 1: creeping tool LinkedIn. Sometimes LinkedIn can be valuable. 984 00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:25,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it tells the person you're looking at their profile. 985 00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:32,439 Speaker 1: FYI, who needs to have an Investigator's ever been left 986 00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:37,400 Speaker 1: waiting by the phone? It's the Fred Show. Hey, Jason, welcome, 987 00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:40,680 Speaker 1: good morning, Hey, thank you, thanks, happy to have you here. 988 00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:43,080 Speaker 1: Waiting by the phone, of course, is what this is called. 989 00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:45,160 Speaker 1: We're trying to figure out if you've been ghosted, and 990 00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:48,440 Speaker 1: if you have been ghosted why that's kind of our 991 00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:51,080 Speaker 1: mission here. So what's going on with this woman, Lauren? 992 00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:52,759 Speaker 1: I think it would help for us to have kind 993 00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:54,279 Speaker 1: of all the backstory. How did you meet? 994 00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:54,960 Speaker 17: Uh? 995 00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:56,920 Speaker 1: Tell us about any dates that you've been on and 996 00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:57,959 Speaker 1: where things are now? 997 00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:02,439 Speaker 13: Okay, all right, so I met. I met Lauren on Hinge, right, 998 00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:07,240 Speaker 13: just pretty classic. I asked her at dinner. I really 999 00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:09,319 Speaker 13: liked her. Right, we're having a great time on the date. 1000 00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:13,200 Speaker 13: But while we were there, I think I was like, 1001 00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:16,239 Speaker 13: this is I'm definitely ghost to that. Like I got 1002 00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:18,279 Speaker 13: I got up to go to the bathroom. When I 1003 00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:19,600 Speaker 13: got back, she was. 1004 00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:21,759 Speaker 1: Gone, oh okay, so this this wasn't like we got 1005 00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:24,120 Speaker 1: through the whole date and now she's not tolding you 1006 00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:25,959 Speaker 1: this is she left mid date. 1007 00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:28,480 Speaker 13: Yeah, this is like she took her purse and ran. 1008 00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:31,680 Speaker 1: Oh boy, and I did you reach out to her 1009 00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:34,360 Speaker 1: after that? Hey? Did you text our? Is everything? Okay? 1010 00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:36,759 Speaker 1: Did I? I mean if you tried to like dig 1011 00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:38,600 Speaker 1: into this yourself to figure out what might happen? 1012 00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:41,200 Speaker 13: So yeah, I called it straight to voicemail every time. 1013 00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:45,000 Speaker 1: Huh. All right, so you got blocked. Maybe I don't 1014 00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:46,879 Speaker 1: know what happened. This is weird. We don't hear about 1015 00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:49,120 Speaker 1: this too often, where people leave, you know, in the 1016 00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:51,759 Speaker 1: midst of a date. But let me. I'm gonna put 1017 00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:53,399 Speaker 1: you in a hole to play a song. We'll come back. 1018 00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:55,319 Speaker 1: We're gonna call Lauren Stee if we can get her 1019 00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:56,759 Speaker 1: on the phone. You'll be on the phone as well, 1020 00:46:56,880 --> 00:46:58,960 Speaker 1: and we'll ask some questions. And I don't know, maybe 1021 00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:02,319 Speaker 1: something happened and and everything's okay now and we can 1022 00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:03,880 Speaker 1: get you guys set up on another date that we 1023 00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:07,799 Speaker 1: pay for. All right, Yeah, okay, Hey, Jason, welcome back. 1024 00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:10,600 Speaker 1: Let's call Lauren. You guys, you went on a date, 1025 00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:13,000 Speaker 1: and this is one that we don't hear about too often. 1026 00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:15,000 Speaker 1: You actually got up to go to the bathroom at 1027 00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:17,120 Speaker 1: some point during the date when you came back. She 1028 00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:21,839 Speaker 1: was gone. She left you mid date, and you've reached 1029 00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:24,680 Speaker 1: out to her. You tried calling her, and it goes straight 1030 00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:27,080 Speaker 1: to voicemail. She's not calling you back. I mean, at 1031 00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:29,960 Speaker 1: this point, it's like, does something happen to her? I mean, 1032 00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:33,759 Speaker 1: you're worried about her? Did something? You have no idea? Yeah? 1033 00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:37,600 Speaker 13: I mean I have no idea. Let's is she okay? 1034 00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:39,040 Speaker 13: Did she have an emergency? 1035 00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:39,480 Speaker 8: Yeah? 1036 00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:42,279 Speaker 1: I mean I think those are all legitimate concerns and 1037 00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:44,880 Speaker 1: it would be very inconsiderated for her not to communicate that 1038 00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:46,799 Speaker 1: with you. But who knows. Let's see if we can 1039 00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:55,520 Speaker 1: get her on the phone. Good luck. Hello, Hi is 1040 00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:59,719 Speaker 1: this Lauren? Yeah, Hey Lauren, good morning. Yes, Hi, my 1041 00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:01,359 Speaker 1: name is a friend. I'm calling from the Fred Show. 1042 00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:03,360 Speaker 1: Sorry to bother. I do have to tell you that 1043 00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:05,480 Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now. I would need 1044 00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:07,399 Speaker 1: your permission to continue with the call. He said, Okay, 1045 00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:08,359 Speaker 1: if we chat for a little bit. 1046 00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:11,399 Speaker 18: I gues, what are you calling about? 1047 00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:13,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, well I'm gonna take that as a yes, and 1048 00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:15,880 Speaker 1: thank you. By the way, this shouldn't take too long. 1049 00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:17,920 Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a guy who says he 1050 00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:21,200 Speaker 1: recently went on a date with you named Jason, and 1051 00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:22,799 Speaker 1: I guess you left in the middle of the day. 1052 00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:25,759 Speaker 18: Oh yeah, I sure did. 1053 00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:28,359 Speaker 1: So he called us and he's really puzzled. He has 1054 00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:31,360 Speaker 1: no idea why when he got back from the bathroom, 1055 00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:32,800 Speaker 1: you were gone. And he says he can't get a 1056 00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:34,440 Speaker 1: hold of you. Now, we had no trouble getting a 1057 00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:37,200 Speaker 1: hold of you, so he must be blocked or something. 1058 00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:38,919 Speaker 1: I mean, what happened? Why did you leave? 1059 00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:44,239 Speaker 18: He got up to go to the bathroom, and when 1060 00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:48,520 Speaker 18: he did, I actually got a text from him and 1061 00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:51,160 Speaker 18: it said, actually hold on, give me a second, you 1062 00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:51,759 Speaker 18: can pull it up. 1063 00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:54,200 Speaker 1: Oh neat he sent you a text from the bathroom. 1064 00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:56,040 Speaker 1: Why he just couldn't stay away from you? 1065 00:48:57,160 --> 00:49:00,239 Speaker 18: Well, so says, sorry, babe, I'm still stuck at work, 1066 00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:04,000 Speaker 18: but I'll be home asaps. So clearly that was not 1067 00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:04,640 Speaker 18: meant for me. 1068 00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:05,960 Speaker 19: So I just I was out of that. 1069 00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:08,320 Speaker 1: Let me bring Jason in that forgot to mentioned that. 1070 00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:11,680 Speaker 1: Jay says, you're Jason? Who is that text intended for? Baby? 1071 00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:12,240 Speaker 19: No? 1072 00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:12,319 Speaker 15: No? 1073 00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:15,720 Speaker 19: Yeah, okay, okay, that was that was probably from my roommate, 1074 00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:16,440 Speaker 19: Like that was. 1075 00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:19,400 Speaker 1: You call your roommate baby? Is your roommate your girlfriend 1076 00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:21,080 Speaker 1: and wife? Is that what you call her baby? 1077 00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:25,040 Speaker 19: No, just my close friend, you are not? 1078 00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:30,080 Speaker 18: Yeah, you're in your roommate baby baby whatever? Like, no, no, 1079 00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:30,399 Speaker 18: I did. 1080 00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:32,040 Speaker 19: Watching they're watching the dog. 1081 00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:32,880 Speaker 9: You know. 1082 00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:37,120 Speaker 19: I don't want to feel like I was being irresponsible. 1083 00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:38,640 Speaker 13: By like, you know, not coming coming home. 1084 00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:40,040 Speaker 1: To take walk. 1085 00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:40,359 Speaker 13: Dude. 1086 00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:44,359 Speaker 1: No, nobody believes that. I mean, so you you were 1087 00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:46,440 Speaker 1: you have a girlfriend then, or a wife or what? 1088 00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:48,840 Speaker 1: Who are you texting roommate? 