Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becka Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning.
Speaker 2: Podcast Hello everybody, we.
Speaker 3: Are scrubbing in. Did she forget your line?
Speaker 1: No? I was just really embracing it. It is a Monday.
Speaker 1: I'm feeling fly. I'm feeling good. You're feeling fly, feeling fly?
Speaker 4: Why got what got you feeling so fly? Just like
Speaker 4: sugar guy feeling so fly. I am bare face today,
Speaker 4: I have no makeup on. I got a good night
Speaker 4: sleep last night. You know, I'm just like relishing in
Speaker 4: the summer days.
Speaker 3: Love.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I didn't get a good night sleep last night
Speaker 5: because Heley is.
Speaker 3: A cough and so.
Speaker 5: You know, you know when you're trying to suppress a cough,
Speaker 5: but you're still kind of coughing, so it makes it
Speaker 5: worse for whoever's trying to sleep next to you.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So she was trying to hold it back and I
Speaker 5: was like, you can just let it out, and then
Speaker 5: she was doing that, and so I said, I'm going
Speaker 5: to go sleep on the couch and she's like, no,
Speaker 5: I'll go sleep on the couch. I'm like, no, you
Speaker 5: you need this, you need the bed. Just rest and
Speaker 5: cough as much.
Speaker 3: As you need to.
Speaker 1: You should take her mouth shut. It's sick, I know,
Speaker 1: but it helps. Oh, when I'm sick, I still take
Speaker 1: my mouth shut and it helps.
Speaker 5: Something about needing to cough and my mouth being shut
Speaker 5: sounds like a form of torture.
Speaker 6: Yeah, drum no, you guys, it's done.
Speaker 1: No, if you really have to cough, you can cough
Speaker 1: and like it'll just like some air will come out.
Speaker 5: No, there's no serious So I wouldn't say I got
Speaker 5: a full night's rest.
Speaker 3: That's okay.
Speaker 5: We did nothing yesterday, absolutely nothing.
Speaker 1: You know, when like you're a kid and you go
Speaker 1: to summer camp and you spend the whole day in
Speaker 1: the sun and you're like swimming, and then by the
Speaker 1: end of the day you're literally so exhausted that like
Speaker 1: you can't even keep your eyes open.
Speaker 2: That's how I felt this weekend at Disneyland.
Speaker 1: At Disneyland, and after call those day, like last night,
Speaker 1: my body just went curve plump. Yeah, and I fell
Speaker 1: into my sheets and I didn't wake up once.
Speaker 4: Wow.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a dream, not to rub it in.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I'm happy for you.
Speaker 2: I'm happy for you, big weekend because girls.
Speaker 3: Over the weekend. No, it's been well, the whole week
Speaker 3: was so much fun.
Speaker 5: It was big and packed and NonStop, and it was
Speaker 5: really fun. We had the premiere on Monday night and
Speaker 5: it was epic, like it was at Universal City Walk.
Speaker 5: They did it was such a big moment, like they
Speaker 5: really made it a big moment.
Speaker 7: And.
Speaker 5: So there were I think three screenings of it at
Speaker 5: the premiere, so everyone got to watch it that night,
Speaker 5: and then it came out, well, it actually came out Thursday.
Speaker 5: There review at showings, which I don't I don't understand
Speaker 5: that that a lot of movies now they say the
Speaker 5: release dates like Friday due nineteenth, but there's actually showing what.
Speaker 1: They do on with my music releases, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like, but the new album is midnight, nine
Speaker 1: o'clock our time, which is really Thursday.
Speaker 3: I know, there were like two pm showings.
Speaker 6: On Thursday, and then like in the last ten years,
Speaker 6: they've been moving it up and now it's just full
Speaker 6: blown matinee.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, you know, they need they need to get
Speaker 1: people in the which we're grateful for.
Speaker 5: One Xtraday. But opening weekend was really fun. We went
Speaker 5: we went Friday like earlier and then she did a
Speaker 5: Q and A that night with John Chu, which was epic.
Speaker 5: I mean, he I can't remember if he produced. He
Speaker 5: was a part of a movie she did called Gim
Speaker 5: in the Hologram. So they know each other from way
Speaker 5: back when, and obviously he directed Wicked.
Speaker 3: He directed the Justin Bieber Never Say.
Speaker 8: Never, crazy rich Asians, crazy rich Asians like iconic, and
Speaker 8: so he did the Q and A and it was
Speaker 8: really cool, and Tanya and Robbie came to that viewing and.
Speaker 1: The third time seeing it, which I think was our favorite,
Speaker 1: honest really.
Speaker 5: Okay, that's so funny because this Saturday we had her
Speaker 5: friends and family screening which Easton Allison came to there,
Speaker 5: and it was at four pm, and then she was
Speaker 5: doing a Q and A for the seven pm showing,
Speaker 5: So we were just gonna stay and go eat dinner
Speaker 5: and then go to that.
Speaker 3: But John had told her.
Speaker 2: He was like John Chu.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 5: John Chu was like, hey, it's your it's your first
Speaker 5: and only first directorial debut, opening weekend. So he was like,
Speaker 5: you need to go see it as many times as
Speaker 5: possible and like film yourself how you're feeling, Like write
Speaker 5: it down because I wish I had done that, and
Speaker 5: so he goes, you should go to this, you should
Speaker 5: go watch it with an audience that's not you know,
Speaker 5: friends and family and just like the general public. So
Speaker 5: we went like we watched it at four and then
Speaker 5: went back at seven pm, and I cried both times.
Speaker 3: I was like, I just saw this, and I cried again.
Speaker 2: You saw back to back? Yes, that's wow, narbar.
Speaker 5: Yeah. And then Sherry Cola, who is the best. She
Speaker 5: did the Q and A for after that screening, and
Speaker 5: so it's been really fun.
Speaker 1: But that's the way I met her Monday at the premiere. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was starstruck.
Speaker 2: And she was like, I know, I know all about you,
Speaker 2: so nice to meet you. Didn't you just get married
Speaker 2: to it? I was like, excuse me.
Speaker 5: She. I can hype Sherry Cola up like no other.
Speaker 5: She is one of the most amazing people, and she
Speaker 5: has been such an amazing friend and support system, specifically
Speaker 5: to Haley, because if you go and look at any
Speaker 5: like clip of Haley doing something Sherry Cola is it
Speaker 5: might be the only comment like hi, figure on and
Speaker 5: she's just such good energy.
Speaker 6: We were in line to get popcorn behind her and
Speaker 6: I was wearing a Hailey Kyoko pan Rama shirt and
Speaker 6: she got all excited and she was like, oh my god,
Speaker 6: you so excited for the movie.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she was so cool.
Speaker 3: I can't get over it. I would love to have
Speaker 3: her on. I asked her after the screening. I was like, Cherry,
Speaker 3: will you come on the podcast. I'll have our people
Speaker 3: reach out to.
Speaker 2: Your people, and she said yes, of course, she said yes.
Speaker 1: I'm proud of you in that moment, really doing the
Speaker 1: Lord's work, just booking, just booking and moving our podcast along.
Speaker 5: They've become she and her girlfriend have become like one
Speaker 5: of our closest, Like they've become such good friends and
Speaker 5: also like being in I think that specifically for Haley
Speaker 5: being in the A p I community and also like
Speaker 5: the queer community, Like it's just they're the best.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I really like that was a top moment.
