WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Bigger and Better

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels. Second date update. I've said it once and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll say it again for all the guys that are

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<v Speaker 1>listening out there. When you're going out on a date,

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<v Speaker 1>less effort, less effort. When you try too hard, things

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<v Speaker 1>get weird. Sort of like the guy we're about to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to who wants to do a second date update today.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Tommy, and Tommy thought of an interesting

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<v Speaker 1>date idea to do with the girl that he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to call today. Tommy, how are you? I'm doing alright good?

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<v Speaker 1>Tommy actually wants to call a girl named Tommy today.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't that special? And I guess that you guys actually

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<v Speaker 1>met at Starbucks because you thought her drink was yours

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<v Speaker 1>or something like that. Yeah, they called out her name

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<v Speaker 1>and it I'm just like mine. So yeah, we giggled

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<v Speaker 1>because we both grabbed the cup at the same time.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you serious? That sounds like a bad plot out

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<v Speaker 1>of like a Nicholas Sparks book or something. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>exactly what I thought. Whatever. You know, did you yell

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<v Speaker 1>at her for trying to grab your car? Well? I

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<v Speaker 1>at first I was like, hey, come on, that's my coffee,

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<v Speaker 1>But then I realized I was the guy taking the

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<v Speaker 1>mistake here. Yeah, so how did you ask her out? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ask her out right then? And there? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you guys start joking around about your name or no?

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<v Speaker 1>She just grabbed her coffee and left, and I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>like Kiomi lived once, and so I kind of followed

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<v Speaker 1>her out to her car and like asked her out

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<v Speaker 1>really awkwardly. Uh, you know, she was standing by her BMW.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this is like a ten sort of gal

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't usually get meet girls like that. You

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<v Speaker 1>mean hot? You don't you meet hot girls? Yeah? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean she also had a lot of money. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you know that she had a lot of money? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she's driving a BMW and had some really

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<v Speaker 1>excited looking sunglasses. Yeah, but did you break down her

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<v Speaker 1>financial portfolio right there? Are you just assuming that she

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<v Speaker 1>had a lot of money? I guess I am assuming

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<v Speaker 1>she could be brokeer than me. But your date is

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<v Speaker 1>interesting though. What you chose to do with her really

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<v Speaker 1>pique my interest. When I was reading your email, Can

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<v Speaker 1>you explain to everybody what you did? Yeah? Well, usually

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<v Speaker 1>on first dates, I like to do activities like things

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<v Speaker 1>that aren't you know, staring at each other and holding hands.

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<v Speaker 1>So I thought I had to go bigger go home

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<v Speaker 1>with this scouts. So I did this thing called the

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<v Speaker 1>Bigger and Better Date. Have you guys ever heard of that? No?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever heard about the guy who traded a

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<v Speaker 1>paper clip for a car on craig Blitz? Yeah? What?

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<v Speaker 1>And so like through a whole number of trades, you

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<v Speaker 1>can do that. That's sort of the idea. So I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we'd start with like a dollar bill in

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<v Speaker 1>trade it together and you know, see what we can

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<v Speaker 1>get at the end of the date. You're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>trading things online. So you sat there and no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>like going out usually, I'll like hit up like a

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<v Speaker 1>flea market or um, you know, somewhere world like a

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<v Speaker 1>street bearers going on where there's a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>or an event. Okay, so you're like, let's run around

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<v Speaker 1>the city and try to like see what we can

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<v Speaker 1>get starting with this one dollar bill. Exactly. That cool?

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<v Speaker 1>I like that, How did you propose this to her?

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<v Speaker 1>So we met up at the same Starbucks and in

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<v Speaker 1>the parking lot. I just told her, I said, this

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<v Speaker 1>is the idea. We start with the dollar, we trade

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<v Speaker 1>up and I don't know, she wasn't into it at first.

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<v Speaker 1>Like all the time I was like leading the charge.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like trading up and like, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>traded the dollar for a cookie and then a cookie

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<v Speaker 1>turned into you know, like grocery bag, and I kept

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<v Speaker 1>going and so I don't know, it kind of got

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<v Speaker 1>lame for a while. Yeah, that did. She seem like

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<v Speaker 1>she was having fun at all. I kind of was

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<v Speaker 1>forcing it a little, so I at one point we

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<v Speaker 1>got the CD, and so I told her, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was her turn because I had been doing all

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<v Speaker 1>the work, and so I kind of like not pushy pushy,

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<v Speaker 1>but like I you know, I said, why don't you

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<v Speaker 1>try it? See if you like it? And she traded

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<v Speaker 1>the CD successfully for a I know it's gonna kind

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<v Speaker 1>of late, but commemorative plate, you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>Like when you put on your grandma's wall. You know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>sounds awesome. And what she really excited about or the

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<v Speaker 1>plate that she got, I mean, she was excited that

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<v Speaker 1>she successfully had done it. Um to me at any point,

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<v Speaker 1>did you just want to go? You know what, this

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<v Speaker 1>whole bigger and better date idea not really working out

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<v Speaker 1>like I had planned. Shall we just go to dinner. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I just I guess I just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want her to know that I felt defeated, so I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of wanted it to be like, hey, look isn't

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<v Speaker 1>this fun? Um? So you just kept going with all

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<v Speaker 1>of it, right right? I mean after we had gotten

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<v Speaker 1>the plate, she said she had to go meet her sister.

