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Speaker 2: Why do you think it's so you said, it's not

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Speaker 1: Friendly, I don't give a fuck and I'm gonna bring

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Speaker 1: A boar, Yes, a.

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Speaker 3: Boar with a hord cook mm hm. Why you keep

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Speaker 3: such you mean?

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Speaker 1: I just I just love you?

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Speaker 3: You know you keep me like love. It's because it's passion,

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Speaker 2: So if a man don't do this about me when

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Speaker 3: What's up? Y'all's your girl lix pe and it's your

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Speaker 1: The call, and you are to an end to another

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Speaker 1: episode of Poor Mind.

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Speaker 3: Where drunk Mind speaks sober.

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Speaker 1: We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no

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Speaker 3: Jap. They love a solo episode.

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Speaker 2: I mean I love a solo episode too, because I

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Speaker 2: feel like we could just be free spirit and let's

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Speaker 3: What's up with you?

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, girl, you know so much is going on,

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Speaker 1: Oh so, what I've been doing lately is I've been

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Speaker 3: Look at that Jack, and that's not coking.

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Speaker 1: Oh he used to eat him up. Oh he used

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the way he used to You are poor and

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Speaker 1: That's why your bartles is five thousand dollars a month.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh yeah, that's how I used to talk to him.

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Speaker 3: But he ain't wrong, though, people do be like eat him.

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Speaker 3: Let's eat these people up. Tell them the truth. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: If they're gonna say you rude, they're gonna say you nasty. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: And you never let it make you like eat. Never

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Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying. It's like it's the passion thing.

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Speaker 3: And I used to be like, okay, but I get you.

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Speaker 3: I don't I don't think that's true. And I make

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Speaker 2: Well, I'll say this, No, what do you What do

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Speaker 2: But I'm more passionate about Poor Minds, and I think

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Speaker 2: that's why Poor Minds is more successful than me. I

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Speaker 2: I pour as much into it as I pour into

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Speaker 3: But right, right, but right now, I pour a.

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Speaker 3: Be what makes me a millionaire. First, I'm not saying.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know. But do you feel like I'm wrong?

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Speaker 2: if you know that you need to do something, you

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Speaker 1: of them little interviews on TikTok the other day and

439
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Speaker 1: they were talking about it and she was just talking

440
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Speaker 1: about how she became popular and she was like, I

441
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:23,960
Speaker 1: took advantage of social media and going viral. She was

442
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Speaker 1: like one of the first makeup brands that were doing

443
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Speaker 1: like to Get Ready with Me things and all the

444
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Speaker 1: lip matching kits and things like that, and it was like,

445
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Speaker 1: like you said, you find a need for what people

446
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Speaker 1: want to see, give it to them. Yeah, give the

447
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Speaker 1: people what they need. Stop trying to do all the

448
00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:45,440
Speaker 1: extra stuff. Give the people what they came hip fa Yeah.

449
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Speaker 3: I just love to ask people.

450
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Speaker 2: One of my favorite things to do when our people

451
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Speaker 2: is to be like, what's the last like do be reading?

452
00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:55,320
Speaker 3: Do you read books? And then the people will be like, oh, yeah,

453
00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:56,960
Speaker 3: for sure, what's the last thing you read?

454
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Speaker 2: And whenever people tell me something like the Secret forty

455
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Speaker 2: eight Laws of Power, beat you don't read, you know

456
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Speaker 2: the last time I held it, because that's like typical,

457
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:08,080
Speaker 2: like that's people's favorite shit to say.

458
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Speaker 3: If you said that's the last book he read, I

459
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Speaker 3: already be knowing the last time you be reading? For real.

460
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Speaker 1: I had that book in my haird you was on

461
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Speaker 1: Twitter or TikTok when it was when I was posing

462
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Speaker 1: in my h I had a Halloween costame on and

463
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Speaker 1: my ass was out, and I had The forty eighth Power,

464
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Speaker 1: the foty eight Loss of Power in my hair and

465
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Speaker 1: I was posing.

466
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Speaker 3: With it you know what I do. And everybody was like,

467
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Speaker 3: I had at my house and everybody.

468
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Speaker 1: Was like, you know, you know, it's a bad bitch,

469
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Speaker 1: But she got that book because that's what the bad

470
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Speaker 1: bitches like to say.

471
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Speaker 2: For no, literally, that's people's favorite thing to say. Forty

472
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Speaker 2: eight Laws of Power, The Secret. I'm trying to think

473
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Speaker 2: of another one. Oh my god, what's that book about money?

474
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Speaker 3: Rich Dad, Poor Dad? Rich Dad, Poor Dad.

475
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Speaker 2: It's another one about money too, my god, Oh my god,

476
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Speaker 2: it's called let me.

477
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Speaker 3: See if I can find it real quick. How many

478
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Speaker 3: books do you think and grow rich? Thinking? Oh?

479
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Speaker 1: They love thinking. I remember I used to date this

480
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:06,359
Speaker 1: guy and call me.

481
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Speaker 2: How many do I read a year? I mean, I

482
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Speaker 2: try to read a book of money.

483
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Speaker 3: That's good. I try. I tried, But this year I've

484
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Speaker 3: been kind.

485
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 2: Of slacking a little bit, so I've only read like

486
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Speaker 2: seven books.

487
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

488
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Speaker 1: It's crazy because I remember I was dating this guy.

489
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Speaker 1: He was like, oh, yeah, I'm reading this book called

490
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Speaker 1: Thinking Girl Rich. I was like, yeah, I got me

491
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Speaker 1: like when you were younger, Yeah.

492
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Speaker 3: Like I was in college. You know you you know

493
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Speaker 3: how I get down.

494
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Speaker 1: You think you got a niggahood and let me tell

495
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Speaker 1: you that that nigga to not think and gross shit,

496
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Speaker 1: that's what he was reading thinking, gross shit, that's what

497
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Speaker 1: the fuck he was reading.

498
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Speaker 3: God damn it. But you know what I'm saying. I

499
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Speaker 3: think God go ahead.

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Speaker 2: No, I was just gonna say I used to be

501
00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:51,960
Speaker 2: an avid Like I don't know, maybe it's an Earth

502
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:55,159
Speaker 2: sign thing, but I think we're just always on a

503
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:58,399
Speaker 2: constant quist for like growth and knowledge and just wanting

504
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:00,880
Speaker 2: to be better. So I used to be an avid

505
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:04,200
Speaker 2: self help book reader, like I will always be reading

506
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 2: self help books. And my best friend, she is Sagittarius,

507
00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 2: and she would just always be like, b should you

508
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:15,400
Speaker 2: ever read for leisure? And I was like, sometimes like

509
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Speaker 2: every book, yes, fi five, fiction, mystery, you know, just

510
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Speaker 2: any of those things. And she would just be like,

511
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Speaker 2: do you ever read for because she reads a lot

512
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Speaker 2: of books too, but like she reads a lot of

513
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Speaker 2: leisure books, she'd be like, witch, you need to read

514
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Speaker 2: for fun, like everything don't got to be to help

515
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:33,959
Speaker 2: you to grow and stuff. So this year I've been

516
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 2: trying to get more in today and I just finished

517
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:38,639
Speaker 2: reading this book called The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo.

518
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Speaker 3: It's a really good book.

519
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Speaker 1: You know what you and my sisternity to be on

520
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:44,119
Speaker 1: text because she didn't put me on some good ass books.

521
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Speaker 3: It's really good.

522
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Speaker 2: And I'm about to start reading The Housemaid I don't

523
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Speaker 2: know if y'all heard of it, but she was telling me.

524
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Speaker 2: Linn was telling me The Housemaid is like a really

525
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Speaker 2: good series, and it's like about maybe four or five

526
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Speaker 2: books that you I love a series.

527
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Speaker 1: That's how I got into Hunger Games. Was like, I

528
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Speaker 1: read the book, and I like series. I like stuff

529
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,680
Speaker 1: like that. But I think that was my problem when

530
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 1: I first started, kind of like trying to read again,

531
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Speaker 1: Like I was that little kid that read the Harry

532
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:11,919
Speaker 1: Potter books. A little weird though, then I was like,

533
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:13,920
Speaker 1: I got to read a self If you're not reading

534
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,159
Speaker 1: a self health book, then you were. So I'm like,

535
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Speaker 1: you know what, I don't enjoy this. I like to

536
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:19,800
Speaker 1: drift away.

537
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Speaker 3: I romance. Romance. Yeah, Nicholas Sparks.

538
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck with nobody said he gonna write.

539
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 1: He gonna write it down and tell you a good

540
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:33,159
Speaker 1: story till this day, y'all know Nicholas Sparks from a

541
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Speaker 1: Walk to Remember, But he still be writing and still

542
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:38,480
Speaker 1: be having good books. So I'm like, yeah, read a

543
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Speaker 1: little fantasy novel.

544
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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. I don't see it.

545
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Speaker 2: I used to thank you. I used to really like

546
00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 2: Zame book too. That was my first thing.

547
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Speaker 3: It's time to get franky sometime.

548
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Speaker 2: That was my first introduction to books. Well, I actually

549
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 2: that was my first introduction to like just.

550
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Speaker 3: Really reading books for.

551
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Speaker 2: Leisure, because I feel like prior to that, I was

552
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 2: just reading stuff that was for school, you know that

553
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:06,879
Speaker 2: we had to read, like books that they told us

554
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:07,400
Speaker 2: to read.

555
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,919
Speaker 3: For like essays and projects and all of that stuff.

556
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 2: Zane was really like some of the first books that

557
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 2: I was reading just because Beach wanted to read. And

558
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:20,000
Speaker 2: I was like, a life gonna be like when I

559
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:22,880
Speaker 2: get to my twenties and it was the fuck night.

560
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 3: Hell hell it was it was night. Yeah, absolutely night.

561
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:29,680
Speaker 3: But yeah.

562
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 2: Like so just thinking back on that, reading for leisure

563
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 2: is really fun and I think a lot of a

564
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 2: lot more people should do.

565
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Speaker 1: Eat for sure, I am with you on that, because,

566
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Speaker 1: like I said, i'd be the some of now I

567
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Speaker 1: will say some of the books I was, I like,

568
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Speaker 1: sometimes like people will.

569
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Speaker 3: I can go to say seeing no book, No, But

570
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 3: for real, reading will take you.

571
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Speaker 2: They used to say that when we were younger, and

572
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,480
Speaker 2: it was so fucking corny, I'm telling you, but it

573
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 2: really will take you to a whole nother dimentsion and

574
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 2: take you places that you never.

575
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Speaker 4: Thought you take me.

576
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I definitely agree with you.

577
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 1: I'm more of a like I said, I like fantasy books.

578
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: I like books that but that's why it's the type

579
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 1: of movies I like to I like to read ship

580
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: that this would never.

581
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:32,760
Speaker 3: Dystopian books like, don't get me started.

582
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 1: Like, I'm gonna send you some books, but you ain't

583
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 1: gonna like, yeah, you're gonna be like hold on licks

584
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:44,880
Speaker 1: because I like, I take it a little too far

585
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 1: with my dying ship, but it gets interesting what you

586
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 1: get in.

587
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 3: I mean to be a dy so bring it on. Yeah,

588
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 3: I mean, I love to be honest.

589
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 2: I love all types of books, like I love all

590
00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:57,400
Speaker 2: types of genres.

591
00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:01,639
Speaker 3: If it's a good read already yeah, okay, okay, no,

592
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:02,479
Speaker 3: we're talking.

593
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, let's get into these topics because you know

594
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 1: one thing about it.

595
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:09,400
Speaker 3: We're gonna yeah, yes, we hie, Oh go ahead, go ahead.

596
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 3: Well that's all I was gonna say, ty, what were we

597
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 3: drinking today? Okay?

598
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 2: I kind of like where we were going with the topics,

599
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 2: So I changed the name. This one we're gonna call

600
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Speaker 2: Student of Life.

601
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Speaker 3: Oh I like that. So it's a little grounded. It

602
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 3: has some fruit in here.

603
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 2: We have some pomegranate juice, any spirit of choice that

604
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 2: you prefer pomegranate juice. We have some blood orange syrup.

605
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:33,360
Speaker 2: We have a little bit of lemon juice. I muddled

606
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 2: some fresh strawberries and some fresh sage in there. So

607
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 2: we're saging away all of the negative energy. As we

608
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 2: are in Q four, we're in in a year on

609
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 2: a bang and then any spirit of choice. Lex has

610
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Speaker 2: Svadka Droya has herst topped off with some prosecco, and

611
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 2: then we garnished it with a fresh strawberry slice and

612
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 2: a sage leaf.

613
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 3: So this is the student of life. Yeah, girl, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Took me to a restaurant and they had put some

615
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Speaker 1: of that sage in a brown butt on top for voly.

616
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Speaker 3: I said, good, googlely moogally, yep, oh yep, oh, yep,

617
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 3: it's good. Okay.

618
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Speaker 2: I still haven't been to the one on the belt

619
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Speaker 2: Line because when I first tried to go, it was

620
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Speaker 2: the weekend that they had just opened and they didn't

621
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Speaker 2: have no restaurant, I mean, no reservation. I was like,

622
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Speaker 2: so I have, but yeah, I love ye that past

623
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Speaker 2: apasta shifts kids every time.