Speaker 1: I really just the energy was just like on another level,
Speaker 1: which I very much enjoyed. But I did want to
Speaker 1: tell you something that I was really proud of.
Speaker 3: On Monday, so it was the.
Speaker 1: Premiere, and first of all, you know me, I'm always freezing, Okay,
Speaker 1: so it was cold, brought a blazer, still cold. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I get up to p in the middle of the
Speaker 1: movie and I come back to my seat and there's
Speaker 1: like a blue light on my seat and I think
Speaker 1: I like accidentally hit it with my shoulder or something
Speaker 1: and it turned red.
Speaker 2: Okay, the seats had heaters.
Speaker 1: And coolers on them, and the whole movie. I had
Speaker 1: my cooler on my seat until.
Speaker 2: Like the last fifteen minutes. I put the heat off
Speaker 2: and I.
Speaker 1: Was like, oh my god, I was like a fireball
Speaker 1: on my back. I was like, if I would have
Speaker 1: had this the whole movie, I would have.
Speaker 3: I probably would have.
Speaker 1: But like I told Robbie and he put his on,
Speaker 1: and I was just blown away that the seats at
Speaker 1: the theater where the premiere was had cooling and heating
Speaker 1: on them.
Speaker 3: I did not know that there were climber seats. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3: I had the cooler on for.
Speaker 2: Like an hour and ten minutes.
Speaker 3: Can you believe? Yes, I can't.
Speaker 1: I was like, why it's so freaking cold in here,
Speaker 1: Like I don't understand these people, Wow, the movie theater people.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: I always bring a puffer, like I'm always like ready
Speaker 1: for it, but this one.
Speaker 3: Was the movie theater.
Speaker 6: Next level that is a palace, Yeah, a great place
Speaker 6: the movie.
Speaker 1: It was really I was just like wow, I was
Speaker 1: blown away, like hats off to the ant.
Speaker 3: It was fun.
Speaker 8: Though.
Speaker 5: We did a party bus from the house which we're
Speaker 5: very close to where the premiere was. It was a
Speaker 5: good like fifteen minutes, not even that's generous.
Speaker 2: Like nine and a half minutes.
Speaker 1: So it felt like prom and it dude like prom
Speaker 1: because I was like, everybody made up beck in Haley's house.
Speaker 1: We like met up, took photos, got the party bus.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I'm just so proud of Haley because I just cannot
Speaker 5: imagine working on something and like it being hers to
Speaker 5: an extent for a while, and then releasing it to
Speaker 5: the world for people to have opinions on for critics
Speaker 5: stuffs say.
Speaker 3: You know, It's like, I'm just so incredibly proud of her.
Speaker 2: It is so interesting.
Speaker 1: Like I was thinking about it a lot because like
Speaker 1: obviously I'm ingesting and I know Hailey's scheduled per you,
Speaker 1: but also like on her social media and I'm like,
Speaker 1: we do a weekly bi weekly podcast. We hit it,
Speaker 1: we quit it, we move on, do you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Like and same that I do with radio.
Speaker 1: I do a daily morning show, so I hit it,
Speaker 1: I quit it. It's like day in something new every day. Yeah,
Speaker 1: when you work on a movie and then you're promoting
Speaker 1: it for like however long, that's all you're talking about
Speaker 1: at at what's the saying ad nauseum.
Speaker 2: Ad nauseam.
Speaker 3: I don't even know.
Speaker 1: I was just like, that is so I can't even
Speaker 1: imagine just talking about one project for like six months
Speaker 1: straight and then it being out and then what we like,
Speaker 1: what does she do now?
Speaker 5: And that's talking about it publicly right much less thinking
Speaker 5: about it and working on it day in day out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so crazy.
Speaker 3: You know, she's already like what am I going to
Speaker 3: do next?
Speaker 5: You know, Yeah, that's her mindset. And I think, like,
Speaker 5: if anything, it's just here. And you know, I told her,
Speaker 5: I was like, listen, this is a bold title to release,
Speaker 5: especially in our political climate, like there's gonna be We're
Speaker 5: so privileged to be able to live our lives out
Speaker 5: loud and love who and scream girls like girls however
Speaker 5: and whenever we want to.
Speaker 3: But I was like, there are people who are what
Speaker 3: keep going.
Speaker 2: But it made me remember something are.
Speaker 5: People who are in parts of the country who either
Speaker 5: a are too young to see this without a supervised
Speaker 5: adult because it's RATEDAR, which was not Haley's choice by
Speaker 5: the way, it goes through like a whole system.
Speaker 3: She tried everything.
Speaker 5: While making the movie to keep it PG thirteen, and
Speaker 5: it still got an R rating, which.
Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't think that's alright, that's wild.
Speaker 3: It's wild, Like you can make your assumptions on why. Maybe.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So I was like blown away by the radar too,
Speaker 1: and I looked it up, and I think it was
Speaker 1: the drug and alcohol under age.
Speaker 5: They made sure to not use actual cans and bottles
Speaker 5: so that you couldn't you can assume what they're drinking.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I mean, but they went through that smoking
Speaker 1: weed out of an apple, right, They did.
Speaker 5: That to try to keep it PG thirteen though, oh
Speaker 5: oh so well.
Speaker 1: To me, it was very obvious that they were drinking
Speaker 1: and smoking weed. But that made me a little bit
Speaker 1: more sense because I thought it was the sexualness of it,
Speaker 1: which I was like, this is PG is PG could
Speaker 1: BEG not even PG right.
Speaker 3: But I don't even know. Oh.
Speaker 5: I was saying, like whether people are too young and
Speaker 5: can't go, or they're not out or feel comfortable buying
Speaker 5: a ticket to something called girls like girls because they're
Speaker 5: in the closet or don't feel confident in themselves. I
Speaker 5: was like, this is just like again, once again, Haley
Speaker 5: is a trailblazer and doing like it was the same
Speaker 5: thing when she released the music video on the song.
Speaker 5: It was like people were hiding watching. You know, so
Speaker 5: many people are like I used to hide and watch
Speaker 5: this in my closet because I wasn't out yet, And
Speaker 5: it's going to be the same thing with this movie
Speaker 5: where people however, many years from now ago, there was
Speaker 5: a time when this came out that I couldn't go
Speaker 5: buy a ticket for this because I wasn't ready or
Speaker 5: I had couldn't ask my parents, and so I just
Speaker 5: was like at the end of the day, and I
Speaker 5: think it had a really successful opening weekend, but I'm like,
Speaker 5: at the end of the day, you're doing something.
Speaker 3: That you're the first to do it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think the.
Speaker 5: Whole concert, like I've seen people say like it's such
Speaker 5: a like simple you know, plot or whatever, and I'm like,
Speaker 5: that's the point. It's so simple. You have gone to
Speaker 5: so many movies where you've seen a girl move to
Speaker 5: a new town and fall in love with the boy
Speaker 5: or boy moved to a new town and fall in
Speaker 5: love with the girl.
Speaker 3: You've never seen this, and.
Speaker 5: That's what's so groundbreaking about it is that she got
Speaker 5: a movie in theaters about two girls called Girls Like Girls.
Speaker 3: Falling in love. Yeah.
Speaker 5: So I'm just like, it's just what can what she
Speaker 5: can do is limitless, you know, limitless.
Speaker 1: I saw some people because I posted about on the
Speaker 1: opening day somebody saying that they were like, I'm going
Speaker 1: to see Girls Like Girls this weekend, and I'm going
Speaker 1: to see Toy Story five next weekend.