1089 00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:51,600 Speaker 13: Come on, guys like that, shut up. 1090 00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:55,160 Speaker 2: Dude, and then bold enough to call us Jason? 1091 00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:57,960 Speaker 13: This is you know, it's just a little confusing. 1092 00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:00,920 Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, we're in a little our head, here are we. 1093 00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:02,359 Speaker 1: We didn't think this one all the way through, did 1094 00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:04,840 Speaker 1: thank god? Yeah? 1095 00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:06,800 Speaker 10: You know when dudes like pretend like they're not together 1096 00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:08,160 Speaker 10: anymore but they live together. 1097 00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:09,000 Speaker 2: You guys ever heard that? 1098 00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:11,279 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, I've been involved with one of those. 1099 00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:13,160 Speaker 1: That's what I feel. Oh yeah, we're we're only living 1100 00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:15,680 Speaker 1: together because you know, the market's bad, we can't sell 1101 00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:17,920 Speaker 1: the house. We live in separate rooms, and you know 1102 00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:19,600 Speaker 1: it's all good. Like, how come we can never hang 1103 00:50:19,640 --> 00:50:22,719 Speaker 1: out at your house? Exactly? Yeah? All right, so he's 1104 00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:24,680 Speaker 1: I don't think he's telling the truth. Lauren, and thank 1105 00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:26,560 Speaker 1: you so much for nchering and for telling us your 1106 00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:30,520 Speaker 1: side of the story. Jason Man, come on. 1107 00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:33,480 Speaker 19: It's a real thing, guys, it's a real thing. 1108 00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:35,520 Speaker 1: Wait, she has one wow with you, dude. She doesn't 1109 00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:37,560 Speaker 1: believe you, and we don't believe you. So sorry, but 1110 00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:40,279 Speaker 1: best elected both of you. Okay, thank you, I. 1111 00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:42,840 Speaker 18: Mean crazy, but yeah, I know that's not a remate. 1112 00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:43,240 Speaker 13: Please. 1113 00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,920 Speaker 1: Caln's entertainer report is on the Fread Show. 1114 00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:51,040 Speaker 3: Actor Alex Cooper, who played soccer for Boston University from 1115 00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:54,880 Speaker 3: twenty thirteen to twenty fifteen, accused her former coach, Nancy 1116 00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:58,560 Speaker 3: Feldman of sexual harassment in her new docuseries Call Her Alex. 1117 00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:01,640 Speaker 3: The college is finely responding and if you miss this, 1118 00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:05,320 Speaker 3: the Call Her Daddy host has a new docuseriies on Hulu. 1119 00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:06,920 Speaker 2: There's two episodes out right now. 1120 00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:09,840 Speaker 3: I think it's actually amazing and shows a very different 1121 00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:12,400 Speaker 3: photo of her than you know, all of the or 1122 00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:15,840 Speaker 3: picture of her, I should say, of the raunchy stuff 1123 00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:18,600 Speaker 3: she used to talk about on her podcast, pretty good. 1124 00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:21,440 Speaker 3: But in the first episode she details the sexual harassment 1125 00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:24,040 Speaker 3: that she experienced at the hands of this coach, and 1126 00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:27,680 Speaker 3: she even showed video of this coach and named her 1127 00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:29,840 Speaker 3: full name, like I said, and this is something that 1128 00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:33,239 Speaker 3: she's never shared before. She accused the university of being 1129 00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:37,640 Speaker 3: zero help, writing there was no accountability, no investigation, no justice. 1130 00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:39,040 Speaker 3: She was there on a full ride by the way 1131 00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:42,520 Speaker 3: to play soccer, to which Bu responded, Boston University has 1132 00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:45,719 Speaker 3: a zero tolerance policy for sexual harassment. We have a 1133 00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:50,080 Speaker 3: robust system of resources, support and staff dedicated to student 1134 00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:53,920 Speaker 3: well being, and a thorough reporting process through our Equal 1135 00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:56,839 Speaker 3: Opportunity Office. And they went on to say that they 1136 00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,560 Speaker 3: encourage people to speak up if they experienced something. And 1137 00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:03,600 Speaker 3: after releasing her own docuseriies, Alex Rowe, Nancy Feldman was 1138 00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:06,000 Speaker 3: someone I trusted, someone I believed in, someone who was 1139 00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:09,279 Speaker 3: supposed to help me grow, someone who's supposed to protect me. 1140 00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:11,480 Speaker 3: But instead she made my life a living hell and 1141 00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:14,960 Speaker 3: abused her power over me. And she said that she decided, 1142 00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:17,399 Speaker 3: excuse me, you guys, I keep choking out of nowhere. 1143 00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:19,160 Speaker 2: I don't know why. She said that. 1144 00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:21,640 Speaker 1: She's a cicadas. Keep your mouth shut. I know we'll 1145 00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:24,279 Speaker 1: flying in your mouth while on this roller coaster. And 1146 00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:26,320 Speaker 1: I've been trying to tell you do your job without 1147 00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:30,839 Speaker 1: talking working on literally like this is a. 1148 00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:32,839 Speaker 2: New phase of my life where I just choke out 1149 00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:33,240 Speaker 2: of nowhere. 1150 00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:35,120 Speaker 1: But I've been trying to do my job without talking 1151 00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:35,719 Speaker 1: for years now. 1152 00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:37,840 Speaker 2: I would love to not talk sometimes. 1153 00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:40,080 Speaker 3: But she said she went public because she learned that 1154 00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:43,480 Speaker 3: this harassment was still going on at the college despite 1155 00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:46,839 Speaker 3: this woman retiring from her coaching duty. 1156 00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:48,319 Speaker 2: So that is what's going on with that. 1157 00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:52,320 Speaker 3: Justin Bieber shared some screenshots of what appeared to be 1158 00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:55,960 Speaker 3: him cutting a friend off via text, posting these online 1159 00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:59,959 Speaker 3: and blaming the past trauma that he's experienced for his blow. 1160 00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:03,239 Speaker 3: He posted these heated text messages with an unnamed friend 1161 00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:04,760 Speaker 3: and called him out for lashing out. 1162 00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:06,560 Speaker 2: The friend did called Bieber al. 1163 00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:09,200 Speaker 3: Bieber defended himself, saying, my anger is a response to 1164 00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:13,040 Speaker 3: the pain I've been through. Asking traumatized person not to 1165 00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:16,160 Speaker 3: be traumatized is simply mean. He ended the friendship, apparently 1166 00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:18,959 Speaker 3: saving his good friends who respect his boundaries. Urged people 1167 00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:22,080 Speaker 3: to stop asking if he's okay, calling the concern oppressive. 1168 00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:24,680 Speaker 2: I don't know if he's okay. 1169 00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:28,120 Speaker 3: I mean the posts were incessant yesterday and every single 1170 00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:30,360 Speaker 3: caption was a middle finger emoji. 1171 00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:32,560 Speaker 2: Even photos of his son on Father's Day. 1172 00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:36,920 Speaker 3: It was his first Father's Day and he also posted 1173 00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:39,960 Speaker 3: himself calling himself a dad that's not to be f 1174 00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:42,280 Speaker 3: to with with again the middle finger emoji. 1175 00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:42,840 Speaker 2: So I don't know. 1176 00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:46,080 Speaker 3: And this follows that eleven minute confrontation with paparazzi outside 1177 00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:48,560 Speaker 3: of Soho House in Malibu. So he says to stop 1178 00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:50,920 Speaker 3: asking if he's okay, but he's cutting people off and 1179 00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:54,000 Speaker 3: apparently he is fine, which I don't know if I 1180 00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:56,560 Speaker 3: agree with, but if you follow him yesterday, you know 1181 00:53:57,040 --> 00:54:00,720 Speaker 3: something was going on. And lastly, our iHeartRadio Music Festival 1182 00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:04,160 Speaker 3: presented by Capital One is back September nineteenth and twentieth 1183 00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:07,600 Speaker 3: in Vegas, two nights, one stage. I'm doing it again. 1184 00:54:07,640 --> 00:54:10,080 Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm shy. See iHeart topic that gets 1185 00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:10,719 Speaker 3: you choked up? 1186 00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:13,239 Speaker 1: I know. I mean every year it's like, you know, 1187 00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:16,640 Speaker 1: when I hear the lineup, I get emotional. Same In fact, 1188 00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:18,359 Speaker 1: it's hard, like you say it every day and every 1189 00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:20,200 Speaker 1: day it's like, oh, here we go. You know it's 1190 00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:22,200 Speaker 1: a roller coat. What kind of day am I having already? 