Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels. Second date update. I've said it once and
Speaker 1: I'll say it again for all the guys that are
Speaker 1: listening out there. When you're going out on a date,
Speaker 1: less effort, less effort. When you try too hard, things
Speaker 1: get weird. Sort of like the guy we're about to
Speaker 1: talk to who wants to do a second date update today.
Speaker 1: His name is Tommy, and Tommy thought of an interesting
Speaker 1: date idea to do with the girl that he wants
Speaker 1: to call today. Tommy, how are you? I'm doing alright good?
Speaker 1: Tommy actually wants to call a girl named Tommy today.
Speaker 1: Isn't that special? And I guess that you guys actually
Speaker 1: met at Starbucks because you thought her drink was yours
Speaker 1: or something like that. Yeah, they called out her name
Speaker 1: and it I'm just like mine. So yeah, we giggled
Speaker 1: because we both grabbed the cup at the same time.
Speaker 1: Are you serious? That sounds like a bad plot out
Speaker 1: of like a Nicholas Sparks book or something. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: exactly what I thought. Whatever. You know, did you yell
Speaker 1: at her for trying to grab your car? Well? I
Speaker 1: at first I was like, hey, come on, that's my coffee,
Speaker 1: But then I realized I was the guy taking the
Speaker 1: mistake here. Yeah, so how did you ask her out? Then?
Speaker 1: Did you ask her out right then? And there? Did
Speaker 1: you guys start joking around about your name or no?
Speaker 1: She just grabbed her coffee and left, and I thought,
Speaker 1: like Kiomi lived once, and so I kind of followed
Speaker 1: her out to her car and like asked her out
Speaker 1: really awkwardly. Uh, you know, she was standing by her BMW.
Speaker 1: I mean, this is like a ten sort of gal
Speaker 1: And I don't usually get meet girls like that. You
Speaker 1: mean hot? You don't you meet hot girls? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: mean she also had a lot of money. What do
Speaker 1: you know that she had a lot of money? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean she's driving a BMW and had some really
Speaker 1: excited looking sunglasses. Yeah, but did you break down her
Speaker 1: financial portfolio right there? Are you just assuming that she
Speaker 1: had a lot of money? I guess I am assuming
Speaker 1: she could be brokeer than me. But your date is
Speaker 1: interesting though. What you chose to do with her really
Speaker 1: pique my interest. When I was reading your email, Can
Speaker 1: you explain to everybody what you did? Yeah? Well, usually
Speaker 1: on first dates, I like to do activities like things
Speaker 1: that aren't you know, staring at each other and holding hands.
Speaker 1: So I thought I had to go bigger go home
Speaker 1: with this scouts. So I did this thing called the
Speaker 1: Bigger and Better Date. Have you guys ever heard of that? No?
Speaker 1: Have you ever heard about the guy who traded a
Speaker 1: paper clip for a car on craig Blitz? Yeah? What?
Speaker 1: And so like through a whole number of trades, you
Speaker 1: can do that. That's sort of the idea. So I thought,
Speaker 1: you know, we'd start with like a dollar bill in
Speaker 1: trade it together and you know, see what we can
Speaker 1: get at the end of the date. You're talking about
Speaker 1: trading things online. So you sat there and no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: like going out usually, I'll like hit up like a
Speaker 1: flea market or um, you know, somewhere world like a
Speaker 1: street bearers going on where there's a lot of people
Speaker 1: or an event. Okay, so you're like, let's run around
Speaker 1: the city and try to like see what we can
Speaker 1: get starting with this one dollar bill. Exactly. That cool?
Speaker 1: I like that, How did you propose this to her?
Speaker 1: So we met up at the same Starbucks and in
Speaker 1: the parking lot. I just told her, I said, this
Speaker 1: is the idea. We start with the dollar, we trade
Speaker 1: up and I don't know, she wasn't into it at first.
Speaker 1: Like all the time I was like leading the charge.
Speaker 1: I was like trading up and like, you know, I
Speaker 1: traded the dollar for a cookie and then a cookie
Speaker 1: turned into you know, like grocery bag, and I kept
Speaker 1: going and so I don't know, it kind of got
Speaker 1: lame for a while. Yeah, that did. She seem like
Speaker 1: she was having fun at all. I kind of was
Speaker 1: forcing it a little, so I at one point we
Speaker 1: got the CD, and so I told her, you know,
Speaker 1: it was her turn because I had been doing all
Speaker 1: the work, and so I kind of like not pushy pushy,
Speaker 1: but like I you know, I said, why don't you
Speaker 1: try it? See if you like it? And she traded
Speaker 1: the CD successfully for a I know it's gonna kind
Speaker 1: of late, but commemorative plate, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like when you put on your grandma's wall. You know, yeah,
Speaker 1: sounds awesome. And what she really excited about or the
Speaker 1: plate that she got, I mean, she was excited that
Speaker 1: she successfully had done it. Um to me at any point,
Speaker 1: did you just want to go? You know what, this
Speaker 1: whole bigger and better date idea not really working out
Speaker 1: like I had planned. Shall we just go to dinner. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just I guess I just didn't
Speaker 1: want her to know that I felt defeated, so I
Speaker 1: kind of wanted it to be like, hey, look isn't
Speaker 1: this fun? Um? So you just kept going with all
Speaker 1: of it, right right? I mean after we had gotten
Speaker 1: the plate, she said she had to go meet her sister.