Speaker 2: I was like, that's my girl, That's how we do it.
Speaker 2: But I was really proud.
Speaker 1: Because at the end of the movie when they play
Speaker 1: the girls like Girls like the motion picture version of it.
Speaker 1: At the premiere, I put my myself one in the
Speaker 1: air and I started the wave with.
Speaker 3: The light on.
Speaker 1: Yes, However my light was not on. Oh, I just
Speaker 1: had like my screen on really bright. I didn't like
Speaker 1: actually have my line on, so I didn't start the
Speaker 1: light on wave.
Speaker 5: Oh.
Speaker 1: I definitely started the handwave. So I tried to do
Speaker 1: it again on Friday night at the screening and I'm
Speaker 1: had my light on, I was, and not one person
Speaker 1: joined in with me.
Speaker 2: I was like, and Robby goes, I think I think
Speaker 2: you can put it down. I was like, I'm gonna
Speaker 2: do it for the whole forget time. I don't care
Speaker 2: if I'm the only one doing it. I don't care.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, put your hands up proudly.
Speaker 2: Yeah that's right.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: But yeah, it's been so fun seeing like the scrubbers
Speaker 5: and people messaging me and talking about I told tale.
Speaker 3: I was like, at the end of the.
Speaker 5: Day, you're the movie is so beautiful, like the one nothing,
Speaker 5: no one could say anything about your directorial debut, like
Speaker 5: it's stunning.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So I'm so proud of her. Go buy tickets, go
Speaker 5: see the movie. See it again and again and again.
Speaker 5: I'll be in the theaters this weekend.
Speaker 2: Again.
Speaker 6: Very watchable. Yeah, it's like, yeah, I could watch it
Speaker 6: four or five more times.
Speaker 5: Yeah, four pm to turn around them for the seven PM.
Speaker 3: No problem.
Speaker 1: We actually enjoyed it the the third time. Yeah, So
Speaker 1: if that's any indication, just keep going.
Speaker 5: I know, I I I the third time we watched it,
Speaker 5: and I don't know if it's because we were just
Speaker 5: like with an a random audience.
Speaker 2: I think that I think it changes it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like noticing different things.
Speaker 5: And I really picked up on because Haley made so
Speaker 5: many decisions while editing where it was like the silence
Speaker 5: of there's so much silence.
Speaker 3: In the movie.
Speaker 5: Yes, and you feel the awkwardness of being a teenager
Speaker 5: in the summer of twenty two thousand and six where
Speaker 5: you're waiting, you don't have your phone to scroll on,
Speaker 5: You're waiting for that sound of the door opening on
Speaker 5: aol or aim.
Speaker 1: I would sit in my computer room because I didn't
Speaker 1: have a computer in my room.
Speaker 2: We had like the computer room.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so would sit in the computer room and
Speaker 1: I would just like sit there, just wait, wait, wait
Speaker 1: for them to sign on, like uh and then when
Speaker 1: you got this the whatever that I'm away.
Speaker 3: B RB or whatever.
Speaker 5: Oh, when they'd sign on and and do it immediately,
Speaker 5: you're like they didn't care that I was.
Speaker 1: On or they don't even like they say they got
Speaker 1: to go, and then you're trying to type something and
Speaker 1: then it just like goes.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I just.
Speaker 3: Love she captured that era.
Speaker 5: So they just is so perfect and the girls are
Speaker 5: amazing in the movie. So anyways, I am also a
Speaker 5: fan of the movie beyond being a fiance of the director,
Speaker 5: and obviously we'll support everything she does. But I'm a
Speaker 5: genuine fan of the movie. So it's so good and
Speaker 5: I'm so proud of her. So everyone, thank you for supporting,
Speaker 5: and if you haven't, please support today by tickets.
Speaker 1: We missed the Saturday showing because we did a.
Speaker 2: Big family day at.
Speaker 3: Disneyland, which is so fun. It is so fun.
Speaker 1: But can I just explain to you that we had
Speaker 1: like a group I think there was like maybe fourteen
Speaker 1: of us, all different age ranged kids, so like different
Speaker 1: rye wanting to go on different rides, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. And I really feel like we did a
Speaker 1: good job of like tending to all the kids that
Speaker 1: wanted to do different things also whilst still being together
Speaker 1: at moments and like meeting up at certain spots and
Speaker 1: doing some rides together some apart.
Speaker 2: Like we kind of nailed it.
Speaker 3: That's a big accomplishment. Yeah, I know about that fight.
Speaker 1: Zero fights, but you know it was like a little
Speaker 1: interesting trick that I've never done before.
Speaker 3: Let's take a break.
Speaker 1: Oh, something we've never done before is we noticed on
Speaker 1: the Disneyland app that Space Mountain was like temporarily closed.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so we had our eye on it.
Speaker 3: Because yeah, that's almost temporarily closed.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like that was one of the ones we
Speaker 1: wanted to hit before we left, right and my youngest
Speaker 1: was like, let's go over to Space Mountain and see
Speaker 1: how long it's been closed and then maybe like hang
Speaker 1: out around like the line, because then we're just gonna
Speaker 1: get right in nice.
Speaker 2: So we're like, okay, great idea.
Speaker 1: So we walk over and we're trying to like talk
Speaker 1: to the crew members about how long has it been closed?
Speaker 1: How much longer do you think? They give you nothing
Speaker 1: by the way, they give you like no info. They'll
Speaker 1: tell you how long it's been closed, but they won't
Speaker 1: tell you when they think they're going to reopen, when
Speaker 1: they're hoping to reopen, like maybe stick around, wink wink, nunjeon,
Speaker 1: like none of that. Because Robbie was like really bartering
Speaker 1: with them, I bet didn't work.
Speaker 2: We're like, let's wait.
Speaker 1: Ten minutes, and I was like, yeah, well, you guys,
Speaker 1: we have a fast we have a lightning lane in
Speaker 1: like two hours.
Speaker 2: Let's just come back. Who cares?
Speaker 1: Or as we're walking away about to walk away, they
Speaker 1: opened the line.
Speaker 2: We literally walk right onto Space Mountain.
Speaker 3: That's a treat.
Speaker 2: It was a treat.
Speaker 3: I love Space Mountain. I do my after lunch.
Speaker 2: Not the best idea because that was very queasy.
Speaker 1: And then we did Thunder Railroad after and I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna hurle, but I did not.
Speaker 5: Did y'all do California Adventure too? Or did y'all strictly
Speaker 5: do Disney Justice? Wow?
Speaker 2: Yeah that's right.
Speaker 6: Did you do the Millennium Falcon Ride? No, because it's
Speaker 6: new with the Mandalorian and Baby Oh.
Speaker 1: No, but all the rides at start in the Star
Speaker 1: Wars land are like eighty plus minutes. So I let
Speaker 1: them do one of those on their own. And I
Speaker 1: went to town with like little.
Speaker 3: Kids because you needed to recover. I needed a little
Speaker 3: bit of recovering.
Speaker 1: But I wore one of those like fans around my neck.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I saw the game changing. I felt like
Speaker 1: a queen walking around with that thing.
Speaker 3: You would think that you wouldn't need to air with
Speaker 3: how cold I get.
Speaker 1: It was quite a squeltering hot summer day in Anaheim, California.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yea.