624
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Speaker 3: Mmm, so go ahead? What we got first? Up? For

625
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 3: a topic? Number one?

626
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 2: I really wanted to talk about can your homegirl be

627
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:41,080
Speaker 2: too flirty with?

628
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 3: I mean, I would hope the funk nine.

629
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Speaker 1: But you know what, I have never been in this situation,

630
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 1: but I've had friends who have told me stories about it,

631
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 1: and for me, I don't understand it because when half

632
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 1: the time when my homegirl we talking about her nigga,

633
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 1: I'll be like, girl, how are you even dealing with this?

634
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 1: Ain't nothing about your man that I want to give

635
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 1: flirty too? So, but I do think that it can happen.

636
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 2: But I think it's deeper than that, right, I think

637
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 2: it's more so it's like, but do you have a

638
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 2: homegirl that kind of won't your life a little bit?

639
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 3: Or is she your friend? Or she's like?

640
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 1: I want to be you. I want to be in

641
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 1: your shoes. I want to do the things you do.

642
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 1: I want to live everything.

643
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 3: How you living? You got this high? Razan want it?

644
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 1: You gotta you gotta fucking Bentlet truck. I want that

645
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 1: Bentlet truck?

646
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 3: You got that Chanelle? I want it? So sometimes it's

647
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 3: more so not even about the man. It may be

648
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 3: about you.

649
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 1: So I think you can have a homegirl that's too

650
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 1: farty with your man, But I think if she's too

651
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,480
Speaker 1: farty with your man, it's deeper.

652
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 3: Issues going on.

653
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 1: I ain't never seen my homegirl be with a man

654
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 1: that she's dating in love with. They they on a

655
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 1: date and maybe I'm third wheelling. I'm like, let me

656
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 1: join in, and I'm grabbing your leg a bro huh.

657
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 3: And when I be like this, I'll be like, what's up?

658
00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 1: Bro?

659
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the kind of energy.

660
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 1: We may chat it up, chop it up, but I

661
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 1: give homegirl energy anyway. I'm not a flirty person naturally anyway.

662
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 1: So uh yeah, I think you can be too flirty

663
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 1: with your homegirls, man, but I think it has underlying issues.

664
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just think you have to like read the room.

665
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 2: I ain't never really had a situation necessarily where I

666
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 2: felt like somebody was like being flirty with my men.

667
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 3: Now.

668
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 2: I have had dudes that I dated tell me that

669
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 2: like they felt like my friend was flirting with them,

670
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 2: or they felt like somebody that I was close to

671
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:41,680
Speaker 2: was like trying to get at them. But I've never

672
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 2: seen it myself. Yeah, I've never seen it. Myself because

673
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 2: I don't even know how I would react to that.

674
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 2: Cause to me, to do that in front of your friend,

675
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 2: you gotta be such a bald ass bitch to like

676
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 2: be being flirtationous with your friend man while she's sitting there, Like, bitch,

677
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 2: do you want to it's smacked the fuck is wrong?

678
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 3: Like no, for real?

679
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 2: Do like be true? You're trying to get smacked down?

680
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 2: You'll get seen this bitch, are you okay? Like I

681
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 2: don't understand so I've never had that happen to me,

682
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 2: but I do think that when it does happen, I

683
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 2: agree with Lis, I think it'd be more so.

684
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 3: People be having monitoring spirits.

685
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 1: Talk about that. That's what I want you to talk about.

686
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 1: I need you to talk about it, and I need

687
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 1: you to talk about it right now.

688
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 2: People be having monitoring spirits, like people be wanting what

689
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 2: you have. But I feel like you can always tell

690
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 2: that shit like if you ever be friends with somebody

691
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 2: in it, every time you do something or you get something,

692
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,320
Speaker 2: all of a sudden, they become obsessed with doing it

693
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 2: or yet me or wanting get It's like as soon

694
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 2: as you get it now, they gotta get it as

695
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 2: soon as you get it, now they asking a nigga

696
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:56,440
Speaker 2: for it. I feel like that be like monitoring spirits,

697
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 2: or they be people who want to be like you

698
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 2: and live your life, and it'd be obvious. So then

699
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 2: if they try to like talk to your man, is

700
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:09,160
Speaker 2: that really surprising because they want everything else you got.

701
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 2: Why wouldn't they want a nigga, especially if it looked

702
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 2: like he treated you well? So I don't know, I

703
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:18,719
Speaker 2: don't I think that shit be weird. I just think

704
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 2: people who have that type of energy are weird period,

705
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 2: because God put us all on this earth to be ourselves,

706
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 2: and the best thing that you could do is to

707
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 2: be you and show up as you, and you won't

708
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 2: get the type of person that you want, really and

709
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 2: truly too. It just never work out in people favor,

710
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 2: Like I have a cousin, thank you sah. I have

711
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 2: a cousin who like she had a friend who ended

712
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 2: up fucking him in and like stole him in. But

713
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 2: I just think even if a bitch want what you have,

714
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 2: it never ended up working out that way for them

715
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 2: because you not me, You're not me, You not mean

716
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 2: what he was doing for me and a person that

717
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 2: he was to me that doesn't necessarily mean just because

718
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 2: he was that person to me, that he would be

719
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 2: that person to you, because people get different versions of.

720
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 3: People all the time.

721
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:16,239
Speaker 2: So I just feel like, yeah, it's weird, but you

722
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:18,360
Speaker 2: could definitely be too flirty. I feel like we just

723
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 2: be knowing what's overstepping boundaries. They be knowing what's overstepping boundaries,

724
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 2: like I'm the type of person. And maybe for some

725
00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:28,440
Speaker 2: people this might even be too overboard, because I know

726
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 2: some women they feel like your friend, having your man

727
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:33,480
Speaker 2: number whatever is off limits.

728
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:37,799
Speaker 3: I don't be feeling that way cause I just to me,

729
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:40,880
Speaker 3: it's not even like a being naive thing.

730
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 2: I just truly feel like I like to I don't

731
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 2: like to put restraints on people. Yeah, I like to

732
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 2: give people the freedom to do and be exactly who

733
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 2: the fuck you gonna be.

734
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 3: And then if you do some shit to disappoint me.

735
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 2: Then let me remove you from my life and let

736
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:00,840
Speaker 2: me show like you've showed me who you are. I

737
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 2: don't feel like I could put you in a position

738
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 2: to do some whole sheep to me or to betray me,

739
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 2: unless that shit was already the betrayal was already in you,

740
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:13,280
Speaker 2: And I really be feeling like, if I'm dating a nigga,

741
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 2: you not even gonna try me like that, And I

742
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 2: can't wait. But so far I have been lucky enough

743
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 2: to like deal with me and who They never even

744
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:25,800
Speaker 2: tried to fuck with my friends.

745
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 3: I or their advances.

746
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 2: Shall I say that they told me like, oh, this

747
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 2: person tried to talk to me.

748
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 3: They wouldn't fucking that they came and talked me.

749
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 2: I mean that I'm laughing because this recently came up

750
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 2: with me and my boyfriend.

751
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,280
Speaker 3: And the girl isn't my close friend.

752
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 2: We are colleagues acquaintances in the industry, if you will.

753
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,360
Speaker 2: But I found out that she gave him her phone number,

754
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 2: and I kissed me off. Yeah, more so because you know,

755
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 2: I introduced him as my nigga.

756
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 3: So why did you we not?

757
00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:02,279
Speaker 2: Again, we're not close enough for you to have his

758
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,200
Speaker 2: number if it was like my very close friends, and yeah,

759
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 2: we've traveled together and all this type of thing. That's

760
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 2: one thing, But why did you feel the need to

761
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 2: give him your number? And I didn't know about it

762
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 2: and I didn't initiate that, so that.

763
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:17,719
Speaker 3: Made me feel weak. But I trust him because he

764
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 3: don't tell me anyway. Every time.

765
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,359
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, and that's why, and you're

766
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:24,879
Speaker 2: in my wrong tide because then the situation like that,

767
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 2: I agree, I feel like.

768
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 3: That's a little weird.

769
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 2: It's different if I know, but if you're doing it

770
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 2: in a roundabout way, then that's kind of weird. And

771
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 2: I'm asking, like, so when did this, Like I dug

772
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 2: deep into it. I'm like, I know, I was there,

773
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 2: Like I was in the same place, I put money

774
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 2: in your pocket, all of these So it's just weird

775
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 2: to me. But my close friends, I agree with you. Yeah,

776
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have a problem, but it's to your point.

777
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 2: Some of these people that are eye and what you got,

778
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 2: wanting what you got and will do what they think

779
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 2: they need to do to get to your spot, but

780
00:36:59,480 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 2: you can't.

781
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:04,840
Speaker 1: You me, First of all, I think that's weird because girl,

782
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:10,840
Speaker 1: it's like if you know men, if she knew, you know,

783
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 1: he's gonna go tell you, why would you even do that? Second,

784
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 1: but a lot I have won't tell if their intention

785
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:22,279
Speaker 1: in the Yeah, if their intention is not pure, if

786
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 1: their inteen is not pure and they want to try

787
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 1: to see what's with that, they're not gonna tell you.

788
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 1: I guess I just feel like the way my friends

789
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,759
Speaker 1: are like, we're not just I'm not saying like all

790
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 1: my friends like we're just all the but I feel

791
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:37,400
Speaker 1: like we solid women. Yeah, so when my friends are

792
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: dealing with men for the I can't say they be

793
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 1: solid niggas, but it's just and none of that goes on.

794
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 1: But let me tell a story. Let me tell a

795
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:48,839
Speaker 1: story about how this happened to me. And it happened

796
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 1: to me with a close friend, and it was bad.

797
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:53,799
Speaker 1: I shared this on Poor Minds a long time ago,

798
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 1: but it's I'm to revisit it, bitch y'all, donet spark up,

799
00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:59,319
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna keep it short and sweet. I had

800
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:02,920
Speaker 1: this friend and we were very, very close. We used

801
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 1: to work at the bar together, we made money together.

802
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:06,399
Speaker 3: It was everything.

803
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 1: This was my girl, right And this is around the

804
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 1: time I was young. We started dating Bdb's for the

805
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:15,680
Speaker 1: first time, but I started working in the club first.

806
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:18,880
Speaker 1: So I started dating at Bdb's first, and I'm starting

807
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:22,359
Speaker 1: to get little things and you know, she noticing an

808
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 1: x y Z and I. This was when I first

809
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:30,319
Speaker 1: moved to Atlanta. Me and her was still cool. I

810
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: first moved to Atlanta, it was just this, and I

811
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:34,440
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck cause I know he watched the

812
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 1: show a bullshit ass nigga that I was dating, and

813
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:39,960
Speaker 1: he bought me like some red bottoms, and he used

814
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:40,720
Speaker 1: to send me money.

815
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:43,319
Speaker 3: He bought my furniture from my apartment. Cool because he

816
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:46,279
Speaker 3: had it at the time, and we cool.

817
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:50,400
Speaker 1: Mind you like, I'm telling her about him, I'm sending

818
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 1: her pictures of me and him and stuff.

819
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 3: Something happened.

820
00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 1: I mean, y'all know he was well, not y'all know,

821
00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:57,239
Speaker 1: but he was a Nigerian d y'all know how that

822
00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:57,839
Speaker 1: gets down.

823
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 3: So I got my feelings hurt, stopped talking.

824
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:03,759
Speaker 1: Next thing I know, baby, I'll look up and they

825
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:07,120
Speaker 1: ain't them all the use together, not fucking La, not

826
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 1: New York.

827
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 3: They went on a.

828
00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 1: Whole trip together, a whole fucking trip. And she was like, oh,

829
00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 1: I thought y'all would I didn't know.

830
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 3: I didn't. I remember that got got got go. I

831
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 3: remember that.

832
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:25,839
Speaker 2: But also they all had weird energy from day one,

833
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:26,359
Speaker 2: she did.

834
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 3: And I tell you that long way, and my other

835
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:30,840
Speaker 3: homegirl told me that too, and I, you know, I

836
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:35,319
Speaker 3: just one thing about it, I see, I do. I

837
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 3: just feel like I.

838
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 2: Really have intuition about people and like her energy, but

839
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:41,360
Speaker 2: just because too, I'm.

840
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:42,280
Speaker 3: Such a nice person.

841
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 2: So sometimes I feel like when people don't be liking

842
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:47,279
Speaker 2: me for no reason other than to say, oh, I

843
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:48,759
Speaker 2: think she thinks she all that?

844
00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 3: No, you think all that? Yeah, like you haven't. You

845
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:54,360
Speaker 3: haven't even gotten a chance to know me.

846
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 2: And like this particular friend that she had, she just

847
00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:00,279
Speaker 2: had like this issue with me, but I he didn't

848
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 2: have no issue with her, and I didn't even know

849
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:04,920
Speaker 2: her like this. So something about her energy automatically was

850
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 2: just off. And it would be other certain things that

851
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 2: Lex will tell me that I won't get into, like

852
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:12,760
Speaker 2: you know, on camera, but it would be other stuff

853
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 2: that you would tell me about her. I'm just like,

854
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 2: something about her energy is off. So then when that

855
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:22,280
Speaker 2: situation happened, I'm just like on branding a jealous bitch.