Speaker 1: We said goodbye, and before we parted, I was like,
Speaker 1: can we hang out sometime soon? And she said, sure,
Speaker 1: you get a hugger or I'm assuming with that date
Speaker 1: you probably didn't get a kiss, but no, I mean yeah, well,
Speaker 1: I mean I gotta hug because come on, you know,
Speaker 1: but no no kids or anything. But it is the
Speaker 1: first date, so you never know how they things. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you never know. So how many times do you try
Speaker 1: to get ahold of her? Since you know, I don't
Speaker 1: want to overdo it. I feel like texted her three times? Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I haven't heard anything back. So tell me, looking
Speaker 1: back on this first date, what would you I mean,
Speaker 1: you wouldn't have done this again? Right? Well? I actually
Speaker 1: I would. You know, when you're meeting strangers and dating
Speaker 1: is such a silly, stupid thing anyway, like why not
Speaker 1: go out and have a fun time, then be totally outgoing. Listen.
Speaker 1: I'm all for creative dates, like I've spent a date
Speaker 1: drawing portraits of my husband on a date once, Like
Speaker 1: those are great ideas, but I just feel like, doesn't
Speaker 1: she feel like she's just begging at that point? Like
Speaker 1: you're just going a begging Hold on, Brook, you're on
Speaker 1: a date, but you are trying pictures of your husband. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that that one's silly, just sounds creepy. That gravy you
Speaker 1: each get ten minutes to dry each other. You sit
Speaker 1: with a pad of paper at a bar. Just try
Speaker 1: it sometimes. Oh, I don't know, I don't know that
Speaker 1: the Bigger and Better Date guy is judging your date.
Speaker 1: All right, man, here's what we're gonna We're gonna play
Speaker 1: a song, come back, call her and get your second
Speaker 1: date update. Okay, all right, all right man, hang on
Speaker 1: Brook and Jubil in the morning, seate, Tommy is on
Speaker 1: the phone with us. He wants us to call a
Speaker 1: girl named Tommy. Today. They went on a Bigger and
Speaker 1: Better date. You don't know what that is. Tommy basically
Speaker 1: started off with a dollar bill, took her around town
Speaker 1: for like two hours, seeing what they could trade things
Speaker 1: for like they go into business be like, hey, I
Speaker 1: got this dollar bill, what can I trade you for it?
Speaker 1: That's bigger and better and then they would just do that.
Speaker 1: And he's not sure if the date really worked very well,
Speaker 1: because the girl did seem kind of awkward at the
Speaker 1: end of it. We know that Brooke has been pretty
Speaker 1: critical of the bigger and Better date. I'm curious to
Speaker 1: see what Lydia thinks though, Lydia, would you want to
Speaker 1: do this date? I think it's creative. He put thought
Speaker 1: into it, which a lot of we always complain that
Speaker 1: guys don't put enough thought into things. True. I think
Speaker 1: just maybe she got too into it. She traded up
Speaker 1: for a bigger and better guy. I think that's what
Speaker 1: could have happened. Tommy. Maybe, Oh god, I hope not.
Speaker 1: All right, Tommy, We're about to get Tommy on the
Speaker 1: phone and see if it was your bigger and better
Speaker 1: date that turned her off, or if there's another reason
Speaker 1: that she's not calling you back. Yeah, I'm just curious
Speaker 1: to see what she has to say because I've never
Speaker 1: ever dated a girl like this, so I thought it
Speaker 1: was awesome. I just want to know what she thought. Okay, right, well,
Speaker 1: Dollar phone him right now, so even get her on
Speaker 1: the phone. There we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak
Speaker 1: to Tommy? Please? This is hey Tonny. How are you?
Speaker 1: This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry who Jewbil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning?
Speaker 1: The radio show? Oh um, okay, I don't think I know.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, Well, nice to meet you. I host a
Speaker 1: radio show, I'm Moving ninety two point five. I'm calling
Speaker 1: you today because one of our listeners actually emailed us
Speaker 1: about you. His name is Tommy, and he said that
Speaker 1: he recently met you at Starbucks and you guys went
Speaker 1: out on a date and he went a little out
Speaker 1: of the box and did something that he calls a
Speaker 1: bigger and better date. Uh h, yeah, that's true. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: Tommy wanted me to call you today because he wanted
Speaker 1: to see if he screwed up on that date or
Speaker 1: if there was a reason that you're not calling him back,
Speaker 1: because I know that he's tried to text you a
Speaker 1: few times and he's gotten no response. Okay, he wants
Speaker 1: to know why I'm not texting him back. Yep. So
Speaker 1: he asked us, if we get you on the phone,
Speaker 1: he emailed you, Yes, so what do you think of
Speaker 1: the bigger and better date idea that he did? It
Speaker 1: was certainly different than what I'm used to. Did you
Speaker 1: enjoy it? No? That was a nice little pause there. Okay,
Speaker 1: so is that why you're not calling him back? Then?