Speaker 1: The sun was beaten down. I have a what's it
Speaker 1: called sunburn on my stole, but my neck was cool.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's a ticket to everything. Yeah, that's what
Speaker 1: I also realized. If your neck is warm, your body
Speaker 1: is warm. So I think I'm gonna start like bringing
Speaker 1: scarfs around all the time.
Speaker 5: It's basically I think your hands, your feet, and your
Speaker 5: neck and ears, like if those all have warmth or
Speaker 5: a tempts at warmth, you have a chance.
Speaker 2: But also cool if you want to remain cool.
Speaker 3: It's basically pressure points.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, but but we did.
Speaker 3: We hit the We hit it.
Speaker 2: We left the park around like four pm, which was great.
Speaker 3: Wow, yeah, amazing.
Speaker 1: Got home, did a turnaround, got my father's day stuff.
Speaker 3: Ready to roll. What did you put in the mugs?
Speaker 1: I ended up putting purel birts, bees chapstick, some mince
Speaker 1: like a bottle opener, and some chumps classic.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: What man doesn't enjoy a beefstick?
Speaker 5: You know?
Speaker 6: Amen?
Speaker 3: Yeah, men love a beef stick, Love a beefstick. Did
Speaker 3: you watch any of the clips of Olivia Wilde don't
Speaker 3: call her daddy?
Speaker 5: So?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 3: Did you? I saw the ones that were going around.
Speaker 1: Do you know what made me so upset about that
Speaker 1: whole thing? They got a lot of for their age gap? Okay,
Speaker 1: Olivia Wilde, Harry Styles ten year age gap.
Speaker 2: Olivia was ten is ten years older than Harry.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, what were their ages when they were together?
Speaker 1: I don't know off the top of my head. Okay,
Speaker 1: maybe Easton can do a lot, I'm mon search. What
Speaker 1: I didn't realize is like, Okay, yes, she got.
Speaker 2: A lot, a lot of shes for that.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: She was sharing the story about how her ex husband
Speaker 1: or ex fiance, I'm not really sure.
Speaker 3: Ex husband Jason, Yeah, Jason Sudeikis.
Speaker 1: Was dating a girl at that same time who was
Speaker 1: eleven years younger than him, but the press didn't say
Speaker 1: anything about that.
Speaker 6: Harry was twenty six and Olivia was thirty six.
Speaker 1: Twenty six, There's wow, Jason Sudekas's girlfriend was eleven years
Speaker 1: younger than him. Not one outlet reported on that age gap.
Speaker 3: Are we remotely surprised?
Speaker 1: And then she was saying how he spent that Thanksgiving
Speaker 1: frolicking the beaches of Costa Rica with his said girlfriend,
Speaker 1: And to me, it's like, whatever, if they split.
Speaker 2: The holidays, they split the holidays.
Speaker 1: But she was like, if that were me on the
Speaker 1: beach with Harry and he was with the kids on Thanksgiving,
Speaker 1: I would have been.
Speaker 2: Demolished, demolished, And I was like, she is right.
Speaker 3: Totally, She's so right.
Speaker 1: And I fell on the sword for this because I
Speaker 1: remember when they were dating, I didn't think.
Speaker 2: Anything was weird about Jason Sudakas and the girl. And
Speaker 2: now I'm like, shame on me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, to my accountability is everything.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna be I'm gonna hold myself accountable to that.
Speaker 2: I didn't even look at her age.
Speaker 3: I didn't even know.
Speaker 5: I just I feel like Olivia and Harry were pretty
Speaker 5: private for the most part. But I remember people hating it,
Speaker 5: hating them together.
Speaker 3: I didn't figure out what I was. I was always like, why, Like,
Speaker 3: she's gorgeous, she's older just because she was older.
Speaker 1: Yes, they don't hate Zoe Kravitz. She's age appropriate even
Speaker 1: though she is a little bit older than him, I
Speaker 1: think by two years.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. You're so right though, I mean,
Speaker 3: the the it's it's everything. Though. I just saw this.
Speaker 5: I just saw this video about this girl saying, I
Speaker 5: guess there's this trend going around where it's.
Speaker 6: Zoeyk is five years older.
Speaker 3: They should she should be getting at least half of it.
Speaker 1: But she thought, I think when you hit ten, it's
Speaker 1: like when people really get round. Yeah, they get really
Speaker 1: repped up with the ten plus age.
Speaker 5: No, she was saying that this girl is saying that
Speaker 5: there's this trend going around where people say these husbands that.
Speaker 3: What's the word that she used, But basically they are I.
Speaker 2: Didn't marry a loser because I can like dress whatever
Speaker 2: I want.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, it's like basically talking about the things
Speaker 5: my husband does. Is a dad that go like over
Speaker 5: the top like that he like that would make an
Speaker 5: Oh yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I know what you're talking about.
Speaker 1: These are things my husband does that would make an
Speaker 1: average not average, but like something man.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's his own.
Speaker 3: Word though that they're talking about.
Speaker 5: Anyways, she was saying that she will not say that
Speaker 5: the things her husband does that are She goes, Yeah,
Speaker 5: the things my husband does would make a low effort husband. Look,
Speaker 5: they would in the horrible because my husband is an
Speaker 5: equal partner, he's an equal parent.
Speaker 3: She's like, but if you.
Speaker 5: Compare what he does to what a mom is expected
Speaker 5: to do as like everyday task, yeah, he's average. She's like,
Speaker 5: so I'll never hype my man up for doing what
Speaker 5: I considered the equal part of a relationship and what
Speaker 5: every woman is expected to do. Yeah, and so basically
Speaker 5: she was saying, like we've got like the standard shouldn't
Speaker 5: be that he the standard should just be that he
Speaker 5: is an equal partner and does the equal task not
Speaker 5: compare it to a low effort husband or.
Speaker 6: The bar is in the earth's course.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Over the weekend, I made Allison uh scrambled a single
Speaker 6: scrambled egg. It took me like six minutes. And I
Speaker 6: made her a piece of toast and she was like,
Speaker 6: You're the greatest husband who's ever walked the earth. And
Speaker 6: I was like, man, I feel So it was nice
Speaker 6: for her to say that, but like I'm just like,
Speaker 6: what are we comparing this to? Like I'm just I'm
Speaker 6: doing the bare minimum here, Like I'm not even cleaning
Speaker 6: up after myself, like she had to clean it up.
Speaker 2: That's our trade off too.
Speaker 5: They're doing they're doing that on Love Island, you know,
Speaker 5: the islanders are making a bag.
Speaker 1: Damn.
Speaker 2: Which, wait, we have to get into that.
Speaker 3: I'm all caught up same I. I skipped a few
Speaker 3: episodes because I got so bored with.
Speaker 2: It that I was like, no, no, no, you.
Speaker 3: Got right, Yes, I and I did, and I'm I
Speaker 3: got right back caught up.
Speaker 2: You miss pivotal things.
Speaker 1: I skipped through one challenge and I missed like some
Speaker 1: pivotal moments.
Speaker 3: I saw what I needed to see.
Speaker 2: Not only am I caught up on USA, I am
Speaker 2: also caught up on UK.
Speaker 3: Oh, you're really putting in the work. Proud of that.
Speaker 1: Last night I stop on the end of the UK
Speaker 1: one it said newt upcoming tomorrow, and I was like.
Speaker 3: I've done my work.