1191 00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:24,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going to try not to cry. 1192 00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:27,879 Speaker 3: But Date McCrae, Edeer and Lil Wayne Jelly Roll Maroon five, 1193 00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:29,560 Speaker 3: Mariah Carey. 1194 00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:34,000 Speaker 1: And Riah that's the one that gets me and Jello 1195 00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:35,719 Speaker 1: Road mc n believable. 1196 00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:39,799 Speaker 3: So you can buy tickets now at axx axs dot 1197 00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:42,000 Speaker 3: com and please get them before they sell out. And 1198 00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:44,319 Speaker 3: speaking of iHeart searched the Fred Show on demand and 1199 00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:46,879 Speaker 3: set us as a preset on the free iHeartRadio app. 1200 00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:48,480 Speaker 3: I would very much like to stop talking now. I 1201 00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:49,240 Speaker 3: can't stop choking. 1202 00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:52,040 Speaker 1: That's a little YouTube project going. It's going great, is it? 1203 00:54:52,640 --> 00:54:55,399 Speaker 1: Are we into our lips match our voices? Finally? Yes, 1204 00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:59,439 Speaker 1: that's an exciting development as opposed to watching us talk 1205 00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:02,600 Speaker 1: and then it's it's like some sort of weird subtitle movie. 1206 00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:04,959 Speaker 2: Oh no, Stephanie Spielberg did her big one. 1207 00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:08,000 Speaker 1: Wow, this is exciting. Just one more thing to manage. 1208 00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:11,880 Speaker 1: So there's nowhere you can't find us now everywhere, Prodigy, Aol, 1209 00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:15,279 Speaker 1: compu Serve YouTube and your dreams. Oh yeah, always in 1210 00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:18,400 Speaker 1: the dreams. Showbiz Shelley eight hundred and fifty bucks is 1211 00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:22,160 Speaker 1: the price her record, oney and twelve wins, sixty eight losses. 1212 00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:25,239 Speaker 1: She's back from eternity. Leave people do miss the juvenile intro. 1213 00:55:25,320 --> 00:55:27,080 Speaker 1: We may have to just bring that back, just for 1214 00:55:27,160 --> 00:55:30,799 Speaker 1: something else in the lab. The people loved it. I 1215 00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:33,760 Speaker 1: was hearing from the people. I'm always hearing from the people. 1216 00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:35,839 Speaker 1: I'm a man of the people, so I hear from 1217 00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:39,120 Speaker 1: the people, and that's the feedback I was getting. Loved it. However, 1218 00:55:39,360 --> 00:55:41,840 Speaker 1: Shelley is back to reclaim her game eight fifties the 1219 00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:44,480 Speaker 1: Price eight five, five, five, nine, one one three five. 1220 00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:46,920 Speaker 1: We want to take her on five pop culture questions. 1221 00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:50,120 Speaker 1: Do you have what it takes to battle show biz? 1222 00:55:50,200 --> 00:56:01,040 Speaker 17: Shelley in the show Biz Showdown shook it? 1223 00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:05,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, may need to give you the juvenile music and 1224 00:56:05,320 --> 00:56:06,680 Speaker 1: see what what you do with it. 1225 00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:11,560 Speaker 2: You want, Bobby, you got it in my headphone? Just 1226 00:56:11,560 --> 00:56:12,920 Speaker 2: make sure put in my headphones. That's all. 1227 00:56:13,880 --> 00:56:16,839 Speaker 1: Oh, No, I want you to freestyle. I'm not getting out. 1228 00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:18,680 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna turn I'm not gonna turn you up 1229 00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:22,840 Speaker 1: in there. Yes, set you over here, turn me up 1230 00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:27,520 Speaker 1: in my headphone. Down up the headphones, please, Nick. How 1231 00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:27,879 Speaker 1: you doing? 1232 00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:28,160 Speaker 2: Nick? 1233 00:56:29,600 --> 00:56:30,120 Speaker 1: Good bred? 1234 00:56:30,160 --> 00:56:30,680 Speaker 8: How are you doing? 1235 00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:32,919 Speaker 1: Nick? Good morning? Welcome? Tell us about you. Fun fact 1236 00:56:32,920 --> 00:56:33,600 Speaker 1: about Nick. 1237 00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:38,280 Speaker 7: Is I am from Chicago, from River North. 1238 00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:41,480 Speaker 13: I'm a huge Cobbs fan and I am excited to 1239 00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:43,160 Speaker 13: play with shoe bitch Shelley. 1240 00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:45,240 Speaker 1: Okay, well welcome, I am too. But the Pope doesn't 1241 00:56:45,280 --> 00:56:47,360 Speaker 1: want us to have nice things because he says, he 1242 00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:50,040 Speaker 1: says only good luck to the socks. That's what he said. 1243 00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:50,799 Speaker 2: That's what I heard. 1244 00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:56,120 Speaker 1: It's all right, you know, I know I'm stunned as well. 1245 00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:57,480 Speaker 1: I'm stunning the Man of God. 1246 00:56:57,760 --> 00:56:59,719 Speaker 2: A good word, right, God's word? 1247 00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:03,520 Speaker 1: Team, Well, they need it. Okay, let's play, guys. It's 1248 00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:06,200 Speaker 1: five questions. Eight hundred and fifty bucks is the price. 1249 00:57:06,200 --> 00:57:09,600 Speaker 1: Shelley's record oney twelve wins, sixty eight losses, eight straight. 1250 00:57:09,960 --> 00:57:13,520 Speaker 1: Let's go, all right, good luck, all right, you gotta go, 1251 00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:17,200 Speaker 1: Shelley Mompo the Samboo Boo nick Question number one, which 1252 00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:24,640 Speaker 1: levitating singer confirmed she's engaged to actor Callum Turner. Which 1253 00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:28,640 Speaker 1: comedian in Borat Star finalized his divorce with Isla Fisher 1254 00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:35,800 Speaker 1: Sasha Bara Cohen. I'll find you. Chris Pratt hung out 1255 00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:37,840 Speaker 1: with his ex wife for the first time in seven 1256 00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:41,360 Speaker 1: years at their son's sixth grade graduation. Name his ex? 1257 00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:46,680 Speaker 2: All right, two. 1258 00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:50,439 Speaker 1: One, I got two left, you got this nick, which 1259 00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:53,120 Speaker 1: singer said she lost a lead role in the kids 1260 00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:56,600 Speaker 1: movie Hotel Transylvania after she got hacked and a photo 1261 00:57:56,680 --> 00:58:04,360 Speaker 1: of her with an inappropriate cake was leaked. Three two, 1262 00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:10,200 Speaker 1: and David Beckham shout shouted out all four of his 1263 00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:13,520 Speaker 1: kids on Father's Day, despite the rumored issues between he 1264 00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:15,560 Speaker 1: and one of his sons. Name his son. 1265 00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:23,240 Speaker 2: Three. Yeah there now two it's a burrow, right, is 1266 00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:23,680 Speaker 2: it a burrow? 1267 00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:26,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you two even though you didn't really 1268 00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:27,800 Speaker 1: get to so you got two? 1269 00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:28,560 Speaker 2: Oh you are okay? 1270 00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:33,240 Speaker 1: Yeah? Well, yeah, I don't think it man, Yeah, two 1271 00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:37,800 Speaker 1: two kind of one kind, but I don't think Yeah. 1272 00:58:37,840 --> 00:58:40,120 Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be okay. Are you ready? 1273 00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:40,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1274 00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:41,080 Speaker 7: Right? 1275 00:58:41,120 --> 00:58:45,240 Speaker 1: Which levitating singer confirms she's engaged to actor Callum Turner. 1276 00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:49,760 Speaker 1: Julia Which. Comedian in Borat star finalized his divorce with 1277 00:58:49,880 --> 00:58:50,640 Speaker 1: Isla Fisher. 1278 00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:52,440 Speaker 2: Sasha Baron Collin. 1279 00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:55,320 Speaker 1: Sasha Baron Cohen. Yeah, Chris Pratt hung out with his 1280 00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:57,640 Speaker 1: ex wife for the first time in seven years at 1281 00:58:57,640 --> 00:59:00,040 Speaker 1: their son's sixth grade graduation. Name his. 1282 00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:03,680 Speaker 2: Chris Pratt, Anna feris that's right? 1283 00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:05,760 Speaker 1: Which singer said she lost a lead role in the 1284 00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:08,960 Speaker 1: kids movie Hotel Transylvania after she got hacked, and a 1285 00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:11,680 Speaker 1: photo of her with an inappropriate cake was leaked. 1286 00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:13,640 Speaker 2: Mighty Cyrus. 1287 00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:16,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, David Beckham shouted out all four of his kids 1288 00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:19,280 Speaker 1: on Father's Day, despite the rumored issues between he and 1289 00:59:19,320 --> 00:59:25,080 Speaker 1: one of his sons name his son. Oh three, that's right, 1290 00:59:25,320 --> 00:59:28,080 Speaker 1: that's a five, and that is a win. Nick, my man, 1291 00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:29,960 Speaker 1: you gotta say, my name is Nick. I got showed 1292 00:59:30,040 --> 00:59:31,720 Speaker 1: up on a showdown. You know the rest. 1293 00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:33,720 Speaker 6: My name is Nick. 1294 00:59:33,760 --> 00:59:35,240 Speaker 13: I got showed up on the showdown. 1295 00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:37,200 Speaker 7: And I cannot hang with the gorilla. 