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Speaker 1: Like writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud.

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Speaker 1: We call them blogs. Caitlin go yes, a dear blog.

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Speaker 2: So we were talking about this off era the other day.

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Speaker 2: But I really try to always operate with something to

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Speaker 2: either look forward to or some sort of silver lining,

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Speaker 2: and some weeks I definitely need it more than others.

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Speaker 2: And this week I really needed a win because I'm

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Speaker 2: dealing with like an ankle issue, a broken finger, I

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Speaker 2: have brunka like I'm just falling apart at the seams.

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Speaker 2: But there is a silver lining to this week, and

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Speaker 2: that is, for the first time of my life, I got,

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Speaker 2: as you call it, fred, my big girl bed. It

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Speaker 2: was delivered yesterday.

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Speaker 3: This is so exciting. So you've been sleeping in a queen.

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Speaker 2: Size bed my entire life, wife, I've went from full

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Speaker 2: to queen, including with another human at one point.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and yet wow, well I.

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Speaker 4: Had a lot of points. Yeah, my whole life.

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Speaker 3: You know why, I don't think you've been sleeping with another human.

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Speaker 4: Your whole life, I mean a lot of like my life.

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Speaker 1: You're adult, and I hope your adult life. Yeah, your

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Speaker 1: whole life would include like eight nine days.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean sleep.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what you know, I'm just going to leave that,

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Speaker 1: so the more exciting.

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Speaker 3: This is exciting. No, I was worried about it, but

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Speaker 3: it would explain a lot.

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Speaker 1: So a king sized bed, you know what, you're.

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Speaker 4: Literally grown up?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so so everybody tell me I know. Okay, So Paula,

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Speaker 2: did yours driver help you deliver it? You know what's

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Speaker 2: funny is when when the delivery? But you know, I

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Speaker 2: love to ask a delivery person to like do another

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Speaker 2: task for me, especially now that my finger's broken.

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Speaker 4: Don't worry, I pay them every time. So when they dropped.

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Speaker 2: Off the bed, they were like, we can take the mattress.

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Speaker 2: That was their little deal.

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Speaker 4: So they took them. I said, can you take the

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Speaker 4: box rop spring too? They said. I said, okay, what.

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Speaker 2: If I you know, give you a little extra fine.

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Speaker 3: Then I asked him can you check this thing on

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Speaker 3: my back? I can't? I can't.

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Speaker 2: And then I said, you guys, I have a broken

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Speaker 2: finger and I can't flip this rug?

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Speaker 4: Can you flip this rug for me? So they did it.

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Speaker 4: I paid them for the extra dollars to help me out.

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Speaker 4: Any who I know that?

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Speaker 1: So what is so fun These windows are a little

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Speaker 1: dirty too, I don't know if you get you know,

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Speaker 1: because it's.

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Speaker 5: Like part of your personality. Now, it's like it's just

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Speaker 5: something that you do.

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Speaker 3: And is running.

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Speaker 1: Any delivery driver going to Kilin's house get ready for

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Speaker 1: a full to do list.

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Speaker 3: I have no contact.

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Speaker 5: I don't even want them to know I'm home if

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Speaker 5: they're dropping something off at the door.

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Speaker 3: Like my garbage was making this weird noise.

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Speaker 2: You can't have no contact when they're going in your

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Speaker 2: bedroom to switch out your mattress.

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Speaker 3: No, I get it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, anyways, I wanted to serve everyone. Do you guys

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Speaker 2: all have kings.

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Speaker 3: Because like I, yeah, but I didn't have one for

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Speaker 1: I had a queen for a long time and then

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Speaker 1: finally I decided it was time and it changed my life.

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Speaker 1: And I'm a large human being, so I mean it was.

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Speaker 3: But what's funny.