856
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 2: She's a weirdo.

857
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 1: But also, but let me talk about him too, because

858
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 1: you not free either, right, because yeah, but let me

859
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:30,200
Speaker 1: say about it.

860
00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 3: I feel like your homegirl is the one owe you.

861
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 3: But let me tell you a story about him.

862
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:38,600
Speaker 1: You one hundred percent right, But mind you, me and

863
00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 1: him had stopped sucking around, and this was still before

864
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:43,680
Speaker 1: he had took her on the trip. Mind you, I'm like,

865
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 1: I ain't got no money. I told you, ILL moved

866
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:47,439
Speaker 1: at Lanta with three dollars. I really don't have nothing.

867
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 1: But I liked him. I put this on everything.

868
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:52,800
Speaker 3: I love. It was his birthday.

869
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 2: I have no money, I have nothing, so I was like, oh,

870
00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:57,760
Speaker 2: let me send him just like a basket of goodies.

871
00:40:57,800 --> 00:40:59,880
Speaker 2: It was like a little basket of goodies, y'all.

872
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 1: That basket was like fifty dollars and I had like

873
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: eighty dollars on my account, and I was like, let

874
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 1: me just because I'm being thoughtful when I tell you.

875
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 1: This man got on Twitter and was like, how would

876
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:15,839
Speaker 1: y'all feel if y'all bought a babe red bottoms? Y'all

877
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 1: know that's how they talk. Bought a babe red bottoms

878
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:19,720
Speaker 1: and y'all.

879
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:20,640
Speaker 3: He was British.

880
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 1: Nigeria's talk like that if I bought a babe with

881
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 1: some red bottoms and else a baby but her well

882
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:40,760
Speaker 1: you know, he's his parents are traditional, not like but anyways,

883
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 1: so he's like, how would y'all feel if y'all got

884
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:45,800
Speaker 1: this girl all this stuff and all she sends you

885
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 1: is a basket and I was like, damn, that's fucked

886
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 1: up because that was my last and I liked you.

887
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 1: But it's cool only to fast forward. You lost everything

888
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:57,399
Speaker 1: because she was a scamming ass nigga. You went to jail,

889
00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:00,840
Speaker 1: you lost everything, and it's no shit, ain't no tea.

890
00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: But I will never forget you. Don't forget people how

891
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:05,279
Speaker 1: they treated you when you was at the bottom, because

892
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 1: it's people out here that it's like I did stuff

893
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 1: for their birthday and it wasn't a lot, it wasn't much,

894
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,359
Speaker 1: or I'm just like, hey, I show up.

895
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 3: This is all I got now, Like I don't give

896
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 3: a fuck. Let God fuck with you.

897
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:17,239
Speaker 1: And you decided to get on social media because you

898
00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:20,400
Speaker 1: felt like you was that nigga at the time. And

899
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say how hard life got for him,

900
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 1: because it got real bad, worse than jail girl. All oh,

901
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:33,800
Speaker 1: it got bad, it got real bad. I'm with him,

902
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:36,319
Speaker 1: no okay now, And you want to know how bad

903
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 1: life got for hers?

904
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 3: Took a bad drug and she cuckoo. She can't even

905
00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:42,359
Speaker 3: walk straight. I don't know where she at. Then.

906
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm telling you, you don't get to live your

907
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,719
Speaker 1: life and do things and treat people like that. I'm

908
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 1: not saying that karma happened because of me, but the

909
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:52,840
Speaker 1: way she was living her life, you did other people

910
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 1: wrong that had nothing to do with me.

911
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, if her energy was yeah, I

912
00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:59,840
Speaker 3: ain't I blessed. I'm blessed.

913
00:42:59,880 --> 00:43:01,960
Speaker 1: I had this conversation with somebody asked that. I said, hey,

914
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 1: you know what you need to get your shit together?

915
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 3: I'm blessed. I said.

916
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:08,919
Speaker 1: My friends love me. I get to go to work

917
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:13,439
Speaker 1: and do this and talk to my bitch and yeah,

918
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:15,759
Speaker 1: you know, we get paid for a walk through and

919
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:21,560
Speaker 1: all we do is this, but that's because we live.

920
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:23,800
Speaker 3: We're good people, were good to people.

921
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 1: I don't ever look at somebody and be like, how

922
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 1: can I get that?

923
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:32,480
Speaker 3: What's they called it? Destiny swapping? Is that it work?

924
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:35,839
Speaker 3: That's yes, that's the term. Yes, I didn't. It's called

925
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,880
Speaker 3: destiny swapping. And they will really try to do that. Now.

926
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:41,359
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna talk about who the people that they

927
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:43,799
Speaker 1: really said did it, and some people they said succeeded.

928
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 3: I think people can succeed.

929
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:48,239
Speaker 5: It.

930
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 2: He's deep for me with stuff like that, because I

931
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 2: feel like people can succeed with that.

932
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:55,400
Speaker 3: Only with people who.

933
00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:59,319
Speaker 2: Are not strong in their faith and spirituality. Like, if

934
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 2: you're trying to it's to swap with somebody who don't

935
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 2: already have like a good relationship with God and they

936
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:08,320
Speaker 2: not rooted in their own faith, in their own beliefs,

937
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:11,800
Speaker 2: then yeah, you could probably succeed.

938
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:13,719
Speaker 3: But I feel like somebody who is really on they

939
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:15,919
Speaker 3: walk really on their.

940
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 2: Path, whose life is really annointed, and they locks he

941
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 2: in with Jesus who they are, they know who they are,

942
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:23,840
Speaker 2: they know where they're going, I don't think that can succeed.

943
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 2: That's the same way I feel about voodoo and stuff.

944
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:32,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I'm listening. I was making that face.

945
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just I feel like it's I know all

946
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:37,480
Speaker 2: of those things are like a real thing, and I

947
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:39,759
Speaker 2: don't doubt it. I don't doubt black magic or any

948
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:43,799
Speaker 2: of that stuff. But I just feel like it work

949
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:46,919
Speaker 2: on people who not locked in, who have some type

950
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:49,359
Speaker 2: of doubt in them when it comes to God.

951
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 3: Because the God I serve, if he's.

952
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:54,400
Speaker 2: Just not gonna let even come in my path or

953
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:55,720
Speaker 2: happen to me, it don't matter.

954
00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 3: Who praying against me. He's stronger than all of that

955
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 3: one without Now you know that you know I'm agreeing, but.

956
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 2: I do think it works. I do think it work.

957
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:09,759
Speaker 2: Did I tell the.

958
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 3: The Yeah yeah.

959
00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 1: If y'all don't know a quick story, my sister used

960
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 1: to get those be real bad. My family, all my

961
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 1: family from Louisiana. One of my great aunts rected peace

962
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:22,320
Speaker 1: to my aunt. Name is she up there with my

963
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 1: kids right now. One of her friends used to do hoodoo,

964
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:31,759
Speaker 1: not voodoo hoodoo, and my sister, whodoo is.

965
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:35,439
Speaker 3: You know what? Let me not say it wrong.

966
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:41,799
Speaker 1: Hodoo is the more like the American slaves, right, I

967
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:43,879
Speaker 1: don't want to I don't if that's the more.

968
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 3: Uh, if that's.

969
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,799
Speaker 1: The proper term, I don't want to say like American because.

970
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 3: And voodoo voodoo, I'm gonna say both of them.

971
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:56,920
Speaker 2: Is an organized religion with established beliefs, rituals, and deities

972
00:45:57,040 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 2: originating from West African boden additions.

973
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 3: Okay, and.

974
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:11,760
Speaker 2: Syncritized syncretized syncretized with Catholicism. Hodoo is a separate folk

975
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 2: magic system focused on practical outcomes using herbs, roots, and

976
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:18,959
Speaker 2: other natural objects for purposes like healing, protection, and luck.

977
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:22,359
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, so that's what it was. Then I got

978
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 3: her completely wrong. So she it was.

979
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 1: It was a hoodoo thing because that's what it was,

980
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 1: cause she had nosebleeds.

981
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 3: But my mama didn't like that shit. They're like, none

982
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:31,279
Speaker 3: of that shit.

983
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 1: But my sister, I mean, she couldn't even walk outside

984
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:38,479
Speaker 1: her nosebleeds and child. My mama came. We were staying

985
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:41,440
Speaker 1: at my aunty house. Her friend came over. That lady

986
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:44,520
Speaker 1: was burying something, plucked something out. My sister head did

987
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:47,440
Speaker 1: all this stuff, burying it under the tree. My mama

988
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:49,400
Speaker 1: walked in and caught her doing something.

989
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 3: Her. My mom got on a whole fist fight. But

990
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:57,240
Speaker 3: guess what she ain never had to this day because

991
00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:58,520
Speaker 3: she put it on it. I don't know what she

992
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 3: did to my sisters she had her nose ain't never.

993
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:01,560
Speaker 3: But do y'all.

994
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:04,320
Speaker 2: Feel like that with astrology and stuff, Like do you

995
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:06,239
Speaker 2: feel like you could be like super rooted in your

996
00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:09,000
Speaker 2: faith in like believing astrology and stuff.

997
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 3: Because I don't know. When I think about faith in God,

998
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 3: I look.

999
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 2: At ancestors and like astrology separate.

1000
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 3: It's separate things, okay, But I feel like I have.

1001
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 2: Really strong ancestors who fight for me, But I don't

1002
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 2: necessarily think that they have anything to do with like

1003
00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 2: gud mmm.

1004
00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 3: I think it does make fast.

1005
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 1: But I think somehow all of this stuff ties together,

1006
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 1: but we're not gonna find out until we go to

1007
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 1: the afterlife. Astrology is connected, all that stuff is connected,

1008
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 1: but we don't know how, and we will never know

1009
00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:50,359
Speaker 1: until we get to the other side. Because I'm telling you,

1010
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:53,319
Speaker 1: my mom was not a religious woman at all. But

1011
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 1: you cannot sit here and tell me that she has

1012
00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 1: not had something in her of my life of how

1013
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:02,880
Speaker 1: what it is right now, there's no way, There is

1014
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 1: no way, like you will never convince me of the

1015
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 1: dreams that I have are so vivid you cannot tell me.

1016
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:12,360
Speaker 3: So I know it's all connected.

1017
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 1: I just don't know how. I don't try to understand it,

1018
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:15,880
Speaker 1: and I don't try to explain it. All I do

1019
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 1: is praise God and my my business because that's all

1020
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:20,879
Speaker 1: I got for y'all. I don't like to get too deep, yep,

1021
00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:24,880
Speaker 1: because if I get too deep them kids, because they

1022
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:26,080
Speaker 1: got something to say till.

1023
00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:30,440
Speaker 2: They gonna be up there waiting, just waiting on a moment.

1024
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 2: But no real quick before we move on to the

1025
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 2: next topic.

1026
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:36,520
Speaker 3: OK, Do y'all feel like.

1027
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:41,920
Speaker 2: It's a difference between intuition and insecurity, Like you can

1028
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:44,480
Speaker 2: kind of have an intuition that oh, like I feel

1029
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 2: like my friend being weird, she's trying to fuck with

1030
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:47,480
Speaker 2: my negro.

1031
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 3: I feel like, I don't know, I don't trust him

1032
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 3: around her.

1033
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 2: He trying to do some sneaky sheet or some shit

1034
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:55,440
Speaker 2: that's making me feel some type of way. Or is

1035
00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:58,879
Speaker 2: it just you being insecure? Like where do we draw

1036
00:48:58,920 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 2: the line and how do you.

1037
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:01,920
Speaker 3: Know what's the difference between the two.

1038
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 2: I think the actions make you insecure. Yeah, Like you

1039
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 2: can have the intuition, but if you see your friend

1040
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 2: touching your nigga like you said they were, now you're

1041
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 2: making me feel insecure about this situation, you know what

1042
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:17,440
Speaker 2: I mean. But you can have a spirit of discernment

1043
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 2: and be like, like you said, your spirit your energy

1044
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:20,560
Speaker 2: is off.

1045
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 3: I don't need you in my orbit.

1046
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 2: I'm not liking what's coming out of you, what you're

1047
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 2: putting around me. Like, you can have that feeling, but

1048
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:29,239
Speaker 2: I think it's the action that they're putting out there

1049
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:31,520
Speaker 2: that makes it become an insecurity.

1050
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 1: And I think also it goes into who you are

1051
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:37,439
Speaker 1: as a woman and also who you're dating. I think

1052
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 1: sometimes it do be girls that be doing a lot,

1053
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 1: like girl, calm down, relax, But also you know the

1054
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:47,440
Speaker 1: person you're dating. So I think it is a fine

1055
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:52,320
Speaker 1: line between like this is just hard cutting up versus

1056
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 1: is he gonna go?

1057
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:55,840
Speaker 3: So I think it's a.

1058
00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's your intuition, but sometimes it is security.

1059
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:02,719
Speaker 3: It just depends. Yeah, I think you.