1296 00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:43,320 Speaker 1: That's right, Nick, You my man, can't hang with a 1297 00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:43,800 Speaker 1: gun Rael. 1298 00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:56,200 Speaker 16: Get shout out to Nick and Pope Leo. 1299 00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:56,640 Speaker 2: Amen. 1300 00:59:58,040 --> 01:00:02,040 Speaker 1: Those Canada wildfires can't get me down. Trying to take 1301 01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:05,160 Speaker 1: me out. Can't do it. Can't be done. Nick, Hang 1302 01:00:05,200 --> 01:00:08,840 Speaker 1: on a second, have a great day. Appreciate you man, 1303 01:00:08,840 --> 01:00:11,439 Speaker 1: thanks for listening. Showbiz. You did it again. Nine hundred 1304 01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:16,120 Speaker 1: bucks win number oneenty thirteen and nine straight. Very impressive. 1305 01:00:16,400 --> 01:00:19,840 Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you very much. Appreciate you. Thank you 1306 01:00:19,920 --> 01:00:20,240 Speaker 2: to you. 1307 01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:22,560 Speaker 1: And we were talking earlier. I know if you had 1308 01:00:22,600 --> 01:00:24,840 Speaker 1: it on or not. I know you were like parenting 1309 01:00:24,880 --> 01:00:26,080 Speaker 1: and doing all these things. 1310 01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:28,040 Speaker 2: I can't guarantee you here everything, but yeah, no, I 1311 01:00:28,080 --> 01:00:28,440 Speaker 2: have you on. 1312 01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:31,520 Speaker 1: And we were talking about a dad and a mom 1313 01:00:32,080 --> 01:00:34,960 Speaker 1: who were having issues because you know, ones it worked 1314 01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:37,040 Speaker 1: for twelve hours a day, the other one's raising the kids. 1315 01:00:37,440 --> 01:00:40,480 Speaker 1: And in this case, the mom was overheard telling her 1316 01:00:40,520 --> 01:00:43,640 Speaker 1: mom that she's a single parent, essentially, which offended the 1317 01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:46,400 Speaker 1: guy who's going to work for twelve hours a day. 1318 01:00:46,520 --> 01:00:48,600 Speaker 1: And I guess that that's like that they had sort 1319 01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:51,000 Speaker 1: of made that arrangement like Hey, I'm going to go 1320 01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:52,240 Speaker 1: to work and you're going to raise the kids, and 1321 01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:54,280 Speaker 1: that's how we're going to do this. And so he 1322 01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:57,040 Speaker 1: was offended. And now you are married to a member 1323 01:00:57,080 --> 01:01:01,000 Speaker 1: of our United States Navy. This dude, you know, he 1324 01:01:01,040 --> 01:01:04,960 Speaker 1: picks up and goes to Dubai parties, AKA gets deployed. 1325 01:01:06,640 --> 01:01:08,520 Speaker 1: And if you haven't been listening for a while, my 1326 01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:11,400 Speaker 1: military Mike will get deployed because he's in some sort 1327 01:01:11,440 --> 01:01:13,520 Speaker 1: of top secret area of the Navy, like we're not 1328 01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:15,040 Speaker 1: supposed to know what he's doing. And then all of 1329 01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:16,880 Speaker 1: a sudden, out of nowhere, I'll be like Shelley, where 1330 01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:18,160 Speaker 1: is he and she's like, I don't know. And then 1331 01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:21,320 Speaker 1: on his Instagram it's him shirtless in Dubai and you're like, well, 1332 01:01:21,320 --> 01:01:22,680 Speaker 1: I think I know, I know. 1333 01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:26,720 Speaker 20: Whuntext they do poor staff every now and again, and 1334 01:01:26,760 --> 01:01:28,880 Speaker 20: they get to get off and they sometimes get to 1335 01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:30,400 Speaker 20: hang out and they're not working in the middle of 1336 01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:33,240 Speaker 20: the ocean somewhere, so that's a rediation. 1337 01:01:33,880 --> 01:01:35,640 Speaker 1: He deserves it. But she was like, man, I don't 1338 01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:40,360 Speaker 1: know where he is. I do. He's at Club x 1339 01:01:40,400 --> 01:01:45,560 Speaker 1: FOZ in Dubai right now, shirtless you guys, like, has 1340 01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:47,320 Speaker 1: this ever been a thing? I mean you you married 1341 01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:49,080 Speaker 1: him knowing that he was in the military, knowing that 1342 01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:51,440 Speaker 1: he would go on long employments, knowing that at some 1343 01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:52,280 Speaker 1: point it would end. 1344 01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:55,280 Speaker 2: You married knowing that, but like you don't really. 1345 01:01:55,040 --> 01:01:57,960 Speaker 20: Know, Like you don't it's like, oh, yeah, you're gonna chat, okay, yeah, sure, whatever, 1346 01:01:58,720 --> 01:02:01,000 Speaker 20: But then you're in it and it's like, oh wow, 1347 01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:03,640 Speaker 20: but yeah, like he's he's gone for a few weeks 1348 01:02:03,640 --> 01:02:05,560 Speaker 20: now because they have what's called like underways where they 1349 01:02:05,560 --> 01:02:07,640 Speaker 20: go out to see it. So it's like he'll be 1350 01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:09,520 Speaker 20: gone for sometimes even months at a time when he's 1351 01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:12,640 Speaker 20: not deployed. So I maybe this is bad, but I've 1352 01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:14,800 Speaker 20: like become almost like numb to it, Like I almost 1353 01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:17,760 Speaker 20: feel worse for my daughter and son because it's like now, Olivia, 1354 01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:20,360 Speaker 20: my daughter's getting to age where it's like she kind 1355 01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:23,160 Speaker 20: of understands like, Okay, Dad's not coming, Like I feel 1356 01:02:23,200 --> 01:02:27,880 Speaker 20: bad for her, but I don't feel like I'm a 1357 01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:30,760 Speaker 20: single mom. I mean, I guess for you know, those weeks, 1358 01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:32,480 Speaker 20: I can be, but I don't feel like I'm a 1359 01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:35,000 Speaker 20: single mom. I mean, it's I will tell you this. 1360 01:02:35,040 --> 01:02:38,280 Speaker 20: It is so so hard. Remember when you guys asked me, 1361 01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:41,080 Speaker 20: like you were like, oh, you want another kid, and 1362 01:02:41,600 --> 01:02:45,680 Speaker 20: one one the work of one like took my breath away, 1363 01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:47,120 Speaker 20: So that was really I was like, I don't know, 1364 01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:49,520 Speaker 20: we're on the fence. And then we had Liam, our boy. 1365 01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:52,200 Speaker 20: He's the best, Like I can't imagine life without him now. 1366 01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:56,200 Speaker 20: But it's hard, like having too, like having a toddler 1367 01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:58,040 Speaker 20: and a baby in the back of the car screaming 1368 01:02:58,160 --> 01:03:00,200 Speaker 20: deaths like a joy, you guys know, nothing, like it's 1369 01:03:00,320 --> 01:03:03,160 Speaker 20: just let me tell you it's something. 1370 01:03:03,280 --> 01:03:06,240 Speaker 2: So it's really hard. It's just it is it's really really. 1371 01:03:06,040 --> 01:03:08,920 Speaker 1: Hard that he has to sleep on a submarine or 1372 01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:11,400 Speaker 1: aircraft carrier or whatever. So it's like it's not like 1373 01:03:11,440 --> 01:03:12,920 Speaker 1: har too right exactly. 1374 01:03:13,120 --> 01:03:15,080 Speaker 20: And I heard the one caller say when he gets home, 1375 01:03:15,440 --> 01:03:18,120 Speaker 20: like you know, he wants to relax, which I get too. 1376 01:03:18,160 --> 01:03:19,960 Speaker 20: So that's something we have had to work on. Is 1377 01:03:20,040 --> 01:03:22,200 Speaker 20: like Okay, you come home and he gets like a 1378 01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:27,400 Speaker 20: certain a lotted amount of time and then you know, yeah, 1379 01:03:27,520 --> 01:03:28,160 Speaker 20: not help. 1380 01:03:28,840 --> 01:03:31,640 Speaker 1: So that's quite to sacrifice. And it's really hard. And 1381 01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:33,080 Speaker 1: I don't know that I've ever I mean, I've known 1382 01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:35,680 Speaker 1: people obviously who were in the military, but I don't 1383 01:03:35,680 --> 01:03:37,680 Speaker 1: think I've ever known any of my contemporaries, any of 1384 01:03:37,680 --> 01:03:40,440 Speaker 1: my peers are friends that have to do this, like 1385 01:03:40,480 --> 01:03:42,240 Speaker 1: you do when he's gone for months on end, and 1386 01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:45,440 Speaker 1: it's like, well, and you know you people could argue, well, 1387 01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:47,040 Speaker 1: you knew that when you married him, but that doesn't 1388 01:03:47,040 --> 01:03:49,920 Speaker 1: mean that doesn't mean that in practice that it's you know, 1389 01:03:50,080 --> 01:03:51,800 Speaker 1: something that you can truly like grasp. 1390 01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:54,120 Speaker 20: Unless you have somebody close to you in the military, 1391 01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:55,080 Speaker 20: you don't really get it. 1392 01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:55,920 Speaker 2: Like I didn't really know. 1393 01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:59,840 Speaker 20: What I was getting myself into really, So now have 1394 01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:02,520 Speaker 20: been a part of it, Yes, now I do understand it. 1395 01:04:02,560 --> 01:04:04,360 Speaker 20: Is it's very hard, and it's hard because we don't 1396 01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:07,600 Speaker 20: really a family around, so it's like scrapping together, you know, 1397 01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:08,480 Speaker 20: like babysit, like. 1398 01:04:08,440 --> 01:04:10,640 Speaker 2: All kinds of stuff. So it is it's I've had 1399 01:04:10,680 --> 01:04:13,840 Speaker 2: a good cry for, not against, and that's amazing. Right, 1400 01:04:13,880 --> 01:04:15,560 Speaker 2: you're doing amazing and that's okay. Thank you? 1401 01:04:15,680 --> 01:04:17,840 Speaker 1: Well, I say thank you both for your sacrifice, and 1402 01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:20,400 Speaker 1: Jason says, more shirtless pictures from military mindsets. 1403 01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:24,160 Speaker 2: Hey, no summers on the corner, right, yeah, I. 1404 01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:27,200 Speaker 1: Don't think that speedo is military issue, but whatever it is, 1405 01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:33,040 Speaker 1: it is camouflaged. So in our country. We'll see tomorrow. 