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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocates la dot com.

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Speaker 2: Maya is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Trevor.

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Speaker 3: So in a few minutes.

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Speaker 2: We'll call him and see if he'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Maya,

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Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from trevormost

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Speaker 2: three weeks?

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Speaker 3: Oh, okay, that's quite a while.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well, so I tried reaching out, you know, a little.

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Speaker 4: I texted one snick, oh it's fun, because it was fun,

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Speaker 4: And then I.

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Speaker 5: Texted again, bick, how was your week?

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Speaker 4: And then I just uh on TikTok that one that

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Speaker 4: I thought I would like because we already connected on there,

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Speaker 4: But then I stopped because I didn't want to be

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Speaker 4: that girl, you know.

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Speaker 6: Okay, so three attempts and no, Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 6: After one date that feels like a lot, But that's okay.

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Speaker 6: I don't think that's why you're getting ghosted, though, because

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Speaker 6: if he really liked it, it wouldn't.

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Speaker 5: Matter, right. That's why I'm so confused, because it really was.

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Speaker 3: A great date. We'll tell us about it. What do

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Speaker 3: you guys do?

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Speaker 5: Well, they just you know, did something low key. We're like,

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Speaker 5: let's you're go to a coffee you know, a trendy

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Speaker 5: coffee shop.

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Speaker 4: I guess it was. It ended up being, you know,

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Speaker 4: one of those ones where it's like plants and coffee,

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Speaker 4: but then there's just like one plant and it's behind

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Speaker 4: the counter, so you can't tell if it's fake, you know,

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Speaker 4: but whatever. Everything costs nine dollars, but it's pretty good.

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Speaker 4: They have like lavender anyway, Okay, we yeah, so we

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Speaker 4: like you know, got our drinks and ended up talking

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Speaker 4: for a long time. And let's see. He he got

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Speaker 4: a cold brew. I remember, because he made this like

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Speaker 4: little speech about how he drinks coffee for the vibes,

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Speaker 4: not the caffeine.

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Speaker 5: I was like, I mean that's funny, Like okay, sir, serious, but.

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Speaker 4: So I mean we were we were just vibing. But anyway,

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Speaker 4: so that's just an example, but okay, it was fun.

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Speaker 4: And then we walked around like when near by like

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Speaker 4: outdoor market, you know, like sometimes it's a what do

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Speaker 4: you call it on weekends, like a farmer's market, but

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Speaker 4: there's just like little little stuff had them sample. I

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Speaker 4: bought this really good honey for just to take home. Anyways,

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Speaker 4: I love local honey. Anyways, Yeah, we have about travel

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Speaker 4: and people watched and we just we're clicking, you know,

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Speaker 4: just like teasing me, like in a flirty way kind

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Speaker 4: of it felt like sarcastic. It just felt like rob

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Speaker 4: and commed meet hee. It was just one of those

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Speaker 4: like perfect days, you know, it's just nice, sat like,

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Speaker 4: it was just great. And then we you know, sat

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Speaker 4: down on the bench from at the end of the

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Speaker 4: day to finished our coffee and he put his arm

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Speaker 4: around me and it wasn't awkward.

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Speaker 5: It was felt natural. And yeah we did kiss on

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Speaker 5: the bench.

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Speaker 2: Aw Okay, all right, he kissed on a bench and everything.

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Speaker 3: You're still getting ghosted?

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Speaker 4: Huh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what do you think when I'm wrong?

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Speaker 4: This sum's dumb. But I'm like, I feel dumb for

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Speaker 4: even thinking that this is why he could be ghosting.

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Speaker 4: But I can't think of anything else. I did steel

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Speaker 4: still my drink on him. Well while I was laughing

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Speaker 4: when we were sitting on the bench, and it kind

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Speaker 4: of went everywhere, you know, like there's just.

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Speaker 5: A little bit left.

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Speaker 4: But man, that like what just goes you know, like

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Speaker 4: on him on the ground on the bench. So, but

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Speaker 4: he joked about it and stuff. I thought that was fine,

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Speaker 4: but I was like, well, maybe he thinks I'm too

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Speaker 4: much of a mess because of that.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I hope that's not why he goes.

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Speaker 6: Did you how did he act after he spelled so

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Speaker 6: you said he was kind of joking about it, but like,

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Speaker 6: did you kiss again after the bench?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I think actually I'm gonna spilled that before I kissed him.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, no, it didn't seem to like change anything.

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Speaker 4: I also like posh about my mom a lot. I

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Speaker 4: just remember that, like bringing it up more than once.

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Speaker 4: It's not like a trauma way, but I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: to bring up, but it was just my mom.

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Speaker 3: That can't be weird. I talk about my mom all

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Speaker 3: the time.

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Speaker 2: It was probably fine, Like you said, that depends on

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Speaker 2: how you're bringing it up. Maya is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Trevor for

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Speaker 2: three weeks now. So we're about to get him on

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Speaker 2: the phone and see if he'll tell us why he's

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Speaker 2: ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But

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Speaker 2: before we call him, Maya, why don't you break down

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Speaker 2: your date with Trevor again real quick.

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Speaker 5: So it was great.

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Speaker 4: It really was coffee date, daytime date. Low key, we kissed,

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Speaker 4: I stilled coffee some of her back.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well are you ready for us to call him up?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Okay, here we go. I'm in a Dallas number right now. Hello, Hi, man,

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Speaker 3: speak to Trevor. Please.