Speaker 2: Proud of myself all this cant of bed.
Speaker 3: Now that's why you slept so well? Yeah, mission accomplished.
Speaker 1: No, I'm proud that I've that. I'm still like keeping
Speaker 1: up on both.
Speaker 5: At the same time, I'm honestly surprised because USA has
Speaker 5: been so bad the.
Speaker 2: Last week, but I haven't been ready to like jump yet.
Speaker 3: Right, No, I get it, and now I'm glad I
Speaker 3: didn't know because Cassa More came back last night.
Speaker 1: Which I just want to preface with this is very
Speaker 1: early for Kassa More. Usually it's like it's a six
Speaker 1: week show, so it's usually like week three or four
Speaker 1: that they do cost some more. This has like been
Speaker 1: fourteen episodes. Or something, so like week.
Speaker 2: Two, then they're separate. They're desperate because you know what
Speaker 2: I think it is.
Speaker 1: I think that all the Islanders are very concerned about
Speaker 1: what people are thinking of them. So they're just staying
Speaker 1: in these safe couples because they don't want to jump around,
Speaker 1: because they don't want America to think that they're like whatever,
Speaker 1: So they're just like staying.
Speaker 2: Do you get what I'm saying. I don't think any
Speaker 2: of them like each.
Speaker 1: Other, like really except for Kaita and Zach maybe and
Speaker 1: Kenzie likes Colby or what's his name, Corbin?
Speaker 5: Okay, but this is my favorite part about this season
Speaker 5: is that everyone trying to tell stories of the episodes.
Speaker 3: No one knows anyone's names.
Speaker 5: Still still we're like, yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: There's like there's no standouts. There's nobody that I'm rooting for.
Speaker 2: Like it's weird. It's a weird season.
Speaker 3: Try is my standout right now?
Speaker 5: Because I have literally laughed out loud at her commentary
Speaker 5: on things and her and.
Speaker 1: Bryce to me, I don't know, they're like they're just again,
Speaker 1: they're just staying there because it's easy, and they just
Speaker 1: want America to like them.
Speaker 5: That would be another Amaya, Papaya and Brian situation if
Speaker 5: they won.
Speaker 2: Yes, it's horrible, it's so oh bad.
Speaker 1: So anyways, I was like, I'm so down on this season,
Speaker 1: like I hate all these people. Then last night's episode
Speaker 1: comes in. Not only so they so the heart rate challenge.
Speaker 3: They do everything explain costs some more to those who
Speaker 3: aren't watching, So.
Speaker 2: If you're not watching, cost some more.
Speaker 1: Is basically, they split the guys and they do it
Speaker 1: like week three or four, so that the couples are
Speaker 1: like really established okay, and they're like in love with
Speaker 1: each other basically, and then especially in the UK, they're
Speaker 1: like rellly in it. They split the guys and the
Speaker 1: girls up. They put, however many Islanders, that many new
Speaker 1: girls in the other house, and that many Islanders that
Speaker 1: many guys in the new house. And I think it's
Speaker 1: about a week a couple of days where they stay
Speaker 1: in these houses with brand new people and then they
Speaker 1: either have to choose to stay with their old couple
Speaker 1: or recouple with this new coss some more person.
Speaker 2: It's always the juiciest. It's always when like things hit
Speaker 2: the fan, things hit the fan, and.
Speaker 1: There's some like iconic seasons where like like I'll never
Speaker 1: forget Callum and.
Speaker 3: Shauna in the UK.
Speaker 1: I don't even remember what season. I think it was
Speaker 1: season six. They were like coupled up, like they were
Speaker 1: like the mom and dad of the villa. They were
Speaker 1: like locked in. And then he went to cost some More,
Speaker 1: brought back Mollie, and my jaw was on the floor
Speaker 1: like this is just like the tip of the iceberg
Speaker 1: with to me. After cost some More, I get to me,
Speaker 1: the show gets boring.
Speaker 3: Oh, that's not good for this season since they've done
Speaker 3: it so early.
Speaker 1: Well, no, because what they did so the heart rate
Speaker 1: challenge they do every season and it's like basically they
Speaker 1: just like grind on each other to see who gets
Speaker 1: your heart rate up the most out of everybody.
Speaker 2: So they're all like getting.
Speaker 1: In their gear like twerking, like learning their things.
Speaker 2: Like they're like the girls are ready to like go
Speaker 2: at it right.
Speaker 1: They take the guys out, take the guys to cost
Speaker 1: some More. They sit the girls down at the fire
Speaker 1: pit and they give them a big screen TV to
Speaker 1: watch the heart rate challenge with all the guys and
Speaker 1: cost some More with all these new girls. It was cinema.
Speaker 2: It was so.
Speaker 1: Good because now here's the thing. What do you know
Speaker 1: what they did with this episode? What the girls are
Speaker 1: usually boring in Cossa more because they like their original pair,
Speaker 1: so they don't really explore. They're notorious for not exploring.
Speaker 1: Now the girls are seeing their guys running amuck looking
Speaker 1: like idiots. Now they're fired up. Now they want the
Speaker 1: guys to come and say, you're gonna do that. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do it too.
Speaker 5: And guess what, there's twelve guys. There's double amount of girls.
Speaker 2: Double the amount. So I am I.
Speaker 1: It was so smart on the producer's side because I
Speaker 1: feel like they could tell everybody was bored with this
Speaker 1: season and they've never done this before and it was
Speaker 1: so genius.
Speaker 3: But here's my thing.
Speaker 5: These guys, the guys seemed really into the cost some
Speaker 5: more girls like I've been waiting for.
Speaker 3: Like it was Haley looks at me and goes dogs.
Speaker 2: Yeah, all of them too.
Speaker 3: There was not one that was right, not even one
Speaker 3: of them.
Speaker 2: I think Caleb a past because he doesn't have a couple.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, it's fine.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's the only one.
Speaker 3: Everyone.
Speaker 9: Yeah, but not one of them was like I semi
Speaker 9: respect like everyone said, Sincere was like the least uh
Speaker 9: into it or whatever he was.
Speaker 3: But the way he was looking, but he looks kill.
Speaker 2: It looks could kill.
Speaker 3: Then he did the worst.
Speaker 1: Yes, but I will say the other guys with their hands,
Speaker 1: with their with the everything, sincerelyast I feel like took
Speaker 1: his hands to.
Speaker 2: Himself for the most part. The girls and bouncing, I
Speaker 2: mean it was porn. I soft porn. That's righted R.
Speaker 2: That show should be rated R.
Speaker 7: If Girls Like.
Speaker 1: Girls is getting a PG thirteen rating, Yeah, Love Island
Speaker 1: shde or at R.
Speaker 5: I just was thinking about my family sitting down, like,
Speaker 5: let's watch Beca's episode of Love Island.
Speaker 3: She's coming me getting balanced.
Speaker 2: You know what's so funny?
Speaker 1: I think about myself too, because I'm like these people live,
Speaker 1: they're like twenty one between like twenty one to twenty
Speaker 1: seven range, and I'm like, god, like if I were
Speaker 1: to do Love Island when I was twenty two years old,
Speaker 1: like I would have come in at the heart rate
Speaker 1: challenge and like, I don't know, I would not be
Speaker 1: doing what they were doing.
Speaker 3: But nothing was more you than when Kinzie they were screaming.
Speaker 5: And then she went to split and started to working
Speaker 5: just ground like out of nowhere. Is like her anger
Speaker 5: took over and she had to she rage took.