1406 01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:35,200 Speaker 1: Have a good day, are you too? By Kiki's Court 1407 01:04:35,320 --> 01:04:35,640 Speaker 1: is next? 1408 01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:38,479 Speaker 2: But umpa girl, you need a DNA test? 1409 01:04:38,680 --> 01:04:45,560 Speaker 1: Okay, that's next, more threadshell Next, this is the fread 1410 01:04:45,640 --> 01:04:47,360 Speaker 1: Shall we have your chance to win a trip for 1411 01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:50,040 Speaker 1: two to see Kelly Clarkson's return to Las Vegas for 1412 01:04:50,120 --> 01:04:53,840 Speaker 1: her brand new residency studio sessions live in the coliseum 1413 01:04:53,960 --> 01:04:58,320 Speaker 1: at Segret's Palace on August first. Text sessions to three 1414 01:04:58,440 --> 01:05:01,000 Speaker 1: seven three three seven now for chance to win two 1415 01:05:01,040 --> 01:05:04,720 Speaker 1: tickets to the August first show, two nights hotel s 1416 01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:07,520 Speaker 1: day July thirty first to August second at the Flamingo, 1417 01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:10,440 Speaker 1: Las Vegas and round trip airfare. A confirmation text will 1418 01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:13,280 Speaker 1: be sent standard message of data rates apply all thanks 1419 01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:14,000 Speaker 1: to the live nation. 1420 01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:18,800 Speaker 3: We'll go up in the city, play a game for 1421 01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:20,840 Speaker 3: your you go to work and you're doing recess with 1422 01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:21,600 Speaker 3: your friends. 1423 01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:23,480 Speaker 1: But there is so much that goes into that or 1424 01:05:23,640 --> 01:05:27,960 Speaker 1: what people think about this right where it works are 1425 01:05:28,200 --> 01:05:31,600 Speaker 1: Fred's show is on next Monday, June sixteen. The Frends 1426 01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:33,920 Speaker 1: Show is not good morning, Thanks for waking up with us. 1427 01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:38,760 Speaker 1: Hi kayln good morning, Hi Jason Brown, Hi Paulina hikekill. 1428 01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:40,320 Speaker 1: That means here on the phone of the text eight 1429 01:05:40,320 --> 01:05:44,600 Speaker 1: five five five Kiki's Court in just a second, bout 1430 01:05:44,640 --> 01:05:46,600 Speaker 1: I'm bomb girl, Karon reg innocent. 1431 01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:49,440 Speaker 16: I don't know nothing about Karen, but you need a 1432 01:05:49,480 --> 01:05:50,600 Speaker 16: DNA test over here? 1433 01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:53,920 Speaker 1: Okay. The Entertainer Report headline's biggest stories of the day, 1434 01:05:53,960 --> 01:05:55,360 Speaker 1: The fun fact coming up? What are you working on? 1435 01:05:55,440 --> 01:05:58,760 Speaker 3: K an entire music festival was canceled over the weekend, 1436 01:05:58,960 --> 01:06:01,880 Speaker 3: and also Taylor's did something for sick kids that made 1437 01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:03,200 Speaker 3: my eyes very wet over the. 1438 01:06:03,160 --> 01:06:07,120 Speaker 1: Weekend, and people were still somehow critical in the comments. 1439 01:06:07,160 --> 01:06:10,000 Speaker 2: It's like, how shut up, shut up, I don't do anything. 1440 01:06:10,560 --> 01:06:14,080 Speaker 1: It's Kiki's court, all rights, The honorable Kiki Leak is here. 1441 01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:15,240 Speaker 1: Take it away, Judge Kiky. 1442 01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:17,200 Speaker 2: All right, let's get into the courtroom. 1443 01:06:17,280 --> 01:06:20,720 Speaker 16: It says Kiki, am I wrong for getting a DNA 1444 01:06:20,800 --> 01:06:23,160 Speaker 16: test on my daughter because I didn't believe she was mine. 1445 01:06:23,600 --> 01:06:25,720 Speaker 16: My wife and I have been together for ten years, 1446 01:06:25,840 --> 01:06:28,800 Speaker 16: married for six We tried for years to have a baby, 1447 01:06:29,080 --> 01:06:31,720 Speaker 16: and for years we were faced with struggles. But back 1448 01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:34,120 Speaker 16: in December, we were finally blessed with our baby girl. 1449 01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:37,320 Speaker 16: I was shocked, excited, but if I'm honest, I had 1450 01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:39,080 Speaker 16: a little bit of doubt in my mind that the 1451 01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:41,920 Speaker 16: baby could really be mine, just because we tried for 1452 01:06:41,920 --> 01:06:44,920 Speaker 16: so long and had no success. To make matters worse, 1453 01:06:45,200 --> 01:06:47,600 Speaker 16: when my daughter was born, she didn't really look like me. 1454 01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:50,640 Speaker 16: Even my own mother started making comments about how she 1455 01:06:50,680 --> 01:06:54,320 Speaker 16: didn't really look like us at all, different hair texture, 1456 01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:57,840 Speaker 16: eye color, and more. Eventually, my mom suggested that I 1457 01:06:57,840 --> 01:07:00,360 Speaker 16: buy an at home DNA test and test my daughter 1458 01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:04,959 Speaker 16: without telling my wife. Thankfully, the results confirmed she is mine, 1459 01:07:05,320 --> 01:07:07,640 Speaker 16: and I felt a huge sense of relief and was 1460 01:07:07,680 --> 01:07:10,280 Speaker 16: ready to move on with our lives. But last week 1461 01:07:10,480 --> 01:07:13,560 Speaker 16: my wife found out she was shopping online and saw 1462 01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:15,880 Speaker 16: the DNA test in our recent purchase history. 1463 01:07:16,280 --> 01:07:17,680 Speaker 2: And now she's not speaking to me. 1464 01:07:17,760 --> 01:07:20,000 Speaker 16: She's sleeping in the gas room and says that our 1465 01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:23,560 Speaker 16: trust is forever broken. It really wasn't a trust thing 1466 01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:26,040 Speaker 16: for me, but more of my anxiety just getting the 1467 01:07:26,040 --> 01:07:28,600 Speaker 16: best of me. Am I wrong for doing what I 1468 01:07:28,640 --> 01:07:31,000 Speaker 16: felt was necessary to make me feel secure? 1469 01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:34,400 Speaker 1: Judge Kicky would say. 1470 01:07:34,800 --> 01:07:37,040 Speaker 2: Oh, you da are wrong. You are so wrong, my boy, 1471 01:07:37,120 --> 01:07:39,080 Speaker 2: you are wrong. Oh you're wrong. 1472 01:07:39,560 --> 01:07:44,040 Speaker 1: You know I gotta be smarter. I am a you 1473 01:07:44,080 --> 01:07:45,800 Speaker 1: know what you got to do, but people can't find 1474 01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:48,120 Speaker 1: out about it? You can, like you share the Amazon. 1475 01:07:48,160 --> 01:07:48,920 Speaker 1: What are we doing? 1476 01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:53,720 Speaker 16: I mean, I'm a technically single woman, but even yes, 1477 01:07:53,760 --> 01:07:55,720 Speaker 16: I am Jason, like. 1478 01:07:55,640 --> 01:07:58,680 Speaker 1: If I was, he's asleep. Yeah, we find out that 1479 01:07:58,760 --> 01:08:00,640 Speaker 1: big Tip works all night, which is why there's no 1480 01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:02,400 Speaker 1: chance that he'll hear any of this racket. 1481 01:08:03,080 --> 01:08:04,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a smart man. 1482 01:08:05,080 --> 01:08:10,280 Speaker 16: But I would never do something like this and not 1483 01:08:10,360 --> 01:08:12,560 Speaker 16: talk about it with my partner, Like, I feel, what. 1484 01:08:12,440 --> 01:08:14,720 Speaker 1: Are you supposed to say? Kiki, Like, hey just said, 1485 01:08:15,000 --> 01:08:16,960 Speaker 1: I don't think this kid looks like me. I'm pretty 1486 01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:20,640 Speaker 1: sure that somebody else inseminated you. No, I mean, like, 1487 01:08:20,760 --> 01:08:22,280 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think that you can have that 1488 01:08:22,360 --> 01:08:25,080 Speaker 1: comp I mean that that wouldn't that be worse than 1489 01:08:25,160 --> 01:08:27,240 Speaker 1: just doing this on the side and not telling anybody 1490 01:08:27,640 --> 01:08:30,080 Speaker 1: to appease what you know to be your own insecurity. 1491 01:08:30,240 --> 01:08:32,360 Speaker 2: If you're gonna do it, do it well, bro. 1492 01:08:32,479 --> 01:08:35,000 Speaker 16: You can't do it on the same wallbrings account like 1493 01:08:35,040 --> 01:08:37,320 Speaker 16: you should have you know, you have somebody else by you, 1494 01:08:37,360 --> 01:08:40,479 Speaker 16: but actually you should be able to talk to your 1495 01:08:40,520 --> 01:08:43,400 Speaker 16: partner about this, like if you're having insecurities, if you're 1496 01:08:43,400 --> 01:08:45,479 Speaker 16: having doubts, if there's something going on, you could say, 1497 01:08:45,479 --> 01:08:46,680 Speaker 16: my mind's playing tricks on. 1498 01:08:46,640 --> 01:08:48,920 Speaker 2: Me, like can we fix this? Can we figure it out? 1499 01:08:49,080 --> 01:08:50,920 Speaker 16: But to do this behind her back and then you 1500 01:08:50,920 --> 01:08:53,679 Speaker 16: and your mama in cahoops and then nobody told me anything. 1501 01:08:53,760 --> 01:08:57,880 Speaker 16: Y'all over her DNA testing my child. Oh my yes, 1502 01:08:58,040 --> 01:08:59,880 Speaker 16: I'm sleep in the guest room. You better be glad 1503 01:08:59,880 --> 01:09:00,759 Speaker 16: you're still alive. 1504 01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:05,200 Speaker 6: Yes, And babies don't look like anybody, Like, I'm so sick. 1505 01:09:05,240 --> 01:09:07,040 Speaker 6: A many people are like, this baby looks more like 1506 01:09:07,200 --> 01:09:10,160 Speaker 6: babies look like babies. You're gonna look at a baby 1507 01:09:10,160 --> 01:09:12,880 Speaker 6: and be like, this doesn't look like me, Like it's 1508 01:09:12,920 --> 01:09:13,439 Speaker 6: a baby. 1509 01:09:13,520 --> 01:09:17,320 Speaker 2: It's a baby. They need to cook, not even like grown. 1510 01:09:17,439 --> 01:09:19,479 Speaker 1: Now I know I mixed on this, you guys. So 1511 01:09:19,520 --> 01:09:22,680 Speaker 1: I'm supposed to bring all of my insecurities into the relationship, 1512 01:09:22,840 --> 01:09:24,599 Speaker 1: Like I'm supposed to sit down and be like I 1513 01:09:24,640 --> 01:09:27,360 Speaker 1: think you cheated on me and created a baby. Or 1514 01:09:27,960 --> 01:09:32,080 Speaker 1: if I'm this crazy in my mind Loki like Cabasa, 1515 01:09:32,280 --> 01:09:33,880 Speaker 1: then I just go figure it out on my own 1516 01:09:33,920 --> 01:09:36,080 Speaker 1: and then hopefully you never find out. Then I'm a 1517 01:09:36,080 --> 01:09:40,000 Speaker 1: crazy person and that's on me, and I needed some reassurance. 1518 01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:42,160 Speaker 2: You are okay with this, it's gonna end. 1519 01:09:42,160 --> 01:09:44,960 Speaker 1: It would potentially end the relationship to sit down and 1520 01:09:45,000 --> 01:09:47,880 Speaker 1: accuse the mother of your child of cheating because simply 1521 01:09:47,880 --> 01:09:48,920 Speaker 1: because you're insecure. 