1060
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:04,680
Speaker 2: I don't even want to be with a nigga that

1061
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 2: I'm wondering if he gonna go.

1062
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 3: I like, nigga, I know, I know you're not going.

1063
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:11,239
Speaker 1: I know you're not going nowhere, But I also don't

1064
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 1: want to be friends with somebody.

1065
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:15,799
Speaker 3: It's the both. I don't want either around me. I

1066
00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 3: don't that's fair. I definitely don't want either around me.

1067
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 2: But I don't know, like I'm just a little I

1068
00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 2: don't care about a nigga looking I don't care about

1069
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:25,240
Speaker 2: a nigga's looking cool.

1070
00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:27,760
Speaker 1: But not but my friends. I think that's a little

1071
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 1: like I don't want a nigga around me. Who I Okay,

1072
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 1: you can look whatever, cool whatever, it's cool with you.

1073
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 1: But I also don't want a friend that's doing the

1074
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:37,319
Speaker 1: most either. Like I said, I think it's just a

1075
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:39,520
Speaker 1: respect thing. I don't want a friend that's doing the most,

1076
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:41,279
Speaker 1: And I don't want a nigga who makes me feel

1077
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:43,319
Speaker 1: like he gonna go. I just think, can we be

1078
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 1: normal and go out, like can we just drink and talk?

1079
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:50,360
Speaker 3: Like is everybody okay?

1080
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:52,880
Speaker 2: I be feeling like it's the difference stuff between somebody

1081
00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 2: who do the most in general and somebody who do

1082
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 2: the most to get attention from your nigga yeah, or

1083
00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 2: a nigga yeah, Cause some people naturally just fucking do

1084
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:06,719
Speaker 2: the most no matter what, like, no matter what type

1085
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:08,879
Speaker 2: of setting they in, no matter who they around, Like, oh,

1086
00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 2: you just know, she's just gonna do the most whatever.

1087
00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:14,080
Speaker 2: It's not personally you not doing this cause you around

1088
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 2: my nigga saying, versus somebody who is like you're doing

1089
00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:24,400
Speaker 2: it to garner the attention of this particular person.

1090
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 3: You're cooking, you're cooking.

1091
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:28,640
Speaker 2: It's a difference, And I feel like that's what you

1092
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 2: have to pay attention to. Cause if my friend naturally

1093
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 2: do the most, if she always twerking, if she always loud,

1094
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 2: if she always being extra, and is she doing it

1095
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:42,799
Speaker 2: around my nigga and he looking, I don't give a

1096
00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:45,120
Speaker 2: FuG cause you always do the most. And of course

1097
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:47,960
Speaker 2: he's a man, he's gonna look right. But if you

1098
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:51,799
Speaker 2: only start doing it when the niggas is around suspicions,

1099
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 2: or more particularly when my nigga is around, then now

1100
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:56,440
Speaker 2: it's kind.

1101
00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 3: Of like, what is you doing? Hope? No, I agree

1102
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:00,000
Speaker 3: with you.

1103
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 1: Let us know what y'all think. Now, look we didn't, y'all.

1104
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:04,799
Speaker 1: We done got a little chair to y'all.

1105
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 3: So now it's time to get into the big bawl

1106
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:13,759
Speaker 3: A bow about bow about bow bow.

1107
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:17,239
Speaker 1: So y'all know, per usual, this segment is brought to

1108
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 1: you by her Fantasy Box. Y'all know, I got that

1109
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:23,240
Speaker 1: earl on my legs. I lost spending like nothing but pineapples.

1110
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 1: It smells so different for me. It's been a long day.

1111
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 1: I definitely had to go to the bathroom and refresh.

1112
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:32,920
Speaker 3: So I have to use it everywhere. White oh, because

1113
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:36,680
Speaker 3: sometimes you know, you don't stink, You just gotta wipe

1114
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:39,080
Speaker 3: it up a little bit. But you ain't trying to

1115
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 3: be rank. Give it to him, I know.

1116
00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:46,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, So y'all know it's refreshing, p if you want

1117
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:49,879
Speaker 1: to balance that pH it's a soothing wash.

1118
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 3: For the vultela bus. I love the vulvus I love

1119
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 3: to love the vulvu.

1120
00:52:53,920 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 1: Too, because you can't just put anything on there, y'all

1121
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:58,040
Speaker 1: just be putting anything on there, you know what I'm saying.

1122
00:52:58,320 --> 00:53:00,960
Speaker 1: And mind you, y'all know the girls on TikTok and Amazon,

1123
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 1: they be knowing it's number on on TikTok and Amazon

1124
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:03,880
Speaker 1: for a reason.

1125
00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 3: Absolutely.

1126
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 2: And I love also that they have so many supplements

1127
00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 2: as well, Like you can literally take the chlorophyll pills.

1128
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:14,360
Speaker 2: Then you also can use the boric acid suppositories in

1129
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:17,040
Speaker 2: your a JJ once you get off your period. It's

1130
00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:20,560
Speaker 2: also good to use them after sex, just to refresh you.

1131
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:24,480
Speaker 1: And make sure everything is balanced. And it's plant based ingredients.

1132
00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:26,920
Speaker 1: That's what we care about, y'all. Don't want to put

1133
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 1: all this look, that's how the ingredients look.

1134
00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:33,600
Speaker 3: You can't read it, Yeah, but not with it. Not

1135
00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 3: with this. It's plant based. It's simple ingredients.

1136
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 1: No artificial fragrance is not all right, It's a wroma

1137
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:42,360
Speaker 1: therapy in a bottle child, all right. So moving on,

1138
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:48,160
Speaker 1: shout out to her fantasy box for the bad. Why

1139
00:53:49,239 --> 00:53:54,360
Speaker 1: boring sex might be a red flag? Okay, what counts

1140
00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:55,080
Speaker 1: as boring sex?

1141
00:53:55,160 --> 00:53:57,600
Speaker 3: To me? Boring sex is like it's no effort. It's

1142
00:53:57,680 --> 00:53:58,280
Speaker 3: no passion.

1143
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:00,360
Speaker 1: You just try to get your nut off off and

1144
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 1: you just fucking me because you feel like I got

1145
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:05,719
Speaker 1: to we're dating. I've been fucking you for six months.

1146
00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:07,799
Speaker 1: I've been fucking you for seven months. It's just motion,

1147
00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 1: same position. It's nothing chining, it's predictable.

1148
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 2: Mmm.

1149
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you go first, So to you, it's

1150
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:19,320
Speaker 1: boring sex a red flag? And should it be a

1151
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:20,359
Speaker 1: red flag for women?

1152
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:22,320
Speaker 3: No?

1153
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:27,440
Speaker 2: Mm, because I think some people deep just wago and

1154
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:30,920
Speaker 2: some people Kuchi whag too, and y'all get together and

1155
00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:32,279
Speaker 2: y'all haves s.

1156
00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:37,839
Speaker 3: I almost hit you, ain't gonna hit you. It's you've

1157
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 3: done it all episode like that.

1158
00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:48,680
Speaker 2: Ah, But now for real, like, I don't think that's

1159
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:51,440
Speaker 2: a red flag. I just think some people aren't adventury.

1160
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:53,640
Speaker 2: It's now what's the red flags? If y'all haven't like

1161
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 2: buck wild six and Nanny get boring, then I feel like,

1162
00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:01,360
Speaker 2: keep you don't want to fuck you no more? And

1163
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 2: he probably getting it from somewhere else, or he's just

1164
00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:07,040
Speaker 2: not interested, he doesn't feel out of love, like it's

1165
00:55:07,120 --> 00:55:09,960
Speaker 2: something like that going on. If it was real intense

1166
00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 2: and interesting and extra and y'all was leaving out child fantasies.

1167
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:17,680
Speaker 3: And you was trapped in the closet and things. Okay,

1168
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:20,160
Speaker 3: here we go every episode.

1169
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:24,040
Speaker 1: I don't know how that slipped out.

1170
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:26,080
Speaker 3: I don't either, because it didn't have nothing, have nothing

1171
00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:28,800
Speaker 3: to do. I was thinking about when he was go

1172
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:36,800
Speaker 3: ahead shut Have anybody ever found? Has anybody found the address?

1173
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 3: The box?

1174
00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:45,520
Speaker 2: Because I feel like you should definitely be on his

1175
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 2: lease of people like he would love to hear from you.

1176
00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:49,480
Speaker 3: I don't have nothing to say to him. You have

1177
00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:51,920
Speaker 3: a life. No, I don't say you know all of

1178
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:57,880
Speaker 3: his greatest here we were alone with you. Okay, we

1179
00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:00,319
Speaker 3: can see we can see him up. We can see

1180
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 3: him a compilation.

1181
00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 2: We can see him a compilation video of like all

1182
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:06,399
Speaker 2: of your Grady's moments on Poor Minds where you mention

1183
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:08,160
Speaker 2: him because he'said at least twenty.

1184
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:13,400
Speaker 3: That is funny. We should definitely do that. No, definitely

1185
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:15,680
Speaker 3: not right now.

1186
00:56:16,520 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 5: It.

1187
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:18,840
Speaker 3: Can I be honest? Can I be honest?

1188
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:21,480
Speaker 1: I don't listen to his music anymore so I think

1189
00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:25,200
Speaker 1: sometimes when it comes out, it's just like maybe I'm

1190
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:27,319
Speaker 1: singing it in my head. It's not funny at all,

1191
00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:30,080
Speaker 1: because he's where like I don't take his crimes as

1192
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:30,439
Speaker 1: a joke.

1193
00:56:30,480 --> 00:56:33,239
Speaker 3: I really don't, but I think sometimes I just, you know,

1194
00:56:33,960 --> 00:56:40,800
Speaker 3: I wish that you could be there. No, let's move on,

1195
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:44,400
Speaker 3: let's move on. Coming up. I believe he's a Capricorn,

1196
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:46,279
Speaker 3: so we could definitely do that for his birthday. That

1197
00:56:46,280 --> 00:56:48,640
Speaker 3: would be so sweet of us. No, it wouldn't. He

1198
00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:53,400
Speaker 3: doesn't deserve anything. He doesn't deserve that time where he

1199
00:56:53,480 --> 00:57:02,760
Speaker 3: said and how there dwells. Okay, go ahead.

1200
00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:08,719
Speaker 2: I may love to r Kelly this week a song

1201
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:12,640
Speaker 2: called the Zoo and he's like, I do that in

1202
00:57:12,719 --> 00:57:24,840
Speaker 2: his ear. I can't wait. So I would love to

1203
00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:26,280
Speaker 2: be putting that tonight.

1204
00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:27,760
Speaker 3: Bother a buttered roll.

1205
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:32,200
Speaker 2: Oh that was okay. I'm not gonna lie, won't lie.

1206
00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:38,040
Speaker 2: We must, we must all be stopped. However, though that

1207
00:57:38,240 --> 00:57:40,479
Speaker 2: may or may not have came on my play least,

1208
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:42,320
Speaker 2: I don't two weeks ago.

1209
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:48,880
Speaker 3: Just I don't. And when he said you were in

1210
00:57:49,000 --> 00:58:01,600
Speaker 3: the kitchen cooking meal, cutting up tomatoes, you do, shut up, girl.

1211
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:11,360
Speaker 1: That's such a good song, like breathday too making.

1212
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:15,919
Speaker 3: Oh hush girls, shut up. Hey, hey, everybody calm down.

1213
00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:20,240
Speaker 2: We got I'm just saying like, yeah it is and

1214
00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:22,760
Speaker 2: it was such a good song, and it's just not fair.

1215
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:25,280
Speaker 3: You're more a weirdo.

1216
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:28,320
Speaker 2: It's not fair that he's a weirdo. But it don't

1217
00:58:28,360 --> 00:58:31,120
Speaker 2: go to his He don't make no money from the streams,

1218
00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 2: no word. That's how the money go to him, even

1219
00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 2: though you.

1220
00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 3: I did my research, I read where does the money go?

1221
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:42,200
Speaker 3: That's a good I didn't know that the victims. The

1222
00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:47,480
Speaker 3: victim just made that up. That's what I thought. She

1223
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:48,440
Speaker 3: think it's funny.

1224
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:51,400
Speaker 4: You just made that up to make you feel better

1225
00:58:51,400 --> 00:59:00,120
Speaker 4: because you just listen to the ship. She said this

1226
00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:02,600
Speaker 4: Victims I was in and.

1227
00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:08,480
Speaker 3: I was like, I was definitely cooking to that the

1228
00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:11,400
Speaker 3: other day. I'm so sorry, y'all. Please don't mean no seriously,

1229
00:59:11,600 --> 00:59:13,200
Speaker 3: all jokes aside, but I would.

1230
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 2: Like for lakes and meet that she be listening to

1231
00:59:14,880 --> 00:59:16,840
Speaker 2: Trapped in a Closet at home, and then we can

1232
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:19,920
Speaker 2: all just move on in peace, because I know you do.

1233
00:59:20,520 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 3: I know you've been listening to Trapped in close package.

1234
00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 3: No I don't, I haven't. I'm not kidding, y'all. I'm serious.