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Speaker 1: I still sleep on the same probably eighteen inches of

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Speaker 1: the bed, the very corner of the bed. I have

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Speaker 1: this whole other bed and no one's in it. But

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Speaker 1: for whatever reason, I only use like the I almost

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just think like for a lot of like

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Speaker 2: then like when you're growing up, like I'm not going

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Speaker 1: I think now, Caitlyn, if I had a room that

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Speaker 1: wasn't big enough, that was old, that would only fit

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Speaker 1: the bed, then we'd have a bedroom. Yeah, Like I'm

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Speaker 3: I'd have your drivers.

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Speaker 1: Come over and we figure out, and we'd tear a

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Speaker 1: a king sized bed, because I just think it's a

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Speaker 1: grown up it's a nice luxury, especially if there are

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Speaker 1: two people in the bed.

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Speaker 3: I don't know how you do it otherwise, I.

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Speaker 2: Know, Yeah, I still woke up on the On the

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Speaker 2: same side, Jason does a queen with two big humans

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Speaker 2: and two big corgies. Yeah, and then Paulina does a

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Speaker 6: High two kings in my bedroom. Like that's why I'm mad,

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Speaker 6: because I have no furnisure. You guys know, I don't

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Speaker 6: have fish from a minimalist. Yeah, I bought a queen's

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Speaker 6: size bed for no reason. It's because I don't measure

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Speaker 6: and I'm like, oh, a king won't fit.

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Speaker 4: Like where did I get that?

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Speaker 1: So, Jason, can I tell the thing that we talked

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Speaker 1: about yesterday about you and and Mike the Mechanic in bed.

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Speaker 3: Together or not currently?

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Speaker 3: The longer you make me explain the story, then the

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Speaker 3: more of the story that is.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 3: But I wouldn't. I wouldn't have done you.

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Speaker 1: I know a lot of stories days I would have

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Speaker 1: done you that dirty No, So I want to I

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Speaker 1: explaining yesterday that you're currently so you just had knee

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Speaker 1: surgery a little bit ago, and like things are weird.

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Speaker 1: You only sleep on one side and it looks like torture.

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Speaker 1: And I'm sorry you're going through this, but we're glad

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Speaker 1: that you're back. But but you were saying yesterday off

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Speaker 1: the air that you guys sleep in a queen bed together,

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Speaker 1: you and Mike the Mechanic, and that normally you would

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Speaker 1: sleep facing away from one another the wall. But now

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Speaker 1: not right, now and why what is the reason why

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so he if if I, if I were to

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Speaker 5: be facing and so like then we're just like they're

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Speaker 5: laying looking at each other, like I don't Like, that's

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Speaker 5: really uncomfortable both of us.

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Speaker 3: But then we're like breathe, like.

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Speaker 1: You, I totally understand what you're saying, and especially in

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Speaker 5: We're breathing on each other and there's probably a dog

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Speaker 3: Can't do that. Nothing made more sense to me than that. Yes,

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Speaker 5: Can lay on my left side like I'm on the couch.

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Speaker 1: Yep, I could not sleep face to face with like

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Speaker 1: Like I couldn't do it.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'm sorry, I would.

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Speaker 7: Get so mad, like sometimes Timothy. Timothy will turn over

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Speaker 7: in his sleep and face my like my direction. I'm like,

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Speaker 7: you know, this is not the routine. Turn back around,

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Speaker 7: get a way, you know, get away from me, because

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Speaker 7: now we're breathing in each other's face, and nobody wants that.

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Speaker 1: This is why I've said forever that and people are, oh,

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Speaker 3: Not a relationship. Fred, you don't get it.

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Speaker 1: But that's why I've said the sleeping issues bathroom issues.

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Speaker 1: If you are in a position to do it, I

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Speaker 1: a two bedroom relationship at minimum. I joke about two houses.

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Speaker 1: I still think that's a better plan. But think about this.

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Speaker 1: You know, everyone's sleep is different and they need room.