1522 01:09:49,200 --> 01:09:50,080 Speaker 2: No no, no, no. 1523 01:09:50,120 --> 01:09:51,840 Speaker 16: See, he could have came to her and said, you know, 1524 01:09:52,360 --> 01:09:54,920 Speaker 16: my mind is something went on with my mind after 1525 01:09:55,000 --> 01:09:57,439 Speaker 16: having this baby. We've been through so many struggles, like 1526 01:09:57,760 --> 01:10:02,920 Speaker 16: help me ease my mind, wife, you know. 1527 01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:05,719 Speaker 1: But what damage does this do? If it's if he's 1528 01:10:05,760 --> 01:10:08,599 Speaker 1: just confirming what he already wants to know, like what 1529 01:10:08,600 --> 01:10:10,680 Speaker 1: what is it? What damage is really taken? I mean, 1530 01:10:10,720 --> 01:10:14,120 Speaker 1: either way, either way he's saying I don't trust my wife, 1531 01:10:14,479 --> 01:10:16,360 Speaker 1: whether he sits down and talks to her or gets 1532 01:10:16,360 --> 01:10:19,360 Speaker 1: a dnahest either way he's saying I don't trust you, 1533 01:10:19,400 --> 01:10:22,760 Speaker 1: which means there's an overarching, a larger issue going on here. 1534 01:10:23,320 --> 01:10:25,559 Speaker 16: But you can't trust now, I can never trust you 1535 01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:27,559 Speaker 16: or your mama. I don't know what y'all will do. 1536 01:10:27,920 --> 01:10:30,720 Speaker 16: You know now you're forever. I'm always looking at you 1537 01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:32,639 Speaker 16: with a side eye because you had this whole operation 1538 01:10:32,720 --> 01:10:34,479 Speaker 16: on the side of our marriage and never mentioned it 1539 01:10:34,560 --> 01:10:34,760 Speaker 16: to me. 1540 01:10:34,960 --> 01:10:37,080 Speaker 1: You just gotta be smarter about it. Oh, we just 1541 01:10:37,080 --> 01:10:39,240 Speaker 1: gotta not get caught, is what this says. If you're 1542 01:10:39,320 --> 01:10:42,200 Speaker 1: if you've got insecurities and you want answers, and you 1543 01:10:42,240 --> 01:10:44,479 Speaker 1: can get them and no one ever has to, no 1544 01:10:44,479 --> 01:10:47,160 Speaker 1: one's ever the wiser, then you go get those answers 1545 01:10:47,160 --> 01:10:48,840 Speaker 1: and you make sure you never get caught. That's it, 1546 01:10:48,960 --> 01:10:53,280 Speaker 1: Oh my Lanta eight five five five five. Well, because 1547 01:10:53,320 --> 01:10:55,120 Speaker 1: like I don't, I don't know if you're gonna live 1548 01:10:55,160 --> 01:10:57,479 Speaker 1: with this. If you are, if you believe this and 1549 01:10:57,520 --> 01:11:01,840 Speaker 1: you have no evidence, no evidence, what's to And this 1550 01:11:01,920 --> 01:11:04,320 Speaker 1: is something that you just have to clear your mind about. 1551 01:11:04,920 --> 01:11:08,000 Speaker 1: And I sit down, I say, Kiki, is that kid mine? 1552 01:11:08,200 --> 01:11:10,439 Speaker 1: I want a DNA test. I'm saying you're a cheater 1553 01:11:10,800 --> 01:11:11,719 Speaker 1: for no reason. 1554 01:11:11,960 --> 01:11:15,600 Speaker 16: No, because you know you could say postpartumn man, go 1555 01:11:15,640 --> 01:11:16,720 Speaker 16: through postpartum two. 1556 01:11:17,160 --> 01:11:17,640 Speaker 1: Stop it. 1557 01:11:17,800 --> 01:11:19,840 Speaker 2: You know you could, like I'm just saying, he would 1558 01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:22,000 Speaker 2: have to me. You could have blamed it on your 1559 01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:23,880 Speaker 2: mental health, and I would have worked with you, but 1560 01:11:24,240 --> 01:11:25,000 Speaker 2: the fact that you're. 1561 01:11:24,840 --> 01:11:26,880 Speaker 1: Out here owing you a cheater even if my mental 1562 01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:28,760 Speaker 1: health is off, which my mental health is always off, 1563 01:11:28,760 --> 01:11:30,479 Speaker 1: and you knew that when I when we got when 1564 01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:31,479 Speaker 1: we Hodel, call me a. 1565 01:11:31,520 --> 01:11:35,160 Speaker 16: Cheated to my face and not behind my back. Okay, Colleena, 1566 01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:36,360 Speaker 16: what would you do if Poppy did this? 1567 01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:37,479 Speaker 1: Well? 1568 01:11:38,240 --> 01:11:41,320 Speaker 10: Taking a grave at the cemetery, Dad is like, I'm 1569 01:11:41,360 --> 01:11:43,840 Speaker 10: already postpartum, already going through everything. I cooked this baby 1570 01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:46,519 Speaker 10: for nine months, and you're accusing me of that. Sometimes 1571 01:11:46,520 --> 01:11:47,720 Speaker 10: I look at my daughter, though I don't even know 1572 01:11:47,720 --> 01:11:50,000 Speaker 10: if she's mine, because she looks nothing like me, even 1573 01:11:50,080 --> 01:11:52,719 Speaker 10: like just like her beautiful, like you know, skin texture, everything, 1574 01:11:52,720 --> 01:11:53,080 Speaker 10: her color. 1575 01:11:53,120 --> 01:11:54,960 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, like, are you even my baby? 1576 01:11:54,960 --> 01:11:58,120 Speaker 10: But I might have to But if Hobby ever asked 1577 01:11:58,120 --> 01:11:59,960 Speaker 10: me that, or him and his mother went behind my back, 1578 01:12:00,240 --> 01:12:02,160 Speaker 10: I don't even know what's worse. To be honest, I 1579 01:12:02,439 --> 01:12:04,040 Speaker 10: don't know if you're going behind my back or just 1580 01:12:04,040 --> 01:12:05,679 Speaker 10: straight up telling me I want a DNA test. 1581 01:12:05,840 --> 01:12:07,600 Speaker 1: You cannot get caught. If you're going to do this, 1582 01:12:07,720 --> 01:12:11,160 Speaker 1: you cannot get caught. That's really what this comes down to, 1583 01:12:11,360 --> 01:12:15,200 Speaker 1: is you just simply cannot get caught. Hey Chloe, Hey, 1584 01:12:15,439 --> 01:12:18,120 Speaker 1: Hi Chloe, Welcome to Keiki's Court. On The Fred Show, 1585 01:12:18,280 --> 01:12:20,880 Speaker 1: I did a situation a dude is insecure because he 1586 01:12:20,880 --> 01:12:24,839 Speaker 1: doesn't think that his kid is his. And so despite 1587 01:12:24,840 --> 01:12:27,960 Speaker 1: the fact that he has no evidence of her cheating whatsoever, 1588 01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:29,880 Speaker 1: he wins and he and his mom went and had 1589 01:12:29,920 --> 01:12:32,360 Speaker 1: a DNA test to prove that in fact, the kid 1590 01:12:32,400 --> 01:12:34,160 Speaker 1: was his, and it is. And then his wife found 1591 01:12:34,200 --> 01:12:36,200 Speaker 1: out because he was a dummy and he bought it 1592 01:12:36,240 --> 01:12:40,160 Speaker 1: on a shared account. Dummy. But what do you think? 1593 01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:45,040 Speaker 8: I don't know, Like, honestly, I think probably you should 1594 01:12:45,080 --> 01:12:47,080 Speaker 8: go because there's like so many things that are wrong 1595 01:12:47,080 --> 01:12:47,759 Speaker 8: in this situation. 1596 01:12:47,800 --> 01:12:48,040 Speaker 13: For me. 1597 01:12:48,439 --> 01:12:50,479 Speaker 8: One, you say that, oh, I had to do it 1598 01:12:50,479 --> 01:12:53,240 Speaker 8: because my anxiety was so bad. Okay, So like, if 1599 01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:55,240 Speaker 8: you struggle with mental health, you should be talking with 1600 01:12:55,280 --> 01:12:57,880 Speaker 8: your partner about that, and you should probably have a 1601 01:12:57,920 --> 01:13:01,839 Speaker 8: therapist because chance if you were talking with your therapist 1602 01:13:01,880 --> 01:13:04,720 Speaker 8: about all of this, you would not have needed to 1603 01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:08,840 Speaker 8: buy the paternity test. Second issue, what is mom in 1604 01:13:08,920 --> 01:13:13,400 Speaker 8: law doing? Like, there are things that you like to 1605 01:13:13,520 --> 01:13:15,639 Speaker 8: say and then there are things that you don't say, 1606 01:13:16,720 --> 01:13:18,439 Speaker 8: and it seems like mom in law is a little 1607 01:13:18,479 --> 01:13:22,080 Speaker 8: bit of a hater. And there's just like some things 1608 01:13:22,160 --> 01:13:25,000 Speaker 8: you just don't tell your kids about their other partner, 1609 01:13:25,120 --> 01:13:27,400 Speaker 8: you know, like if my mom has some opinions about 1610 01:13:27,400 --> 01:13:30,000 Speaker 8: my husband, I tell her, yeah, thank you, keep them 1611 01:13:30,040 --> 01:13:32,960 Speaker 8: to yourself and let's keep it moving. But I feel 1612 01:13:32,960 --> 01:13:35,599 Speaker 8: like this is also pretty severe where you're like, yeah, 1613 01:13:35,600 --> 01:13:38,920 Speaker 8: I don't think the kid here is either like what what? 1614 01:13:39,479 --> 01:13:43,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, Chloe say No, I'm glad you called, thanks for listening, 1615 01:13:43,160 --> 01:13:43,760 Speaker 1: have a good day. 1616 01:13:45,200 --> 01:13:45,400 Speaker 15: Yeah. 1617 01:13:45,600 --> 01:13:48,120 Speaker 1: I mean, look, I'm a thinker, you know. I let 1618 01:13:48,120 --> 01:13:50,800 Speaker 1: my mind get the best of me. I have my insecurities. 1619 01:13:51,560 --> 01:13:54,479 Speaker 1: I wouldn't say, you know, this would hopefully be one 1620 01:13:54,479 --> 01:13:57,479 Speaker 1: of them. But if I need to rest my mind 1621 01:13:57,560 --> 01:13:59,760 Speaker 1: over something that I know is ridiculous, I've got two 1622 01:13:59,800 --> 01:14:02,360 Speaker 1: chic I can either it's either mind ever matter or 1623 01:14:02,400 --> 01:14:05,600 Speaker 1: I control I control it. And I said this is ridiculous, 1624 01:14:06,080 --> 01:14:08,719 Speaker 1: and I have to talk to myself and say, hey, hey, Fred, 1625 01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:11,120 Speaker 1: this is like you're a crazy person and this is 1626 01:14:11,120 --> 01:14:13,040 Speaker 1: a crazy thought and move past it. And if I 1627 01:14:13,080 --> 01:14:16,120 Speaker 1: simply cannot do that, I don't need to torture you 1628 01:14:16,520 --> 01:14:18,880 Speaker 1: and sit down and accuse you of being a bad person. 1629 01:14:18,920 --> 01:14:20,360 Speaker 1: I get answers on my own. 1630 01:14:20,520 --> 01:14:21,240 Speaker 2: And get caught. 1631 01:14:22,200 --> 01:14:23,759 Speaker 1: I already said, don't get caught. 1632 01:14:24,120 --> 01:14:25,880 Speaker 2: How could you live with yourself if you did that 1633 01:14:25,920 --> 01:14:26,439 Speaker 2: in secret? 1634 01:14:26,439 --> 01:14:28,439 Speaker 1: Though? See, I could live with myself a lot better 1635 01:14:28,479 --> 01:14:30,360 Speaker 1: than sitting down and accusing a person who I don't 1636 01:14:30,400 --> 01:14:32,840 Speaker 1: really think cheated cheated because I'm a crazy person. 1637 01:14:33,000 --> 01:14:34,760 Speaker 2: But if you don't really think I cheated, then why 1638 01:14:34,800 --> 01:14:35,639 Speaker 2: do you need the test? 1639 01:14:36,800 --> 01:14:38,960 Speaker 1: You've never had a thought that just was unreasonable, that 1640 01:14:39,080 --> 01:14:39,920 Speaker 1: just didn't add up. 1641 01:14:40,400 --> 01:14:42,839 Speaker 2: Of course I have, but I would share that. I wouldn't. 1642 01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:44,839 Speaker 2: I wouldn't get my book jesting. 1643 01:14:45,000 --> 01:14:47,679 Speaker 1: Like I know that if I really have no evidence 1644 01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:49,880 Speaker 1: of you cheating, and I sit you down and I 1645 01:14:49,880 --> 01:14:53,519 Speaker 1: accuse you of cheating, that isn't quite the accusation. When 1646 01:14:53,520 --> 01:14:55,280 Speaker 1: I know I'm a crazy person. So I can put 1647 01:14:55,280 --> 01:14:58,840 Speaker 1: my mind to rest. Mine is rested. Oh you just 1648 01:14:58,880 --> 01:15:01,720 Speaker 1: take it caught, okay? Oh someone said you were lying here. 1649 01:15:01,720 --> 01:15:03,760 Speaker 1: Hold on a second, you say, oh, kicky out here 1650 01:15:03,840 --> 01:15:06,400 Speaker 1: lying like a living room rug wanted to gotta be 1651 01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:08,479 Speaker 1: upfront about it. See, I don't think that's an answer. 1652 01:15:08,880 --> 01:15:10,960 Speaker 1: I simply don't think that's that's not an option. 1653 01:15:10,960 --> 01:15:12,719 Speaker 16: You're right, I'm lying. I want him to go sneak 1654 01:15:12,720 --> 01:15:15,000 Speaker 16: around my back, behind my back? What is mama? Yeah, 1655 01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:20,960 Speaker 16: not exactly, Yeah, but I just want him to be honest. 1656 01:15:21,120 --> 01:15:22,960 Speaker 1: I'm not saying any of this is good, but I 1657 01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:26,080 Speaker 1: can't just project every insecurity I have onto my partner. 1658 01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:27,519 Speaker 1: That's not fair to my partner. 1659 01:15:27,600 --> 01:15:29,840 Speaker 2: But you can do it without saying someone cheated. You 1660 01:15:29,840 --> 01:15:31,240 Speaker 2: could say, hey, I'm having these thoughts. 1661 01:15:31,280 --> 01:15:33,920 Speaker 1: I know they're maybe it's not mine. That means another 1662 01:15:34,000 --> 01:15:35,280 Speaker 1: dude put his stuff in their. 1663 01:15:35,240 --> 01:15:37,040 Speaker 3: No, you could say, I know you didn't cheat, but 1664 01:15:37,160 --> 01:15:39,320 Speaker 3: like I have been hurt in the past, and this 1665 01:15:39,360 --> 01:15:41,040 Speaker 3: is what's coming up for me. You could have a 1666 01:15:41,080 --> 01:15:42,799 Speaker 3: conversation without accusing someone. 