Speaker 3: Over her rage.
Speaker 5: And then Trinity was like, I'm irritated Bryce looking so scrawny.
Speaker 2: Which fair understood.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but he's always been that scrawny and you were
Speaker 1: in love with him two days ago.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think it's just the safety of a couple. Again,
Speaker 5: I don't, I think, and Zac to me is so toxic.
Speaker 5: I'm like, I want Kada to find somebody else.
Speaker 1: I think too, Like Zach should have kept his hands
Speaker 1: to himself. I'm sorry he's already slept with Kada.
Speaker 3: He should have.
Speaker 2: Been way more respectful than that. I understand.
Speaker 1: If these girls are going to come in and they're
Speaker 1: going to kiss him, you do not need to like
Speaker 1: bouncy and like put your hands on their butt. Like,
Speaker 1: you don't need to do that. You can sit there
Speaker 1: and like I say, be respectful, but like.
Speaker 3: There's not be respectful in Love Island, but.
Speaker 2: There is a way to do it. And he did
Speaker 2: not do it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like gross, And I love Zach and now I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh I did.
Speaker 3: I loved him from the beginning. I mean I wasn't
Speaker 3: like I.
Speaker 2: Liked him because I liked Charlie and that's his brother.
Speaker 5: Yea, So I was like, yeah, but the like looking
Speaker 5: down each other's pants is not something men do.
Speaker 3: Because I I was like baffled by this.
Speaker 6: That did come across my desk this week.
Speaker 3: The girth check.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not something that did you ask Robbie. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's nothing he's ever done with his friends.
Speaker 6: I'm I've never had a girth check or given one,
Speaker 6: and I'm feel like I've missed out all my homies.
Speaker 6: Call me, I'll give you a girth check.
Speaker 1: I feel like, and again this is my like cynical side.
Speaker 1: I feel like the producers told Bryson Zach, like, hey,
Speaker 1: the public think you guys have like a romance, and
Speaker 1: they're like taking it to another level.
Speaker 5: I don't think so it's too weird. I think I
Speaker 5: really don't think so. I think the producers are definitely
Speaker 5: editing those parts in there to feed the narrative, but
Speaker 5: I don't think they're telling them.
Speaker 2: I think they're telling them.
Speaker 3: I don't think so.
Speaker 1: All these people to me are just like acting. I can't,
Speaker 1: I really can't.
Speaker 3: I don't think so it's brutal.
Speaker 2: Pop on over to the UK and see what reel is.
Speaker 6: Are you gonna watch costs some more in theaters today?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 1: Because the only Yah you didn't know that, but they
Speaker 1: the only one in LA is.
Speaker 2: Downtown at like Alamo.
Speaker 3: No, it's at the it's at the La Live one.
Speaker 2: But for me to go downtown at six pm on
Speaker 2: a Monday.
Speaker 3: Yeah, they haven't earned that type of this.
Speaker 6: Sea not this season.
Speaker 2: This was last season. I probably would have.
Speaker 5: But yeah, and everyone acting so shocked by Casey. I'm
Speaker 5: like he was just waiting for a girl to come
Speaker 5: in that had interest in him.
Speaker 2: Casey and Amaya and Aya.
Speaker 3: Well Maya was last year.
Speaker 2: They are the top playing it safe couple.
Speaker 1: To me, they are like the peak of we're just
Speaker 1: together to because we want America to like us.
Speaker 3: I know, but I think he was just wait.
Speaker 5: I think he was really playing the game of seeming interested,
Speaker 5: but he was just waiting. She to me, was just
Speaker 5: like wants to have a connection. Is forcing it's trying
Speaker 5: to have it with him, Yeah, but it's scared that
Speaker 5: she if.
Speaker 3: She loses him, then she goes home. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean it's just it's just a total show to
Speaker 2: be honestly, and.
Speaker 1: Like they're all making everybody breakfast like this used to
Speaker 1: be earned, Like you didn't just get breadakfast with your couple,
Speaker 1: Like that was earned.
Speaker 3: Back in the day. Now they're all just making.
Speaker 1: Breakfast for this person that they're like coupled up with yesterday.
Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh, I didn't know that. Yeah, breakfast
Speaker 1: was like an earned thing. Now it's just like they
Speaker 1: want to look good, like I can't.
Speaker 3: I hate when good things get ruined.
Speaker 1: We got to get back to some grassroots that the
Speaker 1: Love Island villa. I think the problem was season six
Speaker 1: blew up so big that like and then I guess
Speaker 1: seven it wasn't like. I just feel like at this
Speaker 1: point now it's like cats out of the bag. It's
Speaker 1: gonna get bad like maybe this season and then they're
Speaker 1: gonna have like grassroots it again.
Speaker 3: How do the Curious though I don't know.
Speaker 2: The Bats never could do it.
Speaker 3: Yeah they did.
Speaker 5: They did it with Joey. When they brought Joey back.
Speaker 5: There was a resurgence and then.
Speaker 3: Well they have to find their Joey's. They do. They
Speaker 3: have to find their Joey's and their Kelsey's.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because all these people are just in it for
Speaker 1: the for the cloud. Yeah, there's really not one person
Speaker 1: that I'm like connected to, which is heartbreaking as a
Speaker 1: Love Island purist.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well it's like that sometimes.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's fine if they can keep momentum up from.
Speaker 2: The last night's episode.
Speaker 5: I just I don't know how they're gonna do that
Speaker 5: unless the guys are amazing.
Speaker 3: But I've already seen a girl already posted this.
Speaker 5: My boyfriend going in he told me he was going
Speaker 5: to work on a job. No, yeah, I know, and
Speaker 5: and like, in what world does he think she's not
Speaker 5: gonna expose me? Right?
Speaker 1: These people don't have brains, Like I don't understand.
Speaker 5: I think they get them before the frontal lobes are
Speaker 5: developed for a reason.
Speaker 3: Damn didn't happen on.
Speaker 6: The Bachelor or always like yeah, yeah, someone was in
Speaker 6: a relationship like I'm just gonna go on.
Speaker 1: And they're like, oh, well we're on our break so
Speaker 1: I'm not really in a relationship. Oh.
Speaker 5: So my theory with Zach because he was so weird
Speaker 5: about Kaden and he kept bringing up like if a
Speaker 5: new bombshell comes in or you're gonna get mad.
Speaker 3: He kept bringing that up, and Kaylor.
Speaker 5: From was that a lot two seasons ago yeah, did
Speaker 5: this like behind the scenes Q and A.
Speaker 3: And she was saying that when you are on.
Speaker 5: The flight to Fiji, it's such a small there's so
Speaker 5: many small planes, so when you see someone, you can kind.
Speaker 3: Of gauge by how they look, how they're like they're
Speaker 3: gonna be on the show.
Speaker 5: I feel like he maybe saw one of the Cossa
Speaker 5: more girls or saw a bombshell.
Speaker 2: Saw somebody that obviously was not in the.
Speaker 3: Villa and was gonna and was like, way you might
Speaker 3: come in.
Speaker 5: So he kept like saying, like if someone that's my theory.
Speaker 1: That's an excellent theory because I found it to be
Speaker 1: so weird that he kept saying that. I'm like, you're
Speaker 1: having sex with her? And then You're like, are you
Speaker 1: gonna be mad if I talk to a bombshell?