1235
00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:34,440
Speaker 3: I don't listen to him. It really bothers me. It's

1236
00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:38,320
Speaker 3: so good that beat. Who did that? So nasty. But

1237
00:59:38,480 --> 00:59:39,040
Speaker 3: let's move on.

1238
00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 1: Let's move on. I don't support R Kelly. There's nothing

1239
00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:43,880
Speaker 1: to have to mean them. I think he is a

1240
00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:47,400
Speaker 1: peasant and him and the Diddler are right where they

1241
00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:51,560
Speaker 1: deserve to be. We gets our jokes off.

1242
00:59:51,640 --> 01:00:03,920
Speaker 3: Now up like a snake. I mean, this is for

1243
01:00:04,160 --> 01:00:10,480
Speaker 3: real what I sent you on Instagram? No, oh yes

1244
01:00:10,600 --> 01:00:17,480
Speaker 3: I did. Do you have your past? Paul? Did you

1245
01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:22,040
Speaker 3: get your shot? They've be like these bitch is not

1246
01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:25,160
Speaker 3: five minutes talking about Yeah, you're right, it's not all right.

1247
01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 3: We might cut it, cut this out. We will maybe

1248
01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:32,800
Speaker 3: not okay, But honestly, this is how I feel about

1249
01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:36,520
Speaker 3: boring sex. I think I agree with you. If you

1250
01:00:36,640 --> 01:00:38,920
Speaker 3: have boring sex from the jump. You just don't got

1251
01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:41,240
Speaker 3: good dick. Now you don't got good pussy. I'm not

1252
01:00:41,280 --> 01:00:41,760
Speaker 3: gonna lie to you.

1253
01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:45,560
Speaker 1: I ain't had boring sex, damn sin, I was a

1254
01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:48,960
Speaker 1: teeny tart.

1255
01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:57,240
Speaker 3: Concerns me though, teeny and how tidy? Oh no, don't

1256
01:00:57,280 --> 01:01:03,440
Speaker 3: do that's right? Too dark, too dark, to dark? That

1257
01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:06,000
Speaker 3: was like two thousand okay, but okay.

1258
01:01:06,400 --> 01:01:08,160
Speaker 1: I was just trying to keep the theme of the joke,

1259
01:01:08,320 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 1: and sometimes I take it too far. But what I'm

1260
01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:14,520
Speaker 1: saying is I cannot remember if I was.

1261
01:01:14,560 --> 01:01:17,320
Speaker 3: Like damn, I wouldn't even boring. I think that.

1262
01:01:17,600 --> 01:01:20,760
Speaker 1: I think that to me, boring sex is a red flag.

1263
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:23,280
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie because I feel like, do you

1264
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:27,720
Speaker 1: see these supple breasts? It should bring out an adventure

1265
01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 1: in you. It shouldn't make you feel like you want

1266
01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:33,880
Speaker 1: to do something Cause.

1267
01:01:34,200 --> 01:01:36,480
Speaker 3: Night bear, I won't.

1268
01:01:37,200 --> 01:01:42,240
Speaker 1: This ass is you ain't seen something this hot since

1269
01:01:42,280 --> 01:01:43,480
Speaker 1: you looked at Mount Everest.

1270
01:01:43,560 --> 01:01:46,680
Speaker 3: Bitch, you better climb this mountain and get to work.

1271
01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:51,320
Speaker 3: I don't like supple breath. My breasts are supple. My

1272
01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:56,000
Speaker 3: breasts are supple. That I always say it just sounds

1273
01:01:56,040 --> 01:01:56,680
Speaker 3: too grown.

1274
01:01:56,920 --> 01:02:00,360
Speaker 1: I'm grown, though I'm suff I'm supple. You know what

1275
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:04,760
Speaker 1: I'm noticing as I get older, like this, he gotta

1276
01:02:04,800 --> 01:02:07,120
Speaker 1: cup it. I mean he gotta cup it because.

1277
01:02:06,920 --> 01:02:10,440
Speaker 3: It hang a little bit, It hangs, it hangs, So.

1278
01:02:10,480 --> 01:02:14,560
Speaker 1: He got a couple and it's supple, and he gotta

1279
01:02:14,880 --> 01:02:16,800
Speaker 1: he gotta scoop it up and.

1280
01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:21,880
Speaker 3: Just like that, you know what I'm saying.

1281
01:02:21,880 --> 01:02:27,080
Speaker 1: He gotta grab me and and my asses wro ton,

1282
01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:28,760
Speaker 1: Then he gotta squeeze it.

1283
01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:34,000
Speaker 3: Then he gotta dig them heels in the drug in

1284
01:02:34,080 --> 01:02:34,919
Speaker 3: the area. Rug.

1285
01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:44,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's slippery. Excuse me, Yes, we got all everything,

1286
01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:52,560
Speaker 1: wind snow, sleep, yeah, all the all the elements is

1287
01:02:52,680 --> 01:02:53,640
Speaker 1: going on right now.

1288
01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:55,880
Speaker 3: I'm grown and it's finna get.

1289
01:02:57,520 --> 01:02:58,040
Speaker 1: Hell my.

1290
01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 3: But I queathed. I bequeathed him. That's the words you.

1291
01:03:04,160 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 1: Mean.

1292
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:07,240
Speaker 3: I bequeathed him. I don't care what nobody said. I

1293
01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:11,000
Speaker 3: know you be gassy. You know what's crazy. I'm not

1294
01:03:11,080 --> 01:03:13,720
Speaker 3: gonna lie. I think I just it's normal.

1295
01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 1: But I think you know, when you eat something all

1296
01:03:15,720 --> 01:03:20,400
Speaker 1: the time, My stomach don't feel nothing. I have regular

1297
01:03:20,440 --> 01:03:22,560
Speaker 1: battle movements like normal person.

1298
01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:25,360
Speaker 2: So you probably be partening. You don't even know it

1299
01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:27,120
Speaker 2: if you don't feel it. I do because it'd be

1300
01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:34,160
Speaker 2: like this, Oh my goodness, there's no structure.

1301
01:03:34,200 --> 01:03:37,560
Speaker 3: But oh I know that's I know you'd be doing

1302
01:03:37,600 --> 01:03:44,360
Speaker 3: that because I'm smelty mmm mm hmm. But anyway, let's go.

1303
01:03:44,640 --> 01:03:46,880
Speaker 3: Let's move on. Let's move on.

1304
01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:50,440
Speaker 1: Queen, So boring sex is not a red flag to you,

1305
01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:52,760
Speaker 1: it's a red flax to me. Let us know in

1306
01:03:52,840 --> 01:03:55,720
Speaker 1: the comments, how you feel. Why do you think it's so?

1307
01:03:55,840 --> 01:03:57,280
Speaker 1: You said it's not a red fla I don't know,

1308
01:03:57,360 --> 01:04:00,600
Speaker 1: I say because I think I should bring out the

1309
01:04:00,680 --> 01:04:04,920
Speaker 1: beast in you. I need to bring out that smoky

1310
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 1: the bear. If I take off my clothes and you

1311
01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:14,680
Speaker 1: don't be like the bear friendly, I don't give a fuck,

1312
01:04:14,720 --> 01:04:16,960
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna bring it out of him. You need

1313
01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:20,440
Speaker 1: to act like a wild animal with rabies when I

1314
01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:21,680
Speaker 1: take off my clothes.

1315
01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:27,480
Speaker 3: A boar, Yes, a boar with a cook mm hmm.

1316
01:04:30,080 --> 01:04:34,160
Speaker 3: Such mean? I just I just love you, you know,

1317
01:04:35,120 --> 01:04:38,000
Speaker 3: like love. It's because it's passion, because you see how

1318
01:04:38,040 --> 01:04:41,200
Speaker 3: I am when I'm around you. This is passion and

1319
01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:43,840
Speaker 3: I'm not fucking you. This is passion. So if a

1320
01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 3: man don't do this about me when he sees my

1321
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:52,400
Speaker 3: booty house, big mama, your arm shade. If you don't

1322
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:59,840
Speaker 3: see this glory hole and go berserk. Yeah, I feel

1323
01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:02,600
Speaker 3: like it's about the emotional connection. I do too.

1324
01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:07,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta have an emotional connection. If you and

1325
01:05:07,120 --> 01:05:09,240
Speaker 2: this person are locked in, then it's not gonna be boring.

1326
01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:09,680
Speaker 3: Six.

1327
01:05:09,840 --> 01:05:12,040
Speaker 2: I just I don't think it's possible as long as

1328
01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:14,720
Speaker 2: the spark is there. That only happens when you lose

1329
01:05:14,760 --> 01:05:15,200
Speaker 2: the spark.

1330
01:05:15,760 --> 01:05:17,400
Speaker 1: And what I told you, you know how that spark

1331
01:05:17,480 --> 01:05:21,760
Speaker 1: comes when you hear this in the background. You know,

1332
01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:29,440
Speaker 1: when you hear this, there's no electricity. You just hear

1333
01:05:29,480 --> 01:05:29,960
Speaker 1: it your head.

1334
01:05:30,240 --> 01:05:32,320
Speaker 3: That's how you know you love a nigga. Sometimes I

1335
01:05:32,360 --> 01:05:34,840
Speaker 3: don't fuck the nigga. It ain't no me, it ain't

1336
01:05:34,880 --> 01:05:37,920
Speaker 3: no nothing around. I hear maxwell. I just hear it

1337
01:05:37,960 --> 01:05:38,439
Speaker 3: in the air.

1338
01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:41,040
Speaker 1: That's how you know you got good. Did you slide

1339
01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:48,120
Speaker 1: it in? Yeah, it just plays automatically.

1340
01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:48,840
Speaker 3: I've been there.

1341
01:05:49,840 --> 01:05:54,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a violin and you just be like

1342
01:05:54,440 --> 01:06:01,320
Speaker 2: this and you be holding ya your suple breasts.

1343
01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:07,840
Speaker 3: Yes, they simple. This is when the breast God, you

1344
01:06:08,160 --> 01:06:11,800
Speaker 3: can That's what I'm telling you. Man, you feel it.

1345
01:06:12,040 --> 01:06:14,560
Speaker 3: I did. I feel your breast were supple. Just didn't

1346
01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:17,120
Speaker 3: write My breast is always supple. But you just said

1347
01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:20,080
Speaker 3: you didn't like. I don't like that word. But they

1348
01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:25,560
Speaker 3: always supple, you know. Yeah. I just don't like the word.

1349
01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:29,880
Speaker 2: It's too grown. It's supple is the word breast. I've

1350
01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:33,440
Speaker 2: said this before. The word breast itself is just it's

1351
01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:36,720
Speaker 2: too grown of a word for me. I don't think

1352
01:06:36,760 --> 01:06:40,200
Speaker 2: I have breast yet. I think breasts you have fifty.

1353
01:06:40,120 --> 01:06:43,960
Speaker 3: Plus, No, but you have nice breasts. I have boobs. No,

1354
01:06:44,160 --> 01:06:45,280
Speaker 3: you have nice breasts.

1355
01:06:45,360 --> 01:06:47,360
Speaker 2: You know, I keep a bad bitch on me side

1356
01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:53,320
Speaker 2: your boot have boobs, love nick, I have boobs.

1357
01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:56,240
Speaker 3: I have titties. I have tits. Can we move on?

1358
01:06:57,720 --> 01:07:00,760
Speaker 3: Can we move on? Titties? You got titties? Like Dolly Parton.

1359
01:07:00,760 --> 01:07:03,640
Speaker 3: They're just never gonna pay me, Yeah, like you're gonna be.

1360
01:07:05,200 --> 01:07:05,240
Speaker 2: No.

1361
01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:08,400
Speaker 3: But I'm saying they're just always gonna set up mine. Yeah.

1362
01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:11,880
Speaker 3: I'm probably gonna get them Redowe when I'm like sixty five.

1363
01:07:12,640 --> 01:07:17,080
Speaker 1: So now it's time to get into the bop the

1364
01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:23,000
Speaker 1: bob the boo boo bow bow bow. So my bop

1365
01:07:23,040 --> 01:07:25,080
Speaker 1: of the week is something a little off, a little odd,

1366
01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:25,960
Speaker 1: a little different.

1367
01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:27,880
Speaker 3: And I love this group.

1368
01:07:29,320 --> 01:07:31,800
Speaker 1: Y'all probably heard of them a long time ago, the

1369
01:07:31,880 --> 01:07:34,920
Speaker 1: group Hayme. They had that song it Fu Could Change

1370
01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:39,240
Speaker 1: a mind, you know that song I could hit the

1371
01:07:39,360 --> 01:07:40,200
Speaker 1: ground running.

1372
01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:44,160
Speaker 2: Anyways, They're actually a really super like huge group, and

1373
01:07:44,280 --> 01:07:47,600
Speaker 2: y'all know I usually do like underground artists, but this

1374
01:07:47,720 --> 01:07:48,200
Speaker 2: is different.