1667 01:15:43,880 --> 01:15:45,880 Speaker 1: If I didn't think you'd cheated, then we don't need 1668 01:15:45,880 --> 01:15:48,000 Speaker 1: the test. I don't know. This one is one that's 1669 01:15:48,080 --> 01:15:50,080 Speaker 1: going to be tough to work around. I don't think 1670 01:15:50,120 --> 01:15:55,360 Speaker 1: you can communicate that without I think that's equally hurtful, 1671 01:15:55,439 --> 01:15:59,400 Speaker 1: maybe more hurtful. Wow, And you could also a lot 1672 01:15:59,400 --> 01:16:01,080 Speaker 1: of people were you think you just blame it on 1673 01:16:01,400 --> 01:16:04,200 Speaker 1: mom in law, Well, just get hurt. Just say my mom, 1674 01:16:04,320 --> 01:16:07,640 Speaker 1: I don't know relationship. I couldn't get her to shut up. 1675 01:16:07,680 --> 01:16:14,880 Speaker 1: I couldn't Polly, Hi, Polly, my niece is not yet 1676 01:16:14,960 --> 01:16:19,400 Speaker 1: doesn't have an opinion on this yet. She's fo what 1677 01:16:19,400 --> 01:16:21,400 Speaker 1: would you do here? What? What's what? How do you 1678 01:16:21,400 --> 01:16:23,120 Speaker 1: get around this? What? What do you say? What do 1679 01:16:23,160 --> 01:16:23,479 Speaker 1: you do? 1680 01:16:26,280 --> 01:16:29,160 Speaker 12: I mean I would leave. Honestly, this sucks because they've 1681 01:16:29,200 --> 01:16:31,439 Speaker 12: been trying so long to have this kid and then 1682 01:16:31,640 --> 01:16:35,040 Speaker 12: she finally has a kid and this shit all happens. 1683 01:16:35,439 --> 01:16:38,760 Speaker 12: But the mother in law is a bigger problem than 1684 01:16:38,800 --> 01:16:40,040 Speaker 12: we're talking about here. 1685 01:16:39,960 --> 01:16:44,080 Speaker 21: Because why is she why is she acting this on? 1686 01:16:44,160 --> 01:16:46,640 Speaker 21: Why is she adding to this? She's probably getting in 1687 01:16:46,680 --> 01:16:49,559 Speaker 21: her son's head, like honestly, that's probably part of it 1688 01:16:49,600 --> 01:16:50,080 Speaker 21: as well. 1689 01:16:50,640 --> 01:16:53,920 Speaker 12: So I think she has to go because there's a 1690 01:16:53,960 --> 01:16:55,479 Speaker 12: whole baggage here. 1691 01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:57,320 Speaker 21: It seems like honest. 1692 01:16:57,360 --> 01:16:59,479 Speaker 1: Mom, I'd hope she tugged me out of it, right, 1693 01:16:59,800 --> 01:17:00,360 Speaker 1: you hope? 1694 01:17:00,880 --> 01:17:01,040 Speaker 15: Yes? 1695 01:17:01,280 --> 01:17:03,840 Speaker 1: That's crazy, you know, like, let's someone just texted my 1696 01:17:03,920 --> 01:17:05,920 Speaker 1: kid didn't look like me until my kid was ten 1697 01:17:06,400 --> 01:17:08,320 Speaker 1: or something, so like, I don't know that that's you know, 1698 01:17:08,360 --> 01:17:11,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think sometimes you gotta take you 1699 01:17:11,439 --> 01:17:14,719 Speaker 1: gotta you gotta uh, you cannot just put everything else 1700 01:17:14,720 --> 01:17:17,559 Speaker 1: that you're feeling onto other people simply because you're feeling it. 1701 01:17:17,600 --> 01:17:20,240 Speaker 1: You kind of have to like sometimes have control over 1702 01:17:20,280 --> 01:17:22,280 Speaker 1: your thoughts and and and so I don't know that 1703 01:17:22,360 --> 01:17:25,720 Speaker 1: necessarily putting that on her is something you would ever 1704 01:17:25,760 --> 01:17:27,880 Speaker 1: recover from. But then again, I think getting caught in 1705 01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:29,920 Speaker 1: this case is not something you're ever going to get 1706 01:17:30,560 --> 01:17:32,519 Speaker 1: going to recover from. So I don't know there's a 1707 01:17:32,520 --> 01:17:35,240 Speaker 1: point of no return here. Yeah, he just can't get cold. 1708 01:17:35,320 --> 01:17:36,000 Speaker 21: Yeah, I agree. 1709 01:17:36,720 --> 01:17:40,639 Speaker 12: Either way he would have been he should be gone, Okay, 1710 01:17:40,680 --> 01:17:43,000 Speaker 12: I'd be colder. Or if he didn't kill her, you know, 1711 01:17:43,360 --> 01:17:44,320 Speaker 12: thank you, Polly. 1712 01:17:44,120 --> 01:17:46,880 Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Have a good day, are you too? 1713 01:17:47,640 --> 01:17:49,920 Speaker 2: Just don't get gone, Fred, I don't know about that. 1714 01:17:50,520 --> 01:17:53,760 Speaker 1: Calin's entertainment report is on the Freas Show. 1715 01:17:54,040 --> 01:17:57,200 Speaker 3: Taylor Swift has been living with boyfriend Travis Kelcey in 1716 01:17:57,200 --> 01:18:00,760 Speaker 3: Florida and spend her day on Friday surprising children at 1717 01:18:00,880 --> 01:18:03,200 Speaker 3: the Joe DiMaggio Children's Hospital. 1718 01:18:03,200 --> 01:18:03,439 Speaker 21: There. 1719 01:18:03,880 --> 01:18:06,320 Speaker 3: A few clips are making their rounds on Social or 1720 01:18:06,360 --> 01:18:09,160 Speaker 3: We're over the weekend of Taylor taking her time with 1721 01:18:09,200 --> 01:18:12,120 Speaker 3: each kiddo making her rounds, even sending a girl named 1722 01:18:12,160 --> 01:18:14,519 Speaker 3: Naya her entire outfit after. 1723 01:18:14,400 --> 01:18:16,280 Speaker 2: She simply told Taylor that she liked it. 1724 01:18:16,360 --> 01:18:19,519 Speaker 3: Of course, very sick people on the internet took issue 1725 01:18:19,520 --> 01:18:21,840 Speaker 3: with the visit, with some calling her out for handing 1726 01:18:21,880 --> 01:18:25,040 Speaker 3: out signed copies of her Aras tour book. Apparently that's 1727 01:18:25,560 --> 01:18:30,000 Speaker 3: rude to patients. Also others asking why the interactions were filmed. 1728 01:18:30,920 --> 01:18:34,000 Speaker 3: First of all, Taylor famously bands pressed from being at 1729 01:18:34,040 --> 01:18:37,719 Speaker 3: these hospital visits, but other people film and she lets 1730 01:18:37,720 --> 01:18:39,680 Speaker 3: them because she's not going to say no phone. 1731 01:18:39,560 --> 01:18:41,720 Speaker 1: Right, the family's filmed and then they put it up. 1732 01:18:42,000 --> 01:18:42,840 Speaker 2: She allows that. 1733 01:18:43,120 --> 01:18:45,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, which because they can film if they want, they 1734 01:18:45,160 --> 01:18:47,559 Speaker 3: can share if they want. So that's why it's making 1735 01:18:47,600 --> 01:18:50,800 Speaker 3: its rounds. You guys are sick. And after she left 1736 01:18:50,840 --> 01:18:53,320 Speaker 3: the hospital posted you made this a day we'll never 1737 01:18:53,360 --> 01:18:55,679 Speaker 3: shake off. Thank you Taylor Swift for bringing your support 1738 01:18:55,720 --> 01:18:59,120 Speaker 3: and kindness to Joe DiMaggio Children's Hospital. You turn to 1739 01:18:59,160 --> 01:19:02,679 Speaker 3: hospital hallways into a place of joy, comfort and connection. 1740 01:19:02,760 --> 01:19:04,720 Speaker 3: And the last time she did this, I believe, was 1741 01:19:04,760 --> 01:19:07,400 Speaker 3: in Kansas City and a girl said that she really 1742 01:19:07,400 --> 01:19:09,600 Speaker 3: wanted a dice and air wrap for Christmas and it 1743 01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:12,559 Speaker 3: showed up at her hospital room the next day. 1744 01:19:12,760 --> 01:19:14,720 Speaker 1: No good deed goes unpunished. 1745 01:19:15,120 --> 01:19:19,080 Speaker 3: I was like, my goodness, can you can you Nope, 1746 01:19:19,120 --> 01:19:19,880 Speaker 3: and her spare time. 1747 01:19:20,000 --> 01:19:23,519 Speaker 2: She certainly did not need to do that. The entire Bonnaroom. 1748 01:19:23,080 --> 01:19:25,840 Speaker 3: Music and Arts Festival in Tennessee was canceled over the weekend, 1749 01:19:25,840 --> 01:19:27,960 Speaker 3: all due to bad weather. The event was slated for 1750 01:19:28,040 --> 01:19:31,040 Speaker 3: Thursday through Sunday, but Luke Colmes was the only headliner 1751 01:19:31,080 --> 01:19:33,360 Speaker 3: that got to perform before the storm sit which meant 1752 01:19:33,520 --> 01:19:35,800 Speaker 3: the rest of the weekend was canceled and fans weren't 1753 01:19:35,800 --> 01:19:39,719 Speaker 3: able to watch artists like Tyler the Creator, Olivia Rodrigo, Hozier, 1754 01:19:39,760 --> 01:19:43,160 Speaker 3: Glo Rilla, Tyler Avril, Lavine, John Summon, dam Dalla Glass, 1755 01:19:43,200 --> 01:19:45,560 Speaker 3: Animals and more. So, they just straight up canceled the 1756 01:19:45,560 --> 01:19:48,280 Speaker 3: whole thing, which was a huge bummer. I'm sure Sasha 1757 01:19:48,280 --> 01:19:51,280 Speaker 3: Baron Cohen and Isla Fisher have finalized their divorce, and 1758 01:19:51,320 --> 01:19:54,479 Speaker 3: we know this because they both announced it on social media, 1759 01:19:54,640 --> 01:19:57,320 Speaker 3: sharing the same status on Instagram, saying they're proud of 1760 01:19:57,320 --> 01:19:59,760 Speaker 3: what they achieved during their time together and have great 1761 01:19:59,760 --> 01:20:02,360 Speaker 3: resk back for each other. They're committed to remaining friends 1762 01:20:02,400 --> 01:20:04,880 Speaker 3: and co parenting their three children. They met in two 1763 01:20:04,880 --> 01:20:07,000 Speaker 3: thousand and one, got engaged in two thousand and four, 1764 01:20:07,400 --> 01:20:10,479 Speaker 3: married in Paris in twenty ten. Before announcing last year 1765 01:20:10,520 --> 01:20:13,759 Speaker 3: that they were separating, and Jason was saying earlier this morning, 1766 01:20:13,800 --> 01:20:15,920 Speaker 3: he can't believe that she he even landed her in 1767 01:20:15,920 --> 01:20:20,360 Speaker 3: the first place. Yeah, yeah, but Funny wins every time. 1768 01:20:20,400 --> 01:20:22,960 Speaker 3: I feel like but she is very beautiful. And lastly, 1769 01:20:23,320 --> 01:20:26,400 Speaker 3: How to Train Your Dragon debuted with a strong eighty 1770 01:20:26,439 --> 01:20:30,439 Speaker 3: three point seven million, and this reboot actually topped twenty 1771 01:20:30,520 --> 01:20:32,960 Speaker 3: nineteen's How to Train Your Dragon movie. But the movie 1772 01:20:32,960 --> 01:20:35,599 Speaker 3: took down lelo and Stitch, which is why I'm doing 1773 01:20:35,680 --> 01:20:39,360 Speaker 3: this story, put it in second place after dominating the charts. 1774 01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:43,280 Speaker 3: Materialists was the third with Dakota Johnson, Pedro Pescal and 1775 01:20:43,320 --> 01:20:46,760 Speaker 3: Chris Evans, and Mission Impossible and John Wick that spin 1776 01:20:46,800 --> 01:20:47,640 Speaker 3: off Ballerina. 1777 01:20:48,080 --> 01:20:50,519 Speaker 1: I've heard from both lelo Anstitch. They've both forgiven me. 1778 01:20:50,760 --> 01:20:54,759 Speaker 1: Have they for underestimating that they could be Commission Impossible? 1779 01:20:54,960 --> 01:20:57,759 Speaker 1: I didn't think they could do it. I underestimated leelo Anstitsch. 1780 01:20:57,760 --> 01:20:59,439 Speaker 1: It both reached out except in my apology. 1781 01:20:59,520 --> 01:21:00,360 Speaker 2: You certainly he did. 1782 01:21:01,680 --> 01:21:04,120 Speaker 1: I thought I went on the whole thing. Why are 1783 01:21:04,120 --> 01:21:06,599 Speaker 1: you putting up a movie against Mission Impossible? No one's 1784 01:21:06,600 --> 01:21:08,479 Speaker 1: going to go to that. Well, dug your heels in. 1785 01:21:08,680 --> 01:21:12,040 Speaker 1: I did then fifty million dollars later seventy or whatever 1786 01:21:12,080 --> 01:21:14,040 Speaker 1: it was. They made all the money and the mission 1787 01:21:14,040 --> 01:21:16,280 Speaker 1: impossible was like a measly second. So you know, I'm sorry. 1788 01:21:16,320 --> 01:21:17,719 Speaker 1: I'd like to apologize yet again. 1789 01:21:17,840 --> 01:21:19,479 Speaker 2: All right, sorry to Leilo and Stitch. 1790 01:21:19,640 --> 01:21:22,840 Speaker 3: By the way, if you want to elevate your radio 1791 01:21:23,080 --> 01:21:26,160 Speaker 3: listening experience and see our faces as we. 1792 01:21:26,120 --> 01:21:28,280 Speaker 1: Are, that's an elevation in every case. 1793 01:21:28,280 --> 01:21:32,320 Speaker 3: But sure, enlighten all your senses, your ears, your eyes. 1794 01:21:33,000 --> 01:21:35,280 Speaker 2: You may even be able to smell through the YouTube. 1795 01:21:35,280 --> 01:21:37,639 Speaker 3: But just type Fred Show Radio and you can watch 1796 01:21:37,680 --> 01:21:39,960 Speaker 3: us live during our shows and subscribe. 1797 01:21:40,000 --> 01:21:41,960 Speaker 1: And the iHeart a man all the socials please why 1798 01:21:42,000 --> 01:21:45,960 Speaker 1: because there are reports in because the fread show is 1799 01:21:46,000 --> 01:21:48,840 Speaker 1: on Fred's Fun fact. 1800 01:21:48,600 --> 01:21:59,639 Speaker 3: Fred fun. 1801 01:21:57,439 --> 01:22:01,879 Speaker 1: So much. Guys. Did you know the first ever alarm 1802 01:22:01,920 --> 01:22:05,760 Speaker 1: clock could only ring at four am, which that would 1803 01:22:05,800 --> 01:22:08,080 Speaker 1: have worked for most of us. Yeah, would have been perfect. 