Speaker 5: Like of course yeah, But like he hadn't been interested
Speaker 5: in any of the bombshells, so I'm like, why does
Speaker 5: he keep saying this if he hasn't made an effort
Speaker 5: with any of the bombshells.
Speaker 2: That's an excellent point.
Speaker 5: So her saying that, and then she also talked about
Speaker 5: like bad Breath, and Kaylor did about how like, yeah,
Speaker 5: people just have like you're not, I'll have to say
Speaker 5: anything about it. And I always think about how everyone
Speaker 5: in that room sleeping in that same room.
Speaker 3: I cannot. It gives me. I can't.
Speaker 1: It's kind of like when I was in my sorority
Speaker 1: and we had sleeping porches, so like you didn't sleep
Speaker 1: in your room. There was like two rooms in the
Speaker 1: sorority house that just had bunk beds. It was always
Speaker 1: cold and dark, like the light you can't turn the
Speaker 1: lights on, it's always dark. That's where you go to
Speaker 1: sleep every night. If you want to take a nap,
Speaker 1: you go in there. But it's just like a bunch
Speaker 1: of bunk beds and like people wouldn't wash their sheets,
Speaker 1: and like we're girls, imagine how gross a guy's one
Speaker 1: of those would be.
Speaker 6: So it's cold, dark and funky. Yeah, it's grown mushrooms
Speaker 6: in there.
Speaker 3: Like it's better than hot, musty and funky.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, not much better.
Speaker 5: But I just am always like people have different hygiene routines,
Speaker 5: people have different expectations.
Speaker 3: People don't. Yeah, it's just so much to think about.
Speaker 3: I can barely watch the morning scenes.
Speaker 2: Without just like thinking about it.
Speaker 1: Panic, I know, honestly, like my biggest blessing is that
Speaker 1: I married a man who loses his sense of smell
Speaker 1: ninety percent of the time.
Speaker 3: Well, is that your biggest blessing because.
Speaker 1: I don't have to worry about farting around him.
Speaker 2: The time he smells it.
Speaker 3: You're both so lunky, I know. I was thinking about it.
Speaker 5: It's like Melanie going up to Soul Times and sleeping,
Speaker 5: because it was like with Corbett.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, that just be me.
Speaker 2: Oh some fresh air.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it might be hot and not getting a full
Speaker 5: night sleep, but at least it's clean air.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would ask for like some air doctors up
Speaker 1: in that room.
Speaker 3: Surely they have something. I'm sure Yeah, yeah, Late East
Speaker 3: And I saw you watch the New Nanny Show.
Speaker 6: You guys, I don't watch reality TV ever, but the
Speaker 6: Million Dollar Nannies on Hulu. It's some of the best
Speaker 6: shows I've ever seen in my entire life.
Speaker 3: What makes it so good it's it's.
Speaker 6: So funny and unexpectedly crazy. And I watched this show
Speaker 6: because there's these guys on Instagram that have captured my imagination.
Speaker 6: They're called Our Three Dads, and it's these two guys
Speaker 6: were married and they had twins. They got divorced. Then
Speaker 6: one of them got married to a new person, and
Speaker 6: then the ex husband lives at the house with them now.
Speaker 6: So the three of them are raising the kids and
Speaker 6: they make these like weird tiktoks where they're just like
Speaker 6: overly filtered and they're doing like trends like the wrong way,
Speaker 6: like where they're like pointing at text with the word
Speaker 6: balloons on the other side of the screen. So I
Speaker 6: started following them out of morbid curiosity, and then I
Speaker 6: saw that they were gonna be on this reality show
Speaker 6: Million Dollar Nannies, and I'm like, well, I got to
Speaker 6: see my three dads on there, and they're all all
Speaker 6: three of them no no, that they have times and
Speaker 6: they have hired nanny's. So the show is about it's
Speaker 6: this like this girl's trying to start an agency of nanny's.
Speaker 6: So they go to a visa during the summer and
Speaker 6: they're trying to get these like really rich families hire them,
Speaker 6: and there is just chaos, their secrets get uncovered. It
Speaker 6: was It's a wild ride. I loved it. I burned
Speaker 6: through it.
Speaker 5: It's not like following nannies who are already established with families.
Speaker 3: It's like trying to be a nanny.
Speaker 2: It's like they an abiza. Yeah, I'm not following.
Speaker 6: Some of them have been nannies before. Some of them
Speaker 6: are just friends that tagged along, like are trying to
Speaker 6: become nannies. It's like and it's it's Shodenfreud because it's
Speaker 6: like someone who does not know how to run a
Speaker 6: business trying to start a business and they're just doing
Speaker 6: everything wrong. And I just loved it. It's so great.
Speaker 1: I will say, I'm not a big reality TV person
Speaker 1: aside from love shows.
Speaker 2: Oh what Survivor is that reality show?
Speaker 7: Huh?
Speaker 2: Oh huh? Barbecue Brawl that's a reality show. Aren't those
Speaker 2: competitions reality?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Okay, so I like I don't like reality reality, Like, like.
Speaker 6: You're not watching Kardashiansans doesn't entice me.
Speaker 3: The summerhouse that people watch didn't entice me. The city
Speaker 3: does entice me.
Speaker 2: Housewives doesn't entice me.
Speaker 3: Like I just people living their lives. Do you like
Speaker 3: a competition, like a.
Speaker 2: Competition or a love show?
Speaker 3: That's kind of like I.
Speaker 5: Think Love Island is also a competition, but it's a
Speaker 5: love show.
Speaker 2: Sure love is in the title, Sure love is blind.
Speaker 2: Come on over?
Speaker 1: Okay, you know, there's a lot of shows out right
Speaker 1: now that I like really want to sink my teeth
Speaker 1: into that I just can't get around because.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're booked and busy, double books, dumb.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean to step outside the Love Island universe
Speaker 1: before July twelfth.
Speaker 2: Wo, it just doesn't seem like it's going to happen
Speaker 2: for me.
Speaker 3: Well, after July twelfth, you'll have time. You're going to
Speaker 3: be like, what can I watch next?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 5: I wanted to look at some passive aggressive phrases that
Speaker 5: people use.
Speaker 3: With their partner but also for our friendship.
Speaker 5: No.
Speaker 2: Well, oh so I.
Speaker 1: Actually read this list and I was like, I don't
Speaker 1: use these with my partner, but other people use these
Speaker 1: at me and I want to.
Speaker 3: Cry. Wow.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna say strangle, but that seemed little harsh.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll get into a wing it.
Speaker 7: Okay, we're back.
Speaker 5: So these are some passive aggressive phrases you might be
Speaker 5: using with your partner or people in your life.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I so you said, you you find that you
Speaker 3: don't use any of these in your.
Speaker 2: Relationship with my relationship to Robbie, Now I don't think so.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: No, So basically it's I actually feel like probably at
Speaker 5: the beginning of our relationship, I was probably using these
Speaker 5: and not even knowing how passive aggressive because I didn't
Speaker 5: know how. I still am working on communicating, but I
Speaker 5: didn't know how to communicate my feelings without having like
Speaker 5: a sarcastic edge or something. And Haley did not grow
Speaker 5: up within a family where there was a lot of sarcasm,
Speaker 5: so it would be like, I don't get it. Why
Speaker 5: are you not just saying what you want or think?
Speaker 5: And I was like, that's not comfortable to me. So
Speaker 5: these are some of the ones that are common.