1375
01:07:48,960 --> 01:07:54,280
Speaker 1: Bond iiver love them, come on pretty love no Okay. Anyways,

1376
01:07:54,440 --> 01:07:56,480
Speaker 1: So they have a song together called tie You Down,

1377
01:07:56,600 --> 01:08:00,280
Speaker 1: and it's just let's bring indie music back, like that

1378
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:02,880
Speaker 1: indie music like let's be depressed and be in love

1379
01:08:03,040 --> 01:08:07,040
Speaker 1: and just cry in front of a fucking fireplace. It's time,

1380
01:08:07,200 --> 01:08:11,000
Speaker 1: Like I'm done popping pussy bro it's about to start snowing.

1381
01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:15,880
Speaker 1: Let's get the marshmallows, the s'mores, let's get the hot coco.

1382
01:08:16,040 --> 01:08:19,519
Speaker 1: Let's cry. Your tears need to be falling on my

1383
01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 1: vagina while you eat it, and we need to cry together.

1384
01:08:23,960 --> 01:08:26,720
Speaker 1: Let's bring back the sad music. It's it's time. It's

1385
01:08:26,840 --> 01:08:30,760
Speaker 1: fall winter. Let's bring into sad music. So this is

1386
01:08:30,800 --> 01:08:34,160
Speaker 1: a good love song, hame tie you Down, feature in

1387
01:08:34,240 --> 01:08:36,080
Speaker 1: bond ivor a bop a hit.

1388
01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:46,559
Speaker 3: Let's get into it. My bop is the Angelo Lady.

1389
01:08:50,400 --> 01:08:51,240
Speaker 3: This's a good song.

1390
01:08:51,479 --> 01:08:53,920
Speaker 2: Like Zinchila had so many something good songs. So he

1391
01:08:54,000 --> 01:08:56,960
Speaker 2: had Cruisy and he had brown Sugar or a piece

1392
01:08:56,960 --> 01:09:01,200
Speaker 2: of b Angelo that made me so said the other day, like, yeah,

1393
01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:03,200
Speaker 2: I think one of the sad Like one of the

1394
01:09:03,280 --> 01:09:05,240
Speaker 2: craziest things about getting older.

1395
01:09:05,160 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 3: Is like we're not old per se yet, but like

1396
01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:12,400
Speaker 3: all of the people that we grew up listening to,

1397
01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:17,200
Speaker 3: like Niggas is dying. Yeah yeah, yeah, it's like a

1398
01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:18,720
Speaker 3: harsh reality.

1399
01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:21,280
Speaker 2: But it's like life is so fragile, and you really

1400
01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:23,880
Speaker 2: have to like cherish the moment and cherish while you're here.

1401
01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:27,720
Speaker 2: And it's just a reminder that it doesn't matter how

1402
01:09:27,840 --> 01:09:29,760
Speaker 2: successful you are, how much money you have.

1403
01:09:30,160 --> 01:09:31,599
Speaker 3: Like we all got an.

1404
01:09:31,560 --> 01:09:35,559
Speaker 1: Expiration day and you know a lot of people tag

1405
01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:37,799
Speaker 1: me the other day because that's my favorite.

1406
01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:50,040
Speaker 3: Brown Sugar is my favorite. Shit. He taught me what

1407
01:09:50,280 --> 01:10:00,960
Speaker 3: was some of young brown? Sure? Hm, I think.

1408
01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:10,320
Speaker 1: No, that's crazy. I grew up on that. Yeah, he

1409
01:10:10,479 --> 01:10:12,200
Speaker 1: taught me how to go to that low register, that

1410
01:10:12,360 --> 01:10:16,519
Speaker 1: to the hog one. Oh woa something y'all, bro sug.

1411
01:10:18,880 --> 01:10:21,240
Speaker 1: I ain't know how to jump like that. I ain't

1412
01:10:21,280 --> 01:10:22,760
Speaker 1: know how to jump from that load of that high

1413
01:10:22,800 --> 01:10:24,280
Speaker 1: I didn't know how to do it till he taught me.

1414
01:10:24,600 --> 01:10:24,880
Speaker 3: Okay.

1415
01:10:25,880 --> 01:10:29,200
Speaker 2: So yeah, So like I just wanted to, you know,

1416
01:10:30,160 --> 01:10:33,759
Speaker 2: give a little old pay homage shitty Angelo.

1417
01:10:34,400 --> 01:10:36,600
Speaker 3: He has some HIGs. Nothing even matters with him and

1418
01:10:36,640 --> 01:10:37,080
Speaker 3: Laura Hill.

1419
01:10:37,160 --> 01:10:43,000
Speaker 2: It's like literally one of my favorite songs ever created.

1420
01:10:43,760 --> 01:10:46,560
Speaker 1: Every but in all seriousness, all jokes aside, because I

1421
01:10:46,600 --> 01:10:48,560
Speaker 1: think about his son and how he lost both his

1422
01:10:48,680 --> 01:10:52,960
Speaker 1: parents in a short period of time, both of them. Well,

1423
01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:54,760
Speaker 1: you know, I don't want to say speak on you know,

1424
01:10:54,880 --> 01:10:55,800
Speaker 1: him being sick or whatever.

1425
01:10:55,800 --> 01:10:58,040
Speaker 3: I do know that, and has other kids too, Like

1426
01:10:58,080 --> 01:11:00,240
Speaker 3: I said, like people keep talking about him and energies.

1427
01:11:01,600 --> 01:11:04,120
Speaker 1: Talking about that because she just passed and then he

1428
01:11:04,280 --> 01:11:07,040
Speaker 1: passed not shortly after. So I think that's why they

1429
01:11:07,120 --> 01:11:08,880
Speaker 1: keep talking because yes, he did have other kids and

1430
01:11:09,000 --> 01:11:12,000
Speaker 1: she has another kid too, right, So I mean, prayers

1431
01:11:12,040 --> 01:11:15,880
Speaker 1: to all their kids. But to lose both parents in

1432
01:11:16,080 --> 01:11:19,120
Speaker 1: such a short period of time, especially with Enjie, it

1433
01:11:19,200 --> 01:11:22,639
Speaker 1: was like, what a wreck? What are we talking about here?

1434
01:11:23,800 --> 01:11:27,639
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to lose somebody unexpectedly. I'm not saying death

1435
01:11:27,680 --> 01:11:30,280
Speaker 1: has been easy anyway. I don't care if you expecting

1436
01:11:30,400 --> 01:11:32,680
Speaker 1: or not. It's still not okay, But so like, oh

1437
01:11:33,040 --> 01:11:37,160
Speaker 1: a wreck? What you know what I'm saying. Still, it's

1438
01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:39,720
Speaker 1: just tragic. So you know, all ju justicide. Prayers out

1439
01:11:40,000 --> 01:11:43,639
Speaker 1: to all their children, you know, but especially their children,

1440
01:11:43,640 --> 01:11:45,800
Speaker 1: their their child together, because.

1441
01:11:45,640 --> 01:11:46,880
Speaker 3: Like, that's a lot.

1442
01:11:47,920 --> 01:11:53,280
Speaker 1: That's a lot to parents in a year's time, Jesus Christ,

1443
01:11:53,439 --> 01:11:53,720
Speaker 1: isn't it.

1444
01:11:53,840 --> 01:11:57,120
Speaker 3: When did she pass? It was earlier this year? It

1445
01:11:57,200 --> 01:12:00,280
Speaker 3: was like six months ago. It was in March. Yeah, yeah,

1446
01:12:00,640 --> 01:12:03,000
Speaker 3: And cancer is just such a crazy thing. It just

1447
01:12:03,080 --> 01:12:05,720
Speaker 3: fucked me up. Every time somebody died from cancer, cause

1448
01:12:05,760 --> 01:12:08,200
Speaker 3: it's just I don't know.

1449
01:12:08,400 --> 01:12:10,200
Speaker 2: It's just one of those things where it's like I

1450
01:12:10,280 --> 01:12:13,000
Speaker 2: think we're still as long as it's been around, we

1451
01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:15,639
Speaker 2: still be like, how the fuck does it happen?

1452
01:12:16,600 --> 01:12:18,960
Speaker 3: Where does it come from? You just literally watching somebody

1453
01:12:19,040 --> 01:12:19,599
Speaker 3: with or away?

1454
01:12:19,880 --> 01:12:22,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, where does it come from? How can we

1455
01:12:22,640 --> 01:12:24,519
Speaker 2: coven me? How can we stop it from happening. It's

1456
01:12:24,560 --> 01:12:26,840
Speaker 2: like we still don't have the answer to any of

1457
01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:28,000
Speaker 2: those things, and you just.

1458
01:12:29,720 --> 01:12:33,000
Speaker 3: It's crazy. Yeah, so yo, D'Angelo, that's my job.

1459
01:12:33,320 --> 01:12:36,760
Speaker 1: And since we're speaking of those who have passed, Diane

1460
01:12:36,840 --> 01:12:37,719
Speaker 1: Keaton passed away.

1461
01:12:37,920 --> 01:12:40,679
Speaker 3: Oh yeah. Honestly, y'all have never heard of this movie.

1462
01:12:40,920 --> 01:12:43,280
Speaker 1: Everybody, I don't care what you're doing right now, go

1463
01:12:43,600 --> 01:12:48,760
Speaker 1: find If you're a person who likes uh romance dramas, go.

1464
01:12:48,880 --> 01:12:49,880
Speaker 3: Watch The Other Sister.

1465
01:12:50,920 --> 01:12:52,760
Speaker 1: I watched that movie when I was way too young,

1466
01:12:53,040 --> 01:12:55,599
Speaker 1: but it is one of the best movies, Like still

1467
01:12:55,600 --> 01:12:57,000
Speaker 1: to this day, it's one of my favorite movies. It's

1468
01:12:57,040 --> 01:12:59,840
Speaker 1: called The Other Sister. Diane Keaton plays the mom and

1469
01:13:00,000 --> 01:13:03,200
Speaker 1: it's such a good movie. And I was like, damn, damn.

1470
01:13:03,520 --> 01:13:06,679
Speaker 3: I used to love First Wife's Club, oh my god.

1471
01:13:08,080 --> 01:13:12,200
Speaker 3: Classic moving on.

1472
01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:21,559
Speaker 2: But yeah, so now it's time to christ. Now it's

1473
01:13:21,640 --> 01:13:24,200
Speaker 2: time to get into our favorite segment of the show.

1474
01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:27,280
Speaker 2: Y'all know if y'all have any questionings sending the poor Minds,

1475
01:13:27,760 --> 01:13:30,720
Speaker 2: ask poor Minds at gmail dot coms as kp O

1476
01:13:30,880 --> 01:13:35,719
Speaker 2: you are in my nbas at gmail dot com. Question

1477
01:13:35,840 --> 01:13:40,680
Speaker 2: number one Hadriannicole and lex P. Please keep this anonymous.

1478
01:13:40,760 --> 01:13:44,400
Speaker 2: First off, congratulations on everything. I've been binge watching since

1479
01:13:44,439 --> 01:13:47,080
Speaker 2: the very first episode, and I love seeing y'all's growth.

1480
01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:49,040
Speaker 3: So I'm dating this guy. I really like.

1481
01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:52,599
Speaker 2: He's attractive, gives me space to be independent, but also

1482
01:13:52,680 --> 01:13:55,439
Speaker 2: treats me like a princess, exactly what I've been looking for.

1483
01:13:55,880 --> 01:13:57,400
Speaker 3: I'm a tourist, he's a virgo.

1484
01:13:58,120 --> 01:14:01,479
Speaker 2: This past week we were out with friends, having fun

1485
01:14:01,640 --> 01:14:05,400
Speaker 2: and doing a little recreational stuff. But the way he

1486
01:14:05,600 --> 01:14:08,519
Speaker 2: acted had me kitchen the egg and once I see

1487
01:14:08,560 --> 01:14:11,599
Speaker 2: an eg, I can't unsee it. Now I'm wondering if

1488
01:14:11,600 --> 01:14:15,559
Speaker 2: I'm overreacting or if it's a deal breaker. Do y'all

1489
01:14:15,640 --> 01:14:17,960
Speaker 2: think an ick means it's over or can you move

1490
01:14:18,080 --> 01:14:18,439
Speaker 2: past it?

1491
01:14:18,880 --> 01:14:19,120
Speaker 3: For me?

1492
01:14:19,439 --> 01:14:24,280
Speaker 2: Examples are moaning while eating, losing self control while drunk,

1493
01:14:24,760 --> 01:14:26,280
Speaker 2: like we both can't be sloppy.

1494
01:14:26,720 --> 01:14:30,599
Speaker 3: What are some icks for y'all? Those are good, those

1495
01:14:30,600 --> 01:14:31,200
Speaker 3: are good ecks.

1496
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:34,880
Speaker 1: I don't like a man that gets too sloppy, especially

1497
01:14:34,920 --> 01:14:35,519
Speaker 1: if I'm sloppy.

1498
01:14:35,520 --> 01:14:37,439
Speaker 3: Who gonna protect it? Who gonna be the boys?

1499
01:14:37,640 --> 01:14:40,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, So that's a good ick to have, cause I

1500
01:14:40,720 --> 01:14:43,000
Speaker 1: don doubt cause y'all know, like I said, I love

1501
01:14:43,280 --> 01:14:44,200
Speaker 1: I have a drink.