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<v Speaker 1>We said goodbye, and before we parted, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>can we hang out sometime soon? And she said, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>you get a hugger or I'm assuming with that date

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<v Speaker 1>you probably didn't get a kiss, but no, I mean yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I gotta hug because come on, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>but no no kids or anything. But it is the

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<v Speaker 1>first date, so you never know how they things. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you never know. So how many times do you try

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<v Speaker 1>to get ahold of her? Since you know, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to overdo it. I feel like texted her three times? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I haven't heard anything back. So tell me, looking

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<v Speaker 1>back on this first date, what would you I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't have done this again? Right? Well? I actually

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<v Speaker 1>I would. You know, when you're meeting strangers and dating

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<v Speaker 1>is such a silly, stupid thing anyway, like why not

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<v Speaker 1>go out and have a fun time, then be totally outgoing. Listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all for creative dates, like I've spent a date

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<v Speaker 1>drawing portraits of my husband on a date once, Like

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<v Speaker 1>those are great ideas, but I just feel like, doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>she feel like she's just begging at that point? Like

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<v Speaker 1>you're just going a begging Hold on, Brook, you're on

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<v Speaker 1>a date, but you are trying pictures of your husband. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that that one's silly, just sounds creepy. That gravy you

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<v Speaker 1>each get ten minutes to dry each other. You sit

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<v Speaker 1>with a pad of paper at a bar. Just try

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<v Speaker 1>it sometimes. Oh, I don't know, I don't know that

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<v Speaker 1>the Bigger and Better Date guy is judging your date.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, man, here's what we're gonna We're gonna play

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<v Speaker 1>a song, come back, call her and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Okay, all right, all right man, hang on

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jubil in the morning, seate, Tommy is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone with us. He wants us to call a

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<v Speaker 1>girl named Tommy. Today. They went on a Bigger and

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<v Speaker 1>Better date. You don't know what that is. Tommy basically

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<v Speaker 1>started off with a dollar bill, took her around town

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<v Speaker 1>for like two hours, seeing what they could trade things

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<v Speaker 1>for like they go into business be like, hey, I

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<v Speaker 1>got this dollar bill, what can I trade you for it?

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<v Speaker 1>That's bigger and better and then they would just do that.

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<v Speaker 1>And he's not sure if the date really worked very well,

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<v Speaker 1>because the girl did seem kind of awkward at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of it. We know that Brooke has been pretty

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<v Speaker 1>critical of the bigger and Better date. I'm curious to

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<v Speaker 1>see what Lydia thinks though, Lydia, would you want to

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<v Speaker 1>do this date? I think it's creative. He put thought

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<v Speaker 1>into it, which a lot of we always complain that

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<v Speaker 1>guys don't put enough thought into things. True. I think

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<v Speaker 1>just maybe she got too into it. She traded up

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<v Speaker 1>for a bigger and better guy. I think that's what

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<v Speaker 1>could have happened. Tommy. Maybe, Oh god, I hope not.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Tommy, We're about to get Tommy on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and see if it was your bigger and better

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<v Speaker 1>date that turned her off, or if there's another reason

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<v Speaker 1>that she's not calling you back. Yeah, I'm just curious

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<v Speaker 1>to see what she has to say because I've never

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<v Speaker 1>ever dated a girl like this, so I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was awesome. I just want to know what she thought. Okay, right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>Dollar phone him right now, so even get her on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. There we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak

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<v Speaker 1>to Tommy? Please? This is hey Tonny. How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry who Jewbil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning?

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<v Speaker 1>The radio show? Oh um, okay, I don't think I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, Well, nice to meet you. I host a

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<v Speaker 1>radio show, I'm Moving ninety two point five. I'm calling

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<v Speaker 1>you today because one of our listeners actually emailed us

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<v Speaker 1>about you. His name is Tommy, and he said that

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<v Speaker 1>he recently met you at Starbucks and you guys went

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date and he went a little out

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<v Speaker 1>of the box and did something that he calls a

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<v Speaker 1>bigger and better date. Uh h, yeah, that's true. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Tommy wanted me to call you today because he wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to see if he screwed up on that date or

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<v Speaker 1>if there was a reason that you're not calling him back,

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<v Speaker 1>because I know that he's tried to text you a

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<v Speaker 1>few times and he's gotten no response. Okay, he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to know why I'm not texting him back. Yep. So