1804 01:22:08,200 --> 01:22:12,000 Speaker 1: So my alarm goes off the first time, the seventh 1805 01:22:12,080 --> 01:22:14,960 Speaker 1: time is around four fifteen as I hit snooze over 1806 01:22:15,000 --> 01:22:17,799 Speaker 1: and over again. The first American alarm clock was invented 1807 01:22:17,840 --> 01:22:21,639 Speaker 1: by Levi Hutchins in seventeen eighty seven. It took sixty 1808 01:22:21,720 --> 01:22:26,400 Speaker 1: years for the French inventor Antoine Redier. I don't know 1809 01:22:26,400 --> 01:22:29,439 Speaker 1: if I said there right to patent an adjustable one, 1810 01:22:29,840 --> 01:22:34,000 Speaker 1: but yes, the very first alarm clock would only ring 1811 01:22:34,920 --> 01:22:38,519 Speaker 1: at four o'clock in the morning. More Fred Show next 1812 01:22:38,640 --> 01:22:43,000 Speaker 1: right here, This is the Fred Show. We have your 1813 01:22:43,080 --> 01:22:44,639 Speaker 1: chance to win a trip for two to see Kelly 1814 01:22:44,680 --> 01:22:47,840 Speaker 1: Clarkson's return to Las Vegas for her brand new residency 1815 01:22:48,120 --> 01:22:51,479 Speaker 1: studio Sessions live at the Coliseum at Secret's Palace on 1816 01:22:51,600 --> 01:22:56,160 Speaker 1: August first. Text sessions to three seven three three seven 1817 01:22:56,200 --> 01:22:58,360 Speaker 1: now for a chance to win two tickets to the 1818 01:22:58,400 --> 01:23:02,479 Speaker 1: August first show, two nights hotels day July thirty first 1819 01:23:02,520 --> 01:23:05,200 Speaker 1: to August second at the Flamingo, Las Vegas and round 1820 01:23:05,200 --> 01:23:08,120 Speaker 1: trip bearfare. A confirmation text will be sent standard message 1821 01:23:08,120 --> 01:23:10,479 Speaker 1: of data rates apply. All thanks to the Live Nation. 1822 01:23:11,439 --> 01:23:11,960 Speaker 14: They tell them. 1823 01:23:12,360 --> 01:23:15,040 Speaker 15: Yeah, they talk better than they say tell me. 1824 01:23:15,520 --> 01:23:18,439 Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Fresh Show, like 1825 01:23:18,479 --> 01:23:20,559 Speaker 1: we're running in our diaries, except we see them aloud. 1826 01:23:20,600 --> 01:23:24,160 Speaker 1: We call them blogs. Can't gigo yo, dear blog yo. 1827 01:23:24,960 --> 01:23:25,719 Speaker 2: So it's good. 1828 01:23:25,840 --> 01:23:27,559 Speaker 16: Yeah, I just I just feel like we just need 1829 01:23:27,560 --> 01:23:29,400 Speaker 16: to all put this on the floor and just address 1830 01:23:29,439 --> 01:23:33,559 Speaker 16: these people all for once. Okay, what exactly are you 1831 01:23:33,640 --> 01:23:39,360 Speaker 16: trying to do when you FaceTime someone unplanned, I feel 1832 01:23:39,360 --> 01:23:41,479 Speaker 16: like I feel like you are trying to catch me 1833 01:23:41,600 --> 01:23:44,280 Speaker 16: with my pants down. You know, there's some type of 1834 01:23:44,439 --> 01:23:46,960 Speaker 16: operation going on that you're trying to. 1835 01:23:47,320 --> 01:23:49,719 Speaker 1: Like after you tell me that you answered the phone 1836 01:23:49,720 --> 01:23:53,519 Speaker 1: once mid thrust, Yes, you and Big Tim we're getting 1837 01:23:53,640 --> 01:23:56,160 Speaker 1: on and apparently you the foot you saw it was 1838 01:23:56,200 --> 01:23:58,120 Speaker 1: me and so you answered while he was getting at it. 1839 01:23:58,560 --> 01:24:00,519 Speaker 1: Now that's why FaceTime you all. That's I'm hoping I'm 1840 01:24:00,520 --> 01:24:01,400 Speaker 1: gonna catch a little something. 1841 01:24:01,479 --> 01:24:02,200 Speaker 2: Is that what you're doing? 1842 01:24:02,320 --> 01:24:06,040 Speaker 16: Yeah, because I the moment you like, and I really 1843 01:24:06,040 --> 01:24:08,519 Speaker 16: hope that if anyone is ever in danger that you 1844 01:24:08,720 --> 01:24:12,240 Speaker 16: try to reach me, don't FaceTime me, call me or 1845 01:24:12,360 --> 01:24:15,920 Speaker 16: text me. Do not facetimey because I'm not picking up. 1846 01:24:16,200 --> 01:24:18,120 Speaker 16: I refuse and I just feel like it's my right. 1847 01:24:18,680 --> 01:24:22,240 Speaker 16: And when you just out here face Simon folks unannounced, 1848 01:24:22,320 --> 01:24:23,799 Speaker 16: that is I think it is rude. 1849 01:24:24,000 --> 01:24:26,000 Speaker 1: I mean, you could answer rude. 1850 01:24:26,360 --> 01:24:27,240 Speaker 2: It's rude. 1851 01:24:27,400 --> 01:24:29,840 Speaker 6: Sometimes I'm just drunk a puppies that I want to 1852 01:24:29,880 --> 01:24:32,640 Speaker 6: call you, I'm not I don't have any It was 1853 01:24:32,640 --> 01:24:33,799 Speaker 6: the ulterior motive. 1854 01:24:33,920 --> 01:24:36,000 Speaker 2: I already know what that's going to be. You're excluded 1855 01:24:36,040 --> 01:24:36,320 Speaker 2: from this. 1856 01:24:36,800 --> 01:24:39,439 Speaker 1: Right, So I thought it was Friday night FaceTime for 1857 01:24:39,520 --> 01:24:41,400 Speaker 1: me that I know exactly. 1858 01:24:41,080 --> 01:24:42,040 Speaker 19: What I'm not. 1859 01:24:42,240 --> 01:24:45,160 Speaker 1: There's no malice. I'm just you're not calling to break 1860 01:24:45,160 --> 01:24:47,479 Speaker 1: that news to me drunk. Everyone knows that. 1861 01:24:47,560 --> 01:24:48,160 Speaker 7: But you will. 1862 01:24:48,080 --> 01:24:51,280 Speaker 2: Remember if we're naked, So it doesn't matter. 1863 01:24:51,640 --> 01:24:53,519 Speaker 16: Like I know, when Jason calls me, I already know 1864 01:24:53,560 --> 01:24:56,479 Speaker 16: what's on the other somebody's working the cash here. 1865 01:24:56,680 --> 01:24:57,800 Speaker 2: The register had pep. 1866 01:24:59,240 --> 01:25:03,840 Speaker 16: Crazy, right, But when a random friend just face times 1867 01:25:03,880 --> 01:25:05,519 Speaker 16: me out of note, like, who do you think you are? 1868 01:25:05,680 --> 01:25:08,120 Speaker 2: First? Okay, let's talk about it. 1869 01:25:08,280 --> 01:25:10,719 Speaker 1: She does that. See, I would agree, girl, you cannot 1870 01:25:10,760 --> 01:25:12,759 Speaker 1: sneak at tech face times. 1871 01:25:12,960 --> 01:25:15,280 Speaker 3: She asked me, can I call you for some advice? 1872 01:25:15,320 --> 01:25:16,840 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, you know, it's serious. She needs to 1873 01:25:16,880 --> 01:25:20,240 Speaker 3: talk and she just face times me and I answer, 1874 01:25:20,280 --> 01:25:22,599 Speaker 3: I have no makeup on im in the bed. I'm terrified. 1875 01:25:22,640 --> 01:25:24,880 Speaker 3: My witching hour is two pm. It's when I start 1876 01:25:24,880 --> 01:25:26,200 Speaker 3: to get really scared. 1877 01:25:25,880 --> 01:25:27,400 Speaker 2: And like very tired. 1878 01:25:28,439 --> 01:25:30,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, and she just is on there like looking at me, 1879 01:25:30,479 --> 01:25:32,519 Speaker 3: and she wants to talk. Do you know how long 1880 01:25:32,800 --> 01:25:35,320 Speaker 3: and how hard it is to stay engaged looking at. 1881 01:25:35,200 --> 01:25:36,400 Speaker 2: Someone for that long? 1882 01:25:36,680 --> 01:25:38,960 Speaker 1: Yeah? FaceTime is a lot of work, and based on 1883 01:25:39,000 --> 01:25:42,160 Speaker 1: the phone, I can be doing anything right and just listening. 1884 01:25:42,479 --> 01:25:44,960 Speaker 1: But FaceTime I got to look and look engage, and 1885 01:25:45,000 --> 01:25:47,320 Speaker 1: you can tell if I'm not paying attention. And i' 1886 01:25:47,320 --> 01:25:49,559 Speaker 1: mean even I would say eighty percent of the time 1887 01:25:49,600 --> 01:25:51,160 Speaker 1: now I'll even text you to see if I can 1888 01:25:51,200 --> 01:25:54,840 Speaker 1: call you. They are very There are very few people 1889 01:25:54,840 --> 01:25:56,280 Speaker 1: that I will just pick up the phone and call, 1890 01:25:56,360 --> 01:25:59,200 Speaker 1: unless it's an emergency or it's really urgent. I will 1891 01:25:59,280 --> 01:26:02,040 Speaker 1: usually tech someone now and say hey, can we talk? 1892 01:26:02,160 --> 01:26:05,240 Speaker 1: Is now a good time or whatever? Before I will call. 1893 01:26:05,439 --> 01:26:07,880 Speaker 16: Because you were raised right, Yeah, you know what I'm saying. 1894 01:26:07,960 --> 01:26:10,720 Speaker 16: I'm a friend instilled that in you. That is what 1895 01:26:10,760 --> 01:26:11,880 Speaker 16: you are supposed. 1896 01:26:11,560 --> 01:26:14,400 Speaker 1: I mean, FaceTime wasn't invented until I was in my thirties. 1897 01:26:14,400 --> 01:26:16,720 Speaker 1: But still, I mean she was still we had we 1898 01:26:16,760 --> 01:26:20,320 Speaker 1: had to have a refresher raising class. Yeah, she told me. 1899 01:26:20,320 --> 01:26:23,320 Speaker 1: But see now she'll sneak attack of FaceTime, no problem, 1900 01:26:23,800 --> 01:26:26,479 Speaker 1: oh mama, friend, oh mom, and Fred will sneak attack 1901 01:26:26,520 --> 01:26:27,000 Speaker 1: of face time. 1902 01:26:27,160 --> 01:26:27,519 Speaker 13: Oh yeah. 1903 01:26:27,520 --> 01:26:29,360 Speaker 1: And we know what she'll do sometimes is she'll call 1904 01:26:29,640 --> 01:26:31,240 Speaker 1: and I'll pick up and you go, oh good, and 1905 01:26:31,280 --> 01:26:35,400 Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, you hear that, and it's 1906 01:26:35,400 --> 01:26:38,400 Speaker 1: her trying to make it into a FaceTime. Yeah. I'm like, no, 1907 01:26:38,439 --> 01:26:41,240 Speaker 1: I agree to a call by picking this up. I 1908 01:26:41,320 --> 01:26:43,639 Speaker 1: agreed to a call, not a face time. I would 1909 01:26:43,640 --> 01:26:45,559 Speaker 1: have not answered if I'd known that was coming. I'm 1910 01:26:45,560 --> 01:26:46,599 Speaker 1: getting heated about this now. 1911 01:26:46,880 --> 01:26:48,280 Speaker 2: Yes, it's not right. 1912 01:26:48,400 --> 01:26:48,639 Speaker 7: Man. 1913 01:26:48,880 --> 01:26:51,080 Speaker 2: Then you get on the FaceTime, you forget you're on there. 1914 01:26:51,160 --> 01:26:52,840 Speaker 16: Next thing you know, I'm walking around, showed you my 1915 01:26:53,040 --> 01:26:55,000 Speaker 16: tie house, you saw me with my hair off. 1916 01:26:55,040 --> 01:26:56,439 Speaker 2: It's just it's not safe. 1917 01:26:56,479 --> 01:26:56,840 Speaker 1: That's the thing. 1918 01:26:56,880 --> 01:26:58,559 Speaker 6: You have to expect that. I'm gonna have my AirPods 1919 01:26:58,560 --> 01:27:00,120 Speaker 6: that I'm going to set the phone down. You're to 1920 01:27:00,160 --> 01:27:01,000 Speaker 6: be looking at my ceiling. 1921 01:27:01,240 --> 01:27:01,640 Speaker 13: I'm going to. 1922 01:27:01,680 --> 01:27:05,000 Speaker 6: Continue walking around, doing the laundry, doing the stuff that 1923 01:27:05,040 --> 01:27:07,200 Speaker 6: I need to do. Right, we can still talk, but 1924 01:27:07,280 --> 01:27:09,200 Speaker 6: you are not seeing anything. Say you're seeing the table 1925 01:27:09,320 --> 01:27:12,040 Speaker 6: or the ceiling. Just that needs to be added to 1926 01:27:12,040 --> 01:27:16,879 Speaker 6: the Fred Show constitution. I think maybe it's on today's tangent, Paulina. 1927 01:27:16,920 --> 01:27:18,479 Speaker 6: We're going to keep that open because today I think 1928 01:27:18,479 --> 01:27:21,280 Speaker 6: we're going to talk about your boobs because you mentioned 1929 01:27:21,280 --> 01:27:25,200 Speaker 6: that on our sheet. I like that because you wanted 1930 01:27:25,320 --> 01:27:27,000 Speaker 6: to talk about your boobs and I think that's a 1931 01:27:27,000 --> 01:27:29,040 Speaker 6: better form for that. And then I also think I 1932 01:27:29,040 --> 01:27:31,479 Speaker 6: think we need to have a little vote here of 1933 01:27:31,520 --> 01:27:32,080 Speaker 6: the Congress. 1934 01:27:32,240 --> 01:27:33,880 Speaker 1: Yes, and we need. I think there are some things 1935 01:27:33,920 --> 01:27:36,480 Speaker 1: that need to come off the Constitution that are outdated, 1936 01:27:36,520 --> 01:27:38,360 Speaker 1: and some things that need to be added. And I 1937 01:27:38,360 --> 01:27:39,960 Speaker 1: think one of the things that needs to be added, 1938 01:27:40,320 --> 01:27:43,360 Speaker 1: without question is no surprise facetimes. 1939 01:27:43,560 --> 01:27:45,439 Speaker 3: No if I make it that far, because I'm already 1940 01:27:45,479 --> 01:27:49,479 Speaker 3: in trouble with our boss interm. Bellah yeah, wow Dot 1941 01:27:50,120 --> 01:27:54,000 Speaker 16: Yes, I received permission before this top right, that's my boy.