Speaker 2: I'm fine, Oh well, yeah, I mean I feel like
Speaker 2: everybody says that.
Speaker 5: What it really means I'm upset, but I'm not ready
Speaker 5: to talk about it.
Speaker 3: I use this.
Speaker 5: I do use this because I'm like, I think i'm
Speaker 5: saying it in a way that I'm fine, but also
Speaker 5: it's a sign of like, give me some space for
Speaker 5: a second.
Speaker 1: I'm fine, but I'm teetering. If you keep pressing me,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna not be fine.
Speaker 3: We might need to talk about this later, but I'm
Speaker 3: not ready to. But I'm all around, I'm fine.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: This next one is what people use with me, and
Speaker 1: it drives me up a wall. People that I work
Speaker 1: with I will not name names. Must be nice. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, I hate that so much.
Speaker 2: Like if I'm talking about watching Love Island for three hours.
Speaker 3: A day, must be nice?
Speaker 1: Like what because your life is so much busier than
Speaker 1: mine that you can't squeeze in you know what?
Speaker 9: I to me?
Speaker 2: It makes me dry. I hate when people say must
Speaker 2: be nice.
Speaker 5: People don't know the effort that you put in to
Speaker 5: make sure you get three hours of Love Islands.
Speaker 2: Like sacrifice in other areas of my life. Very must
Speaker 2: be nice. It must be nice.
Speaker 1: Because your life is so full that you can't watch
Speaker 1: three hours of television.
Speaker 2: Must be nice? Oh I hate must be nice?
Speaker 3: You must be nice. I don't like that. I have
Speaker 3: seen comments where people will say must be nice.
Speaker 2: But like, oh, you guys do taco Tuesday every Tuesday.
Speaker 2: Must be nice? Huh yeah, we we have tacos every Tuesday.
Speaker 2: It's just like a way to plan our week and
Speaker 2: it's fun for us. Just be nice.
Speaker 6: It must be a nice feels aggressive aggressive.
Speaker 3: It's yeah, yeah.
Speaker 5: I hate because no one's saying must be nice passively.
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're saying it aggressively.
Speaker 1: To be honest, I think it's just like a jealous judy,
Speaker 1: just like raging.
Speaker 6: You know, something that's must be nice adjacent that I've
Speaker 6: been getting a lot is oh I love that for you.
Speaker 6: I interpret that very poorly.
Speaker 5: An example of how it was said to you in
Speaker 5: what situations Like let.
Speaker 6: Me think, and this might this might be a me problem,
Speaker 6: this might be an Eastern problem. But I'm saying like, oh,
Speaker 6: like like, oh, I went to I went to Disneyland
Speaker 6: the other day, and oh I love that for you,
Speaker 6: Like like I love that. Must be exciting for you,
Speaker 6: but that's hell to me, like saying like I don't
Speaker 6: find that exciting, but that is probably exciting for you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I use that term a lot.
Speaker 5: Yeah, them across kind of oh not for me, but
Speaker 5: good for you, which now they say it out loud.
Speaker 6: Is that so wrong?
Speaker 1: I get to go spend the whole day like sitting
Speaker 1: on the beach, and I'm like, I love that for you.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to do that bad example.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think you could just replace that with like,
Speaker 5: oh my god, that sounds that's sound so nice, you know,
Speaker 5: But yeah, I think the must be nice thing is
Speaker 5: especially frustrating when It's like when people have chosen to
Speaker 5: have kids and their life is chaos and that hasn't
Speaker 5: been the choice that I made for myself.
Speaker 3: So I have I.
Speaker 5: Can spend my money and do things that I want
Speaker 5: to do for myself. And then it's like, must be
Speaker 5: nice as if like someone.
Speaker 3: Forced them into that situation.
Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, I guess I just can't do anything right.
Speaker 5: This is This is a tough one because when you're
Speaker 5: in a fight, especially with your partner, this is such
Speaker 5: a it just is gonna lead down a tough road.
Speaker 2: I fall victim to this one all the time. You
Speaker 2: say this, no, whatever you want, oh, whatever you want. Wait,
Speaker 2: where's that at the bottom?
Speaker 3: What it really means?
Speaker 5: I don't agree, but I'm shutting down instead of talking
Speaker 5: about Oh my gosh, that is so used.
Speaker 2: Sometimes I just don't care.
Speaker 1: I'm just like, whatever you want, like, and I truly
Speaker 1: deeply mean it. I don't have it in me to argue.
Speaker 1: I don't have it in me to like really fight.
Speaker 2: For my point. Whatever you want, I'm fine with it.
Speaker 5: But if the choice is made and it's not something
Speaker 5: you want, or are you going to speak up or are
Speaker 5: you gonna be upset? No?
Speaker 2: I'll just be like grumpy throughout the whole thing.
Speaker 3: But it's fine.
Speaker 5: You didn't speak up to say. You just said whatever
Speaker 5: you want. So it's that's tough. It's a lose lose.
Speaker 2: Unfortunately, it's tough with me sometimes.
Speaker 5: But sometimes when I don't want to make a decision
Speaker 5: and Haley is asking, I'm genuinely like, no, whatever you
Speaker 5: want to do, I'm I'm fine with because I don't
Speaker 5: have it in me to make a decision, so therefore
Speaker 5: I can't complain it.
Speaker 3: When it comes to like food.
Speaker 2: Choices, Oh, whatever you want.
Speaker 5: You In Chicago that night after we did the podcast,
Speaker 5: I will never forget, I was so tired and hungry,
Speaker 5: my feet hurt so bad, and you were in the
Speaker 5: whatever you want mentality and I was in my whatever
Speaker 5: you want mentality and it was stressful.
Speaker 3: Well, I just wanted a fun vibe. Yeah, but you
Speaker 3: weren't helping me.
Speaker 5: You were just saying whatever I want instead of being productive.
Speaker 3: So tough. So I the lesson here is just say
Speaker 3: be direct.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Communication is key. I think I communicate too much.
Speaker 5: I really have learned to. I used to think being
Speaker 5: direct or confrontational was a negative thing. I used to
Speaker 5: take it as like a personal thing, and I see
Speaker 5: it so differently now. If someone's direct and assertive, I
Speaker 5: am like, you are amazing saying because that's what I'm
Speaker 5: looking for.
Speaker 3: Because when you lot mhmm, I'm direct, I'll be like,
Speaker 3: are you mad at me? What's going on? Yeah?
Speaker 5: But I wouldn't be because like I didn't respond to
Speaker 5: your like guess what text? No, yeah, I'm never worried
Speaker 5: about not knowing where you're at.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay goohd.
Speaker 5: So yeah, I just would highly recommend being assertive. I
Speaker 5: don't know if it's where I grew up. Everything's very
Speaker 5: you know, the South is very like. You just want
Speaker 5: to be nice, and people pleas are and sometimes people
Speaker 5: pleasers just want assertiveness and directness. So yeah, anyways, we
Speaker 5: are saying goodbye.
Speaker 2: We are saying goodbye, but not for.
Speaker 5: Long because we will be back on Thursday with more
Speaker 5: of us and this like such as so must be nice.
Speaker 1: It must be nice to have all that time a podcast.
Speaker 5: Bye, I love you so much to go see girls
Speaker 5: like Girls this week and we will be back Thursday.
Speaker 3: We love you so much.
Speaker 2: I love you. By bye,