Speaker 1: It was really weird and just, you know, like I said,
Speaker 1: not what I'm used to. He's not like the guys
Speaker 1: I'm used to. I mean, but is that necessarily a
Speaker 1: bad thing. It's good to expand your horizons, try different things.
Speaker 1: Well that's what I thought. How is he not what
Speaker 1: you're used to? What are you used to? Honestly, I'm
Speaker 1: used to being taken out on like a very classy
Speaker 1: date with really classy guys. I mean, my last boy
Speaker 1: fund owned a Jim. So I used to a guy
Speaker 1: that takes me places and treats me well. And this
Speaker 1: is we were like homeless people for the day. Do
Speaker 1: you mean, like you you date dudes with money, is
Speaker 1: what you're saying. I mean, at least guys that take
Speaker 1: me out on real dates. This didn't even feel like
Speaker 1: a date. It was just we were like hold was
Speaker 1: running around like begging for money. I think I'd feel
Speaker 1: that way too, and I'm not, like, yeah, what was
Speaker 1: the worst part of it? I said to him, like,
Speaker 1: I mean it clear that I don't really do this,
Speaker 1: and he made me do it at one point for
Speaker 1: this plate with pandas on it. Yeah, he told us
Speaker 1: about that. He said you were he was actually very
Speaker 1: impressed that you were able to get that plate. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I don't want to hurt him, you know,
Speaker 1: being honest, That's how I feel, and I just feel
Speaker 1: like I deserve better. Hey, Tommy, wouldn't you like to
Speaker 1: talk to Tommy and just tell him that date was
Speaker 1: kind of weird and you shouldn't do that again. Maybe
Speaker 1: some constructive criticism. No, I mean, like I think he
Speaker 1: should get the picture by me not responding. Okay, well
Speaker 1: he isn't getting that picture. Yeah, I'm just gonna tell
Speaker 1: you that. He's on the phone and mien listening, so
Speaker 1: you've already kind of told him. Yeah. Look, I feel
Speaker 1: like you didn't really try on the date. It's like
Speaker 1: you didn't really like try, so like, how can you
Speaker 1: tell it was really How could you tell if it
Speaker 1: was really fun? If you didn't really actually give it
Speaker 1: your all, you know. I kind of felt like I
Speaker 1: was like pulling you up the whole time. I think
Speaker 1: we could have had a fun time and actually had
Speaker 1: like gotten to know each other better and had a
Speaker 1: fun date. Like not every date has to be this
Speaker 1: classy romantic roses and the table and wine and fancy
Speaker 1: fiddle players. Like I think it would be fun to
Speaker 1: like go the vagabonds for a day. I mean, that's
Speaker 1: fine that you think that, but I don't. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: To be honest, dating me is a privilege, and I
Speaker 1: deserve to be on a date a lot better than
Speaker 1: I was dating you as a privilege. I'm a fun, cool,
Speaker 1: creative guy who actually likes to do things with people
Speaker 1: in the city. I don't do just cookie cutter dates
Speaker 1: with roses. Man, Dating me is a privilege. That's your
Speaker 1: idea of a date. That's fine, but it's not mine.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that I'm not like your ex boyfriend Jim
Speaker 1: owning beefcake, no brain, muscle face, rich people. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I'm not just like your father and native money. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm a real person, and give me real people. Real
Speaker 1: people beg for money on a first date. It's not
Speaker 1: begging for money. You keep saying that it's raving for
Speaker 1: things and asking for things like you're not into an adventure,
Speaker 1: then I'm not into you. Well, then that brings in
Speaker 1: my next question. I was going to ask Tommy if
Speaker 1: you would like a second date with Tommy. I will
Speaker 1: pay for it. Tommy, will you go out with Tommy again?
Speaker 1: Even though he just said he didn't want to see you. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I think he needs to date somebody more his class,
Speaker 1: his league. Tommy, Hey, he's time to play in your
Speaker 1: own league. All right, Stay in your class, buddy. All right,
Speaker 1: I'll stay in my own class because we have more
Speaker 1: fun and we do more fun things instead of, you know,
Speaker 1: read Southern living magazines. Light is about. I don't know
Speaker 1: how you're offended, Tommy. In the very beginning of this,
Speaker 1: you said you were attracted to her because you thought
Speaker 1: she was a rich girl. He said that, Well, you
Speaker 1: shouldn't be offended either, because it sounds like you're attracted
Speaker 1: to rich guys. Yeah, but believe them. I'm up fun
Speaker 1: about it, he said. He said that he thought that
Speaker 1: you were out of his league because you're hot, and
Speaker 1: he said that he thought you might have a lot
Speaker 1: of money. Well, I guess I am a broken jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning's met you,