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Speaker 5: This is Trevor.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Trevor, how are you. This is a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called The Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Trevor. I'mina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jewbel.

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 3: This is real right now?

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Speaker 6: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Is anything really real Trevor? If you think about it,

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Speaker 3: I don't know philosophical bout it. Anyway, I feel like

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Speaker 3: you can have that conversation right now.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever listened to The Jebel Show before?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I am okay, thank you?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 3: Well you might know or not. No, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: But we do a segment called the First Date follow Up.

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Speaker 2: That's where if you go on a date with somebody

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Speaker 2: and you end up ghosting them, they can email us

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Speaker 2: to get you on the phone and ask why so

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Speaker 2: we got an email about you from somebody?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Okay, is it that.

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Speaker 5: It's probably about Maya?

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Speaker 2: Isn't it is about Maya? You're correct, Trevor. Yeah, she

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Speaker 2: emailed us and we talked to her a little bit

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Speaker 2: about your date. Sounded fun. She sounds like she really

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Speaker 2: liked you. Yeah, and she's confused. Do you mind telling

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Speaker 2: us while you're Ghostinger?

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Speaker 4: Oh? All right? Look, first of all, like I didn't,

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Speaker 4: I didn't hate the date. She was great, she's fun,

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Speaker 4: she's cute. She just honestly did like one little thing.

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Speaker 3: That kind of freaked me out. What did she do?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 5: She she ordered the same drink as me, like right

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Speaker 5: after I ordered it.

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Speaker 3: And that breaked you out. What's your drink again, Trevor,

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Speaker 3: I like cold brew.

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Speaker 5: We went to a coffee shop and I got a

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Speaker 5: cold brew.

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Speaker 3: So you got just a straight up cold brew.

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Speaker 2: You're ghost because you got the same drink as you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's not just like that she ordered it,

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Speaker 4: like she said that sounds good, I'll have that too,

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Speaker 4: Like that's his intense to me. Wait, is this a joke?

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Speaker 4: That's I can't believe it. That's how you go to

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Speaker 4: me because I because I said that sounds good, I'll

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Speaker 4: have that too.

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Speaker 3: That's Maya. She's on the phone and she wants to

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Speaker 3: talk to you. Obviously didn't know she can't hear me.

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Speaker 5: All right, yeah, I need you to know. And I

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Speaker 5: just are you serious? Is that a joke?

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Speaker 4: So you're ghosting me over why I ordered a coffee

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Speaker 4: shop number A? I didn't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well I also didn't know you were going to

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Speaker 2: order the same exact drink is me?

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Speaker 4: I mean, wait, because I ordered a cold brew? Are

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Speaker 4: you freaking kidding me?

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Speaker 2: It's just in the past, like I've dated girls of

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Speaker 2: like I mean one thing, Like one minute, you're ordering

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Speaker 2: the same drink as me, and then like if I ride.

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Speaker 3: Motorcycles, you're riding motorcycles.

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Speaker 4: If I do, I've been through that.

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Speaker 2: So you think it starts with the drinking the same

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Speaker 2: the same as you.

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Speaker 4: Look, man, I've just that's in my past.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm It's what I've experienced.

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Speaker 4: It is one coffee, not a whole lifestyle change.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 4: Look, you put your arm around me and you kissed me,

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Speaker 4: and then you disappeared over a drink order. From the

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Speaker 4: beginning of the date.

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Speaker 5: When we when you say it like that it sounds bad,

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Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I still stand by it.

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Speaker 2: I really don't want somebody to like copy my personality.

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Speaker 4: Is what it is.

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Speaker 5: Man does psychotic, right, But I'm the psycho. You're the

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Speaker 5: one who's trying to morph into me. Next day, I

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Speaker 5: know you're going to be learning the same thing.

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Speaker 2: And made dinner saying like you're not hungry and eating

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Speaker 2: all my food and absolutely not for that.

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Speaker 3: I've had enough shape shifters in my life. I do

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Speaker 3: not want another shape shifter.

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Speaker 5: Are you serious?

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Speaker 4: Have you ever met a woman before when you.

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Speaker 2: Just yeah, I've met at least three of them, and

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Speaker 2: then all of a sudden they were dude, they were me.

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Speaker 4: Start riding a motorcycle, you crazy person?

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Speaker 3: You kiss me?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I did, But you know you ordered the same

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Speaker 5: drink as me.

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Speaker 4: It's only a matter of time before fel like I'm

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, well have fun? Was that?

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Speaker 3: Would you like another day with Maya? We'll pay for it. Honestly,

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Speaker 3: I don't think so I can go take myself out

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Speaker 3: to dinner.

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Speaker 4: Oh well, that's good, because if I did work into you,

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Speaker 4: I would become incredibly uninteresting and I wouldn't want that

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Speaker 4: to happen to me. Oh, you know, don't hate the player,

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Speaker 4: hate the game.

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Speaker 3: If you really want to.

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Speaker 5: Be mad at someone, be mad at Maddie made its

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Speaker 5: Maddie Maddie.

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Speaker 3: So the last girl copied my drink order right for her.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm wised to that now. He's shape shifter.

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Speaker 3: Okay you Will's

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