1502
01:14:44,280 --> 01:14:45,880
Speaker 3: I love to have a little drink, and I.

1503
01:14:46,000 --> 01:14:48,000
Speaker 1: Usually date men who love to have a little drink too,

1504
01:14:48,040 --> 01:14:51,120
Speaker 1: but they never ever get to the point to where

1505
01:14:51,640 --> 01:14:53,720
Speaker 1: they can't be alert if something goes down.

1506
01:14:54,760 --> 01:14:56,760
Speaker 3: So I agree that's a very good ick to have.

1507
01:14:56,960 --> 01:14:59,479
Speaker 3: Moaning while you eating. It depends what kind of moaning,

1508
01:15:00,360 --> 01:15:05,080
Speaker 3: Like you're like, m good. Yeah, Like that's I'm a like,

1509
01:15:05,360 --> 01:15:07,240
Speaker 3: especially if I cooked it. If that's all I was

1510
01:15:07,240 --> 01:15:09,160
Speaker 3: gonna say, it's in my food, I like if I

1511
01:15:09,280 --> 01:15:13,040
Speaker 3: cooked it. Yeah, but I don't. But I also I

1512
01:15:13,120 --> 01:15:17,920
Speaker 3: don't be mad like I enjoyed my food. I'm on

1513
01:15:18,080 --> 01:15:19,360
Speaker 3: a little bit when I eat it food.

1514
01:15:21,160 --> 01:15:23,720
Speaker 2: I look I like food, So I might even do

1515
01:15:23,800 --> 01:15:26,280
Speaker 2: a little dance like sometimes I'll catch myself being like

1516
01:15:28,920 --> 01:15:29,920
Speaker 2: so I.

1517
01:15:31,760 --> 01:15:34,559
Speaker 3: But I do think everybody has different eggs. I told

1518
01:15:34,600 --> 01:15:36,240
Speaker 3: you I talked about this egg. I have an eck.

1519
01:15:36,280 --> 01:15:38,160
Speaker 1: Well it's not an inch for me, though my egg

1520
01:15:38,760 --> 01:15:40,599
Speaker 1: talked about this. I don't like when you can't find

1521
01:15:40,600 --> 01:15:42,800
Speaker 1: a parking spot. I think that's the weirdest fuck as

1522
01:15:42,840 --> 01:15:45,439
Speaker 1: a man. Why you can't find a parking spot? I

1523
01:15:45,560 --> 01:15:47,599
Speaker 1: get icked out, Like, if you're not a good driver

1524
01:15:47,720 --> 01:15:50,160
Speaker 1: as a man, why you can't drive as a man.

1525
01:15:50,200 --> 01:15:52,160
Speaker 1: If we're in an escape room, why you didn't get

1526
01:15:52,200 --> 01:15:54,559
Speaker 1: me out? If we're going to day to escape room,

1527
01:15:54,560 --> 01:15:55,599
Speaker 1: why are we stuck in here?

1528
01:15:57,240 --> 01:15:58,800
Speaker 3: Yeah? Figure it out.

1529
01:15:58,960 --> 01:16:02,400
Speaker 2: I definitely think it's at things that like are ex

1530
01:16:02,600 --> 01:16:06,479
Speaker 2: with a man. But moaning while eating ain't necessarily a

1531
01:16:06,560 --> 01:16:06,840
Speaker 2: bad thing.

1532
01:16:07,080 --> 01:16:12,479
Speaker 3: He do he moan while you eat a Gucci eating

1533
01:16:12,520 --> 01:16:14,440
Speaker 3: what exactly you need to specify?

1534
01:16:15,520 --> 01:16:18,680
Speaker 1: Ah, But I think it's okay to have X, but

1535
01:16:19,040 --> 01:16:23,080
Speaker 1: X it depends like X to me are like little things.

1536
01:16:23,840 --> 01:16:26,839
Speaker 1: You gotta think of your deal your serious deal breakers.

1537
01:16:27,720 --> 01:16:30,080
Speaker 1: And I think that if a person can check off

1538
01:16:30,160 --> 01:16:32,200
Speaker 1: eight to ten of your lists.

1539
01:16:32,479 --> 01:16:37,040
Speaker 2: Keeping me and be NARCISSI stick, they be socio, they

1540
01:16:37,120 --> 01:16:39,479
Speaker 2: be having childhood trauma, and you give a fuck about

1541
01:16:39,479 --> 01:16:40,720
Speaker 2: a nigga moaning while he.

1542
01:16:40,840 --> 01:16:46,040
Speaker 3: Eats hmm, I'm just moan right there. You know you

1543
01:16:46,120 --> 01:16:49,160
Speaker 3: need I said, that's my moan. That's a moan moaning

1544
01:16:49,240 --> 01:16:52,800
Speaker 3: you m all right?

1545
01:16:54,160 --> 01:17:00,679
Speaker 1: Good luck, Hey ladies, I'm a thirty one year old virgin.

1546
01:17:01,600 --> 01:17:04,360
Speaker 1: See and Keith Lock said that we didn't have no

1547
01:17:04,479 --> 01:17:08,800
Speaker 1: versions that listened to the shaw. I'm a thirty one

1548
01:17:08,880 --> 01:17:14,040
Speaker 1: year old version at that.

1549
01:17:15,080 --> 01:17:16,080
Speaker 3: Yes, we are out here.

1550
01:17:16,520 --> 01:17:19,120
Speaker 1: I was always focused on school and then helping take

1551
01:17:19,160 --> 01:17:21,519
Speaker 1: care of my mom and grandma. I've been on dates

1552
01:17:21,600 --> 01:17:24,160
Speaker 1: and a wild amount of talking stages with both men

1553
01:17:24,320 --> 01:17:26,280
Speaker 1: and women, but as soon as I bring up being

1554
01:17:26,320 --> 01:17:29,200
Speaker 1: a virgin, I get ghosted. Now, I understand being this

1555
01:17:29,360 --> 01:17:32,280
Speaker 1: old and not having any experience, but damn should I

1556
01:17:32,400 --> 01:17:34,320
Speaker 1: just start lying and pretend I know what I'm doing.

1557
01:17:34,439 --> 01:17:36,519
Speaker 1: By the way, I love watching y'all keep up the

1558
01:17:36,640 --> 01:17:37,559
Speaker 1: amazing work.

1559
01:17:38,439 --> 01:17:40,400
Speaker 3: Y'ah. I would just stop telling niggas.

1560
01:17:42,800 --> 01:17:44,719
Speaker 1: Because you're gonna come across a weirdo that's just gonna

1561
01:17:44,720 --> 01:17:46,120
Speaker 1: want to fuck you just to say he took it.

1562
01:17:46,800 --> 01:17:48,519
Speaker 1: And then you're gonna come across people that's like they

1563
01:17:48,560 --> 01:17:50,719
Speaker 1: don't want to break up a thirty one year old virginity.

1564
01:17:50,760 --> 01:17:53,280
Speaker 3: But I think at thirty one. You've waited this long.

1565
01:17:53,760 --> 01:17:56,679
Speaker 1: Your connection, your connection should have nothing to do with sex,

1566
01:17:58,120 --> 01:18:00,200
Speaker 1: like nothing. You don't even know what to expect. You

1567
01:18:00,240 --> 01:18:02,479
Speaker 1: don't even know what you like. It's a I have

1568
01:18:02,560 --> 01:18:05,439
Speaker 1: been fucking for so long. By the time I was

1569
01:18:05,520 --> 01:18:08,320
Speaker 1: thirty one, I been to what I liked, So you

1570
01:18:08,439 --> 01:18:10,880
Speaker 1: got a long adventure once you start fucking.

1571
01:18:12,200 --> 01:18:13,000
Speaker 3: But you know what I'm saying.

1572
01:18:13,120 --> 01:18:15,599
Speaker 2: But if she doesn't tell people that she's a virgin,

1573
01:18:16,280 --> 01:18:18,400
Speaker 2: then won't they be cause you know how some people

1574
01:18:18,439 --> 01:18:21,360
Speaker 2: can just be freaky immediately, they're gonna be a little

1575
01:18:21,360 --> 01:18:21,920
Speaker 2: bit more pushy.

1576
01:18:22,000 --> 01:18:24,080
Speaker 3: They won't understand it. So like, what was she like?

1577
01:18:24,200 --> 01:18:25,720
Speaker 3: What should she do with that?

1578
01:18:25,840 --> 01:18:28,400
Speaker 2: Then if she doesn't tell them and like she let's

1579
01:18:28,400 --> 01:18:30,800
Speaker 2: say she meets somebody and they just talking whatever. You know,

1580
01:18:30,880 --> 01:18:33,400
Speaker 2: niggas just take it to this level quick? How does

1581
01:18:33,439 --> 01:18:36,559
Speaker 2: she feel them off? Then without telling them? I think

1582
01:18:36,760 --> 01:18:38,080
Speaker 2: as the person.

1583
01:18:37,840 --> 01:18:42,519
Speaker 1: Who's been fucking Sincatini Todd, how I date now is

1584
01:18:42,840 --> 01:18:45,320
Speaker 1: I don't like to talk about sex though I don't

1585
01:18:45,880 --> 01:18:47,960
Speaker 1: And if you bring up sex too early, you're getting

1586
01:18:48,000 --> 01:18:50,840
Speaker 1: cut off. And this is coming from a reformed hell.

1587
01:18:51,360 --> 01:18:52,719
Speaker 1: Don't bring up sex too early.

1588
01:18:52,840 --> 01:18:55,479
Speaker 3: It's weird. Whether you're a virgin or not. I agree.

1589
01:18:55,600 --> 01:18:57,840
Speaker 1: So I just think just date like a normal person,

1590
01:18:57,880 --> 01:19:01,120
Speaker 1: because for me, sex is not even something I want

1591
01:19:01,160 --> 01:19:02,800
Speaker 1: to even talk about when I'm getting to know you,

1592
01:19:03,360 --> 01:19:06,320
Speaker 1: and then once i'm there, then we can have the conversation.

1593
01:19:06,439 --> 01:19:08,640
Speaker 1: But by the time I'm talking about sex with you

1594
01:19:08,720 --> 01:19:11,200
Speaker 1: and we're taking it there, we already really.

1595
01:19:11,160 --> 01:19:11,680
Speaker 3: Like each other.

1596
01:19:12,479 --> 01:19:14,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, like kind of going back to like

1597
01:19:14,680 --> 01:19:17,439
Speaker 2: the previous question now that I'm thinking about it, that's

1598
01:19:17,479 --> 01:19:20,519
Speaker 2: an itch for me. I hate when men start talking

1599
01:19:20,520 --> 01:19:23,280
Speaker 2: about sex too early, Like we shouldn't even be in

1600
01:19:23,360 --> 01:19:25,840
Speaker 2: a situation where you're having to find out that whether

1601
01:19:25,920 --> 01:19:29,120
Speaker 2: I'm a murgin or how experienced I am early on

1602
01:19:29,360 --> 01:19:31,479
Speaker 2: in the dating stage. This shouldn't even be something that

1603
01:19:31,560 --> 01:19:34,519
Speaker 2: we discussing because we getting to know each other. And

1604
01:19:34,640 --> 01:19:37,880
Speaker 2: if you start bringing it up too early, it's definitely like, hey,

1605
01:19:38,160 --> 01:19:39,679
Speaker 2: you're weird, you're too horny.

1606
01:19:40,640 --> 01:19:44,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, mister Kelly, I.

1607
01:19:44,520 --> 01:19:47,920
Speaker 2: Definitely just stop texting you start taking it there. I'll

1608
01:19:47,960 --> 01:19:50,160
Speaker 2: try to like divert their conversation, but if you keep

1609
01:19:50,200 --> 01:19:52,360
Speaker 2: bringing it back, I'm just gonna stop texting you because

1610
01:19:52,479 --> 01:19:54,439
Speaker 2: I'm gonna just stop talking to you, because why do

1611
01:19:54,520 --> 01:19:56,600
Speaker 2: you keep bringing this up to me when I have

1612
01:19:56,760 --> 01:19:59,680
Speaker 2: not one thing about women. They will give you the

1613
01:19:59,720 --> 01:20:03,080
Speaker 2: green light when they ready to fuck, yeah, when they

1614
01:20:03,200 --> 01:20:05,600
Speaker 2: ready to give it up. Are they feeling you like that?

1615
01:20:05,760 --> 01:20:07,840
Speaker 2: You don't know, and you're gonna feel it. You don't

1616
01:20:07,880 --> 01:20:09,880
Speaker 2: have to do the most. So would a man be

1617
01:20:10,000 --> 01:20:14,240
Speaker 2: too thirsty an egg? And I feel like, well, her

1618
01:20:14,320 --> 01:20:16,439
Speaker 2: being a virgin, we know you not bringing it up,

1619
01:20:16,560 --> 01:20:18,559
Speaker 2: so it's the man. So I feel like that's that's

1620
01:20:18,600 --> 01:20:20,560
Speaker 2: a red flag. A man who is really trying to

1621
01:20:20,600 --> 01:20:22,800
Speaker 2: get to know you, he's not gonna bring it up

1622
01:20:22,800 --> 01:20:24,639
Speaker 2: all the time because he knows it's gonna come eventually

1623
01:20:24,680 --> 01:20:25,439
Speaker 2: if you feel him.