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Speaker 1: And if you don't get good sleep, then you're in

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Speaker 1: a bad mood, which affects the relationship. I'm not saying

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Speaker 1: don't feel, well, if you had your and again I

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Speaker 1: know that everybody can has this luxury, but if you

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Speaker 1: you had your own closet, your own bathroom, your own bed,

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Speaker 2: Ever, I agree more with the cyber bathrooms, like I

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Speaker 2: that's there's intimacy there.

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Speaker 1: Well, you don't have to not but like in this example,

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Speaker 4: He has a guest room.

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Speaker 8: Has like clothes on it, closet space, so all my

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Speaker 8: now in the back of my head, I'm uscle really

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Speaker 8: nervous that he might be getting like really comfortable without.

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Speaker 5: So now I'm like, oh, no, what's gonna happen, Like, no,

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Speaker 5: I don't people were like different rooms, Like I very

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Speaker 5: much am prepared to once this brace comes off, like

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Speaker 5: he's really liking it.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you're safe.

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Speaker 7: The dogs choosing a side right now because.

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Speaker 5: With him and they are sprawled out on my sad

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Speaker 5: So now they don't want you to come back room.

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Speaker 3: So it's gonna be a weird transition in this household.

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Speaker 1: I have I have a colleague I work with somewhere

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Speaker 1: and it's not in this room, but I well, I

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Speaker 1: want to say who it is, but I don't think

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Speaker 1: it's a secret colleague colleagues. No, you're no, I don't compartmentally.

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Speaker 1: You're my friends, you're my family.

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Speaker 3: I don't. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You don't. We don't do that. You're not work family.

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Speaker 1: You're just at this point, you're stuck with me, and

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Speaker 1: I'm stuck with you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But she they sleep and said they've been married for

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Speaker 1: a long time, they have kids. They work very different schedules.

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Speaker 1: She works nights, he works days. Oh, and I mean

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Speaker 1: by night. She she comes home at like two in

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Speaker 1: she they have separate rooms and separate bathrooms. They sleep

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Speaker 1: with separate But then on I want to say, it's

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Speaker 1: Thursday night, Thursday nights when she comes home, it's time.

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Speaker 3: It's it's date night, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: So like tap tap tap Thursday nights. I love this

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Speaker 1: And now, granted it needs to be more than Thursday night,

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Speaker 3: You don't have to deal with that. Yes, and it

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Speaker 4: It's a beautiful life.

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Speaker 1: And the schedule thing is a big deal because you know,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, my husband's he's done with me, he's had enough.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, John, you have a separate bedroom from your girlfriend.

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Speaker 9: Yes, So I work in the pool industry. I get

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Speaker 3: One, yeah thirty in the morning.

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Speaker 9: So a while back, she hurt her ankle, and then

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Speaker 9: it's a fantastic thing.

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Speaker 1: John Camn's argument is that it's like it's less intimate.

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Speaker 1: Do you find do you think your relationship is missing something?

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Speaker 1: Because I have a feeling you don't miss appointments, you

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Speaker 9: I'm taking half in that room and we'll, you know,

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Speaker 9: we'll do that part of our relationship, you know.

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Speaker 1: I'm not really it's been a while, but yeah, no,

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Speaker 3: But okay, I'm all for it.

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Speaker 9: Give it a try.

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Speaker 1: A nap session is also elite. Yeah, a daytime nap

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Speaker 2: But what about like when you're sleeping and you wake

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Speaker 3: That's the worst part. I'm kidding, that's the thing.

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Speaker 9: My girlfriend is the lightest sleeper. I could literally breathe

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess there you go sleep in the room.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, there you go. Hey, Hey, welcome to

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Speaker 9: The same to you.

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Speaker 1: No, when people are not sleeping, well, it affects everything.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so I do. I know a lot of

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Speaker 4: Whatever works. I want you and to be with me. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: just don't breathe on me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Sorry, it's usually Timothy not me. The three of

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