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<v Speaker 1>he asked us, if we get you on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>he emailed you, Yes, so what do you think of

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<v Speaker 1>the bigger and better date idea that he did? It

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<v Speaker 1>was certainly different than what I'm used to. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy it? No? That was a nice little pause there. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so is that why you're not calling him back? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>It was really weird and just, you know, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>not what I'm used to. He's not like the guys

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<v Speaker 1>I'm used to. I mean, but is that necessarily a

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<v Speaker 1>bad thing. It's good to expand your horizons, try different things.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's what I thought. How is he not what

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<v Speaker 1>you're used to? What are you used to? Honestly, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>used to being taken out on like a very classy

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<v Speaker 1>date with really classy guys. I mean, my last boy

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<v Speaker 1>fund owned a Jim. So I used to a guy

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<v Speaker 1>that takes me places and treats me well. And this

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<v Speaker 1>is we were like homeless people for the day. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you mean, like you you date dudes with money, is

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<v Speaker 1>what you're saying. I mean, at least guys that take

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<v Speaker 1>me out on real dates. This didn't even feel like

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<v Speaker 1>a date. It was just we were like hold was

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<v Speaker 1>running around like begging for money. I think I'd feel

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<v Speaker 1>that way too, and I'm not, like, yeah, what was

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<v Speaker 1>the worst part of it? I said to him, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it clear that I don't really do this,

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<v Speaker 1>and he made me do it at one point for

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<v Speaker 1>this plate with pandas on it. Yeah, he told us

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<v Speaker 1>about that. He said you were he was actually very

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<v Speaker 1>impressed that you were able to get that plate. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't want to hurt him, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>being honest, That's how I feel, and I just feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I deserve better. Hey, Tommy, wouldn't you like to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to Tommy and just tell him that date was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of weird and you shouldn't do that again. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>some constructive criticism. No, I mean, like I think he

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<v Speaker 1>should get the picture by me not responding. Okay, well

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<v Speaker 1>he isn't getting that picture. Yeah, I'm just gonna tell

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<v Speaker 1>you that. He's on the phone and mien listening, so

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<v Speaker 1>you've already kind of told him. Yeah. Look, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you didn't really try on the date. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't really like try, so like, how can you

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<v Speaker 1>tell it was really How could you tell if it

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<v Speaker 1>was really fun? If you didn't really actually give it

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<v Speaker 1>your all, you know. I kind of felt like I

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<v Speaker 1>was like pulling you up the whole time. I think

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<v Speaker 1>we could have had a fun time and actually had

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<v Speaker 1>like gotten to know each other better and had a

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<v Speaker 1>fun date. Like not every date has to be this

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<v Speaker 1>classy romantic roses and the table and wine and fancy

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<v Speaker 1>fiddle players. Like I think it would be fun to

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<v Speaker 1>like go the vagabonds for a day. I mean, that's

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<v Speaker 1>fine that you think that, but I don't. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>To be honest, dating me is a privilege, and I

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<v Speaker 1>deserve to be on a date a lot better than

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<v Speaker 1>I was dating you as a privilege. I'm a fun, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>creative guy who actually likes to do things with people

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<v Speaker 1>in the city. I don't do just cookie cutter dates

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<v Speaker 1>with roses. Man, Dating me is a privilege. That's your

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<v Speaker 1>idea of a date. That's fine, but it's not mine.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry that I'm not like your ex boyfriend Jim

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<v Speaker 1>owning beefcake, no brain, muscle face, rich people. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not just like your father and native money. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a real person, and give me real people. Real

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<v Speaker 1>people beg for money on a first date. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>begging for money. You keep saying that it's raving for

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<v Speaker 1>things and asking for things like you're not into an adventure,

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<v Speaker 1>then I'm not into you. Well, then that brings in

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<v Speaker 1>my next question. I was going to ask Tommy if

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<v Speaker 1>you would like a second date with Tommy. I will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. Tommy, will you go out with Tommy again?

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<v Speaker 1>Even though he just said he didn't want to see you. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I think he needs to date somebody more his class,

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<v Speaker 1>his league. Tommy, Hey, he's time to play in your

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<v Speaker 1>own league. All right, Stay in your class, buddy. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll stay in my own class because we have more

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<v Speaker 1>fun and we do more fun things instead of, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>read Southern living magazines. Light is about. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how you're offended, Tommy. In the very beginning of this,

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<v Speaker 1>you said you were attracted to her because you thought

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<v Speaker 1>she was a rich girl. He said that, Well, you

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't be offended either, because it sounds like you're attracted

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<v Speaker 1>to rich guys. Yeah, but believe them. I'm up fun

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<v Speaker 1>about it, he said. He said that he thought that

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<v Speaker 1>you were out of his league because you're hot, and

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<v Speaker 1>he said that he thought you might have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of money. Well, I guess I am a broken jubil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning's met you,