1624
01:20:26,120 --> 01:20:27,800
Speaker 1: And I also think it's a difference between a man

1625
01:20:27,920 --> 01:20:31,320
Speaker 1: talking about like, damn, you're really beautiful, you're attractive, I'm

1626
01:20:31,320 --> 01:20:34,280
Speaker 1: attracted to you, versus talking about how fine you are.

1627
01:20:34,240 --> 01:20:37,879
Speaker 3: Damn you think it's damn ass fit damn.

1628
01:20:37,920 --> 01:20:41,519
Speaker 1: Like over sexualized, yeah, over sexualizing me, versus complimenting me

1629
01:20:41,600 --> 01:20:43,559
Speaker 1: and calling me beautiful and saying, oh, man, you really

1630
01:20:43,600 --> 01:20:46,240
Speaker 1: look nice like that they're dressed look good on you,

1631
01:20:46,360 --> 01:20:47,879
Speaker 1: versus being like, god, damn.

1632
01:20:47,760 --> 01:20:48,639
Speaker 3: You think it's fuck.

1633
01:20:49,640 --> 01:20:51,720
Speaker 1: It's a big difference, Like I get turned off by that,

1634
01:20:51,840 --> 01:20:53,439
Speaker 1: Like you keep talking about how thick I am?

1635
01:20:55,560 --> 01:20:57,599
Speaker 3: You know, yeah, all that stuff.

1636
01:20:57,640 --> 01:20:59,000
Speaker 2: What if he say, you got the body of a

1637
01:20:59,160 --> 01:21:01,719
Speaker 2: gottis gods put a pink in brown?

1638
01:21:01,800 --> 01:21:05,439
Speaker 1: I see you girl, that a body of a goddess.

1639
01:21:05,479 --> 01:21:06,599
Speaker 1: That's a beautiful compliment.

1640
01:21:07,720 --> 01:21:09,680
Speaker 3: What he's still talking about, how you all?

1641
01:21:09,800 --> 01:21:13,200
Speaker 1: That's the difference, man, You got the body of a goddess, wow,

1642
01:21:14,520 --> 01:21:15,280
Speaker 1: versus somebody.

1643
01:21:15,800 --> 01:21:17,920
Speaker 3: As fuck body of a goddess.

1644
01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:21,040
Speaker 1: Body of a goddess is like yes, if a man

1645
01:21:21,120 --> 01:21:23,240
Speaker 1: told me I had the body of a goddess, oh

1646
01:21:23,360 --> 01:21:27,640
Speaker 1: my god, she was fu And.

1647
01:21:27,760 --> 01:21:31,080
Speaker 3: See he got you that. But that's how easy it is.

1648
01:21:31,200 --> 01:21:34,360
Speaker 1: Niggas is so stupid at this age you would be

1649
01:21:34,400 --> 01:21:37,599
Speaker 1: surprised niggas are still talking that way out of pussy.

1650
01:21:37,840 --> 01:21:41,240
Speaker 1: They can be the richest niggas find this. Niggas all

1651
01:21:41,280 --> 01:21:41,720
Speaker 1: this and that.

1652
01:21:42,120 --> 01:21:47,840
Speaker 3: You be like I get while you're single. Yeah yeah,

1653
01:21:49,280 --> 01:21:51,080
Speaker 3: and that going to be shady to shorty.

1654
01:21:51,320 --> 01:21:53,840
Speaker 2: Maybe you should look at like I don't want to

1655
01:21:53,840 --> 01:21:56,360
Speaker 2: say Christian and just single that out. But like more

1656
01:21:56,400 --> 01:22:00,720
Speaker 2: religious events because those people usually are focused on the

1657
01:22:00,840 --> 01:22:02,960
Speaker 2: word and like finding their partner that they want to

1658
01:22:03,000 --> 01:22:07,439
Speaker 2: build with, and not so over sexualized aspect, and they'll

1659
01:22:07,439 --> 01:22:09,759
Speaker 2: have the same kind of like even if they're not versions,

1660
01:22:09,800 --> 01:22:11,879
Speaker 2: even though a lot of them times they're like reformed

1661
01:22:11,920 --> 01:22:12,160
Speaker 2: and they.

1662
01:22:12,120 --> 01:22:13,880
Speaker 3: Don't want to wait till they're married and things like that.

1663
01:22:14,160 --> 01:22:15,519
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that you want to do that, but

1664
01:22:15,560 --> 01:22:18,360
Speaker 1: I think you'll find you'll be more successful in finding

1665
01:22:18,439 --> 01:22:20,080
Speaker 1: somebody in the same mind.

1666
01:22:20,400 --> 01:22:23,720
Speaker 2: Framemingo dot com is the still a thing.

1667
01:22:24,439 --> 01:22:27,920
Speaker 3: I wouldn't know. I don't like no dating apps me either.

1668
01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:29,360
Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like we're at a point where

1669
01:22:29,400 --> 01:22:30,519
Speaker 3: we can't really be on dating.

1670
01:22:31,160 --> 01:22:33,000
Speaker 1: We're not talking about that again, but yes we can

1671
01:22:33,560 --> 01:22:36,000
Speaker 1: know the one. Everybody on that one?

1672
01:22:36,400 --> 01:22:41,800
Speaker 3: Do y'all brown? What app? That's an app? That's an app?

1673
01:22:41,880 --> 01:22:45,680
Speaker 3: I feel like that's the one lates will be on. No,

1674
01:22:45,880 --> 01:22:48,479
Speaker 3: what was the one we talked about? Hinge? Not Hinge?

1675
01:22:48,520 --> 01:22:51,920
Speaker 3: The one right league? You could be on Raya? No, yes,

1676
01:22:52,000 --> 01:22:54,280
Speaker 3: we can't. Ben Affleck and them niggas be on Raya.

1677
01:22:54,439 --> 01:22:57,439
Speaker 2: Seriously they Ben Affleck was married to j Low for

1678
01:22:57,560 --> 01:22:59,559
Speaker 2: a mini but he would when he was single.

1679
01:23:00,840 --> 01:23:03,400
Speaker 3: But I exactly and now everybody know he on there

1680
01:23:03,439 --> 01:23:05,400
Speaker 3: because guess what you done? Told it? I didn't tell it.

1681
01:23:05,479 --> 01:23:06,719
Speaker 3: It was a TikTok that went viral.

1682
01:23:06,800 --> 01:23:09,559
Speaker 2: Baby, I didn't tell it, and I'll spread the word

1683
01:23:09,680 --> 01:23:11,479
Speaker 2: even more, and I spread it again.

1684
01:23:11,800 --> 01:23:13,280
Speaker 1: They should have added me on that bitch, and I

1685
01:23:13,320 --> 01:23:14,320
Speaker 1: would have kept my mouth shut.

1686
01:23:15,320 --> 01:23:17,360
Speaker 2: So the point that I'm making is I just think

1687
01:23:17,439 --> 01:23:19,720
Speaker 2: when you get to a certain point, you can't be

1688
01:23:19,920 --> 01:23:21,840
Speaker 2: you can't successfully be on dy naps.

1689
01:23:21,920 --> 01:23:24,120
Speaker 3: I really do believe that, because.

1690
01:23:24,360 --> 01:23:27,240
Speaker 2: How do you know the sincerity of the person that

1691
01:23:27,320 --> 01:23:28,680
Speaker 2: you're trying today, And how do you know that they

1692
01:23:28,760 --> 01:23:30,760
Speaker 2: really are interested in you or do they want to

1693
01:23:30,760 --> 01:23:33,280
Speaker 2: talk to you because they already know that you this

1694
01:23:33,479 --> 01:23:35,920
Speaker 2: person from this platform that has all of this shit

1695
01:23:36,000 --> 01:23:38,640
Speaker 2: going on, Because I personally wouldn't be interested in the

1696
01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:39,080
Speaker 2: day now.

1697
01:23:39,360 --> 01:23:41,160
Speaker 3: Well, I think on RAYA a lot of it.

1698
01:23:41,320 --> 01:23:44,280
Speaker 1: There are like, and I say regularly, like normal people

1699
01:23:44,360 --> 01:23:45,720
Speaker 1: with nine to files on there. But there are a

1700
01:23:45,760 --> 01:23:49,040
Speaker 1: lot of people who match, like influencers match with other influencers, so.

1701
01:23:49,160 --> 01:23:51,400
Speaker 3: It's like they can find each other. I don't know,

1702
01:23:51,920 --> 01:23:54,320
Speaker 3: I don't know. Yeah, listen, I think we should leave

1703
01:23:54,360 --> 01:23:54,880
Speaker 3: them alone.

1704
01:23:55,280 --> 01:23:58,640
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1705
01:23:58,840 --> 01:24:01,160
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1706
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1710
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1711
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1712
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Speaker 6: Period by y'all, y'all, and we're gonna give it to

1713
01:24:25,240 --> 01:24:33,160
Speaker 6: him like this. Yeah, you like that, brown Sugar, you

1714
01:24:33,439 --> 01:24:33,640
Speaker 6: like that?

1715
01:24:34,720 --> 01:24:37,640
Speaker 3: Tell me you like it? Sway with him, drell. Let

1716
01:24:37,760 --> 01:24:38,920
Speaker 3: me tell you about this girl.

1717
01:24:39,320 --> 01:24:42,080
Speaker 2: Maybe I shouldn't. I met her in Philly and her

1718
01:24:42,200 --> 01:24:45,600
Speaker 2: name was brown Sugar. See, we been making love constantly.

1719
01:24:45,920 --> 01:24:47,920
Speaker 2: It's why my eyes are a shade of blood.

1720
01:24:48,000 --> 01:24:51,439
Speaker 3: Blood burgundy. That's all we kissing. It's like any other

1721
01:24:51,520 --> 01:24:53,599
Speaker 3: way that I'll be kissing with. And I'm kissing winning.

1722
01:24:53,600 --> 01:24:57,680
Speaker 3: I'm mean saying, what's you listen, brown Sugar, babe. I

1723
01:24:57,760 --> 01:24:59,840
Speaker 3: get tired, y'all, cael love. I don't know how to

1724
01:25:00,240 --> 01:25:02,040
Speaker 3: hage true.

1725
01:25:05,240 --> 01:25:11,760
Speaker 5: I want some of your broug. I want some of

1726
01:25:11,880 --> 01:25:18,720
Speaker 5: your brown sugar. I want some of your broug.

1727
01:25:24,400 --> 01:25:27,599
Speaker 3: Oh sugar. When you're close to me, up you right

1728
01:25:27,760 --> 01:25:30,960
Speaker 3: down down to my knees, and when you let me.

1729
01:25:31,040 --> 01:25:33,840
Speaker 2: Hit it heat it sweet like honey. When it comes

1730
01:25:33,960 --> 01:25:38,120
Speaker 2: when it comes to me, you know, with the cocoa eyes.

1731
01:25:38,280 --> 01:25:41,200
Speaker 2: Even gotta be exens about the name of chocolate. Time

1732
01:25:41,760 --> 01:25:45,200
Speaker 2: brown sugar, bab, I get tired off your love.

1733
01:25:45,280 --> 01:25:46,759
Speaker 3: I don't know how to be hash.

1734
01:25:51,439 --> 01:25:58,000
Speaker 5: I want some of your brochus. I want some of

1735
01:25:58,080 --> 01:26:05,080
Speaker 5: your bro sug. I want some of your brown sugar.

1736
01:26:08,960 --> 01:26:12,160
Speaker 3: I want some of that brown sugar. And you won't

1737
01:26:12,200 --> 01:26:13,720
Speaker 3: give it to me. Baby. This is how we do

1738
01:26:14,040 --> 01:26:15,120
Speaker 3: the spoken poetry.

1739
01:26:15,160 --> 01:26:17,439
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show y'all how to talk about that brown

1740
01:26:17,479 --> 01:26:19,519
Speaker 1: sugar because sometimes when I wake up in the morning,

1741
01:26:19,600 --> 01:26:21,640
Speaker 1: I just want a little pancake. And you know why,

1742
01:26:21,680 --> 01:26:25,840
Speaker 1: I want on top of that pancake a little brownche a. Sure,

1743
01:26:28,920 --> 01:26:32,599
Speaker 1: I want some of your brown because that's supple.

1744
01:26:35,200 --> 01:26:41,320
Speaker 3: You don't know she got mayor angel piece of the

1745
01:26:41,400 --> 01:26:44,640
Speaker 3: And I'm gonna say that one more time. This is

1746
01:26:44,680 --> 01:26:47,439
Speaker 3: gonna be the last time I hit it. Why because

1747
01:26:47,479 --> 01:26:53,559
Speaker 3: I can't. You gotta know live on time. I guess

1748
01:26:54,240 --> 01:27:03,960
Speaker 3: I got sure how old summer yo bra shop clow

1749
01:27:06,479 --> 01:27:13,400
Speaker 3: a whole some yobra sho how old some of your

1750
01:27:13,479 --> 01:28:00,439
Speaker 3: brown shoes? R pe raised in peace, sail jail It